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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This one's from

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Speaker 1: Beverly and Manhattan. Beverly writes, I co parents a seventeen

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Speaker 1: year old daughter with my ex husband, and I punished

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Speaker 1: her for breaking curfew and her daddy bought her a

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Speaker 1: car so she wouldn't be late getting home anymore. What

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Speaker 1: I can't win? How do I get him to work

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Speaker 1: with me and not against me?

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Speaker 2: Well, see, you're co parenting, so you're running up into

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Speaker 2: that situation that I used to run up into all

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Speaker 2: the time. What it's the one parent wants to be

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Speaker 2: the Disney parent, you know, when you do something punishment,

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Speaker 2: they come over here and it's Disney all the time,

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Speaker 2: you know, to I'm the better parent, like me more, you.

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Speaker 3: Know that type of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's just it's a horrible situation to be in.

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Speaker 2: I have no advice for you.

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Speaker 3: No, what none?

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Speaker 1: No, you have something?

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Speaker 2: I mean, he got to look, man, you can't reward

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Speaker 2: bad behaviors, right, that's just not good parenting.

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Speaker 3: People do it all.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I just people are different, you know,

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Speaker 2: like nowadays, you know, spanking your child she's seventeen, But

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Speaker 2: I'm just spanking your child as outlawed a lot of places.

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Speaker 2: You can't do that ass whoop has been happening in

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Speaker 2: my house since they was boy.

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Speaker 1: Hello, That's how we were raised, for sure.

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Speaker 2: And now they're old enough where it don't have to

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Speaker 2: happen no more. But it was in my house. And

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Speaker 2: call who you.

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Speaker 3: Want to call. Yeah, you go ask him how many

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Speaker 3: times I whooped his ass. He'll tell you.

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Speaker 2: Whinston will tell you, broad Uncle will tell you, and

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Speaker 2: Jason will tell you. My daddy beat my ass every

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Speaker 2: time he promised us war. You go in there and

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Speaker 2: talk to him about them good dudes right there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah they are.

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Speaker 2: They really are cause an ass whooping.

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Speaker 3: I never spanked none of their daughters, but them boys

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Speaker 3: hands on us Meliga in Tuskegee Rights.

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Speaker 1: My man leads the praise dance ministry at our church,

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Speaker 1: and my parents came to town and visited our church.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love this with Steve. I didn't expect my

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Speaker 1: dad to burst out laughing during the performance, because you

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Speaker 1: know you don't like praise dance. How do I get

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Speaker 1: my dad to apologize? And how can he be so rude?

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Speaker 2: Hey, your daddy ain't apologizing, and your daddy ain't got

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Speaker 2: to apologize. I have said it, good go, and I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna say it again. I don't know why we have

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Speaker 2: praise dance team. These are all people look at it

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Speaker 2: and they all way overweight.

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Speaker 3: They overweight, and they ain't make the gymnastic squad.

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Speaker 2: They didn't make it. They didn't make the cheerleading tea.

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Speaker 2: Now here they come. You're right them little dim, little dim,

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Speaker 2: little half inch jumps off the ground, spinning, got them

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Speaker 2: big robes on and all this here, hey man, way

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Speaker 2: the quiet.

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Speaker 1: Because praise the Lord in the dance.

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Speaker 3: Sadaddy came for the chop.

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Speaker 2: No husband is set out there and put that rollo

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Speaker 2: and start waving his hands in the air holding his

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Speaker 2: fingertips straight. Your daddy was hollow with your daddy.

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Speaker 3: I'd been next to.

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Speaker 2: Your daddy and your daddy would have been in the

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Speaker 2: Richard prior concert. I'm talking about leaning on each other.

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Speaker 1: Now, why you laughing in church during the performance? Turns

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Speaker 1: out you ain't never laughed at I'm just saying during

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Speaker 1: the performances, I've laughed at church.

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Speaker 2: I laughed at brother Rickerson walking around to put his

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Speaker 2: money in and sail right, and he.

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Speaker 3: Failed trop money in the trade.

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Speaker 2: He just dropped what tas I couldn't breathe. Yeah, Now,

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Speaker 2: I didn't know if he had had a hard attack

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Speaker 2: or nothing, but the fact that he disappeared in front

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Speaker 2: of that PUKEE just dropped off, But he tried to

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Speaker 2: catch yourself and turned the money tray over.

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Speaker 4: Long man, all right, I was hollering about that time Reggie.

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Speaker 2: Reggie was walking up the steps with his crying robo

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Speaker 2: and Paul Walker stepped on the back of it and

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Speaker 2: tore a hole in it.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, come.

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Speaker 1: Flishee and Kenosha says, I've been married twice and my

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Speaker 1: seven year old son asked me not to get married again,

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't want my boyfriend to sleep over.

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Speaker 3: At the house.

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Speaker 1: Do I explain to my son that mommy's life has

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Speaker 1: to go on? Or do I keep my man away

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Speaker 1: for now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, your baby?

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Speaker 2: What does all these people keep coming up in here?

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Speaker 2: Just rolling there and this revolving don't ain't nobody staying what?

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Speaker 2: You don't need to do this, No, mama, Mama, you

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Speaker 2: don't need to get married no more. And stop letting

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Speaker 2: this man stay over here for he leave like the

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Speaker 2: other three.

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Speaker 3: Mama, who has these people who is my daddy? Who

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Speaker 3: I call daddy? I can't remember none of these people.

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Speaker 2: Damn, Mama, Damn, that's like you.

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Speaker 3: Mast like you, the mama you're supposed to be raising me.

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Speaker 3: Why is I'm raising you with your fans hands down?

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Speaker 3: You don't see this.

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Speaker 2: I'm out here playing basketball. Every time I look up,

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Speaker 2: and I got a new man hollering from me.

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Speaker 3: You don't know, you don't know what? And the last

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Speaker 3: one forgot my name called me.

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Speaker 1: Charles all right, last one Steve Chauncey. And newman says,

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Speaker 1: I live in a small town and I met a

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Speaker 1: woman that has requirements to date her. I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: meet all of them, so I give her money even

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Speaker 1: when I'm short. I dipped into my savings so I

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Speaker 1: don't disappoint her. How do I tell her that I

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Speaker 1: don't have it like that?

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Speaker 3: So to date her you have to pay? Let me

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Speaker 3: let me ask you What's what? Where?

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Speaker 2: Where did you meet her at what? Let me ask

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Speaker 2: you a couple of questions.

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Speaker 3: Questions.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but let me ask you a couple of questions.

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Speaker 2: Was she standing somewhere for you?

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Speaker 3: Holder?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 2: Just just let me ask you a couple of questions.

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Speaker 2: Was she at the end of the bar by herself drinking.

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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just trying to work through how you

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Speaker 2: met this wall and the requirements you have to pay.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever? Does she have a website?

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Speaker 1: He should just tell her to be honest with her

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Speaker 1: that he does.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I got this right here. Let me ask

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Speaker 3: you that question. Dog.

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Speaker 2: Does she have more than two nicknames?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: C l A.

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Speaker 1: We Gotta go, Closter, Steve Harbin, Martin show Man.

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Speaker 2: How would you know if your wife is a former stripper?

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Speaker 3: I have a couple of ways that.

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Speaker 2: You Okay, If every time she enters the room she

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Speaker 2: grabs the edge of the doorway and swings into the

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Speaker 2: that's a damn dead giveaway. She grabbed the edge of

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Speaker 2: that doorway and swang that's a damn dead gibble y'all

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Speaker 2: walking down the street. Yeah, and she picked up all

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Speaker 2: the money she see on the sidewalk, even if it's

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Speaker 2: a quarter, a nickel of dime.

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Speaker 3: If she know how to pick up money off the ground,

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Speaker 3: this is a.

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Speaker 2: Dead giveaway that your wife could have been a strippers.

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Speaker 3: Mortar Steve Morrier show coming up right up to the