WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Third Date Regret

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels second date update. The girl that's on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone to do a second date update today didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>think that her story qualifies for a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>because she's been out on more than one date with

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, which makes it even more confusing why he

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be calling her back. Yeah, her name is Marie,

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<v Speaker 1>and Marie, how are you hi? I'm great, How are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys? Good? You definitely qualify for a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update even though you've been out with this guy a

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<v Speaker 1>few times. How many times have you gone out? Three?

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<v Speaker 1>We've had three dates, three dates with this guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>now he's just disappeared on you. Exactly. That is so annoyed.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why people do that to each other. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling me, all right, So tell us about how

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<v Speaker 1>you met him. We met on a dating website and

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<v Speaker 1>we were actually talking on the website for I say,

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<v Speaker 1>almost three weeks total. So you guys talked for like

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks online and you've been on three dates. You're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about over a month of knowing this guy and

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<v Speaker 1>then he just bailed on you. Yeah, exactly. Definitely, only

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<v Speaker 1>over a month since we've been talking. If it sucks,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've gone on three dates? Like, how far have

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<v Speaker 1>you guys? This sounds weird about how far have you

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<v Speaker 1>guys gone physically? Look, well, I'm just saying like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what their relationship is like if they already

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<v Speaker 1>spent the night at each other's house, Because three dates,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay, you know, Actually no, we haven't the four

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<v Speaker 1>this we've gone, we've we've made out, that's that's it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Well, I guess we don't need every single

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<v Speaker 1>date unless you feel like there's some details we need.

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<v Speaker 1>But what happened the last time you guys hung out? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the first dates were fine. We basically got

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<v Speaker 1>for coffee once and then dinner and then so the

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<v Speaker 1>third date, the last date that we had, we went

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<v Speaker 1>out to a bar, so it was a little different environment,

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<v Speaker 1>a little fun, a little noisy, loud, But he ended

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<v Speaker 1>up bringing a friend. Did he tell you beforehand that

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to break a friend? No, which at

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<v Speaker 1>first I thought, well, maybe we're that comfortable with each

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<v Speaker 1>other already that it's okay. So then I actually ended

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<v Speaker 1>up palling one of my girlfriends and she came over.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well that's a good idea. So how did that go?

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<v Speaker 1>It turned out to be a great night. He ended

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<v Speaker 1>up buying Sequila shots and it was really fun. And

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with you, I was surprising. I've dated

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<v Speaker 1>quite a lot, and I was pleasantly surprised with where

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<v Speaker 1>things were going. And he's definitely a little quirky and

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<v Speaker 1>has his ways, but I like that. And you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are practically married at this point. You've been kind of

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<v Speaker 1>seeing each other for about a month now, you've met

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<v Speaker 1>each other's friends. I mean, that's all there is left

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<v Speaker 1>to do, right, I mean, I thought we were moving forward,

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<v Speaker 1>at least to something further than where we were at.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think there's a possibility that he was freaked

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<v Speaker 1>out that maybe you were moving faster than him. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it could be a possibility. I mean, at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't know what happened. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I came across as crazy at all. To me.

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<v Speaker 1>We were both moving forward together, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You said that he had quirks that you liked a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times. That's code for he's kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. There's just little things about him that at

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<v Speaker 1>first I kind of found it endearing. And he has

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<v Speaker 1>his ways, likes to talk a little tangent, but then

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<v Speaker 1>he gets excited about the things that he's talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>and he has a gap in his teeth, which is

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<v Speaker 1>so it's just so cute and it just makes him

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<v Speaker 1>makes him who he is. I think diastema is the

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<v Speaker 1>technical term for that, if you were curious, what is it? Diastema?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it really? That's a term for a gap in

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<v Speaker 1>your teth? Yeah, I've dated a lot of dental assistance.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ever need to talk about his tooth gap again,

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<v Speaker 1>you can use the doctor's term for it if you want. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's good to know. I will I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to talk about it with him if he will

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<v Speaker 1>ever call me back. Or so, what was the last

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<v Speaker 1>thing that he said to you? Um? So, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>eight days since our last date when we were at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar, and I've actually tried to call him a

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<v Speaker 1>few times. I texted him a bunch and I've gotten

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<v Speaker 1>one response and it had one word and it just

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<v Speaker 1>said sorry, Oh that's all I got. Did you respond

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<v Speaker 1>to the sorry? Yeah? I did. I wrote back, what

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<v Speaker 1>the hell do you mean? And I haven't gotten any

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<v Speaker 1>response from that. So are you hoping? I mean, because

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like a break up to me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't have to have a breakup talk because

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<v Speaker 1>he only went on three dates. But a sorry text

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<v Speaker 1>means I'm I'm done. Yeah, I mean at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>i'd at least like an explanation. You know, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I deserve one. You know, we've had this background

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<v Speaker 1>together for over a month now, and we've been out

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<v Speaker 1>three times, and then you know, to not even give

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<v Speaker 1>me anything. I'm just sorry. I'm just I scept setting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I don't know, I don't even know. Why did

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<v Speaker 1>you stop him online yet? Is his dating profile still up? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's all it's all still there. It's all

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<v Speaker 1>normal and nothing that he haven't changed anything. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, great, or third date

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<v Speaker 1>update or whatever you want to, but we'll get it

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<v Speaker 1>right after this. Looking jubil in the morning, today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update is a serious one because the girl on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone was left at the altar. That's right. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a very very sad story. Oh my god, way more

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<v Speaker 1>in depth than any of our other second date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she pregnant too? She might be it, you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that she hasn't hooked up with the guy

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<v Speaker 1>yet in that way, but weirder things have happened. She

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<v Speaker 1>was basically married to this guy. They've been dating for

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<v Speaker 1>about a month now, and they've gone out on three

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<v Speaker 1>dates in that time. The last time they saw each other,

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<v Speaker 1>they had fun, they partied with a few friends. Then

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't text her back. She didn't hear from him

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<v Speaker 1>for a little while, kept texting him, and he finally

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<v Speaker 1>just sent her one text that said sorry, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>the last she's heard from him. Marie, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to call your fiance? Wasn't that serious? I'm ready, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you mad at him right now? Are you angry

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<v Speaker 1>with this dude for just ghosting on you? Basically? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be angry at him, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I am, and I'm mostly confused. I really just want

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<v Speaker 1>to answer depending on his answer, I guess you can

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<v Speaker 1>judge if you're angry. Yeah, yeah, good boy. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dallas phone of her right now and see

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<v Speaker 1>why he's stopped calling you after three dates. Here we go, Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Paul. Yeah, let's see Hey, Paul,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? How are you? This is Jewil from Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, um,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want? I'm calling you because we recently

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Marie. Uh okay. She asked if we

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<v Speaker 1>could get you on the phone and find out why

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<v Speaker 1>you stopped calling her. Really. Yes, it's a segment that

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<v Speaker 1>we do on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a few minutes to tell us why

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<v Speaker 1>you're not talking to Marie anymore? I mean I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what she's told you or whatever, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've kind of already sent her attacks like

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<v Speaker 1>saying sorry, and I just I don't know. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she told us about the text, but she doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>why because you never gave her an explanation. So she's

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<v Speaker 1>just more curious than anything. Honestly, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>really want to tell her. Yeah, but Paul, Hey, Paul,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever gone out with a girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>liked a lot and then she just stopped talking to you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, but yeah, so doesn't it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>suck when you don't know why? Yeah? I just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if if I can tell her, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to really tell her. So, but the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not telling her right now, you're telling me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't know, man, But I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>said you talked to her, so you're probably just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>repeat you know what I told you. So's I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You can pick, you can pick and choose information. Why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you be straight with us and then we'll decide

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<v Speaker 1>what she needs to know? Was she moving too fast?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we were thinking, like maybe she was ahead

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<v Speaker 1>of you. No, I mean, don't get me wrong, it

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<v Speaker 1>was not. It's nothing that she did, Okay, wasn't her

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<v Speaker 1>fault at all. It was all on me, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is all to do with me. Okay. Well then

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<v Speaker 1>if it's your fault, why don't you just tell us

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? I mean, if it's not anything that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to embarrass her. The thing is is like it was

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<v Speaker 1>just it was just bad, Okay, Like I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>want to like move on from it. You just forget

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<v Speaker 1>like it ever happened. It is what it is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing, Just move on. There was so bad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird. Did she tell you about the last day

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<v Speaker 1>that we had, like when we went to the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't tell us much. She just said, you hung

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<v Speaker 1>out at a bar with some friends. Yeah, well all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was pretty drunk because you know, we were

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<v Speaker 1>there with friends, drinking a lot. I drank a probably

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<v Speaker 1>a way more than I should have. But we were

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<v Speaker 1>having a good time, you know, and you know it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where I messed up. All right, Well, my mind

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<v Speaker 1>automatically goes to, you were there with friends? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>mess around with whatever friends or something? Drunk? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I mean that sounds like, yes, that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a dog. All right. Well, let me just well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me just explain. Okay, So I don't know why,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we're drinking, like we're twenty one again, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming back from the bathroom and I've passed her friends.

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<v Speaker 1>We start talking in the hallway. I don't even remember

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<v Speaker 1>like how we got to the point, but we start

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<v Speaker 1>making out, and I, like, in like mid making out,

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<v Speaker 1>like I sober up like instantly, like that moment of clarity,

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<v Speaker 1>like what the hell are you doing kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And at that point I was like, WHOA, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>get out of here, like, this is not how I am,

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<v Speaker 1>This is not who I am. Like, so I like

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<v Speaker 1>called my uber and I got the hell out of there,

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<v Speaker 1>like pretty much at that point, all right, that's understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>And what a crappy friend she has. It's making out

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<v Speaker 1>with some guy that she's crushing on, Like that sucks. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't want to put it on on her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like literally, I know how to drink, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was not how you're supposed to drink, like drugs,

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<v Speaker 1>So like I'd take a lot of blame for that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're kind of taking responsibility, but then you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>blaming alcohol. You can blame it on the goose right now,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So well that's understandable. Then why you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like and does it suck? Though? I mean it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys were having a fun time dating. Does

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<v Speaker 1>it suck that you made this mistake and now you

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel like you can talk to her? Totally? Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we hit it off. It was like we had

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<v Speaker 1>conversations that like probably come married people don't have, so

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<v Speaker 1>it really sucks. But at this point, like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how one she'll take it to, how to bring

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<v Speaker 1>it up and then like three house, she'll feel like

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<v Speaker 1>for the rest of the relationships. I've got some ideas

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<v Speaker 1>on how you can bring it up to her, actually

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<v Speaker 1>have a really good idea. Okay, I think you should

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<v Speaker 1>just talk to her because she's actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening to this phone call. What yeah, Marie, how hey?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what to say it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did this seriously happen? I mean, this is totally not

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<v Speaker 1>how I wanted to tell you, or even tell you

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<v Speaker 1>really because I don't really know how to bring it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's why I just kind of texted sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to text you like this page and a

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<v Speaker 1>half long text, and I was like, well that's weird,

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't text it, and then I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I'm so disappointed. I mean me too, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean right now, I feel like even more so because

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<v Speaker 1>now you're finding out this way and like, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>who I am. I don't believe my friend did that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she wanted anything to me? Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want I don't want you to blame her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm taking responsibility for it, like I guess, I guess, Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me let me just say this, like it totally

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't emotional at that point because there was no connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I got that woman to clarity, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on and it was just one yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's it. I don't even know her name, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you, and I don't really care to because,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, it's not it wasn't emotional at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like one physical I mean, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think you made out with me that night, Maria.

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<v Speaker 1>It's bad no matter what. But at least he's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a stand up guy about it. I mean a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of guys, a lot of guys would do this

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<v Speaker 1>and then they would continue to talk to you. They

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<v Speaker 1>probably text your friend be like, hey, don't mention what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Like at least he was a big enough man to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, I screwed up and now I shouldn't continue

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship. Yeah, yeah, you're right. But it's also like

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest red flag ever. I mean, if he's already yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if he's I mean not that he's cheating on you,

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<v Speaker 1>because you haven't had that guy's talk yet, but if

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<v Speaker 1>even in the beginning he's already making out with other

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<v Speaker 1>chicks while you're there. I don't know, he said, he's

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<v Speaker 1>never done that. It's not like you. Yeah. Yeah. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, Marie, I really like you, Okay. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we had a really good connection and I think we

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<v Speaker 1>still do. I just, yeah, is there any way you

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<v Speaker 1>can forgive me? I don't know what I can do

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<v Speaker 1>to maybe that, you know, you could forgive me for

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, I mean, I'm glad that I'm finding

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<v Speaker 1>out now. And I can't believe that my friend didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even think that she needed to tell me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at least you're telling me. At least she was just

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<v Speaker 1>going to keep it super. That's not a good friend. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's he was pressured into telling you and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even realize he was telling you he was never going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you again. Actually, was that have really

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<v Speaker 1>been the situation where you're just gonna you just thought

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<v Speaker 1>you'd never wanted to talk to me again, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>the one that got away kind of kind of situation.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know, it's been eating me up inside,

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<v Speaker 1>so I probably would have ended up calling you, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, even tomorrow and the next day eventually I

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<v Speaker 1>would have called you. That's kind of sweet. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sweet. It clearly upset him so much that he

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<v Speaker 1>knew he did something wrong and there was a reason

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<v Speaker 1>why he you know, was so upset by it and

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<v Speaker 1>then had to just leave. I mean, it just shows

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<v Speaker 1>how much he cares. Yeah, I thought we had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good connection, um, you know, and it was Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I acted on so many levels. So I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know why I have such a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time believing you, Paul. I don't feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>just feeding her lines at this point. Would you forgive

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<v Speaker 1>her if she made out with one of your friends

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<v Speaker 1>at night? I would have to know the situation. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>have to know all the details. I'd have to know

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<v Speaker 1>all the information. Like me personally, this situation it was

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<v Speaker 1>only physical my mind. You know, I was with Marie

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<v Speaker 1>that night. I was not with her friend. I couldn't, like,

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<v Speaker 1>emotionally kiss you then afterwards, because I knew what I

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<v Speaker 1>just did. Oh, I mean, really I did it for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, No, you did not. I mean some

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<v Speaker 1>things of the night like make more sense now, and

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<v Speaker 1>you did say that you're sorry, and well, I think

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<v Speaker 1>this is a perfect point to ask, Hey, Paul, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out on a second date with Marie?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. Yeah, absolutely, I would love to. Marie.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you be willing to give Paul another shot? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I really would. Don't give him another shot after this one, though,

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<v Speaker 1>like that will never happen again. Okay, Marie, I can

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<v Speaker 1>promise you that, you really promise, I promise. Well, congratulations

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. It's finally a successful second day. We haven't

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple go out on a second day in

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<v Speaker 1>a while. I guess this is like a fourth day

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys, because have been out on three days.

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<v Speaker 1>That will be number four. Yeah. Yeah, you know, Paul,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a forgiving and understanding person. Then I'm excited to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you again. Um. You know, I got

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest. I don't think that I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>be talking to my friend anymore. I hope that's not,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, weird or anything, but I just see I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need her in my life anymore. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>fully support that. I think that any friend that would

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<v Speaker 1>do that to you is he's not a true friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. Well, I'm glad this worked out. And whoever

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<v Speaker 1>said the phrase you can't have your cake and eat

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<v Speaker 1>it too wasn't true. We just learned that in a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update broken Jupil in the morning, you've