WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Train Game

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. Everybody has a different romantic strategy when

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<v Speaker 1>they're out and they see somebody they're attracted to. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like jose will name drop himself before breaking down the

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<v Speaker 1>diet and migration patterns of Pacific. Soft Shell claims, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, we can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it turns.

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<v Speaker 3>Not the worst part.

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<v Speaker 1>But I know a lot about fish.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we got Jeff, Why did you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis will shake her empty white cloth can in your direction,

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<v Speaker 1>hoping you'll buy her a new one. Do you like.

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<v Speaker 2>Today?

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<v Speaker 1>And Brooke, well, she's married, is not interested whatsoever? Wink

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<v Speaker 1>win And she is definitely not going to leave her

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<v Speaker 1>hotel room unlocked doing three oh seven wink wink wink.

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<v Speaker 1>Why does even the doorstop like the open? So again, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>don't dm us Brook is not available. Who is available

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<v Speaker 1>is actually one of our listeners, Josie. And apparently she

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<v Speaker 1>has a different strategy when it comes to meeting a guy. Josie,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, thank you so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you winking right now? Josie?

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<v Speaker 4>Am I winking? No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. Secret codes only leads to trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook would know, so tell us about the guy. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you met someone when you were out recently. Who is it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? So his name is Benjamin, and I actually believe

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<v Speaker 4>it or not met him on the train.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh interesting, like a long trip train or just like

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<v Speaker 5>in town subway situation.

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<v Speaker 4>In town subway situation, that's how I get to it

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<v Speaker 4>from work?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, got it?

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<v Speaker 1>So did you pulled the Brook move of leaving the

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<v Speaker 1>hotel room card like a dot on the chair?

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<v Speaker 2>She's going to work?

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<v Speaker 1>Just stop, get out, you said? He said that you

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<v Speaker 1>have a strategy. I'm wondering what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, so not quite that. But here's what I have learned.

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<v Speaker 4>All I've noticed that the way that I can gauge

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<v Speaker 4>if someone's like attracted to me is if I get

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<v Speaker 4>as close as possible to them without actually interacting with them.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really hoping that the train that you're on is crowded.

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<v Speaker 1>Zy woman, just in there's like forty empty seats and

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<v Speaker 1>you're standing right next to it.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm subtle enough. I hope I'm subtle. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know. We'll find out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So look, how does that work?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so I've been on the train with him a

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<v Speaker 4>bunch of times.

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<v Speaker 2>So so you've noticed him before? Interesting?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, So the first time I decided to use

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<v Speaker 4>my strategy, I got close to him enough but not

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<v Speaker 4>enough where he and I can make eye contact, right,

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<v Speaker 4>and ignored him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, ignore him closer like you're in the same now

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<v Speaker 2>but not. Yeah, and why don't you say anything?

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<v Speaker 1>Desperate people open their mouths and actually speak like hi, Yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta let the target come to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, exactly. I feel it's all about the visibility.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, How many rides until you got close?

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<v Speaker 4>So okay, the second rides got a little bit closer

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<v Speaker 4>than the third ride. I sat right next to.

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<v Speaker 7>Him, charm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like those cat videos where they like, pay away

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<v Speaker 1>for a second and you pan back your cap a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit closer, a little bit closer on his back.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you sitting at his lap by this time?

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<v Speaker 4>Not quite, but I'm sitting right next to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he notice you?

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<v Speaker 6>Then?

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<v Speaker 4>He noticed my jacket?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? How do you know?

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<v Speaker 4>He complimented me on my jacket. He said, hey, nice jacket,

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<v Speaker 4>I like that jacket.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what do you say?

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<v Speaker 4>I said, thank you? And continue to ignore.

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<v Speaker 5>It and continue to ignore, ignore, Wait, he's gonna think

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<v Speaker 5>you don't like him, like that was your opening?

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<v Speaker 4>You have headphones?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you just sitting there in silence facing forward?

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<v Speaker 4>At this point I knew that there was interest. So

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<v Speaker 4>then when I saw him the next time, he asked

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<v Speaker 4>me if I wanted to get coffee?

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<v Speaker 6>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa? So he had spoken one sentence to you prior.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, then he said a little bit like, okay, it's

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<v Speaker 4>you again, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, like a little I mean, this is going to

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<v Speaker 1>help people in real life. This is how you meet

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<v Speaker 1>people in the real world. Get hard to get Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what happens next? At this point? Do you give in?

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<v Speaker 4>At this point I just prefaced by letting him know

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<v Speaker 4>how incredibly busy I am. But I could maybe squeez

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<v Speaker 4>him man after work?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, you don't want to know that you've been

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<v Speaker 1>slowly like stalking him, getting closer and closer to him.

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<v Speaker 5>On the train, and that your heart's about to explode

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<v Speaker 5>because the guy you can crush it on finally.

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<v Speaker 1>Asked you out plain cool?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, okay, so did you go after work?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>So we met at the train station and yeah, it

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<v Speaker 4>was a it was a quick fifteen minute situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Why so quick?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably because the train was coming, So I noticed.

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<v Speaker 4>That, like he is kind of I guess inexperienced, it seems.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Because he was he seemed a little uncomfortable, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like he didn't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that was confusing for him in its own right

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<v Speaker 1>because he was so used to you being cold then before.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm assuming that you guys exchanged numbers after that

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<v Speaker 1>and have stayed in touch. So what's the latest.

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<v Speaker 4>So we did exchange numbers, but now whenever I see him,

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<v Speaker 4>he's acting strength. He's acting like like it never happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Oh interesting, And you're okay with the inexperienced part.

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<v Speaker 5>It sounds like I kind.

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<v Speaker 4>Of thought it was cute, you know, like she just

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't look like he's been on a ton of dates,

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<v Speaker 4>which you know is actually a good thing because like

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of the guys on the app seem like

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<v Speaker 4>may's been on three a day day.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he was just really really nervous on that first

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<v Speaker 1>date and had been looking forward to it just as

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<v Speaker 1>much as you were. Yeah, so maybe he's been waiting

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<v Speaker 1>and trying to figure out the right way to contact you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just gonna jump in and do it for him, though,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call him and try and get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this. Appreciate it, hold on

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. They say sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>never understood that, But yeah, Josie, it's not just a quote.

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<v Speaker 1>That's her entire seduction strategy. I believe this where get

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<v Speaker 1>physically close to a guy and then just completely ignore

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<v Speaker 1>him until he falls in love with you. And now

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<v Speaker 1>I understand why whenever I try to ignore brook at work,

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<v Speaker 1>she just wants to talk to me more and more

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<v Speaker 1>and more, flagging me down, asking me all sorts of questions.

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<v Speaker 2>To you, I only said, how is your weekend?

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<v Speaker 6>Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>All up in my business all over again. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>how one of our listeners, Josie, met a guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Benjamin on the train not too long ago. Over the

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<v Speaker 1>course of several trips, she got closer and closer and

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<v Speaker 1>closer to him till she was basically in his lap

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<v Speaker 1>on a coffee date right before their next train. And

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<v Speaker 1>I can feel Brooks staring at me this entire time,

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to say something, What is it? What do you want?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just listening to what I'm not twisted. Okay, talk

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<v Speaker 2>so much. Just get to the point.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, my point has been made that he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's the bad point.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Now what would you like to say?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. How are you feeling, Josie? No, obviously

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<v Speaker 2>she's not back.

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<v Speaker 6>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't want to talk to if she wants to listen,

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<v Speaker 1>she's ignoring you.

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<v Speaker 5>Now I want to know, like, is she nervous or

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<v Speaker 5>does she think like they only spent fifteen minutes together.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what can go so wrong in fifteen minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't downplay her amazing date. Bro, that's really really.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just done with you. You can talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Call the guy, Yes, call the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Call the guy. How does that feel?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I like to, you know, have meaningful conversations and dive

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<v Speaker 1>into people's feel All right, now, we'll just get right

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<v Speaker 1>to business and called Benjamin. I'm gonna dial his number.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see if he answers. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Benjamin? This is a not just one person,

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<v Speaker 1>a whole radio show on the phone to talk to.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Good morning, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're doing something called a second date. Update because

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners has been trying to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of you, and apparently she wants to see you

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<v Speaker 1>again on a real date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know the right way to say this.

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<v Speaker 5>That makes sense, like they only went you only went

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<v Speaker 5>to coffee for fifteen minutes with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wasn't sure if you would consider this a

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<v Speaker 1>date or not. There's a girl from the train named Josie.

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<v Speaker 6>You said it's a date. I know, go from the

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<v Speaker 6>train named Josie. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I didn't want to label it a date. But

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<v Speaker 1>apparently you guys have hung out seen each other a

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<v Speaker 1>few times and had coffee together. That's the date we're referring.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean we ride the same train line and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you're in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, why didn't you consider the coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>Meet up a date?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I guess, like technically, like we made an appointment

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<v Speaker 6>or like a time to see each other.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people would see that as two people

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<v Speaker 1>meeting up and having a drink or whatever together. That's

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<v Speaker 1>considered a date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, But I mean like normally there's sort of like,

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<v Speaker 6>I guess date vibes if you will, Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't get anything vibes friendly.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I just didn't even know they were supposed to

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<v Speaker 6>be chemistry there. So the deal is, my mom's birthday

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<v Speaker 6>is coming up, and I know this is it's like

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<v Speaker 6>a weird intro. But he this girl has like, I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know how to describe it other than like a

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<v Speaker 6>very similar style to my mom.

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<v Speaker 5>What did you just say, Josie has a similar style

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<v Speaker 5>to your mom?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna throw up.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot think.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, hold on, let's hear him out.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe not like in a g Like just I noticed

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<v Speaker 6>she was wearing this jacket that my mom has the

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<v Speaker 6>exact same one of Oh not the jacket.

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<v Speaker 2>Ross is just insulting. Yeah, Gross's not into her, It's

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<v Speaker 2>just okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Josie mentioned us that you brought up her jacket looking

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<v Speaker 1>really nice when you guys are on the train together.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 6>No? Yeah, so I noticed her on the train a

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<v Speaker 6>couple of times, and I swear they must shop at

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<v Speaker 6>the same place. And so I'm like, no, I don't

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<v Speaker 6>know where to get a gift for my mom. And

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<v Speaker 6>so I was just going to pick her brain on

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<v Speaker 6>like where she shopped.

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<v Speaker 1>This was an information site.

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<v Speaker 2>Like where's the talbots?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, that might be a good place to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell Josie during the coffee experience that you

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<v Speaker 1>were looking to buy a gift for your mother or

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<v Speaker 1>are you just information gathering?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if i'd mentioned specifically that we talked about,

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<v Speaker 6>like where she shopped and like, I mean it was brief,

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<v Speaker 6>like okay, that's why I like when you said date.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't really think of it as a date.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody who may have seen it as a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more than that is Josie, who unfortunately has been listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this entire conversation Benji, and she's on the other line.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, hello, you never seem interested.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, that's Josie.

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<v Speaker 4>J Hia to get that's like so offensive. And my

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<v Speaker 4>mom's cool?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, no, no, your mom is cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's possible maybe his mom is some sort of model.

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<v Speaker 4>Why didn't you just ask me where I got the

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<v Speaker 4>jacket when you complimented me on it and.

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<v Speaker 6>Has that jacket.

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<v Speaker 2>Jacket?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's kind of funny. He was probably taking your

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<v Speaker 1>feelings into consideration by not bringing that up.

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<v Speaker 5>I bet his mom was really like maybe a teenager

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<v Speaker 5>when she had him, so she's very young.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he's product of a teenage pregnancy.

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<v Speaker 6>I know that's not true. Okay, it's like bohemian style.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know what you would call it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's okay, that's true. At no point that people, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, what Josie probably wants to hear from you, Benjamin,

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<v Speaker 1>is an apology of some sort.

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<v Speaker 6>Why am I What did I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? You said that she has the style of your mom?

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<v Speaker 6>Would you rather my mom has your style?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, nobody, Okay, can we get off the

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<v Speaker 7>whole I dressed like his mom, saying okay, I think

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<v Speaker 7>that's been established.

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<v Speaker 4>I was genuinely like interested. You seemed like a really

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<v Speaker 4>nice guy, and you just seemed like you were a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit experienced, inexperience rather so now I just feel

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<v Speaker 4>like an idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think he is inexperienced. I mean gifts for

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<v Speaker 2>his mom.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't think I'm an experienced blake. You didn't

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<v Speaker 6>give off any signs of like, hey, let's go have

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<v Speaker 6>a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Why do you think I wanted to have coffee with you?

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<v Speaker 1>She was playing hard to get with you.

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<v Speaker 6>She didn't even want to have coffee with me. Point,

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<v Speaker 6>She's like maybe I can fit you in. I was

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<v Speaker 6>just like, well perfect, I don't need like.

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<v Speaker 1>Between the lines that means she likes you.

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<v Speaker 4>Telling you that I'm gonna make time for you should

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<v Speaker 4>be indicative of interest.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to be real.

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<v Speaker 6>Clear, I don't have that, dakoder Rig. I thought you

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<v Speaker 6>were just like literally busy.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean she obviously you know now that she likes you, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 5>it's very clear.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so put all the mom stuff aside. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>see her like as a potential romantic interest for you?

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<v Speaker 6>I haven't really even thought about it. Like, all I

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<v Speaker 6>can do is like picture my mom's clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>That could be sexy in something.

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<v Speaker 6>Could be No, it's not like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well I'm doing more damage than I am helping.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you like, donate the jacket and then maybe get something.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not changing my wardrobe because of him.

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<v Speaker 6>No, you shouldn't change it. I mean, you look amazing

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<v Speaker 6>at I was serious when I complimented you.

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<v Speaker 2>She's never going to be able to wear that jacket again.

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<v Speaker 1>Just so you know, she'll find something out even hotter

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<v Speaker 1>to wear on your first official day that we we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to send you on it and pay for the

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<v Speaker 1>day if you want to do this, Benjamin, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think can we?

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<v Speaker 4>If not, don't even ask him?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, we should probably ask his mom for permission first,

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure it's okay before he's allowed to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's going to go home.

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<v Speaker 1>You're done with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know if there's coming back from this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would agree with that.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, Josie, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>I really didn't see it as what you were shooting for.

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<v Speaker 3>So I apologize, And like, they just don't allow it

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<v Speaker 3>to be awkward when we see each other on the

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<v Speaker 3>train again, So I really am sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, it won't be. I'm probably gonna start taking

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<v Speaker 4>the bus.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but that's like ignoring him. And when she ignores someone,

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<v Speaker 1>it means that she likes I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think throwing that. From now on, I'm never using that again.

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<v Speaker 1>Rook Jeffrey in the Morning. This second date update was

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<v Speaker 1>powered by Talbots. Stop it somethings to embrace your inner mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Put on that floral button up blouse under a handstitch

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<v Speaker 1>sweater vest, and then embrace the sexy. Yeah, why is

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<v Speaker 1>that terrible?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>You mean no one wants to be compared to their mother.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, I would like to ask that we destigmatize

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<v Speaker 1>the idea that moms aren't sexy. Okay, I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>this narrative that you guys are painting that moms can't

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<v Speaker 1>be hot.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey, you cannot be attracted to someone who looks like

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<v Speaker 5>your own mother.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't matter if your own mother is heid clue.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's your opinions.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're a hot mom text in the seventy five nine,

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<v Speaker 2>are you trying to get hot moms attetion? That is

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<v Speaker 2>not what this is about.

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<v Speaker 1>Solidarity in numbers. And if we can't agree on that,

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<v Speaker 1>at least we can agree on this, we'll help you

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<v Speaker 1>with your dating life.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No't matter who your mom is, no matter what they

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<v Speaker 1>look like.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, heiy Klum's daughter, give us a call.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, email the show. We'll call that person who's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back, and go check out all of

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<v Speaker 1>our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey