WEBVTT - Second Date Update: You Light Up My Love Lamp

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. How do we feel about people bringing

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<v Speaker 1>gifts for the first date? Is there an inside joke

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<v Speaker 1>or are you talking about just ji?

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<v Speaker 2>I have friends who love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually went out with the dentist ones who tried

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<v Speaker 1>to gift me a BMW on the first date. I

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<v Speaker 1>told you, but I said, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait talking about cars.

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<v Speaker 1>It was only a three series though, and the leather

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<v Speaker 1>seats weren't even in the right color. Oh so, Mamma

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<v Speaker 1>didn't raise no fool, I know my worst okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>I dismissed them.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you driving a Kia like I am right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, that's just one of the cars that I'm driving.

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<v Speaker 1>To choose which car on which day? Same but from

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<v Speaker 1>the email we received, I heard gifts were exchanged on

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<v Speaker 1>this first date, which is a little bit unique. And

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<v Speaker 1>so let's talk to the guy, Enrique. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, what's happening? Guys? Thanks for having me thinking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Rique going I wasn't actually, I was just thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And Henrique, this is your first time on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like our first date. Do we get

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<v Speaker 1>a gift? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure? I love you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that like that's your thing? Is you're the gift

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<v Speaker 4>guy to love language.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but if it's anything less than a three series,

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<v Speaker 1>then we're not interested. I'm talking. You just bought a

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<v Speaker 1>new car.

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<v Speaker 4>So did you warn the person you were going out

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<v Speaker 4>with the gifts were going to be on the table? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I mean you know, we met online, so

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<v Speaker 5>that's okay, okay, And what's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Josie?

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<v Speaker 1>I like how you say it all right, you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>to Josie online.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>All language just came up and we found out that

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<v Speaker 5>cars and gifts are number one loved language.

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<v Speaker 2>The gift givers.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So we decided to bring Schather a gift on

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<v Speaker 5>our first date.

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<v Speaker 3>Nothing too crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Both of you were going to bring gifts, so this

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<v Speaker 1>was not a surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Did you set a price limit?

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<v Speaker 3>No, we just said something very simple. Okay, Okay, sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>to be reminded later on, you know, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think it makes it better.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good. Take us to the date. How did it go,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>And what you bring?

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<v Speaker 3>But tell you something before that, we lived kind of

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<v Speaker 3>far away, like I drove like two hours to get

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<v Speaker 3>to her.

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<v Speaker 4>So she brought you gas money.

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<v Speaker 3>Not so much.

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<v Speaker 5>But anyway, we met at this Mexican restaurant for dinner

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<v Speaker 5>and sat down.

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<v Speaker 3>And so she gives me her gifts first. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 3>since we had some conversations. I'm a big Spider Man fan.

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<v Speaker 1>She got you some spiders. That's cool, dude, right.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, but she gave me some little Spider Man

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<v Speaker 3>action figure.

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<v Speaker 4>Awesome, she's paying attention, she's remembering.

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<v Speaker 1>Put it on a shelf. You'll always know, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we give her a check mark for her gift? What

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<v Speaker 1>did you get her?

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<v Speaker 3>So it might sound a little crazy, Okay, but let

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<v Speaker 3>me flink. What it's called a long distance love lamp?

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<v Speaker 2>A long long distance love?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a little bit what is a little overwhelmed? Already

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<v Speaker 2>explain tell Jeffrey what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I know what they are, something like you know, work

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<v Speaker 3>far away? Right?

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<v Speaker 5>If I touched mine, hers will glow, you see, like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. It's a way of touching each other and turning

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<v Speaker 1>each other on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm faking, not exactly. It doesn't have to be like couples.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. It's like family.

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<v Speaker 4>Feel doesn't say love lamp on the box when you

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<v Speaker 4>hand it to it, because that I think is gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be key.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no, no. If I had the lamp out

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<v Speaker 3>of the box, you know, I had to like, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Up good, Okay, So it's just the lamp that she.

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<v Speaker 1>Gets, So you're just handing her a lamp.

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<v Speaker 2>What was her reaction at first?

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<v Speaker 3>She was like a little confused, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't know what it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, he gave me a lamp.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a typical first day gift gift.

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<v Speaker 5>I like lamp, okay, right right right, So then I

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<v Speaker 5>had to explain to her the same thing I just

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<v Speaker 5>told you guys right now too.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>You know she was like, oh wow, that's so sweet,

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<v Speaker 3>and she's like, nobody never gave me a lamp before.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh she liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis if a guy gave you a love lamp on

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<v Speaker 1>your first meet up? I see, I didn't get to

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<v Speaker 1>finish asking the question, order shouted, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't really not a pan. It's just what if you

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<v Speaker 2>have another guy over when it's going off, Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>my fear. Like she's like, you can't even think about that.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be exclusive, Like I don't want a

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<v Speaker 2>guy over.

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<v Speaker 4>And this lamp was flashing in the corner and he's.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you had a lot of long conversations, like I'm

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<v Speaker 5>getting so open, you know, it's like I'm not seeing

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<v Speaker 5>nobody else.

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<v Speaker 3>I really really dig this girl. I mean she was

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, she's so hot, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're putting all your cards on the table with

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<v Speaker 1>this well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, man, And you know I give her a lamp.

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<v Speaker 1>You're putting all those lamps on the table. Whatever you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing the rest of the date.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So the day was awesome. Okay, we talked

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<v Speaker 3>for hours and even we kept having some drinks and

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<v Speaker 3>I went to her house.

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<v Speaker 2>Her house, it into the lamp, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, I make sure the lamp was on.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, have you used the lamp since your last date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, every single day, especially night time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, have you gotten the light back or is it

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<v Speaker 2>just you lighting her up?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this is the thing. At first, mine was glowing

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<v Speaker 3>all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Now it's not really lighting up that much anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>The lights have gone out on love Jess.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. But then I text her and she doesn't really respond.

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<v Speaker 1>Or to ask about the texting because the lamps aside,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not texting. That's a big.

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<v Speaker 2>Lampless and loveless.

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<v Speaker 1>It's tough doing a long distance relationship thing. Your date

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<v Speaker 1>does sound pretty lit to me. But we're gonna come

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<v Speaker 1>back and we'll call it Josie for you and try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you a second date update. Get that light

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<v Speaker 1>glowing again right after this.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, all right, thanks guys, all right, man, hold

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<v Speaker 5>on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks said something pretty profound in the first part of

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<v Speaker 1>the second date call. Kind of hit it right on

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<v Speaker 1>the nose when she said, and now their love.

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<v Speaker 6>Light has gone dark, sinking deep into the abyss of

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<v Speaker 6>eternal loneliness, like the lost ship in the middle of

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<v Speaker 6>the Atlantic Ocean that's lost all power, and as the

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<v Speaker 6>crew is jumping overboard into the icy waters, the boat

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<v Speaker 6>takes on more water and all hope and have is

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<v Speaker 6>lost forever and always.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just paraphrasing what she said. It was something along

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<v Speaker 1>along those lines.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm actually hopeful that this love story doesn't end as

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<v Speaker 4>tragically as the one you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, your love story that you painted in the

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<v Speaker 1>first part, I'm just trying to paraphrase. Because Enrique and

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<v Speaker 1>his date Josie agreed to exchange gifts when they had

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<v Speaker 1>their first meet up, and she got him a spider

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<v Speaker 1>Man toy because he's into Spider Man. He got her

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<v Speaker 1>a long distance love lamp, which is where if you

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<v Speaker 1>touch yours, their lamp lights up on their end to

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<v Speaker 1>show that you're thinking of them.

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<v Speaker 4>And apparently they were using it back and forth for

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<v Speaker 4>a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>At least in the first few days, it was going

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<v Speaker 1>off like a strobe light at a Tiesto concert. Lately,

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<v Speaker 1>not only is the lamp dimming, so are in Rique's

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<v Speaker 1>hopes for a second date. Enrique, any thoughts that you'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to share over some sad depressing music. Now's your chance.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a little sad right now where you're playing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm sorry, but that's it's just the image that

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<v Speaker 1>Broke paints with her words.

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<v Speaker 5>Me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just bringing them to light. Yeah, okay, the light

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<v Speaker 1>that's happening in your Yes. So again, I'm just or

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<v Speaker 1>I'll here for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, were together, man.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm hole just like those sailors were when they

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<v Speaker 1>left the dog dial Josie for you right now here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Josie. Hey, Josie.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you know us. We're a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Josie, Hey, Hi, we.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a lot that we'd like to talk to you about.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners says that he went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with you not too long ago and had an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing time.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, am I on the radio right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the star of the hour, and your co star,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully is the guy that you were with named Enrique.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I know Enrique.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, Well we know a little bit about Enrique

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<v Speaker 1>and your guys' date because he told us some details

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<v Speaker 1>from it. It sounded pretty good on our end.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it sounded flirty, fun. You guys had maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of margarita's, which is always a positive.

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<v Speaker 1>That we thought. It was interesting that you guys decided

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<v Speaker 1>to exchange gifts before you even met each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, Okay, how'd you feel about the lamp that he

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<v Speaker 1>gave you?

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<v Speaker 3>I I actually loved the lamp gift. I thought it

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<v Speaker 3>was so thoughtful. I thought it was a really sweet

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<v Speaker 3>gesture from him.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, you didn't think it was.

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<v Speaker 1>People were thinking it may have been too much, too soon.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we are kind of long distance, so it meant more.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, still, you still consider yourself currently long distance with him.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not currently, but we were long dist him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, you were still thinking it.

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<v Speaker 1>So but you said that you liked the lamp gift,

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<v Speaker 1>and we heard that you guys were using it at

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<v Speaker 1>least for a little while after the date. Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not sure what's changed since then.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I I think he's a cheater.

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<v Speaker 2>What a cheater? What?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you think he's a cheater?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? I know he's a cheater. Well, we share locations

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<v Speaker 3>on our phone, so we can see where each other

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<v Speaker 3>are already.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very close with each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's kind strong and like we knew like when

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<v Speaker 3>to call each other and all that stuff. And then

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<v Speaker 3>a few times my lamp will light up and I

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<v Speaker 3>will look at his location, and he was out somewhere.

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<v Speaker 4>Else, not at his house the lamp exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>I would side piece touch a lamp.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if that was true, he would be out with

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<v Speaker 1>the side piece most likely not leaving her at his

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<v Speaker 1>place to touch and mess around and cluster lamp exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I think he's either married.

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<v Speaker 2>Or have a living girlfriend there.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're the side piece in that.

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<v Speaker 2>Case he bought himself.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you're misreading something here, because he wouldn't call

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<v Speaker 4>a radio show and ask us to publicly ask you

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<v Speaker 4>out again. If he was cheating, that would be I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>unless he's really dumb, that.

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<v Speaker 1>Would be real. It's really really big to jump to

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<v Speaker 1>conclusions like that. And look, the love lamp that he

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<v Speaker 1>gave us for our studio is lighting up, which I

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<v Speaker 1>think means that he wants to talk to you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's actually on the other line listening.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we don't really have a love lamp. I

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<v Speaker 1>made that up, but he is on the other line.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't want to talk to a cheater.

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<v Speaker 1>What, well, just give him a chance. Hear him out.

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<v Speaker 1>There might be some misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, Josie, Josie, I'm not cheating on you, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I swear I'm on you.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, dude, I'm not buying it.

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<v Speaker 2>God, it's so hard.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so hard to stay your case when someone says

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<v Speaker 4>you're a cheater, because when you say you're not a cheater,

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<v Speaker 4>it sounds more like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like I'm innocent. That's what's going on with your lamp?

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, And I don't hear any excuses like, oh, your

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<v Speaker 3>dog is touching the lamp, or it's all by mistake,

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<v Speaker 3>it's faulty, or whatever it is, because I'm not going

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<v Speaker 3>to buy it.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a dog, oh girl joking?

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<v Speaker 3>I am the one touching the lamp. I am the one.

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<v Speaker 3>I take it with me everywhere I go. If I

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<v Speaker 3>go to a cafe.

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<v Speaker 1>Wa, go to a bar? Are you kidding?

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<v Speaker 3>Bro?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to guys, I like this girl so much

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<v Speaker 5>that I carry this lamp with me everywhere I go.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, you go to a wait, hold on, you go

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<v Speaker 1>to a shop and plug the lamp in just to

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<v Speaker 1>touch it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the same level somehow.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook, How are you feeling right now accusing him such

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<v Speaker 1>horrible things? Early?

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<v Speaker 4>All with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Just the visual of him walking down the street with.

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<v Speaker 1>A lamp, Imrika, you don't have to take that from her.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really cute, Rikae. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>No, well all right, but wait, wait, you guys know

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<v Speaker 3>how you want to go with your phone here trying

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<v Speaker 3>to plug your phone somewhere?

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<v Speaker 1>Right's the thing at the airport with a big old lamp.

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<v Speaker 1>You asked the bartender if you can unplug the jukebox

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<v Speaker 1>for just a second so I can touch my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>two hours away.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Josie, what do you think.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not behind this dude.

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<v Speaker 4>No man would ever say something that embarrassing unless it

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<v Speaker 4>was true.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're giving him a really hard time, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing a great job like defending himself. I'm actually kind

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<v Speaker 1>of believing him on this Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I swear my grandmother's grave. I take that lamp everywhere

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<v Speaker 3>I go. I wanted to show this girl that how

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<v Speaker 3>much I like her, and I want to take her.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a love lamp in his grandmother's grave too,

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<v Speaker 1>so that he can show some love to his dead.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going off. She's right, it's going on. I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>But Josie, it feels like you two are like meant

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<v Speaker 2>for each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you would just trust him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you guys really think I should believe him? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and we get if you carry the lamp with

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<v Speaker 1>you everywhere? Do you have it with you right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Could you turn it on?

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<v Speaker 3>Bro?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I could just go in the trunk of

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<v Speaker 3>my car and get her right now, and I can

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<v Speaker 3>plug it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we have time for that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know my highlander has a plugin for.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Brook will drive her Highlander over to where you

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<v Speaker 1>are and you can plug in.

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<v Speaker 2>Your lamp car like that.

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<v Speaker 1>The lamp on. While this was a terrible idea, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying I believe him, Josie. I think the whole

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<v Speaker 1>room believes him. That he carries this lamp around to

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<v Speaker 1>prove that he's that into you.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's not a cheater. He wouldn't call in and

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<v Speaker 2>do this over the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I do disagree with Brook on that point, but everything

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<v Speaker 1>else that we said, I think it's true. And we'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to sends you two out on another date that

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<v Speaker 1>we would pay for if you're up.

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<v Speaker 4>For a Josie, what if he took you to his

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<v Speaker 4>house to prove that he doesn't live with anybody else.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, look, come over to my house and you could

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<v Speaker 5>see the lamp and I'll definitely have the light on again,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, with your lamp and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll make something fun out of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Josie, Philip winning you over a little bit here, Josie,

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<v Speaker 1>one more chance. Come on?

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<v Speaker 3>Now, that's actually pretty sweet. I have to say, he's

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<v Speaker 3>just you are quite the charmer, Enrique. I have to

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<v Speaker 3>wow with that. Yeah. Well, oh my god, he's busting

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<v Speaker 3>out the Spanish. Now okay, so is.

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<v Speaker 1>That a yes, Josie, Yes, that's my leg.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you do freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh spoiler alert, not to ruin the surprise, but Jose

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<v Speaker 1>just bought all of us love lamps for Christmas. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're welcome, because gift giving is my love language.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tap for you, broken Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys decide to go on vacation in Europe again,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you have the right adapters so that you

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<v Speaker 1>could plug that baby and get some Papa Bear love

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<v Speaker 1>across the scene. I think As already has like seven

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<v Speaker 1>love lambs.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think they're in a room. I think they're

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<v Speaker 2>in the garbage again.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there's a lot of judgment about the love lambs,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was actually perfect for this couple. I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>happy for that. They seem like they might actually be

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<v Speaker 1>a good bit.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the type of thing. It gives you hope

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<v Speaker 2>that there's someone for everyone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Serious, No matter if you're the guy walking down

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<v Speaker 4>the street holding a lamb, you found love.

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<v Speaker 1>And that could be you. If you want to email

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<v Speaker 1>the show, we'll call that person not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure to listen to all our second date updates

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<v Speaker 1>on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get

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<v Speaker 1>your podcast and Jeffrey in the morning