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Speaker 1: okay to wear to a wedding? Oh, I gotta do

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Speaker 1: the thing. By the way, you can join us live

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Speaker 1: on YouTube every weekday at three pm Pacific Standard time.

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Speaker 1: Josh eighty four to forty nine says her context I

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Speaker 1: thirty eight male. I'm thirty eight male and my fiance

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Speaker 1: this year. The venue is booked and the wedding is

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Speaker 1: pretty much sortied, so you know, takes backs. You gotta

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Speaker 1: keep going. Emma has been researching dresses and has a

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Speaker 1: to get the bridesmaid's dresses and her wedding dress. We

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Speaker 1: Everything's paid and we have six k leftover, which I

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Speaker 1: honeymoon fund we already had. We aren't the extravagant type

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Speaker 1: her dress. I know everything is more expensive when it

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Speaker 1: has the term wedding attached to it, but what I

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Speaker 2: Let me just say, yeah, chee cheap.

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Speaker 1: That's cheap from what I've heard. Yeah, what dresses can

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Speaker 1: I get it. Absolutely, it's six thousand dollars left over.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's it's the wedding and look nice. The

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Speaker 2: a thousand I was like, now, the bed not that bad.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you you both want to be happy.

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Speaker 1: Then her mom had to get involved. They offered to

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Speaker 1: a problem. Yeah, it's a dress. They are identical. There

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Speaker 2: See that's I think this is just where, like some

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Speaker 2: The wedding is about The wedding's about you, guys. It's

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Speaker 2: you know, decorations, which is also it's only one day.

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Speaker 2: Do you think you could find something a little cheaper? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: the budget. Yeah, they can fully afford it. Her parents

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Speaker 2: And you could sit down and be like, we have

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Speaker 2: and you can put three thousand towards it.

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Speaker 1: But if he is going to write this raddit story,

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I just ate, like, yeah, Booty,

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Speaker 2: Someone had mentioned Malari's check. Oh was like in my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, then yesterday, Oh wait, I'm blown away that she

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Speaker 1: Ah boy, now the family's getting involved. That's not good.

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Speaker 1: And there's an edit. Emma found this thread, which is

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Speaker 2: If he holds firm and is like, no, I can't

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Speaker 1: We're on really different pages. I really or at least

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Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I think the I also hated that

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Speaker 1: I think that when an adult has their own finances, uh,

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Speaker 2: Just my mind is still kind of blown, guys, and

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Speaker 1: You might be right, because like I just think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think that that comment was just uh eighty so

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Speaker 4: Eighty people on YouTube say prevores.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, agree, I agree. Narrative says postponing a

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Speaker 1: Jezbel Valo says, why is it always the immature one

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Speaker 4: Someone put a comment in earlier that was like, imagine

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, can you scow up a little bit? To

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Speaker 1: slyly toes comment slightly toad says, I have adult money.

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Speaker 1: I can buy fun things if I want. Yeah, agreed,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it treats.

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Speaker 2: And That's the one thing that went through my head.

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Speaker 1: Amount of money for a wedding. Yeah, for a whek.

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Speaker 2: They're trying to be really mindful, they don't spend a

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Speaker 2: lot of money. Yeah, that's something I was thinking about.

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Speaker 2: But like she did say, I have my own money,

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Speaker 2: and if it's her own money, let her do what

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Speaker 1: No, I think it would be a totally different situation

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Speaker 1: if they were, you know, trying, like, didn't have that

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Speaker 6: Getting that close to the wedding. Yeah, you've been with

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Speaker 1: Big day and they're just being an a hole. I

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Speaker 1: think there's always we talked about, like, were there any

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Speaker 1: red flags that popped up before though, you know, because

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there were, Yeah, this guy. But let's read

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Speaker 1: But the gowns I found on wish looked very professionally

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Speaker 1: think this is a man that just knows nothing, nothing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, how would you guys feel about wearing a

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Speaker 1: I honestly wouldn't mind. But it's like it's like, I

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Speaker 1: And also I'm not everyone. And if someone wants a dress,

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Speaker 1: Like we have different wants and desires for our wedding

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Speaker 1: days and that is okay. Uh OHP then says that's

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Speaker 1: It is the absurd price that I'm against. It's like, no,

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Speaker 1: you don't understand she can wear what if she wants

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Speaker 1: and that is that this will be worn for one

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Speaker 1: day only. No, you are missing it. You are missing

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Speaker 1: the point, my friend, I mean my enemy. I hate you.

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Speaker 2: Would you would you argue that someone's wedding is the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if that is the path that you

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it could be it. Yeah, I'm saying

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not saying it's like, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: yeah to them. Yeah right, yeah, don't worry, will get

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Speaker 4: I can't figure it out.

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Speaker 2: I do think it would be so fun to get married,

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Speaker 2: like mainly because I think a wedding would be so fun.

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Speaker 1: Oh you host the heck and I would absolutely I

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Speaker 1: would do. My God, I yeah, I would roast roast

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Speaker 1: the heck out of my ek.

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Speaker 2: You everyone for coming, like for real? I would do

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Speaker 2: you know how people sit there like the groom on

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Speaker 2: would do, that's what I want.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you have a bald man. I don't

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Speaker 1: know being wrong with that. Nothing wrong with that, Absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: I can't just speak that in the universe.

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Speaker 1: It's what's in here and what's down there. There's what.

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00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna be quiet now. But oh yeah, the cake.

435
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 2: I would have a huge, beautiful cake, probably red velvet.

436
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: Oh see, I'm a big Okay, I'm not honestly a huge,

437
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 1: huge cake. There are only a couple of different cake

438
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 1: that I like. My mom makes a really good chocolate

439
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 1: moose cake that sounds good. It's delicious. Also, my friend's

440
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 1: mom makes a delicious coconut cake. You know, I love coconut,

441
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 1: but I've realized a lot of people don't like coconut. Yeah,

442
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: wild I love ganna. So I think that for my wedding.

443
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would buy a wedding cake.

444
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 1: Maybe I would, I don't know, yeh, But I also

445
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,919
Speaker 1: might just have my mom make a cake, my friend's

446
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: mom make a cake. And then I want a pumpkin

447
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 1: pie because that is my favorite type of pie. That's

448
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:29,920
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I feel like you should just have

449
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: a bunch of little dessert. I want a dessert table,

450
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: the dessert table.

451
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: I want a soft served truck, maybe like an in

452
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 2: and out truck.

453
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 1: That's what my cousin had a bunch of food trucks

454
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: at her wedding. And also she had a donut bar,

455
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 1: so like it was like hot fresh mini donuts that

456
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 1: literally you watch them come out and you could like

457
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 1: seize them. So I'm so hungry store. Okay, right, No,

458
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 1: this was relevant, right, this was relevant, but relevant comment

459
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: Opie says. I thought i'd have a look through the

460
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: comments to see if anything explained why Emma had blocked

461
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: me and her phone is ringing through to voicemail. I

462
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: seriously can't believe people started a witch hunt over a dress.

463
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 1: I watched some YouTube videos of Wish wedding dresses, and yes,

464
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: Wish wedding dresses are trash. I get it I was

465
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: wrong about the site, but to end up blocked because

466
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 1: you have all told her I am abusive and manipulative

467
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 1: is just vile. Oh wild, I called her parents' house

468
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: and the lines off the hook. So if you see

469
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: this Emma, call me please, I won't shout, I won't

470
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: get mad. Oh, I just want to end this crap.

471
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: Get whatever dress you want. I see that I was wrong.

472
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Spelling's bad. Had some whiskey? Can you blame

473
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 1: me after this? Okay? I think we learned some red

474
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 1: flags in that that maybe Ope didn't intentionally give us

475
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,359
Speaker 1: the I won't yell. I won't get mad feels like

476
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: I'm in the past, and I've gotten mad in the past,

477
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 1: and I have to tell you I won't so that

478
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: you come back to me. That's what that feels to me.

479
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 1: I am a literature major, so I am known to

480
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: read into things more. How did we get to him

481
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:20,640
Speaker 1: being blocked comments? So? I guess the reddit comments all

482
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: sent this. They sent this far and wide into the

483
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: universe until Emma the Wife found it. Guys, how does

484
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 1: that happen? How does that happen? Are really good? We

485
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: have some really good stalkers in the reddit community. Whoa

486
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: Olivia Grace's man I hate Reddit.

487
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,719
Speaker 4: Comment from Mary Mary says it looks like op has

488
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 4: been banned from am I the a hole? You just

489
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 4: sent me a furious, indictive filled PM blaming the sub

490
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,959
Speaker 4: for what is happening in his personal relationship.

491
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then well there's a transcript from what he says.

492
00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: So band says, I'm not banned from am I the ale,

493
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: and good effing riddance. Her dad just called me to

494
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,439
Speaker 1: cuss me the f out. Can you believe I've been

495
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 1: trying to not effing cuss so I don't get banned,

496
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: so I can at least defend myself. Then banned for

497
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 1: no reason. I live in the real world where people

498
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: are angry. Then they yell what they save money where

499
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: they can, They don't effing run away and block you.

500
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: F this f a all f Emma for believing strangers

501
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: on the internet. O her fiance of two fing years

502
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: and then cupcakes and vodka says Emma. If you see this,

503
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: run for the effing hills. Men who are almost forty

504
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 1: married twenty seven year olds because they are manipulative and

505
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: are going to pull crap a woman his age wouldn't

506
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 1: put up with. He's too old for you. You're seeing

507
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: signs of this behavior. Now, nine hundred and fifty dollars

508
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: on a wedding dress ain't crap. He's already trying to

509
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: control and manipulate you and your finances and you aren't

510
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: even married yet, don't go through with it. OPI, you

511
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,479
Speaker 1: are a massive a and she shouldn't marry you. An

512
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: Opie response to that, Wow, thanks seriously. She's been keeping

513
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 1: up with this red because she told me not to

514
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: take it down. She wanted to read the replies, and

515
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: now she's blocked me on Messenger and my calls go

516
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: to voicemail. So thanks a lot. Everyone couldn't have left

517
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: it at your the a hole legitimately out for blood

518
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:29,360
Speaker 1: mob mentality if I ever saw it. An update from

519
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: from the bride, I just what do you feel? Again?

520
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: I need more info and I'm excited for the update,

521
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 2: but I really do think being blocked. Being blocked in

522
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 2: general is really hard to deal with, right, but then

523
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: being blocked by your fiance, Yeah.

524
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: I think that. I'm wondering. I feel like there's gotta

525
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: be more reason why he was blocked than just read it,

526
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: came and found her. There has to be something I

527
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: read it because I don't think there is anything in

528
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: here yet, That's what I'm saying that would have been blockworthy.

529
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:08,640
Speaker 1: I think it would have been more of a conversation,

530
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: like something something something iced to have happened. Yeah, that

531
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: he's not telling us.

532
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, he alluded to the whiskey, like was there's some

533
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 2: drinking in there? And he got really mad and yelled

534
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 2: like he was saying, for yell.

535
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 1: When you get angry in the real world. I'm sensing

536
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: angry mad. But there is an update from the bride

537
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: from the Yeah, so me twenty three female with my fiance.

538
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: Oh wait, what wait? These these numbers have changed. Me

539
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: twenty three female with my fiance forty three male of

540
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: one and a half years. He has humiliated me just

541
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: a few months before over a wedding dress, and I

542
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: don't know what to do. Interesting, Okay, I'm wondering about

543
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: the valige of both of these posts. Yeah, confusing someone,

544
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: someone's lying. I will change the name despite his inability

545
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: to do the same. So he used her real name,

546
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,239
Speaker 1: which is maybe why they found her.

547
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: Oh.

548
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: I don't really care if he sees this, but he

549
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: isn't sub to relationships. I literally don't know where to start.

550
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: My fiance, we don't call Greg. I don't know what

551
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: came over him. It's completely insane. We are getting married

552
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: this summer. The argument started over my wedding dress. I

553
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: picked a very simple and traditional gown that was already

554
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 1: discounted as it is an ex sample gown. My absolute

555
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: idiot of a fiance decided to post to a subreddit

556
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 1: asking for opinions or my more likely validation, on whether

557
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: I was being unreasonable. Yeah, my dress is under one

558
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: thousand dollars but will come to around fifteen hundred dollars

559
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: with alterations. We have over seven thousand left in our budget.

560
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 1: That's another thing that seriously upset me that he lied

561
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: in his posts multiple times, which honestly I don't think.

562
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: I mean that's yeah, it shows his character, but comparable

563
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: so we have he said six thousand, and he said

564
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: that I was under a thousand, and now it's seven thousand,

565
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: and it's just a k changed. So I think that

566
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: discrumtc me is the same.

567
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

568
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: I make a much higher salary than him, so we agreed.

569
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: He would put five K towards the wedding and I

570
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: put in the rest. But why lie? Why ask opinions

571
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: if you've skewed the details. I had absolutely no problem

572
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: with this, as he makes just above the minimum wage.

573
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: The thread got way too much attention. I had already

574
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: gone to my parents because I was angry about him

575
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: calling me immature and shouting at me being spoiled. I

576
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 1: also happened to find the thread shortly after he made it,

577
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: because not only did he use my real name, his

578
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: throwaway was his real name followed by his alarm pin.

579
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: This is not adding up to something fishy. Something's fishy.

580
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: He sent me a text saying that he wasn't the

581
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: a hole in this situation, and I just knew he

582
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: would post it on Reddit. It's not the first time

583
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: he posted on Reddit about stuff, oh man, but nothing

584
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: of this magnitude anyway. I don't know what to do.

585
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: There are people online now claiming to be me, and

586
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: it's been shared on Twitter and Facebook, and I'm just

587
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: absolutely mortified. He got totally hammered last night and called

588
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: my parents.

589
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

590
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: My dad had to hang up on him because he

591
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,719
Speaker 1: was screaming down the phone, and my mom was disgusted.

592
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: I can't get my money back on the venue or anything.

593
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: I recently started antidepressants because I've been feeling low, but

594
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: now I just feel empty. Oh boy. This whole thing

595
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: was about the cost of my dress, and he suggested

596
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: I use the wish app to get an identical gown. First,

597
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: he refused to listen to me. That wishes garbage, but

598
00:31:56,440 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: he also argued it to death in the comments. I

599
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: read every single comment in that thread, and it was

600
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: like being punched in the gut. I can't get over

601
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: the odd lies either. He gave out my real name

602
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: and his but lied about the age gap and budget.

603
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 4: Interesting.

604
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: Yep, that's weird, guys, that's weird. That's weird. I'm twenty three,

605
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: he's forty three. Admittedly he looks much younger, and for

606
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 1: the first few weeks of dating I thought he was

607
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: in his early thirties.

608
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 4: Ooh, red Flag one umber one whoa.

609
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: But hey, broa, they look good, oldhead of hair. We

610
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: also have only been together a year, not two years,

611
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: I think, he said. And I'm starting to think this

612
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: was all too fast.

613
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 4: Yeah. The budget, Oh, I don't like it.

614
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: And I'm really surprised to hear that she makes most

615
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: of the money being twenty years younger than Yeah, that's so.

616
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: Why is she a cat? That's what I'm thinking. What

617
00:32:53,320 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: is the draw here? Maybe? Okay, yeah, you're really I

618
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: need help. I need advice. I know I'm quite possibly

619
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: calling the pot, the pot calling the kettle black by

620
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: posting to Reddit. But I post here a lot usually anyway,

621
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: and all the fake accounts claiming to be me might

622
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: throw him off. Anyway. I might be slowly replying as

623
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 1: I start working in a couple hours and thinks, all

624
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: and there there is another update from the original op.

625
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:34,719
Speaker 1: So we're going back. Okay, I know it gave us.

626
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: I mean it gave us. I don't know. Again, I

627
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: guess it. I gave it gave us like more information

628
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: about the relationship and that he was, you know, lied

629
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: about a bunch of stuff. It's based on lies. But yeah,

630
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: now I don't know to trust. I mean, he sucks,

631
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: So I guess I don't trust him at all. But

632
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, is this person the real wife or the

633
00:33:55,840 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: real fiance? Yeah? But going on going, you know, just

634
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: basing it off, she's the real fiance, yea, because that's

635
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: all we can do. Yeah, yeah, definitely don't marry this man.

636
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 1: Don't marry this man.

637
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 7: Yeah.

638
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 4: Yeah.

639
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's especially because I mean, you you know, I

640
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 1: had said, were there any red flegs prior? Uh, even

641
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: if there weren't, it was only a year and so

642
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 1: now all of them are coming to light, so, which

643
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: I feel like is sometimes common. You like, you're together

644
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: for a while and then all of the red flags

645
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: everything that comes up.

646
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 4: And I think this gave clarity of Like before he

647
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 4: was like, why in the world did she block me?

648
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 4: Their parents blocked me? He was yelling.

649
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was screaming at our parents. Now, yeah, makes true,

650
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: makes more sense. You no, absolutely don't stay with this man.

651
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 4: Get at yet. There there's some guys your age that

652
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 4: probably have two so you don't.

653
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean apparently they have the same finances. So

654
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: but let's get into this final update from the original

655
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: stinky op Oh. Three months later, to ex fiance made

656
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 1: a post struggling to get back into the dating scene

657
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: since my fiance left me unexpectedly, Oh, unexpectedly. I didn't

658
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: even see you coming. A few months back. I was

659
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: going to be married. A long story short. Things were

660
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 1: called off. She wanted to end things. I didn't, and

661
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: I feel like I've lost all of my trust in women.

662
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel like this anymore. He's such

663
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: a victim, I know, let's do that.

664
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

665
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 1: I was dating someone called Isabelle up until last week.

666
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,240
Speaker 4: No, not the dogs.

667
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably her real name. She's really amazing and kind,

668
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: but the second she heard about my ex and the

669
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: fiasco that surrounded it, she ghosted me. I get that.

670
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, so many red flags. Let's get out

671
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: of here. Yeah, I wonder why, dude, I went. And

672
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 1: it's become a pattern. At some point, no matter how

673
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: close we're getting, they hear about it from a friend,

674
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 1: it comes up somehow, and they bail. I just want

675
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: to know how to behave or what I can do

676
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: to make things work. My last girlfriend, Casey, when she

677
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: broke up with me, she said the issue was that

678
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 1: I hadn't changed from who I was when my fiance

679
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: left me.

680
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 4: But I have. I don't drink as well.

681
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 1: You understand I've totally changed. I don't believe you. If

682
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: everyone tells you that you're a problem, you're the problem.

683
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

684
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: It's like the thing of like, oh, if one person

685
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 1: has a problem with you, they're the problem. If everyone does, yeah,

686
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: it's you. What's the common denominator you?

687
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 2: Uh?

688
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: Everyone knows? Oh wait, I hardly drink it all now.

689
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: But my job is steady and I'm a good guy.

690
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 1: But I think the issue is that I'm suffering from

691
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: small town syndrome. Everyone knows everyone here back in this

692
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: backwords little town. Please please give me advice. I'm putting

693
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:59,280
Speaker 1: this behind me. I'm honestly desperate. My life was about

694
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: to move towards a f and now I'm stuck in limbo.

695
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 1: I need a girl to fill that place so I

696
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: can move forward with my life. One real talk. You

697
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,399
Speaker 1: need to move on with your life without a girl.

698
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: You need to fix yourself without someone. Why do I

699
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 1: feel bad for I feel bad because he's stupid, I know,

700
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 1: like I want him to I want him to grow.

701
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: I want him to grow and then eventually find a

702
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: great person. Yeah, I want him to realize that he

703
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 1: is not a good guy and he is not a

704
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: good partner, and then I want him to fix himself

705
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: because right now he's just insisting that he is a

706
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: good guy and and that does nothing. And that's what

707
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

708
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 2: Nobody wants to actually work on themselves. Like people just

709
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 2: want to jump back into something after they've been hurt.

710
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 2: And that's not how you're going to heal, that's not

711
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 2: how you're going to find the person that you're meant

712
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 2: to be with.

713
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: You need to take stock of why you broke up

714
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: with your partner. Yeah, like what did what you did?

715
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: What they did. It's like when you get fired from

716
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: a job. Yeah, you know why did I get fired

717
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: from that job?

718
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 2: Was it?

719
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: Was it the job or it's my work ethic.

720
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 4: Also, if you look at who left the relationship with

721
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 4: a glow up and who got into a relationship quickly,

722
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 4: you can kind of tell like, who's the problem.

723
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: So I've heard that's what my TikTok for you page

724
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 1: has told me recently. No, I think if I think that,

725
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 1: I think it is advisable to be alone for a

726
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: little bit after a relationship, especially when that ends badly. Absolutely,

727
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: And I think moving on too quickly it just it

728
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: doesn't benefit you.

729
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 2: No, I think even if it ends well, I think,

730
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 2: even if it ends well, taking time to just be

731
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 2: with yourself.

732
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: Because I think people fear being single absolutely, and I

733
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: think being single is I know, but I think I

734
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 1: think being single is like very No, I know, I'm

735
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm I'm tunny.

736
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 2: I loved being single before I was in a relationship. Yeah,

737
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 2: and then now I'm being I was single for twenty

738
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 2: three years.

739
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 1: Right and then now being seen again though, But didn't

740
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: you enjoy it? Wasn't it? But I didn't. Well, I

741
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: was talking to my friend about it, and I was like,

742
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: I realized because I've had a lot of people be like, well, like,

743
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: did you feel like you were missing out on things?

744
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 2: Yeah?

745
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: And I realized that I had opportunities to date people

746
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: and I just didn't want that. And now I want

747
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: that and now you know. But it's a beautiful thing

748
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 1: to be able to know that for yourself. And yeah,

749
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's easy to.

750
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 2: Win you're single, to feel like you need to like

751
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 2: fill some type of void, but I think to be

752
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 2: able to be good with yourself, yeah, and feel like

753
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 2: I'm good.

754
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: I love life and just yeah, that's amazing. Yeah. And

755
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: on the opposite side, like it's okay to want a relationship,

756
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: but I think it's just it's just taking time to also,

757
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 1: you know, be with your have a relationship with yourself,

758
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 1: love yourself, love yourself.

759
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, ready for another one. Yeah it's you, Molly. Oh,

760
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 4: we got some donuts real quick?

761
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 1: Ohku, all right, he let me pull it up for you.

762
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 4: There you go.

763
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, still a bug felt book?

764
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 4: There you go?

765
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 1: Oh is it a book? Felt? Celebrates four months of membership.

766
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: Let's go op is a douche, but guys, can you

767
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 2: all have a lovely day slash evening slash night? I

768
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 2: will go now it's three am here in Denmark. See

769
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 2: you next time. Good night, good night, good a night,

770
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: Oh tinam Dot. Thanks for the five dollars tip. Imagine

771
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 2: they have kids and he's the bread winner. She can't

772
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 2: even cook what she wants.

773
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 1: Nay Lise or Li's p thank you for the ten

774
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,879
Speaker 1: buck tip. And Tricia Stoltz, thank you for the five

775
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: bucks tip. We catered our own wedding and had a

776
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 1: dessert bar. I'm so hungry, me too. We're family. Helped

777
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: provide the treats. I took all the recipes and made

778
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: a recipe book as their gift for attending. And it

779
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: was so cute. That is really cute, William. We should

780
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: all get food after this, please, Intertwined Realms, thank you

781
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: even a fifty bucks tip. Let's go love you listen

782
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: while home and at work in Alaska. I've been to

783
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 1: Alaska and it's beautiful. I've heard I've never been beautiful.

784
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: Visit a lot. Can we come?

785
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 4: I really want to see the northern lights. There were

786
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 4: northern lights in North Carolina because of some science sea

787
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 4: thing that happened, and I didn't get to see it.

788
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 4: And I'm so sad. Can I please come because of

789
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 4: some science I don't know what it was, but that's

790
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 4: what happened. And I was left out because I was

791
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 4: here in California. Oh damn. Three months after I left.

792
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I hit everyone but us God okay, smashpecs

793
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: yeah uh Ari Ari Rosewood says, just remember love can

794
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: come from the strange, just non planned places. So there

795
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: is hope out there, yeah, which we know from their

796
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: own story.

797
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:52,320
Speaker 2: We do.

798
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: Thank you. Ah ah, Fredrick Cochnic, thank you for the

799
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: twenty gifted memberships. I thought I thought we had reached

800
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: the next school, and it was like Frederic, not quite there.

801
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: Frederick put some king, put some put some crowns in

802
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: the chat a Dixie blue steel. I will step out

803
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: and order food if we if we reach another hour,

804
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: if we keep going, I am a glut. Frederick's here, Fredrick,

805
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:29,360
Speaker 1: we might have to order food. Yes, I am on

806
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: such a I won't say it, actually I won't sponsor it,

807
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: but I'm on such a grind of this place that

808
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 1: we keep ordering from I do. I love I love it.

809
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:38,720
Speaker 1: I love it. I get the salmon and the mashed potatoes.

810
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 2: I used to get it when I was in high school,

811
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 2: a college, a lot. Yeah, yeah, I remember, I went,

812
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 2: we're not yet yeah I know.

813
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

814
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: Well ten minutes and Frederick's here. Alrighty, alright, alrighty, and

815
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: after this story, I'm gonna go to the bathroom. Yes

816
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: I can, I can read it. That's a short story.

817
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 1: Hang hit on through the bedroom. Yeah, and all right,

818
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 1: let's get into it. Yeah, alrighty you ready?

819
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 4: I am so ready?

820
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? If I accidentally trip and

821
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: spill wine all over this girl who's wearing white to

822
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: my sister's wedding, oopsie, so sorry, it was totally an accident.

823
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: Didn't see you there? You were just like so invisible

824
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: there in your white, dressed like a ghost. And by

825
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 1: the way, you can join us live on YouTube every

826
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: weekday at three pm Pacific's dad at a time. Just

827
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: tap our profile. Sometimes we come on even before three pm. Okay, sorry,

828
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: Signal imagination thinking for the ten books. A signal says

829
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: thirty more minutes.

830
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 4: Darlings, were.

831
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: Okay, eight minutes go go. We're gonna keep writing and

832
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: this just answer the question of what is not okay

833
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: to wear to a wedding. So dear DINGO eighty six

834
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: ninety nine says, Okay, this is happening right now. I'm

835
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: in the wedding venue watching my sister get married. This

836
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: is live updates. Oh no, it's not live updates, but

837
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: like at the time they were writing it, it was live,

838
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: so expect updates. Maybe. I female seventeen AM at my

839
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: sister's wedding right now. I'm so happy for her. That's

840
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: another thirty minute we Asian Persuasion. Thank you for the

841
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: five gifted memberships, and we are at another thirty minutes.

842
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 4: What let's go. We're here for you reading these stars.

843
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 1: Okay, I female seventeen AM at my sister's wedding right now.

844
00:44:56,000 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for her. Here's the problem. This random

845
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 1: guest who I don't know, is wearing a very beautiful,

846
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:10,280
Speaker 1: very obviously wedding gown to what's supposed to be my sister.

847
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: Is big day.

848
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 2: Ah.

849
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:14,879
Speaker 1: Back when I was younger and she was a teen,

850
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 1: she told me that if she got married and someone

851
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 1: wore white to my wedding, she wanted me to spill

852
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,720
Speaker 1: a gallon of syrup and glitter on her as payback

853
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:26,800
Speaker 1: bo she goes hard. Now, the only unfortunate part is

854
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: that I have no access to syrup or glitter. You

855
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: might be thinking wine, because that's the most commonly used

856
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 1: weapon in these situations, but they won't let me near

857
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: the alcohol table because she's seventeen. Oh boy, oh boy.

858
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: The only drinks available to the five children here is sprite,

859
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: orange juice and water. Great selection, guys, orange juice. Just

860
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: nail her with some orange juice. Now. I would do

861
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,720
Speaker 1: orange juice, but there's very little left, and my cousin

862
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: would murder me. Oh because they need it for the mimosas.

863
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't know, so what to do? I'm

864
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: pretty sure everyone here has noticed the white dress and

865
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 1: is it tad confused by it? My whole family and

866
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: the groom side aren't big tradition followers, so you can

867
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: basically wear anything to this wedding and not be directly

868
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 1: called out. However, this seems very deliberate, and I know

869
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: my sister has noticed it, because how the hell would

870
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: you not? So am I the a whole honestly? Just

871
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: tell me what to do because I don't know. I

872
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: might go talk to her. I love talking to crazy people. Also,

873
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: don't come at me for making an am I the

874
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: a hole post about something so stupid because I find

875
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: this hilarious and TILDR. Before we get into this update, basically,

876
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: Op is at her sister's wedding and someone's wearing a

877
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: white dress. No, and she's like, should I go?

878
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: Still?

879
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,840
Speaker 1: Should I go? Spill something on it? She's seventeen, so

880
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 1: she doesn't have access to wine and no accident. Well,

881
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: we're not going to spill something on it. Yeah, Well

882
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: that's what she's asking. So what's your advice? Does she

883
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: does she talk to her sister? Does she talk to

884
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: the woman wearing the white dress? So the sister hasn't seen?

885
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: We don't know. She says that she thinks her sister

886
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: would have seen, but we're not for certain. Does a

887
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: sister know this person? We don't know.

888
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 2: Oh see, these are things I need to do, that

889
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 2: we need. I would maybe I would maybe get some

890
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 2: other opinions. I would maybe get some other opinions. First,

891
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 2: go to mom, go to dad, go to some family. Hey,

892
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 2: what should we do?

893
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

894
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 2: And if the consensus is that that is not Okay,

895
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 2: go up to the person and be like, Hey, is

896
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: there any chance you have any change of clothing or

897
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,919
Speaker 2: anything sweatpants? Can we just put you in something else?

898
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 2: But I think at the end of the day, sometimes

899
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 2: those things happen and it's really unfortunate and really not cool.

900
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: But yeah, maybe you just have to like, yeah, ignore them,

901
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 1: shame them, destroy the dress, destroy it. Oh my gosh. Update.

902
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: So I want to make it clear that I am

903
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 1: very much a gentle giant and would never do something

904
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 1: so bold. Me and my cousin thought this would be

905
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 1: pretty funny to see what other people thought. Now, I

906
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 1: finally spoke to my sister and her husband. My sister

907
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: actually didn't notice her and got pretty upset when I

908
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: pointed it out. I feel kind of bad about that,

909
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: I point I asked her if she knew the person

910
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: to what she said no, then asked her husband if

911
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: he did, and he said it was his cousin's plus

912
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: one and girlfriend. Embarrassing. I asked her if she wanted

913
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,359
Speaker 1: me to do anything about it, and she told me yes,

914
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: but also to not make a big scene out of it. Ooh. So,

915
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,760
Speaker 1: one of the things I'm pretty good at is info fishing.

916
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: I sidled my way up to the guest with my

917
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:46,280
Speaker 1: little cousin, not the same cousin as before, and started

918
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: some small talk with the guests around her, which eventually

919
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: led to her being brought into the conversation. Now, my

920
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: little cousin is blunt and childish, which is why I

921
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: brought his amazing self along, and asks why she has

922
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: the white dress on as planned. She stutters a little,

923
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: then mumbles something about her being colorblind.

924
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 2: I know color blind people, though, and they they know

925
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: what color their clothing is for the most part.

926
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that maybe she's saying, like, oh, she

927
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 1: confused it for white and like a light yellow or

928
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: a light pink. However, why didn't I don't know. I

929
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like if I were color blind

930
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: and I was going to a wedding and I knew

931
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: that I mixed up whites and.

932
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 2: Maybe just FaceTime someone FaceTime, Hey, just double check because

933
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 2: this white white.

934
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 4: If you're colorblind, let us know if you can see white.

935
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: Well, no, you can see it, but I know, I mean,

936
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: like I know that if if it's a pale yellow,

937
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: it probably looks very similar. But yeah, I would probably

938
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:49,240
Speaker 1: just check.

939
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 2: Those great, Hey, you know what, maybe there's a good

940
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 2: idea when you have a wedding, just have a backup dress. Yeah,

941
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 2: like like for someone else, you know, bring up.

942
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you have multiple sizes. It's exactly.

943
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 2: I got zero through like twenty and then whatever size

944
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 2: you need, whatever you need, O man.

945
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, okay, pause, that's op what I've heard of

946
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 1: color blindness, blindness where you can't see anything but black

947
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 1: or white. And if I'm if, I'm gonna be honest,

948
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 1: I kind of just walked away after that, Like how

949
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: do I respond to that? Because if she's actually color

950
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 1: blind and thought the dress was a light shade of

951
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: some other color or other, then I'm the a hole

952
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: and she doesn't deserve me beach about it.

953
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 2: You know.

954
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: Then again, if she's lying, that's freaking crazy. Yeah. I

955
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:47,879
Speaker 1: basically just told my sister that and gave the most

956
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:52,479
Speaker 1: WTF face she could manage. She decided not to worry

957
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: about it and just have a happy wedding. I'm happy

958
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: for her and honestly just happy. She's such a great

959
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: person and so much better than me. Well, and there

960
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: is a second update, a little baby update. Should we

961
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: read it or do you have any thoughts really.

962
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 4: Oh no, this is whack.

963
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's his thought's favorite thoughts. Before we finished this

964
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: story of Maker Dress Red. I'm glad that Opie talked

965
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: to her. I mean, it kind of sucks that like

966
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 1: the sister didn't know and like that's what she realized.

967
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: But I'm glad she talked to people before, you know,

968
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: possibly ruining person stress and maybe calling more attention to

969
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: it than it needed.

970
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 4: But Opie's sister did say if this ever happens, you

971
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 4: know what to do.

972
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, she did. Earlier on the story, the sister said, uh,

973
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 1: if someone ever wears white to my wedding, I want

974
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: you to pour maple syrup.

975
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 2: And literally, oh that is an important detail.

976
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: Yes, sorry, I forgot to say that. Oh in that case, yeah,

977
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 1: I mean, but you know that was years ago. Maybe

978
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: she's changed her tune. Maybe she doesn't want to call

979
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 1: attention to it.

980
00:51:55,640 --> 00:52:00,160
Speaker 2: I gosh, I'm trying to think. Yeah, it's it's a

981
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 2: really awkward situation to be in. And I think if

982
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 2: you felt comfortable enough going up to that guest and

983
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 2: being like, hey, you know your dress is white, Yeah, your.

984
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 1: Dress is white, go fix it please?

985
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you go change and you know, we want

986
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 2: you to enjoy yourself, but.

987
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is awkward for everyone here.

988
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:22,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this sucks. I also think that Opie's sister

989
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: is pretty cool. I mean, so are sorry. Op is

990
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 1: pretty cool right, like as a sister, and she's like,

991
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: I'm going to go to bat for my sister. She's like,

992
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,400
Speaker 1: I'm a gentle giant, but if you mess with my sister,

993
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: I'll put her. Why not you? Update two? So me

994
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: and my cousin how decided that we were the a

995
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 1: hole and we accept it. I don't know. I wouldn't

996
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: say that it would have been worse if we acted

997
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 1: on the joke. However, the woman has left and her

998
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 1: boyfriend is nowhere to be seen, so old as well.

999
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 1: Me and my cousin brought the post up to my sister,

1000
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,439
Speaker 1: who was a bit tipsy so I'll ask again later,

1001
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 1: and asked if we should delete it since it was

1002
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 1: unkind of us to do it at a wedding. She

1003
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 1: laughed us after reading the post and told us we

1004
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 1: were fine and also hilarious. I'm glad my sister is happy,

1005
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: and when my sister is happy, I'm happy. Just let's

1006
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: just celebrate that my sister got married. Go sister. Sure,

1007
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: I'm just a seventeen year old and acting childish, but

1008
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:18,879
Speaker 1: you bet your butt that I'll live out my last

1009
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: year of childhood acting like the biggest toddler of all.

1010
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: I love you, sis, this is so sweet. I love that. Yeah,

1011
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: I love that. I also don't think that OPI is

1012
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: an a hole that doesn't do it. I think joking

1013
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: about something is very different. Yeah, Like, I mean, there's

1014
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 1: plenty of things I joked about that if I did,

1015
00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: I would be an ad.

1016
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 2: Poured something on the dress that would have been that

1017
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 2: would have been maybe an a whole move.

1018
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you literally just talked about it. And also

1019
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 1: you kind of established the whole time that you were joking.

1020
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, I bet Reddit was just tearing her

1021
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 4: to shred. So yeah, read it, you immature seventeen year

1022
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:57,240
Speaker 4: old girl. Blah blah blah.

1023
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah.

1024
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Tianna Langovin. You could have a giant T

1025
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 2: shirt or hoodie people could wear over their outfits.

1026
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: It could be the theme of the wedding. Yeah, oh,

1027
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 1: it's got like a oh yeah, Frederick.

1028
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 4: But Molly Reid and you order on my phone beside

1029
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 4: of you it is, it's a go ahead.

1030
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 6: Frederick Lachnik, Yeah, Frederick's name. Oh gifted twenty memberships. Let's go,

1031
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 6: let's go.

1032
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 4: Thank you for adding to the Okay fam if you

1033
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 4: got one, give a big t y t in the

1034
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 4: comment section.

1035
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 2: Uh Tina M do thank you for the ten memberships. WHOA,

1036
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: let's go.

1037
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: That's so cool of people to do that, so much

1038
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: more content.

1039
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 4: I love that members only, so get in on that. A.

1040
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 2: Is that Josephine madonnald Bergquist?

1041
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: What a cool name?

1042
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 2: Have T shirts that say I wore white to a wedding?

1043
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 2: That that's yeah.

1044
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: All I went to a wedding and all I got

1045
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 1: was yelled at because I wore white? Should I get

1046
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: a flowerless chocolate lava cake? Sounds good? I love dessert.

1047
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: Should we split a flowerless chocolate lava cake? Yes?

1048
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:29,840
Speaker 4: I can't.

1049
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: Well, you're not a part of it. Because he didn't

1050
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 1: like chocolate. Was wrong.

1051
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 2: I don't really understand how there are people that don't

1052
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 2: like chocolate. I'll accept you, and I'll love you, and

1053
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,320
Speaker 2: I'll accept you, but but I don't really get it.

1054
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 2: I get like the candy element, because well I love candy,

1055
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,720
Speaker 2: but I know some people don't like candy.

1056
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 4: I know it's not it's too sugar. I don't like it.

1057
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Dric clock Nic memberships, thank you so much.

1058
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 1: It means another.

1059
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:09,439
Speaker 2: Wow Frederick our wild boy.

1060
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: Oh boy, the girl's stream is popping off hot like pop.

1061
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: Mm hm hm hm m hmm. This is just waiting

1062
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 1: for Ley. Okay, it's people say get the cake. You

1063
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 1: should get the cake.

1064
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 2: I did.

1065
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,800
Speaker 1: He didn't Rob and sin so that it's two months

1066
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:43,800
Speaker 1: of membership. Let's go woo. That's so exciting. Sam Hyatts

1067
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 1: is I used to not like chocolate or burgers as

1068
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 1: a kid. Now I love them.

1069
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1070
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe maybe Riley will grow up.

1071
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. I do eat white chocolate.

1072
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: But that's so funny though, because a lot of people

1073
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: don't like white chok because they like, yeah, get chocolate.

1074
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. I could have a podcast just about just

1075
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:03,720
Speaker 1: about sweets.

1076
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:04,439
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

1077
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,879
Speaker 1: I would love a podcast where we were just chocolate tears.

1078
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:11,319
Speaker 1: Like chocolate tasters. They get like people if they send us,

1079
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, like some company or whatever, like around

1080
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: the world down chocolate.

1081
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,439
Speaker 2: We should we'll talk after, well, we'll just talk after.

1082
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

1083
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 2: I love that, Okay, Keenan Robinson think for the celebrating

1084
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 2: two months of membership.

1085
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Deuces. Frederick is like the Oprah

1086
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 1: of membership. It's true. Michelle Arnold said that that's a membership. Yeah,

1087
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 1: a membership. Wow, Oprah, the goat.

1088
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 4: Looks like Frederick. Just look Fredrick right, seven seventeen to seven?

1089
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: Okay, what did you get? Okay? What did you get?

1090
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 4: Would you get another thing?

1091
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: I can't have variety?

1092
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 4: Yea, I'm just dying.

1093
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: Oh man, okay death.

1094
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 4: I love it you really anyway? Sorry, just just go

1095
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 4: ahead say you.

1096
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: I don't even know what I said? Is s il

1097
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: son in law?

1098
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 2: What s I s Oh? Yes, okay, sister in law? Sorry,

1099
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 2: sister in law? Okay, yes, I'm just clarify. Next prepairing?

1100
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah all right?

1101
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for refusing to wear the

1102
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 2: wedding dress my sister in law gave to me as

1103
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 2: a wedding gift. By the way, you can join us

1104
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 2: live on YouTube every weekday at three pm Pacific Standard time.

1105
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: Just tap our profile. I feel like we should we

1106
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 1: should come up with the new ways to say that.

1107
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1108
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 2: I like that.

1109
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, just just change it up. Every time. By the way,

1110
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: come chill, chill with chill it chill it with that

1111
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: chill that must chill. Okay, sorry continue.

1112
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 2: So capital manager seventy seven says, I twenty seven female,

1113
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 2: met my fiance, Jacob thirty one mail when I was

1114
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 2: twenty one.

1115
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:03,919
Speaker 4: Oh.

1116
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 1: Right, cute.

1117
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 2: We've been together for six years and engaged for almost

1118
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 2: a year. Out of those, my mother's wedding dress has

1119
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 2: been passed down for generations, and I remember being a

1120
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 2: little girl dreaming of walking down the.

1121
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 1: Aisle in it. Oh that's really cute.

1122
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 2: We've recently been wedding planning and we were invited to

1123
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 2: a dinner hosted by my fiance's family that was on Sunday.

1124
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 2: When we arrived, we greeted everyone and sat at the

1125
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 2: table to eat. Sister in law stood up and tapped

1126
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 2: her spoon against her glass and said that she had

1127
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 2: to make a toast. She then said she would be

1128
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 2: right back, before going into another room and returning with

1129
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 2: a large plastic bag. Everyone seemed to be excited, but

1130
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 2: I just felt confused. I awkwardly smiled as I asked

1131
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 2: sister in law what was inside the bag. She opened

1132
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 2: it up to reveal her wedding dress from her wedding,

1133
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 2: which was two years ago.

1134
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: This is so weird. This is weird. This is so weird.

1135
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: Unless op had said, oh my god, I want that dress.

1136
00:59:58,040 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 1: I want it so bad.

1137
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was like super expensive and hard to get.

1138
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: Why would you do that?

1139
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 2: Everyone began clapping. Sister in law announced that this was

1140
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 2: her official wedding gift to us, and she wanted for

1141
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 2: me to wear her dress at the wedding. I tried

1142
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 2: to smile, but I guess I didn't do a good

1143
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 2: job of hiding my disappointment, and everyone began asking me

1144
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 2: what was wrong. Also, to do that in front of

1145
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 2: a group.

1146
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not really cool, messed up. Also one, is

1147
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: this dress gonna fit her? Uh?

1148
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1149
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 1: Do we know if it's her style? Does she like it?

1150
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 1: Just like, very weird, It was weird.

1151
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 2: I tried to explain how I wanted to wear my

1152
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 2: mother's dress and that it was nothing personal, but that

1153
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 2: I refused to wear my sister in law's dress. My

1154
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 2: sister in law began crying as my in laws began

1155
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 2: tearing into me and comforting her. Oh, hater, she just

1156
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 2: wants to make everything about herself. Yes, yes, I just

1157
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 2: burst into tears and ran outside. My fiance didn't even

1158
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 2: come after me, And after crying my eyes out on

1159
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 2: the steps for what felt like he finally came outside

1160
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 2: and yelled at me to get into the car.

1161
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 4: Yeah I know.

1162
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 1: I was like, double take, uh done? Yeah, by what

1163
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 1: is up? Come on?

1164
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 6: Why? Why?

1165
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 1: Why? This stuff makes me sad? It makes me sad.

1166
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 2: I was so confused, but I got into the car

1167
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 2: just to hear him brate me on how I had

1168
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 2: made such a big scene and embarrassed him in front

1169
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 2: of his family.

1170
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1171
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 2: He sounded so mad, and he even said he couldn't

1172
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 2: believe he chose to marry such a.

1173
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 1: Witch. He see you next Tuesday, which he see you

1174
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: next Tuesday his exact words, done. Well, oh that's funny

1175
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 1: because he actually, you're not marrying me anymore. I got if.

1176
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 2: Someone called me that, if someone anybody called me but

1177
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 2: my fiance, like if a friend called me that, done

1178
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 2: done done done unless they were jesting, but right, unless

1179
01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 2: it's like you.

1180
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:05,840
Speaker 1: Bunch Yeah, but no, no, wow, I partner that I

1181
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 1: cannot imagine. Yeah, that's imagined. It was an immediate worse

1182
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: Brittany I see Lynn says These men are for the streets.

1183
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: They are for the streets.

1184
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 2: My fiance also said how sister in law was just

1185
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 2: trying to be nice and that her dress was more

1186
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 2: modern compared to my mother's dress, which looked like an

1187
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 2: old rag.

1188
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 1: Put this man in a box and leave him at

1189
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: the fire station, because I'm done. I'm done with it.

1190
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 1: I'm done.

1191
01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 2: What?

1192
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 1: What in a hole?

1193
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 2: What?

1194
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 4: Oh?

1195
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 5: My god?

1196
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:40,479
Speaker 1: What an old rag?

1197
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 2: I tried to tell him how much my mother's wedding

1198
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: dress meant to me because I promised her that I

1199
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 2: would wear it. Oh. I felt like my fiance's family

1200
01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 2: planned this and put me on the spot, thinking I

1201
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 2: wouldn't stand up for myself. I'm just agree to wear

1202
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 2: sister in law's dress. I don't think I did anything wrong,

1203
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 2: but a part of me thinks I should have just

1204
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 2: gone along with it and then told sister in law

1205
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 2: in private that I wouldn't be wearing the dress.

1206
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole?

1207
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 2: No? No?

1208
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, that's a really wild thing. That's a wild

1209
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: thing to do. Yeah, one wild thing to do that

1210
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: the sister in law in public, Yeah, gifted you the dress.

1211
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: Very weird. Two wild thing for the family to start

1212
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: attacking you. Three wild thing for your husband to get

1213
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 1: into the car and yell at you after crying in

1214
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 1: the car alone.

1215
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 2: Four wild thing. Call it an old red, call it.

1216
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: A witchy bunt. Six I hate him? Yeah, six, he's ugly,

1217
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: he's actly. Yeah, I know, I know what he looks like. Okay,

1218
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: you do in my heart?

1219
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 2: I know? Okay, relevant comments. Unfortunately we don't have an update.

1220
01:03:58,640 --> 01:03:59,600
Speaker 2: I wish we did what.

1221
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 1: Whoa how could you do this to us? I'm sorry?

1222
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, look look it up.

1223
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: Look it up.

1224
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,920
Speaker 2: Pale needle worker nine to two four A whole enthusiast,

1225
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 2: not the a hole. Your fiance needs to have more

1226
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 2: respect for you, as he probably knew you really were

1227
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 2: set on wearing your mother's dress. He should have been

1228
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 2: there for you and defended you, and when he didn't,

1229
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 2: it clearly shows what kind of person he is.

1230
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 1: This is a really calm Reddit comment. Yeah. After hearing that,

1231
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 1: I am up at arms and I feel like I

1232
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 1: would have expected the reddit to go like, oh my god,

1233
01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: divorce this man. I know the real did it for me?

1234
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 4: Guess what? Guess freaking what?

1235
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 2: What?

1236
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 5: What?

1237
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 4: We got it?

1238
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: Oh? Praise the Lord laid on me. Okay, oh he

1239
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 1: does have a comment. Wait we don't. Yeah, school back up?

1240
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: Ohp has comment. Oh that's I guess it's not really relevant.

1241
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 1: Wait is that the second edit? Do I read the

1242
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 1: first one?

1243
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 4: Okay? Sometimes they go back and like EDITI.

1244
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 1: Got it all right? So this is our update.

1245
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:22,439
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm leaving him for sure now. I really don't

1246
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 2: appreciate the comments calling me bad names for staying. I

1247
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 2: never intended to stay, and the only reason I thought

1248
01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 2: we needed a conversation was because his behavior. This behavior

1249
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 2: was recent and I wanted to understand what was going on.

1250
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 2: I haven't told him that it was over officially, though

1251
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 2: it should be obvious, yet, mainly because I'm scared he

1252
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 2: might do something violent. As many comments said.

1253
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: He sounds he sounds like he sucks.

1254
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 4: Oh that is.

1255
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:49,440
Speaker 2: I need a few days to figure out things, and

1256
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell my brother to pick me up so

1257
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 2: I can stay there for a few days. I'm logging

1258
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 2: off for now, but I'll update if anything happens.

1259
01:05:58,120 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 4: Does there telling me something happened?

1260
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: We should just keep going. I want to know is

1261
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 1: there more?

1262
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1263
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 4: Right? Yeah?

1264
01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi everyone, Hello.

1265
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 2: I just wanted to start off by saying thank you,

1266
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 2: to everyone in the comments supporting me and all of

1267
01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 2: the private messages reaching out. I haven't got to all

1268
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 2: of them, but I'll try to whenever i can. I

1269
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 2: really didn't expect so many people to see my post,

1270
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:22,520
Speaker 2: but I just want to make it clear how grateful

1271
01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 2: I am. If you haven't seen my original post, you

1272
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 2: can check my profile. I know of a majority of

1273
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 2: you told me to leave him, and I took some

1274
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:31,959
Speaker 2: time to think about it, but I know I can't

1275
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 2: leave without a proper conversation. At the end of the day,

1276
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 2: I spent six years with this man and this behavior

1277
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 2: was honestly out of the ordinary.

1278
01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:44,439
Speaker 1: Six years is a long time. It is a long time.

1279
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 1: A long time kind of this is. I think it's unexcusable. Yeah, yeah,

1280
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: and this stern loss sucks.

1281
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 2: I agree with a lot of the comments saying that

1282
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 2: his family was influencing him because he used to be

1283
01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 2: so caring and kind, but ever since the wedding planning began,

1284
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 2: he changed. Since the dinner on Sunday, he hasn't been

1285
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 2: talking to me at all and always leaves the room

1286
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 2: whenever I come in. What his honestly immature behavior and

1287
01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 2: all of your comments have made me rethink my whole relationship. Yeah.

1288
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 2: I did end up making him sit down with me

1289
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 2: a few hours ago to talk about things and have

1290
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 2: an adult conversation. He was very dismissive and was just

1291
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 2: scrolling on his phone for a majority of the time.

1292
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 2: What kiss, Oh my god, put your phone down, buddy.

1293
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 1: Screen ager screen ager.

1294
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 2: I tried to explain how I felt put on the

1295
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:39,920
Speaker 2: spot at the dinner and how his reaction and the

1296
01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 2: fact he didn't come after me or comfort me post

1297
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 2: the dinner was so hurtful and disrespectful, and all he

1298
01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 2: had to say in response was that I was being

1299
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:50,000
Speaker 2: selfish and that my sister in law was trying to

1300
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 2: help and I just had embarrassed her in front of everyone.

1301
01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 2: That's wild, because I'm thinking, like, if I did something

1302
01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 2: like this to my brother's fiance, my brother would absolutely

1303
01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 2: be like, Molly, what are you doing?

1304
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1305
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: Why are you doing that? Yeah.

1306
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 2: The conversation honestly went nowhere, and I felt really crappy

1307
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 2: and lost. Around an hour ago, he came up to

1308
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: me and apologized, saying that he was sorry and then

1309
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 2: he understood how I was feeling. I asked what we

1310
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 2: would do about the dress, and He told me that

1311
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 2: he had talked to sister in law and she had

1312
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 2: agreed to let me wear my mother's dress during the reception,

1313
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:25,560
Speaker 2: but I would wear her dress during the main ceremony.

1314
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 1: She agreed to let How is it your decision? She's like, Okay,

1315
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:34,360
Speaker 1: I've come to the decision that I'll allow you to

1316
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 1: do this. Yeah, and then Opie says, I admit it.

1317
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 2: I kind of lost it because he said it is

1318
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:42,360
Speaker 2: if I needed permission to wear my wedding dress on

1319
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 2: my wedding day.

1320
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yeah, get out of here.

1321
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:52,560
Speaker 4: Who, Oh my gosh, Oh my gosh, is this like

1322
01:08:53,200 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 4: a not feminist? What what do you call people that

1323
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 4: aren't feminists?

1324
01:08:58,000 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 1: Misogynist?

1325
01:08:59,000 --> 01:08:59,600
Speaker 4: Yeah? Is he that?

1326
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Probably we're just maybe, I mean he's calling her

1327
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 1: a bunt misogynistic. That is, he just seems like an

1328
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 1: a hole.

1329
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Obi says, I haven't felt so disrespected in

1330
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,400
Speaker 2: my life. I've just been sitting inside our bedroom and

1331
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:18,400
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure things are over after this. At it,

1332
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:21,559
Speaker 2: I will admit my mother's just a slightly old fashioned.

1333
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:23,759
Speaker 2: But I had talked to him before we got engaged

1334
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 2: about how it was my dream to wear it, which

1335
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 2: he had no problems with the fact that he didn't

1336
01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 2: respect how sentimental it was to me is what hurt. Also,

1337
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,680
Speaker 2: during our second conversation, he kept bringing up how his

1338
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 2: family was paying for a majority of the wedding, which, yes,

1339
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,680
Speaker 2: they were paying about seventy five percent of it. But

1340
01:09:41,760 --> 01:09:44,639
Speaker 2: I tried to remind him that it was my wedding too, as.

1341
01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: He's asking for money to buy this stress. And also

1342
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 1: it literally it does not matter if everyone else hates

1343
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 1: this stress that she's wearing. It's it's her. It's her choice. Yeah,

1344
01:09:58,280 --> 01:09:59,760
Speaker 1: if she feels pretty in it, if she likes the

1345
01:09:59,800 --> 01:10:01,640
Speaker 1: tr she wants to wear it, then it's that is

1346
01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 1: her decision to make and everyone else needs to shut up.

1347
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 1: That's really that's really something.

1348
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's wild.

1349
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: The audacity, the aud nasty is off the charts. The

1350
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: audacity is off the charts for real.

1351
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 2: I oh my gosh, if someone did that, And yeah,

1352
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 2: I think it's really unfair too. It's really unfair to

1353
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:28,920
Speaker 2: spring things on people in a really public setting, Like

1354
01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:32,799
Speaker 2: I think, if yeah, that's it, it's.

1355
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:36,560
Speaker 1: Really the whole thought, that's the whole that. Yeah, No,

1356
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:38,560
Speaker 1: I agree, that's why I like, I really don't like

1357
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 1: the I mean, unless you've established before I really don't

1358
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 1: like the concept of a public proposal either, unless you've

1359
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 1: made it clear that that's both of your type of things, right.

1360
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:51,560
Speaker 1: But I think it's it's you put a lot of

1361
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:52,879
Speaker 1: pressure into the decision.

1362
01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 4: I would do a public proposal if I wanted her

1363
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 4: to say yes and I knew she got peer pressured easily.

1364
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 1: No, that's the point of I would. That is why

1365
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 1: I don't like them. How would you want to be?

1366
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 1: What would? How would I want to be proposed? I

1367
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 1: haven't thought about it. I haven't thought about this. Well,

1368
01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:14,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like I want to be alone,

1369
01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:17,559
Speaker 1: but maybe like it can still be.

1370
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 4: I was supposed to propose to you if you're alone, Like.

1371
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:25,400
Speaker 2: Okay, because I haven't really thought about this, But imagine,

1372
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 2: like I think it's really beautiful when you go on

1373
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 2: a trip and then you go on a hike or

1374
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 2: like you're.

1375
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 1: Like you're next to like a really pretty like lake

1376
01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 1: or something like.

1377
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 2: This waterfall just amazing views.

1378
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like just really gorgeous.

1379
01:11:40,439 --> 01:11:42,640
Speaker 2: I want it to be gorgeous, gorgeous, but I do

1380
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:44,679
Speaker 2: want a photographer hiding in the bush.

1381
01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, like they're super can't be a crazy hike because

1382
01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:52,720
Speaker 1: I have to still look good.

1383
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:56,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, No, No, no, chill hike. We're going to

1384
01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 2: go on a morning walk.

1385
01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 1: A morning walk, it's it's or I joking with the sunset. Yeah,

1386
01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 1: somehow they've planned it and there are fairy lights everywhere. Yes,

1387
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 1: And I go and I'm like, oh my god, this

1388
01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 1: is okay? Or check this out? How do you feel

1389
01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: about this?

1390
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:15,879
Speaker 2: Let's say like Hawaii, right, you go on a beautiful

1391
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 2: sunset hike and then you walk ten minutes Luau with.

1392
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 1: All your close friends and family there. Okay, actually slight

1393
01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:29,679
Speaker 1: al serration for mine, for mine specific, I would love

1394
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:32,200
Speaker 1: if it was I don't know, you're in your your

1395
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: your Vona trip or something. Yeah, you get you go

1396
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 1: to this beautiful like there's fairy lights everywhere. Yeah, oh

1397
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: my god, and this is beautiful scenery blah blah blah.

1398
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: And you get proposed to and you're like yes, and

1399
01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 1: then and then you go to the party where all

1400
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:52,120
Speaker 1: of your friends are at. Yeah, no, that's what I meant. Yeah, okay, okay, yeah,

1401
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 1: that is what I meant. You got proposed about the

1402
01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: luo No, no, no, no, you get sorry, you get

1403
01:12:57,360 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 1: proposed to go to.

1404
01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:04,639
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, and everybody's like it has golden hour, says, yes,

1405
01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 8: it's golden hour when you get proposed and then you

1406
01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 8: go to your party.

1407
01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 4: This sounds are they serving watermelon everything?

1408
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:19,600
Speaker 2: They have every everything, They've got chocolate bread, they have

1409
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 2: white chocolate for.

1410
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 4: You, Riley, whatever you guys ate on your first date.

1411
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:27,960
Speaker 2: Okay, that is Q two going back to where the

1412
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 2: first date was and proposing there. I think that's I

1413
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 2: think that's cute. Two.

1414
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 1: That's cute. That sounds cute too. I just think I

1415
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:35,680
Speaker 1: don't know.

1416
01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 2: This sounds this future proposal hypothetical sounds great.

1417
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,680
Speaker 3: Okay, but now we have it on camera. Yeah, like

1418
01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:45,960
Speaker 3: we can clip it. Someone clipped this in attitude and

1419
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 3: naked clips.

1420
01:13:47,160 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 1: Please.

1421
01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:52,479
Speaker 4: Also, uh, don't forget to like the stream I love

1422
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:54,720
Speaker 4: you girlfriend and we got some donos to read.

1423
01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:59,320
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're it's like subliminal messaging, like the

1424
01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:05,800
Speaker 1: streaming Sammy, thank you for the five gifted membership. Yeah,

1425
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:12,600
Speaker 1: the baking Yeah, liar Asian persuasion. Thank you for the

1426
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:16,679
Speaker 1: five bucks. My fiance hates white chocolate and we both

1427
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 1: forgot about that when I made him the Galaxy fudge.

1428
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:23,400
Speaker 1: You saw online. Lol, I'm talking about food so good.

1429
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:29,120
Speaker 1: I'm so hungry. Okay, Mad Hatter Gal, thank you for

1430
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 1: celebrating four months of membership. I hope we can continue

1431
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 1: this amazing and curious Wonderland adventure with you all. A

1432
01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 1: very very unbirthday to you all. Thank you so much. Yeah,

1433
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:42,519
Speaker 1: Aria says, I love how Sophia was like, Oh, I

1434
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: have no idea of unproceeds to elaborate. Yeah, okay, to

1435
01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:49,600
Speaker 1: be there, I am an improviser. I came up with

1436
01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:56,639
Speaker 1: that on the spot. There's some more donus shoals. Mad

1437
01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:59,320
Speaker 1: Hatter Girl, thank you for the ten gifted membership.

1438
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 4: Oh, we're family, Hello your family.

1439
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:05,920
Speaker 1: Hello family, Mad how to Go? Thank you again for

1440
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,160
Speaker 1: the ten books. Well, I wanted to give you an

1441
01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 1: update on this roller coaster the Hatter has been on.

1442
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:12,600
Speaker 1: This Hatter will be staying in her house for a

1443
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:16,760
Speaker 1: very long time. Can't kick someone out without getting sued, now,

1444
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:18,960
Speaker 1: can you? Dude? Let's go, let's go.

1445
01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:20,639
Speaker 4: She was about to get kicked out of her house

1446
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 4: and she's been in for twenty years, but now she's staying.

1447
01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:23,760
Speaker 1: Let's go.

1448
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:28,639
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, dude, that's crazy.

1449
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:36,320
Speaker 1: I'll get you go. I love that. Oh that's so cute.

1450
01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 1: Something such cutie piezy Okay, Bernie hard Drive, I can't

1451
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:43,840
Speaker 1: read this. Thank you for the two bucks. Don't make

1452
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: fun of Riley's accent. It's mine too. Did we make

1453
01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:49,840
Speaker 1: fun of Briley's accent? Maybe I did it? I love it.

1454
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:50,880
Speaker 1: It's not cute.

1455
01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:53,000
Speaker 4: Oh, thanks God. I appreciate Dian.

1456
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:54,759
Speaker 1: I think it's such a fun. I think all accents

1457
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:56,719
Speaker 1: are very fun. And I mimic, yeah, I mean Riley.

1458
01:15:56,800 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 1: You've heard me mimic all sorts of accents.

1459
01:15:59,280 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 4: Whenever she gets nervous, she goes into a British accent.

1460
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 4: Whenever she gets like kind of serious, she goes into

1461
01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 4: like a Southern accent.

1462
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, we've got to talk about something. It is,

1463
01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:13,839
Speaker 1: Tiffany Velvet, thank you for celebrating four months of membership, Sophia,

1464
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:17,360
Speaker 1: whatever you want to propose. I'm ready. This is romantic

1465
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 1: and I love what I'm on. Just you wait, I

1466
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 1: got the ring ready, Tiffany, me meet me at the

1467
01:16:24,000 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 1: lou Up. Mattie Bayley, thank you for celebrating four months

1468
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:30,960
Speaker 1: of membership. Reley, what kind of sweets do you like?

1469
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:37,599
Speaker 4: I love me some pumpkin pie. Cheesecake, pumpkin cheesecake, pumpkin

1470
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:41,240
Speaker 4: cheesecake pie or pumpkin pie cheesecake. I love a good

1471
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:44,479
Speaker 4: milkshake or your milkshake, vanilla milkshake. Those are the only ones.

1472
01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 4: I like ice cream. I like sweet cream ice cream.

1473
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:49,640
Speaker 4: I like birthday cake ice cream. And I also like

1474
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:51,840
Speaker 4: a good smoothie. They aren't really sweet, they're not really

1475
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:53,200
Speaker 4: supposed to be sweet for you, but like a good

1476
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:55,280
Speaker 4: smoothie that like you get from like tropical smoothie. I

1477
01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:57,599
Speaker 4: know I'm sponsoring, but yeah, that's for the most sweets.

1478
01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: Oh what a short list. We definitely need to get

1479
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:06,639
Speaker 1: more pumpkin pie, really because I love dude, Costco Costco

1480
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 1: Costco Sco pumpkin pie sponsored. Never never had a Costco

1481
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:14,920
Speaker 1: pumpkin pie. I know. Okay, we're gonna throw Thanksgiving. We're

1482
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 1: gonna friends giving party. You guys, Yes, you.

1483
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 2: Guys are the perfect group to throw friends giving. Yeah.

1484
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I threw a friends Giving party at my apartment

1485
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 1: and I remember I invited some of my guy friends

1486
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 1: and uh, they showed up, and they were like, I

1487
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:30,519
Speaker 1: thought it was gonna be like lame and there would

1488
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 1: be no food here, But you guys created a pretty

1489
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 1: good spread. Ye.

1490
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:39,560
Speaker 4: Also, I got new lingo that Sophia's cousin mentioned to

1491
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 4: me from a teacher on a reel. Anyways, speaking of Costco,

1492
01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 4: if your person is everything that you need, called him Costco.

1493
01:17:47,360 --> 01:17:48,719
Speaker 4: Be like, hey, babe, you're my Costco.

1494
01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 1: That's really cute.

1495
01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:52,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, you babe, you're my Costco.

1496
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 1: I like that the Costco my, but no free samples

1497
01:17:58,960 --> 01:17:59,679
Speaker 1: for anyone else.

1498
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 4: She's quick with it.

1499
01:18:05,439 --> 01:18:09,559
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, my god, I'm so hungry.

1500
01:18:10,760 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 4: I just want to punking by. You know what you

1501
01:18:13,439 --> 01:18:14,760
Speaker 4: can do though, to help with this hunger?

1502
01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 1: Read I'm burning calories as they read.

1503
01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 4: I mean, okay, this this is the plan, guys. The

1504
01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:24,920
Speaker 4: food's gonna get here. I'm gonna read while you guys eat,

1505
01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:28,960
Speaker 4: and then and then and then we'll I'll come and

1506
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:32,240
Speaker 4: produce and then eat. Okay, all right, give me a

1507
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 4: solid seven. Who's this guy we're gonna dogs? He might

1508
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:39,920
Speaker 4: stealer food if we do it. Once on we said, oh,

1509
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 4: our poor Joses coming through with the food, and then

1510
01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 4: we never got it.

1511
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:46,400
Speaker 1: We never got that food. Wait, what heaven our food

1512
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 1: was gone? I think well John accidentally ordered it to

1513
01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:51,680
Speaker 1: his house and so then I had to go pick

1514
01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:54,800
Speaker 1: it up, but it literally within ten minutes was gone. Yeah.

1515
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:59,000
Speaker 1: People just stealing food. People just stealing food, dealing the food.

1516
01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:05,120
Speaker 1: All right, okay, you ready, pretty friend? Okay? Am I

1517
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 1: the a hole for taking the baby shower gifts after

1518
01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 1: my partner kicked me out?

1519
01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:14,639
Speaker 4: What sell it? Baby stuff goes for a lot of money.

1520
01:19:15,560 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 4: Sell it?

1521
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 1: No, wait, use it.

1522
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:19,960
Speaker 4: You have a use it because you have a child.

1523
01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:22,479
Speaker 1: You have a child.

1524
01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:22,920
Speaker 2: Use it.

1525
01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:26,680
Speaker 1: And also, by the way, how can we say this?

1526
01:19:27,240 --> 01:19:31,679
Speaker 1: You can party on down to to our YouTube live

1527
01:19:31,760 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: at three pm every weekday, join us. You know how

1528
01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 1: to wink?

1529
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 2: Not well, I do it with my mouth open too.

1530
01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 2: I have to wait, hold on, oh Riley's got it?

1531
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 2: Do it? Oh cute.

1532
01:19:51,400 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 1: Hurt, Come on down to YouTube live. Okay. And this

1533
01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:05,080
Speaker 1: stands with the question of what is unreasonable behavior from

1534
01:20:05,200 --> 01:20:10,559
Speaker 1: an ex? Oh no, so, Lillian Moon says, I, thirty

1535
01:20:10,600 --> 01:20:13,600
Speaker 1: three female and my partner, thirty seven mail, had a

1536
01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 1: huge fight at midnight the other night that ended with

1537
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:19,800
Speaker 1: him kicking me out and telling me to take the

1538
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:23,960
Speaker 1: baby two month old boy. It's horrible. The basis of

1539
01:20:24,040 --> 01:20:25,600
Speaker 1: this fight was that I asked him to give me

1540
01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:27,120
Speaker 1: a break and watch the baby.

1541
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 2: Wow.

1542
01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:32,400
Speaker 1: He was like, No, I don't want to be a

1543
01:20:32,479 --> 01:20:32,960
Speaker 1: parent at all.

1544
01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:35,080
Speaker 4: That's your kid. It came out of you, it's not mine.

1545
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:35,479
Speaker 2: Uh.

1546
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:41,320
Speaker 1: He's like finders keepers, finders keeper good. The basis of

1547
01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:44,559
Speaker 1: the For context, I work a full time remote position

1548
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:47,080
Speaker 1: as an accountant. I have also been watching the baby

1549
01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:50,400
Speaker 1: the whole time I work. Oh, and wake up with

1550
01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:52,560
Speaker 1: him all night even though he's on formula. Oh, this

1551
01:20:52,880 --> 01:20:56,920
Speaker 1: man sounds horrible. And yeah, I hope that you have

1552
01:20:56,960 --> 01:20:59,920
Speaker 1: another situation that you can can go to, because he's

1553
01:21:00,000 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 1: does not sound helpful in this in the slightest. My

1554
01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:06,839
Speaker 1: partner has been unemployed since January, and if I'm honest,

1555
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:09,679
Speaker 1: seems to be going through a breakdown. He bought three

1556
01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:14,120
Speaker 1: three D printers to start a business, but it's been

1557
01:21:14,200 --> 01:21:16,880
Speaker 1: months and he's still calibrating. He bought a bunch of

1558
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:21,280
Speaker 1: hacking things since since he's interested in cybersecurity but is

1559
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 1: not brought in an income. I kept asking him if

1560
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:27,599
Speaker 1: these purchases were necessary, as we were tight. He would

1561
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:30,800
Speaker 1: just accuse me of not being supportive. I was never

1562
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 1: the bread winner. His position made three times what my

1563
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:36,479
Speaker 1: accounting salary brought in the house is in his name,

1564
01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 1: and he made me sign a rental agreement as he

1565
01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:41,040
Speaker 1: did not want me to think I had any right

1566
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:43,320
Speaker 1: to any equity. We are not married.

1567
01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:47,000
Speaker 2: That's pretty intense. Oh yeah, he sounds really controlling and

1568
01:21:47,080 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 2: really yeah, really fun. Yeah, but I did put some

1569
01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:54,280
Speaker 2: money towards the down payment. Now that his position has changed,

1570
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 2: he has started to expect me to chip in even more.

1571
01:21:57,560 --> 01:22:02,799
Speaker 2: He also has medical marijuana row, which increases our electric

1572
01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:05,280
Speaker 2: by five hundred He's growing marijuana.

1573
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:09,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so many side businesses.

1574
01:22:09,920 --> 01:22:11,840
Speaker 4: The ry better beat three D printer.

1575
01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:14,720
Speaker 1: Maybe the three D printer could print some weed or

1576
01:22:14,800 --> 01:22:18,240
Speaker 1: maybe like a little like, you know, containers for the weed.

1577
01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 4: On all.

1578
01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 1: The only way I could afford all of these bills,

1579
01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:25,120
Speaker 1: along with our new baby needs, is if we reduced

1580
01:22:25,200 --> 01:22:28,559
Speaker 1: all our bills to essential items only, which the three

1581
01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:32,560
Speaker 1: D printers, the marijuana, and the multiple computers for his

1582
01:22:32,680 --> 01:22:35,679
Speaker 1: hacking hobby are all bringing in no income.

1583
01:22:36,640 --> 01:22:42,000
Speaker 4: Dude, Okay, I'm sorry, real quick, unacceptable. If you have

1584
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 4: these many hobbies and you're not, your entrepreneurial is gone.

1585
01:22:45,760 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 4: You got it. You got Come on, dude, you got

1586
01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 4: a kid, and you got a wife, and you got

1587
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:54,960
Speaker 4: a three D printer off of that knowing, and you're

1588
01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:56,840
Speaker 4: a bad weed salesman even when it's legal.

1589
01:22:57,560 --> 01:22:59,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's embarrassing for you.

1590
01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 4: What's the other thing, hacking?

1591
01:23:01,960 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 1: Dude?

1592
01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:03,400
Speaker 4: Don't even get me into that. You don't even know

1593
01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:04,559
Speaker 4: what you're doing in the computer selling.

1594
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 1: No, don't even know which. And someone pointed out, no ring,

1595
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:10,559
Speaker 1: no ring on the finger, no ring.

1596
01:23:10,800 --> 01:23:12,760
Speaker 4: This is wife's stuff she's doing for you.

1597
01:23:13,240 --> 01:23:16,560
Speaker 1: Got a baby? Oh my gosh, I try. Oh his

1598
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:20,000
Speaker 1: marijuana growth has been bad since he has spread himself

1599
01:23:20,160 --> 01:23:23,800
Speaker 1: too thin. M I try to be understanding as he

1600
01:23:23,840 --> 01:23:26,160
Speaker 1: has ADHD, but at some point I need him to

1601
01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:30,120
Speaker 1: get his priority straight. He needs to get him priority straight.

1602
01:23:30,920 --> 01:23:32,920
Speaker 1: So after a day of baby duty from two am

1603
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:35,720
Speaker 1: to four thirty PM, as well as working from nine

1604
01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:39,240
Speaker 1: am to four thirty, ooh, that overlap has got to

1605
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:46,160
Speaker 1: be he's exhausted. Exhausted. Yeah. I asked when he could

1606
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:48,559
Speaker 1: give me a break. He said eight thirty and would

1607
01:23:48,640 --> 01:23:54,920
Speaker 1: keep him until two or three. Oh my god, three

1608
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:56,720
Speaker 1: hours are until two or three, as I know, I

1609
01:23:56,720 --> 01:23:59,679
Speaker 1: don't know. I gave him until nine thirty. At nine thirty,

1610
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:03,840
Speaker 1: he did not come get the baby. Nine I went

1611
01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:06,400
Speaker 1: in to swap the baby, and then he needed a cigarette,

1612
01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:09,000
Speaker 1: which annoyed me as he had five hours to get

1613
01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 1: a schedule figured out to help me, but fine, he

1614
01:24:12,120 --> 01:24:15,559
Speaker 1: got the baby at nine fifty five. At ten thirty,

1615
01:24:16,560 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 1: he asked me to watch the baby again. I was

1616
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 1: frustrated as I just needed some downtime and had only

1617
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:24,920
Speaker 1: been given enough time to wash the baby bottles and

1618
01:24:25,000 --> 01:24:26,280
Speaker 1: do load of dishes.

1619
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:28,880
Speaker 2: But still took him that's not even down down, No,

1620
01:24:29,040 --> 01:24:30,599
Speaker 2: that's just doing more stuff for the baby.

1621
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:34,840
Speaker 1: You're cleaning like what? When he got done, he watched

1622
01:24:34,920 --> 01:24:37,439
Speaker 1: him for thirty five minutes, and he asked me when

1623
01:24:37,479 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 1: I could take the baby, who was sleeping, so he

1624
01:24:39,560 --> 01:24:42,120
Speaker 1: could work on the three D printer, and I saw red.

1625
01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:44,880
Speaker 1: I told him he needed to watch the baby and

1626
01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 1: not rely on me as I needed to sleep as

1627
01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:50,160
Speaker 1: I worked in the morning and was burnt out. He

1628
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 1: lost it, started screaming at me that I wasn't being

1629
01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:57,000
Speaker 1: supportive of his goals. She shouldn't be. Your goals are stupid.

1630
01:24:58,960 --> 01:25:01,120
Speaker 1: Threw in that I wasn't doing enough around the house

1631
01:25:01,240 --> 01:25:04,479
Speaker 1: and that I was a terrible partner. Where'd you get that?

1632
01:25:04,600 --> 01:25:07,599
Speaker 1: Where'd you get that? Idea for reference. I wake up,

1633
01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:10,040
Speaker 1: feed the baby, jump onto the computer for work with

1634
01:25:10,120 --> 01:25:12,679
Speaker 1: the baby strapped to me, get off of work, make dinner,

1635
01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:16,479
Speaker 1: baby still attached, wash the bottles, do a load of dishes,

1636
01:25:16,840 --> 01:25:18,760
Speaker 1: and it's nine or ten an hour of playing with

1637
01:25:18,840 --> 01:25:21,719
Speaker 1: the baby, and then I go to sleep. I literally

1638
01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:24,759
Speaker 1: could do nothing else if I wanted to. I barely shower.

1639
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:27,560
Speaker 1: At this point, I tell him he is being unreasonable

1640
01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:29,760
Speaker 1: and could pitch in more with either the baby or

1641
01:25:29,840 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 1: the housework, as he has no gainful employment and his

1642
01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 1: potential of income does not feed us. He will do

1643
01:25:37,520 --> 01:25:40,519
Speaker 1: laundry and clean his office and takes out the trash,

1644
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:43,799
Speaker 1: but that is pretty much it. He sets up traps

1645
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:45,880
Speaker 1: like he'll empty the trash and then not put in

1646
01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 1: a bag just to yell at me for not putting

1647
01:25:47,920 --> 01:25:50,680
Speaker 1: bags in the trash, or seeing expired bread on the

1648
01:25:50,720 --> 01:25:52,840
Speaker 1: table and not tossing it, just to bring it up

1649
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:54,439
Speaker 1: in an argument. That's wild.

1650
01:25:54,600 --> 01:25:56,800
Speaker 2: Let me just say, Let me just say to take

1651
01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:59,560
Speaker 2: out the trash, not put a new trash bag in,

1652
01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 2: and they get mad at someone else for not doing it.

1653
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:07,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, unbelievable. He sucks, He sucks. He says, I don't

1654
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:10,439
Speaker 1: help him enough with his needs. So he tells me

1655
01:26:10,560 --> 01:26:12,920
Speaker 1: to get out and that this is my thirty days

1656
01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:17,519
Speaker 1: and to take the baby. What as in, like, this

1657
01:26:17,680 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 1: is your thirty days notice. It's not a thirty days notice.

1658
01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:24,680
Speaker 4: If you just kick her out, you got thirty days

1659
01:26:24,680 --> 01:26:26,360
Speaker 4: to make money off of those side hustles.

1660
01:26:26,720 --> 01:26:28,760
Speaker 1: That's what I would say. Terrible. No, I think he's

1661
01:26:28,800 --> 01:26:32,640
Speaker 1: saying he awful, he's done. Yeah, No he's kicking her out. No,

1662
01:26:32,800 --> 01:26:36,800
Speaker 1: he's horrible. He he's horrible. He first told me to

1663
01:26:36,880 --> 01:26:41,920
Speaker 1: sign over custody to him of the baby. No, he's

1664
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:44,639
Speaker 1: not even do can't take care of that thing? Care

1665
01:26:44,720 --> 01:26:44,920
Speaker 1: of it?

1666
01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 5: Uh.

1667
01:26:46,080 --> 01:26:48,000
Speaker 1: He first told me to sign over custody to him,

1668
01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:49,680
Speaker 1: which I told him he would have to take me

1669
01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:52,920
Speaker 1: to court. Then he said take the baby and he

1670
01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:55,160
Speaker 1: would get him next week. I told him it was

1671
01:26:55,200 --> 01:26:58,160
Speaker 1: after midnight and I would not leave right then, signing

1672
01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:00,800
Speaker 1: his own rental agreement, he made me sign and told

1673
01:27:00,840 --> 01:27:03,080
Speaker 1: them I would leave after work Friday when my parents

1674
01:27:03,120 --> 01:27:05,240
Speaker 1: were awake and I could have somewhere to go. You

1675
01:27:05,320 --> 01:27:07,680
Speaker 1: woke up at ten am on Friday. Again, I was

1676
01:27:07,760 --> 01:27:11,360
Speaker 1: taking care of the baby, pausing have you seen the

1677
01:27:11,479 --> 01:27:15,200
Speaker 1: show of the Maid No, it's a very good show,

1678
01:27:15,240 --> 01:27:17,200
Speaker 1: and it's kind of like this story of a woman

1679
01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:21,160
Speaker 1: in not a great like living situation with a partner

1680
01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:23,360
Speaker 1: and then taking her baby and having to kind of

1681
01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:27,880
Speaker 1: in that scenario, she actually is pretty much homeless in it.

1682
01:27:28,479 --> 01:27:31,160
Speaker 1: I've seen clips on TikTok. It's really good. I actually

1683
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:33,080
Speaker 1: don't think I finished it, not because I didn't like it.

1684
01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:35,040
Speaker 1: I think I just didn't have time to and I

1685
01:27:35,120 --> 01:27:36,599
Speaker 1: haven't gone back to it, but I had like two

1686
01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:39,240
Speaker 1: episodes left. It's yeah, it reminds me a lot of

1687
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:40,000
Speaker 1: this story.

1688
01:27:40,560 --> 01:27:43,760
Speaker 2: It is really it just makes me sad to hear

1689
01:27:43,880 --> 01:27:47,360
Speaker 2: these things. Yeah, I mean, what to be with someone,

1690
01:27:47,439 --> 01:27:49,519
Speaker 2: to be raising a baby with someone and then feel

1691
01:27:49,600 --> 01:27:51,320
Speaker 2: like you have no support.

1692
01:27:51,200 --> 01:27:54,840
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, to the point where you are working from

1693
01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:56,000
Speaker 1: two am to.

1694
01:27:56,320 --> 01:28:01,320
Speaker 2: Ten yeah yeah, make money, take care your kid, yeah,

1695
01:28:01,400 --> 01:28:04,920
Speaker 2: while your partner is not making it, actively taking money

1696
01:28:04,960 --> 01:28:09,640
Speaker 2: away yeah for his side thresh and not supporting you

1697
01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:11,679
Speaker 2: at all with your child's Yeah.

1698
01:28:12,080 --> 01:28:13,320
Speaker 1: It's really awful.

1699
01:28:14,760 --> 01:28:16,040
Speaker 4: This is whack. This dude's whack.

1700
01:28:16,280 --> 01:28:18,960
Speaker 1: This dude is wa whack quack quack. But there's more

1701
01:28:19,080 --> 01:28:22,240
Speaker 1: to the story. Hopefully OPI has a better situation at

1702
01:28:22,240 --> 01:28:22,439
Speaker 1: the end.

1703
01:28:22,479 --> 01:28:22,600
Speaker 2: Of it.

1704
01:28:23,360 --> 01:28:25,400
Speaker 1: My boss allowed me to take a half day and

1705
01:28:25,520 --> 01:28:28,040
Speaker 1: I started to pack at twelve and left around one.

1706
01:28:28,479 --> 01:28:31,560
Speaker 1: I took diapers, baby clothes, and a baby carrier, the

1707
01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:35,080
Speaker 1: bottles and formula, so he had three hours and not

1708
01:28:35,479 --> 01:28:38,280
Speaker 1: once did he come see or check on the baby.

1709
01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:41,040
Speaker 1: He was too busy smoking weed. So he's not even

1710
01:28:41,160 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 1: selling this. He's not even a dealer he's selling. He's smoking.

1711
01:28:44,479 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 4: He has a five hundred dollars subscription of smoking weed.

1712
01:28:47,360 --> 01:28:47,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1713
01:28:48,360 --> 01:28:50,920
Speaker 1: I begged him to stop smoking the house, but he

1714
01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:53,639
Speaker 1: couldn't be bothered, which is also wild with a child. Yeah,

1715
01:28:53,960 --> 01:28:56,360
Speaker 1: I left and an hour later he started blowing up

1716
01:28:56,400 --> 01:28:59,240
Speaker 1: my phone telling me to bring the baby back immediately.

1717
01:29:00,080 --> 01:29:03,120
Speaker 1: Don't even notice this baby though, and telling me I

1718
01:29:03,280 --> 01:29:05,040
Speaker 1: was a kidnapper and a thief and that I was

1719
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:07,160
Speaker 1: a monster for not letting him say bye to the baby.

1720
01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:09,960
Speaker 1: It's been days and he has non stop and texting me,

1721
01:29:10,520 --> 01:29:13,240
Speaker 1: calling me a thief and a liar, or the record

1722
01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 1: to me the items we received from family and friends

1723
01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 1: were for our son and should go with him. I

1724
01:29:19,360 --> 01:29:21,360
Speaker 1: was also going to bring everything back with him that

1725
01:29:21,479 --> 01:29:24,080
Speaker 1: wasn't used, and I told him that I did not

1726
01:29:24,240 --> 01:29:27,360
Speaker 1: do an inventory of who got us what? I know

1727
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:29,920
Speaker 1: some items, but not every single item. I am now

1728
01:29:30,000 --> 01:29:32,320
Speaker 1: considering going to court to split the custody. I think

1729
01:29:32,360 --> 01:29:34,880
Speaker 1: you should get full custody, as I don't want him

1730
01:29:34,880 --> 01:29:37,280
Speaker 1: to contact me anymore and no longer feel like we

1731
01:29:37,400 --> 01:29:40,600
Speaker 1: can be co parents effectively, and he scares me. So

1732
01:29:40,760 --> 01:29:42,679
Speaker 1: am I the a hole for taking the baby shower

1733
01:29:42,800 --> 01:29:45,680
Speaker 1: items and not going and getting him to say bye

1734
01:29:45,760 --> 01:29:47,920
Speaker 1: to the baby. And this is to answer the question

1735
01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:50,560
Speaker 1: of what is unreasonable behavior.

1736
01:29:50,840 --> 01:29:54,160
Speaker 4: From an ex starting so many side hustles and making

1737
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:56,960
Speaker 4: no money from them. That's what I'm the most angry about.

1738
01:29:57,080 --> 01:29:59,600
Speaker 1: Not taking care of your baby and then being and

1739
01:29:59,680 --> 01:30:04,160
Speaker 1: then making your baby and your partner out or trying

1740
01:30:04,200 --> 01:30:05,519
Speaker 1: to kick them out in the middle of the night,

1741
01:30:06,720 --> 01:30:08,840
Speaker 1: and then being upset that she took the baby.

1742
01:30:09,360 --> 01:30:11,720
Speaker 2: Is being a terrible person, being a terrible person, And

1743
01:30:11,760 --> 01:30:14,640
Speaker 2: why would you even fight It's really interesting why you

1744
01:30:14,680 --> 01:30:17,720
Speaker 2: would fight for custody if you so obviously don't want

1745
01:30:17,760 --> 01:30:18,559
Speaker 2: the kid, don't do.

1746
01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:23,720
Speaker 1: Anything I don't understand. Yeah, absolutely absolutely, I think you

1747
01:30:23,720 --> 01:30:26,720
Speaker 1: should get full custody OpEM. I think, yes, yeah, this

1748
01:30:26,800 --> 01:30:28,599
Speaker 1: is sad. I don't think that he can take care

1749
01:30:28,640 --> 01:30:31,640
Speaker 1: I don't think he wants to or can take care

1750
01:30:31,680 --> 01:30:36,960
Speaker 1: of this baby. Yeah no, Lilybugs says, let him call

1751
01:30:36,960 --> 01:30:39,360
Speaker 1: the police. They'll arrest him for growing weed. I think

1752
01:30:39,400 --> 01:30:41,880
Speaker 1: it might be legal because it's medical merril. I don't

1753
01:30:41,880 --> 01:30:44,240
Speaker 1: know how that works. Oh yeah, you might have a permit.

1754
01:30:44,320 --> 01:30:48,280
Speaker 1: Maybe he doesn't have a permit. We'll say, I mean, actually,

1755
01:30:48,280 --> 01:30:48,760
Speaker 1: we won't say.

1756
01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:50,639
Speaker 4: There's no more to nothing.

1757
01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:55,040
Speaker 1: Well, that's it. Also, we're live right now, so tap

1758
01:30:55,120 --> 01:30:56,519
Speaker 1: our profile to check it out.

1759
01:30:57,200 --> 01:30:59,719
Speaker 4: City clack clack, clickity clack clack.

1760
01:31:00,080 --> 01:31:03,280
Speaker 1: I don't get that one because everyone would be watching already.

1761
01:31:03,400 --> 01:31:06,800
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, okay, So in the in the

1762
01:31:06,880 --> 01:31:10,320
Speaker 4: Facebook clips. We're all crazy on Facebook. So we're putting

1763
01:31:10,320 --> 01:31:11,799
Speaker 4: all this stuff in the Facebook clips.

1764
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:13,439
Speaker 1: We're live right now.

1765
01:31:13,520 --> 01:31:18,160
Speaker 4: I want more Facebook Fam fam in the Facebook dude, dudes.

1766
01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:23,360
Speaker 1: We're live right now. Check itez. We're live right now.

1767
01:31:23,960 --> 01:31:26,920
Speaker 1: Take our profile check us out.

1768
01:31:28,320 --> 01:31:28,800
Speaker 2: All right?

1769
01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:32,559
Speaker 4: No, no, no, don't you read there is food here? Yes,

1770
01:31:33,000 --> 01:31:33,759
Speaker 4: so one.

1771
01:31:33,680 --> 01:31:38,439
Speaker 1: Second, just okay, I'm so excited. Ashley Danielson, thank you

1772
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:45,880
Speaker 1: for the five gifted membership. What sure? Yes, it's so funny.

1773
01:31:45,920 --> 01:31:47,960
Speaker 1: I call it sparkling one. I do too, don't I'll.

1774
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Speaker 4: Take a carbon.

1775
01:31:50,760 --> 01:31:53,639
Speaker 1: Ashley Danielson thinking for the five gifted memberships, and Tricia

1776
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:56,160
Speaker 1: Stoles thank you for the five buck tip, taking the

1777
01:31:56,200 --> 01:31:58,880
Speaker 1: dog for a walk and need more stories. Also like

1778
01:31:58,960 --> 01:32:06,280
Speaker 1: the stream, everyone, Yeah, like the stream. Arias says, are

1779
01:32:06,320 --> 01:32:08,439
Speaker 1: you allowed to grow marijuana there? If it's medical? I

1780
01:32:09,200 --> 01:32:13,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Can anybody grow weed in a place

1781
01:32:13,800 --> 01:32:16,799
Speaker 1: where it's legal? Okay? Can you grow weed in California?

1782
01:32:17,160 --> 01:32:22,360
Speaker 1: And I would imagine, yeah, right, weed, but maybe selling it?

1783
01:32:22,560 --> 01:32:22,880
Speaker 2: You need?

1784
01:32:23,040 --> 01:32:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, a permit. Yeah, you can grow up to six

1785
01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 1: cannabis plants at home if you are at least twenty

1786
01:32:29,200 --> 01:32:33,200
Speaker 1: one years old. You can give it a shot, give

1787
01:32:33,240 --> 01:32:37,960
Speaker 1: it a just test it out. Arius is I hope

1788
01:32:38,000 --> 01:32:40,720
Speaker 1: she got evidence of his illegal activities. Cannao says you

1789
01:32:40,720 --> 01:32:43,400
Speaker 1: can grow dependent on state, but only so much and

1790
01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:48,920
Speaker 1: need a permit. Yeah, so six plants. Oh my god,

1791
01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:53,799
Speaker 1: I've never been hungrier. I'm shoke shotting, I'm so fad.

1792
01:32:54,720 --> 01:32:57,519
Speaker 2: Jesus don't split Oh I've read that as Jesus doesn't

1793
01:32:57,520 --> 01:32:58,439
Speaker 2: split custody.

1794
01:32:58,640 --> 01:33:01,560
Speaker 1: Jesus doesn't split us. He just takes full custody of

1795
01:33:01,640 --> 01:33:06,599
Speaker 1: all of his children, his children. He bad brother. Oh

1796
01:33:06,720 --> 01:33:11,280
Speaker 1: my goodness, I am and.

1797
01:33:15,400 --> 01:33:15,640
Speaker 4: I am?

1798
01:33:16,160 --> 01:33:18,240
Speaker 1: Why you grow? I don't know much about growing weeder?

1799
01:33:18,320 --> 01:33:23,320
Speaker 1: Oh are we swapping? See? Okay, mash but tighters and

1800
01:33:23,400 --> 01:33:26,280
Speaker 1: then leave that little that little cake and we'll split

1801
01:33:26,360 --> 01:33:32,519
Speaker 1: it up four dollars. That's worth it. I needed it.

1802
01:33:32,800 --> 01:34:04,720
Speaker 1: I deserved it, right Hi reading Riley.

1803
01:34:06,000 --> 01:34:12,360
Speaker 4: Boom of course glazing sound office here what a freaking

1804
01:34:12,520 --> 01:34:13,840
Speaker 4: user name? All right?

1805
01:34:13,880 --> 01:34:17,400
Speaker 1: Game says you know Sophia is serious about her food

1806
01:34:17,400 --> 01:34:18,519
Speaker 1: because she's suddenly southern.

1807
01:34:20,840 --> 01:34:23,880
Speaker 4: She did she did get southern, had a little bit

1808
01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:35,479
Speaker 4: of a twang. How's it going, guys? Yeah at first? Mmm, uh,

1809
01:34:36,160 --> 01:34:39,360
Speaker 4: this is a way find it, y'all. What's up? I

1810
01:34:39,479 --> 01:34:44,640
Speaker 4: want cake? Well I'm not really cake? Oh what's up?

1811
01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:48,880
Speaker 4: Ashley dude? Thank you for the five gifted memberships? Uh

1812
01:34:49,200 --> 01:34:54,880
Speaker 4: we got Victor that joined Leah Moura drummer and Chanelle's

1813
01:34:54,960 --> 01:34:58,880
Speaker 4: Sliva Stacy, I just I butchered that. But you're in

1814
01:34:58,960 --> 01:35:05,680
Speaker 4: the fan now. And Trich that's not the lutes. I

1815
01:35:05,800 --> 01:35:11,719
Speaker 4: want to say sluts, that's not stults. Sorry, my daily

1816
01:35:11,840 --> 01:35:16,000
Speaker 4: sex brain just can't handle it. Uh, paking the dog

1817
01:35:16,120 --> 01:35:18,800
Speaker 4: for a walk and need more stories? Also like to

1818
01:35:18,840 --> 01:35:24,720
Speaker 4: stream everyone, guys, literally forty seven more. Please, can I

1819
01:35:24,840 --> 01:35:27,160
Speaker 4: just get that just for something, just one thing in

1820
01:35:27,240 --> 01:35:30,080
Speaker 4: my life today. We've actually had a really good day today.

1821
01:35:31,520 --> 01:35:35,519
Speaker 4: A lot of great things have happened. It's we're killing it. Nope,

1822
01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:39,080
Speaker 4: noise in the chat, Bela for reading Riley, No, nope,

1823
01:35:40,640 --> 01:35:43,880
Speaker 4: noise in the chat. Okay, we're gonna read this story right.

1824
01:35:46,439 --> 01:35:48,800
Speaker 4: Are you ready? My friends? Here we go. Am I

1825
01:35:48,920 --> 01:35:52,040
Speaker 4: the ahole for refusing to let my fiance fiance's X

1826
01:35:52,640 --> 01:35:57,479
Speaker 4: into our wedding party. That would be so uncomfy if

1827
01:35:57,520 --> 01:35:59,559
Speaker 4: that happened. You can just leave it on the thing.

1828
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:02,599
Speaker 4: You don't have the scroll through. Oh my gosh.

1829
01:36:03,120 --> 01:36:03,240
Speaker 2: Uh.

1830
01:36:03,400 --> 01:36:05,479
Speaker 4: By the way, you can do on this live on

1831
01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:08,679
Speaker 4: YouTube every weekday we go live at three pm BSc.

1832
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:12,759
Speaker 4: Just click that circle on our profile.

1833
01:36:12,960 --> 01:36:15,519
Speaker 2: Do it so. Uh.

1834
01:36:15,760 --> 01:36:20,880
Speaker 4: We're asking the question what is unreasonable behavior of an ex?

1835
01:36:21,160 --> 01:36:24,519
Speaker 4: Just from the title that's crazy, Riley. I know you

1836
01:36:24,600 --> 01:36:29,680
Speaker 4: guys like that joke com sexy a brain daily SA dyslexia.

1837
01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:36,559
Speaker 4: Yeah in that one, Okay. Mulberry Formula thirty six nineteen

1838
01:36:36,640 --> 01:36:40,200
Speaker 4: says I am twenty seven female and my fiance is

1839
01:36:40,400 --> 01:36:43,920
Speaker 4: thirty three mel at a bad age gap. We have

1840
01:36:44,160 --> 01:36:47,120
Speaker 4: been dating for about four years and engaged the last

1841
01:36:47,320 --> 01:36:50,599
Speaker 4: year during us. Prior to us dating, my fiance dated

1842
01:36:50,640 --> 01:36:54,720
Speaker 4: his childhood best friend Liz for eight years. Oh, I

1843
01:36:54,920 --> 01:36:59,679
Speaker 4: see childhood bff for what I was told they decided

1844
01:36:59,720 --> 01:37:01,840
Speaker 4: to break it off because they were getting married for

1845
01:37:01,960 --> 01:37:07,160
Speaker 4: the wrong reasons. I would say because of the wrong

1846
01:37:07,240 --> 01:37:10,720
Speaker 4: reasons would be for family, and that that's what I

1847
01:37:10,800 --> 01:37:13,160
Speaker 4: feel like. It was like a lot of familial pressure.

1848
01:37:17,240 --> 01:37:19,400
Speaker 4: They were planning to get married because it was the

1849
01:37:19,560 --> 01:37:22,840
Speaker 4: next step, and since their families were best friends, he

1850
01:37:22,960 --> 01:37:26,959
Speaker 4: needed to marry her. After they broke off the engagement,

1851
01:37:27,080 --> 01:37:34,080
Speaker 4: they remained friends. This is giving Seinfeld the dude from

1852
01:37:34,160 --> 01:37:41,679
Speaker 4: Seinfeld and his friend. It's also giving Ted and Robin vibes.

1853
01:37:41,720 --> 01:37:45,439
Speaker 4: It's also giving Ross and Rachel vibes.

1854
01:37:46,680 --> 01:37:50,120
Speaker 1: When her name over em.

1855
01:37:52,320 --> 01:37:56,280
Speaker 4: Huge, you want to scroll down a bit. Since the

1856
01:37:56,360 --> 01:37:59,160
Speaker 4: beginning of a relationship, I knew Liz was in my

1857
01:37:59,240 --> 01:38:03,280
Speaker 4: fiances families live. Liz and my fiance's mom are best friends.

1858
01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:06,320
Speaker 4: Liz is also best friends with his younger sister. My

1859
01:38:06,400 --> 01:38:09,639
Speaker 4: fiance and her are friends with the same social circles.

1860
01:38:09,920 --> 01:38:12,000
Speaker 4: I don't have a problem with with Liz and her

1861
01:38:12,040 --> 01:38:16,280
Speaker 4: friendship with my fiance. Okay, seems like we are secure there.

1862
01:38:16,600 --> 01:38:20,360
Speaker 4: I actually like her as a person and would consider

1863
01:38:20,479 --> 01:38:24,720
Speaker 4: her a friend. Ever, there are times when we hang

1864
01:38:24,800 --> 01:38:28,679
Speaker 4: out that I feel out like I'm the third will

1865
01:38:29,200 --> 01:38:33,000
Speaker 4: because of their inside jokes and shared childhood stories. I

1866
01:38:33,080 --> 01:38:36,240
Speaker 4: have always tried to be open minded about their friendship

1867
01:38:36,360 --> 01:38:40,320
Speaker 4: since he assured her assured me that they are only

1868
01:38:40,400 --> 01:38:43,160
Speaker 4: friends and I do trust both of them. That makes sense.

1869
01:38:43,160 --> 01:38:45,759
Speaker 4: I've always felt left out whenever my friends. I didn't

1870
01:38:45,760 --> 01:38:50,880
Speaker 4: do that. But you know, I say, let her in

1871
01:38:50,960 --> 01:38:53,400
Speaker 4: on the inside jokes, but the childhood stuff, you You're

1872
01:38:53,520 --> 01:38:56,760
Speaker 4: just sorry, Obie. That's can't do anything. Can't go back

1873
01:38:56,840 --> 01:39:00,800
Speaker 4: to Tom. What's there is a word? Let me know.

1874
01:39:02,320 --> 01:39:05,599
Speaker 4: My fiance and I are finalizing our wedding party now.

1875
01:39:06,280 --> 01:39:08,280
Speaker 4: Since both of us have best friends who are of

1876
01:39:08,400 --> 01:39:12,519
Speaker 4: the opposite sex, we agreed that it's okay to have

1877
01:39:12,600 --> 01:39:15,280
Speaker 4: the opposite sex and our own wedding party. I told

1878
01:39:15,360 --> 01:39:17,600
Speaker 4: him who I wanted to ask to be in my

1879
01:39:17,640 --> 01:39:20,280
Speaker 4: wedding party. He mentioned that it would mean a lot

1880
01:39:20,400 --> 01:39:22,320
Speaker 4: to him to have a sister be a part of

1881
01:39:22,439 --> 01:39:24,720
Speaker 4: my wedding party. I get along with the sister very

1882
01:39:24,800 --> 01:39:28,080
Speaker 4: well enough to agree to include her. When he listed

1883
01:39:28,320 --> 01:39:36,920
Speaker 4: his wedding party he mentioned Liz. Of course, I was

1884
01:39:36,960 --> 01:39:40,439
Speaker 4: taken back. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with

1885
01:39:40,600 --> 01:39:43,560
Speaker 4: her being in the wedding party. I told him I

1886
01:39:43,640 --> 01:39:46,240
Speaker 4: am more than happy to have her attend the ceremony

1887
01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:49,320
Speaker 4: and reception and that she can sit with his family

1888
01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:52,439
Speaker 4: and be in the family pictures.

1889
01:39:52,640 --> 01:39:53,799
Speaker 1: He's being so understand.

1890
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:57,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, if you're I mean, I'll go back to

1891
01:39:57,240 --> 01:39:59,920
Speaker 4: the rule. I think Sam made this rule for Sam.

1892
01:40:00,400 --> 01:40:04,759
Speaker 4: Sam's golden rule X was the placeholder for Ope. Yo, Nicole,

1893
01:40:04,880 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 4: that is a that's good. I I also go back

1894
01:40:07,960 --> 01:40:10,400
Speaker 4: if you made them orgasm. I don't think they should

1895
01:40:10,439 --> 01:40:13,120
Speaker 4: be in the wedding party whatsoever. I mean the naked thing,

1896
01:40:13,240 --> 01:40:15,880
Speaker 4: Like I I almost sold John naked this week. This

1897
01:40:16,040 --> 01:40:19,120
Speaker 4: close you just had under We're on. I've seen sam

1898
01:40:19,280 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 4: is underwear a line. But you know, nakedness is fine,

1899
01:40:22,600 --> 01:40:32,519
Speaker 4: but orgasmness yeah, unless unless, unless your partner was really

1900
01:40:32,560 --> 01:40:34,320
Speaker 4: bad at it. Then that's not even the issue though.

1901
01:40:34,520 --> 01:40:37,160
Speaker 4: Like op is totally fine with them being at the wedding.

1902
01:40:37,200 --> 01:40:38,880
Speaker 4: They're just saying, don't be in the wedding party. Yeah,

1903
01:40:38,920 --> 01:40:41,040
Speaker 4: that was my rule. Oh okay, I agree they could

1904
01:40:41,040 --> 01:40:43,320
Speaker 4: be at the wedding since there they Okay, I would say,

1905
01:40:43,400 --> 01:40:45,320
Speaker 4: not be in the wedding if they weren't family friends,

1906
01:40:46,040 --> 01:40:48,120
Speaker 4: if it was just an ex and not with all

1907
01:40:48,160 --> 01:40:52,519
Speaker 4: the childhood stuff, I'd be like, you know, Jane digital,

1908
01:40:52,600 --> 01:40:57,479
Speaker 4: Riley feels left out whenever at the adults table. No, no,

1909
01:40:58,920 --> 01:41:03,120
Speaker 4: I feel inclined. I never did, Tricia. Red flag, yes,

1910
01:41:03,800 --> 01:41:07,240
Speaker 4: red flag waving. I have it waving right now. He

1911
01:41:07,400 --> 01:41:13,360
Speaker 4: almost saw the orange pill, Sydney Dude, Chrisia d Maybe

1912
01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:19,040
Speaker 4: someday you'll see the fool Riley scrub. We are going

1913
01:41:19,080 --> 01:41:19,439
Speaker 4: to Perry.

1914
01:41:19,640 --> 01:41:20,439
Speaker 1: Can you go to WEPA?

1915
01:41:20,600 --> 01:41:22,479
Speaker 4: Wait, I didn't say anything. We did. We will go

1916
01:41:22,600 --> 01:41:24,800
Speaker 4: to SPA. I could probably. I can definitely get Sam

1917
01:41:24,840 --> 01:41:28,000
Speaker 4: into that. I don't know well drawn absolutely god, I

1918
01:41:28,040 --> 01:41:30,080
Speaker 4: mean he he's already gone. I know he always goes

1919
01:41:31,160 --> 01:41:35,680
Speaker 4: all right, here we go. However, that wasn't good enough

1920
01:41:35,720 --> 01:41:39,280
Speaker 4: for him. Oh man. He said that his wedding party

1921
01:41:39,920 --> 01:41:42,479
Speaker 4: said that it's his wedding party and that it was

1922
01:41:42,600 --> 01:41:45,160
Speaker 4: his decision who was going to be in it. That

1923
01:41:45,320 --> 01:41:47,400
Speaker 4: I have the right to choose my own wedding party.

1924
01:41:47,880 --> 01:41:50,400
Speaker 4: He also should be able to choose whoever he likes,

1925
01:41:50,840 --> 01:41:54,280
Speaker 4: I told him, and it's not fair because I'm not

1926
01:41:54,400 --> 01:41:58,720
Speaker 4: having my high school sweetheart in my wedding party. I

1927
01:41:58,840 --> 01:42:01,160
Speaker 4: see both sides of this. This is becoming a huge

1928
01:42:01,200 --> 01:42:03,600
Speaker 4: fight between us, he said, putting his foot down, and

1929
01:42:03,720 --> 01:42:05,960
Speaker 4: Liz is going to be in his wedding party. I

1930
01:42:06,040 --> 01:42:08,200
Speaker 4: told him that I will not budge on this out

1931
01:42:08,240 --> 01:42:10,599
Speaker 4: of anger. I told him to choose me or her.

1932
01:42:11,000 --> 01:42:14,160
Speaker 4: She's the wedding party. I won't be standing at the altar.

1933
01:42:14,400 --> 01:42:16,920
Speaker 4: He responded by telling me that I was acting crazy hey,

1934
01:42:17,520 --> 01:42:20,200
Speaker 4: and that he's going to stay with his brother until

1935
01:42:20,280 --> 01:42:23,920
Speaker 4: I palmed down and be reasonable. That is the perfect

1936
01:42:24,040 --> 01:42:26,160
Speaker 4: saying to a woman whenever she was upset. I'm gonna

1937
01:42:26,160 --> 01:42:30,280
Speaker 4: start doing that. Palm down to be reasonable please? So well?

1938
01:42:30,439 --> 01:42:33,200
Speaker 4: Works so well, dude. I'm gonna give some advice to

1939
01:42:33,240 --> 01:42:38,920
Speaker 4: my dad. Dude. Imagine am saying that to my mom. Heck, no, dude,

1940
01:42:39,000 --> 01:42:43,479
Speaker 4: that'd be crazy. Oh man, Any children listening, don't do that.

1941
01:42:43,560 --> 01:42:46,720
Speaker 4: It's bad advice. Uncle Riley's giving bad advice right now.

1942
01:42:47,040 --> 01:42:50,320
Speaker 4: It's been three days now. He has texted me twice

1943
01:42:50,640 --> 01:42:53,080
Speaker 4: since the fight, first time to ask me if I

1944
01:42:53,160 --> 01:42:56,080
Speaker 4: have calmed down and ready to be reasonable. The second

1945
01:42:56,120 --> 01:42:58,719
Speaker 4: to ask me if I've agreed with his wedding list.

1946
01:42:59,200 --> 01:43:02,320
Speaker 4: I told him my answer is still no, And I

1947
01:43:02,479 --> 01:43:05,280
Speaker 4: don't know if I can let this one go. Ammaa

1948
01:43:05,360 --> 01:43:09,080
Speaker 4: a hole that I let it go. Sophia, if you

1949
01:43:09,200 --> 01:43:12,480
Speaker 4: will go into the YouTube chat and put up prevorce

1950
01:43:12,680 --> 01:43:17,160
Speaker 4: or not and full screen me miskilled it and she

1951
01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:23,479
Speaker 4: could decide not to be in the wedding. Also, yes, okay,

1952
01:43:23,680 --> 01:43:25,840
Speaker 4: I think that this is actually a good thing that

1953
01:43:25,960 --> 01:43:32,360
Speaker 4: this happened now, because one, Liz is not going anywhere.

1954
01:43:32,400 --> 01:43:34,160
Speaker 4: She's always going to be a part of your life, Obie,

1955
01:43:34,479 --> 01:43:37,280
Speaker 4: no matter where you go. And two gives you a

1956
01:43:37,320 --> 01:43:40,439
Speaker 4: little bit of a glimpse of what your life with

1957
01:43:40,560 --> 01:43:45,120
Speaker 4: him is going to look like. And if you feel

1958
01:43:45,160 --> 01:43:51,120
Speaker 4: like you are competing constantly with Liz and your husband

1959
01:43:51,479 --> 01:43:56,439
Speaker 4: or husband to be, this is a real, real issues

1960
01:43:56,720 --> 01:44:01,200
Speaker 4: Slidey Toves says, let him go, then know you made it. Hello, Tricia,

1961
01:44:01,280 --> 01:44:03,880
Speaker 4: y asking your girlfriend to calm down always ends well,

1962
01:44:04,280 --> 01:44:07,719
Speaker 4: it does total spies one ask him how he feels

1963
01:44:07,760 --> 01:44:10,160
Speaker 4: if your sweet high school sweetheart to be in her

1964
01:44:10,240 --> 01:44:13,640
Speaker 4: wedding party. I think she did mention that and he

1965
01:44:13,880 --> 01:44:16,600
Speaker 4: was like, this is the same which I agree that

1966
01:44:16,720 --> 01:44:19,880
Speaker 4: it isn't the same because like she grew up.

1967
01:44:20,800 --> 01:44:21,800
Speaker 1: With this girl.

1968
01:44:23,640 --> 01:44:28,920
Speaker 4: It is tough. It is sadly to say it is

1969
01:44:29,040 --> 01:44:34,320
Speaker 4: Opie or Liz and you have to figure that out. Yeah,

1970
01:44:35,720 --> 01:44:39,920
Speaker 4: it is this, This is op Opie or lives and

1971
01:44:40,000 --> 01:44:42,240
Speaker 4: she and the husband has to figure this out or

1972
01:44:42,320 --> 01:44:45,400
Speaker 4: soon to be husband Beyonce, that's the word for them.

1973
01:44:45,760 --> 01:44:50,599
Speaker 1: I think I think it's I think the thing is that, like, yes,

1974
01:44:50,720 --> 01:44:54,680
Speaker 1: she is a child's childhood friend, but you might have

1975
01:44:54,720 --> 01:44:57,200
Speaker 1: already said this. I totally did not hear you. Go

1976
01:44:57,240 --> 01:45:00,800
Speaker 1: ahead somewhere, Yes, she has a childhood friend and that

1977
01:45:00,920 --> 01:45:03,880
Speaker 1: relationship is important, but it's totally like she is an ex,

1978
01:45:04,160 --> 01:45:10,679
Speaker 1: an ex that he almost married almost Yeah yeah, middle Earth,

1979
01:45:10,720 --> 01:45:13,200
Speaker 1: Try it says the same. I'm confused. Wasn't he about

1980
01:45:13,200 --> 01:45:14,760
Speaker 1: to marry this girl? And he still wants her in

1981
01:45:14,800 --> 01:45:17,240
Speaker 1: the wedding party? Not the a whole five bucks thank you?

1982
01:45:18,040 --> 01:45:22,680
Speaker 4: And then Riley double standard bed take oh with the

1983
01:45:22,760 --> 01:45:25,680
Speaker 4: high school sweetheart thing just makes it complicated because they

1984
01:45:25,720 --> 01:45:26,640
Speaker 4: were best friends growing up.

1985
01:45:27,000 --> 01:45:29,160
Speaker 1: No, but that's the thing. I don't think it matters

1986
01:45:29,200 --> 01:45:31,919
Speaker 1: that they were best friends growing up. I think that absolutely,

1987
01:45:31,960 --> 01:45:34,960
Speaker 1: Like you don't I don't know because she wasn't he again,

1988
01:45:35,040 --> 01:45:36,400
Speaker 1: she was an ex that he was about to marry.

1989
01:45:36,439 --> 01:45:39,560
Speaker 1: I think that automatically. I think that just kind of

1990
01:45:39,680 --> 01:45:45,200
Speaker 1: changes the relationship. And also op, he never said she

1991
01:45:45,240 --> 01:45:47,479
Speaker 1: couldn't come to the wedding, just said wedding party.

1992
01:45:47,720 --> 01:45:52,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, the wedding party. He's fair. Seems fair. Oh top

1993
01:45:52,840 --> 01:45:56,680
Speaker 4: comments Mama Bears seven to nine says, not the a hole.

1994
01:45:56,880 --> 01:46:01,160
Speaker 4: I really don't understand the other argument judgments. The whole

1995
01:46:01,520 --> 01:46:04,479
Speaker 4: you should accept the relationship is be as sorry. If

1996
01:46:04,520 --> 01:46:06,599
Speaker 4: fiance wants you to have his sister and your wedding

1997
01:46:06,640 --> 01:46:09,479
Speaker 4: party factually choosing for you, he'd be pissed if you

1998
01:46:09,520 --> 01:46:12,760
Speaker 4: said no. Guaranteed he wants his ex and his the

1999
01:46:12,880 --> 01:46:15,519
Speaker 4: ex hangs out with the one who he is friends

2000
01:46:15,600 --> 01:46:18,040
Speaker 4: with the whole family and won't back off the one

2001
01:46:18,080 --> 01:46:22,759
Speaker 4: who is friendly but chooses whose closeness to your future

2002
01:46:22,800 --> 01:46:26,080
Speaker 4: husband makes you feel like a third will. Forgot about

2003
01:46:26,080 --> 01:46:28,080
Speaker 4: that part too. The thing is your fiance is trying

2004
01:46:28,560 --> 01:46:31,519
Speaker 4: very very hard to redefine his ex as his best

2005
01:46:31,560 --> 01:46:34,360
Speaker 4: friend is not the same at all. If you will

2006
01:46:34,479 --> 01:46:38,240
Speaker 4: have slept with your own best friend, would he want

2007
01:46:38,680 --> 01:46:41,559
Speaker 4: him to sit, would he want him.

2008
01:46:41,560 --> 01:46:42,200
Speaker 1: Around at all.

2009
01:46:43,240 --> 01:46:45,560
Speaker 4: The old thing. The whole have you calmed down? Is

2010
01:46:45,680 --> 01:46:51,479
Speaker 4: pure undiluted bullying. You said it was a deal breaker.

2011
01:46:52,040 --> 01:46:55,080
Speaker 4: He's choosing to break the deal. It's on him, not you.

2012
01:46:55,200 --> 01:46:59,120
Speaker 4: A platonic relationship with another person can just be as

2013
01:46:59,240 --> 01:47:04,280
Speaker 4: uncomfortable as a sexual one. Yes, and then kilto seventy seven,

2014
01:47:04,600 --> 01:47:07,679
Speaker 4: not the ahole. Your boundaries are not wrong. It's really

2015
01:47:07,720 --> 01:47:10,040
Speaker 4: concerning how your fiance is fighting for her by fighting

2016
01:47:10,120 --> 01:47:14,599
Speaker 4: against you on his on this by using the old

2017
01:47:14,720 --> 01:47:18,800
Speaker 4: guilt trick tactic. You can you pick who you want

2018
01:47:18,880 --> 01:47:21,759
Speaker 4: on picking who I want and calm down and suggesting

2019
01:47:21,800 --> 01:47:25,799
Speaker 4: you're aggressive and unfair by the way he choose Josep's

2020
01:47:25,840 --> 01:47:30,519
Speaker 4: sister for his party instead of X. Good facts. What

2021
01:47:30,640 --> 01:47:34,720
Speaker 4: did the poles say? Did you make a poll? Yeah?

2022
01:47:34,760 --> 01:47:40,680
Speaker 4: I did, Yes says prevorce. Ninety two percent of you

2023
01:47:40,760 --> 01:47:43,840
Speaker 4: say prevorce. Area of the fact that OPI didn't care

2024
01:47:43,920 --> 01:47:47,000
Speaker 4: about him staying friends with the woman he was literally

2025
01:47:47,040 --> 01:47:49,720
Speaker 4: about to marry. This guy needs a grip. Just be

2026
01:47:49,920 --> 01:47:53,240
Speaker 4: happy with that lol. Facs.

2027
01:47:53,760 --> 01:48:00,639
Speaker 1: Wow, this is wild. Yeah, yeah, there's an update.

2028
01:48:00,880 --> 01:48:04,840
Speaker 4: There is an update. Wow. February fifteenth, How much more

2029
01:48:04,880 --> 01:48:10,360
Speaker 4: do we have? Okay, so update update two, got two updates.

2030
01:48:11,479 --> 01:48:14,479
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, but yeah, girl, you're not the a

2031
01:48:14,640 --> 01:48:19,040
Speaker 4: hole and get out of there. Calm down and have

2032
01:48:19,200 --> 01:48:22,720
Speaker 4: the x EI there. Yeah, that's where I leave. That's

2033
01:48:22,720 --> 01:48:25,519
Speaker 4: where I'm getting at, dude, quick, okay, sorry Tom. I

2034
01:48:25,600 --> 01:48:29,479
Speaker 4: worked in the restaurant industry and this one waitress told

2035
01:48:29,520 --> 01:48:34,000
Speaker 4: the manager to calm down, and the manager lost her

2036
01:48:34,360 --> 01:48:38,960
Speaker 4: ever loving mind and went off on the waitress. It

2037
01:48:39,120 --> 01:48:41,439
Speaker 4: was so bad I had to leave. I picked up.

2038
01:48:42,080 --> 01:48:44,040
Speaker 4: I started taking orders for people that weren't even at

2039
01:48:44,120 --> 01:48:45,840
Speaker 4: my table at that time. I was just like, yo,

2040
01:48:46,000 --> 01:48:47,519
Speaker 4: what's up? I need to be out of the kitchen.

2041
01:48:47,560 --> 01:48:49,800
Speaker 4: How can I help you? Yeah? I became a bus

2042
01:48:49,880 --> 01:48:53,479
Speaker 4: boy for like ten minutes. It was tough. So first

2043
01:48:53,520 --> 01:48:57,880
Speaker 4: and experience saw someone do it. Not very good, not

2044
01:48:58,080 --> 01:49:01,439
Speaker 4: very Chrisha d I bet he did care when they

2045
01:49:01,479 --> 01:49:04,400
Speaker 4: were friends, but she was gas slapped into thinking her

2046
01:49:04,800 --> 01:49:11,080
Speaker 4: feelings were invalid. Fair, very fair, all right. Update one,

2047
01:49:11,160 --> 01:49:15,320
Speaker 4: February fifteenth edit, Thank you everyone for your input. I

2048
01:49:15,400 --> 01:49:17,280
Speaker 4: called my fiance this morning and ask if we could

2049
01:49:17,320 --> 01:49:20,080
Speaker 4: discuss the situation, like, oh, he's doing this as she's

2050
01:49:20,120 --> 01:49:30,840
Speaker 4: typing this autum. I told him that I want him

2051
01:49:30,960 --> 01:49:32,880
Speaker 4: to hear my reasonings for not wanting her to be

2052
01:49:32,920 --> 01:49:36,000
Speaker 4: in the wedding party, and in exchange, I will listen

2053
01:49:36,080 --> 01:49:39,960
Speaker 4: to understand his POV. This is a trade off here.

2054
01:49:40,479 --> 01:49:43,360
Speaker 4: We are going to discuss it tomorrow night. I'll give

2055
01:49:43,400 --> 01:49:46,720
Speaker 4: you guys an update. Then in the meantime, thank you

2056
01:49:46,880 --> 01:49:49,280
Speaker 4: for giving us something to chew on while you're gone.

2057
01:49:50,000 --> 01:49:53,240
Speaker 4: I will answer some questions. Liz is not her real name,

2058
01:49:53,760 --> 01:49:55,760
Speaker 4: does have a boyfriend, and that have been dating for

2059
01:49:55,880 --> 01:50:00,560
Speaker 4: six months? Now is that long enough? The topic of

2060
01:50:00,600 --> 01:50:03,200
Speaker 4: the wedding party never came up in our relationship because

2061
01:50:03,280 --> 01:50:07,559
Speaker 4: we always assume we will do small, intimate destination wedding,

2062
01:50:07,840 --> 01:50:11,760
Speaker 4: so there would wouldn't need it wouldn't need a to

2063
01:50:11,920 --> 01:50:15,040
Speaker 4: have a wedding party. However, our parents were against that

2064
01:50:15,200 --> 01:50:17,360
Speaker 4: idea and wanted us to have a big wedding. We

2065
01:50:17,479 --> 01:50:20,400
Speaker 4: decided to compromise with them and do both weddings. Oh,

2066
01:50:20,479 --> 01:50:24,040
Speaker 4: so they're gonna have two interesting I had zero problem

2067
01:50:24,080 --> 01:50:26,280
Speaker 4: with the sister being in my party. To be honest,

2068
01:50:26,800 --> 01:50:29,360
Speaker 4: I should have thought to ask her myself. I believe

2069
01:50:29,400 --> 01:50:31,880
Speaker 4: my fiance wants me to have a closer relationship with

2070
01:50:31,960 --> 01:50:34,080
Speaker 4: her and hopes that this would be a great start.

2071
01:50:35,920 --> 01:50:38,519
Speaker 4: In the beginning of my relationship with my fiance, I

2072
01:50:38,600 --> 01:50:42,479
Speaker 4: have mentioned my jealousy. Oh, we worked through it and

2073
01:50:42,600 --> 01:50:50,519
Speaker 4: he assured me though it was like a burp and

2074
01:50:50,600 --> 01:50:53,400
Speaker 4: then I got scared. But no, there's nothing there. Since then,

2075
01:50:53,680 --> 01:50:56,080
Speaker 4: I really didn't have any issues with her being in

2076
01:50:56,120 --> 01:50:59,400
Speaker 4: our lives, except for her to be standing in the wedding.

2077
01:51:00,040 --> 01:51:03,080
Speaker 4: Only issue that they've had. This is not his usual behavior.

2078
01:51:03,479 --> 01:51:07,519
Speaker 4: We are both very chill people and don't usually do

2079
01:51:07,880 --> 01:51:11,000
Speaker 4: an ultimam. I think this might be the first time

2080
01:51:11,040 --> 01:51:14,120
Speaker 4: in our relationship. In the contrary, I feel like we

2081
01:51:14,280 --> 01:51:18,160
Speaker 4: both have been able to compromise too well. As far

2082
01:51:18,200 --> 01:51:22,000
Speaker 4: as I know, Liz doesn't know about this conversation slash fight,

2083
01:51:22,360 --> 01:51:25,200
Speaker 4: and I don't want her to know. I want him

2084
01:51:25,240 --> 01:51:28,000
Speaker 4: to choose and not have her stand in the wedding,

2085
01:51:28,800 --> 01:51:30,479
Speaker 4: and not because she doesn't want to be in it,

2086
01:51:30,880 --> 01:51:31,720
Speaker 4: if that makes sense.

2087
01:51:32,680 --> 01:51:33,559
Speaker 1: Read the next update.

2088
01:51:34,080 --> 01:51:36,360
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Frederick Locknick.

2089
01:51:35,920 --> 01:51:37,120
Speaker 1: We're not there. We're not there yet.

2090
01:51:37,120 --> 01:51:40,160
Speaker 4: Okay, we still gotta thank you. Okay, yeah, God, we

2091
01:51:40,280 --> 01:51:44,960
Speaker 4: can't rush time, Rick Thredrick Locknick, thank you for the

2092
01:51:45,000 --> 01:51:52,080
Speaker 4: one hundred dollars donation. Holy Cow King's crowns. Whatever you

2093
01:51:52,160 --> 01:51:55,640
Speaker 4: got emojis, put it in the chat. Holy cow, come

2094
01:51:55,720 --> 01:51:58,840
Speaker 4: in and clutch time go faster, here we go. Dang it.

2095
01:51:59,000 --> 01:52:01,559
Speaker 1: I still have an update. Get read it, okay.

2096
01:52:01,920 --> 01:52:04,439
Speaker 4: February twenty six, two days after I got together with

2097
01:52:04,520 --> 01:52:10,519
Speaker 4: my girl. Fun fact uh update, new post was not approved.

2098
01:52:11,760 --> 01:52:14,679
Speaker 4: Lame read it, lame, You're so lame. Thanks for everyone

2099
01:52:14,720 --> 01:52:17,880
Speaker 4: who commented on my previous post. I apologize for Luta

2100
01:52:17,920 --> 01:52:21,720
Speaker 4: daily in responding. It has been a couple busy other day.

2101
01:52:22,280 --> 01:52:24,760
Speaker 4: All right, all right, cool, all right, Asian persuasion. You

2102
01:52:24,840 --> 01:52:30,439
Speaker 4: did it, ingrats um, you know how to do it. Boom,

2103
01:52:30,479 --> 01:52:37,280
Speaker 4: Look at Sophia go umm yeah dude, yeah yeah, Wow.

2104
01:52:37,479 --> 01:52:41,439
Speaker 4: Okay we're here. Wow. Oh Frederick, you're so nice. Thank

2105
01:52:41,439 --> 01:52:42,800
Speaker 4: you for the ten dollars. You know, I'm just take

2106
01:52:42,840 --> 01:52:44,960
Speaker 4: a moment for the donations. If you want to scroll down.

2107
01:52:45,800 --> 01:52:50,719
Speaker 4: Um you almost done with this. No, I'm just quick

2108
01:52:50,880 --> 01:52:55,080
Speaker 4: stop pit stop here tia mia in four huh to

2109
01:52:55,280 --> 01:52:59,599
Speaker 4: my to my who may thank you again for another

2110
01:52:59,640 --> 01:53:02,759
Speaker 4: gift membership and spoil me with his member only live streams.

2111
01:53:02,840 --> 01:53:05,639
Speaker 4: You are so welcome. Welcome to the night. I'm gonna

2112
01:53:05,640 --> 01:53:09,080
Speaker 4: scroll up. Asian persuasion. Riley puts the sexy in dyslexia up.

2113
01:53:09,800 --> 01:53:10,280
Speaker 1: Stop it.

2114
01:53:10,720 --> 01:53:15,880
Speaker 4: I try my best. Uh, Tony tony q ten your Riley,

2115
01:53:15,920 --> 01:53:17,719
Speaker 4: your mom would hit your dad with the cast iron.

2116
01:53:18,880 --> 01:53:21,439
Speaker 4: That is true. If she could, she would jump and

2117
01:53:21,600 --> 01:53:23,360
Speaker 4: like hit her because my mom is like five to

2118
01:53:23,400 --> 01:53:25,160
Speaker 4: five and my dad is six', eight so it would

2119
01:53:25,160 --> 01:53:28,800
Speaker 4: be like, oh and she would do. It Middle Earth,

2120
01:53:28,920 --> 01:53:32,360
Speaker 4: Chai i'm. Confused wasn't he about to marry this girl

2121
01:53:32,520 --> 01:53:34,280
Speaker 4: and he still wants her in his wedding? Party not

2122
01:53:34,360 --> 01:53:36,439
Speaker 4: the Whole we already read. This that is so. True

2123
01:53:36,840 --> 01:53:41,160
Speaker 4: And frederick, again thank you for the one hundo dala

2124
01:53:41,439 --> 01:53:46,200
Speaker 4: getting us to another thirty. Minutes appreciate. It asian. Persuasion

2125
01:53:46,240 --> 01:53:48,120
Speaker 4: thank you for the five kids to memberships getting us

2126
01:53:48,120 --> 01:53:49,639
Speaker 4: over and a lot of people were getting us over.

2127
01:53:49,680 --> 01:53:52,840
Speaker 4: Here uh, MILLENNIAL i learned how to say that word

2128
01:53:52,960 --> 01:53:56,439
Speaker 4: five years, ago no, joke, Millennial, August yes we are.

2129
01:53:56,479 --> 01:53:57,200
Speaker 4: Here thank you for the.

2130
01:53:57,920 --> 01:54:03,640
Speaker 1: Thanks it's so close LIKE i learned how to say that.

2131
01:54:03,760 --> 01:54:06,600
Speaker 4: Word, oh, yes we are. Here thank you for the

2132
01:54:06,640 --> 01:54:08,800
Speaker 4: tin bucks And frederick getting us over with another tin.

2133
01:54:08,840 --> 01:54:13,000
Speaker 4: Bucks thank, You, BRITTANY i see You lynn. More thank

2134
01:54:13,040 --> 01:54:17,040
Speaker 4: you for the tin. Bucks denise old Burg bross what she?

2135
01:54:17,200 --> 01:54:21,000
Speaker 4: Said thank you for the one forty nine and sly the,

2136
01:54:21,240 --> 01:54:25,240
Speaker 4: toes thank you for the twenty. Bucks let's, Go Jane,

2137
01:54:25,280 --> 01:54:29,280
Speaker 4: Digital how tall AM i six? Eight six? Eight? Lies,

2138
01:54:29,520 --> 01:54:30,880
Speaker 4: No i'm like a solid six.

2139
01:54:31,000 --> 01:54:32,840
Speaker 1: Foot if you're six, eight THEN i am six.

2140
01:54:33,000 --> 01:54:36,080
Speaker 4: Three john said, that who's five? Eleven AND i am

2141
01:54:36,120 --> 01:54:39,800
Speaker 4: also five? Eleven some TikTok video out. THERE i don't, know,

2142
01:54:40,280 --> 01:54:41,760
Speaker 4: uh BUT i think it's funny BECAUSE i Think i'm

2143
01:54:41,760 --> 01:54:43,480
Speaker 4: six to one with shoes, on AND i tell Everyone

2144
01:54:43,480 --> 01:54:46,320
Speaker 4: i'm five, eleven and everyone's, like now the five eleven guys.

2145
01:54:46,160 --> 01:54:48,360
Speaker 1: Are, like, yeah, no, no under.

2146
01:54:49,760 --> 01:54:49,800
Speaker 2: Like.

2147
01:54:49,880 --> 01:54:52,840
Speaker 4: That it's like he did you need to just? Ham,

2148
01:54:53,080 --> 01:54:56,000
Speaker 4: well we're almost. Done we're almost done it, Okay ley

2149
01:54:56,080 --> 01:54:58,920
Speaker 4: you listen if you want to join on, back if you'd.

2150
01:54:59,000 --> 01:55:02,600
Speaker 4: Like we Got molly here, Guys, wow but this this

2151
01:55:02,720 --> 01:55:06,960
Speaker 4: is getting this is getting. Crazy we ate our we

2152
01:55:07,160 --> 01:55:10,680
Speaker 4: ate our our lamba Keke oh that was. CUTE i

2153
01:55:10,760 --> 01:55:12,200
Speaker 4: saw a little moment back. There if you guys split

2154
01:55:12,240 --> 01:55:12,680
Speaker 4: it you guys LIKE.

2155
01:55:14,960 --> 01:55:17,760
Speaker 1: I HEATED i heeded it? Up what is that where you?

2156
01:55:17,840 --> 01:55:21,640
Speaker 1: Went that's real? Quick?

2157
01:55:21,680 --> 01:55:23,200
Speaker 4: Molly uh what do you think.

2158
01:55:23,120 --> 01:55:26,560
Speaker 1: This girl should do, uh this is with his ex

2159
01:55:26,680 --> 01:55:30,000
Speaker 1: at the. Wedding should she stay together or.

2160
01:55:35,320 --> 01:55:35,360
Speaker 2: Or?

2161
01:55:35,440 --> 01:55:42,320
Speaker 1: Therapy this is really hard because it's.

2162
01:55:42,400 --> 01:55:50,480
Speaker 4: Hard, yeah no, Notication get off the, fence get budging on.

2163
01:55:50,560 --> 01:55:52,800
Speaker 1: This he told her to calm.

2164
01:55:52,840 --> 01:55:55,440
Speaker 2: Down, yeah he told her to calm. Down, yeah it's

2165
01:55:55,600 --> 01:55:59,840
Speaker 2: no and be, reasonable not just CALM downa is a no.

2166
01:56:00,160 --> 01:56:05,000
Speaker 2: Go it's a now you, say, hey dump, him dump

2167
01:56:05,080 --> 01:56:08,520
Speaker 2: him BECAUSE i, think like op it seemed to was

2168
01:56:08,640 --> 01:56:11,720
Speaker 2: being really chill about, it, like, hey your ex can

2169
01:56:11,800 --> 01:56:17,000
Speaker 2: come like enjoy, herself but which is really, nice but

2170
01:56:17,120 --> 01:56:17,520
Speaker 2: to be, like.

2171
01:56:17,600 --> 01:56:20,720
Speaker 1: NO i want her in my. Grims.

2172
01:56:21,280 --> 01:56:22,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah wedding.

2173
01:56:22,360 --> 01:56:26,040
Speaker 1: Party wedding, Party like THAT'S i think that's going to too, far.

2174
01:56:26,080 --> 01:56:28,200
Speaker 4: Too, far too, far too. Far did you move the

2175
01:56:28,280 --> 01:56:29,520
Speaker 4: mic just right below your?

2176
01:56:29,600 --> 01:56:29,800
Speaker 1: Chin?

2177
01:56:32,160 --> 01:56:34,160
Speaker 4: Beautiful we want to see your pretty small. Home, okay

2178
01:56:34,760 --> 01:56:38,600
Speaker 4: here we. Go Update february twenty, six days before me.

2179
01:56:41,160 --> 01:56:44,720
Speaker 4: Updates thanks for everyone who commented on my previous. Post

2180
01:56:44,880 --> 01:56:47,760
Speaker 4: apologized for the delay in. Responding has been a busy

2181
01:56:47,920 --> 01:56:52,160
Speaker 4: couple of. Weeks we did. Talk we both laid out

2182
01:56:52,200 --> 01:56:56,320
Speaker 4: where we stand in our reasoning in this stead that

2183
01:56:56,480 --> 01:56:59,600
Speaker 4: lizbe and his wedding. Party his point of view is

2184
01:56:59,720 --> 01:57:02,520
Speaker 4: that he wants to share his biggest life decision with

2185
01:57:02,640 --> 01:57:06,320
Speaker 4: his closest. Friends friendza has stayed with him since he

2186
01:57:06,480 --> 01:57:09,800
Speaker 4: was a. BABY i get. THAT i truly, do as

2187
01:57:09,880 --> 01:57:11,680
Speaker 4: IF i want to have my best friends to be

2188
01:57:11,680 --> 01:57:14,400
Speaker 4: standing there with. Me it did make me feel like

2189
01:57:14,560 --> 01:57:18,200
Speaker 4: the a hole for being so against. It, HOWEVER i

2190
01:57:18,320 --> 01:57:22,080
Speaker 4: can't change HOW i. FEEL i still don't want her

2191
01:57:22,240 --> 01:57:25,800
Speaker 4: in the wedding, party But i'm willing to let it.

2192
01:57:25,920 --> 01:57:28,440
Speaker 1: Go she's being so.

2193
01:57:28,720 --> 01:57:32,720
Speaker 2: Mature she's being really, mature BECAUSE i think anybody would be,

2194
01:57:32,880 --> 01:57:35,000
Speaker 2: like no, Way jose But.

2195
01:57:35,120 --> 01:57:39,280
Speaker 4: Molly with her doing this? Now, yeah think about later

2196
01:57:39,320 --> 01:57:43,800
Speaker 4: in the, relationship, Right. BABE i Want liz in the

2197
01:57:43,880 --> 01:57:44,600
Speaker 4: delivering room with.

2198
01:57:44,720 --> 01:57:44,800
Speaker 2: Us.

2199
01:57:46,040 --> 01:57:49,360
Speaker 4: BABE i Want liz to be there whenever our kids

2200
01:57:49,840 --> 01:57:52,680
Speaker 4: walk across the, Stage. LIZ i want her whenever their

2201
01:57:52,720 --> 01:57:54,440
Speaker 4: kids start, Walking. LIZ i, Want.

2202
01:57:55,600 --> 01:57:58,760
Speaker 1: BABE i Want liz to walk our child down the. Aisle.

2203
01:58:00,360 --> 01:58:03,240
Speaker 1: LIZ i want our child to. Marry, WAIT i want.

2204
01:58:04,880 --> 01:58:06,400
Speaker 4: Dude it's never gonna.

2205
01:58:06,520 --> 01:58:09,240
Speaker 2: End and this is where it, Was and this is

2206
01:58:09,280 --> 01:58:10,960
Speaker 2: a good example of the fact that they're not on

2207
01:58:11,000 --> 01:58:13,560
Speaker 2: the same page about what, compromises.

2208
01:58:14,880 --> 01:58:19,080
Speaker 1: You, know because that's, yeah that's really. Uncool, cool it's not,

2209
01:58:19,200 --> 01:58:21,160
Speaker 1: cool not, Cool she's.

2210
01:58:21,240 --> 01:58:25,360
Speaker 4: Uncomfortable, Bro, yeah listen to your. WIFE i just, think, Like,

2211
01:58:26,200 --> 01:58:31,960
Speaker 4: okay if you want this to, happen, girl marriage, counseling, right, Boom, Like,

2212
01:58:32,040 --> 01:58:35,040
Speaker 4: okay we're gonna like this. Happen, boom marriage. Counseling you're

2213
01:58:35,040 --> 01:58:37,320
Speaker 4: gonna hear my feelings one way or. Another if someone

2214
01:58:37,360 --> 01:58:41,000
Speaker 4: else has to tell, you here we. Go, however this

2215
01:58:41,160 --> 01:58:44,480
Speaker 4: fight did bring up a lot of issues to, surface for,

2216
01:58:44,640 --> 01:58:48,040
Speaker 4: one her involvement in our relationship going, forward to the

2217
01:58:48,200 --> 01:58:51,120
Speaker 4: easiness for him to walk away during a. FIGHT i

2218
01:58:51,200 --> 01:58:54,480
Speaker 4: don't accept how this fight went. About marriage is. Forever

2219
01:58:55,600 --> 01:58:57,440
Speaker 4: we will have bigger fights in the. Future but a

2220
01:58:57,520 --> 01:59:01,760
Speaker 4: fight should never end in one's walking. Away that's a good,

2221
01:59:01,840 --> 01:59:03,760
Speaker 4: rule never walking away from a. FIRE i like. That

2222
01:59:04,200 --> 01:59:05,600
Speaker 4: i've never heard. THAT i really like.

2223
01:59:05,680 --> 01:59:05,720
Speaker 2: That.

2224
01:59:05,960 --> 01:59:09,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, third my uneasiness of the insistence he was about

2225
01:59:09,920 --> 01:59:12,680
Speaker 4: herb to being the wedding. Party if the role was,

2226
01:59:12,720 --> 01:59:15,280
Speaker 4: reversed if he insisted that my best friend not being

2227
01:59:15,360 --> 01:59:19,640
Speaker 4: the WEDDING i would have done so because it's our,

2228
01:59:19,800 --> 01:59:22,839
Speaker 4: day not just. MINE i believe this compromise is important

2229
01:59:22,840 --> 01:59:25,240
Speaker 4: in the. MARRIAGE i didn't see any signs of his

2230
01:59:25,320 --> 01:59:30,200
Speaker 4: willingness to. Compromise after all, that we're still. Engaged, however

2231
01:59:30,360 --> 01:59:32,720
Speaker 4: we have decided to postpone setting a date for the.

2232
01:59:32,760 --> 01:59:35,920
Speaker 4: Wedding we are thinking maybe a wedding sometime in late

2233
01:59:35,960 --> 01:59:38,560
Speaker 4: twenty twenty. Five we're going to see if we can

2234
01:59:38,800 --> 01:59:41,280
Speaker 4: build back the trust that we had and if we

2235
01:59:41,360 --> 01:59:46,360
Speaker 4: can build a stronger foundation for our. Relationship thanks. Everyone,

2236
01:59:46,920 --> 01:59:49,480
Speaker 4: also we're live right. Now tap our profile to check it.

2237
01:59:49,480 --> 01:59:55,280
Speaker 4: Out this is. Wild this is why this feels like a.

2238
01:59:55,360 --> 01:59:57,880
Speaker 1: Maybe it feels like what this feels like a?

2239
01:59:57,960 --> 02:00:00,320
Speaker 4: Maybe LIKE i, know they postponed the day and they're

2240
02:00:00,400 --> 02:00:04,400
Speaker 4: still gonna make it, happen but it's sort of, like,

2241
02:00:04,680 --> 02:00:06,680
Speaker 4: hey we still got to build. Back we had to.

2242
02:00:06,720 --> 02:00:10,480
Speaker 4: Fight we gotta build this our city back. Together some building,

2243
02:00:10,520 --> 02:00:12,000
Speaker 4: scrubbles some schools were. Lost.

2244
02:00:13,520 --> 02:00:17,720
Speaker 1: OH i think it's kind of this feeling OF i

2245
02:00:17,760 --> 02:00:18,440
Speaker 1: think it's fine to be.

2246
02:00:18,520 --> 02:00:22,160
Speaker 2: Friends, well people have different people have different what you McCall, it,

2247
02:00:22,320 --> 02:00:25,320
Speaker 2: like you, know opinions on whether you should be friends

2248
02:00:25,360 --> 02:00:27,760
Speaker 2: with your exes and how people feel about that if

2249
02:00:27,800 --> 02:00:31,520
Speaker 2: you're this close with your EX i don't know how.

2250
02:00:31,680 --> 02:00:35,120
Speaker 4: That, yeah, yeah she's definitely gonna be competing for the

2251
02:00:35,160 --> 02:00:35,520
Speaker 4: rest of her.

2252
02:00:35,560 --> 02:00:37,640
Speaker 2: Life, yeah, LIKE i don't know IF i date, someone

2253
02:00:38,160 --> 02:00:40,960
Speaker 2: if someone IF i were dating someone seriously and they

2254
02:00:41,040 --> 02:00:43,040
Speaker 2: totally me told me they were friends with an, EX

2255
02:00:43,120 --> 02:00:45,200
Speaker 2: i Think i'd already be a little bit like, whoa,

2256
02:00:45,800 --> 02:00:50,080
Speaker 2: Okay but if they were like besties like, this, YEAH

2257
02:00:50,640 --> 02:00:51,560
Speaker 2: i don't know IF i could do.

2258
02:00:51,640 --> 02:00:59,400
Speaker 4: That let's say you meet SHOULD i? Do have you seen?

2259
02:00:59,720 --> 02:01:03,800
Speaker 4: Friends Or oh my, gosh HOW i am at your?

2260
02:01:03,840 --> 02:01:05,520
Speaker 2: MOTHER i knew you were going to say. That i've

2261
02:01:05,600 --> 02:01:07,880
Speaker 2: seen a little bit of, both But i'm not too well.

2262
02:01:07,960 --> 02:01:11,600
Speaker 4: Versed is there another? ONE i? SAID i said? Friends

2263
02:01:11,640 --> 02:01:13,240
Speaker 4: how am at your? Mother there was another, one wasn't?

2264
02:01:13,240 --> 02:01:13,480
Speaker 1: There you?

2265
02:01:13,520 --> 02:01:13,720
Speaker 2: Said?

2266
02:01:13,720 --> 02:01:18,680
Speaker 4: Seinfeld, Seinfeldeld, okay time. Out let's say you Meet ted

2267
02:01:18,760 --> 02:01:20,600
Speaker 4: from how im at your? Mother dream? Guy you guys

2268
02:01:20,600 --> 02:01:20,920
Speaker 4: are gonna?

2269
02:01:20,920 --> 02:01:23,840
Speaker 1: Marry hold, on hold on what alyssa? Roxhand Does molly

2270
02:01:23,920 --> 02:01:26,600
Speaker 1: know that they were? Engaged he was engaged to His, ye.

2271
02:01:28,760 --> 02:01:28,800
Speaker 3: That.

2272
02:01:29,680 --> 02:01:32,240
Speaker 1: GUYS i stepped out for a little bit to warm

2273
02:01:32,360 --> 02:01:32,520
Speaker 1: up the.

2274
02:01:32,600 --> 02:01:38,879
Speaker 4: Lava oh yeah that. Happened oh, no, yeah.

2275
02:01:40,400 --> 02:01:41,280
Speaker 1: She shouldn't be in the wedding.

2276
02:01:41,320 --> 02:01:45,160
Speaker 2: Party, no, oh she shouldn't be in the wedding. Party period.

2277
02:01:45,800 --> 02:01:48,760
Speaker 2: PERIOD i don't think any of AN x should be

2278
02:01:49,600 --> 02:01:53,600
Speaker 2: in a wedding party on either, side, right but they were.

2279
02:01:53,760 --> 02:01:55,920
Speaker 1: Engaged that's.

2280
02:01:56,000 --> 02:01:58,760
Speaker 4: Wild, yeah that. Wild so let's say you meet your

2281
02:01:58,840 --> 02:02:02,560
Speaker 4: ted and it's. Perfect you guys are gonna get, married

2282
02:02:02,600 --> 02:02:04,720
Speaker 4: But robin's still around all the. Time how would you

2283
02:02:04,720 --> 02:02:05,160
Speaker 4: feel About?

2284
02:02:05,200 --> 02:02:08,760
Speaker 2: Robin I'd i'd feel, insecure AND i know that that's

2285
02:02:08,840 --> 02:02:10,760
Speaker 2: my own thing THAT i would need to work, on you,

2286
02:02:10,840 --> 02:02:15,040
Speaker 2: know because, like, yeah you know that's not fair if

2287
02:02:15,120 --> 02:02:16,560
Speaker 2: if they still have a, connection but.

2288
02:02:19,120 --> 02:02:20,520
Speaker 1: It's, tough it's.

2289
02:02:20,640 --> 02:02:23,480
Speaker 4: Tough, yeah would you still be with that or would

2290
02:02:23,480 --> 02:02:24,920
Speaker 4: you like over a while and be, like, HEY i

2291
02:02:24,960 --> 02:02:25,680
Speaker 4: don't think it's gonna.

2292
02:02:25,720 --> 02:02:29,200
Speaker 2: Work, yeah IF i couldn't get over, it IF i

2293
02:02:29,440 --> 02:02:32,360
Speaker 2: feel like it's on, me, yeah because because you, KNOW

2294
02:02:32,440 --> 02:02:33,840
Speaker 2: i think a lot of people are, like that's my,

2295
02:02:33,960 --> 02:02:37,040
Speaker 2: friend that was my friend, before and we're gonna stay.

2296
02:02:37,080 --> 02:02:38,680
Speaker 1: Friends and then it's up to you to make that.

2297
02:02:38,840 --> 02:02:42,200
Speaker 4: Decision oh, dude can you can you go up a

2298
02:02:42,200 --> 02:02:47,360
Speaker 4: little bit To stevie's if You buyrus, SAYS i hope

2299
02:02:47,400 --> 02:02:50,200
Speaker 4: counseling can address how the fiance dismissed his soon to

2300
02:02:50,280 --> 02:02:54,080
Speaker 4: be wife's thought in the situation as irrational and not

2301
02:02:54,280 --> 02:02:58,360
Speaker 4: calm when the majority, wait go, over not done reading?

2302
02:02:58,400 --> 02:03:01,800
Speaker 4: IT i don't, know is that where you read? IT i, know,

2303
02:03:02,200 --> 02:03:07,680
Speaker 4: uh even if that, chat even when the chat response

2304
02:03:07,840 --> 02:03:11,240
Speaker 4: here totally get. IT i read the last part of that.

2305
02:03:11,280 --> 02:03:15,200
Speaker 4: Wrong but, yeah that's the. Story. HOPEFULLY i would definitely

2306
02:03:15,760 --> 02:03:17,760
Speaker 4: counseling therapy do.

2307
02:03:17,960 --> 02:03:24,040
Speaker 1: That, Yeah and it's so, tough.

2308
02:03:24,160 --> 02:03:26,440
Speaker 2: MAN i feel like all these stories are just showing

2309
02:03:26,520 --> 02:03:29,840
Speaker 2: that weddings can really bring out the worst in people

2310
02:03:30,040 --> 02:03:34,080
Speaker 2: and there and their true like values and, yeah IF

2311
02:03:34,160 --> 02:03:36,320
Speaker 2: i were engaged to someone and they weren't down to

2312
02:03:36,400 --> 02:03:38,600
Speaker 2: compromise in a way that made me feel okay on

2313
02:03:38,760 --> 02:03:40,960
Speaker 2: our big, day then it's not meant to.

2314
02:03:41,000 --> 02:03:41,840
Speaker 1: Be not meant to.

2315
02:03:41,920 --> 02:03:45,440
Speaker 4: Be, yeah they have it hot takes For, Allie hot, Take,

2316
02:03:46,640 --> 02:03:47,920
Speaker 4: well spin that will be the?

2317
02:03:47,960 --> 02:03:53,160
Speaker 1: Wheel oh you gotta refleg, there that's, accident, Man spin that?

2318
02:03:53,360 --> 02:03:55,720
Speaker 4: Wheel do you want to keep do you want to

2319
02:03:55,800 --> 02:03:58,160
Speaker 4: keep producing or do you want to give? It whatever

2320
02:03:58,200 --> 02:04:00,160
Speaker 4: you want to? DO i know you, Okay, WELL i

2321
02:04:00,240 --> 02:04:10,480
Speaker 4: know you've like read a lot weird. Freestyle let's we can.

2322
02:04:10,520 --> 02:04:13,040
Speaker 1: Go THAT'S i end.

2323
02:04:13,080 --> 02:04:18,680
Speaker 4: Over oh can you?

2324
02:04:18,760 --> 02:04:23,320
Speaker 1: Explain i'm, Sorry i'm such a novel.

2325
02:04:23,520 --> 02:04:28,200
Speaker 4: Guy guess who gets to a free? Style, now boom,

2326
02:04:28,400 --> 02:04:31,440
Speaker 4: boom of these lovely ladies are going to be doing a.

2327
02:04:31,480 --> 02:04:36,440
Speaker 4: Freestyle BUT i have a beat AND i have words

2328
02:04:36,520 --> 02:04:40,200
Speaker 4: that they have to put into their. FREESTYLE a. Moment

2329
02:04:40,320 --> 02:04:42,800
Speaker 4: don would be so much better at this Read. OH

2330
02:04:42,840 --> 02:04:44,400
Speaker 4: i was Hoping john would be, here but he had

2331
02:04:44,400 --> 02:04:46,080
Speaker 4: to go because he had other things to. Do can

2332
02:04:46,120 --> 02:04:48,400
Speaker 4: you read these WHILE i get that set? Up and

2333
02:04:48,480 --> 02:04:48,720
Speaker 4: time To?

2334
02:04:49,040 --> 02:04:50,600
Speaker 1: Ashley do you think you for at the ten bucks?

2335
02:04:50,640 --> 02:04:53,640
Speaker 1: TIP i love you. Guys you make work so much more.

2336
02:04:53,720 --> 02:04:56,080
Speaker 1: BEARABLE i listened to you any chance i'd get, ah

2337
02:04:56,520 --> 02:05:01,880
Speaker 1: love you that's. Cute, SWEET i can't read. Anymore oh,

2338
02:05:01,960 --> 02:05:07,520
Speaker 1: Sorry Signal, imagination thank you for the celebrating four months of.

2339
02:05:07,800 --> 02:05:12,800
Speaker 1: MEMBERSHIP i feel like HOW i met your mother kind

2340
02:05:12,840 --> 02:05:17,720
Speaker 1: of said unrealistic, expectations slash standards and relationships WITH x with.

2341
02:05:17,840 --> 02:05:21,600
Speaker 1: Exes yeah they all that was all intertwined. There, WELL

2342
02:05:21,600 --> 02:05:24,680
Speaker 1: i guess no. One it was Only marshall And lily who.

2343
02:05:24,760 --> 02:05:27,360
Speaker 1: Dated they didn't date anyone else in the friend, group, RIGHT.

2344
02:05:29,280 --> 02:05:30,880
Speaker 2: I really should have paid attention more WHEN i was

2345
02:05:30,920 --> 02:05:34,360
Speaker 2: watching those. Episodes, unbelievable BUT i know it was COMING i,

2346
02:05:34,440 --> 02:05:35,800
Speaker 2: know but people do love that.

2347
02:05:36,000 --> 02:05:39,400
Speaker 1: SHOW i haven't seen. It i've seen almost all of.

2348
02:05:39,480 --> 02:05:42,960
Speaker 1: It i've seen All, friends BUT i don't think i've

2349
02:05:42,960 --> 02:05:44,800
Speaker 1: seen the last couple of seasons Of. HOW i don't

2350
02:05:44,840 --> 02:05:49,440
Speaker 1: know WHY i couldn't get Into. FRIENDS i actually Like.

2351
02:05:49,520 --> 02:05:53,480
Speaker 1: FRIENDS i do have trouble getting into shows that are

2352
02:05:53,640 --> 02:05:56,760
Speaker 1: just longer than like three, seasons especially when it's all,

2353
02:05:56,800 --> 02:06:00,600
Speaker 1: out because you have to binge it kind Of, yeah that's.

2354
02:06:00,600 --> 02:06:03,880
Speaker 1: HARD i can binge when there is a you, know

2355
02:06:04,200 --> 02:06:06,960
Speaker 1: a limited. Amount if it's like three, SEASONS i can.

2356
02:06:07,000 --> 02:06:10,920
Speaker 1: Broab i'm a good. Binger, Yeah Signal, Imagination thank you

2357
02:06:11,000 --> 02:06:14,000
Speaker 1: for oh WAIT i said, That Emperor Sleepless. Nights thank

2358
02:06:14,040 --> 02:06:20,640
Speaker 1: you for celebrating five months of. Membership Jennifer tarzas the

2359
02:06:20,680 --> 02:06:24,280
Speaker 1: live is still going must be A. Tuesday it is.

2360
02:06:25,840 --> 02:06:26,840
Speaker 4: All, right let's see if this.

2361
02:06:27,000 --> 02:06:31,320
Speaker 1: Is And Bell conkling, Says, OH i love y'all's long,

2362
02:06:31,400 --> 02:06:33,920
Speaker 1: lives But i'm getting social. Burnout love y'all, feeling but

2363
02:06:34,440 --> 02:06:35,480
Speaker 1: to call it at night SO i can see.

2364
02:06:35,480 --> 02:06:38,960
Speaker 4: Tomorrow all, right, guys here we. Go if we have

2365
02:06:39,080 --> 02:06:42,320
Speaker 4: words and they're gonna have to sing, it we are doing.

2366
02:06:42,360 --> 02:06:43,920
Speaker 4: It who wants to start. Off whoever fills.

2367
02:06:44,280 --> 02:06:48,800
Speaker 5: Together here we, go we switch off livee, okay okay

2368
02:06:49,520 --> 02:06:55,280
Speaker 5: is it, wait let me expind.

2369
02:06:55,320 --> 02:07:08,600
Speaker 4: It someone that's.

2370
02:07:08,640 --> 02:07:17,560
Speaker 1: Around oh, yo, baseball. Baseball oh oh oh, oh throw

2371
02:07:17,640 --> 02:07:18,360
Speaker 1: the ball in the.

2372
02:07:18,480 --> 02:07:24,320
Speaker 6: Outfield oh, Oh dodger go flue go.

2373
02:07:24,640 --> 02:07:31,080
Speaker 1: Bluu, Roger roger are you? There? Ya roger are you? There?

2374
02:07:31,880 --> 02:07:35,520
Speaker 1: Oh someone called The dodgers Because i'm hitting it out

2375
02:07:36,000 --> 02:07:39,640
Speaker 1: so on the fields so. WILD i need a, doctor

2376
02:07:40,520 --> 02:07:43,280
Speaker 1: kitty kitty kidding me out me. Out you need a

2377
02:07:43,400 --> 02:07:51,400
Speaker 1: doctor to check that, cat verry furry little. Pat. Oh

2378
02:07:52,200 --> 02:08:04,400
Speaker 1: where do we go? Next northeast? Southwest? Oh, yeah yeah he,

2379
02:08:05,800 --> 02:08:09,960
Speaker 1: Oh i'm gonna keep this goes a.

2380
02:08:13,640 --> 02:08:13,920
Speaker 4: Yellow.

2381
02:08:14,280 --> 02:08:17,920
Speaker 1: Greef you gotta drawn with the, crane gonna make it look.

2382
02:08:18,040 --> 02:08:22,000
Speaker 1: Good it's gonna go, on.

2383
02:08:24,720 --> 02:08:26,160
Speaker 4: Ra this is gonna be.

2384
02:08:26,440 --> 02:08:37,440
Speaker 1: Good Good god willen better watch out or OH i

2385
02:08:37,480 --> 02:08:42,480
Speaker 1: can't even. Read OH i gotta throw you for a

2386
02:08:42,600 --> 02:08:55,960
Speaker 1: loop number. Two kidneys wants their time. Back well you're

2387
02:08:56,000 --> 02:09:00,040
Speaker 1: not getting, it and that's that bad Black.

2388
02:09:00,200 --> 02:09:03,560
Speaker 4: Oh oh, wow let's.

2389
02:09:03,640 --> 02:09:07,960
Speaker 2: Go you know WHAT i think if we keep doing,

2390
02:09:08,000 --> 02:09:10,080
Speaker 2: that we WILL i think we'll get, better get really.

2391
02:09:10,120 --> 02:09:15,520
Speaker 1: Good this is, hardcore pro hardcore actually cringey about. That,

2392
02:09:15,920 --> 02:09:17,040
Speaker 1: okay the style.

2393
02:09:16,880 --> 02:09:21,160
Speaker 7: Wrappers are on another level for? Real, Okay uh did

2394
02:09:21,200 --> 02:09:23,760
Speaker 7: you guys like like? That or SHOULD i take it off?

2395
02:09:23,800 --> 02:09:26,760
Speaker 7: Forever or try to get With john and Say john

2396
02:09:26,840 --> 02:09:29,600
Speaker 7: And sam AND i a good.

2397
02:09:29,600 --> 02:09:32,400
Speaker 2: Time but If sophia AND i really like we're gonna get,

2398
02:09:32,440 --> 02:09:33,800
Speaker 2: There we're gonna get, There we're gonna get.

2399
02:09:33,840 --> 02:09:35,720
Speaker 1: This give us a. MINUTE i believe in. Us, YEAH

2400
02:09:35,760 --> 02:09:39,680
Speaker 1: i can freestyle saying, improv just not. Improv if you

2401
02:09:39,760 --> 02:09:43,600
Speaker 1: had me in an improv yoh, done, boom you need

2402
02:09:43,640 --> 02:09:45,640
Speaker 1: a slower beat next to, yeah it was too.

2403
02:09:45,760 --> 02:09:46,200
Speaker 6: FAST i.

2404
02:09:46,240 --> 02:09:51,840
Speaker 1: Couldn't it's more time to. THINK i, was oh my,

2405
02:09:51,960 --> 02:09:58,680
Speaker 1: MIND i don't, know. OKAY i was, like don't you

2406
02:09:58,760 --> 02:09:59,640
Speaker 1: have it for oh?

2407
02:10:00,240 --> 02:10:00,280
Speaker 4: What?

2408
02:10:00,640 --> 02:10:05,760
Speaker 1: Okay ye, okay to scratch your. BACK i love the

2409
02:10:07,400 --> 02:10:11,120
Speaker 1: various replies OF i love this and also this is.

2410
02:10:11,200 --> 02:10:14,160
Speaker 1: Crachy yeah you know?

2411
02:10:14,200 --> 02:10:14,400
Speaker 2: WHAT i?

2412
02:10:14,480 --> 02:10:16,760
Speaker 1: Thought the line where what DID i? Say there was

2413
02:10:16,800 --> 02:10:22,680
Speaker 1: one line that was actually? Good, Yeah oh what's gonna come? Next?

2414
02:10:22,880 --> 02:10:26,160
Speaker 1: North south east? West that was that was good. Line

2415
02:10:27,560 --> 02:10:30,160
Speaker 1: it was. GOOD i thought overall it was really. GOOD

2416
02:10:30,240 --> 02:10:32,920
Speaker 1: i think we brought the energy and we're all looking

2417
02:10:33,000 --> 02:10:35,760
Speaker 1: back on. IT i think we really did something there

2418
02:10:35,760 --> 02:10:39,320
Speaker 1: AND i think it's we can make adjustments and where it.

2419
02:10:39,400 --> 02:10:43,400
Speaker 2: Goes oh, yeah someone, said smither. Smithereens look At Harry.

2420
02:10:43,440 --> 02:10:46,720
Speaker 2: Mack he's actually. Insane, Yes i've been Following Harry mack

2421
02:10:46,800 --> 02:10:48,880
Speaker 2: for a minute and he's so.

2422
02:10:49,080 --> 02:10:51,480
Speaker 1: WILD i. DID i didn't know Who Harry mack. Was

2423
02:10:51,920 --> 02:10:54,400
Speaker 1: and then there's a video Of sam AND i DOING

2424
02:10:54,520 --> 02:10:56,520
Speaker 1: i Think riley talked about last time of us doing

2425
02:10:56,600 --> 02:10:59,840
Speaker 1: the trivia and in the Background Harry mack is doing

2426
02:11:00,760 --> 02:11:04,320
Speaker 1: is freestyle and then went over afterwards and he did

2427
02:11:04,400 --> 02:11:06,360
Speaker 1: like a freeshout. Rot it was pretty. Good he's so.

2428
02:11:06,640 --> 02:11:10,120
Speaker 1: TALENTED i. WAS i was very. Impressed so talented after doing,

2429
02:11:10,160 --> 02:11:15,040
Speaker 1: THAT i am very. Impressed all, RIGHT i love. It

2430
02:11:16,280 --> 02:11:20,480
Speaker 1: milkshake and mc rice milk curby, Girl Lella. Flame thank

2431
02:11:20,520 --> 02:11:23,480
Speaker 1: you for celebrating four months of. MEMBERSHIP i enjoy the

2432
02:11:23,600 --> 02:11:27,720
Speaker 1: music and. Vibing do it again a. Minute we need

2433
02:11:27,920 --> 02:11:31,160
Speaker 1: we need to do some really like, that you, know

2434
02:11:31,720 --> 02:11:33,720
Speaker 1: yeah from MY d AND d. Nerds we need to

2435
02:11:34,400 --> 02:11:36,480
Speaker 1: roll to see if we get our breath wepping, back

2436
02:11:37,680 --> 02:11:41,560
Speaker 1: uh zero. Nine thank you FOR i mean, wait laying

2437
02:11:41,680 --> 02:11:47,800
Speaker 1: the main. Pain thank you For. Nancy next, one what next? One?

2438
02:11:48,320 --> 02:11:50,880
Speaker 4: Next story six thirty two s? Three is it?

2439
02:11:50,960 --> 02:11:54,400
Speaker 1: ME i think? So, yeah you read, it it'll keep.

2440
02:11:54,360 --> 02:11:57,320
Speaker 4: And it'll finish us off unless something crazy. Happens, please

2441
02:11:57,920 --> 02:11:58,560
Speaker 4: we've been here all.

2442
02:11:58,680 --> 02:12:01,480
Speaker 1: DAY i haven't been on all, day BUT i am.

2443
02:12:01,560 --> 02:12:05,520
Speaker 4: Tired we're molly as this is your first like live live.

2444
02:12:05,560 --> 02:12:07,640
Speaker 4: Stream how You, Yeah, no it's.

2445
02:12:07,680 --> 02:12:08,080
Speaker 1: Good it's.

2446
02:12:08,200 --> 02:12:11,440
Speaker 2: FUN i wasn't expecting it to be this, long but,

2447
02:12:12,480 --> 02:12:15,520
Speaker 2: nobody it's. Good it's, fun fun. Vibes the freestyle kind

2448
02:12:15,560 --> 02:12:19,680
Speaker 2: of made it worth, it you? Know? Yeah?

2449
02:12:20,360 --> 02:12:20,680
Speaker 4: Yeah we?

2450
02:12:20,800 --> 02:12:22,880
Speaker 1: Are are we when we whenever we do our little?

2451
02:12:23,360 --> 02:12:26,480
Speaker 1: Wheelspins it's pretty, fun very. Fun all, right let's get into.

2452
02:12:26,560 --> 02:12:29,440
Speaker 1: This next, door get into. It someone, said, y'all don't be. Mean,

2453
02:12:29,640 --> 02:12:32,400
Speaker 1: yeah we try to best do. IT i want you

2454
02:12:32,440 --> 02:12:35,360
Speaker 1: guys to send in you doing freestyle, rap And i'll

2455
02:12:35,480 --> 02:12:38,760
Speaker 1: know if it's pre if it's pre, done if you

2456
02:12:38,800 --> 02:12:42,360
Speaker 1: wrote that. Down IF i had time to do a real,

2457
02:12:42,440 --> 02:12:43,440
Speaker 1: Rap i'd freaking kill.

2458
02:12:43,480 --> 02:12:47,520
Speaker 4: IT i went to school for, Poetry that's what freestyle is. Called.

2459
02:12:48,120 --> 02:12:50,080
Speaker 1: Name let's get into.

2460
02:12:50,120 --> 02:12:50,160
Speaker 2: It.

2461
02:12:50,240 --> 02:12:52,760
Speaker 1: Though AM i the a hole for asking my ex

2462
02:12:52,840 --> 02:12:55,880
Speaker 1: girlfriend to pay off the accounts she opened in my?

2463
02:12:56,080 --> 02:13:00,240
Speaker 1: Name doesn't sound like IT i would say it's. NOT

2464
02:13:00,640 --> 02:13:03,840
Speaker 1: i don't think. Not and by the, way you can

2465
02:13:04,040 --> 02:13:09,480
Speaker 1: join us live on YouTube every week to at three

2466
02:13:09,520 --> 02:13:16,120
Speaker 1: pm just sefic standard. Time, yeah just click that in my.

2467
02:13:16,280 --> 02:13:23,120
Speaker 1: Profile it's just. You oh, NO i lost the, story.

2468
02:13:23,600 --> 02:13:25,760
Speaker 1: Eyelid and this is to answer the question of what

2469
02:13:25,880 --> 02:13:28,960
Speaker 1: is unreasonable behavior from an Ex and this is from

2470
02:13:29,200 --> 02:13:32,520
Speaker 1: far from their ninety Three i'm sort of lost on

2471
02:13:32,680 --> 02:13:36,000
Speaker 1: what to do. Here my ex girlfriend ran up a

2472
02:13:36,080 --> 02:13:41,080
Speaker 1: little under two thousand dollars in electric and internet. Charges.

2473
02:13:44,080 --> 02:13:46,720
Speaker 1: Damn from WHAT i can, tell she opened the accounts

2474
02:13:46,840 --> 02:13:49,720
Speaker 1: using my name and social security number about a year

2475
02:13:49,880 --> 02:13:53,960
Speaker 1: after we broke. Up couldn't have given Social why does

2476
02:13:54,000 --> 02:13:56,120
Speaker 1: she have your social? Security the only person who has

2477
02:13:56,160 --> 02:13:59,200
Speaker 1: my social security is my? Mom, yeah my. Dad, ALSO

2478
02:13:59,200 --> 02:14:01,480
Speaker 1: i kind of wonder really quick about all the people

2479
02:14:01,520 --> 02:14:03,680
Speaker 1: that were supposed to send her social securities. To, YEAH i,

2480
02:14:03,720 --> 02:14:05,600
Speaker 1: know you kind of have to just. Trust, yeah you're

2481
02:14:05,680 --> 02:14:08,720
Speaker 1: like kid's for a. Job only people have my social.

2482
02:14:08,720 --> 02:14:10,400
Speaker 1: Security damn them don't even have.

2483
02:14:10,480 --> 02:14:11,120
Speaker 4: Mine they have?

2484
02:14:11,240 --> 02:14:13,200
Speaker 1: Mine you had to give it to?

2485
02:14:13,320 --> 02:14:14,880
Speaker 4: Them what they never?

2486
02:14:15,040 --> 02:14:20,560
Speaker 1: ASKED i haven't spoken with her that that entire, year

2487
02:14:20,680 --> 02:14:25,200
Speaker 1: and she never had permission to do. THIS i only

2488
02:14:25,280 --> 02:14:27,800
Speaker 1: found out about the accounts BECAUSE i went to buy

2489
02:14:27,880 --> 02:14:30,839
Speaker 1: a car a few weeks. Ago in the finance department

2490
02:14:30,880 --> 02:14:33,440
Speaker 1: of the, dealership showed me a copy of my credit card.

2491
02:14:34,440 --> 02:14:37,560
Speaker 1: Report the interest RATE i was going to get was,

2492
02:14:37,800 --> 02:14:40,480
Speaker 1: terrible SO i held. Off they told me my rate

2493
02:14:40,520 --> 02:14:43,320
Speaker 1: would drop significantly ONCE i got the accounts off my credit.

2494
02:14:43,360 --> 02:14:46,240
Speaker 1: REPORT i ended up challenging both accounts with all of

2495
02:14:46,320 --> 02:14:48,640
Speaker 1: the credit, bureaus but none of them took it, off

2496
02:14:48,920 --> 02:14:54,240
Speaker 1: all saying they needed more. INFORMATION i left my ex

2497
02:14:54,400 --> 02:14:57,600
Speaker 1: several voicemails telling her she needed to contact the companies

2498
02:14:57,640 --> 02:15:01,120
Speaker 1: and confirm she opened the. Accounts she finally left me

2499
02:15:01,160 --> 02:15:04,560
Speaker 1: a voice stim a voicemail telling me to grow up

2500
02:15:05,080 --> 02:15:08,120
Speaker 1: and just pay the accounts off because when we broke

2501
02:15:08,200 --> 02:15:11,120
Speaker 1: up she had to leave them my. House that's so.

2502
02:15:11,320 --> 02:15:17,960
Speaker 1: Funny grow, UP i stole your. Money grow. UP i

2503
02:15:18,120 --> 02:15:20,080
Speaker 1: finally got to talk with her on the phone and

2504
02:15:20,200 --> 02:15:23,680
Speaker 1: said that wasn't my, problem and she just, said looks

2505
02:15:23,760 --> 02:15:28,280
Speaker 1: like it is your problem and hung. Up haven't talked

2506
02:15:28,280 --> 02:15:30,360
Speaker 1: with her. Since kind of stuck him on to do.

2507
02:15:30,480 --> 02:15:33,320
Speaker 1: Now she has no intention of taking responsibility for the

2508
02:15:33,400 --> 02:15:37,480
Speaker 1: bills and there is an. Update, YEAH i, mean what

2509
02:15:37,560 --> 02:15:40,480
Speaker 1: do you. DO i think you just gotta like suck it. Up,

2510
02:15:41,200 --> 02:15:44,240
Speaker 1: YEAH i THINK i think he could. LAWSUIT i was gonna,

2511
02:15:44,240 --> 02:15:46,120
Speaker 1: say you go to like small claims court or.

2512
02:15:46,160 --> 02:15:52,400
Speaker 2: WHATEVER i mean obviously not The, yeah it Just i'm,

2513
02:15:52,520 --> 02:15:56,720
Speaker 2: like how does why would you she have his Social.

2514
02:15:56,920 --> 02:15:58,920
Speaker 1: That's What i'm Asking what when did? He how did

2515
02:15:58,960 --> 02:16:00,680
Speaker 1: she get? It did she you give it to? HIM

2516
02:16:01,040 --> 02:16:01,840
Speaker 1: i mean did he give it to?

2517
02:16:01,840 --> 02:16:01,960
Speaker 4: Her?

2518
02:16:03,040 --> 02:16:07,880
Speaker 1: Yeah this is this is. Yeah, yeah NOT goodlej, Says.

2519
02:16:07,960 --> 02:16:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah the solution is definitely a police. Report and thank

2520
02:16:11,200 --> 02:16:15,480
Speaker 1: you For Drick locknick for another hundred. Bucks where do

2521
02:16:15,560 --> 02:16:18,440
Speaker 1: you keep? Reading thank you so much, Though crowns of

2522
02:16:18,440 --> 02:16:22,280
Speaker 1: the Jat crowns of The job. Update SO i took

2523
02:16:22,360 --> 02:16:24,760
Speaker 1: the advice of several people from the last thread AND

2524
02:16:24,880 --> 02:16:28,360
Speaker 1: i went to the, police just like you guys, said oh,

2525
02:16:28,440 --> 02:16:31,760
Speaker 1: wow and Miss jabers, says, no it's, fraud it's. Illegal

2526
02:16:32,760 --> 02:16:35,640
Speaker 1: i'm just imagining like the redditors, like, Oh he's, like,

2527
02:16:35,680 --> 02:16:37,160
Speaker 1: gosh SHOULD i just do? Nothing and they're, like, no,

2528
02:16:37,480 --> 02:16:42,520
Speaker 1: no that's, fine do. SOMETHING i made the report and

2529
02:16:42,600 --> 02:16:45,880
Speaker 1: they were pretty, helpful, okay telling me exactly WHAT i

2530
02:16:45,959 --> 02:16:48,040
Speaker 1: needed to say to the credit bureaus to get the

2531
02:16:48,040 --> 02:16:52,240
Speaker 1: accounts off of my credit. Report it worked. Perfectly both

2532
02:16:52,280 --> 02:16:54,160
Speaker 1: of the accounts came off of my credit and my

2533
02:16:54,280 --> 02:16:58,720
Speaker 1: score shot. Up whoo. WHAT i went ahead and got

2534
02:16:58,760 --> 02:17:00,480
Speaker 1: my new car at the end Of, june which was

2535
02:17:00,600 --> 02:17:06,080
Speaker 1: awesome SINCE i really needed. It that's. Amazing what was

2536
02:17:06,560 --> 02:17:11,000
Speaker 1: probably inferred in the last post but not explicitly, stated

2537
02:17:11,160 --> 02:17:13,440
Speaker 1: was that my ex is crazy and so is her.

2538
02:17:13,480 --> 02:17:17,920
Speaker 1: Family like if you, didn't if you, Guys, YEAH i

2539
02:17:18,000 --> 02:17:20,680
Speaker 1: got a phone call from the same police Department saturday

2540
02:17:20,760 --> 02:17:24,920
Speaker 1: night WHEN i was out of. Town multiple people had

2541
02:17:24,959 --> 02:17:27,160
Speaker 1: broken out of every window of my new car and

2542
02:17:27,240 --> 02:17:29,600
Speaker 1: almost every window of my. House what.

2543
02:17:31,560 --> 02:17:31,600
Speaker 2: That.

2544
02:17:32,000 --> 02:17:35,400
Speaker 1: Sucks my neighbor saw what was happening and called nine

2545
02:17:35,400 --> 02:17:38,160
Speaker 1: to one. One the police arrived and ended up catching

2546
02:17:38,240 --> 02:17:41,000
Speaker 1: one of the two breaking. Windows the other one jumped

2547
02:17:41,000 --> 02:17:46,360
Speaker 1: into a car conspiracy THEORY x and her Family oh,

2548
02:17:46,440 --> 02:17:53,360
Speaker 1: yeah yeah he dies d. Wow the other one jumped

2549
02:17:53,360 --> 02:17:56,280
Speaker 1: into a car which just so happened to be the exact, make,

2550
02:17:56,560 --> 02:18:00,600
Speaker 1: model and color of my ex's. Vehicle but, away maybe

2551
02:18:00,600 --> 02:18:03,680
Speaker 1: it's a, coincidence. Damn, maybe or maybe it's. Not maybe

2552
02:18:03,720 --> 02:18:08,480
Speaker 1: it's just maybe lean. Um they tried to pull it,

2553
02:18:08,560 --> 02:18:11,040
Speaker 1: over but it took. Off and they stopped chasing after

2554
02:18:11,120 --> 02:18:13,920
Speaker 1: a couple of. Blocks according to the, police there was

2555
02:18:13,959 --> 02:18:17,280
Speaker 1: a piece of paper in the, window probably a FAKE temp.

2556
02:18:17,400 --> 02:18:21,040
Speaker 1: Tag the guy who was arrested is a friend of

2557
02:18:21,160 --> 02:18:26,160
Speaker 1: my ex's. BROTHER i got to see the neighbor's surveillance

2558
02:18:26,160 --> 02:18:29,320
Speaker 1: footage and two people got, out go up to my

2559
02:18:29,440 --> 02:18:32,520
Speaker 1: car and start breaking the. Windows it's not good enough

2560
02:18:32,600 --> 02:18:37,440
Speaker 1: to quality to make an id based based on their,

2561
02:18:37,480 --> 02:18:40,400
Speaker 1: faces but the clothes matched the ones they, caught who

2562
02:18:40,520 --> 02:18:43,320
Speaker 1: also had a torch slider with. Him they were literally

2563
02:18:43,400 --> 02:18:46,560
Speaker 1: busting out every individual block window for my basement, windows

2564
02:18:46,600 --> 02:18:50,320
Speaker 1: which is probably why they got. Caught they were there

2565
02:18:50,360 --> 02:18:54,040
Speaker 1: for about three minutes before the police showed. UP i

2566
02:18:54,280 --> 02:18:57,480
Speaker 1: was told my ex refused to speak with them and her,

2567
02:18:57,560 --> 02:18:59,959
Speaker 1: car which oh entered, car which was in the Dry

2568
02:19:00,000 --> 02:19:02,880
Speaker 1: i've had her normal plates on. It i'm sure she

2569
02:19:03,000 --> 02:19:05,480
Speaker 1: put them back on after she was. DONE i SAID

2570
02:19:05,520 --> 02:19:11,440
Speaker 1: i wanted the guy they arrested. Prosecuted the. Wow i'm

2571
02:19:11,520 --> 02:19:15,520
Speaker 1: sure he was released after about an hour and has

2572
02:19:15,560 --> 02:19:18,280
Speaker 1: a court date in a couple of. Weeks i'm literally

2573
02:19:18,360 --> 02:19:20,720
Speaker 1: scared for my life right. Now you need, it, yeah

2574
02:19:21,040 --> 02:19:24,119
Speaker 1: restraining order or. SOMETHING i have a company that came

2575
02:19:24,200 --> 02:19:28,080
Speaker 1: by and boarded up my house. Windows insurance is supposed

2576
02:19:28,080 --> 02:19:29,680
Speaker 1: to be coming out, today But i'm staying in a

2577
02:19:29,800 --> 02:19:31,280
Speaker 1: friend's house for the rest of the. WEEK i think

2578
02:19:31,320 --> 02:19:34,000
Speaker 1: that's a good. Idea i'm most likely going to sell my.

2579
02:19:34,120 --> 02:19:37,840
Speaker 1: House that. Sucks it's literally not worth it to. Me

2580
02:19:38,160 --> 02:19:39,920
Speaker 1: my bet is that the police questioned her about the

2581
02:19:39,920 --> 02:19:43,600
Speaker 1: accounts and she decided to get. Revenge my work is remote.

2582
02:19:43,640 --> 02:19:45,960
Speaker 1: Anyway i've been thinking about moving for a, bit BUT

2583
02:19:46,120 --> 02:19:48,960
Speaker 1: i state or two, away especially IF i rent for a,

2584
02:19:49,040 --> 02:19:54,000
Speaker 1: year should be. Good so, yeah there's definitely bad with

2585
02:19:54,120 --> 02:19:56,880
Speaker 1: the good in my. CASE i WISH i had caught it,

2586
02:19:57,000 --> 02:19:59,160
Speaker 1: sooner but it never crossed my mind to check my

2587
02:19:59,240 --> 02:20:02,200
Speaker 1: credit every so. Long done even with, Insurance i'm going

2588
02:20:02,280 --> 02:20:04,360
Speaker 1: to be out more than two thousand dollars due to

2589
02:20:04,400 --> 02:20:07,440
Speaker 1: the damage to my car ant, house and the guy

2590
02:20:07,520 --> 02:20:10,320
Speaker 1: they caught looks to be in even worse financial shape

2591
02:20:10,520 --> 02:20:14,920
Speaker 1: than my Ex lessons learned here one check your credit

2592
02:20:15,160 --> 02:20:19,520
Speaker 1: and two don't stick it in. Crazy and again this

2593
02:20:19,520 --> 02:20:22,280
Speaker 1: sustantial question of what is unreasonable behavior from AN x

2594
02:20:22,879 --> 02:20:28,000
Speaker 1: that's that's unreasonable suns and let me just say like say.

2595
02:20:28,040 --> 02:20:30,800
Speaker 2: IT i initially WHEN i heard, THIS i was, like,

2596
02:20:30,959 --> 02:20:33,720
Speaker 2: oh like, whatever she ran up the bill like, letter

2597
02:20:33,879 --> 02:20:34,760
Speaker 2: just have it and like move.

2598
02:20:34,840 --> 02:20:37,560
Speaker 1: On, yeah but NOW i get. It, yeah it was

2599
02:20:37,680 --> 02:20:41,360
Speaker 1: after the. Relationship she stole his information and it was

2600
02:20:41,400 --> 02:20:44,039
Speaker 1: still buying. Stuff, yeah and then had people break into

2601
02:20:44,080 --> 02:20:46,800
Speaker 1: his car and all this stuff in the. House, yeah

2602
02:20:47,160 --> 02:20:49,480
Speaker 1: and is a really not great? Person is a really

2603
02:20:49,600 --> 02:20:55,040
Speaker 1: not great? Person but something happened WHILE i was reading that.

2604
02:20:55,080 --> 02:21:00,520
Speaker 1: STORY a lot of, that, Dude Frederick. LOCKE i THINK

2605
02:21:00,520 --> 02:21:02,400
Speaker 1: i already said. That but thank you again for the hundred,

2606
02:21:02,440 --> 02:21:09,080
Speaker 1: Bucks Frederick. Locknik thank you for the fifty. Bucks, SORRY

2607
02:21:09,120 --> 02:21:13,800
Speaker 1: i don't know what that, Means Frederick Frederick FREDERICK. Z

2608
02:21:13,879 --> 02:21:16,600
Speaker 1: thank you for celebrating two months of. Membership american Social

2609
02:21:16,680 --> 02:21:19,920
Speaker 1: security number doesn't sound secure at. All how are you

2610
02:21:20,000 --> 02:21:23,840
Speaker 1: able to open accounts under another person's? NUMBER i don't really.

2611
02:21:23,959 --> 02:21:29,640
Speaker 1: Understand not. Good, umm, yeah elay in the main. Pain

2612
02:21:29,680 --> 02:21:31,480
Speaker 1: thank you for the two. Bucks this is my first

2613
02:21:31,560 --> 02:21:33,560
Speaker 1: life And i'm GLAD i saw the. Freestyle what a

2614
02:21:34,280 --> 02:21:39,879
Speaker 1: what a smattering of reactions about that? FREESTYLE i, Know Frederick,

2615
02:21:40,000 --> 02:21:44,360
Speaker 1: locknick thank you for the twenty. Bucks, Jeez, louise you're

2616
02:21:44,400 --> 02:21:48,800
Speaker 1: an icon and a star icon and a, king more. Crowns,

2617
02:21:48,840 --> 02:21:54,760
Speaker 1: everyone just keep, crowns keep. Crowning April La, master thank

2618
02:21:54,800 --> 02:21:57,280
Speaker 1: you for the two. Bucks And Kimberly, fine thank you

2619
02:21:57,360 --> 02:22:00,360
Speaker 1: for the ten. Bucks Is riley's Dand bali of in?

2620
02:22:00,480 --> 02:22:03,560
Speaker 1: Gravity does he think the flat earth? Spins trying to

2621
02:22:03,600 --> 02:22:06,000
Speaker 1: figure out if we're dealing with an unrolled condom style

2622
02:22:06,160 --> 02:22:12,519
Speaker 1: South pole liquid barrier versus marry go around, rules unruled

2623
02:22:12,640 --> 02:22:20,760
Speaker 1: condom Styles South, Okay so, like, oh there we go like,

2624
02:22:20,879 --> 02:22:23,040
Speaker 1: that like it's, moving like it's so IT'S i don't

2625
02:22:23,080 --> 02:22:28,200
Speaker 1: have anything to show you a visual Representation i'm. Imagining

2626
02:22:28,360 --> 02:22:32,800
Speaker 1: will we have like just a circle and it's flat

2627
02:22:33,600 --> 02:22:41,200
Speaker 1: okay and South pole liquid. BARRIER i don't. UNDERSTAND i don't.

2628
02:22:41,240 --> 02:22:47,680
Speaker 1: KNOW i don't. UNDERSTAND i don't. Understand but, yeah that

2629
02:22:47,879 --> 02:22:50,680
Speaker 1: was the end of that. Story, boy oh, boy check

2630
02:22:50,680 --> 02:22:54,480
Speaker 1: your credit, man check your. Credit. Yeah sometimes SOMETIMES i

2631
02:22:54,720 --> 02:22:57,320
Speaker 1: guess your ex girlfriend steals from. You sometimes The french

2632
02:22:57,400 --> 02:22:57,920
Speaker 1: steal from.

2633
02:22:57,920 --> 02:22:58,520
Speaker 2: You The.

2634
02:22:58,640 --> 02:23:03,160
Speaker 1: French, yeah they oh for, me what? Happened, oh they

2635
02:23:03,320 --> 02:23:05,800
Speaker 1: just uh somehow they got my credit card and they

2636
02:23:06,040 --> 02:23:07,880
Speaker 1: put some. Charges BUT i GOT i got all the money.

2637
02:23:07,879 --> 02:23:12,080
Speaker 1: Back so AND i like noticed right away it was

2638
02:23:12,160 --> 02:23:14,760
Speaker 1: really actually coincidental BECAUSE i never used my credit, card

2639
02:23:14,879 --> 02:23:17,760
Speaker 1: SO i don't often look at my. Account AND i was,

2640
02:23:17,879 --> 02:23:19,840
Speaker 1: like you, KNOW i Just i'll just check make. Sure,

2641
02:23:20,320 --> 02:23:22,240
Speaker 1: yeah and THEN i saw it THAT i got Charg.

2642
02:23:23,360 --> 02:23:25,240
Speaker 1: Yeah it was like it was, LIKE.

2643
02:23:27,200 --> 02:23:27,440
Speaker 4: I don't.

2644
02:23:27,480 --> 02:23:29,280
Speaker 1: KNOW i said something like rue De, peris you. KNOW

2645
02:23:29,280 --> 02:23:31,560
Speaker 1: i was, like, Well i'm not In. Paris and then

2646
02:23:32,080 --> 02:23:33,800
Speaker 1: and THEN i GOT i called my bank and they were,

2647
02:23:33,879 --> 02:23:35,720
Speaker 1: like well did you do like did you make these?

2648
02:23:35,800 --> 02:23:37,600
Speaker 1: Charges AND i was like, no, no they're From. Paris,

2649
02:23:37,720 --> 02:23:43,000
Speaker 1: Yeah tina m dot thank you for the twenty gifted.

2650
02:23:43,280 --> 02:23:47,600
Speaker 1: Memberships whoo everyone who got a membership right now From

2651
02:23:47,640 --> 02:23:51,760
Speaker 1: Tina i'm dot say thank, you thank, You, mama thank, You,

2652
02:23:51,879 --> 02:23:58,440
Speaker 1: mama mama like the. Grandma remember that story from last?

2653
02:23:58,480 --> 02:24:04,440
Speaker 1: Week oh what was her? Name Joe, Mama Joe. Mama,

2654
02:24:06,120 --> 02:24:12,080
Speaker 1: yeah alrighty you ready to read another. Story sam just

2655
02:24:12,200 --> 02:24:17,160
Speaker 1: texted us and, said you're still, live, yop hope you're

2656
02:24:17,160 --> 02:24:20,840
Speaker 1: having fun in the? Premiere uh quote.

2657
02:24:22,840 --> 02:24:26,359
Speaker 2: At the premiere and then a middle, finger, yeah.

2658
02:24:29,800 --> 02:24:40,160
Speaker 1: Middle, finger and then you're. Cold Really i'm hot, Too i'm.

2659
02:24:40,240 --> 02:24:47,640
Speaker 1: Perfect that's not. True my face was read when we did.

2660
02:24:48,720 --> 02:24:54,360
Speaker 1: Freestyle but it's it's back to its normal alor what's

2661
02:24:54,720 --> 02:25:00,160
Speaker 1: is that the right? Word what's power means power? Her,

2662
02:25:01,720 --> 02:25:02,600
Speaker 1: no that's not even a.

2663
02:25:02,640 --> 02:25:02,840
Speaker 4: Word.

2664
02:25:02,959 --> 02:25:03,720
Speaker 1: Pallor oh it is?

2665
02:25:04,320 --> 02:25:04,879
Speaker 4: Ava.

2666
02:25:07,120 --> 02:25:14,879
Speaker 1: Hi oh so? Cute oh. Cute dogs are so. CUTE

2667
02:25:15,120 --> 02:25:19,920
Speaker 1: i love, Them. Pie you just need to Go ava

2668
02:25:20,480 --> 02:25:23,480
Speaker 1: and then she'll maybe come to. You oh, YEAH i,

2669
02:25:23,560 --> 02:25:26,680
Speaker 1: worked good.

2670
02:25:26,760 --> 02:25:27,040
Speaker 6: Girl.

2671
02:25:28,080 --> 02:25:35,199
Speaker 1: Yeah oh such A oh she's such a sweet pep.

2672
02:25:35,640 --> 02:25:38,240
Speaker 2: It somebody, said like like dogs don't know their, names

2673
02:25:38,280 --> 02:25:41,840
Speaker 2: they just know the like the. Pitch eva knows her name.

2674
02:25:41,879 --> 02:25:44,440
Speaker 2: Though it's very. Smart, yeah she's she's very.

2675
02:25:44,440 --> 02:25:49,880
Speaker 1: Smart she knows her. Name, Yeah, eva she looked at. Me,

2676
02:25:50,120 --> 02:25:53,960
Speaker 1: yeah she does know Her you're so. Pretty she knows

2677
02:25:54,240 --> 02:25:57,240
Speaker 1: she's so. Cute, okay, sorry what is the pallor? Face

2678
02:25:57,760 --> 02:25:59,880
Speaker 1: pale and? Unhealthy, okay that's not WHAT i mean then.

2679
02:26:01,240 --> 02:26:04,160
Speaker 1: Anyway OH i was, Right. Katie lina's power is the

2680
02:26:04,200 --> 02:26:06,400
Speaker 1: appearance of your. SKIN i WAS i used it. Correctly

2681
02:26:06,600 --> 02:26:11,760
Speaker 1: oh my, god you're so so cute. Now oh it's

2682
02:26:11,840 --> 02:26:13,920
Speaker 1: just sweety. PIE i don't know how long you have,

2683
02:26:14,040 --> 02:26:21,480
Speaker 1: her BUT i want her. Forever, okay What, okay someone

2684
02:26:21,520 --> 02:26:24,039
Speaker 1: needs to update are the the notion page.

2685
02:26:25,600 --> 02:26:25,880
Speaker 4: Thirty?

2686
02:26:25,920 --> 02:26:33,800
Speaker 1: Four uh oh it's. Gone i'm really trying to get, there,

2687
02:26:33,879 --> 02:26:39,720
Speaker 1: man it's just you, KNOW I i understand my my

2688
02:26:39,840 --> 02:26:43,959
Speaker 1: thing just keeps. Guys, Okay i'm, Ready i'm, Ready i'm.

2689
02:26:43,959 --> 02:26:46,960
Speaker 1: Ready i'm. Ready, okay let's do. It AM i the

2690
02:26:47,080 --> 02:26:49,680
Speaker 1: a hole for not asking my father to walk me

2691
02:26:49,840 --> 02:26:50,520
Speaker 1: down the? Aisle?

2692
02:26:51,800 --> 02:26:52,280
Speaker 4: Wait can you do?

2693
02:26:52,360 --> 02:26:53,320
Speaker 2: That all? Right?

2694
02:26:53,360 --> 02:26:55,360
Speaker 1: Wait actually, Wait i'm gonna do the thing before BECAUSE

2695
02:26:55,360 --> 02:26:56,840
Speaker 1: i think people wanted me to do the thing BEFORE

2696
02:26:56,959 --> 02:26:59,240
Speaker 1: i read the. Title, Okay by the, way you can

2697
02:26:59,320 --> 02:27:03,480
Speaker 1: join us live on YouTube every weekday at three Pm

2698
02:27:04,080 --> 02:27:10,480
Speaker 1: Pacific standard. Time is just what's another? River tap, click

2699
02:27:10,959 --> 02:27:15,000
Speaker 1: just click that little. Profile just pop that little, profile,

2700
02:27:15,440 --> 02:27:20,240
Speaker 1: poppet pop, it lock, it and let's get into the.

2701
02:27:20,280 --> 02:27:22,720
Speaker 1: Story AM i the a hole for not asking my

2702
02:27:22,840 --> 02:27:25,960
Speaker 1: father to walk me down the? Aisle and this just

2703
02:27:26,040 --> 02:27:28,160
Speaker 1: ans the question of how do you support your queer

2704
02:27:28,200 --> 02:27:32,240
Speaker 1: friends and? Family So Mini boss SAYS, i twenty seven,

2705
02:27:32,320 --> 02:27:35,600
Speaker 1: female am engaged planning to get married to my, partner

2706
02:27:35,760 --> 02:27:39,000
Speaker 1: thirty female of three years next. Year SINCE i came

2707
02:27:39,040 --> 02:27:42,160
Speaker 1: out as by WHEN i was, fifteen my dad hasn't

2708
02:27:42,240 --> 02:27:45,320
Speaker 1: been supportive of. Me he was upset WHEN i first

2709
02:27:45,360 --> 02:27:47,720
Speaker 1: told him about my fiance and has made it clear

2710
02:27:47,920 --> 02:27:50,320
Speaker 1: he doesn't approve of me being with a. Woman he's

2711
02:27:50,560 --> 02:27:52,640
Speaker 1: very distant WHEN i take her to my parents' home for,

2712
02:27:52,720 --> 02:27:55,640
Speaker 1: dinner won't talk to her when making conversation at the

2713
02:27:55,640 --> 02:27:58,520
Speaker 1: dinner table when my fiance isn't. Around he's made a

2714
02:27:58,560 --> 02:28:01,600
Speaker 1: lot of subtle cutting comments about her slash her, relationship

2715
02:28:02,080 --> 02:28:04,720
Speaker 1: despite me telling him to back. Off he makes it

2716
02:28:04,959 --> 02:28:08,000
Speaker 1: very clear in general that he doesn't see her as. Family, oh,

2717
02:28:08,840 --> 02:28:12,199
Speaker 1: basically he's been casually homophobic my entire, life.

2718
02:28:12,280 --> 02:28:12,640
Speaker 7: You know the.

2719
02:28:12,720 --> 02:28:16,400
Speaker 1: Type he's not providing any financial support for the, wedding

2720
02:28:16,879 --> 02:28:19,200
Speaker 1: and WHEN i asked if he would be attending the,

2721
02:28:19,240 --> 02:28:22,480
Speaker 1: wedding he just gave me a snide we'll. See SO

2722
02:28:22,840 --> 02:28:26,360
Speaker 1: i honestly wasn't even expecting he would turn up raw

2723
02:28:26,480 --> 02:28:28,560
Speaker 1: and kimberly, fine says Ask, rob WHO i think was

2724
02:28:28,840 --> 02:28:33,560
Speaker 1: another stepfather from an old story who was. Great that's so, Hurts,

2725
02:28:33,640 --> 02:28:35,680
Speaker 1: yeah that's just. HURT i just don't understand why you

2726
02:28:35,720 --> 02:28:38,760
Speaker 1: would sacrifice your relationship with your child over you, know

2727
02:28:39,440 --> 02:28:39,760
Speaker 1: who they.

2728
02:28:40,000 --> 02:28:43,040
Speaker 2: Love but also even when asking if you're going to

2729
02:28:43,080 --> 02:28:45,400
Speaker 2: be there and you say we'll, see that is like

2730
02:28:45,600 --> 02:28:46,760
Speaker 2: very manipulative and not.

2731
02:28:46,920 --> 02:28:50,680
Speaker 1: Cool part of her intended wedding ceremony will involve me

2732
02:28:50,800 --> 02:28:53,920
Speaker 1: being walked down the aisle and given. AWAY i enjoy

2733
02:28:54,080 --> 02:28:56,560
Speaker 1: a lot of the classic wedding, traditions and that's WHEN

2734
02:28:56,600 --> 02:28:59,520
Speaker 1: i really want to carry. OUT i assumed my dad

2735
02:28:59,600 --> 02:29:02,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to walk me down the. Aisle to be,

2736
02:29:02,120 --> 02:29:04,600
Speaker 1: HONEST i don't want him to, Either SO i asked

2737
02:29:04,640 --> 02:29:07,840
Speaker 1: a male friend fifty eight male, instead one week. Ago

2738
02:29:08,840 --> 02:29:11,600
Speaker 1: this man has known me for almost half of my.

2739
02:29:11,720 --> 02:29:14,680
Speaker 1: Life he's like a mentor to me and honestly has

2740
02:29:14,760 --> 02:29:16,800
Speaker 1: been been more of a father figure to me than

2741
02:29:16,840 --> 02:29:19,480
Speaker 1: my actual dad. HAS i love him like a paternal.

2742
02:29:19,520 --> 02:29:22,600
Speaker 1: Figure we met WHEN i was. Sixteen he was teaching

2743
02:29:22,640 --> 02:29:24,920
Speaker 1: and actings CLASS i signed up. For we both work in.

2744
02:29:25,000 --> 02:29:28,199
Speaker 1: Theater he's provided lots of emotional support over the years

2745
02:29:28,280 --> 02:29:31,480
Speaker 1: and been openly supportive of my relationship from the. Start

2746
02:29:32,320 --> 02:29:34,840
Speaker 1: he has two sons around my age and has said

2747
02:29:34,920 --> 02:29:37,440
Speaker 1: before he sees me a bit like the daughter he never.

2748
02:29:37,560 --> 02:29:40,080
Speaker 1: Had he said he'd be honored to give me. Away

2749
02:29:40,520 --> 02:29:43,480
Speaker 1: oh oh that's so. Sweet that's. Nice, YEAH i love

2750
02:29:43,520 --> 02:29:45,600
Speaker 1: AND i. Have you, know you find found family when,

2751
02:29:45,680 --> 02:29:49,080
Speaker 1: yeah you, know your biological family kind of sins, yeah

2752
02:29:49,640 --> 02:29:52,440
Speaker 1: and isn't stepping up to that. Role my dad learned

2753
02:29:52,440 --> 02:29:56,640
Speaker 1: of this fact. Recently i'm not sure how he's. Furious

2754
02:29:57,000 --> 02:29:59,880
Speaker 1: what a. Hypocrite, yeah he, Says i'm undermining his authority

2755
02:30:00,000 --> 02:30:02,120
Speaker 1: as a parent and making him look like an ale

2756
02:30:02,720 --> 02:30:06,119
Speaker 1: lash fool to everyone who attends the. Wedding no one's

2757
02:30:06,200 --> 02:30:08,560
Speaker 1: making you look like. That, no you just are an a.

2758
02:30:08,720 --> 02:30:10,920
Speaker 1: Hole is an a, hole and you can't change. That

2759
02:30:12,800 --> 02:30:14,920
Speaker 1: if and IF i insist on going through with, this

2760
02:30:15,080 --> 02:30:17,840
Speaker 1: he won't attend at. All you already said that you

2761
02:30:18,040 --> 02:30:22,320
Speaker 1: weren't gonna you, said we'll. See. Yeah, yeah there's no

2762
02:30:22,560 --> 02:30:24,600
Speaker 1: way he's going to sit at a table and watch

2763
02:30:24,640 --> 02:30:28,000
Speaker 1: some other man get me. Away he's. PISSED i didn't

2764
02:30:28,040 --> 02:30:30,440
Speaker 1: ask him after he said. THAT i asked if he

2765
02:30:30,480 --> 02:30:33,440
Speaker 1: would have said. Yes he dodged the question and yelled

2766
02:30:33,480 --> 02:30:36,520
Speaker 1: at me and eventually hung up on. ME i ADMIT

2767
02:30:36,640 --> 02:30:39,520
Speaker 1: i didn't even consider asking. HIM i honestly didn't see

2768
02:30:39,520 --> 02:30:41,880
Speaker 1: the need. TO i guess it'll be embarrassing for my

2769
02:30:41,959 --> 02:30:44,880
Speaker 1: dad if he, Comes but considering his behavior towards me

2770
02:30:44,959 --> 02:30:47,440
Speaker 1: and my fiance over the course of the, RELATIONSHIP i

2771
02:30:47,520 --> 02:30:51,000
Speaker 1: don't FIND i don't feel like he's justified to make this.

2772
02:30:51,200 --> 02:30:54,040
Speaker 1: Demand AM i the a hole for not asking my

2773
02:30:54,160 --> 02:30:57,200
Speaker 1: actual dad to walk me down the? Aisle and there

2774
02:30:57,400 --> 02:31:00,800
Speaker 1: is an? Update BUT i not the a hole at,

2775
02:31:00,800 --> 02:31:01,360
Speaker 1: all not the.

2776
02:31:01,440 --> 02:31:04,280
Speaker 2: AHLE i think, again, like your wedding is your, day

2777
02:31:04,400 --> 02:31:07,199
Speaker 2: it's your, life grown, adult.

2778
02:31:06,879 --> 02:31:09,000
Speaker 1: And you should have people there who are supporting, you

2779
02:31:10,200 --> 02:31:12,520
Speaker 1: especially who you. Are, yeah you don't want. One you

2780
02:31:12,560 --> 02:31:17,280
Speaker 1: don't want people like walking down the aisle or even

2781
02:31:17,520 --> 02:31:20,720
Speaker 1: at the wedding who are actively undermining your relationship and

2782
02:31:20,800 --> 02:31:23,640
Speaker 1: saying your relationship doesn't even? Count, yeah like why would

2783
02:31:23,680 --> 02:31:24,320
Speaker 1: you want that at the?

2784
02:31:24,360 --> 02:31:27,480
Speaker 2: Wedding And i'm really, Yeah i'm standing by the fact

2785
02:31:27,480 --> 02:31:30,080
Speaker 2: that if, so IF i asked my parent like are

2786
02:31:30,120 --> 02:31:31,240
Speaker 2: you going to be at the wedding and they were,

2787
02:31:31,280 --> 02:31:33,840
Speaker 2: like we'll, SEE i would be, like if YOU i

2788
02:31:33,879 --> 02:31:36,240
Speaker 2: don't even want you, There no you're. Not you're uninvited

2789
02:31:36,320 --> 02:31:41,320
Speaker 2: now yeah we'll, See we'll see you're. Uninvited yeah, yeah,

2790
02:31:41,400 --> 02:31:45,920
Speaker 2: no completely just really, awful. Awful but there is an,

2791
02:31:46,000 --> 02:31:50,480
Speaker 2: update so maybe maybe something switched up and he ended

2792
02:31:50,560 --> 02:31:51,520
Speaker 2: up walking her down the.

2793
02:31:51,560 --> 02:31:57,360
Speaker 1: Aisle HI i posted here three years. AGO. Whoa this

2794
02:31:57,959 --> 02:32:01,720
Speaker 1: update is obviously long, over but things have been intense

2795
02:32:01,800 --> 02:32:04,200
Speaker 1: the past few, years SO i forgot about this account

2796
02:32:04,360 --> 02:32:07,039
Speaker 1: for a long, time and this is twenty twenty three.

2797
02:32:07,080 --> 02:32:10,560
Speaker 1: NOW i remembered it while browsing some other subreddits and

2798
02:32:10,600 --> 02:32:12,720
Speaker 1: THOUGHT i would share my update because things are better

2799
02:32:12,800 --> 02:32:14,960
Speaker 1: THAN i ever thought they could be back in twenty.

2800
02:32:15,040 --> 02:32:17,280
Speaker 1: Twenty do we know what the date was for that first?

2801
02:32:17,280 --> 02:32:19,480
Speaker 1: One was it PRE covid or?

2802
02:32:20,040 --> 02:32:22,840
Speaker 2: DURING i think it was righte beore or FOR? Covid yeah,

2803
02:32:22,879 --> 02:32:24,279
Speaker 2: right damn, okay.

2804
02:32:24,120 --> 02:32:29,400
Speaker 1: So that makes. Sense they're like a lot. Happened SO

2805
02:32:29,600 --> 02:32:32,440
Speaker 1: covid obviously scuppered our wedding. Plans it was meant to

2806
02:32:32,520 --> 02:32:35,320
Speaker 1: be In january twenty twenty, one but by that time

2807
02:32:35,440 --> 02:32:38,280
Speaker 1: our country still wasn't unstable enough condition to throw the

2808
02:32:38,320 --> 02:32:41,119
Speaker 1: big wedding with family and friends we. WANTED i also

2809
02:32:41,280 --> 02:32:44,440
Speaker 1: lost my job because my company, closed though we wanted

2810
02:32:44,440 --> 02:32:47,520
Speaker 1: to watch our. Budget my dad GOT covid early in the,

2811
02:32:47,600 --> 02:32:50,680
Speaker 1: pandemic and it was bad enough that he ended up in.

2812
02:32:51,080 --> 02:32:54,959
Speaker 1: Hospital visiting rules were very strict and only my mom

2813
02:32:55,000 --> 02:32:57,959
Speaker 1: could visit, him and they were both actually really scared

2814
02:32:58,440 --> 02:33:02,440
Speaker 1: he might. Die he, didn't but it affected him for

2815
02:33:02,520 --> 02:33:05,840
Speaker 1: a long. Time, afterward he started going back to church

2816
02:33:05,879 --> 02:33:07,840
Speaker 1: when things open up a. Bit both my parents Are,

2817
02:33:07,879 --> 02:33:10,160
Speaker 1: catholic but my mom was always the more religious. One

2818
02:33:10,280 --> 02:33:13,040
Speaker 1: he was a bit more, lapsed which is. Interesting you'd

2819
02:33:13,080 --> 02:33:18,240
Speaker 1: think it would. Be, yeah because he's. Homophobic, yeah and

2820
02:33:18,360 --> 02:33:21,720
Speaker 1: you guys will not believe. This my wife AND i were.

2821
02:33:21,840 --> 02:33:25,480
Speaker 1: Shocked that was what made him realize he was a

2822
02:33:25,600 --> 02:33:29,880
Speaker 1: bit of a homophobic ale going to church and back to.

2823
02:33:30,120 --> 02:33:36,480
Speaker 1: Church oh My, God well Praise. Jason the church he

2824
02:33:36,560 --> 02:33:39,040
Speaker 1: went to is quite progressive and as big on the,

2825
02:33:39,080 --> 02:33:42,080
Speaker 1: whole except everyone exactly as they, are because that is

2826
02:33:42,160 --> 02:33:45,279
Speaker 1: How god made, us and Only god can judge. Stuff

2827
02:33:45,440 --> 02:33:48,800
Speaker 1: and the almost dying FROM covid thing apparently gave him

2828
02:33:48,800 --> 02:33:52,720
Speaker 1: a different outlocked outlook on. Things, YEAH i can do

2829
02:33:52,840 --> 02:33:56,520
Speaker 1: that right, Experience it's, like what AM i? Doing i'm,

2830
02:33:56,800 --> 02:33:59,280
Speaker 1: yeah you, know destroying my own relationship with my. Daughter,

2831
02:33:59,560 --> 02:34:03,280
Speaker 1: yeah caught a long story. Short we started seeing each other.

2832
02:34:03,400 --> 02:34:06,560
Speaker 1: More we had a lot of long emotional. Talks he

2833
02:34:06,760 --> 02:34:09,440
Speaker 1: slowly started apologizing to me and my wife for being

2834
02:34:09,440 --> 02:34:12,320
Speaker 1: an a, hole including the wedding, thing and we are

2835
02:34:12,440 --> 02:34:15,680
Speaker 1: now closer than we have ever been SINCE i was a.

2836
02:34:15,720 --> 02:34:20,440
Speaker 1: Teenager that is, beautiful that's really. LOVELY i love this

2837
02:34:20,520 --> 02:34:22,960
Speaker 1: stories BECAUSE i, mean obviously he was an a hole

2838
02:34:23,120 --> 02:34:26,520
Speaker 1: and super, homophobic BUT i want people to. Grow we overcame. That,

2839
02:34:26,800 --> 02:34:30,200
Speaker 1: YEAH i love LIKE i love when we hear growth

2840
02:34:30,280 --> 02:34:34,360
Speaker 1: in these. Stories, yeah that's WHAT i. Want both he

2841
02:34:34,560 --> 02:34:37,640
Speaker 1: and my mentor were at our makeup wedding last. Year

2842
02:34:38,480 --> 02:34:40,840
Speaker 1: we ended up making the ceremony a lot less formal

2843
02:34:40,920 --> 02:34:43,280
Speaker 1: than planned BECAUSE i guess living THROUGH covid gave us

2844
02:34:43,320 --> 02:34:46,440
Speaker 1: different outlooks. Too my wife AND i just wanted to

2845
02:34:46,480 --> 02:34:49,800
Speaker 1: have a fun time and not to care too much

2846
02:34:49,840 --> 02:34:54,000
Speaker 1: about strict, traditions so we ended up walking down the

2847
02:34:54,000 --> 02:34:56,320
Speaker 1: aisle together while all of our family and friends sat

2848
02:34:56,440 --> 02:35:00,200
Speaker 1: and watched and cheered, lol and then they. Op he.

2849
02:35:00,280 --> 02:35:02,680
Speaker 1: Finishes things are. Good we have dinner with my parents

2850
02:35:02,680 --> 02:35:05,080
Speaker 1: at least once a month and it's. AWESOME i found

2851
02:35:05,120 --> 02:35:07,600
Speaker 1: a better job and we're more financially stable now and

2852
02:35:07,680 --> 02:35:11,160
Speaker 1: thinking about having. Kids i'm. Excited thanks AM i The

2853
02:35:11,200 --> 02:35:14,080
Speaker 1: able for the judgments and responses back, Then AND i

2854
02:35:14,120 --> 02:35:16,400
Speaker 1: GUESS i want to tell everyone that sometimes things work

2855
02:35:16,480 --> 02:35:19,680
Speaker 1: out even when you don't expect them. To life can surprise,

2856
02:35:19,760 --> 02:35:25,879
Speaker 1: you so look forward to those. Surprises that's a really sweet. Story, yeah.

2857
02:35:27,360 --> 02:35:27,400
Speaker 2: It.

2858
02:35:27,600 --> 02:35:30,119
Speaker 1: IS i love. That triggy, says so his daughter wasn't

2859
02:35:30,120 --> 02:35:32,640
Speaker 1: a good enough reason to stop being, homophobic which is

2860
02:35:32,680 --> 02:35:35,520
Speaker 1: a great. Point BUT i THINK i, think you, know

2861
02:35:36,640 --> 02:35:40,080
Speaker 1: just the, fact like the fact probably to, her the

2862
02:35:40,200 --> 02:35:43,720
Speaker 1: fact that he had this moment and finally, REALIZED i,

2863
02:35:43,800 --> 02:35:46,240
Speaker 1: think IS i, mean that's what we. Want he needed.

2864
02:35:46,320 --> 02:35:49,040
Speaker 2: Help, yeah seeing, that like his closed minded way of

2865
02:35:49,120 --> 02:35:50,680
Speaker 2: thinking was not is not.

2866
02:35:50,879 --> 02:35:53,520
Speaker 1: Fair. Yeah you, know like if all the homophobic people

2867
02:35:53,600 --> 02:35:56,000
Speaker 1: in the world SO i didn't really suddenly realize that

2868
02:35:56,080 --> 02:35:59,560
Speaker 1: they were like, WRONG i think everyone would be, like, wow.

2869
02:35:59,480 --> 02:36:00,640
Speaker 4: Yes what a.

2870
02:36:00,720 --> 02:36:04,279
Speaker 1: Win like obviously we would have preferred that they realized

2871
02:36:04,320 --> 02:36:06,800
Speaker 1: it from the get, go but you, know take your

2872
02:36:06,840 --> 02:36:09,560
Speaker 1: wins where you can get. THEM i think growth is

2873
02:36:09,640 --> 02:36:13,960
Speaker 1: always a thing that should be. Celebrated. Absolutely growth outweighs the.

2874
02:36:14,040 --> 02:36:17,160
Speaker 1: Past one consistent. Agreed if he, yeah if it was

2875
02:36:17,320 --> 02:36:19,920
Speaker 1: like Oh i'm sorry and he didn't show any, action,

2876
02:36:20,360 --> 02:36:22,800
Speaker 1: yeah that's a different. Story but it seems like he's

2877
02:36:22,840 --> 02:36:26,680
Speaker 1: actively trying to improve this. Relationship, yeah he's not taking the.

2878
02:36:26,720 --> 02:36:31,920
Speaker 1: Shortcuts that's. Amazing Hollie fraser, Says op's dad is. One

2879
02:36:32,920 --> 02:36:35,080
Speaker 1: she did the right, things asking someone else to walk

2880
02:36:35,120 --> 02:36:38,120
Speaker 1: her down the aisle she should drop her. Father she

2881
02:36:38,240 --> 02:36:41,920
Speaker 1: gave him enough. Chances did you, mean LIKE i think

2882
02:36:41,959 --> 02:36:45,360
Speaker 1: that was, before that was. Before, yeah it's.

2883
02:36:44,600 --> 02:36:47,080
Speaker 2: Also hard to just drop family like. THAT i feel

2884
02:36:47,120 --> 02:36:49,920
Speaker 2: like that's such a strong. Bond AND i know everybody

2885
02:36:49,959 --> 02:36:52,360
Speaker 2: has different relationships with their, families but it's like if

2886
02:36:52,400 --> 02:36:53,119
Speaker 2: they're at least.

2887
02:36:53,320 --> 02:36:56,640
Speaker 1: Trying, yeah AND i think even when they are, horrible

2888
02:36:56,720 --> 02:36:59,360
Speaker 1: it's still hard to drop, them, right because that is

2889
02:36:59,400 --> 02:37:03,200
Speaker 1: the first relationship that you. Have, Yeah glazing Sound off,

2890
02:37:03,280 --> 02:37:04,960
Speaker 1: says weird that it has to be a life threatening

2891
02:37:05,000 --> 02:37:09,680
Speaker 1: event to make. Amends, Again, yeah it, sucks but also you,

2892
02:37:09,760 --> 02:37:13,520
Speaker 1: know sometimes people need like a freaking electric shock to

2893
02:37:14,680 --> 02:37:18,280
Speaker 1: come to their. Senses kimberly finds his kids take outside

2894
02:37:18,320 --> 02:37:21,000
Speaker 1: opinions more to heart than when it comes from. Parents

2895
02:37:21,240 --> 02:37:22,640
Speaker 1: not a far reach to assume.

2896
02:37:22,760 --> 02:37:26,480
Speaker 2: Parents same Jan digital says he NEEDED.

2897
02:37:26,560 --> 02:37:31,120
Speaker 1: Covid he NEEDED. Covid The lord gave HIM covid to

2898
02:37:31,240 --> 02:37:31,760
Speaker 1: stop being.

2899
02:37:31,840 --> 02:37:37,280
Speaker 2: Homophobic he, Said Jesus, christ that's like that was the

2900
02:37:37,360 --> 02:37:42,240
Speaker 2: twenty twenty. Plague, yeah, yeah, wow but that is.

2901
02:37:42,320 --> 02:37:46,800
Speaker 1: The end of that story and the end of this. Stream,

2902
02:37:47,200 --> 02:37:50,240
Speaker 1: yes thank You Josephine Mendola berquez for the two fifty.

2903
02:37:50,280 --> 02:37:53,240
Speaker 1: Six it's five am. Here, oh SO i gotta go to,

2904
02:37:53,360 --> 02:37:56,080
Speaker 1: bed go to, bed feet in. Bed we should have

2905
02:37:56,080 --> 02:38:00,560
Speaker 1: been in bed hours. Ago WHY i love? You jimmy,

2906
02:38:00,600 --> 02:38:03,440
Speaker 1: SAYS i love happy, endings And jerry Lyn chandler, says

2907
02:38:03,520 --> 02:38:06,280
Speaker 1: dropping families hard well for me at, least BECAUSE i

2908
02:38:06,360 --> 02:38:08,280
Speaker 1: find the good in. Them they have the good even

2909
02:38:08,360 --> 02:38:10,640
Speaker 1: if it's not on show all the, time AND i

2910
02:38:10,760 --> 02:38:11,240
Speaker 1: hold on to.

2911
02:38:11,320 --> 02:38:11,360
Speaker 2: That.

2912
02:38:11,920 --> 02:38:13,480
Speaker 1: YEAH i, MEAN i have a lot of family members

2913
02:38:13,520 --> 02:38:17,680
Speaker 1: who you, KNOW i complicated relationships, with BUT i still love.

2914
02:38:17,760 --> 02:38:20,000
Speaker 1: THEM i STILL i, mean even IF i were LIKE

2915
02:38:20,480 --> 02:38:22,200
Speaker 1: i don't think it's at the level for me of

2916
02:38:22,520 --> 02:38:25,000
Speaker 1: dropping them or. Anything BUT i think there is still

2917
02:38:25,080 --> 02:38:26,400
Speaker 1: a certain membl of love that you.

2918
02:38:26,480 --> 02:38:30,320
Speaker 2: Hold, Yeah AND i think it's okay growing up to

2919
02:38:30,480 --> 02:38:33,039
Speaker 2: realize that, again it's your, life and if you want

2920
02:38:33,040 --> 02:38:35,360
Speaker 2: to distance yourself from, people that's. Okay it doesn't make

2921
02:38:35,440 --> 02:38:36,360
Speaker 2: you and it goes to make.

2922
02:38:36,320 --> 02:38:39,760
Speaker 1: You a bad person to realize that these, people even

2923
02:38:39,800 --> 02:38:44,200
Speaker 1: if they are your, family are not. Healthy, right you,

2924
02:38:44,320 --> 02:38:48,800
Speaker 1: know players in your, life characters in your in your,

2925
02:38:48,920 --> 02:38:51,880
Speaker 1: story in your. Story but that is the end of the.

2926
02:38:51,920 --> 02:38:55,520
Speaker 1: Stream thank you so much for, Watching and if you love,

2927
02:38:55,680 --> 02:38:59,840
Speaker 1: us make sure to subscribe. Woo and then you say

2928
02:39:00,680 --> 02:39:03,240
Speaker 1: we love, you we love, you and see you.

2929
02:39:03,360 --> 02:39:03,960
Speaker 6: Tomorrow