1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,280 Speaker 1: First of all, you don't know me. 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 2: All about that high school drama girl drama girl, all 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: about them high school queens. We'll take you for a ride, 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: and our comic girl sharing for the right teams, Drama, Queens, 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 2: Jap girl fashion, but your tough. 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 3: Girl, you could sit with us. 7 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: Girl Drama, Queens, Drama, Queens Drama, Queens Drama, Drahma Queens Drama, Queens. 8 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 3: Cayse sports fans. 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 4: We're coming to you from California, Nashville, Tennessee, and New 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 4: York somewhere upstate. We're so excited we have a Q 11 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 4: and A for you today. So many of you send 12 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 4: in questions and we're happy to answer them for you. 13 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 3: And I feel like we got some juicy ones. 14 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 5: I feel like Octopober questions are the best because everyone's 15 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 5: in kind of a mischievous mood to begin with. Yes, 16 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 5: let's just get in do it all right? Laura wants 17 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 5: to know what was your personal favorite Halloween costume and 18 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 5: what was the party that you wore it to? Or 19 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 5: like just event or just like space. We're just in 20 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 5: your own house, in your own house. Sometimes you just 21 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 5: need to wear a costume at home. If you're into 22 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 5: that sort of thing, tell us, I don't have a 23 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 5: cheerleader uniform at home. 24 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 4: Uh okay. Favorite Halloween costume One of mine was when 25 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 4: I there's a photo of that. We talked about it 26 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 4: on the tour. Coming to your Halloween Party as the 27 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 4: cast of Giant with Paul and Lee. That was really fun. Like, 28 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 4: I love a joint costume, or you're not alone, you 29 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 4: really need other people to complete the whole picture. 30 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 5: Yeah right, I mean the standalone kind of thing is like. 31 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 3: Oh, I get it, She's Liz Taylor, Like, yeah, that 32 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 3: makes sense. 33 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 5: Okay, But then then when everyone else joins in, was 34 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 5: Tyler involved in that one too? 35 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: So yeah, oh that's right. 36 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 4: So Tyler was James Dean, Paul came in as Rock Hudson, 37 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 4: and Lee came in as the Cow like ay. 38 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 3: Cow, which I love that about Lee. 39 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 5: I love that. Yeah, I mean I love Halloween. You 40 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 5: guys know, this is like my super Bowl. In fact, 41 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 5: I just came from the middle school where I was 42 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 5: at eighth grade lunch and I was going from table 43 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 5: to table like reminding kids to come to our Halloween 44 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 5: festival on Sunday. And this kid that has typically like 45 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 5: been very rough on me as I was like, you 46 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 5: guys call me and all the other mothers. You know, 47 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 5: the witches in town are put it on this haunted house. 48 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 5: And some kid made a derogatory remark about witches and 49 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 5: this little boy goes be respectful, and I was like, oh, 50 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 5: witches is how I get through to this thirteen year old. 51 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 5: So yeah, Halloween's my jam. I would say the most 52 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 5: meaningful Halloween I've had was when Gus was going through 53 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 5: his Hamilton phase and like really really really needed me 54 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 5: to dress up with him, and he wanted to be 55 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 5: George Washington, which meant I had to be Alexander Hamilton. 56 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 5: So like wearing the wig and like the tight white 57 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 5: pants and the frills and stuff through town. 58 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 3: It was an experience. 59 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 5: And it was when the show first came out, so 60 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,119 Speaker 5: it wasn't the hit it is today, Like no one 61 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 5: knew what we were doing. 62 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 3: That was sweet. I love that. 63 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 6: I mean, well, Joy, you were talking about that one 64 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 6: year at Hills, which made me think. I think that 65 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 6: that was the same year that I love a good 66 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 6: costume that I can just recycle because it's like why not, 67 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 6: if it's great, I'm gonna wear it again. 68 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 3: Nobody's gonna remember. 69 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 6: And I had like gone through one of my storage 70 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 6: bins and found an old red riding hood costume that 71 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 6: I had, and I had made the cape. 72 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 3: So it was like this huge. 73 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 6: Like hood that came down over the shoulders and it 74 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 6: was red satin on one side and black velvet on 75 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 6: the other and it went like down to the floor. 76 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: I just loved it. 77 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,119 Speaker 6: I'd made it years before for Halloween party in La 78 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 6: and then I was like, Oh, I just have this. 79 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 6: I'm gonna wear this again, and I loved it. 80 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 4: It all happens at your house, Hill. 81 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 3: And my brother fell in love with you that year. 82 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 5: My little brother was in college and like came to 83 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 5: visit from college and got probably way too drunk, and 84 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 5: Sophia was the one that held his Viking hair while 85 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 5: he threw up you because he was wearing away. 86 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 3: He was so sweet. 87 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 6: I was like, oh, honey, let's hold your hairbag. Everything's 88 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 6: gonna be okay. Just try to puke in a bush, 89 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 6: not in the house. 90 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, what are we dressing up for this year? 91 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 7: What are we doing this year? 92 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 3: What should we do this year? 93 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm going as a witch, because well. 94 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 6: I was gonna say, should we just dress up as 95 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 6: the cast of hocus Pocus. 96 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,679 Speaker 4: Hello, that's a no brainer. 97 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 5: For my son's school. Their mascot is the Hawks, and 98 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 5: we're doing Hawk manner. And so I got this big 99 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 5: feather like collar. Oh, just to be a very extra fan. 100 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 4: I did that from Maria a couple of years ago. 101 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 4: She wanted to be young Maleficent. So I built those wings. 102 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 4: I got went and got a whole strip of all 103 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 4: these feathers, and I like built a wire frame set 104 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 4: of wings and did the whole Yeah, all the feathers 105 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 4: and everything. It was a really cool costume. It's fun 106 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 4: when you get to work with when you get to 107 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 4: make your own stuff. I don't know what am I 108 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 4: going to do this year? What are we What are 109 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 4: we going to do? I think we're probably going to 110 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 4: go as the Gilmour Girls because she's into it right now. 111 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:26,039 Speaker 3: Oh that's sweet. 112 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, I love a nostalgia costume. Also, I gotta be 113 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 6: honest with you, guys, I don't even know what day 114 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 6: Halloween is this year. 115 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 5: It's a Tuesday, which is weird. 116 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 6: That always bums me out a little bit. Me too, 117 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 6: I prefer a weekend Halloween. 118 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Halloween should be one of those holidays that travels, 119 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 4: like it's always just on the Friday of the Saturday 120 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 4: of the week, you know, like Thanksgiving it's always on 121 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 4: the Thursday. 122 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Like shouldn't it just be the last Saturday 123 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 3: of October? 124 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 5: Yeah? 125 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 4: Just a traveling holiday. What I wouldn't give? 126 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 6: You know what, when we take over the government, that's 127 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 6: going to be our number one cause. 128 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 3: To us, we'd like. 129 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 4: To propose a bill that's right, Daylight savings and Halloween perfect. 130 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 3: All right, what we go next? 131 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 4: Well, this one's from Rasa Raisa, Rasa, Risa, Risa. We 132 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 4: don't know how to say your name, Rasa, but it's 133 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 4: super cool the way it's spelled. 134 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 3: It's very beautiful to look at. Yeah, I love it. 135 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 4: I wish I wish I was more well educated on 136 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 4: how to say your name. But you asked us, what 137 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 4: do you take pictures of the mosts? What do you 138 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 4: take pictures of the most. 139 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 6: You guys, my best friend just told me so hard 140 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 6: yesterday for this. So we're up in Big Sir, and 141 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 6: we were going down the highway and it's like magic hour, 142 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 6: you know, the ocean looks moody, there's pink clouds out 143 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 6: and these huge green fields that stretched toward the ocean, 144 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 6: and this field that we'd driven by earlier in the 145 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 6: day was full of cows, like beautiful brown cows in 146 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 6: the sunset. 147 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god. 148 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 6: And so I'm like, we have to pull over, and 149 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 6: I roll the window down and I'm taking pictures of 150 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 6: these cows. 151 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 3: And she goes, what are you gonna do? Frame a 152 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 3: picture of those cows and put it up in your house. Yeah. 153 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 3: I was like, maybe I might look how beautiful they are. 154 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 6: She was like, You're never gonna look back at that photo. 155 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 6: And I realized I take photos of landscapes everywhere, and 156 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 6: I never look at them again. 157 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 3: You're a photo hoarder the same way that you're a hoarder. Hoarder, 158 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 3: I have to have it. 159 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 6: If I just have it in my connection, if I 160 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 6: just have it, I could look at it someday. 161 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 5: Maybe options are Oh my god, I have to look 162 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 5: at my phone to see what I have the most 163 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 5: pictures of. I feel like it's screen grabs of information 164 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:47,239 Speaker 5: that I'm too lazy to relay. 165 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 4: Yes, I have a lot of those too. I mean Maria, 166 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 4: but she's also at an age now where she doesn't 167 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 4: want me to take her picture anymore. You know, she 168 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 4: throws her hands up and doesn't want to. Oh, I 169 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 4: have photos of the last. 170 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 5: Thing I got a picture of is George's nose crinkle 171 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 5: like George has when she scrunches her nose up. The 172 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 5: lines that are created in her flesh are just a 173 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 5: shape that I find really pleasing. And so I've made 174 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,559 Speaker 5: her take this whole series of nose crimple pictures because 175 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 5: I'm convinced I'm gonna get it like tattooed, like geometry 176 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 5: on my arm somewhere. 177 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I just is it or is it a 178 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 3: little bit obsessive? It's just like nose making your nose. 179 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, make those black and white and do a sequence 180 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 4: like a photo booth sequence with a bunch of them. 181 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 4: He's so cute. 182 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 6: It also feels important to grab because, like your nose 183 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 6: in your ears are the two things that never stop 184 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 6: growing in your life. So it's not gonna look the 185 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 6: same when she's twenty well, And. 186 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 5: It's how I can tell she's genuinely happy because she's 187 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 5: an actor, Like she can fake a laugh or a smile, 188 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 5: but when she gets into nose crinkle zone, like it's 189 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:01,199 Speaker 5: I love it. 190 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 3: That's so sweet. 191 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 4: I have mostly pictures of Maria and then photos of 192 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 4: I really do like taking photos of my friends in position, 193 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 4: like in a spot when I feel like they would 194 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 4: want that photo. If I see something that I'm like, oh, 195 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 4: this person would want to have this memory or this photo, 196 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 4: I like to jump in and take that. 197 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 5: That's so nice. That's like the best gift that you 198 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 5: can give people. 199 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 4: I think it's just because I've because as a single mom, 200 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 4: I have so there's so many moments that nobody ever 201 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 4: took photos of. They're just in my mind because it's 202 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 4: just her and I and I have some selfies of us, 203 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 4: but whenever somebody would jump in and be like, let 204 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 4: me take a picture of the two of you, or 205 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 4: just grab a photo and send it to me, it did. 206 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 4: It always meant so much. So I think realizing that 207 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 4: made me go, oh, I want to do that for 208 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 4: the people too. 209 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's one of my favorite things to do out 210 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 6: in the world, Like when I see people. When I 211 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 6: see a group of people or a family or whoever, 212 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 6: you know, there's a whole group of people standing in 213 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 6: front of it, or like a restaurant and one person's 214 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 6: taking the picture, and I was like. 215 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 3: No, you go get in it. I'll take it. 216 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 217 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 6: I love to take pictures for people so they can 218 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 6: all be in the photo together. 219 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 5: I see. I try to do that and I always 220 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 5: get rejected. I have a thief face. 221 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 3: I think. Jeffrey laughs so hard. 222 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 7: Like we'll be at the beach and you'll see people 223 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 7: doing that and I'm like, do you want me to 224 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 7: get this picture of all of you? And they're just 225 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 7: like no, no, move along. 226 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 3: No. When you get rejected trying to. 227 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 5: Help, you're like, I'm stealing that phone. Yeah. 228 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 6: They think you're the woman like selling roses who's gonna 229 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 6: grab the phone and run. 230 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 4: Or they think you're just gonna take a photo with 231 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 4: like all the feet cut off or something, or like 232 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 4: too much space on the top. 233 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 3: I look like I won't do it right, but you will. 234 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 4: You're a good photo taker. 235 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 6: Hello, guys, Tyler wants to know what is something you owe? 236 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 3: Always want to be remembered for. 237 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 5: Bitchery. 238 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 7: When I think about all the things that people do 239 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 7: know me for, it's usually either picking a fight or 240 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 7: ending a fight, or saying what I think, And so 241 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 7: I don't know that I have any options here. 242 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 5: I think it is just bitchery. 243 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 3: Which I'm good with. 244 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 5: Is it something we've already done or something that we 245 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 5: want to do. 246 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 6: If it's something, if it's something that already exists. I 247 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 6: think the thing that I hear from people the most, 248 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 6: that means the most to me is that my home 249 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 6: feels like they're home. 250 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 4: Oh that's nice, like. 251 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 3: For me. 252 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 6: Being the place that people can come to to celebrate 253 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 6: or to grieve. Like I love to be the space 254 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 6: that people know they can rest, And it means a 255 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 6: lot to me that, Like you know, over the years, 256 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 6: like so many people have keys to my house. Yeah, 257 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 6: so many people know that, like if they need something, 258 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 6: they can they can come and stay with me. And 259 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 6: I love that feeling and I never want that to change. 260 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 6: Like that's been a deal breaker for me in relationships 261 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 6: like in the past. If people don't like it, I'm like, well, 262 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 6: this far predates. 263 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 3: You, so you have to go. But I do. 264 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:31,199 Speaker 6: I thought that was a really astute question, like what 265 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 6: will it be in the future? What is what is 266 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 6: something we're going to do that we haven't done yet? 267 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 6: Who are we growing into? Like I love the idea 268 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 6: that there are outcomes we can't even imagine yet, because 269 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:46,479 Speaker 6: life is going to be bigger than what we've previous. 270 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 3: I can't even imagine yet. 271 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 4: God, I've been thinking a lot about that lately. About 272 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 4: the word always in this sentence is funny to me 273 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 4: because I have a I think one of the reasons 274 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 4: I like to surround myself with antiques and vintage things 275 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 4: is the reminder of mortality and the idea that always, 276 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 4: I mean, you might do something that people will remember 277 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 4: in fifty years, maybe one hundred if the earth is 278 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 4: around that long. So you know, I think the quote, 279 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 4: the mother Teresa quote, if you want to change the world, start, 280 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 4: you know, love your family, I think is the quote. 281 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's like, go and love your family well. 282 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 4: And I feel like that's something that rather than looking 283 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 4: out and going, what is something I want the world 284 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 4: to remember me for? Like, Okay, even if they do, 285 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 4: it's only going to be for another fifty year, Like 286 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 4: what difference does that make? 287 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 5: Like? 288 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 4: What can I be remembered for in the people in 289 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 4: my life, in the community that I have, and people 290 00:13:57,040 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 4: who know me. I mean, kindness is the first word 291 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 4: that comes to mind. I'm not perfect at it by 292 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 4: any means, but it is something that is important to 293 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 4: me that I would love to. I would love for 294 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,719 Speaker 4: that to be something that people say about me when 295 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 4: I go. 296 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 5: This morning, we passed the cemetery driving to school, as 297 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 5: we do every day, and there was something white draped 298 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 5: over one of the tombstones, and for a moment I 299 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 5: thought it was a Halloween decoration, like a like a 300 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 5: front yard like ghost that someone had placed on top 301 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 5: of a grave. And it made me laugh so hard, 302 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 5: and I made Gus promise that when I die, my 303 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 5: grave will be the one with like the hands sticking 304 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 5: up out of the dirt, or like a Halloween. 305 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 3: Decoration just around. 306 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 5: So, yeah, kindness seems fun. 307 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 7: Your sense of humor, Like, can my kids just be 308 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 7: the creeps please? That's fun too. 309 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 4: It's kind of kindness. 310 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 5: It's like we're just gonna pass out the laughs. Vita 311 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 5: wants to know what is a show you would like 312 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 5: to start a rewatch podcast about and that you would 313 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 5: follow along with watching an episode week to week, Like. 314 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 4: Start listening to a rewatch podcast? 315 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like if there was a show that had a rewatch. 316 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 4: Podcast, what would I listen to? 317 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 5: Yeah? What would we follow along? 318 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 6: I mean, for me, The West Wing, Oh, I love 319 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 6: that show so much, and like, who's funnier than like 320 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 6: Bradley Whitford and Alison Janny. 321 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 3: I mean those people. I would just like, I would 322 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 3: love to listen to them talk. 323 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 5: My husband watches everything and it wears me out because 324 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 5: it feels like I have to have a relationship with 325 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 5: so many different shows. But what's something juicy from when 326 00:15:58,960 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 5: we were young? 327 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 4: I mean Friends. I would definitely listen to that podcast 328 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 4: if there was a Friends reunion podcast. 329 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's something from when we were little, right, Like no, y'all, 330 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 5: I would watch it Saved by the Bell situation, that 331 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 5: rewatched podcast because I want to know who's bone and 332 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 5: who behind the scenes of this like little kid show. 333 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 5: I just want dirt and you know it existed there, 334 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 5: you know it? 335 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 4: Oh yeah? 336 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 5: And I like that everyone grew up and like, I 337 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 5: don't know they they have been on TV since they 338 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 5: were little, and a lot of them have really long 339 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 5: careers and there's also been some tragedy, but they all 340 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 5: seem to genuinely love one another, and I think that's. 341 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 4: You want to go back and watch every episode of 342 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 4: say by the Bell thought. 343 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 5: I've already watched like half of them with Gus during 344 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 5: the pandemic. Okay, A Fair still slaps man. I'm just like, 345 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 5: tell him. 346 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 8: Kelly, tell him. 347 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 5: It was fun. Gus. Gus wanted to decorate his whole 348 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 5: room like Saved by the Bell, so I had to 349 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 5: buy all that like nineties weird graphics off the internet. 350 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:10,239 Speaker 5: And kid loved it, loved it all right. 351 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 4: From Jess, she says, when was the last time you lied? 352 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:18,159 Speaker 4: And to whom? I mean? 353 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 5: I'm not going to be specifical, but I definitely saw 354 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 5: the emails. But I was really really busy and I 355 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 5: did not respond to set emails. And I feel guilty 356 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 5: about it, but also know my limits. So if you 357 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 5: are the center of those emails and you understand that 358 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 5: I'm talking through code, apologies, I can't get to everything. 359 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 3: Man, It's not possible. No, it's just not possible. 360 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 4: No. 361 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 6: I I had to lie to my godson when I 362 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 6: was in Detroit recently to stop a temper tantrum. 363 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 3: I mean, listen, he's too worthy of cause you what 364 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 3: are you going to do? 365 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 6: And he wanted to go see the fire trucks so bad, 366 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 6: and I had to be like, oh, but on Tuesdays 367 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 6: the fire station's closed. Yeah, because everyone needs a day off, 368 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 6: and you know the rest of us get the weekends off, 369 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 6: and that's why there's more fires on the weekends, so 370 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,360 Speaker 6: the firefighters have to take up they have to take 371 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 6: a week day off so they can nap. 372 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 3: And he was like, okay, dude, you're just describing. Oh 373 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 3: my god. I was like, I don't. 374 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 6: Mia was like looking at me, just watching me, trying 375 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 6: not to laugh. But he was so enthralled by my story. 376 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 6: And I was like and and and that's why we 377 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 6: can't go see the fire trucks today. And you have 378 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 6: to get in the car with your mommy and your 379 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 6: god mommy and. 380 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 3: We have to go. And he was like okay, and 381 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 3: it was acceptible, acceptible. 382 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 6: So like, listen, you got to negotiate with toddlers differently. 383 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 3: And I do not feel bad about it. 384 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 5: Oh they ascribed to a magical thinking and so yes, 385 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 5: you do the same thing. Yeah. 386 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 3: Is it a lie or am I actually just telling 387 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 3: him a story? 388 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:05,400 Speaker 5: Yeah? 389 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, just meeting them on his level. 390 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 391 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 4: I hate lying. It just is so it really really 392 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 4: really really hate it. And yeah, it's the biggest thing 393 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 4: in our house, Like don't it's the biggest thing for 394 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 4: me in relationships, Like I'm just I just will never 395 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 4: trust you again. If you lie to me, you can 396 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 4: tell me anything. I might get mad at you, but 397 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 4: I will never get more mad than if you lie 398 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 4: to me. That being said, if rules do not make 399 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 4: sense in some way, I don't necessarily have much of 400 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 4: a conscience about breaking a rule or working around a rule. 401 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 4: If the rule is if it's like semantics and red tape, 402 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 4: and you can clearly see this rule has been put 403 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 4: in place because one bad apple ruined it for the 404 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 4: whole bunch. Yeah, you know those kinds of things. So yeah, 405 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm trying to think of like an actual 406 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 4: practical example that that's happened with recently. It's probably usually 407 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 4: like it's sometimes traffic rules if nobody else is on 408 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 4: the road. 409 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 5: Is Maria at the age where she's asking to do 410 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 5: stuff and you have to tell her horror stories as 411 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 5: to why she's not going to do those things, Like 412 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 5: with Gus, I just had to talk about drinking right, oh, 413 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 5: and I had to be like it'll kill you, you know, Like. 414 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 4: Now I don't do that with her. I'm just I'm 415 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 4: totally honest, Like I'm as honest with her as her 416 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,239 Speaker 4: age as is age appropriate for her. 417 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 3: So like yeah. 418 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 4: I try not to scare her into things. I try 419 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,440 Speaker 4: and give her a really balanced perspective of both sides 420 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 4: of things. And then I'm like, you have to figure 421 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 4: out you have to take a look at both, use 422 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 4: your brain and make a decision about what you want 423 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 4: looking at like all of the things on both sides. 424 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 4: So I don't sorry, is completely off topic. 425 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 5: No, but listen, my dad every time, every time there 426 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 5: was a situation as a child, there would be a 427 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 5: story about like how you'll die if you do that thing, 428 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 5: And I just assumed that was parenting, just like, wait, 429 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 5: you're not going to die if you walk across the 430 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 5: street or if you go to the mall with just 431 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:26,679 Speaker 5: your one friend at eight pm on a Saturday. Who. No, Yeah, 432 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 5: those are the kinds of lies that I grew up with. 433 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 5: We called them urban legends. 434 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 8: Yeah. 435 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, there are some little FIBs. I've probably told her. 436 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 4: She had to, you know, She's like, can I sleep 437 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 4: in your bed tonight? And I'm like, no, you can't. 438 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 3: Why not? 439 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 4: Well I want to? I don't know. I just I'm 440 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 4: going to stay up late and I'm going to be 441 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 4: working on something, and really I just want to, like 442 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,359 Speaker 4: land Bet and watch a movie with my boyfriend. So 443 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 4: I'm not I'm just not not telling her the whole troup. 444 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, they don't need to know secrets. It's not a lie, 445 00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 5: it's an omission. 446 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 3: Let's do this one. 447 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 4: We got to do the one from Brianna. It's our 448 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:11,120 Speaker 4: Halloween episode. 449 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 6: Yes, okay, Brianna wants to know. Have you had any 450 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 6: interesting paranormal experiences? If so, what happened? 451 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? I wrote a whole mother book about this. 452 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 4: Come on, you should close us out, Hillary, because I'm 453 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 4: sure you've got the craziest ghost stories. Well, so, Sophia, 454 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 4: do you have any Yeah, Wilmington four friends who are listening. 455 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 6: Wilmington is so haunted, like as a place, you know, 456 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 6: a landmark haunted city. I moved twice because of scary 457 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 6: that happened in the places I was living in. 458 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 4: Because of the scary stuff that happened. 459 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,040 Speaker 6: I mean, I hung out for a bit because moving 460 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 6: is hard, like breaking away. 461 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 5: Nice. 462 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 3: But you guys, things things. 463 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 6: Were not okay there, They were not okay there. And 464 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 6: some of the things happened to me alone. But my 465 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 6: last like truly insane paranormal experience, thank god, happened to 466 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 6: me with another person in the room and like we've 467 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 6: neither of us has ever gotten over it. 468 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 4: Well, can you tell us what it was? 469 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean okay, so, I mean you all know, 470 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 6: back in the early days of our show, all of 471 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 6: us were uh partnered, and and then. 472 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 3: That's the scariest part of the story. Yeah, the scariest 473 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 3: part of the story. And then I, you know, very 474 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 3: publicly was not. 475 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,919 Speaker 6: And then the first date I went on was with 476 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 6: a very sweet boy named Austin Nichols when I was 477 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 6: twenty three. And then you know, we dated off and 478 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 6: on for years and long story longer when when he 479 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 6: was like, I'm not gonna let you tell me we 480 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 6: can't date because I because the long distance is too hard, 481 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 6: and he came to work with us, you know, bold, gorgeous, 482 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 6: romantic gesture. 483 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 3: We laugh about it all the time. We're still good friends. 484 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 6: And when we were actually like properly able to date 485 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 6: because we were living in the same city for the 486 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 6: first time in a decade, we were sleeping. And this 487 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 6: was when I had that creepy apartment on Front Street, 488 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 6: do you remember, And I just knew it was haunted 489 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 6: and Brian, our hairdresser, lived next door with his boyfriend 490 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 6: and we shared a balcony, the four of us. It 491 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 6: was like a very cute It was like melrose Place, 492 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 6: like the Southern Gothic version. 493 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 4: That's a TV show. Somebody write that, please right? 494 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 3: And I hear this noise. 495 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 6: It like wakes me up, and I'm going, what are 496 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 6: they doing at like the bar restaurant downstairs? And then 497 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 6: I think, like, what the hell are Brian and his 498 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 6: boyfriend doing on the other side of this wall? And 499 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,880 Speaker 6: then I'm like, wait a second, this is coming from 500 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 6: like the alley side of the room, not the shared 501 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 6: wall side the room. 502 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,880 Speaker 3: And it's getting. 503 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:06,360 Speaker 6: Louder and louder and louder like and it's in the 504 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,199 Speaker 6: floor and I turn the lights on. 505 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 3: Austin looks at me and goes, what is that noise? 506 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:11,719 Speaker 3: And I'm like I don't know. 507 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 6: And we both start to like get like make our 508 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 6: way over to it. And I'm thinking, Okay, this is 509 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 6: like a two hundred year old building, is like a 510 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 6: raccoon about to like burst out of the wall. Are 511 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 6: there squirrels in the wall? Like I'm making sense of 512 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 6: it by like there must be an animal. 513 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 4: And I would have gone there too. 514 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, And then when I tell you a volleyball sized 515 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 6: orb you who loves an orb? Hillary pops out of 516 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 6: the floor, bright white ball, and we both started to scream. 517 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 6: And if you have never heard a six foot four 518 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 6: inch man that looks like Austin scream at a pitch 519 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 6: that this raspy woman cannot hit. The two of us 520 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 6: leapt up and ran to get away from it, but 521 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 6: it was coming toward us at this point, and the 522 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 6: direction we ran was not to the back door. 523 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 3: It was back onto the bed and into the wall. 524 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,880 Speaker 8: And we were like we pancaked ourselves against the wall, screaming, 525 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 8: looking at each other, and this thing went from like 526 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 8: round to tall like at us and then just evaporated. 527 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 3: Didn't go through you or I didn't? What did you do? 528 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 8: Because we were sort of closing our eyes and sort 529 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 8: of looking at each other and sort of screaming because. 530 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 3: Like what do you what was it? 531 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,640 Speaker 6: And then we just stood there and we were. 532 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,880 Speaker 3: Like, well, what do we do now? You can't call 533 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 3: the police, can't go back to sleep. 534 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 6: And then like inspected the walls, inspected the floor, not 535 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:46,400 Speaker 6: an opening anywhere, and we both were just like are 536 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 6: we magic? 537 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 5: Now? 538 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 3: Are we cursed? 539 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 6: Like what I choose magic, But like, what what. 540 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 3: The was that? And like when we talked to people 541 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 3: in town about it, they. 542 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 6: Were like, oh, yeah, yeah, now you know that alleyway 543 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 6: there were like eighteen murders there in eighteen fifty six, 544 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 6: and you're just like what everywhere in Wilmington people know 545 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 6: how haunted all the buildings are and they're like, oh, yeah, 546 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 6: you know my friend lived in that building once. 547 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 3: That happened to her too. And you're like, okay, okay, I. 548 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,479 Speaker 4: Saw my questions, but I'm going to keep them at 549 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 4: a minimum. But A did you get like an alien 550 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 4: vibe from this thing? Or was it like a ghosty vibe? 551 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 4: It was a ghosty vibe. It was like it was energy. 552 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 4: It didn't feel it didn't feel like something that had 553 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 4: shown up from elsewhere. It felt like something someone some 554 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,360 Speaker 4: like you know, energy ones created can never be destroyed. 555 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 6: Like something was just working its way through wherever it 556 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 6: had to go, and it happened to need to go 557 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 6: through my fucking bedroom. 558 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 3: Oo full body chills. 559 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 5: I love. 560 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 3: Have you looked up did you do research on orbs 561 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 3: and stuff? Honestly, no, I should have. 562 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 6: I just think because we'd talked about all the ones 563 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 6: that were in your house hill for so long, I 564 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 6: was sort of like, well, this is just what happens 565 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,159 Speaker 6: in downtown Wilmington. Like I didn't really think that I 566 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 6: needed to look into it any further. But I'm just 567 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 6: so happy that one of my friends was with me 568 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,119 Speaker 6: and saw it, because we still are like, wasn't that 569 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 6: so weird? 570 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:22,120 Speaker 3: And it's nice crazy yeah. 571 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 6: Like you like your brother and your your ex witnessed 572 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 6: all the shit that happened in your house. 573 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,679 Speaker 5: They got it worse than I did in my house. 574 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 3: Well, because hester didn't like the boys in Life or Death. 575 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 3: She my, gosh, have you had any ours? 576 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 4: Was so minimal we were It was in our house 577 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 4: in Studio City, and it was like electronics would always 578 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 4: go on in the middle of the night, and it 579 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 4: was always like electronic based and just random things happening 580 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 4: around the house. It was like enough that you're like, 581 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 4: this is beyond just my certainly faulty wire growing up. 582 00:28:58,680 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 5: Yeah. 583 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then I do remember Maria one time came 584 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 4: in from uh she was brushing her teeth in the bathroom. 585 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 4: She kind of ran into my bedroom and jumped in 586 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 4: the bed, and then I was like, what's up. She's 587 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 4: like nothing. Nothing, And then a few days later she 588 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 4: told me that she saw a girl. She was brushing 589 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 4: her teeth and she spit in the sink and then 590 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 4: stood up and she saw a girl her age next 591 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 4: to her. Ohoo, hi, Maria. No, no, don't make that 592 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 4: stuff up. And she doesn't. She's because she doesn't lie, 593 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 4: because she knows what a big deal it is. And 594 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 4: she's not like a she's just it's not a characteristic 595 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 4: of her to make up stories like that. So it 596 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 4: was really like an end. It took her days to 597 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 4: talk about it. She was like, I don't want to 598 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 4: it was weird. I don't know, I don't know. I 599 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 4: don't want to talk about it. 600 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's that's a weird deal. That's why I 601 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 5: sold my house in Wilmington because I remember bringing Gus 602 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 5: there when he was like eighteen months old and him 603 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 5: just looking up at the top of the stairs, and 604 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 5: I have so many stories about like stare action in 605 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 5: that house that I knew my child was being called 606 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 5: and was like, no, no, no, this is where this ends. 607 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 5: Someone told me that my old house is on the 608 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 5: market again. They sent me like a Zillo listing. No way, 609 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna buy it, but my understanding is that 610 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 5: the current owner is very uncomfortable in the house and 611 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 5: doesn't use the master bedroom or anything like that. 612 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, So anyway, my house. 613 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 5: What I found out when I was doing research for 614 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 5: the book is I had been told there was a 615 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 5: murder of a tenant that lived in my house. Like 616 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 5: Hester used to rent out bedrooms when she got older, 617 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 5: and this man never used the kitchen, never used the 618 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 5: bathroom in the eight years I think that he lived there, 619 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 5: and he had come on like a Mormon mission to 620 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 5: Wilmington and then fell out with the church, and no 621 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 5: one could understand why. And then one day he just 622 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 5: went missing. And so what I didn't know when I 623 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 5: lived in the house is that Hester had had an 624 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 5: exorcism of the house when she lived there in the eighties, right, 625 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 5: and it didn't work. And so it was the back 626 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 5: bedroom where my brother lived. And literally the day he 627 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 5: moved out, I woke up in the middle of the 628 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 5: night and saw this man standing in my bedroom doorway 629 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 5: and it was clear as day. He was like an 630 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 5: iridescent green color, and it was very unsettling. And yeah, 631 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 5: the more I learn about it, the more unsettling it is. 632 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 5: But this for another book, friends, So for another book. 633 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 5: You know, creepy things abound. Thank you so much for 634 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 5: joining us on this Halloween edition. 635 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 3: Hi, hey, thanks for listening. 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