WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: The Truth Will Set You Free

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date. Women. Women are always saying that

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<v Speaker 1>they want to stand up guy, and then a man

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<v Speaker 1>gives them exactly that stands them up and suddenly.

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<v Speaker 2>All upset.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it, ladies? You want a stand up guy?

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<v Speaker 3>Or don't you not a stand me up guy?

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<v Speaker 1>You clearly don't know what you want. That's why obvious

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<v Speaker 1>Nick stood his date up and now suddenly she's being

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<v Speaker 1>all weird about it. He just can't win, can we?

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<v Speaker 4>Man? Apparently not? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, you're calling because you feel bad, right, Nicko?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I think you hit the nail on the head,

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<v Speaker 5>like I on this one, Bro, why did you stand

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<v Speaker 5>her up?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well yeah we'll get to why. First tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about this needy lady? Who is she?

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<v Speaker 4>God?

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<v Speaker 3>She just wants someone to actually be there when she

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<v Speaker 3>has a date and attention to her.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't even say that, Yeah, just show up? I

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<v Speaker 2>think was.

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<v Speaker 1>The what's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Sally?

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<v Speaker 1>Sally on the valley? And how did you meet?

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<v Speaker 4>We met on on an app? Like how do people

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<v Speaker 4>meet otherwise? These days?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, every once in a while, it's like Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, that's a different, But even when you meet

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<v Speaker 1>people in real life, you're like, Okay, now talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me on Instagram. You know, what did you like about Sally?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't mean this in a shallow way, but like,

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<v Speaker 5>there was this picture she had of her in a

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<v Speaker 5>red dress, and there's something about a girl in a

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<v Speaker 5>red dress and the way that Sally looked at it.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I need to talk to this girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's shallow.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's how it's all done, right, especially when

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<v Speaker 3>you only have a picture really to go on.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nice what I expected. Yeah, I thought he was

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<v Speaker 2>going to say boobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Those were in so much. From reading your email, Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you went on one day, but you

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<v Speaker 1>stood her up on date two. Oh my gosh, Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>Well what happened on date one?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the one was pretty cool because we went to

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<v Speaker 5>like an old school rap concert.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was a good choice to be fun,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought we had a great time. We actually kissed

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<v Speaker 5>while we were dancing. It went really, it went really well.

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<v Speaker 3>You had a great time the first date. Obviously, she

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<v Speaker 3>thought so too. What did you plan for the second?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, a more traditional date. I thought, okay, well, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>let's let's get a place where we could talk more proper. Date.

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<v Speaker 1>That was her idea, huh said I thought, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, okay, sure, but a gentleman, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her. That's nice.

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<v Speaker 2>So you guys are going to meet at the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we were going to meet at the restaurant. And

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<v Speaker 4>then I fully admit this was my fault.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened.

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<v Speaker 5>So I had to go by my ex's house and

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<v Speaker 5>I had to pick up the cable box because I

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<v Speaker 5>had to turn in the cable box because we're no longer,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, together in that way, okay, And I ended

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<v Speaker 5>up spending a little more time there than expected.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you were hooking up with your ex.

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<v Speaker 4>Truth be told, we did hook up.

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<v Speaker 5>It it was kind of like a farewell, we're not

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<v Speaker 5>getting back together.

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<v Speaker 2>But literally you're on the way to meet Sally. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you couldn't have done it the night before?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for real, I don't want to tell I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>being honest about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But does it really matter if it happened the night before?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that make a difference to you? Okay? So what

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<v Speaker 1>didn't What are your appropriate time period, like an hour

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<v Speaker 1>before the date would have been okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, just so he can be clean and

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<v Speaker 3>not be thinking of the last person.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he was.

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<v Speaker 1>Never though he never met up with Yeah, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he never even met her. So he did her

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<v Speaker 1>a favor by not showing up. Okay, that's a gentleman, moved,

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<v Speaker 1>very gentleman.

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<v Speaker 2>Did we hear the excuse that he used? Like, what

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<v Speaker 2>did you say? Would you say to Sally?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh I can't. I couldn't think of something.

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<v Speaker 5>And I told her that I took a nap and

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<v Speaker 5>my arm stalls sleep and I wasn't comfortable driving because

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<v Speaker 5>my arms were so kind of asleep.

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<v Speaker 4>So I played on them, said took a nap.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that's not bad and there dude.

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<v Speaker 5>No, because they're not be awake and I'd.

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<v Speaker 4>Have to go.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't want to go at that point? I see,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because of what you said from one to another with

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<v Speaker 1>classic coma arms exceed I think that was a solid choice.

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<v Speaker 2>And what did she reply? I mean she's already sitting

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<v Speaker 2>at the restaurant at that point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah she didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she knows you're excuse. That's obvious.

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<v Speaker 4>You're made that up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's rude that she didn't respond back to you.

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<v Speaker 2>She's true, not trude. Oh geez man.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you got what you had coming to you,

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<v Speaker 1>which is getting ghosted, and now you want us to

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<v Speaker 1>salvage it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm guessing, Okay, Well Brook, Yeah, I always say, Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>the best way is just be honest about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like what I got to lose at this point?

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<v Speaker 1>You're happy, Brook? It is true, Brooke doesn't. Brook does

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<v Speaker 1>say if you have to be one hundred percent honest

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<v Speaker 1>with whoever your days.

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<v Speaker 6>Say that a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't need this information. This isn't going to make

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<v Speaker 2>her feel better.

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<v Speaker 5>I like her, and I want to continue this, and

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's better to have, like to start out

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<v Speaker 5>with the honesty. I hopefully she'll respect that. And but

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<v Speaker 5>like I'm leaning that way, but I'm suggestions.

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<v Speaker 4>If you guys think there's a better.

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<v Speaker 1>Tragedy is the one that's gonna guide you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I you know, I was like hooking back

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<v Speaker 3>up with my ex when I met my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>The truth comes in.

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<v Speaker 7>I know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he knew that my ex was coming into

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<v Speaker 2>town at one.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I mean he knew, but then like the X

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<v Speaker 3>came and I was like, ah, he sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>I really like this other guy better.

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<v Speaker 1>But We've been doing the show for a really long time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did not know that there was overlap with

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<v Speaker 1>your husband and your own.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we weren't together like the other side Michael

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<v Speaker 3>as to this, I was coming out of a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>to you know, things are messy.

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<v Speaker 1>Other got married. Okay, Well, we'll be back with Brooks

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<v Speaker 1>stories and also getting a second date update for Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>Sore arms too terribly Right after this hold on Nick

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, we just heard an admission of guilt.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah we did not from Brook I mean, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>did hear about some weird stuff going on there. I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about from our listener Nick, who says he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to come clean about the real reason that he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't show up to his second date with Sally. And look,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel comfortable saying this, Like, even if you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to happen, Nick, that's gonna be your choice and

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<v Speaker 1>it has to come from you and your mouth. I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>because we were joking a lot. So you should probably

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<v Speaker 1>think really hard if this is honestly the best way

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<v Speaker 1>to go about it, because I know you're telling us

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<v Speaker 1>you think honesty is important, but for you to admit

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<v Speaker 1>that you blew off Sally that night to hook up

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<v Speaker 1>with your ex one final time. You know that sounds bad, right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah, I do.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, maybe you just say I was spending time with

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<v Speaker 7>my ex.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds like you're trying to get back together. But

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what the whole relationship will be like.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think you just try to leave that

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<v Speaker 3>part out as much as possible. Move forward, talk about

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<v Speaker 3>what you want to happen, not what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we never know how these calls are going

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<v Speaker 1>to go before you make them, so Nick, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to pick the right time if you want to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not going to say it. No one in

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<v Speaker 1>this room is going to say it has to come

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<v Speaker 1>from you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I totally agree.

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<v Speaker 4>You go with that, Nick, Yeah, I'll just play it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll see how the conversation goes.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't play it by your arms. We can't count

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<v Speaker 1>on those boys.

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<v Speaker 2>He said that they were dead and that's why I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't drive.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, we're wishing you luck. I'm wishing myself.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to make this call right now here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is it Sally?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Sally? My name is Jeff from the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, I'm good, Okay, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Sally whole show is here. We all want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you about a guy that you went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with the other night. Well, you went on

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<v Speaker 1>one day with him and then not another date with him.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Nick.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, doesn't sound like a surprise to you at all.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm surprised that he gets a colony about him. He

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<v Speaker 7>should know I'm not responding to him, and I'm definitely Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think he understands that. He admits that he

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<v Speaker 1>messed up by not showing up that night to dinner.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, good for him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I being were you already at the

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<v Speaker 3>restaurant when he texted you that he wasn't going to

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<v Speaker 3>make it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I was already sitting there. First of all, he didn't

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<v Speaker 7>even call. He texted first problem right there? Yeah, Oh,

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<v Speaker 7>you're already late. You texted me after the fact that

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<v Speaker 7>you're already late and sitting looking at this restaurant looking

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<v Speaker 7>like an idiot, and then you text me this ridiculous

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<v Speaker 7>excuse about your arms falling asleep and you're not being

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<v Speaker 7>able to drive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was pretty lame, super mad too.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that does happen to me all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Arms dead and you can't you can't drive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a problem. That doesn't mean that Nick feels

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<v Speaker 1>good about that. He still is very, very very regretful

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<v Speaker 1>of how that night played out.

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<v Speaker 7>So did he tell you that that was a true

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<v Speaker 7>thing or like, was that a lie? Because that's an

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<v Speaker 7>unbelievable story.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't know what the truth is. Only Nick

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<v Speaker 1>knows what the truth of that night is. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help help him get back in touch with you.

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<v Speaker 2>He did.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he said he was an idiot for messing

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<v Speaker 3>up the second date with you, and that he had

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<v Speaker 3>a great time when you guys went to the concert

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<v Speaker 3>the first day, and I think he really saw potential

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<v Speaker 3>of you two together.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean that's why it's even more annoying because we

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<v Speaker 7>did have such a great time. We even shared a kiss,

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<v Speaker 7>Like I did want to see him again. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>hoping to hearing what he has to say, but I'm

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<v Speaker 7>pretty just they were sated, right, that's understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I mean you have to think about this.

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<v Speaker 1>We understand how frustrating and disappointing. It must have been

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<v Speaker 1>from your end, but from Nick's end, Like in order

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<v Speaker 1>for him to organize this second date update, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of work to email us, to have to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to our producers and arrange a time to come on

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<v Speaker 1>the show and reach out to you. It shows that

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<v Speaker 1>he really does care about you.

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<v Speaker 7>So, I mean, you guys can have him reach out

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<v Speaker 7>to me. That's fine, but I'm not giving in the

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<v Speaker 7>guarantees to anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, progress, Well what I can actually do you

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<v Speaker 1>one better? And instead of having him reach out after,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have have him reach out Right now, he is

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line and he wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>So he heard everything I just said.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a lot worse things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I would have unless he fell asleep

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<v Speaker 1>on his ears and they're not working. He's got the

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<v Speaker 1>tingles again.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Hi Sally, Hey, uh, I'm glad that we're talking.

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<v Speaker 1>That sweet all right?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, well, what do you even want to say to me?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you have to say for yourself?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, one, I want to say, I'm I'm sorry that

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<v Speaker 5>and that I know I goofed up and like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm I'm the idiot here.

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<v Speaker 4>So this one's on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a big move.

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<v Speaker 4>I like you, Sally.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we had a great time, and I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 5>keep pursuing this if it wasn't a genuine feeling I

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<v Speaker 5>have for you.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Nick, listen, just just stop for a second.

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<v Speaker 4>Just tell me the truth.

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<v Speaker 7>What really happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a compliment. I think she's talking about the dead

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<v Speaker 1>arms thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, let's let's start there.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, my arms didn't fall asleep that day, so that

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<v Speaker 5>text was not accurate.

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<v Speaker 3>I bet Sally's got such a shot face on the

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<v Speaker 3>other line.

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<v Speaker 4>True, I like, I want I want to pursue this

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<v Speaker 4>and be honest.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was debating like telling you, but if I

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<v Speaker 5>do get to go out with you again, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want to be thinking about like what happened and how

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<v Speaker 5>I goofed up.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to just say it in honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Sally, can we agree to do that? If he

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<v Speaker 1>tells you the truth, will you guarantee you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with him?

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<v Speaker 5>What, Sally, not what he.

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<v Speaker 1>Tells the truth and you give him another date.

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<v Speaker 7>I would listen to what he said and we'll go

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<v Speaker 7>from there.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Nick, this is your moment to come clean.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I'm nervous.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, what happened is I went to go pick up

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<v Speaker 5>a cable.

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<v Speaker 4>Box from my ex's place, and I inadvertently stayed there

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<v Speaker 4>longer than I should have.

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<v Speaker 6>And it was like things happened and it meant nothing,

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<v Speaker 6>and it was like the very last time, and it

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<v Speaker 6>didn't feel right going to dinner with you right after.

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<v Speaker 6>And then I'm like, you know how sometimes you like

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<v Speaker 6>when you make a mistake like.

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<v Speaker 5>That and you realize, like why I shouldn't do that?

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<v Speaker 4>I really like this as a girl, Sally.

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<v Speaker 7>All I can say is wow, Yeah, who does that?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean, like, who does the hook up?

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<v Speaker 1>You did say anything about hookup?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you did, and.

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<v Speaker 7>They hooked up. I'm not an idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Yes, I never heard those words. Okay, Jes you

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<v Speaker 1>can said you stayed there longer and that you wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>Said I did stuff you shouldn't have. You said stuff happened,

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<v Speaker 2>then you say stuff is. She's not a moron.

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<v Speaker 7>It's one thing to have a moment of weakness and

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<v Speaker 7>hook up. That's fine. We weren't in no committed relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>That's not the issue. The issue is you knew you

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<v Speaker 7>were going on a date with me. If this would

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<v Speaker 7>have happened on any other day whatever, But you knew

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<v Speaker 7>you were going to come see me, and you still

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<v Speaker 7>had the thought process to go and hook.

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<v Speaker 3>Up with your ex.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, no, I didn't go there to go hook up

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<v Speaker 4>with her. I want there to get a cable box. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and you went there. Happened, And here's how I was thinking.

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<v Speaker 4>And again, obviously bad move and my mistake.

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<v Speaker 5>But like what I was thinking was like, oh, well, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I just hooked.

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<v Speaker 4>Up with my ex. Now I'm going to go out

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<v Speaker 4>to dinner with her. That seemed worse to me.

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<v Speaker 7>You don't get kudos for because you knew you were

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<v Speaker 7>going on a date before he looked up.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that's through herself.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't matter. I mean I can see her side too.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, like we said, you should have picked up the

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<v Speaker 3>cable box the night before.

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<v Speaker 2>It would have made all the difference when you stop

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<v Speaker 2>by your exes.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, exactly, whenever anybody touches a cable box, the

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<v Speaker 1>mood just as set.

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<v Speaker 3>Is there anything he could do, sally to like get

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<v Speaker 3>in your good graces.

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<v Speaker 7>Again, there's a million other idiots on those dating apps

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<v Speaker 7>that I can talk to. I don't need to put

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<v Speaker 7>up with this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, of all those other million other idiots on the

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps, all those million other idiots probably have x'es

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<v Speaker 1>with cable boxes too, and you're just gonna end up

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<v Speaker 1>right back here in the same situation. Nick actually has

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<v Speaker 1>gone through this entire process. You know, he's fallen on

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<v Speaker 1>his sword just for the chance to see you one

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<v Speaker 1>more time.

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<v Speaker 7>Good for him. Yeah, and let me say this, just

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<v Speaker 7>because there's a possibility that I'm going to run into

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<v Speaker 7>another idiot with a cable box and an ex girlfriend

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<v Speaker 7>doesn't mean that I'm not going to continue to wead

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<v Speaker 7>them out because I don't want to end up with

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<v Speaker 7>someone like that.

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<v Speaker 2>You're Sally needs to be a dating coach. Yeah, that's good, Sally.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it really didn't work out. No, I was open.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't put it one hundred percent on you, Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>I would put part of it on Brooke and her

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<v Speaker 1>dumb one hundred percent honesty theory.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to tell all the details, Jeffery, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know the details.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's actually get some of those details.

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<v Speaker 2>What really happened, Jeffrey in the morning,