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Speaker 1: I called my baby daddy a spineless creep for what

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Speaker 1: that's the question. Why is he a spineless creep?

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Speaker 2: And John, the poster of this is our asshole. This

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Speaker 2: let's get into this thing. A little bit of context

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Speaker 2: for you all. I ended up falling pregnant with my

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Speaker 2: ten year old daughter during a drunken hookup with a

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Speaker 2: friend in my mid twenties. Nice. Not the most glamorous

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Speaker 2: or flattering truth, but it is the truth all the same.

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Speaker 2: When we found out, we decided to keep the child

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Speaker 2: and co parent while remaining friends. We were never a

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Speaker 2: couple and we didn't want to be one either. Just

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Speaker 2: hot pies of ass, hotpies of me. Yep, it happens,

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Speaker 2: hot steamy sex, and you know, that's what it was

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Speaker 2: always supposed to be. But you know, alas when you

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Speaker 2: when you and go, you might get a baby O,

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Speaker 2: that's right. So four years ago he began to date

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Speaker 2: his long term girlfriend and they moved in together. Last

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Speaker 2: year she fell pregnant. Wasn't everyone falling pregnant?

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Speaker 1: Oh? No?

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Speaker 2: And I've been supportive to them both as much as

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Speaker 2: the pregnancy and to behave I've also made it clear

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Speaker 2: despite having different mothers. I've even said that if they

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Speaker 2: if they ever want time alone, I'll babysit once they

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Speaker 2: have the baby, so my daughter can spend time with

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Speaker 2: her siblings, so she's not offering a babysit like pretty

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Speaker 2: stand up. Pretty All in all, I thought everything was

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Speaker 2: going great, besides the whole like cooking up with everyone falling,

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Speaker 2: and I was excited for my daughter to have a sibling,

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Speaker 2: as she's always wanted one, But I had no interest

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Speaker 2: in having enough child because this one sucked. Oh She'm kidding,

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Speaker 2: but no interest in having another child. Three days ago,

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Speaker 2: my friend and his girlfriend had a daughter. They asked

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Speaker 2: her little sister yesterday alongside others of the family. It

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Speaker 2: what could go wrong? Nothing? Nothing? No, this is read

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Speaker 1: So I did exactly that. But when they introduced us

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Speaker 2: Why was she shocked?

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Speaker 1: John?

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Speaker 2: You ready tell me they used my daughter's name? Uh? Oh,

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Speaker 2: Like if the daughter's name was Cheryl, this new baby's

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Speaker 2: name is Cheryl.

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Speaker 1: You've heard of two women wearing the same dress to

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Speaker 1: an event. One of us has gotta change chaos, one

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Speaker 2: There can't be two. That's that's kind of a fucked

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Speaker 3: Could you imagine O Kop with Sam and Sam?

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Speaker 2: Fuck? No, that would be terrible. It would be awful.

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Speaker 2: what to do with myself. Nice anyway, that was terrible. Uh.

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Speaker 2: She didn't seem to have any issue with this when

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Speaker 2: being the longtime girlfriend right. My friend seemed uncomfortable and

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Speaker 2: wouldn't look at me directly. I asked them what they

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Speaker 2: playing at? Buy? What that doing? Something? I think that's

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Speaker 2: like something that Snape says, what are you playing at?

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Speaker 2: What are you playing at? You know what I'm talking about, Riley.

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Speaker 2: You've never watched Harry Potter.

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Speaker 3: One and my friends are playing on doing.

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Speaker 1: You've never watched Harry Potter. Nathan, you've never watched Harry Potter.

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Speaker 1: What is this generation coming to? I don't know, dude,

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Speaker 1: Well me as an old decrepit, just piece of dust.

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Speaker 3: You know you are, Nathan.

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Speaker 2: At which point my friend's father said he'd take my

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Speaker 1: It was a pretty name. You should be grateful that

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Speaker 2: That's funny. I asked them if they'd name the baby

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Speaker 2: it's just cool, and then asked if they planned to

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Speaker 2: a need for that? It's like that story red where

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Speaker 3: That was crazy.

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Speaker 2: I told them they were being ridiculous and they couldn't

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Speaker 2: Didn't say that, but as I said that, yeah, he

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Speaker 2: tried to claim our daughter could use a nickname or something. What, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that what they want to name their child is their choice,

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Speaker 2: off limits or jested. They even have the same surname,

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Speaker 2: and for both of them to spring it on us

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Speaker 3: That is hilarious.

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Speaker 2: So to everyone listening and watching, what do you think?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just imagining right now, there's a Samuel

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Speaker 2: Samuel Donor and like, hey, can you change your name

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: We have new Sam over here? Yeah, and we don't

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Speaker 2: be too rude. Change to like flob Yeah, can you flop? Hey?

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Speaker 3: Can we just call you like like flesh back?

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Speaker 2: Maybe ye do something fun like fleshy? You know, I

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Speaker 2: just call you like Yesterday's old news. We call you

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Speaker 1: Can we call you a boomer? Let's call you boomer. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what Nathan and Riley want to call me. That's

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Speaker 1: actually what they called me. I don't want to call

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Speaker 1: your back, but to my face, that's just straight to

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but like what do you what do

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Speaker 2: you think a whole move? Yeah, it's not cool. I

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Speaker 2: don't think it's cool. I don't think it's cool. I mean, like, yes,

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Speaker 2: you can name your kid whatever you want, unless it's

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Speaker 2: like you haven't, Like you wouldn't you wouldn't name two

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Speaker 2: and like this is literally like the father of both kids,

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Speaker 2: Like you wouldn't as a father, you wouldn't name both

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Speaker 3: That would be the dumbest thing ever.

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Speaker 2: But I want to know what everyone else. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: your answers below. But uh, maybe she get into this

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Speaker 2: next story, do it.

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Speaker 3: I made another woman pretend to be my girlfriend in

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Speaker 3: front of my actual girlfriend. But I can explain.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? Babe? This sad chick means

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Speaker 2: nothing to me, not at all nothing. You know, she

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Speaker 2: might be better looking than you. Yeah, she might be

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Speaker 2: just better than you for sure, But don't take offense

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Speaker 2: to that, not at all. Just like, don't gaslight me,

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Speaker 2: just don't gaslight me, Like, let me live. Do you

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Speaker 2: want me to live a lie? Do you want me

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Speaker 2: to be happy? Then let me date all of these

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Speaker 1: A girlfriend as an excuse for if you're caught cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just so hallo. Why don't you want me

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Speaker 3: I'm acting.

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Speaker 2: I'm a method actor, an actor. Oh god.

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Speaker 1: I also love how my my girlfriend was walking by.

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Speaker 1: I am just like huh so, I male twenty five

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Speaker 2: Oh he's trying to be a nice guy. Then this frantic.

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Speaker 1: She walked to like a stalker, like a creep, just

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Speaker 3: Like kind of bugged out looking lady.

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Speaker 2: Right or man?

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Speaker 1: It was a man following, There was a There was

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Speaker 1: and a man following the frantic following the frantic woman. Yes,

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Speaker 1: she walks up to me and says, hey, baby, can

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Speaker 2: We want to listen to that voice.

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Speaker 1: Ah, you're right, it's okay. Hey baby, I'm glad you

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Speaker 1: were waiting where you said you'd be. I was confused

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Speaker 1: at first, but I quickly understood the situation. This guy

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Speaker 1: weird things like just give me your number, and you're

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Speaker 2: So basically, what's happening is this girl is being chased

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Speaker 2: by a creep and she's using ope as like the

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend. Oh.

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Speaker 3: I did not get that until you explained to Now.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like it soul for making this?

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Speaker 1: I agree. It's like I was literally like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's just some insane ladies wandering the streets. My god, sorry,

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Speaker 1: heard that, And the answer is that all happened very fast,

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Speaker 2: Been you don't necessarily know what's going on. Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know what was going on.

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Speaker 2: I was reading it.

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Speaker 1: Once I put it together, I said, oh, hey, honey,

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Speaker 2: Home, and we started making out and then we fucked.

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Speaker 3: It was so weird and so like it's kind of happened.

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Speaker 2: And my girlfriend just got mad about it, and it

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Speaker 2: was like, Babe, there was a woman in crisis. Come on,

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Speaker 2: I had to help. She needed the bone bow wow.

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Speaker 1: Eventually the guy left, but not because she wanted him

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Speaker 1: a dude was like basically like she couldn't get him

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Speaker 1: like all right, see you later, Like goodbye, goodbye, get

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend had been watching this from the window and

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Speaker 1: out her grievances. This girl had no more money for

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Speaker 2: And it was poor girl.

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Speaker 1: It was a terrible night, so I arranged for an

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Speaker 2: All right, like just jokes aside, OP is like, really,

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Speaker 2: stand up, guy, he's doing doing I mean, and this

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Speaker 2: Like just like if there's a creepy guy go up

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Speaker 2: you one hundred percent. It's it was this alid tactic

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Speaker 2: and like good on op for catching on and going

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Speaker 1: I one time had four women. It was me and

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Speaker 3: Bar whoa not like that, not like that?

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Speaker 1: Me and four friends who I had no relationship birthday six, No,

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Speaker 3: I was like twin cheer old be like fuck.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, they're with me.

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Speaker 3: So they all got boyfriends and.

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Speaker 2: And they're all me. All of them are my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: It was bad. They kept like trying to do it

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Speaker 1: and it was, uh, it was not fun. But eventually

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Speaker 1: back to your place. The heat was technically we went

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Speaker 3: There many men in the bar.

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Speaker 1: There's many men that to the airbnb, many men at

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Speaker 1: the Airbnb. Who were the many of which the actual

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Speaker 1: boyfriends that I mentioned. I can't believe you took all

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Speaker 3: I can't wain today.

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Speaker 1: Uh jumping ahead, this is the story, not me, So

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Speaker 1: jumping ahead to when I was at home with my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: She asked me what was all that about, and wanted

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Speaker 1: I stayed after the creep left. She put together that

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Speaker 2: Probably, I mean, they're freaking role playing for safety. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's a terrible way of putting it up, like that's

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Speaker 2: what that Come on, dude.

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Speaker 1: Even after the guy left she removed it. None of

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Speaker 1: my explanations were working, so I just turned her and said.

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Speaker 3: What would you have wanted me to do?

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Speaker 2: Right? A fair question?

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Speaker 1: And if you were here, what would you have wanted

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Speaker 2: Come on, come on, dude, like, no good de goes unpunished.

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Speaker 1: Man was literally preventing this girl from like possibly getting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like, where's women supporting women? Come on? Like,

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Speaker 1: She's he's literally the most chivalrous dude for doing this,

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Speaker 1: and she's attacking him for she's keeping her hands at

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Speaker 1: to save her life.

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Speaker 2: It's bad, dude. If you have to give mouth to mouth,

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Speaker 2: don't no, let them die life into her lungs.

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Speaker 1: There was a ninety day fiance person who had to

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Speaker 1: literally not exaggerating, be on FaceTime for twenty four hours

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Speaker 1: a day with him to make sure he wasn't doing

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Speaker 1: anything in affairs for talking with.

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Speaker 2: Women twenty four hours a day.

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Speaker 1: He couldn't live with his mom and sister because guess

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Speaker 1: what incest mom and sister are women.

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Speaker 2: That's true. I can't talk to woms in Alabama. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: She'd be on the plane if he's helping or like,

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Speaker 1: it's wrong. Really, that's crazy. There's a standard that is

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Speaker 2: But also, I mean I I feel like the girlfriends

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Speaker 2: This seems this seems like a very obvious op is

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Speaker 2: not the A hole? Yes, but maybe there's something we're

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Speaker 2: missing here. Maybe let us on the comments and let's

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Speaker 2: get to the last story. What