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Speaker 1: think that her story qualifies for a second date update

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Speaker 1: because she's been out on more than one date with

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Speaker 1: this guy, which makes it even more confusing why he

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be calling her back. Yeah, her name is Marie,

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Speaker 1: and Marie, how are you hi? I'm great, How are

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Speaker 1: you guys? Good? You definitely qualify for a second date

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Speaker 1: update even though you've been out with this guy a

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Speaker 1: few times. How many times have you gone out? Three?

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Speaker 1: We've had three dates, three dates with this guy, and

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Speaker 1: now he's just disappeared on you. Exactly. That is so annoyed.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why people do that to each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're telling me, all right, So tell us about how

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Speaker 1: you met him. We met on a dating website and

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Speaker 1: we were actually talking on the website for I say,

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Speaker 1: almost three weeks total. So you guys talked for like

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Speaker 1: three weeks online and you've been on three dates. You're

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Speaker 1: talking about over a month of knowing this guy and

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Speaker 1: then he just bailed on you. Yeah, exactly. Definitely, only

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Speaker 1: over a month since we've been talking. If it sucks,

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Speaker 1: if you've gone on three dates? Like, how far have

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Speaker 1: you guys? This sounds weird about how far have you

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Speaker 1: guys gone physically? Look, well, I'm just saying like I

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Speaker 1: don't know what their relationship is like if they already

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Speaker 1: that's okay, you know, Actually no, we haven't the four

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Speaker 1: this we've gone, we've we've made out, that's that's it,

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Speaker 1: all right. Well, I guess we don't need every single

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Speaker 1: But what happened the last time you guys hung out? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, the first dates were fine. We basically got

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Speaker 1: third date, the last date that we had, we went

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Speaker 1: out to a bar, so it was a little different environment,

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Speaker 1: a little fun, a little noisy, loud, But he ended

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Speaker 1: up bringing a friend. Did he tell you beforehand that

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Speaker 1: he was going to break a friend? No, which at

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Speaker 1: first I thought, well, maybe we're that comfortable with each

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Speaker 1: other already that it's okay. So then I actually ended

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Speaker 1: Oh well that's a good idea. So how did that go?

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Speaker 1: It turned out to be a great night. He ended

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Speaker 1: up buying Sequila shots and it was really fun. And

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Speaker 1: to be honest with you, I was surprising. I've dated

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Speaker 1: quite a lot, and I was pleasantly surprised with where

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Speaker 1: has his ways, but I like that. And you guys

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Speaker 1: are practically married at this point. You've been kind of

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Speaker 1: seeing each other for about a month now, you've met

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Speaker 1: each other's friends. I mean, that's all there is left

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Speaker 1: to do, right, I mean, I thought we were moving forward,

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Speaker 1: Do you think there's a possibility that he was freaked

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Speaker 1: out that maybe you were moving faster than him. I

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Speaker 1: I really don't know what happened. I mean, I don't

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Speaker 1: We were both moving forward together, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: You said that he had quirks that you liked a

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Speaker 1: lot of times. That's code for he's kind of weird.

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Speaker 1: You know. There's just little things about him that at

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Speaker 1: he gets excited about the things that he's talking about,

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Speaker 1: and he has a gap in his teeth, which is

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Speaker 1: so it's just so cute and it just makes him

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Speaker 1: makes him who he is. I think diastema is the

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Speaker 1: technical term for that, if you were curious, what is it? Diastema?

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Speaker 1: Is it really? That's a term for a gap in

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Speaker 1: If you ever need to talk about his tooth gap again,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's good to know. I will I would

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Speaker 1: thing that he said to you? Um? So, it's been

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Speaker 1: three times, and then you know, to not even give

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Speaker 1: It's I don't know, I don't even know. Why did

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Speaker 1: right after this. Looking jubil in the morning, today's second

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Speaker 1: date update is a serious one because the girl on

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Speaker 1: a very very sad story. Oh my god, way more

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Speaker 1: in depth than any of our other second date updates.

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Speaker 1: Is she pregnant too? She might be it, you don't know.

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Speaker 1: She said that she hasn't hooked up with the guy

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Speaker 1: was basically married to this guy. They've been dating for

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Speaker 1: they had fun, they partied with a few friends. Then

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Speaker 1: to call your fiance? Wasn't that serious? I'm ready, I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Are you mad at him right now? Are you angry

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Speaker 1: judge if you're angry. Yeah, yeah, good boy. All right,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna dallas phone of her right now and see

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Speaker 1: why he's stopped calling you after three dates. Here we go, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, um,

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Speaker 1: what do you want? I'm calling you because we recently

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Speaker 1: Her name is Marie. Uh okay. She asked if we

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Speaker 1: you stopped calling her. Really. Yes, it's a segment that

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Speaker 1: Do you have a few minutes to tell us why

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Speaker 1: you're not talking to Marie anymore? I mean I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what she's told you or whatever, but

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Speaker 1: I mean I've kind of already sent her attacks like

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Speaker 1: why because you never gave her an explanation. So she's

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, but yeah, so doesn't it kind of

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Speaker 1: what she needs to know? Was she moving too fast?

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Speaker 1: That's what we were thinking, like maybe she was ahead

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Speaker 1: if it's your fault, why don't you just tell us

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Speaker 1: She didn't tell us much. She just said, you hung

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Speaker 1: automatically goes to, you were there with friends? Did you

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Speaker 1: We start talking in the hallway. I don't even remember

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Speaker 1: This is not who I am. Like, so I like

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Speaker 1: like pretty much at that point, all right, that's understandable.

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Speaker 1: And what a crappy friend she has. It's making out

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Speaker 1: So like I'd take a lot of blame for that.

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Speaker 1: like and does it suck? Though? I mean it sounds

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