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Speaker 1: What's Up Tribe.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mila, and this is Good Mom's

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Speaker 2: Bad Choices Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Beach season two.

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Speaker 3: If you joined us for season one, you got three

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Speaker 3: hundred uncensored episodes.

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Speaker 2: But things are a little different in twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 2: Not only are we having new guests, new segments, but

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Speaker 2: we're going outside, y'all. We're getting out of our studio

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Speaker 2: and podcasting in the wild, So make sure you check

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Speaker 2: us out on YouTube to see where we're headed next.

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Speaker 3: This podcast is for all the good moms, all the

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Speaker 3: good dads, and even y'all hain't got no kids.

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Speaker 1: Pull up.

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Speaker 3: Join us in season two as we deep dive into

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Speaker 3: even more uncensored topics like love, sex.

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Speaker 2: Dating, and just look at this as the ultimate group chat.

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Speaker 2: All the shit you're afraid to say out loud or

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Speaker 2: even try, We say.

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Speaker 3: It and do it for you because nothing's off limits here.

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Speaker 2: This is a judgment free zone to show up exactly

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Speaker 2: as you are, and let's be honest, we've all made

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Speaker 2: a few bad choices, so sit back, relax, and enjoy

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Speaker 2: the ride.

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Speaker 3: HM Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica

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Speaker 3: and I'm Mela. And it's Wednesday, bitches, Happy Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: I just got a new bowl, I see, and I've

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Speaker 2: been playing with it, trying to master the Tibetan singing bowls.

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Speaker 2: I figure since I'm in the Tibetan lineage, contry schools

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Speaker 2: also tap into the Tibetan sounds darting.

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Speaker 1: It's all related.

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Speaker 2: They're kind of harder to play than the crystal like

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Speaker 2: to keep it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've tried, and I was not good, and I

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Speaker 4: thought I kind of got to get some speed on it.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I had a good bowl.

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Speaker 3: And also it is there's an art, you know, there's

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Speaker 3: frequency to all sound.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Should we ground down for a second.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do that.

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Speaker 3: So some ground down and take some deep breath yeah,

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Speaker 3: mm hmmm.

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Speaker 5: Let's take a deep breath.

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Speaker 6: In mm hm, take.

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Speaker 5: Another deep breath in, release, take another deep breath then.

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Speaker 2: And release.

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Speaker 6: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 3: At least for sound. If you feel called moaning, feeling pleasure.

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Speaker 1: That felt good. I needed that too.

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Speaker 3: Well, anyway, back to the regular scheduled program. This is

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Speaker 3: Mela on the ones and twos and my co hosts

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Speaker 3: here Erica, Love e Love on the Sambals. You're listening

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Speaker 3: to good Reports seven good good moms. Hey, this is

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Speaker 3: Kimberley and I would just like to dedicate the next

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Speaker 3: song to my man.

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Speaker 1: Who gets out in twelve months.

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Speaker 3: His name is Carl, and I just want to say, Kyl,

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Speaker 3: I love you, and this is my song to you.

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Speaker 3: The Isley Brothers featuring R Kelly. Shut up, I didn't

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Speaker 3: cheat on you, and I can't wait till.

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Speaker 1: You get home. Thank you, Kelly, Thank you for coming forever.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, we have a very special guest tonight too.

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Speaker 2: If you wait, if you can't tell who it is,

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Speaker 2: just based on well, they can't even see the set

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Speaker 2: right now, can they are? From one angle? They can

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Speaker 2: cut to the angle where you can see the set. Orlando,

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Speaker 2: look at those roses. You know who is here? Can

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Speaker 2: you tell? Oh? Yeah, you see her. We have the incomparable,

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Speaker 2: the beautiful, the Goddess, the rat priestress herself, Lizzie, motherfucking

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Speaker 2: Jeff founder.

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Speaker 3: Of insert claps. Oh my goodness, this is where the

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Speaker 3: clubs come in.

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Speaker 1: Once again. It is a honor to sit in the

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Speaker 1: presence of two real life goddesses. Powerhouses, confident women, mothers, muses, inspirations,

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Speaker 1: of that. It's just so beautiful and I'm honored. So

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Speaker 1: thank you to pleasure is all mine for real. Thank you,

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Speaker 3: I always you know, when you come through, I always

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Speaker 3: feel you, like so on the soul level. Tonight's a

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Speaker 3: And of course it always happens that way. So we're

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Speaker 3: here men infesting, drinking some organic wine because only drink organic.

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Speaker 3: But thank you every time I'm in your presence, because

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Speaker 1: That's powerful. I receive it. It's a good season for

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Speaker 1: It feels like it. I've been really on my path

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Speaker 1: So it's always so beautiful for it to be perceived

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Speaker 3: I feel like you sprinkling magic wherever you go every

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Speaker 1: It feels good. Thank you deserve it.

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Speaker 3: like all past leading to all past lead to you,

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Speaker 3: And I'd like to also the term like all past

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Speaker 3: same as all pastly to you, because we are God,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're reclaiming it.

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Speaker 3: And so now it's like you speak to me and

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Speaker 1: It was a beautiful breakdown break Like you can study

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Speaker 1: This is like a check in, a checkpoint, a rendezvous

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Speaker 2: Did I did? Speaking of goddess energy and just like

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Speaker 2: I think when I look at you online, like you

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Speaker 2: you always exude that, and like you said, like there

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Speaker 2: So what does Lizzie Jeff do when she's trying when

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Speaker 1: And that's the beauty of being a woman. That's the

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like activating the senses is like such

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Speaker 2: It's like a personal desire that then I can extend

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Speaker 2: that comes with the red road, I feel like, but activates.

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Speaker 2: And I think it's important to like, for the goddesses listening,

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Speaker 2: I just feel like overall roses, But I feel like

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Speaker 2: That's like the hardest part of all is like remembering

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Speaker 3: You have to reach for it, though, but if you're

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Speaker 3: so suck in it, it's hard to reach for it.

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Speaker 1: That's so important. I like that you said.

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Speaker 3: That, you know, like you let yourself you know, sometimes

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Speaker 3: there's a there's a rationality, So you're you're you're you're open,

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Speaker 3: Then you can like say, all right, now, I'm but

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Speaker 3: And but it's also like you have to you have

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Speaker 3: allowing yourself to feel it's a balance, there's a balance.

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Speaker 3: But I find myself cutting the feeling off immediately justifying

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Speaker 3: People are like really going through some shit you over here,

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you some you made me think think

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Speaker 3: Like I would what I expect and want them to

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Is there like one person that you can feel

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Speaker 3: I think it's Erica and Orlando.

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Speaker 3: I think like mostly I know I can go with

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Speaker 1: That's deep. I was thank you for sharing. I was

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Speaker 3: And I think I've come to realize that a lot

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Speaker 1: That's not maybe in my.

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Speaker 3: Nature what I what I what I actually crave is

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Speaker 2: and they have no boundaries at all.

438
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 1: I feel like it goes both ways. That's true.

439
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 3: That's true.

440
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 1: So you said there's self with other people, but brutal

441
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:02,679
Speaker 1: with themselves. Now, I'll admit I be tripping sometimes I'll

442
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: be tripping, but it comes with I feel like when

443
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 1: you wear a crown, which we all do, and when

444
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: you step into a particular position of leadership where people

445
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: rely or come to you or inspired by it does

446
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: make you care a little bit more. But at the

447
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: same time, it's like, that's why the authenticity part, that's

448
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: why being true to yourself and who you are is vital,

449
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 1: so that nothing or no one's expectations of you. I

450
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: see you oil in your eyes, looking at your.

451
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 3: Breath, I'm just like taking it like like yeah, like

452
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,360
Speaker 3: even I'm sure even as being as goddess as we are,

453
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 3: as vulnerable as we are showing up, which to someone

454
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 3: else may seem as very bold, you know, like those

455
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 3: titties are out her, She's say, right, she's sucked about second.

456
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 3: You know, there's all these perceptions of what that looks

457
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 3: like and ill we all have suffered from.

458
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: Is this too much? Right? Is this too much? Is

459
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 1: this too much?

460
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 3: Am I too much?

461
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 2: Do you think that there is a toxic goddess culture, a.

462
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: T gc toxic god? I feel like, of course culture duality.

463
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 3: Can you give me some examples of toxic goddess culture?

464
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 2: Well, people that aren't really like it's not like that way,

465
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 2: they don't believe themselves. They're they're not really doing the work,

466
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,679
Speaker 2: you really believe themselves. They're not. They're not doing shadow work.

467
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: They're not even if they're not, they're not doing ship

468
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 2: They're I'm respecting themselves, but posting. I don't know. I

469
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: just feel like there's just I feel like in any

470
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 2: genre of whatever the fuck label toxic toxic version of.

471
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 3: It, well, because there's toxic people and there's healed people,

472
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 3: and so there's gonna in any in any walk of life,

473
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 3: there's going to be the good and the bad multidimensionality.

474
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Speaker 1: But I'm glad you brought it up because I will

475
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: admit I.

476
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:04,719
Speaker 2: Like I've met the toxic.

477
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: Here's what I go ahead to say. I'm not even

478
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: trying to say what I'm trying to say, But what

479
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is because anything I say, I

480
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 1: stand on it. But with my particular music and lifestyle

481
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: and body of work, I'm really I consider myself, you know,

482
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 1: a og. I consider myself a real nigga. You feel me.

483
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all probably gotta bleep that out, but maybe

484
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: you know. But just how I was raised, who I

485
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: was raised by the time, the geographic location, and most

486
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: of my life I was leaning in my masculine energy,

487
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: just being having three brothers, like just being in the

488
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: streets playing ball, et cetera, et cetera. When I finally

489
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: tuned into my feminine energy, it was a real beautiful

490
00:28:55,600 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: discovery and so I really do my best to bounces it.

491
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: Now with that comes a lot of people who are

492
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 1: attracted to the light, who bring light, but also people

493
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: who bring that dark energy as well. And we can't

494
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: overlook the dark energy. But in the spiritual community and

495
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: the wellness holistic lifestyle community, whether it's the festivals, the conferences,

496
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: or the retreats, there's still a lot of that surface

497
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: layer toxic Goddess energy, toxic God energy, which is not

498
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: necessarily a negative thing because God is multidimensionality. Goddess is multidimensionality.

499
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: We can be so clean and pristine, but at the

500
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: same time humans can be filthy and dirty, and so

501
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:54,479
Speaker 1: is balance and duality in all things. But when that

502
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: comes up, especially when I'm dealing with it from the

503
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: masculine and energy, I advocate for myself. I speak up

504
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 1: on it. But then it's like she's starting a gender war.

505
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: But it's like, no, all I'm doing is holding this

506
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: energy accountable and having a real conversation. So, because I

507
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: feel a certain type of way, I'm hurt based on

508
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:25,239
Speaker 1: your behaviors or action, other women are hurt based on

509
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: your behaviors and actions. So can we bring certain conversations

510
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: to the forefront of our culture to really talk about

511
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: stuff that's deeper than the surface layer so that we

512
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: can move forward and move beyond it. Because yes, there

513
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: is what you said, the God is toxic culture. But

514
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, how do we Okay, this is what

515
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: it is and it's going to always be a part

516
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: of it. But I think that us raising those questions

517
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: as to what it is to hold ourselves accountable, because

518
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: we all should be showing up with a top tier

519
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: or mindset, a top tier or way of integrity. And

520
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: how we deal with each other and how we speak

521
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: to each other and move with each other. I think

522
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,479
Speaker 1: that is important. So I'm glad you brought that up.

523
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: Maybe that makes sense, Maybe it doesn't. Maybe it's just

524
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 1: organic wine. Organic line is hitting.

525
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 2: Yes, So, Lizzie, we asked our community, our tribe. We

526
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 2: told them we were having you back on the show,

527
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 2: and we had a few questions.

528
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: Okay for real, Yes, let's see what they got.

529
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. How does how do you stay inspired?

530
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 2: And what does inspire you?

531
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: How do I stay inspired? And what inspires me? I

532
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: love beautiful men. I love taking long romantic walks to

533
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 1: the bank. I love titty rubs, I love listening to

534
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: good music. I love just you know, just indulging in

535
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: like the beautiful, sweet things in life. That's what inspires me.

536
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: I always try to find inspiration and everything around me.

537
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: You said, what inspires me?

538
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 2: And what inspires you? And what do you How do

539
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 2: you stay inspired?

540
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: Okay? I stay inspired by honestly, you know, and I

541
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: say this a lot in my music. But the fact

542
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 1: that we woke up today, the fact that we got

543
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 1: another opportunity to just breathe and enjoy life, is enough

544
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: reason for me to be inspired. It don't matter what

545
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: kind of day I had yesterday, who I had to

546
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: curse out with my how far somebody's tush, I had

547
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: to break my foot off? You feel me? It doesn't

548
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: matter what happened yesterday, last week, earlier today. The fact

549
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: that I woke up and I'm breathing, that's enough inspiration

550
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: for me to go and get it. And I find

551
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: inspiration in books and music and people and the way

552
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: I dress, you feel me, and how I cook my food.

553
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, come on, cook. I would love to

554
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: cook for y'all that. I would love that because that's

555
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: one of my love languages, is preparing alkaline, delicious, delectable,

556
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: highly vibrational, inspirational meals from my homies. Okay, I'm gonna

557
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: do that. Okay, when y'all get back, is that our

558
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: six year anniversary?

559
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: A Girls Sleep we have just had a girl sleepover

560
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 2: the other night and it was so amazing. I had

561
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: there was ten women at my house and almost I

562
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 2: pretty much all spent the night. And I was like,

563
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 2: I wasn't sure, like because I was like like my

564
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 2: space by myself scorpioh.

565
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're very I mean I was. I was.

566
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 2: I wanted to do it and I was happy to

567
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 2: do it, and it got close to it and I

568
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 2: was like, oh, ship, this is a big commitment that

569
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: I've signed up for. And then I loved every second

570
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 2: of it, just seeing like all my bitches just yeah,

571
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 2: feeling sexy and cute. And then my girlfriend like it

572
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: was her birthday and she really needed she really needed

573
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 2: this girl's night, and we were all so happy to

574
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: like spoil her and celebrate her and make her feel

575
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: like the goddess that she is and remind her Like

576
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 2: the moment she came in, it was like photos, sits

577
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 2: your ass down, put these pajamas on, like we had.

578
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 2: It was beautiful. It was very romantic, like we made

579
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 2: it a very romantic evening and it was just like

580
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: ten of us women and then we.

581
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 1: Oh God is good, and then.

582
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 2: We ate this beautiful dinner and then we had this

583
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 2: miraculous idea to use all our best resources as podcasters

584
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 2: and good moms to make be as.

585
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 3: Live performers, to call live for live entertainment, which was

586
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 3: in the form of a sexy man named Rico, who

587
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 3: was the top notch, I mean honestly male male performer

588
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 3: I've ever seen in you know, the last ten years.

589
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we God, actually a lot coming from you,

590
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 1: because I know you've seen you.

591
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 3: Go, I mean the male entertainment I haven't seen. Yeah,

592
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 3: he is. And he came to us and from God.

593
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 4: Literally towards us, literally with no hair on his shot

594
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 4: rolled towards us, but it's open and he was just

595
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 4: like mesmerizing me in Erica and I was like, we're

596
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 4: on mushrooms and We're like, oh my goodness.

597
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 3: I don't know, but probably all.

598
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 2: And then we had this like this moment of this

599
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,879
Speaker 2: light bulb moment. We're like and right at the same time,

600
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 2: like he needs to perform at our live show, needs

601
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: the show. And I was like, I feel like he's

602
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 2: gonna get the job done. And he told us he

603
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 2: was from Vegas. And when he said Vegas, I knew it.

604
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:39,240
Speaker 2: I knew it was entertainment.

605
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: He was almost like floating towards us like a mirage.

606
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: He knew what he was doing.

607
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 3: Anyway, he did a great job at the live show.

608
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you were there.

609
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: Okay, I was wondering, you know, you know, you know

610
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 1: the vibes he was that was that's a beautiful man.

611
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,240
Speaker 1: I saw, I saw the moves and I said, okay,

612
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 1: and y'all was really handling him.

613
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 3: You usually handle it, y'all not. I mean, I was

614
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 3: trying to hold my own. But you know what I

615
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 3: realized at the moment. First, I was like, this is

616
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 3: a really grown and sexy party, Like we've reached I

617
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 3: was like, we lived our whole lives to just have

618
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 3: another slumber party, have.

619
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 2: Matching pajamas and curated dinners.

620
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 3: But then when we had the golden idea to call Rico,

621
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 3: I was like, I love that. This is my contribution.

622
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 3: Like I love that I'm the bitch you can call

623
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 3: the niggas. I'm like, oh, oh, the one, the one

624
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 3: we could just give the money and he leave like

625
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 3: I want to be.

626
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 2: It was a beautiful adult transaction. It was our We

627
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 2: came over, he was prepared, he got, he got He's

628
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 2: like give me a glass of wine. All right, let's

629
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 2: get to it. Boom.

630
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: We made him a plate.

631
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 2: It was action based.

632
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 3: He got he got his he got his coins, and

633
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 3: we got our entertainment.

634
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 2: He went on and I was like, Wow, this is

635
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 2: the most mature transaction.

636
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: I love that for y'all.

637
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 4: And I was like, we're the cool moms. We know,

638
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 4: we know they don't entertainment. So if you, well, he's great.

639
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 4: I think we should start selling this package.

640
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 2: So if you want aek with the Rico experience, flash

641
00:36:58,600 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: of Bougie.

642
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 3: And you, we're bringing sleepovers back. Adult sleepovers are in.

643
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 3: And if you want a good mom's curated birthday party,

644
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 3: divorce party, bachelorette party, fuck it, it's just time to.

645
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: Have a party party.

646
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 3: Call us Pleasure Party.

647
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 1: We're the pleasure.

648
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 3: Party experts, experts, and.

649
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 1: We can curate it for you. That's sexy, that's sensual.

650
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 2: Pleasure party experts.

651
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: I love that. I just updated my EVK today and

652
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: I added a whole new section of pleasure parties, bachelor party,

653
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: bachel rep private events, curations. Just because I've been really

654
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Speaker 1: on one with my vixen's and all the different city

655
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: this is so in line.

656
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 2: Like, yes, this is, this is everything that you already know.

657
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: I'm here for this.

658
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, what were you gonna say? I'm not telling. I'm

659
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 3: gonna tell the off camera. Okay, I respect that. Make

660
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 3: sure you remember that.

661
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 2: Listen.

662
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 3: Me and Erica just were reminded recently. I mean, like,

663
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 3: I know, we know that we're powerful manifestors, but I

664
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 3: think sometimes God will like sprinkle some shit on you.

665
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 3: Just see your remember who the fuck you are. Of course,

666
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 3: and likely we were here the other day. We spoke

667
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 3: someone up who's previously been on the show, and literally

668
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 3: moments later, like minutes later, he walked by the sidewalk

669
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,280
Speaker 3: and I said, She's like, isn't that it was nineteen

670
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 3: Keys And he's like the nineteen She's like, we're like

671
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 3: nineteen nineteen, like fucking night, crazy people.

672
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: And he I was like, oh my god, that's crazy.

673
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeah. Literally, we don't talk about nineteen Keys every day,

674
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 3: but this particular afternoon and I was like, we gotta

675
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 3: shut the fuck up. I mean, it was great weat

676
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 3: to see him, but in general, you know, I just

677
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 3: want to remind we have to do affirmation. But if

678
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: you think of any inspiration from what I'm about to say,

679
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 3: just based on what we opened the show with Lizzie

680
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,720
Speaker 3: reminding us that we're goddesses. I just want to remind

681
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 3: everybody else that you are also a goddess or a god,

682
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:54,720
Speaker 3: and everything that comes from you has vibration. Your every word,

683
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 3: every energetic thought has vibration and is powerful.

684
00:38:58,680 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: That's why you have the power.

685
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 3: But oftentimes we forget that and we'd be thinking negative shit,

686
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 3: saying whack shit, not remind like looking at our friends

687
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: and like damn, she's fine, and not saying just simply damn,

688
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 3: you're fine.

689
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 1: Yeah right, you know, and just.

690
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 3: Forgetting to say the thing because it's a muscle we

691
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 3: have to exercise. But as magical goddess bitches, I just

692
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 3: I need everyone, Queen's everyone, to just remind yourself how

693
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 3: powerful you are. And by utilizing your power and your frequency,

694
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 3: you remind your sisters and your lovers and your kids

695
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 3: to do the same thing, and so that we can

696
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 3: create a world that is constantly frequently frequencies of love,

697
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 3: which brings me to my outfit today. Yes, preach this

698
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 3: outfit almost gohead, go ahead, e love right from.

699
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: You're not drunk, We're not high.

700
00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 8: We're not high.

701
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: I mean I'm you're for it.

702
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 3: This is from our good friend Gilly who is in

703
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 3: Persvieho our second home. This is his line called love

704
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 3: is the Answer.

705
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,959
Speaker 2: I love Gilly and he looks so cute on the top,

706
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: it's very cute.

707
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 1: I customize it. It looks so cute.

708
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 3: Here's a lot of different like looks. But I mean ship,

709
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 3: love is the answer, and I think we forget that

710
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 3: love is the answer. Loving ourselves, loving each other, loving

711
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 3: each other out loud, loving ourselves out loud and in loud.

712
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 3: I just made them very loud like that.

713
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: I just made that.

714
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 2: It's just so smart.

715
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 8: You're a genius.

716
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 1: That means a voice.

717
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 2: I got it.

718
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: You look good like in nineties. Yeah, that's what I

719
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: was thinking to. Definitely like a moth to the flag

720
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: by the fire.

721
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,760
Speaker 6: That's the way love goes.

722
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: That's the way I love goes. Let's go get your

723
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 1: shells on you guys. Love goes, it goes, it goes, right,

724
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 1: I know that's right.

725
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 3: Orlando's hit That's what I Love goes. That's like literally

726
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 3: my favorite song of all time. That reminds me of

727
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 3: nineteen ninety five.

728
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: That's a good one.

729
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 2: My stepdad in that music video.

730
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: I never show you.

731
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 2: I can't see I have the dreadlocks. He's like Jranet's

732
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 2: like massaging his head.

733
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: And now you're a video of BIXW.

734
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 2: It's in the family line, powerful legacy.

735
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to look out for him.

736
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 3: Maybe we could just like lead out the episode with

737
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: that song. Maybe we could just sneak and just like

738
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 3: we can, we'll do it. Maybe we put our own

739
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 3: vocals over it. They won't get that's true. That's fine.

740
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 3: But before we started, before my four rants, you picked

741
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 3: a card.

742
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: I did, wait, ladies, do we have affirmation?

743
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 2: Affirmation?

744
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 6: Hm?

745
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 8: Hm, oh okay for me?

746
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,959
Speaker 1: Oh ship, that was a good catch. Oh no, oh,

747
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: my goodness, that's deep. That's abstract, that's abstract. I okay,

748
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 1: my goodness. I am in alignment with my deepest desires.

749
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: And when things try to distract me and knock me

750
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: off my path, I am still focused. I am still

751
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: guided and exactly where I need to be.

752
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 3: And I let's see fit on a post.

753
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: Oh shit, I was just okay, So tell me my affirmation.

754
00:42:54,840 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: I am miraculous divine reflection of divinity.

755
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 3: I am a miraculous divine reflection of divinity.

756
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: When I look in the mirror. Look in the mirror,

757
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: I see nothing but a luminous, luxurious and liberated goddess.

758
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 3: Look in the mirror, but a luminous like, luxurious and

759
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 3: liberated goddess.

760
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 2: Liberated goddess, lurious, liberating.

761
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 1: A paper towel.

762
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is going to Actually.

763
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 3: That's no way, okay, right, as long as you're not

764
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 3: stressed out, you know, I want to ask you you

765
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 3: never seem stressed out.

766
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,360
Speaker 1: Wow, that's deep.

767
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to ask you, what are you? How

768
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 2: the fuck are you floating all the time?

769
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 3: I feel on ed.

770
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to hear that from somebody else because

771
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: I'll be really all, you're tripping, y'all, But thank you

772
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 1: for I'm glad you perceived that. I'm glad you perceive

773
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: that because that means a little bit of the work

774
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: that I do to remain stress free is working. But

775
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 1: it's a journey. I just looking at my grandmother, my

776
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: great grandmother, my mother, and the women that came before

777
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:29,919
Speaker 1: me in just the way that they had to deal

778
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 1: with a high, high level of stress. Breath work is

779
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: like one of the greatest assets, but also especially as

780
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 1: melanated women, we process stress in so many unseen ways

781
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: that even if we be like, no, I'm good, I'm good,

782
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm all right, I ain't tripping, I'm good. You mean

783
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm good, that's really just some toxic behavior patterns because

784
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 1: we're not really good and we're telling ourselves we good.

785
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: So then that stress accumulates in ourselves and we start

786
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: dealing with those unseen illnesses emotional and spiritual. And so

787
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: for me, although I, you know, do find myself having

788
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: those moments of high intensity and emotional distress, I do,

789
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: I just really do my best to breath work through it.

790
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: You feel me, y'all doing an excellent job over there,

791
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: breath work through it. That's the best. One of my

792
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: young goddess homegirls. She like twenty two, and she knows

793
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: you'd have thought she was ye, my guy, And I'm like, damn,

794
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: I wish I knew what you knew at twenty two.

795
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,839
Speaker 1: But she she always says her name, her previous name

796
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: is haw Thora. She recently changed her name, but I

797
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: would have to double verify her new name, but she

798
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 1: always says Thora. No, it was her giving yeah, And

799
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 1: this was a new season of oh yeah, I'm not

800
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm right Christina today. Yeah, okay, see it was a

801
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: goddess name. I just can't remember in this moment because anyways,

802
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 1: but she always says, I'm gonna breath work. I'm gonna

803
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 1: cycle it out. I'm gonna cycle it out. So if

804
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: anybody pisses her off, or if she eats like some

805
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: fry food or something weird, she always says, I'm gonna

806
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: cycle it out. And what she means is she's just

807
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: gonna focus on her breathing and literally breathwork. And it

808
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: does work like.

809
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 2: It does throw up. I mean it can and it

810
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: can do so many things.

811
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 3: Even the awareness and the knowledge and this and the

812
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 3: frequency of saying I'm about to cycle cycle it out

813
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 3: and then thinking about like literally physically thinking about cycling

814
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 3: it out of your body, the visualized like weaving the

815
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,399
Speaker 3: light in the sound. It's tantra Like that's literally how

816
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 3: you do it. You consciously say I'm leaving this ship

817
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 3: here and then I or move it out with your

818
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 3: body or like literally physically with your mental push that

819
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 3: shit out or meditate that shit out. But we underestimate

820
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 3: our goddess power, and we forget that we have the

821
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,320
Speaker 3: power to do this shit, because that's what it means

822
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 3: to be a goddess. I can alchemize and transmute anything.

823
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 3: And so we stay still and we stay stuck and

824
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 3: eat the whole fucking thing of ice cream and shit,

825
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 3: and then we like drink and smoke and fuck and

826
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 3: then we're like, we're fine. And then that trauma builds

827
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 3: and builds and builds, and that generational trauma also builds

828
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 3: when we're consciously because as black women, as melanated women,

829
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 3: we're programmed to be like, I'm fine, I'm good, and

830
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 3: then you're like, am I good? Like you don't even

831
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 3: know if you're good or if you're bad because you

832
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 3: haven't had the conversation with yourself.

833
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 1: But actually reminding yourself that it's.

834
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 3: Literally literally just saying, let me meet this issue in

835
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:54,720
Speaker 3: this emotion and then let.

836
00:47:54,600 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 4: Meat a body sometimes do you want me to do it?

837
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 2: Give me a word, what does it feel like?

838
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 3: And even asking that's good, what can I do for you?

839
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 3: How can I help you? How can I help you

840
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 3: move this out? Literally letting the feeling come out and

841
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 3: then literally looking at it, you know, and just just

842
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 3: and not judging your because that's the hardest part.

843
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm not even gonna apprehend you when I

844
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,839
Speaker 1: when I'm when I'm just in a in a I mean,

845
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm rarely in a rage. I can't even see you.

846
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm rarely. But but I I b ivy, I abby, okay, ivy.

847
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 1: But I'm doing that because I'll go and have me

848
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: a fresh coconut. Oh and I'm good. I'll go to

849
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: I'll give me a I'll fresh press juice of ginger

850
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: shot and that that that takes me up yo. The

851
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 1: Arawhan Juice barm not they should send me a check

852
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 1: for eve and just mentioning the name just now. But

853
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: they're a juice bar. They have a coconut cloud smoothie

854
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 1: with the coconut, the Blue Spire Allina coconut water, the dates,

855
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: it's a vibe and stuff like that. It makes my

856
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 1: cells rejuvenate. So when I need support emotionally and I

857
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: just can't get over some shit a fuck boy did

858
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: or said, or or a fuck girl did or said,

859
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: and I'm just struggling a little bit emotionally, then I

860
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:34,399
Speaker 1: go to the rejuvenation of the cells and then that

861
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: helps bring balance and restoration back to my mindset so

862
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: that I can perceive forward into the next chapter of

863
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: my greatness to live the life that I was called

864
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: here to live.

865
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 3: You feel me now, without any bumps, without any pullbacks,

866
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 3: without being caught up on some shit that's really not

867
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 3: for you anyway.

868
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: It's not for me anyway. So I'm gonna continue to

869
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: push forward. And I love being here. I love the questions,

870
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: I love the conversation. I love the energy that y'all carry,

871
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: And I'm really glad that you're shifting how you do

872
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Speaker 1: things creatively while still staying in your creativity. You're setting

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Speaker 1: an example for a lot of women to not do

874
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Speaker 1: so much all the damn time to make things exclusive,

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Speaker 1: to understand that your vibe is a vibe and sometimes

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Speaker 1: you gotta pay for that. You feel me sometimes you

877
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: got to invest in that type of frequency to exist

878
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: in this space with us, because the energy is not

879
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Speaker 1: always free. So thank y'all for constantly showing me, leading

880
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Speaker 1: the way uplifting other women. I resonate with your work

881
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 1: so much. I think you're both amazing and beautiful women.

882
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna always tell you this every time I see you.

883
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Speaker 1: But more than anything, I'm just very inspired and honored

884
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Speaker 1: to be in your presence, and I hope you continue

885
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Speaker 1: selling your book. I hope you continue your friendship, longevity,

886
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: more success, more pleasure, more dope, ass next level opportunities

887
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: coming toward you. I wish all of that on you,

888
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Speaker 1: and I'm excited for the next time we link up.

889
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Speaker 1: So thank you so much. Yes, thank you. We love you.

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Speaker 3: And it's always wonderful to have you here and to

891
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,879
Speaker 3: be in your presence and to hear your vibrations because

892
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 3: they're strong.

893
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 1: And they're powerful, powerful. Thank you, radiate, thank.

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Speaker 2: You, speaking of vibrations.

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Speaker 9: Yeah time, Okay, Lizzie, you pulled the King of Cups upright, right, upright.

896
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Speaker 9: Emotionally balanced, compassionate, dimplomatic. The King of Cups represents mastery

897
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Speaker 9: over the realms of emotion, creativity, and the unconscious. When

898
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,320
Speaker 9: this car turns up into tarot reading, you have gained

899
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Speaker 9: control over your feelings and can accept them without allowing

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Speaker 9: them to get the better of you. Even with when

901
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 9: life throws you a curveball, you can draw on your

902
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 9: emotional maturity and stability to help you navigate these challenges.

903
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Speaker 9: You don't let things get to you, and you steer

904
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Speaker 9: clear of the drama instead choosing an emotionally balanced, calm approach.

905
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Speaker 9: The King of Cup embodies the perfect balance between the

906
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Speaker 9: executive and the heart.

907
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Speaker 2: Not only are you not only are you able to

908
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 2: assess and manage the situation logically, but you can also

909
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 2: draw upon your intuition and understanding of human interactions. As

910
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 2: a leader, you care as much about achieving your goals

911
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 2: and objectives as you do about making sure everyone is

912
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Speaker 2: happy and engaged along the way. As a king, he

913
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Speaker 2: is a masculine fatherly energy, and as a Cups card,

914
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Speaker 2: he brings his emotional self to the forefront. He offers

915
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Speaker 2: wise advice when it comes to feelings, emotions, creativity, and relationships,

916
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Speaker 2: and can see the human dynamic in its entirety. The

917
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Speaker 2: King of Cups is compassionate towards others, creating strong bonds

918
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Speaker 2: and relationships based on patience and understanding. He may appear

919
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 2: in your life as a mental tour coach, spiritual guide,

920
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: or you may step into this role yourself.

921
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Speaker 1: You are such a wonderful narrator. Your tone is just superb.

922
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 1: Thank you for reading that. Thank you, I resonate with.

923
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 2: I'm moving through the rest of this month with King

924
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 2: of Cups energy. By the time you listen to this.

925
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 2: I will be on retreat, so I will be moving

926
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Speaker 2: with that energy, feminine energy though, but you are being diplomatic.

927
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 2: We are hopefully holding space for the women so that

928
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 2: they can disarm and I will, yes, yeah, so they

929
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 2: can disarm and will.

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Speaker 3: Be beach side in the warm weather, half naked, eating

931
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 3: fresh fruit and real.

932
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 2: Food, rejuvenating myself.

933
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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I love that for y'all. Lizzie, thank you

934
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Speaker 1: for coming. Thank you.

935
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Speaker 2: Where can we find you? Where can the people find Cush?

936
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Speaker 1: Thank you for asking. They can find me at the

937
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Speaker 1: next Zen and Cush, which will be the Zen and

938
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Speaker 1: Cush Fest in New Orleans this June, and then we're

939
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: gonna run it back in December in Miami. But for

940
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: the most part, I exist on all the music streaming

941
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Speaker 1: platforms at Lizzie Jeff, l I, z z y, j e,

942
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Speaker 1: f F, social media, all of that. My new album,

943
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: my new EP, Cush, Clouds and Coconut Water, is set

944
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: to release on two to two, but right now it's

945
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:42,840
Speaker 1: actually available for the exclusive pre release via my website

946
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Speaker 1: at Lizzijeff dot com and also the link in my bio.

947
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful it's a beautiful body of work. It's

948
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: just a real special, smooth, medicinal, sensuous, but raw and

949
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 1: vulnerable expression of what I've been moving through over these

950
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: last few months, over this last year. And it's it

951
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: is raw, but it's also uplifting and encouraging and inspiring,

952
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: and I'm just so happy to be sharing it with

953
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 1: the world. So that's Cush Clouds and Coconut Water. So

954
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,720
Speaker 1: that'll be coming out on two two to hold y'all

955
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Speaker 1: over until the next Zen and Cush experience takes place.

956
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:30,720
Speaker 1: But let's stay connected, let's keep building, let's keep growing,

957
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 1: And most importantly, this is something I always tell myself.

958
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Speaker 1: But if it's one thing you kept with me, if

959
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 1: you kept that you kept with yourself. From this conversation,

960
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Speaker 1: I just hope that everybody floats out of this conversation

961
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Speaker 1: feeling a little bit more inspired, more rejuvenated in their purpose,

962
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Speaker 1: but also with the reminder to remember to just take

963
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 1: care of yourselves. It's a lot going on in the world,

964
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Speaker 1: and it's important that we do dive in to those

965
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 1: rituals of deep self care to really navigate these interesting

966
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Speaker 1: times and most importantly, stay hydrated. L i z z

967
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Speaker 1: y j e Ff is up. I love y'all, appreciate y'all.

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Speaker 1: Good Mom Mom, Goodbye.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, make sure you check us out. We are official

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Speaker 2: Lizzie Jeff Video Models, Video Fixens.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, check check.

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Speaker 3: In order to find us and you guys, our season

973
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Speaker 3: will be ending in a couple of weeks, and so

974
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Speaker 3: if you want to get Good Moms off season, you

975
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Speaker 3: have got to sign up for Patreon. There's a lot

976
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Speaker 3: of uncensored, unreleased bonus content over there and we will

977
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Speaker 3: be talking and chatting. We're on Discord. We're going on

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Speaker 3: tour in March and April, so look out for a

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Speaker 3: city near you and in order to find us on

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Speaker 3: Good Mom's Underscore, Bad Choices, I Love You, Love You Bye.

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Speaker 7: This is a.

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