Speaker 1: Second date up date. Women. Women are always saying that
Speaker 1: they want to stand up guy, and then a man
Speaker 1: gives them exactly that stands them up and suddenly.
Speaker 2: All upset.
Speaker 1: What is it, ladies? You want a stand up guy?
Speaker 3: Or don't you not a stand me up guy?
Speaker 1: You clearly don't know what you want. That's why obvious
Speaker 1: Nick stood his date up and now suddenly she's being
Speaker 1: all weird about it. He just can't win, can we?
Speaker 4: Man? Apparently not? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Right, you're calling because you feel bad, right, Nicko?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I think you hit the nail on the head,
Speaker 5: like I on this one, Bro, why did you stand
Speaker 5: her up?
Speaker 1: Okay, well yeah we'll get to why. First tell us
Speaker 1: about this needy lady? Who is she?
Speaker 4: God?
Speaker 3: She just wants someone to actually be there when she
Speaker 3: has a date and attention to her.
Speaker 2: She didn't even say that, Yeah, just show up? I
Speaker 2: think was.
Speaker 1: The what's her name?
Speaker 4: Sally?
Speaker 1: Sally on the valley? And how did you meet?
Speaker 4: We met on on an app? Like how do people
Speaker 4: meet otherwise? These days?
Speaker 2: I mean, every once in a while, it's like Instagram.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a different, But even when you meet
Speaker 1: people in real life, you're like, Okay, now talk to
Speaker 1: me on Instagram. You know, what did you like about Sally?
Speaker 5: Well, I don't mean this in a shallow way, but like,
Speaker 5: there was this picture she had of her in a
Speaker 5: red dress, and there's something about a girl in a
Speaker 5: red dress and the way that Sally looked at it.
Speaker 4: I was like, I need to talk to this girl.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's shallow.
Speaker 3: I mean that's how it's all done, right, especially when
Speaker 3: you only have a picture really to go on.
Speaker 2: It's nice what I expected. Yeah, I thought he was
Speaker 2: going to say boobs.
Speaker 1: Those were in so much. From reading your email, Nick,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you went on one day, but you
Speaker 1: stood her up on date two. Oh my gosh, Nick,
Speaker 1: Well what happened on date one?
Speaker 5: Well, the one was pretty cool because we went to
Speaker 5: like an old school rap concert.
Speaker 4: I thought it was a good choice to be fun,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 5: I thought we had a great time. We actually kissed
Speaker 5: while we were dancing. It went really, it went really well.
Speaker 3: You had a great time the first date. Obviously, she
Speaker 3: thought so too. What did you plan for the second?
Speaker 4: Well, a more traditional date. I thought, okay, well, hey,
Speaker 4: let's let's get a place where we could talk more proper. Date.
Speaker 1: That was her idea, huh said I thought, I said,
Speaker 1: I thought, okay, sure, but a gentleman, you want to
Speaker 1: talk to her. That's nice.
Speaker 2: So you guys are going to meet at the restaurant.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were going to meet at the restaurant. And
Speaker 4: then I fully admit this was my fault.
Speaker 1: What happened.
Speaker 5: So I had to go by my ex's house and
Speaker 5: I had to pick up the cable box because I
Speaker 5: had to turn in the cable box because we're no longer,
Speaker 5: you know, together in that way, okay, And I ended
Speaker 5: up spending a little more time there than expected.
Speaker 2: It sounds like you were hooking up with your ex.
Speaker 4: Truth be told, we did hook up.
Speaker 5: It it was kind of like a farewell, we're not
Speaker 5: getting back together.
Speaker 2: But literally you're on the way to meet Sally. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you couldn't have done it the night before?
Speaker 4: Yeah, for real, I don't want to tell I'm just
Speaker 4: being honest about it.
Speaker 1: But does it really matter if it happened the night before?
Speaker 1: Does that make a difference to you? Okay? So what
Speaker 1: didn't What are your appropriate time period, like an hour
Speaker 1: before the date would have been okay?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, just so he can be clean and
Speaker 3: not be thinking of the last person.
Speaker 2: I mean he was.
Speaker 1: Never though he never met up with Yeah, it sounds
Speaker 1: like he never even met her. So he did her
Speaker 1: a favor by not showing up. Okay, that's a gentleman, moved,
Speaker 1: very gentleman.
Speaker 2: Did we hear the excuse that he used? Like, what
Speaker 2: did you say? Would you say to Sally?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh I can't. I couldn't think of something.
Speaker 5: And I told her that I took a nap and
Speaker 5: my arm stalls sleep and I wasn't comfortable driving because
Speaker 5: my arms were so kind of asleep.
Speaker 4: So I played on them, said took a nap.
Speaker 2: I was like, that's not bad and there dude.
Speaker 5: No, because they're not be awake and I'd.
Speaker 4: Have to go.
Speaker 2: You didn't want to go at that point? I see,
Speaker 2: I didn't get that.
Speaker 1: Because of what you said from one to another with
Speaker 1: classic coma arms exceed I think that was a solid choice.
Speaker 2: And what did she reply? I mean she's already sitting
Speaker 2: at the restaurant at that point.
Speaker 4: Yeah she didn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she knows you're excuse. That's obvious.
Speaker 4: You're made that up.
Speaker 1: That's rude that she didn't respond back to you.
Speaker 2: She's true, not trude. Oh geez man.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you got what you had coming to you,
Speaker 1: which is getting ghosted, and now you want us to
Speaker 1: salvage it.
Speaker 5: I'm guessing, Okay, Well Brook, Yeah, I always say, Hey,
Speaker 5: the best way is just be honest about it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like what I got to lose at this point?
Speaker 1: You're happy, Brook? It is true, Brooke doesn't. Brook does
Speaker 1: say if you have to be one hundred percent honest
Speaker 1: with whoever your days.
Speaker 6: Say that a lot.
Speaker 2: She doesn't need this information. This isn't going to make
Speaker 2: her feel better.
Speaker 5: I like her, and I want to continue this, and
Speaker 5: I think it's better to have, like to start out
Speaker 5: with the honesty. I hopefully she'll respect that. And but
Speaker 5: like I'm leaning that way, but I'm suggestions.
Speaker 4: If you guys think there's a better.
Speaker 1: Tragedy is the one that's gonna guide you.
Speaker 3: I mean, I you know, I was like hooking back
Speaker 3: up with my ex when I met my husband.
Speaker 1: The truth comes in.
Speaker 7: I know that.
Speaker 2: I mean he knew that my ex was coming into
Speaker 2: town at one.
Speaker 3: Because I mean he knew, but then like the X
Speaker 3: came and I was like, ah, he sucks.
Speaker 2: I really like this other guy better.
Speaker 1: But We've been doing the show for a really long time,
Speaker 1: and I did not know that there was overlap with
Speaker 1: your husband and your own.
Speaker 3: I mean, we weren't together like the other side Michael
Speaker 3: as to this, I was coming out of a relationship
Speaker 3: to you know, things are messy.
Speaker 1: Other got married. Okay, Well, we'll be back with Brooks
Speaker 1: stories and also getting a second date update for Nick.
Speaker 1: Sore arms too terribly Right after this hold on Nick
Speaker 1: second date update, we just heard an admission of guilt.
Speaker 1: Yeah we did not from Brook I mean, yeah, we
Speaker 1: did hear about some weird stuff going on there. I
Speaker 1: was talking about from our listener Nick, who says he
Speaker 1: wants to come clean about the real reason that he
Speaker 1: didn't show up to his second date with Sally. And look,
Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable saying this, Like, even if you
Speaker 1: wanted to happen, Nick, that's gonna be your choice and
Speaker 1: it has to come from you and your mouth. I agree,
Speaker 1: because we were joking a lot. So you should probably
Speaker 1: think really hard if this is honestly the best way
Speaker 1: to go about it, because I know you're telling us
Speaker 1: you think honesty is important, but for you to admit
Speaker 1: that you blew off Sally that night to hook up
Speaker 1: with your ex one final time. You know that sounds bad, right?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I do.
Speaker 7: Okay, maybe you just say I was spending time with
Speaker 7: my ex.
Speaker 2: That sounds like you're trying to get back together. But
Speaker 2: I think that's what the whole relationship will be like.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think you just try to leave that
Speaker 3: part out as much as possible. Move forward, talk about
Speaker 3: what you want to happen, not what happened.
Speaker 1: I mean, we never know how these calls are going
Speaker 1: to go before you make them, so Nick, you have
Speaker 1: to pick the right time if you want to do it.
Speaker 1: But I'm not going to say it. No one in
Speaker 1: this room is going to say it has to come
Speaker 1: from you.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I totally agree.
Speaker 4: You go with that, Nick, Yeah, I'll just play it.
Speaker 4: I'll see how the conversation goes.
Speaker 1: Just don't play it by your arms. We can't count
Speaker 1: on those boys.
Speaker 2: He said that they were dead and that's why I
Speaker 2: couldn't drive.
Speaker 1: All right, man, we're wishing you luck. I'm wishing myself.
Speaker 1: We're going to make this call right now here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hey is it Sally?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What's up, Sally? My name is Jeff from the radio
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing.
Speaker 7: Oh, I'm good, Okay, what's up?
Speaker 1: Hi, Sally whole show is here. We all want to
Speaker 1: talk to you about a guy that you went on
Speaker 1: a date with the other night. Well, you went on
Speaker 1: one day with him and then not another date with him.
Speaker 1: His name's Nick.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh, doesn't sound like a surprise to you at all.
Speaker 7: I'm surprised that he gets a colony about him. He
Speaker 7: should know I'm not responding to him, and I'm definitely Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, I think he understands that. He admits that he
Speaker 1: messed up by not showing up that night to dinner.
Speaker 7: Okay, good for him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I being were you already at the
Speaker 3: restaurant when he texted you that he wasn't going to
Speaker 3: make it?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I was already sitting there. First of all, he didn't
Speaker 7: even call. He texted first problem right there? Yeah, Oh,
Speaker 7: you're already late. You texted me after the fact that
Speaker 7: you're already late and sitting looking at this restaurant looking
Speaker 7: like an idiot, and then you text me this ridiculous
Speaker 7: excuse about your arms falling asleep and you're not being
Speaker 7: able to drive.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was pretty lame, super mad too.
Speaker 1: I will say that does happen to me all the time.
Speaker 2: Arms dead and you can't you can't drive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a problem. That doesn't mean that Nick feels
Speaker 1: good about that. He still is very, very very regretful
Speaker 1: of how that night played out.
Speaker 7: So did he tell you that that was a true
Speaker 7: thing or like, was that a lie? Because that's an
Speaker 7: unbelievable story.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know what the truth is. Only Nick
Speaker 1: knows what the truth of that night is. We're just
Speaker 1: trying to help help him get back in touch with you.
Speaker 2: He did.
Speaker 3: I mean, he said he was an idiot for messing
Speaker 3: up the second date with you, and that he had
Speaker 3: a great time when you guys went to the concert
Speaker 3: the first day, and I think he really saw potential
Speaker 3: of you two together.
Speaker 7: I mean that's why it's even more annoying because we
Speaker 7: did have such a great time. We even shared a kiss,
Speaker 7: Like I did want to see him again. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 7: hoping to hearing what he has to say, but I'm
Speaker 7: pretty just they were sated, right, that's understandable.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean you have to think about this.
Speaker 1: We understand how frustrating and disappointing. It must have been
Speaker 1: from your end, but from Nick's end, Like in order
Speaker 1: for him to organize this second date update, it's a
Speaker 1: lot of work to email us, to have to talk
Speaker 1: to our producers and arrange a time to come on
Speaker 1: the show and reach out to you. It shows that
Speaker 1: he really does care about you.
Speaker 7: So, I mean, you guys can have him reach out
Speaker 7: to me. That's fine, but I'm not giving in the
Speaker 7: guarantees to anything.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, progress, Well what I can actually do you
Speaker 1: one better? And instead of having him reach out after,
Speaker 1: I'll have have him reach out Right now, he is
Speaker 1: on the other line and he wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7: So he heard everything I just said.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot worse things.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would have unless he fell asleep
Speaker 1: on his ears and they're not working. He's got the
Speaker 1: tingles again.
Speaker 7: Wow.
Speaker 6: Okay, Hi Sally, Hey, uh, I'm glad that we're talking.
Speaker 1: That sweet all right?
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, what do you even want to say to me?
Speaker 4: What do you have to say for yourself?
Speaker 5: Well, one, I want to say, I'm I'm sorry that
Speaker 5: and that I know I goofed up and like, yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm I'm the idiot here.
Speaker 4: So this one's on me.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a big move.
Speaker 4: I like you, Sally.
Speaker 5: I think we had a great time, and I wouldn't
Speaker 5: keep pursuing this if it wasn't a genuine feeling I
Speaker 5: have for you.
Speaker 7: Okay, Nick, listen, just just stop for a second.
Speaker 4: Just tell me the truth.
Speaker 7: What really happened?
Speaker 4: Well, a good question.
Speaker 1: There's a compliment. I think she's talking about the dead
Speaker 1: arms thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, let's let's start there.
Speaker 5: Okay, my arms didn't fall asleep that day, so that
Speaker 5: text was not accurate.
Speaker 3: I bet Sally's got such a shot face on the
Speaker 3: other line.
Speaker 4: True, I like, I want I want to pursue this
Speaker 4: and be honest.
Speaker 5: And I was debating like telling you, but if I
Speaker 5: do get to go out with you again, I don't
Speaker 5: want to be thinking about like what happened and how
Speaker 5: I goofed up.
Speaker 4: I want to just say it in honesty.
Speaker 1: Okay, Sally, can we agree to do that? If he
Speaker 1: tells you the truth, will you guarantee you go out
Speaker 1: on another date with him?
Speaker 5: What, Sally, not what he.
Speaker 1: Tells the truth and you give him another date.
Speaker 7: I would listen to what he said and we'll go
Speaker 7: from there.
Speaker 1: Well, Nick, this is your moment to come clean.
Speaker 4: Now I'm nervous.
Speaker 5: Okay, what happened is I went to go pick up
Speaker 5: a cable.
Speaker 4: Box from my ex's place, and I inadvertently stayed there
Speaker 4: longer than I should have.
Speaker 6: And it was like things happened and it meant nothing,
Speaker 6: and it was like the very last time, and it
Speaker 6: didn't feel right going to dinner with you right after.
Speaker 6: And then I'm like, you know how sometimes you like
Speaker 6: when you make a mistake like.
Speaker 5: That and you realize, like why I shouldn't do that?
Speaker 4: I really like this as a girl, Sally.
Speaker 7: All I can say is wow, Yeah, who does that?
Speaker 2: What do you mean, like, who does the hook up?
Speaker 1: You did say anything about hookup?
Speaker 2: Yeah you did, and.
Speaker 7: They hooked up. I'm not an idiot.
Speaker 1: Hello, Yes, I never heard those words. Okay, Jes you
Speaker 1: can said you stayed there longer and that you wanted.
Speaker 2: Said I did stuff you shouldn't have. You said stuff happened,
Speaker 2: then you say stuff is. She's not a moron.
Speaker 7: It's one thing to have a moment of weakness and
Speaker 7: hook up. That's fine. We weren't in no committed relationship.
Speaker 7: That's not the issue. The issue is you knew you
Speaker 7: were going on a date with me. If this would
Speaker 7: have happened on any other day whatever, But you knew
Speaker 7: you were going to come see me, and you still
Speaker 7: had the thought process to go and hook.
Speaker 3: Up with your ex.
Speaker 4: Well, no, I didn't go there to go hook up
Speaker 4: with her. I want there to get a cable box. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and you went there. Happened, And here's how I was thinking.
Speaker 4: And again, obviously bad move and my mistake.
Speaker 5: But like what I was thinking was like, oh, well, okay,
Speaker 5: I just hooked.
Speaker 4: Up with my ex. Now I'm going to go out
Speaker 4: to dinner with her. That seemed worse to me.
Speaker 7: You don't get kudos for because you knew you were
Speaker 7: going on a date before he looked up.
Speaker 5: I mean that's through herself.
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. I mean I can see her side too.
Speaker 3: Like, like we said, you should have picked up the
Speaker 3: cable box the night before.
Speaker 2: It would have made all the difference when you stop
Speaker 2: by your exes.
Speaker 1: You know, exactly, whenever anybody touches a cable box, the
Speaker 1: mood just as set.
Speaker 3: Is there anything he could do, sally to like get
Speaker 3: in your good graces.
Speaker 7: Again, there's a million other idiots on those dating apps
Speaker 7: that I can talk to. I don't need to put
Speaker 7: up with this.
Speaker 1: Okay, of all those other million other idiots on the
Speaker 1: dating apps, all those million other idiots probably have x'es
Speaker 1: with cable boxes too, and you're just gonna end up
Speaker 1: right back here in the same situation. Nick actually has
Speaker 1: gone through this entire process. You know, he's fallen on
Speaker 1: his sword just for the chance to see you one
Speaker 1: more time.
Speaker 7: Good for him. Yeah, and let me say this, just
Speaker 7: because there's a possibility that I'm going to run into
Speaker 7: another idiot with a cable box and an ex girlfriend
Speaker 7: doesn't mean that I'm not going to continue to wead
Speaker 7: them out because I don't want to end up with
Speaker 7: someone like that.
Speaker 2: You're Sally needs to be a dating coach. Yeah, that's good, Sally.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it really didn't work out. No, I was open.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't put it one hundred percent on you, Nick,
Speaker 1: I would put part of it on Brooke and her
Speaker 1: dumb one hundred percent honesty theory.
Speaker 2: Not to tell all the details, Jeffery, I know.
Speaker 4: I didn't know the details.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's actually get some of those details.
Speaker 2: What really happened, Jeffrey in the morning,