1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: My sister fat shamed me to steal my wedding dress, 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:06,319 Speaker 1: and now my family is doing the unthinkable. 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 2: You know, you think if you're trying to get something 4 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: from someone, you would give them maybe a compliment, you know. 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: Like if you're like, hey, that wouldn't fit you, because 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: but it would fit me. Playing some serious mind games 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: over here fit me. All right, let's get into it. 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 1: So almost two months ago, my younger sister twenty three 9 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: aka Lucy, and her fiance held a big dinner event 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: with all of her family, his family, our mutual friends, 11 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: their friends, and every soul she knew because they had 12 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: some big news they wanted to tell everyone. Okay, they 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 1: found out a few weeks prior that they were expecting 14 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: a congrats to not have a baby. Oh no, I 15 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: expect me to have a baby. Of course, we were 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: all very excited for them. As soon as everything settled down, 17 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: Lucy then stood up and made a toast to me. 18 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: She said she was thankful for having a bigger in 19 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: size and in heart's sister like me to give my 20 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: wedding dress to her since she is not getting married 21 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 1: in November. Oh oh my god, A bigger in size 22 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: and in hearts in front of everyone at a wedding 23 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 1: thanks to my fat ass sister that I love so 24 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: much for giving the wedding dress to me. 25 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 2: Good thing you're so big, otherwise I'd have to pay 26 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 2: some big bucks for a wedding dress. 27 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: And then op says, I'm only one hundred and thirty 28 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: six pounds. She's three foot two. Okay, that was a fallback. 29 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: If you remember the episode, we found a three D 30 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: modeling chart. 31 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: We were like, how short and why? What does they 32 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: mean for each type? Yes, chat gpt this how short 33 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: you have to be for one hundred and thirty six 34 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: pounds to be considered obese? Here we go four feet 35 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: and eight inches. So if Opie is higher than four 36 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: foot eight inches tall, then she's not obese. It's a farce. 37 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: It's a farce. And I imagine she's at least five 38 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: foot yeah, I mean at least. His sister is crazy crazy. 39 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: I shocked and embarrassed, tried to ask her what she 40 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: means by that as polite as possible, Oh, in front 41 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: of everyone, called out dang, yeah, what the fuck do 42 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: you mean? Yeah? Fight? My stepmom responded with, don't worry, 43 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: it's just one of those sister teasings, you have never 44 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: been able to comprehend. What are you? What are you 45 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: talking about? Is everyone going after Opie? Not only are 46 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: you fat, but you're also stupid? Understand but your big 47 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: heart accepts it. 48 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 2: You see you body big we big joke in ha 49 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: ha big body spawned. 50 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: Come on, guys. It was all too much for me 51 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: and I was humiliated by everything and burst into tears 52 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: in front of everyone and went to the bathroom while 53 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: my stepmom said see and mocked me and told me 54 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: to grow up. You're fat, you're stupid, and you're a 55 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: baby me. Grow up me. Yeah, I have grown, as 56 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 1: you can fully see a large stature. They both did 57 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 1: end up coming into the bathroom after about thirty minutes. 58 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: Thirty minutes I would have instantly if I had offended someone, 59 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: would I'm instantly in that bathroom one hundred percent. I 60 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: don't care which bathroom I'm going in. Yeah, any of them, 61 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: any of them. This is now an all gender bathroo. Yeah, baby, 62 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: I'm here, and I'm here to provide moral support. Lucy said, 63 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: I ruined the most exciting news of a lifetime, but 64 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: could not possibly understand that since me and my fiance 65 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: wanted to continue. You a CF lifestyle, right, what's a 66 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: CF lifestyle? Closed friend child free, child free lifestyle? Lucy said, 67 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: I ruined the most exciting news. I asked her much 68 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: more rudely, why the hell she thought I would be 69 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: giving her my wedding dress? Another great question, which I 70 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: thought it was already understood that the wedding draft was 71 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: going to be given. Yeah, like they had already. She 72 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: just announced she's just a decision for her. I'm having 73 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: a baby, and not only am I having that, I'm 74 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: having your dress. Lot So thoughtful, so thoughtful. Apparently her 75 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: and my stepmom had talked and decided that since my 76 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: wedding was not until March, and since I am fatter 77 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: than them, I would not bind just loading my dress. 78 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: Bro yikes, that I have not even picked up yet 79 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: from alterations or buying another one, since I had saved 80 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: and invested with my big degrees. Everything's bigger with OPI. 81 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: I guess you're a big degree wow beast education into 82 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: my wedding that I can afford special alterations. So basically, 83 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: they're like, you're fat, so you're fat A right, Wait, Okay, 84 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 1: there's a tradictions there's a condredictions because they're saying she's fat, 85 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: so you give the original dress, right, And also because 86 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 1: she's so smart with her big degrees, she should be 87 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: able to afford alterations to the dress, so it should 88 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: be fine, Like she should be able to give it 89 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: to her sister and then get it back and then 90 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: afford the alterations needed to make it fit her. But 91 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: is OPI dumb or is she smart? Because before you 92 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 1: were like, oh, you just don't understand, but now it's 93 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: like you've got these big, fancy degrees. Choose a side. 94 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: Come on, I double majored in aerospace engineering and theater 95 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: and my fiance majored in physics and philosophy. Can she 96 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 1: act like a rocket and just fly away from this 97 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: fucking family editors? Can you make me a rocket? Fly? Yeah? 98 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: You just gonna fucking leave. You gotta go to Mars 99 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 1: to get away from all these terrible humans. Dude, start 100 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: a new colony or actually no, she wants to be 101 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,679 Speaker 1: child free, so probably not a good candidate. Solo colony 102 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: colony of one bet, yeah, I know. Honestly, I would 103 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:24,559 Speaker 1: rather be on Mars alone with the elements like fucking 104 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: Matt Damon's style making little shrubbery in a tent than 105 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: be with his family family rocks. I'm rocking with the 106 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: rocks anyway. Thanks to my degree and skills, I designed 107 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: my wedding dress. So I guess his wedding dress has 108 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: like fucking rocket fuel on it. It's like the Hunger 109 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: Games dress where like blows up, you know, right, aerodynamic, 110 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: has fire coming out of it, starts up. It represents 111 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: District twelve. Dude. Hell yeah, both of them have always 112 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: hated this. She also said that it's okay if it 113 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: was not altered because I am so much bigger, there 114 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: would not be any alterations needed for her to fit 115 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: my dress. I told her absolutely not so all right 116 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: in the case in this weird world where OPI is 117 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: giving the sister her wedding dress, yeah she's saying, oh, 118 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: I don't need any alterations, Like want to just hang 119 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: like a floppy wet back. That's a wizard robe. If 120 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: you don't get the alterations. 121 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 2: Maybe she just is like, oh, I'll just let me 122 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: just save money. As long as I'm taking something from you, you. 123 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: Know what, I am happy. I am happy, that's all. 124 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: That's all. Like, let me get your wedding dress. Let 125 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: me take your dignity. Let me just take everything from you. Yeah, 126 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: that I'll be happy. Don't be happy? Right, Let me 127 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: take Mars from you too. And you tried to rock 128 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: it away from me, but no, I want Mars, No 129 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: more rocks. Lucy then said that if I don't give 130 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: it to her, then I am no longer a bridesmaid. 131 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: I told her that's fine and left in the bathroom. 132 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: Everyone except my dad, Lucy's fiance, and my fiance left. 133 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: They consoled me and said they would talk to my 134 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: stepmom and sister about everything, and then I left. The 135 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: next day, both my sister and my step mom blew 136 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: up my phone saying I am destroying the family and 137 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: clearly don't care about my soon to be niece and 138 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: nephew by not allowing my sister to have my dressing. 139 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: The baby. Oh, here we go. She needs it to 140 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: give birth in. You know she has to look good 141 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: for the birth. Dude, you want to make that the 142 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: white dress? Blood red? God? Put that Put that placenta 143 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: on it. Oh goodness, eat it. You know how people 144 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: eat the placenta. Yeah, that's that's what the that's the 145 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: whole thing. That's what all the kids are saying. Yeah, wellness, 146 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: girly do the weirdest ship that they do. Yeah, let 147 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 1: me just eat this after birth delicious? You know, put 148 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: in the comments if that's a real thing. I know 149 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: people do it, but is it like actually helpful? Where's 150 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: the tell me the science? Well, actually put in the 151 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: comments if you ate your oky afterbirth and how did 152 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: you cook it? And how did you cook it? Oh? Yeah, 153 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 1: did you put any seasoning on it? Or do you 154 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: see it raw liver king style? Is that considered cannibalism? 155 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: I think yes, if. 156 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 2: We're talking like cultural cannibalism of like you actually like 157 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 2: taking to me. To me, that's like you're if you 158 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 2: somewhere chomp on. 159 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: Them, if you eat your percenta, I think it's cannibalistic. 160 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 1: To me, cannibalism is like you attack someone, and then 161 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: cannibalism is just eating human literally. Yeah, I'll get you 162 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: literal definition. My definition is my definition definition. You have 163 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: to take someone down the Oxford Dictionary of here here. 164 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 2: Here, okay, and then we'll get off this manch topic. 165 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 2: But if someone was introduced to you and they're like, 166 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 2: oh hey, uh, this person like they kind of like 167 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 2: chomped down their own placenta like, oh that's different, but okay, 168 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 2: then someone introduced you like, oh hey, this person attacked, 169 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 2: you know, whacked. 170 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 1: And ate this person. Yeah, but there's very level. There's 171 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: a spectrum of cannibalism. It's a spectrum. All right, Wow, 172 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: that's good, that's good stuff. That's quality podcast. Right there, 173 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: let's get back, get back. I never responded and ended 174 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: up getting a group of family and Lucy's friends on 175 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:27,719 Speaker 1: their side harassing me on social media, phone, email, and 176 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: in person for a week. Damn, they're going on out 177 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: in all front insane. It only stopped because my brother 178 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 1: in law told Lucy he would be leaving her if 179 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: she did not cut it out then, so she's about 180 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 1: to end the marriage. Things have been quiet ever since 181 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: then until tonight, Oh when I got a call from 182 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: my sister saying she has a scheduled abortion tomorrow for 183 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: her baby girl since she can't fit into the dress. 184 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: I what that is? 185 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 2: What level of narcissism, coercion, insanity do you have to 186 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 2: be at to say that? 187 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: That is razy? Like, you know, I'm all pro choice 188 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: and all, yeah, but for what? But for a dress? 189 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: Your husband is on board? Of this you were you 190 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: literally all right, there is something there is some disconnect 191 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 1: here because you literally announced your whole family how happy 192 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 1: you were to have this child come into your life. 193 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 1: You're gonna raise it. You've invited all your friends and 194 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 1: family to be like, let's witness the joy and the 195 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: love and the miracle of life together. And you're like, 196 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: I'm too fast for this dress. Bam, force that shit out. 197 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: She said no to the dress. She said no to 198 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 1: the dress and to the baby. Yeah, blast that baby, 199 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: Tomar's damn boom. She then said that I could stop 200 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: all of this. No way, no if I just honored 201 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: her simple request of giving her my dress. No, it's 202 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: either my baby or the dress. What do you want 203 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 1: to murder my baby and give me this fat person's dress? 204 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 1: What are we talking about? This is where I am, 205 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: for sure, not just wrong, but a major bitch. I 206 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 1: don't care if a person gets an abortion or not. 207 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: What you do to your body is up to you, 208 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: and I don't blame anyone for getting one done. From experience, 209 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: making the decision is one of the hardest things to 210 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: make in life. But it did piss me off, and 211 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: I told her that if she was aborting her baby 212 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 1: over a dress, then she does not deserve to have 213 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: any children, and her baby girl can be a gift 214 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: from God to another person who will actually love her 215 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: and not place fabric over her. 216 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 2: I mean, I was, I was bracing myself for what 217 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 2: she was gonna say. 218 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: But like she has a push, she's spitting facts, dude, 219 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: she's spitten facts. That is not the behavior of a 220 00:12:58,200 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: mother that can handle. 221 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: She's get rid of your child over a stupid dress. 222 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: But John, you haven't seen the dress. It's magnificent. It's 223 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: magnificent and the way it just helps the supple curves 224 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: of the baby bob. Yeah, you look just like you know, 225 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 1: a third boob. Beautiful you delicious, Yeah, delicious, pregnancy fetish. Unlocked. 226 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 2: I tell you, dude, this woman needs at being locked 227 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 2: up or something. 228 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: This is dude locked No sorry, sorry, no sex, no sex, 229 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: My bad, she responded, Since I am child free, I 230 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: don't know what a good parent is the length of 231 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: a mother's love or I will not be able to 232 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,839 Speaker 1: provide that to kids and could never be better than her. 233 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: I hung up on her, and she sent me a 234 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 1: text with a picture of documents showing when, where, and 235 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: the time of the appointment. Oh god, I said I 236 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: had until eleven thirty am the time of the appointment 237 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: to change my mind. Is some fucking crazy blackmail. Got 238 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: to be kidding me. That is absolutely in the same 239 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 1: put in the comments of this is crazy. I mean, 240 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: this might be the like the craziest, like this feels 241 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: like the worst reason for an abortion I've ever heard. 242 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: Oh without a if you have more crazy reasons but 243 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: your answers at the comments, or if you think we 244 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 1: are sexist pigs, put pink pink in the chat. There 245 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: we go, There we go. Let us know. I called 246 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: her fiance and told him everything, sent him screenshots of 247 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: the text she sent. Do you think the fiance knows 248 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: because well, he tried to shut it. 249 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 2: He was he was like, I'm going to leave you 250 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 2: if you don't stop pulling all this bs. 251 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: Well yeah, so like he was gonna say he was 252 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: gonna leave her over the bs. But does he know 253 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: that she's going to abort their child because of this dress? 254 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so. But I 255 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: see you in the chats. If you see shit storm coming, editors, 256 00:14:53,960 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: put a ship storm, speaking of I'm getting a colonoscopy 257 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: on Thursday. That is true a ship storm. I'm not ready, 258 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 1: not ready, dude. They gave me a fucking gallon jug 259 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: of shit to drink, actually two gallons. It's like that 260 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: big wow. I have to drink it all tomorrow to 261 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: get a little dilation going on. I was I was 262 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 1: picking up the the medication at the pharmacy yesterday and 263 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: this lady looks at me and she's like, are you 264 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 1: getting a colonoscopy? And I'm like, I don't want to 265 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: talk about this right now. Why would you ask that? 266 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: And I'm professional, I'm like, yes, this is a lady 267 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: that was just getting her medication too. Oh, And I'm 268 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: like yes. And she's like you're a little young to 269 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: be getting a colonoscopy and I'm like yes. And then 270 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: she's like, my husband got a colonoxus a colonoscopy a 271 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: couple of years ago, and let me tell you make 272 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: sure you get high quality baby wives. And I'm like, 273 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: thank you? What? Why why would you say that? Yeah, 274 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I do it for fun. Do it 275 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: for fun? Yeah, dude, just trying. I just want to 276 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: try a little bit of anal with just just with 277 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: a doctor supervision, you know exactly. I mean someone who's 278 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: been in hundreds of hundreds of bung holes. Yeah, yeah, 279 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: maybe thousands. Yeah, don't be worried. I'm just making sure 280 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: I don't have cancer. There we go, so I'm not worried. 281 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm not worried. Good, I'm not worried yet. But we'll see, 282 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: all right. He said he had no clue about the 283 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: abortion or the gender of their baby, and was going 284 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: straight home to talk to her about it. They did 285 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: get into a huge fight, and now my brother in 286 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: law is staying in our guest room for a while 287 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 1: and very understandingly looks very red and swollen in the 288 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: face from crying. None of us can sleep now. Well. 289 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: I questioned her moral choice to pick fabric over a baby. 290 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 1: It's the same question I am asking myself. It feels 291 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: extreme of me to be this protective over it, and 292 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: at the cost of a baby that is wanted, already 293 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: loved by us, and can be given a great life 294 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 1: with a great father. So am I the asshole? I 295 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: honestly am thinking about just giving in and giving her 296 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: the dress, but I just have to get some outside 297 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: views and input on the situation. Any thoughts would be 298 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 1: very helpful and appreciated, and there is a thick That's 299 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: what I update. So this original post happened October sixteenth. 300 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: The update is October twenty fifth. I mean she has 301 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 1: to give her the dress, like do you think so absolutely? 302 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,719 Speaker 2: Like without because like, yeah it is it is her 303 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 2: crazy antics. But they can like figure all that out later, 304 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? I think right now, if 305 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: it's coming up in a few days, like just do it? 306 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 1: Do it now? Just to like but like is my 307 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: question now is someone is someone who does something like 308 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 1: that ready to have a child? Well the husband, the fiance, 309 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: what about him? Yeah? Yeah, so I don't know. 310 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 2: That is a tricky one, but I think it shouldn't 311 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 2: happen over the stupid dress, you know what I'm saying. 312 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 2: So like I think she should do that and then 313 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 2: immediately like honestly do you like. 314 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: But that is like like I'm just like what what what? 315 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: Like as as this husband, like I feel the fiance. 316 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 1: If I'm the fiance and I hear about this, I'm 317 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: like divorce or I'm not going to look with and 318 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: then maybe co parenting or something. 319 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 2: One hundred percent divorce is like divorce chance in the comments, 320 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 2: because this. 321 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:32,160 Speaker 1: Get divorced before, like if if he divorces her, will 322 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:32,959 Speaker 1: she get the abortion? 323 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 2: That is definitely about I mean, what's what's right in 324 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 2: front of us, be like all right, I'm text her 325 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 2: like okay, I'm giving you the dress. 326 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,120 Speaker 1: Buy some time with that. 327 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:43,719 Speaker 2: But then then's the big question of figuring out what 328 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 2: to do next, because she'll probably just pick something else, 329 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 2: you know, to like does leverage. 330 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: Maybe she does it, which. 331 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 2: Maybe she's looking for an excuse, okay, but like, don't 332 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 2: use it to like do this insane level of coersion 333 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 2: and blackmail and all this bs. 334 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: Like, my god, I don't know. It's pretty fucked, very 335 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:05,120 Speaker 1: it's pretty fucked. It's pretty fucked. If you were Opie, 336 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: would you give the dress? Why or why not? And 337 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: if you were the fiance and you heard that your 338 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: soon to be wife is going to abort your child 339 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: that we were very excited for over address, would you 340 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 1: end the relationship why or why not? Put your answers 341 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: in the comments. But John, I think we got to 342 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 1: get into this Juwsey update. Yes, I kind of have 343 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: to know what happens next time, Pease, before I get 344 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: to the only update, I plan to give. I wanted 345 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: to answer some common questions. Yes, my stepmom and sister 346 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: have always made fun of me for not being skinny 347 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: on the same level they are my whole life. It 348 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,120 Speaker 1: did give me some personal issues that I have had 349 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: to seek professional help to overcome. My father has been 350 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: very involved in trying to stop the issues they have caused. 351 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: He has called them out on their bs many times, 352 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: but they always never listen, sulk about it, and move 353 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 1: on until their next drama. My dad is religious and 354 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: does not believe in divorce, although I wish he did 355 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 1: because his wife makes them miserable from the drama, cheating 356 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 1: scandals that she has partaken in over the years. Wow. 357 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 1: My mother died when I was very young from throat 358 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: cancer and that is why I never mentioned her and 359 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 1: why she was not there. It has nothing to do 360 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: with bad blood or anything. Lucy is twenty three, I 361 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: am twenty seven. She is legit pregnant. Brother in law 362 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: made sure the night they got into it, and yes, 363 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: she legit had an appointment with the abortion clinic. Someone 364 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: asked where my significant other was in all of this 365 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 1: and how he felt about it. He was just as 366 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 1: upset as I was and has never liked going to 367 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: any event on my family's side because of my stepmom 368 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 1: and sisters drama. He felt the same as everyone else 369 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: times ten about letting her abort it until brother in 370 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: law came to crash here. No, she did not tell 371 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: my parents that I had an abortion. Very few people 372 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: knew about that because of their stance on the subject. 373 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: My dad was very supportive and understanding and is anything 374 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 1: but the crazy Catholic I have met in the world. 375 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: My stepmom did freak out and wanted to tell the 376 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:07,199 Speaker 1: world of how shameful a human I was. Originally I 377 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: did not plan an update, but after reading a few 378 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: comments that night I posted, I logged out and got 379 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 1: some sleep. The next day I had tons of comments 380 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: from y'all. I did take them all in on what 381 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 1: I should do and what should be done after talking 382 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:26,439 Speaker 1: to brother in law, so before I did anything, I 383 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: wanted to get his input since this was his child 384 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,680 Speaker 1: and his personal life. Yeah, I asked him the next 385 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: day about everything and how he felt. I'm not going 386 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:36,959 Speaker 1: to share everything that was said because most of it 387 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: was heated, and he did say a lot of messed 388 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: up things in a rage, which is understandable. He said 389 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: he went home and confronted her, but she denied constantly 390 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: until he showed her the screenshots of our text and 391 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: call logs. She apparently tried to tell him it was 392 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 1: all made up and claimed it was to show everyone 393 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 1: just how much of a heartless bastard I was to 394 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: allow harm to come to a child. He did demand 395 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: to see the paperwork and took them when he left, 396 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: He said. He asked her if she was even pregnant 397 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: at all, which she said yes, and made her take 398 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,919 Speaker 1: a test which came back positive. So he's going through 399 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 1: all the emotions basically like what is real? Yeah, Yeah, 400 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: it's like his whole world to take away what the 401 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 1: fuck is real? That's a great point, what is real? 402 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: He also asked her if the baby was a girl, 403 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 1: and she told him she didn't know. She was not 404 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: far enough to know just yet from what brother in 405 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: law said. He told her that it was over and 406 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 1: that if she does go through with the abortion, he 407 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 1: would send the text call alog and a copy of 408 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: the abortion clinic paperwork to everyone they knew, and would 409 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 1: be fighting for full custody of the baby once it arrives. Wow. 410 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: Lucy has called my work and personal phone along with 411 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: my fiance's phone every day now trying to see if 412 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: we will talk to him and convince him to come 413 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: and take her back. And it's gotten worse in the 414 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 1: last twenty four hours. Yes, worse. I'm not sure what 415 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: went down, but he did end up sending everything to 416 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: just the family a day ago after she asked to 417 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 1: meet up and talk about everything with him. My phone 418 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,520 Speaker 1: has been blowing up with people asking a bunch of 419 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 1: questions and apologies for not stepping in to stop certain 420 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,880 Speaker 1: things in my life with her. Stepmom is not happy 421 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: with Lucy and even more upset with me for ending 422 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: a happy family. Come on, I feel like OPI is 423 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: just like the blame child. Like everything that goes wrong, 424 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: it just gets blind to everything. Dad and other family 425 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: members are refusing to talk to Lucy. Some have gone 426 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 1: as far as asking her not to contact them at all, 427 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 1: even when the baby is here, which feels too far 428 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: personally to me. The child did nothing wrong here. There 429 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 1: is a lot more going on that I will not 430 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 1: go into because of this mess, and it is a mess. 431 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: It is a giant effing mess. That is the understatement 432 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 1: of the century. I also don't know if she did 433 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 1: or did not fall through with the abortion. Brother in 434 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: law is staying with his parents and is looking for 435 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 1: a place to move to. I, on the other hand, 436 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm about to start counseling myself because this has kicked 437 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,199 Speaker 1: up a lot of personal things for me about my 438 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 1: own abortion that I had. And our wedding is still on, 439 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: but we are now just thinking of eloping instead of 440 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 1: having a wedding because of everything. Yeah, God, she ruined 441 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: her wedding too, I know. God. Thank you for those 442 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 1: who commented with your advice and helped me process everything 443 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: as well as gave me ideas that could be used 444 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: as a solution. Especially mont Jack Drowning, your message really 445 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 1: hit hard for us and encourage my significant other to 446 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 1: talk to my brother in law about it and allowed 447 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: him to get some of his own hurt out to 448 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 1: think a little bit better. Now, I want to know 449 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 1: what month Jack Drowning said one hundred was the advice 450 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 1: Maybe we should Riley? Can you can you drag up 451 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: that comment? But while Riley's dragging out that comment, like, yeah, 452 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: I feel really bad for op because it's like not 453 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 1: like her now her own feelings about her own abortion 454 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:09,200 Speaker 1: are just being mixed up and brought up and probably 455 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: a mix of emotions there. Ye, and then the wedding, 456 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 1: the wedding freaking her wedding too, is it was ruined. 457 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:19,400 Speaker 1: Her wedding was ruined. It's just I mean, talk about selfishness. 458 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: And also it's like, why is the most selfish kid 459 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: the one that guess she gets like all the praise. 460 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe like with the evil freaking step mom, they 461 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 2: just like attract to each other. They just like combine 462 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 2: their evil power, evilness God for domination. 463 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: So that actually that comment that op was referencing was deleted, 464 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 1: but we did find some other comments. So chip Chop 465 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: six sixty six says, not the asshole. She is too 466 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 1: selfish to raise a child. I'm actually wondering if her 467 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 1: engagement is broken or on the way after brother in 468 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 1: law reads those texts. Vvvv Honest Opinion says, not the asshole. 469 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:57,879 Speaker 1: Your stepsister is obviously unhinged and very very manipulative. Choosing 470 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: address over her unwarmed baby. If she decided to go 471 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 1: through with the abortion is up to her, whatever her decision, 472 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: I would consider not going to her wedding if it 473 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: is still on and blocking her and her mom. Don't 474 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,679 Speaker 1: feel guilty. This is not your fault. But you know 475 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,199 Speaker 1: what I want to know is I want to know 476 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 1: whose fault you think it is, So put your answers 477 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 1: in the comments. I think it's like, I mean, this 478 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: is a crazy situation and we ask you a bunch 479 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: of questions. Throw your answers in the comments. We want 480 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 1: to hear them. Let us know with that, John, I 481 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: think you got a story for me. Oh yeah, I do. 482 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 1: Let's get into it.