WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Adventures In Catering

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<v Speaker 1>date on our show before, where we actually get a

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<v Speaker 1>couple to agree to go out again, you've probably wondered

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<v Speaker 1>the obvious question afterwards. Has Brooke ever asked if she

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<v Speaker 1>could join them in the bedroom that The answer is no, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not. She does not ask legally, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she can. Yeah, she just shows up. She brings a

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<v Speaker 1>case of boxed wine. It's twenty pack of astral Glide,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, let's do this. You owe me this.

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<v Speaker 1>Mama's ready. But in addition to that, you've probably also wondered,

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<v Speaker 1>how did that second out and go? Yeah, for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd always wonder. Yeah, people text it all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>but we also will talk about I wonder what happen to? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to know are they still together? Did Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>break them up? We're gonna get some of those answers

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<v Speaker 1>today from one couple who was on with us a

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<v Speaker 1>few months back, and a lot of listeners have been

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<v Speaker 1>asking how this one turned out. It's going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you it was good. Oh well, we're gonna play the

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<v Speaker 1>original second date call first and then we'll speak to

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<v Speaker 1>them and find out how things are going. Now, it's

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update update right now, the second date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got a guy on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today. His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of weird because normally when people rite into

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<v Speaker 1>the show for help, there was an actual date that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>but Kurt hasn't really been out with this woman yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, why are we wasting time with people that

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<v Speaker 1>aren't following? Well, it's kind of like, you know middle

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<v Speaker 1>school rules, where Kurt wants us to ask her friend

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<v Speaker 1>to go ask her if she likes him, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she'll tell her friend to come back to us, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll report it back to Kurt. Do you like

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<v Speaker 1>like like like that circle? Yes? No? Or maybe on

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<v Speaker 1>this crumpled up piece of paper? Can no one be

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<v Speaker 1>an adult these days? No? I don't know, Kurt? You

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<v Speaker 1>can you all right? I have been extremely misrepresented already,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Jeff, I am an adult. I've asked her out.

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<v Speaker 1>We've actually shared appetizers and fingerfoods, so we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>happened on the day. Okay, Well, maybe your email just

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<v Speaker 1>confused me. Why don't you tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more about her. I'll break it down for you so

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<v Speaker 1>that you can understand a little better. Oh, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much. You obviously listen to the show. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to talk slow. I know how to handle you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's her name? Her name's Cassie, right, and how'd

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<v Speaker 1>you meet her? I'm actually a server for a catering company, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I actually get hit on by women a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of these parties, but they're usually much older than me,

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<v Speaker 1>and the kind of like cougars who have had a

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<v Speaker 1>few too many champagne flutes. I was going to comment

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<v Speaker 1>on how hot I think men with food are, but

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm not going to after you finish that sentence.

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<v Speaker 1>I am very young and hip. Oh yeah, so is

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie one of the cougars. No, I finally met a nice,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful lady who is in my age range. That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you notice her first or did she

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<v Speaker 1>notice you? I mean I definitely noticed her. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know when she noticed me, but she was with her

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<v Speaker 1>little group of friends, and she was wearing this very

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<v Speaker 1>sexy little black dress. And I'm very observant, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have to be especially observant when I noticed a gorgeous

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<v Speaker 1>young woman. If I noticed that she likes this particular

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<v Speaker 1>little finger food that we were serving as He's mashed

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<v Speaker 1>sweet potato avocado bites. Oh yeah, good women in their avocados,

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<v Speaker 1>they can't resist it doesn't actually are really good. So

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<v Speaker 1>I noticed that she was like really dig indy, So

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<v Speaker 1>a buddy of mine, I was like, yo, dude, let

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<v Speaker 1>me get that trade smooth. So I switched the trades,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was like circling back to her little

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<v Speaker 1>group of friends as much as possible, just so I

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<v Speaker 1>could like interact with her and just kind of get

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<v Speaker 1>a feel for, you know what she was all about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, like sprinting all the way around the outside

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<v Speaker 1>of the party and coming right back to her. And

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm realizing why all the ugos at these parties

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<v Speaker 1>are always carrying the crappy ass, because the hot guys

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<v Speaker 1>took the good one. You got a trade up for

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<v Speaker 1>the best food. Yeah. Yeah, you guys would be surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really actually very accurate. I know. I love getting

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<v Speaker 1>this inside into the catering world. All Right, So you

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<v Speaker 1>were talking with Cassie a lot. How did that go?

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<v Speaker 1>It was great? I mean she was really flirty. She's

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<v Speaker 1>really funny, like she's waiting and cool. And then at

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<v Speaker 1>one point, like I was like, whoa, she's into me

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<v Speaker 1>because she said to me, she was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>have an extra naction? Because sometimes I'm kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>dirty girl. I was like, whoa. I'd be like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't because I'm a dirty boy. Yeah, She's like no, Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>it's why I'm wearing a black dress. I tend to

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<v Speaker 1>stay everything that I owned. She was definitely just like

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<v Speaker 1>being funny. It was cute. Yeah, well that's a good sign, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're thinking it's on. I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>your turn to make a move, would you do? I

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<v Speaker 1>fully put my trade down and I just started having

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<v Speaker 1>a full conversation with her. Was like, yeah, we gotta

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<v Speaker 1>get that to work. But oh, it's a catering bad boy.

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<v Speaker 1>So you told us that you didn't go on an

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<v Speaker 1>official date with her, so how did this end? At

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night, I was like, we should

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<v Speaker 1>hang out and she was like, yeah, it's really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Can We exchanged numbers and we started texting and after

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<v Speaker 1>what she was doing on a Friday, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>no response. I texted her again and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you get my text? And I never heard anything

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<v Speaker 1>from her. So it's been like almost a week. Kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like maybe she had a boyfriend, Maybe she was

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<v Speaker 1>thrown and like didn't actually like me. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe you're not as sexy without a tray of

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<v Speaker 1>avocados in your hand. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>alway likes me when she can get free little finger

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<v Speaker 1>fruits appeal. Yeah, you were the gateway at the Sweet Potatoes.

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<v Speaker 1>So what what's your instinct? What is your instinct telling

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<v Speaker 1>you maybe she turned off by me being a cater waiter.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she gave her number. So it

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<v Speaker 1>is a good sign though, that she like took the

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<v Speaker 1>time to flirt with you and gave you her number.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean those are all signs that she probably is single.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's big, or she's a terrible girlfriend. I don't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean she was with like what seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>all her best friends. So I said, if she was

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<v Speaker 1>verry or like had a boyfriend, she wouldn't be openly

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<v Speaker 1>flurrying with some guy in front of all the home. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>say something totally. I think that this sounds hopeful. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we can get you a date. So let's play

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<v Speaker 1>a song. We'll come back and we'll call your sweet

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<v Speaker 1>Potato Princess and we'll try and get you a second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, bro, all right, let's do it. We all

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<v Speaker 1>know there's certain things a woman just can't resist, like

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<v Speaker 1>a man with a guitar, a man in a freshly

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<v Speaker 1>pressed uniform hello, or a man carrying a tray of

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<v Speaker 1>sweet potato avocado bites. Big boy, she'll definitely be whispering

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<v Speaker 1>I want you in my mouth, even if she's only

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<v Speaker 1>talking to those avocado bites. You guys need to be

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<v Speaker 1>locked up. That's one of our listeners, Kurt, who emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us for a second ad update. He was carrying a

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<v Speaker 1>tray of delicious appetizers when he met a woman named

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie at a party because he was working the event

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<v Speaker 1>as part of a catering team and actually traded dishes

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<v Speaker 1>with another server because he noticed Cassie like that particular

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<v Speaker 1>food so much, and she seemed to be flirting with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and at the end of the night she even said

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be down to hang out. But she hasn't responded

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<v Speaker 1>to any of his techs since then. That's pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>the story, Kurt. I just really hope it's not one

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<v Speaker 1>of those situations where it's like, oh, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to date the high fired help. You know. I'll flirt

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<v Speaker 1>with them, maybe fool around in a coat closet really quick,

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<v Speaker 1>but not date them. Let's below me. I mean, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the truth, I want to know it so

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<v Speaker 1>I can move on. But I don't think she's like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so either, because she wouldn't have given

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<v Speaker 1>you her phone number if she thought that way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. Well, let's call Cassie and find out. You're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to do this, Kurt, Yep, let's do this. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Cassie Please? Hi, Cassie.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. You have a moment to talk

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<v Speaker 1>with us. Um, what is this about? This is about

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<v Speaker 1>a segment we do on our show called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Have you ever heard of that before? I

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<v Speaker 1>might have, Um, I don't know. Well, the way it

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<v Speaker 1>works is if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can

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<v Speaker 1>email our show and we'll reach out to that person

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<v Speaker 1>for you to figure out the reason why. Oh okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we got an email about you recently from

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<v Speaker 1>a guy you met named Kurt. Oh. Technically I never

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date with him, so I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm really supposed to be like talking about all this. Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's forget the date stuff, whether it was a

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<v Speaker 1>date or not. Like, did you like him? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>feel a connection, because he definitely felt one with you.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that you even told him that you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>down to hang out with him sometime. Yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would just maybe like in a group setting, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing romantically. And I don't really know how to

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that. Are you not single? Oh? No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not in a relationship. It's just like he's off limits.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why is he off limits? If you're

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<v Speaker 1>single and you think he's cute and you like him,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the problem Your parents not letting you date yet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a oh my god, oh my god. No. To

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<v Speaker 1>be one hundred percent honest, One of my friends called

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<v Speaker 1>DIBs on him that night, and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I yeah, but you can't call DIBs on someone

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<v Speaker 1>if they're not interested in you. Like she could call

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<v Speaker 1>Dibbs if he gave her his phone number. She doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to call Dibbs if he gave you his phone number. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't really work that way, because, like, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a big group of friends and it was like, literally

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Rebecca's turn to call DIBs on whoever she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do that night. And you know, we just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like respect this kind of thing in my

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<v Speaker 1>group of friends. But why can't you talk to Rebecca

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<v Speaker 1>about Dibbs because it doesn't make any sense. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>hear her respect the dib I did talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and honestly, I don't want any drama, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I just really want to avoid that at all cost.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I spoke to her as she was just like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>like I called Dibbs and that means something. So how

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<v Speaker 1>is Rebecca ever even gonna find Kurt again? Rebecca doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have Kurt's phone number, or does she Maybe Kurt gave

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<v Speaker 1>out his phone number to multiple women. No, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>literally was just gonna like text him and see how

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like hooked them up together. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to be the wing woman there, dude? What

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<v Speaker 1>mean you? It's the same like you you call that dude,

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<v Speaker 1>and like nobody else gets to hit on him that night,

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<v Speaker 1>even if so that there's no drama later, right, Cassie

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<v Speaker 1>follow me on this one. So basically she saw him first.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, Hey, I called DIBs on him, and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else has to just kind of fall back and we

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<v Speaker 1>just respect it. It's you know, it's that whole sister's

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<v Speaker 1>before misters kind of bangs, that is. But I got

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<v Speaker 1>you pose before bros. Makes sense. I just I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of makes sense. But I wonder if it

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense to Kurt. What I forgot to tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie that Kurt's been on the other line listening. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, yeah, and he no, I'm serious, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so uncomfortable. Hey Cassie, Hi boy, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Um, you know, it's like a weird situation

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<v Speaker 1>and you're definitely my type. I just want to put

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<v Speaker 1>that out there. And I mean, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>much you heard, but like basically, Rebecca, my blonde friend,

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<v Speaker 1>the one that was with us, and then like the

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<v Speaker 1>first dress, Yeah, she called DIBs and there's really nothing

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<v Speaker 1>I can do. All right, why don't you give me

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca's number. I'll call her up. We can work this out. WHOA,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're gonna negotiate, Kurt, or you're just gonna date her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna negotiate. I don't have an interest in dating her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm clearly into Cassie. And if her friend is holding

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<v Speaker 1>her back from like seeing a guy that she's into,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's not being a friend. That's a very good point, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. That's so nice of you to say.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't want that kind of drama. I'll lose

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<v Speaker 1>a friendship over it. And it's really too much, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. I mean. She's a really nice person, but

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<v Speaker 1>like she gets pissed off. She's very vindictive. Wait, Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she sounds like a kind of terrible friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a totally sweet girl, but I will effing kill you. Yes, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if that girl is that much drama. Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>even water in your life anyway? No, we've just been

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<v Speaker 1>friends for forever, you know. It's just the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>person who kind of like has your back and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that, and it's just like always available. But he

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<v Speaker 1>puts her off in one of these kind of ways,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll just like go nuts. Like we have another friend

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<v Speaker 1>in our group who ended up picking up with our brother,

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<v Speaker 1>and Rebecca himself pissed off she had his girl's cartoon.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, that is very vindictive. I mean, but a

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<v Speaker 1>brotherhook up situation is different than this guy doesn't like you,

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca and he likes me. Sorry, right, that seems even worse. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I better. I don't know. Let me ask Kathy it.

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<v Speaker 1>What if I go on one fake date with your

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<v Speaker 1>friend Rebecca. Yeah, I'll be like a total pig. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>like have terrible manners, like I won't put on rant

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<v Speaker 1>that night, and then afterwards it's like the dip has

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<v Speaker 1>been given up, undipped. I don't think it works that way.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really really sweet of you to try. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but aren't you

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<v Speaker 1>afraid of losing true love? Cassie and I even am

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<v Speaker 1>true to the dip okayu. Yes, I bet my heart

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<v Speaker 1>is melting right now from every word that comes out

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<v Speaker 1>of Kurt's mouth. Give me one date and if it's

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<v Speaker 1>horrible and you don't want to see me again, then

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca or whatever her name is, they didn't even need

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<v Speaker 1>to know about it. Oh my god, what do you says? Ridiculous?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like feel pressured right now? No? No, no,

0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:36.760
<v Speaker 1>don't feel pressured. Just go out with him while everybody

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<v Speaker 1>is listening, and we will offer to pay for that date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>question group things? Would you be open to that? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>hang out like in a group and see, like with Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a dumb idea, Cassie him. Guys, there's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a girl's code. I just can't do it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>girl's code was Come on, if she's a good friend,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll understand and if not, to make me suffer, Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>is signing off as a female that it's okay to

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<v Speaker 1>break girl code on this one. Yes, well, because her

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<v Speaker 1>girl code is entering into ridiculous code. Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can only take it so far, and always your

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<v Speaker 1>friend's happiness should be at the forefront of every decision.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is not true for Rebecca. Guys, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry, but my decision is final. Oh oh my god, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna regret this. Okay, listen, I'm gonna get one

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<v Speaker 1>of my buddies set up with Rebecca, someone hotter than

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<v Speaker 1>me that she can like and not worry about what

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<v Speaker 1>her friend does. Oh. I like that, Cathy. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>giving up on you, but I'm just letting you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's what's going on right here. Oh, you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>the cut. That's bro code right there. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess no second date for the moment, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this could possibly change. Will you guys

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated on what happens between you two. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>let you guys know. Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and

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<v Speaker 1>go for Kurt, Cassie. I'm so excited. Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. We aired that about four months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was one of our most popular second dates ever,

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<v Speaker 1>I think because they seem so cute together. Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>I were like, oh, this one was so good, she says, Okay, continue,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, everybody, it was a really good one. People

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<v Speaker 1>have been asking on our techt board for months and

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<v Speaker 1>on on our social media. You know, did Cassie break

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<v Speaker 1>girl code? Did they go out again? Yes, well we

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<v Speaker 1>have them on the phone. They're on with us once more.

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie and Kurt. Welcome back. Hey you guys? Yeah? Happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you guys in the same room? Are you in

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<v Speaker 1>different places? Okay? But they spoke at the exact same time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like they're syncd up. So, Kurt, what happened? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you end up finding a friend to date Cassie's friend? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I found a buddy who was down. I showed him

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<v Speaker 1>a few pictures of her friend, and we did a

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<v Speaker 1>double date. David, Oh, that's a good idea, and as

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful as it was for us, it was actually even

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<v Speaker 1>better for our friends. Oh, so your girlfriend wasn't mad

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<v Speaker 1>at you for dating, not at all? Like they hit

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<v Speaker 1>it off. Wow, they hit it off. So wow, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if they have a wedding next month? Wait, you cooked

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<v Speaker 1>your friend up and now she's getting married like in

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<v Speaker 1>a six month period. No, that's only been a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of months. They just yes, they knew what they wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>She's also pregnant. I should probably mentioned, or maybe I shouldn't. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you serious? Oh? Cassie's friend. Oh, oh my god, her,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought Cassie was pregnant. What are you doing. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not even supposed to say that. You know that? Good,

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but I'm sorry. Wait, you guys ignore that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my madness. It's fine. Back to you two again.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys doing. Are you still together? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well we are, and it would just take it slow,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're really happy and it's so really incredible how

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<v Speaker 1>it's all worked out. Oh, that's so cute, like the

0:18:08.400 --> 0:18:12.600
<v Speaker 1>first time we accidentally like helped multiple people. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you will marriage? Yeah, don't say the pot Oh yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a drag Nancy. Okay, Yeah, here's the thing, Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever get knocked up, don't tell Kurt for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. Yeah, right, if I want to broadcast it,

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated on your situation. That's so cute. Send

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<v Speaker 1>pictures from the letting. Oh my god, we will tell

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<v Speaker 1>your friends. We said congrats to them as well. Yeah, definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>oh we will. Yeah, thanks for being on with us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's brooken. Jeffrey in the morning, I love Low Moving

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five