WEBVTT - Seasonal D 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:05.520 Talk Talk Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women 0:00:05.720 --> 0:00:07.600 with an opinion to talk. 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:13.440 Ooh what's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:16.560 a new episode and we talked back a show dedicated 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:20.440 to you dreamers and chasers and everybody else. 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:21.319 Yeah. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:25.480 Today anyway, it's your co host AJ Holiday. 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:28.200 Y'all, It's me Tian Bama. I love y'all once again. 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:29.440 I love you AJ girl. 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.479 Thanksgiving just passed. Did you eat a lot? 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:38.519 Girl? I ate everything wasn't nailed to the table. I 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:41.479 went down to Montgomery, Alabama, where my sister lives. She 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:46.280 hosted this year, and I was only supposed to make. 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:50.559 I set everybody up with what they were supposed to do, 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:53.200 and they agreed to it, right, So I made sure 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:55.760 to make my lists very small of what I was 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:57.960 supposed to do. I was supposed to make a potter 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:04.120 rice and some deviled eggs, no mac. Tanisha was insistent 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.560 that it was her house and she was making the 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:17.319 mac and cheese this year. Fine, whatever. Before I knew it, 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:21.600 I had tone made the collar greens dressing, rice and gravy, 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:30.360 some meshed potatoes and deviled eggs, and I was helping 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:31.320 her with the mag. 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:36.080 Shame. She tried to show your mac up this year. 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:41.080 She tried, she tried. It wasn't mine. It was good, 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:44.039 but it wasn't mine. You know what I'm saying. You 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:46.800 did anything for the weekend? Oh yeah, we went to 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:52.320 We went to the museum, the Legacy Museum in Montgomery. 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:56.080 It was very I ain't want to be there. I 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.400 ran through it. I ain't gonna lie. I ran through it. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:00.800 That ship was like little chap of horrors. It was 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:02.960 literally like as soon as you walk in the museum, 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:08.200 niggas heads on the ground. What God, Yeah, it was 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:11.160 like they was in the ocean, the people who jumped 0:02:11.200 --> 0:02:14.560 off the boats, so all their heads was like down 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:17.320 in the sand and they just was like screaming and 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.040 you can hear chains, and I was like, I don't 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:23.640 want to put myself through this. They had like jars up. 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:27.760 They literally had people go to the places where we've 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:30.880 known black people were lyched and dig some of the 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:34.080 sand from under the tree and put it in the 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:37.079 jar and bring it there. So she looked there like, oh, 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:39.400 some of their DNA might be in that sand. 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:43.400 What is wrong with people? Like listen, I believe in 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:47.200 with Kraft period, I might do a little something something 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:50.839 that shit sounds crazy as hell to me that y'all 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:54.240 going to take remains from people and bind them in 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:58.600 a jar somewhere in a museum. Y'all doing replications of 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.880 people in the sand. That is weird. And that's just 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:03.280 like when we went to Memphis and y'all went to 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:04.240 that goddamn museum. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:08.280 That's what I not. That's what I said. I'm not 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:10.720 do none of that no more. It's just doesn't I 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:14.120 was like, do y'all feel good now like this? I 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.320 feel I feel sad. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:19.600 I have so much more, greater things that we could 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:21.120 put in a museum about black people. 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:26.200 I swear yeah. I was like, is this our legacy? 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:29.480 Because it's called the Legacy Museum, and what nothing but 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:30.400 black people there? 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:32.320 So it's like, it's not our legacy. 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:37.280 We're living our own trauma. I understand the importantness of 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.880 importance of knowing the history, but I don't feel like 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:43.120 that's for us. I think white people should go to 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:43.520 that ship. 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:46.880 Yes, exactly, how they do to how they how the 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:51.040 Jewish people do to people when they step overstep their bounds, 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.400 they send their ass to the damn the Holocaust Museum. 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.360 That's what that's for. That's not for black people. Y'all 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.560 have done enough of ciphering O goddamn energy. Yeah, and 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:02.920 now you and I saw in the building circulating looking 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.360 at all this crazy. 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:08.760 Name, all this pain. So I ran through that ship, 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:16.400 waiting for everybody outside I left. I ran through that yeah, 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:20.240 straight up, straight up, I ran through that motherfucker. I 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:24.200 sat outside wait on niggas. I was like, I sit 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:30.479 out that bitch like somebody got a newport. That ship 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:35.640 almost driving me to smoke spots. But then we went 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:38.640 down to the river boat and we saw the Harriet 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.479 and then the chair was out there. I got a 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.720 picture y'all have me holding the folding chair in the 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.160 sky like why ya YadA. 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:49.520 Like I've heard of me like that. 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:54.120 That made me feel better, girl. That ship is wild, 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.599 no long, it ain't over. So then that night to 0:04:56.640 --> 0:05:05.920 the club called Infusions something like that. Montgomery. These niggas 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:08.719 do not dance. The only type of dance they do 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:10.400 is line dancing. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:10.760 Bitch. 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.520 When a song they and they got line dances that 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:17.400 don't nobody know about? That motherfucker to songs, I'm like, damn, 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.560 who came up with this and then motherfuckers was honky 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:24.560 talking baby they was but any other thing. Don't nobody dance. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:29.240 It was only line dancing. That's the only dancing I 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:31.360 seen them do. So you've seen some. 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:33.240 Niggas of gold teeth line dancing. 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:41.120 Line dancing like a mom. Shit had seventeen steps. I 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:45.919 could keep up. Well, I think it about you. We 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:46.840 need to post that video. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:49.080 Were supposedly was doing that Mia up to. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:49.679 Me a dance. 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:50.360 Oh. 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:52.520 I tried to learn that shit over weekend too. 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:56.960 No, I ain't got enough coordination or brain cells for 0:05:57.000 --> 0:06:00.600 that shit. Man, I need space for other things too. 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.480 Much to remember child. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:07.240 So this weekend. So this weekend I went to Charleston 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:11.960 and the Thanksgiving Thanksgiving wasn't nothing major. 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:14.440 It's just we barely cooked food. 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.880 For real, man, really, and I really don't need to 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.479 eat anyway. She cooked like turkey wings and shit, I 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:23.960 made a mac, so I had mac and caligarens. That's it. 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:29.520 But and Friday night, so our schools are high schools, 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:35.120 they had like alumni games, like basketball games. Four high schools. 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:40.560 It was lit. And then the high schools that I 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:45.320 went to in West Ashley, they had like an alumni 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:48.599 party Saturday night, so it was nice to see people 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:54.279 I hadn't seen in years acting stupid, acting up. And 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:55.960 then we went to a little hood spot after that, 0:06:56.320 --> 0:07:00.680 so it was a little outside weekend for the most part. 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:03.040 I ain't see no my fucking heads in the sand. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:07.640 Right, you went to a black school, I said, I 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:09.960 sound right, we went to a black school. 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.640 We don't have a well, I guess you could. You 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:16.160 might consider North Charleston High School a black school. Yeah, 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:18.200 North Charleston would be a black school. But no, I'm 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:20.840 from West Ashley, so the schools was mixed. So the 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.480 two high schools we had St. Andrews in Middleton, they 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:26.560 ended up merging my last year of high school, well 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:29.520 last two years of high school. But they always was 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.680 like rivals, so they played against each other. Then No 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:36.840 Choleston Downtown played against each other, and then the winners 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:37.640 had to play each other. 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:40.320 So it was cool. You. I feel like black schools 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:43.559 always get together for some shit. My school was predominantly white. 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:47.200 I ain't seen the motherfucker since I graduated. We had nothing. 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:50.600 It's so weird that, Yeah, we didn't go to all 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:53.640 all white schools or all black schools. But only the 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:57.960 black people was outside for these things, So maybe maybe 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:00.200 the game was only maybe we're the only one that 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:02.160 actually put these stuff together. Because I'm gonna tell you, 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:03.880 I feel like I mentioned this before when we did 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:05.920 our ten year high school re union, I didn't realize 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.800 how racist the white people were that we went to 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.119 school with. When I tell you, like the black people 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:15.920 planned the reunion, it was really really, really nice, top notch, 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:19.160 even if the principal of school came. But like I said, 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:21.840 we came from two different high schools, so Middleton was 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:24.480 more of the honky tongue school, you know what I'm saying. 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:27.240 The Sandrews, like we all raised together, the black and 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:31.080 white people. The white people from Middleton were so racist 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:34.240 when we were planning this goddamn reunion. They're like, I 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:35.920 don't know any of these people. They went and had 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:36.640 them a beach day. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:36.920 Girl. 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:41.200 They didn't even come to the reunion. Well, welcome to 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:45.560 South Carolina. So ooh, girl, isn't it anyway? That was 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:46.120 my weekend? 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:46.360 Child. 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:47.959 Let's take a break right quick and get into this 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:55.560 stupid internet news. All right, y'all, we back and ingle disaster. 0:08:55.600 --> 0:09:03.679 What we know, all y'all, seen King and t I 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:08.600 arguing over the weekend. Tiny too oh tiny was there 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:10.199 too right to? I can't hear a little voice in 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:18.079 the background, just that fucking spoiled as bratt. Okay, it's 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.040 gonna come a day when you got to put hands 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:22.480 on one of your kids, at least one, it's going 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:23.160 to give you hell. 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:27.320 And he's that kid. He is one of the children. 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:33.959 He is entitled. He's just not a nice young man period. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.720 He's not nice to his parents, how he presents on 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.960 social media, it's just not becoming. They named him King. 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:43.319 That's where they fucked up, because he probably already got 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:49.160 a complex about superiority to people with that name. Ship. 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:53.120 They need to like cut him off financially so he 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:54.520 can be humbled. 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:57.320 I think no, I don't think they need to. I 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:59.000 think he needs to go to therapy. I went to 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:01.320 his page because I have I had a theory in 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:03.840 my mind about what was going on with him, and 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:05.520 I do think he has some mental health that she 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.679 was going on. I went to this page and this 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:10.760 is I went further back than the last few days, 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:12.880 so I can see, like what his comments usually look like. 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:16.400 The amount of people that was calling that boy ugly 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:21.240 and saying little weird things about him was overwhelming. And 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.640 it's just me looking at it. Yeah, right, So imagine 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:28.480 being the recipient of these comments daily when you just 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:32.600 try to live Breathe he has, He definitely has a complex, 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:36.760 multiple of them, and the Internet play a big role 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:39.679 in that. Yeah, Like, and how do you while everybody 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:42.200 you know he looks different, We're just going to say 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:43.400 that he does look different. 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:44.600 Right. 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.360 I don't think the drags help, you know, he makes 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.440 me just get a little regular color haircut. 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.360 But I think, all right, So I think these young 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:58.600 people have like social anxieties that we didn't have, and 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:00.880 you know, not in the amount that has it. And 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.280 I really think that they be hiding under that hair 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:04.960 and that's why they grow it down in their face 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:08.480 so they can hide under it. Why is your hair 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.560 in your face like that? It's I think it's the 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:13.680 place to hide. Absolutely. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:16.360 So now me, if that were my child, we'd be 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:22.280 going to therapy because now your TI's son, right, You're 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:25.480 trying to now, you know, have your own separate identity 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:28.480 from your parents, and look how you're being received by 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:28.920 the world. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:32.120 But I think cutting him off from money and excess 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:36.319 is a form of therapy because he wants to. It's 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:42.000 an exercise because you feel like you struggle and may 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:44.439 I won't say he don't have no traumas, because just 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:47.680 because you have money doesn't mean that you don't see 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.560 trauma growing up. Right, we all have things that happen 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:54.760 to us, whether we're poor or rich. But you want 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:57.960 to be hood so bad, I'm gonna give you an 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:01.560 opportunity to feel it in away in a significant way. 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:02.240 Not just yeah. 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.720 But then their son might end up in prison. They 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:06.599 might he might end up in prison. You know what 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:09.440 I'm saying, trying to get it out the mud in 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:11.600 the bando. You know what I'm saying, Like, if I 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:14.400 have the means, I'm never gonna make my child struggle. 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:15.480 Absolutely not. 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:18.440 I'll try to if he if he gonna end up 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:21.360 in jail because you cutting off his money, he go 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:24.480 in jail with money, what's the train of thought that's 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:27.959 gonna make you go do some dumb ship like that 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.720 that you wouldn't do it with the money. 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:32.800 I don't know. I just could. I just wouldn't do that. 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:35.280 I don't think that that's to me. That's not where 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:37.760 I was starting and I think the Internet wants to 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:40.720 see that. I think people want to see him have 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:44.520 nothing right because we elevate people and then we all not. 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:46.560 When I say we, I'm talking about the collective because 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:49.520 this is never my mind, my state of mind, and 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.840 when I think about people like black people love to 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.800 elevate a motherfucker and also simultaneously be the person to 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.800 bring them down. It's not my job to humble anybody. 0:12:57.960 --> 0:12:59.240 It's not any any one. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:02.120 Of our jobs to hum No, it's his parents job, 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.240 That's what I'm talking about. It's his parents' job, and 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:06.160 I think they missed the mark with that with him, 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.840 Like he needs to learn some humility, but. 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:13.080 All other kids are good, all other kids like he 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:16.920 needs to learn balance. But there's something else at played. 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.040 That's what I'm saying. It's not just about him wanting 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:23.000 to be bad. He's acting out for Okay, So here's 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:25.720 what the document says. It says a lot. They were 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:29.199 at the Falcons game, so he's embarrassing in them, embarrassing 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:33.120 them at a fucking football game. Shit win Sideways, King 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:36.880 started arguing with his parents. Voices intentions continue to rise 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:39.160 as two sides yell at each other so what it 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:41.280 says is that a crowd of people can be heard 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.880 teasing King saying he had a silver spoon in his mouth, 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:47.920 but he barked back, yelling it wasn't true. His mother 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:51.240 attempted to remind him of his wealthy upbringing as a child. 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:54.440 Toddy then mentioned that the only reason King loved going 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.320 over to his grand grandmother's house was not so that 0:13:57.400 --> 0:14:00.480 he could run around with his hood raft friends, but 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:04.160 because he because she allowed him to suck and spacify 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:10.280 into leave as well. The nineteen year old appeared to 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:12.840 be offended, claiming that his parents were trying to hide 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:15.600 the fact that he was really in the streets doing 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:17.840 all the things, and the two of them tried to 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:21.880 stare him away from At one point, TI could be 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:26.760 her yelling nigga, nigga, you ain't. You are an embarrassment 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:29.880 to your family. You are an ambassament. Later King of 0:14:30.000 --> 0:14:34.800 to your exactly Later, King appeared to pose an obscured 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:38.960 photo from behind a car wheel. He added the next text, 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:43.160 I stand on business, don't give a fuck who you are. 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:46.520 So you feel like this nigga who stands on business 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:48.440 don't give a fuck who you are? Probably in the 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.680 car that his parents had provided him should not be 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:57.800 taught given an exercise in getting money for yourself. 0:14:57.720 --> 0:14:59.680 And even his own daddy clin in him. It says 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:02.360 early this month t I couldn't help but clown his son, 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:07.400 King Harris over the latter's new teeth. 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:10.560 What. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.800 During an appearance on the Baller Alert Show, King was 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:16.640 asked about his newly white and teeth those are not 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:19.040 just newly white. And he went to somebody cheap to 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:22.280 get them chip lit things. 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:28.040 And because I haven't seen a lot of people come 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:30.520 back with him, begins teeth in their mouth. And you 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:32.280 gotta act like you don't notice. 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.720 When I know, hold on when you just said that, 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:39.040 you gotta act like you don't notice when I tell you, 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:43.640 I know so many people who got them things in 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:46.520 their mouth, and I can't help but stare at them 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:46.960 when they talk. 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:49.640 You gotta act like you don't see that ship about 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:51.760 to jump out their face. Yeah. 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.040 So more of the story is he need his ask well, 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:01.240 but he also needs their man. He going through it. 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:03.960 He going through it. He needs therapy and he needs 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:06.479 some financial humility exercises. 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:11.560 No, I don't think that's the way, but anyway, a 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:12.680 long couple. 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:16.760 With therapy, that they don't have to come from a 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:19.360 dark angry place. It ain't gonna come from a dark 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:23.080 angry place like what cut you off? No, it's like 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:28.440 more like we want you to experience life without the 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:31.680 financial help that that your family provides you, so you 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:35.880 can understand how privileged you really have been. Because there's 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:42.120 a disconnect somewhere. It don't have to be man, It 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:46.320 don't say put him on the street, but he might 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:46.800 end up there. 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:50.200 He might not even have the wherewithal to create something 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:54.040 out of nothing, you know what I'm saying, But because 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:56.520 he has been so privileged and spoiled, like you know what, 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:57.480 I like, that's. 0:16:57.480 --> 0:17:01.800 Heat kid, give him like take. He probably still live 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:04.560 at home. I mean I don't. 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:06.640 We don't know how he living though, what the setup is. 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:10.560 You know, she's only nineteen years old. He's only nineteen 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.080 years old. I doubt that he's got his own place, 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:16.560 so it an't way he got to pay rent nowhere. 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:22.280 Just a kid, He's just a kid. Parents take, That's 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:26.080 what I'm saying, giving their kids allowance all the time, 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:32.159 And why is it any different for king When they misbehaved, 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:34.440 they get cut off from their allowance. I don't understand 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:35.640 why it's any different from him. 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:40.440 From him M I feel I have a lot of 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:42.440 I think I have a lot of empathy for King 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:44.920 because I've seen how people be talking to him and 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:48.360 then you're at a football game and people chanting shit. 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:49.520 At you, like what the fuck? 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:52.200 Like, why is that even happening? 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.840 How did he cause that to happen? Did he cause 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:57.640 it to happen? Or was he's talking shit to somebody? 0:17:57.760 --> 0:17:59.320 Like why is that happening? 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:05.240 I think it's been his social media persona that he gives, 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:09.960 entitled little ship. That's what he gives. 0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:15.200 All right, let's move on from King a little badass. 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:18.880 Anyway, We're gonna pray finally, we love you, my young boy. 0:18:19.240 --> 0:18:23.800 Y'all listen, if you are on dating websites hinge uh 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:26.720 plenty of fish. 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:27.480 What's the other one? 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:27.720 I know? 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:31.040 You know, I'm dam give me another talking about you know. 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:35.040 I know, because I ain't got no money. There's hinge 0:18:35.200 --> 0:18:39.119 plenty of fish, tender, there's rayah. 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:42.359 That's how I want to get on. Riya bitch, do 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:42.919 you ever get on? 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.439 No, they won't let me on. I don't think I 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:48.080 think it's on Riyah. I deleted that app. I got 0:18:48.119 --> 0:18:51.000 mad because it's been months the fuck. 0:18:54.080 --> 0:19:00.240 So black people think, oh yeah, black people meet. So 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:06.800 apparently there's this thing called food Digger. This article says 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:11.840 food Digger scam. Beware of new scam on dating apps 0:19:11.880 --> 0:19:13.959 like tender Bumble and Hinge. 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:14.840 Y'all. 0:19:14.920 --> 0:19:20.160 So apparently the restaurants, the restaurants are using bots and 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:25.720 they're on these dating websites. They are courting women and 0:19:25.840 --> 0:19:30.919 men via the app setting up dates. You get to 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:34.600 the restaurant waiting on your date. Your date never shows. 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:37.439 Your mindset is like, well shit, I'm here already, let 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:42.960 me go ahead and eat. The date unfollows you, unmatches 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:46.760 with you on the dating app, and now you're spending 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:49.359 money at least, you know, food and a couple of 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:53.240 drinks because now you're depressed. They need a fucking ass fud. 0:19:53.640 --> 0:19:56.239 Listen, and you sitting at the Cheesecake Factor like I 0:19:56.280 --> 0:20:01.600 didn't even want to come here another basket of prouderad. 0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:08.919 That's fucked up. That's real, fucked up. People is just 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:11.359 doing anything for money right now, y'all just have to 0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:15.120 be careful out here, because when the restaurants is date 0:20:15.200 --> 0:20:17.600 fishing you to get you to come in there and 0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:19.160 eat is crazy. 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:23.480 Yeah, like what like I would have never ever like 0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:27.200 who the fuck is in their marketing department that thought 0:20:27.240 --> 0:20:28.200 about that ship. 0:20:28.920 --> 0:20:31.479 Like imagine Red Loss to be a real charming with 0:20:31.520 --> 0:20:34.160 you in the app so you could go have channar 0:20:34.200 --> 0:20:41.760 baby biscuits. It's crazy, Red Loss of Like, so where 0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:47.119 are you from? 0:20:47.480 --> 0:20:47.600 Bro? 0:20:47.840 --> 0:20:50.600 That's crazy, that's fucking crazy. 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:56.640 They need they ask what so the restaurants that like, say, 0:20:56.680 --> 0:20:56.840 for in. 0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:01.160 You like to eat, so what you like to eat? 0:21:05.320 --> 0:21:08.000 But they're not like on the apps as Red Lobster 0:21:08.080 --> 0:21:08.960 like they're on the app. 0:21:09.080 --> 0:21:12.520 I'm just saying it's really Red Lobster, but it's a person. 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:15.120 It's a buy right. Yep. 0:21:16.200 --> 0:21:16.920 That's terrible. 0:21:17.160 --> 0:21:19.920 I really love people. I really love Red Lobster. We 0:21:19.960 --> 0:21:20.720 should meet there. 0:21:24.400 --> 0:21:26.320 Did you see that video of Red Lobster had like 0:21:26.400 --> 0:21:27.680 some maggots in the food? 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:29.560 Oh no, let's grows. 0:21:29.800 --> 0:21:32.320 Yeah yeah, I like a lot of them too. I 0:21:32.440 --> 0:21:35.400 like a lot of maggots. I don't really like eating 0:21:35.400 --> 0:21:38.399 out no more. Man, everything the price of everything is 0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:41.200 going up and then equality is going down. 0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:46.479 But yeah, but in the same breath the food. I 0:21:46.560 --> 0:21:48.639 remember when it used to be cheaper to go to 0:21:48.680 --> 0:21:51.239 the grocery store than to go out to eat. And 0:21:51.280 --> 0:21:53.600 that's a lot in the case, y'all. 0:21:53.640 --> 0:21:57.959