Speaker 1: Second date update. How do we feel about people bringing
Speaker 1: gifts for the first date? Is there an inside joke
Speaker 1: or are you talking about just ji?
Speaker 2: I have friends who love it.
Speaker 1: I actually went out with the dentist ones who tried
Speaker 1: to gift me a BMW on the first date. I
Speaker 1: told you, but I said, you.
Speaker 2: Wait talking about cars.
Speaker 1: It was only a three series though, and the leather
Speaker 1: seats weren't even in the right color. Oh so, Mamma
Speaker 1: didn't raise no fool, I know my worst okay, and
Speaker 1: I dismissed them.
Speaker 2: Are you driving a Kia like I am right.
Speaker 1: Now, that's just one of the cars that I'm driving.
Speaker 1: To choose which car on which day? Same but from
Speaker 1: the email we received, I heard gifts were exchanged on
Speaker 1: this first date, which is a little bit unique. And
Speaker 1: so let's talk to the guy, Enrique. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hey, what's happening? Guys? Thanks for having me thinking about.
Speaker 2: Rique going I wasn't actually, I was just thinking about
Speaker 2: this guy.
Speaker 1: And Henrique, this is your first time on the show.
Speaker 1: It's kind of like our first date. Do we get
Speaker 1: a gift? Maybe?
Speaker 3: Sure? I love you do?
Speaker 4: Is that like that's your thing? Is you're the gift
Speaker 4: guy to love language.
Speaker 1: Okay, but if it's anything less than a three series,
Speaker 1: then we're not interested. I'm talking. You just bought a
Speaker 1: new car.
Speaker 4: So did you warn the person you were going out
Speaker 4: with the gifts were going to be on the table? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I mean you know, we met online, so
Speaker 5: that's okay, okay, And what's her name?
Speaker 3: Josie?
Speaker 1: I like how you say it all right, you're talking
Speaker 1: to Josie online.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: All language just came up and we found out that
Speaker 5: cars and gifts are number one loved language.
Speaker 2: The gift givers.
Speaker 5: Okay, So we decided to bring Schather a gift on
Speaker 5: our first date.
Speaker 3: Nothing too crazy.
Speaker 1: Both of you were going to bring gifts, so this
Speaker 1: was not a surprise.
Speaker 2: Okay. Did you set a price limit?
Speaker 3: No, we just said something very simple. Okay, Okay, sometimes
Speaker 3: to be reminded later on, you know, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Think it makes it better.
Speaker 1: It's good. Take us to the date. How did it go,
Speaker 1: what happened?
Speaker 4: And what you bring?
Speaker 3: But tell you something before that, we lived kind of
Speaker 3: far away, like I drove like two hours to get
Speaker 3: to her.
Speaker 4: So she brought you gas money.
Speaker 3: Not so much.
Speaker 5: But anyway, we met at this Mexican restaurant for dinner
Speaker 5: and sat down.
Speaker 3: And so she gives me her gifts first. Okay, so
Speaker 3: since we had some conversations. I'm a big Spider Man fan.
Speaker 1: She got you some spiders. That's cool, dude, right.
Speaker 3: No, No, but she gave me some little Spider Man
Speaker 3: action figure.
Speaker 4: Awesome, she's paying attention, she's remembering.
Speaker 1: Put it on a shelf. You'll always know, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we give her a check mark for her gift? What
Speaker 1: did you get her?
Speaker 3: So it might sound a little crazy, Okay, but let
Speaker 3: me flink. What it's called a long distance love lamp?
Speaker 2: A long long distance love?
Speaker 1: What is that?
Speaker 2: That's a little bit what is a little overwhelmed? Already
Speaker 2: explain tell Jeffrey what it is.
Speaker 3: I know what they are, something like you know, work
Speaker 3: far away? Right?
Speaker 5: If I touched mine, hers will glow, you see, like,
Speaker 5: oh you know?
Speaker 1: Okay. It's a way of touching each other and turning
Speaker 1: each other on.
Speaker 2: I'm faking, not exactly. It doesn't have to be like couples.
Speaker 2: I get it. It's like family.
Speaker 4: Feel doesn't say love lamp on the box when you
Speaker 4: hand it to it, because that I think is gonna
Speaker 4: be key.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no. If I had the lamp out
Speaker 3: of the box, you know, I had to like, you know.
Speaker 2: Up good, Okay, So it's just the lamp that she.
Speaker 1: Gets, So you're just handing her a lamp.
Speaker 2: What was her reaction at first?
Speaker 3: She was like a little confused, you know.
Speaker 2: She didn't know what it was.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, he gave me a lamp.
Speaker 1: It's not a typical first day gift gift.
Speaker 5: I like lamp, okay, right right right, So then I
Speaker 5: had to explain to her the same thing I just
Speaker 5: told you guys right now too.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: You know she was like, oh wow, that's so sweet,
Speaker 3: and she's like, nobody never gave me a lamp before.
Speaker 2: Oh she liked it.
Speaker 1: Alexis if a guy gave you a love lamp on
Speaker 1: your first meet up? I see, I didn't get to
Speaker 1: finish asking the question, order shouted, I.
Speaker 2: Don't really not a pan. It's just what if you
Speaker 2: have another guy over when it's going off, Like that's
Speaker 2: my fear. Like she's like, you can't even think about that.
Speaker 2: You have to be exclusive, Like I don't want a
Speaker 2: guy over.
Speaker 4: And this lamp was flashing in the corner and he's.
Speaker 5: Like you had a lot of long conversations, like I'm
Speaker 5: getting so open, you know, it's like I'm not seeing
Speaker 5: nobody else.
Speaker 3: I really really dig this girl. I mean she was
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she's so hot, you know.
Speaker 1: And you're putting all your cards on the table with
Speaker 1: this well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, And you know I give her a lamp.
Speaker 1: You're putting all those lamps on the table. Whatever you're
Speaker 1: doing the rest of the date.
Speaker 3: All right, So the day was awesome. Okay, we talked
Speaker 3: for hours and even we kept having some drinks and
Speaker 3: I went to her house.
Speaker 2: Her house, it into the lamp, you.
Speaker 3: Know, I make sure the lamp was on.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, have you used the lamp since your last date?
Speaker 3: Yeah, every single day, especially night time.
Speaker 2: Okay, have you gotten the light back or is it
Speaker 2: just you lighting her up?
Speaker 3: Well, this is the thing. At first, mine was glowing
Speaker 3: all the time.
Speaker 5: Now it's not really lighting up that much anymore.
Speaker 2: The lights have gone out on love Jess.
Speaker 3: Yeah. But then I text her and she doesn't really respond.
Speaker 1: Or to ask about the texting because the lamps aside,
Speaker 1: you're not texting. That's a big.
Speaker 2: Lampless and loveless.
Speaker 1: It's tough doing a long distance relationship thing. Your date
Speaker 1: does sound pretty lit to me. But we're gonna come
Speaker 1: back and we'll call it Josie for you and try
Speaker 1: and get you a second date update. Get that light
Speaker 1: glowing again right after this.
Speaker 5: All right, all right, thanks guys, all right, man, hold
Speaker 5: on second date update.
Speaker 1: Brooks said something pretty profound in the first part of
Speaker 1: the second date call. Kind of hit it right on
Speaker 1: the nose when she said, and now their love.
Speaker 6: Light has gone dark, sinking deep into the abyss of
Speaker 6: eternal loneliness, like the lost ship in the middle of
Speaker 6: the Atlantic Ocean that's lost all power, and as the
Speaker 6: crew is jumping overboard into the icy waters, the boat
Speaker 6: takes on more water and all hope and have is
Speaker 6: lost forever and always.
Speaker 1: I'm just paraphrasing what she said. It was something along
Speaker 1: along those lines.
Speaker 4: I'm actually hopeful that this love story doesn't end as
Speaker 4: tragically as the one you're talking about.
Speaker 1: But yeah, your love story that you painted in the
Speaker 1: first part, I'm just trying to paraphrase. Because Enrique and
Speaker 1: his date Josie agreed to exchange gifts when they had
Speaker 1: their first meet up, and she got him a spider
Speaker 1: Man toy because he's into Spider Man. He got her
Speaker 1: a long distance love lamp, which is where if you
Speaker 1: touch yours, their lamp lights up on their end to
Speaker 1: show that you're thinking of them.
Speaker 4: And apparently they were using it back and forth for
Speaker 4: a little while.
Speaker 1: At least in the first few days, it was going
Speaker 1: off like a strobe light at a Tiesto concert. Lately,
Speaker 1: not only is the lamp dimming, so are in Rique's
Speaker 1: hopes for a second date. Enrique, any thoughts that you'd
Speaker 1: like to share over some sad depressing music. Now's your chance.
Speaker 3: It's a little sad right now where you're playing.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm sorry, but that's it's just the image that
Speaker 1: Broke paints with her words.
Speaker 5: Me.
Speaker 2: It's always me.
Speaker 1: I'm just bringing them to light. Yeah, okay, the light
Speaker 1: that's happening in your Yes. So again, I'm just or
Speaker 1: I'll here for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, were together, man.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm hole just like those sailors were when they
Speaker 1: left the dog dial Josie for you right now here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Josie. Hey, Josie.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you know us. We're a radio
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Josie, Hey, Hi, we.
Speaker 1: Got a lot that we'd like to talk to you about.
Speaker 1: One of our listeners says that he went on a
Speaker 1: date with you not too long ago and had an
Speaker 1: amazing time.
Speaker 3: Okay, am I on the radio right now?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Pretty cool.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: You're the star of the hour, and your co star,
Speaker 1: hopefully is the guy that you were with named Enrique.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I know Enrique.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well we know a little bit about Enrique
Speaker 1: and your guys' date because he told us some details
Speaker 1: from it. It sounded pretty good on our end.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounded flirty, fun. You guys had maybe.
Speaker 4: A lot of margarita's, which is always a positive.
Speaker 1: That we thought. It was interesting that you guys decided
Speaker 1: to exchange gifts before you even met each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was fun.
Speaker 1: Actually, Okay, how'd you feel about the lamp that he
Speaker 1: gave you?
Speaker 3: I I actually loved the lamp gift. I thought it
Speaker 3: was so thoughtful. I thought it was a really sweet
Speaker 3: gesture from him.
Speaker 2: Wow, you didn't think it was.
Speaker 1: People were thinking it may have been too much, too soon.
Speaker 3: Well, we are kind of long distance, so it meant more.
Speaker 4: Wait, still, you still consider yourself currently long distance with him.
Speaker 3: No, not currently, but we were long dist him.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you were still thinking it.
Speaker 1: So but you said that you liked the lamp gift,
Speaker 1: and we heard that you guys were using it at
Speaker 1: least for a little while after the date. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: not sure what's changed since then.
Speaker 3: Well, I I think he's a cheater.
Speaker 2: What a cheater? What?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 2: Why do you think he's a cheater?
Speaker 3: Oh? I know he's a cheater. Well, we share locations
Speaker 3: on our phone, so we can see where each other
Speaker 3: are already.
Speaker 2: You guys are a relationship.
Speaker 1: That's very close with each other.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's kind strong and like we knew like when
Speaker 3: to call each other and all that stuff. And then
Speaker 3: a few times my lamp will light up and I
Speaker 3: will look at his location, and he was out somewhere.
Speaker 4: Else, not at his house the lamp exactly.
Speaker 2: I would side piece touch a lamp.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if that was true, he would be out with
Speaker 1: the side piece most likely not leaving her at his
Speaker 1: place to touch and mess around and cluster lamp exactly.
Speaker 3: That's why I think he's either married.
Speaker 2: Or have a living girlfriend there.
Speaker 1: And you're the side piece in that.
Speaker 2: Case he bought himself.
Speaker 4: I think you're misreading something here, because he wouldn't call
Speaker 4: a radio show and ask us to publicly ask you
Speaker 4: out again. If he was cheating, that would be I mean,
Speaker 4: unless he's really dumb, that.
Speaker 1: Would be real. It's really really big to jump to
Speaker 1: conclusions like that. And look, the love lamp that he
Speaker 1: gave us for our studio is lighting up, which I
Speaker 1: think means that he wants to talk to you right now,
Speaker 1: because he's actually on the other line listening.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we don't really have a love lamp. I
Speaker 1: made that up, but he is on the other line.
Speaker 2: I don't think.
Speaker 3: No, I don't want to talk to a cheater.
Speaker 1: What, well, just give him a chance. Hear him out.
Speaker 1: There might be some misunderstanding.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, Josie, Josie, I'm not cheating on you, Okay,
Speaker 5: I swear I'm on you.
Speaker 3: No, No, dude, I'm not buying it.
Speaker 2: God, it's so hard.
Speaker 4: It's so hard to stay your case when someone says
Speaker 4: you're a cheater, because when you say you're not a cheater,
Speaker 4: it sounds more like yeah.
Speaker 1: It's like I'm innocent. That's what's going on with your lamp?
Speaker 3: Dude, And I don't hear any excuses like, oh, your
Speaker 3: dog is touching the lamp, or it's all by mistake,
Speaker 3: it's faulty, or whatever it is, because I'm not going
Speaker 3: to buy it.
Speaker 1: It is a dog, oh girl joking?
Speaker 3: I am the one touching the lamp. I am the one.
Speaker 3: I take it with me everywhere I go. If I
Speaker 3: go to a cafe.
Speaker 1: Wa, go to a bar? Are you kidding?
Speaker 3: Bro?
Speaker 5: I'm going to guys, I like this girl so much
Speaker 5: that I carry this lamp with me everywhere I go.
Speaker 1: Wait, you go to a wait, hold on, you go
Speaker 1: to a shop and plug the lamp in just to
Speaker 1: touch it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, the same level somehow.
Speaker 1: Brook, How are you feeling right now accusing him such
Speaker 1: horrible things? Early?
Speaker 4: All with me?
Speaker 2: Just the visual of him walking down the street with.
Speaker 1: A lamp, Imrika, you don't have to take that from her.
Speaker 2: It's really cute, Rikae. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: No, well all right, but wait, wait, you guys know
Speaker 3: how you want to go with your phone here trying
Speaker 3: to plug your phone somewhere?
Speaker 1: Right's the thing at the airport with a big old lamp.
Speaker 1: You asked the bartender if you can unplug the jukebox
Speaker 1: for just a second so I can touch my girlfriend
Speaker 1: two hours away.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well or something like that.
Speaker 1: Okay, Josie, what do you think.
Speaker 5: I'm not behind this dude.
Speaker 4: No man would ever say something that embarrassing unless it
Speaker 4: was true.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 1: And we're giving him a really hard time, and he's
Speaker 1: doing a great job like defending himself. I'm actually kind
Speaker 1: of believing him on this Listen.
Speaker 3: I swear my grandmother's grave. I take that lamp everywhere
Speaker 3: I go. I wanted to show this girl that how
Speaker 3: much I like her, and I want to take her.
Speaker 1: There is a love lamp in his grandmother's grave too,
Speaker 1: so that he can show some love to his dead.
Speaker 1: It's going off. She's right, it's going on. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2: But Josie, it feels like you two are like meant
Speaker 2: for each other.
Speaker 1: I mean, you would just trust him.
Speaker 3: Oh you guys really think I should believe him? Yes?
Speaker 1: Yes, and we get if you carry the lamp with
Speaker 1: you everywhere? Do you have it with you right now?
Speaker 1: Could you turn it on?
Speaker 3: Bro?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean I could just go in the trunk of
Speaker 3: my car and get her right now, and I can
Speaker 3: plug it.
Speaker 1: I don't think we have time for that.
Speaker 2: I don't know my highlander has a plugin for.
Speaker 1: Okay, Brook will drive her Highlander over to where you
Speaker 1: are and you can plug in.
Speaker 2: Your lamp car like that.
Speaker 1: The lamp on. While this was a terrible idea, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying I believe him, Josie. I think the whole
Speaker 1: room believes him. That he carries this lamp around to
Speaker 1: prove that he's that into you.
Speaker 2: And he's not a cheater. He wouldn't call in and
Speaker 2: do this over the radio.
Speaker 3: Well.
Speaker 1: I do disagree with Brook on that point, but everything
Speaker 1: else that we said, I think it's true. And we'd
Speaker 1: like to sends you two out on another date that
Speaker 1: we would pay for if you're up.
Speaker 4: For a Josie, what if he took you to his
Speaker 4: house to prove that he doesn't live with anybody else.
Speaker 5: Yeah, look, come over to my house and you could
Speaker 5: see the lamp and I'll definitely have the light on again,
Speaker 5: you know, with your lamp and everything.
Speaker 3: We'll make something fun out of this.
Speaker 1: Come on, Josie, Philip winning you over a little bit here, Josie,
Speaker 1: one more chance. Come on?
Speaker 3: Now, that's actually pretty sweet. I have to say, he's
Speaker 3: just you are quite the charmer, Enrique. I have to
Speaker 3: wow with that. Yeah. Well, oh my god, he's busting
Speaker 3: out the Spanish. Now okay, so is.
Speaker 1: That a yes, Josie, Yes, that's my leg.
Speaker 2: What do you do freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Uh spoiler alert, not to ruin the surprise, but Jose
Speaker 1: just bought all of us love lamps for Christmas. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're welcome, because gift giving is my love language.
Speaker 2: I'll tap for you, broken Alexis.
Speaker 1: If you guys decide to go on vacation in Europe again,
Speaker 1: make sure you have the right adapters so that you
Speaker 1: could plug that baby and get some Papa Bear love
Speaker 1: across the scene. I think As already has like seven
Speaker 1: love lambs.
Speaker 2: I don't think they're in a room. I think they're
Speaker 2: in the garbage again.
Speaker 1: I know there's a lot of judgment about the love lambs,
Speaker 1: but it was actually perfect for this couple. I'm really
Speaker 1: happy for that. They seem like they might actually be
Speaker 1: a good bit.
Speaker 2: This is the type of thing. It gives you hope
Speaker 2: that there's someone for everyone.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Serious, No matter if you're the guy walking down
Speaker 4: the street holding a lamb, you found love.
Speaker 1: And that could be you. If you want to email
Speaker 1: the show, we'll call that person not calling you back.
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