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Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels Second Date up Date had an email into
Speaker 1: the show for a second date update from a girl
Speaker 1: named Courtney, who is on the phone right now. She
Speaker 1: says she's pretty sure she knows why she isn't getting
Speaker 1: a call back, and that's because her son decided to
Speaker 1: be a little a hole on her date. Why was
Speaker 1: her son involved in her date? Yeah, find out in
Speaker 1: just a second. When we talked to her, Courtney, how
Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? How are you? You don't mind
Speaker 1: me calling your son a little a hole? Dude? No,
Speaker 1: because that's what he was. How old is your son, Courtney?
Speaker 1: He's three? Oh, he's three. Okay, they can be little
Speaker 1: a wholesometimes, that's true. It is kind of weird to
Speaker 1: have your son involved in your first date with a guy.
Speaker 1: We'll get into that in a second, But first off,
Speaker 1: how'd you meet to do that? You want to call today?
Speaker 1: We met on an online dating site, okay, okay, and
Speaker 1: you were transparent that you were a mom right off
Speaker 1: the bat. Oh. Completely. Most of my pictures actually have
Speaker 1: my son in them with me because I don't want
Speaker 1: that to be a secret, huge part of my life.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's a good thing. So this guy obviously
Speaker 1: doesn't mind kids. What's his name, by the way, my
Speaker 1: son or the guy who? The guy? Jason? Jason? Okay? Never,
Speaker 1: the sun's name is little a Hole. Yeah. So what
Speaker 1: did you guys do when you went out? We just
Speaker 1: went out for drink. I mean we had talked a
Speaker 1: while on the dating site and it went well. I
Speaker 1: don't go out with a lot of guys just because
Speaker 1: having a kid and finding someone that I can even
Speaker 1: just chat with m is kind of rare. Honestly, I
Speaker 1: hear being a parent is a full time job. That's
Speaker 1: what they say. It is true if you're doing it right,
Speaker 1: it's true. If you're not, then So how was conversation
Speaker 1: with this guy over drinks? He was super fun and
Speaker 1: he's a really good listener, which I don't know if
Speaker 1: other women are going through this like to have someone
Speaker 1: that doesn't kind of glaze over when you're talking or
Speaker 1: start talking about themselves. It is so like refreshing. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I know I'm always the same way whenever
Speaker 1: somebody's talking to me and I'm like, they're listening to me.
Speaker 1: I thoughwise is really refreshing when they're not just talking
Speaker 1: about themselves, you know what I mean? Yeah, Like I
Speaker 1: always feel that. Yeah, So you guys had a good
Speaker 1: time and good conversation. But where does your son come
Speaker 1: into play in all this? Well, I think because I
Speaker 1: was up comfortable and it was going well, I drank
Speaker 1: a little more than I usually do and I got
Speaker 1: a little tipsy, which is like whatever, I don't do
Speaker 1: this much. So that's when I decided to invite him
Speaker 1: back to meet my son. To meet your son, well,
Speaker 1: I wanted to invite him back to my place, but
Speaker 1: I knew that the babysitter was still there with my sons.
Speaker 1: So I was kind of hoping, like, yeah, he would
Speaker 1: meet my son, and yeah he would be coming back
Speaker 1: to my place. I didn't know what time of day
Speaker 1: was this, so he was home with a sitter, so
Speaker 1: it was like nine o'clock. He should be asleep. He
Speaker 1: might still be awake. Why don't you come meet him?
Speaker 1: But if he's not awake, then you and I can
Speaker 1: hang out. I'm saying, Jason, the guy that you went
Speaker 1: on the date with, did he seem okay with meeting
Speaker 1: your kid? Honestly, if I were on a date with
Speaker 1: a girl and it was a first date and she's like,
Speaker 1: I want you to come meet my son, that would
Speaker 1: be a little strange for me. Yeah, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 1: Did I think it caught him off guard a little bit?
Speaker 1: And again I was a little more bold because I
Speaker 1: had had a few drinks. But he said yes, and
Speaker 1: he was a little hesitant, like he was maybe afraid
Speaker 1: to say no. But she said yes and we went
Speaker 1: We went back to my place. So mommy's home, she's
Speaker 1: a little drunk and she's got a male friend with her.
Speaker 1: How did that go? Uh? It was It was not right,
Speaker 1: um adam. My son was still awake, and he broke
Speaker 1: a toy or something and wanted me to fix it,
Speaker 1: and it was like broken, it was completely busted. I
Speaker 1: couldn't fix it. I needed him go to sleep. And
Speaker 1: then he just went So you tell this guy, hey,
Speaker 1: you gotta meet my son. He's just a little angel.
Speaker 1: And then you go over there and your kid throws
Speaker 1: a fit. Why is it always like the worst time
Speaker 1: possible that kids throw fits. Yeah, it's all the time
Speaker 1: with him. Whenever I would like him to be on
Speaker 1: his best behavior, it's the opposite. Yeah, so crazy. And
Speaker 1: what was Jason's reaction to your kid freaking out? Um,
Speaker 1: he was kind of, you know, just kind of frozen
Speaker 1: for a while, it seems. I think he was a
Speaker 1: little freaked out. But then I finally got Adam down.
Speaker 1: He kind of curried himself asleep. Okay, So he's down.
Speaker 1: So then I'm like, well, let's have a class of wine.
Speaker 1: Mommy needs another drink. So we have a drink and
Speaker 1: we're chatting and he seems fine, but then he said
Speaker 1: he had to go. Okay, so I walked him to
Speaker 1: the door. He kissed me on the cheek. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: that was a week ago, okay. And how many times
Speaker 1: have you tried to get a hold of him since
Speaker 1: you guys went out. I think I've taxed him three times,
Speaker 1: which I know is kind of a lot, but it's
Speaker 1: over the course of a week. Just and I wasn't like,
Speaker 1: how are you can we get together again? I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Just for Indam text, You're like, I
Speaker 1: swear I'm not a bad mother and my kid is
Speaker 1: in a total drink. Did you get any response from
Speaker 1: him at all? No? Okay, well I think we know
Speaker 1: why he's not calling you back. Yeah, but we'll see
Speaker 1: if we can get you a second date. Well, here's
Speaker 1: the thing, It's like, I don't know. At first, I
Speaker 1: was in my head about it and thinking it was
Speaker 1: it was because I had taken him back to see Adam,
Speaker 1: but he knew I had a kid and he said yes,
Speaker 1: And then I don't know. I think I justsed him
Speaker 1: in my head and thinking like if if Adam would
Speaker 1: have behaved, would have had been different. I don't know.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, get
Speaker 1: him on the phone, and get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: thanks guy, All right, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning. S.
Speaker 1: Children are beautiful creatures, aren't They could just listen to
Speaker 1: that all day long, especially when you're on a first date.
Speaker 1: Right in the middle of a second date, update, Courtney
Speaker 1: is on the phone and she wants us to call
Speaker 1: a guy named Jason. She thinks Jason might not be
Speaker 1: calling her back because she actually got a little drunk
Speaker 1: and decided to introduce him to her son. They went
Speaker 1: back to her house, he met her kid, and then
Speaker 1: her child started freaking out about something and it kind
Speaker 1: of ruined the date. So that's why she thinks she's
Speaker 1: not getting a call back. You know, my mom didn't
Speaker 1: date much when I was a kid at all. Really,
Speaker 1: she's married to your dad. But I wish my mom
Speaker 1: would have been dating when I was a kid, so
Speaker 1: I could have just ruined her date of how Courtney's
Speaker 1: kid did. All right, Courtney, are you ready to make
Speaker 1: your phone call? Yeah, I'm ready. If you got to
Speaker 1: do it all over again, would you skip the three
Speaker 1: year old introduction? I think that would be in my favor. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: to make sure you didn't do that on both of
Speaker 1: your dates. All right, I'm gonna dial this phone number
Speaker 1: right now and find out why he's not calling you back. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, go. Hello, I was looking for Jason. Yeah
Speaker 1: it was Jason. Hey, Jason, how are you. My name
Speaker 1: is Jubil and I host a morning radio show called
Speaker 1: Brook and Jubil in the Morning. Okay, what sorry, my
Speaker 1: name is Jubil. What is this about? Please? Well, actually,
Speaker 1: one of our listeners emailed us about you and asked
Speaker 1: if I could get you on the phone and ask
Speaker 1: you a few questions. Wait, so this is the radio program. Yes,
Speaker 1: and somebody who listens to our show emailed and asked
Speaker 1: if we could get you on the phone. Okay, and
Speaker 1: it's about what It's about a date that you went
Speaker 1: on recently. Uh, He's like, I know, it's weird. It's
Speaker 1: a segment we do on our show called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. So you recently went out with a girl
Speaker 1: named Courtney oh Man. Okay, Um, yeah, yes, I did
Speaker 1: go out with a girl in Courtney recently. Okay. Cool.
Speaker 1: So we got the right Jason on the phone. Well,
Speaker 1: Courtney's wondering why you're not getting back to her after
Speaker 1: your date. Wow, So she called the radio. Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: tell you what she told us. Courtney said that you
Speaker 1: guys met on a dating site and went out and
Speaker 1: had a fun time drinking and talking, and then at
Speaker 1: the end of the night, you went back to her
Speaker 1: house and ended up meeting her kid. Right, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah that happened. And that was a little surprised by that.
Speaker 1: I knew from her profile that she had a kid. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I was cool with that, but I didn't expect
Speaker 1: to be you know, ask back to meet the kid. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she knows. She even knows that was kind of weird movie.
Speaker 1: She said she was a little drunk when she suggested
Speaker 1: that you go back there and meet the kid. And
Speaker 1: then she told us how her son like freaked out. Uh,
Speaker 1: it was. It was pretty rough. She she had warned
Speaker 1: me about him. She said he could be a handful
Speaker 1: and so, but to be honest, the way he threw
Speaker 1: the tantrum that he threw was pretty It was pretty intense.
Speaker 1: It was. It was an eleven. Okay, it was eleven
Speaker 1: on the one to ten scale. Do you have much
Speaker 1: experience with toddlers at all? You know, I don't have
Speaker 1: a kids on my own, but I have cousins and
Speaker 1: brothers and sisters who have kids. So I got lots
Speaker 1: of nieces and nephews. So it's great to be the
Speaker 1: cool uncle. Okay, but so you could understand, I mean,
Speaker 1: like late at night, the kid's gonna have a tantrum,
Speaker 1: it's tired. Yeah, you know, I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1: And I'm good with kids too, So that was that
Speaker 1: was a little weird. But I I wouldn't say that
Speaker 1: was the reason I didn't contact her again. Is there
Speaker 1: a reason or did you just not really like to date?
Speaker 1: For her sake, I probably don't want to mention it
Speaker 1: on the radio because I don't think she'd like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know she called you, but yeah, but
Speaker 1: if it's for her sake, she's the one that agreed
Speaker 1: to do the second date update, and everybody knows when
Speaker 1: you do a second date update, you might hear something
Speaker 1: that you don't want to hear, and you have to
Speaker 1: be willing to have it aired out on the show.
Speaker 1: So she knows that. Yeah, all right, so I should
Speaker 1: just throw on blast. Huh, that's what she's asking for.
Speaker 1: She would love it, actually, all right. Well, she's dealing
Speaker 1: with Adam I think was his name, and that took
Speaker 1: a while. It was an event. So I'm trying to,
Speaker 1: you know, keep myself entertained looking a magazine or whatever.
Speaker 1: And I had to go to the bathroom, so I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to snoop or anything. And it looked like
Speaker 1: through the bedroom door there was a bathroom that way,
Speaker 1: and so I went through that way. But in the
Speaker 1: bedroom asleep in a crib is like a newborn baby.
Speaker 1: We talked all night and I feel like I got
Speaker 1: to know her really well and she really opened up
Speaker 1: to me and still talk my phone. That she also
Speaker 1: had a newborn baby that she hasn't told me about.
Speaker 1: But she didn't mention at all that she had a
Speaker 1: newborn child, not at all, not one. She didn't mention
Speaker 1: that to us either. What. I was completely shocked. I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know what to do. I got
Speaker 1: I gotta get out of there. So so she had
Speaker 1: a secret kid, secret baby. Yeah, she's a secret kid kid.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're sure it wasn't like the babysitter had
Speaker 1: a newborn and the newborn was sleeping in the back room.
Speaker 1: That babysitter was not old enough to have a newborn,
Speaker 1: and clearly, like she said, the babysit at home. So yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's right. So she has she had a secret baby.
Speaker 1: Why would she did you ask her about the secret baby?
Speaker 1: I didn't ask her about the secret baby baby. I'm
Speaker 1: just like, I'm out. Yeah, but why would she tell
Speaker 1: you about the one child and not the second child.
Speaker 1: Obviously she's got a favorite. You can meet my three
Speaker 1: year old, but my newborn not very coolie. That is
Speaker 1: understandable if somebody had a secret baby, i'd be a
Speaker 1: little weary of dating them too. Yeah, I was blowing.
Speaker 1: Maybe she just I don't know, Like the only thing
Speaker 1: I can think of is like, maybe she was just
Speaker 1: worried that the baby had happened so soon that that
Speaker 1: would scare you off. But she wasn't worried about me
Speaker 1: meeting her three year old June. I don't know why
Speaker 1: the baby will beat that different. I mean, I guess
Speaker 1: it means that there was a baby daddy more recently than.
Speaker 1: Speaking of secrets like secret babies and such, I have
Speaker 1: a secret. Courtney is actually on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and would like to talk to you right now. Right. No,
Speaker 1: I'm serious. She's on the other line. Are you serious?
Speaker 1: She's on the phone. Yep. Secret babies and secret phone calls,
Speaker 1: that's what we're all about here. Wait, what the heck
Speaker 1: were you doing in my bathroom? You did not ask
Speaker 1: them there, so you set this whole thing up on
Speaker 1: the radio. Yeah, idea to have this conversation this way.
Speaker 1: I've wanted to talk to you and figure out what
Speaker 1: was going on, and you were not answering me. Well,
Speaker 1: I wasn't answering you because you were a liar. I
Speaker 1: don't want to go out again. I'm not a liar.
Speaker 1: It's not what you think. It's not that at all.
Speaker 1: Why didn't you not? Wait? Wait? So did I not?
Speaker 1: Am I imagining the baby? Or you are not imagining
Speaker 1: the baby? Um? But that is not my baby? What somebody?
Speaker 1: It's somebody else's baby? This baby is it? It's a
Speaker 1: friend of mine. She's another single mom and we share
Speaker 1: babysitter sometimes and when we go out. Oh, that makes total.
Speaker 1: So it's your friend's secret baby. It's a secret baby.
Speaker 1: Wait okay, Cody, Then why didn't you tell me about it?
Speaker 1: Why would you need to know that my friend's baby
Speaker 1: was sleeping the other room? I don't I mean, you
Speaker 1: weren't supposed to go in my bedroom. Why were you
Speaker 1: going in my bedroom? Because I had to pee? We
Speaker 1: were drinking all night and bathroom and that's the one
Speaker 1: I found. It was the closest one. Well, it wasn't
Speaker 1: the bathroom. That was my pundroom in the bathroom, right,
Speaker 1: the bedroom bathroom. It doesn't matter. You have a second
Speaker 1: kid that you didn't tell me about, and that's that's
Speaker 1: next to me. That is not true. I just told
Speaker 1: you the truth. Yeah, whatever. I don't believe you. You
Speaker 1: told me everything about the situation about yourself. You're super
Speaker 1: open with me, and you would have told me about that.
Speaker 1: I don't know why you wouldn't have you prepared me
Speaker 1: for the situation that we were walking into. There had
Speaker 1: nothing to do it with what was going on. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're a moron if you think that I was going
Speaker 1: to have a secret baby and try inside it from you,
Speaker 1: like I had this plan to like be this evil
Speaker 1: genius behind your back. That's a good point, Jason. Why
Speaker 1: would she hide a baby from you? I mean, if
Speaker 1: you guys did start dating, at some point, she's gonna
Speaker 1: have to introduce you to the baby. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe she was waiting to introduce me to the baby,
Speaker 1: like on the second date. Maybe it's going up to that.
Speaker 1: Maybe on the third day she'd go like a seven
Speaker 1: year old. Just kids showing up everywhere, just secret kids
Speaker 1: left and right, kids pop it up everywhere, like well
Speaker 1: Chamberlain's kids. Have you been burned that bad by other dates?
Speaker 1: Maybe you're the one who has some issues because I'm
Speaker 1: telling you the truth. I don't have time to plan
Speaker 1: these evil schemes. Okay, I'm a single mom. The reason
Speaker 1: that I shared a babysitter is because it's hard. It's
Speaker 1: really hard to support a kids. So my friend and
Speaker 1: I do this together, Okay, to do it together when
Speaker 1: we decide to go out and try to get out
Speaker 1: there in the dating scene. I don't do this often.
Speaker 1: He seems like a really great guy, and I wanted
Speaker 1: to give you a chance. I'm being completely truthful. Okay.
Speaker 1: I don't need you to attack me. I don't need that.
Speaker 1: I don't have time for that in my life. Okay,
Speaker 1: but I really think you're a really great guy. And
Speaker 1: if we can move past this silly secret by scheme
Speaker 1: that you think I'm doing, Jason, would you like to
Speaker 1: go out with Courtney again? We'll pay for a second
Speaker 1: date and she can prove to you that she does
Speaker 1: not have a secret baby. I can't believe she even
Speaker 1: past too. It's so dumb, I know. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to say no, because why don't you
Speaker 1: call me a moron too? For two hours with her
Speaker 1: that night, and if I had to make a guess
Speaker 1: on whether she was telling me the truth right now
Speaker 1: or not, I would say probably not. So you still
Speaker 1: you still think she's lying about the baby. Well, I
Speaker 1: also think that maybe the fact that she called a
Speaker 1: radio show makes me think she wants attention a little bit,
Speaker 1: and or maybe you have communication problems and you should
Speaker 1: answer your tex All right, Well, I happen to think
Speaker 1: I'm a really good person, a really good judge of character.
Speaker 1: So I'm sorry that you think that, but a little paranoid.
Speaker 1: Maybe good person, a little paranoid Jason, thank you for
Speaker 1: your time. Yeah, thank you for your time. This is
Speaker 1: a great wayte to spend my morning. You were ambushed
Speaker 1: with a secret baby. Hate those secret babies, Courtney Wall
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, no second date for you. His loss. It's
Speaker 1: totally fine. Yeah. You know, the one thing I learned
Speaker 1: in all this is I guess I should have posted
Speaker 1: my secret baby to my dating profile. Yeah, is that
Speaker 1: in your dating profile in your bio section? I have
Speaker 1: a three year old and a secret baby. I'd hit
Speaker 1: you up and ask questions about that. In the morning
Speaker 1: text in at seven eighty five and nine two that
Speaker 1: says I'll go on a date with her as long
Speaker 1: as she's cool with a secret wife, jul in the morning,
Speaker 1: that's a force about the second date. Update girl named Court,
Speaker 1: and he wanted to call a dude named Jason that
Speaker 1: she went out with. They hung out, drank a little bit,
Speaker 1: went back to her place. He already knew that she
Speaker 1: had a kid. When they got back to her place,
Speaker 1: the kid was kind of out of control, and that's
Speaker 1: what she thought. The problem was that he saw the
Speaker 1: kid was like, oh man, that kid is a health child.
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with him. But it turns
Speaker 1: out he thought she had a secret baby. Apparently he
Speaker 1: went to go use the bathroom, didn't know where it was,
Speaker 1: opened the door to her room and there was a
Speaker 1: cribbin there, and he's like, oh my god, she has
Speaker 1: another kid she didn't tell me about. She swears that
Speaker 1: she does like a babysitter, share with her friend and
Speaker 1: that was her friend's kid. But throughout the whole second
Speaker 1: date update, he didn't believe her at all and still
Speaker 1: accused her of having a secret baby that she didn't
Speaker 1: tell him about. Oh my god, it just makes me
Speaker 1: roll my eyes. Why would she admit the three year
Speaker 1: old and keep the baby a secret? That makes no
Speaker 1: sense at all. I don't know a secret baby or not.
Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. If there's just babies all around.
Speaker 1: They're babysitting Sherry like, that's so genius. And of course,
Speaker 1: no matter what though, he would not buy it. He's like, yeah, whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: that's a secret baby. I know it. And it was
Speaker 1: like a newer baby too. You'd think that if she
Speaker 1: just had a kid, yeah, she wouldn't be in the
Speaker 1: dating world. But I don't know. I don't know how
Speaker 1: people with secret babies act, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: They have a lot of secrets as well as someone
Speaker 1: brought up on the tech Spoort, as long as there
Speaker 1: was no secret baby daddy that was still in the picture. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a scond day update, all
Speaker 1: you have to do is email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back. Moving
Speaker 1: ninety two point five