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Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels Second Date up Date had an email into

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Speaker 1: the show for a second date update from a girl

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Speaker 1: named Courtney, who is on the phone right now. She

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Speaker 1: says she's pretty sure she knows why she isn't getting

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Speaker 1: a call back, and that's because her son decided to

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Speaker 1: be a little a hole on her date. Why was

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Speaker 1: her son involved in her date? Yeah, find out in

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Speaker 1: just a second. When we talked to her, Courtney, how

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? How are you? You don't mind

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Speaker 1: me calling your son a little a hole? Dude? No,

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Speaker 1: because that's what he was. How old is your son, Courtney?

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Speaker 1: He's three? Oh, he's three. Okay, they can be little

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Speaker 1: a wholesometimes, that's true. It is kind of weird to

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Speaker 1: We'll get into that in a second, But first off,

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Speaker 1: how'd you meet to do that? You want to call today?

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Speaker 1: We met on an online dating site, okay, okay, and

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Speaker 1: you were transparent that you were a mom right off

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Speaker 1: the bat. Oh. Completely. Most of my pictures actually have

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Speaker 1: that to be a secret, huge part of my life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's a good thing. So this guy obviously

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Speaker 1: son or the guy who? The guy? Jason? Jason? Okay? Never,

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Speaker 1: the sun's name is little a Hole. Yeah. So what

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Speaker 1: hear being a parent is a full time job. That's

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Speaker 1: what they say. It is true if you're doing it right,

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Speaker 1: it's true. If you're not, then So how was conversation

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Speaker 1: he's a really good listener, which I don't know if

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Speaker 1: into play in all this? Well, I think because I

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Speaker 1: I wanted to invite him back to my place, but

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Speaker 1: But if he's not awake, then you and I can

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Speaker 1: And again I was a little more bold because I

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Speaker 1: that was a week ago, okay. And how many times

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Speaker 1: why he's not calling you back. Yeah, but we'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get you a second date. Well, here's

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Speaker 1: And then I don't know. I think I justsed him

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Speaker 1: him on the phone, and get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: thanks guy, All right, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning. S.

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Speaker 1: Children are beautiful creatures, aren't They could just listen to

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of a second date, update, Courtney

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Speaker 1: a guy named Jason. She thinks Jason might not be

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Speaker 1: not getting a call back. You know, my mom didn't

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Speaker 1: date much when I was a kid at all. Really,

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Speaker 1: I could have just ruined her date of how Courtney's

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Speaker 1: kid did. All right, Courtney, are you ready to make

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Speaker 1: year old introduction? I think that would be in my favor. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: right now and find out why he's not calling you back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, go. Hello, I was looking for Jason. Yeah

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Speaker 1: it was Jason. Hey, Jason, how are you. My name

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Speaker 1: is Jubil and I host a morning radio show called

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jubil in the Morning. Okay, what sorry, my

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Speaker 1: name is Jubil. What is this about? Please? Well, actually,

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Speaker 1: you a few questions. Wait, so this is the radio program. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's about what It's about a date that you went

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Speaker 1: on recently. Uh, He's like, I know, it's weird. It's

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Speaker 1: a segment we do on our show called the second

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Speaker 1: Date Update. So you recently went out with a girl

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Speaker 1: named Courtney oh Man. Okay, Um, yeah, yes, I did

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Speaker 1: go out with a girl in Courtney recently. Okay. Cool.

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Speaker 1: So we got the right Jason on the phone. Well,

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Speaker 1: Courtney's wondering why you're not getting back to her after

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Speaker 1: For her sake, I probably don't want to mention it

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