Speaker 1: Second date up dated the way that trends go.
Speaker 2: It's interesting because I'd say, lately, with the calls that
Speaker 2: we've been getting for second dates, people seem to expect
Speaker 2: way more than they used to just a couple of
Speaker 2: years ago.
Speaker 3: You mean, from like a relationship or from a first
Speaker 3: date or the first date.
Speaker 2: We can't seeing people stay single waiting to find the
Speaker 2: right match because the options just aren't good enough.
Speaker 3: Okay, Like it wasn't magic the first time you met someone.
Speaker 2: They want to be impressed right away or they're not
Speaker 2: even going to waste their time, okay. And that's why
Speaker 2: our listener today, Ena says she only goes out with
Speaker 2: high value men.
Speaker 3: What does that mean?
Speaker 1: We'll find out in a second Ino, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Actually it is, oh it sorry, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: High value. I mean the first thing I think that
Speaker 3: comes everybody's mind is just like a dollar symbol. Is
Speaker 3: that what you mean?
Speaker 4: I mean, like not necessarily all about money, but I
Speaker 4: want to go with a guy that knows.
Speaker 5: How to cheat a woman.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and knows how to pronounce your name properly in
Speaker 2: the first five minutes.
Speaker 1: Like if this was a first date, you already would
Speaker 1: have asked for the check.
Speaker 3: He you better have asked for the check, because yes.
Speaker 1: Because I'm high value and I would never let I know.
Speaker 2: We're all learning lessons here, but let's learn more about
Speaker 2: the guy that you went out with.
Speaker 1: What's his name?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 3: What was high value about Corey from his I'm guessing
Speaker 3: dating profile.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm at her online and like I thought,
Speaker 4: we can act it. He looked the part totally, like
Speaker 4: nice outfit, like his car.
Speaker 1: This is a little bit superficial. I know.
Speaker 3: I'm starting to think high value is less about how
Speaker 3: they're treating you and more about how much money they have.
Speaker 5: I see how you think that.
Speaker 4: But like he also had pictures of him traveling, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean. And Okay, his life is okay, okay,
Speaker 4: lifestyle money is needed.
Speaker 6: First, there's guys post him like drinking with their friends
Speaker 6: in a basement still on their profiles.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's looking for someone who has interest.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he also does skiing and golf, so he's like
Speaker 4: super active like that.
Speaker 1: And also those are very rich hobbies.
Speaker 3: But yeah, but whatever he's we're not going to money
Speaker 3: shame him.
Speaker 2: And that's what's the most important. So did you end
Speaker 2: up going out with him in person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So we were out for drinks first, and I
Speaker 4: told him like, if.
Speaker 5: Drinks went while, we could go on to dinner, but
Speaker 5: if not, we can just be friends. And I'm just there.
Speaker 3: Wait, you told him that. What did he say to you?
Speaker 4: Honestly?
Speaker 5: She was fine with it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe he was the same, Okay, I mean that's
Speaker 3: a good point of lexis, Like maybe he didn't want
Speaker 3: to waste the time of money. Why through dinner?
Speaker 2: Have you ever gone out with a guy and after
Speaker 2: the first like thirty minutes of drinks you gave them
Speaker 2: a no?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh really it sounds like it's happened more
Speaker 3: than once.
Speaker 2: But you don't feel guilty about turning these guys away?
Speaker 3: No, why when I honestly, that is a great attitude
Speaker 3: to have in one that I do not have three hours.
Speaker 3: I'm a total pleaser.
Speaker 1: What happened in the first thirty minutes of drinks with Corey?
Speaker 4: But basically we went to speak easy you know, like
Speaker 4: a really upscale, fancy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, where the cocktails are always like thirty.
Speaker 1: Two dollars high value cocktail.
Speaker 3: You can't find the door, but we'll charge you more.
Speaker 1: But I gives a circle so that sounds kind of nice.
Speaker 4: So we had like drinks and after thirty mine it's
Speaker 4: like I gave him.
Speaker 5: Mumps up saying let's go to dinner, you know, because
Speaker 5: it was going well.
Speaker 1: All right, he passed the first test.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I felt like he liked me.
Speaker 5: So we went to a French restaurant for dinner after that.
Speaker 3: You are chancy. Okay, what were you connecting over?
Speaker 4: Honestly?
Speaker 5: Just like how fancy everything was?
Speaker 3: Oh that's what you connected over.
Speaker 6: That?
Speaker 2: Okay, what about connecting with Corey himself as a person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's where I'm met Jess.
Speaker 4: I mean, like he has a good photographer. He's give
Speaker 4: him my phone making pictures of me for social media
Speaker 4: with the food.
Speaker 2: Oh, I will admit I'm a terrible photographer, So Corey
Speaker 2: has one up on me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was cool taking photos of you. Like, what
Speaker 3: was his reaction when you asked him?
Speaker 4: No, he was he was cool because it was a
Speaker 4: really cool.
Speaker 5: Plant and like the lighting was perfect, amazing.
Speaker 1: Okay, can I ask you did we go on a date?
Speaker 1: Because I'm mister, take a picture of the food, use
Speaker 1: me for my money, let's do all this And I
Speaker 1: don't know I just feel.
Speaker 3: Like, are you hitting on her? I can't tell you.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is not an issue at all.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a great date for you.
Speaker 1: Your jose is perfect.
Speaker 2: Woman jo already calling sound But let's this is probably
Speaker 2: rude to ask here, I know, but I just want
Speaker 2: like a ballpark idea, Like how much at this point
Speaker 2: in the night do you think the date has cost
Speaker 2: so far?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean I didn't see for it, but like
Speaker 4: I'm assuming dinner plus like the drinks was upwards of
Speaker 4: maybe three or four hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: Who wow, are you, Jeff?
Speaker 3: Are you theorizing that he just can't afford to take
Speaker 3: her on the second Ye?
Speaker 2: No, he can't afford it in maybe two years when
Speaker 2: he saves up for the next time and then he
Speaker 2: has to go again.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm looking for a high value man.
Speaker 5: So if you can't keep up, I'd like to know
Speaker 5: today the answer.
Speaker 1: We'll get to the bottom of it. How did the
Speaker 1: fancy date end?
Speaker 4: So at the end he walked me to my car.
Speaker 4: I told him I had a nice time, and I
Speaker 4: don't kiss on the first day.
Speaker 5: A lady does not do that.
Speaker 2: Answerry, So did you go for the kiss and you
Speaker 2: told him that or how.
Speaker 1: Did that come up?
Speaker 4: He was lingering, But I told him that's my rule.
Speaker 4: I'm a high value woman and she needs to know
Speaker 4: that that's a value of mine.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I feel like that message came across pretty clearly the
Speaker 2: entire night.
Speaker 1: We all value you already, all of us. Now, what's
Speaker 1: happened since that date happened? How long is it been?
Speaker 1: Have you stayed in contact?
Speaker 5: He hasn't answered me. He ghosted me completely.
Speaker 3: Has that happened to you before?
Speaker 6: Not?
Speaker 4: Really?
Speaker 1: This is why she's calling back.
Speaker 2: You know what, You're lucky AA that you reached out
Speaker 2: to a high value radio show.
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Does she contact someone before us?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: So sorry, you have to settle for our show, But
Speaker 2: we're gonna do our best for you.
Speaker 1: We're gonna come back. We'll call Corey and try and
Speaker 1: get you a second date update right after this.
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you.
Speaker 2: Hold on second date update. You know what I love
Speaker 2: about this show? What I learned new things every single.
Speaker 3: Day, really like about how people live and date.
Speaker 2: Totally, Like in part one of the Second Date, I
Speaker 2: learned a high value man doesn't necessarily mean he has
Speaker 2: a lot of money.
Speaker 1: It just means he has fancy clothes, expensive hobbies, travels
Speaker 1: the world regularly, and drops up words of four hundred
Speaker 1: dollars on a first date.
Speaker 3: That's right, Josh, you can hitchhike all that. That is
Speaker 3: not superficial.
Speaker 2: No, you might as well be a starving artist for
Speaker 2: all the subtle value that he was showing.
Speaker 1: To a on the date first class auditions.
Speaker 3: We're joking.
Speaker 2: That's what we learned about Corey, and now we're going
Speaker 2: to learn why he's not calling Aina back.
Speaker 1: How you doing? Are you comfortable over there? Can we
Speaker 1: get you anything? A perier with lime, perhaps sparkling or flat.
Speaker 4: We have that if you're offering, okay.
Speaker 3: Brook, of course only Jeff would be able to drop out.
Speaker 2: Brook's gonna put the order in on Amazon, so that
Speaker 2: should arrive at your house.
Speaker 1: So sorry to be basic with the limes. We should
Speaker 1: have done cucumbers or something, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Okay, you better.
Speaker 2: We're trying to learn how to be high value.
Speaker 3: I gave up on that a long time, but I
Speaker 3: like you. Makes you know what you want, You're going
Speaker 3: after it, and.
Speaker 1: Let's hope that Corey feels the same way. And it's
Speaker 1: just a misunderstanding. I'm gonna call him right now.
Speaker 6: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, we're looking for Corey.
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is Corey who's calling.
Speaker 2: We are a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: Did you say all like you're like let down?
Speaker 6: Yeah, like I don't know if I'm the guy you
Speaker 6: want on the radio guys?
Speaker 1: Well, no, are you offensive?
Speaker 2: We We got a specific request from somebody to reach
Speaker 2: out to you because you went on a date with
Speaker 2: this person the other night and they had a really
Speaker 2: good time with you.
Speaker 1: Her name's Aina.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I know Ana?
Speaker 1: Did you just you did? You made the same exact
Speaker 1: sound that you did when we told you were a
Speaker 1: radio show.
Speaker 3: Us.
Speaker 6: I don't get calls from radio stations every day. I
Speaker 6: got stuff to do. I mean, I'm sure you guys
Speaker 6: they're all cool. That's no.
Speaker 1: What I meant was, why did you make that sound
Speaker 1: when we mentioned her?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm just like a little bit confused.
Speaker 1: Yeah understand, Okay, you're getting a random call. Well what
Speaker 1: if I told you that she really really wants to
Speaker 1: see you again and go on another date with you?
Speaker 6: Yeah, she doesn't want to go out with me again.
Speaker 3: It's so weird. It feels like you even started the
Speaker 3: call like you don't want me on the radio. She
Speaker 3: doesn't want me. People want you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you to help us understand what you're
Speaker 2: feeling right now. Why do you say she doesn't want
Speaker 2: to go out with you because she told us about
Speaker 2: the date and her review of it was pretty glowing.
Speaker 6: All right, that's nice to hear, But.
Speaker 1: You don't seem honored real talk.
Speaker 6: I mean, I know, is is hot? I mean, but yeah,
Speaker 6: we know?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, did we know?
Speaker 1: We know? We know you can you can don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys are so weird. Okay, what what about
Speaker 3: her being hot?
Speaker 6: She's that, but I could tell that she was like
Speaker 6: not only going to cost me money, like big money,
Speaker 6: but I would probably spend the rest of my time
Speaker 6: with her being like her personal Instagram photographer.
Speaker 3: She told us that you took a really good picture
Speaker 3: of her.
Speaker 2: Welcome to being in a relationship with a woman. That's
Speaker 2: what you're signing up.
Speaker 3: I never let my husband take pictures. She's horrible at it,
Speaker 3: and he does it for a profession. He takes the
Speaker 3: worse pictures he does. He's like so tall and it's
Speaker 3: always like picture case.
Speaker 2: I like how you took that opportunity to put your
Speaker 2: husband down for even trying to do something.
Speaker 3: He's it's it's not a personality flaw.
Speaker 1: It's just the true. Okay.
Speaker 2: Anyway, what do you feel You feelt like she was
Speaker 2: just using you for your camera skills?
Speaker 6: Yeah, man, I mean it's like she's this influencer or something.
Speaker 6: I mean I was taking pictures of her by the statue,
Speaker 6: and her by the fountain, and her by the window,
Speaker 6: and her with her dinner. I mean it was all
Speaker 6: just like too much.
Speaker 3: So how many pictures do you think you took in
Speaker 3: one evening?
Speaker 2: I don't know, it doesn't well, she told us, she
Speaker 2: told us the only reason that she wanted so many
Speaker 2: pictures was because the place that you chose was so
Speaker 2: cool and you wanted to document.
Speaker 3: She didn't say that she took that many.
Speaker 1: Well, we didn't know that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, if you would have been bad at
Speaker 3: it the first time, you wouldn't have ever had to
Speaker 3: take one again.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's on you, I mean maybe.
Speaker 6: I mean the place was cool, the drink place was cool,
Speaker 6: to speak easy was cool, French restaurant was cool. Everything
Speaker 6: was was cool. But it was a lot of money,
Speaker 6: and I felt this night is going the way it's going,
Speaker 6: so I needed to even it out.
Speaker 3: What does that mean?
Speaker 1: Even it out? Like you had her take photos of
Speaker 1: you all over the restaurant too?
Speaker 6: Nah, not really, man. I saw how deep I was
Speaker 6: getting into this date, and so when she left me
Speaker 6: her phone to take like more pictures for some reason
Speaker 6: why she went away to the ladies room, I opened
Speaker 6: her Venmo and took what I thought was a fair
Speaker 6: cut of the bill, and then it could make money
Speaker 6: from her.
Speaker 1: Never heard of girls doing this.
Speaker 6: Even it out. I wasn't feeling any night.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you hear that other voice.
Speaker 2: Oh my's on the other line right now listening to this.
Speaker 6: Oh come on, yeah, Like, are you for real? Are
Speaker 6: you for real? Why am I talking to you? Yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm defending it. It's not like she was gonna split
Speaker 6: the bill or anything. I mean, it was just this.
Speaker 6: It turned from a date into a job.
Speaker 2: Admit though it's a high value job, one that she
Speaker 2: respects a lot.
Speaker 6: Yeah. I didn't apply for this job. I mean it
Speaker 6: just sort of got sprung on me.
Speaker 3: You're getting into it, I'm mean, she seems like what
Speaker 3: you see is what you get with her? Am I right?
Speaker 3: I know, like you sound like you were clear on
Speaker 3: what your expectations were.
Speaker 4: Yes, I was, and honestly like, there are a lot
Speaker 4: of guys that want to go out with me exactly.
Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody asked wants to.
Speaker 2: Take picture, wants to spend money on We thought you
Speaker 2: were upset about the account thing, but you didn't.
Speaker 3: Even she didn't even notice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 4: Heard that right, Yeah, I heard it. I just opened
Speaker 4: that Venmo and I thought, right now, how much?
Speaker 3: Really, how much did he venmo to himself?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, he took one hundred and fifty dollars
Speaker 4: for me.
Speaker 1: That's a pretty penny.
Speaker 3: I mean, private photo shoot costs. It's kind of I
Speaker 3: just can't believe you don't feel guilty at all, Cory,
Speaker 3: do you have.
Speaker 1: A problem with that?
Speaker 6: Why not cut it off? Like even it out? Like
Speaker 6: I said, I mean, if we ended up going out
Speaker 6: on another date, it would have been an even more
Speaker 6: spensive place.
Speaker 3: Okay, if you're such like a if you're such a
Speaker 3: big guy, why didn't you just man up and ask
Speaker 3: her to split the bill with you. I mean, that
Speaker 3: is the right thing to do.
Speaker 6: Fine, if we were in that situation and I asked
Speaker 6: for half the bill? Would you have given it to me?
Speaker 5: Now there we go.
Speaker 1: Take that Brook, such a high value answer. He knows
Speaker 1: what he's worth. Two.
Speaker 3: In the end, these two high value people end up
Speaker 3: sounding pretty cheap.
Speaker 2: Seriously, Look, this is what happens. You go for a
Speaker 2: high value man and what does he do. He increases
Speaker 2: his value even.
Speaker 1: More by taking the money right out of your venmo
Speaker 1: and he stands up for himself. That is wise.
Speaker 2: And I would be remiss if I didn't offer to
Speaker 2: send you guys out on another.
Speaker 1: Date with this undoing everything.
Speaker 3: If you ask them to go, yeah, because we'll pay
Speaker 3: for it this time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the time we're going to cover the bill. What
Speaker 1: do you think, Corey? You're the one I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: ask you want to go out with Dinah one more time?
Speaker 6: If she wants to show me who she really is
Speaker 6: and that spend the whole life I freaking take his
Speaker 6: pictures and all that.
Speaker 1: Sure, Okay, I get it. She's really hot, So I
Speaker 1: know he said yes. Really, he just sounded like it
Speaker 1: to me. I know, are you up for it?
Speaker 3: It's insane?
Speaker 4: Well, he's sole money from me, but like it sounds
Speaker 4: like he's sorry about it.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: At this point, I feel like you two deserve each
Speaker 3: other each other.
Speaker 1: Is this actually happening.
Speaker 4: I'll do drinks again and if that goes well, then
Speaker 4: we can see about moving the.
Speaker 2: Day location two Firefest Island.
Speaker 6: Hey, I don't have the cash for Firefest Island, but
Speaker 6: i'll take your kids card.
Speaker 2: Successful second date update perriers with lines for everybody.
Speaker 3: As long as your panje I got it.
Speaker 1: It's lurking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: How much you guys want to bet that she's going
Speaker 2: to hand over her phone again and completely forget that
Speaker 2: he then made himself on the second day.
Speaker 3: I know he's just gonna be the cycle where she
Speaker 3: takes all the money, then he takes all the money. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and he's just gonna he gets it back.
Speaker 1: He's gonna be constantly trying to look at her phone.
Speaker 2: Like any type of cute purple lighting shows up anywhere,
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, come over here, like we should catch let.
Speaker 3: The whole thing. They really do, honestly feel made for
Speaker 3: each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really hoping that they make it for an
Speaker 2: update update, just to hear how much money has exchanged hands.
Speaker 3: He's hoping that his bank account makes it for an
Speaker 3: update update.
Speaker 1: I think away kind of cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah sure, you could be the next cute couple that
Speaker 2: we put together.
Speaker 1: On this show.
Speaker 3: Yeah deep, next deep cute couple.
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is email the show. We'll call
Speaker 1: that person whiz and calling you back.
Speaker 2: We have all of our second date updates ready for
Speaker 2: you to listen to on our podcast wherever you get
Speaker 2: yours at Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,