Speaker 1: So everyone believes that my my reasoning for not wanting
Speaker 1: to be married is rooted in trauma and heartbreak.
Speaker 2: No, to me, it's rooted in reality.
Speaker 1: To me, it's rooted in and to me, it's also
Speaker 1: no different than if someone's already been married and they say,
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want to go through that again.
Speaker 1: To me, I've been in that situation to where the
Speaker 1: person that I had of friendship with, that I love
Speaker 1: that at the end was on and came after my
Speaker 1: fucking livelihood, came after my money. Society is more accepting
Speaker 1: of a cheating husband than a relationship that's open, bitch.
Speaker 2: And that's the That's the truth of it.
Speaker 1: We are still in a place that we have to
Speaker 1: unlearn so much, but we are still at a place
Speaker 1: where not where we're not welcoming to other dynamics of.
Speaker 2: Love, decisions decisions.
Speaker 1: Every Lady is not an episode of decisions decisions. I'm
Speaker 1: your girl, Mandy b aka Peg the Saalion aka Peggy
Speaker 1: Bundy aka that Bitch, and my.
Speaker 2: Name is Weezy.
Speaker 3: I'm living a glamorous life like first class under the sky.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what song is that Fergie, But
Speaker 1: under the sky that's a that's a lyric I've been
Speaker 1: in the sky.
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, what song is that? Hello?
Speaker 1: Okay, by the way, I'm mad that you just did
Speaker 1: that because I sent you the meme of me uh
Speaker 1: out of the old Nammy.
Speaker 2: You got me the crown and the missionary.
Speaker 1: Okay, and I said, she said, who's supposed to be?
Speaker 1: I said, bitch, me, I messed up the whole lyrics.
Speaker 1: So I love that you just messed up Fergie.
Speaker 2: Okay said, then let's cut it out.
Speaker 3: So basically this song said Okay, I was talking to
Speaker 3: a slight attendant, a just Mandy, and I just started
Speaker 3: talking about Delta and it's just like oh, I was like, yo, i'
Speaker 3: mssa spill this tea for the girls on a flight.
Speaker 1: How to get a sugar daddy? Okay, Oh, this is
Speaker 1: how we're starting. We're starting out hot, yeah, because I'm
Speaker 1: a Jezebel so wow. And then guys, we might get
Speaker 1: into a little bit of therapy on this fucking j
Speaker 1: word that's so our ketchup.
Speaker 2: Oh so let me tell you why I made the
Speaker 2: first class joke in his Delta story.
Speaker 3: So I'm coming back from LA and it's fresh on
Speaker 3: my brain because it's two days ago.
Speaker 2: There's a guy in front of me.
Speaker 3: He got on the plane late, but while he was
Speaker 3: walking on, I don't know why, but I just knew
Speaker 3: he was in first class.
Speaker 2: You don't just know. Okay, real quick, what color was he?
Speaker 2: This is the white guy, I know it was. Do
Speaker 2: not do that? No, no, the white guy.
Speaker 3: I know when someone black is in first class too.
Speaker 3: And we gonna have this conversation because that I have
Speaker 3: with the flight attendant.
Speaker 2: They're very problematic out the gate.
Speaker 3: I know every single type of first I don't know why,
Speaker 3: but I know why.
Speaker 1: I don't like that, because I feel like niggas still
Speaker 1: be looking surprised when I go into first class.
Speaker 2: I don't look like a first class nigga. I don't
Speaker 2: like nandy.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you the formula of this bitch had that
Speaker 3: the flight attendant gave me.
Speaker 2: Let me know, she'll just be looking different. Okay, let
Speaker 2: me know.
Speaker 3: So the white guy that came on looked disheveled but
Speaker 3: had a suit on.
Speaker 2: Wait, I'd be looking dishoveled. He looked shovel had a
Speaker 2: suit on. He had on.
Speaker 3: Uh ramoa bag. We know those are expensive that illuminum.
Speaker 3: I've been asking so many niggas I'm not worth it.
Speaker 3: I had like, how expensive are we talking?
Speaker 2: Hundred dollars for the carry on? Oh? Yeah, like, and
Speaker 2: it's silver. I'll just keep my away carry hold on.
Speaker 2: You're gonna keep your away, I'm going to keep my burlington.
Speaker 2: Excuse me, listen, you should okay.
Speaker 3: So, but he had on a hat that said yacht
Speaker 3: club something, so he sits down right for I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I knew it.
Speaker 2: I knew it.
Speaker 3: Throughout the flight, the flight attendant, white blonde girl. He
Speaker 3: keeps saying, I can't.
Speaker 2: Hear what he's saying. Oh excuse me.
Speaker 3: He keeps pulling her handpiliner and polinary, and then finally
Speaker 3: I see out of her mouth.
Speaker 2: No I work tonight, I work later. Sorry.
Speaker 3: I was like, and I'm like, let me just go
Speaker 3: be Bessie. So I go to the bathroom. I was like, girl,
Speaker 3: I seen him trying to talk to you, and she's like,
Speaker 3: oh my god. She's like, I'm not even supposed to
Speaker 3: talk about that with you. I can't talk about other people.
Speaker 2: I'm playing.
Speaker 3: But she was like, but you must want to right now,
Speaker 3: And I was like, yo. He looks like a fucking rich,
Speaker 3: rich piece of shit. She's like, dude, he was saying
Speaker 3: so many things to me that I just found inappropriate.
Speaker 3: She said, every time he pressed the call button, it
Speaker 3: was for nothing. It was for a pack of gummy bears,
Speaker 3: it was for chips, it was for exercise.
Speaker 2: Bitch, that's something I know. I'm a ring the motherfucker
Speaker 2: light with some gummy bears.
Speaker 4: I would too, having a mid flight wanting for gummy
Speaker 4: bears is weird, though, beer.
Speaker 1: You know what I asked for him, A little salted chips.
Speaker 1: They'd be good of the miss Vickish, the miss Vickie, bitch.
Speaker 2: I don't know who Vicky is. That whole gum bear.
Speaker 1: That wop put her foot in them chips and they salted. Bitch,
Speaker 1: a sweet salt coll Why do you want to be
Speaker 1: me so bad?
Speaker 2: But you want to be me popcorn? Oh bitch, that
Speaker 2: was me. They do that last night. But what I.
Speaker 1: Do is the miss biggest salt chips and the little
Speaker 1: mischion mischial something cookies. Okay, they're a mission something. What's
Speaker 1: the best cob, No, they're not the best cars. Do
Speaker 1: the one in him like he looks I don't know,
Speaker 1: you look like an ain't cookies. They're the ones with
Speaker 1: the chocolate.
Speaker 2: In the center. You don't know that the they're.
Speaker 1: In the pink packaging on the plane, they have the
Speaker 1: chocolate in the center.
Speaker 2: What the fuck? They're so delicious, someone's gonna screaming. Okay,
Speaker 2: so here's the first class tea. Let's first class tea.
Speaker 2: Let's so, I said to her, he.
Speaker 3: Looks like he's about to do fucking cocaine all night
Speaker 3: and go to jail. And she was like, I know,
Speaker 3: there's a look that people just have when I can
Speaker 3: tell that they're wealthy. She said, I can also tell
Speaker 3: who's in first class or not. I can always tell.
Speaker 3: I was like, yo, I have a podcast about about sex.
Speaker 2: Shit.
Speaker 3: You gotta tell me because I gotta tell the girls.
Speaker 3: She was, actually, I knew you were in first class.
Speaker 3: I want to tell y'all what I had on and
Speaker 3: what was crazy about her saying this, Let me see,
Speaker 3: let me see if I got it in my clothes.
Speaker 3: So she said, oh, no, I was wearing my travel outfit.
Speaker 3: It's Aritzia sweatpant, black and black hoodie.
Speaker 2: Whatever.
Speaker 3: She said, the way you got on the plane, you
Speaker 3: didn't need to know where your seat was. When you
Speaker 3: sat in your seat, I asked you if you want it?
Speaker 2: She said, Oh.
Speaker 3: She's like, there's an attitude of the person. She said,
Speaker 3: you didn't even want champagne. You didn't pull your phone out.
Speaker 3: There's a lot like to take a picture. There's a
Speaker 3: lot of things you did that let me know. Oh,
Speaker 3: she must be a frequent flyer. She's like, but when
Speaker 3: you walked on the plane, there was something about your attitude,
Speaker 3: the way you wore your clothes. She was like, maybe
Speaker 3: how your luggage was positioned. And also sometimes people just
Speaker 3: really look cool and a little bit different.
Speaker 1: They said, you look cool, and you look cool. No, no,
Speaker 1: fucking piercing, I mean you you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: I was going to say, under my hoodie, you cunt.
Speaker 2: I was wearing a.
Speaker 3: Palestine Oh, stop killing Palestinian.
Speaker 2: Shirt girl on the plane.
Speaker 1: No, that's why she had a hoodie on, because they
Speaker 1: will they will kill Palestinians.
Speaker 2: No, I know, Oh, they will take her off. I
Speaker 2: just understand that.
Speaker 3: The pla and Nina's like sitting on top of the
Speaker 3: luggage and I think the dog.
Speaker 2: I mean the dog, the dog.
Speaker 1: You have a fucking little tiny parasolsan dogs. That's the
Speaker 1: point witch, of course.
Speaker 3: So wait, I was like, yo, that's crazy, because there's
Speaker 3: sometimes where I feel like I'm not dressing up enough
Speaker 3: for first class. She goes, you know, when I really
Speaker 3: know she's a bitch, She was like, you know, and
Speaker 3: I really know the girls have never been She's like,
Speaker 3: when they're almost too dressy. She's like, I meet a
Speaker 3: lot of hot girls on the way to LA or
Speaker 3: New York, and I know they're with somebody rich, and
Speaker 3: they're almost so dressed up for first class that I
Speaker 3: know they're there.
Speaker 2: To take pics. And so maybe they know. But because
Speaker 2: bitch looking like a ball. So she said, there's different art.
Speaker 1: But I do order a membosa, bitch, and you better
Speaker 1: have my drunk before we leave this one.
Speaker 2: Wait, Panta, she.
Speaker 3: Said, when you see the sweat suit, she's like in
Speaker 3: a combo of expensive accessories, She's like, four eeks. Oh
Speaker 3: I do that, she said, men and women, she said,
Speaker 3: even like it could be the air what is it.
Speaker 2: Over the ear? Not the airphones?
Speaker 3: Headphones, She's like expensive headphones, the luggage, which she's like,
Speaker 3: not a lot of branding.
Speaker 2: She says, they have a very clean look with the sweatsuit.
Speaker 2: So you've been there. Everything looks very clean. But then first.
Speaker 1: Off, omfoue to be comfortable but apparently not too comfortable.
Speaker 1: You see you see Tampa, but you have a fucking duffle.
Speaker 1: Do you see Tampa with no more pajamas?
Speaker 2: No? I kind of understand that a little bit.
Speaker 3: I do do it so I hate that ship white people, okay,
Speaker 3: but I like black people.
Speaker 2: Or this is racist a little bit.
Speaker 3: Sorry, No, it's not white white white trash. I've been
Speaker 3: seeing it white.
Speaker 4: But it's like now they could dictate our sweats to
Speaker 4: be but John.
Speaker 2: It's not only sweats but even the budget airlines.
Speaker 1: At a home girl who got denied like boarding because
Speaker 1: she had on a little cross top leggings too tight
Speaker 1: and she looked like a wore. And they said, the
Speaker 1: only way you can pour this is if you go
Speaker 1: get a hoodie right now, otherwise we're denying you border.
Speaker 1: But you also can't go on the on an airplane
Speaker 1: looking like you just left the strip club either, like they.
Speaker 2: Look like you on the decorum. Oh okay, there's the
Speaker 2: other archetypes.
Speaker 3: She's like when someone's extremely hot, she's like that girl
Speaker 3: sitting behind you.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, that's why they know. Girl sitting behind me
Speaker 2: was fucking the.
Speaker 3: Bitch had on raggedy clothes, jawnline, crazy sexy ass bob
Speaker 3: like the bitch was. She was like, there's also and
Speaker 3: she's like, I fly out of Atlanta Airport a lot,
Speaker 3: and she's like, there's a look.
Speaker 2: When it comes to jewelry and.
Speaker 3: A southern aesthetic, she was like, is an urban aesthetic.
Speaker 2: It just is what it is. She was like, that's
Speaker 2: different from cheap jewelry.
Speaker 3: She was like, the watch could be simple, the glasses
Speaker 3: are expensive. She was like, I've seen flight attendants say
Speaker 3: someone's ghetto and blah blah blah, and they're fucking millionaires.
Speaker 3: They're owning, like so many different restaurants in Atlanta they're owning,
Speaker 3: they have they'd be in different airport hangers. She was like,
Speaker 3: they different. She talked about the batty aesthetic. She's like,
Speaker 3: every time I see like you know, when the butt
Speaker 3: is very overdone. I was like, the bb all, yeah,
Speaker 3: if I see that and they don't have like what
Speaker 3: she say she didn't say. I can't remember what she said.
Speaker 3: The BBL had to go with some but she's like
Speaker 3: they always She's like, when their hair looks really pretty
Speaker 3: and they have on big glasses and a little.
Speaker 2: Lip glass, they do this, okay, she said.
Speaker 3: If it's white men, she said, I really see white
Speaker 3: men dressed down in first class.
Speaker 2: They're typically corporate.
Speaker 3: And depending on they are, she said, on the early flights,
Speaker 3: they're in a suit. She's like, if a white guy's
Speaker 3: dressed casual and looks cool, she's like a lot of tattoos.
Speaker 3: Sometimes tell me maybe first class artistic production, She's like,
Speaker 3: and then everyone else in between is just forgettable.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think that's exactly how it is.
Speaker 3: But she said that so many people are forgettable, and
Speaker 3: the ones that she has to double take, she said,
Speaker 3: almost eight out.
Speaker 2: Of ten or first class.
Speaker 3: She's like, some people just I could serve them a
Speaker 3: hundred times and forget who they are.
Speaker 2: And then there's some people to stick out to me,
Speaker 2: and those are the ones.
Speaker 3: And I was like, you know what, to me, that
Speaker 3: also speaks volumes as to like the attitude of confidence
Speaker 3: a little bit.
Speaker 2: It's so funny that you say that. I went to.
Speaker 1: It was a bookstop for two chains yesterday with Deontay Coy.
Speaker 1: Did you see jan No jan wasn't there, but with
Speaker 1: him hurry it was so I got to see her.
Speaker 1: And you know, what he allegedly talks about in his
Speaker 1: book is how walking with confidence and being in rooms
Speaker 1: like confidence is an energy that so many people lack,
Speaker 1: but when you have it, no one can question you.
Speaker 1: And he shared this funny story about going to like
Speaker 1: All Star weekend or something and having tickets and he
Speaker 1: walked on the court but he wasn't supposed to be
Speaker 1: on the court, but niggas knew him, and he just
Speaker 1: walked on the court to where someone tried to stop
Speaker 1: him who worked there, And he said, my confidence was
Speaker 1: so big.
Speaker 2: I almost looked at him, like, nigga, what you doing here?
Speaker 1: And clearly you worked there, But he was just like,
Speaker 1: they's the thing about confidence that when you enter a
Speaker 1: room that everyone actually acknowledges and it's so weird that
Speaker 1: so many people don't have that.
Speaker 3: And I when her and I started talking about confidence, right,
Speaker 3: we then started talking about dating. We need her talking
Speaker 3: about thirty minutes and she was like, there's just something
Speaker 3: with the walk. She was like, I don't know, and
Speaker 3: that's how when you aren't dressed well, She's like, oh,
Speaker 3: dressed up. She's like, I just know. And she's like,
Speaker 3: I don't even know if it's posture. And I was like,
Speaker 3: so when you're dating, like can you get people's numbers
Speaker 3: on plane? She's like, I can, it's allowed. I'm not
Speaker 3: supposed to pull my phone out if I want to
Speaker 3: like slip something.
Speaker 2: It's not it's frowned upon. And she's like in for me.
Speaker 3: I was like, so, do you always get the Delta
Speaker 3: class niggas and Delta one niggas and she was like no,
Speaker 3: She's like, sometimes it's the really hot, confident guy. She's like,
Speaker 3: I've gotten guys who are just out for a bachelor
Speaker 3: bachelor weekend and they all the way in the back
Speaker 3: in the middle. She was like, confidence is like striking
Speaker 3: to me because what I've learned being a flight attendant
Speaker 3: in a first class flight attendant as a seniority. Yeah, well,
Speaker 3: how they do it, She's like, is how much money
Speaker 3: people have and how much confidence they lack.
Speaker 2: The money gave them the confidence.
Speaker 3: She's like, it's almost like if you stripped all the
Speaker 3: way like the guy that was hitting on her, it's gone.
Speaker 3: It's fucking gone. And she said, over the years she's
Speaker 3: been seeing younger people. She's like first class. Years ago
Speaker 3: was so like everyone in a suit. She was like,
Speaker 3: now no one fucking cares her.
Speaker 1: I mean the same as the NBA. Yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I felt real old ago, like at All
Speaker 1: Star weekend and.
Speaker 2: I was like, where are the suits? Don't you miss
Speaker 2: seeing the guys come down the thing in since girl,
Speaker 2: that's the early two thousand, I know, but this is.
Speaker 1: Where I was just like, I'm miss seeing you know,
Speaker 1: the little fine fine ship in some suits. Now they're
Speaker 1: just wearing like outfice that make them look on the
Speaker 1: spectrum of sexuality. You know, be giving me cool, That's
Speaker 1: that's cool. I want a nigga in a suit, not
Speaker 1: a nigga a skirt. You know, they be wearing skirt,
Speaker 1: they be wearing leather pieces. I walk and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: can we just get the boys back in suit?
Speaker 2: Are we taking an issue of men wearing skirts? Not today?
Speaker 2: We can't do this only you paint your nails? Wow? Wow?
Speaker 2: Can we talk a little bit about confidence in work too? Oh?
Speaker 1: I was gonna say how I lost all confidence this
Speaker 1: last couple of weeks, But go ahead, we could talk
Speaker 1: about being confident in work.
Speaker 3: Oh no, I was just gonna say how a confidence
Speaker 3: stripper ran me and goning to get through some money
Speaker 3: in Atlanta before.
Speaker 2: I got hold on hold she said, she said, confidence
Speaker 2: is stripper. It's called manipulation.
Speaker 3: We fight, you know, when you sit down and you
Speaker 3: in there and he like he spot the bad bitches, right,
Speaker 3: so we get the bad bage.
Speaker 2: You were just in Atlanta, y'all went to Cheetah.
Speaker 3: So we had dinner and we're like, all right, after
Speaker 3: we eat, so the baddest bitch in there, we call
Speaker 3: her over.
Speaker 2: What was her name? Okay? I was making sure it
Speaker 2: wasn't my my bitch? Who was her name? Mistress? Didn't
Speaker 2: hear her that? Oh no, I got no, I don't
Speaker 2: wait know, And now I feel bad because I'm about
Speaker 2: to say bread because because what we love to do
Speaker 2: is talk ship.
Speaker 1: Don't bleep the name of okay, so this particular don't
Speaker 1: bleep on mistress.
Speaker 2: That's my dog.
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all go see Cheeah BYU was about to close
Speaker 1: and December, so get there before you came.
Speaker 2: I loved it.
Speaker 3: So she comes over and she's like, hey, where are
Speaker 3: y'all from? And whatever? Her energy is so fucking whack.
Speaker 3: And so she was like, oh cool, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: When didn't y'all want to yea? And so she did
Speaker 2: sing on him.
Speaker 3: Like yo, just fantasy ruined. She was smiling or whatever,
Speaker 3: but just like shoulders down whatever. So then it's funny
Speaker 3: girl come over wish I knew her name, and he
Speaker 3: was like is she coming over here? And he's like, please,
Speaker 3: don't let her come over here? And I was like,
Speaker 3: sh comes over the table and she was like, what
Speaker 3: y'all done eating?
Speaker 1: I don't care my bitch and she said no, no,
Speaker 1: this bitch wife, but you don't remember, oh my bitch
Speaker 1: wag Okay.
Speaker 3: So she was like y'all done eating? What she was like,
Speaker 3: so you ain't come for no dance? Don't play with me?
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, I kind of like a
Speaker 2: little attitude.
Speaker 3: I was like, fucking give him a dance. She was like,
Speaker 3: because you want to watch I want to watch.
Speaker 1: Me and oh yeah, no, definitely not my bitch.
Speaker 2: And let me tell you, we're paying this bitch, paying bitch,
Speaker 2: paying this bitch.
Speaker 3: And when he left, when she left, he was like, yo,
Speaker 3: we have a conversation about how fucking attitude will take
Speaker 3: you to a next level.
Speaker 2: He's like, I will fund that all night over, that
Speaker 2: bad bitch. I really would.
Speaker 3: He was like, I need that ship in my life.
Speaker 3: Like being surrounded with people that are the vibe.
Speaker 2: Okay, it just takes you up nine Chase.
Speaker 3: I literally saw the first bitch and said, okay, let's
Speaker 3: take out a thousand.
Speaker 2: This bitch looked good. Fuck it, bro. When I saw
Speaker 2: that other girl, wouldn't thought. How long were you out
Speaker 2: there for? You? Like the ship club? You were there
Speaker 2: five four hours? What's nine to twelve? Three? Bitch? You
Speaker 2: were way off with the man. Why do when do
Speaker 2: you come to the twelve nine, ten twelve phil? Five? No,
Speaker 2: not five. I was in tech, you were in math whatever.
Speaker 2: I was in a county of finance. Foot, bitch. You
Speaker 2: just said nine to twelve was five hours. That's crazy.
Speaker 2: I didn't have to use my fingers on my own life. Mind.
Speaker 2: You you know who was out of six hour work?
Speaker 2: You know? You know who are really out for five hours?
Speaker 4: That night?
Speaker 2: Me doing what?
Speaker 1: I went to dinner, then I went to a dive bar.
Speaker 1: Then I ended up at Flow, which is a party
Speaker 1: DJ by Brian Michael Cos.
Speaker 2: Yes, but I went with Terra s Martin.
Speaker 1: And Robert Glasper because he had to show it, and
Speaker 1: Kelly Rowland caught me beautiful. If y'all bitches be in
Speaker 1: the comments, talking ship said, oh my god, you're beautiful, bitch.
Speaker 1: And so now y'all can't say nothing, puss off, not
Speaker 1: gonna lie.
Speaker 2: That's like beyond well. They said something. Okay, can we
Speaker 2: get into it? We can? Okay.
Speaker 1: If you guys are O G whore high members, you
Speaker 1: go back to episode six, that's one.
Speaker 2: It was. It's episode six that wasn't so it's episode three.
Speaker 1: Damn yeh episode six was I think probably be small
Speaker 1: episode three?
Speaker 2: Whoa, Yeah, don't know what to try to tell time.
Speaker 1: By the way, I don't think our episode six, whatever
Speaker 1: that episode is, doesn't exist anymore. I know, yeah, damn
Speaker 1: our first episode would be someone doesn't exist anymore. Anyways,
Speaker 1: we had a discussion early on. I called I said
Speaker 1: that weezy it maybe myself. Maybe I didn't include myself.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I was petty was promiscuous.
Speaker 1: This became a constant trend of us having conversations about
Speaker 1: that word specifically. Now we are three two, three weeks
Speaker 1: out of the Sarah Fontineau dash shorter debacle of what
Speaker 1: took place here on Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 2: If you guys haven't watched that episode yet, go back.
Speaker 1: However, I did a vlog is available on Patreon right now,
Speaker 1: but before Sarah came on, I did her podcast. So
Speaker 1: for three weeks, y'all, those comments were good, not on
Speaker 1: oh on YouTube. They were not the clips that she
Speaker 1: collaborated with me on.
Speaker 2: Mind you bitch, I like it's the.
Speaker 3: Ground because you posted it on Patreon, and I feel
Speaker 3: I saw a bunch of people like this is great.
Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah for us, No, bitch, I was
Speaker 1: introduced to her audience, which is a little bit more traditional.
Speaker 1: We little bit were introduced to the world because them
Speaker 1: numbers went up, And y'all, I I cried multiple times
Speaker 1: over the last couple of weeks. And I didn't know
Speaker 1: that the word Jessebel hurts so bad. Now hear me out.
Speaker 1: It might be because I watched handmade sales and the
Speaker 1: Jezebels were like, not great, but literally my mind went
Speaker 1: down the handsmade rabbit hole of as a woman, our
Speaker 1: money means nothing, are competent means nothing? Because how they
Speaker 1: distinguish where women align is a who you're married to.
Speaker 1: Those were the commander's wives, your ability to procreate, which
Speaker 1: were the handmaid's tales. Then they had the other women
Speaker 1: that were the cooks and the people in the house.
Speaker 2: I forgot their names. And then you had the Jezebels
Speaker 2: only good for sex, only good for sex, and then
Speaker 2: of course everyone else in between, probably the others that
Speaker 2: we almost got canceled on and EDIT had to save
Speaker 2: us were in the field. Have you seen what? Because
Speaker 2: there was a field.
Speaker 3: There's a video of a woman saying, let me tell
Speaker 3: you all of the things you can't be as a
Speaker 3: woman that you'd be celebrated for as a man. You
Speaker 3: would be celebrated for having great hair. You'd be celebrated
Speaker 3: for not having children. You'd be celebrated for being independent. Oof,
Speaker 3: you'd be celebrated for putting your partner second to yourself. Oh,
Speaker 3: you'd be celebrated for choosing your career or for your family. Like,
Speaker 3: there are so many things that as a woman scarlet a.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And so this this week was literally, and I hate
Speaker 1: to say this, I was like, damn, a part of
Speaker 1: me wish I was a man because the things that
Speaker 1: I find so much pride in mind you the autonomy
Speaker 1: that we've been given in this part of history, like
Speaker 1: being able to be c suite, being able to be entrepreneurs,
Speaker 1: being able to live on our own, being able to
Speaker 1: choose whether we want to be moms or not, being
Speaker 1: able to do all these things. I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: Like reading these comments on the internet this week and
Speaker 1: being referred to as a Jezebel and knowing the connotation
Speaker 1: of it or where it aligns us literally diminishes us
Speaker 1: to poor Lebron James Puff like nothing. And it was
Speaker 1: so hurtful because in a way that I've been so
Speaker 1: proud with going to therapy, with building what we've built together,
Speaker 1: with living in my mind I dream loft, and all
Speaker 1: the things I've accomplished. I was like, Damn, when you
Speaker 1: read the comments, when you see what we've accomplished as
Speaker 1: a woman, that don't mean ship to a motherfucker.
Speaker 2: Do you know the comment that hurt me the most? Oh,
Speaker 2: you screenshotted it. Her name is Naisha. She lives in
Speaker 2: Los Angeles.
Speaker 1: Oh, pull, and we're gonna find your job and tell
Speaker 1: them that you're talking about black women on the internet.
Speaker 2: Oh, she's a black woman self beautiful Actually, is she beautiful?
Speaker 2: I think so, you'd be fake nice to these bites?
Speaker 2: My first class, Yeah, for the first class beautiful. Who
Speaker 2: to tell? She made?
Speaker 4: Tell you?
Speaker 3: She made her page private once I tagged her. Of
Speaker 3: course you did, but of course her DOMO about her comment.
Speaker 3: I'm curious and it's such a simple comment, but something
Speaker 3: about it like activated me.
Speaker 2: And it said.
Speaker 3: Weezy will never be married. Not be sorry it weezy,
Speaker 3: w Weezy won't be married. It is what it is, okay,
Speaker 3: And I'm like.
Speaker 2: Wait, that was a comment. I didn't keep going Weezy
Speaker 2: won't be married. Here's what it is.
Speaker 3: I got right now, here's but here's how I really
Speaker 3: felt about that. I thought, damn, this is someone that's
Speaker 3: left comments. I clicked on her. She left comments on
Speaker 3: our page before she views the show. Don't tell me
Speaker 3: what the fuck I'm ever gonna have in life?
Speaker 2: Mmm? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You could say I'm a whore on this and that.
Speaker 3: Don't you fucking tell me what the fuck my future
Speaker 3: is gonna be?
Speaker 2: Bitch? Because who the fuck are you? Who the fuck
Speaker 2: is you?
Speaker 3: I click on her page. She hasn't failed lip gloss line.
Speaker 3: Then she like works in event planning or silent, whatever
Speaker 3: fuck it was. And I was thinking to myself, oh, bitch,
Speaker 3: you'll never be successful. How does that feel?
Speaker 2: How dare I tell.
Speaker 3: You what the fuck you ever gonna have in life?
Speaker 3: And I think the reason it hurt more is because
Speaker 3: it was a black woman that I know has been
Speaker 3: in our content before. It says something like that to me.
Speaker 3: These niggas I have these litt expectations for, but these
Speaker 3: women are higher.
Speaker 2: And you don't you know that.
Speaker 3: I'm not a terrible person. That's why you watch the show.
Speaker 3: I'm not awful, right. I don't know how much we
Speaker 3: could one can hate watch She's grown, like had the
Speaker 3: nerve to get on there and say I won't have this.
Speaker 2: It is what it is.
Speaker 3: I really think it's nasty to ever tell somebody they
Speaker 3: won't be successful, they won't find love, they won't access
Speaker 3: a certain point in life.
Speaker 2: And that's why I really had to tell her she
Speaker 2: won't be successful. And I believe it. Everything I say
Speaker 2: comes true. It's true.
Speaker 3: I get everything I want every single time. And when
Speaker 3: I'm sitting here married, I'm gonna bring you up again.
Speaker 3: And that lip glass line is still that go Daddy
Speaker 3: subscription is going to be gone by the time I'm married.
Speaker 3: And I'm sorry you had to say that to me,
Speaker 3: And I'm sorry for what I'm saying hurts your feelings.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry you didn't use another page to say this
Speaker 3: and that I was able to access you. I'm actually
Speaker 3: very sorry for that. But what you should be sorry
Speaker 3: for is thinking that your thoughts are your words are
Speaker 3: that powerful to where it won't happen, because anybody who's
Speaker 3: ever told me no, it's just the battery in my back.
Speaker 3: Like I think I really started another one of the
Speaker 3: studios because somebody told me, you guys won't be able
Speaker 3: to expand it's too soon. Like everything like that really
Speaker 3: puts a battery in my back. A woman saying that
Speaker 3: fucked me up. The other things more so like hurt
Speaker 3: my feelings like a little burn, like a little sting.
Speaker 3: But that just like crushed me because I thought we
Speaker 3: were doing this for women. I thought the strength I
Speaker 3: displayed in that episode was very loud.
Speaker 2: Hey, choose yourself. Love my man. We all know I'm
Speaker 2: obsessed with him.
Speaker 3: I realized in that episode I'm not as male centered
Speaker 3: as I thought. That's the fucking comic section is that
Speaker 3: episode with my mom and I where I said I
Speaker 3: want to cook for a nigg, I want to do
Speaker 3: x y Z.
Speaker 2: That made me look very pick me, male centered, which
Speaker 2: I thought I was until I sat with Sarah.
Speaker 3: And I'm not calling Sarah pick me, you not, No,
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that you don't think she's a pick me.
Speaker 2: I think Sarah is because to me, there's a difference male.
Speaker 2: He's centered, but not a pick me.
Speaker 1: It's weird because that was the interesting thing to me
Speaker 1: about her. It didn't seem like I feel like she
Speaker 1: was marriage centered. She was patriarchal centered. I think it
Speaker 1: could have but I think it could have been any.
Speaker 2: Man like like you know what I mean, Like a.
Speaker 1: Part of me was like even her husband now being
Speaker 1: her friend, first, her breaking up with the boyfriend she
Speaker 1: was with. It was marriage was the goal, not even
Speaker 1: the fact that she wanted to show up as this
Speaker 1: person for a man and give everything to a man.
Speaker 2: It was that she wanted the title of a wife
Speaker 2: more than the man mattered. To me. That's how I guess.
Speaker 3: I think the reason I know a lot of people
Speaker 3: feel that and believe that I'm slightly not sure about
Speaker 3: that because she could.
Speaker 2: Have been married two other times. The first time.
Speaker 3: Sorry, that was abusive, dude. Never mind, she could have
Speaker 3: been married one other time. That second one could have
Speaker 3: had him. And that's what made me think you don't
Speaker 3: want marriage, that you would choose yourself first.
Speaker 2: Sarah has chosen herself.
Speaker 3: So but what was weird or questionable about Sarah's choice
Speaker 3: to all of us as viewers, the people that didn't
Speaker 3: like what she said was the six days and the
Speaker 3: person before and them not dating.
Speaker 2: That was the weird thing.
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's picked me though, but it's
Speaker 3: male centered because she said something about that guy has
Speaker 3: a marriage mind. I think what Sarah displayed and we
Speaker 3: should also talk about this when we sit together again
Speaker 3: because there's so much dissecting from our conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd love to.
Speaker 3: Say it is when she said the marriage mind to me,
Speaker 3: and I wish I asked her more about this because me,
Speaker 3: I was like, damn, if you ask me right now,
Speaker 3: if I could be the love of my life for
Speaker 3: even fucking ten years or just have a good partner
Speaker 3: that's a husband to the day I die, I would
Speaker 3: rather be in love. Love is above marriage to me.
Speaker 3: Love is above all. Love is a romance. Love and
Speaker 3: we share that in friendship.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, like.
Speaker 3: Love, real fucking love, dude, Take give me that.
Speaker 2: Run me that.
Speaker 1: It's interesting because even your response to the comment is bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you when I'm married. And for me,
Speaker 1: the comments have been so much more harsh in me
Speaker 1: as a being. Fuck how I see my romantic partnerships right?
Speaker 2: Uh Chris xof if y'all want to tag him, feel free,
Speaker 2: it's two s's. Xof.
Speaker 1: Chris's response to everything I've said is but you're nothing
Speaker 1: without a man. And so for me, oh bit, For me,
Speaker 1: the comments leaning into my existence as a woman, as
Speaker 1: a being, as an entrepreneur, as a friend, as a sister,
Speaker 1: as a daughter. No other titles in life matters until
Speaker 1: a man fucking crowns me a goddamn ring. And so
Speaker 1: for me, I know, I love that so many of
Speaker 1: the people who listen to our podcast are this modern
Speaker 1: day I could say trope, but being of a woman
Speaker 1: where we're kind of tearing down these labels identifying us
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: To me, it's not just because I was going to say,
Speaker 2: of course, a nigga said that. Yea, and he did.
Speaker 2: But what's stranger about this is how valuable it is
Speaker 2: to women as well.
Speaker 3: And I say that because when I get married, that's
Speaker 3: just what's going to happen in my life. If I
Speaker 3: ever had an issue or something ever went wrong, that
Speaker 3: girl Nisha would be so excited to see.
Speaker 2: Well, you got married but it didn't work. Women also ready,
Speaker 2: Oh no, do you see the comments I want? But
Speaker 2: should we beleeve that? Yes, leeve that, let's beleeve that.
Speaker 1: But it's why it's difficult because when a woman does.
Speaker 2: Find her knight in shining new armor. Let's be very clear.
Speaker 2: I was with my ex.
Speaker 1: For a year in bliss, and everyone's like, ooh, can't
Speaker 1: wait till she hit the rough fetch like people also
Speaker 1: can't wait for people to be unhappy because.
Speaker 2: They want you with them. Hey, weezy, you'll never be married.
Speaker 2: You won't have this thing.
Speaker 3: I would love to know why won't have it? And
Speaker 3: then once I do have it, you don't want me
Speaker 3: to have it anymore. Like, bro, it's a weird thing
Speaker 3: of us, kind of being obsessed with wanting to knock
Speaker 3: someone off a peg.
Speaker 2: It's a weird fucking thing, you say.
Speaker 4: I also think it's that people can't access they don't
Speaker 4: want to see y'all be different people. Maybe it also
Speaker 4: for the sake of the show, which is a little
Speaker 4: weird people.
Speaker 2: Bro, she could still bitches get money be different people.
Speaker 2: That's genuinely the only reason.
Speaker 3: Why I pitched that idea to Mandy that we spoke
Speaker 3: about privately, because I know for a fact I.
Speaker 2: Can't talk about it and then bring it up on
Speaker 2: the wine. No, I'm not gonna say.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say on the topic we talked about privately,
Speaker 3: but I'm just saying, like it is the idea that
Speaker 3: the mic. I know, yea.
Speaker 4: Have y'all not lost friends because they were being weird,
Speaker 4: because you guys were like actually developing and changing and
Speaker 4: being different people.
Speaker 2: It's the same thing. No, I'm I'm a lot of
Speaker 2: the same.
Speaker 1: I have not lose but I have lost friends when
Speaker 1: they've reached different parts in their lives. So like if
Speaker 1: if friends got partners or had a baby or things
Speaker 1: that they just know I don't want for myself.
Speaker 4: But you separated, had differences, that's it that happens. That
Speaker 4: is the weirdo side of it. When it comes to
Speaker 4: like people that even like fuck with y'all that they
Speaker 4: can't handle situations like, well.
Speaker 1: It's different because I think for me it's baby's wife cool,
Speaker 1: I don't want either. So for me, it's also been
Speaker 1: the then what, so well it's not that then what?
Speaker 1: And I talk about this in my vlog. The two
Speaker 1: guys that I dated in Atlanta only dated two guys
Speaker 1: since I've lived in Atlanta. Both when I expressed that
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be a wife and didn't want
Speaker 1: to be a mom, one was like, so, why date you?
Speaker 2: And the other was like, so, do you want to
Speaker 2: be a help forever?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: That was their responses, And oh wait, I remember, yes,
Speaker 1: I told you. And so for me, it's also like
Speaker 1: then sitting with the two of you and edding you
Speaker 1: two at the top of the year. My my romantic
Speaker 1: partnerships not being looked at from a serious lens to
Speaker 1: where wait, I do want partnership, I do seek love,
Speaker 1: I do want a healthy situation with another person. I
Speaker 1: also hear that you guys talk a lot about how
Speaker 1: we lean into our conversations from my heterosexual lens, y'all,
Speaker 1: I fuck bitches. I just fucked one this weekend. Hold on,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what her name was,
Speaker 1: but it was a good time and so for me,
Speaker 1: I just keep potting right now. No, but I genuinely
Speaker 1: don't like, have the desire to romantically be in a
Speaker 1: homosexual relationship, and.
Speaker 3: I want to think about something. I wish you worded
Speaker 3: differently on a wait, what do.
Speaker 1: You wish I worded differently? First off, you know security
Speaker 1: about my Florida wrong, but it's could leave it like that, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: subscribe to you Tube.
Speaker 3: So I wanted I wish I worded something differently, and
Speaker 3: I wish you worded something different talk to me. I
Speaker 3: wish I had said when I choose myself first, it's
Speaker 3: because what is my relationship without the best version of me?
Speaker 3: And I don't believe that the best version of you
Speaker 3: exists if someone else is before you.
Speaker 2: This is why moms.
Speaker 3: Suffer a lot. Moms suffer a lot when they get
Speaker 3: wrapped up in their mother identity and a lot of
Speaker 3: my homegirls, I'm sure you've had a friend or two
Speaker 3: be like this.
Speaker 2: I don't know what like. I haven't been taken care
Speaker 2: of myself. I haven't do it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Nah, I got to be team a right a
Speaker 3: teen that I said in a way that wasn't translating.
Speaker 2: Well with yours.
Speaker 3: What I say, oh, I believe wholeheartedly and don't think
Speaker 3: it would even be judged about you not getting married.
Speaker 3: But your answer what was wrong with My answer was
Speaker 3: rooted in like protecting your heart, you know what's crazy yourself?
Speaker 1: It wasn't root and so I've been respond hearing it.
Speaker 1: It was, but I've been responding to people about that.
Speaker 1: So my answer was I've gone through a divorce already.
Speaker 1: So everyone believes that my my reasoning for not wanting
Speaker 1: to be married is rooted in trauma and heartbreak.
Speaker 2: No, to me, it's rooted in reality.
Speaker 1: To me, it's rooted in and to me, it's also
Speaker 1: no different than if someone's already been married and they say,
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want to go through that again.
Speaker 1: To me, I've been in that situation to where the
Speaker 1: person that I had a friendship with that I love
Speaker 1: that at the end was not and came after my
Speaker 1: fucking LIVELIHO, came after my money and.
Speaker 2: I didn't need to keep anything. So for me, for
Speaker 2: and I've met.
Speaker 3: Jenny, and you're not like that in business, No, you
Speaker 3: would do another podcast.
Speaker 2: Hold on you ready on another? Hold on? Han did
Speaker 2: and you ready? Baby? That paper will look look real
Speaker 2: different than us in that that doesn't matter, though it does.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not in partnership with anyone, but anymore
Speaker 1: after after.
Speaker 2: Hold on, baby, we are the last of both.
Speaker 4: Yo.
Speaker 2: You and tempest have a business.
Speaker 1: And it's not the same, girl, shout out, shout out
Speaker 1: a power, I p it is. I am no longer
Speaker 1: fifty to fifty with assets the way that partnership is
Speaker 1: righting up. Hold on my selective ignorance agreement, baby, it
Speaker 1: is me one baby the same. You would try again,
Speaker 1: and wouldn't. That's not true that I'm telling you, Okay,
Speaker 1: and wouldn't. This is basically why I said it's rooted
Speaker 1: in mem ma'am.
Speaker 2: And wouldn't. I have two other businesses that are nothing
Speaker 2: like after that divorce? Correct? But you would start another business? Oh,
Speaker 2: Hold hold on?
Speaker 1: Starting another business is not getting into a marriage with
Speaker 1: one of the persons.
Speaker 2: I but you're getting into still another. No, it's not
Speaker 2: the same. It ain't no fifty fifty there. You could
Speaker 2: say it's not the same, but it's not the same.
Speaker 2: I do think, But it's not the same. Bro.
Speaker 3: You want me to say the name damn bitch you
Speaker 3: d but it is not the same. It's not anything,
Speaker 3: Kelly God it is. It is not the same.
Speaker 2: Woman. Isn't that nigga lantern? It is not? Okay? You said,
Speaker 2: but I play that clip too before this. No, no,
Speaker 2: I'll play it. You gonna play. Oh, I have the
Speaker 2: quick the way weezy.
Speaker 1: When I sent her this clip, said, I really hate
Speaker 1: that you just said that to me.
Speaker 2: He ruined my dad.
Speaker 3: Because I just ignore shit, like if I see like
Speaker 3: a thousand mentions.
Speaker 1: Oh it was bad, I just I won't look okay,
Speaker 1: So to be fair, mind you. When I first said
Speaker 1: it to her, I said, come on reaction video. And
Speaker 1: then I watched it all and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: here's the clip that I said to Breonnda and I
Speaker 1: said help.
Speaker 2: I said, these your.
Speaker 3: People, but not a man always first, and then my
Speaker 3: tients and then.
Speaker 2: God, I come thron day. The jees adel spurns right,
Speaker 2: oh from the lantern woman. Okay, I wait that you
Speaker 2: you cut that? That clip was way long.
Speaker 3: No, I just put a little edit and sent it
Speaker 3: to my friends, like of a nigga saying they need
Speaker 3: holy water for of course, oh I know, but I
Speaker 3: don't want to blame in it.
Speaker 2: It's the whole relive in it.
Speaker 3: But I will tell you the Holy Spirit with the
Speaker 3: niggas saying that where is this holy water? On my birthday,
Speaker 3: I'm going to get a shot of patron poured into
Speaker 3: my mouth and like kind of double click click with
Speaker 3: the holy water. A few things I want to say
Speaker 3: about that moment, right, I think the bee kids god thing,
Speaker 3: if I could elaborate on it. And even though I
Speaker 3: don't really care because whatever the reason I said that
Speaker 3: is because religion is not something that is that important
Speaker 3: to me. I don't practice it daily just because I
Speaker 3: believe in it. I don't pray before my meals. I
Speaker 3: don't read the Bible. I don't read the Koran or
Speaker 3: the Church. I don't go to church.
Speaker 2: I don't halljah. I have faith. I'm a spiritual person.
Speaker 3: My partner and I have prayed before bed because we
Speaker 3: want to speak words out together, but he won't even
Speaker 3: say amen, Like we are not the traditional religious couple.
Speaker 3: When I say God, I really just mean everything around
Speaker 3: me universally. Whatever I know, my ancestors or gods to
Speaker 3: me now, my grandmother, my aunt. That's what God looks
Speaker 3: like for me, not saying I'm an atheist or agnostic.
Speaker 3: It's just when I say God, sometimes it looks different.
Speaker 3: I want to also remind everyone that watches this show
Speaker 3: the Bible, God and homosexuality being a sin was something
Speaker 3: that was difficult in my breakup with Scissors and affected
Speaker 3: my relationship.
Speaker 2: The ideology behind religion.
Speaker 3: I grew up Jewish because of my father, and they
Speaker 3: all hated my mom and didn't welcome her in a synagogue,
Speaker 3: and then I would have to sneak off to church
Speaker 3: with my mom because she wanted to feel something. And
Speaker 3: then while in church, I was dating a woman, and
Speaker 3: then every time I'm talking about sisters, I almost say
Speaker 3: her name, And then you know she also dealt with
Speaker 3: some of those feelings too, about how she felt.
Speaker 2: Because she's so religious.
Speaker 3: And I've just seen religion not necessarily heal and help
Speaker 3: people in my community.
Speaker 2: Not only.
Speaker 1: There's a layer of do not kill me, bitches, there's
Speaker 1: a layer of delusion. Let me tell you a conversation
Speaker 1: I had this morning. So I was talking about the
Speaker 1: response from what I said on that episode with a
Speaker 1: friend of mine, not gonna say her name, but I
Speaker 1: was having this conversation with her and she immediately went
Speaker 1: into why marriage means something and she said, well, normally
Speaker 1: it's from religious values. I said, okay, but I'm not religious.
Speaker 1: So she said, so where do you get your morals from?
Speaker 1: Where do you get your view on life?
Speaker 2: Are you good? Question on?
Speaker 1: So she asked me that, like, in terms of how
Speaker 1: you show up for your partner or your friends, where
Speaker 1: do you get your value? And I said, well, not
Speaker 1: only from lived experiences, but from books and things that
Speaker 1: I read and things that I take in and history,
Speaker 1: because you know, you can change, like history repeats itself often.
Speaker 2: So I go into to saying that I get.
Speaker 1: It from lived experiences and books, and it was so interesting.
Speaker 2: She was like, well, I'm confused because what do you
Speaker 2: mean books? Like what kind of books? And she scoffed
Speaker 2: at me, saying books.
Speaker 1: And I said, bitch, like the Bible that you based
Speaker 1: yours off of, isn't that a book? And she's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: but who writes the books that you read? And I
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, who wrote the book you read?
Speaker 2: I said?
Speaker 1: And then she said something so hypocritical? I said, got them?
Speaker 1: She said well there's she Her response to that was, well,
Speaker 1: there's a u I want to say. She said hierarchy.
Speaker 1: I can't remember now the exact word, but she's like, well,
Speaker 1: there's a there's a difference in books. And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh wow, So if my religion was the Qoran, would
Speaker 1: you put that? Would you put your book the Bible
Speaker 1: above my beliefs? If I was a Buddhist and believed
Speaker 1: in Buddhism, would you put their, like, your beliefs above
Speaker 1: whatever book they come from? Because essentially your faith derives
Speaker 1: from a book that was written by man?
Speaker 2: How else was was the fuck it written?
Speaker 1: And so it was so interesting us having this conversation
Speaker 1: that I was like, we could stop here because your
Speaker 1: faith and the book that you read from and the
Speaker 1: way that you align your life. I'm saying the same
Speaker 1: exact thing, but because it's not your religion and you
Speaker 1: just don't want to even accept my answers, we could
Speaker 1: stop this conversation because.
Speaker 2: I don't want to argue with something about their religion, right, And.
Speaker 3: I don't tell her I put God, Universe, religion, and spirituality.
Speaker 2: Third, I just do Mitch. I put out was that
Speaker 2: other thing that not clip finger. That listing thing was crazy.
Speaker 2: I gotta be honest with you, Eden, I would say
Speaker 2: it again.
Speaker 1: But I actually wanted to ask you if, if, if
Speaker 1: you sat with it, because it was such an on
Speaker 1: the spot question.
Speaker 2: If your list changed and it didn't, does it change?
Speaker 2: She said, fuck you pull slas oh so again, who
Speaker 2: are you pointing out? Who is that? I'll shit, Hey,
Speaker 2: what I just see a fucking wait? Mind you?
Speaker 1: I I saw a tattoo on a harm.
Speaker 3: I said, so, like, yeah, point of it all is
Speaker 3: is like, if God doesn't center my everyday life, why
Speaker 3: am I gonna lie in this moment? If I'm not
Speaker 3: going to church, if I'm not visiting, if I'm not
Speaker 3: basing my morals, ethics, and values off of the Bible
Speaker 3: or religion, how can I now pretend in front of
Speaker 3: everyone that knows me? Fuck the thousands of people that
Speaker 3: just discovered me.
Speaker 2: From that clip. People have been watching the show for years.
Speaker 3: How many times have y'all heard me talk about praying
Speaker 3: for God or by relationship to God?
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I did produce at I
Speaker 2: ain't gonna hold you sorry if y'all are listening to this,
Speaker 2: because I love y'all. I love y'all.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I don't love everyone listening.
Speaker 2: I love my homegirls that listen.
Speaker 1: But I will say being in my thirties and certain
Speaker 1: bitches entering heartbreak and God being the nigga they fall
Speaker 1: on right after, Oh that shit has been one of
Speaker 1: the hardest things.
Speaker 2: Bitch. I know you and I'm not gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: God is the most ghetto rebound nigga for these bitches
Speaker 1: that could exist.
Speaker 2: They be breaking up with these niggas.
Speaker 1: And God beat the rebound and it just be like
Speaker 1: they turn into a whole new bitches waiting for healing
Speaker 1: to just arrive.
Speaker 2: He got all the answers.
Speaker 1: No, and that's what they say. I've had a break
Speaker 1: where I was like, how do I do it? No, bro, bro, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's almost like fuck therapy, Fuck holding
Speaker 1: the mirror up to how you showed up in that relationship.
Speaker 1: Fuck any accountability. I'm gonna go to church and Bible study.
Speaker 1: And now that I go there, God is going to
Speaker 1: heal these wounds and find me a better man. And
Speaker 1: it's like, bitch, And then so when I'm talking having
Speaker 1: three ZiLs picking up bitches at the clerk. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel about the fucking judge, but I'm happy. But bitch,
Speaker 1: you're still not healed. But because God has into your life.
Speaker 3: And God, let's everyone get the clip.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: But it's like, okay, I get it. God can right
Speaker 1: and he will hallelujah. But no, like God cannot be
Speaker 1: your rebound nigga. You need to do the work to
Speaker 1: actually get through whatever this is. Hetriarchy is God a nigga.
Speaker 2: Okay, That's why I said che earlier as well.
Speaker 1: I mean, wait, according to Malcolm, the heterosexual bitches, they're
Speaker 1: not gonna believe they rebound.
Speaker 2: As a woman. The Christians are not gonna like this one.
Speaker 3: Okay, I know they're not gonna like it. But there's
Speaker 3: just one other thing I have to say. That's just
Speaker 3: the Christians in my life that I really fuck with.
Speaker 3: I started a business with two Christians Jeff and Breonda
Speaker 3: and trapause Heelujah, right, hallelujah.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna be real with you.
Speaker 3: I genuinely find like a closeness sometimes with modern Christians.
Speaker 3: I think it's because faith can make you a great person.
Speaker 2: Because having this rule book immorality to follow cool. I
Speaker 2: believe a lot of.
Speaker 1: People can't get to that, Poe. Yeah, because also the
Speaker 1: world is so fucked up. If you don't believe that
Speaker 1: you're gonna go to heaven, you might not want to.
Speaker 2: Be Yeah, I can't go radical.
Speaker 3: To me, radical Islam is as bad as radical Christianity.
Speaker 3: Like the way I was talking to me in the
Speaker 3: comments like are you bitch as fucking for Mari, Like
Speaker 3: oh my.
Speaker 1: God, it was so bad, and it was like God
Speaker 1: would not approve this YouTube comments.
Speaker 3: So I said all that to say, it's hard to
Speaker 3: be that open about it, especially to Sarah who has
Speaker 3: a great relationship with God and with her own self
Speaker 3: and her own religion. I don't want to push back
Speaker 3: on it and make it a thing like.
Speaker 2: I mean, and we've never done that.
Speaker 1: That's to me if she's leaning into marriage for religious beliefs,
Speaker 1: if you believe in marriage, because the sanctity under the
Speaker 1: Bible means more to you in this in this union,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm mad at that. I mean, I think that
Speaker 1: that's the thing.
Speaker 2: For me.
Speaker 1: When I think of the way I view marriage, it's
Speaker 1: from more of a business sense. I've had a divorce
Speaker 1: and I'm not as religious, and you know we've had.
Speaker 2: To have this conversation my boyfriend and I, oh.
Speaker 1: Sorry, y'all, this is what happens. Uh fuck the outline,
Speaker 1: sorry because we have again.
Speaker 2: Ah Edi, I gotta watch all these not too much.
Speaker 2: We ady D eighty HD up in this shout out
Speaker 2: to the neuro divergence. I'm not gonna lie best episodes.
Speaker 2: God wanted this. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: This is this is the people gonna be like ooh,
Speaker 1: the Christians gonna be like ooh.
Speaker 2: Christian. It's not that's what they say. The word is
Speaker 2: not allowed Jesus God.
Speaker 4: You know your Jesus Jezebel. Oh sorry, bitch, they could
Speaker 4: just call us Jezebel. They called y'all Jazebel, not me attitude.
Speaker 4: Do you have to say J word?
Speaker 2: I want to litter shirts that. Oh my god, lets
Speaker 2: do Jezebel.
Speaker 4: Merch Oh I love it. Yes, I agree, I agree,
Speaker 4: I agree, I agree. The word that made me cry. Yes,
Speaker 4: I will make you very It's like horrible.
Speaker 2: We've too come up with a Jezebel pie in there.
Speaker 2: Come on, and you know it. Look that lipos line
Speaker 2: is not gonna do anything might as well make the shirts.
Speaker 1: Come on, bring it back round to that, bitch, Bring
Speaker 1: it back around, it out.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry she's not home. She's going to be married soon.
Speaker 2: Get married, bitch, you're about to get married.
Speaker 3: Hey, Mandy, i'se get married to?
Speaker 2: I mean I really was.
Speaker 3: Actually, let me tell you I was another shirt, not worse.
Speaker 2: Get married too. No, that's a good shirt.
Speaker 3: Way you actually have party by the way, y'all, I'm
Speaker 3: not hey.
Speaker 2: Y'all better not if I could take none of this
Speaker 2: ship because y'all know I'm not engaged or anything. I
Speaker 2: just do not do that. I spent what I was
Speaker 2: gonna happen me.
Speaker 1: Hell, we be having these ideas, Hey, guys, did we
Speaker 1: ever talk about let.
Speaker 2: Me see that so fast?
Speaker 3: No, we need someone to like send in the notes
Speaker 3: of like a recap can Gemini.
Speaker 2: While he's gonna tell us to make the shirts. We
Speaker 2: just be like, no, No, we gotta.
Speaker 1: Eatmail for Alex and it. Let's just all hose, get hose,
Speaker 1: get married to.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'd be wondering when I watched the episodes
Speaker 3: and I'm seeing the comments like what's my niggas going thing?
Speaker 1: So that that was another part of me crying. I said,
Speaker 1: oh my god, my two boyfriends.
Speaker 2: Mind you, I know for sure one of them he
Speaker 2: has other women, he talks, we're open whatever. Not them
Speaker 2: has brought it up what.
Speaker 1: I hold on the way he be telling me my
Speaker 1: clips get sent to him and they don't know, and
Speaker 1: so mind you no, but bitches. That bitches is our fans.
Speaker 1: I'm fine, they don't know that that's my nigga. So
Speaker 1: they just be like, look at this clip. And so
Speaker 1: he's like, man, I got it. I got your clips
Speaker 1: sent to me today. And so I was just like,
Speaker 1: which one, Oh my god, that one?
Speaker 2: That one that I don't really talk about on him,
Speaker 2: that one or I'm not the clip?
Speaker 1: Oh no, multiple clips? And so I was through that.
Speaker 1: I said, he likes me, it supports me. What if
Speaker 1: he read these comments on this clip, and I was like,
Speaker 1: he's not gonna think I'm as little as I am
Speaker 1: with him because these bitches are fucking.
Speaker 2: Shitting on me. And I literally do that. I'm like,
Speaker 2: he gonna think I ain't ship because of these comments.
Speaker 2: I literally think of that too. So you boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I two boyfriends, and I'm just like, what if they
Speaker 1: read these comments and then they don't think they gotta
Speaker 1: fuck with me no more because the world thinks someone
Speaker 1: fucking jez about.
Speaker 2: You know, it's crazy.
Speaker 3: His brother's be watching like the theyve be like in
Speaker 3: the Spear, like they saw the Paul Pierce episode and
Speaker 3: he was like, man, i'd be knowing your shit go
Speaker 3: when my brother's be like, oh I so gee one anyway,
Speaker 3: So I literally was sitting there with he saw that
Speaker 3: one too, you know that one pops up on algorithm?
Speaker 2: Was he like, watched episodes of just the clips clip.
Speaker 2: He's a clips guy.
Speaker 3: I think those people that we've dated, our friends only
Speaker 3: watch clips.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like my friends actually love to tell people they're
Speaker 1: my best friends.
Speaker 2: But don't watch my ship. But people when people come up.
Speaker 1: To me and be like, oh my god, and listen,
Speaker 1: he'd be like, you know, my friends love to say
Speaker 1: I don't listen to our stuff, like I.
Speaker 3: Don't have You know, what's fucking funny, My friend I
Speaker 3: ran into Crystal or not ran in I was in
Speaker 3: Orlando or Christopher and he's.
Speaker 2: Like, what's going on with you? I'm like a few
Speaker 2: months back, that's hilarious for real.
Speaker 3: Okay, So basically that whole moment happened where I'm like, yo,
Speaker 3: everybody's like ragging me right on the internet, and I
Speaker 3: want him to see it because I'm like, lit's sit together.
Speaker 2: Like I was like, you know, because we.
Speaker 3: Don't have a family and kids, and I was say,
Speaker 3: and I want all the horre hyps, you know, like
Speaker 3: hose K had his life too. And he was like,
Speaker 3: I mean, you're not really homelid, but baby, I was,
Speaker 3: you have to accept this, do you understand?
Speaker 1: But the world still sees you as one now, And
Speaker 1: that's what I said, that they all think on the
Speaker 1: core still.
Speaker 2: And then that's when he was like, I need the
Speaker 2: world thinks I'm single. I don't identify as such.
Speaker 1: Y'all be trying to give me a label, Like imagine
Speaker 1: if someone just wanted to call you gay or a lesbian.
Speaker 1: Y'all don't be liking titles, right, so y'all better stop
Speaker 1: putting this single title on me out then, last, I
Speaker 1: am in a relation to where when niggas come up
Speaker 1: to me and they try to talk to me.
Speaker 2: And I literally no, no, no, no, basically no.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 2: Let's be very clear, find niggas too that I'm interested in.
Speaker 2: You said, I have two boyfriends. Oh, like, I welcome
Speaker 2: them to be the third. But I am not a saving.
Speaker 4: I hear two boyfriends, I'm like, okay, so I have
Speaker 4: a chance. If you hear one boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Like cool, maybe you have a chance. I've got a shot.
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, I have a shot.
Speaker 1: Ikay, okay that but and yes, and do the second.
Speaker 2: But I'm not.
Speaker 1: That's why I like when I see all these single
Speaker 1: lonely bitches, A bitch.
Speaker 2: Ain't lonely at all. Sign it's a calendar. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 2: this is what y'all got to do when ugly nis
Speaker 2: come around. When I just start loading the bro those
Speaker 2: rings aren't even I don't even have they know what
Speaker 2: anagent ring. I don't even look. Nobody cares about that.
Speaker 3: But that's how ugly they be getting. I just start
Speaker 3: loading them all that.
Speaker 2: That is so mean. That is not let me see
Speaker 2: that ring. Nothing. This won't even look like a wedding band.
Speaker 2: That's that's kind of my point too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my ship better be this bit what I hate
Speaker 3: big rings?
Speaker 1: You want a big ring, so you know it's actually crazy. Okay, hey,
Speaker 1: be ready for that. You get the ring? Which they's
Speaker 1: doing it They about to about.
Speaker 2: About it like that lovest ring. They bringing even cut
Speaker 2: in opal who gets an awful like the way you
Speaker 2: traditional ring.
Speaker 1: The niggas is gonna just talk about the ring, even
Speaker 1: though you probably get a ring.
Speaker 2: They gonna talk shit about the ring. I ain't gonna
Speaker 2: hold y'all. I'm gonna do a social experiment.
Speaker 1: I told you don't like a two piece ring. Oh
Speaker 1: just listen, why do I remember? I will be going
Speaker 1: to Candler Road. I will be going to the biggest
Speaker 1: hair store because they got all the things. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: come in here and tell y'all I'm engaged social experiment.
Speaker 1: Six months.
Speaker 2: I'm engaged. I'll wait time after you so that you
Speaker 2: don't feel sad that I'm engaged. First, you know what,
Speaker 2: I don't want a future. We were doing a little
Speaker 2: too much.
Speaker 3: It's gonna happen because Cammy Crawford came on and she
Speaker 3: has say it.
Speaker 2: I know it's happening.
Speaker 1: No, And it did like a month later. So Manifest,
Speaker 1: you know, so funny. You know what we manifested being
Speaker 1: a New York Times best sellon. Everybody didn't think we
Speaker 1: would even be. It was like, you witchy bitches.
Speaker 3: We man the way that I want to ring, they're
Speaker 3: gonna talk about it.
Speaker 2: Like when my nigga and I talked like a year
Speaker 2: ago about stuff.
Speaker 3: I like, he was like, what about I was like, no,
Speaker 3: two point plank, plain plank plane. I was like, this,
Speaker 3: is there something asymmetrical. At one point, I was like,
Speaker 3: give me a black dim like, give me fucking weird.
Speaker 2: I don't want anything to be normal. If we're gonna be.
Speaker 3: Not traditional, get me a fucking weird like and I
Speaker 3: was like it has to be big, like four or
Speaker 3: five and he was like, nigga, what carots?
Speaker 2: Oh oh bitch, do you want to be able to
Speaker 2: lift your hand?
Speaker 3: But then at the same time, when I put on
Speaker 3: Cammy's ring, Cammi's ring is like five years and you
Speaker 3: know what, I really fucked me about Cammy. I literally
Speaker 3: saw her after she got her ring and I'm like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, I don't know what I would like.
Speaker 2: And she was like, oh, here, took it off her hand.
Speaker 3: See if this is a good shake, and she him
Speaker 3: right there with being like, yeah, I see.
Speaker 2: What you mean.
Speaker 3: I mean maybe you need big And I was like,
Speaker 3: you know what, I actually don't want a fucking crazy
Speaker 3: big thing. But also my sick brain is like, well, bitch,
Speaker 3: just think about nigga.
Speaker 2: Don't love me if it's small?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, are you kidding me? Have
Speaker 1: you not been on the internet a small range?
Speaker 2: No? I mean that you're bro. No. I don't think
Speaker 2: you're crazy for thinking that. That's my point. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: know the internet's gonna you're either poor or he doesn't
Speaker 2: love you that much. Right, Walmart, let me ask you
Speaker 2: a question. You guys have been doing this show for
Speaker 2: almost ten years to saying that, right, Yeah, wrap us
Speaker 2: up at you guys have seen yeah.
Speaker 4: Because I just want to to rest you guys have
Speaker 4: seen so many comments year to year, day to day,
Speaker 4: week to week. Why is it that this time around
Speaker 4: that y'all feel like it really hurts outside of the
Speaker 4: Mahamaid's tail. Like and when I say hurt, y'all know
Speaker 4: what I mean, like something that you're like, Oh word,
Speaker 4: this is how y'all really think.
Speaker 1: I'll be honest and this is going to sound crazy,
Speaker 1: but if you read No Holds Barred, a dual manifesto
Speaker 1: of sexual that's right book. I actually find myself to
Speaker 1: be the best version of myself right now. I've done
Speaker 1: five years of therapy. Financially, I'm in a good place.
Speaker 1: I'm in a good place with my family and my friends,
Speaker 1: my love life. I feel loved, I feel respected. And
Speaker 1: so for me to be in the best place that
Speaker 1: I am emotionally, physically and with the people that surround me,
Speaker 1: shit even w weezy, Like I find myself just texting
Speaker 1: her like I.
Speaker 2: Really I really love this right now. Wow.
Speaker 1: But to be in the best place that I've been
Speaker 1: from like a work point, standpoint, bank, account point, all
Speaker 1: the points, and for the internet in the world to
Speaker 1: not feel that or uplift that, or to still poke
Speaker 1: at me in a way that if someone said the
Speaker 1: things that they're saying about me now. When we first
Speaker 1: started the POD, I felt those things about myself, but
Speaker 1: now I don't. And so to be in such a
Speaker 1: healthy space with myself and proud to be kicked down
Speaker 1: to where nothing you do is gonna matter, your therapy,
Speaker 1: your money, how healthy you are, how the.
Speaker 2: People in your life respect you. We don't.
Speaker 1: And when I say we, at society in the world,
Speaker 1: it just feels like this uphill climb that's that I'm
Speaker 1: constantly gonna get pushed back down.
Speaker 2: It's like a mountain.
Speaker 1: I'm never going to reach the top of a hill
Speaker 1: that I'm never going to reach the top of and
Speaker 1: kind of what we've been doing for ten years, like
Speaker 1: and what I put my legacy at in terms of
Speaker 1: us being pioneers in this sexual revolution. It's like I've questioned, damn,
Speaker 1: have we fought a fight that we're going to inevitably lose?
Speaker 1: And it's made me question everything and I don't like that.
Speaker 1: That's why I hurt so bad because of where I'm
Speaker 1: at in my life right now.
Speaker 4: And I don't think it's a fight that you'll lose
Speaker 4: and thing that's just a fight that just won't stop.
Speaker 2: Not even that won't stop.
Speaker 1: I mean, And I always reference it now, like with
Speaker 1: the reversal of Roe v. Wade, to see all of
Speaker 1: these athletes that have domestic violence charges and sexual assault
Speaker 1: charges still get multi million dollar fucking check the following year,
Speaker 1: Seeing that women and children now don't matter what the
Speaker 1: Epstein files, Seeing how much like a woman's safety well being,
Speaker 1: what they experienced, their trauma to men doesn't really matter
Speaker 1: and we can cover it up because fuck a woman's life.
Speaker 2: But also you better love you, put up, make you
Speaker 2: my wife and give you a kid because that's your
Speaker 2: only value here. That gets that that hurts? How about you? Easy?
Speaker 3: I don't know how to talk about right now, trying
Speaker 3: to really think because most of the things you said
Speaker 3: were kind of my reasons too, But I'm trying to
Speaker 3: figure out a specific thing.
Speaker 2: Why did it hurt?
Speaker 1: Do you think it's also because someone that you genuinely love,
Speaker 1: that has seen you for you might also read those comments.
Speaker 1: I know for me, well, we've talked about it. It's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, my boyfriend's in the comments right now.
Speaker 1: Like all week You've literally told.
Speaker 2: Me multiple times that boyfriend was reading comment.
Speaker 3: He was, well I was, I was sharing that with him, Okay,
Speaker 3: but no, no, no, he was very One thing that
Speaker 3: feels good is seeing all those things, even at the
Speaker 3: point of defending Mandy, like I don't like how people.
Speaker 3: It's just so I actually saw this week. Oh, this
Speaker 3: week was way better than last. No, no, this weekend last,
Speaker 3: how much my nigga's in alignment with what I'm doing.
Speaker 2: That felt I love that.
Speaker 3: There were so many times where he's like like yo,
Speaker 3: like Mandy can't even fucking like really say like she
Speaker 3: want to be or can't say this or can't say that,
Speaker 3: and then like the point where she was like, you've
Speaker 3: been and he was like, everything for these people is religion.
Speaker 3: Like He's like, no one's thinking for themselves. He's like
Speaker 3: the two EU almost looked like scholars in dating experiences.
Speaker 3: He's like and at one point or the comment that
Speaker 3: bothered him when someone said that Mandy and I cannot
Speaker 3: speak about dating and only Sarah could, and.
Speaker 2: He was like, He's like, but what does she have
Speaker 2: more of dating experience than y'all? I think that's just
Speaker 2: the t No.
Speaker 3: I think it's just him being like saying, you have
Speaker 3: to understand, I've been dating my boyfriend.
Speaker 2: It's not a long time. Three years.
Speaker 3: He just saw us come out with a book, he
Speaker 3: saw us rebrand. He's seeing us being better in a relation.
Speaker 3: He's really like, and now y'all can't do this. You're
Speaker 3: New York Times best stuff, but you can't fucking give
Speaker 3: dating advice. And y'all really been dating. He's like every
Speaker 3: version of it. She had one boyfriend, now she got
Speaker 3: three boyfriends?
Speaker 2: What the fuck would you don't be adding? Oh? Sorry,
Speaker 2: but I actually am so good right now. I don't
Speaker 2: want to think when I said, Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Every time he had a new comment about it, I realized, like, oh,
Speaker 3: he's on the same angry level as I am. And
Speaker 3: the thing that it was highlighting to me was the
Speaker 3: same thing you felt like, Oh, there's nothing you could do.
Speaker 3: There's nothing you can do to ever make this go away.
Speaker 3: The other thing that kind of scares me a little bit,
Speaker 3: just to be totally honest with y'all, we talked about
Speaker 3: hard launching a lot and like maybe when we have.
Speaker 2: Y'all are never gonna see my niggas online, I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna hold you. It kind of set me back again.
Speaker 3: But then also there was this thing that we talked
Speaker 3: about where he's like, I don't think people understand love
Speaker 3: like this can exist, and it almost makes you want
Speaker 3: to put it out there more.
Speaker 2: But then if you put it out love like this,
Speaker 2: do you know that is love like this? Oh what
Speaker 2: you're talking about? Comment? Never mind? Oh it's okay, we're
Speaker 2: too different by races.
Speaker 3: So basically the fact that Sarah and her husband have
Speaker 3: and by the way, I don't know their marriage, that's
Speaker 3: the only reason I'm saying the words this way, Sarah
Speaker 3: and her husband are perfect online, Yes, right, well spoken, attractive,
Speaker 3: beautiful house whatever, lovey. He's like, I really feel like
Speaker 3: alternative marriages should be shown. You and I don't give
Speaker 3: a fuck about respected marriage and the Bible and not
Speaker 3: fucking holes together.
Speaker 2: Alternative marriages get shown on TLC.
Speaker 3: And he was like, and the fact that it's good
Speaker 3: and safe and healthy should be displayed. What is our
Speaker 3: love good and healthy and safe because it's not online?
Speaker 2: You want to know something that I read that was
Speaker 2: so interesting.
Speaker 1: Society is more accepting of a cheating husband than a
Speaker 1: relationship that's open, bitch.
Speaker 2: And that's the that's the truth of it.
Speaker 1: We are still in a place that we have to
Speaker 1: unlearn so much, but we are still at a place
Speaker 1: where not where we're not welcoming to other dynamics of love.
Speaker 3: And imagine I think that I I feel safe in this,
Speaker 3: He feels safe in this. What will his family think
Speaker 3: about us talking like this publicly?
Speaker 2: They already know, Hey, bitch, hold on, we good. We're
Speaker 2: not into this pot yet. No, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: that family. Hey, if I got to meet them, I'm hay,
Speaker 2: fam I'm like, okay, you Oh.
Speaker 3: What if him and I ever displayed public because basically
Speaker 3: that means that all the open shit everything like what
Speaker 3: if we.
Speaker 2: Ever did that?
Speaker 3: And so it's like, is my relationship so healthy because
Speaker 3: it's peaceful? Then again, old bay was it wasn't healthy
Speaker 3: and it was peaceful slow, but it's just weird. It's like,
Speaker 3: you know, I talked about maybe one day I was
Speaker 3: making a piece of content together and then with that said,
Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, it's gonna be like who hoes you
Speaker 3: used to fucking the comments.
Speaker 2: Like he's a liar? He texted me like, and I'm like, yo,
Speaker 2: will it disrupt like a shit?
Speaker 1: I don't know, bro, I'm not gonna hold you. I
Speaker 1: have a thing for hose and I'm actually working through
Speaker 1: that now.
Speaker 2: Why the niggas? I love it. I love a whole
Speaker 2: ass nigga. It's anyway you stayed together over fights over ther.
Speaker 1: Old's gotta find each other anyways, Woo, no outline. Luckily
Speaker 1: you just sent it right before I got here, so
Speaker 1: it gives me time to look over the s.
Speaker 2: I was having a bad day. The cat scratched me.
Speaker 2: Where the cat was last night?
Speaker 1: That wasn't this morning anyways, Guys, thank y'all, hope you
Speaker 1: enjoyed this. This was like a therapeutic Okay, before we go,
Speaker 1: drop on the comments. I had an idea, but differently,
Speaker 1: we are approaching our ten year mark, so the same
Speaker 1: bitch no, oh no, even.
Speaker 2: Better ed and you've been here alex Yo me Wolf.
Speaker 1: I want it to round table, what the dynamics of
Speaker 1: working with us through a tumultuous behind the scenes has
Speaker 1: looked like, what good times have looked like, what bad
Speaker 1: times have looked like, and share kind of an inside
Speaker 1: glimpse of what it's been with all of us for
Speaker 1: the last decade.
Speaker 2: I know you don't want to do this. I wish
Speaker 2: you had to care about Eddie's face is life because
Speaker 2: you said good times and then you said bad times. Oh,
Speaker 2: it's gonna be crazy on you ready, hold on you ready?
Speaker 1: We fired and hired and fired both you alex Yo me,
Speaker 1: like niggas have been in and out of us like away,
Speaker 1: I would want hold on.
Speaker 2: Wait even to where we brought Chris Morrow on we
Speaker 2: did Oh, I thought you know I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: We do maybe a two part roundtable style where we
Speaker 1: literally talk about what it's been like like him with us,
Speaker 1: like growing this show from a personal standpoint. Some of
Speaker 1: our relationships have grown personally off camera on camera.
Speaker 2: The things we've.
Speaker 1: Endured over the last ten years kind of like a
Speaker 1: therapy episode, but behind the scenes of a tumultuous, successful body.
Speaker 2: I'm going to give you an example.
Speaker 4: There was definitely one time in my life where I
Speaker 4: had to play telephone amongst them too, because they couldn't
Speaker 4: talk to each other. Wait really, oh yeah, really yeah,
Speaker 4: see gon going like that happened.
Speaker 2: I don't recall. That was fun. Sometimes you know what's crazy,
Speaker 2: I believe you. I display sometimes like bad up memory.
Speaker 2: They've been bad. What you're saying that like unlocked it
Speaker 2: for me. So that's the thing. You gotta do that
Speaker 2: on camera. I only know Alex's because he brings it
Speaker 2: up on work calls. Oh you know Alex's were bad.
Speaker 3: He'd be like, Yo, remember that time where you jumped
Speaker 3: up and Mandy was like, I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know that happened, but I think one.
Speaker 1: Of us most Y only thought I didn't like her,
Speaker 1: and you know she works with me now, and she
Speaker 1: said to tell me energies of us.
Speaker 3: Being on Oh I remember yo, me being like ones like, oh,
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