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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 3: Morning everybody, It's d j en Vy, Jesse, Hilarry Charlamagne,

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Speaker 3: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got some

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Speaker 3: special guests in the building.

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Speaker 2: You're talking crazy.

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Speaker 4: They got a new podcast, Me and My Homegirl.

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 4: We have needy leaks in Sierra Gates. Welcome. They just

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Speaker 4: said they want to go home.

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Speaker 1: All I you said was three inches ain't nothing. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what those three inches? But three inches you were trying

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Speaker 1: to how you gotta you know, she was talking about

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Speaker 1: the snow.

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Speaker 2: We don't want That's what it was.

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Speaker 1: I don't want either. Three inches.

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Speaker 5: Snow shuts the city of Atlanta down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one of last time snowed in Atlanta.

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Speaker 4: You remember it was years ago, a couple of years ago.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and a couple of years ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. The man got a long time and.

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Speaker 4: We haven't so your flight to cancel going back home.

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Speaker 1: They haven't castled yet, but they said the kind of

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Speaker 1: like they guessed the night. I'm hoping that they let

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Speaker 1: mins go.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she want to go home.

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Speaker 1: I want to go home, but okay, I'll stay here

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Speaker 1: and go to that restaurant. You know that restaurant.

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Speaker 2: Restaurant you don't want to get free.

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Speaker 1: The Laddy said, they're not paying me.

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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna put them out there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's a good restaurant. Those guys from you know,

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Speaker 1: out of the country, that restaurant.

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Speaker 6: You got a podcast, this bunch of out of the country, right.

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Speaker 2: Well, good morning for both of you.

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 4: So we got to talk this podcast. How you get

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Speaker 4: together to do this podcast?

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Speaker 1: Oh? I found this girl somewhere. I'm just we really

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Speaker 1: kind of found each other. We really did. People don't

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Speaker 1: know that Sierra and I have been friends for a

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Speaker 1: very long time. I don't think you've ever supposed to

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Speaker 1: know together. I don't think we've ever real.

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Speaker 3: Friends and housewive friends because.

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Speaker 1: Even watch Housewise, I know she's like I have never

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Speaker 1: episode of Housewives.

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Speaker 6: TV.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe that you see the episode of.

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Speaker 6: Real Housewives and seeing clips on Instagram. Okay, but I

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Speaker 6: have never watched it. But I always just love Meini,

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Speaker 6: like she's our honey. Like I just love her.

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Speaker 2: So what did you see that you love?

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Speaker 6: She just I don't know, she just was always.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get her to she watched Loving Hip

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Speaker 2: Real Housewives.

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Speaker 6: You see what you watch, I said, I said, I

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Speaker 6: like Leani because she was loud and just like and

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Speaker 6: glam you.

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Speaker 2: She said, I'm not somebody got in this room right now.

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Speaker 2: Somebody got it on them right now.

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Speaker 1: Please don't try that like I'm loud. I am not loud.

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Speaker 6: It's like a ghetto loud. But yeah, because you guys know, like.

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Speaker 2: A ghetto loud.

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Speaker 6: No wait, we're just get a ghetto.

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Speaker 1: We're a little ratchet that you're.

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Speaker 6: Allowed hip hop at that's your personality.

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Speaker 1: If anybody was gonna be on my side, I thought

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Speaker 1: it would have been.

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Speaker 7: You know, you just love them.

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Speaker 6: They all they are low voice people.

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Speaker 1: You have voice person.

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Speaker 8: And you've got a big personality. This morning, Yes, you

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Speaker 8: made all these coins, all these.

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Speaker 7: I don't ever I made coins that thing.

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Speaker 6: Where's the money?

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Speaker 2: Crazy?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: But Sierra. I always love Sierra. I will watch her

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Speaker 1: promote her businesses online all the time. I said, this

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Speaker 1: girl is really somebody.

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Speaker 4: I did want and I.

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Speaker 1: Loved her way back in the day when you were

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Speaker 1: married to the other guy, because you know, she loves

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Speaker 1: to get married Jesus the guy, and and I was married.

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Speaker 6: I was married to my first husband who I was

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Speaker 1: And I love that she was a single mom. I

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Speaker 1: that about her. And you a hustler.

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Speaker 6: And then when we actually got well how we met

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Speaker 6: is we kept bumping into each other and we were

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Speaker 6: by ourselves. Every time we see each other at the bar,

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Speaker 6: and we was like, damn we really, I said, I

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Speaker 6: kind of just like it was a little by little

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Speaker 6: because we both the same. We don't like to do

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Speaker 6: too much.

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Speaker 1: I think people don't realize that. They like they said,

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Speaker 1: you have I have a big person. They don't understand

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Speaker 1: what I'm kind of by myself, by yourself. I really

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Speaker 1: like a loner.

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Speaker 6: I do a lot of travel.

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Speaker 1: I traveled by myself.

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Speaker 6: I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: I go to restaurant. People. Do I have support help?

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Speaker 1: But I mean I'm really by myself and I have

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Speaker 1: I'll get on the plane and then they don't meet me.

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Speaker 1: But I travel by myself. I shop by myself. I

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Speaker 1: feel like me shopping by myself. When somebody's with me,

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Speaker 1: they hold me down, like I feel like I could

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Speaker 1: do things by myself, and I'm my own best friend.

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Speaker 1: I really like being by myself. Yeah, and it's just

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Speaker 1: too confrontational sometimes.

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Speaker 7: So how you so how you end up doing the

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Speaker 7: podcast with you on your home? Girl like being by

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Speaker 7: yourself so much.

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Speaker 1: Because we were running into each other being by ourselves.

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Speaker 1: She would be by herself. I'll be by myself. We

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Speaker 1: love to be like, you know, more with our guide

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Speaker 1: than I love my girls. I'm a girls girl, but

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Speaker 1: I like being with my guy. I like being by myself.

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Speaker 1: I'm okay with all of those.

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Speaker 6: A lot of people don't know how much we have,

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Speaker 6: Like we have so much in coming it's almost crazy.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes when I'm talking to her, I feel like I'm

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Speaker 6: how like we're real picky about our gland like we

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Speaker 6: look we glam girls. We shave every day like we

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Speaker 9: We just like that.

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Speaker 6: Much every other day. Whatever we like to grooming, we like.

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Speaker 6: We like to every day about we talk about it.

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Speaker 6: We love love, we love relationships, we love perfume. We

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Speaker 6: like doing the same ship we love. We'll dress up

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Speaker 6: and just go to the bar and go eat and

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Speaker 6: go home.

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Speaker 1: Like my favorite thing to do is get your restaurant.

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Speaker 1: I don't see you being with people. I see you

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Speaker 1: being a loaner kind of like are you sort of

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Speaker 2: I'm a cancer at home, like being at home with

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Speaker 2: going out like I shave. I don't shave every day.

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Speaker 1: You know we do. We're gonna get you.

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Speaker 6: Married, Yeah, I always know. I'm saying. I don't. I

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Speaker 6: be by myself, like I don't hang with a lot

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Speaker 6: of women. That makes but I be with my men, like.

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Speaker 1: My men, especially this one.

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Speaker 6: But you know what I wasn't. I wasn't as clingy

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Speaker 6: with my in my other relationship.

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Speaker 1: You wasn't.

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Speaker 6: No, I was not.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I didn't hang with them like that. Like I was

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Speaker 6: almost never with them, but with was they it's bad.

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Speaker 6: Like I'd be like, please come with me, come with me,

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Speaker 6: come with me.

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Speaker 1: So how long y'all back together?

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Speaker 6: Because they had been fast, He's, well, he's my old

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Speaker 6: best friend. It's close friends brother, so we grew up together.

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Speaker 6: We've been on each other since we was kids, and

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Speaker 6: actually throughout all my relationships.

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Speaker 4: He was on you for a long time.

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Speaker 2: He was just waiting. He was just waiting for that slip.

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Speaker 6: Me and Shooter had a conversation. Yeah, a couple, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: come on, and so he mentioned he was like, do

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Speaker 6: you remember that you you you talked about Day like

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Speaker 6: you you told me about him and I was like seventeen.

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Speaker 6: Then he was like, you remember Day was bothering you

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Speaker 6: was like, yeah, so a relationship I was in.

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Speaker 4: He was, how does he slide back in?

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Speaker 1: Was it? Hey?

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Speaker 4: Big head on?

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Speaker 2: DM?

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Speaker 9: I did.

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Speaker 6: I was cussing my ex out and he kind of

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Speaker 6: it's ours. This is my friend's brother. So it's like, okay,

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Speaker 6: base all you like I know? Yeah, yeah, No, I

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Speaker 6: was not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a cheater.

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Speaker 7: And you also had a health scare after a tattoo. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I did everything okay with that.

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Speaker 6: I think I wish I could have seen it because

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Speaker 6: it's from the bottom of my from the bottom of

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Speaker 6: my legs to all the way to the top, and

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Speaker 6: something that should have took me a year, I did

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Speaker 6: it in a day and my body just after the

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Speaker 6: numb and cream wore off. Shout out to my sonumb

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Speaker 6: because it works really good. It allowed me to get

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Speaker 6: twenty hours worth of tattooing and I didn't feel nothing,

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Speaker 6: but when my when my hours, yep, but when my

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Speaker 6: girl loved it. But when but when my body like

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Speaker 6: woke up, it was just like, no, this is not right.

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Speaker 6: What are you doing? And then that's you know, when

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Speaker 6: it shot back at me. But you're okay for sure?

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Speaker 6: Now I'm okay, Yeah got it. Now, I am kind

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Speaker 6: of scared to get some tattoos.

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Speaker 4: You just don't do a twenty hour session.

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Speaker 6: That's was I mean, we stopped a little bit.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, Nina, you got to show about love

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Speaker 1: coming right, I show about love? Yeah, No, I did,

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Speaker 1: It's over. We've already shot it and everything when's it

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Speaker 1: come up? I don't know today.

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Speaker 2: So is it like you're trying to find a man

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Speaker 2: like for the love of Nini?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, not trying to find the love

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Speaker 1: of nik Now I'm actually hooking other people up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I would like to get hooked up.

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Speaker 2: What's you know? I thought you had a booth. I

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Speaker 2: thought you had some African man.

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Speaker 4: Why is it always some African man?

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Speaker 1: I don't don't.

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Speaker 6: Stop. Mini loved her African, she loved her food.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because and it's like because, oh, because I lived

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Speaker 6: But it's just you know, family sometimes because the last

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I just decided to fix my relationship with

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Speaker 6: Nini have been coming because she helped me with that.

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Speaker 4: Would you come back? Did you make up? When Andy co?

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Speaker 3: starts anything.

448
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 1: Well, we're not in meetings. We did settle our dispute

449
00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 1: with each other. I don't know if I go back

450
00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 1: to Housewives, I don't know what that looks like for me,

451
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 1: but I won't say never. If they got to check,

452
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: that's got zeros. They roast, they wrote zeros, they wrote

453
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,920
Speaker 1: on the end. You know I might be back. I

454
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know.

455
00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 2: When you say set of their dispute was a financial settlement.

456
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 1: I can't say. But we did settle everything.

457
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 4: You Andy cool? Now y'all speaking?

458
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 1: No, No, I haven't spoken to him. No, but I'm

459
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,400
Speaker 1: not again speaking to him. But I haven't spoken to him.

460
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,119
Speaker 5: It'd be a no brainer. I mean, I know, you

461
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 5: get this all the time, but it's kind of ridiculous

462
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 5: that they haven't.

463
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I do miss the trips,

464
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:30,600
Speaker 1: I do miss the check I don't miss the arguments.

465
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 1: And I felt like if I was there, they would

466
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 1: have to put a certain girls around, like all of

467
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 1: those girls that are there, and now I don't even

468
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 1: know who they are. Yeah, we don't even did so

469
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 1: Keny and I have been texting anyway, Like when she

470
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: went through this whole thing, whatever happened with her exiting

471
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,520
Speaker 1: the show, we text a few times. I was in

472
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 1: London celebrating my birthday. She was there. We text, we

473
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 1: were gonna try to have tea, but we couldn't, and

474
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: just so happened. We bumped into each other in the

475
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 1: airport and so we're cool. I'm cool with all of

476
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:08,880
Speaker 1: those girls. I don't have an issue. You know, when

477
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 1: you're on the show, the show kind of pitch you

478
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,000
Speaker 1: up against each other. But I don't have an issue

479
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,920
Speaker 1: with any of the girls. No one, not anybody.

480
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,119
Speaker 5: Did you say anything because I know she was praising

481
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 5: your looks, but this she also said you need to

482
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 5: lay off the field.

483
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 1: No, we talked in the airport. First of all, I

484
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 1: told her that. They said, I think her and Candy

485
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 1: were saying, let's give Ninny you know, her props or

486
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 1: or something like you don't give people their props and

487
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 1: then throw shade trees, honey. And then she said what

488
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 1: I was talking about the filter, But honey, you use

489
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: filters too. I don't know anybody that's posting their pictures

490
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,159
Speaker 1: without a filter. Most women are posting their pictures with

491
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: a filter, and they're cleaning up their picture. Now, if

492
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:55,120
Speaker 1: you look absolutely different in person, they your picture on Instagram.

493
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 1: Now that's another story when you say, that's a different story,

494
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 1: but that's not what's happening over here. I use a filter,

495
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 1: and I am the filter.

496
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 6: Okay, exactly, Okay, okay, Kenya.

497
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 1: Okay, because these girls need to use filters too. Yeah,

498
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: I see them in the airport. I see girls on Instagram.

499
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: They look great on Instagram. You see them in person,

500
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 1: you be like, this is.

501
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 9: The same person.

502
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 6: How did ken you look at the.

503
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: Well?

504
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 6: You know, you know, I don't.

505
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: I just keep it really telling, like, you know, I'm

506
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: never afraid of any of those girls. She looked okay.

507
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: She wasn't looking her best, yeah, but she looked okay.

508
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: She could have used the hairdo and a filter.

509
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 5: But you know what I like about at least I

510
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 5: haven't seen you publicly clap back at anybody.

511
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 2: I've seen people say thinking about you, and I haven't

512
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 2: heard you.

513
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. You know why, because I'm grown now.

514
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 9: You know.

515
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 1: I may have been a little bit more immature then,

516
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 1: but now this stuff just really don't bother me. It

517
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: really doesn't for somebody to talk about plastic sirts like

518
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: cut it out. All these girls got fake asses and

519
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 1: fake t This don't come over here with that bas

520
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: All these girls got fakes. So so you're gonna talk

521
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,959
Speaker 1: to me about fake like that's crazy. Everybody's wearing wigs

522
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 1: and weaves and extensions like cut it out. Like I'm

523
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,120
Speaker 1: not doing anything that no one else is in doing.

524
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm not walking around with a big ass that look

525
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 1: absolutely bananas. I don't even have that much ass.

526
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 4: Have you spoke to Peter Thomas with all the stuff

527
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 4: that's going on.

528
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to Peter, but I see Peter often.

529
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: We don't live that far from each other, but I

530
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 1: haven't spoken to him. I will speak to him. I

531
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: will speak to Peter because me and Peter go way back.

532
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 1: And I don't have a problem with Peter, and I

533
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 1: really do hate that this is happening to him. So, yeah,

534
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: Peter is my brother. I love Peter.

535
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 2: Do you reach out to people like when you see

536
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: like porschea going through a divorce or anything.

537
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: Yes. So when Porsche was going through her divorce, you know,

538
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: she was married to Simon. Simon I was dating Yannie.

539
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: They're both African guys. They hung out together, we hung out,

540
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: we double dated and all those things. And I was

541
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 1: talking to her during that time and I was doing

542
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 1: this show called The Upshaws, and she kind of was

543
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 1: like she didn't want to do the Upshaws with me.

544
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: She didn't tell me that. He told the production crew,

545
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: and the production told us that, you know that. I

546
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 1: don't believe it's the truth. It's the truth. She did that.

547
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: Nothing happened. She did that. She said that, that's the truth.

548
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: I did it. They brought in Cynthia Bailey the next

549
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: day and Cynthia shot the scene with me. It was

550
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: supposed to be portion and I I did not know that,

551
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: and I don't think Porsche knew that until we arrived

552
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: to set that we were both going to be shooting

553
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 1: the scene together and set. Yeah, she was on set

554
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: the day before. She had gone in to do her

555
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: fittings and things, and I going in the next day

556
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: to do my fitting. And the following day we were

557
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,959
Speaker 1: going to shoot the scene and Porscha didn't show up

558
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 1: and they went scrambling and they ended up flying Cynthia

559
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: Bailey in and she did it. But Portia did do that.

560
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: That's honest, true. It doesn't really matter to me. I

561
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: haven't spoken to her since I don't have I don't know,

562
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: it's been months. The show just aired like yesterday or

563
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: the day before.

564
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 2: Yes, a personal issue and I don't have a book

565
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 2: with her in her life.

566
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 1: Like no, I don't think so. But listen, I don't care.

567
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 2: Why would they even tell you that.

568
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: To tell you that, Yeah, because they were in a

569
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: frenzy and we weren't shooting, and my manager did some

570
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: digging and asked somebody that was on set and they

571
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 1: told us what happened. But listen, I'm still not mad.

572
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: I really don't care. Uh, it's not that serious to me.

573
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: You can text her right now, so can I. In fact,

574
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: I have the text messages because I did text her

575
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: when it happened, and I told her, and so I

576
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: did text her.

577
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 5: Wow.

578
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: But it doesn't matter. Listen, if you don't want to

579
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 1: work with somebody, that's fine with me. You don't have

580
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 1: to work with me. I think that's bad business on

581
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: your behalf to show up somewhere and be like, you

582
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: know what, I don't want to work with Charlemagne today.

583
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 2: Happens all the time, every day.

584
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: I'm not even mad about that stuff. It just is

585
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 1: not that serious to me. Some stuff is so petty.

586
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,199
Speaker 1: These girls really do think that they're bigger stars than

587
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 1: they really are. So it's really okay with me.

588
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 2: There you go.

589
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: I'm not honestly, I'm not. I promise you that I'm

590
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: so an adult now. I really that's why you haven't

591
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: heard me clap back at somebody, because so many people

592
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 1: are like, I know, need me gonna come back and

593
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 1: say something.

594
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 2: No, I'm not sitting waiting.

595
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 1: Just when I'm being asked a question. Do not get

596
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: mad at my response. Okay, I'm not gonna clap back

597
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 1: at you. I just don't have the time for it. Really,

598
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 1: I don't, and I don't want any confrontation. I really don't.

599
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: I don't want any confrontation.

600
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 2: Do people coming to you doing your own reality.

601
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: All the time? People talk to me about doing for

602
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: so long, people ask me to do a podcast, and

603
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 1: I never did anything. So I think it's all our timing.

604
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: See her and I clicked, Uh, this is a great

605
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: time for the both of us to do it. So

606
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: here we are doing it. Grandma, now right, I was

607
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: a glandma already. And and my youngest son, Brent just

608
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: had a baby girl. He had a lot of health

609
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 1: challenges over the last couple of years and he had

610
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: a heart transplant and out of all of this, he

611
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: has a little daughter we love, and she will be

612
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: two months old. She's not even too much so yet

613
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 1: two months old. Was on the sixteen well there was.

614
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: She just turned to this pretty little girl. So we

615
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: have a little girl.

616
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 2: How long do you think it's gonna last.

617
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: Between Sierra, Well, we hope it lasts for a long time.

618
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: Like we've been very We communicate really well together. You know,

619
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to be in a business relationship where

620
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: I can't speak my opinion and just say how I feel.

621
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: So I see her and I just had a conversation

622
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: where I'm telling her how I feel and when she

623
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:01,959
Speaker 1: clapped back at me she thought we were on Love

624
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: and Hip Hop it was but okay god, but yeah,

625
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 1: But anyway, I hope it lasts forever. I don't want

626
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: to get into business and get right out of business.

627
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: But you know, there are so many podcasts out here,

628
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: so we want to try to bring something different. Yeah.

629
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 6: I honestly see it growing bigger than just a podcast.

630
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 9: Yeah.

631
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 6: I think it's gonna be like a movement.

632
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: Well, you definitely can't teach us about entrepreneurship.

633
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 6: That's I'm like, podcast, it's just the beginning. Yeah, this

634
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 6: thing's gonna go bigger than that.

635
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 7: And reality show Yeah right, so many in my own

636
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 7: girls so relatable, and I feel like the we're gonna be.

637
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 6: Because Love and Hip Hoop the housewise, it's like they

638
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 6: keep us apart.

639
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying.

640
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: She thinks that Housewives of Bougie and Oh Honey and

641
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: Love and Hip Hop, I think the same.

642
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 4: That's how I look at it.

643
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 5: You know, look, I mean just keeping it really want

644
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 5: I want to have both you all, because you know,

645
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 5: I saw Marlowe and she made some comments on Tiffany

646
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 5: Cross's podcast when she said how people judge you for

647
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 5: life after you do reality TV.

648
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 6: Oh that's true, that's true.

649
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: True, it's bad.

650
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, they won't even they they won't buy, they treat

651
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 6: you away that they won't even do other businesses just

652
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 6: because of reality TV.

653
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, people have a perception of you, you know, like

654
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: you guys were in here when I first walked in here.

655
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: You guys were treating me real fucked up, trying to

656
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: say that I'm loud. I'm not loud. My voice is

657
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: very ten We've been watching you.

658
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 2: For over ten years. You guys are judging you right now.

659
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 2: Cut it out.

660
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: You guys are judging me. You guys have this you

661
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: know this thought about me because you saw me on Housewives. Actually,

662
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: I am soft, I am a girls, I am a

663
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: love girl.

664
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 9: You are.

665
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: I'm way more laid back and cool and chill than

666
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: you will ever know. I don't want no confrontation, don't start,

667
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: don want to be none.

668
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 7: I've done shows with you now, comedy shows, TV shows.

669
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 1: I don't crush on women, but I had a crush

670
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: on her.

671
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: You want to.

672
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: Really yeah, yeah, she said if she was you know

673
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: from the community.

674
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 6: I don't date women, yeah, but I mean you can't

675
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:22,959
Speaker 6: sleep with them.

676
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: Every now and then.

677
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: No, I don't want to know we talked about that,

678
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: about that.

679
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, we don't.

680
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 9: We don't don't.

681
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 6: We don't date girls.

682
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't like the smell of the coaches.

683
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean like not. I don't want nothing. I

684
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 6: know my couchie get with. I don't want nothing else

685
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 6: around me like that.

686
00:31:55,880 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good he said that about ass because I like,

687
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: you got to clear that up. Sounds crazy. Why would

688
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 2: I want to be in another man?

689
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 4: Start like that next time?

690
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: Start like that? We do?

691
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 2: I mean about that in general?

692
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: Yes, that's crazy.

693
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, did y'all did y'all plan? No, both of y'all

694
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 7: wigs are sitting. It's different bloods, But I'm yeah.

695
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 5: You think people hold grudges against you needy unnecessarily meaning

696
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 5: like they look at you.

697
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 2: It's probably like a big sister type.

698
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 5: So when they're going through things like divorces and so

699
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 5: you don't reach out to them so they feel offended.

700
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I reach out. Okay, no, no, no,

701
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: I reach out And I do take on the role

702
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: as a big sister. One of the things I say

703
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: about myself is I'm here for everybody, but nobody's here

704
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: for me. Yes, I always feel like that. I always

705
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: feel like I'm the one that's helping everybody, supporting everyone,

706
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: But if I'm going through something, nobody is really like

707
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: supporting me and helping me. I'm always considered the strong

708
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: one and I'm just as weak as everybody else, you know,

709
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 1: But everybody look at me as well, you know what

710
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, I have my moments when you know,

711
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: when I'm like, damn, I you know, I have to

712
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 1: be there financially for everybody. I got to be there

713
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: mentally for everybody. And if I'm going through something, I'm like, well, damn,

714
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: is anybody here for me?

715
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 6: But you know, I feel like that's what made us

716
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 6: homegirls for because I'm the same way. So I pour

717
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 6: into her, like I buy her gifts and stuff and

718
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 6: she's not used to it and I'm not used to it.

719
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 6: We do it for each other, so I feel like

720
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 6: we're the same people in our families.

721
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, people don't buy me gifts. I'm the one that's

722
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: mind gifts all the time.

723
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: That's real.

724
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: Good people think that I have everything. I'm like, no,

725
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff I want that's real.

726
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 2: Because I saw a video you posted a Greg rest

727
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 2: in peace.

728
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

729
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 2: Did people reach out to you after that?

730
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: A couple of people who I do not know, strangers, not.

731
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 2: Your friends, are people you consider friends.

732
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: No, I didn't to you what you said.

733
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 6: I brought you that long ass message.

734
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: Oh you did you the next morning I woke up

735
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: and saw the next morning. No, no, no, no, she

736
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 1: told me that she prayed for me and all those things.

737
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: But honestly, when I I did get send people DM

738
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: and me saying Nini, I hope you're okay. But that

739
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: is not why I posted the video. I actually was

740
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: going through my phone looking for something else and I

741
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: came across those videos and I just said, oh my gosh,

742
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: somebody post these videos because they made me smile. So

743
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: I just post them. But so some people did think

744
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: that maybe I was having an emotional day, but I wasn't. Actually,

745
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: it was actually a great day, and I loved those videos.

746
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: There's one thing Greg and I would do with Dan,

747
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: so I loved that video.

748
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 2: Were people there for you during your grieving process the way.

749
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: I don't particularly, No, I don't feel like that, not

750
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: my castmates. But they did send flowers and things like that,

751
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: but not there for me emotionally. You know, like grieving

752
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: is a very tough thing. People don't understand. It's very

753
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: difficult to explain to somebody losing somebody that close to you.

754
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 1: So that was a tough time. But but yeah, I'm

755
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: good now, I'm doing really good.

756
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 2: I'm glad. Do you even look at these people as

757
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 2: real friends though? The no? I doubt, Okay, I do not.

758
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

759
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 5: No.

760
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:21,800
Speaker 6: What about therapy?

761
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 9: Do you have a therapist?

762
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 5: You know why?

763
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 1: I'm just starting therapy and I have a makeup artist

764
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 1: in Houston, Texas, Elena. I thank you, Elena. And so

765
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: she's been with this therapist that she referred to me.

766
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: And I'm seeing the therapist not for the grieving process.

767
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: I'm seeing her for something totally different. I feel like

768
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: the grief, I feel like I've done really well with that. Uh,

769
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: these are just other things that I want to talk

770
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 1: to the therapist about, my son being sick, my husband

771
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 1: passing away. You know, it's just a lot of different things.

772
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: I just would love to have a great outlet you

773
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: want to speak to. But I do feel like I'm

774
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: very strong minded because I have to be, you know,

775
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't have the time to break down and cry

776
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: and fall out I gotta know that's not.

777
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 5: You knowing busy as a response to trauma, and.

778
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 2: You'll learn that in therapy.

779
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: I say busy a lot.

780
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 2: It's a response to trauma. You have to try to

781
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 2: forget about everything.

782
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: I get down now, I'll get on the airplane and

783
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 1: be like I'm going going to Africa, like they said,

784
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 1: some money and you know, not Africa.

785
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 4: Yes, but like you said, people.

786
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 3: You check up on people all the time. Are you

787
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 3: talk about Peter? You check up on you talk about

788
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 3: all these people? The people check up on you.

789
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 1: I don't feel like they really do, not that much.

790
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: She is right that she would reach out to me

791
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: and a couple of people, But no, no, no, I

792
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: don't feel like they really do. I don't feel like

793
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: I have that kind of support. Do you feel like

794
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm very like alone in this world? Yeah? I do

795
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: right now with my husband being gone. I really my

796
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: husband was a real force, you know. Yeah, he was

797
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: really there. Yeah, my best friend and really all about

798
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: his family and not having him there. Yeah, I kind

799
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: of feel like I'm alone in a lot of situations,

800
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: really really alone in a lot of situations, which is unfortunate. Right,

801
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm at home, like I don't have anybody. I

802
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: wonder who I would call kind.

803
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 2: Of like, yeah, it sucks when you go through person

804
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 2: and you don't got nobody to go.

805
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 4: Nobody can reach out to you and the.

806
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 6: Only person that you had is gone, you know, to

807
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 6: avoid that.

808
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, even my kids don't get it because they're so young,

809
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: Like they don't get it. I mean Rise twenty five,

810
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: like you know, yeah, he doesn't get it. He's still

811
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: very young. They don't understand like, oh my mom need me.

812
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: They'd be like, Mom, where are you gonna put some

813
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: more money in my account? Like they don't really get

814
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 1: it anyway, they don't get it yet. But yeah, thank

815
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,439
Speaker 1: you so much. And I'm I'm sure that special so one.

816
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 4: Is it's out there.

817
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 6: He's you know, do you still speak to Kim?

818
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 4: Kim's only you don't speak to her.

819
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,359
Speaker 1: I did speak to Kim because Kim has been going

820
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: through her situation, her divorce. I ran into her, I

821
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: ran into her daughter. I've talked to Kim. I text her.

822
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,760
Speaker 1: She d MS me, like, you know, if I'm hosting something,

823
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: she DM me. So she seemed to be doing okay.

824
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: She seems to be doing okay. But I don't know,

825
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: it's probably a tough time for her as.

826
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 2: Well me AND's still gonna get these free suits, says you?

827
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:16,760
Speaker 1: And at that two years ago you eat soup?

828
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 4: No custom suits?

829
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 7: Who are almost some African guy that you dating to

830
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 7: be making suits?

831
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 1: We're gonna stick to Nini and Nini's yeah, I remember

832
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 1: his name to his name was cut it out?

833
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 5: Yo?

834
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: What are y'all doing?

835
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: Did you see Cynthia her name reveal?

836
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: That was so nice? Yeah? I did see that. That

837
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 1: was very nice and and thank you so much. Yeah,

838
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: a lot of that. Yeah, well, I we'll just have

839
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: to see what Bravo feels, you know. I don't know.

840
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. Imagine me being on housewived what what

841
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: you guys say? I feel like.

842
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 6: Regularly, really, I feel like I.

843
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 1: Would be so big and sitting there and I feel

844
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: like the rest of the girls are going to fight

845
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: me and girl, I don't want to fight.

846
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: Stepping off the plane in Africa, welcome home?

847
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,720
Speaker 4: What do you think about the House Wild franchise?

848
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 2: Now?

849
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 4: All I see them canceling left and right? What's canceling?

850
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 6: I did hear that?

851
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 1: Do I canceled? Oh my god? I love Dubai. What

852
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 1: do I think about it. I don't think they've been canceling.

853
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: I think they'll stick around. I think it's one of

854
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,959
Speaker 1: those shows that's gonna be a reund like forever years,

855
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: like a soap proper. Yeah, I do. I think they

856
00:39:59,040 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: have lots of.

857
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 6: Legs, no matter how boring one franchise, no matter how boring.

858
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know they're still be around. They got

859
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 1: money over there. They got money to keep those shows

860
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 1: going and going and going.

861
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 8: Yeah.

862
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 6: You know you think it's about the views though, the viewership.

863
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but they control that too. They can keep

864
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 1: that going if they want to, that part charge.

865
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 2: So yes, listening Atlanta the one that's all Yeah, Atlanta,

866
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 2: Atlanta the one that probably keep Jersey.

867
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 1: But well, I think Atlanta was kind of like the first.

868
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 6: So yeah, because for us, Atlanta Atlanta, we're the top show. Yeah,

869
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 6: Atlanta Atlanta just make good reality TV.

870
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:57,439
Speaker 7: And speaking of loving hip hop, Atlanta, did you ever

871
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 7: feel like there was a time that you did and

872
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 7: want to do the show?

873
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: No more, Siera you.

874
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 7: I've watched you from the beginning on that like you've

875
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 7: been betrayed by not only like husband's relationships and all

876
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 7: of that, but like friendships too, Yeah, and then family,

877
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 7: like you put a lot of yourself out there and

878
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 7: to like learn your story a little bit, you know

879
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 7: what I mean, well a lot on the show.

880
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 6: It's been plenty of times I want to safe.

881
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 8: Yeah.

882
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't want to do it, but I still

883
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 6: did it because again, like I feel like my life

884
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 6: is a testimony I get every time I go through something,

885
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 6: and every time I think it's like the worst that

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Speaker 6: I went through, especially on television, somebody come to me

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Speaker 6: and be like, you know how much you helped me?

888
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 6: I was liodle or whatever. So it keeps me going.

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Speaker 6: The family stuff, especially so many girls and that scene

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Speaker 6: that I deal with my mom and I you know,

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Speaker 6: and I told her, I said, you created this monster,

892
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,399
Speaker 6: Like you created this monster. You get what I'm saying.

893
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Speaker 6: So it's just like those moments make me realize why,

894
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Speaker 6: you know, I should not stop and keep going. I

895
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Speaker 6: should keep going with I.

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Speaker 1: Think Atlanta is the best weaf for love to hear

897
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Speaker 1: because New York went away.

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Speaker 6: And I've grown don't a lie and I can't lie.

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Speaker 6: Like TV helped businesses and like it really does. I

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Speaker 6: feel like I took the opportunity and I ran. It

901
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Speaker 6: really does, like really, I don't know what nobody.

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Speaker 1: Else did, but like it launches you into all of

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Speaker 1: the real.

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Speaker 6: I became a serial entrepreneur, but I felt like I

905
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 6: knew that as soon as I when they found me

906
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 6: in my little shop in the hood. Baby, I was like, oh,

907
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Speaker 6: I'm about to take this ship and run like I'm

908
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Speaker 6: never coming back here. And I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Business business booming.

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Speaker 6: Ever since, it's been different. Thank God, Thank God, that's

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Speaker 6: good here. God is God?

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Speaker 9: You a hustler.

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Speaker 4: Check out the podcast January sixteenth. Yeah and my home girl. Yes,

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Speaker 4: let me appreciate you guys for joining us.

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Speaker 6: Thank you for having.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, say Srogates. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Wake

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Speaker 4: that ass up in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club.