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Speaker 1: date on our show before, where we actually get a
Speaker 1: couple to agree to go out again, you've probably wondered
Speaker 1: the obvious question afterwards. Has Brooke ever asked if she
Speaker 1: could join them in the bedroom that The answer is no, Okay,
Speaker 1: absolutely not. She does not ask legally, I don't think
Speaker 1: she can. Yeah, she just shows up. She brings a
Speaker 1: case of boxed wine. It's twenty pack of astral Glide,
Speaker 1: and she's like, let's do this. You owe me this.
Speaker 1: Mama's ready. But in addition to that, you've probably also wondered,
Speaker 1: how did that second out and go? Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 1: I'd always wonder. Yeah, people text it all the time,
Speaker 1: but we also will talk about I wonder what happen to? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you want to know are they still together? Did Brooke
Speaker 1: break them up? We're gonna get some of those answers
Speaker 1: today from one couple who was on with us a
Speaker 1: few months back, and a lot of listeners have been
Speaker 1: asking how this one turned out. It's going to tell
Speaker 1: you it was good. Oh well, we're gonna play the
Speaker 1: original second date call first and then we'll speak to
Speaker 1: them and find out how things are going. Now, it's
Speaker 1: your second date update update right now, the second date Update.
Speaker 1: We've got a guy on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today. His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request
Speaker 1: is kind of weird because normally when people rite into
Speaker 1: the show for help, there was an actual date that happened,
Speaker 1: but Kurt hasn't really been out with this woman yet.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, why are we wasting time with people that
Speaker 1: aren't following? Well, it's kind of like, you know middle
Speaker 1: school rules, where Kurt wants us to ask her friend
Speaker 1: to go ask her if she likes him, and then
Speaker 1: she'll tell her friend to come back to us, and
Speaker 1: then we'll report it back to Kurt. Do you like
Speaker 1: like like like that circle? Yes? No? Or maybe on
Speaker 1: this crumpled up piece of paper? Can no one be
Speaker 1: an adult these days? No? I don't know, Kurt? You
Speaker 1: can you all right? I have been extremely misrepresented already,
Speaker 1: that's Jeff, I am an adult. I've asked her out.
Speaker 1: We've actually shared appetizers and fingerfoods, so we kind of
Speaker 1: happened on the day. Okay, Well, maybe your email just
Speaker 1: confused me. Why don't you tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: more about her. I'll break it down for you so
Speaker 1: that you can understand a little better. Oh, thank you
Speaker 1: so much. You obviously listen to the show. You need
Speaker 1: to talk slow. I know how to handle you, guys.
Speaker 1: So what's her name? Her name's Cassie, right, and how'd
Speaker 1: you meet her? I'm actually a server for a catering company, okay,
Speaker 1: and so I actually get hit on by women a
Speaker 1: lot of these parties, but they're usually much older than me,
Speaker 1: and the kind of like cougars who have had a
Speaker 1: few too many champagne flutes. I was going to comment
Speaker 1: on how hot I think men with food are, but
Speaker 1: now I'm not going to after you finish that sentence.
Speaker 1: I am very young and hip. Oh yeah, so is
Speaker 1: Cassie one of the cougars. No, I finally met a nice,
Speaker 1: beautiful lady who is in my age range. That's exciting.
Speaker 1: I mean, did you notice her first or did she
Speaker 1: notice you? I mean I definitely noticed her. I don't
Speaker 1: know when she noticed me, but she was with her
Speaker 1: little group of friends, and she was wearing this very
Speaker 1: sexy little black dress. And I'm very observant, and I
Speaker 1: have to be especially observant when I noticed a gorgeous
Speaker 1: young woman. If I noticed that she likes this particular
Speaker 1: little finger food that we were serving as He's mashed
Speaker 1: sweet potato avocado bites. Oh yeah, good women in their avocados,
Speaker 1: they can't resist it doesn't actually are really good. So
Speaker 1: I noticed that she was like really dig indy, So
Speaker 1: a buddy of mine, I was like, yo, dude, let
Speaker 1: me get that trade smooth. So I switched the trades,
Speaker 1: and then I was like circling back to her little
Speaker 1: group of friends as much as possible, just so I
Speaker 1: could like interact with her and just kind of get
Speaker 1: a feel for, you know what she was all about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, like sprinting all the way around the outside
Speaker 1: of the party and coming right back to her. And
Speaker 1: now I'm realizing why all the ugos at these parties
Speaker 1: are always carrying the crappy ass, because the hot guys
Speaker 1: took the good one. You got a trade up for
Speaker 1: the best food. Yeah. Yeah, you guys would be surprised.
Speaker 1: That's really actually very accurate. I know. I love getting
Speaker 1: this inside into the catering world. All Right, So you
Speaker 1: were talking with Cassie a lot. How did that go?
Speaker 1: It was great? I mean she was really flirty. She's
Speaker 1: really funny, like she's waiting and cool. And then at
Speaker 1: one point, like I was like, whoa, she's into me
Speaker 1: because she said to me, she was like, do you
Speaker 1: have an extra naction? Because sometimes I'm kind of a
Speaker 1: dirty girl. I was like, whoa. I'd be like, no,
Speaker 1: I don't because I'm a dirty boy. Yeah, She's like no, Actually,
Speaker 1: it's why I'm wearing a black dress. I tend to
Speaker 1: stay everything that I owned. She was definitely just like
Speaker 1: being funny. It was cute. Yeah, well that's a good sign, right,
Speaker 1: and then you're thinking it's on. I mean, it was
Speaker 1: your turn to make a move, would you do? I
Speaker 1: fully put my trade down and I just started having
Speaker 1: a full conversation with her. Was like, yeah, we gotta
Speaker 1: get that to work. But oh, it's a catering bad boy.
Speaker 1: So you told us that you didn't go on an
Speaker 1: official date with her, so how did this end? At
Speaker 1: the end of the night, I was like, we should
Speaker 1: hang out and she was like, yeah, it's really fun.
Speaker 1: Can We exchanged numbers and we started texting and after
Speaker 1: what she was doing on a Friday, and I got
Speaker 1: no response. I texted her again and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: did you get my text? And I never heard anything
Speaker 1: from her. So it's been like almost a week. Kind
Speaker 1: of like maybe she had a boyfriend, Maybe she was
Speaker 1: thrown and like didn't actually like me. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you're not as sexy without a tray of
Speaker 1: avocados in your hand. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she
Speaker 1: alway likes me when she can get free little finger
Speaker 1: fruits appeal. Yeah, you were the gateway at the Sweet Potatoes.
Speaker 1: So what what's your instinct? What is your instinct telling
Speaker 1: you maybe she turned off by me being a cater waiter.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she gave her number. So it
Speaker 1: is a good sign though, that she like took the
Speaker 1: time to flirt with you and gave you her number.
Speaker 1: I mean those are all signs that she probably is single.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's big, or she's a terrible girlfriend. I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I mean she was with like what seemed like
Speaker 1: all her best friends. So I said, if she was
Speaker 1: verry or like had a boyfriend, she wouldn't be openly
Speaker 1: flurrying with some guy in front of all the home. Yeah,
Speaker 1: say something totally. I think that this sounds hopeful. I
Speaker 1: think we can get you a date. So let's play
Speaker 1: a song. We'll come back and we'll call your sweet
Speaker 1: Potato Princess and we'll try and get you a second date. Update.
Speaker 1: All right, bro, all right, let's do it. We all
Speaker 1: know there's certain things a woman just can't resist, like
Speaker 1: a man with a guitar, a man in a freshly
Speaker 1: pressed uniform hello, or a man carrying a tray of
Speaker 1: sweet potato avocado bites. Big boy, she'll definitely be whispering
Speaker 1: I want you in my mouth, even if she's only
Speaker 1: talking to those avocado bites. You guys need to be
Speaker 1: locked up. That's one of our listeners, Kurt, who emailed
Speaker 1: us for a second ad update. He was carrying a
Speaker 1: tray of delicious appetizers when he met a woman named
Speaker 1: Cassie at a party because he was working the event
Speaker 1: as part of a catering team and actually traded dishes
Speaker 1: with another server because he noticed Cassie like that particular
Speaker 1: food so much, and she seemed to be flirting with him,
Speaker 1: and at the end of the night she even said
Speaker 1: I'd be down to hang out. But she hasn't responded
Speaker 1: to any of his techs since then. That's pretty much
Speaker 1: the story, Kurt. I just really hope it's not one
Speaker 1: of those situations where it's like, oh, I don't want
Speaker 1: to date the high fired help. You know. I'll flirt
Speaker 1: with them, maybe fool around in a coat closet really quick,
Speaker 1: but not date them. Let's below me. I mean, hey,
Speaker 1: if that's the truth, I want to know it so
Speaker 1: I can move on. But I don't think she's like that.
Speaker 1: I don't think so either, because she wouldn't have given
Speaker 1: you her phone number if she thought that way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true. Well, let's call Cassie and find out. You're
Speaker 1: ready to do this, Kurt, Yep, let's do this. Here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Cassie Please? Hi, Cassie.
Speaker 1: My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. You have a moment to talk
Speaker 1: with us. Um, what is this about? This is about
Speaker 1: a segment we do on our show called a second
Speaker 1: date update. Have you ever heard of that before? I
Speaker 1: might have, Um, I don't know. Well, the way it
Speaker 1: works is if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can
Speaker 1: email our show and we'll reach out to that person
Speaker 1: for you to figure out the reason why. Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: and so we got an email about you recently from
Speaker 1: a guy you met named Kurt. Oh. Technically I never
Speaker 1: went on a date with him, so I don't know
Speaker 1: if I'm really supposed to be like talking about all this. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: let's let's forget the date stuff, whether it was a
Speaker 1: date or not. Like, did you like him? Did you
Speaker 1: feel a connection, because he definitely felt one with you.
Speaker 1: He said that you even told him that you'd be
Speaker 1: down to hang out with him sometime. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: would just maybe like in a group setting, you know,
Speaker 1: like nothing romantically. And I don't really know how to
Speaker 1: tell him that. Are you not single? Oh? No, I'm
Speaker 1: not in a relationship. It's just like he's off limits.
Speaker 1: I don't understand why is he off limits? If you're
Speaker 1: single and you think he's cute and you like him,
Speaker 1: what's the problem Your parents not letting you date yet.
Speaker 1: It's a oh my god, oh my god. No. To
Speaker 1: be one hundred percent honest, One of my friends called
Speaker 1: DIBs on him that night, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: so I yeah, but you can't call DIBs on someone
Speaker 1: if they're not interested in you. Like she could call
Speaker 1: Dibbs if he gave her his phone number. She doesn't
Speaker 1: get to call Dibbs if he gave you his phone number. Well,
Speaker 1: it doesn't really work that way, because, like, I have
Speaker 1: a big group of friends and it was like, literally
Speaker 1: my friend Rebecca's turn to call DIBs on whoever she
Speaker 1: wanted to do that night. And you know, we just
Speaker 1: kind of like respect this kind of thing in my
Speaker 1: group of friends. But why can't you talk to Rebecca
Speaker 1: about Dibbs because it doesn't make any sense. Did you
Speaker 1: hear her respect the dib I did talk to her
Speaker 1: about it, and honestly, I don't want any drama, guys.
Speaker 1: I just really want to avoid that at all cost.
Speaker 1: And when I spoke to her as she was just like, no,
Speaker 1: like I called Dibbs and that means something. So how
Speaker 1: is Rebecca ever even gonna find Kurt again? Rebecca doesn't
Speaker 1: have Kurt's phone number, or does she Maybe Kurt gave
Speaker 1: out his phone number to multiple women. No, Like, I
Speaker 1: literally was just gonna like text him and see how
Speaker 1: I kind of like hooked them up together. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: were going to be the wing woman there, dude? What
Speaker 1: mean you? It's the same like you you call that dude,
Speaker 1: and like nobody else gets to hit on him that night,
Speaker 1: even if so that there's no drama later, right, Cassie
Speaker 1: follow me on this one. So basically she saw him first.
Speaker 1: She said, Hey, I called DIBs on him, and everyone
Speaker 1: else has to just kind of fall back and we
Speaker 1: just respect it. It's you know, it's that whole sister's
Speaker 1: before misters kind of bangs, that is. But I got
Speaker 1: you pose before bros. Makes sense. I just I mean
Speaker 1: it kind of makes sense. But I wonder if it
Speaker 1: makes sense to Kurt. What I forgot to tell you,
Speaker 1: Cassie that Kurt's been on the other line listening. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, yeah, and he no, I'm serious, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: this is so uncomfortable. Hey Cassie, Hi boy, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: all right. Um, you know, it's like a weird situation
Speaker 1: and you're definitely my type. I just want to put
Speaker 1: that out there. And I mean, I don't know how
Speaker 1: much you heard, but like basically, Rebecca, my blonde friend,
Speaker 1: the one that was with us, and then like the
Speaker 1: first dress, Yeah, she called DIBs and there's really nothing
Speaker 1: I can do. All right, why don't you give me
Speaker 1: Rebecca's number. I'll call her up. We can work this out. WHOA,
Speaker 1: So you're gonna negotiate, Kurt, or you're just gonna date her.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna negotiate. I don't have an interest in dating her.
Speaker 1: I'm clearly into Cassie. And if her friend is holding
Speaker 1: her back from like seeing a guy that she's into,
Speaker 1: like that's not being a friend. That's a very good point, Kurt,
Speaker 1: you know what. That's so nice of you to say.
Speaker 1: But I don't want that kind of drama. I'll lose
Speaker 1: a friendship over it. And it's really too much, you
Speaker 1: know what. I mean. She's a really nice person, but
Speaker 1: like she gets pissed off. She's very vindictive. Wait, Cassie,
Speaker 1: I mean she sounds like a kind of terrible friend.
Speaker 1: I'm a totally sweet girl, but I will effing kill you. Yes, Like,
Speaker 1: if that girl is that much drama. Why do you
Speaker 1: even water in your life anyway? No, we've just been
Speaker 1: friends for forever, you know. It's just the kind of
Speaker 1: person who kind of like has your back and all
Speaker 1: of that, and it's just like always available. But he
Speaker 1: puts her off in one of these kind of ways,
Speaker 1: she'll just like go nuts. Like we have another friend
Speaker 1: in our group who ended up picking up with our brother,
Speaker 1: and Rebecca himself pissed off she had his girl's cartoon.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that is very vindictive. I mean, but a
Speaker 1: brotherhook up situation is different than this guy doesn't like you,
Speaker 1: Rebecca and he likes me. Sorry, right, that seems even worse. Okay,
Speaker 1: I better. I don't know. Let me ask Kathy it.
Speaker 1: What if I go on one fake date with your
Speaker 1: friend Rebecca. Yeah, I'll be like a total pig. I'll
Speaker 1: like have terrible manners, like I won't put on rant
Speaker 1: that night, and then afterwards it's like the dip has
Speaker 1: been given up, undipped. I don't think it works that way.
Speaker 1: That's really really sweet of you to try. I mean,
Speaker 1: so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but aren't you
Speaker 1: afraid of losing true love? Cassie and I even am
Speaker 1: true to the dip okayu. Yes, I bet my heart
Speaker 1: is melting right now from every word that comes out
Speaker 1: of Kurt's mouth. Give me one date and if it's
Speaker 1: horrible and you don't want to see me again, then
Speaker 1: Rebecca or whatever her name is, they didn't even need
Speaker 1: to know about it. Oh my god, what do you says? Ridiculous?
Speaker 1: I feel like feel pressured right now? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: don't feel pressured. Just go out with him while everybody
Speaker 1: is listening, and we will offer to pay for that date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: question group things? Would you be open to that? We'll
Speaker 1: hang out like in a group and see, like with Rebecca.
Speaker 1: That is a dumb idea, Cassie him. Guys, there's just
Speaker 1: like a girl's code. I just can't do it. I'm
Speaker 1: girl's code was Come on, if she's a good friend,
Speaker 1: she'll understand and if not, to make me suffer, Brooke
Speaker 1: is signing off as a female that it's okay to
Speaker 1: break girl code on this one. Yes, well, because her
Speaker 1: girl code is entering into ridiculous code. Like you know,
Speaker 1: you can only take it so far, and always your
Speaker 1: friend's happiness should be at the forefront of every decision.
Speaker 1: And that is not true for Rebecca. Guys, I'm really
Speaker 1: so sorry, but my decision is final. Oh oh my god, dude,
Speaker 1: you're gonna regret this. Okay, listen, I'm gonna get one
Speaker 1: of my buddies set up with Rebecca, someone hotter than
Speaker 1: me that she can like and not worry about what
Speaker 1: her friend does. Oh. I like that, Cathy. I'm not
Speaker 1: giving up on you, but I'm just letting you know
Speaker 1: what's what's going on right here. Oh, you guys are
Speaker 1: the cut. That's bro code right there. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I guess no second date for the moment, but yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like this could possibly change. Will you guys
Speaker 1: keep us updated on what happens between you two. I'll
Speaker 1: let you guys know. Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and
Speaker 1: go for Kurt, Cassie. I'm so excited. Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. We aired that about four months ago,
Speaker 1: and it was one of our most popular second dates ever,
Speaker 1: I think because they seem so cute together. Brook and
Speaker 1: I were like, oh, this one was so good, she says, Okay, continue,
Speaker 1: I know, everybody, it was a really good one. People
Speaker 1: have been asking on our techt board for months and
Speaker 1: on on our social media. You know, did Cassie break
Speaker 1: girl code? Did they go out again? Yes, well we
Speaker 1: have them on the phone. They're on with us once more.
Speaker 1: Cassie and Kurt. Welcome back. Hey you guys? Yeah? Happy?
Speaker 1: Are you guys in the same room? Are you in
Speaker 1: different places? Okay? But they spoke at the exact same time.
Speaker 1: It's like they're syncd up. So, Kurt, what happened? Did
Speaker 1: you end up finding a friend to date Cassie's friend? Yes,
Speaker 1: I found a buddy who was down. I showed him
Speaker 1: a few pictures of her friend, and we did a
Speaker 1: double date. David, Oh, that's a good idea, and as
Speaker 1: wonderful as it was for us, it was actually even
Speaker 1: better for our friends. Oh, so your girlfriend wasn't mad
Speaker 1: at you for dating, not at all? Like they hit
Speaker 1: it off. Wow, they hit it off. So wow, guys,
Speaker 1: if they have a wedding next month? Wait, you cooked
Speaker 1: your friend up and now she's getting married like in
Speaker 1: a six month period. No, that's only been a couple
Speaker 1: of months. They just yes, they knew what they wanted.
Speaker 1: She's also pregnant. I should probably mentioned, or maybe I shouldn't. Wait,
Speaker 1: what are you serious? Oh? Cassie's friend. Oh, oh my god, her,
Speaker 1: I thought Cassie was pregnant. What are you doing. You're
Speaker 1: not even supposed to say that. You know that? Good,
Speaker 1: don't know, but I'm sorry. Wait, you guys ignore that.
Speaker 1: It's my madness. It's fine. Back to you two again.
Speaker 1: How are you guys doing. Are you still together? Yeah,
Speaker 1: well we are, and it would just take it slow,
Speaker 1: but we're really happy and it's so really incredible how
Speaker 1: it's all worked out. Oh, that's so cute, like the
Speaker 1: first time we accidentally like helped multiple people. And when
Speaker 1: you will marriage? Yeah, don't say the pot Oh yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: I mean a drag Nancy. Okay, Yeah, here's the thing, Cassie,
Speaker 1: if you ever get knocked up, don't tell Kurt for
Speaker 1: a while. Yeah, right, if I want to broadcast it,
Speaker 1: keep us updated on your situation. That's so cute. Send
Speaker 1: pictures from the letting. Oh my god, we will tell
Speaker 1: your friends. We said congrats to them as well. Yeah, definitely,
Speaker 1: oh we will. Yeah, thanks for being on with us.
Speaker 1: It's brooken. Jeffrey in the morning, I love Low Moving
Speaker 1: ninety two point five