Speaker 1: What's Up Tribe.
Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mila, and this is Good Mom's
Speaker 2: Bad Choices Podcast.
Speaker 1: Beach season two.
Speaker 3: If you joined us for season one, you got three
Speaker 3: hundred uncensored episodes.
Speaker 2: But things are a little different in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: Not only are we having new guests, new segments, but
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Speaker 3: This podcast is for all the good moms, all the
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Speaker 3: even more uncensored topics like love, sex.
Speaker 2: Dating, and just look at this as the ultimate group chat.
Speaker 2: All the shit you're afraid to say out loud or
Speaker 2: even try, We say.
Speaker 3: It and do it for you because nothing's off limits here.
Speaker 2: This is a judgment free zone to show up exactly
Speaker 2: as you are, and let's be honest, we've all made
Speaker 2: a few bad choices, so sit back, relax, and enjoy
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Speaker 3: HM Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica
Speaker 3: and I'm Mela. And it's Wednesday, bitches, Happy Wednesday.
Speaker 2: I just got a new bowl, I see, and I've
Speaker 2: been playing with it, trying to master the Tibetan singing bowls.
Speaker 2: I figure since I'm in the Tibetan lineage, contry schools
Speaker 2: also tap into the Tibetan sounds darting.
Speaker 1: It's all related.
Speaker 2: They're kind of harder to play than the crystal like
Speaker 2: to keep it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've tried, and I was not good, and I
Speaker 4: thought I kind of got to get some speed on it.
Speaker 4: I don't think I had a good bowl.
Speaker 3: And also it is there's an art, you know, there's
Speaker 3: frequency to all sound.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Should we ground down for a second.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do that.
Speaker 3: So some ground down and take some deep breath yeah,
Speaker 3: mm hmmm.
Speaker 5: Let's take a deep breath.
Speaker 6: In mm hm, take.
Speaker 5: Another deep breath in, release, take another deep breath then.
Speaker 2: And release.
Speaker 6: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3: At least for sound. If you feel called moaning, feeling pleasure.
Speaker 7: Mm hmmm, mm hm hm hmm, hand on heart.
Speaker 6: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: That felt good. I needed that too.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, anyway, back to the regular scheduled program. This is
Speaker 3: Mela on the ones and twos and my co hosts
Speaker 3: here Erica, Love e Love on the Sambals. You're listening
Speaker 3: to good Reports seven good good moms. Hey, this is
Speaker 3: Kimberley and I would just like to dedicate the next
Speaker 3: song to my man.
Speaker 1: Who gets out in twelve months.
Speaker 3: His name is Carl, and I just want to say, Kyl,
Speaker 3: I love you, and this is my song to you.
Speaker 3: The Isley Brothers featuring R Kelly. Shut up, I didn't
Speaker 3: cheat on you, and I can't wait till.
Speaker 1: You get home. Thank you, Kelly, Thank you for coming forever.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, we have a very special guest tonight too.
Speaker 2: If you wait, if you can't tell who it is,
Speaker 2: just based on well, they can't even see the set
Speaker 2: right now, can they are? From one angle? They can
Speaker 2: cut to the angle where you can see the set. Orlando,
Speaker 2: look at those roses. You know who is here? Can
Speaker 2: you tell? Oh? Yeah, you see her. We have the incomparable,
Speaker 2: the beautiful, the Goddess, the rat priestress herself, Lizzie, motherfucking
Speaker 2: Jeff founder.
Speaker 3: Of insert claps. Oh my goodness, this is where the
Speaker 3: clubs come in.
Speaker 1: Once again. It is a honor to sit in the
Speaker 1: presence of two real life goddesses. Powerhouses, confident women, mothers, muses, inspirations,
Speaker 1: self awareness, self knowledge, grace, energy, intellect, mindset, personality, all
Speaker 1: of that. It's just so beautiful and I'm honored. So
Speaker 1: thank you to pleasure is all mine for real. Thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3: I always you know, when you come through, I always
Speaker 3: feel you, like so on the soul level. Tonight's a
Speaker 3: full moon. It's late night at the studio, you know,
Speaker 3: with some moms, so we usually be we usually be
Speaker 3: here in the afternoon. But you know, because when the
Speaker 3: line and the stars the line, it just happens that way.
Speaker 3: And of course it always happens that way. So we're
Speaker 3: here men infesting, drinking some organic wine because only drink organic.
Speaker 2: Wine only exclusively.
Speaker 3: But thank you every time I'm in your presence, because
Speaker 3: you're such a goddess. You remind me that I'm a goddess,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, yes, such a.
Speaker 2: Mirror, the mirror energy of goddess reflection.
Speaker 1: That's powerful. I receive it. It's a good season for
Speaker 1: us to come here and celebrate each other and speak
Speaker 1: life into each other. So thank you. I receive it.
Speaker 1: It feels like it. I've been really on my path
Speaker 1: doing the work, putting that time, in, putting that energy,
Speaker 1: in a lot of light work, a lot of shadow work.
Speaker 1: So it's always so beautiful for it to be perceived
Speaker 1: by other goddesses because that means, okay, I must be
Speaker 1: doing all right?
Speaker 2: Do you really really are?
Speaker 3: I feel like you sprinkling magic wherever you go every
Speaker 3: time you're in our presence.
Speaker 1: It feels good. Thank you deserve it.
Speaker 3: This like the whole season we're in season two. Okay,
Speaker 3: the first season is three hundred episodes, but now we're
Speaker 3: in season two and we are this season is about
Speaker 3: like all past leading to all past lead to you,
Speaker 3: And I'd like to also the term like all past
Speaker 3: lead to God, because you know, there's all types of religion,
Speaker 3: there's all types of beliefs, but like who cares, all
Speaker 3: paths lead to God, And I feel like that's the
Speaker 3: same as all pastly to you, because we are God,
Speaker 3: you know, and we're goddesses and just now and you're
Speaker 3: just like singing our praises and you know, spitting all
Speaker 3: the great adjectives. I was just thinking about, like my
Speaker 3: perception of the word goddess and that it's like this mystical,
Speaker 3: ancient archetype, and like when I think of goddess, I
Speaker 3: think of like literally some ancient like Egyptian goddess. And
Speaker 3: I was think, what does it look like and feel
Speaker 3: like to embody a goddess of this time? And like,
Speaker 3: because if there was a goddess, then there's a goddess
Speaker 3: is walking amongst us now absolutely, and like I just
Speaker 3: never really truly considered and embodied it. And in that moment,
Speaker 3: I was like, huh.
Speaker 2: Oh, well it's this, it's us right now, truly deep
Speaker 2: except the goddesses of that time knew they were.
Speaker 3: Goddesses, right, And that is the deep deception. And honestly,
Speaker 3: also this is.
Speaker 2: A direct colonization of just everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like honestly, like recently I've been thinking, we
Speaker 3: are in the first week of February, We're only thirty
Speaker 3: days really into the new year, and I've just been
Speaker 3: thinking deeply about perceptions shift. And it's just like the
Speaker 3: like it's just like you could have one idea and
Speaker 3: somebody can have one conversation with you and your whole
Speaker 3: fucking shit can be blown up, you know, Like that
Speaker 3: is the beauty and magic of information and of like
Speaker 3: a a malleable mind. But just like perception and like
Speaker 3: just solely focusing on shifting my person reception. And like
Speaker 3: when you said that, I was like, I am a
Speaker 3: modern goddess. I am the goddess of my time. We
Speaker 3: are goddesses of our time. And that's why I feel
Speaker 3: when you speak to me, I'm like, oh, yeah, but
Speaker 3: I just want to encourage anyone listening because this is
Speaker 3: my first time ever really doing it. I said the
Speaker 3: word around a lot. Goddess, my god, you know, like
Speaker 3: really really like thinking of like what is your perception
Speaker 3: of goddess? Yeah, with that power, because if you don't
Speaker 3: know who the fuck you are, that is the biggest
Speaker 3: fucking fuck of life. That is the biggest programming. And
Speaker 3: like that they've they've cloaked us with So we don't
Speaker 3: know our power. We're constantly questioning it. And like, thankfully
Speaker 3: the goddesses are awakening and their wombs are awakening their power.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're reclaiming it.
Speaker 3: And so now it's like you speak to me and
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I'm listening, but yeah, thank you for that.
Speaker 1: It was a beautiful breakdown break Like you can study
Speaker 1: all the goddesses, you can listen to all the goddess music.
Speaker 1: You can read, all the books, you could do, all
Speaker 1: the meditations, and all of that is beautiful, but it
Speaker 1: really does mean something when you know, when you have
Speaker 1: that knowing that you are divinity, and because it literally
Speaker 1: it's like turning on a light switch, and it changes
Speaker 1: everything to walk in that femininity, to walk in that essence.
Speaker 1: Y'all know, I'm not telling you anything you don't know,
Speaker 1: And that's part of why I love speaking that life
Speaker 1: and reminding women when I'm in their presence, because I
Speaker 1: always imagine a world full of activated women. You know,
Speaker 1: it's rather than a world full of women that are
Speaker 1: depressed or yeah or shame or walking in shame or trauma.
Speaker 1: When we think about a world full of activated women,
Speaker 1: and we activate each other by reminding each other that
Speaker 1: we are beautiful. Because even though when I look at y'all,
Speaker 1: I see nothing but beauty and beauty and love and
Speaker 1: humor and adventure, I see like style and grace and
Speaker 1: just the Goddess energy. I know that you may have
Speaker 1: your days where you don't necessarily feel like that. You
Speaker 1: know you might have We all do. We have our
Speaker 1: times where we don't feel so, you know, embolding in
Speaker 1: our confidence in those days. And so that's why it
Speaker 1: is important for us to reflect what we see and
Speaker 1: what we feel. And I'm not triggered by you in
Speaker 1: any way. I'm inspired by you, and I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna reflect that. And ultimately it's universal
Speaker 1: law that we are reflections of each other. Right, So
Speaker 1: if that's what I see when I look at y'all,
Speaker 1: that must mean I'm doing alright in life. You feel
Speaker 1: me better than all right? So this is what I needed.
Speaker 1: This is like a check in, a checkpoint, a rendezvous
Speaker 1: of goddesses to just check in with each other. With
Speaker 1: the roses and the flowers and the organic wine and
Speaker 1: the tarroo and the books. We needed this. So thank
Speaker 1: you for having me.
Speaker 2: Did I did? Speaking of goddess energy and just like
Speaker 2: you know you, like I said, you're like such a
Speaker 2: reflection of this, of this goddess archetype that really exists
Speaker 2: in every single woman. But but a lot of women feel
Speaker 2: like this is like the Goddess is like an exclusive
Speaker 2: club of women, Like it's like this specific archetype of
Speaker 2: bitches that are like a certain way, and it's like, no,
Speaker 2: like the Goddess archetype lives in every single warn men,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, and and and I think
Speaker 2: I think when I look at you online, like you
Speaker 2: you always exude that, and like you said, like there
Speaker 2: are days and there are times when you don't feel
Speaker 2: like that, like it's hard to connect back to that.
Speaker 2: So what does Lizzie Jeff do when she's trying when
Speaker 2: she needs to like connect back to that energy or
Speaker 2: she's not feeling feeling like, you know, like going through
Speaker 2: the motions of feeling like I don't feel like a
Speaker 2: goddess today, or like even darker. There's shit, I know,
Speaker 2: there's days. I mean there's days where like you have
Speaker 2: imposter syisroon.
Speaker 1: Like what am I? Who am I?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 2: I mean maybe not maybe not you, But I'm just
Speaker 2: curious what your practice is or what you do to
Speaker 2: like get yourself into goddess mode when you're not feeling
Speaker 2: so godd to see.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that's a good question, thank you. M Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'd definitely be having those days. I'll be in
Speaker 1: my feelings. I'm real sensitive and I'm working on what
Speaker 1: they say, don't take things personally. That was in the
Speaker 1: four Agreements and That's something that I always go back to,
Speaker 1: is don't take things exactly.
Speaker 2: Is there something I think's in particular that like trigger
Speaker 2: your sensitivity.
Speaker 1: It's so many things. It's so many things, like because
Speaker 1: I'm very I consider myself a very generous person. I
Speaker 1: love excuse me, I love giving and sharing, but in
Speaker 1: like really intentional and creative ways. And I think sometimes
Speaker 1: I might have a little bit of an expectation of
Speaker 1: people to be that way, and sometimes they might just
Speaker 1: forget me altogether, and that makes me feel some type
Speaker 1: of way. And maybe they didn't forget me, they just
Speaker 1: didn't think about me in that moment. But it might
Speaker 1: be someone that I've been very intentional with that just
Speaker 1: makes me feel the type of way, or you know,
Speaker 1: even just being a musician. Yeah, just going through moving
Speaker 1: through stuff. But what I like to do, what I
Speaker 1: if I need to really, I like to move through
Speaker 1: it naturally. But what I've been very adamant and committed
Speaker 1: to is when I'm moving through stuff because I'm always
Speaker 1: in my feeling. It's just like my cosmic placements. I
Speaker 1: always go one hundred percent on taking care of me
Speaker 1: no matter what, even when I'm grieving really deeply I
Speaker 1: never let myself get too deep where I just go
Speaker 1: days without showering or eating, you know, shit like that.
Speaker 1: I've had those moments, but once I'm I'm through it,
Speaker 1: I'm ragged and run and ran through and it's like
Speaker 1: that doesn't do anything for anybody. And so I've been
Speaker 1: very adamant on my herbs every day. Even if I
Speaker 1: can't brew up my tea, I have my tinctures when
Speaker 1: I do the roses, when I'm just in the presence
Speaker 1: of roses, because roses have the highest vibration of any
Speaker 1: flower in the universe. So sometimes I just like to
Speaker 1: put it in my hand and twirl it. Even if
Speaker 1: I'm so raw and rugged in my feelings and I'm
Speaker 1: ugly crying, I'll spray myself with rose water. I'll take
Speaker 1: a whiff of the roses, and it doesn't take me
Speaker 1: to a hundred right away, but it does help me
Speaker 1: climb back up the ladder of confidence in goddess hood.
Speaker 1: And that's the beauty of being a woman. That's the
Speaker 1: beauty of being a goddess. You have access to all
Speaker 1: these mystical, miraculous rituals that you can soothe your heart
Speaker 1: and soothe your body and soothe your mind as you
Speaker 1: moving through it. And yeah, I might, you know, want
Speaker 1: to give me a scoop of some vegan like salted
Speaker 1: caramel ice cream. But I'm not gonna sit there and
Speaker 1: eat the whole damn jar I'm gonna have a couple.
Speaker 1: You feel me, and I'm a.
Speaker 2: I'm not good at that part.
Speaker 1: It is hard. It's hard.
Speaker 2: So Goddess.
Speaker 1: Honor where they are in the moment, and they don't
Speaker 1: judge themselves. They don't judge themselves. Okay, it's just it's
Speaker 1: just should I be moving through just like giving myself
Speaker 1: challenges to not go too deep in it. But if
Speaker 1: I need to go deep in it, fuck it. That's
Speaker 1: where I'm at. I honor myself. But that's the fun
Speaker 1: part is remembering the rituals, remembering who you are, mirror work,
Speaker 1: getting in lingerie, taking a steam shower with eucalyptus and
Speaker 1: peppermint oil, rubbing your body down in shade butter oil.
Speaker 1: You feel me, giving yourself a facial, making the avocado
Speaker 1: breast rub for them, nipples like it's full moon free
Speaker 1: bleeding on the earth. It's so many ways you can
Speaker 1: like thrive as a goddess. And that doesn't mean you
Speaker 1: have to go out and be the life of the party.
Speaker 1: You can still be in your sanctuary, honoring where you are,
Speaker 1: in that raw season that you're in, but still embodying
Speaker 1: what it means like to be a goddess and move
Speaker 1: yourself through whatever it is you're moving through.
Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like activating the senses is like such
Speaker 2: a major goddess heck, pretty like to really connect to
Speaker 2: your body, connect like just your energetic body to your spirit,
Speaker 2: to your physical body, and like marrying those senses. And
Speaker 2: I've been using rose oil too, and I've noticed like
Speaker 2: how like it's different than any other oil. It is
Speaker 2: like it really makes me feel so feminine and like
Speaker 2: immediately sexy, immediately sexy, and immediately just like desirable before myself.
Speaker 2: It's like a personal desire that then I can extend
Speaker 2: to someone else, because there is that kind of desire
Speaker 2: that comes with the red road, I feel like, but activates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can feel it. You don't need to
Speaker 1: read too many books about it. You just sit with it,
Speaker 1: and it's giving yourself that connection with Earth too in
Speaker 1: some way.
Speaker 2: And I think it's important to like, for the goddesses listening,
Speaker 2: like you discovering what those things are for you. It
Speaker 2: may not be roses for you, although probably some roses, bitch,
Speaker 2: I just feel like overall roses, But I feel like
Speaker 2: every person has the thing that they those things that
Speaker 2: really activate that thing in them, and then like remembering them.
Speaker 2: That's like the hardest part of all is like remembering
Speaker 2: to use the toolbox, like remembering that you you have
Speaker 2: these things that you know, like hey, that one time
Speaker 2: that shit made me feel better, Let me remember that,
Speaker 2: and being able to come back to that.
Speaker 3: You have to reach for it, though, but if you're
Speaker 3: so suck in it, it's hard to reach for it.
Speaker 1: That's so important. I like that you said.
Speaker 3: That, you know, like you let yourself you know, sometimes
Speaker 3: you do need to eat the whole pine ice cream
Speaker 3: like whatever that way that shows up for you too.
Speaker 3: I think that a lot of times we forget that.
Speaker 3: A part of being a goddess and a part of
Speaker 3: the divine femininity is that we are deeply sensitive. We
Speaker 3: feel everything, and most of us I feel like like
Speaker 3: there's a there's a rationality, So you're you're you're you're open,
Speaker 3: and so a lot of times it's like we have
Speaker 3: been taught to limit how much how much we can
Speaker 3: feel in the moment and how we can show up
Speaker 3: and how much we can cry and like how sad
Speaker 3: or just you know, like there's all these rules around
Speaker 3: there's our anger, our rage, and the truth is they're
Speaker 3: just feelings, you know. And the actually the sooner you
Speaker 3: get it, you get in bed with them and allow
Speaker 3: yourself to move through them and honor it, then the
Speaker 3: better it is.
Speaker 1: On the other side.
Speaker 3: Then you can like say, all right, now, I'm but
Speaker 3: without allowing but without with catching ourselves too soon is
Speaker 3: sometimes staying in line with the cycle of like this
Speaker 3: is how socially we've been programmed.
Speaker 1: Oh, and that's just toxic behavior. And it's toxic behavior.
Speaker 3: And but it's also like you have to you have
Speaker 3: to be like not like you have to be aware
Speaker 3: enough to be like, am I getting so caught in it?
Speaker 1: Like that I'm stuck here.
Speaker 3: The boundary of like not getting stuck in it, but
Speaker 3: allowing yourself to feel it's a balance, there's a balance.
Speaker 3: But I find myself cutting the feeling off immediately justifying
Speaker 3: why I should not feel that way. There's so much
Speaker 3: worse shit going on in the world.
Speaker 1: It's deep.
Speaker 3: People are like really going through some shit you over here,
Speaker 3: but still that's how I feel, and so by not
Speaker 3: honoring it, I'm not really honoring any of the shit
Speaker 3: because I can't really help what's going on in the
Speaker 3: world at the very moment, but I can connect to
Speaker 3: what I know is going on here in my body.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you some you made me think think
Speaker 1: about it? Thank you for sharing that. Is there one
Speaker 1: person on this earth who, if you shared something that
Speaker 1: was real, raw and sensitive with you, would care about
Speaker 1: them validating your feelings.
Speaker 3: Like I would what I expect and want them to
Speaker 3: validate my feelings.
Speaker 1: Yeah? Is there like one person that you can feel
Speaker 1: safe and raw with sharing and then you actually care
Speaker 1: about what they would share how or them validating your feelings?
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah? For sure?
Speaker 3: I think it's Erica and Orlando.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that's beautiful.
Speaker 3: I think like mostly I know I can go with
Speaker 3: mostly anything and honestly to be cheered, Like it's easier
Speaker 3: for me to say things to Erica okay because this
Speaker 3: is our space. Our space isn't talking and maybe not
Speaker 3: maybe if it's like stuff with us initially, like maybe right,
Speaker 3: maybe easier to go somewhere else, but like for literally
Speaker 3: anything else, it's this is the easiest place. So I
Speaker 3: know she's gonna be like, well, you know that's okay,
Speaker 3: or like or like.
Speaker 1: You're right okay, or at least yeah. It's a safe space.
Speaker 3: And I think I've practiced this space with her the
Speaker 3: most authentically. So there's a level of expectation of like,
Speaker 3: I do know that you know what I mean that
Speaker 3: I'm trying to practice. I am practicing in my relationship,
Speaker 3: and I feel safe to do it. But it's this
Speaker 3: is a muscle I've exercised way more here.
Speaker 1: That's deep. I was thank you for sharing. I was
Speaker 1: asking because there I have one or two people that
Speaker 1: I like, I care about, you know, if I'm sharing
Speaker 1: something that's raw and vulnerable, and I asked, because, well,
Speaker 1: what what what? How would I want them to validate
Speaker 1: my feelings in this moment? What would I want them
Speaker 1: to say to encourage me? And a lot of times
Speaker 1: I'll tap into that energy if it's just me and
Speaker 1: my solitude and my solo work, and say it to
Speaker 1: myself because I am really sensitive, Like I said, I
Speaker 1: think many of us are. But it's just a matter
Speaker 1: of that emotional awareness maturity. And so somebody like Erica
Speaker 1: or Orlando, when you're in your solitude moving through that shit,
Speaker 1: you know, asking telling yourself what you will want to
Speaker 1: hear in this moment, and that kind of soothes the
Speaker 1: just a little bit.
Speaker 3: And I think I've come to realize that a lot
Speaker 3: of on top of that is like what I would
Speaker 3: want to hear is not generally what I respond with,
Speaker 3: not like maybe maybe not exactly like maybe if you
Speaker 3: came to me and said something to me, or you
Speaker 3: did something like how I would want you to respond
Speaker 3: to me may not be the way I respond to you.
Speaker 1: That's not maybe in my.
Speaker 3: Nature what I what I what I actually crave is
Speaker 3: not actually in my nature to deliver, but probably because
Speaker 3: it's what I crave and may not always have gotten,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like just because that's what
Speaker 3: you crave is not that's your nature. In fact, our
Speaker 3: nature is to be not be as compassionate, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean. It's like, so it's always a work
Speaker 3: in progress to be in solitude and say what would
Speaker 3: I want to hear? And so that you can when
Speaker 3: someone comes to you with something also lead in this
Speaker 3: same space in what you expect. But you have to
Speaker 3: be in space with yourself to know what what I
Speaker 3: want to hear in order to be able to be
Speaker 3: soft with someone else. But a lot of times we're not.
Speaker 3: We're not being ourselves, which is a direct reason why
Speaker 3: we can't show up that way for people, and there's
Speaker 3: a disconnect.
Speaker 2: And then there's people that are solved with other people
Speaker 2: and they have no boundaries at all.
Speaker 1: I feel like it goes both ways. That's true.
Speaker 3: That's true.
Speaker 1: So you said there's self with other people, but brutal
Speaker 1: with themselves. Now, I'll admit I be tripping sometimes I'll
Speaker 1: be tripping, but it comes with I feel like when
Speaker 1: you wear a crown, which we all do, and when
Speaker 1: you step into a particular position of leadership where people
Speaker 1: rely or come to you or inspired by it does
Speaker 1: make you care a little bit more. But at the
Speaker 1: same time, it's like, that's why the authenticity part, that's
Speaker 1: why being true to yourself and who you are is vital,
Speaker 1: so that nothing or no one's expectations of you. I
Speaker 1: see you oil in your eyes, looking at your.
Speaker 3: Breath, I'm just like taking it like like yeah, like
Speaker 3: even I'm sure even as being as goddess as we are,
Speaker 3: as vulnerable as we are showing up, which to someone
Speaker 3: else may seem as very bold, you know, like those
Speaker 3: titties are out her, She's say, right, she's sucked about second.
Speaker 3: You know, there's all these perceptions of what that looks
Speaker 3: like and ill we all have suffered from.
Speaker 1: Is this too much? Right? Is this too much? Is
Speaker 1: this too much?
Speaker 3: Am I too much?
Speaker 2: Do you think that there is a toxic goddess culture, a.
Speaker 1: T gc toxic god? I feel like, of course culture duality.
Speaker 3: Can you give me some examples of toxic goddess culture?
Speaker 2: Well, people that aren't really like it's not like that way,
Speaker 2: they don't believe themselves. They're they're not really doing the work,
Speaker 2: you really believe themselves. They're not. They're not doing shadow work.
Speaker 2: They're not even if they're not, they're not doing ship
Speaker 2: They're I'm respecting themselves, but posting. I don't know. I
Speaker 2: just feel like there's just I feel like in any
Speaker 2: genre of whatever the fuck label toxic toxic version of.
Speaker 3: It, well, because there's toxic people and there's healed people,
Speaker 3: and so there's gonna in any in any walk of life,
Speaker 3: there's going to be the good and the bad multidimensionality.
Speaker 1: But I'm glad you brought it up because I will
Speaker 1: admit I.
Speaker 2: Like I've met the toxic.
Speaker 1: Here's what I go ahead to say. I'm not even
Speaker 1: trying to say what I'm trying to say, But what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is because anything I say, I
Speaker 1: stand on it. But with my particular music and lifestyle
Speaker 1: and body of work, I'm really I consider myself, you know,
Speaker 1: a og. I consider myself a real nigga. You feel me.
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all probably gotta bleep that out, but maybe
Speaker 1: you know. But just how I was raised, who I
Speaker 1: was raised by the time, the geographic location, and most
Speaker 1: of my life I was leaning in my masculine energy,
Speaker 1: just being having three brothers, like just being in the
Speaker 1: streets playing ball, et cetera, et cetera. When I finally
Speaker 1: tuned into my feminine energy, it was a real beautiful
Speaker 1: discovery and so I really do my best to bounces it.
Speaker 1: Now with that comes a lot of people who are
Speaker 1: attracted to the light, who bring light, but also people
Speaker 1: who bring that dark energy as well. And we can't
Speaker 1: overlook the dark energy. But in the spiritual community and
Speaker 1: the wellness holistic lifestyle community, whether it's the festivals, the conferences,
Speaker 1: or the retreats, there's still a lot of that surface
Speaker 1: layer toxic Goddess energy, toxic God energy, which is not
Speaker 1: necessarily a negative thing because God is multidimensionality. Goddess is multidimensionality.
Speaker 1: We can be so clean and pristine, but at the
Speaker 1: same time humans can be filthy and dirty, and so
Speaker 1: is balance and duality in all things. But when that
Speaker 1: comes up, especially when I'm dealing with it from the
Speaker 1: masculine and energy, I advocate for myself. I speak up
Speaker 1: on it. But then it's like she's starting a gender war.
Speaker 1: But it's like, no, all I'm doing is holding this
Speaker 1: energy accountable and having a real conversation. So, because I
Speaker 1: feel a certain type of way, I'm hurt based on
Speaker 1: your behaviors or action, other women are hurt based on
Speaker 1: your behaviors and actions. So can we bring certain conversations
Speaker 1: to the forefront of our culture to really talk about
Speaker 1: stuff that's deeper than the surface layer so that we
Speaker 1: can move forward and move beyond it. Because yes, there
Speaker 1: is what you said, the God is toxic culture. But
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, how do we Okay, this is what
Speaker 1: it is and it's going to always be a part
Speaker 1: of it. But I think that us raising those questions
Speaker 1: as to what it is to hold ourselves accountable, because
Speaker 1: we all should be showing up with a top tier
Speaker 1: or mindset, a top tier or way of integrity. And
Speaker 1: how we deal with each other and how we speak
Speaker 1: to each other and move with each other. I think
Speaker 1: that is important. So I'm glad you brought that up.
Speaker 1: Maybe that makes sense, Maybe it doesn't. Maybe it's just
Speaker 1: organic wine. Organic line is hitting.
Speaker 2: Yes, So, Lizzie, we asked our community, our tribe. We
Speaker 2: told them we were having you back on the show,
Speaker 2: and we had a few questions.
Speaker 1: Okay for real, Yes, let's see what they got.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. How does how do you stay inspired?
Speaker 2: And what does inspire you?
Speaker 1: How do I stay inspired? And what inspires me? I
Speaker 1: love beautiful men. I love taking long romantic walks to
Speaker 1: the bank. I love titty rubs, I love listening to
Speaker 1: good music. I love just you know, just indulging in
Speaker 1: like the beautiful, sweet things in life. That's what inspires me.
Speaker 1: I always try to find inspiration and everything around me.
Speaker 1: You said, what inspires me?
Speaker 2: And what inspires you? And what do you How do
Speaker 2: you stay inspired?
Speaker 1: Okay? I stay inspired by honestly, you know, and I
Speaker 1: say this a lot in my music. But the fact
Speaker 1: that we woke up today, the fact that we got
Speaker 1: another opportunity to just breathe and enjoy life, is enough
Speaker 1: reason for me to be inspired. It don't matter what
Speaker 1: kind of day I had yesterday, who I had to
Speaker 1: curse out with my how far somebody's tush, I had
Speaker 1: to break my foot off? You feel me? It doesn't
Speaker 1: matter what happened yesterday, last week, earlier today. The fact
Speaker 1: that I woke up and I'm breathing, that's enough inspiration
Speaker 1: for me to go and get it. And I find
Speaker 1: inspiration in books and music and people and the way
Speaker 1: I dress, you feel me, and how I cook my food.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, come on, cook. I would love to
Speaker 1: cook for y'all that. I would love that because that's
Speaker 1: one of my love languages, is preparing alkaline, delicious, delectable,
Speaker 1: highly vibrational, inspirational meals from my homies. Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do that. Okay, when y'all get back, is that our
Speaker 1: six year anniversary?
Speaker 2: A Girls Sleep we have just had a girl sleepover
Speaker 2: the other night and it was so amazing. I had
Speaker 2: there was ten women at my house and almost I
Speaker 2: pretty much all spent the night. And I was like,
Speaker 2: I wasn't sure, like because I was like like my
Speaker 2: space by myself scorpioh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're very I mean I was. I was.
Speaker 2: I wanted to do it and I was happy to
Speaker 2: do it, and it got close to it and I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, ship, this is a big commitment that
Speaker 2: I've signed up for. And then I loved every second
Speaker 2: of it, just seeing like all my bitches just yeah,
Speaker 2: feeling sexy and cute. And then my girlfriend like it
Speaker 2: was her birthday and she really needed she really needed
Speaker 2: this girl's night, and we were all so happy to
Speaker 2: like spoil her and celebrate her and make her feel
Speaker 2: like the goddess that she is and remind her Like
Speaker 2: the moment she came in, it was like photos, sits
Speaker 2: your ass down, put these pajamas on, like we had.
Speaker 2: It was beautiful. It was very romantic, like we made
Speaker 2: it a very romantic evening and it was just like
Speaker 2: ten of us women and then we.
Speaker 1: Oh God is good, and then.
Speaker 2: We ate this beautiful dinner and then we had this
Speaker 2: miraculous idea to use all our best resources as podcasters
Speaker 2: and good moms to make be as.
Speaker 3: Live performers, to call live for live entertainment, which was
Speaker 3: in the form of a sexy man named Rico, who
Speaker 3: was the top notch, I mean honestly male male performer
Speaker 3: I've ever seen in you know, the last ten years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we God, actually a lot coming from you,
Speaker 1: because I know you've seen you.
Speaker 3: Go, I mean the male entertainment I haven't seen. Yeah,
Speaker 3: he is. And he came to us and from God.
Speaker 4: Literally towards us, literally with no hair on his shot
Speaker 4: rolled towards us, but it's open and he was just
Speaker 4: like mesmerizing me in Erica and I was like, we're
Speaker 4: on mushrooms and We're like, oh my goodness.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but probably all.
Speaker 2: And then we had this like this moment of this
Speaker 2: light bulb moment. We're like and right at the same time,
Speaker 2: like he needs to perform at our live show, needs
Speaker 2: the show. And I was like, I feel like he's
Speaker 2: gonna get the job done. And he told us he
Speaker 2: was from Vegas. And when he said Vegas, I knew it.
Speaker 2: I knew it was entertainment.
Speaker 3: He was almost like floating towards us like a mirage.
Speaker 1: He knew what he was doing.
Speaker 3: Anyway, he did a great job at the live show.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you were there.
Speaker 1: Okay, I was wondering, you know, you know, you know
Speaker 1: the vibes he was that was that's a beautiful man.
Speaker 1: I saw, I saw the moves and I said, okay,
Speaker 1: and y'all was really handling him.
Speaker 3: You usually handle it, y'all not. I mean, I was
Speaker 3: trying to hold my own. But you know what I
Speaker 3: realized at the moment. First, I was like, this is
Speaker 3: a really grown and sexy party, Like we've reached I
Speaker 3: was like, we lived our whole lives to just have
Speaker 3: another slumber party, have.
Speaker 2: Matching pajamas and curated dinners.
Speaker 3: But then when we had the golden idea to call Rico,
Speaker 3: I was like, I love that. This is my contribution.
Speaker 3: Like I love that I'm the bitch you can call
Speaker 3: the niggas. I'm like, oh, oh, the one, the one
Speaker 3: we could just give the money and he leave like
Speaker 3: I want to be.
Speaker 2: It was a beautiful adult transaction. It was our We
Speaker 2: came over, he was prepared, he got, he got He's
Speaker 2: like give me a glass of wine. All right, let's
Speaker 2: get to it. Boom.
Speaker 1: We made him a plate.
Speaker 2: It was action based.
Speaker 3: He got he got his he got his coins, and
Speaker 3: we got our entertainment.
Speaker 2: He went on and I was like, Wow, this is
Speaker 2: the most mature transaction.
Speaker 1: I love that for y'all.
Speaker 4: And I was like, we're the cool moms. We know,
Speaker 4: we know they don't entertainment. So if you, well, he's great.
Speaker 4: I think we should start selling this package.
Speaker 2: So if you want aek with the Rico experience, flash
Speaker 2: of Bougie.
Speaker 3: And you, we're bringing sleepovers back. Adult sleepovers are in.
Speaker 3: And if you want a good mom's curated birthday party,
Speaker 3: divorce party, bachelorette party, fuck it, it's just time to.
Speaker 1: Have a party party.
Speaker 3: Call us Pleasure Party.
Speaker 1: We're the pleasure.
Speaker 3: Party experts, experts, and.
Speaker 1: We can curate it for you. That's sexy, that's sensual.
Speaker 2: Pleasure party experts.
Speaker 1: I love that. I just updated my EVK today and
Speaker 1: I added a whole new section of pleasure parties, bachelor party,
Speaker 1: bachel rep private events, curations. Just because I've been really
Speaker 1: on one with my vixen's and all the different city
Speaker 1: this is so in line.
Speaker 2: Like, yes, this is, this is everything that you already know.
Speaker 1: I'm here for this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what were you gonna say? I'm not telling. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna tell the off camera. Okay, I respect that. Make
Speaker 3: sure you remember that.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 3: Me and Erica just were reminded recently. I mean, like,
Speaker 3: I know, we know that we're powerful manifestors, but I
Speaker 3: think sometimes God will like sprinkle some shit on you.
Speaker 3: Just see your remember who the fuck you are. Of course,
Speaker 3: and likely we were here the other day. We spoke
Speaker 3: someone up who's previously been on the show, and literally
Speaker 3: moments later, like minutes later, he walked by the sidewalk
Speaker 3: and I said, She's like, isn't that it was nineteen
Speaker 3: Keys And he's like the nineteen She's like, we're like
Speaker 3: nineteen nineteen, like fucking night, crazy people.
Speaker 1: And he I was like, oh my god, that's crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Literally, we don't talk about nineteen Keys every day,
Speaker 3: but this particular afternoon and I was like, we gotta
Speaker 3: shut the fuck up. I mean, it was great weat
Speaker 3: to see him, but in general, you know, I just
Speaker 3: want to remind we have to do affirmation. But if
Speaker 3: you think of any inspiration from what I'm about to say,
Speaker 3: just based on what we opened the show with Lizzie
Speaker 3: reminding us that we're goddesses. I just want to remind
Speaker 3: everybody else that you are also a goddess or a god,
Speaker 3: and everything that comes from you has vibration. Your every word,
Speaker 3: every energetic thought has vibration and is powerful.
Speaker 1: That's why you have the power.
Speaker 3: But oftentimes we forget that and we'd be thinking negative shit,
Speaker 3: saying whack shit, not remind like looking at our friends
Speaker 3: and like damn, she's fine, and not saying just simply damn,
Speaker 3: you're fine.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, you know, and just.
Speaker 3: Forgetting to say the thing because it's a muscle we
Speaker 3: have to exercise. But as magical goddess bitches, I just
Speaker 3: I need everyone, Queen's everyone, to just remind yourself how
Speaker 3: powerful you are. And by utilizing your power and your frequency,
Speaker 3: you remind your sisters and your lovers and your kids
Speaker 3: to do the same thing, and so that we can
Speaker 3: create a world that is constantly frequently frequencies of love,
Speaker 3: which brings me to my outfit today. Yes, preach this
Speaker 3: outfit almost gohead, go ahead, e love right from.
Speaker 2: You're not drunk, We're not high.
Speaker 8: We're not high.
Speaker 1: I mean I'm you're for it.
Speaker 3: This is from our good friend Gilly who is in
Speaker 3: Persvieho our second home. This is his line called love
Speaker 3: is the Answer.
Speaker 2: I love Gilly and he looks so cute on the top,
Speaker 2: it's very cute.
Speaker 1: I customize it. It looks so cute.
Speaker 3: Here's a lot of different like looks. But I mean ship,
Speaker 3: love is the answer, and I think we forget that
Speaker 3: love is the answer. Loving ourselves, loving each other, loving
Speaker 3: each other out loud, loving ourselves out loud and in loud.
Speaker 3: I just made them very loud like that.
Speaker 1: I just made that.
Speaker 2: It's just so smart.
Speaker 8: You're a genius.
Speaker 1: That means a voice.
Speaker 2: I got it.
Speaker 1: You look good like in nineties. Yeah, that's what I
Speaker 1: was thinking to. Definitely like a moth to the flag
Speaker 1: by the fire.
Speaker 6: That's the way love goes.
Speaker 1: That's the way I love goes. Let's go get your
Speaker 1: shells on you guys. Love goes, it goes, it goes, right,
Speaker 1: I know that's right.
Speaker 3: Orlando's hit That's what I Love goes. That's like literally
Speaker 3: my favorite song of all time. That reminds me of
Speaker 3: nineteen ninety five.
Speaker 1: That's a good one.
Speaker 2: My stepdad in that music video.
Speaker 1: I never show you.
Speaker 2: I can't see I have the dreadlocks. He's like Jranet's
Speaker 2: like massaging his head.
Speaker 1: And now you're a video of BIXW.
Speaker 2: It's in the family line, powerful legacy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to look out for him.
Speaker 3: Maybe we could just like lead out the episode with
Speaker 3: that song. Maybe we could just sneak and just like
Speaker 3: we can, we'll do it. Maybe we put our own
Speaker 3: vocals over it. They won't get that's true. That's fine.
Speaker 3: But before we started, before my four rants, you picked
Speaker 3: a card.
Speaker 1: I did, wait, ladies, do we have affirmation?
Speaker 2: Affirmation?
Speaker 6: Hm?
Speaker 8: Hm, oh okay for me?
Speaker 1: Oh ship, that was a good catch. Oh no, oh,
Speaker 1: my goodness, that's deep. That's abstract, that's abstract. I okay,
Speaker 1: my goodness. I am in alignment with my deepest desires.
Speaker 1: And when things try to distract me and knock me
Speaker 1: off my path, I am still focused. I am still
Speaker 1: guided and exactly where I need to be.
Speaker 3: And I let's see fit on a post.
Speaker 1: Oh shit, I was just okay, So tell me my affirmation.
Speaker 1: I am miraculous divine reflection of divinity.
Speaker 3: I am a miraculous divine reflection of divinity.
Speaker 1: When I look in the mirror. Look in the mirror,
Speaker 1: I see nothing but a luminous, luxurious and liberated goddess.
Speaker 3: Look in the mirror, but a luminous like, luxurious and
Speaker 3: liberated goddess.
Speaker 2: Liberated goddess, lurious, liberating.
Speaker 1: A paper towel.
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is going to Actually.
Speaker 3: That's no way, okay, right, as long as you're not
Speaker 3: stressed out, you know, I want to ask you you
Speaker 3: never seem stressed out.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's deep.
Speaker 2: I don't want to ask you, what are you? How
Speaker 2: the fuck are you floating all the time?
Speaker 3: I feel on ed.
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to hear that from somebody else because
Speaker 1: I'll be really all, you're tripping, y'all, But thank you
Speaker 1: for I'm glad you perceived that. I'm glad you perceive
Speaker 1: that because that means a little bit of the work
Speaker 1: that I do to remain stress free is working. But
Speaker 1: it's a journey. I just looking at my grandmother, my
Speaker 1: great grandmother, my mother, and the women that came before
Speaker 1: me in just the way that they had to deal
Speaker 1: with a high, high level of stress. Breath work is
Speaker 1: like one of the greatest assets, but also especially as
Speaker 1: melanated women, we process stress in so many unseen ways
Speaker 1: that even if we be like, no, I'm good, I'm good,
Speaker 1: I'm all right, I ain't tripping, I'm good. You mean
Speaker 1: I'm good, that's really just some toxic behavior patterns because
Speaker 1: we're not really good and we're telling ourselves we good.
Speaker 1: So then that stress accumulates in ourselves and we start
Speaker 1: dealing with those unseen illnesses emotional and spiritual. And so
Speaker 1: for me, although I, you know, do find myself having
Speaker 1: those moments of high intensity and emotional distress, I do,
Speaker 1: I just really do my best to breath work through it.
Speaker 1: You feel me, y'all doing an excellent job over there,
Speaker 1: breath work through it. That's the best. One of my
Speaker 1: young goddess homegirls. She like twenty two, and she knows
Speaker 1: you'd have thought she was ye, my guy, And I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: I wish I knew what you knew at twenty two.
Speaker 1: But she she always says her name, her previous name
Speaker 1: is haw Thora. She recently changed her name, but I
Speaker 1: would have to double verify her new name, but she
Speaker 1: always says Thora. No, it was her giving yeah, And
Speaker 1: this was a new season of oh yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm right Christina today. Yeah, okay, see it was a
Speaker 1: goddess name. I just can't remember in this moment because anyways,
Speaker 1: but she always says, I'm gonna breath work. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: cycle it out. I'm gonna cycle it out. So if
Speaker 1: anybody pisses her off, or if she eats like some
Speaker 1: fry food or something weird, she always says, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: cycle it out. And what she means is she's just
Speaker 1: gonna focus on her breathing and literally breathwork. And it
Speaker 1: does work like.
Speaker 2: It does throw up. I mean it can and it
Speaker 2: can do so many things.
Speaker 3: Even the awareness and the knowledge and this and the
Speaker 3: frequency of saying I'm about to cycle cycle it out
Speaker 3: and then thinking about like literally physically thinking about cycling
Speaker 3: it out of your body, the visualized like weaving the
Speaker 3: light in the sound. It's tantra Like that's literally how
Speaker 3: you do it. You consciously say I'm leaving this ship
Speaker 3: here and then I or move it out with your
Speaker 3: body or like literally physically with your mental push that
Speaker 3: shit out or meditate that shit out. But we underestimate
Speaker 3: our goddess power, and we forget that we have the
Speaker 3: power to do this shit, because that's what it means
Speaker 3: to be a goddess. I can alchemize and transmute anything.
Speaker 3: And so we stay still and we stay stuck and
Speaker 3: eat the whole fucking thing of ice cream and shit,
Speaker 3: and then we like drink and smoke and fuck and
Speaker 3: then we're like, we're fine. And then that trauma builds
Speaker 3: and builds and builds, and that generational trauma also builds
Speaker 3: when we're consciously because as black women, as melanated women,
Speaker 3: we're programmed to be like, I'm fine, I'm good, and
Speaker 3: then you're like, am I good? Like you don't even
Speaker 3: know if you're good or if you're bad because you
Speaker 3: haven't had the conversation with yourself.
Speaker 1: But actually reminding yourself that it's.
Speaker 3: Literally literally just saying, let me meet this issue in
Speaker 3: this emotion and then let.
Speaker 4: Meat a body sometimes do you want me to do it?
Speaker 2: Give me a word, what does it feel like?
Speaker 3: And even asking that's good, what can I do for you?
Speaker 3: How can I help you? How can I help you
Speaker 3: move this out? Literally letting the feeling come out and
Speaker 3: then literally looking at it, you know, and just just
Speaker 3: and not judging your because that's the hardest part.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm not even gonna apprehend you when I
Speaker 1: when I'm when I'm just in a in a I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm rarely in a rage. I can't even see you.
Speaker 1: I'm rarely. But but I I b ivy, I abby, okay, ivy.
Speaker 1: But I'm doing that because I'll go and have me
Speaker 1: a fresh coconut. Oh and I'm good. I'll go to
Speaker 1: I'll give me a I'll fresh press juice of ginger
Speaker 1: shot and that that that takes me up yo. The
Speaker 1: Arawhan Juice barm not they should send me a check
Speaker 1: for eve and just mentioning the name just now. But
Speaker 1: they're a juice bar. They have a coconut cloud smoothie
Speaker 1: with the coconut, the Blue Spire Allina coconut water, the dates,
Speaker 1: it's a vibe and stuff like that. It makes my
Speaker 1: cells rejuvenate. So when I need support emotionally and I
Speaker 1: just can't get over some shit a fuck boy did
Speaker 1: or said, or or a fuck girl did or said,
Speaker 1: and I'm just struggling a little bit emotionally, then I
Speaker 1: go to the rejuvenation of the cells and then that
Speaker 1: helps bring balance and restoration back to my mindset so
Speaker 1: that I can perceive forward into the next chapter of
Speaker 1: my greatness to live the life that I was called
Speaker 1: here to live.
Speaker 3: You feel me now, without any bumps, without any pullbacks,
Speaker 3: without being caught up on some shit that's really not
Speaker 3: for you anyway.
Speaker 1: It's not for me anyway. So I'm gonna continue to
Speaker 1: push forward. And I love being here. I love the questions,
Speaker 1: I love the conversation. I love the energy that y'all carry,
Speaker 1: And I'm really glad that you're shifting how you do
Speaker 1: things creatively while still staying in your creativity. You're setting
Speaker 1: an example for a lot of women to not do
Speaker 1: so much all the damn time to make things exclusive,
Speaker 1: to understand that your vibe is a vibe and sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta pay for that. You feel me sometimes you
Speaker 1: got to invest in that type of frequency to exist
Speaker 1: in this space with us, because the energy is not
Speaker 1: always free. So thank y'all for constantly showing me, leading
Speaker 1: the way uplifting other women. I resonate with your work
Speaker 1: so much. I think you're both amazing and beautiful women.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna always tell you this every time I see you.
Speaker 1: But more than anything, I'm just very inspired and honored
Speaker 1: to be in your presence, and I hope you continue
Speaker 1: selling your book. I hope you continue your friendship, longevity,
Speaker 1: more success, more pleasure, more dope, ass next level opportunities
Speaker 1: coming toward you. I wish all of that on you,
Speaker 1: and I'm excited for the next time we link up.
Speaker 1: So thank you so much. Yes, thank you. We love you.
Speaker 3: And it's always wonderful to have you here and to
Speaker 3: be in your presence and to hear your vibrations because
Speaker 3: they're strong.
Speaker 1: And they're powerful, powerful. Thank you, radiate, thank.
Speaker 2: You, speaking of vibrations.
Speaker 9: Yeah time, Okay, Lizzie, you pulled the King of Cups upright, right, upright.
Speaker 9: Emotionally balanced, compassionate, dimplomatic. The King of Cups represents mastery
Speaker 9: over the realms of emotion, creativity, and the unconscious. When
Speaker 9: this car turns up into tarot reading, you have gained
Speaker 9: control over your feelings and can accept them without allowing
Speaker 9: them to get the better of you. Even with when
Speaker 9: life throws you a curveball, you can draw on your
Speaker 9: emotional maturity and stability to help you navigate these challenges.
Speaker 9: You don't let things get to you, and you steer
Speaker 9: clear of the drama instead choosing an emotionally balanced, calm approach.
Speaker 9: The King of Cup embodies the perfect balance between the
Speaker 9: executive and the heart.
Speaker 2: Not only are you not only are you able to
Speaker 2: assess and manage the situation logically, but you can also
Speaker 2: draw upon your intuition and understanding of human interactions. As
Speaker 2: a leader, you care as much about achieving your goals
Speaker 2: and objectives as you do about making sure everyone is
Speaker 2: happy and engaged along the way. As a king, he
Speaker 2: is a masculine fatherly energy, and as a Cups card,
Speaker 2: he brings his emotional self to the forefront. He offers
Speaker 2: wise advice when it comes to feelings, emotions, creativity, and relationships,
Speaker 2: and can see the human dynamic in its entirety. The
Speaker 2: King of Cups is compassionate towards others, creating strong bonds
Speaker 2: and relationships based on patience and understanding. He may appear
Speaker 2: in your life as a mental tour coach, spiritual guide,
Speaker 2: or you may step into this role yourself.
Speaker 1: You are such a wonderful narrator. Your tone is just superb.
Speaker 1: Thank you for reading that. Thank you, I resonate with.
Speaker 2: I'm moving through the rest of this month with King
Speaker 2: of Cups energy. By the time you listen to this.
Speaker 2: I will be on retreat, so I will be moving
Speaker 2: with that energy, feminine energy though, but you are being diplomatic.
Speaker 2: We are hopefully holding space for the women so that
Speaker 2: they can disarm and I will, yes, yeah, so they
Speaker 2: can disarm and will.
Speaker 3: Be beach side in the warm weather, half naked, eating
Speaker 3: fresh fruit and real.
Speaker 2: Food, rejuvenating myself.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I love that for y'all. Lizzie, thank you
Speaker 1: for coming. Thank you.
Speaker 2: Where can we find you? Where can the people find Cush?
Speaker 1: Thank you for asking. They can find me at the
Speaker 1: next Zen and Cush, which will be the Zen and
Speaker 1: Cush Fest in New Orleans this June, and then we're
Speaker 1: gonna run it back in December in Miami. But for
Speaker 1: the most part, I exist on all the music streaming
Speaker 1: platforms at Lizzie Jeff, l I, z z y, j e,
Speaker 1: f F, social media, all of that. My new album,
Speaker 1: my new EP, Cush, Clouds and Coconut Water, is set
Speaker 1: to release on two to two, but right now it's
Speaker 1: actually available for the exclusive pre release via my website
Speaker 1: at Lizzijeff dot com and also the link in my bio.
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful it's a beautiful body of work. It's
Speaker 1: just a real special, smooth, medicinal, sensuous, but raw and
Speaker 1: vulnerable expression of what I've been moving through over these
Speaker 1: last few months, over this last year. And it's it
Speaker 1: is raw, but it's also uplifting and encouraging and inspiring,
Speaker 1: and I'm just so happy to be sharing it with
Speaker 1: the world. So that's Cush Clouds and Coconut Water. So
Speaker 1: that'll be coming out on two two to hold y'all
Speaker 1: over until the next Zen and Cush experience takes place.
Speaker 1: But let's stay connected, let's keep building, let's keep growing,
Speaker 1: And most importantly, this is something I always tell myself.
Speaker 1: But if it's one thing you kept with me, if
Speaker 1: you kept that you kept with yourself. From this conversation,
Speaker 1: I just hope that everybody floats out of this conversation
Speaker 1: feeling a little bit more inspired, more rejuvenated in their purpose,
Speaker 1: but also with the reminder to remember to just take
Speaker 1: care of yourselves. It's a lot going on in the world,
Speaker 1: and it's important that we do dive in to those
Speaker 1: rituals of deep self care to really navigate these interesting
Speaker 1: times and most importantly, stay hydrated. L i z z
Speaker 1: y j e Ff is up. I love y'all, appreciate y'all.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, make sure you check us out. We are official
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Speaker 3: In order to find us and you guys, our season
Speaker 3: will be ending in a couple of weeks, and so
Speaker 3: if you want to get Good Moms off season, you
Speaker 3: have got to sign up for Patreon. There's a lot
Speaker 3: of uncensored, unreleased bonus content over there and we will
Speaker 3: be talking and chatting. We're on Discord. We're going on
Speaker 3: tour in March and April, so look out for a
Speaker 3: city near you and in order to find us on
Speaker 3: Good Mom's Underscore, Bad Choices, I Love You, Love You Bye.
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