1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: The best bits of the week with Morgan. It's listener 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: Q and daytime. We're Morgan in a show member answer 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: almost all your questions. Time for some listener questions and 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: Amy and I answered, that's what we're here for. What's 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: up Amy? 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: He love Hello? 7 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: All right. We talked all about the cruise post show 8 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: cruise recaps situation on part one, if you want to 9 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: check that out. I know there was some cruise questions, 10 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: so go listen to part one if you want to 11 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: hear that. If you're just here for the rest of them, 12 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: We're gonna start with some shout outs. Loved the two 13 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,279 Speaker 1: of you on the ship. Fomo here, so I think 14 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: that's someone who was not on and was just enjoying content. 15 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: Oh my favorite combo That is from Morgan in New York. 16 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: Shout out another Morgan. And then we've got Kimberly from Utah, 17 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: who said, I just love both of you so much. 18 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,639 Speaker 1: You both inspire me every day. Oh you feel good? 19 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: Inks feel ready to start now? I feel ready? 20 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, awesome. 21 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: I need to speaking of content from the ship like, 22 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: I'm just going to do a better job next year 23 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 2: of grabbing more content. I feel like you're good about 24 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: getting I mean, you filmed your outfit every day. 25 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: I just try to room listen I every time before 26 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: I go somewhere. If I know, I try and find 27 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: one video that I can keep up with. That's like 28 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: always my goal, Okay, and then if I have that 29 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: already in my head before I go, then I'll do it. 30 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: But if I try and come up with it while 31 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: I'm there, it won't happen. 32 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: Okay, gotcha. 33 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: So that's where that proen comes at. Yeah, all right, 34 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: any summer vacation plans Michelle in Texas? This was this 35 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: is interesting. We gotta talked about this in part one. 36 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, TBD on what they're going to be, but potentially France. 37 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: Yes, very much. Pushing Amy to finally make her Paris trip, Yes, 38 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: because I think she should do. You is there anything 39 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: else like you want to make happen this summer. 40 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:43,839 Speaker 2: I don't know that I'm thinking that far ahead, although 41 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: I know I should be, but I just got you know, 42 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 2: so you're graduating high school, Stevenson's going to do some 43 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: summer school. I yeah, just some things to figure out, like, yeah, 44 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: what is what she going to do with her life? 45 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 2: Like we're trying to just Yeah, figure some stuff out. 46 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: Is summer as a parent, Uh, doesn't really feel like summer? 47 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: Or does it feel like? 48 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 2: I guess I'm curious summer because the kids are home. 49 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, what's the perspective, I don't know where. 50 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: I mean, you know it's summer because the kids are 51 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 2: not there. I mean the kids are not at school. 52 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: Like, do you look forward to summerre or not so much? 53 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: Oh? I like summer? Yeah, okay, I don't. I don't 54 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 2: mind summer, and my kids are older. I'm just thinking 55 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: if you're talking to other parents in general, like especially 56 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 2: if you've got little kids, like second grade, third grade, 57 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 2: fourth grade, like, and they're all home for the summer, Yeah, 58 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 2: it's very different than when they're at school from seven 59 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: to three. You know. Yeah, I look forward to it. 60 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 2: I'm not a big I don't like the heat. So 61 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 2: that's the only thing with me in summer. I do 62 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 2: not like July and August. 63 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: Oh are you in person too, then? 64 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: Like to like, that's why I like to go to Colorado, 65 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 2: especially in the summer, because it's just weather so much better. 66 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: Okay, we're the same in that I'm not. I don't 67 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: mind a beach. I'll go and I enjoy it. It's pretty, 68 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: but I would much rather be in the mountains. Cold 69 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: weather is my vibe, and I like being cozy. I 70 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: don't love being hot, and I always like wrap myself 71 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: on a blanket. But I can't take off more clothes, 72 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? What about what career did 73 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: Amy have in mind when she went into an agricultural 74 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,679 Speaker 1: major at A and M. That's Lisa from Texas. 75 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 2: Oh. Nothing, I was just trying to graduate. Huh. Really yeah, 76 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: because I was a political science major and I realized 77 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 2: I did not like that and I was going to 78 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 2: go into the government space somehow, like you know, working 79 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: for someone you know, like you. I didn't want to 80 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: be a I didn't want to be a politician. I 81 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: wanted to work for them, like work in political lobbyist 82 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 2: or something like that. 83 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: Yes, like interesting. 84 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: I mean my mom worked at the capitol and then 85 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 2: also one of our neighbors was a lobbyist. So I 86 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: think that's where I got that. 87 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: I wondered, because I don't feel like that one comes 88 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: up on like when you're a kinder garden and no 89 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: writing the things you want to be. Uh. 90 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: But my mom liked her time at the capitol. I 91 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 2: just thought in Austin, that's where we lived. I I 92 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: just thought, well, this will be a good major to pick. 93 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 2: I hated it so much so then my junior year 94 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: I needed to change it. And my advisor said, well, 95 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: if you want to graduate on time, ish, we can 96 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 2: get you out of here, not in four years, but 97 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: four and a half years if you changed to an 98 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 2: agricultural development degree and you need a twelve hour emphasis 99 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 2: and something which is less than a minor, but they 100 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: require it an emphasis. And she was like, can you 101 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: have twelve hours of your polypsci government classes? So I 102 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 2: have an agriculture development degree with an emphasis in Polysci? 103 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: Okay? 104 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 2: And did you like And I was just trying to graduate. 105 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, as you were doing the agricultural side, No, 106 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: I did you no idea? Nope? 107 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 2: Nope, nope, nope, nope. Now, my roommate and I had 108 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 2: started a purse business, so honestly we were going to 109 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: make purses. And I didn't even need school if you 110 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: asked me. 111 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: Oh, so then you graduated and then you didn't use 112 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: that degree at all, did you No? 113 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 2: Nope. I just got a job with friends. I mean 114 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 2: I was working in sales, like I. Again, I only 115 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 2: landed that major because my advisor said, this is how 116 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 2: you're going to get out of school on time ish, 117 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 2: which a lot of my friends at that point were 118 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: doing four four and a half years. But I just 119 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 2: did not want to be there five years. 120 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: You just wanted to be done, and. 121 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: That was a way to do it. And I liked 122 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 2: a lot of the AG. I liked the AG school, 123 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 2: I liked like the people. It definitely felt like you 124 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 2: were sort of at two different universities because you had 125 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 2: like the business school, which some of my classes were 126 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: over there, like if I had like economics or something, 127 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 2: but because I did take that, it was sort of 128 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 2: like you're doing like your economics, but economics of like corn. 129 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 2: And then like there was classes like turf management. And 130 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 2: I don't even know what this class really was, but 131 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: anybody that went to Texas and him around the time 132 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: that I was there, early two thousands, there was this 133 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 2: class we called chicken sex. Interesting and I can't remember 134 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 2: the teacher's name, but he was very cute and he 135 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 2: was starting with chi and he wrote a book, so 136 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: we called it. We called it chicken sex. But I 137 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 2: don't even know what it was on the like when 138 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 2: you registered, like what it was on your. 139 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: It could not have actually been the name of it. 140 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: There had no but that's what we called it. But 141 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: he was teaching us about that was about. I remember 142 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: we would he would show like images of faces, like models, 143 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: beautiful models, and like talk about why we found them 144 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: so attractive, like the symmetry of their face, like this 145 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: is why you are so attracted to this face because 146 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: the symmetry is this. And then somehow chickens became part 147 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: of it. 148 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 2: And who knows, I don't. I think it was just 149 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 2: in the AG school. But he he sort of made 150 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: the class his own, got it. 151 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: He was sort of weird, but he was cute. 152 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: I did, to think about it. I'd see him at 153 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 2: fraternity parties and like, okay, I don't know what's going 154 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 2: And he was a teacher. I think he was a 155 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: fraternity like you know, like sponsor what you know, they 156 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 2: would have you. 157 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: Know what I mean, they would have the like the 158 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: alumni that would come back of like the. 159 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: Like at aur at and my sweat you know you 160 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 2: feel like a house small yea. Like he was like 161 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: kind of teacher sponsored dad guy. I don't know to 162 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 2: a fraternity where I was a little sister, which that 163 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 2: was fun. I was a little sister to Ka's, which 164 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 2: I loved because my dad was a kam. 165 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: That's fun. This already fraternity life is fun. But yeah, 166 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: senior teacher at fraternity, Yeah, I. 167 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 2: Mean, I'm not saying he was like partying, but I 168 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 2: would just like see him. But it was a little 169 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 2: sus looking back, like, well, and if. 170 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: You guys call this not chicken sex, there's a lot 171 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: of things that are sus going on there. 172 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 2: Now when he was like teaching us like what's attractive 173 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 2: and what's not and probably walked out of that class 174 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 2: of some insecurities. 175 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: Did you ever learn like did you ever use anything 176 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: that you learned with your agricultural degree? Like later even 177 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: just like in normal life, nothing ever got used from. 178 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 2: It, not that I can think of. I mean, I 179 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: guess maybe in like I don't know, like maybe I 180 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 2: don't know female col ever. 181 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: Oh man, Well, they always say your school is gonna 182 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: like you need it at some point in your life. 183 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: So I was just curious. 184 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 2: I did not, but I don't think that I was 185 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 2: development mentally. If I were to go back to college 186 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 2: today with the brain my current brain, it would have 187 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 2: a very different experience, and I would probably use a 188 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 2: lot and I would try to get as much out 189 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 2: of it as possible. I think between my ADHD and 190 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 2: then later what I learned that I'm dyslexic, school was 191 00:08:55,880 --> 00:09:00,319 Speaker 2: very hard for me, so I honestly I up with 192 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:01,559 Speaker 2: my therapist not too long ago. I was like, I 193 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 2: don't even know how I graduated college. Like I don't, 194 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: I I don't know. I don't really have memories, I don't. 195 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 2: If you're saying, like, did I use anything, it's like 196 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 2: because I barely remember anything. You know how you talk 197 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 2: to some people and they'd be like, oh, yeah, I 198 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 2: wrote a paper on that in college, And I'm like what, 199 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: And I know I wrote papers like I did that, 200 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 2: but and we didn't. We didn't have things like chat 201 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: GBT back then. 202 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: Like I know I wrote some papers, But well you passed, 203 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: you got your degree. Yeah, so you accomplished it. But yeah, 204 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: definitely probably more in a survival state than you were 205 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: in a like thriving. I was. 206 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 2: You're right, I was definitely surviving, not thriving, because I 207 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 2: could barely even get to class, like simple things like 208 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 2: figuring out the map of like where which parking lot 209 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 2: is best for which building? Like that's just not I 210 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 2: know that's such a silly thing, but I have such 211 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 2: compassion for people that have a brain like mine that's very, 212 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: very stressful. 213 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're like, why can everybody else. 214 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: Figure it out? And I can't figure it out? And well, now, 215 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 2: now I think that's why when that woman came on 216 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: our show, Miss Kelly and said that I was six, 217 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 2: I think that's why I can't. I can't even say 218 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 2: it dyslexic. That's why tears came up instantly, because I 219 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: was like, so much makes sense now. I felt like 220 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 2: I had an answer, not an excuse, but I feel 221 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 2: like I had an answer of why certain things were 222 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 2: so difficult. But yet, also I'm proud of myself because 223 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 2: I powered through. Clearly, I figured out a method that 224 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 2: worked for me. But to your point, when you're in 225 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 2: survival mode, you don't remember much. 226 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: No, and it was probably honestly, the tears probably came 227 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: from the little girl inside of you who for so 228 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 1: long didn't understand and none of it really made sense, 229 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden you finally have an answer. 230 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: But it's decades later. Yeah, and you're like, I could 231 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: use that answer a long time ago. 232 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 2: Because there's programs in a high school, you know, elementary, junior, high, 233 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 2: high school, college that will would into my disability or 234 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 2: my even my ADHD, which I did get on some 235 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 2: medication for a little bit for that in college, because 236 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 2: I got diagnosed in college. But then my personality, I 237 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 2: got on STRATERA. It wasn't I don't know if that 238 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 2: that doesn't seem like one of the popular. 239 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: You know, it was like at aall, yeah, I was 240 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 1: gonna say, I've never heard of that name, but. 241 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 2: I really didn't want to be on medication, but this 242 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 2: is what the doctor recommended, so I did it. And 243 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 2: my personality like I was almost concentrating too much, Like 244 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 2: I just felt like I was like staring at things, 245 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 2: and then I didn't feel like I was really being 246 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: me and I was like, oh, this is lame, like. 247 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: In your college kid, you know, yeah, you want to 248 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:45,839 Speaker 1: live your life. 249 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 2: And then I got off of it, but that was yeah, 250 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 2: I had more fun just probably doing other things. But 251 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: like I don't even really remember my social life that 252 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 2: much or like I wasn't that like it wasn't a 253 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 2: but I wasn't that involved sort of you know. 254 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: Did you ever live in this sority house or anything? Nope, 255 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: that's crazy, it wasn't. 256 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 2: I pledged as a sophomore. 257 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: Oh, and sophomore years typically the year that so yeah, 258 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: and I was so I was a pledge that year, 259 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: and so everyone my age, Yeah, they were living in 260 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: the house because you went somewhere else freshman year, right. 261 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I went to Blind because I didn't again, didn't 262 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: even get into A and M. And that's the only 263 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 2: school I applied to. And it's interesting when your brain 264 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 2: has a goal, right, because I was mortified that I 265 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 2: didn't get in, so that kicked my butt and gear 266 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 2: I needed no medication for that. And I went to Blenn, 267 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 2: got a four point zero, got into A and M 268 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 2: right away, and then felt like I was playing catch 269 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 2: up at that point. But then once I was in 270 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 2: and I lot, my motivation was gone. 271 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, we're going all the way back to your 272 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: school years. I know can move forward. 273 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 2: I know that. Yeah, I know that I'm capable, but 274 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 2: that just goes to point it sort of like people 275 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 2: that ah you, it's like you give them a deadline 276 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:10,319 Speaker 2: or you give them something. The brain just is firing 277 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 2: and wiring so differently that like, if I've got to 278 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 2: pack for a trip, I'll pack my best in my 279 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 2: darnedest leading right up to it, like I'm able to 280 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 2: like focus and do it. But I have their tools 281 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 2: and things that help me be more productive before it 282 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 2: gets crazy. But good times. 283 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: Well this is also why they make us go to school, right, 284 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: that's when we're our brains are developing. We're trying to 285 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: understand what we, you know, are going to do in 286 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 1: life and whatnot. So all right, no more, no more 287 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 1: college shock. We're gonna take a quick break and we're 288 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:47,719 Speaker 1: gonna ask some more questions. We'll be right back, all right, 289 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: Lindsay and Louisiana is hyping us up to start. She said, y'all, 290 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:56,719 Speaker 1: skin is looking great lately. What is the secret? I'm 291 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: gonna let I mean, I don't know. I feel like 292 00:13:58,559 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: you have more secrets. 293 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 2: Well, I'm doing the same thing. I still use Biopow, 294 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 2: which is the snail serum, and I feel like that's 295 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:13,599 Speaker 2: been very great for my skin. I do you know 296 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 2: I've washed my face every morning and every evening. 297 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: Do you never sleep in your makeup on the stepper? 298 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 2: And I wash for at least sixty seconds or longer, 299 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 2: and I do the what's that stuff called? I don't 300 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 2: even the missilin water? 301 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: Oh, my cellular water, my cellular that's how I pronounce it. 302 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: But I don't know. 303 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 2: I've no idea I've I don't. I just know how 304 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: to buy it. And that's I put that on a 305 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 2: cotton pad and sort of clint. That's that. Some people 306 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 2: say to double wash, but to me, I don't want 307 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 2: to waste that must much face wash. So I'll do 308 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 2: the cotton swap to get the first layer of sunscreen 309 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: makeup all that off, and then I'll wash and I 310 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 2: count to make sure I'm like one, two, I count 311 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: the sixty seconds or else I'll look at a clock 312 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: and I'll just make sure because it makes a difference 313 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 2: to me, because sometimes if you just do like twenty 314 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 2: seconds and then call a day, you may not be 315 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 2: getting in there. 316 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: H well. And I don't know about you, but I 317 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: feel like so much of my skin is related to 318 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: the foods that I'm eating. It really impacts it. I mean, 319 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: I have a skin routine. It's very minimal. 320 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 2: I do. 321 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: I use my cellular water and I put on two 322 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: different products at night and then I and I washed 323 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: my face. I never sleep in my makeup, and then 324 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: I have like vitamin C and sunscreen that I wear 325 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: in the morning before I put on makeup, and those 326 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: are great, but I feel like so much of my 327 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: skin is influenced really by what's what I'm consuming. I 328 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: besides the cruise which ended my streak, but I hadn't 329 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: been drinking alcohol since August. I mean I really stopped. 330 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: Like I'd had a few drinks at Christmas and the cruise, 331 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: and honestly, I haven't been drinking. That's made a huge 332 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: change in my life, just how I feel and how 333 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: I feel like my my skin and my body feels. 334 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: And then eating whole foods honestly, like those things are 335 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 1: game changers for just how body looks and how body 336 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: performs versus more products to use. Honestly, I feel like 337 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: that's where it's come in. Is just more that glowy skin. 338 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 1: I guess that everybody really wants, is that, like really glowy, 339 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: bright skin. I feel like it's truly my best when 340 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm not drinking, I'm in whole foods, I'm in a 341 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: really good routine with my hydrated Yeah, Like, honestly, at 342 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: the end of the day. I think that's what it's about. Yeah, 343 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 1: but I don't know have you had that same experience, 344 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: because I really feel like that, yeah the most. 345 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 2: No, I think that we all know at this point. Yeah, 346 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 2: what you put in your body is going to come 347 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 2: out through your skin. I mean it's our largest organs. So, 348 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: but it's so specific, like some people might be like, oh, yeah, 349 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 2: when I eat gluten, this happens, or if I have dairy, 350 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 2: this happens, and maybe like it's not it's like figuring 351 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 2: out what foods do it because that still. 352 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, like sugar really activates. 353 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,880 Speaker 2: Me, yes, or for some people it might be chocolate 354 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 2: or so it's just kind of learning that getting that 355 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 2: information for yourself because everybody's so different. I do a 356 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 2: red light mask. 357 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 1: I love red light therapy, A big fan of that. 358 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 2: So I'm just trying to think. I mean, there's not 359 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's just in general. And I 360 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 2: do wear sunscreen and I wear a hat and I 361 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: try to stay out of the sun. If you're seeing 362 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 2: any color on my skin, it's a bronzer or self tanner. 363 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:36,640 Speaker 1: Same. 364 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:40,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm waking up putting whatever into my largest organ, 365 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 2: Like I don't know if what's worse the chemicals and 366 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: the self tanner or the sun, but. 367 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: I know it's a catch twenty two with that one. 368 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: That was something that my mom when I was like 369 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: sixteen and on, she always that's why I always wear 370 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: sunscreen on my face. She's always encouraged that just because 371 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: you can have sun like exposure when you're driving, you 372 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: can have it from technology. You can have all kinds 373 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 1: of different different exposure, but exposure nonetheless. And so I 374 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 1: think sunscreen has been a best friend. So if you 375 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: have young girls, just have them start wearing sunscreen now. 376 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: And not like a sunscreen that you're thinking, not like 377 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 1: a banana boat on our face. 378 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 2: It's like it's like built into their moistreizer, like future 379 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 2: genal I'll have, like you know, you have your day 380 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 2: and your nighttime moistreizer for survey. 381 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, because sunscreen are sun exposures, I feel like the 382 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 1: hardest thing for skin to come back from versus other things. 383 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 1: But again, just water, drink water, you know, just do that. 384 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: That would be the first thing. I don't drink enough 385 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:40,120 Speaker 1: as it is. So if you could relive one day 386 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: of your life without ever changing it, what would it be. 387 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 2: Wait, what do you mean by without ever changing it? Oh, 388 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 2: you like just really. 389 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 1: Relive like one day in your life and you're not 390 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: changing anything about it. Yeah. Oh my gosh, that's a 391 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: hard question. I can give you a second to think, though, 392 00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 1: because something does come to mind for me, I. 393 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: Will then go ahead. 394 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it was the day that I adopted 395 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: remy Oh I really do the kids? 396 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 2: Adopting the kids popped into my mind. 397 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, see, like I feel like something in that moment, 398 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:14,919 Speaker 1: like me seeing her and having the moment where it 399 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: really felt like she was imprinted on me, and I 400 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 1: made the call to finally like be like, okay, I 401 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 1: want to adopt her, like put my down payment in 402 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 1: to like make sure I could save her so I 403 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: could adopt her. After she came out of her space 404 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: surgery and I went and picked her up and it 405 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: was like I was crying tears and I got to 406 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: see your like using grass for the first time and 407 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: having that whole experience with her. I wouldn't change that 408 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: day in a heartbeat. I think that would be the 409 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: easiest one that comes to mind. 410 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. Right now I have Sashera's eleventh birthday in my head. Oh, okay, 411 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 2: it was so fun. It was her first birthday after 412 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 2: we adopted her, and we went all out and we 413 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 2: had like so many people at our house, which reminds 414 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 2: me of when we adopted the kids, Like we had 415 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 2: a huge party at our house, like when we returned 416 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 2: and there were so many people. I mean, my dad 417 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 2: was able to be there, my mom wasn't, but yeah, 418 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 2: just I'm picturing like our East Nashville house. We had 419 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 2: some good parties there. 420 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: So I think I was there for stuff year's birthday. 421 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a big bouncy house in the front 422 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 2: and then all these other games, but it was mostly 423 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 2: adults because they didn't really have friends yet, so it 424 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 2: was like all of us and a lot of our 425 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 2: friends and then their kids were able to come. 426 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 1: What year was that? So while you're talking about this, 427 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 1: I think I have a really cool picture. 428 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:36,159 Speaker 2: Two thousand, two thousand and nine teen. Okay, that was eleven. 429 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,239 Speaker 1: Seven years ago. And what month was it? 430 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 2: Fourteen fifteen, sixteen seventy eighteen April April twenty fifth, twenty nineteen. 431 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: I think I have a really cool picture if it's 432 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 1: still in here. 433 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,439 Speaker 2: Because we adopted them at the end of two thousand 434 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 2: and eighteen. I think December. You think I would know this. 435 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: Well, I have one Okay, that's not the one I 436 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 1: was looking for, but I do have one of Stevenson 437 00:20:59,400 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: and Remy. 438 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 2: Oh that's so cute. Oh my gosh, how little he was? 439 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,680 Speaker 1: I know, is that so cute? I don't I think that. 440 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 2: Well, then maybe check twenty eighteen, because what if they 441 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 2: came at the end of seventeen. 442 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: I'm trying to see. I have a really cool picture 443 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: of her with a balloon. Yeah, and that's what I'm remembering. 444 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 1: I mean, we went all out, but please continue. But oh, 445 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 1: third is I found it? It is twenty eighteen. 446 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: Oh okay, so it was eighteen. 447 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, the Balancy House. So we got her, we. 448 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 2: Got him in the end of seventeen. Yes, that is 449 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 2: such a cute picture and shot that little headband on. 450 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 451 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: That was just a fun day and like seeing her 452 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 2: and then just all the people there. So I guess 453 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 2: I could go back to that. 454 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: Hut. Oh that's a good one and see it now. 455 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 1: We're both smiling. So that was fun. Is it normal 456 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 1: to be scared to date? I'm almost thirty and need 457 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 1: to get back out there. This is from Kailee and Louisiana. 458 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 2: I feel like it's very normal. 459 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 1: I think if you're not scared, then you got some 460 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: strange bit of confidence you need a bottle up and 461 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 1: sell honestly. Yeah. 462 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 2: Or it's not even just your confidence, like you're naive 463 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 2: to what's out there. I guess just. 464 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: The optimism with the world. Maybe that's what it is. 465 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 1: Just bottle it all up and sell it. Yeah, it's 466 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 1: really scary, and it's hard, and dating. Nothing about dating's easy. 467 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,880 Speaker 1: It's not supposed to be. You're trying to choose somebody 468 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 1: to spend your life with, or some of your life with, 469 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: or whatever your choice is, and that's hard. It's going 470 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,399 Speaker 1: to be hard, you know. 471 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, But don't let the fear hold you back. I 472 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 2: mean I think that it would be easy to let 473 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 2: it take over and be ok, hey, never mind, but 474 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 2: power through. 475 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: It's worth it. It'll always be worth it, totally. I 476 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: think any version of love is worth it in the end. 477 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: How do you keep up with your long distance bff since, 478 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,199 Speaker 1: like me, you don't live near their hometown? Lorie, she 479 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 1: was on our cruise. She was one of the fun 480 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: ones on our cruise. 481 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 2: Hey, LORI voice text Amy loves a voice text. 482 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 1: I always say that's where you thrive text. 483 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: Yes, there, I've in a voice text, which is so funny. 484 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: You'd be proud of me. I actually just got a 485 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 2: voice text from Bobby and I replied with words, not 486 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 2: with typed words, I am proud of me, instead of 487 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 2: sending a voice sex back, so it'd probably be way 488 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 2: too long. I just said I just replied with words 489 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 2: and kept it brief, and he probably appreciated that, but 490 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 2: he probably said next, who was driving? And then since 491 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 2: I'm here with you, I was just like, oh, yes, 492 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 2: of course, d done. I am proud of you, thank you. 493 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 2: But uh, also being intentional about playing trips, like I'm 494 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 2: thinking of my best friend from high school, Andrea. She 495 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 2: just texted me like I need to reschedule my trip 496 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 2: because she had a trip planned and we had the 497 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 2: ice storm and then we had to cancel seeing each 498 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 2: other and so now we're trying to figure out when 499 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 2: she can come back. But and then I'll see her 500 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,959 Speaker 2: when I go to Austin for our country. So just 501 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 2: like having maybe some different things that you can meet 502 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 2: up at or can you come stay with you go 503 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 2: stay with each other, but with kids in life. It 504 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,160 Speaker 2: is not that easy. So I would say the simple 505 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,199 Speaker 2: cheap answer is voice texts. It is. 506 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: I was going to say the same. Me and me 507 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 1: and some of my best friends from really just my 508 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: hometown years. We've been best friends for gosh going on 509 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: fifteen sixteen years now, and every year we plan a 510 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: trip together. And that's through kids, through marriages, through life, 511 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 1: through moves. And we're all in different cities now, and 512 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: we either choose a place where we all meet up 513 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 1: or they'll come visit me in Nashville. We'll go visit 514 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 1: one of them in Denver and other ones in Fort Worth, 515 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 1: and we just like go and figure out what's best, 516 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 1: and once a year we make sure we see each other. 517 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: It's always our goal because it's hard. It's also hard, 518 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: like everyday life to keep up with each other too, 519 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: you know, even doing random voice text is hard. 520 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: Well, I will say, since she brought up a group 521 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: of friends like we have speaking of that same friend 522 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 2: from high school area, we have a couple of other 523 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 2: friends from high school too, and we've got some group 524 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 2: texts and so memes, funny videos, voice text on those 525 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 2: like take it, take it to the group text, and 526 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 2: you just feel connected and everyone's chiming in and like haha, 527 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 2: updating each other on life things. Because a trip may 528 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 2: not always be able to happen, but especially if there's 529 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 2: a group, make sure you go ahead and form the 530 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 2: group text, give it a fun name, and then maybe 531 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 2: one day it'll make it out of the group text 532 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 2: and you'll go do something. But if not, then you 533 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,400 Speaker 2: can still feel connected that way. 534 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 1: Very good one, and yes, we love a trip that 535 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: makes it out of the group chap. All right, we're 536 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 1: gonna get out of here. 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