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Speaker 1: All right, guys, and it's time for us The CLO Chief.

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Speaker 2: Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This one is from Marquita in Norfolk. Marquita says, my

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Speaker 1: husband and I have a twenty five year old son

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Speaker 1: and he's been staying with my husband's mother to help

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Speaker 1: her since she had surgery five months ago. My son

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Speaker 1: is ready to move out and get on with his life,

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Speaker 1: but my mother in law pitched a fit and said

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Speaker 1: she can't live alone. My husband's way of solving the

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Speaker 1: problem is to tell his mom she can move in

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Speaker 1: with us so she won't be lonely. There is no

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Speaker 1: way I'm living with this manipulative old woman. My husband

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Speaker 1: and my son are under her spell, but I'm not

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Speaker 1: What should I do?

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Speaker 3: Well, she definitely can't move into your house if you

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Speaker 3: don't want her. The boy wants to go and be

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Speaker 3: on his own, he's twenty five. I mean, is she

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Speaker 3: does she need help or she just don't want to

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Speaker 3: live alone. If she don't want to live alone? To

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Speaker 3: give you, we got to get you some company down

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Speaker 3: not to Senior Citizen Home home, cause you know we

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Speaker 3: can drive you down there and let you meet some

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Speaker 3: friends or something, but you can't, you're not living in hell.

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Speaker 3: And she probably is manipulative. And she has a son

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Speaker 3: and a grandson on the spell. But the boy don't

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Speaker 3: want to be under the spell no more. He wants

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Speaker 3: to move and go live his life. And you can't

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Speaker 3: expect a twenty five year old boy to take care

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Speaker 3: of grandmama now. And now her husband wants to volunteer.

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Speaker 3: She can move here with y'all, So y'all won't be alone.

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Speaker 3: But you ain't gonna be a watch TV.

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Speaker 1: And it's gonna cause a problem in her marriage.

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Speaker 4: They have no company. Hell, no old people hear everything,

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Speaker 4: all right?

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Speaker 2: So what should she do?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Set her husband down and explain to her her feelings.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't want to live with anybody, and can they

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Speaker 3: make some other arrangements?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 4: Do you use the word heppa.

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Speaker 1: That?

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Speaker 2: Mother?

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Speaker 4: Jay? I don't think you'll be able to do that,

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Speaker 4: all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on, bev and Delaware writes, I'm dating a guy

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Speaker 1: I've known most of my life, but I've never thought

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Speaker 1: of him as my type until recently. We haven't been intimate,

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Speaker 1: but we do a lot of kissing and touching. I

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Speaker 1: noticed that he doesn't wear underwear, and it's becoming a

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Speaker 1: problem because it moves all around and it's out of

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Speaker 1: control most of the time. This is a turnoff for

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Speaker 1: me and a possible deal breaker. How can I be

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Speaker 1: honest and tell him he needs underwear? Or is this

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Speaker 1: normal nowadays?

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Speaker 4: Lady?

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Speaker 3: Well, are you for real? Are you for real? A

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Speaker 3: deal breaker? Is a man don't wear underwear? See, let

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Speaker 3: me tell you something, Bev. You may not have thought

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Speaker 3: of him that way, but he'd been thinking about you

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Speaker 3: that way.

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Speaker 4: That's why he ain't got no draws off? What happened?

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Speaker 2: One more time?

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Speaker 4: What is talking about?

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Speaker 3: She's never thought of him that way, but now they're

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Speaker 3: getting sack romantic. They haven't had secret they do it,

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Speaker 3: but they do a lot of kitchen and kissing and touching,

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Speaker 3: and it is moving all around because he don't wear underwear,

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Speaker 3: And she say that's a turn off to her. So

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Speaker 3: is that a deal breaker because he don't wear underwear?

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Speaker 3: How the hell is a man don't wear underwear a

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Speaker 3: deal breaker? How stupid is that? And what I was

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Speaker 3: trying to tell Bev was you may not have thought

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Speaker 3: of him in that way while y'all growing up, but

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Speaker 3: he been thinking about you that way the whole time.

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Speaker 3: Thus that's why he ain't got on no damn underwear,

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Speaker 3: because we one step closer to glory without this.

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Speaker 4: Underwear command, you know.

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Speaker 3: And since you're doing all this stuff with it, you

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Speaker 3: might want to, you know, just try everything. And I

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Speaker 3: don't need no you know, tidy white? Is it boxes

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Speaker 3: all up in the way? But how has that a

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Speaker 3: turn off though? And a deal breaker?

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Speaker 1: Maybe she is the one that just bouncing around, you

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Speaker 1: know everyone.

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Speaker 3: It's all you can get your hands off of it.

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Speaker 4: That's exactly what it says.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she said, read it, Shirley, read the letter.

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Speaker 1: I noticed that he doesn't wear underwear, and it's becoming

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Speaker 1: a problem because it moves all around and it's out

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Speaker 1: of control most of the time.

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Speaker 3: And how does she know it move unless you have this,

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Speaker 3: unless you have noticed the location before.

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Speaker 2: But you can notice it with your eyes, you're saying

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Speaker 2: with her.

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Speaker 3: Hands, Shirley, you didn't read the whole letter. They touch

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Speaker 3: a lot, okay, they bounce, so what is a touching?

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Speaker 3: Surely you can stop all this being innocent now would

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Speaker 3: read these letters as a Christian?

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Speaker 4: All right? Yeah, stop reading these letters.

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Speaker 1: Like that, Okay, it's bouncing all around, and it's control

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Speaker 1: most of the time. And what is supposed to be

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Speaker 1: She's asking is this normal nowadays?

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Speaker 2: Or should she tell him she needs underwear?

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Speaker 3: You can tell him he needs underwear, But what if

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Speaker 3: you keep touching it fall?

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Speaker 4: What do you think is going to happen? Is this

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Speaker 4: one was stupid?

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Speaker 2: I don't see it that way.

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Speaker 4: Just tell Shirley, what do you think problem is? Did now?

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Speaker 4: You tell me?

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Speaker 1: I just think that he doesn't wear underwear period And because.

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Speaker 2: It's out of control most of the time.

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Speaker 4: Because we want something to happen.

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Speaker 3: A man no where draws when he's anticipating something happening.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that's what draws most.

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Speaker 1: He can't wear underwear if it in cases something does happen,

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Speaker 1: it's something wrong the underwear, I mean taking them off whatever.

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Speaker 4: Excuse me, excuse me, excuse me. Let's stop this right here,

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Speaker 4: Let's stop hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me

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Speaker 4: just say this, and I ain't in your business. Let

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Speaker 4: me just make this statement. Let's go to the.

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Speaker 3: Next y'all don't wear underwear all the time either.

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Speaker 4: Let's move on to the next. Damn question.

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Speaker 2: It's not all the time. Most of the time.

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Speaker 1: All Right, it's not about Yeah, that's your clo.

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Speaker 2: I'm sick. Oh, we don't have enough time for this one, Steve.

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Speaker 3: Because we spend too much time with y'all in disbelief

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Speaker 3: that he don't have no damn underwear.

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Speaker 4: The hell you think.

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Speaker 2: You you're listening

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Speaker 4: Morning show