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Speaker 2: Josh is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named
Speaker 2: Meredith that he recently went on a date with. We're
Speaker 2: gonna call her pretty soon and see if she'll tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him. But first, Josh, how long
Speaker 2: has it been since you hear from Meredith?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's been about a week.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's usually a sign. So how did you meet Meredith?
Speaker 4: Can you tell us about the date?
Speaker 3: Uh? Yeah, you know, we met at a club. She
Speaker 3: was with her friends and I saw her coming off
Speaker 3: the dance floor and I just knew I wanted to
Speaker 3: talk to her. You know, Yeah, she was just you know,
Speaker 3: she was absolutely gorgeous, and you know, she was with
Speaker 3: some of her friends. I was with some of my
Speaker 3: friends and we ended up just sitting at the bar
Speaker 3: and talking all night. It was great.
Speaker 1: Oh that's cool. Okay, So was that the date?
Speaker 3: And no, I mean we actually, you know, we we
Speaker 3: were my friends left and we were leaving the club
Speaker 3: and she said she lived close by, so you know,
Speaker 3: I actually I went home with her and we had
Speaker 3: a super great night.
Speaker 1: Oh so that part was the date. So did you
Speaker 1: guys like hook up what? I don't know what base
Speaker 1: did you get too late?
Speaker 3: It's funny, Yeah, I mean we you know, we we did.
Speaker 3: We were we were kissing and and it just it
Speaker 3: just happened and it was just a great night.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 1: Obviously you don't want to spill too many of the deeds,
Speaker 1: which is respectable.
Speaker 5: But could that have been all she was looking for,
Speaker 5: just like a quick hookup?
Speaker 3: I mean, I I hope not. You know, I thought
Speaker 3: we had a really good connection, you know. I mean
Speaker 3: she was, you know, obviously gorgeous, like model hot, and
Speaker 3: I just thought we had a great conversation, and you know,
Speaker 3: she was one of those people that kind of knows
Speaker 3: everything about everything, and that just you know, kind of
Speaker 3: turned me on even more.
Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, all right, So why why do you
Speaker 2: think she might be ghosting it?
Speaker 3: Then? You know, honestly, I think it might be because
Speaker 3: we slept together so quickly, you know, and maybe she
Speaker 3: did just want a one night stand and that was it.
Speaker 3: You know, I've had a few of those and they
Speaker 3: are what they are, but she was just more than that.
Speaker 3: To me, So I don't like that I'm getting ghosted.
Speaker 4: Did you feel like she was into it too? Like,
Speaker 4: was there ever a moment where you started to feel
Speaker 4: like maybe she was pulling away?
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think so. I thought we had
Speaker 3: a great night, you know, And I think the fact
Speaker 3: that she hooked up with me, I mean I was
Speaker 3: feeling like everything was.
Speaker 2: Going well, and maybe she thought you were only interested
Speaker 2: in one. I assume maybe it just wasn't good. I'm sorry,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: First time you're always onward to the evil, So it's
Speaker 4: not it's not a testament to yoursel usually not that good.
Speaker 3: Right, I'm obviously hoping it's not that? Yeah? Right? You know,
Speaker 3: could it be?
Speaker 2: That's why I know how, no matter how long I'm
Speaker 2: with someone, I was like, let's pretend I guess our
Speaker 2: first time, so that if it's I can be like
Speaker 2: it was our first time. Yeah, what ex we were
Speaker 2: pretyding to be as our first time. That's why. All right, Josh,
Speaker 2: Well see what we can figure it out for you. Plus,
Speaker 2: I'll come back and then call her and see if
Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get
Speaker 2: you another date.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thanks so much.
Speaker 3: Guys.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the first day follow up,
Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Josh is on the
Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by Meredith. We're about to
Speaker 2: call her and see she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: him and maybe get him another date. But first, Josh,
Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Meredith.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it was a great day. I met
Speaker 3: her at the club, we talked at the bar all night,
Speaker 3: and you know, we actually ended up hooking up. And
Speaker 3: I think that actually might be why she's ghosting me,
Speaker 3: is because we hooked up so quickly. But I had
Speaker 3: a great night and it's been over a week, so
Speaker 3: I'm really hoping you guys can figure this out.
Speaker 1: Ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak to Meredith please.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's me.
Speaker 1: Hey Meredith, how are you. My name is Jubel. I'm
Speaker 1: calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show
Speaker 1: him Meredith, the whole show is here.
Speaker 2: Hi.
Speaker 3: My name's Nina no Way.
Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know you guys.
Speaker 2: Sweet we did get an email about you from a
Speaker 2: guy named Josh.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you know.
Speaker 2: We do the first day follow up where if you
Speaker 2: go out on a date with someone and then you
Speaker 2: ghost them, that person can have us get you on
Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Josh says, he's
Speaker 2: been trying to get a hold of you for like
Speaker 2: a week and you haven't gotten.
Speaker 1: Back to him. Yeah, do you mind telling us why?
Speaker 5: So that night that we met, it was pretty good.
Speaker 5: You know, he seemed really nice and he actually listened
Speaker 5: instead of just like waiting to talk, you know, next thing,
Speaker 5: you know, and and he's really hot, and so you know,
Speaker 5: I kind of just decided that I wanted to take
Speaker 5: him home. I don't do that a whole lot, but
Speaker 5: it just seemed kind of right, Like we just we
Speaker 5: clicked really well. And when we were walking home, you know,
Speaker 5: we were still getting to know each other, but the
Speaker 5: chemistry was there, and so you know, I just I
Speaker 5: wanted to get him home, you know. Okay, it was
Speaker 5: it was hot, and you know when we got to
Speaker 5: my place, you know, we kind of just got right
Speaker 5: to it, you know, and but you know, as soon
Speaker 5: as my clothes were off, you know, I was like,
Speaker 5: I want to take a quick shower because I was
Speaker 5: just dancing all night and I felt, you know, gross,
Speaker 5: so I just, you know, I wanted to shower really quickly.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 5: He said that didn't matter and suggested I didn't shower
Speaker 5: because it's hotter.
Speaker 1: But you know, I wasn't comfortable with that, so I went.
Speaker 5: And showered, and after I got out, you know, we
Speaker 5: got to it and it was great. Every second of
Speaker 5: it was great. But then, you know, we talked for
Speaker 5: a bit after and I mentioned that I had to
Speaker 5: be up early the next day, so I went to
Speaker 5: the bathroom really quickly before he left, you know, while
Speaker 5: he was getting dressed, and then I let him out.
Speaker 5: And after he left, I was picking up around my
Speaker 5: place and I could not find my panties. I knew
Speaker 5: they should have been there because there was there was
Speaker 5: a whole thing.
Speaker 3: It was just a thing.
Speaker 5: It was a thing with him, and you know they
Speaker 5: should have been there because I it was there was
Speaker 5: a lot of smelling involved.
Speaker 1: He smelled them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, in the moment was it was hot.
Speaker 5: But you know, I don't ever want to king shame anyone.
Speaker 5: That's not the problem. The problem is that I know
Speaker 5: he took them and he.
Speaker 3: Didn't ask me.
Speaker 5: That is growth and weird and violating.
Speaker 4: But had he asked you, would you have been okay
Speaker 4: with it?
Speaker 3: Honestly, I probably would have. You know, I may have
Speaker 3: been open.
Speaker 5: To the idea, or maybe I would maybe I would
Speaker 5: have said no, that's something that I feel like i'd
Speaker 5: have to go on in the moment, but that doesn't
Speaker 5: really matter because he didn't ask.
Speaker 2: So okay, Well, thank you for being honest, Marritius. I
Speaker 2: appreciate that. But also Josh is on the phone listening
Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Oh, I forgot about that part.
Speaker 1: Josh's still there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hey, Meredith. Hi, Well, I didn't take them, and
Speaker 3: I definitely don't remember being that creepy and smelling you.
Speaker 3: So I don't know why you're saying that.
Speaker 5: I don't believe you, and it's kind of messed up
Speaker 5: if that's your thing, Like you took my underwear without
Speaker 5: asking for permission, So I just don't know that I
Speaker 5: could trust you.
Speaker 3: If we went on another date. I don't know what
Speaker 3: to tell you because I did not take your underwear,
Speaker 3: and I'm really sorry. I mean, I want a second date,
Speaker 3: but I didn't take them. I promise that you can
Speaker 3: trust me, and you know, if I ever want to
Speaker 3: do that, I would ask you.
Speaker 5: It's it's just a little weird to me that you
Speaker 5: seemed really interested in them earlier in the night and
Speaker 5: then all of a sudden they were gone.
Speaker 3: Well, they've they've got to be somewhere in your house.
Speaker 3: I promised I didn't take them. I mean, they've got
Speaker 3: to be somewhere that you just haven't checked. I don't
Speaker 3: have them.
Speaker 5: I mean I've looked everywhere I can imagine, and I
Speaker 5: think I know my house pretty well well.
Speaker 3: Is there anyone at your house that could have taken them?
Speaker 3: Or did anyone come over? I mean, I'm not accusing
Speaker 3: you of hooking up with someone, but I mean, could
Speaker 3: someone else have taken them in the last week.
Speaker 5: No, I haven't had anyone else come over that would
Speaker 5: take my underwear.
Speaker 1: Do you have a pet?
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't have any pets.
Speaker 5: I grew up with dogs and I know that's something
Speaker 5: they do, but I don't have any pets right now.
Speaker 1: Josh, were you promised you did not take her underwear?
Speaker 3: I promised I did not take her underwear, So.
Speaker 4: If we sent the underwear police to your house, they
Speaker 4: wouldn't find anything.
Speaker 1: We have their number.
Speaker 3: No, I don't think the underwear police would find anything. Meredith.
Speaker 3: You can come over to my place right now. You
Speaker 3: can check the underwear I'm wearing. You can check every drawer,
Speaker 3: every cabinet. I promise you I do not have them.
Speaker 3: I just want to second date, Meredith.
Speaker 2: Would you like to go with Josh again on another date?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: I really want to, Josh.
Speaker 5: I just don't know how you would prove to me
Speaker 5: that you didn't take them.
Speaker 3: Well, can I just buy you some new ones?
Speaker 4: You got to say yes, you get free panties, we'll
Speaker 4: pay for it, and free underwear.
Speaker 5: Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, I'll we'll give it another try.
Speaker 3: And just you know, don't.
Speaker 5: Take any of the other don't take any of my
Speaker 5: other underwears.
Speaker 2: Josh with the underwear for the wind, do you agree
Speaker 2: to keep your greedy mits off of her underwear?
Speaker 3: Oh? My god, I definitely agree. I'm just so excited.
Speaker 1: Congratulations, Josh got another date. Jubile's first date follow up