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Speaker 2: Call from Tom.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hey, is this a gecko?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is this Tom?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? This is Tom.

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Speaker 1: How I'm good? How are you? What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Baby? Nothing much?

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: I was looking at your stream and I had gek

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Speaker 3: in the last four letters, and I had to wait

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Speaker 1: What are you doing right now?

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Speaker 3: I'm sitting at my desk this watching.

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Speaker 1: Hanging out with hanging out? Well, well, listen, man, is

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Speaker 1: there anything in particular you called in to want to

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Speaker 3: No, I've just been a long time fan. I think

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Speaker 3: it's an interesting what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, man. Hmmm, all right, let me think of something.

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Speaker 1: What's the most horrible thing you've ever seen?

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Speaker 3: The most horule thing I've ever seen? Hmmm. I think

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Speaker 3: it's when I was giving birth to a goat, well

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Speaker 3: assisting aiding giving birth to a goat, and then like

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Speaker 3: don't know why it happened. I guess I tugged too

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Speaker 3: hard and through weird experience for me, I think, you know,

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Speaker 3: people think about agriculture and they never think about, you know,

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Speaker 1: You how did you rip a goat in half?

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Speaker 3: Well? I think it was a prettymature goat, so like

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Speaker 3: the mother started like crowning and you have to pick

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Speaker 3: ready to be born yet, I don't know. I'm not

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Speaker 1: What so, what the fuck were you doing? What were

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Speaker 1: you doing helping a goat give birth? If you're not

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Speaker 3: Well, what are you gonna do at like three am

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Speaker 3: on the farm? Right? You're gonna call a vet out there? No,

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Speaker 1: So, like, are you when you get so like you

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Speaker 1: you were just had the head? Oh you're holding back? Wait,

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Speaker 1: so you you ripped the goat, You ripped the mom

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Speaker 3: In half the kid.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, that's a good that's a good answer

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Speaker 3: You kind of called me off guard with that. I

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Speaker 1: Man, No, somebody who wasn't expecting to have an answer,

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you're happy.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I'm happy, but I'm I'm satisfied. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know the word to express how

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Speaker 1: why are you giving birth to goats? What's do you

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Speaker 3: Well, I lived on a farm when I was growing up,

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Speaker 1: Oh that was the very first time you gave birth,

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't say it's the first time, you know, I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I suppose so, yeah, go ahead, please continue. No, yeah, okay, no,

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Speaker 3: I didn't think I was going to get through. It's like,

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Speaker 1: Early in the morning. Where what what time is it

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Speaker 3: It's three in the morning.

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Speaker 1: It's three in the morning, and you're on the phone

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Speaker 1: with a gecko telling him about the time that you

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Speaker 1: about your life right now?

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Speaker 3: You know, actually I feel pretty good.

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Speaker 1: You should.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my life hasn't always been so stable. I just

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Speaker 3: got accepted into engineering college. I got a new jobs.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: What's the job?

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Speaker 3: It's an it?

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Speaker 1: What do you what do you? What do you? Are

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Speaker 1: you big? Are you a big computer man? No?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean I've studied it in the past, and

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Speaker 3: But I think like it's it's a step in the

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's It's funny to me because you grew up

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Speaker 1: I think of computers as being very computery, and that

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Speaker 1: So what's your what's your dream in life? What's your

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Speaker 3: My ultimate goal? Well, I think I want to marry

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Speaker 3: this woman in Sweden.

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Speaker 1: Uh. Tell me about this woman in Sweden.

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Speaker 3: I met her when I was a freshman in college.

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Speaker 3: It's just everything she says about her life is just

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Speaker 3: They have wild parties and raves and all types of

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Speaker 3: intoxicants and imbibing and plenty of days off.

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Speaker 1: Mm hm. So you want to live with her so

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Speaker 3: Well, No, she doesn't live in Sweden. She lives in

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Speaker 3: but I want to go to Sweden because it's cold.

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Speaker 1: You like the cold.

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Speaker 3: I do like the cold, but personally I believe winter

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Speaker 1: Oh, because of global warming?

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Speaker 3: Correct? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. The Netlands is awesome too, though. I mean there's

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Speaker 1: plenty of raving and drugs, and there's play of raving

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 3: if that's my m It does seem like a very

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Speaker 1: Hey, look tell that to the folks in rehab. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So how did you meet this Swedish woman?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I know you said you were freshman in college, but

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Speaker 3: No? I wasn't. She actually came to like my co

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Speaker 3: I wasn't so interested in her friend, but more than her,

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Speaker 1: M What uh? Why why were you interested in her

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Speaker 3: She was German?

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Speaker 1: Uh? You have German fever?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess so. I guess that type of personality

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe the austere personality of the German women. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and then how would you describe the Swedish girl?

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Speaker 3: Very kind, very sweet, she bakes and you know it

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Speaker 1: Damn, she sounds cool. I can see why you want

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Speaker 3: Maybe not so much as drugs, but you know something settled.

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Speaker 1: Down with Well, Molly is a drug. But are you good?

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Speaker 1: Are you ever gonna go visit her in the Netherlands?

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Speaker 3: I think so. I I'm planning a trip to Mexico

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Speaker 3: and I want her to meet me down there.

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Speaker 1: So okay, she's gonna come meet you in Mexico.

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Speaker 3: Well that's the plan. Who knows? Bode Willing and the

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Speaker 1: Are you okay? So let's say, so is the deal

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Speaker 1: with this? I am going to Mexico. You can come

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Speaker 1: with me if you'd like, but if you don't come,

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Speaker 1: I'm still gonna go.

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Speaker 3: That's correct. Yeah, yeah, I'm still of Mexico.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, gone by myself.

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Speaker 3: Well maybe me and my dog. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, rock and roll. We're in Mexico.

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Speaker 4: Uh, Mexico City.

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Speaker 1: Mexico City. I went by myself to Mexico City, had

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Speaker 3: How did you do it? What was the logistics I

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Speaker 3: went on?

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Speaker 1: I went on the internet and I booked stuff and

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Speaker 1: then I physically got there. Okay, are you having are

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Speaker 1: you having logistical issues?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm quite far away from Mexico, so me and

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Speaker 3: my dog hopping in my car and driving?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, like if you want to bring the dog,

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Speaker 1: I have no idea how to get a dog to Mexico.

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Speaker 1: That sounds it sounds like a fun adventure taking a

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Speaker 1: dog to Mexico. I went without a dog. I don't

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Speaker 1: have a dog. But mm, why you awake at three

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Speaker 3: Don't get married?

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Speaker 3: No, my dog is my best friend in my entire world.

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Speaker 3: He goes with me everywhere. In fact, the years me

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope you guys have a good look. I

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you gek Man, it was a pleasure talking

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Speaker 1: Maybe one day I'd like to think that when you die,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I never thought about that, but that sounds horrific,

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Speaker 3: and thank you for implanting that in my mind.

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Speaker 1: You have a good night.

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Speaker 2: Ma'm thank you too. Oh hello, Hi, holy shit, man?

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Speaker 4: How you doing?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing all right, man? How are you?

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Speaker 4: I've been better, but we're here living life.

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Speaker 1: I've been better, but we're here living life. Is that

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Speaker 1: do you tell? Okay? When you say we're here living

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Speaker 4: What do you.

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Speaker 1: What is you here living life feel like? And how

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Speaker 1: Thank you for being honest with me.

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Speaker 4: Well, pretty much. I moved for a promotion and I

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Speaker 1: Where did you move to.

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Speaker 4: Massachusetts from New York?

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Speaker 1: That's not that bad?

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Speaker 4: No, no, not terrible. People have hours from where I

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Speaker 1: People have walked from New York to Massachusetts. Yeah, no, thanks, Okay,

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Speaker 1: did your family come with you? Do you have a family?

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Speaker 3: Na?

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Speaker 4: Same thing for the same company.

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Speaker 1: Same thing for the same company. And then what how

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Speaker 4: I didn't hate it as much before, but coming up here,

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Speaker 4: basically I'm working on a branch that was not very

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Speaker 1: Okay, So now that you've quit, what do you do

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Speaker 1: you have a plan of what you want to do

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Speaker 4: Well, since I live in a state that's legal, and

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Speaker 4: I liked some weed when it was illegal, maybe I'll

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Speaker 1: I love that idea. I love so much that that's

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Speaker 1: I think you're just you're progressive. You know, you're ahead

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Speaker 1: You ever have you been to I'm an idiot. Have

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Speaker 4: So I've never left the US, but I've been the

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Speaker 1: Which which state is? I don't you know the laws?

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Speaker 4: Texas isn't too good on weed laws, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: And is that state like all the people who are

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Speaker 4: I think they're subject to the same laws. I think

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Speaker 1: That sucks that even like if you're like, if you like,

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Speaker 1: So that's crazy. How long did you sell weed illegally

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 4: For a bit? I pretty much started up when I

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Speaker 1: Okay. You know, did you have fun selling weed?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: That does sound kind of fun. Would anyone do you think,

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Speaker 4: Ah, yeah, I mean Tankley, I got caught once. But

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Speaker 4: You want to start in the middle, and then we'll

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Speaker 4: start at the beginning. I just how you want to

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Speaker 1: Do you want to tell me? You know what? What's

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Speaker 1: I want to hear your story, all right.

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Speaker 4: So, basically, driving with the buddy of mine and we

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Speaker 1: And but they well, what's stay was this New York?

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Speaker 1: All right? So it was they don't like lock you up.

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Speaker 1: They just give you like a charge or did they

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: They Yeah, technically you're like brought to the station and

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Speaker 1: It's so crazy that people were.

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Speaker 4: Like legal there now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so crazy that people were like locked up

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's people still locked up for that.

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Speaker 1: I about this is something you could research. I don't

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Speaker 1: for drugs that are now legal.

448
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's only right. It's kind of a

449
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,919
Speaker 4: dick moved to leave them locked up after it's been legalized.

450
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 1: Now when I when, I when do you think they're

451
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: going to legalize cocaine? And and you can make like

452
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: the apple store cocaine place.

453
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 4: That just reminds me. There was actually in I think

454
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,959
Speaker 4: it's GTA five, there's a little blurb in the radio

455
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 4: talking about a proposition to legalize cocaine, and that should

456
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 4: always made me laugh. And that's what that just reminded

457
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:16,239
Speaker 4: me of.

458
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: Do you think what do you do? You think they

459
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: should make all drugs legal.

460
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 4: At least like decriminalize and try to like treat people

461
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 4: that are addicted instead of just treating it as a

462
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 4: crime and shriven people in jail.

463
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 1: What's the name of this? What's so you're going to

464
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: start a weed store.

465
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 4: I mean, I'll probably start as a bud tender, but

466
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 4: that'd be a pretty dope career plan.

467
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 1: What now, I you know, when you go in, when

468
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: you apply for a job as a bud tender, can

469
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: you use past experience illegally selling drugs as part of

470
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: your resume? Because I think you should.

471
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 3: That's a good question.

472
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 4: I feel like you should be able to use it.

473
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 1: It's relevant experience to the job.

474
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 4: But I don't know, but it is definitely relevant experience.

475
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 4: You're definitely right.

476
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: It'd be funny if you had like a you know,

477
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 1: how so in high school, like the drug dealer, kids

478
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: would like post a picture of a huge nug on

479
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: their Snapchat story and just be like swipe up, Like

480
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: if you just showed up to the interview with like

481
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: a portfolio of the huge nug picks that you would

482
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 1: post on Snapchat.

483
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can, I can market I'm a marketing exactly

484
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 4: and exactly.

485
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: You laugh. But it would be a good if I

486
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: were hiring but tenders for my weed business, I would

487
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: be like, Yes, I want this guy.

488
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 4: Look at me put in the effort. He knows.

489
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 1: Mmmm. Okay, so you were well, so tell me this.

490
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: You start out this conversation saying that you have been better,

491
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: and yet it sounds as though, through us talking that

492
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: you have a nice, uh I don't know, path forward

493
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: for yourself. It sounds like you are optimistic about the future.

494
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: What's what's the deal?

495
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 4: Just I kind of feel stupid that I moved up

496
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 4: here for this opportunity and I ended up painting it.

497
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 4: But at the same time, it's kind of like if

498
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 4: I didn't do it, I would have been questioning whether

499
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 4: I should have or not?

500
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: Right, Why do you feel stupid? Why do you feel stupid?

501
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: That doesn't make sense to feel stupid about that.

502
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 4: Just because I guess just didn't work out.

503
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: Basically, okay, hoped do you feel you feel like yeah,

504
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: because you know, look not to not to act like

505
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: a fake therapist on the internet. But this belief you

506
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: have it that this was stupid is I hope you

507
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: uh eradicate that from your brain because it doesn't it

508
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: doesn't make a lot of sense.

509
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I guess you're right. It's just negative

510
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,959
Speaker 4: thought processing for some reason.

511
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: I mean, you were offered a position with more money

512
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: and with the information that you had to go off.

513
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: At the time, you were like, this could be a

514
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: good idea. I you know, Actually, here, I'm gonna tell

515
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: you something. I think if you were still in the job,

516
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: I think that would have been that would be stupid.

517
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 1: I actually think you made the not stupid decision by leaving.

518
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 4: I mean, I guess, I guess I'm just considering it

519
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 4: kind of stupid just because I don't have another job

520
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 4: lined up one percent yet and I still got bills

521
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 4: to pay. But I mean, I do have money in

522
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 4: the bank. I didn't just feel like, yeah, I have

523
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 4: no absolutely no plan, but still not trying to put

524
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 4: a gigantic dent in my bank account at the same time.

525
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: Well, you can go to the Taco Bell parking lot

526
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: and get some references to put down on your resume

527
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: and build up a giant portfolio of nugs, and I

528
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: think you'll be on your way in your time.

529
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's that seems like a good place

530
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 4: to start.

531
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 6: Yeah.

532
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like I said, I'm gonna say

533
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 1: this one more time. I think it would be stupid

534
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 1: of you to waste your life, you know, staying at

535
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: a thing you hate, especially if you know you feel

536
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: like there's a different avenue to pursue. What are you

537
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: gonna do tomorrow?

538
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,959
Speaker 4: What am I gonna do tomorrow? That's a good question.

539
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 4: I don't really have a plan at the second.

540
00:31:58,440 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 2: Is that is?

541
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: Are you gonna start? Like when are you gonna start

542
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: going door to door flyering yourself as the next hot

543
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 1: bud tender in Massachusetts? Or are you going back to

544
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: New York?

545
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 4: Uh? No, I hate moving. I'm staying here for now.

546
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: At least is we Is we legal in Massachusetts?

547
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 3: Yes?

548
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: Oh sick, just like legal everywhere now.

549
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just pissed because they legalized it like right

550
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 4: before I left New York, and I'm like, damn, I

551
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 4: could just stay.

552
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: It's okay. When are you are you gonna go tomorrow?

553
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: Why don't you fly? Why don't you go around to

554
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: all the weed shops and flyer yourself as a as

555
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: a as the hot new bud tender in town.

556
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 4: I don't know. I feel like most places don't do

557
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 4: in person ship anymore. And you just say, ope, the

558
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 4: applications online.

559
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: Right, but you go I feel like I'm your father

560
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: right now.

561
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 4: You're right.

562
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: But you go in and they see your face and

563
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: then they use your like you took it too far.

564
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: You go in, they see your face and they're like, oh,

565
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 1: this is a real guy. I like there's something to that.

566
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 1: Right when they see your application, then you know.

567
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 4: I guess puts a face to the application.

568
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 1: I mean, you have nothing else to do tomorrow?

569
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 4: No, no, not really. Maybe laundry that may be on

570
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 4: my list of things to do tomorrow. Okay, I hate

571
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 4: laundry as much as you say you hate laundry. I

572
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 4: cannot stand laundry.

573
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: I don't think you do. And you know how I

574
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: know you do. You know how you know how I

575
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: know you don't hate laundry as much as I hate laundry.

576
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 4: Because I'm going to do it, because you're.

577
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: Going to do it. So that was wrong that that

578
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: you said that just now, you do not hate laundry. Actually,

579
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: I did laundry yesterday and it's I have I have

580
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: a pile I have. I have a pile of every

581
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 1: time I do laundry. Fuck it up. It's my laundry

582
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: is all soggy. I didn't put it in long enough,

583
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: so I just have a pile of like soggy clothes

584
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: in my part. Why not hung up? And you know

585
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: what I want to do. I want to get high

586
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: and forget about the laundry. But in order to do that,

587
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: I need to live in a country populated by knowledgeable bud.

588
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to link this back to our conversation knowledgeable

589
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 1: bud tenders with with impeccable spirits such as yourself, Jared, Jimmy,

590
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,919
Speaker 1: and so go fucking get out there and put your

591
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: You clearly have a knack for dealing drugs, and it

592
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: would be a slight to the universe for you to

593
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: not use it to your best ability.

594
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 4: Oh, I appreciate that. I'm gonna put my nose to

595
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 4: the grand stone and get out there.

596
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to me,

597
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: or to God or to Jimmy Neutron before we go?

598
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 4: Well, while I just want to appreciate, uh, you know,

599
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 4: shreaming my appreciation for you taking my call tonight. Man.

600
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 4: I mean it's only the second time I've ever watched

601
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 4: you live. I literally just got a twitch to watch

602
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:13,919
Speaker 4: you live.

603
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 1: Oh shit, hell yeah. Well I hope you enjoy all

604
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: of the other things that twitch has to offer. Like

605
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: you know, a guy playing Minecraft and not saying anything,

606
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 1: there's some some people are really some people are somehow

607
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: really good at playing Minecraft and not saying anything. I

608
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: don't know why. I'm I'm not trying to talk to shit.

609
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be funny and saying stupid things.

610
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: All right, Hey, good luck to you, man, I when

611
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: I don't next time I come to Are you in Boston?

612
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm near Boston.

613
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: Okay, Hopefully one day I'm gonna be in Boston with

614
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: nothing to do, and I'll walk into a weed shop

615
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: and there you'll be.

616
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 4: There. I'll be waiting to help you out.

617
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: God bless All right, Hey, good luck, team, I'll talk

618
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 1: to you too.

619
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 4: Have a good night.

620
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 1: Le I don't know if I think all drugs should

621
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: be legal. I hate talking about like any any even

622
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: any even slightly any kind of social political philosophy thing

623
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: on here, because then like one day I'm gonna like

624
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 1: listen back to this and be like, I don't know

625
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,359
Speaker 1: what the fuck I mean. I never really know what

626
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but I guess all drugs should be legal

627
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 1: and then everyone can just decide if the whether or

628
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: not they want to do them. I did, all right,

629
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: that was I'm moving on.

630
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 2: Paul from Lindsay.

631
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: Hello, Tie, Lindsay, Lindsay, Lindsay, what's going on with you? Lindsay?

632
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm currently in a situationship.

633
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 3: With my boss.

634
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 1: Okay, tell me you tell me more.

635
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 5: Am I on the stream right now?

636
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: You are on the stream right now? Okay, you seem

637
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 1: to be sorry. Yeah, well no, it's okay. You seem

638
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: to let me ask you. Let me ask you a

639
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: more specific question. You were in a situationship with your boss,

640
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 1: and I can see, but could just the fact that

641
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: you're calling me to talk about it, I'm going to

642
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 1: assume that you have conflicting feelings about this situation you

643
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: are in. So what are the conflicting feelings that you have.

644
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 5: I'm definitely having conflicting feelings. I know that it's wrong.

645
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 5: I know that it's a bad idea. However, we met

646
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 5: on a dating app before I started at the place

647
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 5: that I work at.

648
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: Okay, well, look, let's break this. Tell me, tell me

649
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: about the whole situation. How did you meet this guy?

650
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: What's the deal? Where do you work or that? Give me,

651
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: give me, give me the as they would call them,

652
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: juicy details.

653
00:37:55,880 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I work at like a chain restaurant kind

654
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 5: of a little bit, so it's very fast paced and

655
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 5: it's very fast food kind of thing. But it's a

656
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 5: very close work environment. I will say, there's not very

657
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 5: many people that work in the kitchen, and so that

658
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 5: makes it very difficult to have this kind of situation,

659
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 5: I guess.

660
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: Okay, so you said that you you you said, I

661
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: know it's wrong. Yeah. What what about this situation do

662
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: you believe to be wrong?

663
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 5: Hmm? Well, I mean just like the ethics of it,

664
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 5: like the work code ethics of like the fact that

665
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 5: he's my boss and I am under him technically, but

666
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 5: we met as like individual people.

667
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:57,240
Speaker 1: And the thing, here's the thing. You work at a restaurant. Yeah, okay,

668
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: you work at a restaurant. You don't work at the

669
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Speaker 1: White House. Yes, that's so. So I think the general

670
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: like you know, I mean, is let me ask you

671
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:15,720
Speaker 1: this is he is? Is this relationship affecting your work

672
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: in some way?

673
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 5: I would say.

674
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 2: No, okay, just more.

675
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,399
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, But.

676
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 5: He didn't realize that it was me when I started

677
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 5: working there. Does that make sense? M?

678
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: So you guys met on a dating app and then

679
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: you started working there and then he didn't realize and

680
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 1: then and then he was like, oh shit, it's you.

681
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, after I brought it up because I realized and

682
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 5: then I was.

683
00:39:53,680 --> 00:40:01,959
Speaker 1: Like, oh fuck, okay, all right, do you like this guy?

684
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 5: Yeah? Unfortunately, yes, Okay.

685
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: Why is it unfortunate?

686
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 5: Because like he's like really cool and I get along

687
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 5: with him really well, and I really don't know, but

688
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 5: it's not awesome because like he's my boss and I

689
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 5: kind of want this job and I kind of want

690
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 5: to still. Also I don't know, man, are you afraid?

691
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: Are you let me? Okay? Because here's Are you afraid

692
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: that if things were to go awry with this guy

693
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: that it would then start to affect your, uh, your

694
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: work environments?

695
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 5: Like if things got weird between us, like if like

696
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 5: we did something and then it did work out or

697
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 5: something like that.

698
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, if if you decided to break things off, what

699
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: do you do you feel like that would affect the

700
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: workplace in the workplace environments.

701
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 5: He's really cool, so probably know because of how safe

702
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 5: of a space he is. Honestly, if I'm being real.

703
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, because that was what I was going to say,

704
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: because I was going to say, look, if this dude

705
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:12,760
Speaker 1: really is, like, you know, a good guy, a nice guy,

706
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 1: he I don't think he would. You know, you're at

707
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:22,240
Speaker 1: risk of him going some kind of weird retaliation mode

708
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: upon you. You know. Yeah, if that is what you are

709
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 1: afraid of, and.

710
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 5: That's based on past things, you know?

711
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: Okay? Have you okay? So I have you said it's

712
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: based on past things. Have you been in a situation

713
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: like this in the past that went poorly?

714
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 5: No, I've been in a I've been in a really

715
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 5: unfortunate relationship. I'll just say that I don't know.

716
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, Okay.

717
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 5: I can elaborate if you want, But it's like not

718
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 5: an important thing right now, you don't.

719
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: Well, only again, only if you think it's it's only

720
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: if you think it's relevant to what we're talking about.

721
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 5: I I would say, I'll just say that it's a

722
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 5: relationship that has given me traumas that are very relevant

723
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 5: to the things that I deal with day to day.

724
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 5: So he has been very understanding and comforting in that,

725
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 5: and that is one of the reasons I was so

726
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 5: drawn to him because of how willing to help.

727
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, how long have you been seeing this guy?

728
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 5: So, so that's the thing. It's not like a we're

729
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 5: not seeing each other or anything like that. We're just

730
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 5: talking to each other.

731
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: And do you do you have the do you have

732
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: the desire or even vaguely see the potential for this

733
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: to be like a actual boyfriend girlfriend thing.

734
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 5: I don't. That's I don't know. I don't know. I

735
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 5: like I in my delusional little headspace, I would love

736
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 5: to think that. But also the other part of my

737
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 5: cynical brain is saying, though.

738
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

739
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: Well, wait a minute, you said, why why are you

740
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: saying delusional headspace? Wow?

741
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, I have borderline personality disordered. This makes me

742
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 5: overthink things a lot. Okay, Hen's why I watch your

743
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 5: stream a lot.

744
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 4: It makes me.

745
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 5: It balances me out a lot.

746
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: You I had to hear that. Well, so okay, I'm

747
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: trying to think here, so you so so okay, could

748
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 1: you're like without judging the thoughts as as delusional or

749
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: whatever it is, do you like plan and simple? Do

750
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: you do you like this guy and desire to like

751
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: date him date him.

752
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 5: At this point in my life? No, because I I

753
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 5: know I need to work on myself as a person.

754
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 5: But it was open on the table for friends with

755
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 5: benefits before. Okay, mmm, yeah, and that's why it's like

756
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 5: a weird thing.

757
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so why did you Okay, it sounds like and

758
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: tell me if i'm tell me if I'm reading this appropriately.

759
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: It sounds like you like this guy. He's a good guy.

760
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: You know, you have needs that he's fulfilling, and that's

761
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: always nice. And for all that, I am understanding your

762
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: your relationship with this guy has been a positive force

763
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: in your life, but you are are concerned with how

764
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: it might affect the workplace in the event it would

765
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: go awry. Yet what you observe from him is that

766
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: he's a nice guy and that you know he's a

767
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: reasonable human being, and thus would not you know, go

768
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,399
Speaker 1: bonkers mode on you from from your judgment of from

769
00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 1: from your personal judgment of of him that you've been

770
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,959
Speaker 1: you know, made with the time that you've spent with him.

771
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 3: M hmmm.

772
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: Is that all accurate I'm getting at definitely okay. So

773
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: mm hm take me take me to the to the

774
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: to the to the end of the overthinking. Where does

775
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: the overthinking ultimately? What negative place does this overthink ultimately

776
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: lead us to? What's the worst? Are the worst case.

777
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,959
Speaker 5: Like him getting in trouble at his job?

778
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: H oh, him getting in trouble.

779
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I don't want him to get in trouble.

780
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 5: I don't want anything to happen to him because, like

781
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, I'm the one who started later,

782
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 5: like in work, you know, and I just don't want

783
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 5: to be the one that comes in and screws it up.

784
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 5: For is.

785
00:45:56,320 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: Here's the is. It doesn't ever buddy in the restaurant industry,

786
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: fucking dating, fuck each other.

787
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 5: I mean, uh yeah, but this is like such close quarters.

788
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 5: I've never worked in a restaurant disclose quarters. I've worked

789
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 5: in restaurants before, but like, damn, you know what I mean.

790
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: Sure, here's the thing I'm gonna say this. I'm gonna

791
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: say as far as it look at my personal opinion,

792
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: as far as like ethics go, like I don't I

793
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: your I think your status is a human being and

794
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: his status as a human being are greater than your

795
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 1: statuses of working at this restaurant. And therefore, I don't

796
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 1: think it's inappropriate for you guys to you know, engage

797
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 1: with each other as human beings do. So that aside,

798
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: I understand you wanting to look at the situation and

799
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: going like, how could this somehow negatively affect me or him?

800
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 1: And it's a reasonable thing to to look at. But

801
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 1: from everything you're telling me, and again you you are

802
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: in this situation and you've you've kind of seems as

803
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 1: though you've thought a lot about it. It does not

804
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: seem as though it has like the potential for strong

805
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: negative outcomes. But I don't I don't know. That's that's

806
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 1: kind of the decision you have to evaluate and make.

807
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I don't think it's like.

808
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a I don't think it's morally reprehensible.

809
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 1: It's again, it's not like you work at Like it's

810
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: not like you're like a fucking you know, teacher, the

811
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: ta or something. It's not it's not anything weird. It's

812
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: just a restaurant.

813
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I'm not being a freaking like pretter or anything.

814
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 5: This is a normal okay. Okay, yeah, see it sounds

815
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 5: a lot more normal and okay when I talk to

816
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 5: you about it, So thank you for that.

817
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 1: Have you talked to who else? Have you talk to

818
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:00,799
Speaker 1: you about this?

819
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 4: Uh? No? One?

820
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I don't. I think it's I think it's okay.

821
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: I think, like I said, I think your status is

822
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 1: as human beings override your status is as a you know, uh,

823
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 1: a waitress, even.

824
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:24,760
Speaker 5: Though like it's my manager.

825
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: Well okay, so again the I'm not I have no

826
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: moral concern over this. It's all about you making decision

827
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: of if you think it will end, if you think

828
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: it has the potential to end poorly for you. But

829
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: from what you have told me, you believe that this

830
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: guy is a good dude. And even if you had

831
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:51,919
Speaker 1: to come to him and be like, hey, I don't

832
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 1: think this is going to work out. I don't want

833
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: to see you in that way anymore, that he would

834
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,280
Speaker 1: be like, oh, that's totally cool, and that it wouldn't

835
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: affect h you know, things at work. And if you

836
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: believe that is true, then it does not sound like

837
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: you have anything to worry about. Okay, Are there is

838
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: there anything else floating around in this situation that you

839
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: are feel as though you are overthinking or.

840
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 5: I mean, like always everything just because of how I

841
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 5: feel like my head works right now as it be,

842
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 5: but specifically with this, it's just more like I don't

843
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 5: want to project anything known to him or I don't

844
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 5: want to make him have to worry about anything that's

845
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 5: going on with me. And I also recognize that he

846
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 5: cares about me as a person, and so I'm trying

847
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 5: to find the line between like where that is as

848
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 5: a friend who cares, where that is a situationip who cares,

849
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 5: or where that is like wanting to go forward, And

850
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 5: I literally can't figure out the difference.

851
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you have a good line of

852
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: communication with him? Do you feel like you can talk

853
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: to him about these these things that you were thinking.

854
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 5: Not on the phone but overtext?

855
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 1: Yes, not on the phone but over text. Okay, but

856
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: but community you can commute, you can talk to him

857
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:29,280
Speaker 1: about these things? Uh? None, nonetheless in some type of medium.

858
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 5: Like but like, can I just like express my emotions

859
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 5: about it?

860
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:29,240
Speaker 1: Yes?

861
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 5: Yes I can for sure?

862
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: Okay, good, all right, Well that's that's I feel like

863
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 1: the most important thing. What do you make at this restaurant?

864
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 1: What's that? What are they specialized in.

865
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 5: Pizza?

866
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,320
Speaker 1: You work on a pizza restaurant?

867
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 5: Yes, but I'm trying not to give too much d too.

868
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. Look, here's the thing. I don't

869
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: think that I don't think this will be the biggest

870
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: scandal in the pizza industry.

871
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 5: Okay, you know you don't think Papa John beat it

872
00:50:59,440 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 5: or anything.

873
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 3: No.

874
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: I think I think you're going to be Okay, Okay, So.

875
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 5: What what do I What do I do about this?

876
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 5: What am I going moving forward?

877
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: What do you do moving forward? What do you what

878
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: do you do moving forward? What does that mean?

879
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 3: Like?

880
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 5: Okay, so now we've established that it's not going to

881
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 5: necessarily hurt, Like the world's not going to crumble if

882
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 5: I do something about this, If I decide, hey, you

883
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 5: want to you want to maybe take this somewhere or whatever.

884
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 5: If the world's not going to crumble, then how do

885
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 5: I approach this?

886
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 1: Okay? So we've established that the world is not going

887
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: to crumble. If you ask this guy if he wants

888
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,319
Speaker 1: to be your like a boy, like in a real

889
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: relationship with you, no, no, no, no no.

890
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 5: If we just want to like flirt more and probably

891
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 5: be friends with benefits and maybe that down the line.

892
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 5: But like that's not anything I'm looking for right now.

893
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: You said, you say exactly what you just told me

894
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: to him.

895
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Yeah, okay, is that?

896
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 1: What? What are you? What do you is that? Does that?

897
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 1: Does that sound like a difficult thing to do?

898
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 3: Yeah?

899
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 5: For sure, it definitely difficult.

900
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: Okay, but it's good. Practice's good, it's a good it's

901
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: good practice.

902
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:24,359
Speaker 4: Though.

903
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: It's good to you know, you're working on communication skills.

904
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 1: You could say, and you know, look, if you ever

905
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: ask him for a promotion, you could bring this up

906
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,240
Speaker 1: as uh, you know, an example of your good communication skills.

907
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 5: Well, no, it's so hard, like when we're having a

908
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 5: serious day at work, because I can't just like look

909
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:44,800
Speaker 5: at him and like not think of like the pictures

910
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:45,839
Speaker 5: I've seen, you know what I mean?

911
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 1: Well, what's your name again, Lindsay? Lindsay? Does he ever

912
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: send you one of those pictures and you send back

913
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: your like, damn, put that on a pizza?

914
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 5: This is a fuck? No, oh fuck, that's hilarious though.

915
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 5: Well no, it's only been like one picture, but like

916
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 5: now it's been burned in my brain.

917
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: Hole. Well, Lindsey, good luck to you. You're not you

918
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: think you're gonna be okay? And uh, is there anything

919
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 1: else that you want to say to the people of

920
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: the computer before we go.

921
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 5: Thank you to everyone for listening, and thank you to

922
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 5: you for taking calls all night and just being a

923
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 5: person that listens and I get on the phone. I

924
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,320
Speaker 5: appreciate you so much. I listen to your stuff for

925
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 5: a long time and it really helped me with my

926
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 5: recovery and just being in my own head and that

927
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 5: kind of thing. It helps me with other people's perspective.

928
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 5: So thank you.

929
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 1: Well, thanks man. I have my having fun tonight. This

930
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: is cool. I'm fucking uh, I'm I'm back. I'm home ish.

931
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know. I don't I

932
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:54,439
Speaker 1: don't know where I'm going to be at the time

933
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 1: that I'm putting this podcast out. But as the time

934
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm recording this, I'm home and I'm I get I

935
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: get antsy and in my head, so it's fun to

936
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: talk to other people to get me out of that.

937
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 1: So thank you, Lindsey, and have a good night, and uh,

938
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 1: keep keep making pizzas.

939
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 5: Thank you so much. Have a great night. Okay, have

940
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 5: a good night everyone, Bye, thank you, by bye.

941
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: Penis on a pizza, Penis pizza. I'll have one slice

942
00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: of Penis pizza, please, and can I also get some

943
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 1: jizz on my penis pizza? So take a slice of

944
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 1: penis and a little ranch side, like you know the

945
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: cups they put ranch in, put some GI's in it,

946
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: and make a make a little Penis pizza. All right?

947
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 4: Sorry, Paul from not Basketball not bothering this.

948
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 3: No, he's doing God's work right now.

949
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:02,439
Speaker 2: Who shut your whole mouth?

950
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 1: What is this? Who am I on the thing with?

951
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 6: Oh? Well hi? What uh?

952
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 1: What's your name?

953
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 6: I am not Basketball Dan?

954
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:18,839
Speaker 3: All right?

955
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 1: Several I don't even know how long ago it was.

956
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 1: I you know, here's the thing. I normally don't take

957
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 1: repeat callers. I really, I normally don't. I've never been

958
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:31,320
Speaker 1: a good update guy. I don't know why. I think

959
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: it's because I don't like to alienate people who haven't

960
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:38,399
Speaker 1: who didn't hear the call already. So I'm not I'm

961
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: not a big update guy. I know people have been

962
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: wanting updates. Maybe I should do updates. Maybe I'm just stubborn.

963
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: But Basketball Dan, I mean, how long ago I don't

964
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: know how long it was we talked. I still get

965
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 1: comments all the time at about Basketball Dan.

966
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 6: I'm gonna what if I told you the update was

967
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 6: now I'm still cold Captain Basketball Dan hyphe in the

968
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:04,800
Speaker 6: FISTH logo.

969
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:08,360
Speaker 1: I told you I would tell you. I have no

970
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: fucking idea what that means, as much as I had

971
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 1: no idea what anything you were saying meant. The last

972
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: time I talked to.

973
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 4: You, good.

974
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 6: Checks out?

975
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 1: Who are you?

976
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 4: What?

977
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 3: I am actually with the man who gave me the monitor?

978
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 6: Basketball Dan?

979
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: Are you? What's what?

980
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 4: Like?

981
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 1: What is your location exactly? What is this like?

982
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 4: What?

983
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: Where are you in a car? Where are you?

984
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 3: I am at a bar, so I didn't think I

985
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 3: was gonna get through.

986
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: You're at a bar right now. You're like fully in

987
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: public right now?

988
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 6: Of course, Basketball Ban in his natural habitat.

989
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I don't really know what to do with you,

990
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,759
Speaker 1: Basketball Dan. What did you do? Is there something you

991
00:56:55,840 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 1: wanted out of this? Yeah?

992
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 6: So the last time I called you were like, who

993
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:09,040
Speaker 6: was Basketball Dan? But and I was wondering, who is

994
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 6: the therapy gecko?

995
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this, I'll do I'm not doing this

996
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 1: with you, Basketball Dan.

997
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 6: All right, check out.

998
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 1: What bar? Are you at?

999
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 4: What bar?

1000
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1001
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 4: What bar?

1002
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 6: It's called Franken Tony, but they should rename it to

1003
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 6: Basketball Dan.

1004
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: So you still go buy a basketball Dan?

1005
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 6: Correct?

1006
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 1: And do you play basketball?

1007
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 6: Not at all? I don't need you because I'm Basketball Dan.

1008
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: Okay? Do you has your life changed in any meaningful

1009
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: way since we last talked? The only thing I really

1010
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: know about you is that your name is basketball Dan.

1011
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: I tried to get other answers from you, but they

1012
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 1: all kind of led back to your name being basketball Dan,

1013
00:57:59,280 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 1: right right, right?

1014
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 6: Well, so now now sometimes they call me stone Cold

1015
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 6: Captain Basketball Dan, hyphen the fifth logo, and I've made it.

1016
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and okay, yeah that has this? Has that changed

1017
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 1: your life in any meaningful what? Well? You being named

1018
00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: Here's like you being named Basketball Dan has had nothing

1019
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: to do with your actual life, and so you being

1020
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: named stone Cold whatever you just said, I assume also

1021
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with your actual life or anything

1022
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: going on in it.

1023
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 6: Right.

1024
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 1: I think you might be my arch and my arch nemesis,

1025
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: Basketball Dan.

1026
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I think you might also be my arch

1027
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 6: nemesis therapy Gecko.

1028
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: You can come find me. You're gonna come defeat me.

1029
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 3: Who knows?

1030
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 6: I did almost actually come to that show in Columbus.

1031
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: Tell your should have came? How come you didn't come?

1032
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 6: I know I should have if I had to work

1033
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 6: the next day?

1034
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:04,959
Speaker 1: Do something? You work?

1035
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 4: Okay?

1036
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,439
Speaker 1: So what do you do? You do things with your life?

1037
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 1: You're not just the most one dimensional entity I've ever

1038
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 1: come into contact with. You have a job, you have friends,

1039
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 1: you have what do you do for work?

1040
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 4: Uh?

1041
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 6: I played the fifth?

1042
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: All right, I'll talk to you again.

1043
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 6: I'm invoking my fifth Amendment?

1044
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 4: Right?

1045
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: All right, Well, there we go. We did it. We

1046
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: had a repeat caller. If for those of you who

1047
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 1: have you know, been requesting that we follow up with

1048
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 1: some of the callers. That's that's a little sample of

1049
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: what it might be like. Let me know if if

1050
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 1: you enjoyed that, and we'll do it more. I mean

1051
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:53,919
Speaker 1: probably not, but who knows.

1052
00:59:55,440 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 3: It goes on the line. Everything he goes through his ID.

1053
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 1: He's teaching him cloud to your life. But he's not

1054
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 1: really an expert.