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Speaker 1: What's up the service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm J. J.

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Speaker 2: Maguire, I'm Jeordie.

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Speaker 3: Jor, I'm Zuri Prior Graves, and.

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Speaker 2: I'm your girl, even morself.

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Speaker 4: And this show didn't even start, and I feel like

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Speaker 4: we already did have that.

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Speaker 2: Because happening.

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Speaker 4: But let's just make sure we're all familiar with who

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Speaker 4: everybody is here, because Zuri Pia Graves, you are an

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Speaker 4: intimacy coordinator I am, and a mental health expert.

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Speaker 3: I am clinician.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, like run it down because I don't want

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Speaker 1: to miss anything you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, those are those are the two main things.

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Speaker 5: But I'm a sexuality educator and I used to be

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Speaker 5: a sexuality a sex.

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Speaker 2: Therapist, sexuality educator.

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Speaker 5: Well when I was doing it, I used to write

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Speaker 5: curriculum for sex education in schools. And it was also

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Speaker 5: at a time where HR policies didn't include language around

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Speaker 5: transidentities and all these sur revising corporate pr policies to

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Speaker 5: make sure that they're inclusive.

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Speaker 4: Of well, they're about to throw all that out, girl,

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Speaker 4: because the way times are looking. Sheeshuh and Eva, before

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Speaker 4: we even started this, we were talking about eats, lay

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Speaker 4: love and of course you know, we are excited for

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Speaker 4: all the Kings men to all.

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Speaker 1: The queens Men, sorry, all the Queen's Men coming back

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Speaker 1: on November.

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Speaker 6: There's so many kings in there, though, I get it. Listen,

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Speaker 6: the Kings came there.

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Speaker 4: We actually yesterday yesterday, me, Jordan and Gigi were at

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Speaker 4: my house and we were watching like binging Everything Eats

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Speaker 4: Lay Love, but also catching up on season three so

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Speaker 4: then we could get ready for season.

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Speaker 2: Four of All the Queens.

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Speaker 1: Thank you and listen.

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Speaker 4: When when we were looking at like the preview of

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Speaker 4: what happened on the previous season, we were like, well, no,

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Speaker 4: let's run that back again because we need to catch

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Speaker 4: back up because I don't even remember this, you know how.

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Speaker 1: It is just so much happening.

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Speaker 6: There's so much happening. And that's what I love about

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Speaker 6: doing TV and film. I always thought say that entertainment,

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Speaker 6: especially actors and TV and film, we satisfy two things.

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Speaker 6: We there make it relatable, which is why reality TV

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Speaker 6: became such a big thing. Or watching yourself. When you're

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Speaker 6: watching your favorite TV shows like Living Single. Back in

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Speaker 6: the day, it was relatable, right, like that's your aunt,

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Speaker 6: that's your mom, that's you, And then the other thing

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Speaker 6: we look for is an escape from like whatever our

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Speaker 6: life is, the election, breakups, just whatever.

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Speaker 2: You just need an escape from reality.

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Speaker 6: And so that's what I feel like TV does, and

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Speaker 6: that's what I enjoy doing as an entertainer, is bringing

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Speaker 6: all of those things to the forefront.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, madam. Do you guys have an intimacy coordinator

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Speaker 1: on set?

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Speaker 2: Is groceries? Okay?

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Speaker 6: You have to show when I found out that you

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Speaker 6: were bringing an intimacy coordinator. You have no idea how

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Speaker 6: excited I was, because it is the one question a

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Speaker 6: lot of actors are asked when they do work that

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Speaker 6: is not PG and the show like mine, has every

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Speaker 6: letter it's like PG, M.

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Speaker 2: A, t Z exactly right.

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Speaker 6: So it's like we come out Thanksgiving Day, get ready

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Speaker 6: to get stuffed. We have two episodes for you, whether

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Speaker 6: or not for your kids, And in that there is text.

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Speaker 6: There's a lot of what intimacy looks like in different versions,

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Speaker 6: and so people are often asked.

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Speaker 2: I'm often asked, you know, like how you don't scene

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Speaker 2: like did he really like?

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Speaker 6: And I try to explain it the best way I

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Speaker 6: can I know. On All the Queen's Men Season two,

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Speaker 6: A white Coastar and I had a love scene on

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Speaker 6: a jet and some things, and.

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Speaker 1: Then you gave back that diamond necklace.

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Speaker 2: Because Angelou wee can buy our own diamonds.

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying like, it's okay.

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Speaker 1: You're right, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: But in that scene people often ask like what was what?

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Speaker 6: So you're the person that I am used to leaning

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Speaker 6: on at work that it's like, I know you're having sex,

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Speaker 6: like do you want.

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Speaker 2: To keep it wrong? Do you want like a one piece?

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Speaker 6: Like do you want a body double? Do you want

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Speaker 6: a body double? That's often a very big thing. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 6: that bottom half wasn't me. You saw me with the

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 6: So not, but the amount of comfort that actors are

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Speaker 6: provided with intimacy coordinators. I mean I can look back

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Speaker 6: at my sex scenes and I choreographed it to a

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Speaker 6: and jogging pants prior to so there was no question

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Speaker 6: of like, do ain't no tongue slipping here? Like I

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Speaker 6: was supposed to move my head that way to you know,

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Speaker 6: And so it's but it's you that taught me that

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Speaker 6: or the intimacy of coordinators.

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Speaker 2: So I applaud you and I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tell us a little bit about what you do.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, So, I mean that was such a good run down,

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Speaker 5: especially including body suits and different things. But the main

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Speaker 5: thing I feel like is that people are not actually

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Speaker 5: having sex. So a lot of actors get questions all

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Speaker 5: the time like that, No, but what we do is

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Speaker 5: we do our best to try to make it look.

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Speaker 3: Like they are while keeping them safe.

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Speaker 5: So coming to even being like, hey, what are you

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Speaker 5: comfortable with in this scene in terms of what are

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Speaker 5: you wearing? You know, what are the movements that we

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Speaker 5: can work out and developing really repeatable and really specific

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Speaker 5: actions that are associated with those sex scenes. And that's

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Speaker 5: what we do with our actors, and we do a

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Speaker 5: lot of other things like behind the cameras to make

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Speaker 5: sure legally that these actors are protected and that the

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Speaker 5: production is protected.

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Speaker 6: I'm talking about protection time because they literally like ladies.

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Speaker 6: You heard of commandos, Yes, okay, I'm like a big

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Speaker 6: underwear kind of girl, So I don't wear those in

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Speaker 6: my personal life. But there's not a sex scene you

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Speaker 2: That's like it's like the little thin panty. It takes

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Speaker 6: So if you want to wear those cute dresses or

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Speaker 6: the sides are cut out.

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Speaker 4: The regular I know where you could buy. I thought

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Speaker 2: One of those breathe right nose strips.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like they covered it like completely, but this is

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Speaker 2: The men wear them too, Yes, the men. They put

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Speaker 6: They put their stuff in a pouch like and they

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Speaker 6: Like so if you hear someone like, oh I got

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Speaker 6: a rouser this happened, it's with a take down, it's you.

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Speaker 3: Know, fifty people in the room.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, people say that it's kind of awkward with

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Speaker 4: everybody watching you, And I'm sure do you also coordinate that,

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Speaker 4: Like I don't want as many people on set because

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Speaker 4: that can be uncomfortable too.

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Speaker 3: And that's called a close.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna saying, I've always had a clothes set. TP.

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Speaker 6: Shout out to TP, but he is very sincere about

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Speaker 6: like Karen Man only and the necessary actors like that's it, right,

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Speaker 6: So it's very it makes it makes it very comfortable,

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like now as a model because I

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Speaker 6: And there for sure, but something between your legs and

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Speaker 6: your body is very different. So like if we have

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Speaker 6: what I'm saying, Like we all know areola's. But if

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Speaker 6: I'm supposed to have like a man in between my

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Speaker 4: Head right here a lot on the on all the queens,

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Speaker 4: it was, I wasn't running for it. But what's good

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Speaker 4: about you is that you always get to shut everybody down.

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Speaker 4: Like I know you've had your your sex scenes, but

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Speaker 4: they're not as like it's not like you're having sex

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Speaker 4: it was a man running a strip.

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Speaker 2: Club, he would be fucking everything.

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Speaker 6: Well, let's talk about that, because if you flip this

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Speaker 6: whole show upside down and may like the valley, we're

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Speaker 6: the women are the objects and the men are more

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Speaker 6: of the leadership position. It's a whole other show, which

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Speaker 6: is what makes all the Queen's men so dope because

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Speaker 6: I see Angela, I see you, I see you, I

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Speaker 6: see you because we are bosses women in our own rights.

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Speaker 6: So I get to play a role where I take

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Speaker 6: from all of these boss women everything I know, the savvy,

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Speaker 6: the cunniness, attacked, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: And how you kill people, you know, women to do.

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Speaker 4: You know, we had an idea to watching the show.

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Speaker 4: We were like, now, have you been to a male

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Speaker 4: reviews show in real life?

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Speaker 2: Because these ladies have.

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Speaker 1: So yes, yes, okay, I've hosted them before that to

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Speaker 3: And it was in d C. No.

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Speaker 4: So my idea was, and I was telling Giz while

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Speaker 4: we were I said, for this new season, at some point,

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Speaker 4: we should have the guys come and really do a

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Speaker 4: male review show at medics, like a fun one with

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Speaker 4: industry people. Yeah, and all women like inside the club

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Speaker 4: trying to get in, like let's know you are you because.

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Speaker 2: We'll get to know where's that who's splitting up the money.

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Speaker 1: This is a good promotional thing though.

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Speaker 4: It's beautiful because imagine, like how many women have never

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Speaker 4: been to a male review show, just talking to them

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Speaker 4: about it because I've been before, because I posted and

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Speaker 4: it was really fun.

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Speaker 2: Canny Birds Dungeon part Yeah, no one ever was that. No,

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Speaker 2: it was as my Girl, it was, and Michael bau

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Speaker 2: Wire was a part of it.

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Speaker 1: Who's in our show?

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Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's what that's the stage heard about.

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Speaker 6: She's like, okay, Tyler Perry, but no, bo, what I

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Speaker 6: think is dope about him And the reason why I

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Speaker 6: call him bow Wie because the first day we started working,

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Speaker 6: Kim Phils was directing us and we were just rehearsing,

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Speaker 6: how it is to be prejudged. I know how it

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Speaker 6: is the people to have some kind of expectation of

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Speaker 6: me or idea of me, and it really sucks because

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Speaker 6: I'm just me and nine times out of ten, you've

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Speaker 6: got a better version of me today than yesterday. And

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Speaker 6: please don't let the man yesterday tell you my story.

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Speaker 6: So when it comes to bow Wire, when I met him,

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Speaker 6: I asked him, said, what do you want to be called? Like,

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Speaker 6: how do you want me to address you? And he said,

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Speaker 6: my name is Michael. Okay, I said, so, how would

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Speaker 6: you what do you want to call you? Michael Bolois

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Speaker 6: call me Michael. So at work, I'm so used to

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Speaker 4: You feel like it is an intimidating thing, and sometimes you.

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Speaker 3: And that's part of.

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Speaker 5: Our job is to try to dismantle the hierarchy of things.

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Speaker 1: Their scripts right and they're like, wait, I agree to

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Speaker 6: You get every single scene, even if it's not my scene.

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Speaker 6: You know, every scene of intimacy that's gone and on,

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Speaker 1: That's great.

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Speaker 4: Do you think that Tyler Perry is way more intentional

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Speaker 6: Know Tyler is way more intentional than I mean, I

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Speaker 2: All the way around. But I think it has I mean.

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Speaker 6: He protects everything he does very well and protects the actors.

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Speaker 6: That's why when you hear an actor talk about like

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Speaker 4: I saw when I interviewed Debbie Morgan, I saw you

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Speaker 6: when I tell you Tyler's heart and his generosity, what

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Speaker 2: There really is it.

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Speaker 4: And that's why I saw people in the comments, like

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Speaker 4: I can't nobody tell me anything bad about Tyler Perry.

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Speaker 6: You can't tell me anything at all because Tyler. If

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Speaker 2: Is because you want to, not because you have to.

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Speaker 2: That's real, that.

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Speaker 6: Like real talk, like you keep working because you love

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Speaker 1: You get the role in the first place? As madam?

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Speaker 2: I got a phone call. Tyler called me and said,

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Speaker 6: It's different, very different, very different, but I know you

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna send it to you. Read it, let me

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Speaker 6: My first reaction was like, Yo, this is a boss

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Speaker 2: You can't wait because she is a beast.

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Speaker 6: But Rihanda Verene has worked with TP for quite some

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Speaker 6: She kills she knows black women's body, she knows women,

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Speaker 4: She's doing an amazing Everything looks so nice on you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, it's fire.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you could do both, get you that could do?

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Speaker 4: I play a character and it still looks amazing. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Very not with no shirt under her suit. I let

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Speaker 4: You also do therapy for families, for couples, right, individual therapy,

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Speaker 4: you do all of it. I don't even know how

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Speaker 4: But how important do you think that couple's therapy is

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Speaker 5: I think it's really important, especially even new relationships. I

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Speaker 1: It's hard to find the right therapist too.

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Speaker 4: I tried to get absolutely I had to get my

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Speaker 4: She started telling him her problems.

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Speaker 6: She was right, that doesn't want But for couples therapy,

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Speaker 6: I find having been married, having done therapy before getting married,

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Speaker 6: Yes, where you would use a man and a woman,

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Speaker 2: You don't get it because you don't get it. Yea,

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Speaker 6: I raised boys, I was raised with boys, I got

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, I like true interesting.

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Speaker 3: I know that a.

447
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Speaker 5: Lot of times people go into couple's therapy and they

448
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 5: already have a therapist and then they're like, I want

449
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,560
Speaker 5: to they're discussing issues within the relationship, and then they're like,

450
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Speaker 5: I want to bring my partner in to me. That

451
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Speaker 5: is unethical. I don't think that that's I mean, I

452
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:24,119
Speaker 5: feel like there's a maybe us session, but at some

453
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,960
Speaker 5: point you need to make sure that it is a

454
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Speaker 5: safe space for both people, and I think that that's

455
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Speaker 5: when you outsource. Could that other original party be a

456
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Speaker 5: part of that conversation. I think that would be pretty interesting.

457
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Speaker 5: Outside of like maybe an initial session where you're telling, hey,

458
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Speaker 5: this is what we've been talking about, this is why

459
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 5: I'm you know, transferring care to this person. I think

460
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,919
Speaker 5: it would be really interesting to continue that and also

461
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Speaker 5: with the consideration of both of those energies in the space.

462
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Speaker 6: Well, I mean like three months with you and then

463
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Speaker 6: maybe your practice. You have a male that works with you,

464
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Speaker 6: you have made him privy of all of our issues

465
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Speaker 6: where we started where our growth is all of that,

466
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Speaker 6: and then now have him for the next three months.

467
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Speaker 6: You see what I'm saying, and just go back and forth.

468
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Speaker 6: And I just while I'm considering some more therapy, wondering

469
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Speaker 6: if that is something that is just Walt Disney of me,

470
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Speaker 6: like no one can see it yet, or is that

471
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Speaker 6: something that's done or doable.

472
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Speaker 5: I've never seen that done. I could see it in

473
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Speaker 5: the way that they're both in the room at the

474
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Speaker 5: same time, Okay, but I feel like the issue would

475
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Speaker 5: be the disconnect. So you'd have you know, you said

476
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Speaker 5: three months, you'd have three months of development and like

477
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,199
Speaker 5: we'll progress. Therapy is not linear, but you'd have all

478
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Speaker 5: these things that come up, and there's an ethical boundary

479
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Speaker 5: of like how much should I share? How do I

480
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Speaker 5: share that information? Is that other therapists going and listening

481
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Speaker 5: to all of those, you know, re recording these sessions.

482
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Speaker 5: I don't know what that relationship would look like to

483
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Speaker 5: make sure that the therapy felt cohesive.

484
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Speaker 3: If that makes sense.

485
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Speaker 5: Okay, But I can see I'm ever seen I've seen

486
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Speaker 5: like couples be like, hey, you know, they're a husband

487
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 5: and wife and they're not therapists, but they do count

488
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 5: we don't want them right. But that's the only time

489
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Speaker 5: I've ever seen two people.

490
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Speaker 2: In the room.

491
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Speaker 4: How was it difficult to get your ex husband to

492
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 4: do therapy with you when you guys were getting married

493
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Speaker 4: and before that?

494
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Speaker 6: Mental health therapy I think is a beautifully new idea

495
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 6: for the black community. It's something that has not been

496
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Speaker 6: normalized growing up and black men, especially so black it

497
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 6: is it's so difficult, so I can say there was

498
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Speaker 6: a struggle, but truth to be told, the first therapy

499
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Speaker 6: we ever went to was his advice, which was marriage counseling,

500
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Speaker 6: like before getting married.

501
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Speaker 2: Like, let's sit down on my past. He's not gonna

502
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Speaker 2: marry even you know what I mean.

503
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Speaker 6: But I just think it's a traditional thing. And I

504
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 6: love the black men that have sought therapy or the

505
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 6: couples that do that are bold enough to tell their

506
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 6: story because I think it's extremely encouraging. And you don't

507
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 6: realize how important and necessary therapy is until you jump

508
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 6: the hurdle of ego okay.

509
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Speaker 2: And actually start doing it. Yes, when you do, who

510
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: you're like to it is so good.

511
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 1: Like how did you find the right therapist?

512
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Speaker 6: It took a while and I actually heard her speak,

513
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 6: and I heard her speak about the ideals of what

514
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 6: relationships are and how we came up with these ideas,

515
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 6: and she use an example of the Disney idea. She said,

516
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 6: we are taught literally since children. I know, you know

517
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 6: it that woman meets men or boy boy meets girl,

518
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 6: they fall in love. There's some kind of struggle you

519
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 6: have to fight through. Then you jump over that hurdle.

520
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 6: Now we're at the top of the mountain and everything's

521
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 6: happening ever after. So you grew up as an adult

522
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Speaker 6: trying to figure out, like, how.

523
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Speaker 2: Do I get that in my relationship?

524
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 6: And then social media plays a part in your girlfriend,

525
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 6: whose relationship looks amazing, plays a.

526
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 2: Part of your comparison to your man.

527
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 6: You like, well, I don't get no flowers, you know,

528
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 6: and she got American, you.

529
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 3: Know what I mean.

530
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Speaker 6: So there's all of that that I think that comes

531
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 6: into it. But when the way I saw her breakdown

532
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,639
Speaker 6: how we have been programmed to look at relationships showed

533
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 6: me a lot of her brain. And I am a

534
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 6: very independent thinker, so it just felt right for me.

535
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 6: It took me about a year and change before I

536
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 6: finally reached out.

537
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Speaker 2: So do not be discouraged.

538
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 6: If this conversation is merely a seed and someone else

539
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 6: waters it later and then you sprout up in a year.

540
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 6: But after finally I was just at my low and

541
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 6: I was like, look girl, I need somebody to talk

542
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 6: to that does not know me. And life is tap

543
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 6: dancing all over my ass.

544
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 2: I feel like the devil has me on his number

545
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 2: one hit list.

546
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 6: He wake up early for me, he go to sleep

547
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 6: late looking for I'm like, what is going on?

548
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: And so does work help you? Like?

549
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, seriously, because sometimes when things happen, some people

550
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 4: are throwing themselves into work, and some people are like,

551
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 4: can't work you know what? Some people are like, I

552
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:16,719
Speaker 4: don't want to get out of bed, I don't want

553
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 4: leave the house. I don't feel like doing anything. But

554
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 4: some people are like, okay, I don't even want to

555
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 4: have to think about this. Let me it's just work,

556
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 4: non sty and.

557
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: Keep it moving.

558
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 3: That's disassociative behavior. Talk about it, don't we don't want

559
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: to do that.

560
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 5: Or you know where you can make that separation and

561
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 5: you throw yourself into your work and you live there,

562
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,479
Speaker 5: and those people take that work home with them and

563
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 5: they live there too, and that depending on what role

564
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 5: you're playing, Like we have Keith Ledger, you know who passed, Yes,

565
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 5: you know in these different people who who can't ever

566
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 5: undo those characters. Uh so I have seen that. I've

567
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 5: also seen people use their work for shadow work.

568
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 2: So what does that mean?

569
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 5: It down like, say they're playing someone who is a

570
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 5: victim of sexual violence and they are a victim of

571
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 5: sexual violence.

572
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: Oh so they're shadowing their real life.

573
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 5: Yes, and they use it as an opportunity to heal

574
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 5: because if it's scripted.

575
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 6: You mean at your work as an actor? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

576
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 6: absolutely every day girl.

577
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 3: Yes, and sometimes it could work.

578
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes it absolutely can work.

579
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 3: It can be really scary.

580
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, I have a question, And actually I think you

581
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 7: could speak to this a lot too. I have a

582
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 7: background in modeling, but I have a background in reality TV.

583
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 7: And I felt like when we stopped filming, we should

584
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 7: have had like a post production therapist. Yes, not even

585
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 7: so much, because of like any traumatic thing that happened.

586
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 2: It was almost even like a.

587
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 7: Paranoia experienced where I'm like, oh, I'm in my I'm

588
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 7: in the bathroom, Oh shit is my mic on? Or

589
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 7: things like that, or they were in here is somebody listening?

590
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 7: To me, are they looking at my text messages? And

591
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 7: I know even for my show, I never dealt with

592
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 7: this per se, but you know, people were intimate and

593
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 7: that was their real life that was out there for

594
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 7: everybody to say, summerhouse, Martha's vineyard. Yeah, so that was

595
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 7: interesting to witness and to see how it's like, okay,

596
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 7: see you when we have green screen and there was no.

597
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 2: Bridge in there.

598
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 7: And then you also do have the what are they

599
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 7: going to show? And what are people going to say

600
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 7: about me?

601
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,239
Speaker 2: Right? So that's called being a reality star. I can

602
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 2: speak to both of these.

603
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: But even as an actor, do you guys have posts?

604
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 2: So started Real started in reality.

605
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Speaker 6: I started one of the first reality shows before we

606
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 6: even knew the genre was called. I mean, we had Survivor,

607
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 6: and then I think the year after we had Real World,

608
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,959
Speaker 6: and the year after or during mine was American Idol.

609
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 6: So we didn't even really it wasn't even a genre there,

610
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 6: let alone as you know laws and structure that was covered.

611
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 2: Union why it's still not Union.

612
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 6: But what I have experienced working with NBC Universal and

613
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 6: with working with Housewives, we don't start a show without

614
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 6: knowing who the show's therapist is the show's therapy pist

615
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 6: has a practice, so if you're not comfortable with that person,

616
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 6: you can choose someone else. And at any point in

617
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 6: filming if you're like, look, I need a moment, they

618
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 6: are bound by ethical rules they can't say anything. But

619
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 6: there has always been provided a therapist and so if

620
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 6: for me the best option to cope in this situation

621
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 6: is to tap out and walk out, that's what I do.

622
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,719
Speaker 4: So you had that in America's Next Top Model now

623
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 4: on Top Modelport Time Model.

624
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 6: But for Housewives, and I think you were talking about

625
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 6: later on as life changed, the business change and TV

626
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,719
Speaker 6: change and we went from regular to streaming and all

627
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 6: this up. That's one thing I've definitely had on Housewives.

628
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 6: It was very doctor such and such and she she's there,

629
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 6: that you have someone to call so that you don't

630
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 6: feel that way, you.

631
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: Know what I mean? And there is now I just

632
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 2: know that.

633
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 6: For NBC Universal, there is a It's required in contract

634
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 6: and even after the fact, if there's remnants and you

635
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 6: just still feel away, you do not have to useual

636
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 6: on insurance girl or your own money.

637
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 2: You can call them. They are obligated to.

638
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: So that did they not have that for Summer House.

639
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 7: Our second season that they started like we always had

640
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 7: to get a psych evail before we showed up anywhere,

641
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 7: but we didn't actually have that knowledge until the third season.

642
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 2: That fact.

643
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, so like I've I've also done reality, but I

644
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 5: did like a game show, and I did I'm not

645
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 5: an actress, and I did an Escape of Survival for Survival,

646
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 5: which was an Amazon Prime body show, and we did

647
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 5: the psychoval ahead of time, and even still in that process,

648
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 5: we knew that there was a person because we met

649
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 5: that person. That person wasn't on the ground. We actually

650
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 5: had someone who did have some psychological issues and they

651
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 5: had to be escorted off the episode. And being able

652
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 5: like being a therapist myself going to production and being

653
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 5: like what support, Like did you didn't do enough communication

654
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 5: with us to know what we could do in these

655
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,239
Speaker 5: situations and asking for it and advocating for it. And

656
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 5: then I did the game show and the similar thing.

657
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 5: We had one hundred people and one of those people

658
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 5: ended up having a manic episode and there was no

659
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 5: one And that's just because the price, like the it

660
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 5: just is is not for every network is not taking

661
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 5: that into consideration unfortunately. So that's actually one of the

662
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 5: things that I after doing those experiences back to back

663
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 5: this year, that is the thing that I am most

664
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 5: past shit about. I'm actually back in school getting my

665
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 5: pH d because it does you do have to get

666
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 5: have a doctorate, uh in order to do that. And

667
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 5: there are only like twenty psychiatrists who are qualified and

668
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 5: who have done what they need to do in order

669
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 5: to support these reality TV situations and in scripted TV.

670
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 5: There are no regulations. You get usually like the universal

671
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 5: thing is, regardless of your crew actor, whatever you get,

672
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 5: like I think it's like four to six free sessions.

673
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 5: But just like you said, nobody knows a lot of times.

674
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 6: Well, look into your insurance because your insurance covers it

675
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 6: all the way, especially if you're sag after.

676
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: It covers all of that down to acupuncture and massages.

677
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: Wait a second, but.

678
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 3: There.

679
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 6: And so the second part of that is watch what

680
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 6: you ask for from God, from yourself, and watch the

681
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 6: rooms you walk into because you can't walk into a

682
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 6: fire and expect not to get burned.

683
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 2: You can't walk.

684
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:09,959
Speaker 6: Into the unknown wanting a sense of knowing, you know

685
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. There's a lover of surrendering. So even

686
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 6: as an actor I've studied my lines. I'm prepared. I

687
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 6: appreciate yours prepared everyone. I just work here. But there's

688
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 6: also a space where you never know what can happen also,

689
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 6: and that's why you do have a union. But there's

690
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 6: certain spaces where you how do you lay the blame?

691
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

692
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 6: So if I've gotten my physical, I've gotten my psyche val,

693
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 6: I went to work, everything's good, and then I break

694
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 6: out crazy at work today, or have a manic moment

695
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 6: or display a different representation than people are used to.

696
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 2: What is everyone's supposed to do?

697
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 3: I think there should be systems in place.

698
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: What system is that?

699
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 6: Because I'm in the middle of shooting the scene getting

700
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 6: paid a whole lot of money with one hundred and

701
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 6: fifty people that signed up for this very rigorous system.

702
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 5: I think just having somebody who is, like you said

703
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 5: on Your Real Housewives, you have something that a lot

704
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 5: of other shows don't have, being introduced to that person

705
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 5: ahead of time, so you know, if something happens, you

706
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 5: can go to that person. And also the production who

707
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 5: is not equipped to handle a situation like that, knowing

708
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 5: that they have someone who they can direct any of

709
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 5: those situations too. It's just unfortunate that that isn't the

710
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 5: standard in the Norman.

711
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, so for the ones that I did have, they

712
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 6: were never in real time, so there was a zoom

713
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 6: prior to psyche Val. You get the phone call, you

714
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 6: talk to somebody, you have the number.

715
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 2: Then you shoot your show.

716
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 6: While shooting your show, you find that you need to

717
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 6: talk to somebody.

718
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 2: You have someone to call.

719
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,479
Speaker 6: They can fly to Marrakesh where you're shooting right now,

720
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, So you talk to them,

721
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 6: but you really need it for me after the fact,

722
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 6: and that paranoia in your bathroom later on, is the

723
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 6: camera on my phone? Do I need to turn it off?

724
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 2: Like that? It's kind of after that fact. Was in

725
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 2: the moment, you're literally in the you never you don't

726
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 2: know what's going to happen.

727
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 7: Well, I think for me, my experience is only a

728
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 7: little bit different because we were it's more similar to

729
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 7: your newer show, a newer reality show, because we were

730
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 7: there filming the whole time. So for three weeks, we're

731
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 7: not home. You know, there's no breaks, there's no anything

732
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 7: three months, so you know.

733
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 2: That part, and it's just.

734
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 7: I had a mental breakdown on I think on every

735
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 7: show I was on, just because I'm a very anxious

736
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 7: person and I was going through a lot at the time,

737
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 7: and I didn't know what.

738
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: To expect, and I have a therapist.

739
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 7: I had therapy when I was on the show, but

740
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 7: because there was no like, Okay, you know, you have

741
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 7: your idea of what reality TV is when you go

742
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 7: and do it for the first time, and even the

743
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 7: second time, even third time, people start switching up and

744
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,240
Speaker 7: you're not necessarily prepared for that.

745
00:35:51,400 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: And production sometimes loves that, and then still it's that

746
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:05,439
Speaker 1: check for it.

747
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 7: There is still a piece of yourself that you're like, yeah, okay,

748
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 7: that was a lot, and you keep going and you

749
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:14,839
Speaker 7: do it again and it's fine, but.

750
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 6: There is so why do we keep going if it

751
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,359
Speaker 6: was a lot and if it was so hoof? Because

752
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 6: people asked me off and like will you go back

753
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 6: to housewives? Like and you never hear me play down

754
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 6: play housewives. But I also have had my moment where

755
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 6: I've excited that that is not not for your face.

756
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 2: And so it's very.

757
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 6: Hard to see someone go back into a place where

758
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 6: you know it's toxic and then expected not to be toxic.

759
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 4: Because you also realized that you didn't have the control

760
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 4: you thought you had. I remember you said that about

761
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 4: each lay Love, that this whole time you thought you

762
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 4: were in control of your life, and.

763
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: Reality TV is something that you really do not have.

764
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 4: You do have control over down to edit, like yeah,

765
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 4: going to do you know where you're filming? Even where

766
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 4: you're filming, like they could tell you come here, you

767
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 4: don't even know what's about to happen.

768
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 6: Who's going to walk in any of those things? So

769
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 6: I think part of that, too is when you sign

770
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 6: up for reality TV, you sign up for the unknown,

771
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 6: and there is a level of strength that you have

772
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 6: to have as a person, a sense of self that

773
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 6: you have to have as a person, in ability to

774
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 6: control your controllables and your ability to say that does

775
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 6: not serve me. And so someone forty who started at nineteen,

776
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 6: I can tell you that now I have had many

777
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 6: pop offs.

778
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:37,439
Speaker 2: On eving God.

779
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 6: It was my truth though, and I can't blame anyone

780
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 6: else for my feelings. I can only take accountability, and

781
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 6: I'm only to be charged with my attitude and my behavior.

782
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 2: That's all I got.

783
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,399
Speaker 4: So yeah, I will say watching Eat Slay Love, you're

784
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 4: very nice too.

785
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: Nice know, honestly, like that breakfast scene with.

786
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 6: Tea, because so you watched the show three times and

787
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:11,720
Speaker 6: you saw the young lady London, and when I see

788
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 6: a black woman in a grocery store, I'm like, hey,

789
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 6: girl like you.

790
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: It's like.

791
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 6: And so I just I have been misunderstood a lot.

792
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 6: So I just felt like she was very misunderstood. I

793
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 6: felt like I misunderstood her along with the rest of.

794
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 8: Them, which is why I watched it so many times,

795
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 8: because after the first time watching it, and then we

796
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 8: were saying with got that at.

797
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 7: First, and then when it kept coming back up, we

798
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 7: were like, wait, we don't get anymore.

799
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, and there were it was just it was,

800
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:40,959
Speaker 6: it was.

801
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 2: It was very difficult.

802
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 6: However, the woman and me doesn't want to leave that unresolved.

803
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 6: It goes back to who like Madam is and all

804
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 6: the Queen's men like the desire to find some kind

805
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 6: of a resolution. And so I didn't know how I

806
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 6: was going to play out. I didn't know she was

807
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 6: gonna leave it. I know she's gonna walk away. I mean,

808
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:05,800
Speaker 6: my little outfit, you know what I mean. But it's

809
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 6: also what I signed up for, right you.

810
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 8: I saw you and Tammy both triumph try to get

811
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 8: to resolved, and she just literally walked away.

812
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 4: Tammy did not have the patience for that, though, I

813
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 4: will say Tammy was like, all right, I'm listening, and

814
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 4: I can't fo her for that because some people do

815
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 4: not have I say, I'm not mad at her because

816
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 4: some people are gonna be that way and some people

817
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 4: will be more patient. Everybody does not. And also I

818
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 4: think she felt personally attacked.

819
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was personally because that was very.

820
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 8: From the very beginning with the whole Oh my god,

821
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 8: I feel so sorry for you.

822
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,280
Speaker 2: But I feel that she weaponized her her truth.

823
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 6: And Tammy had enough audacity and and and and God

824
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 6: to tell her truth, which is very difficult. A lot

825
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,320
Speaker 6: of people do not have the balls to tell their truth,

826
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 6: you know what I mean. And she did, and I

827
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 6: felt like she was a little what she was. She

828
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,439
Speaker 6: used that to weaponize her and to try to bait

829
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 6: her and to try to get her.

830
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 4: So there is a point where she said, she said,

831
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 4: you have body dysmorphia.

832
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm very clear of what size my waist is.

833
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 4: I like, get it right, I understand that, but I

834
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,720
Speaker 4: was I didn't know if they edited out your reaction

835
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 4: because I was like, even.

836
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 6: No, I okay, I'm at a point in life where

837
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 6: I do not put energy in things that don't serve me.

838
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 6: So even if you say something that is so wrong

839
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 6: and so disrespectful, unless you are my child and I

840
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 6: need to correct you, unless we are in a space

841
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 6: where we have to work together and there needs to

842
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 6: be harmony created, it is very easy for me to

843
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 6: create a non existent reality of.

844
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 2: You, like I will expire you right across from me.

845
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: It is very easy.

846
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 2: I will bring you in this.

847
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 6: I'm a scorpio, so I love you hard or you

848
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,319
Speaker 6: don't exist in my world. And so for London, I

849
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 6: wanted to love on her. I wanted London to see

850
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 6: that women can get together, that you can be extremely

851
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 6: different than me, but there is so much more that

852
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 6: makes us similar, then it'll ever make us different.

853
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 8: And we're stronger in numbers. Let's stick together, right? Why

854
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 8: do this when we can do this?

855
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 2: And honestly, you don't even gotta want to do all

856
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 2: of this? Why you want to fight? Like even if.

857
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: You don't want it, it was very unnecessary. I was saying,

858
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: where did that just come from?

859
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 3: You?

860
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,720
Speaker 4: Like, okay, first of all, I thought you looked amazing.

861
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 4: Like I told you, I loved the sweatsuits. I wear

862
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 4: baggy clothes all the time.

863
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: So that's the.

864
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 6: Reason why I'm like Angela. I was trying to figure

865
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 6: out what to wear. I was like, go, since is

866
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 6: regularly her, so she's gonna wear her.

867
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be.

868
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: Wearing a bagga sweatsuit everywhere.

869
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 6: You know, you can get on a tight dress and

870
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 6: y come up if you want to, but that's your comfort.

871
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 1: I don't think they look good right now.

872
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 2: I think that a lot of people beg to differ.

873
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 4: But yeah, so I was. I just personally was like,

874
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 4: why would she? I personally, when I saw that thought

875
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 4: that was like, damn you very claws out.

876
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 6: But I went through body shaming on social media for

877
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 6: the longest. If I gained five pounds, what's going on?

878
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 6: I lose five pounds of what's going on? I stept

879
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 6: on this scene at one hundred and thirteen pounds at nineteen.

880
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:10,919
Speaker 6: I'm sitting here at a nice one twenty. It ain't

881
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 6: been much for three kids in between.

882
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 2: I should get a pet or not, you know what

883
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 2: I mean. I don't need I don't need I don't

884
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 2: need this.

885
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 6: I don't need the pat I just want to be

886
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 6: left alone to live my little life. And so when

887
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 6: she said a body dysmorphia, I was like, okay, since got.

888
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 2: Me completely messed up.

889
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:32,919
Speaker 6: But it's giving projection. She was took word mind because

890
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 6: she said she had. She said she had later on

891
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 6: it came out, but had I popped then and the

892
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 6: younger me, right, if I would have popped then they've

893
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 6: been like, you know, we would have never got to

894
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 6: the root of it.

895
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 2: And I think it's one thing to be doing to

896
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 2: do the show.

897
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 6: It's an everything to look back at the show, to

898
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 6: watch yourself, to be honest with yourself with what you watched,

899
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 6: because some of it you like, some of it you don't.

900
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, represented yourself very well. I

901
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 4: thought that show was nicely put together.

902
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 2: Shout out to that doctor.

903
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love this show. And for them, they go

904
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: on this girls ship.

905
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 4: Together, but maybe they're not all like best friends. It's

906
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 4: not like a best friend's girls ship. It's you know,

907
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 4: you know, you knew Niviya and you knew Tammy Sammy

908
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 4: and you just went London that trip, but it's best friends.

909
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 4: But it is like you guys had all gone through

910
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 4: a divorce, a public divorce, which is not an easy

911
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 4: thing to do. So it's like going on this trip

912
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,479
Speaker 4: to kind of like go to someplace we never would

913
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 4: think to go to, but.

914
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 2: We all went through.

915
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 6: We've all been married, we've all been divorced, we all

916
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 6: have children, we've all been in the light for at

917
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 6: least fifteen years, and we all have public divorces, and

918
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 6: we're all in our late early thirties forties, and so

919
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 6: it was an opportunity for us to get away from

920
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 6: the world to The show was called something Else. I said,

921
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 6: I want to Eat Pray Love journey. That is why

922
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 6: I'm here.

923
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 2: When we were to Eat Pray Love, it was another show.

924
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 2: It was another nay. When I went that interview, I

925
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,439
Speaker 2: think it's called Eat Slay Love. They made me so

926
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: excited because it was.

927
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 6: The truth of the show. It was very honest. It

928
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 6: was so honest. It was where we were. There were

929
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 6: no thrillers, there were no deals. And I think that

930
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 6: London watched American reality TV or.

931
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,760
Speaker 2: See it just thought that she was supposed.

932
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 6: To be away versus showing up and as her authentic

933
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 6: self right. And I think a lot of people could

934
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 6: learn from that the idea of the imposter syndrome, Like,

935
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, I'm not like them, so

936
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 6: let me try to figure out how to be like

937
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 6: them versus just you.

938
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

939
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 6: And I think that a lot of people haven't gotten

940
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 6: to that place in life. Obviously she was trying to

941
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 6: find that place. And I wish you would have stayed.

942
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 2: I wish you would have stayed too, because to be.

943
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 6: Thirty five years old with no kids, no man, with

944
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 6: no man, with nobody to go home to cook for you,

945
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 6: any flight at any time, and what'd you do was

946
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 6: run comedy for a living baby. I wanted to know

947
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 6: so much about her life, like I.

948
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 1: Wanted to know.

949
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 2: I wanted to know where about her too.

950
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she's a comedian and I can know anything about.

951
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 8: Her before she moved to the United States, during her

952
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 8: dream during COVID, and yeah, we just didn't get enough

953
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 8: from London, London.

954
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 6: She's a black woman from London. So I was ignorant

955
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 6: enough to think name like London.

956
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 2: Yes, that was ignorant.

957
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 6: Enough to think that, Like, you know what, we all

958
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 6: we get it, you all black women, we all got

959
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:26,240
Speaker 6: our issues.

960
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 2: Let's go here she was on each other, and she

961
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 2: was like, no, I'm not the same black.

962
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 8: But was crazy from the very beginning, right in the

963
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 8: very beginning, and when she was kind of like explaining

964
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 8: who she was and what her mission was, she literally

965
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 8: was like, and.

966
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 2: I'm trying to meet new friends. No, you're not. Your

967
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 2: actions are saying otherwise, ma'am.

968
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 6: But I went by her words first ill I had

969
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 6: and then at the end when she when she said

970
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 6: that she was leaving and she's like, I love.

971
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 2: You all girls.

972
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: Stop lying.

973
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 2: You don't even like us, That's okay.

974
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 6: I think that we all, as you know, as this

975
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 6: is what you do for eleven, we all have spaces

976
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 6: that we can grow in. And I think that it

977
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:05,919
Speaker 6: takes time, and you are blessed when you and your

978
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:09,720
Speaker 6: younger or earlier years learn how to start living instead

979
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 6: of letting life live you. And I think that Tammy

980
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 6: and Nibby and I were in a place where we're

981
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 6: not on this hamster wheel. It's not a rat race.

982
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 6: I do what I do because I love it. I

983
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 6: say no more than I say yes. Two things. You

984
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, And so the power of no,

985
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 6: I gives you a big money yes but that that

986
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,439
Speaker 6: difference and I think, you know, not just being able

987
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 6: to go and be free.

988
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 2: I don't.

989
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 6: I don't think that that's where she is in her

990
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 6: growth and having not always been there and having a

991
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 6: whole lot more growing to do until the Good Lord

992
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 6: brings me home. I was able to recognize that in

993
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 6: her and to just really, I don't have.

994
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 2: Any sisters, so I was like, I'm a little sister.

995
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: Like I feel like a lot of comedians.

996
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 4: Sometimes the comedy comes from a space of pain, absolutely,

997
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 4: you know, and comedy is like their way of working

998
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 4: through that.

999
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 1: That's that I'm comedians who.

1000
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 6: I know Kevin Hart laugh at my pain like He's like,

1001
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 6: instead of walking around bitter and I'm said, at all

1002
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 6: the things that I didn't have and what didn't happen,

1003
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 6: and who said what, let's laugh at it and move on.

1004
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 2: Look at me now I'm getting paper.

1005
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,320
Speaker 6: Jay Z said, you never seen the ugly billionaire?

1006
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,399
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Say what you want?

1007
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 2: So would you go back to Vietnam? I mean, because

1008
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 2: guess it seems so beautiful made me want to go there.

1009
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 2: That was your first time.

1010
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 4: I never thought about all of you guys, so good girls.

1011
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 2: Born to glory, because y'all born to glory down and.

1012
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 6: I couldn't and I was trying to tell I was like, baby,

1013
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 6: these are the greens to the ten thousand power. It's

1014
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 6: like that summer mixed greens with a turn up and

1015
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 6: the mustards and a college baby with Garland Morning, where

1016
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 6: every everywhere we went it is so good. Now we'll

1017
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:57,919
Speaker 6: run through you like a freight track.

1018
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, personally, but on the show's comfort with.

1019
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 2: Her bows are absolutely she.

1020
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 8: Was like, listen, y'all, I got the I gotta go,

1021
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 8: I gotta go.

1022
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 4: I was in the gym today, but made a lot

1023
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 4: of want to go to Vietnam because that was a

1024
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 4: very like who would have thought, well, and it's safe

1025
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 4: space for black women.

1026
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: That's always what I think when I'm on vacation.

1027
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's such a space, and not just black women,

1028
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 6: but like to see the way the women bost the city.

1029
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 2: I think Manna might.

1030
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: Be from Vietnam.

1031
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 2: Run her way to.

1032
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 6: To Atlanta because the women run everything. They run the household,

1033
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 6: they got.

1034
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 2: The family.

1035
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: Putting up the food.

1036
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 6: The woman like in college, like I own my own.

1037
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 2: The bikes, he's my mechanic.

1038
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 6: Like they run everything the rice fields. You go through

1039
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 6: the rice fields, you think somebody lay downside.

1040
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 2: No they didn't.

1041
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 6: They took a blade of rice and put it in

1042
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 6: the mud. This acres and acres of rice field are

1043
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:12,280
Speaker 6: nothing but women down there with mud to their boots

1044
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 6: doing it by there. Twice a year it's harvest season.

1045
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 6: That's the rice for the entire year.

1046
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: My goodness.

1047
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 4: See you look the education of it, like when you

1048
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 4: would never have even known.

1049
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 6: Women there where they didn't King Kong, and they filmed it.

1050
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 6: They we went through the the off the water, through

1051
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 6: the forests and through the coves and caves. Two thousand boats.

1052
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 6: Who's still who owned the boat company?

1053
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 2: All women? I love that when I tell you Vietnam

1054
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: one's it gave me.

1055
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 6: I came back home like you can't tell me.

1056
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: How do you think that trip did help you?

1057
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 2: Though?

1058
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: Because I know when you went on it initially you

1059
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: were going.

1060
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, broken hearted. I went on that trip. I was

1061
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 6: newly div and I married the love of my life.

1062
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 6: So it's not like med a good guy, Now.

1063
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 2: Let's get married.

1064
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 6: Like I met the only person that makes my heart

1065
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:11,399
Speaker 6: do what it does.

1066
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 2: And so to figure out life after it was like

1067
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I you want me to see what Blinder's on?

1068
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 2: Who does that? How? And I just I did not

1069
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 2: understand up. I couldn't see up.

1070
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 6: And thank God for a friend, my best friend Robert

1071
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 6: and a good friend that snatched me off the bed

1072
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,879
Speaker 6: and was like, you're going to get up.

1073
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 2: You have to get up.

1074
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 6: And then Will Packer's Company called and say, you know,

1075
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 6: we have this idea, but we want it to be

1076
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 6: about your personal journey, like we don't want drama, we

1077
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 6: want your life and what you're going through. And I

1078
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 6: was like, I don't know if I'm ready to talk

1079
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 6: about that. And God was like, since you need to

1080
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 6: talk about that, Like that's exactly what I'm going to

1081
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 6: need you to do. And it helped, and it was

1082
00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 6: so cathartic. It was so helpful to have, like you say,

1083
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 6: the therapist, the people you don't know, like you know

1084
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 6: that they really don't know.

1085
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 2: So to be able to lean on someone and.

1086
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 6: Just cry without saying remember this and don't forget he

1087
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,319
Speaker 6: did that, or don't forget when you felt like this,

1088
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 6: you know, just to love on you.

1089
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 2: It helped me so much.

1090
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 6: It helped me understand where my heart truly was I

1091
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 6: was off of social media. I got back on didn't

1092
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,479
Speaker 6: realized I had a disease I didn't even have because

1093
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 6: the world was just talking about me, Oh my gosh,

1094
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 6: like it was crazy. But it also helped me decide

1095
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,320
Speaker 6: like people try to figure out, like work life balance,

1096
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 6: and help me decide what of this and entertainment is

1097
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 6: real and what am I really going to deal with

1098
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 6: and what's not real? I don't entertain And what's real

1099
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:54,359
Speaker 6: is how I get paid as an entertainer. And that's it,

1100
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. I don't care what anyone

1101
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 6: thinks of me. I'll walk in every room with kindness,

1102
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 6: with love. I hope that when I leave a room

1103
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 6: it's brighter than it was when I came in there,

1104
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 6: even if it's dark today, Like that is that's all

1105
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 6: I got. I still believe in love. You know, people

1106
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 6: ask will you get married again? I hope I'm married

1107
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 6: the same man again. Let alone get married again. Like

1108
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 6: I don't think that love is lost. It hasn't bittered me,

1109
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 6: and I think the trust of the trip did The

1110
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 6: trip helped me actualize like girl, life is short, you

1111
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 6: live in it and do not let it live you

1112
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 6: and live it to its fullest with no regrets.

1113
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 8: I feel like the three of you all had like

1114
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 8: an awakening of some sort at the end, and I

1115
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 8: felt like it made you guys closer as as sisters.

1116
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 2: Now we're from friends to sister.

1117
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: Hang out now on the corner of my house.

1118
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 8: To imagine tattoos, but it got tattooed together, which you know,

1119
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 8: that's a well for some people, it's a permanent.

1120
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 2: It's a thing.

1121
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 6: When it bombeded us and we got tattoos that represented

1122
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 6: whatever metamorphosis we were going forward in life. And so

1123
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 6: for me, it was coming out of the shell and

1124
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 6: just being free. And my whole thing has been surrendering.

1125
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 2: I have let go. I have like God what he

1126
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 2: decides if my flight is delayed, I guess I wasn't

1127
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 2: supposed to go there, You.

1128
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: Know what I mean?

1129
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 6: That is anxiety that you were talking about, because I

1130
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 6: used to say I suffered from anxiety.

1131
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 2: I don't.

1132
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 6: You have a natural propensity to be more anxious, but

1133
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 6: you don't suffer from saying anxiety. And so when you

1134
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 6: give your give anxiety that kind of a you know

1135
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 6: that certain things anxious, right, so you mitigate that.

1136
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 2: You find the tools.

1137
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 6: From Zuri, it's gonna say Zeri Eva.

1138
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: I have to go back to what you said, though

1139
00:53:58,000 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: you hope you married the same man again.

1140
00:53:59,600 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 3: Maybe.

1141
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 6: I mean, you know, I was on a show and

1142
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:07,800
Speaker 6: they asked, and I pivoted because I'm promoting my television shows.

1143
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:09,439
Speaker 2: I'm not really here to talk about my love life.

1144
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 6: But so I pivoted and they asked, you know, will

1145
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:13,439
Speaker 6: you there are very chance?

1146
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, that wasn't right that question, why

1147
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 2: did show you watch my show? And went on. But

1148
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 2: if I really asked myself the question, there's definitely not

1149
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 2: a no. Like I would.

1150
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 6: I never wanted to get divorced, like I never wanted

1151
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 6: to not be with my husband. You know what I'm saying,

1152
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 6: you saw on the show. I cannot call to me

1153
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 6: and my husband my.

1154
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 2: Exit, you know what I mean. There's no world.

1155
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 6: I mean, my ring is in my jury box here

1156
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 6: in New York. It's gonna always be Wow. Okay, so

1157
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:46,919
Speaker 6: we'll stay tuned.

1158
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 8: For you.

1159
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 4: Yes, that's what we pray for, whatever it is best

1160
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 4: for you and whatever it is meant to be. Yes,

1161
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 4: I want to ask you for all the Queen's men, Madam,

1162
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:00,359
Speaker 4: what are some of those things that you take with

1163
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 4: you from that show, Like what has Madame taught you

1164
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 4: to utilize in your real life?

1165
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:06,959
Speaker 2: Madam has taught me so much.

1166
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 6: Loyalty is everything, and Madam reminds me a lot of

1167
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 6: me myself, where she doesn't have a lot of people

1168
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 6: and a lot of people, she can't trust a lot

1169
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,240
Speaker 6: of people. I've met her under the reputation of Madam.

1170
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. No one really knows.

1171
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 6: Marilyn except for my Blue Blue grew up with me

1172
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 6: like I've known her. She taught me how to shoot,

1173
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, Like that's my sister. But

1174
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 6: everyone else it's difficult because.

1175
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 2: They need you the exactly.

1176
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:41,799
Speaker 6: So it's the feeling of are you in my world

1177
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 6: because you rock with me? And if I didn't have this,

1178
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:49,720
Speaker 6: I give you this. If I didn't provide this, would

1179
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 6: you still be here?

1180
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:55,280
Speaker 4: But you also have a clear line between what's work

1181
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:57,800
Speaker 4: and what's like, you know, because I also feel like

1182
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 4: there's times when you snap it back, like let people

1183
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 4: know you work for me, get out.

1184
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 1: There, do what you're supposed to do.

1185
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 4: All that, and so it is a transactional Do you

1186
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 4: think you could be friends with people who work for you.

1187
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 4: I want to ask Dary this question, because sometimes those

1188
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 4: lines get very really blurry and fuzzy.

1189
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 3: I think it's I put it on my actors.

1190
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 5: It's up to them because a lot of times we're

1191
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 5: in such vulnerable situations that they I mean, I walk

1192
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 5: onto sets all the time, and I can see them

1193
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:28,839
Speaker 5: see me, and I see their demeanor change because they

1194
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 5: don't want to necessarily do the intimacy. Intimacy is a

1195
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 5: high ask for a lot of actors, I find, and

1196
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 5: if I'm the only association with me is that, you know,

1197
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 5: if I'm coming in for a movie and I'm working

1198
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 5: one day or two days or what have you. I

1199
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 5: try to keep those lines very professional, but I'm also open.

1200
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 5: You know, I'm a human and I like to make connections.

1201
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 5: I like to really because I feel like I know

1202
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 5: these actors so intimately sometimes, and I think that that's

1203
00:56:57,680 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 5: also kind of vulnerable for them, because like I know

1204
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 5: them for five minutes and all of a sudden, you

1205
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 5: never know the layers that you have been disclosed to.

1206
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 2: Me literally, and that can be very vulnerable for people.

1207
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 3: So I try to let them kind of navigate that.

1208
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 8: I have a question for you a personal question, well,

1209
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 8: due to my personal situation. So in the upcoming Magic

1210
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 8: City documentary that is now five episodes, in I three, I.

1211
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 2: Narrated, I narrated, I got a little producer credit.

1212
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: So what's it called.

1213
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 2: It's it's Magic City's documentary. I used to work there.

1214
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:34,040
Speaker 6: Oh, I did my bachelor rap party. I bought Magic out.

1215
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 6: I love Magic City.

1216
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 2: I got my little jacket on.

1217
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 8: But so in the upcoming documentary, my breasts are exposed documentaries, yes, docries.

1218
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 8: My sis are out in the first episode. And when

1219
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 8: it wasn't like it's a documentary, so of course there

1220
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 8: wasn't a script. And when they bought the idea to me,

1221
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 8: they were like, do you think that maybe possibly?

1222
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 2: You know, how would you feel if And I'm like,

1223
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 2: what y'all want my titties?

1224
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: Okay?

1225
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 8: And I was very like, no big deal for me

1226
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 8: right in the moment. Now, in hindsight, I do have

1227
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 8: a little bit of worry of even though I think

1228
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 8: my tits are fabulous, I do have a little bit

1229
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 8: of worry of the not really backlash, but like what's

1230
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 8: to come?

1231
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 2: When did you sign?

1232
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 6: You didn't you didn't nuy way, no, no, I don't want

1233
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 6: to take it back.

1234
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 2: No, but you could though you still a place they

1235
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 2: can blur it.

1236
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 8: No, no, in hindsight, because I know you prepare for

1237
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 8: what's happening in real life. But in hindsight, I do

1238
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 8: have and I was an anxiety entertainer for a lot

1239
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 8: of years.

1240
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 2: You know, same thing with you.

1241
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 8: I would not have a problem stripping down and change it,

1242
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 8: not just my tests but everything right now if I

1243
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 8: have to, even with people in the other room, I'm

1244
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 8: so used to being naked in front of strangers. But

1245
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 8: this is now the world, this is now on TV,

1246
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 8: this is now document if.

1247
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:56,439
Speaker 1: That part.

1248
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 2: So my question is I.

1249
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,760
Speaker 8: Don't have any fear of like any say anything bad,

1250
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 8: because again I think my tips are fabulous. But my

1251
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 8: my one I want to say issue is I'm single.

1252
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 2: So do you think that how how do I navigate

1253
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 2: this in upcoming relationships?

1254
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 6: Talk to me on that one, okay, because I've been

1255
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 6: doing this my whole because that's kind of the one

1256
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 6: thing I'm worried about, Like, yeah, I'm not a dancers

1257
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 6: the dancer, and okay, if he.

1258
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 2: Can't handle it, he's not the one.

1259
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 8: And that's how I felt, and that was actually being

1260
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 8: a dancer, So I should have that same What do

1261
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 8: you think that I should have that same sentiment?

1262
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 3: I mean I think so.

1263
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 5: I think that that's your own like, that's your body autonomy.

1264
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 5: But I also feel like having proactive conversations about things

1265
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 5: and it's not are you okay with this? It's this

1266
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 5: is me, this is what I've done. I want you

1267
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 5: to be aware of it.

1268
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 1: Okay.

1269
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 5: I work with a lot of like BMF is always

1270
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 5: inviting names and things, people who are not actors, but

1271
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 5: people who have you know, large social media presences and

1272
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 5: you know, comedian.

1273
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 3: Music artists and all.

1274
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 5: So when I'm navigating intimacy with them, I go about

1275
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 5: it in a little bit of a different way.

1276
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 3: Because they know.

1277
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 5: That as soon as this releases, you know, they might

1278
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 5: and they might only be there for a sex scene,

1279
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 5: which is unfortunate, like to be that character. So just

1280
01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 5: working proactively with them and talking about in the event

1281
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 5: that you do this in this way, it lives forever.

1282
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 3: What are you comfortable?

1283
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 5: So not only what are you comfortable with and doing

1284
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 5: with your body in this particular situation, but what are

1285
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 5: you comfortable with the world taking with you?

1286
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 8: Because that's something that I didn't think of and what

1287
01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 8: made me think about it, not just sitting here, but

1288
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 8: the reaction that a guy that I don't even date anymore,

1289
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 8: but we had like a thing happening, and I didn't

1290
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 8: He went to the We did a south By Southwest premiere,

1291
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 8: and he went with me to the premiere, and I

1292
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 8: purposely didn't tell him that my tids were in the episode,

1293
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 8: because I knew he was gonna be mad. So I'm like,

1294
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 8: if you're going to be mad, then just be mad.

1295
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 2: Capital pause in there.

1296
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 3: Don't yet because I.

1297
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 2: Didn't tell him.

1298
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 8: You know that I didn't tell him, and somebody else

1299
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 8: told him before he got a chance to see it.

1300
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 2: Don't do that.

1301
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 3: Control your own narrative the best you can.

1302
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 8: I thought I was by not telling him because the

1303
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 8: element of the surprise.

1304
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 2: Because I don't think it's such a bad thing, Like

1305
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 2: I'm not text.

1306
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 6: That's what you tell him. You let him know, like

1307
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 6: she said, like it's very mean. Yeah, I was comfortable

1308
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 6: with it. And only this comfort I honestly have right

1309
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 6: now is if you're uncomfortable, it's already done.

1310
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 2: I'm yours. You know what it is.

1311
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 6: And if he can't find his comfort and the person

1312
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 6: that you are and are comfortable with being and that

1313
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 6: does not hurt you, then he's not your guy.

1314
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1315
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 4: Like then if a guy also is not comfortable with

1316
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 4: that and that's not what he wants, right, that doesn't

1317
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 4: make him a bad person, absolutely not. It just means

1318
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 4: this is not not for him.

1319
01:01:58,360 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't like my man and great sweatpon.

1320
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1321
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,439
Speaker 6: It doesn't make me a bad person. It just makes

1322
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 6: me a reference. I would prefer you not to walk outside.

1323
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 2: Would great job?

1324
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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you know what I'm saying.

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01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 2: What you mean, it's a challenging Somebody else told him.

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Speaker 8: It's like literally right before we sat down at our

1327
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 8: seats and he didn't sit with me.

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Speaker 1: Why would somebody tell him right then?

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Speaker 6: I don't know, but somebody in your orbit, small in

1330
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Speaker 6: your circle.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Because if he sees this,

1332
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Speaker 2: when he sees this, I hope he.

1333
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Speaker 6: Sees this very soon so he can understand what Gigi does,

1334
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Speaker 6: what I do, what you do. It's not as vogue.

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Speaker 6: It's not what you think it is. We are actors,

1336
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 6: we are professionals. We have signed up for a job

1337
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 6: and literally I just work.

1338
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Speaker 4: Here right, And in the UK they be naked on

1339
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Speaker 4: TV all the time.

1340
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Speaker 1: London will tell.

1341
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Speaker 4: You that you're a girl in London because that is true,

1342
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 4: Like I will say that. I feel like in America

1343
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 4: we have a different view on nudity. On nudity for sure, and.

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01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 6: The rhymes when when she had that little intimate scene

1345
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 6: and Bridger chi and everyone was like, oh my god,

1346
01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 6: but dress, and.

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Speaker 2: That was it. I don't want to hear what you

1348
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 2: have to say to Oh.

1349
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 5: I was just gonna say because you said I'm very

1350
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 5: comfortable with it and all that you and still it's

1351
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:30,439
Speaker 5: being brought to this space. So it may not be

1352
01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 5: that you're uncomfortable with the act and like having your

1353
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 5: breast out there, but there is a level of discomfort

1354
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:38,920
Speaker 5: around something otherwise I don't think it would come up

1355
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 5: in this.

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Speaker 8: Discomfort is I just don't feel like having to have

1357
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 8: the conversation of somebody else being mad at something that

1358
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 8: I'm not mad at.

1359
01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: You don't want to explain it.

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01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 2: I don't want to have to explain it.

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Speaker 7: I've never I've never told anybody first that I oppose nude. Yeah,

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01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 7: I've never did conversation and I'm ever actually thought to

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01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 7: have that until just now. I feel like the only

1364
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 7: time it's ever come up is if they're a fan

1365
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 7: low key or they googled you. I found out on

1366
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 7: some sneaky and then they really be telling anybody's like,

1367
01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 7: you know, I'm dating the plane.

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01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've gotten, but I've never gotten the like shame.

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Speaker 2: I mean, my whole entime.

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Speaker 8: I'm talking about insire from beginning to end and entertain

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01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 8: her career. I was always in relationships, and I was

1372
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 8: dealing with guys who either liked it or didn't it.

1373
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 2: They didn't you deal with them. I always had.

1374
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 8: I've always been in a relationship, and I was in

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01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 8: a relationship with said person when I was an answer.

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Speaker 2: So for him to get so upset, it's just like, yeah, but.

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Speaker 3: You knew he was gonna I guess like.

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Speaker 6: That's what I He was gonna get upset because I'm

1379
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 6: retired now and you know he wants me to leave

1380
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 6: that life. There was an agreement that you had with

1381
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 6: said man that you are no longer doing what you did,

1382
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 6: but you did do it, and it's fine doing it.

1383
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:57,920
Speaker 6: You knew he was gonna be mad at it, and

1384
01:04:57,960 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 6: now he's mad at it, and you don't understand why

1385
01:04:59,720 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 6: he's mad.

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01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: That was a good breakdown exactly.

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Speaker 8: Okay, yeah, exactly. Now he's no longer he's no longer

1388
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 8: back there. But I'm just because he reacted that way

1389
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 8: and just kind of sitting here at this post.

1390
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 4: In my mind like damn, not saying anything, because if

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01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 4: you would have been, like, by the way before we

1392
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 4: go to this, my titties out, he might, you know,

1393
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 4: but it made it a bigger deal when he heard

1394
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 4: about it right before, when he's there with you, you

1395
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 4: purposely didn't tell him because you knew he was gonna

1396
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 4: was so moving on from him, is it something My

1397
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 4: question is this it's something that you think I should

1398
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 4: worry about having to deal with moving forward with a

1399
01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 4: potential Yeah.

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01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 5: It goes back to what Eva said, if you know

1401
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 5: and in starting that relationship that this is something that

1402
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 5: is going.

1403
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:54,959
Speaker 3: To be a point of contention.

1404
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 2: That he's not my guy.

1405
01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, just like in Eden, right, people were not allowed

1406
01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 4: to take videos under and so Magic City people.

1407
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 2: Weren't allowed to do that.

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01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,720
Speaker 4: It's different because now this is going to be something

1409
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 4: that's on start.

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01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter.

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01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:13,560
Speaker 6: It doesn't matter because you're trying to qualify everything that

1412
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 6: you know you are totally fine with, So you're qualified for.

1413
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 2: The man he named man no more.

1414
01:06:17,760 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 3: No, he never was.

1415
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:19,640
Speaker 2: He wasn't.

1416
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 8: Well he was at one point, but he wasn't during

1417
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 8: this whole Okay, you're.

1418
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 2: You're qualifying it for yourself.

1419
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 6: You're trying to validate it for yourself, and that doesn't

1420
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 6: need to happen if you're what you're okay with is okay,

1421
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 6: and it's okay to not be okay.

1422
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 2: Tomorrow with what you were okay with you doing today.

1423
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 6: Like so if you you know what's Cy's like, you

1424
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 6: can change.

1425
01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:42,480
Speaker 3: That's the thing.

1426
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 2: You know, it's crazy. The Geminium me.

1427
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 8: I'm so psyched that I'm actually looking forward to it.

1428
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 8: So he's definitely not your guy. No, I said, absolutely

1429
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 8: not your guy.

1430
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I said that.

1431
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:53,560
Speaker 1: See, if you feel like you got to hide some things,

1432
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 1: that ain't it anytime?

1433
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 2: You know what it was.

1434
01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:59,160
Speaker 8: I just didn't want to make it an argument prior

1435
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 8: to and when I did it, we are not together.

1436
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 6: We were not postponing the argument that you knew was inevitable,

1437
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 6: So you decided you wanted to have it on the

1438
01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 6: night of your premiere.

1439
01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't think somebody was going to sell.

1440
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 8: My vision was that he would see it and with

1441
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:14,919
Speaker 8: it was going to be the reaction, Like he wasn't

1442
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,280
Speaker 8: going to react because we were going to see it

1443
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 8: with everybody in the theater.

1444
01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 1: So unrealistic.

1445
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:29,800
Speaker 8: I didn't have a moment for that to happen because

1446
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 8: somebody right before we walked into sat down. I was like, yeah,

1447
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 8: you know this is in and he got mad.

1448
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 2: Your non friend is a hater. My hands away.

1449
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 8: I can't wait for the cameras go so I can

1450
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 8: tell you who said it. You'll know this person.

1451
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 4: Well listen, I hate that we have to end this,

1452
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 4: but I am excited for the new season of All

1453
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 4: the Queens.

1454
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:58,440
Speaker 6: Many well ask two episodes, two episodes one and I'm

1455
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 6: home Thanksgiving. I'm home to say siven night, stuup your face,

1456
01:08:01,760 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 6: see your family, kiss your loved one.

1457
01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 2: I can't wait.

1458
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 6: And then sit with your good judies or whoever you

1459
01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 6: watch you with. We are dropping two episodes, thank and

1460
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 6: then after that every Thursday you get a brand new

1461
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 6: episode of all these.

1462
01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 2: You have a lot to watch and you have appointment.

1463
01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 6: You have something to do at appointment on Thursday, man

1464
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 6: want to watch football or your non man, maybe new

1465
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:27,560
Speaker 6: potential man.

1466
01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:29,320
Speaker 2: I don't one either. We can go hang out, okay,

1467
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 2: and then there's thirties out.

1468
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:36,680
Speaker 1: On the show just my eyes, so I had a

1469
01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 1: body double. I was like, you think even really did

1470
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 1: that was? And what looking good?

1471
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:42,679
Speaker 2: Listen, that's all mine?

1472
01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 4: So you should tell the guy, look even did it?

1473
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 2: No problem? And more over, you should tell you.

1474
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 8: That was my like my response, my rebuttal was like

1475
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 8: when the actress is titties out on TV, nobody cares.

1476
01:08:58,520 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 2: Why do you care?

1477
01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 8: And he's like, you just want to be a health

1478
01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 8: faver and I'm like, all right, oh, we are definitely

1479
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 8: going to.

1480
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 1: Forget.

1481
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 3: Sorry that.

1482
01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:11,719
Speaker 4: I'll busting them in his But just as it recap,

1483
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 4: you know, when y'all start watching this new season, we

1484
01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 4: get to see what's going to happen with your father

1485
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:15,960
Speaker 4: on the show.

1486
01:09:16,280 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 6: Yes, this season it's all about vengeance.

1487
01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:21,800
Speaker 2: Madam believes in God.

1488
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 6: But vengeance's mind said, the Lord is for Madam. She

1489
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 6: is the lord in this situation. And when it comes

1490
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:31,600
Speaker 6: to my dad and him being kidnapped, I might not

1491
01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:36,240
Speaker 6: care about a lot and these boys dancing, this is

1492
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 6: what you signed up for, but when it comes to

1493
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 6: my daddy, and that blood games. I play nowhere near

1494
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 6: games even on Christmas when it comes to Cadillacs. So

1495
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 6: this season of All the Queen's Men, you see Madam

1496
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 6: in a space you've never seen her before because she

1497
01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 6: does not have the control.

1498
01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:53,560
Speaker 2: She choose to have it.

1499
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 6: Imagine going home and you click your lights on it,

1500
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:58,000
Speaker 6: they don't come on. Turn the water on, and the

1501
01:09:58,000 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 6: water's not on. You're like, oh no, with the bill

1502
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 6: not like what's going on? Like the control that Madam

1503
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:05,760
Speaker 6: is used to having no longer she doesn't have. And

1504
01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:08,640
Speaker 6: the one thing that drives her is her daddy.

1505
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 4: So new season, it's food episodes. We inside est plus

1506
01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 4: is going down.

1507
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:18,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't wait to get to know

1508
01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 2: you all.

1509
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:25,720
Speaker 4: I think Zarry prior grades that people know where they

1510
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:26,439
Speaker 4: can find you.

1511
01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 5: Yes, more about what you do intimacy with z everywhere,

1512
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:35,200
Speaker 5: And yeah, more about what I do in terms of

1513
01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 5: intimacy coordinating.

1514
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1515
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:38,320
Speaker 4: No, I'm saying they can find you and everything about

1516
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 4: what you do intimacy with.

1517
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:42,120
Speaker 5: Yes, they can find me any of my therapy stuff,

1518
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 5: any of my intimacy coordinating. I'm also I'm writing a

1519
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:49,040
Speaker 5: book about intimacy coordinating and developing my own modesty stuff,

1520
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 5: so we have more things.

1521
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 6: Good good because that everything fits. Everything said, I can't

1522
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:54,759
Speaker 6: put everything.

1523
01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 3: Yeah right right, we're gonna fix it. The color.

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Speaker 1: Please receive the Squirez Pockets m