WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: That’s Not Mine?!

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jebels Second Date up Date had an email into

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<v Speaker 1>the show for a second date update from a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Courtney, who is on the phone right now. She

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<v Speaker 1>says she's pretty sure she knows why she isn't getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back, and that's because her son decided to

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<v Speaker 1>be a little a hole on her date. Why was

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<v Speaker 1>her son involved in her date? Yeah, find out in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second. When we talked to her, Courtney, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I'm good? How are you? You don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>me calling your son a little a hole? Dude? No,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what he was. How old is your son, Courtney?

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<v Speaker 1>He's three? Oh, he's three. Okay, they can be little

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<v Speaker 1>a wholesometimes, that's true. It is kind of weird to

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<v Speaker 1>have your son involved in your first date with a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get into that in a second, But first off,

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<v Speaker 1>how'd you meet to do that? You want to call today?

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<v Speaker 1>We met on an online dating site, okay, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>you were transparent that you were a mom right off

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<v Speaker 1>the bat. Oh. Completely. Most of my pictures actually have

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<v Speaker 1>my son in them with me because I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>that to be a secret, huge part of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, that's a good thing. So this guy obviously

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mind kids. What's his name, by the way, my

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<v Speaker 1>son or the guy who? The guy? Jason? Jason? Okay? Never,

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<v Speaker 1>the sun's name is little a Hole. Yeah. So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do when you went out? We just

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<v Speaker 1>went out for drink. I mean we had talked a

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<v Speaker 1>while on the dating site and it went well. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't go out with a lot of guys just because

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<v Speaker 1>having a kid and finding someone that I can even

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<v Speaker 1>just chat with m is kind of rare. Honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>hear being a parent is a full time job. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what they say. It is true if you're doing it right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. If you're not, then So how was conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with this guy over drinks? He was super fun and

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<v Speaker 1>he's a really good listener, which I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>other women are going through this like to have someone

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't kind of glaze over when you're talking or

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<v Speaker 1>start talking about themselves. It is so like refreshing. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I know I'm always the same way whenever

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's talking to me and I'm like, they're listening to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I thoughwise is really refreshing when they're not just talking

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<v Speaker 1>about themselves, you know what I mean? Yeah, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>always feel that. Yeah, So you guys had a good

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<v Speaker 1>time and good conversation. But where does your son come

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<v Speaker 1>into play in all this? Well, I think because I

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<v Speaker 1>was up comfortable and it was going well, I drank

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<v Speaker 1>a little more than I usually do and I got

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<v Speaker 1>a little tipsy, which is like whatever, I don't do

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<v Speaker 1>this much. So that's when I decided to invite him

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<v Speaker 1>back to meet my son. To meet your son, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to invite him back to my place, but

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<v Speaker 1>I knew that the babysitter was still there with my sons.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was kind of hoping, like, yeah, he would

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<v Speaker 1>meet my son, and yeah he would be coming back

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<v Speaker 1>to my place. I didn't know what time of day

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<v Speaker 1>was this, so he was home with a sitter, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was like nine o'clock. He should be asleep. He

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<v Speaker 1>might still be awake. Why don't you come meet him?

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<v Speaker 1>But if he's not awake, then you and I can

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<v Speaker 1>hang out. I'm saying, Jason, the guy that you went

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<v Speaker 1>on the date with, did he seem okay with meeting

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<v Speaker 1>your kid? Honestly, if I were on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl and it was a first date and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to come meet my son, that would

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<v Speaker 1>be a little strange for me. Yeah, I couldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I think it caught him off guard a little bit?

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<v Speaker 1>And again I was a little more bold because I

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<v Speaker 1>had had a few drinks. But he said yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was a little hesitant, like he was maybe afraid

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<v Speaker 1>to say no. But she said yes and we went

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<v Speaker 1>We went back to my place. So mommy's home, she's

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<v Speaker 1>a little drunk and she's got a male friend with her.

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<v Speaker 1>How did that go? Uh? It was It was not right,

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<v Speaker 1>um adam. My son was still awake, and he broke

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<v Speaker 1>a toy or something and wanted me to fix it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like broken, it was completely busted. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't fix it. I needed him go to sleep. And

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<v Speaker 1>then he just went So you tell this guy, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta meet my son. He's just a little angel.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you go over there and your kid throws

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<v Speaker 1>a fit. Why is it always like the worst time

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<v Speaker 1>possible that kids throw fits. Yeah, it's all the time

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<v Speaker 1>with him. Whenever I would like him to be on

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<v Speaker 1>his best behavior, it's the opposite. Yeah, so crazy. And

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<v Speaker 1>what was Jason's reaction to your kid freaking out? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he was kind of, you know, just kind of frozen

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, it seems. I think he was a

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<v Speaker 1>little freaked out. But then I finally got Adam down.

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<v Speaker 1>He kind of curried himself asleep. Okay, So he's down.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I'm like, well, let's have a class of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Mommy needs another drink. So we have a drink and

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<v Speaker 1>we're chatting and he seems fine, but then he said

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<v Speaker 1>he had to go. Okay, so I walked him to

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<v Speaker 1>the door. He kissed me on the cheek. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was a week ago, okay. And how many times

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<v Speaker 1>have you tried to get a hold of him since

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went out. I think I've taxed him three times,

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<v Speaker 1>which I know is kind of a lot, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>over the course of a week. Just and I wasn't like,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you can we get together again? I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Just for Indam text, You're like, I

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<v Speaker 1>swear I'm not a bad mother and my kid is

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<v Speaker 1>in a total drink. Did you get any response from

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<v Speaker 1>him at all? No? Okay, well I think we know

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<v Speaker 1>why he's not calling you back. Yeah, but we'll see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get you a second date. Well, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, It's like, I don't know. At first, I

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<v Speaker 1>was in my head about it and thinking it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was because I had taken him back to see Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>but he knew I had a kid and he said yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And then I don't know. I think I justsed him

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<v Speaker 1>in my head and thinking like if if Adam would

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<v Speaker 1>have behaved, would have had been different. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone, and get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks guy, All right, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning. S.

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<v Speaker 1>Children are beautiful creatures, aren't They could just listen to

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<v Speaker 1>that all day long, especially when you're on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Right in the middle of a second date, update, Courtney

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone and she wants us to call

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Jason. She thinks Jason might not be

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<v Speaker 1>calling her back because she actually got a little drunk

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<v Speaker 1>and decided to introduce him to her son. They went

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<v Speaker 1>back to her house, he met her kid, and then

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<v Speaker 1>her child started freaking out about something and it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of ruined the date. So that's why she thinks she's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back. You know, my mom didn't

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<v Speaker 1>date much when I was a kid at all. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>she's married to your dad. But I wish my mom

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<v Speaker 1>would have been dating when I was a kid, so

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<v Speaker 1>I could have just ruined her date of how Courtney's

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<v Speaker 1>kid did. All right, Courtney, are you ready to make

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<v Speaker 1>your phone call? Yeah, I'm ready. If you got to

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<v Speaker 1>do it all over again, would you skip the three

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<v Speaker 1>year old introduction? I think that would be in my favor. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure you didn't do that on both of

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<v Speaker 1>your dates. All right, I'm gonna dial this phone number

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<v Speaker 1>right now and find out why he's not calling you back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, go. Hello, I was looking for Jason. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>it was Jason. Hey, Jason, how are you. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jubil and I host a morning radio show called

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jubil in the Morning. Okay, what sorry, my

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jubil. What is this about? Please? Well, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners emailed us about you and asked

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<v Speaker 1>if I could get you on the phone and ask

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<v Speaker 1>you a few questions. Wait, so this is the radio program. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and somebody who listens to our show emailed and asked

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<v Speaker 1>if we could get you on the phone. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's about what It's about a date that you went

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<v Speaker 1>on recently. Uh, He's like, I know, it's weird. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a segment we do on our show called the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. So you recently went out with a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Courtney oh Man. Okay, Um, yeah, yes, I did

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<v Speaker 1>go out with a girl in Courtney recently. Okay. Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got the right Jason on the phone. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney's wondering why you're not getting back to her after

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<v Speaker 1>your date. Wow, So she called the radio. Yeah, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what she told us. Courtney said that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys met on a dating site and went out and

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<v Speaker 1>had a fun time drinking and talking, and then at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night, you went back to her

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<v Speaker 1>house and ended up meeting her kid. Right, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah that happened. And that was a little surprised by that.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew from her profile that she had a kid. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was cool with that, but I didn't expect

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<v Speaker 1>to be you know, ask back to meet the kid. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she knows. She even knows that was kind of weird movie.

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<v Speaker 1>She said she was a little drunk when she suggested

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<v Speaker 1>that you go back there and meet the kid. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she told us how her son like freaked out. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was pretty rough. She she had warned

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<v Speaker 1>me about him. She said he could be a handful

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<v Speaker 1>and so, but to be honest, the way he threw

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<v Speaker 1>the tantrum that he threw was pretty It was pretty intense.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. It was an eleven. Okay, it was eleven

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<v Speaker 1>on the one to ten scale. Do you have much

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<v Speaker 1>experience with toddlers at all? You know, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a kids on my own, but I have cousins and

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<v Speaker 1>brothers and sisters who have kids. So I got lots

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<v Speaker 1>of nieces and nephews. So it's great to be the

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<v Speaker 1>cool uncle. Okay, but so you could understand, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like late at night, the kid's gonna have a tantrum,

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<v Speaker 1>it's tired. Yeah, you know, I get it. I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm good with kids too, So that was that

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<v Speaker 1>was a little weird. But I I wouldn't say that

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<v Speaker 1>was the reason I didn't contact her again. Is there

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<v Speaker 1>a reason or did you just not really like to date?

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<v Speaker 1>For her sake, I probably don't want to mention it

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio because I don't think she'd like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know she called you, but yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>if it's for her sake, she's the one that agreed

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<v Speaker 1>to do the second date update, and everybody knows when

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<v Speaker 1>you do a second date update, you might hear something

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't want to hear, and you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be willing to have it aired out on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>So she knows that. Yeah, all right, so I should

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<v Speaker 1>just throw on blast. Huh, that's what she's asking for.

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<v Speaker 1>She would love it, actually, all right. Well, she's dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with Adam I think was his name, and that took

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<v Speaker 1>a while. It was an event. So I'm trying to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, keep myself entertained looking a magazine or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had to go to the bathroom, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to snoop or anything. And it looked like

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<v Speaker 1>through the bedroom door there was a bathroom that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I went through that way. But in the

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom asleep in a crib is like a newborn baby.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked all night and I feel like I got

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<v Speaker 1>to know her really well and she really opened up

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<v Speaker 1>to me and still talk my phone. That she also

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<v Speaker 1>had a newborn baby that she hasn't told me about.

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<v Speaker 1>But she didn't mention at all that she had a

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<v Speaker 1>newborn child, not at all, not one. She didn't mention

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<v Speaker 1>that to us either. What. I was completely shocked. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't know what to do. I got

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta get out of there. So so she had

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<v Speaker 1>a secret kid, secret baby. Yeah, she's a secret kid kid.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're sure it wasn't like the babysitter had

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<v Speaker 1>a newborn and the newborn was sleeping in the back room.

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<v Speaker 1>That babysitter was not old enough to have a newborn,

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<v Speaker 1>and clearly, like she said, the babysit at home. So yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right. So she has she had a secret baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would she did you ask her about the secret baby?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't ask her about the secret baby baby. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I'm out. Yeah, but why would she tell

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<v Speaker 1>you about the one child and not the second child.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously she's got a favorite. You can meet my three

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<v Speaker 1>year old, but my newborn not very coolie. That is

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<v Speaker 1>understandable if somebody had a secret baby, i'd be a

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<v Speaker 1>little weary of dating them too. Yeah, I was blowing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she just I don't know, Like the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>I can think of is like, maybe she was just

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<v Speaker 1>worried that the baby had happened so soon that that

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<v Speaker 1>would scare you off. But she wasn't worried about me

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<v Speaker 1>meeting her three year old June. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>the baby will beat that different. I mean, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it means that there was a baby daddy more recently than.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of secrets like secret babies and such, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a secret. Courtney is actually on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and would like to talk to you right now. Right. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious. She's on the other line. Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>She's on the phone. Yep. Secret babies and secret phone calls,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we're all about here. Wait, what the heck

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<v Speaker 1>were you doing in my bathroom? You did not ask

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<v Speaker 1>them there, so you set this whole thing up on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio. Yeah, idea to have this conversation this way.

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<v Speaker 1>I've wanted to talk to you and figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>was going on, and you were not answering me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't answering you because you were a liar. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out again. I'm not a liar.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not what you think. It's not that at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you not? Wait? Wait? So did I not?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I imagining the baby? Or you are not imagining

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<v Speaker 1>the baby? Um? But that is not my baby? What somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>It's somebody else's baby? This baby is it? It's a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of mine. She's another single mom and we share

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<v Speaker 1>babysitter sometimes and when we go out. Oh, that makes total.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's your friend's secret baby. It's a secret baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait okay, Cody, Then why didn't you tell me about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you need to know that my friend's baby

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<v Speaker 1>was sleeping the other room? I don't I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't supposed to go in my bedroom. Why were you

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<v Speaker 1>going in my bedroom? Because I had to pee? We

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<v Speaker 1>were drinking all night and bathroom and that's the one

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<v Speaker 1>I found. It was the closest one. Well, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. That was my pundroom in the bathroom, right,

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom bathroom. It doesn't matter. You have a second

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<v Speaker 1>kid that you didn't tell me about, and that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>next to me. That is not true. I just told

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<v Speaker 1>you the truth. Yeah, whatever. I don't believe you. You

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<v Speaker 1>told me everything about the situation about yourself. You're super

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<v Speaker 1>open with me, and you would have told me about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you wouldn't have you prepared me

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<v Speaker 1>for the situation that we were walking into. There had

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to do it with what was going on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a moron if you think that I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a secret baby and try inside it from you,

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<v Speaker 1>like I had this plan to like be this evil

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<v Speaker 1>genius behind your back. That's a good point, Jason. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would she hide a baby from you? I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys did start dating, at some point, she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to introduce you to the baby. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she was waiting to introduce me to the baby,

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<v Speaker 1>like on the second date. Maybe it's going up to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe on the third day she'd go like a seven

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<v Speaker 1>year old. Just kids showing up everywhere, just secret kids

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<v Speaker 1>left and right, kids pop it up everywhere, like well

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<v Speaker 1>Chamberlain's kids. Have you been burned that bad by other dates?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you're the one who has some issues because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you the truth. I don't have time to plan

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<v Speaker 1>these evil schemes. Okay, I'm a single mom. The reason

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<v Speaker 1>that I shared a babysitter is because it's hard. It's

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<v Speaker 1>really hard to support a kids. So my friend and

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<v Speaker 1>I do this together, Okay, to do it together when

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<v Speaker 1>we decide to go out and try to get out

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<v Speaker 1>there in the dating scene. I don't do this often.

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<v Speaker 1>He seems like a really great guy, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to give you a chance. I'm being completely truthful. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need you to attack me. I don't need that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have time for that in my life. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I really think you're a really great guy. And

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<v Speaker 1>if we can move past this silly secret by scheme

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<v Speaker 1>that you think I'm doing, Jason, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Courtney again? We'll pay for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date and she can prove to you that she does

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<v Speaker 1>not have a secret baby. I can't believe she even

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<v Speaker 1>past too. It's so dumb, I know. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to say no, because why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>call me a moron too? For two hours with her

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<v Speaker 1>that night, and if I had to make a guess

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<v Speaker 1>on whether she was telling me the truth right now

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<v Speaker 1>or not, I would say probably not. So you still

0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.600
<v Speaker 1>you still think she's lying about the baby. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>also think that maybe the fact that she called a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show makes me think she wants attention a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>and or maybe you have communication problems and you should

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<v Speaker 1>answer your tex All right, Well, I happen to think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a really good person, a really good judge of character.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm sorry that you think that, but a little paranoid.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe good person, a little paranoid Jason, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>your time. Yeah, thank you for your time. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a great wayte to spend my morning. You were ambushed

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<v Speaker 1>with a secret baby. Hate those secret babies, Courtney Wall

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, no second date for you. His loss. It's

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<v Speaker 1>totally fine. Yeah. You know, the one thing I learned

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<v Speaker 1>in all this is I guess I should have posted

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<v Speaker 1>my secret baby to my dating profile. Yeah, is that

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<v Speaker 1>in your dating profile in your bio section? I have

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<v Speaker 1>a three year old and a secret baby. I'd hit

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<v Speaker 1>you up and ask questions about that. In the morning

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<v Speaker 1>text in at seven eighty five and nine two that

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<v Speaker 1>says I'll go on a date with her as long

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<v Speaker 1>as she's cool with a secret wife, jul in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a force about the second date. Update girl named Court,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wanted to call a dude named Jason that

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<v Speaker 1>she went out with. They hung out, drank a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>went back to her place. He already knew that she

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<v Speaker 1>had a kid. When they got back to her place,

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<v Speaker 1>the kid was kind of out of control, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what she thought. The problem was that he saw the

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<v Speaker 1>kid was like, oh man, that kid is a health child.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to deal with him. But it turns

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<v Speaker 1>out he thought she had a secret baby. Apparently he

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<v Speaker 1>went to go use the bathroom, didn't know where it was,

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<v Speaker 1>opened the door to her room and there was a

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<v Speaker 1>cribbin there, and he's like, oh my god, she has

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<v Speaker 1>another kid she didn't tell me about. She swears that

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<v Speaker 1>she does like a babysitter, share with her friend and

0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:09.880
<v Speaker 1>that was her friend's kid. But throughout the whole second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, he didn't believe her at all and still

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<v Speaker 1>accused her of having a secret baby that she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell him about. Oh my god, it just makes me

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<v Speaker 1>roll my eyes. Why would she admit the three year

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<v Speaker 1>old and keep the baby a secret? That makes no

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<v Speaker 1>sense at all. I don't know a secret baby or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't do it. If there's just babies all around.

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<v Speaker 1>They're babysitting Sherry like, that's so genius. And of course,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what though, he would not buy it. He's like, yeah, whatever, whatever,

0:18:39.680 --> 0:18:41.720
<v Speaker 1>that's a secret baby. I know it. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a newer baby too. You'd think that if she

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<v Speaker 1>just had a kid, yeah, she wouldn't be in the

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<v Speaker 1>dating world. But I don't know. I don't know how

0:18:48.840 --> 0:18:51.679
<v Speaker 1>people with secret babies act, you know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>They have a lot of secrets as well as someone

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<v Speaker 1>brought up on the tech Spoort, as long as there

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<v Speaker 1>was no secret baby daddy that was still in the picture. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a scond day update, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back. Moving

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five