1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, Hello out there, Welcome back to the show. 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: How's it going. I'm Eli, I'm Diana, So good day, 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 1: see you all again, see you in our mind's eye. 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: Yeah and our mind's eye, y'all are all really hot, 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: but yeah, and our mind's eyes always accurate. So congrat congrats. Yeah, 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: well done, well done to everyone. You're hella attractive. Well yeah, 7 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: how's everybody doing. Hope it's been going well well in January? Now? 8 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 1: Oh oh oh, okay, Well look, we won't talk about 9 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: it too much because I know I think only fifteen 10 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: of you care. But Expanse finale was so good. It's 11 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: so good, I'll tell you what. Still, we've been singing 12 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: its praises on this show since the beginning. But if 13 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: you haven't watched the Expanse from beginning to end, it 14 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 1: is a very good show. It really is. And there's 15 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: so few shows that can say that, right, that are like, hold, 16 00:00:55,800 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: I mean, Expanse starts okay and good one. I was 17 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: just gonna say season one it took us a minute 18 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: to get through it. It kind of just drops you in. 19 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: You know, you have to really pay attention and catch 20 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: up to like the politics of what's happening and how 21 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: the world works and everything. But it's some is better 22 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: than it's parts of season one. Yeah, but once you 23 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: get to the end, it's like, Okay, I get it now, Yes, 24 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: this all makes sense that this is great, and then 25 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: it's just a great show. Is good? Yeah, yeah, it 26 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: really and the characters and the acting. We could go 27 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: if you want, if you want us to do an 28 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: expanse rewatch podcast on the side, we want to, So 29 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 1: if you email us and tell us that you want 30 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: to hear that, it will encourage us to get our 31 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 1: asses and do it. Because we're good to rewatch the 32 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: whole show soon, we might as well talk about it. 33 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: And if you feel like listening, that's on you, and 34 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: that's on you. It's your time. But but again we 35 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: could go on. We won't believe you. Be um, We'll 36 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: get to this show which is about not about space. Well, 37 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: there's not a whole lot left to banner about. But 38 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: there is a reason we picked this story today, because 39 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: this is not any old episode. If you've been keeping 40 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: counted home and you don't include our trailer or our 41 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: minisotea about word, do you know what number episode? This is? 42 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: Ses be excellent to each other and party on. Dudes, 43 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: We're not doing the Bill and Ted episode now, just 44 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: we just told the sixty nine joke. No, The reason 45 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: we picked this episode for our sixty nine because we 46 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: just wanted something extra raunchy and dirty, and boy we 47 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: found it with James Joyce and Nora Barnacle. They were 48 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: in this lovely, wonderful couple from eight hundreds Ireland. Of course, 49 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: James Joyce, you know, is the famous author of Finnegan's 50 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: Wake Dubliners, and of course Ulysses and Nora Barnacle was 51 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 1: this amazing woman who met and fell in love with him, 52 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: and together they shared some of the filthy, ist, raunchius 53 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: love notes in history. And we are all excited to 54 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: get those, so I say we just dive right in. 55 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: Let's do this. Hey, their French come listen. Well, Eli 56 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: and Diana got some stories to tell. There's no match 57 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: making a romantic tips, It's just about ridiculous relationships. A 58 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: lover might be any type of person at all, and 59 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: abstract cons at our concrete wall. But if there's a story, 60 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: were the second Glance show Ridiculous Roletts A production of 61 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio James Augustine Aloysius Joyce was born on 62 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: February second of eighty two in Dublin, Ireland. Now he 63 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: was the oldest of ten children. And that's how the 64 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: Irish Catholics do it a year every year, right. He 65 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: was sent to a boarding school when he was six 66 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: years old. But his father was this kind of irresponsible 67 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: guy who drank a lot. He borrowed a lot of 68 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: money from his office that he wasn't able to pay back. 69 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: Eventually he lost his job and the family fell into poverty. 70 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 1: According to Britannica dot COM's biography of James Joyce, so 71 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,799 Speaker 1: James had to come home from school for a few years, 72 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: and while he was home he taught himself as best 73 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: as he could, and he would go to his mother 74 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: and say and check my work, please, Mummy, did I 75 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: do it right? It's just like I don't know, I 76 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: don't know. It's eighteen eighty two and I've got ten 77 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: kids a teacher. But he must have done okay, because 78 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: at nine years old he wrote his first poem and 79 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: it was called at two Healy. And to understand why 80 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: this nine year old wrote this political poem with a 81 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: lot of weight behind it, We'll just take a quick 82 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: fling with history. Oh Ye're in trouble now. Charles Stewart 83 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: Parnell was an Irish nationalist who led the political fight 84 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: for Irish home rule. And this was a movement that 85 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,239 Speaker 1: sought for Ireland to be able to govern itself within 86 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: the United Kingdom. They wanted to form a domestic parliament 87 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: and set their own roles rather than having Westminster decide 88 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: everything for them, and Parnell was a brilliant organizer of 89 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: this movement. He brought Irish issues to the forefront of 90 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: political discussions in the UK for most of the eighteen eighties. 91 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: But scandal broke out when it was discovered that Partnell 92 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 1: had been living with a married woman named Kitty o'shay, 93 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 1: Oh my God, and her husband filed for divorce. The 94 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: whole affair went public. Now, the story gets a little crazy, 95 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: so stay tuned for a whole episode about these three 96 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: sometime soon. Is worth looking at. But the point for 97 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: now is that Parnell's political career was effectively ruined. And 98 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 1: then this other politics named Tim Healy had been one 99 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: of Parnell's strongest supporters. But when this scandal broke out 100 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: about Parnell and Kitty o'sha. He turned on Parnell as well. 101 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: During a meeting, Parnell stood up and said, who is 102 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: the master of this party? And Healy called back, I 103 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: but who is the mistress? And this almost brought the 104 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: room into a good old fashioned Irish fistfight. Yeah, seriously, 105 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: that's all the articles were like. They nearly came to 106 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: blows over this. Imagine everybody just settled us to the 107 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 1: Irish way some bare knuckle boxing. But of course a 108 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: lot of people who supported Parnell and his big movement 109 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: for Irish home rule were mad that this scandal was 110 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: gonna trash all the work that he'd done, including little 111 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: nine year old James Joyce, who wrote this poem again 112 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: called it to Heally, where he compared Parnell to Caesar 113 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: and Heely to Brutus. Now, the thing is, no complete 114 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: copies of this poem exist anywhere that anyone knows about, 115 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: and there's only three lines that remain that were just 116 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: remembered by his brother. So let's take a quick stop 117 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: in poetry corner for nine year old James Joyce's at 118 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: two Healy his quaint perched area on the crags of 119 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: time where the rude Din of this century can trouble him. 120 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: Nemar al right, okay, yeah, very political. It sounds like 121 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: this nine year old knew what he was talking about. 122 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: That's what I got from those three lines. I mean, 123 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: a quaint, perched air. I wouldn't have written that. Ye, 124 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: pretty good. I wasn't talking about the crags of time 125 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: until I was at least sixteen. Crags of time, This 126 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: nine year old kid long dragon a cigarette thinking about 127 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: the crags of time. I'm from Tablin. I think about 128 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: the crags of time since I was at the Eventually, 129 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: at eleven years old, James Joyce went back to a 130 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: Jesuit school in Dublin, where he did very well academically, 131 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: but he did start to lose his Catholic faith. The 132 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:16,679 Speaker 1: Catholic teachers were incredibly strict and cruel. Throughout his life, 133 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: Joyce had a terrible fear of thunder and lightning, which 134 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 1: he attributed to his governess telling him that the loud 135 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: crashes were God manifesting his anger at the boy. Which 136 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: is so weird to me to be like, I'm going 137 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: to make the whole world and everything God does about 138 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: me specifically, Like, is that not very self centered and weird. Imagine, 139 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,719 Speaker 1: you know, elsewhere in the storm. Somebody's like, wow, God 140 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: must be real mad at James Joyce today, really like, oh, 141 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: God's very focused on this one kid. Mental flaw says 142 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: that when he was asked by a friend, why are 143 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: you so afraid of rough weather, Joyce responded, quote, you 144 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 1: were not brought up been Catholic Ireland. And eventually Joyce 145 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 1: went to University College in Dublin, where he graduated in 146 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: nineteen o two. He was obsessed with becoming a great 147 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: writer and studied and practiced constantly, publishing essays, articles, even 148 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: theater reviews by the time he was eighteen, and to 149 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: support himself as a writer, he decided at one point 150 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: that he would become a medical doctor. Oh, the perfect 151 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 1: moonlighting gig for aspiring creatives aside hustle as a doctor. 152 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 1: I ought to be an actor, but I need something 153 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: to pay the bills while I try and make my fame. 154 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: I know I'll be a heart surgeon, just a nice, 155 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 1: easy after dinner hobby, just in the evenings and weekends. 156 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: But he attended a few medical lectures and quickly abandoned 157 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: that idea. He was like, oh, this is a lot 158 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: of work like that. Oh, you have to know what's 159 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: inside the human body. So yeah, he gave up on 160 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: that and he moved to Paris instead. Smart move. In 161 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: nineteen o three, he was brought back home to Ireland 162 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 1: because his mother was dying, and he worked as a 163 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: teacher for a while before getting paid to write short 164 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: stories for a magazine called The Irish Homestead, and they 165 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: would later be published as a compilation called dublin Ers. 166 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: The next year, still home in Dublin, he met Nora Barnicle. 167 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 1: Nora was born in eighteen eighty four, so she's two 168 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: years younger than James, and she was the second of 169 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: eight children born to a baker and a dressmaker. She 170 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: studied at a convent when she was young, finishing her 171 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: schooling in eighteen ninety six at twelve years old, and 172 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 1: it was then she met a young boy named Michael 173 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: Feeney and she fell in love with him, but shortly 174 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: after they met, he died from typhoid fever. In nineteen 175 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: o three, her mother kicked Norah's father out for drinking. 176 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: She said that she had married beneath herself for marrying 177 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: a baker to begin with um and she and Nora 178 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: went to live with her uncle Tom Healy in Galway. 179 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: There she did another boy named Michael Bodkin for a while, 180 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 1: though he later contracted tuberculosis. Yeah, Nora, Yeah. In fact, 181 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 1: they called her the man killer at school, apparently for 182 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: a while because her two boyfriends had died. You know, kids, 183 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: they tease, that's so mean, and like she gave them 184 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: typhoid fever. In like she didn't already have to deal 185 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: with the fact that two of her childhood boyfriends died. 186 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: Now she has to get blamed for it. You're like 187 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: a black widow killer. Oh my god. But Nathan Halper 188 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: wrote in an article called The Grave of Michael Bodkin 189 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: for the James Joyce Quarterly in nine that when Michael 190 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: learned that he had tuberculosis and Nora was going to Dublin, 191 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 1: he quote stole out of his sick room in spite 192 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: of the rainy weather to sing to her under an 193 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 1: apple tree and bid her goodbye. It's so nice, isn't it. Like, 194 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: if you're going to go sing to someone in the rain, 195 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: find a fruit tree to stand under, because it just 196 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: adds that much more poetry to the story. Right. If 197 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: I just went out and sang to you in the rain. 198 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: That's nice. I went out and sang to you in 199 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: the rain under an apple tree. It's like I didn't 200 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,959 Speaker 1: do anything different. The apple tree is doing a lot 201 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: of work. They're heavy lifting. It does. It paints a 202 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: real romantic picture of my mind. I see this well, 203 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know why the moon's in it. 204 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: If it's raining, my picture makes no meteorological sense. But 205 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: James Joyce, in his final short story in Dubliners, which 206 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: was called The Dead, allegedly based his main character, Michael 207 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:37,839 Speaker 1: Fury on these two boys from Norah's stories. Michael Feeney 208 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: and Michael Bodkin were apparently combined to create this character, 209 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: like a little tribute her past love. Yeah, definitely. Nora 210 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 1: was tall and striking, and her voice was low and resonant, 211 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: and by the time she was a teenager, she was 212 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,199 Speaker 1: known for having a sharp wit and strong opinions. Her 213 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: biographer Random Attics wrote that one while she was at 214 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: the convent, a young priest invited her over for tea 215 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: one day, and while she was there, he pulled her 216 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: onto his lap and started trying to feel around up 217 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: her dress. Because some of these priests like to be doing, 218 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: and Norah quote broke away, only to be told that 219 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:20,079 Speaker 1: it was she who had committed a sin. Stopped me 220 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 1: if you've heard this before. So later she spoke about 221 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: it in confession, by the way, to the same priest 222 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: you was molesting her, let me go confess to you 223 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: what you did and blamed me for yes, And the 224 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: priest told her quote she was not to say the 225 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: culprit was a priest, but rather a man. This feels 226 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: incriminating to me for some reason. I feel like I 227 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: need you to really distance my behavior from myself. You know, 228 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: the story is just not believable if you say it 229 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 1: was a priest. So why didn't you say it was 230 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 1: one of those construction workers outside? You know? Like so 231 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 1: needless to say. As Nora grew up, she didn't like rules, 232 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: and I have to say, if that happened to me too, 233 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: I'd be like, you know what, you can take this 234 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: whole religion, shove it up your butt. I'm leavin. She 235 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 1: and a friend would sometimes dress up in men's clothing 236 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: and go exploring the city at night, in an era 237 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: when young women weren't typically allowed out after dark without 238 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: an escort, which I love this picture of these two ladies, 239 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: like giggling and like drawing a mustaf, like getting ready. 240 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: It's like where did you get this cravat? Now? Her 241 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: mother was very strict, and she tried to curb all 242 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 1: her daughter's behavior through discipline. But she's got eight kids, 243 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: right is she had a hard time controlling them all. 244 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 1: Norah's older sister, Kathleen had gotten quote a local reputation 245 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: for a rough tongue and hard drinking according to matics, 246 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 1: Kathleen who knows at a party. So her mother relied 247 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: on Nora's uncle for help disciplining Nora. Uncle Tommy would 248 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: wander the streets at night looking for her. He brought 249 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: a large stick with him and he swung it around 250 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: while whistling the Irish air My Mountain maid Arise, and 251 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: Maddox writes quote Norah froze in dread when she heard 252 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: it floating through the night. Reminds me of the Merry 253 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: Widow Strangler from Shadow of a Doubt by Hitchcock. And 254 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 1: he always whis whistling the same song, the Merry Widow Waltz, 255 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: I think it was, And whenever he was around, and 256 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: gonna kill some once whenever you heard that song, you're like, oh, no, 257 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: that's a great movie. It's my favorite Hitchcock. By the way, 258 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: it's lesser known, but it's so good. Hitchcock himself said 259 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: it was his favorite of his films anyway. But Norah's 260 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: height and her like heavy eyebrows helped her pass for 261 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: young men in the dark in the streets at night. 262 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: And one time, the story goes that she walked right 263 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: past Uncle Tommy and said, oh, good evening, sir, and 264 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: totally fooled him. He's like, guys, hello, young man, have 265 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: you seen my niece around here anywhere? Troublesome girls, no 266 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: ladies or owned a lady after dark, after dark England. 267 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: It's kind of given me Ellen Ellen and William Kraft vibes. 268 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: That's totally because she got on the train just as 269 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: a white man and like her slaver was like walking 270 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: by the train and looked in the window and she 271 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: just like turned her head and like he never had 272 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: no idea. It was her. People like to see what 273 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: they think they're gonna see, you know. But then Nora 274 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: started dating another boy named Willie Mova, and poor Willie 275 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: he was from the only family on their street who 276 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: were Protestant. No, Nora wasn't even very attracted to him, 277 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: but she needed a boyfriend if she's going to go 278 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: to dances. And Norah loved dancing. I love this prop boyfriend, 279 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: and we're like to believe she was kind of a 280 00:16:54,600 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: flirt and sexually curious. Joyce's ulysses the character of Molly 281 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: Bloom was inspired by Nora, and she talks about being 282 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: with a boy named Mulvey who wanted to have sex 283 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: with her, but she was afraid of getting pregnant, so 284 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: she says, quote, how did we finish it off? Oh? Yes, 285 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 1: I pulled him off into my handkerchief. So there's reason 286 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: to believe. Scholars are saying that this story came straight 287 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: from Nora, that that that's exactly what happened with Mulvey. 288 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: So they might have gotten a little handsy. He took 289 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: me dancing. I had to give him something. I didn't 290 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: like him. I felt guilty, all right, give him a 291 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: nice night at any rate. Uncle Tommy did not approve 292 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: of this Protestant boy, and he forbade Nora from ever 293 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 1: seeing him. The story that Nora told James later on 294 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 1: is that when her uncle caught them together, he took 295 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 1: Norah back to her room and he beat her with 296 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: his stick until she begged him to stop. But Maddox 297 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 1: writes that quote it seems more likely that Nora was 298 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: punished because her sultry glances and headstrong ways were an 299 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: embarrassment to the family, more so than the fact that 300 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 1: he was Protestant. So it's just like, you're too flirtatious, 301 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: You're all there's rumors going around that you're giving out 302 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: hand jobs left and right. I'm terrified of your handkerchiefs. 303 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: The laundry has been disgusting lately. Lately, no I went 304 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: in the world. So that's more what she got in 305 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: trouble for, they think, because in fact, this boy, Willie 306 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: movet ended up converting to Catholicism when he did get 307 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 1: married just a few years later, So some of his 308 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: friends at the time were like, he would have converted 309 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 1: for you. She just wasn't that interested. That's okay, But 310 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 1: at any rate, Uncle Tommy did beat her pretty viciously. 311 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: One week after that incident, Nora slipped into a service 312 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: agency to inquire about work in Dublin. She hated her 313 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: life here in Galway, and she knew that things couldn't 314 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 1: be worse anywhere else. So one night, she slipped out 315 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: of the house without saying goodbye to her mother or 316 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: to Willie Mulva, and hopped a train to Dublin, where 317 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: she would eventually neat James Joyce. So let's put them 318 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:18,439 Speaker 1: together right after this commercial break and welcome back to 319 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: the show. So James Joyce had terrible eyesight, like multiple 320 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: surgery is bad. There's an article in the New York 321 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: Times called Joyce, Nora and the World Known to All 322 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 1: Men from that says Joyce had been told by a 323 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 1: doctor not to wear glasses because they thought that that 324 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: would help strengthen his eyes. That it does not work 325 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: like that. But I actually was told that too by 326 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: friends when I was in high school, like if you 327 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: wear them too much, your eyes get too reliant or something. 328 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't think. Not using your 329 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 1: glasses not like dumbbells for your eyes. It just just strained. 330 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 1: So it's June tenth four. Joyce is two years old 331 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 1: and he's strolling down Nassau Street in Dublin and not 332 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: seeing very well. Yeah, He's like he's walking up to 333 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: fire hydrants. How do you do there? Sir at no response. Rude, 334 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 1: Oh what did adorable baby you have, sir? So, yeah, 335 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 1: he's doing great on his walk. And then he saw 336 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 1: this blurry figure walking towards him. He could tell it 337 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: was a woman and that she was tall, and she 338 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: swung her arms as she walked in a sort of saunter, 339 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 1: her hips swinging back and forth beneath her skirt. It 340 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: was the sexiest blur he'd ever kind of seen. Nora 341 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 1: was twenty years old, and with her perfect eyesight, she 342 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 1: saw a slim young man with a thin face, a 343 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: strong chin, and pale blue eyes. He was just a 344 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: bit taller than her, and I should say that he 345 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 1: was like five ten and she was like five nine, 346 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: So when we say they were tall, it was relative. 347 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: It's not like they were both six something, right. And 348 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: he had this sort of cockiness about him that she 349 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 1: really liked. They stopped and spoke briefly, and he asked 350 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 1: her to meet him the following Thursday, June six, in 351 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 1: Marion Square. Nora was in Dublin and she'd found a 352 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 1: job as a chambermaid at Finn's Hotel, which was a 353 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 1: small but respectable spot in central Dublin near Trinity College. 354 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 1: Nora had her fair share of quote unwanted male attentions, 355 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,160 Speaker 1: according to The New York Times, and she had survived 356 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: her experience in Dublin so far by being extra wary 357 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: of all these old creeps that stayed at the hotel 358 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: where she worked, and these strange, pushy fellows on the 359 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 1: street that she would pass by. Constant harassment, constant pickup lines, 360 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 1: people probably grabbing and being rude and definitely groping. Yeah, 361 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure she got touched in places she didn't freaking want. 362 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 1: So when this sort of non threatening, half blind, well 363 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: spoken guy with a good sense of humor introduced himself 364 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 1: to her, it was a completely different experience than she 365 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 1: had been having with men, and she was happy to 366 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 1: agree to meet him. Right. She's like, you're the first 367 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 1: person to ask me anything. Everyone else just keeps grabbing. 368 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 1: Their first date is likely to have been Thursday June 369 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: because this is the date on which his novel Ulysses 370 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: is set, and it's known to Joyce heads as blooms Day, 371 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: and The Guardian wrote that every year on June sixte quote, 372 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: hundreds of Dubliners dresses characters from the book and re 373 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 1: enact scenes from the story. So, you know, if you 374 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: thought Dragon Con was too nerdy, alcome to the James 375 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: Joyce Con Blooms Day. Everybody shows up in their coolest 376 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 1: I've been I've been working on this costume all year. 377 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: Oh wow, did you see her Molly Bloom costume? I 378 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 1: think she got it at Party City, Party City I work. 379 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 1: I spent six months so in. I'm so sick of 380 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: these out of the bad costumes from these non believers, 381 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: the hobbyists, and there's other people that are like, it's 382 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: not about that. Blooms Day is about all of us 383 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: coming together to celebrate. It doesn't matter how good you 384 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: are at sewing your costumes. Even if you just have 385 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: a James Toys T shirt, It's fine. It's for you. That, 386 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: by the way, is the dragon Con way. It doesn't 387 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: matter if you have an awesome costume. Great, if you 388 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: have a bullshit costume, You're still welcome here. We're all 389 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 1: party and we're all having a good time. Not here 390 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: to judge. I don't know how it is at Blooms Day, 391 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: but like Dragon Con, it's like, oh God, everybody's dressed 392 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 1: us fin again again. I'm not me. I've got an 393 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:53,959 Speaker 1: Obscure Character from Dubliners and the deep Cut from You know, 394 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 1: it's like most people don't get my costume, but the 395 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,159 Speaker 1: five people who do it blows their minds. And I 396 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:04,119 Speaker 1: prefer that honestly. I like the guy who's probably definitely 397 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,959 Speaker 1: right now going m hmm, Well, I'm gonna walk around 398 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: as Deadpool as Finnegan. You could just not wear your 399 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 1: glasses and go as James Joyce. I know, it just 400 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: bounce off things. People like the guy. Yeah. So the 401 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 1: James Joyce Tower and Museum in Dublin has a bunch 402 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: of free activities like theater performances, musical events, tours, readings 403 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 1: from the book. And it's not just Dublin. They've had 404 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: celebrations in the US, Australia, Canada, France and Italy, as 405 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 1: well as the Czech Republic, Hungary and Latvia just to 406 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 1: name a few. That's pretty wild, that's pretty cool. I 407 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 1: would check out Bloomsday again. Never read a word of 408 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: any James Joyce and I can't imagine. I mean, there's 409 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: literally like a picture of this guy there on the 410 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 1: rooftop of the James Joyce Tower at the museum, and 411 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: everybody's just sitting around watching this dude re from Ulysses. Am, 412 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: I all right, I mean, I guess that might be 413 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,640 Speaker 1: very interesting to you. From what I know of Ulysses, 414 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: which is not much. That sounds like my eyes would 415 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:14,400 Speaker 1: be crossed the whole time. Like it might be better 416 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: maybe so read out, you know, because they kind of 417 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 1: have to understand what they're saying to read it successfully. 418 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 1: So it might actually help to have like the inflections 419 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: and stuff to should understand what they're saying to read this. 420 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 1: It's just like some volunteers like, well, never opened this 421 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: book before, but here we go. Why not? So James 422 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: and Nora met up on this June six, and they 423 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,360 Speaker 1: didn't go to the theater or a restaurant or anything 424 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: like that. They just took this long romantic walk down 425 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: by the harbor. Nora had to be back at Finns 426 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: for work, Am, So they just, you know, they just 427 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 1: got to know each other as quickly as they could, 428 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 1: by which, of course, I mean that she gave him 429 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: a hand job on the street in the dark. Nora, 430 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,120 Speaker 1: this was the first day. Girl. This was crazy behavior 431 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: for James, especially like the women in his life, his mother, 432 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 1: his sisters, that the Catholic nuns who taught him they 433 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: had always been very prudish and pious and speculation station. 434 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 1: James was probably not a virgin at this point, but 435 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 1: he certainly didn't expect a back alley tugger from a 436 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 1: woman on the first day. You know, He's like, oh, 437 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: this evening took an unexpected term. I'm putting this in 438 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: the book. But they both fell hard for each other. 439 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 1: Within a week, Nora had written her first letter to James, 440 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 1: which said, with no punctuation, quote, my precious darling, aligned 441 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 1: to let you know I can't possibly meet you this 442 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,360 Speaker 1: evening as we are busy, but if it is convenient 443 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,920 Speaker 1: for you on Saturday evening, same place, with love from 444 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 1: and Barnacle excuse. Writing in haste, he was like, I 445 00:26:53,240 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 1: ain't busy Saturday night, same place. I'll be there, girl, 446 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 1: I will be there. They started to spend so much 447 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 1: time together that James's friends got resentful. Tail as old 448 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 1: at time, his brother said that that summer, James was 449 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 1: quote obsessed with sin. That's like I couldn't say handing 450 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: jobs in front of the priest, but she would not 451 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: let him reciprocate. New York Times says that Nora and 452 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 1: James both believed it was more sinful for him to 453 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: touch her than the other way around. Boo, that's some bullshit. 454 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 1: That all probably changed in October when together they left 455 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: Dublin for Zurich, Switzerland, and it was there in neutral 456 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 1: territory on October eleven that they slept together for the 457 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: first time. And within a month of them leaving Ireland, 458 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,200 Speaker 1: Norah was pregnant, so they were really getting it. That's 459 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,959 Speaker 1: what happens. She was like, now that you can touch me, 460 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 1: let's do this all. He had a job teaching English 461 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 1: to naval officers, which he hated, so as soon as 462 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 1: they could, they left for Trieste, Italy, where he got 463 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 1: a job teaching at the Berlitz School. Over the next 464 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: few years they moved around a lot, from Trieste to 465 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 1: Rome and brief stays back in Dublin. James was teaching 466 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 1: and trying to write. On the side he was working. 467 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 1: He was putting Dubliners together and trying to get that 468 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: published and his book Stephen Hero. He also started to 469 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 1: work on Ulysses, which was originally conceived as a short story. 470 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: Can you imagine as Ulysses is over seven hundred pages long. 471 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: He's like turns out I had a lot more to say. 472 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: In nineteen oh six, Nora was pregnant again and James 473 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: had to pick up some extra work tutoring, and now 474 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 1: he's got less time to write. But look quick summary. 475 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 1: Eventually he wrote Portrait of an Artist as a young Man, 476 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 1: and he wrote Ulysses, and he went back to get 477 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: Dubliners published, and he became James Joyce. Like famous author 478 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: James James Joyce, we're not here for all that. There 479 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 1: are plenty of biographies about James Joyce's life and they 480 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: are very interesting. The research I was doing, I was like, 481 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: this guy's fascinating, but we're here for the romance. We 482 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 1: want to talk about him and Nora specifically, without getting 483 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: two into the weeds. And in nineteen o nine things 484 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: between the two of them were going hot, heavy and freaky. 485 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 1: If you thought that midnight city street hand jobs were 486 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,479 Speaker 1: wild Gergia Lloyds people, because we're about to get into it. 487 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: James Joyce was pretty reserved in his personal language. He 488 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 1: did not really curse. He didn't think vulgarity was interesting 489 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: in casual conversation. We probably wouldn't get along too well. 490 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 1: So that makes his later letters to Nora even more outrageous. 491 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: Now we don't have Nora's responses to these letters, very unfortunately, 492 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 1: I wish. But in n Richard Ellman published a book 493 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:07,479 Speaker 1: called Selected Joyce Letters. And might remember Richard Elman as 494 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: the guy who wrote like the definitive Oscar Wild biography 495 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: that was in our Oscar Wild episode. Now that book 496 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: is now out of print, and there are certainly some 497 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: ethical questions that have been long debated around publishing these 498 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 1: very personal and very private letters for the public to read. 499 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: Um And we'll talk about that a bet afterwards, but 500 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: as of now, you know, these are abundantly available online 501 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: and we're going to read you some selections here. These 502 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,479 Speaker 1: letters were from when Joyce went back to Dublin alone 503 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: for the first time and he missed Norah terribly. The 504 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 1: two had never married, but never felt the need. There 505 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: was something special between them that couldn't be defined by 506 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: traditional marriage rights. So let's take a look at a 507 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 1: few pieces of one of Joyce's letters so we can 508 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: see what that bond might have been. And just be warned, 509 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: this language gets absolutely filthy, but it's okay because it's 510 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: one of Western literature is great writers. So this actually 511 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:11,959 Speaker 1: counts as educational smut. Yes, yes, this is highbrow filth, 512 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: This is literary December three nine, Quote, my darling little 513 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 1: convent girl, there is some star too near the earth. 514 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: For I am still in fever fit of animal desire. 515 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: Perhaps the coarseness of my earlier letters has disgusted you. 516 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: It was you, yourself, you hot little girl, who first 517 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,920 Speaker 1: wrote to me saying that you were longing to be 518 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 1: fucked by me. Yet I suppose the wild filth and 519 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 1: obscenity of my reply went beyond all bounds of modesty. 520 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 1: As you know, I never use obscene phrases in speaking, 521 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: Yet you seemed to turn me into a beast. It 522 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: was you who slid your hand down inside my trousers 523 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 1: and pulled my shirts softly aside, and touched my prick 524 00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 1: with your long, tickling fingers, and gradually took it all 525 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 1: fat and stiff as it was, into your hand, and 526 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: frigged me slowly until I came off through your fingers, 527 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 1: all the time bending over me and gazing at me 528 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 1: out of your quiet, saint like ice. Wow, what a 529 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 1: hand job he had to really write it down, I 530 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 1: must have been a good one. He goes on, to 531 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: ask about the other boys she'd been with, and asks 532 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 1: her in great detail how far they got with her 533 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 1: and if she liked it. He also says, quote, if 534 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: you are not offended, do not be afraid to tell 535 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: me the truth, Darling, Darling, Tonight, I have such a 536 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 1: wild lust for your body that if you were here 537 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: beside me, and even if you told me with your 538 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: own lips that half the red headed louts of Galway 539 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 1: had had a funk at you before me, I would 540 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: still rush at you with desire. In any case, I 541 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 1: love you. I have written and said things to you 542 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 1: that my pride would never again allow me to say 543 00:32:55,080 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 1: to any woman. Well it's okay, all right. I mean, yeah, 544 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: that's a compliment, right, you like getting all the real 545 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,239 Speaker 1: dirty thoughts in his head. I mean that's an intimacy, right. 546 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. I wouldn't say this to anyone else but you. 547 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 1: That's that's special. It depends on what you're saying. But 548 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 1: I would never tell anyone else this. But here's some 549 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: horrible racist thing. I believe we're not friends anymore. So yeah, 550 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 1: I mean that's pretty erotic. Yes, some dirty talk, but 551 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,720 Speaker 1: it's not really outside the realm of normal dirty talk 552 00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 1: for a couple. I mean, you know, he did get 553 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: a little probe into her past sex life and stuff, 554 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: but he does concede that it's her choice to tell 555 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: him or not, which is nice. But when we come back, 556 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 1: we're going to get into the next letter, which is 557 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 1: going to turn your face read. So put the kids 558 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:54,440 Speaker 1: to bed and stay tuned. Welcome back to the select 559 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: readings of James Joyce and Nora Barnacle's outrageous correspondence and yes, 560 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 1: serious you, that first letter has got nothing on what 561 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 1: came next. Oh boy, December eighth, nineteen o nine. Quote, 562 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 1: my sweet little horsh Nora, I did as you told me, 563 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 1: you dirty little girl, and pulled myself off twice. When 564 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: I read your letter. I am delighted to see that 565 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,760 Speaker 1: you do like being fucked our sways. I can remember 566 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 1: the night when I fucked you for long backwards. It 567 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: was the dirtiest fucking I ever gave you, my darling. 568 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,360 Speaker 1: My prick was stuck up in you for hours, fucking 569 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 1: in and out under your upturned rump. I felt your fat, 570 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: sweaty buttocks under my belly, and saw your flushed face 571 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: and mad eyes at every funk I gave you your 572 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: shameless tongue came bursting out through your lips, and if 573 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 1: I gave you a bigger, stronger fun than usual, fat 574 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:51,719 Speaker 1: dirty farts came spluttering out of your backside. You had 575 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: an arts full of farts that night, darling, and I 576 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: fucked them out of you, big fat fellows, long windy ones, 577 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,399 Speaker 1: quick little merry cracks, and a lot of tiny, little 578 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 1: naughty farties ending in a long gush from your whole. 579 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 1: It is wonderful to funk a farting woman when every 580 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 1: funk drives one out of her. I think I would 581 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 1: know Norah's fart anywhere. I think I could pick hers 582 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: out of a room full of farting women. I hope 583 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 1: Norah will let off no end of her farts in 584 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: my face so that I may know their smell. Also, 585 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,759 Speaker 1: it's just so, just for the way Valentine's Day is. 586 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 1: Have you like to write in a letter that I 587 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 1: hope you let off look no end of your farts 588 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 1: in my face so that I may know their smell. 589 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 1: In terms of fart fucking letters, this one is written 590 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 1: by James Joyce, and you can tell this is a 591 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 1: writer really crafting this story because it is evocative. I 592 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 1: feel like I'm They're kind of like I don't necessarily 593 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,759 Speaker 1: want to be, but I'm here somehow, like oh can 594 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:02,399 Speaker 1: I leave? And I respect that. I respect that honestly, Yeah, 595 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: I was going to stay the same because as a 596 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 1: as a writer, just the description of the different farts 597 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: is really well done. Big fat fellows, long windy one, 598 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 1: quick little mary cracks, and a lot of tiny, little 599 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 1: naughty farties. Haven't we all experienced at least one, if 600 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: not all of these could really use those categories in 601 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 1: the future. That was a quick little mary crack, A 602 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 1: big fat fellow. Oh no, my coworker just let off 603 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: a big fat fellow in the elevator. I swear I 604 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 1: could pick that guy out of a room anywhere. There's 605 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,879 Speaker 1: an article on the Paris Review that posted the full 606 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: text of these letters, and they point out that while 607 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: the letters are quote shockingly dirty, they are also quite charming, 608 00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,439 Speaker 1: and I think that's accurate. I mean, there's some real 609 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,959 Speaker 1: love in here. These are two people who are totally 610 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 1: obsessed with each other in the best ways, and they've 611 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: clearly stimulated each other's curiosity. They're pushing each other's limits 612 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:13,840 Speaker 1: they're finding new things they love about each other, strange 613 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: things that draw them to each other. And also like 614 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 1: he loves her farts. If you find someone who loves 615 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: your farts, I mean put a ring on it, you 616 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: have really found something special. That's that's the kind of 617 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 1: ship that ends a marriage. He's like Dutch of and 618 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 1: me baby at dare yet. Here's another letter to Nora, 619 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: dated December nine. Quote, my sweet darling girl, at last 620 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 1: you write to me, I am so played out that 621 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 1: you would have to lick me for a good hour 622 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,279 Speaker 1: before I could get a horn stiff enough to put 623 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,480 Speaker 1: in you. Darling, Please don't suck me too much when 624 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 1: I go back, funk all you can out of me 625 00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 1: for the first night or so, but make me get 626 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 1: myself cured. Fuck me, darling, in as many ways as 627 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 1: your lust will suggest. Fuck me dressed in your full 628 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,760 Speaker 1: outdoor costume, with your hat and veil on your face, 629 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 1: flushed with the cold and wind and rain, and your 630 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:15,360 Speaker 1: boots muddy, either straddling across my legs when I'm sitting 631 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 1: in a chair and riding me up and down. Fuck 632 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 1: me if you can squatting in the closet with your 633 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 1: clothes up, grunting like a young sow doing her dungue, 634 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 1: and a big fat, dirty snaking thing coming slowly out 635 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 1: of your backside. Fuck me on the stairs in the dark, 636 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: like a nursery maid fucking her soldier, murmuring into his 637 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:41,919 Speaker 1: ear dirty words and dirty stories that other girls told her, 638 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:45,440 Speaker 1: and dirty things she said, and all the time pissing 639 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 1: her drawers with pleasure and letting off soft, warm, quiet 640 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:53,399 Speaker 1: little farts behind until her own girlish cocky is as 641 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,399 Speaker 1: stiff as his, and suddenly sticking him up in her 642 00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:03,800 Speaker 1: and riding him slow. It's so much, it's so well 643 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: written smut. You know what's funny is that he's like, 644 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,200 Speaker 1: please don't suck me too much, but also funck me 645 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,239 Speaker 1: in all these different ways as soon as possible. These 646 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,359 Speaker 1: are These are select quotations from these letters, but at 647 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,359 Speaker 1: the beginning of this one, he's talking about how he's 648 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:21,359 Speaker 1: jerked off so much to her letters that his dick 649 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 1: barely works anymore. So he's like, when I come home, like, 650 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,799 Speaker 1: I'm not going to stop you from sucking me, but 651 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 1: please give me a second to try and get back 652 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,720 Speaker 1: to normal, because I'm jerking off too much while you're gone, 653 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: don't judge my performance right away. I need some man. 654 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 1: I mean, these letters go on and again. These certainly 655 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 1: are some of the most lascivious writing from the selections 656 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 1: that we found. But it's by no means the bulk 657 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 1: of it. And if you want to read more, just 658 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: it's not hard. Google James Joyce fart letters or whatever, 659 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,799 Speaker 1: and you're going to find him. It's not hard. That's 660 00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: what Nora says. He does end that last letter quote 661 00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 1: a hundred thousand kisses Darling. So again it's this kind 662 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: of beautiful look at these two little love birds. Right now, 663 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,280 Speaker 1: let's go back to the ethical questions, because this clearly 664 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 1: is a correspondence meant to be private between two people, right, 665 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 1: and I felt that reading these along, I'm laughing and 666 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,759 Speaker 1: then I think, oh wait, they don't want me to 667 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 1: know this. And there's an angle of this that feels 668 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: a lot like leaking a sex tape or private pictures 669 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: in the modern age. Right once I'm reading them, I'm like, 670 00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,719 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have this. So there's kind of an uncomfortable 671 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:41,759 Speaker 1: nous to it. But since they're out there and there's 672 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 1: nothing to be done about it, now, um, I did 673 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 1: feel comfortable bringing them out of this show as a 674 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 1: means for examining relationships and the way that we do 675 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:52,439 Speaker 1: on this show. Uh, we could sit here and laugh 676 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: at how James Joyce gets turned on by parts, and 677 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 1: we do, we have been and will. But at the 678 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,920 Speaker 1: heart of it, this is again just another layer pulled 679 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: back on our desires and our sexuality and interests that 680 00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:10,080 Speaker 1: we're so often burying and hiding and being ashamed of 681 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 1: when there's really no reason to. Yeah, I don't want 682 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 1: anyone's kinks like in my face at that kind of content. Absolutely, 683 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,640 Speaker 1: I don't want your sex capades getting blasted out in 684 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: the world, like nobody wants you farting in each other's 685 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 1: face on the subway, Right, do not do that. I'm 686 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 1: sure someone has to. But that doesn't mean that we 687 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 1: should be trying so desperately to keep all this stuff hidden, Right, Like, 688 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 1: I don't want farts anywhere near my face. But that 689 00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that James Joyce and Nora Barnicle have anything 690 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,520 Speaker 1: to be ashamed of, right, And I know that doesn't 691 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 1: That still doesn't up them into us publicly reading all 692 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:55,279 Speaker 1: our private letters long after they're gone. Um, But historically 693 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,319 Speaker 1: I think there's some value to it because not only 694 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 1: again are we sort of kind of stepping back and 695 00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 1: saying this is normal. Everybody has this weirdness to them 696 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,800 Speaker 1: and we all pretend like we don't, but it also 697 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: shows us that we have this image of what people 698 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 1: were like in history, especially like in the UK, everyone 699 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 1: was so proper and firm, and the rules were so 700 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,520 Speaker 1: strict and rigid, but underneath it all, they were just 701 00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 1: like we are today. They thought farts were funny and 702 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,799 Speaker 1: they like to fuck like that's that's I think that's 703 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:26,440 Speaker 1: really interesting to go back and look at and be 704 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 1: reminded of that we're always the same, no matter how 705 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,320 Speaker 1: much how many coats of paint we put on the outside, 706 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: We're always the same. So to me, you know, for 707 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,239 Speaker 1: to me, that sort of justifies this. I really love 708 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 1: this for the two of them, and I think that 709 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,880 Speaker 1: looking at these letters on this show for the purposes 710 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 1: of like broadening our appreciation for different kinds of love 711 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 1: and attraction, which is kind of what this show has 712 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 1: sort of become all about in a lot of ways. Yeah, 713 00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,880 Speaker 1: So that's how I justify myself reading these letters to 714 00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,720 Speaker 1: however many does of you are out there listening right right. 715 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 1: I mean I feel that it can be tough, I 716 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 1: think from a history perspective, because if I were the 717 00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,839 Speaker 1: historian who discovered these letters, it would be very hard 718 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: to contain your excitement to share something new about such 719 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,880 Speaker 1: a respected literary figure with all. I mean honestly, as 720 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: soon as you said that, I was like, I wouldn't 721 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,439 Speaker 1: even be thinking about the world at large. I would 722 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 1: be thinking about other scholars like me who cared about 723 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,640 Speaker 1: James Joyce being equally geeked out and excited to read 724 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 1: more of his writing period, no matter what it was. 725 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,120 Speaker 1: And it's fard pucking letters, which is like very exciting 726 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,480 Speaker 1: and different for him. Again, he didn't curse and stuff, 727 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 1: So like, what a totally different side to see if 728 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,960 Speaker 1: this person um, But I feel you it does it 729 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,440 Speaker 1: does a smack of leaking a sex tape or something 730 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 1: like that, because it clearly these were not meant to 731 00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 1: be shared. This This is like you know, when you 732 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 1: have a marriage, there's certain things you can say to 733 00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 1: each other that you would never say to anyone else. 734 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 1: That's sort of what's special about it. And so it 735 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:04,399 Speaker 1: is it is a little bit weird, but I feel 736 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:10,279 Speaker 1: you they're already out there, so we're podcasters and fuck it, Yeah, 737 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,319 Speaker 1: let's share it. But yeah, I think there's you do 738 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,759 Speaker 1: probably come across that question as an historian. Okay, I 739 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 1: found this thing, but is it okay for me to 740 00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,759 Speaker 1: share it? Or should I not have found it? We're 741 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:26,160 Speaker 1: digging through people's personal lives. That's what history is. It is, yeah, 742 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,280 Speaker 1: and I mean as to your point about broadening people's 743 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: perspectives on attraction and love and also historical figures and 744 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: what people really were like throughout the time. Like that's 745 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,320 Speaker 1: what I liked about our Ancient Egypt episode and finding 746 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,799 Speaker 1: out that there's like trash talking, like you go back 747 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 1: and see graffiti or like pictures of dicks and Pompeii 748 00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:51,440 Speaker 1: or whatever. It's like we, you know, humans are pretty consistent, 749 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 1: Like maybe the things around us are different, but throughout 750 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 1: time we we have always laughed at a fart I 751 00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 1: think the recorded joke in history as a fartime, and 752 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:06,720 Speaker 1: and then yeah, we love to draw a dick on things, 753 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 1: and you know, we love to roast each other. It's 754 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:12,080 Speaker 1: all very very consistent, and that can be such a 755 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:16,040 Speaker 1: lovely humanizing line I think through history and what makes 756 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 1: it so compelling to study, at least for me. Yeah, 757 00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,319 Speaker 1: and and these are just the dirtiest of many many 758 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,840 Speaker 1: letters that they wrote to each other throughout their relationship. 759 00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:29,960 Speaker 1: They weren't all about fart fucking. I mean, once Joyce 760 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 1: wrote quote her soul, her name, her eyes, they seemed 761 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:39,799 Speaker 1: to me like strange, beautiful blue wildflowers growing in some tangled, 762 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 1: rain drenched hdge. And I have felt her soul tremble 763 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 1: beside mine, and have spoken her name softly to the night, 764 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,720 Speaker 1: and have wept to see the beauty of the world 765 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: passing like a dream behind her eyes. I mean, please 766 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,799 Speaker 1: write me a love letter like that's so beautiful. I'll 767 00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,920 Speaker 1: be the first say it, James Joyce is good, right, 768 00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,839 Speaker 1: you're the first to say it. I'll say it. Say 769 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 1: it hot, take over here, romance. So yeah, it wasn't 770 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,319 Speaker 1: all farts and arses. In fact, there was a point 771 00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,360 Speaker 1: while Joyce was in Dublin and Nora was in Triesque 772 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 1: raising their children, where he got the idea in his 773 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,000 Speaker 1: head that she had been unfaithful to him in the 774 00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:24,399 Speaker 1: early years of their relationship, and he wrote to her 775 00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:28,919 Speaker 1: and berated himself, attacked her for her betrayal and said 776 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,360 Speaker 1: that her cheating on him was proof that he was 777 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: unworthy of her, and this started to piss Nora off. 778 00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: Okay because our girl, like we said, strong opinion, sharp wit. 779 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,839 Speaker 1: She's like, what then is this? She apparently wrote back 780 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:48,840 Speaker 1: and threatened to leave him smart and they managed to 781 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 1: clarify that it was a misunderstanding, and Joyce wrote some 782 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 1: rather florid apologies quote, I have lost your esteem. I 783 00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:00,800 Speaker 1: have worn down your love. Let me say back again 784 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 1: into the mire I came from. Leave me. It is 785 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,480 Speaker 1: a degradation and a shame for you to live with 786 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,319 Speaker 1: a low wretch like me. If you leave me, I 787 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,719 Speaker 1: shall live forever with your memory, holier than God to me. 788 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,280 Speaker 1: I shall pray to your name. I will not sign 789 00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,160 Speaker 1: my name because it is the name you called me 790 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 1: when you loved me and honored me and gave me 791 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 1: your young, tender soul to wound and betray. So yeah, 792 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: he's a bit dramatic, little bedroomatic, a little much, And 793 00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 1: I could see Norah getting kind of irritated at this, like, 794 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 1: all right, just say you're sorry, Okay, what is this toxic? Stop? 795 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: Let me just stand before you and punch myself in 796 00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:45,319 Speaker 1: the face to forgive me please, all right? I mean 797 00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 1: at least he stopped short of saying if you leave me, 798 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,920 Speaker 1: I'll kill myself something crazy like that, which is a 799 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:54,240 Speaker 1: great way to trap a woman into a relationships. Yes, horrible, 800 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 1: not cool, but it kind of it kind of has 801 00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,799 Speaker 1: that sent to it. I definitely was getting that set 802 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,560 Speaker 1: to and I was like, this is a toxic letter. 803 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:06,120 Speaker 1: I hope. Nora was like, I'm about to spank your 804 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:09,799 Speaker 1: ours until you were shut up. Yes. They did get 805 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,760 Speaker 1: through this, worked it out and got back to normal. Good. 806 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:18,880 Speaker 1: That's a good thing. Years later now James Joyce, famous 807 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: author James Joyce, they're living comfortably in London. Although Joyce's 808 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,879 Speaker 1: eyesight had deteriorated considerably, he now frequently wore an eye 809 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,960 Speaker 1: patched over his left eye, and he wrote on large 810 00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,840 Speaker 1: sheets of white paper with a red crayon. So if 811 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 1: anyone says you need a fancy computer to be a writer. 812 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:42,799 Speaker 1: M Ulysses had been a hit, although not everyone loved it, 813 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 1: including Nora, who loved his writing but said of Ulysses, quote, 814 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 1: why don't you write sensible books that people can understand? 815 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 1: I feel like a thousand English professors were like, thank you, 816 00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,719 Speaker 1: Virginia Wolf, a contemporary of his, compared his writing to 817 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:05,920 Speaker 1: quote a queasy undergraduate scratching his pimples. One hopes he'll 818 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,360 Speaker 1: grow out of it, But as Joyce is forty, this 819 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 1: scarcely seems likely burn skeething burn out. And H. G. 820 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 1: Wells wrote about Joyce's novel Finnigan's Wake, quote, who the 821 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 1: hell is this Joyce? Who demands so many waking hours 822 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,880 Speaker 1: that a few thousand I have left to live for 823 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:32,440 Speaker 1: a proper appreciation of his quirks and fancies and flashes 824 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 1: of rendering. I only got a little while left to live, 825 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:42,480 Speaker 1: and you're wasting it. I love his Yollo James Joyce, 826 00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:47,000 Speaker 1: and I don't have time for this damn book, which amen. 827 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,520 Speaker 1: I think that's kind of what I said. And I 828 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,799 Speaker 1: cracked it open at like a Walden Books one day 829 00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,000 Speaker 1: in high school. I was like, you know what, never mind, 830 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm sixteen, I've only got seventy something years left. And 831 00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:02,480 Speaker 1: I know people love these books. I know people who 832 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:06,080 Speaker 1: really appreciate them. I read some blogs. Because Finnigan's Wake 833 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 1: widely regarded as the most difficult novel to read in 834 00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:12,479 Speaker 1: the English language, Ulysses is often cited as number two 835 00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: way to write two of the most difficult scary because 836 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: they are very long drawn out. Like I said, a 837 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,960 Speaker 1: whole chapter of Ulysses is said to be just one 838 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,840 Speaker 1: sentence long. Um. He uses lots of different languages that 839 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,359 Speaker 1: he mashes together. He'll he goes on these tangents and 840 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 1: just takes pages and pages and pages before he gets 841 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: back to his original point. Anyway, I think the point 842 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,800 Speaker 1: I was making in true James Joyce style before I 843 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,840 Speaker 1: went in this tangent is that some people love his books. 844 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 1: I've read that once he gets into it and can 845 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:48,839 Speaker 1: kind of pieced altogether, they're very funny, very interesting. They're 846 00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: not as like areadite and academic as someone have you believe, 847 00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,560 Speaker 1: um that they're actually pretty light once you kind of 848 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,600 Speaker 1: get underneath the text. Um. So I don't know my 849 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,200 Speaker 1: go for it. Let me know if you've read it. Yeah, 850 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: give us your stories. I'd love to give him a 851 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:08,360 Speaker 1: whirl sometime. I mean maybe they're maybe you need a 852 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 1: companion like a reader to kind of help you out, 853 00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 1: you know those side by side Shakespeare's where it's like, 854 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,319 Speaker 1: here's the original test and then how they would say 855 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,919 Speaker 1: it today. I was like, let me eat this guy 856 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 1: off the door or whatever. I need that. Well, among 857 00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:29,239 Speaker 1: his biggest supporters and friends, a man who really did 858 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 1: like Ulysses was Ernest Hemingway. Hey, there you go. The 859 00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,560 Speaker 1: two of them were also drinking buddies, which I can't 860 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 1: imagine being at that table. I think our livers would 861 00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,839 Speaker 1: explode before got a little tipsy, you think, I don't 862 00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 1: think they would have let us had any They wouldn't 863 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:46,920 Speaker 1: have been as soon as a drink got poured on 864 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,520 Speaker 1: the table, it's gone. God, Wow, these writers are fast 865 00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: at night. They would go out and they'd piss people 866 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,840 Speaker 1: off and get into fights. And Norah actually kind of 867 00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 1: encouraged this because she agree with James when he sort 868 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,600 Speaker 1: of complained about himself and said, I'm getting too suburban. 869 00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,120 Speaker 1: I've been too sheltered for too long. I need to 870 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:10,359 Speaker 1: get out and see the world, And like, why don't 871 00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,920 Speaker 1: you write a sensible book that people can understand. You 872 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,200 Speaker 1: don't get out there getting a fight or something. Jeez, 873 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 1: you get punched in the face and then try and 874 00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,400 Speaker 1: write something. I've got the kids tonight. Why don't you 875 00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 1: go out drinking with Hemingway and get into a few fistfights. 876 00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,439 Speaker 1: So they would go out, they get drunk, and James 877 00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:29,680 Speaker 1: would end up picking a fight with somebody and Hemingway said, quote, 878 00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,719 Speaker 1: he couldn't even see the man, so he'd say, deal 879 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,719 Speaker 1: with him, Hemingway, deal with him. I love picturing him 880 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 1: like behind Hemingway like face. Hemingway is a big dude. Yeah, 881 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,439 Speaker 1: who likes to say it to his face. But yeah, 882 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:49,080 Speaker 1: I mean back in the day, authors were these like 883 00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,759 Speaker 1: fistfighting drunks, you know, which is not a time I'm 884 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 1: looking forward to getting back to. But it is interesting 885 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,479 Speaker 1: how different we looked at it and how we teach 886 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:01,319 Speaker 1: literature today. Is this very delicate art form and there's 887 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,200 Speaker 1: so much refinery to it. And if you read Ulysses, 888 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 1: you're an adit scholar. When it's like no, maybe you're 889 00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 1: just a drunk who likes to get in a fist fight. 890 00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 1: Then you might like this book too. I know, right, 891 00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:13,520 Speaker 1: maybe if you read Ulysses drunk, it would make a 892 00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:17,560 Speaker 1: perfect sense. Anyone tried that. You do an experiment that 893 00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 1: will be our next podcast. Get really drunk and read 894 00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,960 Speaker 1: Ulysses to each other and we'll be like, I don't 895 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,560 Speaker 1: know what everyone's complained about this was perfect sense to me. 896 00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:31,000 Speaker 1: In one James and Nora had been together for twenty 897 00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 1: seven years, they had two children, and we're living well. 898 00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 1: But they had never been married, and they had actually 899 00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:40,680 Speaker 1: been lying all these years once Joyce got famous and 900 00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 1: had told the press that they were married in Australia 901 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 1: back in nineteen o four, the year they met. But 902 00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:50,160 Speaker 1: they realized that for the sake of their children's easy inheritance, 903 00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:53,359 Speaker 1: they would have to do it legally and officially, so, 904 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,040 Speaker 1: I mean, the last thing they wanted was a big 905 00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:58,160 Speaker 1: public wedding, obviously, because they were supposed to already be married. 906 00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,200 Speaker 1: So he wrote to his brother George and his American wife, quote, 907 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 1: the marriage has been arranged for Saturday, July four, my 908 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:09,000 Speaker 1: father's birthday and that of my brother George, to say 909 00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:13,919 Speaker 1: nothing of American independence, at the hours of am Greenwich time. 910 00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 1: To throw people off the scent. The bride will wear 911 00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:20,280 Speaker 1: her lifeguard uniform, while the groom will be in green 912 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,640 Speaker 1: satin with a white veil and an orange umbrella, the 913 00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:27,120 Speaker 1: colors of the Irish flag, which I don't know why 914 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:31,239 Speaker 1: I immediately thought of like a baywatch bathing suits a 915 00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 1: lifeguard uniform. I mean, there's no pictures, sadly, and I 916 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:38,040 Speaker 1: couldn't even find if this ended up being true. He's kidding, 917 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:43,480 Speaker 1: but but his outfit next to a Baywatch bathing suit, 918 00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:48,120 Speaker 1: his his his green satin suit is looking like one 919 00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,640 Speaker 1: of the dumb and Dumber tuxedos. The real frilly chest piece. 920 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,560 Speaker 1: Totally okay, this is what we're wearing to Bloom's day. 921 00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna find a lifeguard uniform. You're gonna wear an 922 00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 1: orange umbre. But you gotta have a little fark cloud 923 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 1: coming up the you know, I'll have a little like, um, 924 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,839 Speaker 1: what's that emoji? Looks like a little you have that 925 00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,560 Speaker 1: coming out? And then I'll have a little like I'll 926 00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:15,880 Speaker 1: just play quick merry Cracks or fat Fellows. Yeah, you 927 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,040 Speaker 1: have a little device each button that can do one 928 00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:22,280 Speaker 1: of those four categories, which now Irish Central dot Com 929 00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,160 Speaker 1: writes that they tried to keep the news of their 930 00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 1: civil ceremony as quiet as possible, and they waited until 931 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,800 Speaker 1: just two days before their marriage to apply for the license. 932 00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:35,120 Speaker 1: Joyce also left the profession field on the license form blank, 933 00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,440 Speaker 1: so just anything to stop people from discovering that they 934 00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:41,240 Speaker 1: were getting married. But it wasn't long before a reporter 935 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,600 Speaker 1: uncovered his name when they were sorting through the advanced 936 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:46,840 Speaker 1: notices of the registry office. I guess that's what you 937 00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,240 Speaker 1: did for news back in the day I was getting married, 938 00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:53,080 Speaker 1: I guess, so, yeah, I found a secret marriages. Yeah 939 00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,360 Speaker 1: this guy, this guy probably searched the wedding registry's every 940 00:55:56,440 --> 00:56:00,160 Speaker 1: day for years, never found anything, and people were like, 941 00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,200 Speaker 1: stop doing that, there's no story in there. He's like, 942 00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:05,000 Speaker 1: one day, one day, I'm going to win that Nobel 943 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,719 Speaker 1: Prize for marriage reporting. Yeah. He spaised like an ambulance 944 00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:15,279 Speaker 1: chaser of reporters, wedding chaser. So of course he finds this, 945 00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,160 Speaker 1: and the news gets out that James Joyce Nora Barticle 946 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 1: are getting married, which was stranged everyone, and soon they're 947 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,240 Speaker 1: hounded by reporters. Why you getting married though you're already married? 948 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,719 Speaker 1: What's with the marriage? James? They tried to tell the 949 00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:31,560 Speaker 1: press that there was an issue with their Australian wedding. 950 00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,960 Speaker 1: Oh you know, Nora tried to use a fake class 951 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 1: name back then because of all her family issues. So 952 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:40,640 Speaker 1: it turns out our wedding was invalid um. But the 953 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,719 Speaker 1: reporters didn't buy it. They were like, no, you haven't 954 00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 1: been married. Something's going on here. We're going to get 955 00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:48,440 Speaker 1: to the bottom of it. So a reporter showed up 956 00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,000 Speaker 1: to his house the day of the wedding, and while 957 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,719 Speaker 1: Joyce at first kicked him out, he came back with 958 00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:57,960 Speaker 1: an offer from his editor. James wrote, quote, They offered 959 00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,279 Speaker 1: me half the middle page if I would write an 960 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,839 Speaker 1: article on modern marriage and free love. And if I did, 961 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:05,960 Speaker 1: I would be well paid, and if I did not, 962 00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:08,719 Speaker 1: the paper would hold itself free to deal with my 963 00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:13,319 Speaker 1: double marriage as it pleased. But he was unfazed and 964 00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:16,480 Speaker 1: said quote. I told him to inform his editor that 965 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 1: I did not write for the press, nor did I 966 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 1: read it, but that my lawyer would read with the 967 00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:25,400 Speaker 1: proper attention anything they might publish. The Express came out 968 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:29,160 Speaker 1: the next day without a word. You know, I don't 969 00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:34,880 Speaker 1: read your paper, but my lawyer sure does, and very carefully. 970 00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:40,320 Speaker 1: I am very fine. Never mind, we won't write ship. 971 00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: So the two of them were married quietly, and they 972 00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,280 Speaker 1: lived happily together. They did have some quarrels over the 973 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,520 Speaker 1: years about James's drinking, and she did threaten to leave 974 00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 1: him a few times, but they always got back together. 975 00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:56,280 Speaker 1: They treated each other well and speculation station. She spent 976 00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:59,160 Speaker 1: many years farting in his face, and he was able 977 00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:01,480 Speaker 1: to walk into a room whom near blind and sniff 978 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:04,120 Speaker 1: her out of a crowd of ladies farting, as was 979 00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 1: his dream. Listen, you know when you're missing one of 980 00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 1: your senses, you have to rely on the other ones. 981 00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,360 Speaker 1: I love this room of ladies farting. It's just like, oh, 982 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: we just like to get together every week and fart together. 983 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:25,600 Speaker 1: We've been holding it in it's like a G four 984 00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:29,240 Speaker 1: summit of while these European countries. But Nora goes and 985 00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:32,560 Speaker 1: she's like, I'm fresh out of farts. James wanted a 986 00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:37,800 Speaker 1: quickie this morning. The other ladies are like, I haven't 987 00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:41,200 Speaker 1: farted for twenty three years, so I have a lot 988 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:46,560 Speaker 1: of tiny, little naughty farties now. Nora served as the 989 00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 1: model for several characters of James's works, and according to 990 00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:55,200 Speaker 1: the James Joyce Center Quote, her idiomatic expressions pervade the 991 00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:59,479 Speaker 1: speech and thoughts of some of Joyce's most important characters. 992 00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:03,320 Speaker 1: So really strong relationship between them, really important people to 993 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 1: each other well. And she had such a cool, like 994 00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:08,760 Speaker 1: interesting character herself that I'm sure he was like, I 995 00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:13,920 Speaker 1: need to like some of this. Yeah. James underwent surgery 996 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:17,520 Speaker 1: in Zurich for a perforated intestinal ulcer and went into 997 00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:21,440 Speaker 1: a coma. He awoke briefly after this and asked a 998 00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,240 Speaker 1: nurse to call his wife and son to come see him. 999 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,840 Speaker 1: They were on their way when he died, just short 1000 00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:30,600 Speaker 1: of his fifty ninth birthday. His last words are said 1001 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 1: to have befitted his notoriously difficult writings. Quote, does nobody understand? 1002 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:38,840 Speaker 1: That's tough. I hate to think that he felt like 1003 00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:41,480 Speaker 1: nobody understood his works, But I think, just like today, 1004 00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 1: it's just a lot of people just didn't care for it, 1005 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:46,600 Speaker 1: and a lot of people really thought it was important, 1006 00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 1: and that's that could be the sign of a great 1007 00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:51,480 Speaker 1: artist too. I do think those are sad last words, though, 1008 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:55,800 Speaker 1: because nobody understand. And he you know, maybe he was 1009 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,240 Speaker 1: talking about the Swiss doctors. You know, he's like, no, 1010 00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,800 Speaker 1: my left arm hurts, you're working on my right, you know, understand. 1011 01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,240 Speaker 1: I don't know that's true. Or he was like, I mean, 1012 01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:08,200 Speaker 1: you know, they say, close to death, you can be 1013 01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,480 Speaker 1: totally in another place in the brain, so you might 1014 01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:15,680 Speaker 1: be talking about something completely unrelated to anything. The Irish 1015 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:19,320 Speaker 1: government refused to bring his remains back to Ireland. Yeah, 1016 01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,040 Speaker 1: and it's not really clear exactly why I couldn't find 1017 01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:24,680 Speaker 1: a lot of information on this. Probably because he was 1018 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:29,520 Speaker 1: so outspoken throughout his life about Irish political issues, and 1019 01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,000 Speaker 1: maybe they were just like, now we're not going to 1020 01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 1: waste the time on him. So yeah, James Joyce was 1021 01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 1: buried in Zurich, Switzerland, since he's still controversial in Ireland, 1022 01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,320 Speaker 1: and Nora decided to remain there. She worked actively in 1023 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,560 Speaker 1: decisions about his estate. She suffered from arthritis and by 1024 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:48,760 Speaker 1: nineteen fifties she had a difficult time walking, and she 1025 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,480 Speaker 1: died of kidney failure in nineteen fifty one and was 1026 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 1: buried in the same cemetery as James, although not nearby him, unfortunately. 1027 01:00:57,120 --> 01:01:00,520 Speaker 1: But in nineteen sixty six her remains removed and they 1028 01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:04,200 Speaker 1: were placed together in a single plot. Yeah, it's nice 1029 01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:07,520 Speaker 1: they got them together at some points. Yeah, for their sake, 1030 01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:10,000 Speaker 1: they should have buried those letters in there with them. Okay, 1031 01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,880 Speaker 1: but here we are about it. This is a great 1032 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:16,080 Speaker 1: reason why so many people were like, please burn all 1033 01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:18,600 Speaker 1: my papers after I die. I mean, it was like 1034 01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:21,600 Speaker 1: the historical equivalent of please delete my search history before 1035 01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:26,600 Speaker 1: my mom gets But it is a special story, and 1036 01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:31,880 Speaker 1: again it's a unique couple of a private look into 1037 01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:35,920 Speaker 1: someone's life that shows us that we're all freaks. You know, 1038 01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:39,560 Speaker 1: we're not even if we're not sexual deviance. We all 1039 01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:43,280 Speaker 1: have something that we love that we feel like we 1040 01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,880 Speaker 1: shouldn't and that's weird to me. You know, if you're 1041 01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 1: enjoying something, if it's improving or enhancing your life experience 1042 01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:55,200 Speaker 1: in any way, and it's not harming anyone else's, then 1043 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:59,320 Speaker 1: we shouldn't be so ashamed. I think if there's consent there, yeah, 1044 01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:02,960 Speaker 1: there's really a wrong way to have sex right right well, 1045 01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,640 Speaker 1: and and beyond sex, I think two was also the 1046 01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,240 Speaker 1: bottom point. But it doesn't even just have to be 1047 01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:10,600 Speaker 1: about sex. But there's there's lots of stuff that we're 1048 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:14,400 Speaker 1: embarrassed by or we feel like shouldn't be true about us. 1049 01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:17,240 Speaker 1: But in fact that's just that's just the made up 1050 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:20,200 Speaker 1: bullshit rules we all decided to live under for some reason. 1051 01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,120 Speaker 1: That's true. One, at the end of the day, we 1052 01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:25,240 Speaker 1: should all be picking berries off of bushes and trying 1053 01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:28,080 Speaker 1: not to get eaten by bears, like, but for some reason, 1054 01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 1: we made Nintendos and now we sit around in our 1055 01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:35,680 Speaker 1: underwear getting high all day, Like what what happened in 1056 01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:39,920 Speaker 1: between those two things? There's a lot of shame, shame, 1057 01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:43,480 Speaker 1: a lot of shame. It's true, It's so true, right, 1058 01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 1: And how much more difficult is that shame when you 1059 01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,720 Speaker 1: were raised in an Irish Catholic private school. Very true. 1060 01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 1: And that that's something about Nora that I think is 1061 01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,480 Speaker 1: really interesting, is like growing up in a such a 1062 01:02:54,560 --> 01:03:02,480 Speaker 1: restrictive and repressive place, especially about sexual reality. You're being outspoken, 1063 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,959 Speaker 1: being cute, even just being cute. It's not even about 1064 01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:09,280 Speaker 1: like I'm being promiscuous. I'm just like looking cute and 1065 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,560 Speaker 1: people notice me, and all of a sudden it's my 1066 01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:14,720 Speaker 1: fault that I look cute. That's how I was born. Sorry, 1067 01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And also someone else's attention 1068 01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:21,160 Speaker 1: is not my problem, like I didn't anyway, We don't 1069 01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:23,200 Speaker 1: have to do all that. But I just really like 1070 01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:25,840 Speaker 1: that she. I mean, it just shows you how that 1071 01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,360 Speaker 1: doesn't really work in the long run. You know, you 1072 01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:33,840 Speaker 1: had her sister Kathleen and her both fully rebelling against 1073 01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,600 Speaker 1: all that, even though they were like being beaten with 1074 01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:40,919 Speaker 1: sticks and I mean probably threatened with a convent once 1075 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,720 Speaker 1: or twice, it didn't matter, you know, It's it's more 1076 01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,440 Speaker 1: being being true to yourself. It's more important. Well, and 1077 01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:51,280 Speaker 1: it's a generalization, but it does seem like you've got 1078 01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:54,240 Speaker 1: to end results there with this kind of strict upbringing. 1079 01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:57,560 Speaker 1: Either you rebel and become the total opposite of that, 1080 01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:02,000 Speaker 1: or you become the same and you are a miserable, angry, 1081 01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:05,320 Speaker 1: repressed person who takes it out on your children or 1082 01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:09,000 Speaker 1: your students or whatever, and you just perpetuate that cycle 1083 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:14,320 Speaker 1: of what's effectively violence. Um. And so it's like, hey, 1084 01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:17,480 Speaker 1: maybe this isn't working because it's either creating more monsters 1085 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:21,760 Speaker 1: like me, or it's doing the exact opposite and creating 1086 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:23,720 Speaker 1: a complete opposite of what I'm trying to do. So 1087 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: maybe a different approach, maybe positive reinforcement. Maybe just teach 1088 01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:32,680 Speaker 1: people about the world and how to live in it, 1089 01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:34,760 Speaker 1: and teach them to be good people and they'll make 1090 01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,760 Speaker 1: their own decisions. I don't know. I'm not a I'm 1091 01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 1: not a Catholic nun from the eighteen hundreds, thank god. 1092 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,720 Speaker 1: And I mean, maybe men should take responsibility for their 1093 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 1: own well, I don't know if we need to start 1094 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 1: claiming that, Oh no, responsibility is a complicated thing, and 1095 01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:59,280 Speaker 1: I don't want it, so I'm not going to take it. 1096 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,800 Speaker 1: It's not a out. I'm just thinking about her on 1097 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,960 Speaker 1: that priest lap, like reaching up her skirt and she's like, hey, 1098 01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:06,520 Speaker 1: what are you doing? And he's like, look what you 1099 01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,920 Speaker 1: made me do? Like what how did I make you do? 1100 01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:13,400 Speaker 1: Any of that? She's like, I wish I could far 1101 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:16,440 Speaker 1: in this priest's face right now. One day someone will 1102 01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:20,600 Speaker 1: really appreciate that about me. I wish she had fared 1103 01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:28,240 Speaker 1: in his face to a nice fat fellow right for him. 1104 01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:32,360 Speaker 1: A couple of quick cracks. Here's a merry little crack. 1105 01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,560 Speaker 1: I really hope you all enjoyed that. It's a little 1106 01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,680 Speaker 1: different than our usual stories. Again, we could we could 1107 01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,040 Speaker 1: go into the biographies of these people all day long, 1108 01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:43,680 Speaker 1: and there's a lot of little details that are all 1109 01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:46,840 Speaker 1: very interesting. Um But just looking at this kind of 1110 01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:51,640 Speaker 1: really zeroing in on this element of their relationship and 1111 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,440 Speaker 1: uh and getting a broad picture of what they were 1112 01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:57,600 Speaker 1: like together, I think I think it's a really fascinating story. Absolutely. 1113 01:05:58,120 --> 01:05:59,920 Speaker 1: Um So, I hope you all enjoyed it as well. 1114 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,400 Speaker 1: Hope you had a good laugh. I hope it didn't 1115 01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:06,200 Speaker 1: feel too weird peering through the curtain from these people's 1116 01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:11,720 Speaker 1: freaky sex life. You're like, what's that smell? Well, I 1117 01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 1: know that's smell anywhere. That's Nora Barnacle is Oh please uh, 1118 01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:22,520 Speaker 1: she doesn't email, send us an audio file of your 1119 01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:32,439 Speaker 1: big Fat fellows on the air, some Nora Barnacle appreciation posts. Also, 1120 01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:36,000 Speaker 1: if you've been to Bloomsday, especially if you've dressed up, 1121 01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:39,240 Speaker 1: please send us some pictures because I would love to 1122 01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:42,760 Speaker 1: see that. That would be dope. But yeah, and if 1123 01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,000 Speaker 1: you're in Dublin, let us know we're coming to you 1124 01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:46,920 Speaker 1: at some point one day. I'll have to come to 1125 01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:50,800 Speaker 1: the list our bucket lists for sure, but yeah, reach 1126 01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:53,080 Speaker 1: out to us. Sho doesn't email. Romance and I heart 1127 01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,280 Speaker 1: media dot com Yeah, or slide into the d m 1128 01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:57,880 Speaker 1: s on Twitter and Instagram. I'm at Dynamite Boom and 1129 01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm at oh great. It's Eli shows a predict Romance. 1130 01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:03,280 Speaker 1: We cannot wait to hear from you, and we can't 1131 01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:05,840 Speaker 1: wait to bring you another exciting episode later this week. Yep, 1132 01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:08,640 Speaker 1: thanks as always for spending your time with us. You know, 1133 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:10,600 Speaker 1: like waffle House says, we know you have a choice, 1134 01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:14,360 Speaker 1: and you chose us. That's right, thank you, all right, 1135 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:19,560 Speaker 1: so we will see all you fellows next time. Bat song, Frances, 1136 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:23,800 Speaker 1: time to go. Thanks so listening to our show. Tell 1137 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:27,160 Speaker 1: your friends name's uncle Sandance to listen to a show 1138 01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:28,480 Speaker 1: Ridiculous roll Nance