1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: don't know y'all all looking back to back down, giving 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: them just like amazing bus things. And it's not me 4 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: through good Steve Hartley, I don't joy Joy. You gotta 5 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: use that turn very arm. You gotta turn to turn 6 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: them out. Turn got to turn out to turn turn 7 00:01:46,880 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: the water the water. Come, come on your back, I 8 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: show will a good morning everybody. You're listening to the 9 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 1: voice I said, come on now, I dig me the 10 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, Now, 11 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be really honest with you this morning. I 12 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 1: really don't know what to say. I really don't. I 13 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: was sitting here and I was thinking, what do I 14 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: say today. I do know that I want to be encouraging, 15 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: uplifting and inspirational in some way to affect somebody today. Oftentimes, 16 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: these conversations that I have in the mornings, they're designed 17 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: with me because I am. I needed myself, y'all, to 18 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: be honest with you. I mean, you know who makes 19 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: the comedian laugh? I used to say all the time, 20 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: And even though what we talk about in the morning 21 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: is not a laughing matter, it kind of like is 22 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: it's who I am today? You know, I need motivation 23 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: in my life sometimes myself. I think when I get 24 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: in moments like this, I often resort back to the 25 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 1: same thing over and over and over. And when I 26 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: find myself in certain predicaments, I can always fall back 27 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: on the same thing over and over. So while I'm 28 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: sitting here trying to figure out what to say to you, 29 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: the one thing that I did do this morning that 30 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: I find to be very consistent in me is that 31 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: I find myself grateful. I'm ever grateful for the things 32 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: that God has done for me. I may not always 33 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: know what to say, but I know how to say 34 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: thank you. I do. I know how to remember and 35 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: reflect back on where I come from. I know how 36 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: to realize where all my blessings come from. I'm very 37 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: very conscious of my journey that I've been on, the 38 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: the one that was from then until now, that journey 39 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: right there is it's been. It's been. It's been. It's 40 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: been difficult, man, it really really has. I ain't gonna 41 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 1: lie to you, um me, becoming successful was very difficult. 42 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: But as hard as this is to say, I really 43 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: really mean this. I wouldn't change nothing about the trip 44 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: I've been on number one, because I can't change anything 45 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,799 Speaker 1: about it. So I never lived my life life in regret. 46 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 1: But the main thing is was I discovered along the 47 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: way now not doing the process when you're going through 48 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: rough moments that you can't hardly see the good in 49 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: it at the time. It's just rough for you. It 50 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: seems unexplainable, and oftentimes I thought it was unfair. But 51 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: as I am now, I needed every single thing that 52 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: happened to me, that happened to me to happen to me. 53 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 1: I hope that makes sense to you. I needed everything 54 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: to happen in the exact order and the exact way 55 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: that it happened in order for me to be the 56 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: person that I've become. And that right there, man, is 57 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: just very comforting to me. Mister Jakes told me one time, 58 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: he said, the closer you get to God, the more 59 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: friendly you all become, the more He will reveal to 60 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 1: you or the how it comes and the what fays 61 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: of a lot of things has happened to you, Because 62 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: a lot of times what troubles us is we just 63 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: can't understand why we lost that love one back then 64 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: we just can't understand why we didn't get what we 65 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: wanted back then. We just don't understand how come our 66 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: plan didn't work out and we had to fail so 67 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: miserably back then. We don't understand the answers to these things. Well, 68 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: the closer I've gotten to God, the more of those 69 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 1: explanations have become crystal clear to me. And See, the 70 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: one thing that I came to the realization everybody is 71 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: that the things that was happening to me, they wasn't 72 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: really all bad. They really wasn't that they didn't taste good. 73 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: When it was happening, I didn't enjoy what I was 74 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 1: going through. But as I look back on him and 75 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: reflect now, it wasn't all bad. Some of those things 76 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: was so necessary for me to get the information because say, 77 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 1: I don't know about you, but I'm kind of hard 78 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: headed and stubborn. I said, I don't know about you, 79 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: but I'm kind of hard headed and stubborn. I kind 80 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: of like to think that I know something about some 81 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: things every now and then, and the things I am 82 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: convinced about. I don't really really care for people trying 83 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: to talk me off mine, so I can be stubborn 84 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: and hardheaded. Sometimes God knows that about me. So I 85 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: think to get some of the messages crystal clear through 86 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 1: the me that I needed to learn. That was this 87 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: process I had to go through. That process was my journey, 88 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: It was my trip. It was my WOA, my pain. Say, 89 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: everybody got them different, It don't matter what it is. 90 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: Everybody got a WOA. Everybody got a pain, everybody got 91 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: a trial, everybody got some tribulations, everybody got some challenge. 92 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: I don't care who you are, duds, Quit looking at 93 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: me thinking that I got it going own, so tough 94 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: man ready if Steve, Yeah, it's easy for you to 95 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: say that, but you ain't here. You don't know. Wow, Ben, 96 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: if you would stop hanging yourself up on your pass, 97 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: worrying about your woes and your troubles and the situation 98 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: you in, and start praying and start asking God to 99 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: get you through it. See a lot of times you 100 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: messed it. You messed a message up yourself, because when 101 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: you're going through some stuff, you ask God to remove 102 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: it and take it away. That ain't the lesson. You 103 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: got to learn your lesson Sometimes it's it's gotta be 104 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: how to be strong, how to see it through how 105 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: to bear under it, how to carry that weight long 106 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: distances for long periods of time. That's how you get strong. 107 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: The lesson is to make you stronger. But to make 108 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: you stronger, you got to carry the weight. You can't 109 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: get stronger. You're gonna go to gym or you're gonna 110 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: do something at your house to lift your own body weight. See, 111 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: a lot of people can't even do push ups down. 112 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: They can't get down, And then the course of a day, 113 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: give you a hundred push ups because they ain't. They ain't, 114 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: They ain't never try to daybody. They get to twenty 115 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,319 Speaker 1: and that shake it so bad they stop. Who that's 116 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: too much for me. Well, let me tell you something. 117 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: So I learned to quit praying to take stuff away. 118 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,599 Speaker 1: My prayer became to give me the strength to handle it. 119 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: People oftentimes ask me, how do you do all that 120 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: you do in the course of the day. I don't 121 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: really know. I just know I can because I know 122 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: God don't put more on you than you can back. 123 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: So when you ask me how you do all of 124 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: what you do in the course of the day, I 125 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: got God. God is good. He'll get you through whatever 126 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 1: it is you're going through. So when you're tripping and 127 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: you don't know what to say, reflect and be grateful 128 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 1: for all you reflect on. Think about God's goodness and 129 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,439 Speaker 1: watch what He do for you. That's the cold part. Okay, 130 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: you're listening morning show, ladies and Jimmy, Welcome to the 131 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. I've got sunshine on a cloudy 132 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: day when it's cold outside, I got the month of me. Well, 133 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: I guess you saved. I guess you saved. What can 134 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: make me feel this way? There you go. I'm talking 135 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: about my girl. I'm I'm talking about my girl, Hill, 136 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 1: my girl. I've got so honey. What that touched me? 137 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: Did that hurt? No? No, that touched me? Okay, touching 138 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: and hurting me, it's different. That had on the way. 139 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: The rest of my day is gonna go. I've got 140 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: so much boy, I just touched myself again. I got 141 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: doing this for you. I'm doing this to get my day, 142 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: he started. And if you ain't feeling me, that's okay. 143 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: We'll have another show to morrow. My motto is, if 144 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,599 Speaker 1: you don't like the show today, praise God if he 145 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: give us tomorrow. Lady and gentlemen, Charley Strawberry Colin for real, 146 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: Mississippi Monica, Junior, kill Spades, Nephew Tommy and Yours truth, Junior, Oh, 147 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: what come on, I gotta understand it. I don't know 148 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 1: how does how does Hart singing do that? For you? Well? 149 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: You know, it's the emotion of it. It ain't the notes, 150 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: it ain't connectivity work. It's the feeling. Okay, it's a feeling, Junior. Yeah, 151 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna play something for you a little 152 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: bit later on and then you tell me, okay, you know, okay, 153 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: how you feel about it, something that you could relate to, 154 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: and then we'll see. But it's always the emotion of it, 155 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 1: you know. And you've got to you got to you know, 156 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: I think, Junie, you got to lend yourself to that 157 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: a little bit more often, because I'm not sure if 158 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: you do. That's because I just saw it to look 159 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: on your face and everything. It was all on your count. 160 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 1: You was gone. I have to I leave here. When 161 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: I do that, I enter the realm. Yeah, of oh 162 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: my lord. Yeah, I'm trying to find something, m what 163 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: you could relate too, Okay? Looking for something? Oh yeah, 164 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: he probably now, Junior, you could relate to this right here, 165 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: here we go. Let me play it a little bit 166 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: loud meson single. They didn't give a damn about the 167 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: note either. Alight, all right, listen, coming up at thirty 168 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: two minutes after the hour, we're gonna start the show 169 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: up with Nephew Tommy's run that prank back right after this. 170 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now 171 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 1: to start your morning off with run that prank back 172 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: with the nephew. What you got, nef h you heard me? 173 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: Got what you want me to do? What is it? 174 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: How you want it done? What you're running back? Running it? Yeah? 175 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: He knows. Okay, okay, okay, I'm not You know that. 176 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: You know there's levels to it, you know y'all. You 177 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 1: know one the teen A to Z yesterday. All right, 178 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: calm down, ageless, I got it, I got it. Just 179 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: trying to speed you alone. Thank you. You know I 180 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: take the same amount of time on the new prank. No, hey, 181 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: catering mistake, hatering mistake yet, dog, if you would, We're 182 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: gonna be extra ignorant to day. Come on down. Hello, Hello, 183 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Tammy. Please. This is sing hey Tammy. 184 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: This is a dexter Um over here caterin. We catered 185 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: your your aunt Bridges. Yeah, that's right, that's right, that's right. 186 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 1: How are you doing that? Sair's good to hear from you. Okay, 187 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: good good. I'm going through the paperwork here and I 188 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: know we have an invoice for you all. I wanted 189 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: to reach out to you. This is not a bad time, 190 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: is it. No, this is a good time. Okay. So, 191 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: first of all, did everybody enjoy everything that we put 192 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: out for you guys? Yeah, we had a good old time. 193 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: Monty Bridget she was so happy. There was no better 194 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: way to bring in her sixtieth birthday party. We had 195 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 1: a great time. The food was delicious. We are so grateful, 196 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: So thank you so much. You and your team did 197 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: a bomb job. Okay, good deal, good deal. I was 198 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: here when they loaded up the van and everything, and 199 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure. I wanted to follow back up. 200 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: But listen, I'm looking at the paperwork and we had 201 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: a little mishap, and I wanted to let you know 202 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: that we're not going to um, we're not gonna charge 203 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: you guys for the chicken because they made a mistake 204 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: and they put the wrong pan on the van and 205 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: they I noticed that the chicken was actually still here, 206 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: So we want to take off take that off, and 207 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: I won't that won't be on the on the envoys, 208 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: So I'm taking all the entire cross. The chicken will 209 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: be completely taken out. Okay, real quick, let's back up 210 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: a bit. Because we had a lot of people at 211 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: the party, we definitely had chicken. Yeah, I know you 212 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: had you order some moother chicken. But like I said, 213 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: the guy put the wrong pen on the on the van, 214 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: you know, and actually this mother chicken was actually still here, 215 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: uh you know, here here at the at the shop. 216 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: So you know, like I said, we made a mistake. 217 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take it off and that'll probably not your 218 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 1: you know, like a couple of hundred dollars off off 219 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: of you, as price liked. So so what are you saying? 220 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: So what were we eating if it was this mother chicken? 221 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: What was it? Uh? Well, miss Tammy, Like I said, 222 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 1: you know, I got on this kid for making this mistake. 223 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 1: You know, I got on the real bad about it, 224 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: but you know, putting the wrong paying on there. But 225 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 1: like I said, this what you guys had was it? 226 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: That was a chicken? What was it though, That's what 227 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm asking you. What was it? That was actually what 228 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: he put on there by mistake mis telling me that 229 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:19,719 Speaker 1: was that was rabbit? What? You can't be serious right now? 230 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 1: Are you out of your rabbit mine? Are you serious 231 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 1: your call? No? Tell me that your team put the 232 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 1: wrong trade on the trucks and then served it to 233 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 1: my family. And you're trying to call me about two 234 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: hundred dollars? Are you serious? Who more than that? You 235 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 1: owe me more than that? You don't know who the 236 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 1: because allergic today and you're calling me about two hundred dollars? 237 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:47,159 Speaker 1: Are you out of your mine? Well? I wanted to 238 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 1: credit you all that. You know what I'm saying. No, 239 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 1: and then there's gonna be no credit. There ain't gonna 240 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 1: be no credit. It ain't no credit? Do you mean credit? 241 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 1: Richard could have died, Monty could have died. Lucia. Uh, 242 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: we got kids in there. You don't know what dietary needs? 243 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: Are you crazy? I mean, would you say you liked it? Though? 244 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 1: It don't matter if I liked it, I can fall 245 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: off the night. Stupid. Oh, I'm getting an attorney. I'm 246 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: done with this. This is stupid, And who do want 247 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: to eat bugs? Bunny? Does that right to you? H 248 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 1: Are you stupid? I'm so annoyed right now. Seriously, let 249 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: you know, woods people, leen, no country people go with you. Okay, 250 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: what what what? Y'all liked it though? Right? No, but 251 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: you're gonna like my foot up ya stone, that's what 252 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna like. I'm gonna beat there or later, because 253 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 1: y'all it's a stupid yo' the stupid my fook gonna 254 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 1: be up yo, and y'all it's gonna be hopping around 255 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: like a rabbit, the rabbit that you serve me. Oh okay, okay, 256 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 1: let me ask you this here, No, abl a, miss 257 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 1: Avery is your mama right? What does my mama gotta 258 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: do with this rabbit? What's you gotta do with this? Okay? See, 259 00:18:55,560 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 1: your mama got me to call you. This is a 260 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:04,239 Speaker 1: few timents from the Steve Harming Morning showy d mean 261 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 1: your mama to you? I'm so sorry. Oh my god, 262 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: this is crazy. Oh my god in the morning. This 263 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 1: is crazy. Y're crazy, y'all are gonna get it? This 264 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: is crazy? Oh man? All right, damman, tell me this baby, 265 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: what is the baddest that I mean the baddest radio 266 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: show in the late the Steve Harmy. You are right, 267 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: May Yes, I'm just so glad I didn't have rabbits. 268 00:19:53,119 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 1: I'm so glad you have it. The catering mistake, ladies 269 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, The catering mistake that is none far more 270 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: ignorant than I. Yeah, argument, no rabbit in your system 271 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: ain't gonna bother you. Chicken and rabbit mistake is very possible. Okay, 272 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: next time, next time you caterin, get get get the 273 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: rabbit into the rabbits. Rabbit does not taste like chicken. 274 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: If your rabbit taste like your chicken, you can't cook chicken. 275 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: You need to quit cooking chickens rabbit. All right, nephew, 276 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next, it has asked the CLO 277 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: with the Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building, 278 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: ready for your love questions. Right after this, you're listening 279 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show coming up at the top of 280 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:02,199 Speaker 1: the hour and trending headline former President Barack Obama tested 281 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: positive for COVID nineteen plus. An entertainment news Kanye called 282 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: out one of the Kings of comedy. Who's not true, Steve? 283 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: It is d L Hugh Glee, All right, we'll talk 284 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 1: that's right there now, wait a minute, Yeah, we'll sell 285 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: you about it. And did you say Will Smith's interview 286 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: with Gail s Gail King, Will Smith said that he's 287 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:32,120 Speaker 1: never been unfaithful in his marriage and neither is Jada. 288 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:43,880 Speaker 1: There's no infidelity in their marriage. To interview t yeah, 289 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 1: I am, I'm okay. Well, we'll talk about all of 290 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour, but right 291 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: now it is time to ask the ClOH Brittany and 292 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: Louisiana writes, my older sister is married to a man 293 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: that is my age, and she talks to him like 294 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: he's a child he can buy it than me, and 295 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: asked if I could talk to her for him. And 296 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 1: I tried talking to her and she accused me of 297 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 1: wanting her husband. What did I do wrong here? You 298 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 1: got into marrital business, right right, you're right. He the 299 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 1: young boy should have never bought his marital troubles to you, 300 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: and then you took his and her marrital troubles back 301 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 1: to her. That's what you did wrong. Stay out of 302 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 1: people's marriage because it ain't gonna ever work out. She 303 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 1: married the boy that's your age, and he acts like 304 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: a boy. And he just went and told you, my 305 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: mommy talking to me play, can you go in? Then 306 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 1: talking to her? And you took your ass in then, 307 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: and she didn't cuss both y'all out. If I was you, 308 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 1: I'd be just as scared as your sister as he is. 309 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: All right, Moving on to Confused in Tampa. Confused says, 310 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty seven year old married female and I 311 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: have a boy friend on the side. I butt diled 312 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and he held the phone as my husband 313 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 1: and I talked about the sex we had the night before. 314 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 1: My boyfriend was upset, like he didn't know I still 315 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: have sex with my husband. Is this a sign that 316 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: it's time to cut him loose? Oh, he didn't hit it. Well, 317 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: I understand. He don't want to hear that. You know, 318 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: even though he know he hit, he is second place. 319 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: He don't want to hear. He is second Yes it is. 320 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: We can't hear. And your ass needs to quit cheating. 321 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: If you're gonna be blood dialing people, you got to 322 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: put your phone up, man. You got to get that thing. Well, 323 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: you as soon as you hang up your phone cut 324 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: off instantly. Yeah, usually smarter cheaters than this. Well, why 325 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: she she's getting busted? Yeah, but what was she supposed 326 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 1: to do? Since you know so much? No, I'm just 327 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: you shut up, just saying women are better. We're gonna 328 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: tell what ya that's a that's a known fact. That 329 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: shit she have done. Surely. Yeah, of course she shouldn't 330 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 1: have had her phone right there that she could butt 331 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 1: dial it. That's all. Usually women are smarter. We cover 332 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: our tracks better, all of that. It's a known fact. Back, girl, 333 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: don't don't get mad because because of the truth, because 334 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 1: we damn show have our phone up right this. Yeah, yeah, 335 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: so Joe, Joe, when you see your man sleep with 336 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:40,680 Speaker 1: the phone duck tape to his thigh, your attitude, he 337 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 1: is trying to protect you, when you see the phone 338 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: on the nightstand and the batteries somewhere else. Hello, you 339 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: know what he's doing. Yeah, you're not getting She sucks 340 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: and cheating, so she needs to stop. She's an amateur, right, 341 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: all right? Next question, moving on to Amorous and Philly 342 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 1: Amareus says, I'm living with a cousin to help her 343 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: out financially while she's pregnant. Her dad beat baby. Daddy 344 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,120 Speaker 1: has been staying at her house for the past week. 345 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 1: So I told her he needs to chip in on 346 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: some bills. She told me to mind my business. Should 347 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 1: I move out? Yeah? Yeah, see you staying with her 348 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,879 Speaker 1: to help her out. Uh the dad be boyfrid and 349 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 1: it came over now he drained in the money too. 350 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 1: You go to hush, She tell you, stay in your business. 351 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: Take you and all your business and money to and 352 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 1: money and to another apartment, and then you ain't got 353 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: to pay for nobody help yourself. Damn you. Let me 354 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. This This has been a 355 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: free out for you. This is get out of jail 356 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 1: free car. I'll be out of Oh. I got to 357 00:25:55,760 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 1: mind my business. My apology, baby. Let me go over 358 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 1: here where I could mind my business. And I am 359 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: so sorry. I should have never gotten in between this. 360 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: Who am I to do his damn job? Girl? Let 361 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 1: me step off. Come on, Steve, that's right right now, 362 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: so soft our mama. Moving on to Sean in Tennessee. 363 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,680 Speaker 1: Sean is a forty year old single man, and he 364 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 1: lives in a townhouse next door to an older black lady. 365 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 1: From day one, she harassed me, he says. She asked, 366 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,640 Speaker 1: how can I afford to live there, and she asked, 367 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: if I'm a drug dealer, I feel like I might 368 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: need to curse her out. Can you offer a better 369 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: solution for dealing with this evil old lady? Sean? She 370 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: will ye, that's all they see, h she won him. 371 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: It reversed. See as you get older, it reverses. See 372 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 1: when you was young and a little boy, and you 373 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 1: like the girl, you picked on, the pull the hair, 374 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: all this hid mesters push you know, when you get old, 375 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 1: it's the same harassing. It's just on the do what 376 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: you're doing over here, you drug deal up in hire. 377 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 1: What you need to do is slide over that with 378 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 1: some weed. Come and sit down with him, take some edibles. 379 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 1: Come on and sit down with him and make new 380 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 1: friends and she will be all right. Now. I already 381 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: know she ain't fine because he would have put that 382 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: in the letter. Oh she looked like an old evil 383 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 1: ass walmer. Sometimes you got to do un fine things 384 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 1: though on Sometimes you got No. I'm not a fan 385 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: of that. I don't really, I don't like. I ain't 386 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,880 Speaker 1: I ain't never slept with nobody to wear a house coach. 387 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: I ain't brother just a house coach. Boy, you're missing out. 388 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 1: You ain't never had a sugar april. But you're missing 389 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 1: up boy. I've never been with nobody. Wear girdle, not 390 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 1: spank gird girl. Don't hate on space girdle. You got 391 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,680 Speaker 1: girdle on hold of you. I ain't never had to wait. 392 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 1: I ain't had nobody cinnamon pantyholes blod did with the 393 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: page coffee. You ain't never had. You ain't never had 394 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 1: nobody with their pantyhole tide right there. But to me, 395 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 1: you ain't never had nobody like I ain't never I ain't. 396 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 1: I ain't never had a woman that could put her 397 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: breast in her apron pocket bring down attractive to me, 398 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: we got to go crazy, coming up at the top 399 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: of the our entertainment news and more ignorance. You know 400 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: where you are, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Back after this, 401 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Former President 402 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: Barack Obama announced that he has tested positive for COVID nineteen, 403 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 1: with his symptoms limited to a scratchy throat. I've had 404 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: a scratchy throat for a couple of days, but I'm 405 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 1: feeling fine otherwise, Obama, who is six, He wrote on Twitter, 406 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 1: Michelle and I are grateful to be vaccinated and boosted, 407 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: and she has tested negative. Good good, very good good news. Yea, 408 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: he looks healthy. Yeah, he always looked good. Yeah he 409 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: looks good even. Yeah. All right. In the other entertainment news, 410 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 1: Steve listened carefully to this one, and guys, because Kanye 411 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 1: is just all right, he's beefing now with d L 412 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 1: hugely okay. After dl accused Kanye of stalking his ex, 413 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: Kim kardashian Ya, took aim at DL. He wrote, I 414 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: am the glitch. DL. God does not like you. You 415 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 1: have no favor. Your family hate you. I would hate 416 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 1: to be related to someone who used to be famous. 417 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 1: Now you're just known as a broke pawn at least 418 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: Oprah goat billions, allegedly in quotations. Come on, leftists, y'all 419 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: gotta do better than DLLE this. Ye bring the real smoke, baby, 420 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 1: show your real face. In another post, Kanye suggested that 421 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 1: he might be paying Dale a personal visit soon. He wrote, 422 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 1: dls and calabasas Yo, God is good. So then Delle 423 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: respond this is crazy, right, So then wait, listen to 424 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: what Delle said. Dlle responded, m and its weird that 425 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: Kanye supposedly has all of the goons who will kill 426 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 1: for him. But will I get his prescription spilled? Here's 427 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 1: the thought? Come on, he said, here's the thought. While 428 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 1: you're on your way to kill me in Calabasas, how 429 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 1: about dropped by a CBS CBS and pick up his 430 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 1: zan x L. Yeah, very serious. Yeah, come on, pull up, man. 431 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 1: You know I didn't said with you before. Well I said, 432 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: with that brother minute, time to pull up. It ain't 433 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: what you want I'm telling And if y'all, if y'all do, 434 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: get the scrapping all my cash on dal because you 435 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 1: have no idea. Yeah, you have no idea. You've been 436 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 1: a little you've been you've been a little uh political 437 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: socially conscious rapper. Were from an ass whooping la, not 438 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 1: the whole totally different thing. Yeah, we're from a whole nother. 439 00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 1: When you can come out of my house in Calabasas. Yeah, 440 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 1: he lives a count Yeah, come on, man, back my guy. 441 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: He got too much. And you ain't got to call 442 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 1: him a leftist because you ain't really no rights. You 443 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: ain't even really on the right. You're wrong. Come on, yeah, 444 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 1: we all go. Man, I don't know why are you 445 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: going at d L yell, ain't your problem? Come on, leftist, 446 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:25,959 Speaker 1: you could do better than DL this. She ain't bring 447 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,959 Speaker 1: the real before these jokes. Just Kanye, you just might 448 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 1: want to check into that. Yeah, all right, we're moving 449 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: on obvious because you have billions, don't fix everything. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, 450 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 1: we gotta move on to Will behold on one second, 451 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: don't go out there by that man family. I'm telling you, man, 452 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm telling you here a different guy this would have 453 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: been round him too. That that's what let's hit it. 454 00:32:56,120 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: Listen to me, don't go out there. I'm he's taking 455 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: the threat to Steve against his family, very sick. All right, 456 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: we're seguing to Will Smith. Okay. He told Gale King 457 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: in an interview that there has never been infidelity in 458 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,800 Speaker 1: his marriage to Jada. Take a listen. You both have 459 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: talked very candidly. It's a very famous story infidelity in 460 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: the marriage and how you navigated that. Never, there's never 461 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: been infidelity in our marriage. Never been infidelitia never. Jada 462 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: and I talk about everything, and we have never surprised 463 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: one another with anything ever. So so you told each 464 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 1: other what you were getting ready to do is that 465 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: it's infidelity, it's true. Yeah, it's an open marriage. Then, yeah, 466 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 1: that's what I got out of a Yeah, what's in 467 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 1: the water in California? It's something in this water? What 468 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: is It's something I want to see what This story 469 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 1: will take a very ugly turn, hard left. This story 470 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: has lawyers in case number violence. Please police report yellow tape. 471 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,800 Speaker 1: It's gonna be all kinds of stuff involved in this story. 472 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 1: We probably won't even make it the Gail key. Can 473 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 1: we play that again? Though? Can we play Can we 474 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 1: play it again? Let's play that again? You both have 475 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: talked very candidly. It's a very famous story, infidelity in 476 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 1: the marriage and how you navigated that that time. Never, 477 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 1: there's never been infidelity in our mag never been INFIDELI never. 478 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 1: Jada and I talk about everything, and we have never 479 00:34:56,440 --> 00:35:02,320 Speaker 1: surprised one another with anything. Ever. That's not that right there, No, no, no, 480 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Hats off to Will Smith. 481 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: I take my head dog right, Joe, Lie, Will don't 482 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 1: big big winners Smith, your boy Steve Harvey, give you 483 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: one thousand percent. That's the story you going with. Don't 484 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:30,439 Speaker 1: you let Gael King talk to you. Never, I've never 485 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: been here forgether. Now that not a damn thing. All right, 486 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: all right, there you have it coming up. Listen to 487 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 1: me coming up in twenty minutes after Steve Harvey Morning Show, 488 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 1: and we'll talk with the US Surgeon General, doctor Vic 489 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 1: Murphy right after this. You're listening show everybody, I distinguished 490 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: guests this morning and starting to be a family member. 491 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: He's on the show again. This is the twenty first 492 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: Surgeon General of the United States, and since we're in 493 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 1: a year two of the COVID nineteen pandemic, he's joining 494 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 1: us with some information on what's the most important right now. 495 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 1: Getting boosted is a top priority as mass as all 496 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 1: of these mass mandates are changing, so we're happy to 497 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: have him give us an update this morning. Please, welcome 498 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: to the show, doctor Vivic Murphy. Welcome, good morning, Thanks 499 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,640 Speaker 1: so much for having me back. Now, man, thank you 500 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,399 Speaker 1: for coming, because you really help get the facts out 501 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 1: for a lot of our listeners. You know, because like 502 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 1: we're talking about, you know, we're in the second year 503 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:49,239 Speaker 1: of this pandemic, and the COVID vaccines for children under 504 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:54,239 Speaker 1: five have now been approved, but many of the vaccinated 505 00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 1: parents have not gotten their youngest children vaccinated. Let's talk 506 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 1: about it. Why is that, sir? Well, it's a great question, Steven, 507 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 1: and I'll tell you right now. We've got vaccines for 508 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: kids who are five and up, and you know, I 509 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 1: wanted my kid and his five actually my son, and 510 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: so I was able to go and get him vaccinated. 511 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 1: But we still have the majority of parents with kids 512 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: five to eleven who haven't gotten their children vaccinated yet, 513 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,200 Speaker 1: and we are still waiting for a vaccine for kids 514 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 1: under five. I want everyone out there to know where ever, 515 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,400 Speaker 1: the FDA and allsocin government are working as hard as 516 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,799 Speaker 1: they can to make sure we get that vaccine as 517 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: soon as possible. That we have to wait for that 518 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 1: data to come in, and it's not quite in based 519 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 1: on what the companies are telling us right now, but 520 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 1: as soon as it is, we will get that data evaluated. 521 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,440 Speaker 1: We'll make sure we have a vaccine for kids under five. 522 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: But part of the reason I think we still have 523 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: so many kids who are not vaccinated is I think 524 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 1: there are more parents who need to hear the messto 525 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: why this is so important. And I know some parents 526 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 1: have questions about it is safe, is it really necessary 527 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 1: for my child? Here's what I would say to that. 528 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,760 Speaker 1: Number one, these vaccines have proven to be very safe 529 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 1: in kids. Number two, in terms of are they effective, yes, 530 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,839 Speaker 1: they've also shown to be particularly effective at the most 531 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 1: important job, which is to keep your child out of 532 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,960 Speaker 1: the hospital and to save their life. Some kids who 533 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: are vaccine may still get infections that are mild, but again, 534 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: the most important job of vaccines save your life, keep 535 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 1: you out of the hospital. And finally, is it necessary? 536 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 1: How would say yes? And here's why. Because we've lost 537 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,879 Speaker 1: hundreds of kids to COVID in the last couple of years. 538 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,760 Speaker 1: We know that even though kids do better than older adults, 539 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 1: they still get severely ill. We've had thousands of kids 540 00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 1: who have been hospitalized, and when you go to the 541 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 1: hospitals you talk to the doctors about those children, they'll 542 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 1: tell you the vast majority of hospitalized children have not 543 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: been vaccinated. So for all these reasons, you know, to 544 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,239 Speaker 1: protect your child, to protect people around them, because they 545 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,879 Speaker 1: can also spread the infection if they get it. Please 546 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 1: do vaccine your child. That's what I did from my child, 547 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: and it's what I hope you'll consider for you're a 548 00:38:56,200 --> 00:39:00,640 Speaker 1: kid as well. Well. Hey, listen, that's great foration because 549 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 1: it helps dispel the stuff. We're gonna be right back 550 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,920 Speaker 1: with more with doctor Vic Murphy, and we want to 551 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 1: talk about something that was said on CNN uh the 552 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 1: last week to kind of clear that up for everybody. 553 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 1: We'll be right back with doctor Vivic Murphy. You're listening, 554 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 1: all right, We're back everybody in our special guests this 555 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 1: morning is the twenty first Surgeon General of the United States, 556 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,839 Speaker 1: doctor Vivic Murphy, and we were talking we're talking about 557 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 1: the vaccine this morning. And doctor, let me ask you 558 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 1: this because last week on CNN you stated that there's 559 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: been misinformation that has had a profound effect and impact 560 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: on COVID nineteen and our response, how do you plan 561 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 1: to turn this around? We'll see, this has been a 562 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 1: profound problem during this pandemic, and we all know that 563 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: there's always misinformation circulating about something, right. We counter misinformation 564 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 1: on the internet, on social media. Sometimes we get in 565 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: text threats from our friends. But something is different now, 566 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,479 Speaker 1: which is at the speed and the scale and really 567 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,279 Speaker 1: the sophistication with which this misinformation is spreading has really 568 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: increased during COVID and the consequence of that has been 569 00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 1: that many people have been turned away from things like 570 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 1: vaccines or treatments that could save their lives. Some people 571 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 1: have even been led to believe that COVID's not real, 572 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,239 Speaker 1: and we know it's real. So how are we going 573 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 1: to address We've got to do a few things, you know. 574 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: Back in July, I issued a certain Joel's Advisory and 575 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,320 Speaker 1: address and help misinformation. A few months later, I issued 576 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:38,319 Speaker 1: a community toolkit that has concrete, tangible tools people can 577 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,840 Speaker 1: use to identify the misinformation and to address it in 578 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,839 Speaker 1: their lives. So we're going to need individuals, each of us, 579 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 1: to raise the bar on what we share. Sometimes we 580 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: will share information that seems like it's legitimate, we don't 581 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,720 Speaker 1: actually check the sources. But if you check the sources, 582 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 1: you're not sure if something is coming from a credible 583 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,279 Speaker 1: scientific source, and don't share it because there might be misinformation. 584 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 1: We're also working with technology companies and urging them to 585 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 1: take steps to help reduce the spread and misinformation on 586 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,799 Speaker 1: their platforms. That's a place where we're seeing so much 587 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,799 Speaker 1: of this spread, and that's where people are telling us 588 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 1: certain counting misinformation is on social media. So, you know, 589 00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 1: we want people to be able to say what they 590 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,120 Speaker 1: want to say, do what they want to do, but 591 00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: these platforms also have a responsibility to make sure that 592 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: they're not causing harm to people's health, and we're urging 593 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 1: them to step up and take responsibility for what's happening 594 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,800 Speaker 1: on their platforms. So those are some things that we're doing. Finally, 595 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 1: I'll just say we also believe that healthcare providers, doctors, nurses, 596 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,800 Speaker 1: others who are trusting their community, they have such a 597 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 1: vital role to play right now. They've already done so 598 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,000 Speaker 1: much for us during the pandemic, but we want to 599 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,440 Speaker 1: make it easier for them to have their voice out 600 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,839 Speaker 1: there in the community so people can hear directly from 601 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 1: people they know and trust or credible sources. You know, 602 00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:53,000 Speaker 1: the pandemic is also affecting the mental health of both 603 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,440 Speaker 1: young and old. You know, you got loneliness, you've got isolation. 604 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,280 Speaker 1: It can be significant problems for a lot of Americans. 605 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 1: We cause a What are some of the ways to 606 00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,239 Speaker 1: combat that? See, I'm so glad you raised that, because 607 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 1: this is the invisible toll of the pandemic, is the 608 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,840 Speaker 1: impact on our mental health and well being. And the 609 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,399 Speaker 1: thing is all of us have been impacted in some way, 610 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,160 Speaker 1: whether you struggle with mental health concerns before the pandemic 611 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,879 Speaker 1: or not, it's really strained many people's sense of well being. 612 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: Has led to great a rate of anxiety and depression 613 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:28,279 Speaker 1: and loneliness among kids and adults. And so here's what 614 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: we've got to do to address is I think number one, 615 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,799 Speaker 1: we've all got to realize that there is nothing wrong 616 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:37,680 Speaker 1: with you, fundamentally, nothing that says that you're broken or 617 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,520 Speaker 1: that you're flawed in some way. If you're struggling with 618 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,440 Speaker 1: your mental health, we all do at some point. We 619 00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,600 Speaker 1: may not talk about it, but it's if you struggle 620 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,479 Speaker 1: with your mental health, that's more evidence of being human 621 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 1: than anything else, because which is a part of the 622 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,360 Speaker 1: human experience, and there's nothing wrong with reaching out and 623 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,879 Speaker 1: asking for help. For two, we've got to make sure 624 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: that help is there for people when they struggle. Now, 625 00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,280 Speaker 1: we have work to do in increasing access to mental 626 00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,319 Speaker 1: health services and treatment in this country. It's not as 627 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 1: easy to find a therapist, to find the counselor if 628 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,560 Speaker 1: you needed, and we've got to change that. It's one 629 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 1: of the reasons why President By has made big investments 630 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,200 Speaker 1: in getting counselors into schools and why he also talked 631 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 1: about a broader mental health agenda that we're going to 632 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 1: work on for the country to increase access to care. 633 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 1: So you don't have to be therapist or psychiatrist to 634 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 1: be able to help somebody with their mental health. Just 635 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: need to be able to show up in their life 636 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 1: with an open heart, with love and some passion, but 637 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,120 Speaker 1: the willingness to listen to them without judgment and to 638 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,160 Speaker 1: be there and to support them. That is worth its 639 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,440 Speaker 1: weight in gold. See our friendships, our relationships, These are 640 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,279 Speaker 1: the foundation on which we build our mental health and 641 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 1: our overall well being. I believe that's our absolutely well said. 642 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:52,200 Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that personal information. That's doctor Vivic Murphy, everybody, 643 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,440 Speaker 1: twenty five, Sergey General of the United States. We'll be 644 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,040 Speaker 1: back with more Steve Harvid Morning Show right after this. 645 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 1: You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show coming up at the 646 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,120 Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's 647 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today, the subject right situation with 648 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,440 Speaker 1: the wrong man. We'll get into that in just a bit, 649 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,239 Speaker 1: but right now it is time where the nephew and 650 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,840 Speaker 1: today's Frank phone call, Neff, what do you have for 651 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,239 Speaker 1: us today? What's on the man? You can tell me. 652 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 1: Let me get your little sipp and it's stupid right here, 653 00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 1: Come on, get a little sip and it's stupid, all right. 654 00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,279 Speaker 1: Make you feel good and I listen. I know my 655 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,080 Speaker 1: titles might throw you sometimes, and this one right here. 656 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,800 Speaker 1: You know these things happen. You have to be you 657 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 1: have to understand that things happen. All right. So today's 658 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 1: title is I dropped your wife. Okay, I dropped What 659 00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: it can happen? Call I dropped your wife. We're trying 660 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: to make sure everything all right, but hey, I dropped 661 00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:01,320 Speaker 1: your wife? All right? Fellas buck a lot. Hold on, idiot, 662 00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,960 Speaker 1: let's go slow. Hello, I'm trying to reach Tony. This 663 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,120 Speaker 1: is Tony Tony. How you doing this? Is nephew Tommy. 664 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: Hey you Tommy. I can't believe you're calling me. Okay, 665 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 1: you sent an email and to prank your eye? Yes, 666 00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, I sent that like months ago. I 667 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,560 Speaker 1: didn't think you were going to call me. Yes, I'm 668 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:27,840 Speaker 1: calling you. Naw Hong, y'all been married eight years? Okay, 669 00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,400 Speaker 1: that's my heart. Okay, let me ask you something. What 670 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 1: makes your husband just go off? What can I do that? 671 00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 1: You know there's a button for him that you don't 672 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: want to push anything that has to do with me. 673 00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,920 Speaker 1: Let me tell you he is crazy about me. If 674 00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,399 Speaker 1: anybody mess with me, if anybody tries to go off 675 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,920 Speaker 1: on me, he will lose it. Okay, okay, oh what 676 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,400 Speaker 1: are we gonna do? What? I'm so excited? Oh my god? 677 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,720 Speaker 1: All right, okay, you know what? You know what? Okay, 678 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,360 Speaker 1: take this out? Okay? Can you click over on a 679 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: three way? Can you call him? Okay, I can hold 680 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 1: it from my phone. Is gonna be on the phone right, yeah. 681 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,239 Speaker 1: I want I want him to think that I got 682 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,759 Speaker 1: your phone. Okay, I'll tell you what. You just click 683 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 1: on and get him on the lone. Just click over 684 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 1: so when you click back, you can't say nothing. Now, 685 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 1: you got to be quiet because I'm gonna at the end, 686 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you talk to him. Okay, okay, hold 687 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:23,840 Speaker 1: on there, I'm here, okaying, all right, you're hitting you 688 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:29,320 Speaker 1: to something? Okay, okay, okay, Hey, what's up? Uh no? This? 689 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,800 Speaker 1: This how you is? This? Is this? Darren? Yeah? This 690 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,880 Speaker 1: Darrenel was this? Uh hey, we gotta build of a 691 00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,000 Speaker 1: situation with with Tony Man. We got a situation for real. 692 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 1: You just my white phone who is this? This? Uh? Actually, 693 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 1: who is this? We're trying to get Uh, Tony actually 694 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,000 Speaker 1: twisted our ankle, man, so we gotta get her to 695 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,320 Speaker 1: the emergency room and get her checked out. She twisted 696 00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,640 Speaker 1: her ankle? Howd you twisted? Wait? Wait, wait, wait back? 697 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,719 Speaker 1: Who who did you say? Who is this? How did 698 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:59,839 Speaker 1: Tony twist her ankle? Actually? She she she fell? And man, look, look, 699 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 1: my wife is with her mom right now. Who who 700 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,400 Speaker 1: and who are you? Howd you twister her ankle? And 701 00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 1: why are you calling me? Why isn't her mother somebody 702 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,960 Speaker 1: calling me? Who is this? You never told me her name? Bro? No, 703 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,040 Speaker 1: I'm a friend. Man, shit, didn't fall? I actually dropped her? 704 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,360 Speaker 1: How you how did you drop her? What do you 705 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,240 Speaker 1: mean you dropped her? We had a couple of drinks 706 00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 1: at the hotel, man, And she say, wait wait wait hotel? 707 00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,200 Speaker 1: There you mean the hotel? My wife's polled to be 708 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,680 Speaker 1: over her mom's house. Now you calling me from her 709 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,440 Speaker 1: phone talking about you dropped her, y'all at some hotel. 710 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:31,840 Speaker 1: But why y'all even at the hotel? What hell are 711 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 1: you talking about? A hotel? Bro? What is my wife? 712 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,719 Speaker 1: Where's Tony? Why? Well? Why ain't Tony on the phone. 713 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:41,400 Speaker 1: Why you gotta call you gotta calm down. You calling 714 00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,800 Speaker 1: me from my wife phone? Tell my she hurt? You 715 00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,839 Speaker 1: dropped her y'all at the hotel. She's spoke Mom's house. Bro, 716 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,759 Speaker 1: where's my wife? Man? Sees it? Tony, I got it, 717 00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:51,680 Speaker 1: I got it. Just hang on so Tony, I got 718 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 1: put on the waters on the phone. Man. Hey, dude, 719 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,560 Speaker 1: just I need you to come down see him. I 720 00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:59,080 Speaker 1: know I'm now you're talking abou y'all about to go 721 00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,440 Speaker 1: to the emergency room. You dropped my wife, y'all at 722 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,919 Speaker 1: the hotel. Dog keeps putting my tip for the phone 723 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 1: before y'all be in the emergency room. Hey, man, listen, 724 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 1: you gotta calm down. Tony already embarrassed. Dude, I don't 725 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 1: even know who the hell you are. You still ain't 726 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,880 Speaker 1: telling men. Put Tony on the phone. I'm gonna listen. Man, 727 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,440 Speaker 1: you gotta chill out. Man, I'm just for playing, okay, Man, 728 00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm a friend. But tell you what. I'll tell you 729 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,879 Speaker 1: what put in the emergency room. Tell me where y'all 730 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:22,799 Speaker 1: lt I come to the hotel. I get my own 731 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,960 Speaker 1: white and taking wherever she needs to know. Tell me 732 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 1: where we As soon as Tony get dressed, man, I'm 733 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 1: gonna get her there, okay, as soon as she gets dressed. 734 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 1: What do you mean? Hey man? Real talk? Where y'all 735 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,799 Speaker 1: lat man? Where are you putting Tony on the phone? Man? 736 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 1: I'm not putting Tony on YouTube? Alright? Man? Why are 737 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: you screaming at hall? And dude? I swear to guy. 738 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,759 Speaker 1: I swear to guy. If I find out where y'all left, 739 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come with her. It's gonna be once for 740 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,840 Speaker 1: you at Tony. Hey, hey, man, where y'all laugh? For us? 741 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,719 Speaker 1: I'm cool where y'all last? Sell me where y'all laugh? No, No, 742 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Man. I'm gonna get Tony's ankle 743 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,800 Speaker 1: taking care of and we'll get somebody to drop a 744 00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,799 Speaker 1: back off at the house. Okay, take I'll drop off 745 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:01,440 Speaker 1: at the house. Man. Just get me where y'all at. 746 00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:02,960 Speaker 1: I want to come get my wife. I want to 747 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:04,400 Speaker 1: make sure she get the treatment that she need. Bro 748 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 1: getting where y'all at, don't go no where. I want 749 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:07,759 Speaker 1: you to be there when I come and get it. 750 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:09,560 Speaker 1: Don't go no where where y'all at. I can't do it. 751 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,799 Speaker 1: I mean, we don't it's on you on the phone. 752 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,359 Speaker 1: MANU put my wife. I'm not listening. Let me talk 753 00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 1: to my wife. Bro. Hey, man, it's the reason why 754 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 1: I'm calling. Man. She embarrassed about all of this, and 755 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 1: she gonna be bored than brass. Want they okay, this 756 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 1: is cool. Ain't to tell ain't gonna need to be embarrassed. 757 00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,160 Speaker 1: I love them, man, that's my girl. Man. Let me 758 00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,960 Speaker 1: let me hollight my wife. Bro. Please, that's all. No, no, no, 759 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,320 Speaker 1: I already no wife phone bro. Listen, dude, let me 760 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 1: look real talk. You still ain't tell me who you want? 761 00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:36,439 Speaker 1: All I know it's you calling me telling my choice. 762 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 1: I don't tell us with my wife. He put us. 763 00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Don't don't let the lord 764 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,160 Speaker 1: that ankle woul him. You say it's wrong of my wife. 765 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,919 Speaker 1: Get your whoops. Dog. I'm telling you. When I further 766 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,400 Speaker 1: who you are, I'm fusting you. Put my wife on 767 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,920 Speaker 1: the phone. Man. That's all because my last time ask you, dog, 768 00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,440 Speaker 1: I promise just hey, heyne see you too. I'll write man, 769 00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,799 Speaker 1: you call right. Don't want my wife on the phone, bro, 770 00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,520 Speaker 1: that's all I'm saying. Are you gonna lead time? That's 771 00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,719 Speaker 1: what I'm you got to leave town, my man. You 772 00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: gotta leave down. You want to do? Who you want 773 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 1: to talk? Let Tony decide if she want to talk 774 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,279 Speaker 1: to you or not? Okay, here put decide Tony? Do 775 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 1: you want do you want to do? You want to 776 00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 1: talk on? Don't even ask? I ain't man. You'll see 777 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:23,120 Speaker 1: what Tony want to do on the phone. A man, baby, pull, 778 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,239 Speaker 1: I don't even know you. Man, put on the phone? 779 00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,799 Speaker 1: You you schedu tid me? Your name? Tony? You want 780 00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,480 Speaker 1: to talk to him? Hell? Yes, you want to talk 781 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 1: to me? Man, I don't even no idea. She bashing 782 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: on jump question you're the phone? I phone Tony? She 783 00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:41,080 Speaker 1: is man? Yeah, hey, baby, cray baby, go on? Baby? 784 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 1: Who Tony? Tony? Look, I ain't I don't have time 785 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 1: for games. Where you ask? Who you went? That's all 786 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,880 Speaker 1: you gotta hill me? Baby, just calmed down. I got 787 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 1: something to you, Tony. Are you listen to me? Baby? 788 00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 1: You gotta listen to me. I'm listening. Are you listening, yes, 789 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,359 Speaker 1: listen to me real carefully? Okay, where are you at, Tony? Baby? 790 00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: Are you listening to me? Yes, I'm listening. Maybe you 791 00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 1: just got prank my nephew I'm laughing right now. I 792 00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:19,080 Speaker 1: love you. Yeah, okay, girl, that's cool. You got me, 793 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:24,120 Speaker 1: you got me. Huh, you're proud of that? I am 794 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:28,160 Speaker 1: what am I proud? And some of your best work. 795 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:34,880 Speaker 1: I am elated my work. Oh, he was mad, he 796 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 1: was hot hot. You got my wife phone and you 797 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:46,960 Speaker 1: own it. I don't. Oh, I was nervous all the 798 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,360 Speaker 1: way through that one. I don't know that one was 799 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,279 Speaker 1: gone and I ain't man, no moment with my wife. Man, 800 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,360 Speaker 1: let me just oh, I know that I know that 801 00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 1: trick right there. I know that trick. No, no, no, 802 00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 1: I'm cool. I'm cool this one. My wife on the phone. No, 803 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:01,799 Speaker 1: we we But I want you to be there when 804 00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:03,319 Speaker 1: I get that on. I need you to be there too. 805 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:10,600 Speaker 1: By baby, Hey baby, what who the hell is that? 806 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,680 Speaker 1: That's a great stupid feeling this morning on that great 807 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:19,040 Speaker 1: getting up stupid it's the nephew. What you see? Hey? Tommy? Man? 808 00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 1: Your question? Were you over joy over joy oval, exhilarated? What? What? 809 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,600 Speaker 1: What big word can I get? I was all that excited. 810 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:38,600 Speaker 1: That's the word. Well, most big words, most words is 811 00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:47,680 Speaker 1: big to you. That's fighting a lot, exciterrating, I was 812 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 1: excitating rating. You got you gotta admit on that home 813 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 1: run right there. What that right there was ignoranty? It's 814 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:02,719 Speaker 1: best man put a stamp on my stupid for me. Man, 815 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:04,839 Speaker 1: I saw what I want from you. Give me credibility 816 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:10,399 Speaker 1: of my stupid that you got on your radio. Look, 817 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:12,959 Speaker 1: we gotta move on to the Strawberry letter that's coming 818 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 1: up next. The subject is right situation with the wrong Man. 819 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,360 Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to 820 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:25,480 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show all right time now for 821 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:31,000 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 822 00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 823 00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,920 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 824 00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,399 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 825 00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you 826 00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:46,960 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours could be. Buckle up 827 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:48,719 Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you here. 828 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:54,840 Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry letter subject right situation with the 829 00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:58,560 Speaker 1: wrong Man. You're Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty nine year 830 00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,360 Speaker 1: old woman and I've been dating the greatest man on 831 00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:04,520 Speaker 1: earth for about four months. I wanted to do things 832 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,879 Speaker 1: right this time because I could see myself marrying this man. 833 00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:10,360 Speaker 1: He said he knew I was going to be his 834 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,960 Speaker 1: wife the moment he laid eyes on me. It was 835 00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,920 Speaker 1: his idea to wait to have sex, and it was 836 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,959 Speaker 1: him that spoiled me with gifts, moonlit walks, and home 837 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,880 Speaker 1: cooked meals. He said he wanted me to fall in 838 00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:26,319 Speaker 1: love with his personality and enjoy spending time with him 839 00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 1: before we even got into having sex. Everything was going 840 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 1: so fast and I wanted to be with him all 841 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,719 Speaker 1: the time. So as soon as he asked me to 842 00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 1: move in, I made plans to make it happen. Then 843 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,840 Speaker 1: one day my intuition kicked in and I hit the 844 00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: pause button. I decided I needed to have sex, see 845 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,560 Speaker 1: him naked, or at least rub upon him before I 846 00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,399 Speaker 1: went any further with him. I was in the habit 847 00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,880 Speaker 1: of sleeping with the guy soon after I met him, 848 00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,120 Speaker 1: so this was odd for me, but I was trying 849 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 1: to do things differently this time. I at least needed 850 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,880 Speaker 1: to see it. When I started grabbing forward playfully, he 851 00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 1: would pull away and tell me to take it easy. 852 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,840 Speaker 1: He always slept on his stomach so I couldn't touch it. 853 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,200 Speaker 1: One Saturday morning, I decided to get a bobby pin 854 00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:18,160 Speaker 1: and unlock the bathroom door while he was in the 855 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:22,080 Speaker 1: shower and pretend to be a sexy, naked burglar. I 856 00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:26,600 Speaker 1: had planned to seduce him, and it worked well almost. 857 00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,440 Speaker 1: He was shocked and he was amused. I was not. 858 00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 1: I jumped in the shower and got the worst possible outcome. 859 00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:39,640 Speaker 1: This man falls short, very short of what I was expecting. 860 00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:42,640 Speaker 1: It was quite an ordeal in that shower, and nothing 861 00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,759 Speaker 1: about it was good. Now I'm planning to move in 862 00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 1: with a man that doesn't measure up down there? Would 863 00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:52,200 Speaker 1: I be silly to leave him over this? Well? I mean, 864 00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 1: you know what, can we say? You have a problem 865 00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 1: because this is not what you want and we can't 866 00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,800 Speaker 1: fix this for you. You can fix this, and of 867 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,320 Speaker 1: course that depends on how important all of this is 868 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:08,400 Speaker 1: to you and what you want. It should be important, though, 869 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,719 Speaker 1: because sex is vital and relationships and in marriage, and 870 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:15,040 Speaker 1: you guys are planning to marry one day. But again, 871 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,839 Speaker 1: what do you want? Do you want a great man 872 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 1: in every aspect except in the bedroom, or a man 873 00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,759 Speaker 1: who knows how to make you his sex slave but 874 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:27,239 Speaker 1: treat you like crap everywhere else? Those are your kind 875 00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,839 Speaker 1: of your choices? Does size matter or does character matter? 876 00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:35,200 Speaker 1: Will you eventually cheat on him? You know you you 877 00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,640 Speaker 1: know what you can and what you cannot live with. 878 00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:39,800 Speaker 1: So if you don't think you're in this for the 879 00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 1: long haul, which includes living together and eventually marriage and 880 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,800 Speaker 1: of course sex with this man, who you say falls short, 881 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,320 Speaker 1: it's better to end it now than to ignore the 882 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:51,800 Speaker 1: problem and move in with him. I think it's selfish 883 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,520 Speaker 1: if you don't let him know how you really feel. 884 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,480 Speaker 1: He's probably thinking he's got it going on because no 885 00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:58,759 Speaker 1: one cares enough to tell him he's bad and bad 886 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 1: you understand that it's much easier to walk away. But 887 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,880 Speaker 1: if he's a good person, tell him and teach him 888 00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:07,399 Speaker 1: how to love you. Of course, you know you can't 889 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:11,719 Speaker 1: do anything about the size, Steve to teach him with 890 00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:17,440 Speaker 1: what you just said, teach him how to love you. 891 00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:25,440 Speaker 1: My question is teach him with what. We're in a 892 00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:29,640 Speaker 1: painting class, and it ain't got nothing but to have 893 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:35,120 Speaker 1: on the brush. We don't have to handle. We just 894 00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:39,320 Speaker 1: got brush ham we need to handle if we're gonna 895 00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 1: take the art class. Surely I listened to your answer, 896 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 1: and I can't dispute anything you said, sweetheart, because you 897 00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:55,080 Speaker 1: tried to help a person I know going into this letter, 898 00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:02,160 Speaker 1: I can't help her. I'm telling you right off, I 899 00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:08,280 Speaker 1: know nothing about this. As a matter of fact, I've 900 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:12,919 Speaker 1: had a direct opposite problem. Mind tid damn life here 901 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 1: where he so I ain't sorry, Uncle Steve can't help you, 902 00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:22,480 Speaker 1: but let me try. Well, I don't know if I'm 903 00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,120 Speaker 1: gonna help you. I'm just gonna point out a couple 904 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 1: of things. I've been dating the great guy four months. 905 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:28,360 Speaker 1: You want to do things the right way, so you 906 00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:32,480 Speaker 1: could see yourself. Man, this man he told you knew 907 00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 1: he's gonna be your wife. You was gonna be his 908 00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:38,520 Speaker 1: wife at the moment he saw you. It was his 909 00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:44,040 Speaker 1: idea to wait to have sex. And it was him 910 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 1: that spawled me with Gilts because he knows what the 911 00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:55,280 Speaker 1: problem is and he trying to get out in front 912 00:58:55,320 --> 00:59:01,160 Speaker 1: of it. Let me spawl you with gifts. Don't worry 913 00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:08,240 Speaker 1: about that sex thing. I want to marry you. I'm 914 00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 1: spoiling you with Gilts. We're going to moon and walk, 915 00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,680 Speaker 1: we home cook. You ain't got to cook a damn thing. 916 00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 1: I am your everything because in a minute, I ain't 917 00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:25,520 Speaker 1: gonna be a damn thing one more time, one more time. 918 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:30,400 Speaker 1: I am going to be your everything because I ain't 919 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,840 Speaker 1: gonna be a damn thing. And he know it's coming. 920 00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:38,080 Speaker 1: He said he wanted you to fall in love with 921 00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:44,800 Speaker 1: his personality. What man says that, m I want you 922 00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:47,760 Speaker 1: to start it and fall in love with my personality. 923 00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:52,160 Speaker 1: I never said that, said no one ever. I've been 924 00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:54,360 Speaker 1: fund in my whole life. You don't like my my 925 00:59:54,560 --> 01:00:02,360 Speaker 1: personality going to marriage dry asking well when we come back, No, 926 01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:07,000 Speaker 1: the truth comes out, all right. Part two of Steve's 927 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,800 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes. Have to be 928 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:14,280 Speaker 1: our subject right situation wrong man will get back into 929 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:20,080 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, all right? Come on, Steve, 930 01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:25,200 Speaker 1: let's recapt today's strawberry letter. This subject right situation, wrong man, 931 01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,240 Speaker 1: Lady Ben dating the greatest man on earth for about 932 01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:31,560 Speaker 1: four months. I wanted to do things right this time 933 01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,240 Speaker 1: because you can see yourself man and this man as 934 01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,479 Speaker 1: a matter of fact, when he saw you, he said 935 01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:39,640 Speaker 1: he knew he wanted you to be his wife the 936 01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:42,600 Speaker 1: moment he laid eyes on you, and it was his idea. 937 01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:45,600 Speaker 1: Now listen to this now to wait to have sex. 938 01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,960 Speaker 1: And it was him. That's far me week gives. The 939 01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:54,320 Speaker 1: reason being is because he was willing to give you 940 01:00:54,920 --> 01:01:00,760 Speaker 1: everything because in a minute he wasn't gonna be damn thing. 941 01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:08,760 Speaker 1: We're going to share everything for not a damn right. 942 01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:15,840 Speaker 1: All we on moonlit walks, this boy cooking food at 943 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:18,680 Speaker 1: the house. He had probably went to chef school. He 944 01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:22,640 Speaker 1: didn't had to her up and develop all kinds of skill. Said, 945 01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:25,720 Speaker 1: he wanted you to fall in love with his personality 946 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:29,160 Speaker 1: and enjoy spending time with him before y'all got into 947 01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,960 Speaker 1: having sex. Why because that ain't gonna be a damn thing. 948 01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:38,000 Speaker 1: So fall in love with my wonderful personality he mean 949 01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,960 Speaker 1: lit walks. All this cooking smalling you with gives diamonds. 950 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:46,600 Speaker 1: Everything was going fast. I wanted to be with him 951 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,920 Speaker 1: all the time. So then when he asked you to 952 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 1: move in with him, you made plans to make it 953 01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:58,600 Speaker 1: happen in one day. This thing that all women have 954 01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:02,960 Speaker 1: that they often time times ignore, this thing called intuition, 955 01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:09,480 Speaker 1: kicked in and I hit the pause. But I decided 956 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: I needed to have sex, see him naked, or at 957 01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:17,680 Speaker 1: least rub up on him before I went in. It 958 01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:32,640 Speaker 1: further slipping away from me Shoda see on earthquakes. I 959 01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:39,520 Speaker 1: g page hilarious. Really, so I decided I needed to 960 01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:44,000 Speaker 1: have sex see him naked, or at least rub up 961 01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:47,480 Speaker 1: on him before I went any further. Because see, I 962 01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,200 Speaker 1: was in the habit of sleeping with a guy soon 963 01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,200 Speaker 1: after I met him. So this was odd for me. 964 01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:55,040 Speaker 1: You know, I usually had my old you know, blankish 965 01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,720 Speaker 1: tendencies was out. But I decided not to have my 966 01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:03,240 Speaker 1: blankish tendencies out. You know, I at least needed to 967 01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:09,480 Speaker 1: see it. I started grabbing for it playfully. He would 968 01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:13,200 Speaker 1: pull away and tell me to take it easy, because 969 01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:18,480 Speaker 1: you don't realize you grabbing for nothing. You don't know 970 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:20,640 Speaker 1: that you damn they're gonna have to tell a fabric 971 01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 1: off my plants to discover anything. I ain't got nothing 972 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,400 Speaker 1: for you right now. Even when they get ready, it 973 01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 1: ain't gonna look ready. It simply means the word a 974 01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:40,840 Speaker 1: ten hut simply means huh, yeah, that's that's your man. 975 01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:44,920 Speaker 1: Gotta biggest, small got a problem. I'm just telling you what. 976 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:52,120 Speaker 1: I biggest small got a problem. See he big with gifts, personality, cooking, 977 01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:57,720 Speaker 1: moon lid walks bigger, but he's small down there. He 978 01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:00,400 Speaker 1: would always sleep on his stomach, so I couldn't touch it. 979 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:02,520 Speaker 1: I can't sleep on my stomach. That's one of the 980 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,640 Speaker 1: reasons I can't sleep on my store. Throw my back 981 01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:10,520 Speaker 1: out every chance you did. You bring that up right, 982 01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:17,200 Speaker 1: It'll be like sleeping on a little hill. Okay, No, 983 01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm not not yet. So he was in the shower. 984 01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:25,680 Speaker 1: I wanted to go in that neck and and pretend 985 01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:29,200 Speaker 1: to be a sex at burglar. I was gonna seduce him, 986 01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:33,680 Speaker 1: and it worked well almost. He was shocked in the muse. 987 01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 1: I was not. I jumped into show and got the 988 01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:40,720 Speaker 1: worst possible outcome. This man falls short, very short of 989 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 1: what I was expected. It was quite an ordeal in 990 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,640 Speaker 1: that shower, and nothing a body was good. Now I'm 991 01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:48,720 Speaker 1: planning to move in with a man that don't measure 992 01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:51,240 Speaker 1: up down? Now? Would I be silly to leave him 993 01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:55,000 Speaker 1: over this? Well? Shirley said, you got to measure all 994 01:04:55,040 --> 01:05:00,040 Speaker 1: the stuff that he had when he don't have. I 995 01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:02,680 Speaker 1: never heard these things right here. I'm used to hearing 996 01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:10,439 Speaker 1: stuff like wait, wait, wait, okay, these are things I've 997 01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:18,560 Speaker 1: heard enough already. I've heard stuff like Lord, I've heard 998 01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:26,240 Speaker 1: stuff like you gotta stop stop. I've heard how much more, 999 01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:38,640 Speaker 1: and you now how much more? I've heard. I can't 1000 01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:45,600 Speaker 1: take all. This letter is not about you. I've heard. 1001 01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:48,600 Speaker 1: Give me, give me, give me a minute, give me 1002 01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:57,880 Speaker 1: a minute. Wait. You must prefer things over think. That's 1003 01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:03,160 Speaker 1: what we're dealing with. To hell things over thing or 1004 01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:07,240 Speaker 1: you can get things and nothing. All right, you got 1005 01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:12,400 Speaker 1: the makeup decision. Things over things, thing over things. It's 1006 01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:15,400 Speaker 1: her decision, that's for sure. Thank you, Steve. Post your 1007 01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:21,160 Speaker 1: comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey Come and Facebook. 1008 01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:24,600 Speaker 1: Are you check? Just walk in the room and say 1009 01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:33,040 Speaker 1: to him, Hi, man. Coming up in forty six minutes 1010 01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:35,840 Speaker 1: after the hour, Junior and Sports Talk right after this. 1011 01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:40,960 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1012 01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:45,200 Speaker 1: for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior what you got? All right? Everybody? 1013 01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 1: The biggest news and sports right now. Tom Brady is 1014 01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:51,959 Speaker 1: unretiring and coming back. He said, these past two months, 1015 01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,640 Speaker 1: I realize my place is still on the field and 1016 01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,280 Speaker 1: not in the stands. That time will come, but it's 1017 01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,200 Speaker 1: not now. I love my teammates, and I love my supportively. 1018 01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,440 Speaker 1: They make it all possible. I'm coming back for my 1019 01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:07,240 Speaker 1: twenty third season in Tampa. Unfinished business. LFG Man, I 1020 01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:11,840 Speaker 1: know hunt thing. The dude that bought Tom Raider's last 1021 01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 1: football that he threw four touchdown, caught five hundred and 1022 01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:23,040 Speaker 1: eighteen thousand, and the next day he unretired. Did you 1023 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:28,400 Speaker 1: get your money back? Wow? You can't get you that's 1024 01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:31,439 Speaker 1: a loss because he fold to throw another one from 1025 01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:35,760 Speaker 1: now your man, that's out. That's what you're stupid ass. 1026 01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:41,600 Speaker 1: That's a lot of money. Yeah, sports member, damn ball 1027 01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:46,120 Speaker 1: ain't even one hundred dollars. You could have just bought 1028 01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:52,480 Speaker 1: one and said time through it. How are your line skilled? Yeah, 1029 01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,360 Speaker 1: that's a motter fact. I'm going to go down. I've 1030 01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:58,840 Speaker 1: been to go down to Dick Sporting Good. I could 1031 01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:02,560 Speaker 1: have had the first one he ever threw. Yeah, the 1032 01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:06,320 Speaker 1: first one he threw to a white person. I'm having 1033 01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:10,840 Speaker 1: first touchdown he threw to a black person. I'm gonnah 1034 01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:13,280 Speaker 1: the one that they took the aut of in that 1035 01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:23,080 Speaker 1: playoff game. Yeah, and buy all of just lying man, 1036 01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:26,240 Speaker 1: welcome back Tom Man. I know that, But then you 1037 01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:29,280 Speaker 1: know what, dude look like he can get. He just 1038 01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:36,280 Speaker 1: left not even surprised. Yeah, they say he was getting 1039 01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:41,640 Speaker 1: on Jazale's nerves. Somebody said it over tied because the 1040 01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:46,360 Speaker 1: gas prices went up. I like him want to I 1041 01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:48,120 Speaker 1: don't think he ever wanted to quit. He went home 1042 01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:50,599 Speaker 1: and actually won the argument. That's what happened. He went 1043 01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:53,640 Speaker 1: home to run arguments so he could play again. I 1044 01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,600 Speaker 1: think he went home and found out what it was 1045 01:08:56,720 --> 01:09:05,360 Speaker 1: really like to be home, to go to rehearsal. Pradity. Yeah, daddy, daddy, 1046 01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:12,840 Speaker 1: can we go now when it's your turn, sweetie. That's 1047 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:15,280 Speaker 1: just what being at home is about. I'm fit to 1048 01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:18,800 Speaker 1: fix this. Go back just feels what I'm fisy to do. 1049 01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:21,800 Speaker 1: When you return, if you're gonna be through with it, 1050 01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:27,160 Speaker 1: what everything? When you retire, dog, it's gonna be the 1051 01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:29,479 Speaker 1: sweetest return dogs, Like when I walk away from Stand 1052 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:31,880 Speaker 1: up Dog. One thing about me, Man, when I go, 1053 01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:35,280 Speaker 1: I'm gone. I'm not going to come back on the 1054 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:42,120 Speaker 1: radio show. Comeback on when you're done. You're as yes 1055 01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:45,880 Speaker 1: it man. Welcome back to all right, Junior. Thank you. 1056 01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:48,880 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Kim Kardashian 1057 01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:52,120 Speaker 1: receives backlash for her advice to women. We'll talk about 1058 01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:59,560 Speaker 1: that right after this you're listening show. Well, Kim Kardashian 1059 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:03,519 Speaker 1: is seving some backlash for her advice to women. In 1060 01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:06,519 Speaker 1: a recent interview with Variety magazine, Kim said, I have 1061 01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:10,600 Speaker 1: the best advice for women in business, get your blanking 1062 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:15,400 Speaker 1: a up and work. It seems like nobody wants to 1063 01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:19,560 Speaker 1: work these days. Well after saying that, it prompted a 1064 01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 1: whole lot of backlash for Kim. People were posting comments 1065 01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,679 Speaker 1: on social media. One follower said, so they are women 1066 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,080 Speaker 1: out here who work really hard, and those with fewer 1067 01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:31,800 Speaker 1: economic advantages than you have are not just working hard enough, 1068 01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:35,559 Speaker 1: and they are to blame for their misfortune. Question mark. 1069 01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:39,160 Speaker 1: Multiple people posted, Kim, you grew up in Beverly Hills 1070 01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: with successful parents. You are out of touch. Has several seats, Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1071 01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:51,120 Speaker 1: they let her have it. Yeah, they let her have it. 1072 01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:54,840 Speaker 1: So do you think Kim's remarks were insensitive? Steve? What 1073 01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:57,160 Speaker 1: are you saying? What do you well? She just didn't 1074 01:10:57,160 --> 01:11:00,120 Speaker 1: take the time to think it out. When you when 1075 01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:03,360 Speaker 1: you make a broad, sweeping remark about women and the 1076 01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:06,839 Speaker 1: problem with most women, which is not a true statement. 1077 01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:10,320 Speaker 1: Most women are really really working their tails off, I mean, 1078 01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:15,439 Speaker 1: putting it all in. Most women. A lot of women 1079 01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:19,840 Speaker 1: are trying with everything, especially with the resources that they have, 1080 01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:23,880 Speaker 1: which will take a little bit longer. I'm here to 1081 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,679 Speaker 1: tell you that when you come from nothing to turn 1082 01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:30,240 Speaker 1: that into something, it's a longer journey than if you 1083 01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:34,679 Speaker 1: start with something turning it. Turning something into some mode 1084 01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:42,720 Speaker 1: is way easier than turning nothing into something, trust me, 1085 01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:48,479 Speaker 1: when you ain't below the old yes, see, if we 1086 01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:54,200 Speaker 1: could all start equally, that be a great conversation. But 1087 01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:59,120 Speaker 1: we don't get to start, even most of us. And 1088 01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:03,000 Speaker 1: and you know, like first first man, when you're just 1089 01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:05,439 Speaker 1: trying to get to the surface so you can breathe 1090 01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:09,000 Speaker 1: skip getting on the starting line. I just I'm trying 1091 01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:11,200 Speaker 1: to tread water so I can get my nose about 1092 01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:14,800 Speaker 1: so I can breathe. That's an accomplishment right there. That's 1093 01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:19,160 Speaker 1: why you can't judge success by where a person is 1094 01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:23,719 Speaker 1: in life. You judge your success by where a person started. 1095 01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:28,799 Speaker 1: Light See, it's the starting point, man. That's the cold 1096 01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,560 Speaker 1: part about this man. That's why, man, you gotta have 1097 01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:35,639 Speaker 1: people with stories to tell. You know, like Donald Trump, 1098 01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:39,320 Speaker 1: I became a billionaire because my dad gave all of 1099 01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:43,439 Speaker 1: us a million dollars. True statement, true statement that he made. 1100 01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:47,120 Speaker 1: But that's a million open. Here's the part that he 1101 01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:53,120 Speaker 1: didn't left out when his father passed and left all 1102 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:58,799 Speaker 1: that money, those children split that money too, Rumor says. 1103 01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:03,519 Speaker 1: Rumor says that he left eight hundred million and each 1104 01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:07,120 Speaker 1: child got two hundred millions. I am here to do 1105 01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:10,560 Speaker 1: right there to tell you that I can make it 1106 01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:17,000 Speaker 1: from there. The good news. Right. But now, if you're 1107 01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:21,760 Speaker 1: from the background and you don't even have you don't 1108 01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:24,840 Speaker 1: have any money, you don't have a parent that can 1109 01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:27,200 Speaker 1: give you money that let's say, they can give you 1110 01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:31,040 Speaker 1: just love and guidance. Yeah, because they don't have money. 1111 01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:35,920 Speaker 1: That's it. That's all they can give you, loving guidance. Yeah, yeah, 1112 01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:39,200 Speaker 1: that's it. Now you got to go from there. Yeah, 1113 01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:43,360 Speaker 1: ain't nothing wrong with that, But that's a different starting 1114 01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:46,920 Speaker 1: point then your dad is a lawyer and your mom 1115 01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:49,400 Speaker 1: is a celebrity. That's a little bit different starting point. 1116 01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:52,519 Speaker 1: And I just think she missed it. I think Kim 1117 01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:56,200 Speaker 1: was trying to be encouraging, but I think it's just 1118 01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:59,719 Speaker 1: because she really is a cool person. Yeah, she seems 1119 01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:04,520 Speaker 1: to be facts her respect their hustle, the cards. Absolutely, 1120 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:07,479 Speaker 1: nobody's hating on that. But when she said that part, 1121 01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:10,799 Speaker 1: it's like you've never been without, so you can't judge 1122 01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:17,080 Speaker 1: that song would Yeah yeah, Steve, Yeah yeah, that start 1123 01:14:17,160 --> 01:14:21,479 Speaker 1: point is everything, don't Yeah, I gotta tell you boy 1124 01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:28,680 Speaker 1: who absolutely absolutely that damn below zero Whoo. That's a 1125 01:14:28,800 --> 01:14:32,320 Speaker 1: hard asshole right there to come out of. You're right, 1126 01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:35,400 Speaker 1: You're right. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1127 01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:37,640 Speaker 1: Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right after this, 1128 01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:44,759 Speaker 1: you're listening to show. So, um, you got a question 1129 01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:47,600 Speaker 1: for everyone. How are you doing with the spring forward 1130 01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:50,160 Speaker 1: and the time and all that. Have you adjusted to 1131 01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 1: the time? Are you still off a little bit? Oh, Steve, 1132 01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:56,240 Speaker 1: here's something for you. Take a listen to this real quick. 1133 01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:10,960 Speaker 1: You don't even understand. That's my jail, Steve and Junior 1134 01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:20,880 Speaker 1: living away from me. Yeah, singing that all morning because 1135 01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:26,800 Speaker 1: that's my jail. Don't Junior's problem was, he asked me. 1136 01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:30,839 Speaker 1: Junior says, um, why do you put so much feeling 1137 01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:37,000 Speaker 1: into it? Is not the note that matters, it's the emotions, 1138 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:41,200 Speaker 1: and I can these are professional singer. This is Kathy 1139 01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:45,880 Speaker 1: and Joejoe play it again from the days. Sitting away 1140 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:57,840 Speaker 1: from me has nothing to do with the note. He 1141 01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:04,920 Speaker 1: so when I I'm in there looking away from me, 1142 01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:13,120 Speaker 1: that's the feeling man spring for al right, thank you 1143 01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:17,519 Speaker 1: for Casey and Joe Joe for that's the juniors group. 1144 01:16:17,640 --> 01:16:21,320 Speaker 1: Juniors group coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour. Yeah, 1145 01:16:21,439 --> 01:16:23,760 Speaker 1: and they sound good on tour. We'll have a round 1146 01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:26,800 Speaker 1: of would you rather right after this. You're listening to 1147 01:16:28,040 --> 01:16:31,679 Speaker 1: morning show time for would you rather? Would you rather 1148 01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:37,599 Speaker 1: eat rotten eggs or drink sour milk? Yeah? You can 1149 01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:41,280 Speaker 1: all that up. Man, I'm gonna go with that sour milk. 1150 01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:46,760 Speaker 1: That's that's close to butter milk. Yeah, okay, yeah, my 1151 01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:49,000 Speaker 1: sister would take that. That rotten is Hey, you got 1152 01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:55,160 Speaker 1: problem though, Come on, junior, what you got Yeah, I'm 1153 01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:59,120 Speaker 1: gonna go with the sour milk. I can't. I've had 1154 01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:01,640 Speaker 1: bad milk. Well, I poured it on seal before and 1155 01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:04,439 Speaker 1: knew it was silent. But that's all that's all you 1156 01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:07,639 Speaker 1: had had. And I'd be damned if I was gonna 1157 01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 1: let my crazy here daddy see me rate that in 1158 01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:20,040 Speaker 1: the trash. Whoa, oh you're throwing away food now? Oh 1159 01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:27,479 Speaker 1: oh you're buying groceries. You got money? Okay, all right, 1160 01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:31,560 Speaker 1: moving up? Do we hear from the nephew, No, no, 1161 01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:37,280 Speaker 1: you did, and move on. No pick one trash with 1162 01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:43,439 Speaker 1: that seal. I'll tell you what your dad, I guess something. 1163 01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:46,120 Speaker 1: I gotta follow them because I don't want the egg. 1164 01:17:46,200 --> 01:17:49,479 Speaker 1: I gotta go with the milk. Anyway it is, I'm 1165 01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:52,280 Speaker 1: going to throw up on you daddy here, all right? 1166 01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:55,560 Speaker 1: Would you rather date someone with their ex's name tattooed 1167 01:17:55,760 --> 01:18:00,320 Speaker 1: on their chest or date someone who's ex lives next door? 1168 01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:06,519 Speaker 1: Would you rather date someone that has their ex's name 1169 01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,439 Speaker 1: tattooed on their chest? Or would you rather date someone 1170 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:13,720 Speaker 1: whose ex lives next door? I'm going with the chest. 1171 01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:16,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna see you from behind more than I am 1172 01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:20,439 Speaker 1: going from the front. Anyway. Wow, Wow, are you sleepy 1173 01:18:20,720 --> 01:18:25,280 Speaker 1: because you just off? Wow? Flying off? You asked me? 1174 01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:30,479 Speaker 1: Think about your answers. Yeah, I'm just going I'm not 1175 01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:35,519 Speaker 1: pulling up every day and he right there. That turn 1176 01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:39,400 Speaker 1: into a fight time till my launch next door launch. Yeah, 1177 01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. Floyd, Floyd, stay right next door. No, 1178 01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:48,720 Speaker 1: you can have that tattoo. I just I just I 1179 01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:51,120 Speaker 1: just missed you. I probably misread it. Anyway, You're not 1180 01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:55,599 Speaker 1: getting any wrong anyway, all right, one more, one more? 1181 01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:58,200 Speaker 1: Would you rather get stuck in an elevator with your 1182 01:18:58,280 --> 01:19:05,280 Speaker 1: ex or with your partner and they're ex. M No, 1183 01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:08,519 Speaker 1: I don't go with the partner. I'd rather get stuck 1184 01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:13,600 Speaker 1: in there with my partner and her ex as we 1185 01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:15,760 Speaker 1: can do that at least we get something out of this. 1186 01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:19,559 Speaker 1: What you say, Junior say, I'm going on. I'd rather 1187 01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:26,320 Speaker 1: do that, Okay, okay, all right, nephew in the elevator 1188 01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:29,320 Speaker 1: or with your partner in their ext Come on, don't 1189 01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:45,320 Speaker 1: be difficult elevator with your ex. You scared? Really coming 1190 01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:48,840 Speaker 1: up forty nine minutes after break of the day and 1191 01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:52,120 Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey 1192 01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:56,800 Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to show here we are, 1193 01:19:57,040 --> 01:20:00,240 Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday. I want 1194 01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:04,120 Speaker 1: to say thank you to doctor Vivic Murphy form coming 1195 01:20:04,200 --> 01:20:06,719 Speaker 1: by the twenty first Surgeon General of the United States, 1196 01:20:07,360 --> 01:20:11,640 Speaker 1: keeping us updated on the COVID nineteen situation in America. 1197 01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:18,559 Speaker 1: Always good to chat with him, Steve. Yeah, given us backs. Yeah, 1198 01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:23,639 Speaker 1: here we go. Uh my clothes remarks today, it's something 1199 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:28,320 Speaker 1: that I had, I've learned, but I found a way 1200 01:20:28,400 --> 01:20:32,320 Speaker 1: to put it together this weekend. You know, as I 1201 01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:37,519 Speaker 1: was sitting around thinking and we've often talked about on 1202 01:20:37,640 --> 01:20:40,680 Speaker 1: this show. I've always talked to you about the law 1203 01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,840 Speaker 1: of attraction and how it works. And the law of 1204 01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:47,479 Speaker 1: attraction simply means the thing that you put out are 1205 01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:50,240 Speaker 1: the things you're going to get back. And it doesn't 1206 01:20:50,280 --> 01:20:53,439 Speaker 1: really matter if you believe in it or honor it 1207 01:20:53,680 --> 01:20:57,800 Speaker 1: or accept it. It's just the way it is. It's 1208 01:20:57,880 --> 01:21:00,760 Speaker 1: it's a very simple thing. The law of action is real. 1209 01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:03,040 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. It's like when I'm talking to people, 1210 01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:07,280 Speaker 1: somebody tells me they're an atheist. It's okay. Just because 1211 01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:10,160 Speaker 1: a person says there isn't a God, that don't mean that. 1212 01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:13,760 Speaker 1: Don't mean it ain't or you know, you can take 1213 01:21:13,840 --> 01:21:16,080 Speaker 1: that line of think it if you want to. And 1214 01:21:16,439 --> 01:21:20,040 Speaker 1: that God is real. You may not choose to make 1215 01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:24,519 Speaker 1: it real in your life. Oh but you will because 1216 01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:27,280 Speaker 1: it's you just will. But that's not an argument here 1217 01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:32,320 Speaker 1: for me today. I'm just talking about one principle, and 1218 01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:34,639 Speaker 1: I want you to start thinking about how you give, 1219 01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:39,439 Speaker 1: because giving is one of the very very important laws 1220 01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:44,040 Speaker 1: and principles of success. Giving is a universal law, you know, 1221 01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:46,519 Speaker 1: And the way you have to give is this, and 1222 01:21:46,600 --> 01:21:49,160 Speaker 1: this is what I've come to learn about it. When 1223 01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:55,000 Speaker 1: you give everybody, you have to give willingly. You have 1224 01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:59,360 Speaker 1: to give graciously. That's the way you have to give 1225 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:04,759 Speaker 1: willingly and graciously. You just give. If you see somebody 1226 01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:07,719 Speaker 1: on the street, you're just Gil. If you see somebody 1227 01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:11,280 Speaker 1: in needs, you just gil. It ain't all times somebody 1228 01:22:11,360 --> 01:22:13,679 Speaker 1: asking you. But if they do ask and you got 1229 01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:18,720 Speaker 1: it to give, just give willingly and graciously the why 1230 01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:21,280 Speaker 1: they needed, the what they're gonna do if you need 1231 01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:23,759 Speaker 1: it back, and all like that. That's a different type 1232 01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:26,880 Speaker 1: of giving. Because I'm gonna tell you something. If you 1233 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:31,200 Speaker 1: have to think before you give, and then you decide 1234 01:22:31,280 --> 01:22:34,960 Speaker 1: to give because they've answered certain questions, you're not actually 1235 01:22:35,080 --> 01:22:38,680 Speaker 1: giving anymore. You're trading. I hope you understand what I'm 1236 01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:41,679 Speaker 1: saying to you. If a person asks you for something, 1237 01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:44,320 Speaker 1: you got to think about it and you gotta work 1238 01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:50,960 Speaker 1: out terms and arrangements. That's not giving. That's trading. So 1239 01:22:51,160 --> 01:22:55,160 Speaker 1: don't get mad when the trade agreement is broken. I 1240 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:58,360 Speaker 1: gave you this, I gave you that. No, that was 1241 01:22:58,400 --> 01:23:03,560 Speaker 1: a trade agreement. See you, you've lost You've lost the 1242 01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:07,519 Speaker 1: genuine part of giving, which is willingly and graciously, because 1243 01:23:07,560 --> 01:23:11,680 Speaker 1: you turned it into a termed agreement. So that's not 1244 01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:17,360 Speaker 1: the same blessing, y'all. It's not the same blessing because 1245 01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:20,360 Speaker 1: those things that you've done for the least of these, 1246 01:23:20,560 --> 01:23:23,719 Speaker 1: so have you done unto me. I'm just paraphrasing the scripture. 1247 01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:26,040 Speaker 1: What God try it helps us to do is we 1248 01:23:26,200 --> 01:23:29,160 Speaker 1: have to give willingly and graciously when we can. Now, 1249 01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:31,280 Speaker 1: if you loan the personal money, I'm not saying you're 1250 01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:33,880 Speaker 1: not supposed to loan. But when you loan the money, 1251 01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:36,559 Speaker 1: I understand what it is. It's a trade agreement. I'm 1252 01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:39,040 Speaker 1: gonna give you this in return. I want that, and 1253 01:23:39,200 --> 01:23:42,000 Speaker 1: that's cool. Ain't nothing wrong with it, But it's not 1254 01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:44,560 Speaker 1: the same as given. So when they don't give it 1255 01:23:44,640 --> 01:23:46,479 Speaker 1: to you, remember when you came to me you needed this. 1256 01:23:46,600 --> 01:23:48,519 Speaker 1: I gave you this, and I get you didn't give 1257 01:23:48,520 --> 01:23:53,080 Speaker 1: it willingly. You gave it with an agreement. You were trading. 1258 01:23:54,160 --> 01:23:56,720 Speaker 1: And here's what I want you all to understand. And 1259 01:23:56,840 --> 01:23:59,240 Speaker 1: I had to explain this to an employee of mine. 1260 01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:03,840 Speaker 1: If you're not willing to do more for what you're 1261 01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:07,559 Speaker 1: being paid for, then you will never be paid more 1262 01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:10,800 Speaker 1: for what you are doing. I'm trying to tell you 1263 01:24:10,960 --> 01:24:13,840 Speaker 1: something now, and I need for you to hear me, 1264 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:17,439 Speaker 1: because this is an important thing, because a lot of 1265 01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:20,400 Speaker 1: people are blocking a lot of blessings this way because 1266 01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 1: they don't understand the importance of pouring your all into something. 1267 01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:27,000 Speaker 1: How it comes back to you, if you're not willing 1268 01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:30,599 Speaker 1: to do more for what you're being paid for, then 1269 01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:33,679 Speaker 1: you will never be paid more for what you are doing. 1270 01:24:34,080 --> 01:24:37,040 Speaker 1: That's a fact. You ain't gonna like what uncor Steve 1271 01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:39,320 Speaker 1: just said. You ain't got to want to believe it. 1272 01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:43,840 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna do all this downhill, okay, and you 1273 01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:47,320 Speaker 1: don't have to. I'm telling you. If you're on a 1274 01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:51,439 Speaker 1: job and you're doing just enough to get your check, 1275 01:24:52,240 --> 01:24:54,960 Speaker 1: then guess what. Your blessing is always going to be 1276 01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:59,680 Speaker 1: just enough. But the moment you become willing to do 1277 01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:04,920 Speaker 1: more for what you are being paid for, the moment 1278 01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:07,559 Speaker 1: you opened up the windows of heaven, and you will 1279 01:25:07,800 --> 01:25:11,640 Speaker 1: soon learned that you will be paid more for what 1280 01:25:11,800 --> 01:25:15,720 Speaker 1: you are doing. I had to learn that, and I'm 1281 01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:19,479 Speaker 1: so glad I did. I hope this is sink it in, man, 1282 01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:23,920 Speaker 1: because this is about truly about giving. Even on the job, 1283 01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:28,439 Speaker 1: you got to do your best. You got to be 1284 01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:31,240 Speaker 1: willing to do more for what you're being paid for, 1285 01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:33,720 Speaker 1: or you will never ever be paid more for what 1286 01:25:33,880 --> 01:25:36,080 Speaker 1: you are doing. So you can quit looking at the 1287 01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:39,400 Speaker 1: CEO of United Weight. Why they make all that money? 1288 01:25:39,479 --> 01:25:42,960 Speaker 1: The salary I read one year long time ago for 1289 01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:45,840 Speaker 1: the and it's probably going up. The salary for the 1290 01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:50,439 Speaker 1: CEO of Red Cross Unity Weight, one of them was 1291 01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:54,120 Speaker 1: five million a year. How they paying that man all 1292 01:25:54,200 --> 01:25:58,680 Speaker 1: that money? Maybe because he was doing more than he 1293 01:25:58,840 --> 01:26:01,240 Speaker 1: was supposed to do the money and the time he 1294 01:26:01,439 --> 01:26:04,200 Speaker 1: was given, and so now he's being given more money 1295 01:26:04,280 --> 01:26:07,040 Speaker 1: for the time that he's giving. Does that make sense? 1296 01:26:07,200 --> 01:26:10,120 Speaker 1: It does to me. That's why basketball players make what 1297 01:26:10,240 --> 01:26:12,200 Speaker 1: they make. That's why the owners of teams makes what 1298 01:26:12,320 --> 01:26:15,120 Speaker 1: they make, because at one point in live, one point 1299 01:26:15,120 --> 01:26:17,639 Speaker 1: in time, they did more than what they was being 1300 01:26:17,760 --> 01:26:20,479 Speaker 1: paid for, So now they get paid more for what 1301 01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:23,720 Speaker 1: they are doing. Sound right to me, y'all have a 1302 01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:26,519 Speaker 1: great day. Those are my closing remarks. God willing, We'll 1303 01:26:26,560 --> 01:26:29,240 Speaker 1: see y'all tomorrow morning. Hey, y'all talk to God. He 1304 01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:39,840 Speaker 1: loved to hear. Fun for all Steve. Every contests no 1305 01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:43,400 Speaker 1: purchase necessary, void We're prohibited. Participants must be legal US 1306 01:26:43,479 --> 01:26:46,960 Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old unless otherwise stated. For 1307 01:26:47,120 --> 01:26:50,960 Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com You're 1308 01:26:51,040 --> 01:26:53,479 Speaker 1: Listening show