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Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call dating.

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Speaker 2: There's certain things that are hard to be honest about

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Speaker 2: with your partner. Like just the other day, I had

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Speaker 2: to tell my partner not to pass the nacho cheese

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Speaker 2: the end there was nacho cheese everywhere.

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Speaker 3: I think, I just want to know more about why

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Speaker 2: We we could spend a whole segment about that, but

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Speaker 2: I digress. Those are my sticky relationship problems. I'm sure

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Speaker 2: they're different for our listener, Austin, who says he's in

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Speaker 2: a little bit of a sticky pickle with a woman

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Speaker 2: that he's been dating. And Austin, my question for you

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Speaker 2: is you know what's really good with a sticky pickle?

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Speaker 2: Nacho cheese. I guess that wasn't so much of a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but UH got and yeah did that help you

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Speaker 3: Austin, Uh, you can say no, it's Okay, you can

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Speaker 2: How about we just get into the situation that you're in,

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Speaker 2: Go ahead and tell us what's going on.

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Speaker 4: So I've been dating it's a really great girl for

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Speaker 4: like a month and a half now. Her name's Kelly. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and she's wonderful. I mean, she's super sweet, she's fun.

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Speaker 4: Like I actually met her when we were volunteering together

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Speaker 4: at a clothing drive.

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Speaker 5: Nice.

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Speaker 3: I mean that's always awesome when people meet a volunteer

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean you know, we started stocking

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Speaker 4: and it's a clothing drive, so like there's a vending

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Speaker 2: Oh did they not have nacho cheese and that vending

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Speaker 4: That would have been good. Yeah no, but we did joke.

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Speaker 4: That was like the first deal I ever treated her.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's cute.

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Speaker 3: So you guys even have like a couple jokes already,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we have been. I joke. You know, it's

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Speaker 5: Okay, so where's the bunt come in?

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Speaker 4: Okay. Look, I really do see a future with Kelly. Okay,

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Speaker 4: but there's a big thing that she doesn't know about

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Speaker 4: get any further. It's embarrassing, but I mean it's important

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Speaker 4: to me, which is I've I've been saving myself for marriage.

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Speaker 3: Well you just let it out there like that, Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I mean it can't be that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's kind of important to know.

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Speaker 3: I mean it doesn't sound like you're that embarrassed by it, though,

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Speaker 3: Like no, you called the radio station, and I mean it's.

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Speaker 4: Not like I've not had opportunities. I mean I made

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Speaker 4: And I don't know why. I just get the sense

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Speaker 4: you know we've been you know, like quote unquote romantic

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, how do you stop it? Or has there

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Speaker 5: Whoas? Like, how do you do that? I mean I'm

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Speaker 5: But anyway, Sorry, those are questions from our side.

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Speaker 1: I just thought maybe she also.

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Speaker 2: Has standards I also doesn't want it is a good question, though,

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Speaker 4: Well, I just keep telling her that I want to

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Speaker 4: But you know, I mean, it's only been a month

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Speaker 3: Already Seriously, Like my husband and I we didn't do

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Speaker 5: Two months, three months or something like that went wrong.

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Speaker 5: It was a long time, and all my friends were like,

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Speaker 5: I don't think he's interested in girls, Brook. I think

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Speaker 5: Right, or there's something wrong with me.

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you have a good drive, do you

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. Yet once it happens, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going seventeen times a day once we start.

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Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah. I just think that like having a lot

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Speaker 5: Well you think that, do you think? Well?

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Speaker 3: I think both can happen at the same time. But

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Speaker 3: that's just my opinion. It's fine that you feel that way.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think what matters is how Kelly's going

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Speaker 4: That's what I'm scared because this has been like a

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Speaker 3: Like female virgins a lot more looked on with positivity

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Speaker 4: But sorry, that's very helpful, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what are you looking for from us today?

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Speaker 4: I mean, how do I tell her, you know, how

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's so hard, like because you're basically having like

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Speaker 2: Plus I'm gonna sound so bad saying this, but I

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. It's like you got I

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Speaker 1: It would just be weird.

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Speaker 1: She does like you a lot.

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Speaker 5: All right, I'm getting let's get married tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: We'll come up with better advice. We'll do it right

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Speaker 4: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 2: On this segment, I usually toss it over to my

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Speaker 2: co hosts Brooke and Jose so that they can give advice.

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Speaker 2: And I've been looking back wondering have I ever said

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: I think that's why you started telling us because you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I have.

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Speaker 5: You have a hard time being vulnerable.

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Speaker 2: And that's why, Austin, I need to confess today you're

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Speaker 5: I feel like he's Jeffery.

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Speaker 1: This is this is really hard for me to open up.

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Speaker 6: Stop.

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Speaker 2: But now that you know that you're going to be

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Speaker 4: I feel pretty special.

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Speaker 1: Oay, she takes it. I feel really bonded with you.

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Speaker 5: What's the advice, though, Well.

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Speaker 1: I don't hate it. I don't hate it, Austin.

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Speaker 4: That sounds good. No, No, I got an idea. I

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Speaker 5: Is that what we're going to go with? Is that

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Speaker 1: I don't know, unless brook you have something better.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm fine with that. I didn't have any

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Speaker 3: and I'm hoping that's you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you really don't have any good advice for him.

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Speaker 2: Let's just move on to the thing. Yeah, Austin, how

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Speaker 1: Okay. I don't want to make you feel bad, but

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Speaker 1: there's a lot on the line.

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Speaker 5: Good luck, good luck.

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Speaker 2: No, we're not We're not going there. Yeah, zero on

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Speaker 1: Good luck?

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, honey, it's me.

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Speaker 6: Hey. Hey, hey, Austin.

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Speaker 4: Hey, how are you Hey? Hey, hey, how's it going good? Good?

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Speaker 4: How's your day going?

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Speaker 6: It's going good? Just at work? What about yourself?

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Speaker 4: Same? You know, I've been a fipy day. But I'm

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Speaker 6: Oh. Thanks, I think we have a really good thing

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Speaker 4: I agree, and I want to keep this good thing

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Speaker 6: Is that the reason why you come?

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Speaker 4: I mean yes, But in order for this good thing

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Speaker 6: Who like you're not who you say you are.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm actually a wanted felon.

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Speaker 6: Wait, excuse me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I hould up a bank a few years ago.

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Speaker 6: Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Gotcha? I just mess you with you That was a joke.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god? Oh no, no, okaya, I'm just like

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Speaker 6: Okay, what you're superman or something?

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Speaker 4: No, but I mean you could probably confuse me with

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Speaker 4: I mean the truth is, you know, I'm telling you

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Speaker 6: So is this another joke? Are you for over time?

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Speaker 4: No? This is for real.

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Speaker 4: Probably. Look, I'm sorry that I didn't tell you early.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just it's in my experience it's not

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Speaker 6: I mean, that's cool. I just I do you realize?

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Speaker 4: I just I don't know. I've just had a really

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Speaker 5: God was a joke.

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Speaker 4: Joke.

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Speaker 5: You saw that joke.

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Speaker 6: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Kelly, knock not guess who? It's the radio show

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Speaker 1: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Hi, Hi, I gotta say.

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Speaker 5: You're handling this pretty well.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so you guys heard all of that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we we helped Austin set up this phone call.

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Speaker 5: Did we help someone?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: Actually that was right, That was the wrong word.

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Speaker 2: We're doing something called an Awkward Tuesday phone call, and

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Speaker 2: have an awkward conversation with someone, and the awkward conversation

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Speaker 2: Austin needed to have with you was to let you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and look, I know it's not typical for a

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Speaker 4: And that's why I've been taking it so slow with you, Kelly. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I'm going to take the blame for the way

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Speaker 2: told him he should include humor. I didn't realize it

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Speaker 1: Of humor.

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Speaker 5: To God.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we should have vetted Austin's humor before we let him.

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Speaker 1: Make the call. But advice, Yeah, actually, I will be done.

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Speaker 1: This will be my last time ever giving advice.

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Speaker 2: One we do vouch for Austin.

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Speaker 1: He seems like a really good guy, Kelly.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, well you telling me. I know it's probably

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Speaker 4: For, Kelly. Kelly, if it doesn't work for you, I

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Speaker 4: totally understand. I just want you to find out. Now

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Speaker 4: you have four things go any further with us?

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Speaker 5: Well, how much further can they go? I'm not trying

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Speaker 3: Here, But I also understand Kelly, you're probably having a

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Like there's a lot of stuff going

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Speaker 6: that so much, and I think it's really cool you

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Speaker 6: believe and something so deeply. Okay, but I could probably

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Speaker 6: totally look.

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Speaker 4: I mean, just so you know, I mean, it doesn't

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Speaker 5: Oh, I know your type. Yeah, here we go.

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Speaker 4: No, I mean to be clear, like we can do

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Speaker 4: you can be with another woman, or like I can

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Speaker 4: Waita wait, wait, wait wait.

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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, that's cool too, Austin. But that's a

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Speaker 3: different conversation and not one that usually involves virginity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's advanced stuff.

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Speaker 3: He just went from like elementary education to a doctorate degree.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who's there? Three dudes naked.

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Speaker 5: Again? It's very cool, Austin. But are you saying that

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: What do you want to be with another guy?

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Speaker 4: No? No, I'm just saying that doesn't break the rules.

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Speaker 4: I just can't be with a woman. That's what the

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, another guy happens.

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Speaker 1: It's not a big deal. But you're not pursuing that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm not pursuing that currently.

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Speaker 3: You have a really limited vision of what virgin is.

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Speaker 3: I think, like, so you are just talking male. The

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm thinking myself for a woman. That's exactly right.

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Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to be confusing about that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So Bill you everything else.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's like the freakiest version I've ever met, because

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Speaker 4: I don't know if I see a badger.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't break the.

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Speaker 5: Rules, I see the rule book here.

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Speaker 2: This isn't for us to decide. This is for the

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Speaker 2: So maybe it's better if we just wrap up this

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true. Absolutely. I mean, Kelly, where are you

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Speaker 6: I think I need a drink like a cod.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I feel that's also fair. All of this is fair.

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Speaker 3: These are big relationship talks that you're about to have.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe you and Austin and a bunch of dudes

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Speaker 1: can sit down to have a drink together and work

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Speaker 1: it out. Too many

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Speaker 5: You know, freaking Jeffrey in the morning,