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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you

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Speaker 1: here it is, Thank you, nephew. Subject she's been a

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Speaker 1: cheater since high school. Wait till you hear this one,

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in love with a woman that

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Speaker 1: has carried herself like a garden tool all of her life.

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Speaker 1: In other words, she's been loose since high school when

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Speaker 1: we started dating. I dated her into my early twenties,

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Speaker 1: and after we broke up, I found out that she

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Speaker 1: cheated multiple times. Here we are fifteen years later, and

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Speaker 1: she's married now, and she's cheating on her husband with me.

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Speaker 1: I have a connection with this woman, and I can

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Speaker 1: finally will admit after years of fighting it, I am

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Speaker 1: in love with her. I don't know how to shake

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Speaker 1: her if she stays away from me for too long.

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Speaker 1: I want our I watch her sex videos just so

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Speaker 1: I can see her. It's not like her to turn

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Speaker 1: has even texted her husband back or took his call

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Speaker 1: while we were making love. So now that she is

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Speaker 1: and I realize that I want to be with her.

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Speaker 1: We've always talked about being together one day, and she

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Speaker 1: wants a divorce, but I haven't pushed it because of

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Speaker 1: her garden tool tendencies, and I'm afraid she may not

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Speaker 1: be a good wife. All of our old friends know

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Speaker 1: our history and they say I'm a fool for us

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Speaker 1: still dealing with her. I'm the only man in her

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Speaker 1: life besides her husband now, so I try to defend

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Speaker 1: her when the Fellas tease me. She says we would

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Speaker 1: be inseparable, but we need a fresh start in a

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Speaker 1: I feel the same way. Stephen Shirley. Should I trust her?

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Speaker 1: As men, some of us act like dogs and our

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Speaker 1: garden toolish and it's never held against us by the

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Speaker 1: women that love us. Deep down, I know she's a

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Speaker 1: really good woman. I just want to know if i'd

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Speaker 1: be making a big mistake. Should I just let this go? Yes,

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Speaker 1: you would be making a big mistake. Yes, she's making

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Speaker 1: love to you, but taking calls from her husband, and

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Speaker 1: she would be doing the same thing with you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know what they say, you cannot turn a garden

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Speaker 1: tool into a housewife. They say it all the time.

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Speaker 1: So so please, you gotta stop being just a fool

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Speaker 1: in love at this point. And that's not to say

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Speaker 1: that people can't change, because people can change, just not her.

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Speaker 1: Just not her. She's not the one that can change.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't believe she really wants

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Speaker 1: to change. I believe she's just telling you that because

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Speaker 1: that's what she's got to tell you. She's in the

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Speaker 1: say to you. I mean, she said she wants a divorce.

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Speaker 1: She's got to say something to keep to string you along.

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Speaker 1: But even just say you know that you guys did

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Speaker 1: get together. How would you trust her? Why would you

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Speaker 1: trust her? You've you've seen what she's capable of. I

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Speaker 1: just don't get it. I mean, she's cheated on you before,

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Speaker 1: she's cheating on her husband with you. She's just a cheater.

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Speaker 1: I mean, and you guys know it, the friends know it.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows it. She's a cheater. And I think you'd

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Speaker 1: don't think she's a woman for you, Steve Man, the

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Speaker 1: subject alone. She's been a cheatah says high school you

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Speaker 1: since high school. That right there. Now, I'm in love

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Speaker 1: her whole life. What? How? How? What? I don't even

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Speaker 1: understand that line right there, right then, she's been loose

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Speaker 1: So right right here, the letter shit stop, but you

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Speaker 1: got more. I have a connection with this woman, and

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Speaker 1: shake her dog. This is simple. You whipped. You is

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Speaker 1: with the whole damn letter right right now, when Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey is in here making love. You can't answer phones.

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Speaker 1: I don't care, show can't tax You might can grab

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Speaker 1: be doing a Texas But well, how would they answer, though, Steve?

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Speaker 1: This is if they answer the phone of it? Yeah, ye,

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Speaker 1: holy right there Wait a minute, Wait a minute. Part

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Speaker 1: two of Steve's response, coming up to twenty three on

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Speaker 1: the day's strawberry letter, She's been a cheater since high school.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Steve's response coming up right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on,

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Speaker 1: Let's recap today's strawberry letters. She's been a cheater since

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Speaker 1: high school. This dude and fell in love with this

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Speaker 1: crazy edge girl Chill Garden two. They dated in high

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Speaker 1: school up until they twenties, broke up, find out that

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Speaker 1: she had cheated on him several times. Fifteen years later,

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Speaker 1: she's now married, and she cheating on her husband with me.

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Speaker 1: I got a connection with the woman after yea. I

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Speaker 1: can't fight it. I'm in love with I don't know

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Speaker 1: how to shake her well. I found that that's CAUSEY whipped.

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Speaker 1: I can't reach it. Bothers me if she stays away

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Speaker 1: I could see her. It's not like her to turn

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Speaker 1: was making love. I shut that down, but that's not

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Speaker 1: what we're doing up in here. You're not texting. Nobody's

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Speaker 1: right now, I'm somethings gonna be happening, and talking ain't

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Speaker 1: really that good? Hello, that's what I want to hear. Phone,

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Speaker 1: So you're not asking the phone? Why are we making love?

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Speaker 1: But I ain't because of her holish tendencies. And I'm

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Speaker 1: old tricks, dude, just her tricks. She cheating on her

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Speaker 1: now not because of her holish tendencies. I'm afraid she

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Speaker 1: holishness it is now. Holishness is not good for women,

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Speaker 1: just the old Dale said, holishness is not good for women's, No, ma'am,

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Speaker 1: it is not so. Now. All our friends know our history,

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Speaker 1: Now that's probably not true. I don't know how you

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Speaker 1: the Fellas tease me, Doc half the Fellas, that's teasing.

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