WEBVTT - LS Episode 481: Coordinate This (Feat. Eva Marcille & Zuri Pryor-Graves)

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<v Speaker 1>What's up the service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm J. J.

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<v Speaker 2>Maguire, I'm Jeordie.

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<v Speaker 3>Jor, I'm Zuri Prior Graves, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm your girl, even morself.

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<v Speaker 4>And this show didn't even start, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>we already did have that.

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<v Speaker 2>Because happening.

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<v Speaker 4>But let's just make sure we're all familiar with who

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<v Speaker 4>everybody is here, because Zuri Pia Graves, you are an

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<v Speaker 4>intimacy coordinator I am, and a mental health expert.

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<v Speaker 3>I am clinician.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, like run it down because I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to miss anything you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, those are those are the two main things.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm a sexuality educator and I used to be

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<v Speaker 5>a sexuality a sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Therapist, sexuality educator.

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<v Speaker 5>Well when I was doing it, I used to write

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<v Speaker 5>curriculum for sex education in schools. And it was also

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<v Speaker 5>at a time where HR policies didn't include language around

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<v Speaker 5>transidentities and all these sur revising corporate pr policies to

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<v Speaker 5>make sure that they're inclusive.

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<v Speaker 4>Of well, they're about to throw all that out, girl,

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<v Speaker 4>because the way times are looking. Sheeshuh and Eva, before

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<v Speaker 4>we even started this, we were talking about eats, lay

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<v Speaker 4>love and of course you know, we are excited for

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<v Speaker 4>all the Kings men to all.

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<v Speaker 1>The queens Men, sorry, all the Queen's Men coming back

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<v Speaker 1>on November.

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<v Speaker 6>There's so many kings in there, though, I get it. Listen,

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<v Speaker 6>the Kings came there.

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<v Speaker 4>We actually yesterday yesterday, me, Jordan and Gigi were at

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<v Speaker 4>my house and we were watching like binging Everything Eats

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<v Speaker 4>Lay Love, but also catching up on season three so

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<v Speaker 4>then we could get ready for season.

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<v Speaker 2>Four of All the Queens.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you and listen.

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<v Speaker 4>When when we were looking at like the preview of

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<v Speaker 4>what happened on the previous season, we were like, well, no,

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<v Speaker 4>let's run that back again because we need to catch

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<v Speaker 4>back up because I don't even remember this, you know how.

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<v Speaker 1>It is just so much happening.

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<v Speaker 6>There's so much happening. And that's what I love about

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<v Speaker 6>doing TV and film. I always thought say that entertainment,

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<v Speaker 6>especially actors and TV and film, we satisfy two things.

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<v Speaker 6>We there make it relatable, which is why reality TV

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<v Speaker 6>became such a big thing. Or watching yourself. When you're

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<v Speaker 6>watching your favorite TV shows like Living Single. Back in

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<v Speaker 6>the day, it was relatable, right, like that's your aunt,

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<v Speaker 6>that's your mom, that's you, And then the other thing

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<v Speaker 6>we look for is an escape from like whatever our

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<v Speaker 6>life is, the election, breakups, just whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>You just need an escape from reality.

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<v Speaker 6>And so that's what I feel like TV does, and

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<v Speaker 6>that's what I enjoy doing as an entertainer, is bringing

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<v Speaker 6>all of those things to the forefront.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, madam. Do you guys have an intimacy coordinator

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<v Speaker 1>on set?

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<v Speaker 2>Is groceries? Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>You have to show when I found out that you

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<v Speaker 6>were bringing an intimacy coordinator. You have no idea how

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<v Speaker 6>excited I was, because it is the one question a

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<v Speaker 6>lot of actors are asked when they do work that

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<v Speaker 6>is not PG and the show like mine, has every

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<v Speaker 6>letter it's like PG, M.

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<v Speaker 2>A, t Z exactly right.

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<v Speaker 6>So it's like we come out Thanksgiving Day, get ready

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<v Speaker 6>to get stuffed. We have two episodes for you, whether

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<v Speaker 6>or not for your kids, And in that there is text.

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<v Speaker 6>There's a lot of what intimacy looks like in different versions,

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<v Speaker 6>and so people are often asked.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm often asked, you know, like how you don't scene

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<v Speaker 2>like did he really like?

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<v Speaker 6>And I try to explain it the best way I

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<v Speaker 6>can I know. On All the Queen's Men Season two,

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<v Speaker 6>A white Coastar and I had a love scene on

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<v Speaker 6>a jet and some things, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you gave back that diamond necklace.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Angelou wee can buy our own diamonds.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm just saying like, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>But in that scene people often ask like what was what?

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<v Speaker 6>So you're the person that I am used to leaning

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<v Speaker 6>on at work that it's like, I know you're having sex,

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<v Speaker 6>like do you want.

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<v Speaker 2>To keep it wrong? Do you want like a one piece?

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<v Speaker 6>Like do you want a body double? Do you want

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<v Speaker 6>a body double? That's often a very big thing. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>that bottom half wasn't me. You saw me with the

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<v Speaker 6>d string like my trailer.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>So not, but the amount of comfort that actors are

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<v Speaker 6>provided with intimacy coordinators. I mean I can look back

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<v Speaker 6>at my sex scenes and I choreographed it to a

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<v Speaker 6>te so I have it video tape five six times

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<v Speaker 6>and jogging pants prior to so there was no question

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<v Speaker 6>of like, do ain't no tongue slipping here? Like I

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<v Speaker 6>was supposed to move my head that way to you know,

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<v Speaker 6>And so it's but it's you that taught me that

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<v Speaker 6>or the intimacy of coordinators.

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<v Speaker 2>So I applaud you and I appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, tell us a little bit about what you do.

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely, So, I mean that was such a good run down,

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<v Speaker 5>especially including body suits and different things. But the main

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<v Speaker 5>thing I feel like is that people are not actually

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<v Speaker 5>having sex. So a lot of actors get questions all

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<v Speaker 5>the time like that, No, but what we do is

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<v Speaker 5>we do our best to try to make it look.

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<v Speaker 3>Like they are while keeping them safe.

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<v Speaker 5>So coming to even being like, hey, what are you

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<v Speaker 5>comfortable with in this scene in terms of what are

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<v Speaker 5>you wearing? You know, what are the movements that we

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<v Speaker 5>can work out and developing really repeatable and really specific

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<v Speaker 5>actions that are associated with those sex scenes. And that's

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<v Speaker 5>what we do with our actors, and we do a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of other things like behind the cameras to make

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<v Speaker 5>sure legally that these actors are protected and that the

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<v Speaker 5>production is protected.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm talking about protection time because they literally like ladies.

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<v Speaker 6>You heard of commandos, Yes, okay, I'm like a big

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<v Speaker 6>underwear kind of girl, So I don't wear those in

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<v Speaker 6>my personal life. But there's not a sex scene you

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<v Speaker 6>do without like like everything's coming.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like it's like the little thin panty. It takes

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<v Speaker 2>over everything, like so you can't see it.

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<v Speaker 6>So if you want to wear those cute dresses or

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<v Speaker 6>the sides are cut out.

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<v Speaker 4>The regular I know where you could buy. I thought

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<v Speaker 4>it was something special.

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<v Speaker 2>One of those breathe right nose strips.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like they covered it like completely, but this is

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<v Speaker 6>the gag.

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<v Speaker 2>The men wear them too, Yes, the men. They put

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<v Speaker 2>their stuff in it. They pushing back there. No, seriously, like.

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<v Speaker 6>They put their stuff in a pouch like and they

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<v Speaker 6>tie it on there and then and then they push it.

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<v Speaker 2>Around so there is like no space.

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<v Speaker 6>Like so if you hear someone like, oh I got

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<v Speaker 6>a rouser this happened, it's with a take down, it's you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, fifty people in the room.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, people say that it's kind of awkward with

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<v Speaker 4>everybody watching you, And I'm sure do you also coordinate that,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I don't want as many people on set because

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<v Speaker 4>that can be uncomfortable too.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's called a close.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna saying, I've always had a clothes set. TP.

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<v Speaker 6>Shout out to TP, but he is very sincere about

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<v Speaker 6>like Karen Man only and the necessary actors like that's it, right,

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<v Speaker 6>So it's very it makes it makes it very comfortable,

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<v Speaker 6>and then intimacy coordinaries.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't feel like now as a model because I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like models tend to be more comfortable with their bodies.

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<v Speaker 6>And there for sure, but something between your legs and

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<v Speaker 6>your body is very different. So like if we have

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<v Speaker 6>the change as girls in here right now, like I

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<v Speaker 6>would need to go into the room, I'd take my

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<v Speaker 6>shirt off, another shirt on. Y'all got boobs, you know

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<v Speaker 6>what I'm saying, Like we all know areola's. But if

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<v Speaker 6>I'm supposed to have like a man in between my

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<v Speaker 6>legs right now doing something, put his.

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<v Speaker 4>Head right here a lot on the on all the queens,

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<v Speaker 4>it was, I wasn't running for it. But what's good

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<v Speaker 4>about you is that you always get to shut everybody down.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I know you've had your your sex scenes, but

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<v Speaker 4>they're not as like it's not like you're having sex

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<v Speaker 4>with a bunch of people, because I feel like if

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<v Speaker 4>it was a man running a strip.

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<v Speaker 2>Club, he would be fucking everything.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, let's talk about that, because if you flip this

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<v Speaker 6>whole show upside down and may like the valley, we're

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<v Speaker 6>the women are the objects and the men are more

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<v Speaker 6>of the leadership position. It's a whole other show, which

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<v Speaker 6>is what makes all the Queen's men so dope because

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<v Speaker 6>I see Angela, I see you, I see you, I

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<v Speaker 6>see you because we are bosses women in our own rights.

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<v Speaker 6>So I get to play a role where I take

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<v Speaker 6>from all of these boss women everything I know, the savvy,

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<v Speaker 6>the cunniness, attacked, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>And how you kill people, you know, women to do.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we had an idea to watching the show.

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<v Speaker 4>We were like, now, have you been to a male

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<v Speaker 4>reviews show in real life?

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<v Speaker 2>Because these ladies have.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, yes, okay, I've hosted them before that to

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<v Speaker 1>one one. How long ago is that?

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<v Speaker 3>And it was in d C. No.

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<v Speaker 4>So my idea was, and I was telling Giz while

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<v Speaker 4>we were I said, for this new season, at some point,

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<v Speaker 4>we should have the guys come and really do a

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<v Speaker 4>male review show at medics, like a fun one with

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<v Speaker 4>industry people. Yeah, and all women like inside the club

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<v Speaker 4>trying to get in, like let's know you are you because.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get to know where's that who's splitting up the money.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a good promotional thing though.

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<v Speaker 4>It's beautiful because imagine, like how many women have never

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<v Speaker 4>been to a male review show, just talking to them

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<v Speaker 4>about it because I've been before, because I posted and

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<v Speaker 4>it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Canny Birds Dungeon part Yeah, no one ever was that. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it was as my Girl, it was, and Michael bau

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<v Speaker 2>Wire was a part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's in our show?

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<v Speaker 2>That's yeah, that's what that's the stage heard about.

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<v Speaker 6>She's like, okay, Tyler Perry, but no, bo, what I

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<v Speaker 6>think is dope about him And the reason why I

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<v Speaker 6>call him bow Wie because the first day we started working,

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<v Speaker 6>Kim Phils was directing us and we were just rehearsing,

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<v Speaker 6>and I pulled him to the side because I know

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<v Speaker 6>how it is to be prejudged. I know how it

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<v Speaker 6>is the people to have some kind of expectation of

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<v Speaker 6>me or idea of me, and it really sucks because

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just me and nine times out of ten, you've

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<v Speaker 6>got a better version of me today than yesterday. And

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<v Speaker 6>please don't let the man yesterday tell you my story.

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<v Speaker 6>So when it comes to bow Wire, when I met him,

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<v Speaker 6>I asked him, said, what do you want to be called? Like,

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<v Speaker 6>how do you want me to address you? And he said,

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<v Speaker 6>my name is Michael. Okay, I said, so, how would

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<v Speaker 6>you what do you want to call you? Michael Bolois

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<v Speaker 6>call me Michael. So at work, I'm so used to

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<v Speaker 6>him being called Michael, You're like, who yeah, or I'll

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<v Speaker 6>call him bow Wire And that's where bo I guess

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<v Speaker 6>Bolow came from. But he's the consummate professional. He's an

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<v Speaker 6>absolute dallface, and he is one that had no actings experience,

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<v Speaker 6>but what he did have is the authenticity of the

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<v Speaker 6>life of what really happens like.

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<v Speaker 2>And he knows it.

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<v Speaker 6>So there was no script to tell him how to

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<v Speaker 6>poffy him, right, you know what I mean? And Tyler

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<v Speaker 6>did a really good job at bringing in both season

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<v Speaker 6>actors and then season dancers and making us learn what

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<v Speaker 6>that marriage looked like to make a create a great show.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah now there you also work on Reasonable Doubt, Right,

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<v Speaker 4>I love that show. And it's back, coming back for

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<v Speaker 4>season but three.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I hope you think, yeah, oh yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they just announced it's coming back. Wait is this

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<v Speaker 4>season four?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>This is the one with more chestnuts?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the one person?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>But okay, so, and there's definitely some steamy scenes absolutely, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited for that new season to start.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was an amazing show to work on.

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<v Speaker 4>When did they start having these intimacy coordinators on set? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>because I feel like this wasn't something that was a

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<v Speaker 4>thing prior to this a few years ago.

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<v Speaker 5>It was so twenty seventeen was me too. Twenty eighteen

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<v Speaker 5>people started to get together to try to figure out

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<v Speaker 5>what this was going to be. I think by twenty

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<v Speaker 5>nineteen is when people were implementing intimacy coordinators on sets.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's like Pee Valley Season one.

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<v Speaker 5>Was twenty nineteen and they had an intimacy coordinator and

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of things were picking up at Tyler Perry Studios,

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of films and TV picked up.

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<v Speaker 3>On it in Atlanta, which was really good.

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<v Speaker 4>And then it so forward with these sets they really

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<v Speaker 4>are and thinks to Taller Perry, I feel like because

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<v Speaker 4>he'd be going it.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, Tip just looks out for his people in every

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<v Speaker 6>single way, like in every way from food to transportation

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<v Speaker 6>to the into no question, but a lot of people

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<v Speaker 6>figure like I'll get the check, but so if they

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<v Speaker 6>don't have my food, like it's okay if my trailer

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<v Speaker 6>is not you know, right, it's like make sure every

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<v Speaker 6>everything across the board. And even if the scene is

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<v Speaker 6>written like as an intimacy coordinator, you know, written where

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<v Speaker 6>it's supposed to be a little bit more provocative or

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<v Speaker 6>like I'm supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>For all love boob in there.

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<v Speaker 6>If I'm not a love boom filling it this today,

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<v Speaker 6>then that parts out right.

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<v Speaker 2>The show goes on. Everyone's fine, like it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Not a it's not a big He's not trying to

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<v Speaker 4>convince you I was thinking of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you everybody here see Fame? Remember that play where

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<v Speaker 4>she's sitting in front of the camera. That that is

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<v Speaker 4>such a powerful scene where he's like telling her to

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<v Speaker 4>take off her shirt and she's crying because she doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to see the movie Fame.

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<v Speaker 4>But that scene right there is Irene Karat and it's

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<v Speaker 4>like really and she doesn't want to do it. Because

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes people will tell you they get convinced to do

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<v Speaker 4>things that they're not completely comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Call me too.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was the whole me too movement, like the

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<v Speaker 6>idea of discomfort but still having to do it because

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<v Speaker 6>you want your job and you want to do you

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<v Speaker 6>want all the rest of your job. You just don't

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<v Speaker 6>want to do that, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, and then people would be like, well,

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<v Speaker 4>you agree to it, why didn't you say something at

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<v Speaker 4>the time, because I hear people say stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 4>and I can think of so many times that we

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<v Speaker 4>all did something and didn't say anything at the time,

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<v Speaker 4>but we were not comfortable, and then it's like damn.

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<v Speaker 4>You feel like it is an intimidating thing, and sometimes you.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel a little powerless in that moment.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's part of.

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<v Speaker 5>Our job is to try to dismantle the hierarchy of things.

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<v Speaker 5>And especially in Atlanta where there are so many projects

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<v Speaker 5>that are indie films or smaller projects where they're inviting

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<v Speaker 5>all these young black actors, they don't a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>times you know what to ask for. They signed contracts,

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<v Speaker 5>and the contracts have these really really broad nudity.

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<v Speaker 3>Clauses and things like that, and then they get on set.

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<v Speaker 5>They might be they've already flown in, they're put up

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<v Speaker 5>and everything, and then they get all.

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<v Speaker 1>Their scripts right and they're like, wait, I agree to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. You're like, ooh, I don't know about So

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<v Speaker 1>that happens.

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<v Speaker 6>You get every single scene, even if it's not my scene.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, every scene of intimacy that's gone and on,

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<v Speaker 6>you know where it's scheduled in the day, Like my

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<v Speaker 6>attorney had to sign off Max husband. My attorney signs

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<v Speaker 6>off on every single I mean, even if it's just

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<v Speaker 6>a kiss, if it's a pat on the butts, there's

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<v Speaker 6>no way to mint any of this.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that how most projects are or is that just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we'll see.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you think that Tyler Perry is way more intentional

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<v Speaker 4>than the average, Well, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Know Tyler is way more intentional than I mean, I

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<v Speaker 6>worked around COVID and Tyler was in a bubble and

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<v Speaker 6>we got tested three times a day and couldn't start

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<v Speaker 6>work for two weeks quarantine just to ensure like his

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<v Speaker 6>level of protection.

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<v Speaker 2>All the way around. But I think it has I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>He protects everything he does very well and protects the actors.

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<v Speaker 6>That's why when you hear an actor talk about like

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<v Speaker 6>working with Tea, it's like there is absolutely no comparison.

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<v Speaker 4>I saw when I interviewed Debbie Morgan, I saw you

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<v Speaker 4>left an She was talking about getting her salary and

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<v Speaker 4>how he gave her more money after like.

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<v Speaker 6>They I was at Disney World through my three kids

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<v Speaker 6>one year maybe yash year a year before last, and

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<v Speaker 6>he calls me and he's like, what do you make

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<v Speaker 6>Here's a race and the and I already had a

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<v Speaker 6>guaranteed raise in there. It was way more than the guarantee,

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<v Speaker 6>just like off the strength, like you've been working, Like

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<v Speaker 6>when I tell you Tyler's heart and his generosity, what

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<v Speaker 6>he does versus what he has to do in comparison,

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<v Speaker 6>because I did Young and the Restless, I was on Smallville,

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<v Speaker 6>I done. Everybody hates Chris like I've ran the gamut

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<v Speaker 6>of television shows. There is nothing, no comparison that compares

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<v Speaker 6>to working that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>There really is it.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why I saw people in the comments, like

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<v Speaker 4>y'all be wanting to slam Tyler Perry on social media.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't nobody tell me anything bad about Tyler Perry.

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<v Speaker 6>You can't tell me anything at all because Tyler. If

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<v Speaker 6>you work after Tyler.

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<v Speaker 2>Is because you want to, not because you have to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's real, that.

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<v Speaker 6>Like real talk, like you keep working because you love

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<v Speaker 6>the art. But as far as him taking care of you,

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<v Speaker 6>you're good. Your ability to tolerate other sets, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 6>why are we still here did.

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<v Speaker 1>You get the role in the first place? As madam?

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<v Speaker 2>I got a phone call. Tyler called me and said,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a script.

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<v Speaker 6>It's different, very different, very different, but I know you

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<v Speaker 6>can hold it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna send it to you. Read it, let me

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<v Speaker 2>know what you think and what was your first reaction? Damn.

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<v Speaker 6>My first reaction was like, Yo, this is a boss

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<v Speaker 6>and the clothes be top ten. I have to shout

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<v Speaker 6>out if you've seen your body on a fashion My

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<v Speaker 6>next fting is.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't wait because she is a beast.

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<v Speaker 6>But Rihanda Verene has worked with TP for quite some

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<v Speaker 6>time and as you see him elevate his production, he

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<v Speaker 6>does it in every department. And Rihanda, Oh she kills it.

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<v Speaker 6>She kills she knows black women's body, she knows women,

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<v Speaker 6>she knows close you know, just period, that's all Randall.

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<v Speaker 4>She's doing an amazing Everything looks so nice on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, it's fire.

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<v Speaker 2>I like both.

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<v Speaker 1>But I like your style there, but I also like to.

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<v Speaker 2>See like on my regular me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you could do both, get you that could do?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a character.

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<v Speaker 4>I play a character and it still looks amazing. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's aspirational.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and there are a lot of women that are

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, look at who was just on the bill

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<v Speaker 6>for nominee for president. I mean there are black women

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<v Speaker 6>that are out here bossing up and are power suits

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<v Speaker 6>every single day trying to change the world.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Those power suits were different, though, those different.

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<v Speaker 2>She's demure, very.

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<v Speaker 1>Very not with no shirt under her suit. I let

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<v Speaker 1>them out, now, let them out. Now there.

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<v Speaker 4>You also do therapy for families, for couples, right, individual therapy,

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<v Speaker 4>you do all of it. I don't even know how

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<v Speaker 4>you have time to do all of that, right, busy, busy.

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<v Speaker 4>But how important do you think that couple's therapy is

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<v Speaker 4>for people who say are getting married or who are married.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's really important, especially even new relationships. I

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<v Speaker 5>tell people, don't wait until there's a problem to have

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<v Speaker 5>a support system, even if it's like a once a

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<v Speaker 5>month check in. Establishing someone that you can talk to

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<v Speaker 5>that's outside of your marriage, that isn't your friend or

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<v Speaker 5>your family member or something like that can really help

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<v Speaker 5>sustain a marriage or any relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to find the right therapist too.

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<v Speaker 4>I tried to get absolutely I had to get my

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<v Speaker 4>boyfriend to do therapy. Yeah, he went, well, not when

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<v Speaker 4>it was like on zoom one time and he was

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<v Speaker 4>not feeling it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, well tried it did Was it a

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<v Speaker 1>man or woman? It was a woman, was it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>She started telling him her problems.

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<v Speaker 6>She was right, that doesn't want But for couples therapy,

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<v Speaker 6>I find having been married, having done therapy before getting married,

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<v Speaker 6>doing personal therapy for myself a black woman works for me, right,

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<v Speaker 6>because a black woman relates to me, she understands. So

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<v Speaker 6>for personal therapy, but for couple's therapy, I literally just

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<v Speaker 6>had this conversation with my best friend saying, is there

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<v Speaker 6>a world where you use more than just one therapist?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, where you would use a man and a woman,

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<v Speaker 6>not necessarily at the same time, just to create a

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<v Speaker 6>sense of balance and equity when it comes to the

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<v Speaker 6>male perspective or the female perspective. So it's like having

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<v Speaker 6>a doctor or gynecologist, like, I don't mind if my

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<v Speaker 6>PCP is a man, but my obg yn is the woman.

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<v Speaker 6>It needs to be a woman. I don't care how

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<v Speaker 6>much you've learned about feminine anatomy.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't get it because you don't get it. Yea,

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<v Speaker 2>and no, more than I can truly understand a man.

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<v Speaker 6>I raised boys, I was raised with boys, I got

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<v Speaker 6>daddy like all that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know, I like true interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that a.

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<v Speaker 5>Lot of times people go into couple's therapy and they

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<v Speaker 5>already have a therapist and then they're like, I want

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<v Speaker 5>to they're discussing issues within the relationship, and then they're like,

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<v Speaker 5>I want to bring my partner in to me. That

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<v Speaker 5>is unethical. I don't think that that's I mean, I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like there's a maybe us session, but at some

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<v Speaker 5>point you need to make sure that it is a

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<v Speaker 5>safe space for both people, and I think that that's

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<v Speaker 5>when you outsource. Could that other original party be a

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<v Speaker 5>part of that conversation. I think that would be pretty interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>Outside of like maybe an initial session where you're telling, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>this is what we've been talking about, this is why

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<v Speaker 5>I'm you know, transferring care to this person. I think

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<v Speaker 5>it would be really interesting to continue that and also

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<v Speaker 5>with the consideration of both of those energies in the space.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean like three months with you and then

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<v Speaker 6>maybe your practice. You have a male that works with you,

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<v Speaker 6>you have made him privy of all of our issues

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<v Speaker 6>where we started where our growth is all of that,

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<v Speaker 6>and then now have him for the next three months.

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<v Speaker 6>You see what I'm saying, and just go back and forth.

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<v Speaker 6>And I just while I'm considering some more therapy, wondering

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<v Speaker 6>if that is something that is just Walt Disney of me,

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<v Speaker 6>like no one can see it yet, or is that

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<v Speaker 6>something that's done or doable.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never seen that done. I could see it in

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<v Speaker 5>the way that they're both in the room at the

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<v Speaker 5>same time, Okay, but I feel like the issue would

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<v Speaker 5>be the disconnect. So you'd have you know, you said

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<v Speaker 5>three months, you'd have three months of development and like

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<v Speaker 5>we'll progress. Therapy is not linear, but you'd have all

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<v Speaker 5>these things that come up, and there's an ethical boundary

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<v Speaker 5>of like how much should I share? How do I

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<v Speaker 5>share that information? Is that other therapists going and listening

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<v Speaker 5>to all of those, you know, re recording these sessions.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what that relationship would look like to

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<v Speaker 5>make sure that the therapy felt cohesive.

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<v Speaker 3>If that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, But I can see I'm ever seen I've seen

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<v Speaker 5>like couples be like, hey, you know, they're a husband

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<v Speaker 5>and wife and they're not therapists, but they do count

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<v Speaker 5>we don't want them right. But that's the only time

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<v Speaker 5>I've ever seen two people.

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<v Speaker 2>In the room.

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<v Speaker 4>How was it difficult to get your ex husband to

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<v Speaker 4>do therapy with you when you guys were getting married

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<v Speaker 4>and before that?

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<v Speaker 6>Mental health therapy I think is a beautifully new idea

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<v Speaker 6>for the black community. It's something that has not been

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<v Speaker 6>normalized growing up and black men, especially so black it

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<v Speaker 6>is it's so difficult, so I can say there was

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<v Speaker 6>a struggle, but truth to be told, the first therapy

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<v Speaker 6>we ever went to was his advice, which was marriage counseling,

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<v Speaker 6>like before getting married.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, let's sit down on my past. He's not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>marry even you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>But I just think it's a traditional thing. And I

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<v Speaker 6>love the black men that have sought therapy or the

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<v Speaker 6>couples that do that are bold enough to tell their

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<v Speaker 6>story because I think it's extremely encouraging. And you don't

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<v Speaker 6>realize how important and necessary therapy is until you jump

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<v Speaker 6>the hurdle of ego okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And actually start doing it. Yes, when you do, who

0:24:17.760 --> 0:24:19.600
<v Speaker 2>you're like to it is so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Like how did you find the right therapist?

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<v Speaker 6>It took a while and I actually heard her speak,

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<v Speaker 6>and I heard her speak about the ideals of what

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<v Speaker 6>relationships are and how we came up with these ideas,

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<v Speaker 6>and she use an example of the Disney idea. She said,

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<v Speaker 6>we are taught literally since children. I know, you know

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<v Speaker 6>it that woman meets men or boy boy meets girl,

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<v Speaker 6>they fall in love. There's some kind of struggle you

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<v Speaker 6>have to fight through. Then you jump over that hurdle.

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<v Speaker 6>Now we're at the top of the mountain and everything's

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<v Speaker 6>happening ever after. So you grew up as an adult

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<v Speaker 6>trying to figure out, like, how.

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<v Speaker 2>Do I get that in my relationship?

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<v Speaker 6>And then social media plays a part in your girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 6>whose relationship looks amazing, plays a.

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<v Speaker 2>Part of your comparison to your man.

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<v Speaker 6>You like, well, I don't get no flowers, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>and she got American, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>So there's all of that that I think that comes

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<v Speaker 6>into it. But when the way I saw her breakdown

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<v Speaker 6>how we have been programmed to look at relationships showed

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<v Speaker 6>me a lot of her brain. And I am a

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<v Speaker 6>very independent thinker, so it just felt right for me.

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<v Speaker 6>It took me about a year and change before I

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<v Speaker 6>finally reached out.

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<v Speaker 2>So do not be discouraged.

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<v Speaker 6>If this conversation is merely a seed and someone else

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<v Speaker 6>waters it later and then you sprout up in a year.

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<v Speaker 6>But after finally I was just at my low and

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, look girl, I need somebody to talk

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<v Speaker 6>to that does not know me. And life is tap

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<v Speaker 6>dancing all over my ass.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the devil has me on his number

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<v Speaker 2>one hit list.

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<v Speaker 6>He wake up early for me, he go to sleep

0:25:59.280 --> 0:26:02.600
<v Speaker 6>late looking for I'm like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>And so does work help you? Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, seriously, because sometimes when things happen, some people

0:26:10.080 --> 0:26:12.359
<v Speaker 4>are throwing themselves into work, and some people are like,

0:26:12.440 --> 0:26:15.399
<v Speaker 4>can't work you know what? Some people are like, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to get out of bed, I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>leave the house. I don't feel like doing anything. But

0:26:19.000 --> 0:26:20.679
<v Speaker 4>some people are like, okay, I don't even want to

0:26:20.680 --> 0:26:22.680
<v Speaker 4>have to think about this. Let me it's just work,

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<v Speaker 4>non sty and.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep it moving.

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<v Speaker 3>That's disassociative behavior. Talk about it, don't we don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Or you know where you can make that separation and

0:26:30.840 --> 0:26:33.600
<v Speaker 5>you throw yourself into your work and you live there,

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:36.479
<v Speaker 5>and those people take that work home with them and

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<v Speaker 5>they live there too, and that depending on what role

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<v Speaker 5>you're playing, Like we have Keith Ledger, you know who passed, Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>you know in these different people who who can't ever

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<v Speaker 5>undo those characters. Uh so I have seen that. I've

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<v Speaker 5>also seen people use their work for shadow work.

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<v Speaker 2>So what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 5>It down like, say they're playing someone who is a

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<v Speaker 5>victim of sexual violence and they are a victim of

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<v Speaker 5>sexual violence.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so they're shadowing their real life.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, and they use it as an opportunity to heal

0:27:08.600 --> 0:27:10.240
<v Speaker 5>because if it's scripted.

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<v Speaker 6>You mean at your work as an actor? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:15.560
<v Speaker 6>absolutely every day girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and sometimes it could work.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it absolutely can work.

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<v Speaker 3>It can be really scary.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I have a question, And actually I think you

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<v Speaker 7>could speak to this a lot too. I have a

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 7>background in modeling, but I have a background in reality TV.

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<v Speaker 7>And I felt like when we stopped filming, we should

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<v Speaker 7>have had like a post production therapist. Yes, not even

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<v Speaker 7>so much, because of like any traumatic thing that happened.

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<v Speaker 2>It was almost even like a.

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<v Speaker 7>Paranoia experienced where I'm like, oh, I'm in my I'm

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<v Speaker 7>in the bathroom, Oh shit is my mic on? Or

0:27:50.400 --> 0:27:53.520
<v Speaker 7>things like that, or they were in here is somebody listening?

0:27:53.520 --> 0:27:55.520
<v Speaker 7>To me, are they looking at my text messages? And

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<v Speaker 7>I know even for my show, I never dealt with

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<v Speaker 7>this per se, but you know, people were intimate and

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:04.720
<v Speaker 7>that was their real life that was out there for

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<v Speaker 7>everybody to say, summerhouse, Martha's vineyard. Yeah, so that was

0:28:13.880 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 7>interesting to witness and to see how it's like, okay,

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:19.280
<v Speaker 7>see you when we have green screen and there was no.

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<v Speaker 2>Bridge in there.

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<v Speaker 7>And then you also do have the what are they

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<v Speaker 7>going to show? And what are people going to say

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:25.879
<v Speaker 7>about me?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? So that's called being a reality star. I can

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<v Speaker 2>speak to both of these.

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<v Speaker 1>But even as an actor, do you guys have posts?

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<v Speaker 2>So started Real started in reality.

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<v Speaker 6>I started one of the first reality shows before we

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<v Speaker 6>even knew the genre was called. I mean, we had Survivor,

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<v Speaker 6>and then I think the year after we had Real World,

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<v Speaker 6>and the year after or during mine was American Idol.

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<v Speaker 6>So we didn't even really it wasn't even a genre there,

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<v Speaker 6>let alone as you know laws and structure that was covered.

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<v Speaker 2>Union why it's still not Union.

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<v Speaker 6>But what I have experienced working with NBC Universal and

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 6>with working with Housewives, we don't start a show without

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<v Speaker 6>knowing who the show's therapist is the show's therapy pist

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 6>has a practice, so if you're not comfortable with that person,

0:29:23.040 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 6>you can choose someone else. And at any point in

0:29:25.600 --> 0:29:29.680
<v Speaker 6>filming if you're like, look, I need a moment, they

0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:34.280
<v Speaker 6>are bound by ethical rules they can't say anything. But

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:38.680
<v Speaker 6>there has always been provided a therapist and so if

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<v Speaker 6>for me the best option to cope in this situation

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<v Speaker 6>is to tap out and walk out, that's what I do.

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<v Speaker 4>So you had that in America's Next Top Model now

0:29:47.760 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 4>on Top Modelport Time Model.

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:53.440
<v Speaker 6>But for Housewives, and I think you were talking about

0:29:53.520 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 6>later on as life changed, the business change and TV

0:29:57.360 --> 0:29:59.719
<v Speaker 6>change and we went from regular to streaming and all

0:29:59.760 --> 0:30:03.800
<v Speaker 6>this up. That's one thing I've definitely had on Housewives.

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<v Speaker 6>It was very doctor such and such and she she's there,

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:10.560
<v Speaker 6>that you have someone to call so that you don't

0:30:10.600 --> 0:30:11.960
<v Speaker 6>feel that way, you.

0:30:11.920 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 2>Know what I mean? And there is now I just

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:15.080
<v Speaker 2>know that.

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<v Speaker 6>For NBC Universal, there is a It's required in contract

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<v Speaker 6>and even after the fact, if there's remnants and you

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:25.040
<v Speaker 6>just still feel away, you do not have to useual

0:30:25.040 --> 0:30:26.640
<v Speaker 6>on insurance girl or your own money.

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:29.040
<v Speaker 2>You can call them. They are obligated to.

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<v Speaker 1>So that did they not have that for Summer House.

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<v Speaker 7>Our second season that they started like we always had

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<v Speaker 7>to get a psych evail before we showed up anywhere,

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<v Speaker 7>but we didn't actually have that knowledge until the third season.

0:30:46.240 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 2>That fact.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so like I've I've also done reality, but I

0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:55.560
<v Speaker 5>did like a game show, and I did I'm not

0:30:55.600 --> 0:30:58.960
<v Speaker 5>an actress, and I did an Escape of Survival for Survival,

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 5>which was an Amazon Prime body show, and we did

0:31:02.720 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 5>the psychoval ahead of time, and even still in that process,

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:10.720
<v Speaker 5>we knew that there was a person because we met

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 5>that person. That person wasn't on the ground. We actually

0:31:14.480 --> 0:31:18.120
<v Speaker 5>had someone who did have some psychological issues and they

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:22.800
<v Speaker 5>had to be escorted off the episode. And being able

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:25.760
<v Speaker 5>like being a therapist myself going to production and being

0:31:25.800 --> 0:31:29.560
<v Speaker 5>like what support, Like did you didn't do enough communication

0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 5>with us to know what we could do in these

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:34.239
<v Speaker 5>situations and asking for it and advocating for it. And

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:37.320
<v Speaker 5>then I did the game show and the similar thing.

0:31:37.360 --> 0:31:40.080
<v Speaker 5>We had one hundred people and one of those people

0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:44.120
<v Speaker 5>ended up having a manic episode and there was no

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<v Speaker 5>one And that's just because the price, like the it

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:51.400
<v Speaker 5>just is is not for every network is not taking

0:31:51.400 --> 0:31:54.440
<v Speaker 5>that into consideration unfortunately. So that's actually one of the

0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:57.800
<v Speaker 5>things that I after doing those experiences back to back

0:31:58.160 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 5>this year, that is the thing that I am most

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 5>past shit about. I'm actually back in school getting my

0:32:01.800 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 5>pH d because it does you do have to get

0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:08.240
<v Speaker 5>have a doctorate, uh in order to do that. And

0:32:08.280 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 5>there are only like twenty psychiatrists who are qualified and

0:32:12.600 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 5>who have done what they need to do in order

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:18.920
<v Speaker 5>to support these reality TV situations and in scripted TV.

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:23.680
<v Speaker 5>There are no regulations. You get usually like the universal

0:32:23.720 --> 0:32:26.920
<v Speaker 5>thing is, regardless of your crew actor, whatever you get,

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<v Speaker 5>like I think it's like four to six free sessions.

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:32.600
<v Speaker 5>But just like you said, nobody knows a lot of times.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, look into your insurance because your insurance covers it

0:32:34.920 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 6>all the way, especially if you're sag after.

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:41.640
<v Speaker 2>It covers all of that down to acupuncture and massages.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a second, but.

0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 3>There.

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<v Speaker 6>And so the second part of that is watch what

0:32:53.680 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 6>you ask for from God, from yourself, and watch the

0:32:57.080 --> 0:33:01.640
<v Speaker 6>rooms you walk into because you can't walk into a

0:33:01.680 --> 0:33:03.320
<v Speaker 6>fire and expect not to get burned.

0:33:03.880 --> 0:33:04.880
<v Speaker 2>You can't walk.

0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:09.959
<v Speaker 6>Into the unknown wanting a sense of knowing, you know

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:12.080
<v Speaker 6>what I'm saying. There's a lover of surrendering. So even

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:16.000
<v Speaker 6>as an actor I've studied my lines. I'm prepared. I

0:33:16.040 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 6>appreciate yours prepared everyone. I just work here. But there's

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 6>also a space where you never know what can happen also,

0:33:23.560 --> 0:33:26.320
<v Speaker 6>and that's why you do have a union. But there's

0:33:26.360 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 6>certain spaces where you how do you lay the blame?

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

0:33:30.560 --> 0:33:34.280
<v Speaker 6>So if I've gotten my physical, I've gotten my psyche val,

0:33:34.400 --> 0:33:38.400
<v Speaker 6>I went to work, everything's good, and then I break

0:33:38.400 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 6>out crazy at work today, or have a manic moment

0:33:41.640 --> 0:33:45.040
<v Speaker 6>or display a different representation than people are used to.

0:33:45.800 --> 0:33:47.480
<v Speaker 2>What is everyone's supposed to do?

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<v Speaker 3>I think there should be systems in place.

0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:51.040
<v Speaker 2>What system is that?

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<v Speaker 6>Because I'm in the middle of shooting the scene getting

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:54.200
<v Speaker 6>paid a whole lot of money with one hundred and

0:33:54.240 --> 0:33:57.040
<v Speaker 6>fifty people that signed up for this very rigorous system.

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:00.600
<v Speaker 5>I think just having somebody who is, like you said

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 5>on Your Real Housewives, you have something that a lot

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:06.200
<v Speaker 5>of other shows don't have, being introduced to that person

0:34:06.200 --> 0:34:08.640
<v Speaker 5>ahead of time, so you know, if something happens, you

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:11.520
<v Speaker 5>can go to that person. And also the production who

0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:14.839
<v Speaker 5>is not equipped to handle a situation like that, knowing

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:18.160
<v Speaker 5>that they have someone who they can direct any of

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 5>those situations too. It's just unfortunate that that isn't the

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:23.000
<v Speaker 5>standard in the Norman.

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so for the ones that I did have, they

0:34:26.040 --> 0:34:28.440
<v Speaker 6>were never in real time, so there was a zoom

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 6>prior to psyche Val. You get the phone call, you

0:34:31.239 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 6>talk to somebody, you have the number.

0:34:33.239 --> 0:34:34.160
<v Speaker 2>Then you shoot your show.

0:34:34.719 --> 0:34:36.719
<v Speaker 6>While shooting your show, you find that you need to

0:34:36.760 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 6>talk to somebody.

0:34:38.080 --> 0:34:38.960
<v Speaker 2>You have someone to call.

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:42.479
<v Speaker 6>They can fly to Marrakesh where you're shooting right now,

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:44.799
<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean, So you talk to them,

0:34:44.880 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 6>but you really need it for me after the fact,

0:34:49.120 --> 0:34:53.400
<v Speaker 6>and that paranoia in your bathroom later on, is the

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:56.160
<v Speaker 6>camera on my phone? Do I need to turn it off?

0:34:56.239 --> 0:34:58.319
<v Speaker 2>Like that? It's kind of after that fact. Was in

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:00.759
<v Speaker 2>the moment, you're literally in the you never you don't

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 2>know what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I think for me, my experience is only a

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:06.160
<v Speaker 7>little bit different because we were it's more similar to

0:35:06.200 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 7>your newer show, a newer reality show, because we were

0:35:09.160 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 7>there filming the whole time. So for three weeks, we're

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:15.560
<v Speaker 7>not home. You know, there's no breaks, there's no anything

0:35:16.440 --> 0:35:18.879
<v Speaker 7>three months, so you know.

0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:20.120
<v Speaker 2>That part, and it's just.

0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:24.399
<v Speaker 7>I had a mental breakdown on I think on every

0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:28.040
<v Speaker 7>show I was on, just because I'm a very anxious

0:35:28.040 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 7>person and I was going through a lot at the time,

0:35:30.360 --> 0:35:32.520
<v Speaker 7>and I didn't know what.

0:35:32.480 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 1>To expect, and I have a therapist.

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 7>I had therapy when I was on the show, but

0:35:36.719 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 7>because there was no like, Okay, you know, you have

0:35:40.160 --> 0:35:43.160
<v Speaker 7>your idea of what reality TV is when you go

0:35:43.200 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 7>and do it for the first time, and even the

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:48.239
<v Speaker 7>second time, even third time, people start switching up and

0:35:48.280 --> 0:35:51.240
<v Speaker 7>you're not necessarily prepared for that.

0:35:51.400 --> 0:36:01.440
<v Speaker 1>And production sometimes loves that, and then still it's that

0:36:04.200 --> 0:36:05.439
<v Speaker 1>check for it.

0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 7>There is still a piece of yourself that you're like, yeah, okay,

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:13.239
<v Speaker 7>that was a lot, and you keep going and you

0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:14.839
<v Speaker 7>do it again and it's fine, but.

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:17.640
<v Speaker 6>There is so why do we keep going if it

0:36:17.680 --> 0:36:20.359
<v Speaker 6>was a lot and if it was so hoof? Because

0:36:20.400 --> 0:36:22.000
<v Speaker 6>people asked me off and like will you go back

0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 6>to housewives? Like and you never hear me play down

0:36:25.600 --> 0:36:28.239
<v Speaker 6>play housewives. But I also have had my moment where

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:31.400
<v Speaker 6>I've excited that that is not not for your face.

0:36:32.040 --> 0:36:33.560
<v Speaker 2>And so it's very.

0:36:35.320 --> 0:36:38.040
<v Speaker 6>Hard to see someone go back into a place where

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:42.360
<v Speaker 6>you know it's toxic and then expected not to be toxic.

0:36:42.000 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 4>Because you also realized that you didn't have the control

0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:46.480
<v Speaker 4>you thought you had. I remember you said that about

0:36:46.480 --> 0:36:48.759
<v Speaker 4>each lay Love, that this whole time you thought you

0:36:48.760 --> 0:36:50.440
<v Speaker 4>were in control of your life, and.

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:53.319
<v Speaker 1>Reality TV is something that you really do not have.

0:36:53.719 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 4>You do have control over down to edit, like yeah,

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:00.839
<v Speaker 4>going to do you know where you're filming? Even where

0:37:00.880 --> 0:37:02.880
<v Speaker 4>you're filming, like they could tell you come here, you

0:37:02.920 --> 0:37:04.960
<v Speaker 4>don't even know what's about to happen.

0:37:05.200 --> 0:37:07.000
<v Speaker 6>Who's going to walk in any of those things? So

0:37:07.040 --> 0:37:08.879
<v Speaker 6>I think part of that, too is when you sign

0:37:09.000 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 6>up for reality TV, you sign up for the unknown,

0:37:12.680 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 6>and there is a level of strength that you have

0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:18.960
<v Speaker 6>to have as a person, a sense of self that

0:37:19.040 --> 0:37:21.680
<v Speaker 6>you have to have as a person, in ability to

0:37:21.719 --> 0:37:26.359
<v Speaker 6>control your controllables and your ability to say that does

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:31.200
<v Speaker 6>not serve me. And so someone forty who started at nineteen,

0:37:31.440 --> 0:37:33.680
<v Speaker 6>I can tell you that now I have had many

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 6>pop offs.

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:37.439
<v Speaker 2>On eving God.

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:42.160
<v Speaker 6>It was my truth though, and I can't blame anyone

0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:48.040
<v Speaker 6>else for my feelings. I can only take accountability, and

0:37:48.080 --> 0:37:51.960
<v Speaker 6>I'm only to be charged with my attitude and my behavior.

0:37:53.040 --> 0:37:53.759
<v Speaker 2>That's all I got.

0:37:54.560 --> 0:37:57.399
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I will say watching Eat Slay Love, you're

0:37:57.600 --> 0:37:59.279
<v Speaker 4>very nice too.

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:02.160
<v Speaker 1>Nice know, honestly, like that breakfast scene with.

0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:07.239
<v Speaker 6>Tea, because so you watched the show three times and

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:11.720
<v Speaker 6>you saw the young lady London, and when I see

0:38:11.760 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 6>a black woman in a grocery store, I'm like, hey,

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:15.560
<v Speaker 6>girl like you.

0:38:16.520 --> 0:38:17.000
<v Speaker 2>It's like.

0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:21.799
<v Speaker 6>And so I just I have been misunderstood a lot.

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 6>So I just felt like she was very misunderstood. I

0:38:24.160 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 6>felt like I misunderstood her along with the rest of.

0:38:27.080 --> 0:38:28.640
<v Speaker 8>Them, which is why I watched it so many times,

0:38:28.719 --> 0:38:32.799
<v Speaker 8>because after the first time watching it, and then we

0:38:32.800 --> 0:38:34.399
<v Speaker 8>were saying with got that at.

0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 7>First, and then when it kept coming back up, we

0:38:36.080 --> 0:38:37.560
<v Speaker 7>were like, wait, we don't get anymore.

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:40.520
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, and there were it was just it was,

0:38:40.560 --> 0:38:40.959
<v Speaker 6>it was.

0:38:40.960 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 2>It was very difficult.

0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 6>However, the woman and me doesn't want to leave that unresolved.

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:51.239
<v Speaker 6>It goes back to who like Madam is and all

0:38:51.280 --> 0:38:54.200
<v Speaker 6>the Queen's men like the desire to find some kind

0:38:54.239 --> 0:38:56.880
<v Speaker 6>of a resolution. And so I didn't know how I

0:38:56.920 --> 0:38:58.000
<v Speaker 6>was going to play out. I didn't know she was

0:38:58.000 --> 0:38:59.920
<v Speaker 6>gonna leave it. I know she's gonna walk away. I mean,

0:39:02.320 --> 0:39:05.800
<v Speaker 6>my little outfit, you know what I mean. But it's

0:39:05.840 --> 0:39:08.120
<v Speaker 6>also what I signed up for, right you.

0:39:08.280 --> 0:39:10.759
<v Speaker 8>I saw you and Tammy both triumph try to get

0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:13.799
<v Speaker 8>to resolved, and she just literally walked away.

0:39:13.960 --> 0:39:15.640
<v Speaker 4>Tammy did not have the patience for that, though, I

0:39:15.640 --> 0:39:19.239
<v Speaker 4>will say Tammy was like, all right, I'm listening, and

0:39:19.800 --> 0:39:21.400
<v Speaker 4>I can't fo her for that because some people do

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:24.640
<v Speaker 4>not have I say, I'm not mad at her because

0:39:24.760 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 4>some people are gonna be that way and some people

0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:29.799
<v Speaker 4>will be more patient. Everybody does not. And also I

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:31.240
<v Speaker 4>think she felt personally attacked.

0:39:31.520 --> 0:39:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was personally because that was very.

0:39:34.920 --> 0:39:37.000
<v Speaker 8>From the very beginning with the whole Oh my god,

0:39:37.040 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 8>I feel so sorry for you.

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:40.280
<v Speaker 2>But I feel that she weaponized her her truth.

0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:45.200
<v Speaker 6>And Tammy had enough audacity and and and and God

0:39:45.320 --> 0:39:47.680
<v Speaker 6>to tell her truth, which is very difficult. A lot

0:39:47.680 --> 0:39:50.320
<v Speaker 6>of people do not have the balls to tell their truth,

0:39:50.600 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean. And she did, and I

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:54.680
<v Speaker 6>felt like she was a little what she was. She

0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:57.439
<v Speaker 6>used that to weaponize her and to try to bait

0:39:57.560 --> 0:39:59.319
<v Speaker 6>her and to try to get her.

0:39:59.480 --> 0:40:01.799
<v Speaker 4>So there is a point where she said, she said,

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 4>you have body dysmorphia.

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:06.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I'm very clear of what size my waist is.

0:40:06.400 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 4>I like, get it right, I understand that, but I

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:11.720
<v Speaker 4>was I didn't know if they edited out your reaction

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:13.440
<v Speaker 4>because I was like, even.

0:40:13.760 --> 0:40:16.399
<v Speaker 6>No, I okay, I'm at a point in life where

0:40:16.440 --> 0:40:19.360
<v Speaker 6>I do not put energy in things that don't serve me.

0:40:19.920 --> 0:40:23.920
<v Speaker 6>So even if you say something that is so wrong

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 6>and so disrespectful, unless you are my child and I

0:40:28.040 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 6>need to correct you, unless we are in a space

0:40:30.640 --> 0:40:32.520
<v Speaker 6>where we have to work together and there needs to

0:40:32.560 --> 0:40:36.920
<v Speaker 6>be harmony created, it is very easy for me to

0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:38.799
<v Speaker 6>create a non existent reality of.

0:40:38.800 --> 0:40:42.960
<v Speaker 2>You, like I will expire you right across from me.

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:44.120
<v Speaker 1>It is very easy.

0:40:44.600 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 2>I will bring you in this.

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:48.080
<v Speaker 6>I'm a scorpio, so I love you hard or you

0:40:48.200 --> 0:40:51.319
<v Speaker 6>don't exist in my world. And so for London, I

0:40:51.320 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 6>wanted to love on her. I wanted London to see

0:40:54.920 --> 0:40:57.839
<v Speaker 6>that women can get together, that you can be extremely

0:40:57.880 --> 0:40:59.880
<v Speaker 6>different than me, but there is so much more that

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:03.080
<v Speaker 6>makes us similar, then it'll ever make us different.

0:41:02.760 --> 0:41:05.800
<v Speaker 8>And we're stronger in numbers. Let's stick together, right? Why

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:07.520
<v Speaker 8>do this when we can do this?

0:41:08.800 --> 0:41:10.960
<v Speaker 2>And honestly, you don't even gotta want to do all

0:41:11.000 --> 0:41:13.759
<v Speaker 2>of this? Why you want to fight? Like even if.

0:41:13.680 --> 0:41:16.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't want it, it was very unnecessary. I was saying,

0:41:16.520 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 1>where did that just come from?

0:41:17.880 --> 0:41:18.160
<v Speaker 3>You?

0:41:18.280 --> 0:41:20.720
<v Speaker 4>Like, okay, first of all, I thought you looked amazing.

0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:22.799
<v Speaker 4>Like I told you, I loved the sweatsuits. I wear

0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:24.200
<v Speaker 4>baggy clothes all the time.

0:41:24.239 --> 0:41:25.160
<v Speaker 1>So that's the.

0:41:25.120 --> 0:41:28.279
<v Speaker 6>Reason why I'm like Angela. I was trying to figure

0:41:28.320 --> 0:41:29.880
<v Speaker 6>out what to wear. I was like, go, since is

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 6>regularly her, so she's gonna wear her.

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:32.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be.

0:41:32.560 --> 0:41:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Wearing a bagga sweatsuit everywhere.

0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:36.520
<v Speaker 6>You know, you can get on a tight dress and

0:41:36.560 --> 0:41:38.960
<v Speaker 6>y come up if you want to, but that's your comfort.

0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:40.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't think they look good right now.

0:41:41.920 --> 0:41:43.800
<v Speaker 2>I think that a lot of people beg to differ.

0:41:43.960 --> 0:41:46.239
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, so I was. I just personally was like,

0:41:46.280 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 4>why would she? I personally, when I saw that thought

0:41:48.600 --> 0:41:52.040
<v Speaker 4>that was like, damn you very claws out.

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:57.600
<v Speaker 6>But I went through body shaming on social media for

0:41:57.719 --> 0:42:02.040
<v Speaker 6>the longest. If I gained five pounds, what's going on?

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:04.920
<v Speaker 6>I lose five pounds of what's going on? I stept

0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:08.000
<v Speaker 6>on this scene at one hundred and thirteen pounds at nineteen.

0:42:08.560 --> 0:42:10.919
<v Speaker 6>I'm sitting here at a nice one twenty. It ain't

0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:12.600
<v Speaker 6>been much for three kids in between.

0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:14.920
<v Speaker 2>I should get a pet or not, you know what

0:42:14.960 --> 0:42:17.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean. I don't need I don't need I don't

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:18.440
<v Speaker 2>need this.

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:21.200
<v Speaker 6>I don't need the pat I just want to be

0:42:21.239 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 6>left alone to live my little life. And so when

0:42:24.120 --> 0:42:26.960
<v Speaker 6>she said a body dysmorphia, I was like, okay, since got.

0:42:26.760 --> 0:42:28.239
<v Speaker 2>Me completely messed up.

0:42:28.680 --> 0:42:32.919
<v Speaker 6>But it's giving projection. She was took word mind because

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:35.359
<v Speaker 6>she said she had. She said she had later on

0:42:35.600 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 6>it came out, but had I popped then and the

0:42:38.200 --> 0:42:40.759
<v Speaker 6>younger me, right, if I would have popped then they've

0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:43.120
<v Speaker 6>been like, you know, we would have never got to

0:42:43.360 --> 0:42:43.960
<v Speaker 6>the root of it.

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 2>And I think it's one thing to be doing to

0:42:46.120 --> 0:42:46.560
<v Speaker 2>do the show.

0:42:46.600 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 6>It's an everything to look back at the show, to

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:52.600
<v Speaker 6>watch yourself, to be honest with yourself with what you watched,

0:42:52.800 --> 0:42:56.360
<v Speaker 6>because some of it you like, some of it you don't.

0:42:56.560 --> 0:42:58.680
<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying, represented yourself very well. I

0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:00.560
<v Speaker 4>thought that show was nicely put together.

0:43:00.680 --> 0:43:01.640
<v Speaker 2>Shout out to that doctor.

0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love this show. And for them, they go

0:43:05.960 --> 0:43:07.040
<v Speaker 1>on this girls ship.

0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:09.359
<v Speaker 4>Together, but maybe they're not all like best friends. It's

0:43:09.400 --> 0:43:11.680
<v Speaker 4>not like a best friend's girls ship. It's you know,

0:43:11.719 --> 0:43:15.560
<v Speaker 4>you know, you knew Niviya and you knew Tammy Sammy

0:43:16.000 --> 0:43:20.280
<v Speaker 4>and you just went London that trip, but it's best friends.

0:43:20.280 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 4>But it is like you guys had all gone through

0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:26.200
<v Speaker 4>a divorce, a public divorce, which is not an easy

0:43:26.200 --> 0:43:28.080
<v Speaker 4>thing to do. So it's like going on this trip

0:43:28.120 --> 0:43:30.479
<v Speaker 4>to kind of like go to someplace we never would

0:43:30.480 --> 0:43:31.359
<v Speaker 4>think to go to, but.

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 2>We all went through.

0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:34.680
<v Speaker 6>We've all been married, we've all been divorced, we all

0:43:34.719 --> 0:43:37.880
<v Speaker 6>have children, we've all been in the light for at

0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:41.160
<v Speaker 6>least fifteen years, and we all have public divorces, and

0:43:41.200 --> 0:43:45.319
<v Speaker 6>we're all in our late early thirties forties, and so

0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:48.239
<v Speaker 6>it was an opportunity for us to get away from

0:43:48.239 --> 0:43:52.719
<v Speaker 6>the world to The show was called something Else. I said,

0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:54.719
<v Speaker 6>I want to Eat Pray Love journey. That is why

0:43:54.719 --> 0:43:55.120
<v Speaker 6>I'm here.

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:57.600
<v Speaker 2>When we were to Eat Pray Love, it was another show.

0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:02.000
<v Speaker 2>It was another nay. When I went that interview, I

0:44:02.000 --> 0:44:04.439
<v Speaker 2>think it's called Eat Slay Love. They made me so

0:44:04.480 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 2>excited because it was.

0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:08.520
<v Speaker 6>The truth of the show. It was very honest. It

0:44:08.680 --> 0:44:11.279
<v Speaker 6>was so honest. It was where we were. There were

0:44:11.280 --> 0:44:13.040
<v Speaker 6>no thrillers, there were no deals. And I think that

0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 6>London watched American reality TV or.

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:18.760
<v Speaker 2>See it just thought that she was supposed.

0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:21.640
<v Speaker 6>To be away versus showing up and as her authentic

0:44:21.719 --> 0:44:25.200
<v Speaker 6>self right. And I think a lot of people could

0:44:25.320 --> 0:44:30.680
<v Speaker 6>learn from that the idea of the imposter syndrome, Like,

0:44:30.760 --> 0:44:32.759
<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean, I'm not like them, so

0:44:32.880 --> 0:44:34.440
<v Speaker 6>let me try to figure out how to be like

0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:37.200
<v Speaker 6>them versus just you.

0:44:37.200 --> 0:44:38.000
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying.

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:41.040
<v Speaker 6>And I think that a lot of people haven't gotten

0:44:41.080 --> 0:44:43.480
<v Speaker 6>to that place in life. Obviously she was trying to

0:44:43.520 --> 0:44:45.840
<v Speaker 6>find that place. And I wish you would have stayed.

0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:48.279
<v Speaker 2>I wish you would have stayed too, because to be.

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:52.239
<v Speaker 6>Thirty five years old with no kids, no man, with

0:44:52.360 --> 0:44:54.879
<v Speaker 6>no man, with nobody to go home to cook for you,

0:44:55.040 --> 0:44:57.160
<v Speaker 6>any flight at any time, and what'd you do was

0:44:57.239 --> 0:45:00.080
<v Speaker 6>run comedy for a living baby. I wanted to know

0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 6>so much about her life, like I.

0:45:01.840 --> 0:45:02.319
<v Speaker 1>Wanted to know.

0:45:02.600 --> 0:45:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to know where about her too.

0:45:04.040 --> 0:45:07.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because she's a comedian and I can know anything about.

0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:09.920
<v Speaker 8>Her before she moved to the United States, during her

0:45:10.000 --> 0:45:13.640
<v Speaker 8>dream during COVID, and yeah, we just didn't get enough

0:45:13.640 --> 0:45:14.600
<v Speaker 8>from London, London.

0:45:14.920 --> 0:45:18.600
<v Speaker 6>She's a black woman from London. So I was ignorant

0:45:18.680 --> 0:45:20.040
<v Speaker 6>enough to think name like London.

0:45:20.120 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was ignorant.

0:45:21.719 --> 0:45:23.640
<v Speaker 6>Enough to think that, Like, you know what, we all

0:45:23.680 --> 0:45:25.680
<v Speaker 6>we get it, you all black women, we all got

0:45:25.680 --> 0:45:26.240
<v Speaker 6>our issues.

0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:28.560
<v Speaker 2>Let's go here she was on each other, and she

0:45:28.680 --> 0:45:30.000
<v Speaker 2>was like, no, I'm not the same black.

0:45:30.080 --> 0:45:33.680
<v Speaker 8>But was crazy from the very beginning, right in the

0:45:33.760 --> 0:45:35.719
<v Speaker 8>very beginning, and when she was kind of like explaining

0:45:35.719 --> 0:45:38.200
<v Speaker 8>who she was and what her mission was, she literally

0:45:38.239 --> 0:45:38.920
<v Speaker 8>was like, and.

0:45:38.880 --> 0:45:41.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to meet new friends. No, you're not. Your

0:45:41.600 --> 0:45:43.520
<v Speaker 2>actions are saying otherwise, ma'am.

0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:46.200
<v Speaker 6>But I went by her words first ill I had

0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:48.560
<v Speaker 6>and then at the end when she when she said

0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:50.000
<v Speaker 6>that she was leaving and she's like, I love.

0:45:49.840 --> 0:45:50.399
<v Speaker 2>You all girls.

0:45:50.400 --> 0:45:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Stop lying.

0:45:51.239 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 2>You don't even like us, That's okay.

0:45:53.320 --> 0:45:56.680
<v Speaker 6>I think that we all, as you know, as this

0:45:56.760 --> 0:45:58.960
<v Speaker 6>is what you do for eleven, we all have spaces

0:45:59.040 --> 0:46:01.840
<v Speaker 6>that we can grow in. And I think that it

0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:05.919
<v Speaker 6>takes time, and you are blessed when you and your

0:46:05.960 --> 0:46:09.720
<v Speaker 6>younger or earlier years learn how to start living instead

0:46:09.760 --> 0:46:13.560
<v Speaker 6>of letting life live you. And I think that Tammy

0:46:13.560 --> 0:46:16.880
<v Speaker 6>and Nibby and I were in a place where we're

0:46:16.920 --> 0:46:18.839
<v Speaker 6>not on this hamster wheel. It's not a rat race.

0:46:19.120 --> 0:46:21.239
<v Speaker 6>I do what I do because I love it. I

0:46:21.280 --> 0:46:23.960
<v Speaker 6>say no more than I say yes. Two things. You

0:46:24.000 --> 0:46:26.040
<v Speaker 6>know what I'm saying, And so the power of no,

0:46:27.360 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 6>I gives you a big money yes but that that

0:46:33.160 --> 0:46:36.439
<v Speaker 6>difference and I think, you know, not just being able

0:46:36.480 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 6>to go and be free.

0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:38.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't.

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:40.480
<v Speaker 6>I don't think that that's where she is in her

0:46:40.560 --> 0:46:43.920
<v Speaker 6>growth and having not always been there and having a

0:46:44.000 --> 0:46:46.239
<v Speaker 6>whole lot more growing to do until the Good Lord

0:46:46.239 --> 0:46:51.000
<v Speaker 6>brings me home. I was able to recognize that in

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:53.640
<v Speaker 6>her and to just really, I don't have.

0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:55.680
<v Speaker 2>Any sisters, so I was like, I'm a little sister.

0:46:56.320 --> 0:46:58.040
<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like a lot of comedians.

0:46:58.080 --> 0:47:00.719
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes the comedy comes from a space of pain, absolutely,

0:47:00.800 --> 0:47:03.680
<v Speaker 4>you know, and comedy is like their way of working

0:47:03.680 --> 0:47:04.040
<v Speaker 4>through that.

0:47:04.040 --> 0:47:05.320
<v Speaker 1>That's that I'm comedians who.

0:47:05.200 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 6>I know Kevin Hart laugh at my pain like He's like,

0:47:08.239 --> 0:47:11.719
<v Speaker 6>instead of walking around bitter and I'm said, at all

0:47:11.760 --> 0:47:14.480
<v Speaker 6>the things that I didn't have and what didn't happen,

0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:17.279
<v Speaker 6>and who said what, let's laugh at it and move on.

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:19.840
<v Speaker 2>Look at me now I'm getting paper.

0:47:20.280 --> 0:47:23.320
<v Speaker 6>Jay Z said, you never seen the ugly billionaire?

0:47:23.680 --> 0:47:26.399
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, Say what you want?

0:47:26.920 --> 0:47:28.880
<v Speaker 2>So would you go back to Vietnam? I mean, because

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:31.799
<v Speaker 2>guess it seems so beautiful made me want to go there.

0:47:31.880 --> 0:47:32.719
<v Speaker 2>That was your first time.

0:47:32.920 --> 0:47:38.600
<v Speaker 4>I never thought about all of you guys, so good girls.

0:47:37.680 --> 0:47:40.000
<v Speaker 2>Born to glory, because y'all born to glory down and.

0:47:39.960 --> 0:47:42.040
<v Speaker 6>I couldn't and I was trying to tell I was like, baby,

0:47:42.040 --> 0:47:44.839
<v Speaker 6>these are the greens to the ten thousand power. It's

0:47:44.920 --> 0:47:47.360
<v Speaker 6>like that summer mixed greens with a turn up and

0:47:47.400 --> 0:47:53.239
<v Speaker 6>the mustards and a college baby with Garland Morning, where

0:47:53.719 --> 0:47:56.560
<v Speaker 6>every everywhere we went it is so good. Now we'll

0:47:56.640 --> 0:47:57.919
<v Speaker 6>run through you like a freight track.

0:47:58.000 --> 0:48:05.239
<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, personally, but on the show's comfort with.

0:48:05.200 --> 0:48:06.879
<v Speaker 2>Her bows are absolutely she.

0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:09.360
<v Speaker 8>Was like, listen, y'all, I got the I gotta go,

0:48:09.800 --> 0:48:10.239
<v Speaker 8>I gotta go.

0:48:10.600 --> 0:48:12.799
<v Speaker 4>I was in the gym today, but made a lot

0:48:12.800 --> 0:48:14.520
<v Speaker 4>of want to go to Vietnam because that was a

0:48:14.760 --> 0:48:17.640
<v Speaker 4>very like who would have thought, well, and it's safe

0:48:17.680 --> 0:48:18.640
<v Speaker 4>space for black women.

0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:20.440
<v Speaker 1>That's always what I think when I'm on vacation.

0:48:21.120 --> 0:48:23.920
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's such a space, and not just black women,

0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:26.280
<v Speaker 6>but like to see the way the women bost the city.

0:48:28.120 --> 0:48:29.120
<v Speaker 2>I think Manna might.

0:48:29.040 --> 0:48:33.680
<v Speaker 1>Be from Vietnam.

0:48:33.239 --> 0:48:35.880
<v Speaker 2>Run her way to.

0:48:35.120 --> 0:48:40.920
<v Speaker 6>To Atlanta because the women run everything. They run the household,

0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:41.880
<v Speaker 6>they got.

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:42.920
<v Speaker 2>The family.

0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Putting up the food.

0:48:45.200 --> 0:48:52.080
<v Speaker 6>The woman like in college, like I own my own.

0:48:53.880 --> 0:48:55.440
<v Speaker 2>The bikes, he's my mechanic.

0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:59.040
<v Speaker 6>Like they run everything the rice fields. You go through

0:48:59.040 --> 0:49:01.520
<v Speaker 6>the rice fields, you think somebody lay downside.

0:49:01.920 --> 0:49:02.960
<v Speaker 2>No they didn't.

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:06.000
<v Speaker 6>They took a blade of rice and put it in

0:49:06.080 --> 0:49:09.239
<v Speaker 6>the mud. This acres and acres of rice field are

0:49:09.239 --> 0:49:12.280
<v Speaker 6>nothing but women down there with mud to their boots

0:49:12.800 --> 0:49:16.040
<v Speaker 6>doing it by there. Twice a year it's harvest season.

0:49:16.160 --> 0:49:17.680
<v Speaker 6>That's the rice for the entire year.

0:49:17.960 --> 0:49:18.560
<v Speaker 1>My goodness.

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:21.160
<v Speaker 4>See you look the education of it, like when you

0:49:21.200 --> 0:49:22.880
<v Speaker 4>would never have even known.

0:49:22.880 --> 0:49:26.520
<v Speaker 6>Women there where they didn't King Kong, and they filmed it.

0:49:26.960 --> 0:49:30.759
<v Speaker 6>They we went through the the off the water, through

0:49:30.760 --> 0:49:35.799
<v Speaker 6>the forests and through the coves and caves. Two thousand boats.

0:49:36.000 --> 0:49:38.480
<v Speaker 6>Who's still who owned the boat company?

0:49:38.840 --> 0:49:41.920
<v Speaker 2>All women? I love that when I tell you Vietnam

0:49:41.920 --> 0:49:43.640
<v Speaker 2>one's it gave me.

0:49:43.719 --> 0:49:47.160
<v Speaker 6>I came back home like you can't tell me.

0:49:51.560 --> 0:49:53.080
<v Speaker 1>How do you think that trip did help you?

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:53.239
<v Speaker 2>Though?

0:49:53.280 --> 0:49:55.239
<v Speaker 1>Because I know when you went on it initially you

0:49:55.280 --> 0:49:56.080
<v Speaker 1>were going.

0:49:56.719 --> 0:49:59.440
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, broken hearted. I went on that trip. I was

0:49:59.480 --> 0:50:04.120
<v Speaker 6>newly div and I married the love of my life.

0:50:04.280 --> 0:50:07.160
<v Speaker 6>So it's not like med a good guy, Now.

0:50:07.200 --> 0:50:07.960
<v Speaker 2>Let's get married.

0:50:08.000 --> 0:50:10.560
<v Speaker 6>Like I met the only person that makes my heart

0:50:10.640 --> 0:50:11.399
<v Speaker 6>do what it does.

0:50:12.360 --> 0:50:16.319
<v Speaker 2>And so to figure out life after it was like

0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:19.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. I you want me to see what Blinder's on?

0:50:19.360 --> 0:50:22.960
<v Speaker 2>Who does that? How? And I just I did not

0:50:23.160 --> 0:50:24.560
<v Speaker 2>understand up. I couldn't see up.

0:50:25.200 --> 0:50:28.080
<v Speaker 6>And thank God for a friend, my best friend Robert

0:50:28.200 --> 0:50:30.319
<v Speaker 6>and a good friend that snatched me off the bed

0:50:30.360 --> 0:50:31.879
<v Speaker 6>and was like, you're going to get up.

0:50:33.080 --> 0:50:33.960
<v Speaker 2>You have to get up.

0:50:34.360 --> 0:50:36.759
<v Speaker 6>And then Will Packer's Company called and say, you know,

0:50:36.840 --> 0:50:39.239
<v Speaker 6>we have this idea, but we want it to be

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:42.160
<v Speaker 6>about your personal journey, like we don't want drama, we

0:50:42.200 --> 0:50:45.920
<v Speaker 6>want your life and what you're going through. And I

0:50:46.000 --> 0:50:47.560
<v Speaker 6>was like, I don't know if I'm ready to talk

0:50:47.600 --> 0:50:50.120
<v Speaker 6>about that. And God was like, since you need to

0:50:50.160 --> 0:50:53.520
<v Speaker 6>talk about that, Like that's exactly what I'm going to

0:50:53.600 --> 0:50:56.080
<v Speaker 6>need you to do. And it helped, and it was

0:50:56.360 --> 0:51:01.000
<v Speaker 6>so cathartic. It was so helpful to have, like you say,

0:51:01.040 --> 0:51:03.239
<v Speaker 6>the therapist, the people you don't know, like you know

0:51:03.239 --> 0:51:04.480
<v Speaker 6>that they really don't know.

0:51:05.000 --> 0:51:07.600
<v Speaker 2>So to be able to lean on someone and.

0:51:07.680 --> 0:51:10.400
<v Speaker 6>Just cry without saying remember this and don't forget he

0:51:10.440 --> 0:51:13.319
<v Speaker 6>did that, or don't forget when you felt like this,

0:51:13.520 --> 0:51:15.719
<v Speaker 6>you know, just to love on you.

0:51:17.360 --> 0:51:18.239
<v Speaker 2>It helped me so much.

0:51:18.239 --> 0:51:21.440
<v Speaker 6>It helped me understand where my heart truly was I

0:51:21.480 --> 0:51:23.520
<v Speaker 6>was off of social media. I got back on didn't

0:51:23.520 --> 0:51:25.479
<v Speaker 6>realized I had a disease I didn't even have because

0:51:25.480 --> 0:51:28.760
<v Speaker 6>the world was just talking about me, Oh my gosh,

0:51:28.960 --> 0:51:33.919
<v Speaker 6>like it was crazy. But it also helped me decide

0:51:34.120 --> 0:51:36.320
<v Speaker 6>like people try to figure out, like work life balance,

0:51:36.800 --> 0:51:41.680
<v Speaker 6>and help me decide what of this and entertainment is

0:51:41.760 --> 0:51:45.120
<v Speaker 6>real and what am I really going to deal with

0:51:46.120 --> 0:51:50.840
<v Speaker 6>and what's not real? I don't entertain And what's real

0:51:51.239 --> 0:51:54.359
<v Speaker 6>is how I get paid as an entertainer. And that's it,

0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:57.040
<v Speaker 6>you know what I'm saying. I don't care what anyone

0:51:57.080 --> 0:51:59.600
<v Speaker 6>thinks of me. I'll walk in every room with kindness,

0:51:59.640 --> 0:52:01.759
<v Speaker 6>with love. I hope that when I leave a room

0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:03.879
<v Speaker 6>it's brighter than it was when I came in there,

0:52:03.920 --> 0:52:07.000
<v Speaker 6>even if it's dark today, Like that is that's all

0:52:07.000 --> 0:52:10.239
<v Speaker 6>I got. I still believe in love. You know, people

0:52:10.280 --> 0:52:12.759
<v Speaker 6>ask will you get married again? I hope I'm married

0:52:12.760 --> 0:52:15.480
<v Speaker 6>the same man again. Let alone get married again. Like

0:52:15.719 --> 0:52:18.120
<v Speaker 6>I don't think that love is lost. It hasn't bittered me,

0:52:18.520 --> 0:52:20.040
<v Speaker 6>and I think the trust of the trip did The

0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:25.839
<v Speaker 6>trip helped me actualize like girl, life is short, you

0:52:25.920 --> 0:52:27.920
<v Speaker 6>live in it and do not let it live you

0:52:28.080 --> 0:52:30.920
<v Speaker 6>and live it to its fullest with no regrets.

0:52:32.320 --> 0:52:34.520
<v Speaker 8>I feel like the three of you all had like

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:37.120
<v Speaker 8>an awakening of some sort at the end, and I

0:52:37.120 --> 0:52:41.080
<v Speaker 8>felt like it made you guys closer as as sisters.

0:52:41.120 --> 0:52:42.960
<v Speaker 2>Now we're from friends to sister.

0:52:43.280 --> 0:52:45.640
<v Speaker 1>Hang out now on the corner of my house.

0:52:46.760 --> 0:52:50.480
<v Speaker 8>To imagine tattoos, but it got tattooed together, which you know,

0:52:50.600 --> 0:52:52.480
<v Speaker 8>that's a well for some people, it's a permanent.

0:52:54.960 --> 0:52:56.279
<v Speaker 2>It's a thing.

0:52:56.320 --> 0:52:59.920
<v Speaker 6>When it bombeded us and we got tattoos that represented

0:53:00.480 --> 0:53:04.080
<v Speaker 6>whatever metamorphosis we were going forward in life. And so

0:53:04.200 --> 0:53:06.920
<v Speaker 6>for me, it was coming out of the shell and

0:53:07.080 --> 0:53:09.600
<v Speaker 6>just being free. And my whole thing has been surrendering.

0:53:10.080 --> 0:53:12.480
<v Speaker 2>I have let go. I have like God what he

0:53:12.560 --> 0:53:15.080
<v Speaker 2>decides if my flight is delayed, I guess I wasn't

0:53:15.120 --> 0:53:16.759
<v Speaker 2>supposed to go there, You.

0:53:16.719 --> 0:53:17.200
<v Speaker 1>Know what I mean?

0:53:19.080 --> 0:53:22.120
<v Speaker 6>That is anxiety that you were talking about, because I

0:53:22.520 --> 0:53:24.840
<v Speaker 6>used to say I suffered from anxiety.

0:53:25.600 --> 0:53:26.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't.

0:53:26.920 --> 0:53:30.640
<v Speaker 6>You have a natural propensity to be more anxious, but

0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:33.120
<v Speaker 6>you don't suffer from saying anxiety. And so when you

0:53:33.200 --> 0:53:42.279
<v Speaker 6>give your give anxiety that kind of a you know

0:53:42.320 --> 0:53:45.359
<v Speaker 6>that certain things anxious, right, so you mitigate that.

0:53:45.440 --> 0:53:46.680
<v Speaker 2>You find the tools.

0:53:46.360 --> 0:53:58.080
<v Speaker 6>From Zuri, it's gonna say Zeri Eva.

0:53:56.640 --> 0:53:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I have to go back to what you said, though

0:53:58.000 --> 0:53:59.440
<v Speaker 1>you hope you married the same man again.

0:53:59.600 --> 0:53:59.920
<v Speaker 3>Maybe.

0:54:00.440 --> 0:54:03.920
<v Speaker 6>I mean, you know, I was on a show and

0:54:03.960 --> 0:54:07.800
<v Speaker 6>they asked, and I pivoted because I'm promoting my television shows.

0:54:07.800 --> 0:54:09.439
<v Speaker 2>I'm not really here to talk about my love life.

0:54:09.800 --> 0:54:11.560
<v Speaker 6>But so I pivoted and they asked, you know, will

0:54:11.640 --> 0:54:13.439
<v Speaker 6>you there are very chance?

0:54:13.440 --> 0:54:21.120
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, okay, that wasn't right that question, why

0:54:21.120 --> 0:54:24.000
<v Speaker 2>did show you watch my show? And went on. But

0:54:24.719 --> 0:54:28.719
<v Speaker 2>if I really asked myself the question, there's definitely not

0:54:28.760 --> 0:54:30.040
<v Speaker 2>a no. Like I would.

0:54:30.640 --> 0:54:33.080
<v Speaker 6>I never wanted to get divorced, like I never wanted

0:54:33.080 --> 0:54:35.560
<v Speaker 6>to not be with my husband. You know what I'm saying,

0:54:35.880 --> 0:54:37.480
<v Speaker 6>you saw on the show. I cannot call to me

0:54:37.520 --> 0:54:38.160
<v Speaker 6>and my husband my.

0:54:38.160 --> 0:54:40.160
<v Speaker 2>Exit, you know what I mean. There's no world.

0:54:40.239 --> 0:54:42.319
<v Speaker 6>I mean, my ring is in my jury box here

0:54:42.400 --> 0:54:45.040
<v Speaker 6>in New York. It's gonna always be Wow. Okay, so

0:54:45.680 --> 0:54:46.919
<v Speaker 6>we'll stay tuned.

0:54:50.880 --> 0:54:51.080
<v Speaker 8>For you.

0:54:51.520 --> 0:54:53.560
<v Speaker 4>Yes, that's what we pray for, whatever it is best

0:54:53.560 --> 0:54:55.480
<v Speaker 4>for you and whatever it is meant to be. Yes,

0:54:55.920 --> 0:54:57.880
<v Speaker 4>I want to ask you for all the Queen's men, Madam,

0:54:58.520 --> 0:55:00.359
<v Speaker 4>what are some of those things that you take with

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:02.560
<v Speaker 4>you from that show, Like what has Madame taught you

0:55:03.280 --> 0:55:04.759
<v Speaker 4>to utilize in your real life?

0:55:05.600 --> 0:55:06.959
<v Speaker 2>Madam has taught me so much.

0:55:07.480 --> 0:55:11.319
<v Speaker 6>Loyalty is everything, and Madam reminds me a lot of

0:55:11.360 --> 0:55:13.560
<v Speaker 6>me myself, where she doesn't have a lot of people

0:55:14.160 --> 0:55:16.120
<v Speaker 6>and a lot of people, she can't trust a lot

0:55:16.160 --> 0:55:19.240
<v Speaker 6>of people. I've met her under the reputation of Madam.

0:55:19.800 --> 0:55:21.440
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. No one really knows.

0:55:21.320 --> 0:55:24.719
<v Speaker 6>Marilyn except for my Blue Blue grew up with me

0:55:24.880 --> 0:55:26.680
<v Speaker 6>like I've known her. She taught me how to shoot,

0:55:27.120 --> 0:55:29.600
<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean, Like that's my sister. But

0:55:29.719 --> 0:55:32.600
<v Speaker 6>everyone else it's difficult because.

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<v Speaker 2>They need you the exactly.

0:55:37.280 --> 0:55:41.799
<v Speaker 6>So it's the feeling of are you in my world

0:55:41.840 --> 0:55:44.719
<v Speaker 6>because you rock with me? And if I didn't have this,

0:55:45.040 --> 0:55:49.720
<v Speaker 6>I give you this. If I didn't provide this, would

0:55:49.760 --> 0:55:50.560
<v Speaker 6>you still be here?

0:55:51.000 --> 0:55:55.280
<v Speaker 4>But you also have a clear line between what's work

0:55:55.440 --> 0:55:57.800
<v Speaker 4>and what's like, you know, because I also feel like

0:55:57.840 --> 0:55:59.839
<v Speaker 4>there's times when you snap it back, like let people

0:55:59.880 --> 0:56:01.160
<v Speaker 4>know you work for me, get out.

0:56:01.000 --> 0:56:02.279
<v Speaker 1>There, do what you're supposed to do.

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<v Speaker 4>All that, and so it is a transactional Do you

0:56:04.800 --> 0:56:07.480
<v Speaker 4>think you could be friends with people who work for you.

0:56:07.560 --> 0:56:10.319
<v Speaker 4>I want to ask Dary this question, because sometimes those

0:56:10.360 --> 0:56:12.640
<v Speaker 4>lines get very really blurry and fuzzy.

0:56:13.800 --> 0:56:15.920
<v Speaker 3>I think it's I put it on my actors.

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<v Speaker 5>It's up to them because a lot of times we're

0:56:18.200 --> 0:56:22.560
<v Speaker 5>in such vulnerable situations that they I mean, I walk

0:56:22.600 --> 0:56:25.200
<v Speaker 5>onto sets all the time, and I can see them

0:56:25.200 --> 0:56:28.839
<v Speaker 5>see me, and I see their demeanor change because they

0:56:28.880 --> 0:56:31.960
<v Speaker 5>don't want to necessarily do the intimacy. Intimacy is a

0:56:33.040 --> 0:56:36.719
<v Speaker 5>high ask for a lot of actors, I find, and

0:56:36.960 --> 0:56:41.239
<v Speaker 5>if I'm the only association with me is that, you know,

0:56:41.280 --> 0:56:42.960
<v Speaker 5>if I'm coming in for a movie and I'm working

0:56:43.000 --> 0:56:45.000
<v Speaker 5>one day or two days or what have you. I

0:56:45.040 --> 0:56:48.400
<v Speaker 5>try to keep those lines very professional, but I'm also open.

0:56:48.520 --> 0:56:51.920
<v Speaker 5>You know, I'm a human and I like to make connections.

0:56:52.000 --> 0:56:54.120
<v Speaker 5>I like to really because I feel like I know

0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:57.640
<v Speaker 5>these actors so intimately sometimes, and I think that that's

0:56:57.680 --> 0:56:59.920
<v Speaker 5>also kind of vulnerable for them, because like I know

0:57:00.080 --> 0:57:02.400
<v Speaker 5>them for five minutes and all of a sudden, you

0:57:02.480 --> 0:57:05.480
<v Speaker 5>never know the layers that you have been disclosed to.

0:57:05.440 --> 0:57:09.360
<v Speaker 2>Me literally, and that can be very vulnerable for people.

0:57:09.400 --> 0:57:11.600
<v Speaker 3>So I try to let them kind of navigate that.

0:57:11.640 --> 0:57:14.000
<v Speaker 8>I have a question for you a personal question, well,

0:57:14.080 --> 0:57:17.440
<v Speaker 8>due to my personal situation. So in the upcoming Magic

0:57:17.440 --> 0:57:21.720
<v Speaker 8>City documentary that is now five episodes, in I three, I.

0:57:21.720 --> 0:57:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Narrated, I narrated, I got a little producer credit.

0:57:25.600 --> 0:57:26.240
<v Speaker 1>So what's it called.

0:57:26.480 --> 0:57:28.920
<v Speaker 2>It's it's Magic City's documentary. I used to work there.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I did my bachelor rap party. I bought Magic out.

0:57:34.520 --> 0:57:35.400
<v Speaker 6>I love Magic City.

0:57:35.480 --> 0:57:36.320
<v Speaker 2>I got my little jacket on.

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<v Speaker 8>But so in the upcoming documentary, my breasts are exposed documentaries, yes, docries.

0:57:45.240 --> 0:57:48.320
<v Speaker 8>My sis are out in the first episode. And when

0:57:49.080 --> 0:57:52.320
<v Speaker 8>it wasn't like it's a documentary, so of course there

0:57:52.360 --> 0:57:54.920
<v Speaker 8>wasn't a script. And when they bought the idea to me,

0:57:55.080 --> 0:57:58.200
<v Speaker 8>they were like, do you think that maybe possibly?

0:57:58.600 --> 0:58:00.160
<v Speaker 2>You know, how would you feel if And I'm like,

0:58:00.200 --> 0:58:01.000
<v Speaker 2>what y'all want my titties?

0:58:01.040 --> 0:58:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay?

0:58:01.480 --> 0:58:04.400
<v Speaker 8>And I was very like, no big deal for me

0:58:04.560 --> 0:58:08.080
<v Speaker 8>right in the moment. Now, in hindsight, I do have

0:58:08.160 --> 0:58:10.000
<v Speaker 8>a little bit of worry of even though I think

0:58:10.040 --> 0:58:12.120
<v Speaker 8>my tits are fabulous, I do have a little bit

0:58:12.160 --> 0:58:15.280
<v Speaker 8>of worry of the not really backlash, but like what's

0:58:15.280 --> 0:58:15.680
<v Speaker 8>to come?

0:58:15.920 --> 0:58:16.840
<v Speaker 2>When did you sign?

0:58:18.720 --> 0:58:22.200
<v Speaker 6>You didn't you didn't nuy way, no, no, I don't want

0:58:22.200 --> 0:58:22.720
<v Speaker 6>to take it back.

0:58:22.840 --> 0:58:25.560
<v Speaker 2>No, but you could though you still a place they

0:58:25.600 --> 0:58:26.160
<v Speaker 2>can blur it.

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<v Speaker 8>No, no, in hindsight, because I know you prepare for

0:58:34.680 --> 0:58:38.400
<v Speaker 8>what's happening in real life. But in hindsight, I do

0:58:38.480 --> 0:58:40.880
<v Speaker 8>have and I was an anxiety entertainer for a lot

0:58:40.960 --> 0:58:41.400
<v Speaker 8>of years.

0:58:42.200 --> 0:58:43.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, same thing with you.

0:58:43.200 --> 0:58:45.600
<v Speaker 8>I would not have a problem stripping down and change it,

0:58:45.640 --> 0:58:47.120
<v Speaker 8>not just my tests but everything right now if I

0:58:47.200 --> 0:58:49.080
<v Speaker 8>have to, even with people in the other room, I'm

0:58:49.120 --> 0:58:51.040
<v Speaker 8>so used to being naked in front of strangers. But

0:58:51.160 --> 0:58:53.320
<v Speaker 8>this is now the world, this is now on TV,

0:58:53.400 --> 0:58:54.360
<v Speaker 8>this is now document if.

0:58:56.000 --> 0:58:56.439
<v Speaker 1>That part.

0:58:56.480 --> 0:58:57.600
<v Speaker 2>So my question is I.

0:58:57.960 --> 0:59:00.760
<v Speaker 8>Don't have any fear of like any say anything bad,

0:59:00.800 --> 0:59:04.200
<v Speaker 8>because again I think my tips are fabulous. But my

0:59:04.200 --> 0:59:08.640
<v Speaker 8>my one I want to say issue is I'm single.

0:59:09.120 --> 0:59:12.000
<v Speaker 2>So do you think that how how do I navigate

0:59:12.040 --> 0:59:13.440
<v Speaker 2>this in upcoming relationships?

0:59:14.000 --> 0:59:16.360
<v Speaker 6>Talk to me on that one, okay, because I've been

0:59:16.360 --> 0:59:18.240
<v Speaker 6>doing this my whole because that's kind of the one

0:59:18.240 --> 0:59:22.720
<v Speaker 6>thing I'm worried about, Like, yeah, I'm not a dancers

0:59:22.760 --> 0:59:25.560
<v Speaker 6>the dancer, and okay, if he.

0:59:25.560 --> 0:59:26.880
<v Speaker 2>Can't handle it, he's not the one.

0:59:26.920 --> 0:59:28.600
<v Speaker 8>And that's how I felt, and that was actually being

0:59:28.640 --> 0:59:30.360
<v Speaker 8>a dancer, So I should have that same What do

0:59:30.400 --> 0:59:32.000
<v Speaker 8>you think that I should have that same sentiment?

0:59:32.800 --> 0:59:33.640
<v Speaker 3>I mean I think so.

0:59:33.880 --> 0:59:36.600
<v Speaker 5>I think that that's your own like, that's your body autonomy.

0:59:36.680 --> 0:59:41.560
<v Speaker 5>But I also feel like having proactive conversations about things

0:59:42.160 --> 0:59:44.800
<v Speaker 5>and it's not are you okay with this? It's this

0:59:44.840 --> 0:59:46.520
<v Speaker 5>is me, this is what I've done. I want you

0:59:46.560 --> 0:59:47.360
<v Speaker 5>to be aware of it.

0:59:47.440 --> 0:59:47.720
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:59:48.440 --> 0:59:50.880
<v Speaker 5>I work with a lot of like BMF is always

0:59:50.880 --> 0:59:55.160
<v Speaker 5>inviting names and things, people who are not actors, but

0:59:55.200 --> 0:59:57.800
<v Speaker 5>people who have you know, large social media presences and

0:59:59.080 --> 1:00:00.880
<v Speaker 5>you know, comedian.

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<v Speaker 3>Music artists and all.

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<v Speaker 5>So when I'm navigating intimacy with them, I go about

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<v Speaker 5>it in a little bit of a different way.

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<v Speaker 3>Because they know.

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<v Speaker 5>That as soon as this releases, you know, they might

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<v Speaker 5>and they might only be there for a sex scene,

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<v Speaker 5>which is unfortunate, like to be that character. So just

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<v Speaker 5>working proactively with them and talking about in the event

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<v Speaker 5>that you do this in this way, it lives forever.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you comfortable?

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<v Speaker 5>So not only what are you comfortable with and doing

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<v Speaker 5>with your body in this particular situation, but what are

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<v Speaker 5>you comfortable with the world taking with you?

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<v Speaker 8>Because that's something that I didn't think of and what

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<v Speaker 8>made me think about it, not just sitting here, but

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<v Speaker 8>the reaction that a guy that I don't even date anymore,

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<v Speaker 8>but we had like a thing happening, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 8>He went to the We did a south By Southwest premiere,

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<v Speaker 8>and he went with me to the premiere, and I

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<v Speaker 8>purposely didn't tell him that my tids were in the episode,

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<v Speaker 8>because I knew he was gonna be mad. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 8>if you're going to be mad, then just be mad.

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<v Speaker 2>Capital pause in there.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't yet because I.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't tell him.

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<v Speaker 8>You know that I didn't tell him, and somebody else

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<v Speaker 8>told him before he got a chance to see it.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Control your own narrative the best you can.

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<v Speaker 8>I thought I was by not telling him because the

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<v Speaker 8>element of the surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't think it's such a bad thing, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not text.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what you tell him. You let him know, like

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<v Speaker 6>she said, like it's very mean. Yeah, I was comfortable

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<v Speaker 6>with it. And only this comfort I honestly have right

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<v Speaker 6>now is if you're uncomfortable, it's already done.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm yours. You know what it is.

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<v Speaker 6>And if he can't find his comfort and the person

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<v Speaker 6>that you are and are comfortable with being and that

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<v Speaker 6>does not hurt you, then he's not your guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Like then if a guy also is not comfortable with

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<v Speaker 4>that and that's not what he wants, right, that doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>make him a bad person, absolutely not. It just means

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<v Speaker 4>this is not not for him.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't like my man and great sweatpon.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 6>It doesn't make me a bad person. It just makes

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<v Speaker 6>me a reference. I would prefer you not to walk outside.

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<v Speaker 2>Would great job?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>What you mean, it's a challenging Somebody else told him.

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<v Speaker 8>It's like literally right before we sat down at our

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<v Speaker 8>seats and he didn't sit with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would somebody tell him right then?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, but somebody in your orbit, small in

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<v Speaker 6>your circle.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. Because if he sees this,

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<v Speaker 2>when he sees this, I hope he.

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<v Speaker 6>Sees this very soon so he can understand what Gigi does,

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<v Speaker 6>what I do, what you do. It's not as vogue.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not what you think it is. We are actors,

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<v Speaker 6>we are professionals. We have signed up for a job

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<v Speaker 6>and literally I just work.

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<v Speaker 4>Here right, And in the UK they be naked on

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<v Speaker 4>TV all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>London will tell.

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<v Speaker 4>You that you're a girl in London because that is true,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I will say that. I feel like in America

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<v Speaker 4>we have a different view on nudity. On nudity for sure, and.

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<v Speaker 6>The rhymes when when she had that little intimate scene

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<v Speaker 6>and Bridger chi and everyone was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 6>but dress, and.

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<v Speaker 2>That was it. I don't want to hear what you

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<v Speaker 2>have to say to Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just gonna say because you said I'm very

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<v Speaker 5>comfortable with it and all that you and still it's

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<v Speaker 5>being brought to this space. So it may not be

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<v Speaker 5>that you're uncomfortable with the act and like having your

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<v Speaker 5>breast out there, but there is a level of discomfort

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<v Speaker 5>around something otherwise I don't think it would come up

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<v Speaker 5>in this.

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<v Speaker 8>Discomfort is I just don't feel like having to have

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<v Speaker 8>the conversation of somebody else being mad at something that

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not mad at.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to explain it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to have to explain it.

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<v Speaker 7>I've never I've never told anybody first that I oppose nude. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I've never did conversation and I'm ever actually thought to

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<v Speaker 7>have that until just now. I feel like the only

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<v Speaker 7>time it's ever come up is if they're a fan

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<v Speaker 7>low key or they googled you. I found out on

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<v Speaker 7>some sneaky and then they really be telling anybody's like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, I'm dating the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've gotten, but I've never gotten the like shame.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, my whole entime.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm talking about insire from beginning to end and entertain

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<v Speaker 8>her career. I was always in relationships, and I was

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<v Speaker 8>dealing with guys who either liked it or didn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't you deal with them. I always had.

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<v Speaker 8>I've always been in a relationship, and I was in

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<v Speaker 8>a relationship with said person when I was an answer.

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<v Speaker 2>So for him to get so upset, it's just like, yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 3>You knew he was gonna I guess like.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what I He was gonna get upset because I'm

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<v Speaker 6>retired now and you know he wants me to leave

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<v Speaker 6>that life. There was an agreement that you had with

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<v Speaker 6>said man that you are no longer doing what you did,

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<v Speaker 6>but you did do it, and it's fine doing it.

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<v Speaker 6>You knew he was gonna be mad at it, and

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<v Speaker 6>now he's mad at it, and you don't understand why

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<v Speaker 6>he's mad.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a good breakdown exactly.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, yeah, exactly. Now he's no longer he's no longer

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<v Speaker 8>back there. But I'm just because he reacted that way

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<v Speaker 8>and just kind of sitting here at this post.

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<v Speaker 4>In my mind like damn, not saying anything, because if

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<v Speaker 4>you would have been, like, by the way before we

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<v Speaker 4>go to this, my titties out, he might, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>but it made it a bigger deal when he heard

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<v Speaker 4>about it right before, when he's there with you, you

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<v Speaker 4>purposely didn't tell him because you knew he was gonna

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<v Speaker 4>was so moving on from him, is it something My

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<v Speaker 4>question is this it's something that you think I should

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<v Speaker 4>worry about having to deal with moving forward with a

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<v Speaker 4>potential Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>It goes back to what Eva said, if you know

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<v Speaker 5>and in starting that relationship that this is something that

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<v Speaker 5>is going.

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<v Speaker 3>To be a point of contention.

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<v Speaker 2>That he's not my guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just like in Eden, right, people were not allowed

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<v Speaker 4>to take videos under and so Magic City people.

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<v Speaker 2>Weren't allowed to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's different because now this is going to be something

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<v Speaker 4>that's on start.

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<v Speaker 2>But it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 6>It doesn't matter because you're trying to qualify everything that

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<v Speaker 6>you know you are totally fine with, So you're qualified for.

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<v Speaker 2>The man he named man no more.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he never was.

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<v Speaker 2>He wasn't.

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<v Speaker 8>Well he was at one point, but he wasn't during

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<v Speaker 8>this whole Okay, you're.

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<v Speaker 2>You're qualifying it for yourself.

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<v Speaker 6>You're trying to validate it for yourself, and that doesn't

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<v Speaker 6>need to happen if you're what you're okay with is okay,

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<v Speaker 6>and it's okay to not be okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Tomorrow with what you were okay with you doing today.

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<v Speaker 6>Like so if you you know what's Cy's like, you

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<v Speaker 6>can change.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's crazy. The Geminium me.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm so psyched that I'm actually looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 8>So he's definitely not your guy. No, I said, absolutely

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<v Speaker 8>not your guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said that.

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<v Speaker 1>See, if you feel like you got to hide some things,

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<v Speaker 1>that ain't it anytime?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what it was.

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<v Speaker 8>I just didn't want to make it an argument prior

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<v Speaker 8>to and when I did it, we are not together.

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<v Speaker 6>We were not postponing the argument that you knew was inevitable,

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<v Speaker 6>So you decided you wanted to have it on the

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<v Speaker 6>night of your premiere.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I didn't think somebody was going to sell.

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<v Speaker 8>My vision was that he would see it and with

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<v Speaker 8>it was going to be the reaction, Like he wasn't

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<v Speaker 8>going to react because we were going to see it

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<v Speaker 8>with everybody in the theater.

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<v Speaker 1>So unrealistic.

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<v Speaker 8>I didn't have a moment for that to happen because

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<v Speaker 8>somebody right before we walked into sat down. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>you know this is in and he got mad.

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<v Speaker 2>Your non friend is a hater. My hands away.

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<v Speaker 8>I can't wait for the cameras go so I can

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<v Speaker 8>tell you who said it. You'll know this person.

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<v Speaker 4>Well listen, I hate that we have to end this,

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<v Speaker 4>but I am excited for the new season of All

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<v Speaker 4>the Queens.

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<v Speaker 6>Many well ask two episodes, two episodes one and I'm

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<v Speaker 6>home Thanksgiving. I'm home to say siven night, stuup your face,

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<v Speaker 6>see your family, kiss your loved one.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 6>And then sit with your good judies or whoever you

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<v Speaker 6>watch you with. We are dropping two episodes, thank and

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<v Speaker 6>then after that every Thursday you get a brand new

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<v Speaker 6>episode of all these.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a lot to watch and you have appointment.

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<v Speaker 6>You have something to do at appointment on Thursday, man

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<v Speaker 6>want to watch football or your non man, maybe new

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<v Speaker 6>potential man.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't one either. We can go hang out, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there's thirties out.

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<v Speaker 1>On the show just my eyes, so I had a

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<v Speaker 1>body double. I was like, you think even really did

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<v Speaker 1>that was? And what looking good?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, that's all mine?

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<v Speaker 4>So you should tell the guy, look even did it?

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<v Speaker 2>No problem? And more over, you should tell you.

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<v Speaker 8>That was my like my response, my rebuttal was like

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<v Speaker 8>when the actress is titties out on TV, nobody cares.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you care?

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<v Speaker 8>And he's like, you just want to be a health

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<v Speaker 8>faver and I'm like, all right, oh, we are definitely

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<v Speaker 8>going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Forget.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll busting them in his But just as it recap,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, when y'all start watching this new season, we

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<v Speaker 4>get to see what's going to happen with your father

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<v Speaker 4>on the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, this season it's all about vengeance.

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<v Speaker 2>Madam believes in God.

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<v Speaker 6>But vengeance's mind said, the Lord is for Madam. She

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<v Speaker 6>is the lord in this situation. And when it comes

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<v Speaker 6>to my dad and him being kidnapped, I might not

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<v Speaker 6>care about a lot and these boys dancing, this is

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<v Speaker 6>what you signed up for, but when it comes to

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<v Speaker 6>my daddy, and that blood games. I play nowhere near

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<v Speaker 6>games even on Christmas when it comes to Cadillacs. So

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<v Speaker 6>this season of All the Queen's Men, you see Madam

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<v Speaker 6>in a space you've never seen her before because she

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<v Speaker 6>does not have the control.

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<v Speaker 2>She choose to have it.

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<v Speaker 6>Imagine going home and you click your lights on it,

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<v Speaker 6>they don't come on. Turn the water on, and the

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<v Speaker 6>water's not on. You're like, oh no, with the bill

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<v Speaker 6>not like what's going on? Like the control that Madam

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<v Speaker 6>is used to having no longer she doesn't have. And

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<v Speaker 6>the one thing that drives her is her daddy.

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<v Speaker 4>So new season, it's food episodes. We inside est plus

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<v Speaker 4>is going down.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I can't wait to get to know

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<v Speaker 2>you all.

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<v Speaker 4>I think Zarry prior grades that people know where they

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<v Speaker 4>can find you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, more about what you do intimacy with z everywhere,

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<v Speaker 5>And yeah, more about what I do in terms of

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<v Speaker 5>intimacy coordinating.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm saying they can find you and everything about

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<v Speaker 4>what you do intimacy with.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, they can find me any of my therapy stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>any of my intimacy coordinating. I'm also I'm writing a

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<v Speaker 5>book about intimacy coordinating and developing my own modesty stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>so we have more things.

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<v Speaker 6>Good good because that everything fits. Everything said, I can't

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<v Speaker 6>put everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah right right, we're gonna fix it. The color.

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