1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Smantha and a lot of stuff. 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 2: I've never told you your production of iHeartRadio, and today we 3 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: have a very short Maybe these things can go off 4 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 2: the rails all the time, but I think. 5 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: It will be short. You're really caring. 6 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 2: Us here, you know, while we're in this together. Yes, 7 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,319 Speaker 2: we have a Monday mini for you. It is one 8 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: of the last episodes of the year. If you're listening 9 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 2: to this when it comes out, it is Christmas Day, 10 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 2: if you celebrate or whatever you do. Hope you're doing well. 11 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: I hope you're doing just fine. 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: Happy Christmas. 13 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 2: If you're spending time listening to us at this, we 14 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 2: appreciate you. We appreciate you, and this is sort of 15 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: our goodbye twenty twenty three. What did we like this 16 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 2: year that happened? It's going to be a very light episode, 17 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: but I want to start off Okay, First of all, 18 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 2: we are very, very very grateful to all of you listeners. 19 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: This happens because of you. You are wonderful when you 20 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 2: write to us, when you communicate with us. I was 21 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 2: answering some listener mail to day and it just cracked 22 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 2: me up about how specific a niche A lot of 23 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: it is, which is on point, how we are. I 24 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 2: love it so so thank you. We do really appreciate you. 25 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 2: Another thing, when I look back on twenty twenty three, 26 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 2: I think I will remember it as the very fuzzy, vague, 27 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: stressed here where we published a book. 28 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: Right, yes, we hurried along to publish a book and 29 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: then it just kind of fizzled. 30 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: It's strange because they the company, the publisher, sen says, 31 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 2: so many copies. Uh, by so many, I mean like 32 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: twenty But that's a lot of copy staff of one book. 33 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 2: And I'm just trying to figure out what to do 34 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: with them because I did kind of make my friends, 35 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 2: thank you friends buy them, so now I'm trying to 36 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 2: think of like where can I donate them or give 37 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 2: them or because I don't need two stacks of books 38 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 2: in my apartment that it's already quite cluttered somehow. 39 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: Right too, definitely under boxes like other boxes, Like it's 40 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: just like random just sitting in the side because I'm like, 41 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. And that doesn't include 42 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: the pre order stuff, the draft versions of the arc. 43 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: It's literally like we got ten of those, so. 44 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you can't give those out because they have 45 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 2: more errors it. 46 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: It's quite sunny because, yeah, the people that I would 47 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: want to give it to have been kind enough to 48 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: support us and at least bought it, So I'm like, 49 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: thank you very much. And then it gets to the 50 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: people who I would want I don't want to give 51 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: it nothing like I don't think about giving it too, 52 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: but I'm like, I might give it to them, and 53 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 1: it feels kind of conceited it here shout here's my book. 54 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: You're totally right. It does feel that way, and it 55 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: also feels strange, like because they totally get it. The 56 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: book isn't the cheapest book you will find, but you know, 57 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 2: so my friends are were in a position they could 58 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 2: buy it, That's what I'm saying. But it does feel weird. 59 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 2: I made them buy it, so if there's a like 60 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 2: reading outside of them that I'm like, I'll give it 61 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: to you, right, I don't know how I feel about that, 62 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: and I don't know how they feel. 63 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: And we know that a lot of listeners have let 64 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: us let us know that they have bought it, which 65 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: we very much appreciate you so much, but yeah, it 66 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: does feel like okay, now what. 67 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was like it was a role end, honestly, 68 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 2: But I do appreciate, uh, the experience Samantha and I 69 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: had together with our team with Jane, with Helen the illustrator. 70 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I missed them. I missed them too, I really do. 71 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 2: And it was just nice to work on such a 72 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: supportive team and that we came out and we're still friends. 73 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: We're still friends because we've you know, things can happen, 74 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think the people we've met along the 75 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: ways have been really kind. But Jane and Helen have 76 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: been too, like really big assets. Just to know them, 77 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: I think it's I'd feel like incredibly privileged and knowing 78 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: these very professional, talented women are kind of people we know, Yeah, 79 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's one of the things 80 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: that I had said I wanted to do was just 81 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: fine for and meet as many cool women or marginalized 82 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: peoples as I can, And this has been an amazing 83 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 1: opportunity to do that. The book really brought that out. 84 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: I don't think we credit ourselves enough about the fact 85 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: that we did write a book. I kind of dismiss 86 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: it for me, specifically because I don't think of myself 87 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: as a writer. And then knowing that we did a 88 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: whole audiobook. Yeah, meeting people on the audio team that 89 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: was a delight. They were amazing things that we've never 90 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 1: done before, We've done this year that I'm like, Okay, 91 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: there's no way I would have ever had this opportunity 92 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: outside of being on this podcast with you, Annie, but 93 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: also knowing that you and I were able to keep 94 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 1: each other sane, yes throughout. It was also very very lucky. 95 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 2: It was, and I think a lot of listeners can 96 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 2: relate to this. Just working on projects, like with friends, 97 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 2: it can get tough, difficult arguments can happen. Luckily, I 98 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 2: feel like Jane really, I don't think that would have 99 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 2: happened anyway, but it would have been much more stressful 100 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 2: without Janie. So she was basically like our editor and 101 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: who was planning the calendar, the schedule, and she kind 102 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 2: of she worked with us both and made sure she 103 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: kind of adapted to us both, and like, honestly, I 104 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 2: think we would have been much more stressed without her, 105 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 2: Like I don't know what the book would have been, 106 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 2: but I think we would have been fine. But with 107 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: her it was a much smoother process because we had 108 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: heard stories of like you, once you start working together 109 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 2: on something like that. 110 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: Right make up by you? Yeah, as professional as she was, 111 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: helped us understand the industry that we are not a 112 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: part of and really came to bat for us. And 113 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: that was a delight to have to have someone who 114 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: actually understood why we were stressed instead of dismissing our 115 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: concerns and really helping us voice what was important to us. 116 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: And that was not her title at all, but she 117 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 1: did that, filling in all those roles for us. Quite 118 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: funny because obviously she's works on different projects. Uh. And 119 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: one of those projects popped up, went to my feed 120 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: and the Google doc was like what is this? And 121 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: it made me miss her? Is all? I clicked in 122 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: like a nosy person. It immediately went away rightly, so, 123 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: but it goes like a which is She's not She's 124 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: definitely just doing her job, which she is amazing at. 125 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: But I felt like, oh I miss her. She's our friend. 126 00:07:50,040 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was so great. Oh I'm getting all nostalgic 127 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 2: because this was a it. Look, it was very stressful. 128 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm coming out of some kind of 129 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm a plane that has crashed and 130 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: now I'm trying to like put out the fire, like 131 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 2: That is how I feel at the end of this year, 132 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: to be honest, just because we were so busy and 133 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 2: we're doing so much. And now it's the end of 134 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:33,719 Speaker 2: this year and we're still going to be busy and 135 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 2: doing so much. But the book part is over. The 136 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 2: audio book, which again we had an amazing team of 137 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 2: mostly women, all women, but mostly women, who were so 138 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 2: kind and they were so generous. And again this is 139 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 2: not our space. So even though we talk, we do 140 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 2: podcast that is different than an audiobook, right, And that 141 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 2: really was an intense experience for me that the took 142 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 2: it out of me. And I feel bad because I 143 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: feel like so many times I've been like, look, people 144 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 2: will ask me to do stuff with them and I say, oh, 145 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 2: this book, I just gotta. But it's true, i feel 146 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 2: like I've been so up here you can't see, but 147 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:26,119 Speaker 2: like high strong and very stressed, and I'm trying to 148 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 2: ease up from it. But it is also strange that 149 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 2: it's over. It's like my brain doesn't know what to do. 150 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 2: It's like you're wasting time. Why aren't you doing something else? 151 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: So I mean, it can be fair, we do have 152 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: a part too, but we shouldn't be as involved. 153 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 2: And in theory, there's gonna be a children's book, y'all 154 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 2: in theory, in theory. 155 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that has been an interesting experience. Again, 156 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: it feels like it was five years ago, and technically 157 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: to take two good years, two good years to do, yeah, 158 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: and then five good years to process. Literally when I 159 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: started the show is when we were talking about it, 160 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: So it's definitely been and then it was already in 161 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: the works before I started, Like there was a conversation 162 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: way back, way back when. But yeah, it's definitely been 163 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: a whole whirlwind. But this year has been I don't 164 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: know if it's because of the pandemic. I don't know 165 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: it's because of the direction that the company has gone. 166 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because I'm finally getting accustomed 167 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: to it. It felt a little, uh as busy as 168 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: things were, it didn't feel as dramatic outside of the 169 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: book stuff. 170 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say that too. I think because 171 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 2: you and I get asked a lot whenever we're on 172 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 2: some kind of like a conference situation or company call 173 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 2: situation about the show, because we are a new host 174 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: on a long standing show. How do we feel, how 175 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 2: do we deal with that, and I feel like we've 176 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 2: really found the voice. I feel like you and I 177 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 2: have really because at first you're kind of trying to 178 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 2: do what the old hosts we're doing, and then you 179 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 2: get so in your head about wait, nobody seems to 180 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 2: like this, right, not me, not you, and then you 181 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 2: try to But anyway, I feel like we have a 182 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: we have a pretty good feel of the voice now, 183 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 2: and we have a good flow of We're very fortunate 184 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 2: to have an amazing team we work with, but also 185 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 2: guests like Eves and Bridget who come on. So it 186 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 2: just it feels like it is more settled than it 187 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 2: had been, but not in a way that is like stagnant, 188 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 2: but in a way that is like, Okay, we know 189 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 2: what we want to do, right, and we have this 190 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 2: team right. 191 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: I feel like we all so like, okay, this could be. 192 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: We've had the bumps in the road. We're able to 193 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: manage pretty well, I'll say that. And yeah, I think 194 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: this is the first time our team has been pretty 195 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: stable because when I first joined, since then we've had 196 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 1: a few new producers and new executive producers and then 197 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 1: having Joey on, which has been in delight. Like all 198 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: of that with a little more established roles. I feel 199 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: like that's helped. I will say, I think it's also 200 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,719 Speaker 1: interesting with the fact that there is an office, a 201 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: stable office like you and I really being unified to 202 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, we're not going there holiday lunch everyone, which, 203 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: by the way, just shut out. We have an amazing 204 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: he is with ads and marketing, and he tries to 205 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: take on events for the podcasting unit. Benster. I think 206 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,199 Speaker 1: you may have heard me talk about how I tease 207 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: him about sponsorships and such. He is doing his best, 208 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: and I want to be like, I don't think he'll 209 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: ever listen to this, but just think he's We do 210 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: appreciate what he's done, even if it means even if 211 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 1: we don't show up to them. Yeah, because he's hard. 212 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 2: He's doing a lot with very little, That's what I 213 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 2: will say. And he's great. He's really fun. He puts 214 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: up with the teasing admirably and teases back, jokes back. 215 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: It's probably one of the most wholesome dudes he is. 216 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 2: He was. I will never forget, Oh, Benchester, You'll never 217 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: listen to this, but I will never forget one time 218 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 2: I had to come in for an ad after my 219 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 2: dad died and he sat down with me, looked at 220 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 2: me and was like, don't do It's fine, you don't 221 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: do it. 222 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 1: It was just so sweet, I can try it. And 223 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 1: then he's like, well just. 224 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 2: Wait, He's like, forget the ad. He's good at his job. 225 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 1: He is amazing, Like he's done a great job. But yeah, 226 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: what we call so like these events. M it's interesting 227 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: to work with a corporation that puts on a face 228 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: one face and then the background is another mm hmmm. Hey, 229 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: we are grateful for where we are. We've got jobs, 230 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: all these things, but they're definitely like just with any 231 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: big corporation like this, like level of like huh, that's 232 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: interesting behind the scenes moments. And again, like I said, 233 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: we've definitely had some interesting moments with our books. But 234 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: the people that we get to be, we get to 235 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: interact with, have all been amazing. 236 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 2: They really have. And that's one of the I know, 237 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 2: we've had several episodes where we talked about the trump 238 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 2: of Allfice solity parties, but that is one of the 239 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 2: things I missed not going this year, was I do 240 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: miss right, people that I don't see anymore. Yeah, because 241 00:14:54,760 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 2: they're generally really good people. Who were friends and who 242 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 2: we care about, and I was the books. 243 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 1: We will just give him out. Apparently our co workers 244 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: gave it out as raffles. 245 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: Stuff they don't want you to know. We've heard the truth. 246 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: That's funny because you would do the same if we could. 247 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, like having again stuff you should know been 248 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: uh bowlin, y'all know we love him to death. Holly 249 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 1: from stuff you miss in history class, who we think 250 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 1: we're very close to, like people like that, just being 251 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: able with Lauren, who was just recently on the episode, 252 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:38,479 Speaker 1: which is delightful. I have some of the best coworkers. 253 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 2: My good friend Marissa, who also has been on the show, 254 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 2: who is such a very sweet supporter. She was like, 255 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 2: you have such a good chemistry that three of you. 256 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 2: It was so good. 257 00:15:54,480 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: She's well, yes, I love that. She's such a supporter. 258 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: She knows everything that goes on. 259 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 2: I love that. 260 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. And the friends who actually listen. I don't do podcasts, 261 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: so why I don't blame them at all. 262 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 2: I do not blame anyone. 263 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: It kind of does surprise me when someone does listen. 264 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, don't do that. 265 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 2: Then you have to take it into account, right, like 266 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 2: you have to be like, okay. 267 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, when it's like when it's listenerships that we 268 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: feel like we're friends with, but you know this side 269 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: of us as where friends might not know this side 270 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: of us, and then we might be talking about those friends. 271 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: It's interesting. 272 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 2: It is interesting, It is interesting, and it's something to 273 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: keep in mind. But yeah, it's been it's been a 274 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 2: very hectic here. I feel like everyone would agree that 275 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 2: it's an ups and downs. 276 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: Year. 277 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 2: But I do feel I feel that you and I 278 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 2: have really keyedan honed in which some of you might 279 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: be like, what, But it does take years sometimes when 280 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 2: you're like you're trying to not be you're trying to 281 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 2: be yourself, sometimes it takes a long time to find 282 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 2: that and find it in a way that is enjoyable, useful, 283 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 2: helpful to other people. I also want to say this 284 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 2: is I feel like this is the year I've finally 285 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 2: accepted I think I'm a good writer. 286 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: You are. 287 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 2: I'm not like amazing, But I. 288 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 1: Feel like, so next year you'll get to the amazing. 289 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: Because right now she is on cloud nine with the 290 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: interactions she's having on her fan fiction, which was what 291 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: was the name of it again? 292 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 2: Never Yeah, but it has been really nice, Like everybody's 293 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 2: been very kind of fan fiction, and but it did 294 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: help me. Like I know it sounds kind of trite 295 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 2: or silly to some of you, probably, but it was 296 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 2: nice to have feedback from people that was just so 297 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 2: kind and was like, oh, this is great, you write, 298 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 2: you write so well. Then we had the book and 299 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 2: then I did that thirteen Days thing and I was like, 300 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 2: I feel good about this. It's it's you. 301 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: Know, I realized I'm mixed up. When Lauren was talking 302 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: about thirteen Ghosts, I thought she was talking about thirteen 303 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: Days and that's why I'd said that point wo, like 304 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 1: we know the writers. I got really confused, and then 305 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: like they did not, Yeah the way I thought they 306 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: were going to very confused. 307 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 2: Now you do know some of the writers. But yeah, yeah, 308 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 2: it's just I kind of hate that. I still struggle 309 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: with the self esteem part, but I feel like the 310 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,199 Speaker 2: writing might be good at it. 311 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: You are good at it. 312 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 2: Thank you. And I also want to think you, Samantha, 313 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 2: because this year started with us watching The Last of 314 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,360 Speaker 2: Us at your house and it was amazing and you're 315 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 2: such a good friend and you did these amazing dinners 316 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 2: and stuff. Thank you. 317 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 1: I can't believe I did all those we did. No, 318 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: it's just me. It was all of us because right 319 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:24,439 Speaker 1: now my house has been so crazy slash chaos that 320 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,119 Speaker 1: I haven't had anybody really over in months, and so 321 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh man, people used to come. 322 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 2: Over once a week, once a week. 323 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: That kept us on our toes for weeks. It was fun, 324 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 1: it was I want to an and this, does we 325 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 1: do need to have another game night? Do you have Wingspan? 326 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: I know we talked about that game. 327 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 2: I don't have it. Should we get it? 328 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: Maybe we have so many games to play we do. 329 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 2: We have all the games I gave you that are 330 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 2: the nostalgic planes. 331 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: We got to play those. We have whole station. Maybe 332 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: we should do hold like live of people playing that. 333 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 2: I want to do votes for women, but I think 334 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 2: that's a that's a. It's not intense. But I think 335 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 2: you need to be more focused, like less of a. 336 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 1: We never finished saying all madness doesn't need focus, How 337 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: damn you? 338 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 2: I actually haven't played it, so I'm going to learn 339 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 2: a lesson, I think. But yes, and also we are 340 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 2: planning on I'm coming over soon for some celebrations. 341 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 1: I can't wait. We got to do it. Yeah, yeah, 342 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 1: I also have to do exchanging gifts. 343 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 2: We do. I'm very excited to exchange these gifts. I 344 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:39,719 Speaker 2: was kind of hoping we would have already done it 345 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 2: by we by the time we did these wrap ups. 346 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: But it'll be fine. 347 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: We're fine, it'll be fine. Everything's fine. 348 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 2: It is. But yes, cheers to you, Samantha, Thank you 349 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 2: for being my friend. 350 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: And this is Monday money coworker. I'll cheers to you anyway. 351 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:00,879 Speaker 1: I answers to. 352 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 2: You at any point to know. 353 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 1: That's about right well and happy end of year. 354 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 2: Holiday celebrations are just if you're just bunkering down, which 355 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 2: is what I'm planning to do the second half of 356 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 2: the holiday, the final half of the year. Wherever you are, 357 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 2: we appreciate you, love you, thank you. Yes, and if 358 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 2: you would like to contact us, you can. 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