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Uh huh, I'm sure will come on. 29 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 1: And everybody you're listening to the voice, come on dig 30 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, 31 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you something, everybody, And this is great 32 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: news for everybody that um or share something with. Your 33 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: principal of becoming successful at whatever level you choose. It 34 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: can be successful in the relationship, successful in the family. 35 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: Successes may be considered you becoming a homeowner. It could 36 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: be being dead free. Your idea of success could be 37 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand a year, a hundred 38 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year. Doesn't matter if you're considering it, 39 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: if you're wanting it, if you have a desire to 40 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: become successful. I want to share with you the very 41 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: beginning of that. If no one's ever done it, I'm 42 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: gonna say the beginning of it today. See scripture makes 43 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: it very clear for us that you don't The only 44 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: thing you need to become successful is already inside of you. 45 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: It's not an external need. God wouldn't do that to you. 46 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: He puts the core basis of everything you need inside 47 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: of you. So if you discover it, if you tend 48 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: to it, nurturing, fertilize it, and water it, it grows, 49 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: It branches out. Then it reaches out externally and it 50 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: starts grabbing things outside of there to make it even bigger, stronger, better, 51 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: last longer. But in the very beginning, you don't need anything. 52 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship 53 00:04:55,720 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: with God, it comes out, it flourishes. Now, let me 54 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: tell you that thing that I'm talking about is a 55 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: God given gift that He has given to all of us. 56 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: We all possess it. It is all within us, and 57 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: everybody has a gift. Had somebody told me what I 58 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: know now back then, I would have saved myself tons 59 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 1: of mistakes. I just didn't know the principles. I had 60 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: to learn them all. Well. One of the principles are 61 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: becoming successful is your mind set You got to get 62 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: your mind right now. This mindset is simply a decision 63 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: that you can make. I can't get it for you. 64 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: I can tell you what to do, but you got 65 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 1: to make the decision. You just listening have to decide. 66 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna go on and get at it. 67 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop wrinting. I'm gonna become a homeowner. You 68 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna stop living check 69 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: to check. I'm gonna i'm i'm I'm I'm gonna put 70 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:59,679 Speaker 1: a budget together. I'm gonna stop stepping out on my family. 71 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home. I'm gonna get it together. I'm 72 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: gonna stop using you when you make these decisions. That's 73 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 1: correcting your mindset. Now. The closer connection you have with God, 74 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: the more help you get sustaining the mindset. How many 75 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: times have you started to do something and you stopped? 76 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: How many resolutions have you made at the New Year 77 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: and stop? By February? Over with? By me? A January 78 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: done in March. Because if you don't have a clear 79 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: connection with your creator to help you carry out the 80 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: other force out there, that evil force is designed to 81 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: get you not to reach your goals get you not 82 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: to come to resolution with whatever the resolutions are you 83 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: made so he can conso you can consider yourself not 84 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: worthy or failure, are unable to do something. But the 85 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 1: more things you are able to accomplish, the greater your 86 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: confidence goals grows. So we gotta get your mind set together. 87 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: Your mindset is a decision that you have to When 88 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: you make the decision, you can be getting the process. 89 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: Your mindset is also a will of yours, a will 90 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: along with the decision, a will, a willingness to do right, 91 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: a willingness to change, a willingness to be better. It's 92 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: going to then cause you to have to make a 93 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: decision to make a change of direction. Don't go where 94 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: everybody else going. You got to go your way now. 95 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: You can't follow the crowd. You gotta take a less 96 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: travel path. You cannot do this without changing your direction. 97 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 1: You can't keep hanging with the people you've been hanging 98 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: with if you want to be different because they're not. 99 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: Then you have to develop an obligation to yourself. You've 100 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: got to say, you know what for me and my family. 101 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: If you don't have a family for me, I owe 102 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: it to myself I have an obligation to myself to 103 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: be the best meat that I can possibly be, to 104 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: be the best self that I can possibly be, to 105 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: be the best father, the best man, the best husband, 106 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: the best wife, the best mother, the best daughter, the 107 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: best son, the best student, the best employee, the best owner. 108 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: You have an obligation to yourself to to give yourself 109 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: a shot at the best life you can. That's an obligation. 110 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: You owe that to yourself. Why would you not live 111 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: the best life that you possibly could. You have an 112 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: obligation to yourself. Why would you treat yourself like that? 113 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: Why would you take yourself and never allow yourself to 114 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 1: see the goodness that's already in you, to have the 115 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: abundance that's been promised to you, to go and explore 116 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: all the riches out there that's available to you. And but, 117 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: but but one of the worst ways that you can 118 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: rob your self of the joy of your obligation is 119 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: to keep comparing yourself to somebody else. Because guess what, Man, 120 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: that ain't your life. You ain't jay Z and Beyonce, 121 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: you you're not You're not open. Instead, man, that's not 122 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 1: who you are. Quit looking around at everybody else that 123 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 1: comparison of everybody else to keep you broken it, to 124 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 1: keep you unhappy. You won't even be able to be 125 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: grateful for what you have because you steady talking about 126 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: what you don't have. That's not the way, man. You 127 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: have an obligation to yourself to be the best you 128 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: You can be, not the best them. You're not them. 129 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: Stop trying to be them. Be the best you. It's cool. 130 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: You got a nice little house. That's cool. You know 131 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: how many big houses is empty and feel with hate 132 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:50,719 Speaker 1: and resentment. I'd rather have a smaller house feel with 133 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,719 Speaker 1: joy in it, then to go to a big man. 134 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: Prince got a line in a song that says, I 135 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: realized in his best disguise or pretty the house don't 136 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: make her home. Man. Don't you know I know how 137 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: true that is? So I'm just trying to tell you now. 138 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: Another part of the mindset is taking dead aim at 139 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: your life's goals and ambitions. What are they? What are 140 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: your goals and your visions? What do you see for yourself? 141 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: What do you dream about? If you knew you couldn't 142 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: fail at whatever it is you were attempting, what would 143 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 1: you go attempting? See? That's what we need to be after. 144 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: We need to get that. If you're sitting there thinking 145 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: about it, man, it's got to be molded. This it is. 146 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 1: It is that the God and you crying out. That's 147 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: the seed that was planning in you. That's the gift 148 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:47,959 Speaker 1: that's in there that's been locked away for years. It 149 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,719 Speaker 1: ain't too late to open that door. Man, When is 150 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: it too late to be free? Asked Nelson Mandela when 151 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: he was alive. Nelson Mandela suffered twenty some years man, 152 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 1: behind the wall. When he got it out, yeah, he 153 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 1: was more powerful, more significant than it was before he 154 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: went in. Ain't never too late to be free. It's 155 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: a mindset. It's a mindset, y'all. It's a decision. It's 156 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: a will. It's a change of direction. It's an obligation 157 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: to yourself. It's taking dead aim at your life's visions 158 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: and goals. Come on, man, you got to get your 159 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: mind wrapped around this thing. You owe it to yourself 160 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: to live the best life you can be. Come on, man, 161 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: God didn't create you to be an inmate. What you're 162 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: sitting in there? Fall now when you make your mistaken 163 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 1: you do your time, and you come out. Don't let 164 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: nobody fool you. Well, I got this. I can't get 165 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 1: a job. I guess I gotta go do what I 166 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: gotta do. Are you stupid? For real? That's the decision 167 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: you've made. No, man, you're gonna wind up right back 168 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 1: in now. Come on, man, talk to God. God got 169 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 1: something for you. You just gotta check in with him. 170 00:11:56,960 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: You're listening to ladies and gentlemen, and I'm talking just 171 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: to the girls right now. Girls, women, grown ladies. Uh, 172 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: especially to the curvy women, especially to the straight and 173 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 1: narrow women and all in between. Yes, Lane, Brian Ashley Graham, Yes, Lord, 174 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: have mercy. My beloved mother, who I loved, boy after 175 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: I still to this day can tell you nobody I 176 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: felt about like I did my mama. I can. I 177 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: can't tell you nobody. I'm talking to those of the 178 00:12:54,280 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: female persuasion. Good morning morning. Ain'tybody saying nothing you Julie? 179 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: You know what I just said? He curvaceous, that's right, 180 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: hippie him a girl's clean as I saw myself. We're 181 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: gonna find out abou Junior's cleaners in a minute. What's up? Hey, 182 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve. Can I have to tell you this. 183 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: One of the funniest things my mom ever said was 184 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: she gained a few pounds. She said, well, I guess 185 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: I have eaten myself into Lane Bryant. Now got yourself. 186 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: You see what they got, and they got some fly stough. 187 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: So I appreciate that Lane Bryant comment. This morney made 188 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: me think of my mom. I've been in there, holess Bra, 189 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: not your mama voice, holess Bra. While I walked around 190 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:02,199 Speaker 1: this stough, I hooked the straps the brawl on on 191 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: on the one of them all oh racks, and put 192 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: the other arm on the other rack and set it 193 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: in the swans while she shot. That's said in there, man, 194 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: I didn't care how long it took her. Did not 195 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: know that. Hell no, I got stumped in there. I know, 196 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: I know you ain't set your don't put on? And 197 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: how did you get up in right now? I know 198 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: that we stepped up in there with them nasty shoes. 199 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: So bad man, little boys, man, we've been getting into 200 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: some stuff. Man to. My nephew was in the store 201 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: with it one time. It was hiding in the lingerie section. 202 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: My nephew he still be hand the panis, but he 203 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: pushed his imprint in his face in the panic. Tom, 204 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go boom. She hit his all the time. 205 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: Get your ways something having the penis talking about boot 206 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: I got your boo. Damn boys. When we come back, y'all, 207 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna find out about Junior's cleans. What is he doing? 208 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: What am I doing? What are we doing to get 209 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: ready for summer? Yeah? Yeah, trying to get these bodies 210 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: together up in hill Man. All right, you heard it? 211 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: Something funny all of that. Right after this, you're listening 212 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it's time 213 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: for something funny. I think Junior's up to Steve. You 214 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: want to know about his Junior we're doing Junior? Are 215 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: you really doing the clean I'm doing the cleans up cleans. 216 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 1: I'm doing cleans man, because I'm trying. You know what 217 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: we always talked about, I gotta get fit by forty. 218 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: I want to be fit. When when is your forty? 219 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: July eighteen, you'll be forty? Oh hey man, you're Winter's 220 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: birthday right there. Yeah, same day men went out the 221 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: same birthday. You're like eighteen? Do you like eighteen? Wouldn't 222 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: call mery morning? I called it? Ain't the nineteen you don't. 223 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, let me shut all y'all down. I 224 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: got seven kids. You know, if I got a damn, 225 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: what's the problem if I'm a day yall? When ten 226 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: is your last? What the hell? I know? Brandon coll 227 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: In the first? Yeah, it's the eighteen. It's the eight 228 00:16:55,840 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: like where he got it is? What are you gonna do? What? What? What? What? 229 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: He don't want to give it's a day later. H 230 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 1: I bet he get over quick to ask. My son, 231 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 1: Steve's birthday was the other day, April twenty nine. His 232 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: birthday was turned twenty seven. Man, okay, yeah seven. He 233 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: working every day making money. I'm so happy Jesus, and 234 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: you have to be proud of him. Yeah. Man, what 235 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: a great kid he is. He is really really good dude. 236 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: But he's in that figure it out part of his life, 237 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: you know, dudes, they gotta figure it out. He hat 238 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: quite locked in on the what he gonna be do thing. 239 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 1: He's still in discover He working making money, So that's 240 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: all I care about. Don't ask me for nothing much, 241 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 1: but don't ask me for all my kids coming from okay, Jimior, 242 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: So let's go the cleans, yes, sir, So come on, 243 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: let's go. You're gonna be fit a boy. Four. To 244 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: tell me a little bit about Okay, I'm I'm on 245 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: day folk, I'm on day were tied, Yeah, Yeah, we're tired. 246 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 1: I'm on the fourth day of my program too. Yeah. 247 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: I'm struggling too. I'm struggling. Let me tell you something. 248 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:18,639 Speaker 1: No no meat, no fish, no chicken, no nothing, Just 249 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: vegetables that have to be raw, raw, nutrilsthing nuts, juices, nuts. Yeah, 250 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: that's it. It's all I can have. I'm doing green drink. 251 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 1: But the problem I'm having it I'm around too much food. 252 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 1: That's that's the hard part. I'm around too much food. Yeah, 253 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 1: and I'm that too. If this is the day four, 254 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: surely you've lost something because men like that. Three pounds, 255 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm down three pounds. Yeah, I'm down three pounds. I 256 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 1: feel like I feel better. But damn it, I'm home. 257 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: That's all the bottom line. I am. Lord. I sat in. 258 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: I sat in churches yesterday just to smell chicken. But 259 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 1: I sat my ass in there by the hour. I'm 260 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 1: gonna ask you people what you get. Just tell me 261 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 1: what you smell? Chicken. Smell chicken. This is day four. Now, 262 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 1: let me in all honesty. Let's be honest, y'all. A 263 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: D Dolphins program is twenty one days. Yes, sir, you 264 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: got twenty one days to change your life. Because what 265 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: A D Dolphins did for me his program, it balanced 266 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:44,840 Speaker 1: all my hormones because you know, when you get out older, man, 267 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: you gotta get your blood work done so you can 268 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 1: see your hormone levels, because your hormones changed as you 269 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: get older. And if you don't take the right things 270 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 1: and eat the right things and supplements to help balance, man, 271 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: something cann't be terribly off and you not know it. 272 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: And that was the one of the problems I had. 273 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 1: I couldn't lose weight because my estrogen levels was too high. 274 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: I didn't even know it, and my testosterone had dropped 275 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: because I'm in my sixties. So I had offset and 276 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: I got them together. Now that wanted thing to be 277 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: so funny. I'm doing UM. It's called both, but it's 278 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:38,880 Speaker 1: called UM, not intermediate fasting, immant intimate intermittent intermittent fasting. 279 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: It's what I'm doing, which means what I'm actually doing 280 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 1: is I have a block of eight hours where I 281 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:52,439 Speaker 1: can eat. I eat for eight hours, then I fast 282 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:57,400 Speaker 1: for sixteen, you eat for eight. So my my eight 283 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: hours is twelve noon to eight at night. That's my 284 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: eight hour block of eating. And then I felt when 285 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 1: I'm sleep to hell, come on, now you know you 286 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: sleep that counts. But I'm up at five. So you 287 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 1: know my from five to noon, no eating, five am 288 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: to noon, no eating. How's it making you feel? I mean, man, like, 289 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: yesterday was my first two day show, and so it 290 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 1: was okay, you know what I mean, my first two 291 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: days show. I didn't have to take a five hour 292 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 1: energy My energy was good. And I'm drinking uh this 293 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 1: coffee and I drink organic coffee, but I put uh 294 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 1: mct oil in it, which is coconut or pure pressed 295 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: coconut oil, and it's a fact, but it gives you 296 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 1: a lot of energy. And then I use uh mct 297 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: brain octane so I'm not sluggish during the day. And 298 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:58,120 Speaker 1: so it really really keeps me mentally clear. It really 299 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: really does. So I'll keep you all. I'm not gonna 300 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 1: wet myself for a week, though I wait a week 301 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 1: to wet myself. I can't get on that gale every day. 302 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 1: Y'all go forward, man, we gotta change my life. Man, 303 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be something. Well hold up, hold up, well, 304 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: what you didn't do? Tom Man, I'm over here ovulating 305 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: right now. I can't be doing that. Hey, listen, coming up, nephew, 306 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: Tommy's run that prank back all right when it's crazy? Self? 307 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: Didn't just say? Right after this, you're listening to Steve 308 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the 309 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: hour and entertainment news. Kanye West has a lot to say. 310 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,439 Speaker 1: Oh but man, he said a lot. But come on, Tommy, 311 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 1: right now, it's time for run that prank back. What 312 00:22:55,840 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: you got? You married your brother. That's you need to 313 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 1: do something that's not gonna work, right, But okay, if 314 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: you married your breather. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach 315 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: a your common plu. Hi Carmen. My name is Keith 316 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: Keeping some calling you from the insurance group. Hi. Good 317 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: you and your husband? Uh, what is it? Harvey Harvey? 318 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 1: Is that right? Okay? You guys actually put applications and 319 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: actually winn and got your physicals done for Life insurance, right, Yeah, yeah, 320 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 1: that's correct. Okay. I actually I'm calling you from the 321 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 1: insurance group. I have you alls, lab results and everything 322 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: as far as your physicals and blood tests and things 323 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 1: of that nature. Is there any way I could possibly 324 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: talk to both of you guys at the same time, 325 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 1: you and Harvey. Is that possible? Um? Well, sure, he's 326 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: at work right now, but I can get him on 327 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: the side. Okay, it will be Uh it would be 328 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 1: kind of easy if I kind of explained everything to 329 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: both of you guys at the same time. Is that 330 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 1: if that's okay? Okay? Something wrong? Uh? No, nothing's wrong. 331 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: I mean I think I need to just try to 332 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 1: bring a few things that you guys attention. But I 333 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,160 Speaker 1: think you know, after that, it's pretty much you guys 334 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: decision on what you do. But I just wanted to 335 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,879 Speaker 1: let you know a few things about you know, the 336 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: results and things that that nature, life, insurance, the whole 337 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 1: nine yards. Okay, okay, here hold on, let me see 338 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:26,880 Speaker 1: talking to them on the phone. Hey, babe, Hey, sweet um, Look, 339 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: I got the insurance people on the line. They want 340 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: to get both of us on the phone, uh, to 341 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: talk to us about the insurance stuff. Hey, Harvey, are 342 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 1: you doing this? Is Keith keep from the insurance group? 343 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Good with that? Nikki? Good? Good? Listen? Um. 344 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to give you guys a call and kind 345 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: of follow up. And you guys did physicals and blood 346 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: tests and the whole nine yards, and I wanted to 347 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 1: give you guys a call. It's kind of better if 348 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: I talked to both of you guys at the same time. So, 349 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: do you have a minute that we can actually use 350 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 1: a kind of get some of this information out to you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 351 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm fine. I'm gonna break right now. I'm good. Okay, great. 352 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 1: First of all, we've gotten all your your lab results 353 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 1: back everything, and I kind of got a few questions 354 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 1: for you guys that I'm a little puzzled on. How 355 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 1: long have you guys actually been married. We've been together 356 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:15,480 Speaker 1: about two years, okay, now prior to being married three years. 357 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 1: How long did you guys know each other before you 358 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: got married? About five and a half five six kids? Okay, 359 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: you guys have been knowing each other pretty close to 360 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 1: nine years now all together. Yeah, okay, are you actually 361 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: from the same hometowns? You grew up in the same hometown? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 362 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: we grew up. I mean, if I'm I'm sorry, is 363 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 1: this question I mean, is this about the insurance or well, 364 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 1: I mean, there's a few things. That's that actually uh puzzling, Carmen, 365 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: that we need to this this this is some I 366 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: actually didn't want to bring you, guys. I mean we 367 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,640 Speaker 1: have to. I have to actually give you this news. 368 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 1: Looking at our records, looking at all the test results, 369 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 1: and let me be the first to tell you that 370 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: we run these results over and over and over, trying 371 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: to make sure we are completely a hundred and right. Okay, 372 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: it's a problem with the test. Looking at our test, guys, 373 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: it's indicating that you guys are related. And nine times 374 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: I attend you are you guys are siblings? What? Man? What? 375 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: And I understand the shot. It took me. It took 376 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: everything I had to make this phone call. I did 377 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,200 Speaker 1: not want to make it. But looking at our records, 378 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: and we went over these records over and over and 379 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: and and the blow works tells us that you guys 380 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 1: are actually siblings. Man, help kid, Are you serious? Man? 381 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 1: I'm actually you do this is not that. This is 382 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: not a laughing matter, not a joking matter. You know. 383 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 1: Like I said, I did not want to call with 384 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: this information. What you did make the call? Man? Look, 385 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what you needed to go back and 386 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 1: and and double check your records or something because you've 387 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: been married three brief check with the lab man, can 388 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: you check with the laugh and like paul us back 389 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: and I knew those questions would have come up. And 390 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: we we went over it. We went over it and 391 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 1: over and over it. Y'all need to go over again 392 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 1: because oh babe, I got this. You make the call 393 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 1: and this gotta be wrong. So what you need to 394 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: do is make another call and called the lab and 395 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,360 Speaker 1: call us back and let us know that you either. 396 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 1: So they made a mistake of you talking about me 397 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: and my wife and I understanding hard, Harry. Let me 398 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,359 Speaker 1: ask you this is it possible, you know? And this 399 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 1: is just a question. Is it possible that your dad 400 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,920 Speaker 1: and maybe her mom maybe knew each other at some 401 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 1: point and you saying by my mom and dad, that's 402 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 1: so straight. Look at you need to hand go back 403 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 1: and do whatever you need to do. But I think 404 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: you what you said something like that again. I tell 405 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 1: my gy is gonna be coming down that beach saying 406 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: like that, hold on, baby, hold on baby, baby, baby. 407 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: I don't know baby, I got this, hold on, I 408 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: got a baby, I got a baby. I gotta say 409 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 1: how he's gonna call me with what you don't know 410 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 1: you from what people do like that. But that ain't 411 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: all I'm I'm doing, sirs, bringing you the result or 412 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: I should bring me results in personally that I whomp you. 413 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,120 Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. He knows. Hey, sorry, even 414 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: if you beat the messenger at the end of the day, 415 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 1: that's still your sister. At the end of the day, 416 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna whanp you like. I don't care what he's 417 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 1: talking about. Nothing. He ain't my damn brother. I got it. 418 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna find out you off whatever jupicle you in. 419 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: You're gonna call me talking about brother. It's my wife. 420 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: I am having that song somewhere down the line. Somebody 421 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: made a mistake and you guys, my brother and sister 422 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: got married. I'm not at fart for that. Well, let 423 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: me tell you that, don't you make the mistake of colleague. 424 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: He's on one of these numbers again in your life. 425 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 1: So I got one result I do need to get 426 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: you got mother, holbout what you've been talking about being well, 427 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: you got to say now that's gonna be working. The 428 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: only other touch reson I have, ma'am, is that this 429 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 1: is nephew, tim Me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. 430 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your girlfriend. I told you 431 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 1: like her. I got one thing I got to ask 432 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 1: both of y'all, what is the baddest And I'm talking 433 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: about the baddest radio show in the Landry more to show. 434 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: That is every now and then it happens, y'all know 435 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: it doesn't It happens sometimes. Sure, you go to the 436 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 1: country people. Hey to that comment you made me the 437 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: other day, which one Steve about Margine could be your brother, 438 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 1: my sister. Yeah, I didn't say nothing to you because 439 00:29:55,440 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: I couldn't handle it. You could do. I'm a little clear. 440 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 1: I just want to say that yesterday I knew how 441 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 1: to ended it right there? All right, big dog? All right, 442 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: thank you. Queen Elizabeth. We talked about this yesterday as well. 443 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: She may be gifting her grandson and his wife to 444 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: be with a sweet crib. We talked about maybe nicknaming 445 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: the nephew, I mean the new baby prince something like that. 446 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 1: But sure, Prince Harry and Megan Marco already have their 447 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 1: own commemorative coin. But what exactly what's different couple? Yes, 448 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: but what exactly does the queen give her grandson on 449 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: his wedding. You're right, Carla. It's being reported that Queen 450 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: Elizabeth may give Harry and Megan of her country homes 451 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 1: as a wedding gift. I like it. I like it. 452 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: That's a nice wedding gift right there. Prince Harry and 453 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: Megan Marko are getting married on May nineteen. Who bringing 454 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: a toast? That's what I'm saying, Well, behind give it that? 455 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: How you gonta to take so many blue plates? Office, 456 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 1: damn mantelpiece, been here, all these here alright? An entertainment 457 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 1: news whatever spoon and falk hanging on the wall. You 458 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: have to come come get some of this old mess 459 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 1: up out of here. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, David. 460 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 1: Kanye West is still trending. People are reacting on social 461 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: media from Steve Harvey f M. Here are some of 462 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: the social media comments. Kanye West is out here saying 463 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 1: that slavery was a choice. How dare you trivilize our 464 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: family had a choice. We didn't have to be like 465 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: we could have been. We could do a Warker wave. 466 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 1: I think I think that Kanye made a mistake, that's all. 467 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: I just think I think he was trying to say 468 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: something else. I really do. I don't think he's that disconnected. 469 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 1: You know. I felt bad for him because Lord Emercy 470 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 1: knows I have said some stuff out loud that Colombia. 471 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: But you know, hey, Julior died the pageant. We've all 472 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 1: done it. A human hold on Junior. Yes, okay, that's 473 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 1: your young protege. He tried it off. Always appropriate if 474 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna be an idiot. Always proposed he'd beat time 475 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 1: to it. I just you know me personally, I would 476 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 1: reach out to Kanye because you know, here's what we 477 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 1: all need, and he loves you. He was on your show, 478 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,240 Speaker 1: Celebrity family feud and all that, you know, but all 479 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 1: of us needs somebody to run it by. All of 480 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: us need somebody to sit down and talk to. All 481 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 1: of us needs somebody who is willing to tell us 482 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 1: the truth. And sometimes, man, when you get in a 483 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 1: position like Kanye so high up in this world. I mean, 484 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: what what I learned was from my son and his peers, 485 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 1: Kanye for them was the dude man. Well just like 486 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 1: van On TMZ. I mean, Kanye was the dude for them. 487 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 1: They looked at Kanye. I mean, I mean, you know, 488 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: I mean more so than jay Z, because jay Z 489 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 1: is a generation ahead of him. Kanye was this year 490 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 1: old blockers of people. This this was they do, who 491 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: said everything they wanted to say for them, that's the 492 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: hurt in them. But I think Kanye just misspoke and 493 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: explained it so horribly wrong because and I'm gonna tell 494 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: you what happens, man, when we get in these positions 495 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: and we become these stars, so to be quote unquote, 496 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,719 Speaker 1: if we don't have a core of people around us 497 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,839 Speaker 1: who was saying, hey, man, wa w woa, you can't 498 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 1: say that dog or wo woa you trip it? Or 499 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,880 Speaker 1: just what what? Whoa hold on? Man? What? What? Whoa bro? 500 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: You gotta rethink that you mean what we do to you? Yeah, 501 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: I mean exactly, But you have to have a core 502 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 1: of people around it who are grounded in the real 503 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 1: life world. See, we are stars. We get removed sometimes 504 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: from the actuality of what's happening. Now. We can we can, 505 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 1: we can remember it, but our day to day is 506 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,480 Speaker 1: a bit different. What you cannot do in your day 507 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 1: today is ignore what's really happening to the grassroots people 508 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 1: out here, because it's way more of them than it 509 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: is of us. And without those grassroot people, you are 510 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: not who you are. And Kanye just need an older 511 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 1: black dude he us be black to talk and say, hey, man, 512 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: hold up, bro, this is where we are. This is 513 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 1: our responsibility to the cause. You're not a god. Stop 514 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 1: saying it. Black people ain't gonna take it that way. 515 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,239 Speaker 1: You're not a god with a small G or no 516 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: other g. It don't matter. You're not. You're not on 517 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,320 Speaker 1: this old another plane that ain't nobody else on unless 518 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: your ass is crazy. Everybody has been on that level 519 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: that you claim to be on by yourself. Every a 520 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 1: lot of people have been on that all right, Steve Well, 521 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,719 Speaker 1: what we're asking people to do is go to all 522 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: social media at Steve Harvey f M if you want 523 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 1: to comment on Kanye and trending topics, and Steve ms 524 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 1: Anna is here with more of today's headlines. And before 525 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 1: I go to listen, if you're gonna go there, could 526 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 1: try to say you can say what you want to say. 527 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: You really can't, but I would love to hear people 528 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,440 Speaker 1: who have some type of positive input on this issue, 529 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 1: just to get your thoughts too. Let's go a ladies 530 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 1: and gentleman, without further do miss and thanks Steve. A 531 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,680 Speaker 1: lot of us know that Kanye West has not been 532 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 1: the same since his mother died. He was really badly 533 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: affected by that. This is and two with the news 534 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: President Trump's newest lawyer, Former New York City Mayor Giuliani, 535 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 1: said on Fox TV last night that the President reimbursed 536 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 1: his lawyer for the one thirty grand he paid out 537 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 1: to port star Stormy Daniels, but that the money came 538 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: from his personal account. So Giuliani says it was not 539 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 1: campaign money and therefore no laws were broken. You know, 540 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,720 Speaker 1: at one point the President said he didn't have anything 541 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,839 Speaker 1: to do with Stormy Daniels, and he said he didn't 542 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 1: pay any money. Is lawyers and paying any must So 543 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: now Giuliani says the money was paid reimbursed by the President, 544 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 1: but out of his personal account. Officially with the Puerto 545 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 1: Rican National Guards say that nine of their members were 546 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,760 Speaker 1: killed yesterday in the crash of their cargo plane near Savannah, Georgia. 547 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 1: The cargo plane was over fifty years old and was 548 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 1: supposed to be the last flight. That's what actually they 549 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,040 Speaker 1: were bringing it in for. The father one of the 550 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 1: young people shot to death at Florida Stoneman Douglas High 551 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 1: School back in February. Has filed wrongful death suits against 552 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 1: the alleged gunman, Nicholas Cruz, the estate of his dead parents, 553 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 1: the local mental health facility, and others, including the now 554 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 1: former sheriff's deputy Scott Peterson, who quit his job as 555 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 1: a school's resource officer after video showed him not even 556 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,280 Speaker 1: trying to enter the school building while all the school 557 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,719 Speaker 1: the shooting was going on. Andrew Pollock is the father 558 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,040 Speaker 1: of eighteen year old Metal Pollock, one of these seventeen 559 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:21,319 Speaker 1: youngsters killed on February fourteenth. Our brand new Secretary State 560 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: Mike Pompeo says there's an opportunity to change the course 561 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: of history on the Korean Peninsula if and only if 562 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: the North Koreans give up their nuclear weapons and in 563 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,840 Speaker 1: a way that can be completely verified. Is certain this 564 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: administration will not repeat the mistakes of the past. Our 565 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 1: eyes are wide open. It's time to solve this once 566 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,760 Speaker 1: and for all. A bad deal is not an option. 567 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 1: The American people are counting on us to get this right. 568 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: Pompeo has been laying the groundwork for President Trump's plan 569 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 1: meeting later this month with North Korean dictator Kim John Un. 570 00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,840 Speaker 1: The two black entrepreneurs arrested for sitting in the Philadelphia 571 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 1: Starbucks without ordering. You know that they've just released reached 572 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,239 Speaker 1: rather a symbolic settlement with the City of Philadelphia for 573 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 1: one dollar each, with a promise that officials there will 574 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: set up a two hundred thousand dollar program to encourage 575 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 1: and help aspiring young business persons. Rare Shawn Nelson and 576 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:12,880 Speaker 1: Dante Robinson also reach an undisclosed financial settlement with Starbucks, 577 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,360 Speaker 1: and they'll also be able to complete their undergraduate degrees 578 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:19,320 Speaker 1: to a Starbucks partnership with Arizona State. Finally, Today's International Sunday, 579 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: and isn't that APPROPRIATEDA done? Go back with more entertainment 580 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: in today's trending topics, trying to miss After the Hour 581 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:31,319 Speaker 1: and Steve Harvey Morning. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 582 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 1: All right, Uncle and Nef are here with a sports 583 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: talk for today. Nef, let's go, Yeah, I didn't hire 584 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 1: you for sped second Shirley in college your sports Me 585 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 1: and Cad and kid didn't vote on you. No that 586 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 1: we didn't even know it was a vote. Didn't know 587 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: you had a sports but go ahead, don't because it's basketballs. 588 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: Come on, just just make them proud. Tommy, Well, first 589 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,800 Speaker 1: of all, you know that let me say, let me 590 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,360 Speaker 1: it jumped off with Golden State and New Orders Repelicans. 591 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 1: It jumped off hard Man Rondo and your boy Draymond 592 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,920 Speaker 1: Green got into it, all right. It is normal, typical 593 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 1: thing with Draymond. You know Draymond, he gets wine when 594 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 1: you're out there. But um, your boy Charles Barkley says 595 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 1: he wishes somebody would punch him in the face talking 596 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: about Draymond Green, and this has escalated to the point 597 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 1: of Draymond says, Okay, we see we've seen each other 598 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,800 Speaker 1: million times. Next time you see me punch me in 599 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: my face, I'll tell you, next time you see me 600 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,279 Speaker 1: punch me in my face, that's that's not gonna be 601 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 1: a good thing for Charles to do. And I love 602 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: Charles Barkney, that's my dude, but I don't recommend punching Dreamlond. 603 00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 1: Draymond Mama's say, you ain't been to hit my baby, 604 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 1: So she that's what well or well or Draymond Mama 605 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 1: can called Draymond can't held a Draymond only Damn and Barkley. 606 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 1: Barkley just being Barker. He's just talking. Yeah, he's just talking. 607 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:21,080 Speaker 1: Draymond says, this is embarrassing for the TNT network or 608 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 1: you know one of your lead analysis be talking like this. Well, 609 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: I mean, of course that's not a smart thing to say. 610 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 1: It's really not know. I mean, you know you're on 611 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 1: TV and you're talking about violence in the sport that 612 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,400 Speaker 1: don't condone it. And you can't hit nobody in the 613 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: face when you won't mess up your chances in the playoffs. 614 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 1: I got news, check us out. I got a clip 615 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 1: for two people. They can't win a title with. They 616 00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 1: can't win without Draymond, they cannot win it without Steph Carrey. 617 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 1: Think out this clip. I've read a lot of guys 618 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: talk on TV um standing behind right phone and TV 619 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,360 Speaker 1: screen factor. The matter is, if you feel that strongly 620 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 1: about something, he's seen me a million times. If he 621 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 1: feel that strongly abody, then push me in my face 622 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: when you see me. If you're not gonna push me 623 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,200 Speaker 1: in my face when you it's different than somebody sitting 624 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,879 Speaker 1: me hot a computer screen tweet, I'll knock you out 625 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,959 Speaker 1: and you never seen him in life. Well you've seen 626 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 1: me a bunch's out. He'll see me again in this 627 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 1: pushed me in the face when you see me when 628 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,719 Speaker 1: I'm not. No one cares when she would have done 629 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,480 Speaker 1: you old and it is what it is. So you 630 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,239 Speaker 1: ain't gonna push me when you see me. Then stop 631 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:25,640 Speaker 1: talking about it. Alright. So coming up in about ten 632 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,239 Speaker 1: minutes at thirty or four after the hour, kanye' is 633 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:33,760 Speaker 1: LiPo suction has led to opioid addiction. That's what happened. 634 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 1: They didn't suck all the common sense at this sport. 635 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:41,920 Speaker 1: Just like, that's what's wrong. Got it, girl, you're listening 636 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:46,320 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right? So Kanye West's 637 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,919 Speaker 1: confessed to opioid addiction during his explosive interview with t MZ. 638 00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:55,479 Speaker 1: He got hooked on Perkis said following plastic surgery. He said, 639 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 1: Kanye told TMZ quote, I got LiPo suction. I didn't 640 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 1: want y'all to call me fat. Y'all have called Rob 641 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,880 Speaker 1: Kardashian fat. I didn't want you to do it to me. 642 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,239 Speaker 1: So I got LiPo suction and they gave me opioids. 643 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,320 Speaker 1: Take a listen. Two days before I was in the hospital, 644 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 1: I was on opioids. I was addicted to opioids. I 645 00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 1: had plastic surgery because I was trying to look good 646 00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:22,919 Speaker 1: for y'all. I got LiPo suction, right, and they gave 647 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 1: me opioids, right, And I started taking two of them. 648 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,399 Speaker 1: And there was talks amongst my camp like, yeah, he's 649 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 1: popping days popping pill. When he handed to me this 650 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: to me said you know this is used to kill genius, right, 651 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,480 Speaker 1: So I didn't take it. Two days later, I'm in 652 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:41,160 Speaker 1: the hospital. I was taking two pills a day at 653 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,479 Speaker 1: that time. When I left the hospital, how many pills 654 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,280 Speaker 1: do you think? I was given seven? So the reason 655 00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 1: why I denounced, why I dropped those tweets and everything, 656 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:53,400 Speaker 1: because I was drugged the out bro and I'm not 657 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 1: drugged out. This these pills that they want me to 658 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 1: take three of a day, I take one a week, 659 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 1: maybe two a week. All had me scared of myself, 660 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,480 Speaker 1: of my vision. So I took some pills so I 661 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 1: wouldn't go to hospital and prove everyone right. We are 662 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 1: drugged out, We are following other people's opinions. We are 663 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:18,960 Speaker 1: controlled by the media, and today it all changes. Yeah. See, 664 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,640 Speaker 1: if you're gonna call me fat just right after that, 665 00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,440 Speaker 1: because I'm not going down and they're getting no open lords, 666 00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:30,360 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I know, I ain't gonna get it. 667 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 1: I don't even know how to ask for it. I 668 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 1: like some orchids, please you, I'll give me some and see. No, 669 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: just I'm not going down. I'm not getting no damn 670 00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 1: like pus. Just when you see me fat, you're right 671 00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,279 Speaker 1: after you called me fat, say rich right after that. 672 00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: That's all you get. I don't give a damn man, 673 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 1: you know. But I feel for Kanye man. I do 674 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 1: because he's really man of cool dude. Man, you want 675 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,879 Speaker 1: to hear it again. No, I'm gonna just reach out 676 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 1: to him. Yeah, No, I'm gonna reach out because he's 677 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 1: a man. He's really really a good brother, Kanye, I do. 678 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,880 Speaker 1: I don't agree with everything he says, but I do 679 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 1: love him, you know, all right, Well, he admitted Kanye 680 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,440 Speaker 1: did that. His temporary psychosis in two thousand sixteen happened 681 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 1: two days after quitting those painkillers cold Turkey. People close 682 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 1: to Kanye says he's talked about slavery before as a 683 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: metaphor and was un artfully expressing himself when he said 684 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,840 Speaker 1: slavery was a choice. In fact, Kanye tweeted, the reason 685 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,920 Speaker 1: I brought up the four hundred years point is because 686 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:53,799 Speaker 1: because we can't be mentally imprisoned for another four hundred years, 687 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 1: we need free thought. Now that's what he said. He meant, 688 00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:07,719 Speaker 1: That's what he said. He meant. Yeah, yeah, he's been understood. Good. 689 00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: Ye No, see the old country. You know, Look, a 690 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,400 Speaker 1: couple of things have happened, and I'm just gonna have 691 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 1: to be honest. You can lose your moral compass in life. 692 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,400 Speaker 1: When my mother and father died, I lost my moral compass. 693 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 1: I lost the two people I wanted to be proud 694 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,400 Speaker 1: of me. It happened to Tiger Woods his father died, 695 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 1: that was his general doctor, dude, he wanted to be proud. 696 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,480 Speaker 1: Then Tiger went off the deep end. When you lose 697 00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:43,000 Speaker 1: your moral compass, man, it can happen to you, especially dudes, 698 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,000 Speaker 1: because there is a sense of discipline that goes when 699 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,840 Speaker 1: those people who are your moral compass goal. That's not 700 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,120 Speaker 1: making an excuse, but I promise you, man, I watched 701 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: it happen to me. I've seen it happen to a 702 00:45:55,080 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: lot of really really good dudes. Yeah, all right, well, 703 00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:05,399 Speaker 1: coming up, our very own little Kanye nephew Tommy has 704 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:09,000 Speaker 1: a prank phone call for us. He can't make slave 705 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 1: slave clothes and then makes slave quotes. You just can't 706 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:18,759 Speaker 1: say it again. You can't make slave clothes and then 707 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 1: make slave quotes. It just don't go together. It just 708 00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:26,319 Speaker 1: those are designer originals. Those are designer originals, nephew. Them 709 00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:32,080 Speaker 1: is burlamp looking clothes. Yes, I did, but it's from 710 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,880 Speaker 1: Kanye's collection. You know, you don't sing the hun when 711 00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 1: you see the You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 712 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 713 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:48,480 Speaker 1: four minutes after it's today's Strawberry letter subject he cursed 714 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 1: his own mama out. But up next, Yeah, the nephews 715 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:58,680 Speaker 1: right here with today's break phone call and her. Sometime 716 00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,840 Speaker 1: we get the schedule mixed up. You understand. Sometimes that happens. 717 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:06,319 Speaker 1: It happens in everything, right, Yeah, Well, today we're having 718 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: a wedding and a funeral. Wedding and the funeral. Jesus. 719 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:16,240 Speaker 1: What a wedding is, y'all is actually when you try 720 00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:22,399 Speaker 1: a wedding, it's when you're shredding wheat breath. Oh yeah, 721 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: and you're throwing it at people. Okay, got it running. Ryan. Hi, 722 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,839 Speaker 1: I'm trying to Ryan, Ryan. How are you doing? Hey, 723 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm a second. This is Josh Josh over 724 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:37,799 Speaker 1: at the I want to be officials at the church 725 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,279 Speaker 1: where you guys are getting married tomorrow. Yeah, yeah, how 726 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:42,800 Speaker 1: you doing? Man? They want to thank you all for 727 00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,799 Speaker 1: that too, man. We we'll appreciate it. Sure. Yeah. Well, 728 00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,880 Speaker 1: we definitely hope to make you remember here soon or 729 00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,839 Speaker 1: later since you guys are getting married. You know, hey, man, 730 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,040 Speaker 1: you know I'm trying to get this work schedule changed up. 731 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:54,480 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. They got me working on 732 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 1: Sundays now. Man, So son I tweaked at the mood 733 00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 1: that around a little bit. I'll be there. Okay, listen, 734 00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,360 Speaker 1: you have a bit of a situation has come up. 735 00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,480 Speaker 1: We had some problems and miscommunication and it's definitely been 736 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,319 Speaker 1: on the outside. Uh. They had your name Ryan down 737 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,279 Speaker 1: here with your phone number as well as you're you're 738 00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,640 Speaker 1: as soon to be why sonya? They had her name here, 739 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 1: but we didn't want to call her with this. We 740 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,960 Speaker 1: wanted to just reach out and talk to you and 741 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 1: see if it just makes you aware of what's going on. Okay, 742 00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,480 Speaker 1: what's what's going on? Man, there's been a mix up 743 00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,919 Speaker 1: on on scheduling. I don't know if you know such 744 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 1: the older make she passed away a week ago and 745 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:32,640 Speaker 1: you're not you're not a member of the church, so 746 00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:34,279 Speaker 1: you wouldn't know it. But she's one of the one 747 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 1: of the oldest members here at the church. Just the 748 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:40,719 Speaker 1: older may passed away. And what's going on is you 749 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 1: all's wedding is tomorrow at twelve o'clock, right, but the 750 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:51,359 Speaker 1: actual funeral is at three o'clock here at the church. Okay, uh, 751 00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: but brother Josh, Josh, okay, look here, brother Josh, hey, man, 752 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,800 Speaker 1: we we we already got this thing emotion, man, we 753 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,000 Speaker 1: didn't stand now they have been a two hundred differentations. Man, 754 00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 1: I mean blessed and and and and I understand that, 755 00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 1: but but but I mean, you know she's there's no 756 00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: way we could have moved it around. Now. The figure 757 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:16,680 Speaker 1: problem the funeral home is bringing the casket first thing 758 00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,800 Speaker 1: in the morning. So what I want what I wanted 759 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 1: to make you aware of, and I didn't want you 760 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 1: to tell your wife this, but the actual casket will 761 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,520 Speaker 1: be in the Saint you are. But we will have it. 762 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: Hold the hold of man, are you serious? I look 763 00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,719 Speaker 1: at y'all need the moodest round. I don't know what 764 00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,200 Speaker 1: y'all gonna do. Y'all have a fellowship all in the 765 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 1: back or something like that. Uh, Ryan. The only place 766 00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,439 Speaker 1: we can actually put the casket, and if we didn't 767 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,439 Speaker 1: put it there is in the actual room that you're 768 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 1: assumed to be wife would be changing it. That's the 769 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:49,840 Speaker 1: only place could have changed their room when they were dead. Body, 770 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,480 Speaker 1: are you it wasn't that? And you know what, I 771 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 1: understood that. That's the first thing I thought of it. 772 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:56,919 Speaker 1: I thought, I said, that's still put the casket away. 773 00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,839 Speaker 1: It goes for the funeral and we're gonna cover it up. 774 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,600 Speaker 1: And see, basically you actually didn't. But I can't even 775 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 1: believe you can only with did man looking and excuse 776 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,759 Speaker 1: my french man. Yeah, I know I need to get 777 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 1: back in the church, I really do. But right now, Doug, 778 00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,840 Speaker 1: this ain't going down like this man. We didn't already 779 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,759 Speaker 1: paid the money. First First, First of all, First of all, 780 00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,799 Speaker 1: you know, I don't even feel like she may had 781 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,960 Speaker 1: to pay, you know, to hold a wedding over at 782 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,320 Speaker 1: hut Hurt where she paid times at that's that's the 783 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 1: first thing. You know. I ain't like that from the jumping, 784 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 1: but I wouldn't here to when women because she want 785 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,920 Speaker 1: her pasta to marry us. And now you got to 786 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,400 Speaker 1: nerd to tell me that's how we arrange something that 787 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,880 Speaker 1: for funeral gonna happen the same day as my wedding 788 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 1: and my wife's got to get dressed in the room 789 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,520 Speaker 1: with a dead body. Well, no, we're not gonna put 790 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,279 Speaker 1: it in there. Bro. I was like, I say, I'm 791 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,120 Speaker 1: putting that body the first thing in the morning. I'm 792 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 1: gonna put that body in the right there in front 793 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 1: of the bullpit, and we're gonna cover it. Now, what 794 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,279 Speaker 1: you're getting out of is get more flowers, because there's 795 00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:58,040 Speaker 1: gonna be flowers from the funeral. So I'm thinking that's 796 00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:59,919 Speaker 1: probably gonna be a little bit of a perk point. 797 00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,920 Speaker 1: I just wanted you to be probably gonna be more 798 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,759 Speaker 1: people than you think because some of the people that's 799 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,800 Speaker 1: gonna be as your wed and it's really for the funeral. 800 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 1: A hold of man, are you serious? Right? And now 801 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,040 Speaker 1: I mean, look at doctor. I ben't paid for the 802 00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,160 Speaker 1: where that happened at this church, man, Okay, ain't And 803 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,960 Speaker 1: no disrespect to the lady that has passed, called blessed 804 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 1: her family. I ain't planning to not putting no dead 805 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:27,280 Speaker 1: body having a funeral at my wedding. Man, that's crazy 806 00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,759 Speaker 1: that church to she's a member of the church too. 807 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 1: I don't I don't give it. I don't be no 808 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,840 Speaker 1: member of the church. Man. I've been paid for this 809 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,719 Speaker 1: wed and it's gonna happen tomorrow. Man, you buy six 810 00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:46,640 Speaker 1: and of putting the dead body. It's my wedding, right. 811 00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:49,920 Speaker 1: I mean, no disrespect, but the woman has passed. She 812 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,480 Speaker 1: is not gonna get up. I mean, what what is 813 00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 1: the problem. The problem is your called me with this 814 00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:57,440 Speaker 1: man the day before my wed and we didn't schedule 815 00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:01,000 Speaker 1: there six months ago. I got five thirty thousand dollars 816 00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 1: on this wind, okay, and I'm gonna tell me that 817 00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 1: we got to share. I will win with a funeral, 818 00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 1: but the hellers won't with you. Man, do you want 819 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,359 Speaker 1: to have your winning at this church? I'll pay for them, 820 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,560 Speaker 1: which we won't. I'm having the wind, okay. I tell 821 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,879 Speaker 1: you what lit there bout the bit in the morrow. 822 00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,200 Speaker 1: I wrote in the right out to the street, playing 823 00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 1: things in front, and and and and throw flowers like 824 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: throwing rice. But we're gonna have a win inside the 825 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 1: same tier tomorrow. I promise you that I care. I care, 826 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 1: not assure you that there won't be I have no 827 00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,440 Speaker 1: other place to put the body. Okay, well i'll bet 828 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,480 Speaker 1: you find someone to put it if I get that 829 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,400 Speaker 1: a mark. It's about it in there. There's gonna be 830 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,879 Speaker 1: a couple of boutis in there. Name. You got two 831 00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 1: choices to move that funeral or to reimburse me back 832 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 1: this thirty thousand dollars out of an hour to spend 833 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,040 Speaker 1: those only two choices. I want to hear about it. 834 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 1: Meet me at the front door to night with a 835 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,680 Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollar cash your check. Always say they had 836 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,640 Speaker 1: this wind up in that to morrow morning. You heard me. 837 00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,799 Speaker 1: I ain't playing. I ain't playing at all. No jokes. 838 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,960 Speaker 1: That's wrong with y'all. Man. You can do something else, 839 00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:02,960 Speaker 1: and that I don't want to know from you. Man. 840 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is it's gonna be a waiting at 841 00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,879 Speaker 1: this church tomorrow without saying dead about it. That's all 842 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Push it to the band. Man. There's there's 843 00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:13,759 Speaker 1: one more a bit of an issue that I need 844 00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 1: to tell you also, what can be worse than a 845 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,560 Speaker 1: dead about it? What issue could be worse dead? By 846 00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,319 Speaker 1: that way, the man the insuance, Sir, that is worse 847 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 1: than the dead body heals this deal, nephew. Comment from 848 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:28,879 Speaker 1: the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your best man, Jeff got 849 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:37,520 Speaker 1: me the prank phone? Call you what what you know? 850 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 1: What made the best man about to get the best 851 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:45,520 Speaker 1: bloop when he can possibly get? Man playing? Then God 852 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:51,279 Speaker 1: lead the days old? Uh it is to get the 853 00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:54,879 Speaker 1: biggest beat down possible band. I'll tell you, hey, one 854 00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 1: more question. What's the baddest radio show in the land? Ryan, 855 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 1: The Steve Harbor Morning Show. But there's a little mix 856 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,279 Speaker 1: up on schedule, y'all understand? Yeah, wow, I got it now. 857 00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:16,040 Speaker 1: And yeah, I thought you said a wedding like a funeral, 858 00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:22,080 Speaker 1: so they all just in it. That's boy. Oh you 859 00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 1: said that right? Yeah, alright, nephew, thank you very much. 860 00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:31,520 Speaker 1: Switching gears. Now, those earlier reports about Black China being 861 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,040 Speaker 1: pregnant with her eighteen year old boyfriend, well those have 862 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:39,480 Speaker 1: turned out to be greatly exaggerated. Uh. Black China's reps. 863 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 1: Her reps tells TMZ that she is absolutely not pregnant 864 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:46,880 Speaker 1: right now. Earlier reports said that she was pregnant with 865 00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 1: her eighteen year old boyfriend's child. She's been dating rapper 866 00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:53,480 Speaker 1: Y Being Almighty J for a few months. China has 867 00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 1: two kids already, of course, one with Tiger and one 868 00:54:56,160 --> 00:55:00,440 Speaker 1: with Rob Kardashian Little dream. She says, you'd like to 869 00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 1: have more kids, but not so many where she would 870 00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:06,480 Speaker 1: need to get a mini van. Okay, so she's not pregnant, 871 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: and she does want more kids, but she's not having 872 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,800 Speaker 1: any right now with her eighteen year old boyfriend. He 873 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 1: won't need to start checking with some man these damn daddys. 874 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:20,879 Speaker 1: But he's just eighteen. Yeah, that's why I'm saying, Yeah, 875 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 1: I got what you won't. And I'm talking to I 876 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,480 Speaker 1: ain't talking black child. I don't know. I don't even 877 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 1: know who she is. You standing here, I wouldn't know. Ye. 878 00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go. Today's Strawberry Letter is coming up. 879 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 1: The subject is he cursed his own mama out Right 880 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,080 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 881 00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:47,799 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter is sponsored by one eight hundred Flowers. 882 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:52,480 Speaker 1: This is so huge. 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Alright, so send her some flowers from one 893 00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 1: eight hundred flowers dot com. Alright, it's time for the letter. 894 00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:30,680 Speaker 1: If you want advice, If you want advice on your relationship, 895 00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:34,680 Speaker 1: on your dating situation, on work, on parenting, on sex, 896 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,160 Speaker 1: and more, submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey f 897 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:44,799 Speaker 1: M dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Buckle up, 898 00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:46,600 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. It 899 00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:50,320 Speaker 1: is the straw Berry Letter who subject he cursed his 900 00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:54,360 Speaker 1: own mama out. Dear Stephen Shirley, I prayed and asked 901 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:57,520 Speaker 1: God to send me a great man. It took ten 902 00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,680 Speaker 1: long years, but my prayers were a shirt and I 903 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:04,200 Speaker 1: got an amazing man. We're getting married this month, but 904 00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,480 Speaker 1: there's just one problem. I was taught that you should 905 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,280 Speaker 1: watch how a man loves and treats his mother because 906 00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 1: it will show you what kind of man he is. Well, 907 00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 1: I recently learned that my fiance does not respect his 908 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,919 Speaker 1: mother at all. We traveled to Maryland to visit his mom, 909 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,400 Speaker 1: and it was the worst visit ever. His mother was 910 00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,439 Speaker 1: drinking hennessy from the time we got there still three 911 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:31,200 Speaker 1: days later when she kicked me out of the house. Yes, 912 00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 1: she kicked me out when we first got there. She 913 00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:36,040 Speaker 1: complained that I was on my cell phone too much 914 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 1: because I was letting my family know we had made 915 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,680 Speaker 1: it safely. Then she fussed about me taking a shower 916 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,640 Speaker 1: at night and in the morning she told me to 917 00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:49,480 Speaker 1: She told me to ask permission to take additional baths 918 00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:52,520 Speaker 1: in her house. By the third day, she went off 919 00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,720 Speaker 1: of me for watching a live stream of my church 920 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:58,400 Speaker 1: service back home because we missed church that day. She 921 00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:01,160 Speaker 1: yelled for me to turn that mess off or get 922 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:04,520 Speaker 1: out of her house. That was the final straw for 923 00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:08,360 Speaker 1: my fiance. He lost it and went off on his mother, 924 00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:12,520 Speaker 1: calling her an old, hateful, drunk be I was in 925 00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,800 Speaker 1: shock and told him that was uncalled for. He was 926 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 1: very angry and told me to get my things so 927 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 1: we could leave. I told him that he was wrong. 928 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:23,680 Speaker 1: He said that his mother was wrong. We left and 929 00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,120 Speaker 1: that was it. He hasn't spoken to his mom and 930 00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,600 Speaker 1: over a month now, I'm wondering if this is some 931 00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,480 Speaker 1: kind of character flaw he has. Will he treat me 932 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,200 Speaker 1: the same way once we're married or was he just 933 00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:40,320 Speaker 1: protecting me? Well, this is definitely the opposite of a 934 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:44,640 Speaker 1: mama's boy, okay, because you know, when you when you know, 935 00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 1: I've heard a lot of women say that that you 936 00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,720 Speaker 1: watch how a man treats his mom and then that'll 937 00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:51,880 Speaker 1: tell you, you know, if he'll treat you that way. Well, 938 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 1: sometimes that works the opposite. Sometimes they become mama's boys. 939 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,800 Speaker 1: But this is definitely not the case. But to answer 940 00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,480 Speaker 1: your question, I do think perhaps he was trying to 941 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 1: be protective of you, however crazy way he did it. 942 00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 1: He was disgusted in his mom's behavior and he showed it. 943 00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,120 Speaker 1: His mother is obviously an alcoholic, and uh, their relationship 944 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,120 Speaker 1: is in a very blad place because of it. Now, 945 00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,360 Speaker 1: Having said that, I do agree with you, calling her 946 00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:22,240 Speaker 1: a drunk b is out of line. That is uncalled for. 947 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:24,320 Speaker 1: I don't think it was any need for him to 948 00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,720 Speaker 1: be so disrespectful to her or to her in front 949 00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:31,120 Speaker 1: of you. And yes, he just might have some residual 950 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,600 Speaker 1: issues going on as a result of her alcoholism being 951 00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:38,320 Speaker 1: around that. UM, so you know what, I would just um, 952 00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:45,000 Speaker 1: maybe you know, make sure that he's okay, get some counseling. 953 00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have considered marriage counseling 954 00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:51,160 Speaker 1: or not, but if he does have issues, they probably 955 00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:54,040 Speaker 1: will come out during the marriage. So I definitely suggest 956 00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,120 Speaker 1: some counseling. I know you're getting married soon, but I 957 00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:02,520 Speaker 1: wouldn't go into it without getting some counseling. See me personally, 958 01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,360 Speaker 1: I don't think you have anything to worry about at all, 959 01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell you why I feel this way. 960 01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:11,320 Speaker 1: I have no jokes for this letter. I have something 961 01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 1: to say about this letter. And this is not because 962 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 1: of my own mother, because I had what I thought 963 01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 1: was the greatest mom in the world, as do most 964 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 1: people feel that way about their mother. So uh, this 965 01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:23,800 Speaker 1: is not from her experience, but I've watched it from 966 01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:29,560 Speaker 1: a distance on several people. Everybody don't get a great mother. 967 01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 1: H as great as your mother may have been. Everybody 968 01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:41,240 Speaker 1: ain't that fortune. It's mother's that give away babies. It's 969 01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:46,000 Speaker 1: mother's that's own drugs while they're pregnant. It's mother's that 970 01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 1: neglect children. It's mother's that abused children. Everybody don't get 971 01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:58,880 Speaker 1: a great mother. This boy don't have a great mother. Now, 972 01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,000 Speaker 1: let me tell you what happened here. Like most boys 973 01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 1: wanting a relationship with their mother, most boys will go, hey, listen, 974 01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 1: I met the girl in my dreams. Man, I'm gonna 975 01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 1: take her to meet my mama. Every boy won't say 976 01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:17,640 Speaker 1: mother's approval of the girl that they're gonna marry. I'm 977 01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:20,560 Speaker 1: every dude, I know, man, he just won't that approved mama. 978 01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:24,720 Speaker 1: Look what I got, mama? What you think? So this 979 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 1: board and drugged his new fiancee to meet his mama. 980 01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 1: And you and you, you know, you know, you know what. 981 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,800 Speaker 1: You're pretty good? You watching services at home multiple bath dude, 982 01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,040 Speaker 1: you are you good in the morning and at now Yeah, 983 01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,560 Speaker 1: now that's crazy to have I ain't having it at 984 01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 1: you gotta ask first. But she drunk. Now, she's been 985 01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:48,280 Speaker 1: drinking herenessy from the time that this is not to 986 01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 1: drink you want to drink. From time you get that 987 01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:56,880 Speaker 1: to you leave. So now he didn't got frustrated because 988 01:01:56,920 --> 01:02:00,240 Speaker 1: he didn't bought the girl of his dreams to meet 989 01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:06,960 Speaker 1: his mother, and she did her usually because this ain't 990 01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:11,520 Speaker 1: the first time. She didn't disappointed at this point. See 991 01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,840 Speaker 1: he ain't just fired off on the one time. This 992 01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:17,280 Speaker 1: has been a build up in this young guy. And 993 01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:20,120 Speaker 1: now here she is. See what you don't know, baby, 994 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 1: is she might have missed the graduation, showed out a graduation. 995 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,960 Speaker 1: She didn't clown him and embarrassed him at the family 996 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:31,400 Speaker 1: re union before. She didn't making to the games because 997 01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:34,920 Speaker 1: she was drinking. She didn't make a parent teacher meeting 998 01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:37,680 Speaker 1: on time when she spoke to because she was drinking. 999 01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:42,200 Speaker 1: She can call down that message, little job. She forgot 1000 01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:44,280 Speaker 1: to give a message to him one time when his 1001 01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:48,080 Speaker 1: boss called the house. You don't know what distance stacked up. 1002 01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:51,600 Speaker 1: He ain't fired off on his mama for one time. 1003 01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:56,840 Speaker 1: This woman has disappointed this young man over and over 1004 01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:01,840 Speaker 1: and over and over. In your visit was the last straw, 1005 01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:07,240 Speaker 1: m the last straw. I hadn't had enough for you. 1006 01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:11,040 Speaker 1: Every time I try to get your approval, every time 1007 01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,960 Speaker 1: I bring something around you. Every time I need you 1008 01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 1: to be proud of me, you pull this on me, 1009 01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:21,920 Speaker 1: you old drunk. Now, he was wrong for that. He 1010 01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:24,080 Speaker 1: was wrong for that. I'll tell you the rest of them, 1011 01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,720 Speaker 1: all right. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming 1012 01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:33,640 Speaker 1: up at twenty three after the hour you're listening to Steve. Well, 1013 01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:36,720 Speaker 1: in about thirty minutes, we'll have Carla's reality update. But 1014 01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:39,240 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's get part two of your response 1015 01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,760 Speaker 1: to today's Strawberry letter. He cursed his own mama out. See. Now, 1016 01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:46,400 Speaker 1: this girl is worried about this because she was raised 1017 01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:49,320 Speaker 1: to think that you gotta watch how a man treat 1018 01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:51,960 Speaker 1: his mama and then to tell you everything you need 1019 01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:55,280 Speaker 1: to know. Normally that's true, but now listen to me. 1020 01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:57,880 Speaker 1: Like I said in the beginning, everybody don't get a 1021 01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:05,240 Speaker 1: great mother. Neglect, abuse, drugs, drinking. Everybody don't get a 1022 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:09,200 Speaker 1: perfect month. Most of us are fortunate, but there are 1023 01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:12,120 Speaker 1: those who are not. So Now, he didn't got the 1024 01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 1: imperfect mama. Now, he didn't bought the girl of his 1025 01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:18,919 Speaker 1: dreams over the show off like most boys do, most 1026 01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:22,600 Speaker 1: young men. Most mama, look what I got this hug. 1027 01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:26,640 Speaker 1: I picked up boys she's so pretty. Lord, she just 1028 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,880 Speaker 1: as sweet and oh man, thank you cool. I was 1029 01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,440 Speaker 1: sure hoping you say that now. Either took over that 1030 01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:35,560 Speaker 1: and she just she just fired off on this girl. 1031 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 1: Three days later, you get kicked out of the house. 1032 01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,280 Speaker 1: You know. Uh. We first got this, she complained, I 1033 01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:44,120 Speaker 1: was on my cell phone too much because I was 1034 01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:47,360 Speaker 1: letting your family know we had made it safely. Then 1035 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:49,640 Speaker 1: she first brought me taking a shower at night and 1036 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,680 Speaker 1: in the morning she told me to ask permission to 1037 01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 1: take additional baths in her house. What is an additional bath? 1038 01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:01,560 Speaker 1: I thought you could take as many beasts. I didn't 1039 01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:07,600 Speaker 1: have additional but it's a new day. By the third day, 1040 01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:09,960 Speaker 1: she went off on me for watching the live stream 1041 01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,840 Speaker 1: of my church service back home because we missed church 1042 01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:15,840 Speaker 1: that day. She yelled at me to turn that mess 1043 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:17,480 Speaker 1: off and get out of her house. That was the 1044 01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:20,400 Speaker 1: final straw for my fiance. He lost it, went off 1045 01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:23,640 Speaker 1: on his mother, calling her old, hateful, drunk b I 1046 01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:25,720 Speaker 1: was in shock and told him that was uncalled for. 1047 01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:27,840 Speaker 1: He was very angry and told me to get my 1048 01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:30,919 Speaker 1: things so we could leave. I told him he was wrong. 1049 01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:33,720 Speaker 1: He said his mother was wrong. We left it at 1050 01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:35,680 Speaker 1: that he ain't spoke to his mom and over mom. 1051 01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:38,120 Speaker 1: Now I'm wanting to do some kind of character flaw 1052 01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:41,720 Speaker 1: he has. Now his character flaw is his mother because 1053 01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:44,959 Speaker 1: she's disappointed this dude many times. This ain't the first time, 1054 01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: you old, drunk, hateful b is build up from all 1055 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:54,200 Speaker 1: the other times he wanted to see but he wasn't 1056 01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:57,160 Speaker 1: man enough. And now calling your mom out the name 1057 01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:59,000 Speaker 1: don't make you a man. That's not what I'm saying. 1058 01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:02,200 Speaker 1: But he was. He he hadn't gotten to that point. See, 1059 01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 1: you don't know about the graduation she missed at the 1060 01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,600 Speaker 1: game she missed, or the parent teachers things she never 1061 01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:11,600 Speaker 1: went to, or the PTA meeting he couldn't be in cubs. Guys, 1062 01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:13,880 Speaker 1: he had to come out of football because she kept 1063 01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:16,520 Speaker 1: missing rehearsal, practicing. You don't You don't know what to 1064 01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,640 Speaker 1: build up in. This boy has been disappointed a woman 1065 01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:23,040 Speaker 1: many times. This ain't the first time. Now on the 1066 01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:26,320 Speaker 1: day of days when he really wanted to show her off. Man, 1067 01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 1: because every dude wanna take his mama. He bring up 1068 01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,480 Speaker 1: there and this is what she do. This is what 1069 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:35,080 Speaker 1: she do. Everybody don't get to have a good mama. 1070 01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:38,160 Speaker 1: So no I think you have met a great man, 1071 01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:42,520 Speaker 1: and don't judge him for that. Everybody make mistakes that 1072 01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,840 Speaker 1: he can have called his mom and apologize for calling 1073 01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:46,480 Speaker 1: out a name because that's wrong. You're don't do that 1074 01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:49,959 Speaker 1: to your mama. But after that his mother was wrong. 1075 01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,600 Speaker 1: Who makes a person get out of the house to 1076 01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:56,440 Speaker 1: take it too bad? Who don't want her son? Man? 1077 01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:59,880 Speaker 1: A woman that watched church on TV? What drunk mom? 1078 01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:05,320 Speaker 1: What is you crazy? Get your stuff? We leave, all right, Steve? 1079 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:18,200 Speaker 1: We got email us or Instagram. Who who say a 1080 01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:25,200 Speaker 1: church music? Here running extra hot water and I'm saying 1081 01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 1: the church? So because you lost your math drunk mama, 1082 01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:34,200 Speaker 1: you're talking to your phone to your people talking about 1083 01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:40,640 Speaker 1: you made it. Oh you've been to get your little 1084 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:45,240 Speaker 1: cute clean ass out of here. Cute clean christing up 1085 01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:53,600 Speaker 1: in him. We was Dady broke down? All right, Steve, 1086 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:55,000 Speaker 1: We do have to get out of here. You can 1087 01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:57,960 Speaker 1: email us or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry 1088 01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:00,479 Speaker 1: Letter at my Girl Shirley and please jo me today 1089 01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:05,040 Speaker 1: at m for the Strawberry Letter Live after show on 1090 01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:09,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Facebook Live. Okay, and Steve, please introduce our 1091 01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:14,320 Speaker 1: girl from the talk. She is here, Steve Harvey, what 1092 01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:19,240 Speaker 1: is going on in the world doesn't mean okay, so well, no, 1093 01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:22,760 Speaker 1: I just want to know, uh well, okay, so the 1094 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:25,280 Speaker 1: strawberry level, you can't wash that it up singing the 1095 01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:31,080 Speaker 1: church record what was? Well, let me tell you something. 1096 01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:33,080 Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna get put out a lot of places 1097 01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:35,280 Speaker 1: because I prush my teeth with the water running. I 1098 01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:37,960 Speaker 1: know I'm not supposed to do for the environment Charles's, 1099 01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,280 Speaker 1: but I do that. And I takes what they call, 1100 01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:44,320 Speaker 1: let me see, Tommy, what's the word for it, a 1101 01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:51,400 Speaker 1: bath in the sink and you know we're yeah, but 1102 01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:53,800 Speaker 1: it really as a garden to a bath. Don't even lie, 1103 01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:58,160 Speaker 1: don't deep. So I will get put out of line. 1104 01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:01,200 Speaker 1: And I love a thing church musicum when I'm taking 1105 01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:04,000 Speaker 1: the bath because I go to Benside Baptist sermon on 1106 01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:06,400 Speaker 1: the couch and I first take the fellowship a lot. 1107 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:08,160 Speaker 1: But why are we talking about what other people are 1108 01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:12,360 Speaker 1: talking about. Let's pray for Kanye West, Yes, let's pray 1109 01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:15,080 Speaker 1: for him. Something's happening to that boy? For my five percentage? 1110 01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:17,560 Speaker 1: They would say a simulation into the culture, But I 1111 01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:20,519 Speaker 1: don't know what's happening to him. And I don't know 1112 01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:22,879 Speaker 1: if y'all talked about it this way, but is anybody 1113 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,679 Speaker 1: concerned that they gave him an our platform on TMZ 1114 01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:29,519 Speaker 1: so and Van being hurt but Van Pete speaking for 1115 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,800 Speaker 1: the people, UM, Steve and y'all talk show, right, and 1116 01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:38,080 Speaker 1: congratulations for winning the Daytime Emmy. Congratulations, congratulations. But if 1117 01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:44,479 Speaker 1: something yes, thank you, if something was happening, would it 1118 01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:48,000 Speaker 1: would it have been best to cut go to commercial 1119 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:52,280 Speaker 1: and then go in a different direction, that was what 1120 01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,320 Speaker 1: you're talking about. No, First of all, I don't know 1121 01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:57,280 Speaker 1: if he was invited. I think he just went up. Yeah, 1122 01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:59,760 Speaker 1: so because he's Kanye, And how why would you cut 1123 01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:02,800 Speaker 1: your camera from Kanye just walked right. You ain't even 1124 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:04,719 Speaker 1: got to find him at the airport on the street. 1125 01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:07,519 Speaker 1: He walked up in here. We got cameras, right, But 1126 01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:10,040 Speaker 1: then but then I think, I guess what I'm saying 1127 01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:12,479 Speaker 1: is once it gets to a point where you can 1128 01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:16,840 Speaker 1: see clearly that Van is upset and and you bring 1129 01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:20,120 Speaker 1: the other young lady. You know, a monolithic thought in 1130 01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:23,439 Speaker 1: the black community has always been here. But we've always 1131 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,120 Speaker 1: had respect for the culture and the street to understand 1132 01:10:26,400 --> 01:10:29,200 Speaker 1: when and where we had those conversations. All right, give 1133 01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:32,040 Speaker 1: us ten minutes. We're gonna hold Cheryl over and continue 1134 01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:36,120 Speaker 1: this conversation. Oh this is good. Right after this, you're 1135 01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:41,599 Speaker 1: listening to Steve alright, we decided to keep holder over 1136 01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:44,679 Speaker 1: Cheryl Underwood. We were talking about the Kanye incident, Cheryl, 1137 01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:46,680 Speaker 1: and and what were you saying now? I was just 1138 01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:51,360 Speaker 1: saying that the fact that uh TMZ gives our platform 1139 01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,439 Speaker 1: the Kanye West and and it turns into something that 1140 01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:57,559 Speaker 1: truly is hurting Van. But Van stepped up for the people. 1141 01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:02,720 Speaker 1: A lot of us were sped. Yes, he for him 1142 01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:06,040 Speaker 1: to say and articulate what he felt. But I just 1143 01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:09,519 Speaker 1: feel for Kanye is in crisis, and there's there's a 1144 01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:13,760 Speaker 1: a simulation issue, and there's a lot of issues in this. Steve, 1145 01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:15,439 Speaker 1: what do you think about this? What do you think 1146 01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 1: of everything that's going on. I don't think there's anything 1147 01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:23,040 Speaker 1: wrong with Kanye. I think what Kanye is is he's 1148 01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:28,080 Speaker 1: insulated in his own thoughts, in his own mind. And 1149 01:11:28,200 --> 01:11:31,639 Speaker 1: I don't think that Kanye has people around him where 1150 01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:34,200 Speaker 1: he can run stuff by and bounce it off and 1151 01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:39,360 Speaker 1: get some real truth from. You have to have people 1152 01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:42,400 Speaker 1: around you that that can be truthful. Hey, man, you 1153 01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:45,320 Speaker 1: don't look good in that. Hey man, you can't say that. 1154 01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:48,240 Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm not gonna let you do that. I 1155 01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:52,840 Speaker 1: have that on this morning show and Carla will protect No, 1156 01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:56,439 Speaker 1: you can't say that. No, no, no, no, no no. 1157 01:11:56,640 --> 01:12:01,640 Speaker 1: The way Cat cut Cat Cat down the button to 1158 01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:06,719 Speaker 1: keep stupid man from entering the air on meat needs 1159 01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:14,560 Speaker 1: and older black man in his life that's real, that 1160 01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:20,880 Speaker 1: will tell him the truth, older black man period. This 1161 01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:25,519 Speaker 1: has a lot to do, see because we those of 1162 01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:29,080 Speaker 1: us that's older. No, that's certain things you just can't say. This, 1163 01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:33,559 Speaker 1: ain't you ain't free to be free? Absolutely absolutely? Who 1164 01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:37,759 Speaker 1: told you that? But but we're not that freedom of speech. 1165 01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:40,120 Speaker 1: They're not talking to us, that's right, they're not talking 1166 01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:41,840 Speaker 1: to us. And and to me, that's what speaks to 1167 01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:46,000 Speaker 1: the simulation Steve, that he is isolated and assimilated and 1168 01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:49,719 Speaker 1: around the crowd that when you utter these things, there's nobody, 1169 01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:53,240 Speaker 1: No bro, even if you're thinking that that ain't the stands, 1170 01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,320 Speaker 1: That ain't what we're doing. That ain't the look we're 1171 01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:58,759 Speaker 1: doing today. That's what I love man from TIMZ because 1172 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:04,240 Speaker 1: he let him know he loved he did because his dude. 1173 01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:07,280 Speaker 1: But listen to me, I love what he said too. 1174 01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:12,400 Speaker 1: After the fact, what I'm saying for my little brother 1175 01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:18,280 Speaker 1: is he needs an older black man to put some 1176 01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:22,160 Speaker 1: other thoughts in heads in his head of where he's headed. 1177 01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:26,880 Speaker 1: Will call him Steve. I don't already reached out to 1178 01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:30,000 Speaker 1: the contact that I have, but then surely people got 1179 01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:33,200 Speaker 1: to listen because Steve will give some great advice. And 1180 01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm not saying this the kids nothing on you, Steve. 1181 01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:38,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying it because you've done it for me. You 1182 01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:40,439 Speaker 1: get some advice. But if you're not gonna listen, there's 1183 01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:43,080 Speaker 1: a few people that we know of that not gonna 1184 01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:45,400 Speaker 1: listen because you think it's either all about you and 1185 01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:48,280 Speaker 1: your ego and your crew that's gassing you up, or 1186 01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:50,760 Speaker 1: the people that benefit from you being a train wreck 1187 01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:53,439 Speaker 1: at the detriment of the community to people and the 1188 01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:56,439 Speaker 1: commerce there by the power that we can make change 1189 01:13:56,479 --> 01:14:00,439 Speaker 1: in our communities. And nobody want to real hard versation. 1190 01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:05,960 Speaker 1: You listen, and this is about black men and mental illness. 1191 01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:09,200 Speaker 1: It's about a simulation and other people. This is about 1192 01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:12,360 Speaker 1: also black people that are that are You think you're 1193 01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:16,080 Speaker 1: making a conservative thought for free throught thought and love, 1194 01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:19,559 Speaker 1: but you are being used. You are being you. That's 1195 01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:21,760 Speaker 1: why they call you what they call you. And I 1196 01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:25,200 Speaker 1: was almost wanted them too as a Black Republican, but 1197 01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:28,360 Speaker 1: I've I've refused to go into that place. I'm gonna 1198 01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,599 Speaker 1: stay a walk and I'm gonna stay grounded with the people. 1199 01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:36,919 Speaker 1: Sure you're making a statement, that's true what we cannot 1200 01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:40,879 Speaker 1: do as black people and do not have the luxury 1201 01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:43,240 Speaker 1: of doing. I don't care how much money we get. 1202 01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:49,559 Speaker 1: You think that we've assimilated speak steve until the other culture, 1203 01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:54,280 Speaker 1: because that's right. Let me let me help you understand 1204 01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:58,680 Speaker 1: something very clearly started from President of don't care how 1205 01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:03,560 Speaker 1: much money you what you think you That's right. What 1206 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,599 Speaker 1: they see when you walk in the room is the basics. 1207 01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:10,400 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn what you do. Speak. They 1208 01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:15,200 Speaker 1: did it to President Obama, highest office in the world, right, 1209 01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:20,600 Speaker 1: and they treated him, oh man, so disrespectful because in 1210 01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:24,400 Speaker 1: some of those people's eyes, they can never wash out 1211 01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:27,400 Speaker 1: the fact that he black. Speak on that's number one, 1212 01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:31,600 Speaker 1: number one, that's the President of the United States, the 1213 01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:34,439 Speaker 1: most powerful man in the world. So let's just stop. 1214 01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:40,000 Speaker 1: That's right. That's dog. You're not a god, that's right. 1215 01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:46,639 Speaker 1: I'm a damn comedian, right, ain't you ain't no? Wait, no, no, God, 1216 01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:50,000 Speaker 1: they don't need to me saying it. I would love 1217 01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:52,840 Speaker 1: to live my life to be effective. I want to 1218 01:15:52,880 --> 01:15:56,960 Speaker 1: be a relevant but that's all I can expect to be. 1219 01:15:57,200 --> 01:15:59,760 Speaker 1: I just want to be relevant to you know what 1220 01:15:59,840 --> 01:16:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I want to move the needle in people's lives. 1221 01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:05,920 Speaker 1: A person, Like I said the other day, I want 1222 01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:07,519 Speaker 1: a person to look at me and say, hey, man, 1223 01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:10,920 Speaker 1: because of you, I didn't give up. That's right. That's right, 1224 01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:14,599 Speaker 1: that's not to my walk. That's right, that's right, that's right, 1225 01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:18,920 Speaker 1: that's right. And sometimes we get so deep into the 1226 01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:22,040 Speaker 1: situation to the commerce that starts, the lights, camera action, 1227 01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:24,600 Speaker 1: the platform that they give us, that what we do 1228 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:27,400 Speaker 1: is we walk into this pit and we start to 1229 01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:30,160 Speaker 1: sink into it and there's nobody there that pull us out. 1230 01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:32,960 Speaker 1: And I and I believe that what we witnessed with 1231 01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:36,759 Speaker 1: some black on black crime that was facilitated by something 1232 01:16:36,920 --> 01:16:39,840 Speaker 1: else that gave a platform, and you saw some men 1233 01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:44,719 Speaker 1: hurting each other and then taking advantage of it. Kanye, 1234 01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:47,080 Speaker 1: we love you, brother, and if you're willing to listen, 1235 01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 1: we're there to help you. If you are willing to 1236 01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:52,120 Speaker 1: listen and get the help that you needed and to 1237 01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:55,519 Speaker 1: van stay strong, brother, but understand the power of where 1238 01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:59,599 Speaker 1: you are at TMZ. So now the community is standing 1239 01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:02,800 Speaker 1: with your content and your statements. But now we gotta 1240 01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:05,680 Speaker 1: keep moving this forward to a better discussion. And never 1241 01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:08,679 Speaker 1: let yourself be used against the movement and the people. 1242 01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:17,400 Speaker 1: Never all right this in the air, everybody to tell 1243 01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:20,559 Speaker 1: you know, yes, right, you got to listen, You gotta 1244 01:17:20,720 --> 01:17:23,240 Speaker 1: you gotta take your marriage. Never had that, That's right. 1245 01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:25,360 Speaker 1: You have to take your manage. If he would have 1246 01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:30,400 Speaker 1: had that, he wouldn't erased me. We love you, Thank 1247 01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:35,280 Speaker 1: you as always. We'll be back with Marth right after this. 1248 01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:41,720 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey show. You know something, y'all, 1249 01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:44,640 Speaker 1: it's hard to find a bigger fan of yours than 1250 01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:48,599 Speaker 1: your mother. Through all the teenage foolishness that you did, 1251 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:52,599 Speaker 1: all the times you thought you knew everything, those first 1252 01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:56,439 Speaker 1: steps into adulthood, she has been there, supporting you every 1253 01:17:56,560 --> 01:17:59,320 Speaker 1: step of the way. This Mother's Day, show her just 1254 01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:02,559 Speaker 1: how much you're appreciate all of her dedication with one 1255 01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:05,599 Speaker 1: eight hundred flowers dot com. Right now, when you get 1256 01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:08,439 Speaker 1: ahead of the Mother's Day rush one eight hundred flowers 1257 01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:13,960 Speaker 1: is giving you an exclusive twenty four offer multi colored 1258 01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:17,320 Speaker 1: roses for just twenty four dollars. That's only a dollar 1259 01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:21,360 Speaker 1: per rose. To order four stunning multicolored roses for only 1260 01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:24,479 Speaker 1: go to one eight hundred flowers dot com, click the 1261 01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 1: radio icon and entered the cold Strawberry. That's what eight 1262 01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:31,320 Speaker 1: hundred flowers dot com Cold strawberry. Get ready to get 1263 01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,360 Speaker 1: ready to get ready. It is that time with callus update. 1264 01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:37,680 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew boy. It's a lot going on and 1265 01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:40,439 Speaker 1: hip hop at Lanta. Let's switch gifts. Let's talk about 1266 01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:44,479 Speaker 1: some reality TV and some scripted show. Okay, loving hip 1267 01:18:44,520 --> 01:18:48,000 Speaker 1: hop Atlanta. Steve Many, I told you she had a 1268 01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:53,400 Speaker 1: grandmother makeover last week. Plastic surgery had the whole night. Yeah, 1269 01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:57,400 Speaker 1: she had but done and her breast and light bo 1270 01:18:57,640 --> 01:19:01,960 Speaker 1: and tummy tucks. Anyway, all Ernest her husband, you know, 1271 01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:16,280 Speaker 1: it looks like a k rules day rude that wait, no, 1272 01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:20,000 Speaker 1: this is serious though, this is serious about Ernest. Mamad 1273 01:19:20,439 --> 01:19:22,880 Speaker 1: was saying that Ernest had been missing for a few days, 1274 01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:26,439 Speaker 1: you know, while she was dealing with recovering from her 1275 01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:28,920 Speaker 1: procedure and everything. And she said that he was in 1276 01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:34,840 Speaker 1: a hotel room and doing drugs. So Ernests, yeah, the 1277 01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,479 Speaker 1: demons and his drug addiction. So there's a lot going 1278 01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:39,840 Speaker 1: on in their marriage with Mama d and Ernest. And 1279 01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:44,559 Speaker 1: she's said that he's had that problem before. So um, yeah, 1280 01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:48,240 Speaker 1: so we'll be watching and you know, praying and rooting 1281 01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:51,080 Speaker 1: for Ernest to shake those demons and get some help 1282 01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:57,280 Speaker 1: for his addiction. Yeah. Serious moment that she uh talked about. 1283 01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:02,439 Speaker 1: So anyways, I'm how does she know what's she recovered? Now? 1284 01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:04,680 Speaker 1: She's at home. She's back at home. Mama did is 1285 01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:07,720 Speaker 1: back at home. All right, let's move on, dime. You 1286 01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:11,559 Speaker 1: know she's pregnant, dime, pe, she's pregnant. Shirley and her 1287 01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:16,120 Speaker 1: husband her fiance, they're not quite married yet. On the show, Sean, 1288 01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:18,320 Speaker 1: he used to be in the n b A and 1289 01:20:18,479 --> 01:20:20,200 Speaker 1: so he's trying to get back in the league. So 1290 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:22,519 Speaker 1: he's doing a lot of training with those g leagues 1291 01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:24,719 Speaker 1: and that means a lot of traveling and he's gone 1292 01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:26,600 Speaker 1: a lot because he's trying to get back into the 1293 01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:28,920 Speaker 1: n b A. And so she's kind of like just 1294 01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:31,360 Speaker 1: dealing with this pregnancy on her own, and he's telling her, 1295 01:20:31,400 --> 01:20:33,560 Speaker 1: you need to squash your beef with your mom. You 1296 01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:35,479 Speaker 1: need your mom down here to help you with your 1297 01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:38,000 Speaker 1: pregnancy journey because I'm out here trying to get this 1298 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:41,080 Speaker 1: money and take care of the family. So that's the 1299 01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:43,560 Speaker 1: deal with He didn't get a job carlor with the 1300 01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,160 Speaker 1: Iowa g League or something, so he's going to in 1301 01:20:46,200 --> 01:20:51,080 Speaker 1: the Minnesota Timberwolves. He's gonna be walking away from Atlanta. Yeah, 1302 01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:53,120 Speaker 1: it's a long way from Atlanta. He has to be 1303 01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:58,040 Speaker 1: getting quote quite some time. And Kirk and Rashida, you know, 1304 01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:01,200 Speaker 1: Kirk moved back into the house. Yeah, she's let him 1305 01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:03,680 Speaker 1: move back to the house right, right, and you know 1306 01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:06,600 Speaker 1: all the drama from last season with his affair and 1307 01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:10,639 Speaker 1: the baby child and the baby she put up blue 1308 01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,920 Speaker 1: painters tape in the house and there's parts of the 1309 01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:16,719 Speaker 1: house that Kirk can't come in or cross those lines. 1310 01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:19,000 Speaker 1: I know, the hell you ain't in his kitchen across 1311 01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:27,400 Speaker 1: this blue tape. Yeah, that was crazy. Yeah, I surprised 1312 01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:30,640 Speaker 1: she let him back in. I really wasn't too, but 1313 01:21:30,880 --> 01:21:32,519 Speaker 1: you know she talks about that was her best friend 1314 01:21:32,560 --> 01:21:34,360 Speaker 1: and her husband and she missed him in the family. 1315 01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:38,479 Speaker 1: And again, yeah, she's beautiful, She's she's beautiful. I love her. 1316 01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:41,000 Speaker 1: She's the boss chick. But anyway, she got this blue 1317 01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:44,280 Speaker 1: tape going down the fireplace, down the floors, a cross 1318 01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:47,080 Speaker 1: part of the kitchen sink. So she is said one. 1319 01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:50,920 Speaker 1: But he was cool with it though he didn't put 1320 01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:54,400 Speaker 1: up a fight, right right, He's not trying to upset 1321 01:21:55,120 --> 01:22:04,200 Speaker 1: you know, on both sides of the fireplace. Turn on 1322 01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:10,639 Speaker 1: your half, right, So he's trying to work things out 1323 01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:13,840 Speaker 1: and just trying not to upset his wife and follow 1324 01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:16,240 Speaker 1: her rules and her boundaries that she said in place 1325 01:22:16,320 --> 01:22:20,000 Speaker 1: to let him back in the house. Rasheeda. Also, you know, 1326 01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:22,439 Speaker 1: she's doing this exercise video and you know, Kirk is 1327 01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:25,720 Speaker 1: her manager along with being her husband, so he put 1328 01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:28,360 Speaker 1: this deal together for her to release this exercise video. 1329 01:22:28,439 --> 01:22:30,559 Speaker 1: So she told Kirk she wanted to put her trainer 1330 01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:34,280 Speaker 1: in the video, who's all cut and off, bit and fun, 1331 01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:40,639 Speaker 1: and she wants to put him in the exercise video. Hey, Kirk, 1332 01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:50,760 Speaker 1: ain't got what you can't do? But can't yeah, I 1333 01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:59,479 Speaker 1: can't here button, but you know he said said hell no, 1334 01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:07,519 Speaker 1: right whatever, And that's how Rashida is exactly what Steve. 1335 01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:10,719 Speaker 1: That's how Rashida felt like, you can't be just telling 1336 01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:12,680 Speaker 1: me what to do. With all this you've got going on. 1337 01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:15,880 Speaker 1: So you know, Kirk is like whatever, he's trying to 1338 01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:19,280 Speaker 1: shed all that down, Kirk, take his shirt off the trainer. 1339 01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:22,680 Speaker 1: What are you working with? He took it off. That's 1340 01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:27,960 Speaker 1: how he got the baby going up against that train 1341 01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:29,680 Speaker 1: of shirt. You need to keep your shirt on. Bo 1342 01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:33,000 Speaker 1: it on down somewhere. So that is Love and Hip 1343 01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:36,839 Speaker 1: Hop Atlanta. You're updated on that show. Oh and Stevie 1344 01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:41,479 Speaker 1: J it looks like um things his trial, his case 1345 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:45,519 Speaker 1: may be postponed for now, and that he is positive heal. Yeah, 1346 01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:47,400 Speaker 1: and he has a new lawyer. So we'll keep a 1347 01:23:47,439 --> 01:23:50,000 Speaker 1: watch out and see what's happening with with Stevie Jack. 1348 01:23:52,000 --> 01:23:56,120 Speaker 1: Over a million, it's over a million. Yeah, it's a lot. Yeah, 1349 01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:59,080 Speaker 1: it's over a million. You ain't to him, I tell 1350 01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:03,160 Speaker 1: you that. See, see what Stevie you ought to do 1351 01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:05,439 Speaker 1: is he ought to go to the show and just 1352 01:24:05,640 --> 01:24:08,360 Speaker 1: ask for an advance so he can avoid going to 1353 01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:11,640 Speaker 1: prison and then just work it off. Yeah, and he 1354 01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:14,640 Speaker 1: has a spinof shows, his own show. I mean you 1355 01:24:14,760 --> 01:24:16,680 Speaker 1: can go to people, man that's in business with you, 1356 01:24:17,000 --> 01:24:20,400 Speaker 1: because guess what if if his spinoff can't be shot 1357 01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:30,240 Speaker 1: from prison? See so everybody needs an opportunity to make 1358 01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:33,360 Speaker 1: a lot of money. All the two shows they could 1359 01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:36,200 Speaker 1: do hip hop and other one could give him five apiece, 1360 01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:38,960 Speaker 1: let him pay it off, and then he just work 1361 01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:41,960 Speaker 1: it off. Somebody got to go in there and do 1362 01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:47,840 Speaker 1: that deal, man, because that spinoff could be incredible. They'll 1363 01:24:47,920 --> 01:24:51,400 Speaker 1: make more than a half a million just invest in 1364 01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:53,760 Speaker 1: the brother the TV shows that do that. Man, I 1365 01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:57,080 Speaker 1: didn't know they made that much. No, I'm not saying 1366 01:24:57,120 --> 01:25:00,519 Speaker 1: that they make They don't make a million. Yeah, I'm 1367 01:25:00,560 --> 01:25:05,759 Speaker 1: just saying you can. You can get an advance. Okay, 1368 01:25:06,040 --> 01:25:08,439 Speaker 1: work out? Okay. Well, I did want to talk to 1369 01:25:08,520 --> 01:25:12,720 Speaker 1: you guys about the scripted TV show Blackish. It was very, 1370 01:25:12,920 --> 01:25:14,960 Speaker 1: very good on Tuesday Night. I wanna talk to you 1371 01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:18,080 Speaker 1: guys about Bow and Dre. They are having issues on 1372 01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:21,400 Speaker 1: this show and it got real, It got really real. 1373 01:25:21,520 --> 01:25:24,120 Speaker 1: So maybe I can squeeze that in when we come back. 1374 01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:29,920 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Show. Carla 1375 01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:33,080 Speaker 1: is here with part two of her reality update. Carla, 1376 01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:37,200 Speaker 1: you were gonna tell us about Blackish? What is going on? Girl? 1377 01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:41,160 Speaker 1: I'm devastated so unscripted TV show Blackish? You know, Bo 1378 01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:45,559 Speaker 1: and Dre Rainbow, Tracy Ellis Ross and Drenthy Anderson. They're 1379 01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:48,599 Speaker 1: married on the show, and they are having serious issues 1380 01:25:48,760 --> 01:25:52,960 Speaker 1: in their marriage. Intentions are very high and um, they 1381 01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:56,360 Speaker 1: are remodeling their kitchen, so they got a contractor in 1382 01:25:56,640 --> 01:26:00,639 Speaker 1: and they just was just arguing about every little thing. 1383 01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:07,560 Speaker 1: And so when listen to us, even if it is 1384 01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:19,920 Speaker 1: they're real to us. They are real to us. Dre 1385 01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:22,000 Speaker 1: and b are real to us because this is a 1386 01:26:22,400 --> 01:26:24,800 Speaker 1: this is a great show. But what I appreciate that 1387 01:26:24,960 --> 01:26:28,599 Speaker 1: Black is is showing that, you know, the best couples 1388 01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:31,880 Speaker 1: have hard times and they're dealing with real life and 1389 01:26:32,000 --> 01:26:35,840 Speaker 1: real struggle and real marriage issues. And at the end 1390 01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:42,559 Speaker 1: of the episode, Dre moved out. He moved See Carla, 1391 01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:46,280 Speaker 1: I was on the couch, devastated. Tasha was on the floor. 1392 01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:48,200 Speaker 1: Didn't did he move out? And did he go around? 1393 01:26:48,240 --> 01:26:49,960 Speaker 1: My dad used to go around the cone and come back. 1394 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:54,080 Speaker 1: Did he move Dre moved out. So here's a question 1395 01:26:54,160 --> 01:26:57,520 Speaker 1: for you guys. Have you ever been in this situation 1396 01:26:57,640 --> 01:27:05,800 Speaker 1: where you had to move out? See? Yes, Carlett went 1397 01:27:05,880 --> 01:27:10,360 Speaker 1: home in the house was boarded up. I put somebody 1398 01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:14,840 Speaker 1: out a handle home. Yeah, I've been. So let's start 1399 01:27:14,880 --> 01:27:17,000 Speaker 1: with you, Steve, you've been in this situation. You had 1400 01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:19,240 Speaker 1: to move out? What happened? You guys? Get back together? 1401 01:27:19,920 --> 01:27:24,639 Speaker 1: Move out? I drove off, came back. Wasn't no house. 1402 01:27:27,479 --> 01:27:31,439 Speaker 1: I came home and found out the whole damn family 1403 01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:38,080 Speaker 1: was gone to seven occasions. I came home. My clothes 1404 01:27:38,160 --> 01:27:44,360 Speaker 1: was in the swimming proof. What they wrote over blackish 1405 01:27:46,240 --> 01:27:49,000 Speaker 1: through Oh they could have count a damn show, Steve, 1406 01:27:51,880 --> 01:28:02,439 Speaker 1: stranger than fiction. Now you're getting sad see series? What 1407 01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:06,439 Speaker 1: else they want to happen? We wanted to get back together. 1408 01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:12,160 Speaker 1: They have to get together. I can't take this. What 1409 01:28:12,280 --> 01:28:14,719 Speaker 1: about your nephew? You've been through it. I didn't left 1410 01:28:15,240 --> 01:28:17,920 Speaker 1: and double back a few hours later and it was 1411 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:24,240 Speaker 1: somebody else already that I know. I didn't it thirty 1412 01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:27,920 Speaker 1: minutes ago. The body isn't even cold yet. This was 1413 01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:30,600 Speaker 1: like cool, all come back, man, this this this is 1414 01:28:30,600 --> 01:28:35,160 Speaker 1: a rap? What did That's it? Give me all my 1415 01:28:35,320 --> 01:28:39,600 Speaker 1: stuff and I'm out. You didn't say stuff? I know that, no, no, 1416 01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:43,599 Speaker 1: I could cut good back then to alright, Junior, one 1417 01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:46,599 Speaker 1: minute you go, But he didn't want packing my stuff? 1418 01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:52,080 Speaker 1: That wigger than I get put out? I got dropped off. 1419 01:28:52,439 --> 01:28:54,240 Speaker 1: What do you mean what she said. We was going 1420 01:28:54,280 --> 01:28:56,040 Speaker 1: on the date. She took me to my mama's house 1421 01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:02,920 Speaker 1: with your mom at the time. All right, thank you, Carla. 1422 01:29:03,080 --> 01:29:06,040 Speaker 1: One eight flowers dot Com is offering free shipping on 1423 01:29:06,160 --> 01:29:09,439 Speaker 1: select best selling bouquet's arrangements and other gifts that any 1424 01:29:09,520 --> 01:29:12,320 Speaker 1: mom is guaranteed to love and give her some flowers 1425 01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:14,599 Speaker 1: that will get you back in the house. Guys, think 1426 01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:19,960 Speaker 1: about God, we'll be back with more of the show 1427 01:29:20,400 --> 01:29:26,360 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the show. Well, Carla, 1428 01:29:26,960 --> 01:29:30,160 Speaker 1: you just saw a small lizard or a little geico 1429 01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:34,400 Speaker 1: in your house. Yes, girl, I had a fit. I'm sorry, 1430 01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:43,720 Speaker 1: I said, Geo, I know what you mean. Yeah, So 1431 01:29:43,880 --> 01:29:47,040 Speaker 1: what happened? Now? He was crawling in the house by 1432 01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:50,800 Speaker 1: the fireplace. Girl, I jumped on the couch because you 1433 01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:58,040 Speaker 1: don't you don't like snakes or us. So okay, So, Steve, 1434 01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:01,120 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. Have you ever seen any kind 1435 01:30:01,160 --> 01:30:05,040 Speaker 1: of lizard or getto or anything crawling and it frightened 1436 01:30:05,080 --> 01:30:07,000 Speaker 1: you in your house or it made you scared? No, 1437 01:30:07,080 --> 01:30:12,880 Speaker 1: I've never had lizard fighter. Now, we've been on vacation 1438 01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:16,679 Speaker 1: and we were in Africa. As a matter of fact, 1439 01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:20,880 Speaker 1: I had taken the family and when I say, Lizzard, 1440 01:30:20,960 --> 01:30:24,839 Speaker 1: now listen to me. We're in Africa. Don't worry about Geko. 1441 01:30:24,960 --> 01:30:27,600 Speaker 1: That little green thing that talked on the commandery. No, 1442 01:30:27,760 --> 01:30:31,680 Speaker 1: that ain't what had got in lloyd bathroom. Oh yeah, 1443 01:30:31,760 --> 01:30:34,439 Speaker 1: this one had a little bit more what what you're 1444 01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:39,040 Speaker 1: gonna do? This was This was the mama, I'm gonna 1445 01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:43,320 Speaker 1: stomp you and then I'm gonna stomp you. It's what 1446 01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:46,639 Speaker 1: I thought that lizard was said. So Lurid was gonna 1447 01:30:46,720 --> 01:30:49,080 Speaker 1: take a shower. She started running the water. I don't 1448 01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:50,920 Speaker 1: know how this big ass thing ain't got in the shower, 1449 01:30:51,400 --> 01:30:55,519 Speaker 1: but it's probably about almost a foot loan, almost a ruler. 1450 01:30:56,680 --> 01:31:00,599 Speaker 1: Ruler wasn't real big and heavy, but the foot long 1451 01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:11,920 Speaker 1: with the tail there. But so she come right now, 1452 01:31:11,960 --> 01:31:14,200 Speaker 1: we're in Africa, So now I got I ain't just 1453 01:31:14,320 --> 01:31:19,000 Speaker 1: bust in Now. She out with the tie around her 1454 01:31:19,080 --> 01:31:20,920 Speaker 1: in the living room in front of the whole family. 1455 01:31:21,040 --> 01:31:24,439 Speaker 1: So we got to thank before we just running the 1456 01:31:24,960 --> 01:31:27,599 Speaker 1: aca because this is Africa. This is do I need 1457 01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:33,080 Speaker 1: the good? What is? Because I was thinking rhinoceros or 1458 01:31:33,120 --> 01:31:37,600 Speaker 1: something like that, So I said Lloyd, what is it? 1459 01:31:37,800 --> 01:31:39,800 Speaker 1: And she just shaking. Oh my god, I got that 1460 01:31:39,920 --> 01:31:42,320 Speaker 1: I can't go that believes go get it. Well, I'm 1461 01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:47,200 Speaker 1: not gonna go in there until I get more information. Now, 1462 01:31:47,280 --> 01:31:49,200 Speaker 1: the people at the lodge day ain't here because we're 1463 01:31:49,240 --> 01:31:53,880 Speaker 1: in the villa. Yeah, we probably about maybe pit the 1464 01:31:53,960 --> 01:31:58,160 Speaker 1: yards from the main lodge. So you know, I'm sall right. 1465 01:31:58,600 --> 01:32:01,360 Speaker 1: I'll get her to calm down. She said, I don't 1466 01:32:01,400 --> 01:32:03,479 Speaker 1: know what it is, but it's so big and it's 1467 01:32:03,600 --> 01:32:07,479 Speaker 1: in the shower. I knew the shower was glass. I said, 1468 01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:09,720 Speaker 1: was it on the floor. She said it was in 1469 01:32:09,800 --> 01:32:13,720 Speaker 1: the middle of the wall. I said, okay, I go 1470 01:32:13,880 --> 01:32:17,000 Speaker 1: in there. I see this big ass lizard in the 1471 01:32:17,160 --> 01:32:21,680 Speaker 1: middle of the wall. And I said that scared me too. 1472 01:32:23,000 --> 01:32:26,960 Speaker 1: Doing something Daddy? Everybody behind me, So now I'm dad, 1473 01:32:27,000 --> 01:32:30,760 Speaker 1: I gotta do something. So I'm looking so I then 1474 01:32:30,880 --> 01:32:38,040 Speaker 1: I hear, don't kill it. Somebody to go. Don't kill it. 1475 01:32:38,240 --> 01:32:42,000 Speaker 1: All the kids, don't kill it. Daddy said it free. 1476 01:32:43,800 --> 01:32:45,920 Speaker 1: I hear you think I'm fining open up, dough. I'm 1477 01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:49,200 Speaker 1: not opening this, damn though. You know what. We're in 1478 01:32:49,280 --> 01:32:57,160 Speaker 1: the jungle, uh, dog, I know how to stand. If 1479 01:32:57,200 --> 01:32:59,439 Speaker 1: I walked him out, through him outside and told all 1480 01:32:59,479 --> 01:33:02,479 Speaker 1: the kids I let him out he gone, So you 1481 01:33:02,640 --> 01:33:13,479 Speaker 1: just out outlied. Okay, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, 1482 01:33:14,000 --> 01:33:16,880 Speaker 1: Last break of the day, Steve Harvey, you are up 1483 01:33:17,520 --> 01:33:22,080 Speaker 1: closing remarks, Let's have it. You know, normally doing closing remarks, 1484 01:33:22,120 --> 01:33:24,479 Speaker 1: what I try to do is say something that's a 1485 01:33:25,080 --> 01:33:32,320 Speaker 1: inspirational and uplifting. UM. I very rarely give commentary, but 1486 01:33:32,479 --> 01:33:35,360 Speaker 1: this thing with Kanye is everywhere, and I'm hearing so 1487 01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:42,360 Speaker 1: many attacks and so many what's wrongs and so forth 1488 01:33:42,439 --> 01:33:47,400 Speaker 1: and so on. I just wanted to say something man that, uh, 1489 01:33:47,600 --> 01:33:50,240 Speaker 1: it's taken me a while. Now, what I'm about to say, 1490 01:33:50,640 --> 01:33:53,599 Speaker 1: I haven't always been this way. I'll be the first 1491 01:33:53,680 --> 01:33:58,320 Speaker 1: to admit. And I'll also be the first to admit 1492 01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:03,240 Speaker 1: that I can't take my own advice in every instance. 1493 01:34:03,800 --> 01:34:07,240 Speaker 1: I'll say that too. And I'm not trying to do 1494 01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:11,200 Speaker 1: this just to be so different from everybody else, because 1495 01:34:11,200 --> 01:34:13,599 Speaker 1: there are a lot of people have already started saying 1496 01:34:13,680 --> 01:34:16,680 Speaker 1: some things like I'm about to say. But I just 1497 01:34:16,760 --> 01:34:21,560 Speaker 1: wanted to say something. You know, in this instance, I 1498 01:34:21,720 --> 01:34:26,160 Speaker 1: choose to be forgiving. In this instance, I choose to 1499 01:34:26,240 --> 01:34:32,639 Speaker 1: be understanding, even though whatever the statement was, it's hard 1500 01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:38,320 Speaker 1: to understand. But It is forgivable because whatever the statement was, 1501 01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:43,040 Speaker 1: he didn't put us here. He ain't the reason we hear. 1502 01:34:43,920 --> 01:34:47,240 Speaker 1: He's not the reason we continue to have our problems 1503 01:34:47,320 --> 01:34:52,120 Speaker 1: as a people. He's really not. He's not. He's one guy, 1504 01:34:54,040 --> 01:34:56,519 Speaker 1: and the guy that he is happens to be of 1505 01:34:56,640 --> 01:35:00,720 Speaker 1: the human nature. Forget what you're here for time. I'm 1506 01:35:00,760 --> 01:35:02,920 Speaker 1: a god, I'm this, I'm not. No, no, no, no, no, 1507 01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:07,240 Speaker 1: no no. He's just a guy. He's just a man 1508 01:35:07,520 --> 01:35:10,800 Speaker 1: like all the rest of us. But if we didn't 1509 01:35:10,840 --> 01:35:14,000 Speaker 1: follow man so closely and so hard, if we didn't 1510 01:35:14,040 --> 01:35:17,479 Speaker 1: have man held in such high esteem, we wouldn't be 1511 01:35:17,560 --> 01:35:21,920 Speaker 1: so affected when things like this happened. We have a God, 1512 01:35:23,040 --> 01:35:25,519 Speaker 1: we have a Lord and savior. We have a savior. 1513 01:35:26,439 --> 01:35:30,040 Speaker 1: It's not him. When you become famous, man, you have 1514 01:35:30,200 --> 01:35:35,280 Speaker 1: to learn on the job. There is no school of fame. Now, 1515 01:35:35,400 --> 01:35:37,439 Speaker 1: you can get with some people that's already famous, and 1516 01:35:37,520 --> 01:35:39,479 Speaker 1: they can hip you to it a lot quicker. But 1517 01:35:39,560 --> 01:35:42,400 Speaker 1: if you don't have a supporting cast around you, if 1518 01:35:42,439 --> 01:35:45,160 Speaker 1: you don't have the people around you, man, you can 1519 01:35:45,280 --> 01:35:51,200 Speaker 1: handle this thing a little rough. See I've said this before. 1520 01:35:51,360 --> 01:35:55,160 Speaker 1: If you're the smartest person in your group, then you 1521 01:35:55,280 --> 01:35:59,000 Speaker 1: need a new group. You cannot be the smartest one 1522 01:35:59,080 --> 01:36:03,559 Speaker 1: in your group because eventually you're gonna call all the shots. 1523 01:36:05,200 --> 01:36:08,200 Speaker 1: And nobody should be free to call all the shots 1524 01:36:08,320 --> 01:36:10,760 Speaker 1: that affect the thoughts of so many. And what this 1525 01:36:10,920 --> 01:36:14,680 Speaker 1: young brother said on TMZ was, man, you out here 1526 01:36:14,760 --> 01:36:17,479 Speaker 1: saying this stuff, but we're out here trying to grapple 1527 01:36:17,600 --> 01:36:20,400 Speaker 1: with the realness of life. And I could understand where 1528 01:36:20,439 --> 01:36:24,679 Speaker 1: he's coming from. But before we all pounce so quickly, 1529 01:36:26,120 --> 01:36:31,320 Speaker 1: before we all ridiculed so quickly, let's just think for 1530 01:36:31,479 --> 01:36:35,640 Speaker 1: just a moment. Let's just think for a moment that 1531 01:36:35,800 --> 01:36:39,760 Speaker 1: the glaring spotlight that's on this brother, Most people don't 1532 01:36:39,800 --> 01:36:43,040 Speaker 1: ever get that glad or that same spotlight. But with 1533 01:36:43,200 --> 01:36:48,080 Speaker 1: that glare and that spotlight, it comes a form of responsibility. 1534 01:36:49,760 --> 01:36:52,840 Speaker 1: And until you have a support group around you, a 1535 01:36:52,960 --> 01:36:56,280 Speaker 1: group of people who can sit around you and have 1536 01:36:56,479 --> 01:37:00,560 Speaker 1: the strength, the wisdom and experience to tell oh, you know, 1537 01:37:02,240 --> 01:37:07,280 Speaker 1: the wisdom, the courage, and the stript to tell you 1538 01:37:07,920 --> 01:37:11,640 Speaker 1: you can't do that. This can get away from me. 1539 01:37:12,960 --> 01:37:17,880 Speaker 1: And so I've chosen this time, instead of ridiculing and criticizing, 1540 01:37:19,120 --> 01:37:22,160 Speaker 1: to be more of a calming force. That do you 1541 01:37:22,320 --> 01:37:27,200 Speaker 1: understand that what Kanye says changes nothing for us in 1542 01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:30,200 Speaker 1: the real scheme of things. That he is not the 1543 01:37:30,280 --> 01:37:34,639 Speaker 1: cause of slavery, and he may have misinterpreted the definition 1544 01:37:34,720 --> 01:37:37,800 Speaker 1: of it, but he ain't the cause of it, and 1545 01:37:37,880 --> 01:37:41,160 Speaker 1: he ain't the reason why we still here. He can't be. 1546 01:37:42,840 --> 01:37:47,720 Speaker 1: He can't be. What we have to do, and what 1547 01:37:47,880 --> 01:37:50,600 Speaker 1: I choose to do is put my arm around that 1548 01:37:50,720 --> 01:37:55,880 Speaker 1: little brother and go, yo, man, how old he is, 1549 01:37:56,040 --> 01:38:02,360 Speaker 1: forty forty whatever, he's forty years old. I'm sixty one. 1550 01:38:02,479 --> 01:38:05,880 Speaker 1: I got twenty one more years at this. I made 1551 01:38:05,920 --> 01:38:10,560 Speaker 1: some huge public mistakes. I just I just I just 1552 01:38:10,720 --> 01:38:14,280 Speaker 1: had some good people around me that put their arm 1553 01:38:14,320 --> 01:38:16,920 Speaker 1: around me and said, hey man, that ain't the way 1554 01:38:16,920 --> 01:38:19,679 Speaker 1: you should have did it. Now you gotta make amends. 1555 01:38:19,800 --> 01:38:23,240 Speaker 1: You gotta straighten this out. And that's what I choose 1556 01:38:23,280 --> 01:38:25,559 Speaker 1: to do with him. Put my arm around their little 1557 01:38:25,600 --> 01:38:28,120 Speaker 1: brother and say, yo, my man. It's like when I 1558 01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:32,200 Speaker 1: was getting eight alive on social media, when all you 1559 01:38:32,240 --> 01:38:34,800 Speaker 1: when y'all was calling me coons and Uncle Tom's and 1560 01:38:34,880 --> 01:38:37,559 Speaker 1: all this. I got a phone call from Magic Johnson, 1561 01:38:38,439 --> 01:38:40,519 Speaker 1: and Magic Johnson said, hey man, I just felt like 1562 01:38:40,640 --> 01:38:43,680 Speaker 1: my little brother needed a hug. And he fixed me 1563 01:38:43,800 --> 01:38:46,599 Speaker 1: up with that hub, and so I'm gonna reach out 1564 01:38:46,680 --> 01:38:49,160 Speaker 1: to get that brother the same hug Magic Johnson reached 1565 01:38:49,200 --> 01:38:51,679 Speaker 1: out and gave me, because I know what it feels 1566 01:38:51,760 --> 01:38:54,080 Speaker 1: like to be out there on that island man, when 1567 01:38:54,280 --> 01:38:59,120 Speaker 1: everybody talking about you negatively. I know exactly what that 1568 01:38:59,320 --> 01:39:03,040 Speaker 1: feels like from something you said publicly or did publicly 1569 01:39:03,320 --> 01:39:05,840 Speaker 1: that they didn't agree with. I know exactly what that 1570 01:39:06,000 --> 01:39:08,400 Speaker 1: feels like. So in this case, I choose to be 1571 01:39:08,520 --> 01:39:12,760 Speaker 1: forgiven and understanding. Okay, So that's what I'm gonna do. 1572 01:39:12,880 --> 01:39:15,880 Speaker 1: So just think about that. Don't hold him in such 1573 01:39:15,960 --> 01:39:18,679 Speaker 1: high esteem that he moves the needle for you, because 1574 01:39:18,760 --> 01:39:24,120 Speaker 1: he ain't your god. He ain't. He's really not. Drop 1575 01:39:24,320 --> 01:39:31,000 Speaker 1: it closing, dropped the mike boy, it is okay, Okay, 1576 01:39:31,120 --> 01:39:34,320 Speaker 1: how about that? I heard some metal good. The other 1577 01:39:34,360 --> 01:39:52,479 Speaker 1: one was my cell phone I tried to do. For 1578 01:39:52,600 --> 01:39:55,879 Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited 1579 01:39:55,920 --> 01:39:58,760 Speaker 1: participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years 1580 01:39:58,800 --> 01:40:01,679 Speaker 1: old unless otherwise state it. For complete contest rules, Physics 1581 01:40:01,680 --> 01:40:05,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey dot com. 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