Speaker 1: What's up the service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm J. J.
Speaker 2: Maguire, I'm Jeordie.
Speaker 3: Jor, I'm Zuri Prior Graves, and.
Speaker 2: I'm your girl, even morself.
Speaker 4: And this show didn't even start, and I feel like
Speaker 4: we already did have that.
Speaker 2: Because happening.
Speaker 4: But let's just make sure we're all familiar with who
Speaker 4: everybody is here, because Zuri Pia Graves, you are an
Speaker 4: intimacy coordinator I am, and a mental health expert.
Speaker 3: I am clinician.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, like run it down because I don't want
Speaker 1: to miss anything you.
Speaker 3: I mean, those are those are the two main things.
Speaker 5: But I'm a sexuality educator and I used to be
Speaker 5: a sexuality a sex.
Speaker 2: Therapist, sexuality educator.
Speaker 5: Well when I was doing it, I used to write
Speaker 5: curriculum for sex education in schools. And it was also
Speaker 5: at a time where HR policies didn't include language around
Speaker 5: transidentities and all these sur revising corporate pr policies to
Speaker 5: make sure that they're inclusive.
Speaker 4: Of well, they're about to throw all that out, girl,
Speaker 4: because the way times are looking. Sheeshuh and Eva, before
Speaker 4: we even started this, we were talking about eats, lay
Speaker 4: love and of course you know, we are excited for
Speaker 4: all the Kings men to all.
Speaker 1: The queens Men, sorry, all the Queen's Men coming back
Speaker 1: on November.
Speaker 6: There's so many kings in there, though, I get it. Listen,
Speaker 6: the Kings came there.
Speaker 4: We actually yesterday yesterday, me, Jordan and Gigi were at
Speaker 4: my house and we were watching like binging Everything Eats
Speaker 4: Lay Love, but also catching up on season three so
Speaker 4: then we could get ready for season.
Speaker 2: Four of All the Queens.
Speaker 1: Thank you and listen.
Speaker 4: When when we were looking at like the preview of
Speaker 4: what happened on the previous season, we were like, well, no,
Speaker 4: let's run that back again because we need to catch
Speaker 4: back up because I don't even remember this, you know how.
Speaker 1: It is just so much happening.
Speaker 6: There's so much happening. And that's what I love about
Speaker 6: doing TV and film. I always thought say that entertainment,
Speaker 6: especially actors and TV and film, we satisfy two things.
Speaker 6: We there make it relatable, which is why reality TV
Speaker 6: became such a big thing. Or watching yourself. When you're
Speaker 6: watching your favorite TV shows like Living Single. Back in
Speaker 6: the day, it was relatable, right, like that's your aunt,
Speaker 6: that's your mom, that's you, And then the other thing
Speaker 6: we look for is an escape from like whatever our
Speaker 6: life is, the election, breakups, just whatever.
Speaker 2: You just need an escape from reality.
Speaker 6: And so that's what I feel like TV does, and
Speaker 6: that's what I enjoy doing as an entertainer, is bringing
Speaker 6: all of those things to the forefront.
Speaker 1: Thank you, madam. Do you guys have an intimacy coordinator
Speaker 1: on set?
Speaker 2: Is groceries? Okay?
Speaker 6: You have to show when I found out that you
Speaker 6: were bringing an intimacy coordinator. You have no idea how
Speaker 6: excited I was, because it is the one question a
Speaker 6: lot of actors are asked when they do work that
Speaker 6: is not PG and the show like mine, has every
Speaker 6: letter it's like PG, M.
Speaker 2: A, t Z exactly right.
Speaker 6: So it's like we come out Thanksgiving Day, get ready
Speaker 6: to get stuffed. We have two episodes for you, whether
Speaker 6: or not for your kids, And in that there is text.
Speaker 6: There's a lot of what intimacy looks like in different versions,
Speaker 6: and so people are often asked.
Speaker 2: I'm often asked, you know, like how you don't scene
Speaker 2: like did he really like?
Speaker 6: And I try to explain it the best way I
Speaker 6: can I know. On All the Queen's Men Season two,
Speaker 6: A white Coastar and I had a love scene on
Speaker 6: a jet and some things, and.
Speaker 1: Then you gave back that diamond necklace.
Speaker 2: Because Angelou wee can buy our own diamonds.
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying like, it's okay.
Speaker 1: You're right, it's okay.
Speaker 2: But in that scene people often ask like what was what?
Speaker 6: So you're the person that I am used to leaning
Speaker 6: on at work that it's like, I know you're having sex,
Speaker 6: like do you want.
Speaker 2: To keep it wrong? Do you want like a one piece?
Speaker 6: Like do you want a body double? Do you want
Speaker 6: a body double? That's often a very big thing. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 6: that bottom half wasn't me. You saw me with the
Speaker 6: d string like my trailer.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 6: So not, but the amount of comfort that actors are
Speaker 6: provided with intimacy coordinators. I mean I can look back
Speaker 6: at my sex scenes and I choreographed it to a
Speaker 6: te so I have it video tape five six times
Speaker 6: and jogging pants prior to so there was no question
Speaker 6: of like, do ain't no tongue slipping here? Like I
Speaker 6: was supposed to move my head that way to you know,
Speaker 6: And so it's but it's you that taught me that
Speaker 6: or the intimacy of coordinators.
Speaker 2: So I applaud you and I appreciate you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, tell us a little bit about what you do.
Speaker 5: Absolutely, So, I mean that was such a good run down,
Speaker 5: especially including body suits and different things. But the main
Speaker 5: thing I feel like is that people are not actually
Speaker 5: having sex. So a lot of actors get questions all
Speaker 5: the time like that, No, but what we do is
Speaker 5: we do our best to try to make it look.
Speaker 3: Like they are while keeping them safe.
Speaker 5: So coming to even being like, hey, what are you
Speaker 5: comfortable with in this scene in terms of what are
Speaker 5: you wearing? You know, what are the movements that we
Speaker 5: can work out and developing really repeatable and really specific
Speaker 5: actions that are associated with those sex scenes. And that's
Speaker 5: what we do with our actors, and we do a
Speaker 5: lot of other things like behind the cameras to make
Speaker 5: sure legally that these actors are protected and that the
Speaker 5: production is protected.
Speaker 6: I'm talking about protection time because they literally like ladies.
Speaker 6: You heard of commandos, Yes, okay, I'm like a big
Speaker 6: underwear kind of girl, So I don't wear those in
Speaker 6: my personal life. But there's not a sex scene you
Speaker 6: do without like like everything's coming.
Speaker 2: That's like it's like the little thin panty. It takes
Speaker 2: over everything, like so you can't see it.
Speaker 6: So if you want to wear those cute dresses or
Speaker 6: the sides are cut out.
Speaker 4: The regular I know where you could buy. I thought
Speaker 4: it was something special.
Speaker 2: One of those breathe right nose strips.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like they covered it like completely, but this is
Speaker 6: the gag.
Speaker 2: The men wear them too, Yes, the men. They put
Speaker 2: their stuff in it. They pushing back there. No, seriously, like.
Speaker 6: They put their stuff in a pouch like and they
Speaker 6: tie it on there and then and then they push it.
Speaker 2: Around so there is like no space.
Speaker 6: Like so if you hear someone like, oh I got
Speaker 6: a rouser this happened, it's with a take down, it's you.
Speaker 3: Know, fifty people in the room.
Speaker 4: And yeah, people say that it's kind of awkward with
Speaker 4: everybody watching you, And I'm sure do you also coordinate that,
Speaker 4: Like I don't want as many people on set because
Speaker 4: that can be uncomfortable too.
Speaker 3: And that's called a close.
Speaker 2: I was gonna saying, I've always had a clothes set. TP.
Speaker 6: Shout out to TP, but he is very sincere about
Speaker 6: like Karen Man only and the necessary actors like that's it, right,
Speaker 6: So it's very it makes it makes it very comfortable,
Speaker 6: and then intimacy coordinaries.
Speaker 4: I don't feel like now as a model because I
Speaker 4: feel like models tend to be more comfortable with their bodies.
Speaker 6: And there for sure, but something between your legs and
Speaker 6: your body is very different. So like if we have
Speaker 6: the change as girls in here right now, like I
Speaker 6: would need to go into the room, I'd take my
Speaker 6: shirt off, another shirt on. Y'all got boobs, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, Like we all know areola's. But if
Speaker 6: I'm supposed to have like a man in between my
Speaker 6: legs right now doing something, put his.
Speaker 4: Head right here a lot on the on all the queens,
Speaker 4: it was, I wasn't running for it. But what's good
Speaker 4: about you is that you always get to shut everybody down.
Speaker 4: Like I know you've had your your sex scenes, but
Speaker 4: they're not as like it's not like you're having sex
Speaker 4: with a bunch of people, because I feel like if
Speaker 4: it was a man running a strip.
Speaker 2: Club, he would be fucking everything.
Speaker 6: Well, let's talk about that, because if you flip this
Speaker 6: whole show upside down and may like the valley, we're
Speaker 6: the women are the objects and the men are more
Speaker 6: of the leadership position. It's a whole other show, which
Speaker 6: is what makes all the Queen's men so dope because
Speaker 6: I see Angela, I see you, I see you, I
Speaker 6: see you because we are bosses women in our own rights.
Speaker 6: So I get to play a role where I take
Speaker 6: from all of these boss women everything I know, the savvy,
Speaker 6: the cunniness, attacked, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: And how you kill people, you know, women to do.
Speaker 4: You know, we had an idea to watching the show.
Speaker 4: We were like, now, have you been to a male
Speaker 4: reviews show in real life?
Speaker 2: Because these ladies have.
Speaker 1: So yes, yes, okay, I've hosted them before that to
Speaker 1: one one. How long ago is that?
Speaker 3: And it was in d C. No.
Speaker 4: So my idea was, and I was telling Giz while
Speaker 4: we were I said, for this new season, at some point,
Speaker 4: we should have the guys come and really do a
Speaker 4: male review show at medics, like a fun one with
Speaker 4: industry people. Yeah, and all women like inside the club
Speaker 4: trying to get in, like let's know you are you because.
Speaker 2: We'll get to know where's that who's splitting up the money.
Speaker 1: This is a good promotional thing though.
Speaker 4: It's beautiful because imagine, like how many women have never
Speaker 4: been to a male review show, just talking to them
Speaker 4: about it because I've been before, because I posted and
Speaker 4: it was really fun.
Speaker 2: Canny Birds Dungeon part Yeah, no one ever was that. No,
Speaker 2: it was as my Girl, it was, and Michael bau
Speaker 2: Wire was a part of it.
Speaker 1: Who's in our show?
Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's what that's the stage heard about.
Speaker 6: She's like, okay, Tyler Perry, but no, bo, what I
Speaker 6: think is dope about him And the reason why I
Speaker 6: call him bow Wie because the first day we started working,
Speaker 6: Kim Phils was directing us and we were just rehearsing,
Speaker 6: and I pulled him to the side because I know
Speaker 6: how it is to be prejudged. I know how it
Speaker 6: is the people to have some kind of expectation of
Speaker 6: me or idea of me, and it really sucks because
Speaker 6: I'm just me and nine times out of ten, you've
Speaker 6: got a better version of me today than yesterday. And
Speaker 6: please don't let the man yesterday tell you my story.
Speaker 6: So when it comes to bow Wire, when I met him,
Speaker 6: I asked him, said, what do you want to be called? Like,
Speaker 6: how do you want me to address you? And he said,
Speaker 6: my name is Michael. Okay, I said, so, how would
Speaker 6: you what do you want to call you? Michael Bolois
Speaker 6: call me Michael. So at work, I'm so used to
Speaker 6: him being called Michael, You're like, who yeah, or I'll
Speaker 6: call him bow Wire And that's where bo I guess
Speaker 6: Bolow came from. But he's the consummate professional. He's an
Speaker 6: absolute dallface, and he is one that had no actings experience,
Speaker 6: but what he did have is the authenticity of the
Speaker 6: life of what really happens like.
Speaker 2: And he knows it.
Speaker 6: So there was no script to tell him how to
Speaker 6: poffy him, right, you know what I mean? And Tyler
Speaker 6: did a really good job at bringing in both season
Speaker 6: actors and then season dancers and making us learn what
Speaker 6: that marriage looked like to make a create a great show.
Speaker 4: Yeah now there you also work on Reasonable Doubt, Right,
Speaker 4: I love that show. And it's back, coming back for
Speaker 4: season but three.
Speaker 1: Now I hope you think, yeah, oh yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: a couple of days.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they just announced it's coming back. Wait is this
Speaker 4: season four?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: This is the one with more chestnuts?
Speaker 1: Is that the one person?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 4: But okay, so, and there's definitely some steamy scenes absolutely, okay,
Speaker 4: all right, perfect.
Speaker 1: I'm excited for that new season to start.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was an amazing show to work on.
Speaker 4: When did they start having these intimacy coordinators on set? Like,
Speaker 4: because I feel like this wasn't something that was a
Speaker 4: thing prior to this a few years ago.
Speaker 5: It was so twenty seventeen was me too. Twenty eighteen
Speaker 5: people started to get together to try to figure out
Speaker 5: what this was going to be. I think by twenty
Speaker 5: nineteen is when people were implementing intimacy coordinators on sets.
Speaker 3: So that's like Pee Valley Season one.
Speaker 5: Was twenty nineteen and they had an intimacy coordinator and
Speaker 5: a lot of things were picking up at Tyler Perry Studios,
Speaker 5: a lot of films and TV picked up.
Speaker 3: On it in Atlanta, which was really good.
Speaker 4: And then it so forward with these sets they really
Speaker 4: are and thinks to Taller Perry, I feel like because
Speaker 4: he'd be going it.
Speaker 6: Well, Tip just looks out for his people in every
Speaker 6: single way, like in every way from food to transportation
Speaker 6: to the into no question, but a lot of people
Speaker 6: figure like I'll get the check, but so if they
Speaker 6: don't have my food, like it's okay if my trailer
Speaker 6: is not you know, right, it's like make sure every
Speaker 6: everything across the board. And even if the scene is
Speaker 6: written like as an intimacy coordinator, you know, written where
Speaker 6: it's supposed to be a little bit more provocative or
Speaker 6: like I'm supposed to.
Speaker 2: For all love boob in there.
Speaker 6: If I'm not a love boom filling it this today,
Speaker 6: then that parts out right.
Speaker 2: The show goes on. Everyone's fine, like it's.
Speaker 4: Not a it's not a big He's not trying to
Speaker 4: convince you I was thinking of it.
Speaker 1: Ever?
Speaker 4: Do you everybody here see Fame? Remember that play where
Speaker 4: she's sitting in front of the camera. That that is
Speaker 4: such a powerful scene where he's like telling her to
Speaker 4: take off her shirt and she's crying because she doesn't
Speaker 4: want to do it.
Speaker 1: You got to see the movie Fame.
Speaker 4: But that scene right there is Irene Karat and it's
Speaker 4: like really and she doesn't want to do it. Because
Speaker 4: sometimes people will tell you they get convinced to do
Speaker 4: things that they're not completely comfortable.
Speaker 3: Call me too.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was the whole me too movement, like the
Speaker 6: idea of discomfort but still having to do it because
Speaker 6: you want your job and you want to do you
Speaker 6: want all the rest of your job. You just don't
Speaker 6: want to do that, right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, and then people would be like, well,
Speaker 4: you agree to it, why didn't you say something at
Speaker 4: the time, because I hear people say stuff like that,
Speaker 4: and I can think of so many times that we
Speaker 4: all did something and didn't say anything at the time,
Speaker 4: but we were not comfortable, and then it's like damn.
Speaker 4: You feel like it is an intimidating thing, and sometimes you.
Speaker 1: Feel a little powerless in that moment.
Speaker 3: And that's part of.
Speaker 5: Our job is to try to dismantle the hierarchy of things.
Speaker 5: And especially in Atlanta where there are so many projects
Speaker 5: that are indie films or smaller projects where they're inviting
Speaker 5: all these young black actors, they don't a lot of
Speaker 5: times you know what to ask for. They signed contracts,
Speaker 5: and the contracts have these really really broad nudity.
Speaker 3: Clauses and things like that, and then they get on set.
Speaker 5: They might be they've already flown in, they're put up
Speaker 5: and everything, and then they get all.
Speaker 1: Their scripts right and they're like, wait, I agree to
Speaker 1: do that. You're like, ooh, I don't know about So
Speaker 1: that happens.
Speaker 6: You get every single scene, even if it's not my scene.
Speaker 6: You know, every scene of intimacy that's gone and on,
Speaker 6: you know where it's scheduled in the day, Like my
Speaker 6: attorney had to sign off Max husband. My attorney signs
Speaker 6: off on every single I mean, even if it's just
Speaker 6: a kiss, if it's a pat on the butts, there's
Speaker 6: no way to mint any of this.
Speaker 1: That's great.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Is that how most projects are or is that just
Speaker 1: you know, we'll see.
Speaker 4: Do you think that Tyler Perry is way more intentional
Speaker 4: than the average, Well, I.
Speaker 6: Know Tyler is way more intentional than I mean, I
Speaker 6: worked around COVID and Tyler was in a bubble and
Speaker 6: we got tested three times a day and couldn't start
Speaker 6: work for two weeks quarantine just to ensure like his
Speaker 6: level of protection.
Speaker 2: All the way around. But I think it has I mean.
Speaker 6: He protects everything he does very well and protects the actors.
Speaker 6: That's why when you hear an actor talk about like
Speaker 6: working with Tea, it's like there is absolutely no comparison.
Speaker 4: I saw when I interviewed Debbie Morgan, I saw you
Speaker 4: left an She was talking about getting her salary and
Speaker 4: how he gave her more money after like.
Speaker 6: They I was at Disney World through my three kids
Speaker 6: one year maybe yash year a year before last, and
Speaker 6: he calls me and he's like, what do you make
Speaker 6: Here's a race and the and I already had a
Speaker 6: guaranteed raise in there. It was way more than the guarantee,
Speaker 6: just like off the strength, like you've been working, Like
Speaker 6: when I tell you Tyler's heart and his generosity, what
Speaker 6: he does versus what he has to do in comparison,
Speaker 6: because I did Young and the Restless, I was on Smallville,
Speaker 6: I done. Everybody hates Chris like I've ran the gamut
Speaker 6: of television shows. There is nothing, no comparison that compares
Speaker 6: to working that's amazing.
Speaker 2: There really is it.
Speaker 4: And that's why I saw people in the comments, like
Speaker 4: y'all be wanting to slam Tyler Perry on social media.
Speaker 4: I can't nobody tell me anything bad about Tyler Perry.
Speaker 6: You can't tell me anything at all because Tyler. If
Speaker 6: you work after Tyler.
Speaker 2: Is because you want to, not because you have to.
Speaker 2: That's real, that.
Speaker 6: Like real talk, like you keep working because you love
Speaker 6: the art. But as far as him taking care of you,
Speaker 6: you're good. Your ability to tolerate other sets, I'm like,
Speaker 6: why are we still here did.
Speaker 1: You get the role in the first place? As madam?
Speaker 2: I got a phone call. Tyler called me and said,
Speaker 2: I have a script.
Speaker 6: It's different, very different, very different, but I know you
Speaker 6: can hold it.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna send it to you. Read it, let me
Speaker 2: know what you think and what was your first reaction? Damn.
Speaker 6: My first reaction was like, Yo, this is a boss
Speaker 6: and the clothes be top ten. I have to shout
Speaker 6: out if you've seen your body on a fashion My
Speaker 6: next fting is.
Speaker 2: You can't wait because she is a beast.
Speaker 6: But Rihanda Verene has worked with TP for quite some
Speaker 6: time and as you see him elevate his production, he
Speaker 6: does it in every department. And Rihanda, Oh she kills it.
Speaker 6: She kills she knows black women's body, she knows women,
Speaker 6: she knows close you know, just period, that's all Randall.
Speaker 4: She's doing an amazing Everything looks so nice on you.
Speaker 1: Thank you, it's fire.
Speaker 2: I like both.
Speaker 1: But I like your style there, but I also like to.
Speaker 2: See like on my regular me.
Speaker 1: Yes, you could do both, get you that could do?
Speaker 2: That's a character.
Speaker 4: I play a character and it still looks amazing. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 4: it's aspirational.
Speaker 2: Yes, and there are a lot of women that are
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 6: I mean, look at who was just on the bill
Speaker 6: for nominee for president. I mean there are black women
Speaker 6: that are out here bossing up and are power suits
Speaker 6: every single day trying to change the world.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Those power suits were different, though, those different.
Speaker 2: She's demure, very.
Speaker 1: Very not with no shirt under her suit. I let
Speaker 1: them out, now, let them out. Now there.
Speaker 4: You also do therapy for families, for couples, right, individual therapy,
Speaker 4: you do all of it. I don't even know how
Speaker 4: you have time to do all of that, right, busy, busy.
Speaker 4: But how important do you think that couple's therapy is
Speaker 4: for people who say are getting married or who are married.
Speaker 5: I think it's really important, especially even new relationships. I
Speaker 5: tell people, don't wait until there's a problem to have
Speaker 5: a support system, even if it's like a once a
Speaker 5: month check in. Establishing someone that you can talk to
Speaker 5: that's outside of your marriage, that isn't your friend or
Speaker 5: your family member or something like that can really help
Speaker 5: sustain a marriage or any relationship.
Speaker 1: It's hard to find the right therapist too.
Speaker 4: I tried to get absolutely I had to get my
Speaker 4: boyfriend to do therapy. Yeah, he went, well, not when
Speaker 4: it was like on zoom one time and he was
Speaker 4: not feeling it.
Speaker 1: He was like, well tried it did Was it a
Speaker 1: man or woman? It was a woman, was it? Yeah?
Speaker 4: She started telling him her problems.
Speaker 6: She was right, that doesn't want But for couples therapy,
Speaker 6: I find having been married, having done therapy before getting married,
Speaker 6: doing personal therapy for myself a black woman works for me, right,
Speaker 6: because a black woman relates to me, she understands. So
Speaker 6: for personal therapy, but for couple's therapy, I literally just
Speaker 6: had this conversation with my best friend saying, is there
Speaker 6: a world where you use more than just one therapist?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 6: Yes, where you would use a man and a woman,
Speaker 6: not necessarily at the same time, just to create a
Speaker 6: sense of balance and equity when it comes to the
Speaker 6: male perspective or the female perspective. So it's like having
Speaker 6: a doctor or gynecologist, like, I don't mind if my
Speaker 6: PCP is a man, but my obg yn is the woman.
Speaker 6: It needs to be a woman. I don't care how
Speaker 6: much you've learned about feminine anatomy.
Speaker 2: You don't get it because you don't get it. Yea,
Speaker 2: and no, more than I can truly understand a man.
Speaker 6: I raised boys, I was raised with boys, I got
Speaker 6: daddy like all that.
Speaker 2: But I don't know, I like true interesting.
Speaker 3: I know that a.
Speaker 5: Lot of times people go into couple's therapy and they
Speaker 5: already have a therapist and then they're like, I want
Speaker 5: to they're discussing issues within the relationship, and then they're like,
Speaker 5: I want to bring my partner in to me. That
Speaker 5: is unethical. I don't think that that's I mean, I
Speaker 5: feel like there's a maybe us session, but at some
Speaker 5: point you need to make sure that it is a
Speaker 5: safe space for both people, and I think that that's
Speaker 5: when you outsource. Could that other original party be a
Speaker 5: part of that conversation. I think that would be pretty interesting.
Speaker 5: Outside of like maybe an initial session where you're telling, hey,
Speaker 5: this is what we've been talking about, this is why
Speaker 5: I'm you know, transferring care to this person. I think
Speaker 5: it would be really interesting to continue that and also
Speaker 5: with the consideration of both of those energies in the space.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean like three months with you and then
Speaker 6: maybe your practice. You have a male that works with you,
Speaker 6: you have made him privy of all of our issues
Speaker 6: where we started where our growth is all of that,
Speaker 6: and then now have him for the next three months.
Speaker 6: You see what I'm saying, and just go back and forth.
Speaker 6: And I just while I'm considering some more therapy, wondering
Speaker 6: if that is something that is just Walt Disney of me,
Speaker 6: like no one can see it yet, or is that
Speaker 6: something that's done or doable.
Speaker 5: I've never seen that done. I could see it in
Speaker 5: the way that they're both in the room at the
Speaker 5: same time, Okay, but I feel like the issue would
Speaker 5: be the disconnect. So you'd have you know, you said
Speaker 5: three months, you'd have three months of development and like
Speaker 5: we'll progress. Therapy is not linear, but you'd have all
Speaker 5: these things that come up, and there's an ethical boundary
Speaker 5: of like how much should I share? How do I
Speaker 5: share that information? Is that other therapists going and listening
Speaker 5: to all of those, you know, re recording these sessions.
Speaker 5: I don't know what that relationship would look like to
Speaker 5: make sure that the therapy felt cohesive.
Speaker 3: If that makes sense.
Speaker 5: Okay, But I can see I'm ever seen I've seen
Speaker 5: like couples be like, hey, you know, they're a husband
Speaker 5: and wife and they're not therapists, but they do count
Speaker 5: we don't want them right. But that's the only time
Speaker 5: I've ever seen two people.
Speaker 2: In the room.
Speaker 4: How was it difficult to get your ex husband to
Speaker 4: do therapy with you when you guys were getting married
Speaker 4: and before that?
Speaker 6: Mental health therapy I think is a beautifully new idea
Speaker 6: for the black community. It's something that has not been
Speaker 6: normalized growing up and black men, especially so black it
Speaker 6: is it's so difficult, so I can say there was
Speaker 6: a struggle, but truth to be told, the first therapy
Speaker 6: we ever went to was his advice, which was marriage counseling,
Speaker 6: like before getting married.
Speaker 2: Like, let's sit down on my past. He's not gonna
Speaker 2: marry even you know what I mean.
Speaker 6: But I just think it's a traditional thing. And I
Speaker 6: love the black men that have sought therapy or the
Speaker 6: couples that do that are bold enough to tell their
Speaker 6: story because I think it's extremely encouraging. And you don't
Speaker 6: realize how important and necessary therapy is until you jump
Speaker 6: the hurdle of ego okay.
Speaker 2: And actually start doing it. Yes, when you do, who
Speaker 2: you're like to it is so good.
Speaker 1: Like how did you find the right therapist?
Speaker 6: It took a while and I actually heard her speak,
Speaker 6: and I heard her speak about the ideals of what
Speaker 6: relationships are and how we came up with these ideas,
Speaker 6: and she use an example of the Disney idea. She said,
Speaker 6: we are taught literally since children. I know, you know
Speaker 6: it that woman meets men or boy boy meets girl,
Speaker 6: they fall in love. There's some kind of struggle you
Speaker 6: have to fight through. Then you jump over that hurdle.
Speaker 6: Now we're at the top of the mountain and everything's
Speaker 6: happening ever after. So you grew up as an adult
Speaker 6: trying to figure out, like, how.
Speaker 2: Do I get that in my relationship?
Speaker 6: And then social media plays a part in your girlfriend,
Speaker 6: whose relationship looks amazing, plays a.
Speaker 2: Part of your comparison to your man.
Speaker 6: You like, well, I don't get no flowers, you know,
Speaker 6: and she got American, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I mean.
Speaker 6: So there's all of that that I think that comes
Speaker 6: into it. But when the way I saw her breakdown
Speaker 6: how we have been programmed to look at relationships showed
Speaker 6: me a lot of her brain. And I am a
Speaker 6: very independent thinker, so it just felt right for me.
Speaker 6: It took me about a year and change before I
Speaker 6: finally reached out.
Speaker 2: So do not be discouraged.
Speaker 6: If this conversation is merely a seed and someone else
Speaker 6: waters it later and then you sprout up in a year.
Speaker 6: But after finally I was just at my low and
Speaker 6: I was like, look girl, I need somebody to talk
Speaker 6: to that does not know me. And life is tap
Speaker 6: dancing all over my ass.
Speaker 2: I feel like the devil has me on his number
Speaker 2: one hit list.
Speaker 6: He wake up early for me, he go to sleep
Speaker 6: late looking for I'm like, what is going on?
Speaker 1: And so does work help you? Like?
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, seriously, because sometimes when things happen, some people
Speaker 4: are throwing themselves into work, and some people are like,
Speaker 4: can't work you know what? Some people are like, I
Speaker 4: don't want to get out of bed, I don't want
Speaker 4: leave the house. I don't feel like doing anything. But
Speaker 4: some people are like, okay, I don't even want to
Speaker 4: have to think about this. Let me it's just work,
Speaker 4: non sty and.
Speaker 1: Keep it moving.
Speaker 3: That's disassociative behavior. Talk about it, don't we don't want
Speaker 3: to do that.
Speaker 5: Or you know where you can make that separation and
Speaker 5: you throw yourself into your work and you live there,
Speaker 5: and those people take that work home with them and
Speaker 5: they live there too, and that depending on what role
Speaker 5: you're playing, Like we have Keith Ledger, you know who passed, Yes,
Speaker 5: you know in these different people who who can't ever
Speaker 5: undo those characters. Uh so I have seen that. I've
Speaker 5: also seen people use their work for shadow work.
Speaker 2: So what does that mean?
Speaker 5: It down like, say they're playing someone who is a
Speaker 5: victim of sexual violence and they are a victim of
Speaker 5: sexual violence.
Speaker 1: Oh so they're shadowing their real life.
Speaker 5: Yes, and they use it as an opportunity to heal
Speaker 5: because if it's scripted.
Speaker 6: You mean at your work as an actor? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 6: absolutely every day girl.
Speaker 3: Yes, and sometimes it could work.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it absolutely can work.
Speaker 3: It can be really scary.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I have a question, And actually I think you
Speaker 7: could speak to this a lot too. I have a
Speaker 7: background in modeling, but I have a background in reality TV.
Speaker 7: And I felt like when we stopped filming, we should
Speaker 7: have had like a post production therapist. Yes, not even
Speaker 7: so much, because of like any traumatic thing that happened.
Speaker 2: It was almost even like a.
Speaker 7: Paranoia experienced where I'm like, oh, I'm in my I'm
Speaker 7: in the bathroom, Oh shit is my mic on? Or
Speaker 7: things like that, or they were in here is somebody listening?
Speaker 7: To me, are they looking at my text messages? And
Speaker 7: I know even for my show, I never dealt with
Speaker 7: this per se, but you know, people were intimate and
Speaker 7: that was their real life that was out there for
Speaker 7: everybody to say, summerhouse, Martha's vineyard. Yeah, so that was
Speaker 7: interesting to witness and to see how it's like, okay,
Speaker 7: see you when we have green screen and there was no.
Speaker 2: Bridge in there.
Speaker 7: And then you also do have the what are they
Speaker 7: going to show? And what are people going to say
Speaker 7: about me?
Speaker 2: Right? So that's called being a reality star. I can
Speaker 2: speak to both of these.
Speaker 1: But even as an actor, do you guys have posts?
Speaker 2: So started Real started in reality.
Speaker 6: I started one of the first reality shows before we
Speaker 6: even knew the genre was called. I mean, we had Survivor,
Speaker 6: and then I think the year after we had Real World,
Speaker 6: and the year after or during mine was American Idol.
Speaker 6: So we didn't even really it wasn't even a genre there,
Speaker 6: let alone as you know laws and structure that was covered.
Speaker 2: Union why it's still not Union.
Speaker 6: But what I have experienced working with NBC Universal and
Speaker 6: with working with Housewives, we don't start a show without
Speaker 6: knowing who the show's therapist is the show's therapy pist
Speaker 6: has a practice, so if you're not comfortable with that person,
Speaker 6: you can choose someone else. And at any point in
Speaker 6: filming if you're like, look, I need a moment, they
Speaker 6: are bound by ethical rules they can't say anything. But
Speaker 6: there has always been provided a therapist and so if
Speaker 6: for me the best option to cope in this situation
Speaker 6: is to tap out and walk out, that's what I do.
Speaker 4: So you had that in America's Next Top Model now
Speaker 4: on Top Modelport Time Model.
Speaker 6: But for Housewives, and I think you were talking about
Speaker 6: later on as life changed, the business change and TV
Speaker 6: change and we went from regular to streaming and all
Speaker 6: this up. That's one thing I've definitely had on Housewives.
Speaker 6: It was very doctor such and such and she she's there,
Speaker 6: that you have someone to call so that you don't
Speaker 6: feel that way, you.
Speaker 2: Know what I mean? And there is now I just
Speaker 2: know that.
Speaker 6: For NBC Universal, there is a It's required in contract
Speaker 6: and even after the fact, if there's remnants and you
Speaker 6: just still feel away, you do not have to useual
Speaker 6: on insurance girl or your own money.
Speaker 2: You can call them. They are obligated to.
Speaker 1: So that did they not have that for Summer House.
Speaker 7: Our second season that they started like we always had
Speaker 7: to get a psych evail before we showed up anywhere,
Speaker 7: but we didn't actually have that knowledge until the third season.
Speaker 2: That fact.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so like I've I've also done reality, but I
Speaker 5: did like a game show, and I did I'm not
Speaker 5: an actress, and I did an Escape of Survival for Survival,
Speaker 5: which was an Amazon Prime body show, and we did
Speaker 5: the psychoval ahead of time, and even still in that process,
Speaker 5: we knew that there was a person because we met
Speaker 5: that person. That person wasn't on the ground. We actually
Speaker 5: had someone who did have some psychological issues and they
Speaker 5: had to be escorted off the episode. And being able
Speaker 5: like being a therapist myself going to production and being
Speaker 5: like what support, Like did you didn't do enough communication
Speaker 5: with us to know what we could do in these
Speaker 5: situations and asking for it and advocating for it. And
Speaker 5: then I did the game show and the similar thing.
Speaker 5: We had one hundred people and one of those people
Speaker 5: ended up having a manic episode and there was no
Speaker 5: one And that's just because the price, like the it
Speaker 5: just is is not for every network is not taking
Speaker 5: that into consideration unfortunately. So that's actually one of the
Speaker 5: things that I after doing those experiences back to back
Speaker 5: this year, that is the thing that I am most
Speaker 5: past shit about. I'm actually back in school getting my
Speaker 5: pH d because it does you do have to get
Speaker 5: have a doctorate, uh in order to do that. And
Speaker 5: there are only like twenty psychiatrists who are qualified and
Speaker 5: who have done what they need to do in order
Speaker 5: to support these reality TV situations and in scripted TV.
Speaker 5: There are no regulations. You get usually like the universal
Speaker 5: thing is, regardless of your crew actor, whatever you get,
Speaker 5: like I think it's like four to six free sessions.
Speaker 5: But just like you said, nobody knows a lot of times.
Speaker 6: Well, look into your insurance because your insurance covers it
Speaker 6: all the way, especially if you're sag after.
Speaker 2: It covers all of that down to acupuncture and massages.
Speaker 1: Wait a second, but.
Speaker 3: There.
Speaker 6: And so the second part of that is watch what
Speaker 6: you ask for from God, from yourself, and watch the
Speaker 6: rooms you walk into because you can't walk into a
Speaker 6: fire and expect not to get burned.
Speaker 2: You can't walk.
Speaker 6: Into the unknown wanting a sense of knowing, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. There's a lover of surrendering. So even
Speaker 6: as an actor I've studied my lines. I'm prepared. I
Speaker 6: appreciate yours prepared everyone. I just work here. But there's
Speaker 6: also a space where you never know what can happen also,
Speaker 6: and that's why you do have a union. But there's
Speaker 6: certain spaces where you how do you lay the blame?
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 6: So if I've gotten my physical, I've gotten my psyche val,
Speaker 6: I went to work, everything's good, and then I break
Speaker 6: out crazy at work today, or have a manic moment
Speaker 6: or display a different representation than people are used to.
Speaker 2: What is everyone's supposed to do?
Speaker 3: I think there should be systems in place.
Speaker 2: What system is that?
Speaker 6: Because I'm in the middle of shooting the scene getting
Speaker 6: paid a whole lot of money with one hundred and
Speaker 6: fifty people that signed up for this very rigorous system.
Speaker 5: I think just having somebody who is, like you said
Speaker 5: on Your Real Housewives, you have something that a lot
Speaker 5: of other shows don't have, being introduced to that person
Speaker 5: ahead of time, so you know, if something happens, you
Speaker 5: can go to that person. And also the production who
Speaker 5: is not equipped to handle a situation like that, knowing
Speaker 5: that they have someone who they can direct any of
Speaker 5: those situations too. It's just unfortunate that that isn't the
Speaker 5: standard in the Norman.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so for the ones that I did have, they
Speaker 6: were never in real time, so there was a zoom
Speaker 6: prior to psyche Val. You get the phone call, you
Speaker 6: talk to somebody, you have the number.
Speaker 2: Then you shoot your show.
Speaker 6: While shooting your show, you find that you need to
Speaker 6: talk to somebody.
Speaker 2: You have someone to call.
Speaker 6: They can fly to Marrakesh where you're shooting right now,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, So you talk to them,
Speaker 6: but you really need it for me after the fact,
Speaker 6: and that paranoia in your bathroom later on, is the
Speaker 6: camera on my phone? Do I need to turn it off?
Speaker 2: Like that? It's kind of after that fact. Was in
Speaker 2: the moment, you're literally in the you never you don't
Speaker 2: know what's going to happen.
Speaker 7: Well, I think for me, my experience is only a
Speaker 7: little bit different because we were it's more similar to
Speaker 7: your newer show, a newer reality show, because we were
Speaker 7: there filming the whole time. So for three weeks, we're
Speaker 7: not home. You know, there's no breaks, there's no anything
Speaker 7: three months, so you know.
Speaker 2: That part, and it's just.
Speaker 7: I had a mental breakdown on I think on every
Speaker 7: show I was on, just because I'm a very anxious
Speaker 7: person and I was going through a lot at the time,
Speaker 7: and I didn't know what.
Speaker 1: To expect, and I have a therapist.
Speaker 7: I had therapy when I was on the show, but
Speaker 7: because there was no like, Okay, you know, you have
Speaker 7: your idea of what reality TV is when you go
Speaker 7: and do it for the first time, and even the
Speaker 7: second time, even third time, people start switching up and
Speaker 7: you're not necessarily prepared for that.
Speaker 1: And production sometimes loves that, and then still it's that
Speaker 1: check for it.
Speaker 7: There is still a piece of yourself that you're like, yeah, okay,
Speaker 7: that was a lot, and you keep going and you
Speaker 7: do it again and it's fine, but.
Speaker 6: There is so why do we keep going if it
Speaker 6: was a lot and if it was so hoof? Because
Speaker 6: people asked me off and like will you go back
Speaker 6: to housewives? Like and you never hear me play down
Speaker 6: play housewives. But I also have had my moment where
Speaker 6: I've excited that that is not not for your face.
Speaker 2: And so it's very.
Speaker 6: Hard to see someone go back into a place where
Speaker 6: you know it's toxic and then expected not to be toxic.
Speaker 4: Because you also realized that you didn't have the control
Speaker 4: you thought you had. I remember you said that about
Speaker 4: each lay Love, that this whole time you thought you
Speaker 4: were in control of your life, and.
Speaker 1: Reality TV is something that you really do not have.
Speaker 4: You do have control over down to edit, like yeah,
Speaker 4: going to do you know where you're filming? Even where
Speaker 4: you're filming, like they could tell you come here, you
Speaker 4: don't even know what's about to happen.
Speaker 6: Who's going to walk in any of those things? So
Speaker 6: I think part of that, too is when you sign
Speaker 6: up for reality TV, you sign up for the unknown,
Speaker 6: and there is a level of strength that you have
Speaker 6: to have as a person, a sense of self that
Speaker 6: you have to have as a person, in ability to
Speaker 6: control your controllables and your ability to say that does
Speaker 6: not serve me. And so someone forty who started at nineteen,
Speaker 6: I can tell you that now I have had many
Speaker 6: pop offs.
Speaker 2: On eving God.
Speaker 6: It was my truth though, and I can't blame anyone
Speaker 6: else for my feelings. I can only take accountability, and
Speaker 6: I'm only to be charged with my attitude and my behavior.
Speaker 2: That's all I got.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I will say watching Eat Slay Love, you're
Speaker 4: very nice too.
Speaker 1: Nice know, honestly, like that breakfast scene with.
Speaker 6: Tea, because so you watched the show three times and
Speaker 6: you saw the young lady London, and when I see
Speaker 6: a black woman in a grocery store, I'm like, hey,
Speaker 6: girl like you.
Speaker 2: It's like.
Speaker 6: And so I just I have been misunderstood a lot.
Speaker 6: So I just felt like she was very misunderstood. I
Speaker 6: felt like I misunderstood her along with the rest of.
Speaker 8: Them, which is why I watched it so many times,
Speaker 8: because after the first time watching it, and then we
Speaker 8: were saying with got that at.
Speaker 7: First, and then when it kept coming back up, we
Speaker 7: were like, wait, we don't get anymore.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, and there were it was just it was,
Speaker 6: it was.
Speaker 2: It was very difficult.
Speaker 6: However, the woman and me doesn't want to leave that unresolved.
Speaker 6: It goes back to who like Madam is and all
Speaker 6: the Queen's men like the desire to find some kind
Speaker 6: of a resolution. And so I didn't know how I
Speaker 6: was going to play out. I didn't know she was
Speaker 6: gonna leave it. I know she's gonna walk away. I mean,
Speaker 6: my little outfit, you know what I mean. But it's
Speaker 6: also what I signed up for, right you.
Speaker 8: I saw you and Tammy both triumph try to get
Speaker 8: to resolved, and she just literally walked away.
Speaker 4: Tammy did not have the patience for that, though, I
Speaker 4: will say Tammy was like, all right, I'm listening, and
Speaker 4: I can't fo her for that because some people do
Speaker 4: not have I say, I'm not mad at her because
Speaker 4: some people are gonna be that way and some people
Speaker 4: will be more patient. Everybody does not. And also I
Speaker 4: think she felt personally attacked.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was personally because that was very.
Speaker 8: From the very beginning with the whole Oh my god,
Speaker 8: I feel so sorry for you.
Speaker 2: But I feel that she weaponized her her truth.
Speaker 6: And Tammy had enough audacity and and and and God
Speaker 6: to tell her truth, which is very difficult. A lot
Speaker 6: of people do not have the balls to tell their truth,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean. And she did, and I
Speaker 6: felt like she was a little what she was. She
Speaker 6: used that to weaponize her and to try to bait
Speaker 6: her and to try to get her.
Speaker 4: So there is a point where she said, she said,
Speaker 4: you have body dysmorphia.
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm very clear of what size my waist is.
Speaker 4: I like, get it right, I understand that, but I
Speaker 4: was I didn't know if they edited out your reaction
Speaker 4: because I was like, even.
Speaker 6: No, I okay, I'm at a point in life where
Speaker 6: I do not put energy in things that don't serve me.
Speaker 6: So even if you say something that is so wrong
Speaker 6: and so disrespectful, unless you are my child and I
Speaker 6: need to correct you, unless we are in a space
Speaker 6: where we have to work together and there needs to
Speaker 6: be harmony created, it is very easy for me to
Speaker 6: create a non existent reality of.
Speaker 2: You, like I will expire you right across from me.
Speaker 1: It is very easy.
Speaker 2: I will bring you in this.
Speaker 6: I'm a scorpio, so I love you hard or you
Speaker 6: don't exist in my world. And so for London, I
Speaker 6: wanted to love on her. I wanted London to see
Speaker 6: that women can get together, that you can be extremely
Speaker 6: different than me, but there is so much more that
Speaker 6: makes us similar, then it'll ever make us different.
Speaker 8: And we're stronger in numbers. Let's stick together, right? Why
Speaker 8: do this when we can do this?
Speaker 2: And honestly, you don't even gotta want to do all
Speaker 2: of this? Why you want to fight? Like even if.
Speaker 1: You don't want it, it was very unnecessary. I was saying,
Speaker 1: where did that just come from?
Speaker 3: You?
Speaker 4: Like, okay, first of all, I thought you looked amazing.
Speaker 4: Like I told you, I loved the sweatsuits. I wear
Speaker 4: baggy clothes all the time.
Speaker 1: So that's the.
Speaker 6: Reason why I'm like Angela. I was trying to figure
Speaker 6: out what to wear. I was like, go, since is
Speaker 6: regularly her, so she's gonna wear her.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be.
Speaker 1: Wearing a bagga sweatsuit everywhere.
Speaker 6: You know, you can get on a tight dress and
Speaker 6: y come up if you want to, but that's your comfort.
Speaker 1: I don't think they look good right now.
Speaker 2: I think that a lot of people beg to differ.
Speaker 4: But yeah, so I was. I just personally was like,
Speaker 4: why would she? I personally, when I saw that thought
Speaker 4: that was like, damn you very claws out.
Speaker 6: But I went through body shaming on social media for
Speaker 6: the longest. If I gained five pounds, what's going on?
Speaker 6: I lose five pounds of what's going on? I stept
Speaker 6: on this scene at one hundred and thirteen pounds at nineteen.
Speaker 6: I'm sitting here at a nice one twenty. It ain't
Speaker 6: been much for three kids in between.
Speaker 2: I should get a pet or not, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. I don't need I don't need I don't
Speaker 2: need this.
Speaker 6: I don't need the pat I just want to be
Speaker 6: left alone to live my little life. And so when
Speaker 6: she said a body dysmorphia, I was like, okay, since got.
Speaker 2: Me completely messed up.
Speaker 6: But it's giving projection. She was took word mind because
Speaker 6: she said she had. She said she had later on
Speaker 6: it came out, but had I popped then and the
Speaker 6: younger me, right, if I would have popped then they've
Speaker 6: been like, you know, we would have never got to
Speaker 6: the root of it.
Speaker 2: And I think it's one thing to be doing to
Speaker 2: do the show.
Speaker 6: It's an everything to look back at the show, to
Speaker 6: watch yourself, to be honest with yourself with what you watched,
Speaker 6: because some of it you like, some of it you don't.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, represented yourself very well. I
Speaker 4: thought that show was nicely put together.
Speaker 2: Shout out to that doctor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love this show. And for them, they go
Speaker 1: on this girls ship.
Speaker 4: Together, but maybe they're not all like best friends. It's
Speaker 4: not like a best friend's girls ship. It's you know,
Speaker 4: you know, you knew Niviya and you knew Tammy Sammy
Speaker 4: and you just went London that trip, but it's best friends.
Speaker 4: But it is like you guys had all gone through
Speaker 4: a divorce, a public divorce, which is not an easy
Speaker 4: thing to do. So it's like going on this trip
Speaker 4: to kind of like go to someplace we never would
Speaker 4: think to go to, but.
Speaker 2: We all went through.
Speaker 6: We've all been married, we've all been divorced, we all
Speaker 6: have children, we've all been in the light for at
Speaker 6: least fifteen years, and we all have public divorces, and
Speaker 6: we're all in our late early thirties forties, and so
Speaker 6: it was an opportunity for us to get away from
Speaker 6: the world to The show was called something Else. I said,
Speaker 6: I want to Eat Pray Love journey. That is why
Speaker 6: I'm here.
Speaker 2: When we were to Eat Pray Love, it was another show.
Speaker 2: It was another nay. When I went that interview, I
Speaker 2: think it's called Eat Slay Love. They made me so
Speaker 2: excited because it was.
Speaker 6: The truth of the show. It was very honest. It
Speaker 6: was so honest. It was where we were. There were
Speaker 6: no thrillers, there were no deals. And I think that
Speaker 6: London watched American reality TV or.
Speaker 2: See it just thought that she was supposed.
Speaker 6: To be away versus showing up and as her authentic
Speaker 6: self right. And I think a lot of people could
Speaker 6: learn from that the idea of the imposter syndrome, Like,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, I'm not like them, so
Speaker 6: let me try to figure out how to be like
Speaker 6: them versus just you.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: And I think that a lot of people haven't gotten
Speaker 6: to that place in life. Obviously she was trying to
Speaker 6: find that place. And I wish you would have stayed.
Speaker 2: I wish you would have stayed too, because to be.
Speaker 6: Thirty five years old with no kids, no man, with
Speaker 6: no man, with nobody to go home to cook for you,
Speaker 6: any flight at any time, and what'd you do was
Speaker 6: run comedy for a living baby. I wanted to know
Speaker 6: so much about her life, like I.
Speaker 1: Wanted to know.
Speaker 2: I wanted to know where about her too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she's a comedian and I can know anything about.
Speaker 8: Her before she moved to the United States, during her
Speaker 8: dream during COVID, and yeah, we just didn't get enough
Speaker 8: from London, London.
Speaker 6: She's a black woman from London. So I was ignorant
Speaker 6: enough to think name like London.
Speaker 2: Yes, that was ignorant.
Speaker 6: Enough to think that, Like, you know what, we all
Speaker 6: we get it, you all black women, we all got
Speaker 6: our issues.
Speaker 2: Let's go here she was on each other, and she
Speaker 2: was like, no, I'm not the same black.
Speaker 8: But was crazy from the very beginning, right in the
Speaker 8: very beginning, and when she was kind of like explaining
Speaker 8: who she was and what her mission was, she literally
Speaker 8: was like, and.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to meet new friends. No, you're not. Your
Speaker 2: actions are saying otherwise, ma'am.
Speaker 6: But I went by her words first ill I had
Speaker 6: and then at the end when she when she said
Speaker 6: that she was leaving and she's like, I love.
Speaker 2: You all girls.
Speaker 1: Stop lying.
Speaker 2: You don't even like us, That's okay.
Speaker 6: I think that we all, as you know, as this
Speaker 6: is what you do for eleven, we all have spaces
Speaker 6: that we can grow in. And I think that it
Speaker 6: takes time, and you are blessed when you and your
Speaker 6: younger or earlier years learn how to start living instead
Speaker 6: of letting life live you. And I think that Tammy
Speaker 6: and Nibby and I were in a place where we're
Speaker 6: not on this hamster wheel. It's not a rat race.
Speaker 6: I do what I do because I love it. I
Speaker 6: say no more than I say yes. Two things. You
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, And so the power of no,
Speaker 6: I gives you a big money yes but that that
Speaker 6: difference and I think, you know, not just being able
Speaker 6: to go and be free.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 6: I don't think that that's where she is in her
Speaker 6: growth and having not always been there and having a
Speaker 6: whole lot more growing to do until the Good Lord
Speaker 6: brings me home. I was able to recognize that in
Speaker 6: her and to just really, I don't have.
Speaker 2: Any sisters, so I was like, I'm a little sister.
Speaker 1: Like I feel like a lot of comedians.
Speaker 4: Sometimes the comedy comes from a space of pain, absolutely,
Speaker 4: you know, and comedy is like their way of working
Speaker 4: through that.
Speaker 1: That's that I'm comedians who.
Speaker 6: I know Kevin Hart laugh at my pain like He's like,
Speaker 6: instead of walking around bitter and I'm said, at all
Speaker 6: the things that I didn't have and what didn't happen,
Speaker 6: and who said what, let's laugh at it and move on.
Speaker 2: Look at me now I'm getting paper.
Speaker 6: Jay Z said, you never seen the ugly billionaire?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Say what you want?
Speaker 2: So would you go back to Vietnam? I mean, because
Speaker 2: guess it seems so beautiful made me want to go there.
Speaker 2: That was your first time.
Speaker 4: I never thought about all of you guys, so good girls.
Speaker 2: Born to glory, because y'all born to glory down and.
Speaker 6: I couldn't and I was trying to tell I was like, baby,
Speaker 6: these are the greens to the ten thousand power. It's
Speaker 6: like that summer mixed greens with a turn up and
Speaker 6: the mustards and a college baby with Garland Morning, where
Speaker 6: every everywhere we went it is so good. Now we'll
Speaker 6: run through you like a freight track.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, personally, but on the show's comfort with.
Speaker 2: Her bows are absolutely she.
Speaker 8: Was like, listen, y'all, I got the I gotta go,
Speaker 8: I gotta go.
Speaker 4: I was in the gym today, but made a lot
Speaker 4: of want to go to Vietnam because that was a
Speaker 4: very like who would have thought, well, and it's safe
Speaker 4: space for black women.
Speaker 1: That's always what I think when I'm on vacation.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's such a space, and not just black women,
Speaker 6: but like to see the way the women bost the city.
Speaker 2: I think Manna might.
Speaker 1: Be from Vietnam.
Speaker 2: Run her way to.
Speaker 6: To Atlanta because the women run everything. They run the household,
Speaker 6: they got.
Speaker 2: The family.
Speaker 1: Putting up the food.
Speaker 6: The woman like in college, like I own my own.
Speaker 2: The bikes, he's my mechanic.
Speaker 6: Like they run everything the rice fields. You go through
Speaker 6: the rice fields, you think somebody lay downside.
Speaker 2: No they didn't.
Speaker 6: They took a blade of rice and put it in
Speaker 6: the mud. This acres and acres of rice field are
Speaker 6: nothing but women down there with mud to their boots
Speaker 6: doing it by there. Twice a year it's harvest season.
Speaker 6: That's the rice for the entire year.
Speaker 1: My goodness.
Speaker 4: See you look the education of it, like when you
Speaker 4: would never have even known.
Speaker 6: Women there where they didn't King Kong, and they filmed it.
Speaker 6: They we went through the the off the water, through
Speaker 6: the forests and through the coves and caves. Two thousand boats.
Speaker 6: Who's still who owned the boat company?
Speaker 2: All women? I love that when I tell you Vietnam
Speaker 2: one's it gave me.
Speaker 6: I came back home like you can't tell me.
Speaker 1: How do you think that trip did help you?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 1: Because I know when you went on it initially you
Speaker 1: were going.
Speaker 6: Yeah, broken hearted. I went on that trip. I was
Speaker 6: newly div and I married the love of my life.
Speaker 6: So it's not like med a good guy, Now.
Speaker 2: Let's get married.
Speaker 6: Like I met the only person that makes my heart
Speaker 6: do what it does.
Speaker 2: And so to figure out life after it was like
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I you want me to see what Blinder's on?
Speaker 2: Who does that? How? And I just I did not
Speaker 2: understand up. I couldn't see up.
Speaker 6: And thank God for a friend, my best friend Robert
Speaker 6: and a good friend that snatched me off the bed
Speaker 6: and was like, you're going to get up.
Speaker 2: You have to get up.
Speaker 6: And then Will Packer's Company called and say, you know,
Speaker 6: we have this idea, but we want it to be
Speaker 6: about your personal journey, like we don't want drama, we
Speaker 6: want your life and what you're going through. And I
Speaker 6: was like, I don't know if I'm ready to talk
Speaker 6: about that. And God was like, since you need to
Speaker 6: talk about that, Like that's exactly what I'm going to
Speaker 6: need you to do. And it helped, and it was
Speaker 6: so cathartic. It was so helpful to have, like you say,
Speaker 6: the therapist, the people you don't know, like you know
Speaker 6: that they really don't know.
Speaker 2: So to be able to lean on someone and.
Speaker 6: Just cry without saying remember this and don't forget he
Speaker 6: did that, or don't forget when you felt like this,
Speaker 6: you know, just to love on you.
Speaker 2: It helped me so much.
Speaker 6: It helped me understand where my heart truly was I
Speaker 6: was off of social media. I got back on didn't
Speaker 6: realized I had a disease I didn't even have because
Speaker 6: the world was just talking about me, Oh my gosh,
Speaker 6: like it was crazy. But it also helped me decide
Speaker 6: like people try to figure out, like work life balance,
Speaker 6: and help me decide what of this and entertainment is
Speaker 6: real and what am I really going to deal with
Speaker 6: and what's not real? I don't entertain And what's real
Speaker 6: is how I get paid as an entertainer. And that's it,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. I don't care what anyone
Speaker 6: thinks of me. I'll walk in every room with kindness,
Speaker 6: with love. I hope that when I leave a room
Speaker 6: it's brighter than it was when I came in there,
Speaker 6: even if it's dark today, Like that is that's all
Speaker 6: I got. I still believe in love. You know, people
Speaker 6: ask will you get married again? I hope I'm married
Speaker 6: the same man again. Let alone get married again. Like
Speaker 6: I don't think that love is lost. It hasn't bittered me,
Speaker 6: and I think the trust of the trip did The
Speaker 6: trip helped me actualize like girl, life is short, you
Speaker 6: live in it and do not let it live you
Speaker 6: and live it to its fullest with no regrets.
Speaker 8: I feel like the three of you all had like
Speaker 8: an awakening of some sort at the end, and I
Speaker 8: felt like it made you guys closer as as sisters.
Speaker 2: Now we're from friends to sister.
Speaker 1: Hang out now on the corner of my house.
Speaker 8: To imagine tattoos, but it got tattooed together, which you know,
Speaker 8: that's a well for some people, it's a permanent.
Speaker 2: It's a thing.
Speaker 6: When it bombeded us and we got tattoos that represented
Speaker 6: whatever metamorphosis we were going forward in life. And so
Speaker 6: for me, it was coming out of the shell and
Speaker 6: just being free. And my whole thing has been surrendering.
Speaker 2: I have let go. I have like God what he
Speaker 2: decides if my flight is delayed, I guess I wasn't
Speaker 2: supposed to go there, You.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean?
Speaker 6: That is anxiety that you were talking about, because I
Speaker 6: used to say I suffered from anxiety.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 6: You have a natural propensity to be more anxious, but
Speaker 6: you don't suffer from saying anxiety. And so when you
Speaker 6: give your give anxiety that kind of a you know
Speaker 6: that certain things anxious, right, so you mitigate that.
Speaker 2: You find the tools.
Speaker 6: From Zuri, it's gonna say Zeri Eva.
Speaker 1: I have to go back to what you said, though
Speaker 1: you hope you married the same man again.
Speaker 3: Maybe.
Speaker 6: I mean, you know, I was on a show and
Speaker 6: they asked, and I pivoted because I'm promoting my television shows.
Speaker 2: I'm not really here to talk about my love life.
Speaker 6: But so I pivoted and they asked, you know, will
Speaker 6: you there are very chance?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, that wasn't right that question, why
Speaker 2: did show you watch my show? And went on. But
Speaker 2: if I really asked myself the question, there's definitely not
Speaker 2: a no. Like I would.
Speaker 6: I never wanted to get divorced, like I never wanted
Speaker 6: to not be with my husband. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 6: you saw on the show. I cannot call to me
Speaker 6: and my husband my.
Speaker 2: Exit, you know what I mean. There's no world.
Speaker 6: I mean, my ring is in my jury box here
Speaker 6: in New York. It's gonna always be Wow. Okay, so
Speaker 6: we'll stay tuned.
Speaker 8: For you.
Speaker 4: Yes, that's what we pray for, whatever it is best
Speaker 4: for you and whatever it is meant to be. Yes,
Speaker 4: I want to ask you for all the Queen's men, Madam,
Speaker 4: what are some of those things that you take with
Speaker 4: you from that show, Like what has Madame taught you
Speaker 4: to utilize in your real life?
Speaker 2: Madam has taught me so much.
Speaker 6: Loyalty is everything, and Madam reminds me a lot of
Speaker 6: me myself, where she doesn't have a lot of people
Speaker 6: and a lot of people, she can't trust a lot
Speaker 6: of people. I've met her under the reputation of Madam.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. No one really knows.
Speaker 6: Marilyn except for my Blue Blue grew up with me
Speaker 6: like I've known her. She taught me how to shoot,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, Like that's my sister. But
Speaker 6: everyone else it's difficult because.
Speaker 2: They need you the exactly.
Speaker 6: So it's the feeling of are you in my world
Speaker 6: because you rock with me? And if I didn't have this,
Speaker 6: I give you this. If I didn't provide this, would
Speaker 6: you still be here?
Speaker 4: But you also have a clear line between what's work
Speaker 4: and what's like, you know, because I also feel like
Speaker 4: there's times when you snap it back, like let people
Speaker 4: know you work for me, get out.
Speaker 1: There, do what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 4: All that, and so it is a transactional Do you
Speaker 4: think you could be friends with people who work for you.
Speaker 4: I want to ask Dary this question, because sometimes those
Speaker 4: lines get very really blurry and fuzzy.
Speaker 3: I think it's I put it on my actors.
Speaker 5: It's up to them because a lot of times we're
Speaker 5: in such vulnerable situations that they I mean, I walk
Speaker 5: onto sets all the time, and I can see them
Speaker 5: see me, and I see their demeanor change because they
Speaker 5: don't want to necessarily do the intimacy. Intimacy is a
Speaker 5: high ask for a lot of actors, I find, and
Speaker 5: if I'm the only association with me is that, you know,
Speaker 5: if I'm coming in for a movie and I'm working
Speaker 5: one day or two days or what have you. I
Speaker 5: try to keep those lines very professional, but I'm also open.
Speaker 5: You know, I'm a human and I like to make connections.
Speaker 5: I like to really because I feel like I know
Speaker 5: these actors so intimately sometimes, and I think that that's
Speaker 5: also kind of vulnerable for them, because like I know
Speaker 5: them for five minutes and all of a sudden, you
Speaker 5: never know the layers that you have been disclosed to.
Speaker 2: Me literally, and that can be very vulnerable for people.
Speaker 3: So I try to let them kind of navigate that.
Speaker 8: I have a question for you a personal question, well,
Speaker 8: due to my personal situation. So in the upcoming Magic
Speaker 8: City documentary that is now five episodes, in I three, I.
Speaker 2: Narrated, I narrated, I got a little producer credit.
Speaker 1: So what's it called.
Speaker 2: It's it's Magic City's documentary. I used to work there.
Speaker 6: Oh, I did my bachelor rap party. I bought Magic out.
Speaker 6: I love Magic City.
Speaker 2: I got my little jacket on.
Speaker 8: But so in the upcoming documentary, my breasts are exposed documentaries, yes, docries.
Speaker 8: My sis are out in the first episode. And when
Speaker 8: it wasn't like it's a documentary, so of course there
Speaker 8: wasn't a script. And when they bought the idea to me,
Speaker 8: they were like, do you think that maybe possibly?
Speaker 2: You know, how would you feel if And I'm like,
Speaker 2: what y'all want my titties?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 8: And I was very like, no big deal for me
Speaker 8: right in the moment. Now, in hindsight, I do have
Speaker 8: a little bit of worry of even though I think
Speaker 8: my tits are fabulous, I do have a little bit
Speaker 8: of worry of the not really backlash, but like what's
Speaker 8: to come?
Speaker 2: When did you sign?
Speaker 6: You didn't you didn't nuy way, no, no, I don't want
Speaker 6: to take it back.
Speaker 2: No, but you could though you still a place they
Speaker 2: can blur it.
Speaker 8: No, no, in hindsight, because I know you prepare for
Speaker 8: what's happening in real life. But in hindsight, I do
Speaker 8: have and I was an anxiety entertainer for a lot
Speaker 8: of years.
Speaker 2: You know, same thing with you.
Speaker 8: I would not have a problem stripping down and change it,
Speaker 8: not just my tests but everything right now if I
Speaker 8: have to, even with people in the other room, I'm
Speaker 8: so used to being naked in front of strangers. But
Speaker 8: this is now the world, this is now on TV,
Speaker 8: this is now document if.
Speaker 1: That part.
Speaker 2: So my question is I.
Speaker 8: Don't have any fear of like any say anything bad,
Speaker 8: because again I think my tips are fabulous. But my
Speaker 8: my one I want to say issue is I'm single.
Speaker 2: So do you think that how how do I navigate
Speaker 2: this in upcoming relationships?
Speaker 6: Talk to me on that one, okay, because I've been
Speaker 6: doing this my whole because that's kind of the one
Speaker 6: thing I'm worried about, Like, yeah, I'm not a dancers
Speaker 6: the dancer, and okay, if he.
Speaker 2: Can't handle it, he's not the one.
Speaker 8: And that's how I felt, and that was actually being
Speaker 8: a dancer, So I should have that same What do
Speaker 8: you think that I should have that same sentiment?
Speaker 3: I mean I think so.
Speaker 5: I think that that's your own like, that's your body autonomy.
Speaker 5: But I also feel like having proactive conversations about things
Speaker 5: and it's not are you okay with this? It's this
Speaker 5: is me, this is what I've done. I want you
Speaker 5: to be aware of it.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: I work with a lot of like BMF is always
Speaker 5: inviting names and things, people who are not actors, but
Speaker 5: people who have you know, large social media presences and
Speaker 5: you know, comedian.
Speaker 3: Music artists and all.
Speaker 5: So when I'm navigating intimacy with them, I go about
Speaker 5: it in a little bit of a different way.
Speaker 3: Because they know.
Speaker 5: That as soon as this releases, you know, they might
Speaker 5: and they might only be there for a sex scene,
Speaker 5: which is unfortunate, like to be that character. So just
Speaker 5: working proactively with them and talking about in the event
Speaker 5: that you do this in this way, it lives forever.
Speaker 3: What are you comfortable?
Speaker 5: So not only what are you comfortable with and doing
Speaker 5: with your body in this particular situation, but what are
Speaker 5: you comfortable with the world taking with you?
Speaker 8: Because that's something that I didn't think of and what
Speaker 8: made me think about it, not just sitting here, but
Speaker 8: the reaction that a guy that I don't even date anymore,
Speaker 8: but we had like a thing happening, and I didn't
Speaker 8: He went to the We did a south By Southwest premiere,
Speaker 8: and he went with me to the premiere, and I
Speaker 8: purposely didn't tell him that my tids were in the episode,
Speaker 8: because I knew he was gonna be mad. So I'm like,
Speaker 8: if you're going to be mad, then just be mad.
Speaker 2: Capital pause in there.
Speaker 3: Don't yet because I.
Speaker 2: Didn't tell him.
Speaker 8: You know that I didn't tell him, and somebody else
Speaker 8: told him before he got a chance to see it.
Speaker 2: Don't do that.
Speaker 3: Control your own narrative the best you can.
Speaker 8: I thought I was by not telling him because the
Speaker 8: element of the surprise.
Speaker 2: Because I don't think it's such a bad thing, Like
Speaker 2: I'm not text.
Speaker 6: That's what you tell him. You let him know, like
Speaker 6: she said, like it's very mean. Yeah, I was comfortable
Speaker 6: with it. And only this comfort I honestly have right
Speaker 6: now is if you're uncomfortable, it's already done.
Speaker 2: I'm yours. You know what it is.
Speaker 6: And if he can't find his comfort and the person
Speaker 6: that you are and are comfortable with being and that
Speaker 6: does not hurt you, then he's not your guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Like then if a guy also is not comfortable with
Speaker 4: that and that's not what he wants, right, that doesn't
Speaker 4: make him a bad person, absolutely not. It just means
Speaker 4: this is not not for him.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't like my man and great sweatpon.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: It doesn't make me a bad person. It just makes
Speaker 6: me a reference. I would prefer you not to walk outside.
Speaker 2: Would great job?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: What you mean, it's a challenging Somebody else told him.
Speaker 8: It's like literally right before we sat down at our
Speaker 8: seats and he didn't sit with me.
Speaker 1: Why would somebody tell him right then?
Speaker 6: I don't know, but somebody in your orbit, small in
Speaker 6: your circle.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Because if he sees this,
Speaker 2: when he sees this, I hope he.
Speaker 6: Sees this very soon so he can understand what Gigi does,
Speaker 6: what I do, what you do. It's not as vogue.
Speaker 6: It's not what you think it is. We are actors,
Speaker 6: we are professionals. We have signed up for a job
Speaker 6: and literally I just work.
Speaker 4: Here right, And in the UK they be naked on
Speaker 4: TV all the time.
Speaker 1: London will tell.
Speaker 4: You that you're a girl in London because that is true,
Speaker 4: Like I will say that. I feel like in America
Speaker 4: we have a different view on nudity. On nudity for sure, and.
Speaker 6: The rhymes when when she had that little intimate scene
Speaker 6: and Bridger chi and everyone was like, oh my god,
Speaker 6: but dress, and.
Speaker 2: That was it. I don't want to hear what you
Speaker 2: have to say to Oh.
Speaker 5: I was just gonna say because you said I'm very
Speaker 5: comfortable with it and all that you and still it's
Speaker 5: being brought to this space. So it may not be
Speaker 5: that you're uncomfortable with the act and like having your
Speaker 5: breast out there, but there is a level of discomfort
Speaker 5: around something otherwise I don't think it would come up
Speaker 5: in this.
Speaker 8: Discomfort is I just don't feel like having to have
Speaker 8: the conversation of somebody else being mad at something that
Speaker 8: I'm not mad at.
Speaker 1: You don't want to explain it.
Speaker 2: I don't want to have to explain it.
Speaker 7: I've never I've never told anybody first that I oppose nude. Yeah,
Speaker 7: I've never did conversation and I'm ever actually thought to
Speaker 7: have that until just now. I feel like the only
Speaker 7: time it's ever come up is if they're a fan
Speaker 7: low key or they googled you. I found out on
Speaker 7: some sneaky and then they really be telling anybody's like,
Speaker 7: you know, I'm dating the plane.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've gotten, but I've never gotten the like shame.
Speaker 2: I mean, my whole entime.
Speaker 8: I'm talking about insire from beginning to end and entertain
Speaker 8: her career. I was always in relationships, and I was
Speaker 8: dealing with guys who either liked it or didn't it.
Speaker 2: They didn't you deal with them. I always had.
Speaker 8: I've always been in a relationship, and I was in
Speaker 8: a relationship with said person when I was an answer.
Speaker 2: So for him to get so upset, it's just like, yeah, but.
Speaker 3: You knew he was gonna I guess like.
Speaker 6: That's what I He was gonna get upset because I'm
Speaker 6: retired now and you know he wants me to leave
Speaker 6: that life. There was an agreement that you had with
Speaker 6: said man that you are no longer doing what you did,
Speaker 6: but you did do it, and it's fine doing it.
Speaker 6: You knew he was gonna be mad at it, and
Speaker 6: now he's mad at it, and you don't understand why
Speaker 6: he's mad.
Speaker 1: That was a good breakdown exactly.
Speaker 8: Okay, yeah, exactly. Now he's no longer he's no longer
Speaker 8: back there. But I'm just because he reacted that way
Speaker 8: and just kind of sitting here at this post.
Speaker 4: In my mind like damn, not saying anything, because if
Speaker 4: you would have been, like, by the way before we
Speaker 4: go to this, my titties out, he might, you know,
Speaker 4: but it made it a bigger deal when he heard
Speaker 4: about it right before, when he's there with you, you
Speaker 4: purposely didn't tell him because you knew he was gonna
Speaker 4: was so moving on from him, is it something My
Speaker 4: question is this it's something that you think I should
Speaker 4: worry about having to deal with moving forward with a
Speaker 4: potential Yeah.
Speaker 5: It goes back to what Eva said, if you know
Speaker 5: and in starting that relationship that this is something that
Speaker 5: is going.
Speaker 3: To be a point of contention.
Speaker 2: That he's not my guy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, just like in Eden, right, people were not allowed
Speaker 4: to take videos under and so Magic City people.
Speaker 2: Weren't allowed to do that.
Speaker 4: It's different because now this is going to be something
Speaker 4: that's on start.
Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter.
Speaker 6: It doesn't matter because you're trying to qualify everything that
Speaker 6: you know you are totally fine with, So you're qualified for.
Speaker 2: The man he named man no more.
Speaker 3: No, he never was.
Speaker 2: He wasn't.
Speaker 8: Well he was at one point, but he wasn't during
Speaker 8: this whole Okay, you're.
Speaker 2: You're qualifying it for yourself.
Speaker 6: You're trying to validate it for yourself, and that doesn't
Speaker 6: need to happen if you're what you're okay with is okay,
Speaker 6: and it's okay to not be okay.
Speaker 2: Tomorrow with what you were okay with you doing today.
Speaker 6: Like so if you you know what's Cy's like, you
Speaker 6: can change.
Speaker 3: That's the thing.
Speaker 2: You know, it's crazy. The Geminium me.
Speaker 8: I'm so psyched that I'm actually looking forward to it.
Speaker 8: So he's definitely not your guy. No, I said, absolutely
Speaker 8: not your guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I said that.
Speaker 1: See, if you feel like you got to hide some things,
Speaker 1: that ain't it anytime?
Speaker 2: You know what it was.
Speaker 8: I just didn't want to make it an argument prior
Speaker 8: to and when I did it, we are not together.
Speaker 6: We were not postponing the argument that you knew was inevitable,
Speaker 6: So you decided you wanted to have it on the
Speaker 6: night of your premiere.
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't think somebody was going to sell.
Speaker 8: My vision was that he would see it and with
Speaker 8: it was going to be the reaction, Like he wasn't
Speaker 8: going to react because we were going to see it
Speaker 8: with everybody in the theater.
Speaker 1: So unrealistic.
Speaker 8: I didn't have a moment for that to happen because
Speaker 8: somebody right before we walked into sat down. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 8: you know this is in and he got mad.
Speaker 2: Your non friend is a hater. My hands away.
Speaker 8: I can't wait for the cameras go so I can
Speaker 8: tell you who said it. You'll know this person.
Speaker 4: Well listen, I hate that we have to end this,
Speaker 4: but I am excited for the new season of All
Speaker 4: the Queens.
Speaker 6: Many well ask two episodes, two episodes one and I'm
Speaker 6: home Thanksgiving. I'm home to say siven night, stuup your face,
Speaker 6: see your family, kiss your loved one.
Speaker 2: I can't wait.
Speaker 6: And then sit with your good judies or whoever you
Speaker 6: watch you with. We are dropping two episodes, thank and
Speaker 6: then after that every Thursday you get a brand new
Speaker 6: episode of all these.
Speaker 2: You have a lot to watch and you have appointment.
Speaker 6: You have something to do at appointment on Thursday, man
Speaker 6: want to watch football or your non man, maybe new
Speaker 6: potential man.
Speaker 2: I don't one either. We can go hang out, okay,
Speaker 2: and then there's thirties out.
Speaker 1: On the show just my eyes, so I had a
Speaker 1: body double. I was like, you think even really did
Speaker 1: that was? And what looking good?
Speaker 2: Listen, that's all mine?
Speaker 4: So you should tell the guy, look even did it?
Speaker 2: No problem? And more over, you should tell you.
Speaker 8: That was my like my response, my rebuttal was like
Speaker 8: when the actress is titties out on TV, nobody cares.
Speaker 2: Why do you care?
Speaker 8: And he's like, you just want to be a health
Speaker 8: faver and I'm like, all right, oh, we are definitely
Speaker 8: going to.
Speaker 1: Forget.
Speaker 3: Sorry that.
Speaker 4: I'll busting them in his But just as it recap,
Speaker 4: you know, when y'all start watching this new season, we
Speaker 4: get to see what's going to happen with your father
Speaker 4: on the show.
Speaker 6: Yes, this season it's all about vengeance.
Speaker 2: Madam believes in God.
Speaker 6: But vengeance's mind said, the Lord is for Madam. She
Speaker 6: is the lord in this situation. And when it comes
Speaker 6: to my dad and him being kidnapped, I might not
Speaker 6: care about a lot and these boys dancing, this is
Speaker 6: what you signed up for, but when it comes to
Speaker 6: my daddy, and that blood games. I play nowhere near
Speaker 6: games even on Christmas when it comes to Cadillacs. So
Speaker 6: this season of All the Queen's Men, you see Madam
Speaker 6: in a space you've never seen her before because she
Speaker 6: does not have the control.
Speaker 2: She choose to have it.
Speaker 6: Imagine going home and you click your lights on it,
Speaker 6: they don't come on. Turn the water on, and the
Speaker 6: water's not on. You're like, oh no, with the bill
Speaker 6: not like what's going on? Like the control that Madam
Speaker 6: is used to having no longer she doesn't have. And
Speaker 6: the one thing that drives her is her daddy.
Speaker 4: So new season, it's food episodes. We inside est plus
Speaker 4: is going down.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't wait to get to know
Speaker 2: you all.
Speaker 4: I think Zarry prior grades that people know where they
Speaker 4: can find you.
Speaker 5: Yes, more about what you do intimacy with z everywhere,
Speaker 5: And yeah, more about what I do in terms of
Speaker 5: intimacy coordinating.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: No, I'm saying they can find you and everything about
Speaker 4: what you do intimacy with.
Speaker 5: Yes, they can find me any of my therapy stuff,
Speaker 5: any of my intimacy coordinating. I'm also I'm writing a
Speaker 5: book about intimacy coordinating and developing my own modesty stuff,
Speaker 5: so we have more things.
Speaker 6: Good good because that everything fits. Everything said, I can't
Speaker 6: put everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah right right, we're gonna fix it. The color.
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