WEBVTT - EP 464: Jezebels 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:05.160 So everyone believes that my my reasoning for not wanting 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:08.760 to be married is rooted in trauma and heartbreak. 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:10.920 No, to me, it's rooted in reality. 0:00:11.119 --> 0:00:13.000 To me, it's rooted in and to me, it's also 0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:16.000 no different than if someone's already been married and they say, 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:17.479 you know what, I don't want to go through that again. 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:21.720 To me, I've been in that situation to where the 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:24.239 person that I had of friendship with, that I love 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:27.240 that at the end was on and came after my 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:31.400 fucking livelihood, came after my money. Society is more accepting 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:37.120 of a cheating husband than a relationship that's open, bitch. 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:39.479 And that's the That's the truth of it. 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:41.839 We are still in a place that we have to 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:44.280 unlearn so much, but we are still at a place 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.599 where not where we're not welcoming to other dynamics of. 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:55.520 Love, decisions decisions. 0:00:56.320 --> 0:01:04.080 Every Lady is not an episode of decisions decisions. I'm 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:06.759 your girl, Mandy b aka Peg the Saalion aka Peggy 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:10.280 Bundy aka that Bitch, and my. 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:11.120 Name is Weezy. 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:15.679 I'm living a glamorous life like first class under the sky. 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:19.280 Let me tell you what song is that Fergie, But 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:22.560 under the sky that's a that's a lyric I've been 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:25.040 in the sky. 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:27.600 I was like, bitch, what song is that? Hello? 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:30.039 Okay, by the way, I'm mad that you just did 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:33.760 that because I sent you the meme of me uh 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:35.639 out of the old Nammy. 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:38.600 You got me the crown and the missionary. 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:42.280 Okay, and I said, she said, who's supposed to be? 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:44.240 I said, bitch, me, I messed up the whole lyrics. 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.280 So I love that you just messed up Fergie. 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:48.520 Okay said, then let's cut it out. 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:52.080 So basically this song said Okay, I was talking to 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:54.040 a slight attendant, a just Mandy, and I just started 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:56.360 talking about Delta and it's just like oh, I was like, yo, i' 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:58.880 mssa spill this tea for the girls on a flight. 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:02.240 How to get a sugar daddy? Okay, Oh, this is 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:04.640 how we're starting. We're starting out hot, yeah, because I'm 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:08.919 a Jezebel so wow. And then guys, we might get 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:11.680 into a little bit of therapy on this fucking j 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:13.359 word that's so our ketchup. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:15.639 Oh so let me tell you why I made the 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:17.160 first class joke in his Delta story. 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:19.840 So I'm coming back from LA and it's fresh on 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:21.120 my brain because it's two days ago. 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:22.919 There's a guy in front of me. 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:27.200 He got on the plane late, but while he was 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:29.640 walking on, I don't know why, but I just knew 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:30.680 he was in first class. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:35.200 You don't just know. Okay, real quick, what color was he? 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:37.280 This is the white guy, I know it was. Do 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:39.799 not do that? No, no, the white guy. 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:41.679 I know when someone black is in first class too. 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.720 And we gonna have this conversation because that I have 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:44.400 with the flight attendant. 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:45.720 They're very problematic out the gate. 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:48.079 I know every single type of first I don't know why, 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:48.600 but I know why. 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:51.040 I don't like that, because I feel like niggas still 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.040 be looking surprised when I go into first class. 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:54.880 I don't look like a first class nigga. I don't 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:55.360 like nandy. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.880 I'm telling you the formula of this bitch had that 0:02:57.919 --> 0:02:58.920 the flight attendant gave me. 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:01.240 Let me know, she'll just be looking different. Okay, let 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:01.400 me know. 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.200 So the white guy that came on looked disheveled but 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:04.880 had a suit on. 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:08.040 Wait, I'd be looking dishoveled. He looked shovel had a 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:09.440 suit on. He had on. 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:14.680 Uh ramoa bag. We know those are expensive that illuminum. 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:16.800 I've been asking so many niggas I'm not worth it. 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:19.040 I had like, how expensive are we talking? 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:23.840 Hundred dollars for the carry on? Oh? Yeah, like, and 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:27.280 it's silver. I'll just keep my away carry hold on. 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:32.000 You're gonna keep your away, I'm going to keep my burlington. 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:37.200 Excuse me, listen, you should okay. 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:40.360 So, but he had on a hat that said yacht 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:43.480 club something, so he sits down right for I'm like, oh, 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:43.920 I knew it. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:44.440 I knew it. 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:49.400 Throughout the flight, the flight attendant, white blonde girl. He 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:50.720 keeps saying, I can't. 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:52.240 Hear what he's saying. Oh excuse me. 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:54.720 He keeps pulling her handpiliner and polinary, and then finally 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:56.360 I see out of her mouth. 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:59.200 No I work tonight, I work later. Sorry. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:01.880 I was like, and I'm like, let me just go 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:04.839 be Bessie. So I go to the bathroom. I was like, girl, 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:06.240 I seen him trying to talk to you, and she's like, 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:08.240 oh my god. She's like, I'm not even supposed to 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:09.880 talk about that with you. I can't talk about other people. 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:10.240 I'm playing. 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:11.840 But she was like, but you must want to right now, 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:14.640 And I was like, yo. He looks like a fucking rich, 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:18.400 rich piece of shit. She's like, dude, he was saying 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:20.320 so many things to me that I just found inappropriate. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.200 She said, every time he pressed the call button, it 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.520 was for nothing. It was for a pack of gummy bears, 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:26.160 it was for chips, it was for exercise. 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:31.240 Bitch, that's something I know. I'm a ring the motherfucker 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:32.720 light with some gummy bears. 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:36.000 I would too, having a mid flight wanting for gummy 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:37.760 bears is weird, though, beer. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:39.600 You know what I asked for him, A little salted chips. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:43.960 They'd be good of the miss Vickish, the miss Vickie, bitch. 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:46.640 I don't know who Vicky is. That whole gum bear. 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:51.359 That wop put her foot in them chips and they salted. Bitch, 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:54.720 a sweet salt coll Why do you want to be 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:55.240 me so bad? 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:57.880 But you want to be me popcorn? Oh bitch, that 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:01.000 was me. They do that last night. But what I. 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:04.040 Do is the miss biggest salt chips and the little 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:08.880 mischion mischial something cookies. Okay, they're a mission something. What's 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:11.240 the best cob, No, they're not the best cars. Do 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:12.640 the one in him like he looks I don't know, 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:14.960 you look like an ain't cookies. They're the ones with 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:16.120 the chocolate. 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:22.840 In the center. You don't know that the they're. 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:24.840 In the pink packaging on the plane, they have the 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:26.320 chocolate in the center. 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:33.560 What the fuck? They're so delicious, someone's gonna screaming. Okay, 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:36.040 so here's the first class tea. Let's first class tea. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.400 Let's so, I said to her, he. 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.640 Looks like he's about to do fucking cocaine all night 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.360 and go to jail. And she was like, I know, 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:45.120 there's a look that people just have when I can 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:48.640 tell that they're wealthy. She said, I can also tell 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:51.400 who's in first class or not. I can always tell. 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:54.440 I was like, yo, I have a podcast about about sex. 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:54.760 Shit. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.520 You gotta tell me because I gotta tell the girls. 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:59.160 She was, actually, I knew you were in first class. 0:05:59.880 --> 0:06:01.320 I want to tell y'all what I had on and 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.200 what was crazy about her saying this, Let me see, 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:04.680 let me see if I got it in my clothes. 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:08.360 So she said, oh, no, I was wearing my travel outfit. 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:10.880 It's Aritzia sweatpant, black and black hoodie. 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:11.520 Whatever. 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:15.960 She said, the way you got on the plane, you 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.159 didn't need to know where your seat was. When you 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:19.919 sat in your seat, I asked you if you want it? 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:20.560 She said, Oh. 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:22.479 She's like, there's an attitude of the person. She said, 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:26.120 you didn't even want champagne. You didn't pull your phone out. 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:27.800 There's a lot like to take a picture. There's a 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:29.440 lot of things you did that let me know. Oh, 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.520 she must be a frequent flyer. She's like, but when 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:35.000 you walked on the plane, there was something about your attitude, 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.479 the way you wore your clothes. She was like, maybe 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:42.039 how your luggage was positioned. And also sometimes people just 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:44.600 really look cool and a little bit different. 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:47.320 They said, you look cool, and you look cool. No, no, 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.880 fucking piercing, I mean you you know what I mean. 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:58.280 I was going to say, under my hoodie, you cunt. 0:06:58.560 --> 0:06:59.880 I was wearing a. 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:05.840 Palestine Oh, stop killing Palestinian. 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:07.119 Shirt girl on the plane. 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:09.240 No, that's why she had a hoodie on, because they 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:11.000 will they will kill Palestinians. 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:12.560 No, I know, Oh, they will take her off. I 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:13.200 just understand that. 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.320 The pla and Nina's like sitting on top of the 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:17.080 luggage and I think the dog. 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:18.360 I mean the dog, the dog. 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:21.360 You have a fucking little tiny parasolsan dogs. That's the 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:22.400 point witch, of course. 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:27.040 So wait, I was like, yo, that's crazy, because there's 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:29.360 sometimes where I feel like I'm not dressing up enough 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:31.520 for first class. She goes, you know, when I really 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:33.360 know she's a bitch, She was like, you know, and 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.240 I really know the girls have never been She's like, 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:37.280 when they're almost too dressy. She's like, I meet a 0:07:37.280 --> 0:07:39.400 lot of hot girls on the way to LA or 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.320 New York, and I know they're with somebody rich, and 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:44.240 they're almost so dressed up for first class that I 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:45.040 know they're there. 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:47.880 To take pics. And so maybe they know. But because 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.760 bitch looking like a ball. So she said, there's different art. 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:53.320 But I do order a membosa, bitch, and you better 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:54.760 have my drunk before we leave this one. 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:56.560 Wait, Panta, she. 0:07:56.640 --> 0:08:00.840 Said, when you see the sweat suit, she's like in 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:03.560 a combo of expensive accessories, She's like, four eeks. Oh 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:05.760 I do that, she said, men and women, she said, 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.920 even like it could be the air what is it. 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:10.440 Over the ear? Not the airphones? 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:14.520 Headphones, She's like expensive headphones, the luggage, which she's like, 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:15.400 not a lot of branding. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:18.040 She says, they have a very clean look with the sweatsuit. 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:26.600 So you've been there. Everything looks very clean. But then first. 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:29.840 Off, omfoue to be comfortable but apparently not too comfortable. 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.720 You see you see Tampa, but you have a fucking duffle. 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:34.920 Do you see Tampa with no more pajamas? 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:36.880 No? I kind of understand that a little bit. 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.240 I do do it so I hate that ship white people, okay, 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:41.319 but I like black people. 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:42.960 Or this is racist a little bit. 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:45.680 Sorry, No, it's not white white white trash. I've been 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:46.240 seeing it white. 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.440 But it's like now they could dictate our sweats to 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:49.880 be but John. 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:52.440 It's not only sweats but even the budget airlines. 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:58.319 At a home girl who got denied like boarding because 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:01.679 she had on a little cross top leggings too tight 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:03.960 and she looked like a wore. And they said, the 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:05.480 only way you can pour this is if you go 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.920 get a hoodie right now, otherwise we're denying you border. 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:11.640 But you also can't go on the on an airplane 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:15.200 looking like you just left the strip club either, like they. 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:17.480 Look like you on the decorum. Oh okay, there's the 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:18.280 other archetypes. 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:22.520 She's like when someone's extremely hot, she's like that girl 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:23.280 sitting behind you. 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:27.880 Oh wait, that's why they know. Girl sitting behind me 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:30.160 was fucking the. 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:34.760 Bitch had on raggedy clothes, jawnline, crazy sexy ass bob 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:39.040 like the bitch was. She was like, there's also and 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:41.560 she's like, I fly out of Atlanta Airport a lot, 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:44.400 and she's like, there's a look. 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:46.600 When it comes to jewelry and. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:50.520 A southern aesthetic, she was like, is an urban aesthetic. 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:52.960 It just is what it is. She was like, that's 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:54.439 different from cheap jewelry. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:57.280 She was like, the watch could be simple, the glasses 0:09:57.320 --> 0:10:00.960 are expensive. She was like, I've seen flight attendants say 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:03.480 someone's ghetto and blah blah blah, and they're fucking millionaires. 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:06.600 They're owning, like so many different restaurants in Atlanta they're owning, 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.080 they have they'd be in different airport hangers. She was like, 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:12.400 they different. She talked about the batty aesthetic. She's like, 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:14.960 every time I see like you know, when the butt 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:16.680 is very overdone. I was like, the bb all, yeah, 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:21.079 if I see that and they don't have like what 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:26.160 she say she didn't say. I can't remember what she said. 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.760 The BBL had to go with some but she's like 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:31.800 they always She's like, when their hair looks really pretty 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:33.600 and they have on big glasses and a little. 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:35.600 Lip glass, they do this, okay, she said. 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:39.560 If it's white men, she said, I really see white 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:41.199 men dressed down in first class. 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:42.880 They're typically corporate. 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:46.040 And depending on they are, she said, on the early flights, 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:48.280 they're in a suit. She's like, if a white guy's 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:51.480 dressed casual and looks cool, she's like a lot of tattoos. 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:55.280 Sometimes tell me maybe first class artistic production, She's like, 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.599 and then everyone else in between is just forgettable. 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.400 Oh yeah, I think that's exactly how it is. 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:05.040 But she said that so many people are forgettable, and 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:07.200 the ones that she has to double take, she said, 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:08.040 almost eight out. 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:08.760 Of ten or first class. 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:11.719 She's like, some people just I could serve them a 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.719 hundred times and forget who they are. 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:15.640 And then there's some people to stick out to me, 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:16.800 and those are the ones. 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.440 And I was like, you know what, to me, that 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:23.440 also speaks volumes as to like the attitude of confidence 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:23.920 a little bit. 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:26.199 It's so funny that you say that. I went to. 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:33.079 It was a bookstop for two chains yesterday with Deontay Coy. 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:36.880 Did you see jan No jan wasn't there, but with 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:39.400 him hurry it was so I got to see her. 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:43.920 And you know, what he allegedly talks about in his 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:49.520 book is how walking with confidence and being in rooms 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.880 like confidence is an energy that so many people lack, 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.559 but when you have it, no one can question you. 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:58.400 And he shared this funny story about going to like 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:04.040 All Star weekend or something and having tickets and he 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:05.559 walked on the court but he wasn't supposed to be 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:09.160 on the court, but niggas knew him, and he just 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:11.600 walked on the court to where someone tried to stop 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:14.520 him who worked there, And he said, my confidence was 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:14.920 so big. 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:17.040 I almost looked at him, like, nigga, what you doing here? 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:20.400 And clearly you worked there, But he was just like, 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:22.760 they's the thing about confidence that when you enter a 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:26.760 room that everyone actually acknowledges and it's so weird that 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:27.920 so many people don't have that. 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.319 And I when her and I started talking about confidence, right, 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:33.959 we then started talking about dating. We need her talking 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:36.240 about thirty minutes and she was like, there's just something 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:37.720 with the walk. She was like, I don't know, and 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.839 that's how when you aren't dressed well, She's like, oh, 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:43.440 dressed up. She's like, I just know. And she's like, 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:45.720 I don't even know if it's posture. And I was like, 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:47.679 so when you're dating, like can you get people's numbers 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:49.920 on plane? She's like, I can, it's allowed. I'm not 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:51.680 supposed to pull my phone out if I want to 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:52.400 like slip something. 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:56.200 It's not it's frowned upon. And she's like in for me. 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:57.520 I was like, so, do you always get the Delta 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:01.120 class niggas and Delta one niggas and she was like no, 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:04.920 She's like, sometimes it's the really hot, confident guy. She's like, 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:07.000 I've gotten guys who are just out for a bachelor 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:08.760 bachelor weekend and they all the way in the back 0:13:08.760 --> 0:13:11.320 in the middle. She was like, confidence is like striking 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:13.480 to me because what I've learned being a flight attendant 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:17.320 in a first class flight attendant as a seniority. Yeah, well, 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:19.320 how they do it, She's like, is how much money 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:22.439 people have and how much confidence they lack. 0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:24.280 The money gave them the confidence. 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:26.360 She's like, it's almost like if you stripped all the 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:29.280 way like the guy that was hitting on her, it's gone. 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:32.600 It's fucking gone. And she said, over the years she's 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:35.960 been seeing younger people. She's like first class. Years ago 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:38.640 was so like everyone in a suit. She was like, 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:40.880 now no one fucking cares her. 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:43.440 I mean the same as the NBA. Yeah, I'm not 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:46.560 gonna lie. I felt real old ago, like at All 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:47.400 Star weekend and. 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:51.040 I was like, where are the suits? Don't you miss 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:54.600 seeing the guys come down the thing in since girl, 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.080 that's the early two thousand, I know, but this is. 0:13:57.080 --> 0:14:00.280 Where I was just like, I'm miss seeing you know, 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:03.800 the little fine fine ship in some suits. Now they're 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:07.960 just wearing like outfice that make them look on the 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:13.520 spectrum of sexuality. You know, be giving me cool, That's 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:15.760 that's cool. I want a nigga in a suit, not 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:19.160 a nigga a skirt. You know, they be wearing skirt, 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:22.200 they be wearing leather pieces. I walk and I'm just like, 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:24.880 can we just get the boys back in suit? 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:28.360 Are we taking an issue of men wearing skirts? Not today? 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:33.120 We can't do this only you paint your nails? Wow? Wow? 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:37.600 Can we talk a little bit about confidence in work too? Oh? 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:40.840 I was gonna say how I lost all confidence this 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:42.800 last couple of weeks, But go ahead, we could talk 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:44.080 about being confident in work. 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:46.360 Oh no, I was just gonna say how a confidence 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:48.080 stripper ran me and goning to get through some money 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:48.960 in Atlanta before. 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:55.440 I got hold on hold she said, she said, confidence 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.640 is stripper. It's called manipulation. 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.600 We fight, you know, when you sit down and you 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:05.280 in there and he like he spot the bad bitches, right, 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:07.560 so we get the bad bage. 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:11.080 You were just in Atlanta, y'all went to Cheetah. 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:12.720 So we had dinner and we're like, all right, after 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:15.000 we eat, so the baddest bitch in there, we call 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:15.360 her over. 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:19.280 What was her name? Okay? I was making sure it 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:22.320 wasn't my my bitch? Who was her name? Mistress? Didn't 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:24.920 hear her that? Oh no, I got no, I don't 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:26.760 wait know, And now I feel bad because I'm about 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:32.960 to say bread because because what we love to do 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:33.520 is talk ship. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.360 Don't bleep the name of okay, so this particular don't 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:38.160 bleep on mistress. 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:38.680 That's my dog. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:43.120 Okay, y'all go see Cheeah BYU was about to close 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:44.720 and December, so get there before you came. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:45.960 I loved it. 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:50.600 So she comes over and she's like, hey, where are 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:55.640 y'all from? And whatever? Her energy is so fucking whack. 0:15:56.200 --> 0:16:00.840 And so she was like, oh cool, yeah, okay. 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:03.520 When didn't y'all want to yea? And so she did 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:04.160 sing on him. 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:09.840 Like yo, just fantasy ruined. She was smiling or whatever, 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:12.640 but just like shoulders down whatever. So then it's funny 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.600 girl come over wish I knew her name, and he 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:17.520 was like is she coming over here? And he's like, please, 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:19.440 don't let her come over here? And I was like, 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.920 sh comes over the table and she was like, what 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:23.960 y'all done eating? 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.160 I don't care my bitch and she said no, no, 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:32.040 this bitch wife, but you don't remember, oh my bitch 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:33.000 wag Okay. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.480 So she was like y'all done eating? What she was like, 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:37.560 so you ain't come for no dance? Don't play with me? 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:39.320 And I was like, oh, I kind of like a 0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:40.040 little attitude. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:42.160 I was like, fucking give him a dance. She was like, 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:44.320 because you want to watch I want to watch. 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:48.200 Me and oh yeah, no, definitely not my bitch. 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:51.680 And let me tell you, we're paying this bitch, paying bitch, 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:52.360 paying this bitch. 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:54.080 And when he left, when she left, he was like, yo, 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:57.720 we have a conversation about how fucking attitude will take 0:16:57.760 --> 0:16:58.560 you to a next level. 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:00.800 He's like, I will fund that all night over, that 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:01.840 bad bitch. I really would. 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:03.520 He was like, I need that ship in my life. 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:06.399 Like being surrounded with people that are the vibe. 0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:09.320 Okay, it just takes you up nine Chase. 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:13.720 I literally saw the first bitch and said, okay, let's 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:14.399 take out a thousand. 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:17.800 This bitch looked good. Fuck it, bro. When I saw 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:19.600 that other girl, wouldn't thought. How long were you out 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:22.720 there for? You? Like the ship club? You were there 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:28.520 five four hours? What's nine to twelve? Three? Bitch? You 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:33.679 were way off with the man. Why do when do 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:40.600 you come to the twelve nine, ten twelve phil? Five? No, 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:44.840 not five. I was in tech, you were in math whatever. 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:47.640 I was in a county of finance. Foot, bitch. You 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:49.960 just said nine to twelve was five hours. That's crazy. 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:52.000 I didn't have to use my fingers on my own life. Mind. 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:53.760 You you know who was out of six hour work? 0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:56.159 You know? You know who are really out for five hours? 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:56.560 That night? 0:17:56.720 --> 0:17:58.440 Me doing what? 0:17:59.320 --> 0:18:03.000