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Speaker 1: Covet Beyonce one or two point seven. It's his kiss FM.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Thank you for being with us on this Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Today is Mary J. Blige's birthday. I've been a fan

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Speaker 1: for so many years and got to know over the years.

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Speaker 1: So congratulations Mary J. Unincredible successful career and so much

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Speaker 1: more to come. Partly sunny highs in the low sixties

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Speaker 1: and the rain. Get ready to greet it again Friday night.

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Speaker 1: All right, So let's talk about relationships. We don't really

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Speaker 1: think about them much on this show. It's the only

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Speaker 1: time I talk about relationships in my life is here

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Speaker 1: or on Kelly and Ryan. Like I don't really talk

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Speaker 1: about relationships or even mine outside of you guys every day. Then, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did you talk about your relationship when you go home?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't really talk about my relationship

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Speaker 1: with Michael, Like sit down and go let's talk about

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Speaker 1: our relations And we talked about our lives, like most

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Speaker 1: of our five year plan. What are we doing? Are

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Speaker 1: you do a long game? Yeah, we're always it sounds

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Speaker 1: like you're frustrated going on, Yeah, because we're we have

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Speaker 1: like a you know, we're thinking about our next move.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot going on in real estate. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: know that's for another Dayood, that's for another day. Yes, Tanya,

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Speaker 1: first you and now listening what you left and went

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Speaker 1: to Robbie's. Now she's packing her bags. Well I'm not

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Speaker 1: not going to Oh. Definitely speaking of relationships, so you're

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Speaker 1: saying that there are red flags that have been identified

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Speaker 1: by those who have looked at relationships that are on

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Speaker 1: a track to dumage. Jarring warning signs sort of speaks

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Speaker 1: for a doomed love match. The thing when you think

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Speaker 1: you see a red flag, as you said, you kind

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Speaker 1: of turned the other way. Totally justify it. We've all

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Speaker 1: done that. We do justify that whatever it is, because

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Speaker 1: it's kind of judgment on you for your choice. And

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Speaker 1: that's why your family sees it first, your friends see

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Speaker 1: it first, and you push it away. You don't want

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Speaker 1: to hear it, and you're blind to it. So these

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Speaker 1: are the flags. So, um, there's actually a few of them.

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Speaker 1: I just picked the top three and I'll go from

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Speaker 1: three to one. So number three being clingy ranked third,

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Speaker 1: which was seen by participants as covering controlling behavior and

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Speaker 1: being overly jealous. So clingy jealousy at the red flag.

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Speaker 1: Be clear. I don't think clinging means jealous. I don't

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Speaker 1: think clinging means jealous necessarily because I'm not the jealous type.

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Speaker 1: But I am a little clingy. But I think there's

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Speaker 1: two different things. Like I think it's like I like

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Speaker 1: to be with my partner a lot, Like I like

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Speaker 1: I like him to like I like to be with

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Speaker 1: him all the time, Like I like touching each other.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think there's a jeal. I think that

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Speaker 1: you could be jealous though, too, Tanya, But I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't have that. I think if somebody was rubbing

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Speaker 1: up on Robbie at an event or something, you would

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Speaker 1: be jealous. Well why is anybody rubbing up on there?

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Speaker 1: You go, okay? Number two? Uh, someone that's gross meaning

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Speaker 1: having poor hygiene, smelling bad and actually um, well we

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Speaker 1: don't need to get to the and either other stuff.

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Speaker 1: But basically, if you find them unattractive, that's a big

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Speaker 1: red flag when it comes to gross hygiene stuff um.

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Speaker 1: And then being in an attentive, uncaring, untrusting um that

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Speaker 1: is considered the biggest red flag of all for both

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Speaker 1: men and women. Being inattentive, not paying attention, not listening,

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Speaker 1: not caring. Yes, yeah, these are all bad. Any single

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Speaker 1: one of them would make you think you're on the

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Speaker 1: wrong track. If you can't trust your partner and it

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Speaker 1: gets to the point where they're not supporting you and

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Speaker 1: they're not believing in the things that you believe in,

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Speaker 1: or basically kind of just not buy your side and

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Speaker 1: kind of like holding you up. I think that's a

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Speaker 1: red flag. I don't know that Tony and I have

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Speaker 1: heard anything since you said someone else quote rubbing up

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Speaker 1: on Robbie kind of been in this like dank space.

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Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah, I don't think you'd like anybody

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Speaker 1: rubbing up on Michael either. Hell no, ok, who's rubbing

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Speaker 1: up on anybody? And the dance, but rubbing up any dance,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. We're rubbing up on someone the dance.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's what you do when you dance. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, but no, not a stranger. That's how you

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Speaker 1: would dance with your significant other. All right? Coming up next,

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