1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: So everyone believes that my my reasoning for not wanting 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: to be married is rooted in trauma and heartbreak. 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 2: No, to me, it's rooted in reality. 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: To me, it's rooted in and to me, it's also 5 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: no different than if someone's already been married and they say, 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:17,479 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want to go through that again. 7 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: To me, I've been in that situation to where the 8 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: person that I had of friendship with, that I love 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: that at the end was on and came after my 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: fucking livelihood, came after my money. Society is more accepting 11 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: of a cheating husband than a relationship that's open, bitch. 12 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 2: And that's the That's the truth of it. 13 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: We are still in a place that we have to 14 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: unlearn so much, but we are still at a place 15 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,599 Speaker 1: where not where we're not welcoming to other dynamics of. 16 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 2: Love, decisions decisions. 17 00:00:56,320 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: Every Lady is not an episode of decisions decisions. I'm 18 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 1: your girl, Mandy b aka Peg the Saalion aka Peggy 19 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: Bundy aka that Bitch, and my. 20 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 2: Name is Weezy. 21 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 3: I'm living a glamorous life like first class under the sky. 22 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: Let me tell you what song is that Fergie, But 23 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: under the sky that's a that's a lyric I've been 24 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: in the sky. 25 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, what song is that? Hello? 26 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: Okay, by the way, I'm mad that you just did 27 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: that because I sent you the meme of me uh 28 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:35,639 Speaker 1: out of the old Nammy. 29 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 2: You got me the crown and the missionary. 30 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: Okay, and I said, she said, who's supposed to be? 31 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: I said, bitch, me, I messed up the whole lyrics. 32 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: So I love that you just messed up Fergie. 33 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: Okay said, then let's cut it out. 34 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 3: So basically this song said Okay, I was talking to 35 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 3: a slight attendant, a just Mandy, and I just started 36 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: talking about Delta and it's just like oh, I was like, yo, i' 37 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 3: mssa spill this tea for the girls on a flight. 38 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: How to get a sugar daddy? Okay, Oh, this is 39 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: how we're starting. We're starting out hot, yeah, because I'm 40 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: a Jezebel so wow. And then guys, we might get 41 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: into a little bit of therapy on this fucking j 42 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 1: word that's so our ketchup. 43 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 2: Oh so let me tell you why I made the 44 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: first class joke in his Delta story. 45 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 3: So I'm coming back from LA and it's fresh on 46 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 3: my brain because it's two days ago. 47 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 2: There's a guy in front of me. 48 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 3: He got on the plane late, but while he was 49 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 3: walking on, I don't know why, but I just knew 50 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 3: he was in first class. 51 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 2: You don't just know. Okay, real quick, what color was he? 52 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 2: This is the white guy, I know it was. Do 53 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 2: not do that? No, no, the white guy. 54 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,679 Speaker 3: I know when someone black is in first class too. 55 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: And we gonna have this conversation because that I have 56 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: with the flight attendant. 57 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: They're very problematic out the gate. 58 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 3: I know every single type of first I don't know why, 59 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 3: but I know why. 60 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: I don't like that, because I feel like niggas still 61 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: be looking surprised when I go into first class. 62 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 2: I don't look like a first class nigga. I don't 63 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 2: like nandy. 64 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 3: I'm telling you the formula of this bitch had that 65 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 3: the flight attendant gave me. 66 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 2: Let me know, she'll just be looking different. Okay, let 67 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 2: me know. 68 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 3: So the white guy that came on looked disheveled but 69 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 3: had a suit on. 70 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 2: Wait, I'd be looking dishoveled. He looked shovel had a 71 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 2: suit on. He had on. 72 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: Uh ramoa bag. We know those are expensive that illuminum. 73 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 3: I've been asking so many niggas I'm not worth it. 74 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 3: I had like, how expensive are we talking? 75 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 2: Hundred dollars for the carry on? Oh? Yeah, like, and 76 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 2: it's silver. I'll just keep my away carry hold on. 77 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 2: You're gonna keep your away, I'm going to keep my burlington. 78 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 2: Excuse me, listen, you should okay. 79 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 3: So, but he had on a hat that said yacht 80 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 3: club something, so he sits down right for I'm like, oh, 81 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 3: I knew it. 82 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 2: I knew it. 83 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 3: Throughout the flight, the flight attendant, white blonde girl. He 84 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 3: keeps saying, I can't. 85 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: Hear what he's saying. Oh excuse me. 86 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: He keeps pulling her handpiliner and polinary, and then finally 87 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 3: I see out of her mouth. 88 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 2: No I work tonight, I work later. Sorry. 89 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: I was like, and I'm like, let me just go 90 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 3: be Bessie. So I go to the bathroom. I was like, girl, 91 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 3: I seen him trying to talk to you, and she's like, 92 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 3: oh my god. She's like, I'm not even supposed to 93 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 3: talk about that with you. I can't talk about other people. 94 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: I'm playing. 95 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 3: But she was like, but you must want to right now, 96 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: And I was like, yo. He looks like a fucking rich, 97 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 3: rich piece of shit. She's like, dude, he was saying 98 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 3: so many things to me that I just found inappropriate. 99 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 3: She said, every time he pressed the call button, it 100 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 3: was for nothing. It was for a pack of gummy bears, 101 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 3: it was for chips, it was for exercise. 102 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 2: Bitch, that's something I know. I'm a ring the motherfucker 103 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 2: light with some gummy bears. 104 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 4: I would too, having a mid flight wanting for gummy 105 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 4: bears is weird, though, beer. 106 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: You know what I asked for him, A little salted chips. 107 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: They'd be good of the miss Vickish, the miss Vickie, bitch. 108 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 2: I don't know who Vicky is. That whole gum bear. 109 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 1: That wop put her foot in them chips and they salted. Bitch, 110 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: a sweet salt coll Why do you want to be 111 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: me so bad? 112 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 2: But you want to be me popcorn? Oh bitch, that 113 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: was me. They do that last night. But what I. 114 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 1: Do is the miss biggest salt chips and the little 115 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: mischion mischial something cookies. Okay, they're a mission something. What's 116 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: the best cob, No, they're not the best cars. Do 117 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: the one in him like he looks I don't know, 118 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: you look like an ain't cookies. They're the ones with 119 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: the chocolate. 120 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 2: In the center. You don't know that the they're. 121 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 1: In the pink packaging on the plane, they have the 122 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: chocolate in the center. 123 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 2: What the fuck? They're so delicious, someone's gonna screaming. Okay, 124 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 2: so here's the first class tea. Let's first class tea. 125 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 2: Let's so, I said to her, he. 126 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 3: Looks like he's about to do fucking cocaine all night 127 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 3: and go to jail. And she was like, I know, 128 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 3: there's a look that people just have when I can 129 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 3: tell that they're wealthy. She said, I can also tell 130 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 3: who's in first class or not. I can always tell. 131 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: I was like, yo, I have a podcast about about sex. 132 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 2: Shit. 133 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 3: You gotta tell me because I gotta tell the girls. 134 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 3: She was, actually, I knew you were in first class. 135 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 3: I want to tell y'all what I had on and 136 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 3: what was crazy about her saying this, Let me see, 137 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 3: let me see if I got it in my clothes. 138 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 3: So she said, oh, no, I was wearing my travel outfit. 139 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 3: It's Aritzia sweatpant, black and black hoodie. 140 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: Whatever. 141 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: She said, the way you got on the plane, you 142 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 3: didn't need to know where your seat was. When you 143 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 3: sat in your seat, I asked you if you want it? 144 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 2: She said, Oh. 145 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 3: She's like, there's an attitude of the person. She said, 146 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 3: you didn't even want champagne. You didn't pull your phone out. 147 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 3: There's a lot like to take a picture. There's a 148 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 3: lot of things you did that let me know. Oh, 149 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 3: she must be a frequent flyer. She's like, but when 150 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 3: you walked on the plane, there was something about your attitude, 151 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 3: the way you wore your clothes. She was like, maybe 152 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 3: how your luggage was positioned. And also sometimes people just 153 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 3: really look cool and a little bit different. 154 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: They said, you look cool, and you look cool. No, no, 155 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: fucking piercing, I mean you you know what I mean. 156 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 3: I was going to say, under my hoodie, you cunt. 157 00:06:58,560 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: I was wearing a. 158 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 3: Palestine Oh, stop killing Palestinian. 159 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,119 Speaker 2: Shirt girl on the plane. 160 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: No, that's why she had a hoodie on, because they 161 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: will they will kill Palestinians. 162 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: No, I know, Oh, they will take her off. I 163 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 2: just understand that. 164 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 3: The pla and Nina's like sitting on top of the 165 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 3: luggage and I think the dog. 166 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 2: I mean the dog, the dog. 167 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: You have a fucking little tiny parasolsan dogs. That's the 168 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: point witch, of course. 169 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 3: So wait, I was like, yo, that's crazy, because there's 170 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 3: sometimes where I feel like I'm not dressing up enough 171 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 3: for first class. She goes, you know, when I really 172 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 3: know she's a bitch, She was like, you know, and 173 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: I really know the girls have never been She's like, 174 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 3: when they're almost too dressy. She's like, I meet a 175 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 3: lot of hot girls on the way to LA or 176 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 3: New York, and I know they're with somebody rich, and 177 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 3: they're almost so dressed up for first class that I 178 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: know they're there. 179 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 2: To take pics. And so maybe they know. But because 180 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 2: bitch looking like a ball. So she said, there's different art. 181 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: But I do order a membosa, bitch, and you better 182 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: have my drunk before we leave this one. 183 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 2: Wait, Panta, she. 184 00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 3: Said, when you see the sweat suit, she's like in 185 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 3: a combo of expensive accessories, She's like, four eeks. Oh 186 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 3: I do that, she said, men and women, she said, 187 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 3: even like it could be the air what is it. 188 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 2: Over the ear? Not the airphones? 189 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 3: Headphones, She's like expensive headphones, the luggage, which she's like, 190 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 3: not a lot of branding. 191 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 2: She says, they have a very clean look with the sweatsuit. 192 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 2: So you've been there. Everything looks very clean. But then first. 193 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: Off, omfoue to be comfortable but apparently not too comfortable. 194 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: You see you see Tampa, but you have a fucking duffle. 195 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: Do you see Tampa with no more pajamas? 196 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 2: No? I kind of understand that a little bit. 197 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 3: I do do it so I hate that ship white people, okay, 198 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 3: but I like black people. 199 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 2: Or this is racist a little bit. 200 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 3: Sorry, No, it's not white white white trash. I've been 201 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 3: seeing it white. 202 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 4: But it's like now they could dictate our sweats to 203 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 4: be but John. 204 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: It's not only sweats but even the budget airlines. 205 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 1: At a home girl who got denied like boarding because 206 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: she had on a little cross top leggings too tight 207 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: and she looked like a wore. And they said, the 208 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: only way you can pour this is if you go 209 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: get a hoodie right now, otherwise we're denying you border. 210 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: But you also can't go on the on an airplane 211 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 1: looking like you just left the strip club either, like they. 212 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 2: Look like you on the decorum. Oh okay, there's the 213 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 2: other archetypes. 214 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 3: She's like when someone's extremely hot, she's like that girl 215 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 3: sitting behind you. 216 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 2: Oh wait, that's why they know. Girl sitting behind me 217 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 2: was fucking the. 218 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 3: Bitch had on raggedy clothes, jawnline, crazy sexy ass bob 219 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 3: like the bitch was. She was like, there's also and 220 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 3: she's like, I fly out of Atlanta Airport a lot, 221 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 3: and she's like, there's a look. 222 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: When it comes to jewelry and. 223 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 3: A southern aesthetic, she was like, is an urban aesthetic. 224 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 2: It just is what it is. She was like, that's 225 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 2: different from cheap jewelry. 226 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 3: She was like, the watch could be simple, the glasses 227 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 3: are expensive. She was like, I've seen flight attendants say 228 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 3: someone's ghetto and blah blah blah, and they're fucking millionaires. 229 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 3: They're owning, like so many different restaurants in Atlanta they're owning, 230 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 3: they have they'd be in different airport hangers. She was like, 231 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 3: they different. She talked about the batty aesthetic. She's like, 232 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 3: every time I see like you know, when the butt 233 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 3: is very overdone. I was like, the bb all, yeah, 234 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 3: if I see that and they don't have like what 235 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 3: she say she didn't say. I can't remember what she said. 236 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 3: The BBL had to go with some but she's like 237 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 3: they always She's like, when their hair looks really pretty 238 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 3: and they have on big glasses and a little. 239 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 2: Lip glass, they do this, okay, she said. 240 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 3: If it's white men, she said, I really see white 241 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,199 Speaker 3: men dressed down in first class. 242 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 2: They're typically corporate. 243 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 3: And depending on they are, she said, on the early flights, 244 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 3: they're in a suit. She's like, if a white guy's 245 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 3: dressed casual and looks cool, she's like a lot of tattoos. 246 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 3: Sometimes tell me maybe first class artistic production, She's like, 247 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,599 Speaker 3: and then everyone else in between is just forgettable. 248 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think that's exactly how it is. 249 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 3: But she said that so many people are forgettable, and 250 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 3: the ones that she has to double take, she said, 251 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 3: almost eight out. 252 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 2: Of ten or first class. 253 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:11,719 Speaker 3: She's like, some people just I could serve them a 254 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,719 Speaker 3: hundred times and forget who they are. 255 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 2: And then there's some people to stick out to me, 256 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 2: and those are the ones. 257 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 3: And I was like, you know what, to me, that 258 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 3: also speaks volumes as to like the attitude of confidence 259 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 3: a little bit. 260 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 2: It's so funny that you say that. I went to. 261 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:33,079 Speaker 1: It was a bookstop for two chains yesterday with Deontay Coy. 262 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: Did you see jan No jan wasn't there, but with 263 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: him hurry it was so I got to see her. 264 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: And you know, what he allegedly talks about in his 265 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: book is how walking with confidence and being in rooms 266 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: like confidence is an energy that so many people lack, 267 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: but when you have it, no one can question you. 268 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: And he shared this funny story about going to like 269 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: All Star weekend or something and having tickets and he 270 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 1: walked on the court but he wasn't supposed to be 271 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: on the court, but niggas knew him, and he just 272 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: walked on the court to where someone tried to stop 273 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: him who worked there, And he said, my confidence was 274 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 1: so big. 275 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 2: I almost looked at him, like, nigga, what you doing here? 276 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: And clearly you worked there, But he was just like, 277 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 1: they's the thing about confidence that when you enter a 278 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: room that everyone actually acknowledges and it's so weird that 279 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: so many people don't have that. 280 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 3: And I when her and I started talking about confidence, right, 281 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 3: we then started talking about dating. We need her talking 282 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 3: about thirty minutes and she was like, there's just something 283 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 3: with the walk. She was like, I don't know, and 284 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 3: that's how when you aren't dressed well, She's like, oh, 285 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 3: dressed up. She's like, I just know. And she's like, 286 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 3: I don't even know if it's posture. And I was like, 287 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 3: so when you're dating, like can you get people's numbers 288 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 3: on plane? She's like, I can, it's allowed. I'm not 289 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 3: supposed to pull my phone out if I want to 290 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 3: like slip something. 291 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 2: It's not it's frowned upon. And she's like in for me. 292 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 3: I was like, so, do you always get the Delta 293 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 3: class niggas and Delta one niggas and she was like no, 294 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 3: She's like, sometimes it's the really hot, confident guy. She's like, 295 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 3: I've gotten guys who are just out for a bachelor 296 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 3: bachelor weekend and they all the way in the back 297 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 3: in the middle. She was like, confidence is like striking 298 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 3: to me because what I've learned being a flight attendant 299 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 3: in a first class flight attendant as a seniority. Yeah, well, 300 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 3: how they do it, She's like, is how much money 301 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 3: people have and how much confidence they lack. 302 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 2: The money gave them the confidence. 303 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 3: She's like, it's almost like if you stripped all the 304 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 3: way like the guy that was hitting on her, it's gone. 305 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 3: It's fucking gone. And she said, over the years she's 306 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 3: been seeing younger people. She's like first class. Years ago 307 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 3: was so like everyone in a suit. She was like, 308 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 3: now no one fucking cares her. 309 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 1: I mean the same as the NBA. Yeah, I'm not 310 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: gonna lie. I felt real old ago, like at All 311 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: Star weekend and. 312 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: I was like, where are the suits? Don't you miss 313 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 2: seeing the guys come down the thing in since girl, 314 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 2: that's the early two thousand, I know, but this is. 315 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: Where I was just like, I'm miss seeing you know, 316 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: the little fine fine ship in some suits. Now they're 317 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 1: just wearing like outfice that make them look on the 318 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: spectrum of sexuality. You know, be giving me cool, That's 319 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: that's cool. I want a nigga in a suit, not 320 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: a nigga a skirt. You know, they be wearing skirt, 321 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: they be wearing leather pieces. I walk and I'm just like, 322 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: can we just get the boys back in suit? 323 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 2: Are we taking an issue of men wearing skirts? Not today? 324 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 2: We can't do this only you paint your nails? Wow? Wow? 325 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: Can we talk a little bit about confidence in work too? Oh? 326 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 1: I was gonna say how I lost all confidence this 327 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: last couple of weeks, But go ahead, we could talk 328 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: about being confident in work. 329 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 3: Oh no, I was just gonna say how a confidence 330 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 3: stripper ran me and goning to get through some money 331 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 3: in Atlanta before. 332 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 2: I got hold on hold she said, she said, confidence 333 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 2: is stripper. It's called manipulation. 334 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 3: We fight, you know, when you sit down and you 335 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 3: in there and he like he spot the bad bitches, right, 336 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 3: so we get the bad bage. 337 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 2: You were just in Atlanta, y'all went to Cheetah. 338 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 3: So we had dinner and we're like, all right, after 339 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 3: we eat, so the baddest bitch in there, we call 340 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 3: her over. 341 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 2: What was her name? Okay? I was making sure it 342 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 2: wasn't my my bitch? Who was her name? Mistress? Didn't 343 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 2: hear her that? Oh no, I got no, I don't 344 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 2: wait know, And now I feel bad because I'm about 345 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: to say bread because because what we love to do 346 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 2: is talk ship. 347 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: Don't bleep the name of okay, so this particular don't 348 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: bleep on mistress. 349 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: That's my dog. 350 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 1: Okay, y'all go see Cheeah BYU was about to close 351 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: and December, so get there before you came. 352 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 2: I loved it. 353 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 3: So she comes over and she's like, hey, where are 354 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 3: y'all from? And whatever? Her energy is so fucking whack. 355 00:15:56,200 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 3: And so she was like, oh cool, yeah, okay. 356 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: When didn't y'all want to yea? And so she did 357 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: sing on him. 358 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 3: Like yo, just fantasy ruined. She was smiling or whatever, 359 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 3: but just like shoulders down whatever. So then it's funny 360 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 3: girl come over wish I knew her name, and he 361 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 3: was like is she coming over here? And he's like, please, 362 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 3: don't let her come over here? And I was like, 363 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 3: sh comes over the table and she was like, what 364 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 3: y'all done eating? 365 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 1: I don't care my bitch and she said no, no, 366 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: this bitch wife, but you don't remember, oh my bitch 367 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: wag Okay. 368 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 3: So she was like y'all done eating? What she was like, 369 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 3: so you ain't come for no dance? Don't play with me? 370 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, I kind of like a 371 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: little attitude. 372 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 3: I was like, fucking give him a dance. She was like, 373 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 3: because you want to watch I want to watch. 374 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: Me and oh yeah, no, definitely not my bitch. 375 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 2: And let me tell you, we're paying this bitch, paying bitch, 376 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 2: paying this bitch. 377 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 3: And when he left, when she left, he was like, yo, 378 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 3: we have a conversation about how fucking attitude will take 379 00:16:57,760 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 3: you to a next level. 380 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 2: He's like, I will fund that all night over, that 381 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 2: bad bitch. I really would. 382 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 3: He was like, I need that ship in my life. 383 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 3: Like being surrounded with people that are the vibe. 384 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: Okay, it just takes you up nine Chase. 385 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 3: I literally saw the first bitch and said, okay, let's 386 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:14,399 Speaker 3: take out a thousand. 387 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 2: This bitch looked good. Fuck it, bro. When I saw 388 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 2: that other girl, wouldn't thought. How long were you out 389 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 2: there for? You? Like the ship club? You were there 390 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 2: five four hours? What's nine to twelve? Three? Bitch? You 391 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 2: were way off with the man. Why do when do 392 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 2: you come to the twelve nine, ten twelve phil? Five? No, 393 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 2: not five. I was in tech, you were in math whatever. 394 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 2: I was in a county of finance. Foot, bitch. You 395 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: just said nine to twelve was five hours. That's crazy. 396 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 2: I didn't have to use my fingers on my own life. Mind. 397 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: You you know who was out of six hour work? 398 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: You know? You know who are really out for five hours? 399 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 4: That night? 400 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 2: Me doing what? 401 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: I went to dinner, then I went to a dive bar. 402 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 1: Then I ended up at Flow, which is a party 403 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: DJ by Brian Michael Cos. 404 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 2: Yes, but I went with Terra s Martin. 405 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 1: And Robert Glasper because he had to show it, and 406 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 1: Kelly Rowland caught me beautiful. If y'all bitches be in 407 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: the comments, talking ship said, oh my god, you're beautiful, bitch. 408 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: And so now y'all can't say nothing, puss off, not 409 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:38,199 Speaker 1: gonna lie. 410 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 2: That's like beyond well. They said something. Okay, can we 411 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 2: get into it? We can? Okay. 412 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: If you guys are O G whore high members, you 413 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: go back to episode six, that's one. 414 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 2: It was. It's episode six that wasn't so it's episode three. 415 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 1: Damn yeh episode six was I think probably be small 416 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:08,680 Speaker 1: episode three? 417 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 2: Whoa, Yeah, don't know what to try to tell time. 418 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: By the way, I don't think our episode six, whatever 419 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: that episode is, doesn't exist anymore. I know, yeah, damn 420 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 1: our first episode would be someone doesn't exist anymore. Anyways, 421 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: we had a discussion early on. I called I said 422 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: that weezy it maybe myself. Maybe I didn't include myself. 423 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. I was petty was promiscuous. 424 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: This became a constant trend of us having conversations about 425 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: that word specifically. Now we are three two, three weeks 426 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: out of the Sarah Fontineau dash shorter debacle of what 427 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: took place here on Decisions Decisions. 428 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 2: If you guys haven't watched that episode yet, go back. 429 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 1: However, I did a vlog is available on Patreon right now, 430 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 1: but before Sarah came on, I did her podcast. So 431 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: for three weeks, y'all, those comments were good, not on 432 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 1: oh on YouTube. They were not the clips that she 433 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: collaborated with me on. 434 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 2: Mind you bitch, I like it's the. 435 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,880 Speaker 3: Ground because you posted it on Patreon, and I feel 436 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 3: I saw a bunch of people like this is great. 437 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah for us, No, bitch, I was 438 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 1: introduced to her audience, which is a little bit more traditional. 439 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: We little bit were introduced to the world because them 440 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:42,160 Speaker 1: numbers went up, And y'all, I I cried multiple times 441 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 1: over the last couple of weeks. And I didn't know 442 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 1: that the word Jessebel hurts so bad. Now hear me out. 443 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,359 Speaker 1: It might be because I watched handmade sales and the 444 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: Jezebels were like, not great, but literally my mind went 445 00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 1: down the handsmade rabbit hole of as a woman, our 446 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: money means nothing, are competent means nothing? Because how they 447 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 1: distinguish where women align is a who you're married to. 448 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: Those were the commander's wives, your ability to procreate, which 449 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: were the handmaid's tales. Then they had the other women 450 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: that were the cooks and the people in the house. 451 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 2: I forgot their names. And then you had the Jezebels 452 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 2: only good for sex, only good for sex, and then 453 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,479 Speaker 2: of course everyone else in between, probably the others that 454 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 2: we almost got canceled on and EDIT had to save 455 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: us were in the field. Have you seen what? Because 456 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 2: there was a field. 457 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 3: There's a video of a woman saying, let me tell 458 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 3: you all of the things you can't be as a 459 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 3: woman that you'd be celebrated for as a man. You 460 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 3: would be celebrated for having great hair. You'd be celebrated 461 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 3: for not having children. You'd be celebrated for being independent. Oof, 462 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 3: you'd be celebrated for putting your partner second to yourself. Oh, 463 00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 3: you'd be celebrated for choosing your career or for your family. Like, 464 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,639 Speaker 3: there are so many things that as a woman scarlet a. 465 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. 466 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 1: And so this this week was literally, and I hate 467 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: to say this, I was like, damn, a part of 468 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,479 Speaker 1: me wish I was a man because the things that 469 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: I find so much pride in mind you the autonomy 470 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:24,199 Speaker 1: that we've been given in this part of history, like 471 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: being able to be c suite, being able to be entrepreneurs, 472 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:28,919 Speaker 1: being able to live on our own, being able to 473 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 1: choose whether we want to be moms or not, being 474 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: able to do all these things. I was like, damn, 475 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:35,879 Speaker 1: Like reading these comments on the internet this week and 476 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 1: being referred to as a Jezebel and knowing the connotation 477 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: of it or where it aligns us literally diminishes us 478 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 1: to poor Lebron James Puff like nothing. And it was 479 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 1: so hurtful because in a way that I've been so 480 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: proud with going to therapy, with building what we've built together, 481 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: with living in my mind I dream loft, and all 482 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 1: the things I've accomplished. I was like, Damn, when you 483 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 1: read the comments, when you see what we've accomplished as 484 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: a woman, that don't mean ship to a motherfucker. 485 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 2: Do you know the comment that hurt me the most? Oh, 486 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 2: you screenshotted it. Her name is Naisha. She lives in 487 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 2: Los Angeles. 488 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: Oh, pull, and we're gonna find your job and tell 489 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: them that you're talking about black women on the internet. 490 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 2: Oh, she's a black woman self beautiful Actually, is she beautiful? 491 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: I think so, you'd be fake nice to these bites? 492 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 2: My first class, Yeah, for the first class beautiful. Who 493 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 2: to tell? She made? 494 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 4: Tell you? 495 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 3: She made her page private once I tagged her. Of 496 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 3: course you did, but of course her DOMO about her comment. 497 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 3: I'm curious and it's such a simple comment, but something 498 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 3: about it like activated me. 499 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 2: And it said. 500 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 3: Weezy will never be married. Not be sorry it weezy, 501 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 3: w Weezy won't be married. It is what it is, okay, 502 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 3: And I'm like. 503 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 2: Wait, that was a comment. I didn't keep going Weezy 504 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,119 Speaker 2: won't be married. Here's what it is. 505 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 3: I got right now, here's but here's how I really 506 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 3: felt about that. I thought, damn, this is someone that's 507 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 3: left comments. I clicked on her. She left comments on 508 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 3: our page before she views the show. Don't tell me 509 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 3: what the fuck I'm ever gonna have in life? 510 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 2: Mmm? You know what I'm saying. 511 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 3: You could say I'm a whore on this and that. 512 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 3: Don't you fucking tell me what the fuck my future 513 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 3: is gonna be? 514 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 2: Bitch? Because who the fuck are you? Who the fuck 515 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 2: is you? 516 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 3: I click on her page. She hasn't failed lip gloss line. 517 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 3: Then she like works in event planning or silent, whatever 518 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 3: fuck it was. And I was thinking to myself, oh, bitch, 519 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,159 Speaker 3: you'll never be successful. How does that feel? 520 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 2: How dare I tell. 521 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 3: You what the fuck you ever gonna have in life? 522 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 3: And I think the reason it hurt more is because 523 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 3: it was a black woman that I know has been 524 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 3: in our content before. It says something like that to me. 525 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 3: These niggas I have these litt expectations for, but these 526 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 3: women are higher. 527 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 2: And you don't you know that. 528 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 3: I'm not a terrible person. That's why you watch the show. 529 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 3: I'm not awful, right. I don't know how much we 530 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 3: could one can hate watch She's grown, like had the 531 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 3: nerve to get on there and say I won't have this. 532 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 2: It is what it is. 533 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 3: I really think it's nasty to ever tell somebody they 534 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 3: won't be successful, they won't find love, they won't access 535 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 3: a certain point in life. 536 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 2: And that's why I really had to tell her she 537 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 2: won't be successful. And I believe it. Everything I say 538 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 2: comes true. It's true. 539 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 3: I get everything I want every single time. And when 540 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 3: I'm sitting here married, I'm gonna bring you up again. 541 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 3: And that lip glass line is still that go Daddy 542 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 3: subscription is going to be gone by the time I'm married. 543 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 3: And I'm sorry you had to say that to me, 544 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 3: And I'm sorry for what I'm saying hurts your feelings. 545 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 3: I'm sorry you didn't use another page to say this 546 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 3: and that I was able to access you. I'm actually 547 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 3: very sorry for that. But what you should be sorry 548 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 3: for is thinking that your thoughts are your words are 549 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 3: that powerful to where it won't happen, because anybody who's 550 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 3: ever told me no, it's just the battery in my back. 551 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 3: Like I think I really started another one of the 552 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,880 Speaker 3: studios because somebody told me, you guys won't be able 553 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 3: to expand it's too soon. Like everything like that really 554 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 3: puts a battery in my back. A woman saying that 555 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,439 Speaker 3: fucked me up. The other things more so like hurt 556 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 3: my feelings like a little burn, like a little sting. 557 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 3: But that just like crushed me because I thought we 558 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 3: were doing this for women. I thought the strength I 559 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 3: displayed in that episode was very loud. 560 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 2: Hey, choose yourself. Love my man. We all know I'm 561 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 2: obsessed with him. 562 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 3: I realized in that episode I'm not as male centered 563 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 3: as I thought. That's the fucking comic section is that 564 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 3: episode with my mom and I where I said I 565 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 3: want to cook for a nigg, I want to do 566 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 3: x y Z. 567 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,120 Speaker 2: That made me look very pick me, male centered, which 568 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,679 Speaker 2: I thought I was until I sat with Sarah. 569 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 3: And I'm not calling Sarah pick me, you not, No, 570 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 3: I'm just saying that you don't think she's a pick me. 571 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,360 Speaker 2: I think Sarah is because to me, there's a difference male. 572 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 2: He's centered, but not a pick me. 573 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: It's weird because that was the interesting thing to me 574 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: about her. It didn't seem like I feel like she 575 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 1: was marriage centered. She was patriarchal centered. I think it 576 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 1: could have but I think it could have been any. 577 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 2: Man like like you know what I mean, Like a. 578 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 1: Part of me was like even her husband now being 579 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: her friend, first, her breaking up with the boyfriend she 580 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: was with. It was marriage was the goal, not even 581 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: the fact that she wanted to show up as this 582 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,120 Speaker 1: person for a man and give everything to a man. 583 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 2: It was that she wanted the title of a wife 584 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 2: more than the man mattered. To me. That's how I guess. 585 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 3: I think the reason I know a lot of people 586 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:53,120 Speaker 3: feel that and believe that I'm slightly not sure about 587 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 3: that because she could. 588 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 2: Have been married two other times. The first time. 589 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 3: Sorry, that was abusive, dude. Never mind, she could have 590 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 3: been married one other time. That second one could have 591 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 3: had him. And that's what made me think you don't 592 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 3: want marriage, that you would choose yourself first. 593 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 2: Sarah has chosen herself. 594 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: So but what was weird or questionable about Sarah's choice 595 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 3: to all of us as viewers, the people that didn't 596 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,879 Speaker 3: like what she said was the six days and the 597 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 3: person before and them not dating. 598 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:21,640 Speaker 2: That was the weird thing. 599 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's picked me though, but it's 600 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 3: male centered because she said something about that guy has 601 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 3: a marriage mind. I think what Sarah displayed and we 602 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 3: should also talk about this when we sit together again 603 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 3: because there's so much dissecting from our conversation. 604 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd love to. 605 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 3: Say it is when she said the marriage mind to me, 606 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 3: and I wish I asked her more about this because me, 607 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 3: I was like, damn, if you ask me right now, 608 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 3: if I could be the love of my life for 609 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 3: even fucking ten years or just have a good partner 610 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 3: that's a husband to the day I die, I would 611 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 3: rather be in love. Love is above marriage to me. 612 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 3: Love is above all. Love is a romance. Love and 613 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 3: we share that in friendship. 614 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, like. 615 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 3: Love, real fucking love, dude, Take give me that. 616 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 2: Run me that. 617 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: It's interesting because even your response to the comment is bitch, 618 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you when I'm married. And for me, 619 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 1: the comments have been so much more harsh in me 620 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 1: as a being. Fuck how I see my romantic partnerships right? 621 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:33,719 Speaker 2: Uh Chris xof if y'all want to tag him, feel free, 622 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 2: it's two s's. Xof. 623 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: Chris's response to everything I've said is but you're nothing 624 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 1: without a man. And so for me, oh bit, For me, 625 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: the comments leaning into my existence as a woman, as 626 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: a being, as an entrepreneur, as a friend, as a sister, 627 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 1: as a daughter. No other titles in life matters until 628 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: a man fucking crowns me a goddamn ring. And so 629 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: for me, I know, I love that so many of 630 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: the people who listen to our podcast are this modern 631 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 1: day I could say trope, but being of a woman 632 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 1: where we're kind of tearing down these labels identifying us 633 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 1: like that. 634 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 2: To me, it's not just because I was going to say, 635 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 2: of course, a nigga said that. Yea, and he did. 636 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 2: But what's stranger about this is how valuable it is 637 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 2: to women as well. 638 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 3: And I say that because when I get married, that's 639 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 3: just what's going to happen in my life. If I 640 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 3: ever had an issue or something ever went wrong, that 641 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 3: girl Nisha would be so excited to see. 642 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 2: Well, you got married but it didn't work. Women also ready, 643 00:30:55,920 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 2: Oh no, do you see the comments I want? But 644 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 2: should we beleeve that? Yes, leeve that, let's beleeve that. 645 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: But it's why it's difficult because when a woman does. 646 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 2: Find her knight in shining new armor. Let's be very clear. 647 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 2: I was with my ex. 648 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: For a year in bliss, and everyone's like, ooh, can't 649 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: wait till she hit the rough fetch like people also 650 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 1: can't wait for people to be unhappy because. 651 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 2: They want you with them. Hey, weezy, you'll never be married. 652 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 2: You won't have this thing. 653 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 3: I would love to know why won't have it? And 654 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 3: then once I do have it, you don't want me 655 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 3: to have it anymore. Like, bro, it's a weird thing 656 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 3: of us, kind of being obsessed with wanting to knock 657 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 3: someone off a peg. 658 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 2: It's a weird fucking thing, you say. 659 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 4: I also think it's that people can't access they don't 660 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 4: want to see y'all be different people. Maybe it also 661 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 4: for the sake of the show, which is a little 662 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 4: weird people. 663 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 2: Bro, she could still bitches get money be different people. 664 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 2: That's genuinely the only reason. 665 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 3: Why I pitched that idea to Mandy that we spoke 666 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 3: about privately, because I know for a fact I. 667 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 2: Can't talk about it and then bring it up on 668 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 2: the wine. No, I'm not gonna say. 669 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say on the topic we talked about privately, 670 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 3: but I'm just saying, like it is the idea that 671 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 3: the mic. I know, yea. 672 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 4: Have y'all not lost friends because they were being weird, 673 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 4: because you guys were like actually developing and changing and 674 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 4: being different people. 675 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 2: It's the same thing. No, I'm I'm a lot of 676 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 2: the same. 677 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 1: I have not lose but I have lost friends when 678 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: they've reached different parts in their lives. So like if 679 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 1: if friends got partners or had a baby or things 680 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: that they just know I don't want for myself. 681 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 4: But you separated, had differences, that's it that happens. That 682 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 4: is the weirdo side of it. When it comes to 683 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 4: like people that even like fuck with y'all that they 684 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 4: can't handle situations like, well. 685 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 1: It's different because I think for me it's baby's wife cool, 686 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: I don't want either. So for me, it's also been 687 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: the then what, so well it's not that then what? 688 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 1: And I talk about this in my vlog. The two 689 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 1: guys that I dated in Atlanta only dated two guys 690 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 1: since I've lived in Atlanta. Both when I expressed that 691 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 1: I didn't want to be a wife and didn't want 692 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 1: to be a mom, one was like, so, why date you? 693 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 2: And the other was like, so, do you want to 694 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 2: be a help forever? 695 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 4: What? 696 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: That was their responses, And oh wait, I remember, yes, 697 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 1: I told you. And so for me, it's also like 698 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 1: then sitting with the two of you and edding you 699 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: two at the top of the year. My my romantic 700 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 1: partnerships not being looked at from a serious lens to 701 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 1: where wait, I do want partnership, I do seek love, 702 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 1: I do want a healthy situation with another person. I 703 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: also hear that you guys talk a lot about how 704 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 1: we lean into our conversations from my heterosexual lens, y'all, 705 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: I fuck bitches. I just fucked one this weekend. Hold on, 706 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what her name was, 707 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: but it was a good time and so for me, 708 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 1: I just keep potting right now. No, but I genuinely 709 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 1: don't like, have the desire to romantically be in a 710 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 1: homosexual relationship, and. 711 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 3: I want to think about something. I wish you worded 712 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 3: differently on a wait, what do. 713 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 1: You wish I worded differently? First off, you know security 714 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:50,560 Speaker 1: about my Florida wrong, but it's could leave it like that, Okay, yeah, 715 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,320 Speaker 1: subscribe to you Tube. 716 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 3: So I wanted I wish I worded something differently, and 717 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 3: I wish you worded something different talk to me. I 718 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 3: wish I had said when I choose myself first, it's 719 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 3: because what is my relationship without the best version of me? 720 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 3: And I don't believe that the best version of you 721 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 3: exists if someone else is before you. 722 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:23,799 Speaker 2: This is why moms. 723 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 3: Suffer a lot. Moms suffer a lot when they get 724 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 3: wrapped up in their mother identity and a lot of 725 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 3: my homegirls, I'm sure you've had a friend or two 726 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 3: be like this. 727 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 2: I don't know what like. I haven't been taken care 728 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 2: of myself. I haven't do it. 729 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, Nah, I got to be team a right a 730 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:42,960 Speaker 3: teen that I said in a way that wasn't translating. 731 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:43,760 Speaker 2: Well with yours. 732 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 3: What I say, oh, I believe wholeheartedly and don't think 733 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 3: it would even be judged about you not getting married. 734 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 3: But your answer what was wrong with My answer was 735 00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 3: rooted in like protecting your heart, you know what's crazy yourself? 736 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,879 Speaker 1: It wasn't root and so I've been respond hearing it. 737 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: It was, but I've been responding to people about that. 738 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 1: So my answer was I've gone through a divorce already. 739 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,959 Speaker 1: So everyone believes that my my reasoning for not wanting 740 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 1: to be married is rooted in trauma and heartbreak. 741 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 2: No, to me, it's rooted in reality. 742 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 1: To me, it's rooted in and to me, it's also 743 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,799 Speaker 1: no different than if someone's already been married and they say, 744 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,320 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want to go through that again. 745 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 1: To me, I've been in that situation to where the 746 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 1: person that I had a friendship with that I love 747 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 1: that at the end was not and came after my 748 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,439 Speaker 1: fucking LIVELIHO, came after my money and. 749 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,239 Speaker 2: I didn't need to keep anything. So for me, for 750 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:41,760 Speaker 2: and I've met. 751 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,800 Speaker 3: Jenny, and you're not like that in business, No, you 752 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 3: would do another podcast. 753 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 2: Hold on you ready on another? Hold on? Han did 754 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 2: and you ready? Baby? That paper will look look real 755 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 2: different than us in that that doesn't matter, though it does. 756 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,720 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not in partnership with anyone, but anymore 757 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:56,760 Speaker 1: after after. 758 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 2: Hold on, baby, we are the last of both. 759 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 4: Yo. 760 00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 2: You and tempest have a business. 761 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 1: And it's not the same, girl, shout out, shout out 762 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,400 Speaker 1: a power, I p it is. I am no longer 763 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: fifty to fifty with assets the way that partnership is 764 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 1: righting up. Hold on my selective ignorance agreement, baby, it 765 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: is me one baby the same. You would try again, 766 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 1: and wouldn't. That's not true that I'm telling you, Okay, 767 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,400 Speaker 1: and wouldn't. This is basically why I said it's rooted 768 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,839 Speaker 1: in mem ma'am. 769 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 2: And wouldn't. I have two other businesses that are nothing 770 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 2: like after that divorce? Correct? But you would start another business? Oh, 771 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:34,359 Speaker 2: Hold hold on? 772 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 1: Starting another business is not getting into a marriage with 773 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 1: one of the persons. 774 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 2: I but you're getting into still another. No, it's not 775 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 2: the same. It ain't no fifty fifty there. You could 776 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 2: say it's not the same, but it's not the same. 777 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,879 Speaker 2: I do think, But it's not the same. Bro. 778 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 3: You want me to say the name damn bitch you 779 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,880 Speaker 3: d but it is not the same. It's not anything, 780 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 3: Kelly God it is. It is not the same. 781 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,959 Speaker 2: Woman. Isn't that nigga lantern? It is not? Okay? You said, 782 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 2: but I play that clip too before this. No, no, 783 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,320 Speaker 2: I'll play it. You gonna play. Oh, I have the 784 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 2: quick the way weezy. 785 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,879 Speaker 1: When I sent her this clip, said, I really hate 786 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:12,759 Speaker 1: that you just said that to me. 787 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 2: He ruined my dad. 788 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 3: Because I just ignore shit, like if I see like 789 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 3: a thousand mentions. 790 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: Oh it was bad, I just I won't look okay, 791 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 1: So to be fair, mind you. When I first said 792 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,920 Speaker 1: it to her, I said, come on reaction video. And 793 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 1: then I watched it all and I was like, okay, 794 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 1: here's the clip that I said to Breonnda and I 795 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:33,399 Speaker 1: said help. 796 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:34,959 Speaker 2: I said, these your. 797 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:40,400 Speaker 3: People, but not a man always first, and then my 798 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 3: tients and then. 799 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 2: God, I come thron day. The jees adel spurns right, 800 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,800 Speaker 2: oh from the lantern woman. Okay, I wait that you 801 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 2: you cut that? That clip was way long. 802 00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:57,960 Speaker 3: No, I just put a little edit and sent it 803 00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 3: to my friends, like of a nigga saying they need 804 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 3: holy water for of course, oh I know, but I 805 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 3: don't want to blame in it. 806 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 2: It's the whole relive in it. 807 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 3: But I will tell you the Holy Spirit with the 808 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 3: niggas saying that where is this holy water? On my birthday, 809 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,279 Speaker 3: I'm going to get a shot of patron poured into 810 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,400 Speaker 3: my mouth and like kind of double click click with 811 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 3: the holy water. A few things I want to say 812 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 3: about that moment, right, I think the bee kids god thing, 813 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,840 Speaker 3: if I could elaborate on it. And even though I 814 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 3: don't really care because whatever the reason I said that 815 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 3: is because religion is not something that is that important 816 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 3: to me. I don't practice it daily just because I 817 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 3: believe in it. I don't pray before my meals. I 818 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 3: don't read the Bible. I don't read the Koran or 819 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,360 Speaker 3: the Church. I don't go to church. 820 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 2: I don't halljah. I have faith. I'm a spiritual person. 821 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 3: My partner and I have prayed before bed because we 822 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,799 Speaker 3: want to speak words out together, but he won't even 823 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:08,760 Speaker 3: say amen, Like we are not the traditional religious couple. 824 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:12,720 Speaker 3: When I say God, I really just mean everything around 825 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,080 Speaker 3: me universally. Whatever I know, my ancestors or gods to 826 00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,760 Speaker 3: me now, my grandmother, my aunt. That's what God looks 827 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 3: like for me, not saying I'm an atheist or agnostic. 828 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 3: It's just when I say God, sometimes it looks different. 829 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 3: I want to also remind everyone that watches this show 830 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 3: the Bible, God and homosexuality being a sin was something 831 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 3: that was difficult in my breakup with Scissors and affected 832 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 3: my relationship. 833 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,320 Speaker 2: The ideology behind religion. 834 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 3: I grew up Jewish because of my father, and they 835 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,320 Speaker 3: all hated my mom and didn't welcome her in a synagogue, 836 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,720 Speaker 3: and then I would have to sneak off to church 837 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 3: with my mom because she wanted to feel something. And 838 00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 3: then while in church, I was dating a woman, and 839 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,279 Speaker 3: then every time I'm talking about sisters, I almost say 840 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,279 Speaker 3: her name, And then you know she also dealt with 841 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 3: some of those feelings too, about how she felt. 842 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 2: Because she's so religious. 843 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:13,879 Speaker 3: And I've just seen religion not necessarily heal and help 844 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 3: people in my community. 845 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:15,360 Speaker 2: Not only. 846 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 1: There's a layer of do not kill me, bitches, there's 847 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 1: a layer of delusion. Let me tell you a conversation 848 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 1: I had this morning. So I was talking about the 849 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 1: response from what I said on that episode with a 850 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 1: friend of mine, not gonna say her name, but I 851 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 1: was having this conversation with her and she immediately went 852 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,800 Speaker 1: into why marriage means something and she said, well, normally 853 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:48,879 Speaker 1: it's from religious values. I said, okay, but I'm not religious. 854 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 1: So she said, so where do you get your morals from? 855 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:53,760 Speaker 1: Where do you get your view on life? 856 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,319 Speaker 2: Are you good? Question on? 857 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,359 Speaker 1: So she asked me that, like, in terms of how 858 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,319 Speaker 1: you show up for your partner or your friends, where 859 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 1: do you get your value? And I said, well, not 860 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: only from lived experiences, but from books and things that 861 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: I read and things that I take in and history, 862 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 1: because you know, you can change, like history repeats itself often. 863 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 2: So I go into to saying that I get. 864 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:20,440 Speaker 1: It from lived experiences and books, and it was so interesting. 865 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 2: She was like, well, I'm confused because what do you 866 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 2: mean books? Like what kind of books? And she scoffed 867 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:27,240 Speaker 2: at me, saying books. 868 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 1: And I said, bitch, like the Bible that you based 869 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,839 Speaker 1: yours off of, isn't that a book? And she's like, yeah, 870 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 1: but who writes the books that you read? And I 871 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 1: was like, bitch, who wrote the book you read? 872 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 2: I said? 873 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:43,759 Speaker 1: And then she said something so hypocritical? I said, got them? 874 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 1: She said well there's she Her response to that was, well, 875 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,960 Speaker 1: there's a u I want to say. She said hierarchy. 876 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: I can't remember now the exact word, but she's like, well, 877 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 1: there's a there's a difference in books. And I was like, 878 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:06,520 Speaker 1: oh wow, So if my religion was the Qoran, would 879 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 1: you put that? Would you put your book the Bible 880 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 1: above my beliefs? If I was a Buddhist and believed 881 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:16,000 Speaker 1: in Buddhism, would you put their, like, your beliefs above 882 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: whatever book they come from? Because essentially your faith derives 883 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,360 Speaker 1: from a book that was written by man? 884 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,280 Speaker 2: How else was was the fuck it written? 885 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 1: And so it was so interesting us having this conversation 886 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: that I was like, we could stop here because your 887 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,759 Speaker 1: faith and the book that you read from and the 888 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,239 Speaker 1: way that you align your life. I'm saying the same 889 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:40,839 Speaker 1: exact thing, but because it's not your religion and you 890 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 1: just don't want to even accept my answers, we could 891 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 1: stop this conversation because. 892 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 2: I don't want to argue with something about their religion, right, And. 893 00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:54,040 Speaker 3: I don't tell her I put God, Universe, religion, and spirituality. 894 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 2: Third, I just do Mitch. I put out was that 895 00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 2: other thing that not clip finger. That listing thing was crazy. 896 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 2: I gotta be honest with you, Eden, I would say 897 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 2: it again. 898 00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 1: But I actually wanted to ask you if, if, if 899 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 1: you sat with it, because it was such an on 900 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:11,840 Speaker 1: the spot question. 901 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 2: If your list changed and it didn't, does it change? 902 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 2: She said, fuck you pull slas oh so again, who 903 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 2: are you pointing out? Who is that? I'll shit, Hey, 904 00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 2: what I just see a fucking wait? Mind you? 905 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,439 Speaker 1: I I saw a tattoo on a harm. 906 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,880 Speaker 3: I said, so, like, yeah, point of it all is 907 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:41,759 Speaker 3: is like, if God doesn't center my everyday life, why 908 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 3: am I gonna lie in this moment? If I'm not 909 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,400 Speaker 3: going to church, if I'm not visiting, if I'm not 910 00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,320 Speaker 3: basing my morals, ethics, and values off of the Bible 911 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 3: or religion, how can I now pretend in front of 912 00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,279 Speaker 3: everyone that knows me? Fuck the thousands of people that 913 00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 3: just discovered me. 914 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,319 Speaker 2: From that clip. People have been watching the show for years. 915 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,279 Speaker 3: How many times have y'all heard me talk about praying 916 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 3: for God or by relationship to God? 917 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I did produce at I 918 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:10,120 Speaker 2: ain't gonna hold you sorry if y'all are listening to this, 919 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 2: because I love y'all. I love y'all. 920 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I don't love everyone listening. 921 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 2: I love my homegirls that listen. 922 00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 1: But I will say being in my thirties and certain 923 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:29,239 Speaker 1: bitches entering heartbreak and God being the nigga they fall 924 00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:33,200 Speaker 1: on right after, Oh that shit has been one of 925 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,080 Speaker 1: the hardest things. 926 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 2: Bitch. I know you and I'm not gonna hold you. 927 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,480 Speaker 1: God is the most ghetto rebound nigga for these bitches 928 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:44,520 Speaker 1: that could exist. 929 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,320 Speaker 2: They be breaking up with these niggas. 930 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,759 Speaker 1: And God beat the rebound and it just be like 931 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 1: they turn into a whole new bitches waiting for healing 932 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:54,600 Speaker 1: to just arrive. 933 00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 2: He got all the answers. 934 00:45:56,320 --> 00:46:00,000 Speaker 1: No, and that's what they say. I've had a break 935 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:05,279 Speaker 1: where I was like, how do I do it? No, bro, bro, no, no, no, no, no, 936 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's almost like fuck therapy, Fuck holding 937 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 1: the mirror up to how you showed up in that relationship. 938 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: Fuck any accountability. I'm gonna go to church and Bible study. 939 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,880 Speaker 1: And now that I go there, God is going to 940 00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: heal these wounds and find me a better man. And 941 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 1: it's like, bitch, And then so when I'm talking having 942 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 1: three ZiLs picking up bitches at the clerk. Yeah, I 943 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,279 Speaker 1: feel about the fucking judge, but I'm happy. But bitch, 944 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 1: you're still not healed. But because God has into your life. 945 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,919 Speaker 3: And God, let's everyone get the clip. 946 00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 2: Okay. 947 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,560 Speaker 1: But it's like, okay, I get it. God can right 948 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:54,840 Speaker 1: and he will hallelujah. But no, like God cannot be 949 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,279 Speaker 1: your rebound nigga. You need to do the work to 950 00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:02,000 Speaker 1: actually get through whatever this is. Hetriarchy is God a nigga. 951 00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:03,719 Speaker 2: Okay, That's why I said che earlier as well. 952 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 1: I mean, wait, according to Malcolm, the heterosexual bitches, they're 953 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:09,759 Speaker 1: not gonna believe they rebound. 954 00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:11,040 Speaker 2: As a woman. The Christians are not gonna like this one. 955 00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 3: Okay, I know they're not gonna like it. But there's 956 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 3: just one other thing I have to say. That's just 957 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:16,880 Speaker 3: the Christians in my life that I really fuck with. 958 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,120 Speaker 3: I started a business with two Christians Jeff and Breonda 959 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,520 Speaker 3: and trapause Heelujah, right, hallelujah. 960 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 2: And I'm gonna be real with you. 961 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 3: I genuinely find like a closeness sometimes with modern Christians. 962 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,240 Speaker 3: I think it's because faith can make you a great person. 963 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 2: Because having this rule book immorality to follow cool. I 964 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 2: believe a lot of. 965 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,000 Speaker 1: People can't get to that, Poe. Yeah, because also the 966 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,719 Speaker 1: world is so fucked up. If you don't believe that 967 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,319 Speaker 1: you're gonna go to heaven, you might not want to. 968 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 2: Be Yeah, I can't go radical. 969 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 3: To me, radical Islam is as bad as radical Christianity. 970 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,080 Speaker 3: Like the way I was talking to me in the 971 00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,840 Speaker 3: comments like are you bitch as fucking for Mari, Like 972 00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:52,359 Speaker 3: oh my. 973 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 1: God, it was so bad, and it was like God 974 00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 1: would not approve this YouTube comments. 975 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 3: So I said all that to say, it's hard to 976 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 3: be that open about it, especially to Sarah who has 977 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,719 Speaker 3: a great relationship with God and with her own self 978 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,279 Speaker 3: and her own religion. I don't want to push back 979 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:11,920 Speaker 3: on it and make it a thing like. 980 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 2: I mean, and we've never done that. 981 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 1: That's to me if she's leaning into marriage for religious beliefs, 982 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:20,839 Speaker 1: if you believe in marriage, because the sanctity under the 983 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:25,200 Speaker 1: Bible means more to you in this in this union, 984 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:27,919 Speaker 1: I'm I'm mad at that. I mean, I think that 985 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 1: that's the thing. 986 00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 2: For me. 987 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: When I think of the way I view marriage, it's 988 00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 1: from more of a business sense. I've had a divorce 989 00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,760 Speaker 1: and I'm not as religious, and you know we've had. 990 00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 2: To have this conversation my boyfriend and I, oh. 991 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:43,160 Speaker 1: Sorry, y'all, this is what happens. Uh fuck the outline, 992 00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:44,880 Speaker 1: sorry because we have again. 993 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 2: Ah Edi, I gotta watch all these not too much. 994 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,319 Speaker 2: We ady D eighty HD up in this shout out 995 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,840 Speaker 2: to the neuro divergence. I'm not gonna lie best episodes. 996 00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 2: God wanted this. I don't know. I don't know. 997 00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,479 Speaker 1: This is this is the people gonna be like ooh, 998 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,240 Speaker 1: the Christians gonna be like ooh. 999 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 2: Christian. It's not that's what they say. The word is 1000 00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 2: not allowed Jesus God. 1001 00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:12,719 Speaker 4: You know your Jesus Jezebel. Oh sorry, bitch, they could 1002 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:16,320 Speaker 4: just call us Jezebel. They called y'all Jazebel, not me attitude. 1003 00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:17,359 Speaker 4: Do you have to say J word? 1004 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 2: I want to litter shirts that. Oh my god, lets 1005 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 2: do Jezebel. 1006 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:23,280 Speaker 4: Merch Oh I love it. Yes, I agree, I agree, 1007 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:27,799 Speaker 4: I agree, I agree. The word that made me cry. Yes, 1008 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 4: I will make you very It's like horrible. 1009 00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,359 Speaker 2: We've too come up with a Jezebel pie in there. 1010 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 2: Come on, and you know it. Look that lipos line 1011 00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:39,760 Speaker 2: is not gonna do anything might as well make the shirts. 1012 00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 1: Come on, bring it back round to that, bitch, Bring 1013 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 1: it back around, it out. 1014 00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,359 Speaker 2: I'm sorry she's not home. She's going to be married soon. 1015 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 2: Get married, bitch, you're about to get married. 1016 00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 3: Hey, Mandy, i'se get married to? 1017 00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:58,640 Speaker 2: I mean I really was. 1018 00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:02,279 Speaker 3: Actually, let me tell you I was another shirt, not worse. 1019 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,480 Speaker 2: Get married too. No, that's a good shirt. 1020 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:09,480 Speaker 3: Way you actually have party by the way, y'all, I'm 1021 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:10,080 Speaker 3: not hey. 1022 00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:11,560 Speaker 2: Y'all better not if I could take none of this 1023 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:16,000 Speaker 2: ship because y'all know I'm not engaged or anything. I 1024 00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 2: just do not do that. I spent what I was 1025 00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:18,880 Speaker 2: gonna happen me. 1026 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 1: Hell, we be having these ideas, Hey, guys, did we 1027 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:25,239 Speaker 1: ever talk about let. 1028 00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:26,760 Speaker 2: Me see that so fast? 1029 00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,800 Speaker 3: No, we need someone to like send in the notes 1030 00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,200 Speaker 3: of like a recap can Gemini. 1031 00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:33,480 Speaker 2: While he's gonna tell us to make the shirts. We 1032 00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 2: just be like, no, No, we gotta. 1033 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 1: Eatmail for Alex and it. Let's just all hose, get hose, 1034 00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:39,960 Speaker 1: get married to. 1035 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:40,279 Speaker 2: Okay. 1036 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:44,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'd be wondering when I watched the episodes 1037 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,640 Speaker 3: and I'm seeing the comments like what's my niggas going thing? 1038 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,399 Speaker 1: So that that was another part of me crying. I said, 1039 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, my two boyfriends. 1040 00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 2: Mind you, I know for sure one of them he 1041 00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 2: has other women, he talks, we're open whatever. Not them 1042 00:50:58,239 --> 00:50:59,760 Speaker 2: has brought it up what. 1043 00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,600 Speaker 1: I hold on the way he be telling me my 1044 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: clips get sent to him and they don't know, and 1045 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:11,840 Speaker 1: so mind you no, but bitches. That bitches is our fans. 1046 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 1: I'm fine, they don't know that that's my nigga. So 1047 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:16,640 Speaker 1: they just be like, look at this clip. And so 1048 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,240 Speaker 1: he's like, man, I got it. I got your clips 1049 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,719 Speaker 1: sent to me today. And so I was just like, 1050 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,360 Speaker 1: which one, Oh my god, that one? 1051 00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:27,040 Speaker 2: That one that I don't really talk about on him, 1052 00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:33,160 Speaker 2: that one or I'm not the clip? 1053 00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 1: Oh no, multiple clips? And so I was through that. 1054 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:40,359 Speaker 1: I said, he likes me, it supports me. What if 1055 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 1: he read these comments on this clip, and I was like, 1056 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,120 Speaker 1: he's not gonna think I'm as little as I am 1057 00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,120 Speaker 1: with him because these bitches are fucking. 1058 00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:51,840 Speaker 2: Shitting on me. And I literally do that. I'm like, 1059 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,759 Speaker 2: he gonna think I ain't ship because of these comments. 1060 00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,840 Speaker 2: I literally think of that too. So you boyfriend. 1061 00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:02,160 Speaker 1: I two boyfriends, and I'm just like, what if they 1062 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:03,839 Speaker 1: read these comments and then they don't think they gotta 1063 00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 1: fuck with me no more because the world thinks someone 1064 00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:06,959 Speaker 1: fucking jez about. 1065 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:07,800 Speaker 2: You know, it's crazy. 1066 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:09,840 Speaker 3: His brother's be watching like the theyve be like in 1067 00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,360 Speaker 3: the Spear, like they saw the Paul Pierce episode and 1068 00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 3: he was like, man, i'd be knowing your shit go 1069 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:17,760 Speaker 3: when my brother's be like, oh I so gee one anyway, 1070 00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 3: So I literally was sitting there with he saw that 1071 00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:24,120 Speaker 3: one too, you know that one pops up on algorithm? 1072 00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,600 Speaker 2: Was he like, watched episodes of just the clips clip. 1073 00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:27,840 Speaker 2: He's a clips guy. 1074 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,799 Speaker 3: I think those people that we've dated, our friends only 1075 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:31,600 Speaker 3: watch clips. 1076 00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:35,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like my friends actually love to tell people they're 1077 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 1: my best friends. 1078 00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:40,239 Speaker 2: But don't watch my ship. But people when people come up. 1079 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,080 Speaker 1: To me and be like, oh my god, and listen, 1080 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 1: he'd be like, you know, my friends love to say 1081 00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:46,840 Speaker 1: I don't listen to our stuff, like I. 1082 00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,719 Speaker 3: Don't have You know, what's fucking funny, My friend I 1083 00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 3: ran into Crystal or not ran in I was in 1084 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:51,880 Speaker 3: Orlando or Christopher and he's. 1085 00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 2: Like, what's going on with you? I'm like a few 1086 00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:57,600 Speaker 2: months back, that's hilarious for real. 1087 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 3: Okay, So basically that whole moment happened where I'm like, yo, 1088 00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:04,200 Speaker 3: everybody's like ragging me right on the internet, and I 1089 00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 3: want him to see it because I'm like, lit's sit together. 1090 00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,799 Speaker 2: Like I was like, you know, because we. 1091 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:10,319 Speaker 3: Don't have a family and kids, and I was say, 1092 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,080 Speaker 3: and I want all the horre hyps, you know, like 1093 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,160 Speaker 3: hose K had his life too. And he was like, 1094 00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 3: I mean, you're not really homelid, but baby, I was, 1095 00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,240 Speaker 3: you have to accept this, do you understand? 1096 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 1: But the world still sees you as one now, And 1097 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:21,960 Speaker 1: that's what I said, that they all think on the 1098 00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 1: core still. 1099 00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 2: And then that's when he was like, I need the 1100 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,600 Speaker 2: world thinks I'm single. I don't identify as such. 1101 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,640 Speaker 1: Y'all be trying to give me a label, Like imagine 1102 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 1: if someone just wanted to call you gay or a lesbian. 1103 00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,000 Speaker 1: Y'all don't be liking titles, right, so y'all better stop 1104 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:42,880 Speaker 1: putting this single title on me out then, last, I 1105 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:44,960 Speaker 1: am in a relation to where when niggas come up 1106 00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:46,520 Speaker 1: to me and they try to talk to me. 1107 00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:50,279 Speaker 2: And I literally no, no, no, no, basically no. 1108 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:50,279 Speaker 4: No. 1109 00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 2: Let's be very clear, find niggas too that I'm interested in. 1110 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,880 Speaker 2: You said, I have two boyfriends. Oh, like, I welcome 1111 00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:58,799 Speaker 2: them to be the third. But I am not a saving. 1112 00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,840 Speaker 4: I hear two boyfriends, I'm like, okay, so I have 1113 00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,280 Speaker 4: a chance. If you hear one boyfriend. 1114 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:08,360 Speaker 2: Like cool, maybe you have a chance. I've got a shot. 1115 00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:09,479 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, I have a shot. 1116 00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:15,040 Speaker 1: Ikay, okay that but and yes, and do the second. 1117 00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 2: But I'm not. 1118 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:18,920 Speaker 1: That's why I like when I see all these single 1119 00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:20,280 Speaker 1: lonely bitches, A bitch. 1120 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 2: Ain't lonely at all. Sign it's a calendar. Okay, Yeah, 1121 00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:28,000 Speaker 2: this is what y'all got to do when ugly nis 1122 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,239 Speaker 2: come around. When I just start loading the bro those 1123 00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,319 Speaker 2: rings aren't even I don't even have they know what 1124 00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:38,200 Speaker 2: anagent ring. I don't even look. Nobody cares about that. 1125 00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,160 Speaker 3: But that's how ugly they be getting. I just start 1126 00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,960 Speaker 3: loading them all that. 1127 00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,239 Speaker 2: That is so mean. That is not let me see 1128 00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:48,439 Speaker 2: that ring. Nothing. This won't even look like a wedding band. 1129 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:49,960 Speaker 2: That's that's kind of my point too. 1130 00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:54,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, my ship better be this bit what I hate 1131 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:55,120 Speaker 3: big rings? 1132 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:59,399 Speaker 1: You want a big ring, so you know it's actually crazy. Okay, hey, 1133 00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 1: be ready for that. You get the ring? Which they's 1134 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,000 Speaker 1: doing it They about to about. 1135 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,799 Speaker 2: About it like that lovest ring. They bringing even cut 1136 00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 2: in opal who gets an awful like the way you 1137 00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:12,319 Speaker 2: traditional ring. 1138 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 1: The niggas is gonna just talk about the ring, even 1139 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: though you probably get a ring. 1140 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,200 Speaker 2: They gonna talk shit about the ring. I ain't gonna 1141 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:18,720 Speaker 2: hold y'all. I'm gonna do a social experiment. 1142 00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,279 Speaker 1: I told you don't like a two piece ring. Oh 1143 00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:23,439 Speaker 1: just listen, why do I remember? I will be going 1144 00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,560 Speaker 1: to Candler Road. I will be going to the biggest 1145 00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:29,080 Speaker 1: hair store because they got all the things. I'm gonna 1146 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,560 Speaker 1: come in here and tell y'all I'm engaged social experiment. 1147 00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 1: Six months. 1148 00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,920 Speaker 2: I'm engaged. I'll wait time after you so that you 1149 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 2: don't feel sad that I'm engaged. First, you know what, 1150 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 2: I don't want a future. We were doing a little 1151 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:42,600 Speaker 2: too much. 1152 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:46,400 Speaker 3: It's gonna happen because Cammy Crawford came on and she 1153 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 3: has say it. 1154 00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:47,920 Speaker 2: I know it's happening. 1155 00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 1: No, And it did like a month later. So Manifest, 1156 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:52,880 Speaker 1: you know, so funny. You know what we manifested being 1157 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 1: a New York Times best sellon. Everybody didn't think we 1158 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,160 Speaker 1: would even be. It was like, you witchy bitches. 1159 00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,879 Speaker 3: We man the way that I want to ring, they're 1160 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:02,759 Speaker 3: gonna talk about it. 1161 00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:04,400 Speaker 2: Like when my nigga and I talked like a year 1162 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:05,200 Speaker 2: ago about stuff. 1163 00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,440 Speaker 3: I like, he was like, what about I was like, no, 1164 00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:09,960 Speaker 3: two point plank, plain plank plane. I was like, this, 1165 00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 3: is there something asymmetrical. At one point, I was like, 1166 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,240 Speaker 3: give me a black dim like, give me fucking weird. 1167 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,399 Speaker 2: I don't want anything to be normal. If we're gonna be. 1168 00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,440 Speaker 3: Not traditional, get me a fucking weird like and I 1169 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,480 Speaker 3: was like it has to be big, like four or 1170 00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:26,200 Speaker 3: five and he was like, nigga, what carots? 1171 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,400 Speaker 2: Oh oh bitch, do you want to be able to 1172 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:29,080 Speaker 2: lift your hand? 1173 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,080 Speaker 3: But then at the same time, when I put on 1174 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,880 Speaker 3: Cammy's ring, Cammi's ring is like five years and you 1175 00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,440 Speaker 3: know what, I really fucked me about Cammy. I literally 1176 00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 3: saw her after she got her ring and I'm like, 1177 00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:42,040 Speaker 3: oh my god, I don't know what I would like. 1178 00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:44,239 Speaker 2: And she was like, oh, here, took it off her hand. 1179 00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:45,879 Speaker 3: See if this is a good shake, and she him 1180 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,680 Speaker 3: right there with being like, yeah, I see. 1181 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:48,960 Speaker 2: What you mean. 1182 00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:50,799 Speaker 3: I mean maybe you need big And I was like, 1183 00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,640 Speaker 3: you know what, I actually don't want a fucking crazy 1184 00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:57,560 Speaker 3: big thing. But also my sick brain is like, well, bitch, 1185 00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:58,279 Speaker 3: just think about nigga. 1186 00:56:58,280 --> 00:56:59,400 Speaker 2: Don't love me if it's small? 1187 00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, are you kidding me? Have 1188 00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,239 Speaker 1: you not been on the internet a small range? 1189 00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,440 Speaker 2: No? I mean that you're bro. No. I don't think 1190 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,080 Speaker 2: you're crazy for thinking that. That's my point. Yeah, you 1191 00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 2: know the internet's gonna you're either poor or he doesn't 1192 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:16,720 Speaker 2: love you that much. Right, Walmart, let me ask you 1193 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 2: a question. You guys have been doing this show for 1194 00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:23,400 Speaker 2: almost ten years to saying that, right, Yeah, wrap us 1195 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 2: up at you guys have seen yeah. 1196 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:26,960 Speaker 4: Because I just want to to rest you guys have 1197 00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 4: seen so many comments year to year, day to day, 1198 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 4: week to week. Why is it that this time around 1199 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,840 Speaker 4: that y'all feel like it really hurts outside of the 1200 00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,800 Speaker 4: Mahamaid's tail. Like and when I say hurt, y'all know 1201 00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,880 Speaker 4: what I mean, like something that you're like, Oh word, 1202 00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 4: this is how y'all really think. 1203 00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,680 Speaker 1: I'll be honest and this is going to sound crazy, 1204 00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,880 Speaker 1: but if you read No Holds Barred, a dual manifesto 1205 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:51,440 Speaker 1: of sexual that's right book. I actually find myself to 1206 00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,919 Speaker 1: be the best version of myself right now. I've done 1207 00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,800 Speaker 1: five years of therapy. Financially, I'm in a good place. 1208 00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:59,160 Speaker 1: I'm in a good place with my family and my friends, 1209 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,360 Speaker 1: my love life. I feel loved, I feel respected. And 1210 00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:05,120 Speaker 1: so for me to be in the best place that 1211 00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 1: I am emotionally, physically and with the people that surround me, 1212 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:14,640 Speaker 1: shit even w weezy, Like I find myself just texting 1213 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:15,160 Speaker 1: her like I. 1214 00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,080 Speaker 2: Really I really love this right now. Wow. 1215 00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:19,880 Speaker 1: But to be in the best place that I've been 1216 00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:24,480 Speaker 1: from like a work point, standpoint, bank, account point, all 1217 00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:29,600 Speaker 1: the points, and for the internet in the world to 1218 00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:35,640 Speaker 1: not feel that or uplift that, or to still poke 1219 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 1: at me in a way that if someone said the 1220 00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 1: things that they're saying about me now. When we first 1221 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:44,640 Speaker 1: started the POD, I felt those things about myself, but 1222 00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:48,120 Speaker 1: now I don't. And so to be in such a 1223 00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:53,600 Speaker 1: healthy space with myself and proud to be kicked down 1224 00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 1: to where nothing you do is gonna matter, your therapy, 1225 00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,560 Speaker 1: your money, how healthy you are, how the. 1226 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:01,439 Speaker 2: People in your life respect you. We don't. 1227 00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,320 Speaker 1: And when I say we, at society in the world, 1228 00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,840 Speaker 1: it just feels like this uphill climb that's that I'm 1229 00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:09,320 Speaker 1: constantly gonna get pushed back down. 1230 00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 2: It's like a mountain. 1231 00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,880 Speaker 1: I'm never going to reach the top of a hill 1232 00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:13,160 Speaker 1: that I'm never going to reach the top of and 1233 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:16,480 Speaker 1: kind of what we've been doing for ten years, like 1234 00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,840 Speaker 1: and what I put my legacy at in terms of 1235 00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 1: us being pioneers in this sexual revolution. It's like I've questioned, damn, 1236 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:31,440 Speaker 1: have we fought a fight that we're going to inevitably lose? 1237 00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:36,680 Speaker 1: And it's made me question everything and I don't like that. 1238 00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:39,600 Speaker 1: That's why I hurt so bad because of where I'm 1239 00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:40,760 Speaker 1: at in my life right now. 1240 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:42,080 Speaker 4: And I don't think it's a fight that you'll lose 1241 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:44,040 Speaker 4: and thing that's just a fight that just won't stop. 1242 00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:46,480 Speaker 2: Not even that won't stop. 1243 00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:50,080 Speaker 1: I mean, And I always reference it now, like with 1244 00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:53,840 Speaker 1: the reversal of Roe v. Wade, to see all of 1245 00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:59,280 Speaker 1: these athletes that have domestic violence charges and sexual assault 1246 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 1: charges still get multi million dollar fucking check the following year, 1247 01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Seeing that women and children now don't matter what the 1248 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:12,480 Speaker 1: Epstein files, Seeing how much like a woman's safety well being, 1249 01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:16,880 Speaker 1: what they experienced, their trauma to men doesn't really matter 1250 01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:20,960 Speaker 1: and we can cover it up because fuck a woman's life. 1251 01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:25,000 Speaker 2: But also you better love you, put up, make you 1252 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,480 Speaker 2: my wife and give you a kid because that's your 1253 01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:32,040 Speaker 2: only value here. That gets that that hurts? How about you? Easy? 1254 01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 3: I don't know how to talk about right now, trying 1255 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,240 Speaker 3: to really think because most of the things you said 1256 01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 3: were kind of my reasons too, But I'm trying to 1257 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,520 Speaker 3: figure out a specific thing. 1258 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 2: Why did it hurt? 1259 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:46,880 Speaker 1: Do you think it's also because someone that you genuinely love, 1260 01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,840 Speaker 1: that has seen you for you might also read those comments. 1261 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:51,880 Speaker 1: I know for me, well, we've talked about it. It's like, 1262 01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 1: oh my god, my boyfriend's in the comments right now. 1263 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:55,840 Speaker 1: Like all week You've literally told. 1264 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:57,960 Speaker 2: Me multiple times that boyfriend was reading comment. 1265 01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:00,480 Speaker 3: He was, well I was, I was sharing that with him, Okay, 1266 01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:05,080 Speaker 3: but no, no, no, he was very One thing that 1267 01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 3: feels good is seeing all those things, even at the 1268 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,800 Speaker 3: point of defending Mandy, like I don't like how people. 1269 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:15,600 Speaker 3: It's just so I actually saw this week. Oh, this 1270 01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:19,120 Speaker 3: week was way better than last. No, no, this weekend last, 1271 01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:22,480 Speaker 3: how much my nigga's in alignment with what I'm doing. 1272 01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,040 Speaker 2: That felt I love that. 1273 01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:28,120 Speaker 3: There were so many times where he's like like yo, 1274 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:32,400 Speaker 3: like Mandy can't even fucking like really say like she 1275 01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:34,560 Speaker 3: want to be or can't say this or can't say that, 1276 01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:37,120 Speaker 3: and then like the point where she was like, you've 1277 01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:41,840 Speaker 3: been and he was like, everything for these people is religion. 1278 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,280 Speaker 3: Like He's like, no one's thinking for themselves. He's like 1279 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:48,640 Speaker 3: the two EU almost looked like scholars in dating experiences. 1280 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:50,120 Speaker 3: He's like and at one point or the comment that 1281 01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:53,520 Speaker 3: bothered him when someone said that Mandy and I cannot 1282 01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:56,000 Speaker 3: speak about dating and only Sarah could, and. 1283 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,480 Speaker 2: He was like, He's like, but what does she have 1284 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,400 Speaker 2: more of dating experience than y'all? I think that's just 1285 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:02,680 Speaker 2: the t No. 1286 01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:05,280 Speaker 3: I think it's just him being like saying, you have 1287 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 3: to understand, I've been dating my boyfriend. 1288 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:08,200 Speaker 2: It's not a long time. Three years. 1289 01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,200 Speaker 3: He just saw us come out with a book, he 1290 01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,600 Speaker 3: saw us rebrand. He's seeing us being better in a relation. 1291 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 3: He's really like, and now y'all can't do this. You're 1292 01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:18,720 Speaker 3: New York Times best stuff, but you can't fucking give 1293 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:21,720 Speaker 3: dating advice. And y'all really been dating. He's like every 1294 01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:23,760 Speaker 3: version of it. She had one boyfriend, now she got 1295 01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:24,360 Speaker 3: three boyfriends? 1296 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 2: What the fuck would you don't be adding? Oh? Sorry, 1297 01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:31,880 Speaker 2: but I actually am so good right now. I don't 1298 01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,680 Speaker 2: want to think when I said, Oh my god. 1299 01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:37,280 Speaker 3: Every time he had a new comment about it, I realized, like, oh, 1300 01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,000 Speaker 3: he's on the same angry level as I am. And 1301 01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:42,440 Speaker 3: the thing that it was highlighting to me was the 1302 01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,400 Speaker 3: same thing you felt like, Oh, there's nothing you could do. 1303 01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 3: There's nothing you can do to ever make this go away. 1304 01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:50,600 Speaker 3: The other thing that kind of scares me a little bit, 1305 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:55,440 Speaker 3: just to be totally honest with y'all, we talked about 1306 01:02:56,120 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 3: hard launching a lot and like maybe when we have. 1307 01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,560 Speaker 2: Y'all are never gonna see my niggas online, I'm not 1308 01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:05,760 Speaker 2: gonna hold you. It kind of set me back again. 1309 01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:07,720 Speaker 3: But then also there was this thing that we talked 1310 01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:11,000 Speaker 3: about where he's like, I don't think people understand love 1311 01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:12,760 Speaker 3: like this can exist, and it almost makes you want 1312 01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:13,720 Speaker 3: to put it out there more. 1313 01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,000 Speaker 2: But then if you put it out love like this, 1314 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:20,320 Speaker 2: do you know that is love like this? Oh what 1315 01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:26,840 Speaker 2: you're talking about? Comment? Never mind? Oh it's okay, we're 1316 01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:27,680 Speaker 2: too different by races. 1317 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 3: So basically the fact that Sarah and her husband have 1318 01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 3: and by the way, I don't know their marriage, that's 1319 01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:37,520 Speaker 3: the only reason I'm saying the words this way, Sarah 1320 01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:42,760 Speaker 3: and her husband are perfect online, Yes, right, well spoken, attractive, 1321 01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 3: beautiful house whatever, lovey. He's like, I really feel like 1322 01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:50,120 Speaker 3: alternative marriages should be shown. You and I don't give 1323 01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:52,800 Speaker 3: a fuck about respected marriage and the Bible and not 1324 01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 3: fucking holes together. 1325 01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:55,720 Speaker 2: Alternative marriages get shown on TLC. 1326 01:03:55,960 --> 01:04:00,600 Speaker 3: And he was like, and the fact that it's good 1327 01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:03,880 Speaker 3: and safe and healthy should be displayed. What is our 1328 01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 3: love good and healthy and safe because it's not online? 1329 01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:10,000 Speaker 2: You want to know something that I read that was 1330 01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:10,720 Speaker 2: so interesting. 1331 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:17,440 Speaker 1: Society is more accepting of a cheating husband than a 1332 01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:22,080 Speaker 1: relationship that's open, bitch. 1333 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:24,440 Speaker 2: And that's the that's the truth of it. 1334 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,720 Speaker 1: We are still in a place that we have to 1335 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,160 Speaker 1: unlearn so much, but we are still at a place 1336 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:32,600 Speaker 1: where not where we're not welcoming to other dynamics of love. 1337 01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:37,120 Speaker 3: And imagine I think that I I feel safe in this, 1338 01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:41,040 Speaker 3: He feels safe in this. What will his family think 1339 01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:43,440 Speaker 3: about us talking like this publicly? 1340 01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:46,200 Speaker 2: They already know, Hey, bitch, hold on, we good. We're 1341 01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:48,360 Speaker 2: not into this pot yet. No, no, no, no, no, no, 1342 01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,920 Speaker 2: that family. Hey, if I got to meet them, I'm hay, 1343 01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:55,960 Speaker 2: fam I'm like, okay, you Oh. 1344 01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:59,720 Speaker 3: What if him and I ever displayed public because basically 1345 01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:02,240 Speaker 3: that means that all the open shit everything like what 1346 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:02,600 Speaker 3: if we. 1347 01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:03,040 Speaker 2: Ever did that? 1348 01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:05,840 Speaker 3: And so it's like, is my relationship so healthy because 1349 01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:08,200 Speaker 3: it's peaceful? Then again, old bay was it wasn't healthy 1350 01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:11,040 Speaker 3: and it was peaceful slow, but it's just weird. It's like, 1351 01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 3: you know, I talked about maybe one day I was 1352 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,560 Speaker 3: making a piece of content together and then with that said, 1353 01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:18,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, it's gonna be like who hoes you 1354 01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:20,000 Speaker 3: used to fucking the comments. 1355 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:23,760 Speaker 2: Like he's a liar? He texted me like, and I'm like, yo, 1356 01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:26,160 Speaker 2: will it disrupt like a shit? 1357 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, bro, I'm not gonna hold you. I 1358 01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:32,040 Speaker 1: have a thing for hose and I'm actually working through 1359 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:32,320 Speaker 1: that now. 1360 01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:37,160 Speaker 2: Why the niggas? I love it. I love a whole 1361 01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:40,360 Speaker 2: ass nigga. It's anyway you stayed together over fights over ther. 1362 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:46,640 Speaker 1: Old's gotta find each other anyways, Woo, no outline. Luckily 1363 01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:48,800 Speaker 1: you just sent it right before I got here, so 1364 01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,120 Speaker 1: it gives me time to look over the s. 1365 01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:55,120 Speaker 2: I was having a bad day. The cat scratched me. 1366 01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,160 Speaker 2: Where the cat was last night? 1367 01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:01,720 Speaker 1: That wasn't this morning anyways, Guys, thank y'all, hope you 1368 01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:05,880 Speaker 1: enjoyed this. This was like a therapeutic Okay, before we go, 1369 01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:11,880 Speaker 1: drop on the comments. I had an idea, but differently, 1370 01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:16,760 Speaker 1: we are approaching our ten year mark, so the same 1371 01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:20,040 Speaker 1: bitch no, oh no, even. 1372 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:26,080 Speaker 2: Better ed and you've been here alex Yo me Wolf. 1373 01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:28,960 Speaker 1: I want it to round table, what the dynamics of 1374 01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,440 Speaker 1: working with us through a tumultuous behind the scenes has 1375 01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:34,800 Speaker 1: looked like, what good times have looked like, what bad 1376 01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 1: times have looked like, and share kind of an inside 1377 01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:41,040 Speaker 1: glimpse of what it's been with all of us for 1378 01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:41,920 Speaker 1: the last decade. 1379 01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:43,880 Speaker 2: I know you don't want to do this. I wish 1380 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,000 Speaker 2: you had to care about Eddie's face is life because 1381 01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:50,960 Speaker 2: you said good times and then you said bad times. Oh, 1382 01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:54,600 Speaker 2: it's gonna be crazy on you ready, hold on you ready? 1383 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,920 Speaker 1: We fired and hired and fired both you alex Yo me, 1384 01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,800 Speaker 1: like niggas have been in and out of us like away, 1385 01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:02,960 Speaker 1: I would want hold on. 1386 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:07,840 Speaker 2: Wait even to where we brought Chris Morrow on we 1387 01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,840 Speaker 2: did Oh, I thought you know I'm talking about. 1388 01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,600 Speaker 1: We do maybe a two part roundtable style where we 1389 01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:17,880 Speaker 1: literally talk about what it's been like like him with us, 1390 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:22,480 Speaker 1: like growing this show from a personal standpoint. Some of 1391 01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:26,600 Speaker 1: our relationships have grown personally off camera on camera. 1392 01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:27,480 Speaker 2: The things we've. 1393 01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: Endured over the last ten years kind of like a 1394 01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:34,640 Speaker 1: therapy episode, but behind the scenes of a tumultuous, successful body. 1395 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:36,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to give you an example. 1396 01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,840 Speaker 4: There was definitely one time in my life where I 1397 01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:43,360 Speaker 4: had to play telephone amongst them too, because they couldn't 1398 01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:47,480 Speaker 4: talk to each other. Wait really, oh yeah, really yeah, 1399 01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:50,240 Speaker 4: see gon going like that happened. 1400 01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:53,960 Speaker 2: I don't recall. That was fun. Sometimes you know what's crazy, 1401 01:07:54,320 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 2: I believe you. I display sometimes like bad up memory. 1402 01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,720 Speaker 2: They've been bad. What you're saying that like unlocked it 1403 01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:05,920 Speaker 2: for me. So that's the thing. You gotta do that 1404 01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:07,880 Speaker 2: on camera. I only know Alex's because he brings it 1405 01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,200 Speaker 2: up on work calls. Oh you know Alex's were bad. 1406 01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:12,720 Speaker 3: He'd be like, Yo, remember that time where you jumped 1407 01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 3: up and Mandy was like, I don't. 1408 01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:16,000 Speaker 2: I don't know that happened, but I think one. 1409 01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:18,559 Speaker 1: Of us most Y only thought I didn't like her, 1410 01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:20,920 Speaker 1: and you know she works with me now, and she 1411 01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:23,719 Speaker 1: said to tell me energies of us. 1412 01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:26,360 Speaker 3: Being on Oh I remember yo, me being like ones like, oh, 1413 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:28,640 Speaker 3: I don't know what she just become. 1414 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:32,280 Speaker 2: And yeah, so sit on it. 1415 01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:36,240 Speaker 1: We have a couple of months to decide. But yeah, anyway, 1416 01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:37,880 Speaker 1: the bulk of it accomplished. 1417 01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:42,040 Speaker 4: Boring, let's talk about the zoom calls. 1418 01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:43,599 Speaker 2: We don't hang up an more. 1419 01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:49,720 Speaker 1: Fun, that's definitely anyways. If you want to see the 1420 01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:54,320 Speaker 1: blog of me literally doing my skincare routine and crying, yeah, 1421 01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:57,679 Speaker 1: I got tears and turmeric that hit my lips. Tears 1422 01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:02,400 Speaker 1: headed to Patreon dot backslash Horrible Decisions. By the way, 1423 01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:04,519 Speaker 1: Weezy and I are dropping a lot more vlogs together, 1424 01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:07,240 Speaker 1: so you will also get to see what this day 1425 01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:11,680 Speaker 1: of recording looked like from entering the studio all the 1426 01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:14,559 Speaker 1: way to filming and all the things. So join us 1427 01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:17,400 Speaker 1: on Patreon this patreon dot com Backslash Horrible Decisions. By 1428 01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:21,519 Speaker 1: the way, you can also pre order our paper back version, 1429 01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:25,840 Speaker 1: Dance righte of Noah's Bard. It will be available this 1430 01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:29,800 Speaker 1: summer in June, so make sure you pre order your 1431 01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:37,120 Speaker 1: paperback aka soft Cup. Nonetheless, check out Selective Ignorance every 1432 01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:40,479 Speaker 1: Tuesday Friday check me out on Hot one O seven nine, 1433 01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:43,800 Speaker 1: six to eight. Every Saturday, Weezy drop your things and 1434 01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:44,559 Speaker 1: then let's get on up. 1435 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:48,400 Speaker 2: Aho. I just got another nine commis I want to drink. 1436 01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:50,880 Speaker 2: You were reading. 1437 01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:54,120 Speaker 1: Comics just I just well, I'm telling them about supporting us. 1438 01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:57,840 Speaker 3: No, I just had mad fucking texts about a fucking chat. 1439 01:09:57,880 --> 01:09:59,960 Speaker 3: My friends are also just like costing people up. 1440 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,800 Speaker 2: I told my friends. I was like, can you all 1441 01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:04,560 Speaker 2: just stop you making it? You're embarrassing too much. No, 1442 01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:07,519 Speaker 2: that's worse. Yeah, stop number of facts sake, w tf, 1443 01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:09,479 Speaker 2: trop pals, get with it. 1444 01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:11,040 Speaker 3: I just bought a home. I can't like you can't. 1445 01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:13,320 Speaker 3: This is very low brow. Oh my gosh, I need 1446 01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:14,120 Speaker 3: your niggas to stop. 1447 01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for tuning in to yet another episode 1448 01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:18,000 Speaker 1: of This Is Yon. 1449 01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:18,400 Speaker 2: This is