WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High Value Man

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated the way that trends go.

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting because I'd say, lately, with the calls that

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<v Speaker 2>we've been getting for second dates, people seem to expect

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<v Speaker 2>way more than they used to just a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>You mean, from like a relationship or from a first

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<v Speaker 3>date or the first date.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't seeing people stay single waiting to find the

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<v Speaker 2>right match because the options just aren't good enough.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Like it wasn't magic the first time you met someone.

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<v Speaker 2>They want to be impressed right away or they're not

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<v Speaker 2>even going to waste their time, okay. And that's why

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<v Speaker 2>our listener today, Ena says she only goes out with

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<v Speaker 2>high value men.

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<v Speaker 3>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out in a second Ino, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually it is, oh it sorry, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>High value. I mean the first thing I think that

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<v Speaker 3>comes everybody's mind is just like a dollar symbol. Is

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<v Speaker 3>that what you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like not necessarily all about money, but I

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<v Speaker 4>want to go with a guy that knows.

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<v Speaker 5>How to cheat a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and knows how to pronounce your name properly in

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<v Speaker 2>the first five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if this was a first date, you already would

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<v Speaker 1>have asked for the check.

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<v Speaker 3>He you better have asked for the check, because yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm high value and I would never let I know.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all learning lessons here, but let's learn more about

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<v Speaker 2>the guy that you went out with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>What was high value about Corey from his I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 3>dating profile.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I'm at her online and like I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>we can act it. He looked the part totally, like

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<v Speaker 4>nice outfit, like his car.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a little bit superficial. I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm starting to think high value is less about how

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<v Speaker 3>they're treating you and more about how much money they have.

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<v Speaker 5>I see how you think that.

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<v Speaker 4>But like he also had pictures of him traveling, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean. And Okay, his life is okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>lifestyle money is needed.

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<v Speaker 6>First, there's guys post him like drinking with their friends

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<v Speaker 6>in a basement still on their profiles.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's looking for someone who has interest.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he also does skiing and golf, so he's like

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<v Speaker 4>super active like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And also those are very rich hobbies.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, but whatever he's we're not going to money

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<v Speaker 3>shame him.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what's the most important. So did you end

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<v Speaker 2>up going out with him in person.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So we were out for drinks first, and I

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<v Speaker 4>told him like, if.

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<v Speaker 5>Drinks went while, we could go on to dinner, but

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<v Speaker 5>if not, we can just be friends. And I'm just there.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, you told him that. What did he say to you?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly?

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<v Speaker 5>She was fine with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe he was the same, Okay, I mean that's

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<v Speaker 3>a good point of lexis, Like maybe he didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to waste the time of money. Why through dinner?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever gone out with a guy and after

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<v Speaker 2>the first like thirty minutes of drinks you gave them

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<v Speaker 2>a no?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, oh really it sounds like it's happened more

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<v Speaker 3>than once.

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<v Speaker 2>But you don't feel guilty about turning these guys away?

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<v Speaker 3>No, why when I honestly, that is a great attitude

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<v Speaker 3>to have in one that I do not have three hours.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a total pleaser.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened in the first thirty minutes of drinks with Corey?

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<v Speaker 4>But basically we went to speak easy you know, like

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<v Speaker 4>a really upscale, fancy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, where the cocktails are always like thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Two dollars high value cocktail.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't find the door, but we'll charge you more.

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<v Speaker 1>But I gives a circle so that sounds kind of nice.

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<v Speaker 4>So we had like drinks and after thirty mine it's

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<v Speaker 4>like I gave him.

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<v Speaker 5>Mumps up saying let's go to dinner, you know, because

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<v Speaker 5>it was going well.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, he passed the first test.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I felt like he liked me.

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<v Speaker 5>So we went to a French restaurant for dinner after that.

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<v Speaker 3>You are chancy. Okay, what were you connecting over?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly?

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<v Speaker 5>Just like how fancy everything was?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's what you connected over.

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<v Speaker 6>That?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what about connecting with Corey himself as a person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's where I'm met Jess.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like he has a good photographer. He's give

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<v Speaker 4>him my phone making pictures of me for social media

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<v Speaker 4>with the food.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I will admit I'm a terrible photographer, So Corey

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<v Speaker 2>has one up on me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he was cool taking photos of you. Like, what

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<v Speaker 3>was his reaction when you asked him?

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<v Speaker 4>No, he was he was cool because it was a

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<v Speaker 4>really cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Plant and like the lighting was perfect, amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can I ask you did we go on a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm mister, take a picture of the food, use

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<v Speaker 1>me for my money, let's do all this And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know I just feel.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, are you hitting on her? I can't tell you.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this is not an issue at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this is a great date for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your jose is perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Woman jo already calling sound But let's this is probably

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<v Speaker 2>rude to ask here, I know, but I just want

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<v Speaker 2>like a ballpark idea, Like how much at this point

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<v Speaker 2>in the night do you think the date has cost

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<v Speaker 2>so far?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean I didn't see for it, but like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm assuming dinner plus like the drinks was upwards of

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<v Speaker 4>maybe three or four hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Who wow, are you, Jeff?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you theorizing that he just can't afford to take

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<v Speaker 3>her on the second Ye?

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<v Speaker 2>No, he can't afford it in maybe two years when

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<v Speaker 2>he saves up for the next time and then he

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<v Speaker 2>has to go again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm looking for a high value man.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you can't keep up, I'd like to know

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<v Speaker 5>today the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to the bottom of it. How did the

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<v Speaker 1>fancy date end?

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<v Speaker 4>So at the end he walked me to my car.

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<v Speaker 4>I told him I had a nice time, and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't kiss on the first day.

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<v Speaker 5>A lady does not do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Answerry, So did you go for the kiss and you

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<v Speaker 2>told him that or how.

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<v Speaker 1>Did that come up?

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<v Speaker 4>He was lingering, But I told him that's my rule.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a high value woman and she needs to know

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<v Speaker 4>that that's a value of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that message came across pretty clearly the

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<v Speaker 2>entire night.

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<v Speaker 1>We all value you already, all of us. Now, what's

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<v Speaker 1>happened since that date happened? How long is it been?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you stayed in contact?

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<v Speaker 5>He hasn't answered me. He ghosted me completely.

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<v Speaker 3>Has that happened to you before?

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<v Speaker 6>Not?

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<v Speaker 4>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>This is why she's calling back.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, You're lucky AA that you reached out

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<v Speaker 2>to a high value radio show.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Does she contact someone before us?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>So sorry, you have to settle for our show, But

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna do our best for you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna come back. We'll call Corey and try and

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<v Speaker 1>get you a second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on second date update. You know what I love

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<v Speaker 2>about this show? What I learned new things every single.

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<v Speaker 3>Day, really like about how people live and date.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally, Like in part one of the Second Date, I

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<v Speaker 2>learned a high value man doesn't necessarily mean he has

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>It just means he has fancy clothes, expensive hobbies, travels

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<v Speaker 1>the world regularly, and drops up words of four hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on a first date.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, Josh, you can hitchhike all that. That is

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<v Speaker 3>not superficial.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you might as well be a starving artist for

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<v Speaker 2>all the subtle value that he was showing.

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<v Speaker 1>To a on the date first class auditions.

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<v Speaker 3>We're joking.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we learned about Corey, and now we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to learn why he's not calling Aina back.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing? Are you comfortable over there? Can we

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<v Speaker 1>get you anything? A perier with lime, perhaps sparkling or flat.

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<v Speaker 4>We have that if you're offering, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook, of course only Jeff would be able to drop out.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook's gonna put the order in on Amazon, so that

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<v Speaker 2>should arrive at your house.

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<v Speaker 1>So sorry to be basic with the limes. We should

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<v Speaker 1>have done cucumbers or something, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you better.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to learn how to be high value.

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<v Speaker 3>I gave up on that a long time, but I

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<v Speaker 3>like you. Makes you know what you want, You're going

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<v Speaker 3>after it, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's hope that Corey feels the same way. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a misunderstanding. I'm gonna call him right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, we're looking for Corey.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, this is Corey who's calling.

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<v Speaker 2>We are a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you say all like you're like let down?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like I don't know if I'm the guy you

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<v Speaker 6>want on the radio guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, no, are you offensive?

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<v Speaker 2>We We got a specific request from somebody to reach

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<v Speaker 2>out to you because you went on a date with

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<v Speaker 2>this person the other night and they had a really

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<v Speaker 2>good time with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Aina.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah, I know Ana?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you just you did? You made the same exact

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<v Speaker 1>sound that you did when we told you were a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show.

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<v Speaker 3>Us.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't get calls from radio stations every day. I

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<v Speaker 6>got stuff to do. I mean, I'm sure you guys

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<v Speaker 6>they're all cool. That's no.

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<v Speaker 1>What I meant was, why did you make that sound

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<v Speaker 1>when we mentioned her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I'm just like a little bit confused.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah understand, Okay, you're getting a random call. Well what

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<v Speaker 1>if I told you that she really really wants to

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<v Speaker 1>see you again and go on another date with you?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she doesn't want to go out with me again.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so weird. It feels like you even started the

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<v Speaker 3>call like you don't want me on the radio. She

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't want me. People want you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm telling you to help us understand what you're

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<v Speaker 2>feeling right now. Why do you say she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to go out with you because she told us about

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<v Speaker 2>the date and her review of it was pretty glowing.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, that's nice to hear, But.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't seem honored real talk.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I know, is is hot? I mean, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>we know?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, did we know?

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<v Speaker 1>We know? We know you can you can don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you guys are so weird. Okay, what what about

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<v Speaker 3>her being hot?

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<v Speaker 6>She's that, but I could tell that she was like

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<v Speaker 6>not only going to cost me money, like big money,

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<v Speaker 6>but I would probably spend the rest of my time

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<v Speaker 6>with her being like her personal Instagram photographer.

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<v Speaker 3>She told us that you took a really good picture

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<v Speaker 3>of her.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to being in a relationship with a woman. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what you're signing up.

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<v Speaker 3>I never let my husband take pictures. She's horrible at it,

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<v Speaker 3>and he does it for a profession. He takes the

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<v Speaker 3>worse pictures he does. He's like so tall and it's

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<v Speaker 3>always like picture case.

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<v Speaker 2>I like how you took that opportunity to put your

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<v Speaker 2>husband down for even trying to do something.

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<v Speaker 3>He's it's it's not a personality flaw.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just the true. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, what do you feel You feelt like she was

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<v Speaker 2>just using you for your camera skills?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, man, I mean it's like she's this influencer or something.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I was taking pictures of her by the statue,

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<v Speaker 6>and her by the fountain, and her by the window,

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<v Speaker 6>and her with her dinner. I mean it was all

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<v Speaker 6>just like too much.

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<v Speaker 3>So how many pictures do you think you took in

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<v Speaker 3>one evening?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it doesn't well, she told us, she

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<v Speaker 2>told us the only reason that she wanted so many

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<v Speaker 2>pictures was because the place that you chose was so

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<v Speaker 2>cool and you wanted to document.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't say that she took that many.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, if you would have been bad at

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<v Speaker 3>it the first time, you wouldn't have ever had to

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<v Speaker 3>take one again.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's on you, I mean maybe.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean the place was cool, the drink place was cool,

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<v Speaker 6>to speak easy was cool, French restaurant was cool. Everything

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<v Speaker 6>was was cool. But it was a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 6>and I felt this night is going the way it's going,

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<v Speaker 6>so I needed to even it out.

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<v Speaker 3>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Even it out? Like you had her take photos of

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<v Speaker 1>you all over the restaurant too?

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<v Speaker 6>Nah, not really, man. I saw how deep I was

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<v Speaker 6>getting into this date, and so when she left me

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<v Speaker 6>her phone to take like more pictures for some reason

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<v Speaker 6>why she went away to the ladies room, I opened

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<v Speaker 6>her Venmo and took what I thought was a fair

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<v Speaker 6>cut of the bill, and then it could make money

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<v Speaker 6>from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Never heard of girls doing this.

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<v Speaker 6>Even it out. I wasn't feeling any night.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you hear that other voice.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my's on the other line right now listening to this.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh come on, yeah, Like, are you for real? Are

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<v Speaker 6>you for real? Why am I talking to you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm defending it. It's not like she was gonna split

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<v Speaker 6>the bill or anything. I mean, it was just this.

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<v Speaker 6>It turned from a date into a job.

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<v Speaker 2>Admit though it's a high value job, one that she

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<v Speaker 2>respects a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. I didn't apply for this job. I mean it

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<v Speaker 6>just sort of got sprung on me.

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<v Speaker 3>You're getting into it, I'm mean, she seems like what

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<v Speaker 3>you see is what you get with her? Am I right?

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<v Speaker 3>I know, like you sound like you were clear on

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<v Speaker 3>what your expectations were.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I was, and honestly like, there are a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of guys that want to go out with me exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, nobody asked wants to.

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<v Speaker 2>Take picture, wants to spend money on We thought you

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<v Speaker 2>were upset about the account thing, but you didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Even she didn't even notice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Heard that right, Yeah, I heard it. I just opened

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<v Speaker 4>that Venmo and I thought, right now, how much?

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<v Speaker 3>Really, how much did he venmo to himself?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, he took one hundred and fifty dollars

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<v Speaker 4>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a pretty penny.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, private photo shoot costs. It's kind of I

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<v Speaker 3>just can't believe you don't feel guilty at all, Cory,

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<v Speaker 3>do you have.

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<v Speaker 1>A problem with that?

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<v Speaker 6>Why not cut it off? Like even it out? Like

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<v Speaker 6>I said, I mean, if we ended up going out

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<v Speaker 6>on another date, it would have been an even more

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<v Speaker 6>spensive place.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, if you're such like a if you're such a

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<v Speaker 3>big guy, why didn't you just man up and ask

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<v Speaker 3>her to split the bill with you. I mean, that

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<v Speaker 3>is the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 6>Fine, if we were in that situation and I asked

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<v Speaker 6>for half the bill? Would you have given it to me?

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<v Speaker 5>Now there we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Take that Brook, such a high value answer. He knows

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<v Speaker 1>what he's worth. Two.

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<v Speaker 3>In the end, these two high value people end up

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<v Speaker 3>sounding pretty cheap.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, Look, this is what happens. You go for a

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<v Speaker 2>high value man and what does he do. He increases

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<v Speaker 2>his value even.

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<v Speaker 1>More by taking the money right out of your venmo

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<v Speaker 1>and he stands up for himself. That is wise.

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<v Speaker 2>And I would be remiss if I didn't offer to

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<v Speaker 2>send you guys out on another.

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<v Speaker 1>Date with this undoing everything.

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<v Speaker 3>If you ask them to go, yeah, because we'll pay

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<v Speaker 3>for it this time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the time we're going to cover the bill. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think, Corey? You're the one I'm supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you want to go out with Dinah one more time?

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<v Speaker 6>If she wants to show me who she really is

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<v Speaker 6>and that spend the whole life I freaking take his

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<v Speaker 6>pictures and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, Okay, I get it. She's really hot, So I

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<v Speaker 1>know he said yes. Really, he just sounded like it

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I know, are you up for it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's insane?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, he's sole money from me, but like it sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like he's sorry about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>At this point, I feel like you two deserve each

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<v Speaker 3>other each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this actually happening.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll do drinks again and if that goes well, then

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<v Speaker 4>we can see about moving the.

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<v Speaker 2>Day location two Firefest Island.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, I don't have the cash for Firefest Island, but

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<v Speaker 6>i'll take your kids card.

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<v Speaker 2>Successful second date update perriers with lines for everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>As long as your panje I got it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's lurking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>How much you guys want to bet that she's going

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<v Speaker 2>to hand over her phone again and completely forget that

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<v Speaker 2>he then made himself on the second day.

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<v Speaker 3>I know he's just gonna be the cycle where she

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<v Speaker 3>takes all the money, then he takes all the money. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and he's just gonna he gets it back.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna be constantly trying to look at her phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Like any type of cute purple lighting shows up anywhere,

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, hey, come over here, like we should catch let.

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<v Speaker 3>The whole thing. They really do, honestly feel made for

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<v Speaker 3>each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm really hoping that they make it for an

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<v Speaker 2>update update, just to hear how much money has exchanged hands.

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<v Speaker 3>He's hoping that his bank account makes it for an

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<v Speaker 3>update update.

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<v Speaker 1>I think away kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah sure, you could be the next cute couple that

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<v Speaker 2>we put together.

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<v Speaker 1>On this show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah deep, next deep cute couple.

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<v Speaker 1>All you gotta do is email the show. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person whiz and calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>We have all of our second date updates ready for

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<v Speaker 2>you to listen to on our podcast wherever you get

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<v Speaker 2>yours at Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,