WEBVTT - The Girlfriends S4/E4: Three Sisters

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's nicky. This is an episode about sisterhood, both

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<v Speaker 1>the ones were born with and those we choose for ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>It's full of love, but there's also a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>pain and stories that explore substance abuse, violence, murder, and

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<v Speaker 1>sexual assault. One of those victims is a minor. There

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<v Speaker 1>will also be some strong language, so if you or

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<v Speaker 1>someone you love has been affected by any of the

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<v Speaker 1>themes in the show, we've left some links in the

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<v Speaker 1>description that offer resources and support take care of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was a kid, I used to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>near Quindera Park, a few minutes from my family's home.

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<v Speaker 1>From the outside, it's nothing remarkable, bright green grass, a

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<v Speaker 1>kid's playground, benches to watch.

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<v Speaker 2>The world go by.

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<v Speaker 1>As I grew up, I began to learn more about

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<v Speaker 1>how this place was once a part of the Underground Railroad,

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<v Speaker 1>a stop along the route enslaved black people took on

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<v Speaker 1>the road to freedom. It's a part of our city's

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<v Speaker 1>history that's all too easy to forget. When the Black

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<v Speaker 1>Lives Matter movement swept across the world in twenty twenty,

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<v Speaker 1>that history took on a whole new meaning. I'm no

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<v Speaker 1>stranger to the racism and the prejudice black people face

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<v Speaker 1>at the hands of police, but seeing the violent deaths

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<v Speaker 1>of George Floyd and Breonna Taylor made this century's old

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<v Speaker 1>fight feel more urgent than ever. It also gave me

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<v Speaker 1>a greater awareness of cases involving police corruption happening right

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<v Speaker 1>on my doorstep, like that of Lamont McIntyre. He was

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<v Speaker 1>released after twenty three years in prison, but the detective

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<v Speaker 1>who had framed him was still walking free. Roger Glupski

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<v Speaker 1>had retired from police work in twenty sixteen on what

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like his own terms, and none of the women

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<v Speaker 1>he'd abused had seen justice. So in twenty twenty, I

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<v Speaker 1>organized a petition calling for greater police accountability in Kansas City, Kansas.

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<v Speaker 1>As a result, I was invited to my first rally

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<v Speaker 1>calling for an end to police violence and prejudice. One

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<v Speaker 1>of the speakers instantly caught my eye. I was trained

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<v Speaker 1>to look around, know my surroundings. That woman was Kadiza Hardaway,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Looking forward in deep when I saw her, and literally

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<v Speaker 3>she is a full length of a block away and

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<v Speaker 3>I noticed her walking up to me.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just almost like this weird eye contact.

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<v Speaker 3>I really saw this ray of light.

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<v Speaker 2>It was Nikki.

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<v Speaker 1>She was walking up. We had never met each other before.

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<v Speaker 1>We just gravitated to each other. I had just immediately

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<v Speaker 1>hugged her, and she hugged me. We introduced ourselves, but

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<v Speaker 1>it felt like we already knew each other. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just this automatic sense of familiarity. I can't even describe it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had a feeling like that in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like meeting a sister. I didn't even realize

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<v Speaker 1>I needed. We locked arms that day and we've been

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<v Speaker 1>by each other side ever since. Kadija and I spent

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<v Speaker 1>hours talking about Detective Kulupski, the reports that he'd abused

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<v Speaker 1>his authority, and the stories we'd heard from the women

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<v Speaker 1>he assaulted. We needed to do something, so the next

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<v Speaker 1>day we set up Justice for Wyandotte, an organization named

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<v Speaker 1>after the county casey k belongs to. Our aim was

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<v Speaker 1>to give voice to those who had suffered as a

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<v Speaker 1>result of Gulupski's actions, like Nico Quinn, who had been

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<v Speaker 1>coerced into giving false testimony against Lamont McIntyre and the

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<v Speaker 1>lead up to Lamont's exoneration, Nico had become the target

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<v Speaker 1>of intense public scrutiny. It was like her own city

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<v Speaker 1>had turned against her.

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<v Speaker 4>I would get calls from friends and family members telling

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<v Speaker 4>me to stop talking to the media because they was

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<v Speaker 4>making me look bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Part of her wanted to move on, leave it all

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<v Speaker 1>in the past, but rumors about Gallupski were coming to

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<v Speaker 1>light and Nico wanted to join the fight, which is

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<v Speaker 1>how she got put in touch with Khodija.

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<v Speaker 4>I was in my worst when I met Khadija. I

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<v Speaker 4>was kind of like Larry to talk to her. But

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<v Speaker 4>then we finally talked to each other. Oh, we was

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<v Speaker 4>on that phone for a long time and it was

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<v Speaker 4>like we have always knew each other.

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<v Speaker 3>We talked on the phone for probably about five or

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<v Speaker 3>six hours the very first time we talked.

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<v Speaker 1>The three of us got to know each other pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>We were united by our experiences as black women fighting

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<v Speaker 1>for justice and our shared goal of creating a better

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<v Speaker 1>future for Kansas City. Kansas a city we love, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was going to take a lot of work. I

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<v Speaker 1>just knew that.

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<v Speaker 3>Like after George Floyd and watching the communities around the

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<v Speaker 3>world come together because they saw the injustice, it was

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<v Speaker 3>a time like no other.

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<v Speaker 1>We shared stories during dinners, made plans over coffee and

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<v Speaker 1>spent hours getting to know each other until our friendship

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<v Speaker 1>began to feel like something deeper, a sisterhood. Police had

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<v Speaker 1>failed to stop Glupski from putting the community at risk.

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<v Speaker 1>The authorities hadn't held him accountable for the abuse he

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<v Speaker 1>inflicted on the women we heard from, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>starting to feel like nobody was coming to fight for

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<v Speaker 1>the women of Kansas City. So we decided to fight

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<v Speaker 1>for ourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh God, Oh God, God.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Nikki Richardson and from the teams at Novel and

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<v Speaker 1>iHeart Podcast, this is the Girlfriend's Untouchable Big Episode four,

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<v Speaker 1>three Sisters. When Kadija and I decided to join the fight,

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<v Speaker 1>the woman we gravitated to was Nico Quinn. We thought

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<v Speaker 1>we knew her story, her cousin's shooting, the witness intimidation,

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<v Speaker 1>and the threat of her kids being taken away, But

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<v Speaker 1>it turned out there was even more to Nico's connection

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<v Speaker 1>to Glupski than we had realized, so we asked her

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<v Speaker 1>to tell her story. From the very start.

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<v Speaker 4>I grew up in Wanda County, Kansas City, Kansas. I

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<v Speaker 4>was born to Josephine Quinn, who had three daughters.

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<v Speaker 1>Nico, her older sister Liz, and their oldest sister Stacy.

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<v Speaker 4>Stacey was beautiful. She was so beautiful. I used to

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<v Speaker 4>love her eyes. And all the people that I know

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<v Speaker 4>that knew her talks about how beautiful her spirit was,

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<v Speaker 4>how very respectful she was, because that's how we was raised.

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<v Speaker 1>The Queen sisters were like best friends.

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<v Speaker 4>We used to have fun, used to act like we

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<v Speaker 4>was singers, acting like we like the brags and sisters

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<v Speaker 4>or stuff like that watching movies, you know, mocking the

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<v Speaker 4>stuff that's in the movies.

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<v Speaker 1>But they were regular sisters who would pick her and

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<v Speaker 1>wind each other up too.

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<v Speaker 4>Stacey used to be so honor I remember when we

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<v Speaker 4>was little. Mamma used to be like, we said, Mama,

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<v Speaker 4>can we ask some cookies or whatever? She say, clean

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<v Speaker 4>up and y'all can get them hub. She was like, Stacey,

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<v Speaker 4>get them kids a few of them cookies. She goes

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<v Speaker 4>eh when she lick every cooky and didn't give it

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<v Speaker 4>to us. She was honory, but she used to protect us.

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<v Speaker 1>Nico needed a protective presence in her life because her

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<v Speaker 1>family was fractured. The father hadn't stuck around, and Josephine

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<v Speaker 1>had a lifelong battle with mental health issues.

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<v Speaker 4>My mother was in and out of the psychiatric hospital,

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<v Speaker 4>mental facilities all my life. She got paranoid schizophrenic. She'd

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<v Speaker 4>be okay for a couple of months or maybe a

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<v Speaker 4>few years, and then she'd go back into the mental hospitals.

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<v Speaker 4>But then we end up moving to a home with

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<v Speaker 4>my grandmother, grandfather, auntie, uncles, cousins, so probably about fifty

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<v Speaker 4>of us in a six bedroom house. Nico.

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<v Speaker 1>Was surrounded by family, but it didn't always feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a loving home.

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<v Speaker 4>I lived in nothing but chaos all my life as

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<v Speaker 4>a kid. I see my uncle's fighting. The police was

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<v Speaker 4>in and out of my grandmother's house, I almost say

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<v Speaker 4>every other weekend. My grandfather was an active alcoholic. We

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<v Speaker 4>was taught to be tough, have tough skin.

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<v Speaker 1>Their grandparents tried their best, but they failed to fully

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<v Speaker 1>protect the queens sisters. One of their relatives, a man

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<v Speaker 1>who was supposed to take the girls to school, took

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<v Speaker 1>advantage of them.

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<v Speaker 4>My mom would have my uncle take us to school,

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<v Speaker 4>and he would take us back to the house and

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<v Speaker 4>would rape us before we would go to school. When

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<v Speaker 4>it started, Stacy was eight, Liz was six, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was four.

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<v Speaker 1>They were just kids, but Stacy stepped in to try

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<v Speaker 1>and shield her younger sisters from the worst of it.

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<v Speaker 4>She would put herself in horms away so he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>get us. She was a big sister. She was a protector,

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<v Speaker 4>especially me because I was the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>The Quinn's sisters went through a lot together, but they

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<v Speaker 1>still had dreams. Stacey wanted to dedicate her life to

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<v Speaker 1>taking care of people.

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<v Speaker 4>She was going to school to be a nurse.

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<v Speaker 1>In the mid nineteen eighties, Stacy, who was around sixteen

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<v Speaker 1>years old, was doing a clinical placement at a local

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<v Speaker 1>health center. She finished late some nights and usually got

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<v Speaker 1>a ride home from one of her other relatives, but

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<v Speaker 1>if they couldn't pick her up, she would make her

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<v Speaker 1>own way back.

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<v Speaker 4>She was walking home one night because my grandfather had

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<v Speaker 4>got drunk and my uncle didn't pick whatever was they

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<v Speaker 4>she didn't get picked up from her clinicals.

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<v Speaker 1>When Stacy walked through the door, she looked shaken. Her

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<v Speaker 1>sisters immediately asked her what had happened. After a moment,

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<v Speaker 1>she burst into tears. Stacy told them about the police

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<v Speaker 1>officer she'd seen on her way home, a white man

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<v Speaker 1>with brown hair, pushy eyebrows in a thick mustache. It

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<v Speaker 1>was dark out, so he offered her a ride home.

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<v Speaker 1>Being a kid who had no reason to distrust the police,

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy had accepted the offer. When she got into his

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<v Speaker 1>police car, his friendly demeanor faded. The officer forced himself

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<v Speaker 1>on her.

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<v Speaker 4>She got raped and came in and told us and

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<v Speaker 4>was holding her crime.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy was their older sister, their protector. It was painful

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<v Speaker 1>to see her so broken.

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<v Speaker 4>And we would telling her to tell and she was

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<v Speaker 4>like she couldn't because of the threats.

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<v Speaker 1>That he made. Nico didn't know what the police officer

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<v Speaker 1>had threatened to do to her sister if she reported him,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was beginning to discover how much power and

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<v Speaker 1>influence the police wielded over her community. Nico came of

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<v Speaker 1>age in the eighties, and as she grew up, she

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<v Speaker 1>began to notice the ways her neighborhood was changing. There

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<v Speaker 1>were patrol cars all around them, regular house raids across Guendero,

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<v Speaker 1>and rumors of friends and relatives was getting locked up

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<v Speaker 1>by the police in record time. Because in the eighties,

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<v Speaker 1>Kansas City, Kansas was hurtling into a devastating crisis. Nico

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<v Speaker 1>can still remember the moment it hit her neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 4>They had this big old community meeting up on Fifth

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<v Speaker 4>Street at the Jack reard In Center. Our grandparents and

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<v Speaker 4>parents used to go to these things, I mean where

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<v Speaker 4>their packed houses standing room only.

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<v Speaker 1>Her grandmother came home from the community meeting with a

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<v Speaker 1>handful of pamphlets.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'll never forget the one that said, Hi, my

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<v Speaker 4>name is crack Cocaine. It said, I'll make a preacher

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<v Speaker 4>forget how to preach, a teacher forget how to teach,

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<v Speaker 4>a beauty queen forget her looks, a schoolgirl forget her books.

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<v Speaker 1>The beauty queen forgetting her looks, and the schoolgirl forgetting

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<v Speaker 1>her books. Nico realized that is what was happening in

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<v Speaker 1>real time to her sister.

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<v Speaker 4>Stacey started experimenting with drugs. I know, she used to

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<v Speaker 4>smoke and then she went to crack and that was

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<v Speaker 4>her way of escaping.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Gulupski hadn't just assaulted her once and moved on.

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<v Speaker 1>He tormented her all the way through her adolescence into adulthood,

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy's life began to spiral.

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<v Speaker 4>I noticed that a lot of people that have talked

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<v Speaker 4>to that start using drugs from childhood trauma, are things

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<v Speaker 4>in their life that they don't understand and know how

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<v Speaker 4>to deal with. A lot of women end up on

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<v Speaker 4>the streets on drug prostitution.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what happened to Stacy. She got addicted to

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<v Speaker 1>drugs and became a sex worker to earn the money

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<v Speaker 1>she needed to pay for them. It was dangerous work

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<v Speaker 1>that led her to spend long nights walking up and

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<v Speaker 1>down shady streets interacting with ceed men, one of whom

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<v Speaker 1>was a constant presence Detective Roger Glupski.

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<v Speaker 4>I got you, I got you, I got you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the nineties in Guendero, a neighborhood on the northeast

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<v Speaker 1>side of Kansas City. By day, it's a normal, slightly

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<v Speaker 1>chaotic neighborhood filled with families and ordinary people living their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>But at night it can become a pretty eerie place.

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<v Speaker 1>Men selling drugs, women selling sex, sketchy individuals who linger

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<v Speaker 1>around street corners buying both. It's an area officer Max

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<v Speaker 1>Zeifert knows well, and he recently heard that one of

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<v Speaker 1>his fellow officers, Detective Glupski, had been seen hanging around

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<v Speaker 1>in the area while off duty.

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<v Speaker 5>Rumors were going around. You know that he was spending

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of time up in the northeast part of town,

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<v Speaker 5>which is a high crime area.

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<v Speaker 1>People were seeing him hanging out there off duty, not

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<v Speaker 1>in his official role as a cop.

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<v Speaker 5>I received a phone call from the informant of mine.

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<v Speaker 5>He's very animated in Basically, what he was saying was

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<v Speaker 5>that Gallupski was at their patronize and prostitutes.

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<v Speaker 1>It turned out that the northeast side of the city

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't just the area Galupski had been assigned to the CD.

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<v Speaker 1>Streets in the dark back roads had become his hunting ground.

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<v Speaker 1>Kadija and I wanted to find out how Gallupski had

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<v Speaker 1>gotten started, what had shaped and enabled him to become

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of police officer who abused his authority and

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<v Speaker 1>harmed the people he had been trained to protect. We

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to see if we could find any clues, so

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<v Speaker 1>we went all the way back to the k c

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<v Speaker 1>KPD's graduating class of nineteen seventy five, and.

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<v Speaker 3>They definitely was on a budget because these uniforms look

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<v Speaker 3>out of.

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<v Speaker 2>The public servants they are.

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<v Speaker 1>But Kadishi and I found a photo of some of

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<v Speaker 1>the officers that joined the police force that year much more.

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<v Speaker 1>They looked younger than we thought they would. Some of

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<v Speaker 1>them even had baby faces. But we could tell they

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<v Speaker 1>were police officers from the light blue uniforms.

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<v Speaker 3>They look like Jill House uniform.

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<v Speaker 1>They dodge, they really do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean just very.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, very baggy blue shirts they've got. But ill fitting

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<v Speaker 1>uniforms weren't our main concern. It was the people wearing them,

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<v Speaker 1>in particular. A man on the second row from the top,

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<v Speaker 1>so Glupski is I mean, he looks creepy. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he does look creepy, but he also looks like just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the guy you just walk past the grocery store,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just average build, a little bit on the

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<v Speaker 1>pudgy side, wide pie face with you know, big old seventies.

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<v Speaker 3>Eight, I tell you, in this picture he has the largest,

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<v Speaker 3>stickiest mustache. He looked like a gangster cop. To me,

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<v Speaker 3>he's not very happy I'm a people reader because his

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<v Speaker 3>lips is supporting the upside down frown.

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<v Speaker 1>He just seems very unassuming. I mean, yeah, he might seem.

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<v Speaker 3>He looks like the person who would cut up the

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<v Speaker 3>cat and put it in his freeze.

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<v Speaker 1>He does look hard, but he looks like somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>would get away with it for so long because you would, just.

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<v Speaker 4>You would.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all to say that. Back then, Roger Gulupski looked

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<v Speaker 1>like a young, pretty unassuming new recruit. Another one of

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<v Speaker 1>the officers in that photo is Max Seifert, a retired

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<v Speaker 1>detective who graduated alongside Gallupski and worked with him during

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<v Speaker 1>his time in the Crimes against Persons unit.

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<v Speaker 5>The Crimes Against Person's Union handled assaults, aggravated battery, rapes,

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<v Speaker 5>child abuse. He wasn't a person that would share things

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<v Speaker 5>or talk about things, you know. He was always kind

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<v Speaker 5>of a quiet person. Now he was very close and

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<v Speaker 5>kept things close to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Glupski quickly rose up the ranks because he gained a

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<v Speaker 1>reputation for clearing up crimes in record time. He was

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<v Speaker 1>given a private office, the kind of space where he

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<v Speaker 1>could hold sensitive meetings and make confidential calls. But according

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<v Speaker 1>to one of Max's colleagues, Gulupski took advantage of the

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<v Speaker 1>privacy his office gave him to abuse his position.

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<v Speaker 5>A detective that was serving in his unit one day

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<v Speaker 5>went to his office and what happened was the detective

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<v Speaker 5>sees the doors shut and he just opens it and

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<v Speaker 5>walks in. He didn't knock or anything. He walks in

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<v Speaker 5>and he catches Glupski involved in a sexual compromising situation

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<v Speaker 5>with a black female in his office.

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<v Speaker 1>According to Max, the detective immediately shut the door and

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<v Speaker 1>walked away, taking in what he had just seen. A

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<v Speaker 1>high level policeman having sex in the workplace. Max says

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<v Speaker 1>someone reported it to their supervisor.

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<v Speaker 5>Nothing was known about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Even when it was allegedly reported to a division commander.

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<v Speaker 5>Instead of saying, hey, you know this is outrageous. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>we're not going to tolerate this. You can't do this

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<v Speaker 5>bring a discredit to the department, he said, don't you

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<v Speaker 5>people have locks on your doors? Sexual miss condec was

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<v Speaker 5>something the you know that just wasn't considered to be

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<v Speaker 5>a bad thing. You know, Roger just being Roger. That's

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<v Speaker 5>kind of like a boy's will be boys.

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<v Speaker 1>We reached out to the division commander Max is referring to,

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<v Speaker 1>and his response was, this is an old rumor spread

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<v Speaker 1>around the police department that was followed up on years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Had it occurred, an investigation would have resulted. Max says

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<v Speaker 1>some officers in the police department knew about Glupski's misconduct.

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<v Speaker 1>Others even witnessed his behavior in the office and on

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<v Speaker 1>the streets, but he wasn't stopped. Gulupski kept his position

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<v Speaker 1>of power and continued to target women like Nico Quinn's

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<v Speaker 1>older sister Stacy. He would give her drugs to encourage

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<v Speaker 1>her dependence and then force her into having sex with him.

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<v Speaker 4>He would arrest her for prostitution and put her in

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<v Speaker 4>jail drugs or whatever, and she would like she didn't

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<v Speaker 4>understand because he was the one bringing to her.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a vicious cycle that was not only destroying

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<v Speaker 1>her life, but affecting the people who loved and dependent

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<v Speaker 1>on her too, because Stacy was a mother. In her

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<v Speaker 1>teenage years, Stacey had given birth to her only son,

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<v Speaker 1>a boy named Joranelle, and in spite of everything, she

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<v Speaker 1>spent the eighties and nineties trying to be a good

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<v Speaker 1>mom My.

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<v Speaker 6>Mama was really outgoing. You know, when music come on,

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<v Speaker 6>she had to be saying it. Dance out that, well,

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<v Speaker 6>you used to dance. She used to connect with me

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<v Speaker 6>on that, like different songs that I used to listen to.

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<v Speaker 1>There's one song they both loved, the early nineties classic

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<v Speaker 1>jump by Chris Cross. Remember it, Jump Jump, Chris Cross

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<v Speaker 1>will make you.

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<v Speaker 6>She turned the music all the way up, and she

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<v Speaker 6>turned a little light on and she clashed music and

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<v Speaker 6>we just started dancing. Just she'll robing. She was on

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<v Speaker 6>my level and the hype me up, you know, and

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<v Speaker 6>made me feel better.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy would take Joannelle to the park and show him

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<v Speaker 1>her backbends. She spent hours teaching him how to play

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<v Speaker 1>chess and making sure he felt loved. But as Joanelle

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<v Speaker 1>got older, he began to notice his mother's issues.

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<v Speaker 6>I knew exactly what was going on, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>know like was that normal or not?

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<v Speaker 4>You feel me?

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<v Speaker 6>When I got older, I realized it gets bad like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy's addiction, trauma, and mental health issues made it hard

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<v Speaker 1>for her to be a present and stable parent, so

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<v Speaker 1>his family arranged for Janelle to move out and be

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<v Speaker 1>taken care of by their relatives.

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<v Speaker 6>I always thought about her just like she thought about me,

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<v Speaker 6>because it don't matter what you know. My mama is

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<v Speaker 6>a mama. It wasn't a day she hadn't seen me.

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<v Speaker 6>Let me know she's doing good, Get me kisses.

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<v Speaker 1>While Stacey could no longer look after her family, the way.

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<v Speaker 4>She used to.

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<v Speaker 1>She still had a protective streak, which brings us back

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<v Speaker 1>to where the story started the spring of nineteen ninety four,

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<v Speaker 1>when tragedy hit Guendero and Stacy and Nico's cousins Danielle

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<v Speaker 1>and Donnie were murdered. When Stacey saw her younger sister, Nico,

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<v Speaker 1>being drawn into detective Glupski's orbit during the murder investigation,

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<v Speaker 1>her protective older sister instincts kicked in. Nico remembers the

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<v Speaker 1>moment when she and Gallupski ended up in the room

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<v Speaker 1>together around the time of Lamon's trial.

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<v Speaker 4>We've sitt in this little room and man Galuski was

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<v Speaker 4>in his room. That's when he started hitting on me.

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<v Speaker 4>Or I heard you dance, or I heard you used

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<v Speaker 4>to be a dancer. Once you get on the table

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<v Speaker 4>and let me watch you dance, I'll pay you. I'll this.

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<v Speaker 4>At this time, my sister walked in and she looks

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<v Speaker 4>at him, and she looks at me. He had the

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<v Speaker 4>little grid on his face. So she pushed me, pulled

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<v Speaker 4>me back and put her hand in his face and said,

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<v Speaker 4>this one right here, you're gonna leave alone. You ain't

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<v Speaker 4>gonna touch this one. You ain't gonna get this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacey turned away from Gallupski and looked at Nico, her

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<v Speaker 1>face serious, and she.

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<v Speaker 4>Said, don't ever mess with this dude. This dude is

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<v Speaker 4>the devil. He's a snake, he's dangerous, He'll hurt you.

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<v Speaker 1>Glupski had ruined Stacy Quinn's life, corr s Nico into

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<v Speaker 1>a false testimony, and sent an innocent man to prison

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<v Speaker 1>for murder. But as we were about to discover, Gulupski

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<v Speaker 1>had even more power over their city than the Quinn

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<v Speaker 1>family could have possibly imagined. We knew he assaulted women

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<v Speaker 1>and abused his power. But there was another mystery at

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<v Speaker 1>the heart of the story, and the Quinn sisters were

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<v Speaker 1>about to find themselves right in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Middle of it. We got here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting in a room with Khadisha. So this looks

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<v Speaker 1>like an affidavit. We're looking through a bunch of files

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<v Speaker 1>and papers AffA David, State of Kansas, County of Jefferson.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh this is for Stacy. Stay Stacy Quan.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the first thing I can tell you, just the

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<v Speaker 3>form itself looks historic, right, yeah, I mean you can

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<v Speaker 3>tell it goes back decades.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, the Affidavid was signed in nineteen ninety six,

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<v Speaker 1>two years after LaMonte McIntyre was convicted for her cousin

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<v Speaker 1>Danielle's murder. It turned out that, like Nico, Stacey was

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<v Speaker 1>desperate to do what she could to free Lamont from

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<v Speaker 1>his wrongful conviction. Because Stacy had been at the scene

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<v Speaker 1>of the shooting too, she had actually seen the shooter's face,

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<v Speaker 1>but for some reason, Nico was the only sister called

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<v Speaker 1>in as a witness. Stacy describes what happened in the Affidavid.

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<v Speaker 3>The man had braids in his hair and had on

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<v Speaker 3>black pants with a white T shirt with black riding

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<v Speaker 3>on it. The man walked up to the passenger side

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<v Speaker 3>of the light blue car, pointing the shotgun at the

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<v Speaker 3>passenger and fired twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy saw the shooter, but she was never called in

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<v Speaker 1>to make a witness statement.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think it was because she already had the

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<v Speaker 3>relationship with Roger Gluspi.

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<v Speaker 1>Kadija and I couldn't help. But wonder if Gulupski had

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<v Speaker 1>kept Stacy away from the murder investigation on purpose. Was

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<v Speaker 1>he worried about bringing a woman he'd abuse to the

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<v Speaker 1>police station. Was he trying to avoid the risk that

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<v Speaker 1>she might expose him. A year went by and Nico

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<v Speaker 1>moved on, But then she got an unexpected phone call

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<v Speaker 1>from Minneapolis.

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody had kidnapped her and took her to Minneapolis, Minnesota.

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<v Speaker 4>They told us they had found her beaten. She was

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<v Speaker 4>naked in Excreuse of Minnesota in the wintertime. So me,

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<v Speaker 4>my sister, my mom, and my cousin drove up to

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<v Speaker 4>go get Stacy.

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<v Speaker 1>The police reassured them that Stacy was alive, but when

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<v Speaker 1>they arrived in Minneapolis, they were distraught to see just

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<v Speaker 1>how violently she'd been attacked.

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<v Speaker 4>She said that two guys in a truck kidnapped her,

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<v Speaker 4>beat her up, raped her, sodomized her, and took out

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<v Speaker 4>her clothes and stuff, and left her in the middle

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<v Speaker 4>of the street of Minneapolis, Minnesota. She was so beat

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<v Speaker 4>up in Bruce and my thought was, aren't you tired

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<v Speaker 4>of going through this?

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<v Speaker 1>Nico doesn't know why her sister was kidnapped, but it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the first time Stacy's life on the streets had

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<v Speaker 1>led her to become a victim of brutal violence. It

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:54.800
<v Speaker 1>was painful to witness her sister's downward spiral love. Nico

0:28:54.920 --> 0:28:58.360
<v Speaker 1>realized would not be enough to break Stacy out of addiction.

0:29:01.080 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 1>Nico could use her experiences, though, to support other women

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 1>in her community struggling with their mental health addictions and

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<v Speaker 1>the dangers of working on the streets. By nineteen ninety eight,

0:29:15.480 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 1>Nico was twenty six and had gotten a job at

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<v Speaker 1>the local post office. She had her own place, and

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<v Speaker 1>while it wasn't grand, she believed in helping as many

0:29:23.840 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 1>people as she could with the resources she had. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you'd walked into Nico's house back then, you would

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<v Speaker 1>have seen a revolving door of friends, relatives, and neighbors

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<v Speaker 1>who found refuge within those welcoming walls.

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<v Speaker 4>I talked to a lot of the women on the

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<v Speaker 4>streets that I kind of made my house like a

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<v Speaker 4>safe house, and that made me feel good because I

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<v Speaker 4>was able to do something for these people that nobody

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<v Speaker 4>else would do because they looked down at them. I

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<v Speaker 4>knew about twenty of them that would come and sit

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<v Speaker 4>and talk to me, or come and if it's hot,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe they just want to come and cool all for

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<v Speaker 4>our glass of ice water. The Bible said, if you

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<v Speaker 4>can't do anything else, give your brother or sister a drink.

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<v Speaker 4>Give them shelter, give them food if they're hungry, and

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I try to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Nico's home was a sanctuary, a place to sleep for

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<v Speaker 1>a few nights while they got ready to pick themselves up.

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<v Speaker 4>I will make sure they eat, make sure they was

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<v Speaker 4>warm or cool. When it was summertime. I'll let them

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<v Speaker 4>wash their clothes, take showers, and just relax from whatever

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<v Speaker 4>it is they've been through. And just sitting there talking

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<v Speaker 4>to a lot of the women, they are human, just

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<v Speaker 4>like we are.

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<v Speaker 1>They just got dealt a bad hand. One of those

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<v Speaker 1>women was Ronda Tribute.

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<v Speaker 4>Ronda had moved up on twenty second in fen Dura.

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<v Speaker 1>On an early autumn night, Ronda came over for a chat.

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<v Speaker 4>She was just talking to me about her kids and

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<v Speaker 4>her husband and the stuff her husband said and told her.

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<v Speaker 4>And I asked her how did she end up getting

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<v Speaker 4>out on the streets, and she was saying she was

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<v Speaker 4>being abused and she confided in me on some things.

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<v Speaker 1>Nico suggested something to take Ronda's mind off things.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, do you want to go across the street

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<v Speaker 4>and have some drinks? And she was like, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 4>I want to take a bath, change my clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>So they did what friends did, listened to music and

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<v Speaker 1>got ready together, going back and forth about who they

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<v Speaker 1>might see that night and what they would wear.

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<v Speaker 4>She was saying, I got this shirt in my bag.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a black shirt with like some orange and

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<v Speaker 4>different colored flowers on it, and I gave her some

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<v Speaker 4>rust orange Kaylee jeans to put on.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it was time to do their hair and makeup.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the nineties, so they went for an old

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<v Speaker 1>school look.

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<v Speaker 4>I gave her like a frieze, some fingerways, then you

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<v Speaker 4>pull it up like scrunches. She had a short haircut

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<v Speaker 4>with a little brown or auburn color in our hair,

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<v Speaker 4>like a blonde in her hair. And I'll never forget that.

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<v Speaker 1>They crossed the road for a couple of drinks. Then

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<v Speaker 1>they went back to Nicos.

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<v Speaker 4>We came back and sat on the porch and she

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<v Speaker 4>was like she's waiting on a rod.

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<v Speaker 1>A car drove up the road. Inside was a white

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<v Speaker 1>man with bushy eyebrows and a thick mustache, Detective Roger Gallupski.

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<v Speaker 4>Galuski went up the street, went down the street.

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<v Speaker 1>After a moment, Ronda got up, leaving Nico in the porch.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, well, I gotta go. I watched her walk

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<v Speaker 4>out my door, walk up the street, make the right,

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<v Speaker 4>then a left. She walked around the band from my house.

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<v Speaker 1>Ronda took a turn and left Nico's line of sight.

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<v Speaker 1>A few moments later, of Glupski's car drove back down

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<v Speaker 1>the road. Nico leaned forward to take a closer look.

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<v Speaker 1>Ronda was in the passenger seat.

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<v Speaker 4>She was sitting back in a chair like she had

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<v Speaker 4>the chair reclining back, but I could see the hair

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<v Speaker 4>and I think a day or two later day end

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<v Speaker 4>of finding her in the middle of K thirty two.

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<v Speaker 1>Deceased, Nico was heartbroken. Her friend had been killed. She'd

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<v Speaker 1>been the last one to see her, and she knew

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<v Speaker 1>who Ronda had left with Gallupski. She was terrified and

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<v Speaker 1>desperate for answers. The autopsy report found that Ronda had

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<v Speaker 1>died from multiple blows to her head, but while the

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<v Speaker 1>police launched an investigation, they never pinned down the suspect.

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<v Speaker 1>After that, Nico held her love once tight and continued

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<v Speaker 1>to do what she could to support the women in

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<v Speaker 1>her community. One of those women was Monique Allen, a

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<v Speaker 1>twenty six year old who was down on her luck.

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<v Speaker 4>Monique ended up coming to my house. She ended up

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<v Speaker 4>staying with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Nico had young children, and so Monique would help her

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<v Speaker 1>with them.

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<v Speaker 4>She would do my daughter's hair or my boys hair

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<v Speaker 4>because my son had long hair, and get them dressed,

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<v Speaker 4>had them pretty cute going to school.

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<v Speaker 1>They were good friends. They would talk about their children

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<v Speaker 1>and their lives growing up on the northeast side of

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<v Speaker 1>Kansas City. But like Rond and Stacy, Monique had gotten

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<v Speaker 1>caught up with the life on the streets. Nico can

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<v Speaker 1>still remember one of the times they hung out at

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<v Speaker 1>her house in the winter of nineteen ninety eight.

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<v Speaker 4>She braided my hair. Frinch braided my hair, and she

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<v Speaker 4>said she was going to see her mom. I believe

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<v Speaker 4>she took a ship. She told me she was gonna

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<v Speaker 4>call somebody, so who you call.

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<v Speaker 1>A Monique had a card with a phone number.

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<v Speaker 4>She set it on the table and I looked at it,

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<v Speaker 4>and she said, girl, I'm about to go give me

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<v Speaker 4>some money. I need to get some money. I watched

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<v Speaker 4>her walk out my door, walk up the street and

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<v Speaker 4>over to a blue police vehicle. She got into the

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<v Speaker 4>car and then it drove away. And then the next

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<v Speaker 4>morning they find her dead in the middle of the street.

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<v Speaker 4>Off of Eighteenth and the side street.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Rhonda, Monique had been murdered, she.

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<v Speaker 4>Had been bludget, they had beat her. I think.

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<v Speaker 1>The phone number Monique had dialed it belonged to Detective

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<v Speaker 1>Roger Glupski.

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<v Speaker 4>It was so crazy to me because I probably was

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<v Speaker 4>the last one to see them alive or even talked

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<v Speaker 4>to them that day. And I'm like, father, God, why

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<v Speaker 4>is this so? Why am I the last one to

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<v Speaker 4>talk to these women? And then they're gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Monique and Ronda's murders were investigated by the KCKPD, but

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<v Speaker 1>no one was arrested or convicted. Nico didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do. The women in her community were in crisis,

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<v Speaker 1>Her friends were being killed, and the man who lurked

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<v Speaker 1>in the shadows of their lives seemed untouchable. Quindero felt

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<v Speaker 1>more dangerous than ever, and things were about to get

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<v Speaker 1>worse because for Nico, her greatest, most terrifying heartbreak lay

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<v Speaker 1>just around the corner, coming up on the girlfriends untouchable.

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<v Speaker 4>There's too many predators, there's too many devils out here.

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<v Speaker 3>The whole time he's holding a gun to their head.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to save y'all. I'm trying to protect y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey about to issue a warrant go look for his

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<v Speaker 3>mother pleasure?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this worth risking my life for it? The Girlfriend's

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<v Speaker 1>Untouchable is produced by Novel for iHeart Podcasts. For more

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<v Speaker 1>by me Nicki Richardson. It was written and produced by

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