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Speaker 2: Well, collections isn't like that collection calls you collections.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like one of.

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Speaker 2: Like it was like, cause I'm like, why would I

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Speaker 3: Places they don't do that. They roll it out.

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Speaker 1: Right, But what I did, I just started giving niggas freeci.

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Speaker 2: And then there's one time this dude tried to get

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Speaker 3: He tried hard. He came back.

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Speaker 1: like you're going somewhere. You going places. I'm like, yeah,

440
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 1: you know, I'm in this program. I'm doing this. But

441
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,520
Speaker 1: I got accepted. The father stayed I'm gonna go there. Man,

442
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 1: you know this is what you need to be getting

443
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 1: girl or whatever. I'm like, this needs serious and.

444
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,680
Speaker 3: Like you don't make good trust this girl.

445
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 1: He left me a big ass tip too, and then I.

446
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:36,040
Speaker 2: Was just like, uh, thank you or whatever, but you

447
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,200
Speaker 2: know I can't call you.

448
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:40,880
Speaker 1: Come on, man, that's this way out of pocket.

449
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 2: What kind of dude would I be to be like, Yeah,

450
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,119
Speaker 2: I dogged out my girlfriend to be with your daughter.

451
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 1: I broke up with her on the spot because fuck her. Right,

452
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:50,920
Speaker 1: if I get a better.

453
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 3: Offer for your do I notice she wants to day me, right, And.

454
00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 2: If I get a better offer from your from somebody,

455
00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 2: from your daughter.

456
00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 1: Then I'm out. I'm a damn jig.

457
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 3: Alow out here, right, And then that dingling and then

458
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:04,920
Speaker 3: he came.

459
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:10,160
Speaker 2: Back like like that was like Friday or Saturday. He

460
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 2: came back Sunday and was like, did you call him?

461
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:14,199
Speaker 2: I noticed she ain't call him my.

462
00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 1: Daughter I said, I said, I wasn't going to. I

463
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:20,399
Speaker 1: got a girlfriend. He was like, listen, I gave you

464
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 1: a twenty dollars tip. You need to.

465
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 2: Like you can't try to get your diary?

466
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,040
Speaker 1: He was like, what you can't have friends? I was like,

467
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: what kind of weird world am I living in? And

468
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 1: his daughter? I was like looking at his daughter like

469
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,640
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna say nothing, just laying is pressed.

470
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 3: Yes, do he want to date me?

471
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 1: So? Anyway, so we went out a couple of times

472
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 1: and uh, it didn't work.

473
00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 3: It didn't work out.

474
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:50,200
Speaker 1: Anyway that that girl was carring. Okay, that's how we met.

475
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 1: That's the real story. That's not how we met, all right.

476
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 2: Last one customers, man, that's so weird, Leslie said. By

477
00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 2: the way, that's why I don't believe in socialism and

478
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 2: ship because I'm like, you mean, it's gonna work.

479
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 1: With people these people. No, it's not, Leslie says.

480
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: The customer ones got mad at me for how I

481
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 2: handled her coffee and called me a stuck up bitch.

482
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 2: I was completely taken aback, even with my five years

483
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 2: of barista experience at that time, and immediately had to

484
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 2: step off of the drive through the cry you work

485
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 2: a mintal ways job. I swear to God, I bet

486
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 2: money you have I will never be wrong one hundred

487
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,880
Speaker 2: percent of the time. You have cried at least once

488
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 2: over work I have.

489
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

490
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 3: I had to go back to the storage, I remember,

491
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 3: and it may have been the situation.

492
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 5: I think it was a situation I was telling you

493
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 5: about that I actually's prompted up the question for the pole.

494
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: I was so.

495
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 5: Upset that I actually when I went to the back,

496
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 5: I was bawling into yours because.

497
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 3: I was just so upset and so frustrated.

498
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 5: So mad, and everybody didn't know. I was bubbly and

499
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 5: happy and everything like that.

500
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 3: And I normally would take some.

501
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,400
Speaker 5: Of them, the the worst tables, like when people come

502
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 5: in and I don't want.

503
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,880
Speaker 3: To serve them, like I go serving because that's my thing.

504
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 5: Like I was like, I don't give fuck this money.

505
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 5: You know I'll go serwermon. No, you can't get none

506
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 5: of my table. You chose to get your table up

507
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 5: type type of person. And so for me to were

508
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 5: actually literally refused to serve table.

509
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 1: They knew something was wrong, right, And I mean I cried.

510
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 2: I remember I fell and fell into some glass and

511
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 2: the glass cut all my arm.

512
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 1: My arm from the elbow down.

513
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,199
Speaker 2: Was just cut up with different shards of glass. And

514
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: it happened because I was so frustrated by this customer who.

515
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: Was clearly just trying to get a free meal. And

516
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: I knew. I knew this nigga wasn't shit because he.

517
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 2: Was like, uh he first of all, he did a

518
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,920
Speaker 2: couple of things that to meet telltale signs of a

519
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 2: nigga that ain't shit. And I'm sorry if you want

520
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 2: these niggas or if you don't want these niggas, but

521
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,199
Speaker 2: I don't think you're man the shit, And I'm just

522
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 2: letting you know.

523
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 1: It's a red flag. Red flag.

524
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: First of all, when I came to the table, this

525
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: nigga ordered for his girl. And then it's a hop

526
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 2: y'all not ruth Chris, like not that sexy ordering, but

527
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: like that, bitch, this is what you're gonna have ordering,

528
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

529
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't It wasn't that like refined, like she

530
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: don't know how to speak French. Let me do this. Uh,

531
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: let me get some genn sa quas.

532
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 3: Right like like like he's trying to impress.

533
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 1: Her fries, you know what I'm saying. Like, it wasn't

534
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: like that. And he was just like, yeah, just to

535
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: put the lady on order.

536
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 2: Right, I'm gonna have the T bone steak with eggs,

537
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 2: which is like the muzzle spit steak.

538
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's about twenty one dollars.

539
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 2: And I could just look at him like, this ain't

540
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 2: a tea bone nigga. He's like, I want a T

541
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 2: bone steak and eggs and this that and the other

542
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: in mouth. Uh, the lady will have a salad. A

543
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 2: side salad, but the side salad south a large water,

544
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 2: no dressing, no dressing.

545
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 1: She trying to watch your weight.

546
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: Uh, let me get a little bit of lemon for

547
00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 2: that water, you know what I'm saying.

548
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: And bring some extra napkins. You know what I'm saying.

549
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: I finished feeling generous.

550
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 2: And also for me a side of pork chops or

551
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 2: some you know, just some ridiculous shit where I was like, okay,

552
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 2: all right, this guy's on one. And then you know,

553
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 2: it's like, I want to say, one of my first

554
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 2: days working my section with myself, the food comes out.

555
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: You know, I have like because you have like three

556
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 2: four tables or whatever. So I had like go get

557
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 2: somebody some syrup or something and then come back and

558
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 2: I go get his food off the former. He's like,

559
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 2: hey man, oh no, actually no, he eats the food

560
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 2: like seventy five eighty percent of the food, like like

561
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 2: no meat left on the steak, eggs gone, all this shit.

562
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: He's like, hey man, why you let my food sit

563
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 2: up there on the woman so long? I'm gonna need

564
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 2: my I'm gonna need this free. I need to speak

565
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 2: to your manager.

566
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: I said, what I got the food right.

567
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 3: Away, should have told me immediately.

568
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: Right, And then he starts he was like, yeah, my

569
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 2: fucking food. Like he started cussing. It was like he

570
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 2: made sure not to cuss directly at like hey, motherfucker,

571
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 2: but it was like fucking Steak was cold man, or

572
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 2: something like raising his voice.

573
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: And I was like, let me just go get the manager.

574
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 2: And the manager did that thing where her like, oh,

575
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: don't worry, I got your back, see people be coming here.

576
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: He just want to freeman. And then as soon as

577
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 1: he walked out there, he was like, it's Roderick's fault.

578
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: He's terrible. This is his first day.

579
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 2: He sucks you, right, You right to cuss him out.

580
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 2: I think he's a bit myself. When we get done

581
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 2: with this, I'm gonna kick him in the balls in

582
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 2: the break room. And so I was stressed out and

583
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 2: slipped and fell and all the glass just cut my

584
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 2: arms up and I had to get like taped up

585
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 2: like a fucking like.

586
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: Patrick Ewan's knees or some shit.

587
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 2: And they gave me a new shirt which was short

588
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: sleeve so you can actually see where cause it was

589
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,239
Speaker 2: a it was a chef shirt, not a okay, right now,

590
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 2: you could kind of see that I was shorter where

591
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: I was wrapped up with gauls and shit, and everyone

592
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 2: heard me far, which was super.

593
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 5: Embarrassed, right in the whole restaurant, right, that restaurant designed

594
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 5: that shit echoes.

595
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: And I want to say uh. And then adrenaline was

596
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 2: kicked in. Obviously.

597
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 1: I go back out there. I served this table, I

598
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: served the.

599
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 2: Other tables, and then this motherfucker left me like a

600
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 2: little bit of a tip and then tried to do

601
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: something like hey man, hey, you know it ain't nothing person.

602
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, nigga, what you just tried to fuck me

603
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: over at.

604
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 2: My job in front of these people. I'm anna cut

605
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 2: up and shit, now it's not personal. And then and

606
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 2: I remember looking at his girl when he did this too,

607
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 2: like Nigga, you ain't gonna say nothing, but who knows

608
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 2: that she was going through right? And then but the

609
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 2: thing that was crazy when I came back out at

610
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 2: the like probably five.

611
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 1: Or ten minutes with the which is forever in water.

612
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 3: Time time, Yeah, because that means nothing this movie.

613
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 2: Because they were like, Roger, you just want to go

614
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 2: home for the day. I was like, nah, fuck that,

615
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 2: I'll finished my tables or whatever, and.

616
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: Imagin's like, well he's gone, da da da.

617
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I saw you fucking cop out to him. Anyway,

618
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: I go back out there. Every table in my section

619
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,439
Speaker 2: gave me like so much money because they sit and then.

620
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: They were all like, man, that wasn't right. How he

621
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: did you dog? Like you know, I saw, I saw

622
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: the whole thing.

623
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: The food wasn't up there. He lying you brought everybody

624
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,959
Speaker 2: else food out. Like man, I'm sorry that happened to you.

625
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 2: I know it's your first day.

626
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 1: Like it was just like that part right there was

627
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 1: like the balance where I'm like, Okay.

628
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 3: Still good people out there.

629
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: It's good people.

630
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 2: And that's probably why I kept that job, because that

631
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: was like a grand opening, grand clothing type situation.

632
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I remember a seven month time and.

633
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 5: Because you're like it's like a hustle bustle job, like

634
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 5: you're constantly real moving, you're constantly running. And I think

635
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 5: what had happened was did I was constantly moving, constantly running, and.

636
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: I think that I had the same thing.

637
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 5: Well, nobody like cussed me out anything like that, but

638
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 5: I was doing something and I ended up crashing into

639
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 5: like a corner wall and I.

640
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 3: Had like a trade full of drinks. All the drinks

641
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 3: went everywhere, and it was just like a big shdamn

642
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 3: you know, where everybody in the restaurant look like, oh

643
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 3: my gosh.

644
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 5: So then like the same thing, you know, you have

645
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,959
Speaker 5: to go and and then kind of draw yourself off

646
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 5: and come back. And I think that everybody in my

647
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 5: section knew I've seen how hard I was working, because

648
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 5: what it happened is one of them things where they

649
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 5: set you back to back to back for people that

650
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 5: don't know that with like a section, like let's say

651
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 5: you have a section of five tables, instead of them

652
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 5: sitting one table in one section, one table and another

653
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 5: person's section kind of rotating around the hostess.

654
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 3: To see you are opened sot up like one through

655
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 3: through for five.

656
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 5: So now all of a sudden, one person is suffering

657
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 5: like eight twelve people all at once in certain situations.

658
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 3: So it's one of them things where I was just running, running, running,

659
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Speaker 3: and when I I.

660
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 5: Think everybody's seen it. So people came back and they

661
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 5: were and that the same thing. They kind of like, oh,

662
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,479
Speaker 5: were tipped for the fact that they saw how hard

663
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Speaker 5: I was, you know, working just to kind of catch

664
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Speaker 5: up because a lot of us like, oh, babe, I understand,

665
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 5: you know, you know they you know, it's the whole

666
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 5: area packed, and everybody was really patient. But I think that, uh,

667
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 5: that's that balanced part where you go a lot of

668
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 5: people ain't ship, but there are good people out there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I agree.

670
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: When when that same customer came back another time, my

671
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: boss in front of her towards the customer replied, I

672
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: didn't say she was a stuck up bitch. I said

673
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Speaker 2: she was acting like a stuck up bitch. She was

674
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 2: banned from the Stride to that. But it's stuff like

675
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 2: that that keeps me from ever going back to Barista life.

676
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Speaker 1: What is the difference? It don't matter.

677
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, don't acting to call on me one. You're still

678
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 5: saying the same goddamn thing right now.

679
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 2: If I log out at this motherfucking job and top

680
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 2: over this counter, I'm the problem, right Uh. The comment

681
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: I left on Spotify was don't give up, And we

682
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: asked some people that commented back. Katicha said I won't.

683
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: Superstar Brilliant said never did, never will Okay. LeVar Ball

684
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: on April says, won't stop, can't stop, Come on throut

685
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 2: this go three four seven two six says thanks y'all.

686
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: Hanging in there with your help. Hey, you know we're

687
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: doing it together.

688
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 2: Blexxandria says thanks y'all. I work overnight so I could

689
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 2: take care of my son during the day. Definitely needed

690
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 2: that encouragement. Love y'all. Well, thank you, Love you back,

691
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: says Katie, and says thank you. Three Crown emotionives I

692
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: needed this because I've been going through it thinking too

693
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 2: much about worst case scenarios.

694
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: I needed some encouragement.

695
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: Oh, Orlando says I won't.

696
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: Thanks for the encouragement. Love you guys.

697
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: Shannon says, I've never been cussed out by customers, but

698
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,959
Speaker 2: my friend slash coworker was and the customer poked them

699
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 2: in the chest and we.

700
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: All formed up like vaultron poking them in the chest.

701
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 3: I've never had anybody put hands on me.

702
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: Now, that's definitely white people. Move by the way.

703
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 2: That's a white man, a white man poking you in

704
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Speaker 2: the chest. That's the only white man hokey in the

705
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 2: chest and say something like now listen here, buster, and

706
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: they like me.

707
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, nobody else does that. Never that. Ms Barnes says,

708
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: I'm hanging in their best I can thank you for

709
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: the PEP talk. Lacey says, thanks for the motivation. Joy

710
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: says thanks. So there you go. All right, we just

711
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: out here trying to help each other out.

712
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 2: Let's get to the next episode, Episode twenty four thirty

713
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 2: six Black Women in Europe.

714
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: So we talked to Angela fobb fozy.

715
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Speaker 3: That was fun.

716
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 2: It was a good time. You know, she was a

717
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 2: little nervous at first, but she did. I think she

718
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 2: acquitted herself well. Ramsey Djinga says, five stars for the music.

719
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: I'm watching the replay now. Oh yeah, I play a

720
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: lot of good music to start that show.

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Speaker 1: Yep.

722
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 2: Lakita says, I really really enjoyed the Black Women in

723
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: Europe shows. Even though Adrian wasn't able, unable to make it.

724
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 2: A nervous Angela helped her down.

725
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: Yes she did.

726
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: She would have been proud of seeing us all over

727
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: the world. Is so aspirational.

728
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 2: I love their stories and experiences, and yet they still

729
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: keep their connections to home and still care our people

730
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: of color back here in the States. I really hope

731
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Speaker 2: they could come on sooner than a year next time. Hey,

732
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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

733
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: They hit me up. We can do it. The poll

734
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: was easy. Have you ever considered living outside the US? Yes?

735
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 2: No, or already live slash lived outside the US?

736
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Speaker 3: We have ever considered it?

737
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: Yes?

738
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 3: Whatever?

739
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: Do it?

740
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Speaker 3: Don't know.

741
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 5: I've considered, particularly when I went to Jamaica. It opened

742
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 5: up my world view a lot.

743
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: And white people are everywhere, Please don't. White people are

744
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 3: every fucking where.

745
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 5: But when I went to Jamaica, I was like, oh,

746
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 5: it's black people and white people. You know, y'all here,

747
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 5: but y'all not the majority. Like your perspective changes a

748
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 5: little bit. So, yes, I've considered it. Would I ever

749
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 5: do that?

750
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Speaker 3: Don't know.

751
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: I've never really considered it.

752
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 2: But I've never been outside the US, So maybe I

753
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 2: have to get the experience of going somewhere, hopefully after

754
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: this pandemic is over, and once I go outside the US,

755
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 2: maybe I'll be like, Okay, I can see how this

756
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 2: will work, you know. But every time I do hear

757
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: black people from other places say that live other places,

758
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 2: go yeah, you know, racism is different over here and

759
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 2: it's not as bad. I do be like, oh I

760
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 2: could get used to that.

761
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, nothing is racist free, but but it's a

762
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 5: different type.

763
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Speaker 1: I'd love to experience some of these other isms.

764
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, like, oh no, they was

765
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 2: mad at me because I was too fat.

766
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, okay, you got the duds. I mean,

767
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: it's bad obviously, but you know better than the N word.

768
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: Have you ever considered living outside the US?

769
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 2: Seventy six percent of the audience on our pole on

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00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: the website said yes, which compared to Spotify's pole it

771
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: was uh wait they closed the pole. Oh shit, Oh

772
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Speaker 2: I'll probably picked Oh I fucked this up. I probably

773
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 2: picked the wrong date to close it.

774
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Speaker 1: All right, with my bad let's go back to the

775
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 1: regular pole. Two percent say no and I already lived

776
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: is two percent if they already lived outside the US.

777
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Speaker 1: Angel says the best non racism I had was when

778
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 1: I was in Mexico in a not one problem at all.

779
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 1: My daughter is in Germany near Frankfurt, as she has

780
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: had an area issue. She recently found a supply of

781
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: canto over there, so she is even happier.

782
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,919
Speaker 2: Her whole family takes breaks and vacations. The school takes

783
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 2: regular and more frequent breaks. If a teacher is sick,

784
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,959
Speaker 2: classes just canceled. And yet the students do better over

785
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 2: there than over here. My daughter and her whost family

786
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 2: just returned from the Alps. According to her, there's some

787
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,479
Speaker 2: stupid over there, but they aren't overrun like we are here.

788
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: The US is still stuck on the plantation economy and

789
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,800
Speaker 2: work culture Americans and you know what Americans I'm talking about.

790
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 2: I always think other countries don't see their racism as

791
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,479
Speaker 2: skewed approach to work.

792
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: It definitely isn't a secret. We truly live in the backwater.

793
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 2: My husband and I are still considering moving, and I'm

794
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 2: encouraging my kids to try college abroad. Definitely working to

795
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,439
Speaker 2: put us in a position that we can leave up

796
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 2: out of here. I totally get that. I relate, I understand.

797
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: And then the comment on spot Fowers do you have

798
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 2: a passport?

799
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 1: I do? If so, you can buy some Jordans. Now

800
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: you're welcome.

801
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:08,280
Speaker 3: I can.

802
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 1: Let's see.

803
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 2: Gwynn says no, Kase teacher says, I do have a

804
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 2: passport and never own a pair of Jordan's.

805
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: I'm not like those other negroes.

806
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 5: I'm not either like I got I got a passport.

807
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 5: Do I own a pair of Jordan's? No?

808
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 3: Can afford one?

809
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah? Well I mean go hang, why you ain't

810
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: getting nothing then.

811
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 5: Yet it because it ain't nothing putting to be okay,

812
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 5: all right, I told my mom I'll never be like

813
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 5: any of those negroes.

814
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 2: Uh no, thanks ah, I'll keep my cash for the

815
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: duty free shop in the airport.

816
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,959
Speaker 1: Yes, and thanks. Hey, you welcome. Dra Rush says yes,

817
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: got sold.

818
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 2: Eight oh eight says before we got married, I had

819
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 2: to get a passport to visit my wife in Canada.

820
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 2: But what about the what about the Jordan's though you

821
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 2: did the same thing about the Jordans. Ms Bard says,

822
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: my passport card expires next year. I need to get

823
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 2: a passport book.

824
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: A sapete and some jays.

825
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 2: Ms bonge, as long as y'all not constrating on the jays. Finally, Langston,

826
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 2: Langston was waiting for our permission, so listen, you got

827
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 2: our permission at the man Seals permission or she would say,

828
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 2: you know.

829
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: I was gonna make an ak job, but I'm not going

830
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: to uh to let some people be Yeah, I'm gonna

831
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: leave them alone.

832
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 2: Tiffany says, it's inspired, but I have one I need

833
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 2: to renew and old heavens Kevin says, yes, but it's expired.

834
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: Then you can't get Jordan's.

835
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 2: You need a current, up to date passport that's working

836
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 2: to get some Jordan's.

837
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so go back to the drawing board. Twenty four

838
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: thirty seven. The Justice Leagues are black, The Justice League

839
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: of Black dads. I thought we had a good time

840
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 1: on this one, just me and Karen Old school style.

841
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: Let's talk about these comments.

842
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: Brooklyn shoe Base says, maybe I'm just an old jen exerp.

843
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 2: I'm just wondering why people would think these dads are

844
00:37:58,840 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: doing something wrong.

845
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,439
Speaker 1: It is because that men you asked the young question.

846
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 2: It's Twitter, and they sis had black men. So it

847
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 2: was a lot of like pontificating about how like this was,

848
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 2: this was definitely going to go wrong, or it was wrong.

849
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: To teach people like this.

850
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 2: Now, I don't think there was the prevailing sentiment, but

851
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: you know how it is. It's kind of like with

852
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff on there where I don't think

853
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 2: every person that the sorority was upset about that, that

854
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 2: it's that insecure shit.

855
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: But if you get five.

856
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 2: People and then people retweet those people, and then people

857
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 2: dunk on those people. By the time the articles are written,

858
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,760
Speaker 2: it's like everybody hated the shit, you know what I'm saying.

859
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 2: So it was kind of like that where I would

860
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 2: imagine I just saw a few people that hated it

861
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 2: and was like.

862
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: This too, damn.

863
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: But Mal seventy three said, how many times has one

864
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 2: of those these dads snatched the iPhone from a ususpecting

865
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 2: kid surveyed the Spotify play list they were listening to,

866
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 2: and it was like.

867
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: What you know about yeah? About this right? Hell? Well,

868
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: what you know about this?

869
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 3: This rock?

870
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: Kim let me, thinking of a master plant, go ahead

871
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: and do it too? Do you dance? Adam?

872
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 3: Kids?

873
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: Nick?

874
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 2: And I know, sir, bad biscuits, said Dave Chappelle's stand

875
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 2: up as tone Deaf a middle age lesbian. As a

876
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 2: middle aged lesbian, I was toned deaf around trans issues too.

877
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 2: I thought I knew everything because I am of the

878
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 2: LGBTQ community. My arrogance kept me from understanding what my

879
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 2: trans brothers and sisters were going through. On a separate note,

880
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 2: I reflected on how terrible the white lgbt community has

881
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 2: been around race.

882
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: We black folks, myself and family and friends from.

883
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 2: The LGBTQ community have had many racist experiences with the

884
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: white LGBTQ community. There's a joke that half of white

885
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: LGBTQ folks will go Republican as soon as they have

886
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 2: equal civil rights like the cists heatero white women.

887
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 3: Did I believe that?

888
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think a lot of us do. Chappelle would

889
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 1: not know about any of this.

890
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,879
Speaker 2: Racism within the community is real, But that went over

891
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:02,919
Speaker 2: Chappelle's head because according to him, care people are only white. Yeah,

892
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 2: it's interesting because he skirted around some of that in

893
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: the maybe two or three specials ago.

894
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: He had a bit that I thought was actually actually

895
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: really good.

896
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 2: It was funny, but it was also really thoughtful, and

897
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 2: if it was coming from anybody but him, I think

898
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 2: people would really appreciate the point he made, which was

899
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 2: essentially that the trans people within the community get treated

900
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 2: the worst and like it's not all equal, Like lesbian

901
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 2: and gay are seen as legitimate by a lot of

902
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 2: people and entities, you know, the government when they talk

903
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 2: about marriage equality, it was mostly seen as a lesbian

904
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 2: and gay issue, not a trans issue, not a obviously

905
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,879
Speaker 2: not a bisexual issue, because people, you know, really.

906
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: A RaSE and a bunch of shit with bisexual people.

907
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: But but then this point was essentially that people that

908
00:40:56,120 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 1: are trans, even though they're lumped into the LGBTQ community,

909
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 1: are not treated with the same level of urgency. And

910
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: as long as.

911
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 2: Lesbians and gay people get what they want first and foremost,

912
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: they a lot of times do not care what's happening

913
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 2: to trans people, where it's like, yeah, that's your problem,

914
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 2: but we got marriage quality, so can you shut the

915
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 2: fuck up? And it was a great bit about being

916
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 2: in a car together and stuff, and I was like, man,

917
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 2: so he could do better.

918
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:31,879
Speaker 1: He don't want to. He thinks it's and honestly, it's

919
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: easier to.

920
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 2: Make the point of I'm gonna get canceled for this one.

921
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 2: Here's a joke about genitals or whatever. And it's like, yes,

922
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 2: it's easier to do that. The people that want to

923
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 2: hear that shit like that it's wrong, and they like

924
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 2: being wrong, and they like using your comedy to justify

925
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 2: being wrong, and if they get called on it, they

926
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 2: can always pull that rhetorical slight a hand of hey,

927
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 2: it's just jokes. It's like, yeah, but you actually believe this,

928
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 2: and we're legislating like this, and you talk about this

929
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 2: shit when you're not making jokes and say that this

930
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 2: is fake or people's gender.

931
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: Is not da da da da. You're not making jokes anymore.

932
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: So but yeah, you know, I think he could do it.

933
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 2: I think he refuses to do it, and I think

934
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 2: he thinks there's some level of machizmo attached to not

935
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 2: doing it, like y'all like he already you know, as

936
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 2: he said in that clip I played where he's like,

937
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: you will not summon me, which is very much like

938
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: I will not do what y'all say because I don't

939
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: have to respect you, right. I felt very much like

940
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 2: when white people talk about racism and say some shit

941
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,959
Speaker 2: like if well, if you're gonna talk like that, you can,

942
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna not even help. I'm gonna just stop

943
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 2: helping with Black Lives.

944
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: Matter or whatever.

945
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 2: You're like, Okay, so now we gotta talk to you

946
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 2: nice and gentle after you just motherfucked us to our face,

947
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 2: Like it's not like we started just coming at you

948
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 2: and saying white people ain't shitting you a bitch. You

949
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: came in the room and said, but I think all

950
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 2: lives matter. And then when people are like why you were.

951
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: Like, talk to me nice? Black Season twenty one says

952
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: hey or Karen and Rod, I was working out of

953
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: town and I had a seven hour drive back home,

954
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 1: so I said, let me check out this south Lake

955
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: podcast you keep talking about.

956
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 3: It.

957
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 2: Ended up binging it, and by the time I put

958
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 2: it in my driveway, I was on ten.

959
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 1: Got in the house and tried to cool out a bit.

960
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 2: I keep hearing you and Randolph from Three Guys On

961
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 2: talk about ted Lasso being a funny show, so I

962
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 2: checked out the firstp It ended up binging the rest

963
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 2: of the season through the weekend. By Sunday night, I

964
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: was still mad about South Lake and scheduled an appointment

965
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 2: with my therapy. I had to work you through it

966
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 2: after the anxiety slash panic attack storyline on ted Lasso

967
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 2: hit too close to home. Thanks for ruining my weekend

968
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 2: just playing. Thanks for the recommendations. I really hope they

969
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 2: do additional follow ups on south Lake.

970
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: I really do too, Man.

971
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 2: That's amazing work and it deserves whatever podcast awards to

972
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,879
Speaker 2: give out. The way that principle disrespected that student who

973
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:58,879
Speaker 2: was trying to get a fellow classmate to stop using

974
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: the N word still makes my blood boy, and I

975
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 2: don't even think the dads on duty could fix.

976
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: That's school love. Y'all. I love the show.

977
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: What you know, what's so interesting is it starts out

978
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:13,439
Speaker 2: with the black girl who was dealing with racism and

979
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 2: they she recorded the conversation between her and principal and

980
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:17,760
Speaker 2: the student.

981
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 1: That was that said the racist shit right.

982
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of black people listening at

983
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 2: your fist tightened grind you get, you get the anxiety,

984
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 2: the anger.

985
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 1: It's triggering. It's a very you know, it makes you mad.

986
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 2: And then later that same principle has a recorded conversation

987
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,720
Speaker 2: with a trans girl who has been harassed by boys

988
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 2: in her class who have been.

989
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: You know, mis gendering her, and and.

990
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 2: Like they had this thing in the zoom or somewhere

991
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 2: you can kind of force somebody into a conversation even

992
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: if they don't want to be in it.

993
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:53,399
Speaker 1: With you what.

994
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's either zoom or slack.

995
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: It's one of those things.

996
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 2: And so she was like, I didn't accept to be

997
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 2: invited into this conversation. And it was like but, and

998
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 2: the principle is like yeah, but you know, like it's

999
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: a debate step form, and you know, like I didn't,

1000
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 2: I never said anything. It's like, well, I mean, yeah,

1001
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 2: but they weren't talking directly to you. It's like what

1002
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 2: they added me to this conversation said a bunch of

1003
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 2: transphobia shit. And what it made me think was like,

1004
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: they're black people who will get pissed about that first one,

1005
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:30,320
Speaker 2: but that second one, even though it's almost the exact

1006
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,439
Speaker 2: same thing, the same people involved, same principle, you won't

1007
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 2: see the relationship between the first one sliding and then

1008
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 2: that second one slide.

1009
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 1: All that shit is related to me, I can't unsee it.

1010
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 5: It all comes from the The root cause is the same,

1011
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 5: and it just branches out in all these different directions.

1012
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,240
Speaker 3: But all them isms connect.

1013
00:45:52,400 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 5: Racism, sexism, misogyny, transphobic, xenophobia, xenophobic, all that shit, all

1014
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 5: of it. It's a root cause behind that, A lot

1015
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 5: and a lot of it all just sat there from

1016
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 5: hatred like I hate you.

1017
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: And you can't check it at one place and not

1018
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: the rest. That's right. Like, the thing I don't understand

1019
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: is these people that think.

1020
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 2: Well, we can have a little bit of transphobia but

1021
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 2: no racism. It's like if you're letting anything through the doors,

1022
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 2: all coming through the door, because it's all the same principle,

1023
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 2: and we'll talk about it more because the story is

1024
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 2: coming up this week that relate to it.

1025
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: But yeah, the foundation and the root calls is the same.

1026
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 2: Right, all right, last comment, Eve, He says, Dad's don't

1027
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 2: do this such a heart warman's story. I pray they

1028
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 2: don't start doing interviews we find out their hotels or

1029
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,879
Speaker 2: have fucked up respectability ideas. Please Lord, let these dudes

1030
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 2: be as pure as they say. It's a big group

1031
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 2: of men, so at least some of them gonna be

1032
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 2: fucked up. That's just the way life is. But they

1033
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 2: were being an interviewed for that news article and it

1034
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 2: was a pretty nice interview.

1035
00:46:59,680 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: You know.

1036
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:04,919
Speaker 2: I have deeper thoughts on that, but like I said,

1037
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 2: it's not anything disparaging those men in particular. But I

1038
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 2: don't think the media would want to vilify those guys

1039
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 2: because the media likes the idea.

1040
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: Of black parents taking initiative.

1041
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 2: In their kids' lives in a certain type of way.

1042
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 2: It's very patriarchal and patronizing. But but I appreciate it

1043
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 2: because you know, it's not like the music. It's not

1044
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 2: like they were passing up all these great stories to do.

1045
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like cool, this is a

1046
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 2: good story, and I'm gonna leave it at that.

1047
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,959
Speaker 1: The Poe. Okay, now it's Dave Japelle. Finish talking about

1048
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: LGBTQ people. Now, no, he will keep going to Yes,

1049
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 1: he's done. Now now remember keep going.

1050
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: Last time we did this, Poe, that was a good

1051
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 2: five percent or so of people who were like, he's done.

1052
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 1: He won't talk about him again, Rod, you know, just

1053
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: leave it alone. Okay, two percent this time?

1054
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:09,879
Speaker 2: Oh shit, we three oh ninety percent says not, which

1055
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 2: means two percent of our audience on our website.

1056
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: Pretty fucking stupid.

1057
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 2: Now, of course this person probably didn't leave, uh leave

1058
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 2: a comment, but we'll see. We got five comments, so

1059
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 2: maybe they did. But when you're the one person, just

1060
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 2: leave a comment. We need to know why this happened

1061
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:31,240
Speaker 2: to you? Well, like it did you fall as a child,

1062
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 2: and like what happened? What could have possitive? You know, Hey,

1063
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:36,800
Speaker 2: I was drunk, I clicked the wrong button. My bad,

1064
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 2: like my patrol?

1065
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: What could it be?

1066
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 3: Some type people troll?

1067
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,360
Speaker 2: And of course on the Spotify pole it was still

1068
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 2: five percent that he's done, and ninety five percent said no,

1069
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,720
Speaker 2: he'll keep going, And I want all that five percent

1070
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 2: to pay me my motherfucking money.

1071
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: Okay, you owe me.

1072
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 3: Oh he coming back.

1073
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's still talking. I mean no, no, no, not

1074
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 2: he coming back. He's already done more and we'll cover

1075
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 2: it next week. Yeah, he just did more, like maybe

1076
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 2: two three days.

1077
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 3: Ago, and he's not gonna stop.

1078
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,360
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all if I know anything about a troll,

1079
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 2: but the troll just is upset, obsessed at getting the

1080
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 2: pushback as anything else, and they can't see past it.

1081
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 2: A troll is addicted to being the contrally. They can't stop.

1082
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 1: It's like a shark. They stop swimming, they died. He

1083
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 1: can't stop.

1084
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 2: He gonna ride this out until something fucked up happened,

1085
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 2: or some level of repercussion is so bad, or people

1086
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 2: stop reacting to him completely.

1087
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 1: But that's the only way he'll stop.

1088
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,959
Speaker 2: If he even if he got everything he wanted and

1089
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: nobody pushed back and he kept he keep pushing until

1090
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 2: you get a response. That's what troll people do. That

1091
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 2: that's the point of trolling.

1092
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: Mm.

1093
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's why you have to do the thing to

1094
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,240
Speaker 5: protect self when it comes to dinner with the troll.

1095
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, comments Edela. Says Dave thinks he is the

1096
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: true victim and revolutionary, so he will continue to spew

1097
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 1: narcissist dying for attention. That says what he is about,

1098
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: as aggrieved as those Akas who were mad at a

1099
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 1: man the seals. It is always allowed two or ten

1100
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: people making the news as an AKA from a family

1101
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: of akas, none of us care. There's no item in

1102
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 1: the news and upcoming events that call for torches or

1103
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 1: even attention to this AKA character who has been on

1104
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:21,359
Speaker 1: the show REPPD for five years.

1105
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: I wish people wouldn't embarrass themselves. I don't think complaining

1106
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,720
Speaker 2: about other black women representing black women on the fictional

1107
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 2: TV series.

1108
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 1: It's part of our service mission. But maybe I'm crazy.

1109
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 2: I'm with Soro Yavett Nicole Brown on this one. She

1110
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 2: summed it up nicely.

1111
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Like I said, I don't.

1112
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 2: Understand that sorority Fortorney shit. That's like religion to me,

1113
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 2: where it's like you chose to believe in this. I didn't,

1114
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 2: so it's not necessarily.

1115
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: Sacred to me. But if someone portrayed a character on

1116
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: the TV show.

1117
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 2: As a Christian, I wouldn't be like, well, Christian's gonna

1118
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 2: get upset I'll be like, yeah.

1119
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: Well that's a character.

1120
00:50:56,239 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 2: It's not real, but that's just me and yeah, even

1121
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 2: goes for shit I believe in they could make somebody

1122
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 2: serial killer. They're wearing a Hornets jersey. I chose to

1123
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 2: be a Hornets fan. That has nothing to do with me.

1124
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 1: See you at the next game, Daz says, hi Rod

1125
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: and Karen.

1126
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 2: I saw Dave Chappelle person in twenty seventeen and doubts

1127
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 2: fort Worth area. At the concert, white people out number

1128
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 2: every one of us at least eight to one.

1129
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: Some of Chapelle's jokes.

1130
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 2: Did not land in, particularly any jokes about Trump or

1131
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 2: support of Kaepernick.

1132
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: That audience didn't care.

1133
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 2: They spend a lot of money to see Chappelle and

1134
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 2: they know he is black, but that did not stop

1135
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 2: white people in our sexual from booing and making comments

1136
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 2: about Kaepernick and the presidents of black people.

1137
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: It was uncomfortable. My company owns and has the rights to.

1138
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 2: A box at a venue in my area, and I

1139
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 2: could see the events well before the ticket's gone sell.

1140
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 2: I do not support hateful jokes against the prior community

1141
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 2: where I have friends, neighbors, and colleagues who I love

1142
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 2: and worry about.

1143
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 1: They are gay by sexual entrance.

1144
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 2: But even if I did support Chappelle's recent comments, I

1145
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 2: would not attend because of the crowd he's attracting. I

1146
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 2: feel these shows will be unsafety for me as a

1147
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 2: black woman in comparison to twenty seventeen, and I would

1148
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 2: caution anyone I know who plans on attendant, especially in Texas.

1149
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: Well.

1150
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:04,479
Speaker 2: I think these shows he's doing now at least seem

1151
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: to be like him and Joe Rogan's fan base, and

1152
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 2: I think it says a lot about Joe Rogan and

1153
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 2: his fan base. In the previous Dave Chapelle, Poe Dre said,

1154
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 2: I voted yes, but a long time from now, I

1155
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 2: guess I should have known.

1156
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:18,919
Speaker 1: Better, shaking my head.

1157
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: Yes, why I make it an option this time because

1158
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 2: I want you to be better? And now y'all don't

1159
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 2: have a choice either stupid and say he's done, or

1160
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: you're smart and you're like, he gonna keep going.

1161
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: Really dark.

1162
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:34,959
Speaker 2: Knight says that person who voted yes, he's done now

1163
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 2: must have just voted that way to ruin this Poe.

1164
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody believe this shit? That is?

1165
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 3: That is?

1166
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 1: I think, I think I think it's Dave and ain't

1167
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: nobody gonna believe this?

1168
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:53,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Dave might listen to the show. I mean, uh, uh,

1169
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 2: let's see.

1170
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: Ms.

1171
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 2: Barnes says, No, he's not done, especially with Joe Rogan

1172
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 2: and others coat siding on his stance.

1173
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. They that's the other thing.

1174
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 2: Those people on his side won't let him be done.

1175
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 2: They gonna keep pumping him up. They need this guy

1176
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 2: who's bigger than life, that continues to like advocate for

1177
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 2: them and make them the real victim. They need him now.

1178
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 2: You know, when you see Tucker Carlson and Jason Whitlock

1179
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 2: and Candice Owens, uh, you know, and and the turfs

1180
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 2: and ship, when you see these people larding Dave Chappelle

1181
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 2: and him, you know, glimbing on to that, then you know,

1182
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,399
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, It's like, yeah, this, this

1183
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: is this is who he is now and these are

1184
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,879
Speaker 2: his people, and they're not gonna let They're gonna use

1185
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 2: him just to keep putting a finger in everybody else's eye.

1186
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:49,240
Speaker 1: Uh. The question to answer for Spotify do you have haters?

1187
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 4: Uh?

1188
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:56,839
Speaker 2: Entertained myself said it be your own family. Shrug lit

1189
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 2: me says uh. Leah says little all me.

1190
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 1: Not really, Uh, Colleen.

1191
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 2: I hope to say that's right, said, not that I'm

1192
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 2: aware of Corlito's White says, Yes, it's me, but I'm

1193
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 2: working my shit out in therapy.

1194
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: I feel you play it. That's real as fuck.

1195
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 2: Introvert m says, of course you're doing something wrong if

1196
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 2: you don't, if you don't have haters, I don't know

1197
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 2: think about that, man, I got some, but yes, I

1198
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 2: don't know if it's because I did everything Ryan or

1199
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 2: just can't help themselves.

1200
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 5: I've come to the conclusion the older I've getten enough,

1201
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,760
Speaker 5: being enough interacted with a lot of people.

1202
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: Enough.

1203
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 3: People aren't going to like you, are going to hate

1204
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 3: on you just for you existing.

1205
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes, yeah, I think it says more about them than

1206
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 2: me at this point.

1207
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 3: That's and I had to come to that conclusion.

1208
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: In letter, I used to think it said something about me.

1209
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 2: I was like, Yeah, this nigga hating because they can't

1210
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,400
Speaker 2: staying to see me shine. Now I'm like, they hating

1211
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 2: because they can't stand to go to therapy for thirty

1212
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 2: minutes to an hour a week and figure the shit

1213
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:57,879
Speaker 2: out right.

1214
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 3: It ain't got shit to do with me.

1215
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 2: Mega said, says yes, but they hate me on me more.

1216
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,240
Speaker 2: They can't hate on me more than I hate on myself.

1217
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 2: I'm working on it, though, Yeah, absolutely working on that.

1218
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 2: You don't need to be hating on yourself. Sis Dre

1219
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 2: says yes, and I believe we all do. Ceestriel says yes,

1220
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 2: but I mind the business that pays me, so therefore what.

1221
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: They think ain't my business. I agree with that totally.

1222
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 2: That was an honestly, that was a good moment for

1223
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 2: me in my life when I learned that.

1224
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: It's not my job to go.

1225
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:33,240
Speaker 2: Out and correct someone lying about me. And if somebody

1226
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 2: choose to believe that shit or they won't verify with

1227
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,879
Speaker 2: me or bring it up, they just wanted to believe that,

1228
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,720
Speaker 2: And you just gotta let them cook, because who gives

1229
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 2: a fuck, you know what I'm saying, Because it's never

1230
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 2: somebody that actually can do anything that has impact in

1231
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 2: your life. And the part of me that I realized

1232
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 2: was somewhat narcissistic was the underlying selbconscious idea that I

1233
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 2: deserved or wanted to have everybody like me and root

1234
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 2: for me and see that I'm a good person.

1235
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 1: Nobody gets that, and I'm no different. I don't. I

1236
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: don't know.

1237
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 2: Nobody owes me that, and it doesn't mean that it's

1238
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 2: coming or anything, So fuck them.

1239
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 1: Uh.

1240
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 2: Chaco Bean says probably, But I'm admittedly a boring person.

1241
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 2: Knowing how haters operate, I'm sure someone is hating on

1242
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 2: me just because I'm born to calling myself that.

1243
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: I can see that. Yep, and I give them dust,

1244
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: says Tiffness.

1245
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 4: Uh.

1246
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 2: Someone says, nope, I don't talk to other people. What

1247
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 2: that's probably why they hate your ass. You think you

1248
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 2: don't got no hater You just ain't.

1249
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 3: They hate you ain't interacting with me?

1250
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? They someone like, look at she thinks she thinks

1251
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: she's somebody thinking she cute. That's the best one when like,

1252
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: first of all, I appreciate that compliment. You think I'm cute, right.

1253
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 2: But second of all, why would that be a thing

1254
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 2: to be upset with me about?

1255
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 1: Right? They ain't gonna do with that thinking they cute you?

1256
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 2: Thank you all that side. No, I'm from Shreveport and

1257
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 2: that story made me want to cry. Worked at a

1258
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 2: high school in the area, and I remember the struggle.

1259
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 2: I hope they can keep it up, Jim says, If

1260
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 2: I do, I don't know about them. Michael says, no,

1261
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 2: I'm pretty likable. I appreciate the confidence Michael. Patrina says

1262
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 2: probably they haven't made it public to me, and Bisola says, nope,

1263
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 2: I'm too amazing.

1264
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: Lol, Dope, I'll be too busy looking good, Come on,

1265
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: too busy.

1266
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 2: We had Brandon and Gordon on the next show, the

1267
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 2: host of Drunk Black History.

1268
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: Y'all know how they get down. We had a good

1269
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 1: time with them. I really enjoyed it. We had a

1270
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 1: couple people that or one person on Twitter that said

1271
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 1: they didn't like them and never had them back as guests,

1272
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: So I blocked that person because that's one of my haters.

1273
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 1: Now episode Yeah, twenty four thirty eight, Alc Baum will

1274
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 1: kill someone. We had some commidents. Let's get to him.

1275
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 1: Shae says, hey, Rod and Caring.

1276
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 2: The thing that I've been asking myself since this Alec

1277
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 2: Barwin situation when viral is does America need to make

1278
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 2: white women the faith of gun violence to get some

1279
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 2: real gun legislation. I just don't understand how a country

1280
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 2: that watches kids kill other kids every day with real

1281
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 2: high power guns can turn around and be like, oh no,

1282
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: this poor white women. These are cute white kids dying too,

1283
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 2: with families and money. In real futures, the kind of

1284
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 2: kids anti vaxxes will assault school staff over if you

1285
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 2: ask them to wear a mask.

1286
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: But this white woman grave.

1287
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 2: Is to heal America has chosen to express the state

1288
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 2: the first stage degree farm And don't get me wrong,

1289
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 2: I think it's sad that she had to die this way.

1290
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 2: And from what I'm hearing, there may have been some

1291
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: intentional foul play going on. Oh, It's just it's just

1292
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 2: a hypocrisy for me. So I go back to my

1293
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 2: original thought about thought with America. Feel like white women

1294
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 2: are dying in masks to gun violence in order to

1295
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 2: get some results in the area of gun control. We

1296
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 2: watch kids die, we certainly watch black people die. America's

1297
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 2: invested in the well being a white women, though this

1298
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 2: is absolutely just a theory. No white women were hard

1299
00:58:59,200 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 2: to make this comment.

1300
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 5: Nah, I don't think they will because white people love

1301
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 5: guns too much, like they do not care they you know,

1302
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 5: it's a lot of white people. We rich stories where

1303
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 5: the baby had their gun in their back seat, didn't

1304
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 5: shot them, and.

1305
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,439
Speaker 3: That person got over it. It was like, I still

1306
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 3: want my guns. We love guns too much.

1307
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1308
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 2: Also, white women are one of the main targets of

1309
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 2: gun violence in America, especially through domestic violence, so you know,

1310
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Speaker 2: they could already be the face of it.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: What's interesting is when white women were the face of

1313
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 2: this issue in the past is one of the things

1314
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 2: that helped the pat crimevill pass because even Bernie Sanders

1315
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:43,400
Speaker 2: said he voted for the crime bill because of the

1316
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 2: protections that had about domestic violence in it.

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Speaker 1: So there is something to what you're saying.

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00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 2: You're not totally off face at all, but I think

1319
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 2: we've actually passed the decency of the ninety.

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Speaker 1: Four Crime Bill.

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Speaker 2: I know that's ironic to a lot of people to say,

1322
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 2: but I think a lot of the intentions were decent intentions.

1323
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 2: We passed that level of decency within our political spectrum

1324
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 2: so that not enough people believe that anything, any person,

1325
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 2: any group of people is worth the gun control And honestly,

1326
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 2: even this woman, I'm not seeing conversations about gun control.

1327
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 2: I just saw a lot of what I really think

1328
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 2: happened happens on Twitter all the time. I think people

1329
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 2: don't like Alec Bowin, and then they thought it was

1330
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 2: some type of some way to spite him by going, no,

1331
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 2: don't talk about him. Talk about the victim, this cinematographer

1332
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 2: we never heard of until the day she just died.

1333
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 2: Talk about her. She's the real story here. And I'm like,

1334
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 2: that's just y'all doing your thing, you know what I mean,

1335
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 2: where it's like y'all don't want y'all think talking about

1336
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 2: this in a way that says that makes Alec bowing

1337
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 2: out to be a victim too, which it sounds like

1338
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 2: he was. Y'all think that's like doing him a favor

1339
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 2: or something, And that's because y'all look at victimhood as

1340
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 2: some type of coveted.

1341
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 1: Status and it's not.

1342
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 2: It's it sounds like, uh, Alec Baldwin in some ways

1343
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 2: was just as much he did not mean to kill

1344
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 2: this woman was a victim of a fucking fraudulent ass armorer.

1345
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 2: That being said, more shit will be revealed, and he

1346
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:28,920
Speaker 2: may be part of the reason that she had a

1347
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 2: job in the first place. And I'm sure when the

1348
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 2: investigation con clues, will find out how much he was

1349
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 2: complicit or not. But I don't think he was complicit

1350
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 2: and wanted to kill some random cinematographer.

1351
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: Uh, just just on a whim.

1352
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 2: I think, you know, if anything, it may be irresponsibility

1353
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 2: at several levels on that shoot and we're gonna find

1354
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 2: out and no uh no pun on shoot. Truberdour says, Hello,

1355
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 2: roder Camp. I've been listening to your podcast since you

1356
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 2: ranked White which Apple was the best live?

1357
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: This episode is the funniest ship I have heard, maybe ever.

1358
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 2: When I recommend your podcast to other people, this in

1359
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 2: the Bulletbard episode with Justin are going to be my

1360
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 2: go to y'all are hilarious.

1361
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 1: Love the show, true, thank you. We love to hear it.

1362
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 2: Like I said, a lot of people this is their

1363
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 2: favorite episode. That's why I didn't know what that stick

1364
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 2: in the mud dude was talking about. You know, I

1365
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 2: was like, what kind of fucking weird are you?

1366
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: You hate the laugh? Nigga, get the fuck on my face. Ms.

1367
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 2: Barnes says, thank you roder Cam for introducing me to

1368
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 2: Brandon and Gordon. I have a tradition now where my

1369
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 2: niece comes to visit me, I'll make food and drinks.

1370
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 2: We log into the virtual drunk Black History. We both

1371
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 2: love it so much. Maybe one day me and my

1372
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 2: niece can make it to a travel make it a

1373
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 2: travel go to see them in person for a future event.

1374
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 1: We're both ready for tonight. Dope even he says, it's amazing.

1375
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 2: It's always I'm sorry, it's always a good time with

1376
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 2: Brander's on the show.

1377
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: Have you ever had Gordon on the show, because he

1378
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 1: is hilarious. He was on this episode. Hope you bring

1379
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: him back again. I felt Gordon, or do you mean

1380
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 1: by itself? I felt Gordon when he explained the two

1381
01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: sides of New Jersey that, uh, that's kind of how

1382
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: I feel living in Pennsylvania. There's a Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, and

1383
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 1: the rest of pennsil Tucky I live.

1384
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 3: I'm assuming they meant by hisself.

1385
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I'm with you.

1386
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 2: I live outside of Philly and I'm surrounded by Trump

1387
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 2: and Blue Lives Matter flags and signs.

1388
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 1: There's even a house down the street with a.

1389
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 2: Confederate flag in the yard, which makes no sense to

1390
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 2: me since PA fought against the South.

1391
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: It's a mess yep, that's the branding.

1392
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 2: And lastly, Brooklyn shoe Babe says, oh my god, Brandon

1393
01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:28,439
Speaker 2: and Gordon are just the best.

1394
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: I was laughing so hard. I really needed it. I

1395
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: tell you what.

1396
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 2: That guess the race segment about the hiker fucked me up,

1397
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 2: shaking my damn head. I told four people that story

1398
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 2: and had them guess the race. Hiker White didn't answer

1399
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 2: the phone because they didn't recognize a number black.

1400
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 1: Lol.

1401
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:43,919
Speaker 2: When the stereo type of comes true, it makes guess

1402
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 2: the race even funny. Well, technically I don't know the race.

1403
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 2: I just thought it was funny to say black. Every

1404
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 2: story on today's episode just had me laughing at the absurdity.

1405
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 1: Gordon and Brandon's reaction was just icing on the cake. Yeah, mane,

1406
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: I love it. Honestly, It's always fun man.

1407
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 2: I've always thought Gordon was really funny, and I know

1408
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:04,960
Speaker 2: he's like a third of the Bad Advice Show that

1409
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 2: is him, Mail and Saron.

1410
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 1: Saron's been on the show.

1411
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 2: Mail has been on the show, so like, uh, just

1412
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 2: you know, I always thought he was funny, and then

1413
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 2: just we've always had our wires crossed or like scheduling

1414
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 2: mix up, because we've scheduled to have him on the

1415
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 2: show a couple of times, normally with another person, and

1416
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 2: it just didn't for whatever fucking reason, it didn't happen.

1417
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 2: But uh, I was very happy to finally get him

1418
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 2: on the show so we could break red to have

1419
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 2: a good time because he was. He was super fun

1420
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:38,919
Speaker 2: when we did Drunk Black History. So I think he's yeah,

1421
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 2: so a very energetic person, very funny dude. Man, he

1422
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 2: is definitely try to have him back. Let's see we

1423
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 2: had pole. Have you ever fired a gun?

1424
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 1: Yes or no? Uh?

1425
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 2: This is one of those posts I fucked up on

1426
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 2: the I fucked up on either. I fucked it up

1427
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 2: and they shut it down. But I think I fucked

1428
01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: up the the time because I put the wrong date

1429
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 2: for how long the post will remain open Spotify. So

1430
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 2: y'all didn't get the vote, but the people in the

1431
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 2: on the on the site fifty two percent, Yes, forty eight.

1432
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 5: Percent though Nope, never shot a gun. I'm picture pat

1433
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 5: of guns.

1434
01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 2: Thing else was right, said my fifteen year old son.

1435
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 2: And I bumped some nineties hip hop and go to

1436
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 2: the outdoor range at the end of the East semester.

1437
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 1: Of his grades are straight.

1438
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 2: Our local indoor range has date night and me and

1439
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 2: my wife and I try to go of My wife

1440
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:27,959
Speaker 2: and I try to go at least once a month

1441
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 2: just to stay sharp. Angel says, yes, I have once

1442
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:32,000
Speaker 2: and I kind.

1443
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: Of liked it. It was all right.

1444
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 2: I imagine everybody kind of likes shooting a gun. That's

1445
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 2: what That's what I always hear is like you once

1446
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 2: you shoot it.

1447
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 1: You're like, I get it, the power of life and death.

1448
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:51,360
Speaker 1: I am Shiva, destroyer of worlds. We don't own.

1449
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 2: Guns or have them in the house, but I do

1450
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 2: think it would be good to know gun safety and

1451
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 2: how to use one for the upcoming race war. Well,

1452
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 2: that's that's really what I would get it for. But

1453
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 2: I'm morever a crossbow guy. MS Barnes says, in the

1454
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 2: seventh grade, we did a hundred safety class and we

1455
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 2: all lined up in the single fire line to shot

1456
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 2: the shotgun.

1457
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 1: To kick back and murdered my shoulder.

1458
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 2: At that could have ended up totally different on that sentence,

1459
01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:16,520
Speaker 2: and murdered my shoulder, Okay, my shoulders doing a lot

1460
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 2: of work after the live shooting. We got our license.

1461
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 2: That's it, no more, no less. Oh a pepplet to

1462
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 2: read on hunter safety as well. Probably the reason why

1463
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 2: I we're not fool with.

1464
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 1: A gun anymore.

1465
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I would go to the range, but

1466
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 2: I would probably only do it if I went with

1467
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 2: like one of them black groups, because for me, the

1468
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 2: range feels codd already, like down especially down here, like

1469
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:47,440
Speaker 2: this is for conservative white racist people, right, come practice

1470
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 2: they guns.

1471
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 3: Yes, that's why I stay out of them.

1472
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 5: And for somebody like me who knows that I have

1473
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 5: a fear, I want to go to like a class

1474
01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 5: like hey, hey, no, I'm not just walking in here

1475
01:06:59,080 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 5: busting no caps.

1476
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 1: Me.

1477
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 3: What this bitch do? How does it work? Like I

1478
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 3: want you to go through the class? Fuck that all.

1479
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:07,919
Speaker 1: Right, I don't want to be there.

1480
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 2: And like there's a Trayvon Martin target practice guy on

1481
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:12,400
Speaker 2: the left side, you know what I mean? Like I

1482
01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 2: need to go and at a time in place of like, well,

1483
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:20,440
Speaker 2: I know it's gonna be safe and being among friends,

1484
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 2: Nakita says. I hope I never have to fire gun

1485
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 2: because I came from the eighties and nineties where niggas

1486
01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 2: got shot for shoes and jackets and they terrified me. Well,

1487
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 2: just no, if you came from the eighties and nineties,

1488
01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 2: even if you have to fire gun, don't worry. You

1489
01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 2: won't hit anybody because you're gonna be holding the sideways.

1490
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 2: I only want to shoot a gun and startroopers. I

1491
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 2: only want to shoot a gun if someone I love

1492
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 2: is in danger. Now, we got gun people in the chat,

1493
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 2: but I choose to believe there. Oh, I know, we

1494
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 2: got gun people in the chat, but I refuse.

1495
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 1: I choose to believe.

1496
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:53,240
Speaker 2: They're responsible because they listened to the Black ou Tips. Also,

1497
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:55,760
Speaker 2: when war starts, me in mind, are moving to Mississippi

1498
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 2: with Jawanna his family, with all the he he got

1499
01:07:58,280 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 2: hidden in.

1500
01:07:58,680 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 1: His bat cave.

1501
01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 2: Well, I mean from the things he said in the chad,

1502
01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to live there and probably should make

1503
01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 2: some calls after the show to just make sure he

1504
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 2: don't got too many guns, you know what I mean,

1505
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 2: just just a welfare check. I didn't know he had guns,

1506
01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 2: and you know, but now just seeing you know, if

1507
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 2: you if you don't crowdcash, you know he shouldn't have them.

1508
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Shoe Base.

1509
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 2: With Shoe Bay says, when I still when I was

1510
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:32,559
Speaker 2: still married in my late twenties, I visited Mississippi for

1511
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 2: the first time because that is where my mother in

1512
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 2: law's people are from. They live in a huge swath

1513
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 2: of line I guess thirty minutes drive to the dearest neighbor.

1514
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,840
Speaker 2: So my father in law and my husband's uncles were

1515
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 2: showing me the land and their deer honting spot. They

1516
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 2: taught me how to load the firehandgun and a shotgun.

1517
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 2: They were impressed at how well I held and fired

1518
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:55,439
Speaker 2: the shotguns.

1519
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:56,559
Speaker 1: I'd let him kick back.

1520
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,600
Speaker 2: When we returned to New York, my husband said, you

1521
01:08:58,600 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 2: look really scary with that gun.

1522
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 1: I mess with you. Ever.

1523
01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 2: The funny thing is when I went to college and

1524
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 2: the first one to Indiana, where my husband's immediate family

1525
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 2: is from, everyone always asked me if I had a

1526
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 2: gun because I was from Brooklyn Road the subway. They

1527
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:12,960
Speaker 2: really thought it was like the wild wild West. I'm

1528
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 2: a little fender. Still they don't know.

1529
01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 1: Don't blame them, Blame them movies and the media.

1530
01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 3: The media make it sound like everybody be bad in

1531
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 3: New York.

1532
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 1: Y'all the ones. Let them film out on movies up there.

1533
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 1: I saw Juice in twenty eighteen.

1534
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 2: The man I was dating took me to a shooting

1535
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:33,679
Speaker 2: range in Las Vegas. The package he brought was called

1536
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 2: the Grunt Special. I learned to hold of and fired

1537
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 2: nine millimeter handgun and then sub automatic machine gun. Max

1538
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 2: boyfriend is a gun nut and thought I'd really enjoyed

1539
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:44,880
Speaker 2: the experience, but it left me shaking.

1540
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 1: It had it enclosed. It was an enclosed.

1541
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 2: Gun range, and all you hear, all the echoes of

1542
01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:52,799
Speaker 2: guns going off all around you, even though the protect

1543
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 2: through the protective ear must. Then the sudden realization of

1544
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 2: holding the heavy lift, eaverything in my hands could take

1545
01:09:59,880 --> 01:10:02,680
Speaker 2: a life overwhelmed me. It made me very uncomfortable, our

1546
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 2: vow to never touch a gun again. People shouldn't be

1547
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 2: allowed to casually hold that much god like power in

1548
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:08,439
Speaker 2: their hands.

1549
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 1: I forgot where I heard it. Maybe it's three guys

1550
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 1: onto your show.

1551
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 2: But someone once said, will you cock a shotgun, your

1552
01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:16,799
Speaker 2: dick immediately gets longer because of the sheer Russia power.

1553
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:18,080
Speaker 1: It wasn't here.

1554
01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:20,719
Speaker 2: I don't have a penis, but I absolutely understood the analogy,

1555
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 2: and I don't want to feel that power again. I

1556
01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:26,599
Speaker 2: guess there's something sexual about taking a life. You know,

1557
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 2: having sex is making a life sometimes and then killing

1558
01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 2: people's you know, shooting the guns, taking the life. If

1559
01:10:36,560 --> 01:10:38,720
Speaker 2: you're looking for this too much, it has its own fee.

1560
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 2: Now just search this too much on Spotify. That was

1561
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 2: this episode's question to answer.

1562
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, I'm gonna definitely check it out, said Tiffany

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01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 1: s ms.

1564
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,680
Speaker 2: Barnes says that means I need to add this is

1565
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 2: us an insecure to my pack down watch list. I

1566
01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 2: need I will need a paper towel for my tears.

1567
01:10:57,240 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 2: Shade Tree creator says yay, Aaron says, and Solomon says.

1568
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:05,479
Speaker 1: Oh, word word Solomon word Ah.

1569
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:09,800
Speaker 2: Last episode with jess Wood, it was kept Episode twenty

1570
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 2: four to thirty nine.

1571
01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 1: Cops tent pus it Spotify. Let us say it come on.

1572
01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 1: I mean I assume it's on iTunes too, but I

1573
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: didn't look be Stars, says Hey Jose and Karen.

1574
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 2: Fashion is something I enjoyed, love learning about, and fashion

1575
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 2: always a piece itself into its own design and anesthetic

1576
01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 2: of decades past, and the late nineties early two thousands

1577
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:37,599
Speaker 2: is now the new fashion trend. In esthetic head to toe, leather,

1578
01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:42,719
Speaker 2: square toe shoes, athletic sunglasses, mesh mosaic tops, bucket hats,

1579
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:47,480
Speaker 2: oversized tops, baggy jeans, pants, chunky sneakers, sweater vests, corduroy

1580
01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:50,599
Speaker 2: mini scurts, low rise jeans, et cetera. You mentioned that

1581
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 2: if bell bottoms were coming back in styling.

1582
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 1: Yes, they are.

1583
01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 2: Some of the late nineties early two thousand fashion was

1584
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,560
Speaker 2: influenced by fashion from the seventies and says gen Z

1585
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 2: brought back the late nineties, early two thousands or the

1586
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 2: Y two K aesthetic through TikTok low key started bubbling

1587
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 2: on Tumblr and the year the Great Tumbler per twenty seventeen,

1588
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:12,400
Speaker 2: Bell bottles, boot cuts, flared, and wilet pants are in again.

1589
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 1: The skinny jeans are the area. Era is dead.

1590
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:18,880
Speaker 2: Until the next three to five years when the next

1591
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:21,360
Speaker 2: generation brings back the late two thousands.

1592
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 1: At twenty ten.

1593
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:24,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know how men deal with skinny jeans.

1594
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 5: Y'all got balls, Like, I don't know how that works

1595
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:27,679
Speaker 5: with skinny jeans.

1596
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:31,559
Speaker 2: I don't know, never tried them. I went fat jeans. Okay,

1597
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:36,519
Speaker 2: Since fashion is moving so fast thanks of the Internet,

1598
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 2: this brand called Blue Marine is a perfect example of

1599
01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 2: Y two K aesthetic and also you can see out

1600
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:43,560
Speaker 2: the seventies plays a part in the trend as a

1601
01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:45,519
Speaker 2: leak to Avgue Vogue article.

1602
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:47,879
Speaker 1: Basically both for the great episode, which.

1603
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:51,320
Speaker 2: Yes, thanks to be staring meil Row or mel Roo

1604
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 2: says great show, y'all, Jess was wonderful as always. I

1605
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:57,400
Speaker 2: wanted to push back on the notion it's primarily the

1606
01:12:57,479 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 2: younger set that are in their feelings over factual and

1607
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:02,840
Speaker 2: analysis mode of thinking. If you look at older people,

1608
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 2: particularly older people in power at ka white folks, it

1609
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:10,400
Speaker 2: is and has always been about their feelings. It's usually

1610
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:12,639
Speaker 2: dressed up in rhetoric to make it sound like logical.

1611
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 2: When you actually read through the anounsis, the argument boils

1612
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 2: down the feelings.

1613
01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 1: Well, let me say this before I finished this.

1614
01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:22,639
Speaker 2: This to me is not pushing back because that wasn't

1615
01:13:22,640 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 2: even the point I was making. What I was saying

1616
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 2: when I was like, this generation is very heavy and

1617
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:32,839
Speaker 2: like putting it out there that this is hurting my feelings.

1618
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 2: It's about their willingness to admit it, not what I

1619
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 2: have feelings. But I was training my whole life to

1620
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:43,200
Speaker 2: be like, feelings, you're not supposed to talk about those.

1621
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 3: Yes, cry behind closed doors.

1622
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like your feelings don't really matter that much, so

1623
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 2: you can be sad about it, but you need to

1624
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 2: figure out another way to talk about this that doesn't

1625
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:58,760
Speaker 2: filter through your feelings. And to some extent, I think

1626
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:00,680
Speaker 2: some of that's good in some of it. Some of

1627
01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 2: it's good in that when you have a certain type

1628
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 2: of job, like you're a news analyst or whatever, your

1629
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:11,720
Speaker 2: political analyst, I don't necessarily want to hear about your feelings,

1630
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying, Like, I think that's kind

1631
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 2: of a bad look for a lot of articles these

1632
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 2: days because it's not relevant to the facts. The facts

1633
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 2: to me are what does this say, what does this do?

1634
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:27,520
Speaker 2: How does this work? What should I be anticipating?

1635
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:30,679
Speaker 1: But if you spent half of the article talking about

1636
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 1: how you are, your feelings were hurt because when you

1637
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: voted for Obama, you really believed in hope and change

1638
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:40,920
Speaker 1: and you thought he would be the one and unified.

1639
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:43,600
Speaker 1: So it's always like, yeah, but I don't care about.

1640
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:45,639
Speaker 2: That because I just want to know what's in the bill, right,

1641
01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 2: That's what I mean when I say that's kind of

1642
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 2: that's one of the places where I think it can

1643
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 2: be too far.

1644
01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:54,519
Speaker 1: But then there's places like this where this kid gets

1645
01:14:56,280 --> 01:15:01,760
Speaker 1: racially or I don't know, religiously harassed and targeted by his.

1646
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:05,839
Speaker 2: Teacher and he leads with how it made him feel,

1647
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:08,280
Speaker 2: not just did he do it?

1648
01:15:08,439 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 1: Did he not do it?

1649
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:12,840
Speaker 2: The argument isn't over the facts, it's over like it's

1650
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 2: not even an argument, it's yo, what this dude did

1651
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 2: to me made me feel shitty, and that is valid

1652
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:24,400
Speaker 2: and my feelings matter. At that age, I was not

1653
01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 2: only my feelings matter thing, just my gin I don't

1654
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,000
Speaker 2: think my generation was. It was it was like, your

1655
01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 2: feelings have no one owes you good feelings? Right, And

1656
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 2: now I feel like people think, well, no, that's part

1657
01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 2: of the equation. There's a responsibility to be paid to

1658
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:44,719
Speaker 2: the fact of.

1659
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 1: How you made me feel. And I think that's when

1660
01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 1: I was getting that, not the because I.

1661
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:54,200
Speaker 2: Think it's obviously that everything from slavery to the civil

1662
01:15:54,240 --> 01:15:57,320
Speaker 2: wars about white people's feelings, they just don't talk about it, right,

1663
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 2: think about the CRT bait. It's not the kids whose

1664
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:02,639
Speaker 2: feelings are at the center that debate. It's the parents

1665
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 2: and the grandparents gen X and boomers who don't want

1666
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 2: to have their feelings hurt by being called out at

1667
01:16:07,439 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 2: the dinner table by little Susie's grandma slipped they called

1668
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 2: her best friend, that little colored girl.

1669
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1670
01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 2: And in that case, though, what are they using. They're

1671
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 2: saying it's the kids feelings.

1672
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 1: Which is that? Like I said, it's like they're.

1673
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:25,200
Speaker 2: Trying to steal the millennial kind of the woke type

1674
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 2: of phrasing to be like, how can we take woke

1675
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:30,440
Speaker 2: shit and use it for our own benefit? And Republicans

1676
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 2: I've been doing that for a few years now, and

1677
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 2: they managed to be successful a lot of times by

1678
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:39,600
Speaker 2: saying this about some feelings and kids confidence, and you're like,

1679
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:40,640
Speaker 2: this is not about that at all.

1680
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:41,720
Speaker 1: It's definitely about you.

1681
01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 2: Like I said, they dress up the argument with fascile

1682
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:46,960
Speaker 2: counter factus a big talk, but at the heart they

1683
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:49,160
Speaker 2: just don't want to feel bad. But they're not really

1684
01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:51,000
Speaker 2: pressed about the kids feeling bad. In my opinion of

1685
01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:53,720
Speaker 2: feelings first language was seeing from the younger set. It's

1686
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:56,000
Speaker 2: just what the older generation does with our votork over there.

1687
01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:58,559
Speaker 2: I could be wrong, though, now I think you're dead on.

1688
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 2: I just think your point aligns with my points, so

1689
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,880
Speaker 2: I don't I don't take it as a pushback at all.

1690
01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 2: I feel like we're saying kind of the same thing,

1691
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:09,160
Speaker 2: which is and which is why I said, I've learned

1692
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:12,800
Speaker 2: to to to quell that down and not go to

1693
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:14,720
Speaker 2: my first reaction, because my first reaction a lot of

1694
01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 2: times when it comes to that kind of shit is

1695
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 2: actually wrong. It's I've just been trained to go Feelings

1696
01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:23,280
Speaker 2: don't matter. My feelings don't matter. It doesn't matter. Nobody's

1697
01:17:23,280 --> 01:17:24,639
Speaker 2: feelings matter, and.

1698
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:26,960
Speaker 1: That's not that's that's not always healthy.

1699
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:27,519
Speaker 3: Agreed.

1700
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:29,720
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. Sometimes I'm right, but a

1701
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 1: lot of times I'm wrong.

1702
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 2: Now, I still don't think if some race was happening

1703
01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 2: to me, I pick up a phone and start crying

1704
01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 2: into it on my Instagram live. But who am I

1705
01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 2: to say? Maybe I would, but I don't think I would. Yeah,

1706
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:42,639
Speaker 2: And I think that's definitely because.

1707
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 1: Of how I was raised.

1708
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:46,000
Speaker 3: Agreed. Yeah, Yeah, there's some shit that happened, And like

1709
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:46,840
Speaker 3: I said, I had.

1710
01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:52,600
Speaker 5: To learn how to navigate and realize each generation is

1711
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:54,479
Speaker 5: going to deal with things that happened to them in

1712
01:17:54,520 --> 01:17:58,320
Speaker 5: their own way, because I remember, we gotta talked about

1713
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 5: this before. How an article came out about some black

1714
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:05,879
Speaker 5: students who were upset and they were calling that racism

1715
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:08,280
Speaker 5: at their universities and they made like videos and they

1716
01:18:08,360 --> 01:18:12,040
Speaker 5: went viraling and things like that. And you know, for

1717
01:18:12,160 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 5: me and my generation, it's like, uh, nickame you have

1718
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:17,960
Speaker 5: the racist before? Like I don't get this, Like I don't,

1719
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:21,560
Speaker 5: I don't really understand, uh. And I had to analyze

1720
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:24,680
Speaker 5: myself and check myself and ask myself, why do I

1721
01:18:24,760 --> 01:18:27,559
Speaker 5: feel this way? What is it within me? This caused

1722
01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:29,280
Speaker 5: me to respond that way, And a lot of it

1723
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:31,800
Speaker 5: was how I was raised, like like it didn't have

1724
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:35,120
Speaker 5: anything to do with them and and or anything. And

1725
01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 5: their struggle is their struggle, and if this is something

1726
01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 5: they feel like addressing it that method, they are to

1727
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:43,559
Speaker 5: have the right to address it that way. And who

1728
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 5: am I to tell them how to fight on the

1729
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,799
Speaker 5: struggle that directly impacts them.

1730
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:51,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's just interesting, Like I said, it's different

1731
01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:52,880
Speaker 2: ways of communicating.

1732
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 1: And these are the kids of us now.

1733
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:59,599
Speaker 2: So if someone taught them that their feelings mattered, it

1734
01:18:59,640 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 2: was us, our generation. And if our generation taught them that,

1735
01:19:03,400 --> 01:19:05,960
Speaker 2: it's because of what we felt we needed to correct

1736
01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:08,960
Speaker 2: from the generation before us that were like kids ought

1737
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:14,560
Speaker 2: to be, you know, hurt so you're not heard and.

1738
01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:13,840
Speaker 1: And shit like that.

1739
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 2: You know, because I said so, you know, so this

1740
01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 2: will be and then these kids will correct whatever they

1741
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:22,560
Speaker 2: felt was you know, was taught to them that that

1742
01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:28,679
Speaker 2: was wrong. Photoshopping kids school pictures, yes or no? Oker, no, no.

1743
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:31,360
Speaker 2: Ninety seven percent of people said no, don't photoshop the

1744
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 2: baby's fool pictures.

1745
01:19:32,280 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 3: Don't fuck my baby's pictures.

1746
01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:35,640
Speaker 2: One person said yes, but they probably also think Dave

1747
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 2: Japelle won't talk about gay people again. Now what's interesting

1748
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 2: is on the Spotify pole, sixteen percent said yeah, photoshop

1749
01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 2: them kids at eighty four percent said no, leader kid

1750
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 2: leader babies alone.

1751
01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:50,160
Speaker 5: My kids has freckles and all that stuff. I want

1752
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:51,920
Speaker 5: to see that that's the part of my baby.

1753
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 2: H Brooklyn shoe Bay says my fourteen year old not

1754
01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:58,920
Speaker 2: to mention. Honestly, dog, I'm surprised there were that many

1755
01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 2: yeses on Spotify, just because I guess in my mind,

1756
01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:07,599
Speaker 2: after what we learned about Facebook and Instagram, like getting

1757
01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:11,080
Speaker 2: the kids in on this, you're not okay looking, you

1758
01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:14,719
Speaker 2: need to be photoshop shit. Seem like it's definitely sending

1759
01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:17,080
Speaker 2: the wrong message right now you.

1760
01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:18,840
Speaker 3: Naturally look, it's not good enough.

1761
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like that's such a young age to be absorbing

1762
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 2: that message of like, you know, like you're gonna be

1763
01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 2: absorbing in your whole life, but damn, I don't know.

1764
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, and the social media thing on Netflix social I

1765
01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 5: forgot the name of it. Show not show, but documentarity.

1766
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 1: They did the social dilemma.

1767
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:43,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, the social dilemma on Netflix caused me to actually

1768
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:46,360
Speaker 5: consider those things, like they didn't studies and they was like, hey,

1769
01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 5: y'all when Facebook came around, teenage suicide for.

1770
01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 3: Girls went through the roof.

1771
01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:53,920
Speaker 5: They was like, and it is a reason why, because

1772
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:57,400
Speaker 5: everything tells them you're not pretty enough, you're not tall enough.

1773
01:20:57,439 --> 01:21:00,200
Speaker 5: You know you your breast ain't big enough, if your

1774
01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 5: budd ain't big, like it constantly like attacks every part

1775
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:06,559
Speaker 5: of their bodies, which is something we did not have

1776
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:10,320
Speaker 5: prior to Facebook. It's not the kids that didn't kid

1777
01:21:10,320 --> 01:21:11,920
Speaker 5: the stuff a commit suicide, but they was like, it's

1778
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:15,479
Speaker 5: a correlation between this jump in like Instagram and Facebook

1779
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:17,440
Speaker 5: and all this shit and these suicides.

1780
01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 1: Let's see the comments.

1781
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:23,599
Speaker 2: Uh Brooklyn shoe ba it says my fourteen year old

1782
01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:24,920
Speaker 2: graduated from middle school in June.

1783
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 1: The studio they.

1784
01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 2: Hired did a terrible job of photoshopping the pictures that

1785
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:30,080
Speaker 2: went in the yearbook. They didn't tell the parents or

1786
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:32,320
Speaker 2: the children to wear their hair off the forehead, so

1787
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:35,799
Speaker 2: many of the pictures included bangs being photoshopped away, including

1788
01:21:35,880 --> 01:21:39,040
Speaker 2: my daughters bitch. And they changed the face shapes to

1789
01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:42,120
Speaker 2: compliment the new hairstyles. They didn't airbrush or out xit,

1790
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:45,120
Speaker 2: they didn't air brush out xits or acne scars and

1791
01:21:45,160 --> 01:21:47,680
Speaker 2: just left children looking like greasy pizza. I was so

1792
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 2: fucking angry, so bringing my inner white woman, I had

1793
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,840
Speaker 2: a photographer and did a bomb ass photo shoot in

1794
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 2: the Brooklyn Botanical Botanic Garden of my of my daughter

1795
01:21:58,960 --> 01:22:01,439
Speaker 2: and her cap and gown with her dad, her sister's stepmom,

1796
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:03,479
Speaker 2: and me not going to have my daughters middle.

1797
01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:05,600
Speaker 1: School legsy jacked up with a terrible photoshopping.

1798
01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:08,280
Speaker 3: And my thing is this, It.

1799
01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:12,600
Speaker 5: Hasn't happened yet, but whatn't the school fear of being sued.

1800
01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 3: Just fucking take the pictures.

1801
01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:18,559
Speaker 5: Just take the pictures unless I say yes, I won't changes.

1802
01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:22,639
Speaker 3: What's what the fucking wrong with bangs on my forehead?

1803
01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:26,800
Speaker 2: Like it's also that thing too, where like we're talking

1804
01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:27,839
Speaker 2: about just like their.

1805
01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:31,080
Speaker 1: Hair, their foe heads, zits and stuff. But I also.

1806
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:37,559
Speaker 2: Remember people, uh photoshopping like girls cleavage out of the picture,

1807
01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:41,120
Speaker 2: or somebody's shoulder like a shirt on their shoulders instead

1808
01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:42,479
Speaker 2: of letting their best shoulder shop.

1809
01:22:43,160 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 1: So like a lot of this stuff can get out

1810
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:45,760
Speaker 1: of control. I don't.

1811
01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 2: I'm just not a fan of it. Like, take the

1812
01:22:47,439 --> 01:22:49,760
Speaker 2: picture and if the parents don't like it.

1813
01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: Maybe they can have a retouched right.

1814
01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:54,880
Speaker 5: And my thing like, as a parent, I'm going bitch,

1815
01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:56,840
Speaker 5: I sent them this way and this is this.

1816
01:22:56,800 --> 01:22:59,439
Speaker 3: Is what I chose. Who are you to actually redesigned?

1817
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:00,680
Speaker 5: What? Then?

1818
01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:03,600
Speaker 3: The thing is for a lot of princess I'm not

1819
01:23:03,600 --> 01:23:04,520
Speaker 3: buying your fucking.

1820
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:07,160
Speaker 5: Expensive ass packages. You know them packages ain't fucking cheap.

1821
01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 5: If I have to turn around and take my own

1822
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 5: photo shoot, fucking.

1823
01:23:09,880 --> 01:23:12,439
Speaker 2: Pay you for the in sound like you're gonna cuss

1824
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:16,760
Speaker 2: out some customer service over here. Ken Wanganji said, you

1825
01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:19,479
Speaker 2: look and busted in school pics and lifeless is a

1826
01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:22,080
Speaker 2: life lesson that some folks used to improve that photo game.

1827
01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:24,320
Speaker 2: For others is a life lesson that lets them know

1828
01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 2: they have other off camera skills they should develop. But

1829
01:23:27,880 --> 01:23:32,040
Speaker 2: if I, as an adult how to their experience, any

1830
01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:34,080
Speaker 2: potential lessons effects will be muted.

1831
01:23:34,200 --> 01:23:37,599
Speaker 1: Hashtag critical duct theory. I don't know what this means

1832
01:23:37,640 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 1: at all.

1833
01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:39,880
Speaker 3: Uh says.

1834
01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:43,040
Speaker 2: Part of the fund of school pictures is going back

1835
01:23:43,080 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 2: and looking at them in your adult years and see

1836
01:23:45,280 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 2: how goofy you look. I have a picture in my

1837
01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:51,720
Speaker 2: third grade with my real my leather MJ jacket, red

1838
01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:53,639
Speaker 2: leather MJ jacket and my flat pants.

1839
01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:55,080
Speaker 1: I thought I look cool as fuck.

1840
01:23:55,080 --> 01:23:57,960
Speaker 2: Photoshop kind of takes away that child experience and everybody

1841
01:23:58,080 --> 01:23:59,360
Speaker 2: is a perfect little step for children.

1842
01:23:59,400 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 5: Ug.

1843
01:23:59,560 --> 01:24:02,519
Speaker 1: I'm glad I grew up in the eighties. Yeah, what

1844
01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:03,320
Speaker 1: if you photoshop?

1845
01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:05,639
Speaker 2: I'm like some Kardashians and shit, all the kids got

1846
01:24:05,640 --> 01:24:07,720
Speaker 2: that ant body from Instagram now.

1847
01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:11,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's not natural, right, you know, and their

1848
01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:15,360
Speaker 5: children that it's already awkward and strange. And you're going

1849
01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 5: through home molls like you're dealing with enough in your

1850
01:24:17,720 --> 01:24:18,160
Speaker 5: own life.

1851
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,760
Speaker 3: Or somebody be like, you know, I let me just photoshop.

1852
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:23,160
Speaker 5: You let me chop your bangs off, like bitch. I

1853
01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:25,479
Speaker 5: have bangs my forehead for a reason. Right now, I

1854
01:24:25,520 --> 01:24:29,160
Speaker 5: got a real smooth face, right, you know, reshaping my

1855
01:24:29,280 --> 01:24:32,160
Speaker 5: chin and all this other bullshit. And now I'm looking

1856
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:35,040
Speaker 5: crazy from photoshop. I'm not looking crazy because not funny.

1857
01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:37,320
Speaker 5: I naturally looked that way. That's completely different.

1858
01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:39,920
Speaker 2: Now you got a huge butt for no reason. I'm like,

1859
01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:42,599
Speaker 2: why are you? Why are the kids school pictures by

1860
01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:47,120
Speaker 2: the pool? Have you ever been in love with yourself?

1861
01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:50,599
Speaker 1: What's the question? People answered?

1862
01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:50,880
Speaker 3: No?

1863
01:24:51,360 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 2: Said that is of course, said Jerome, learning that as

1864
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:59,320
Speaker 2: we speak, said Kylae. I hope I'm saying that name right.

1865
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:04,080
Speaker 2: Says yes, I finally found me and I'm happy. Introvert

1866
01:25:04,320 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 2: says all the time, Mecca says yes. She cool, Dad

1867
01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 2: and say narcissism and moderation isn't bad. I like to

1868
01:25:11,320 --> 01:25:13,479
Speaker 2: feel in love myself one day, maybe.

1869
01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:14,320
Speaker 1: Ms.

1870
01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:17,519
Speaker 2: Bond says, through my therapy, I'm working on that. Shack

1871
01:25:17,560 --> 01:25:20,639
Speaker 2: Obean says it's an everyday process. Some days I'm tired

1872
01:25:20,680 --> 01:25:23,200
Speaker 2: of myself and can understand why no one has romantic

1873
01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:27,840
Speaker 2: love for me. Kurt says, only in a platonic way,

1874
01:25:29,160 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 2: what I guess Kurt has never been introduced to the

1875
01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:37,919
Speaker 2: word or masturbation. Every day, damn day, says Chris.

1876
01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:41,360
Speaker 1: Chris White Family says I'm in love with myself all day,

1877
01:25:41,400 --> 01:25:43,679
Speaker 1: every day. And Patrina says yes.

1878
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 2: So a lot of yes is that's good, you know,

1879
01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:48,960
Speaker 2: and a lot of working on it that's good too,

1880
01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 2: and uh the nose, Hey, you know, maybe one day.

1881
01:25:52,640 --> 01:25:55,400
Speaker 1: Don't give up, hope, don't give up. All right, let's

1882
01:25:55,479 --> 01:25:57,080
Speaker 1: move into voicemails.

1883
01:25:57,080 --> 01:25:59,960
Speaker 2: He got a couple of voicemails on the voicemail line

1884
01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:02,839
Speaker 2: seven oh four five five seven zero one eighty.

1885
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:06,400
Speaker 6: Six, Hey, Rod and Karen. It's Jen from Brooklyn now

1886
01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:09,439
Speaker 6: in LA. At some point I'll transfer over to Jen

1887
01:26:09,840 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 6: from LA, but I'm still toeing new It's only been

1888
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:16,439
Speaker 6: a year anyway, just listening to this week's episodes, and

1889
01:26:16,479 --> 01:26:18,080
Speaker 6: I always say, I'm gonna call it the end of

1890
01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:19,800
Speaker 6: the week once I've caught up, and then of course

1891
01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:21,679
Speaker 6: Saturday comes along and I'm like, I should have called.

1892
01:26:21,720 --> 01:26:24,040
Speaker 6: So I'm calling on a Tuesday, which means y'all are

1893
01:26:24,040 --> 01:26:25,799
Speaker 6: going to talk about all kinds of other good stuff

1894
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:28,840
Speaker 6: before the feedback show, but that's all right. And I

1895
01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:31,519
Speaker 6: just wanted to call to talk about Dave Chappelle because

1896
01:26:31,560 --> 01:26:34,280
Speaker 6: as soon as I started watching the special, I was

1897
01:26:34,320 --> 01:26:37,639
Speaker 6: thinking about y'all. You know, it's one of those things

1898
01:26:37,640 --> 01:26:39,160
Speaker 6: where you feel like you have to watch it because

1899
01:26:39,200 --> 01:26:40,760
Speaker 6: you want to weigh in. And I do love Dave

1900
01:26:40,840 --> 01:26:43,080
Speaker 6: Chappelle and I love stand up comedy like both of y'all,

1901
01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:46,640
Speaker 6: So man, it just hurt my heart, you know, like

1902
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:49,759
Speaker 6: it first of all, it wasn't funny, and then second

1903
01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:52,320
Speaker 6: of all, you know, it was just like obviously very offensive,

1904
01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:56,200
Speaker 6: and I just thought, like the whole time I was

1905
01:26:56,240 --> 01:26:57,720
Speaker 6: watching now, I'm like, where are the jokes? And even

1906
01:26:57,720 --> 01:26:59,040
Speaker 6: if you're not gonna do the jokes, like you could

1907
01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:01,800
Speaker 6: do like he did his George Ford's special, like make

1908
01:27:01,880 --> 01:27:04,080
Speaker 6: it clever. And it wasn't clever. There were so many

1909
01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:07,800
Speaker 6: holes in it. And I had a couple of conversations

1910
01:27:07,840 --> 01:27:11,639
Speaker 6: about this with my friends who said that he thought

1911
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 6: it was funny.

1912
01:27:12,120 --> 01:27:13,000
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, what was funny?

1913
01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:14,479
Speaker 6: What were the jokes he thought was funny? He couldn't

1914
01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:16,640
Speaker 6: name any, And then he said that he's making the

1915
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:18,559
Speaker 6: point because the fact that a white trans woman is

1916
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:20,559
Speaker 6: speaking out on this and that's all anybody cares about.

1917
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:22,920
Speaker 6: And I'm like, you're missing the point because there, of

1918
01:27:23,000 --> 01:27:25,120
Speaker 6: course are black trans women talking about this, but you

1919
01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:27,559
Speaker 6: just don't hear about them because that's how much black

1920
01:27:27,640 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 6: transom in r race from the narrative. Anyway. I also

1921
01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:33,720
Speaker 6: have a friend that just started working at Netflix and

1922
01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:35,640
Speaker 6: he said that they didn't walk out last week, and

1923
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:37,080
Speaker 6: I just asked him how it went, and he said

1924
01:27:37,280 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 6: he did it virtually, so I wasn't as impactful, but

1925
01:27:39,960 --> 01:27:42,000
Speaker 6: you know, it just brought light to light how badly

1926
01:27:42,040 --> 01:27:44,960
Speaker 6: the handle a situation, so very interesting. So glad that

1927
01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:46,960
Speaker 6: y'all are talking about it, and immediately thought of y'all,

1928
01:27:47,120 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 6: hope y'all have a great week. I'm sure I'll have

1929
01:27:49,080 --> 01:27:50,679
Speaker 6: to call back because I'm sure you're gonna talk about

1930
01:27:50,680 --> 01:27:54,360
Speaker 6: more great stuff. Love y'all, Bye.

1931
01:27:53,439 --> 01:27:57,400
Speaker 2: Thank you, And she didn't call back, so apparently we

1932
01:27:57,439 --> 01:27:59,439
Speaker 2: didn't talk about more great stuff, and I'm sorry.

1933
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 1: Let you down, and we talked about a lot of

1934
01:28:02,840 --> 01:28:03,639
Speaker 1: mediocre stuff.

1935
01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:07,680
Speaker 2: But nah, I feel you and I really appreciate it

1936
01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:10,800
Speaker 2: the way you said it, because it honestly that's the

1937
01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:13,599
Speaker 2: way I am, which is when you said it wasn't

1938
01:28:13,680 --> 01:28:17,280
Speaker 2: funny as your first thing, because I'm that, I don't

1939
01:28:17,320 --> 01:28:20,320
Speaker 2: need to agree with you. You know, people say some

1940
01:28:20,320 --> 01:28:22,880
Speaker 2: some some of the art form of comedy can be

1941
01:28:23,520 --> 01:28:26,000
Speaker 2: I have these fucked up thoughts and I think fucked

1942
01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:29,680
Speaker 2: up things, and let's laugh at how fucked up I

1943
01:28:29,720 --> 01:28:33,640
Speaker 2: can be while acknowledging I am fucked up like this

1944
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:34,200
Speaker 2: is not me.

1945
01:28:34,240 --> 01:28:35,639
Speaker 1: Saying I'm right.

1946
01:28:35,680 --> 01:28:38,639
Speaker 2: This is me saying yeah, I'm kind of a piece

1947
01:28:38,640 --> 01:28:40,880
Speaker 2: of shit for thinking like this. But and then what

1948
01:28:40,960 --> 01:28:45,160
Speaker 2: happens is we all reach a place where in that room,

1949
01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:47,439
Speaker 2: in that space, if you're allowing for it, you can

1950
01:28:47,520 --> 01:28:50,200
Speaker 2: kind of relate because I don't give a fuck what

1951
01:28:50,240 --> 01:28:53,840
Speaker 2: your denomination is. You ain't perfect, and you don't thought

1952
01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:58,280
Speaker 2: something fucked up about somebody else, and that and that moment,

1953
01:28:58,600 --> 01:29:01,120
Speaker 2: you can relate to the human manity of that person

1954
01:29:01,120 --> 01:29:04,599
Speaker 2: in the way that you can't with other forms of media,

1955
01:29:04,720 --> 01:29:07,839
Speaker 2: because you know, Kami allows you to laugh at yourself

1956
01:29:07,840 --> 01:29:10,559
Speaker 2: in the market yourself, so you can be like yo,

1957
01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:13,400
Speaker 2: like you know, one of my favorite Chappelle jokes was

1958
01:29:13,439 --> 01:29:15,600
Speaker 2: the one where we talked about black Santa Claus and

1959
01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:18,200
Speaker 2: he ain't believe in it because he caught himself being

1960
01:29:18,280 --> 01:29:21,680
Speaker 2: racist against himself, essentially saying black.

1961
01:29:21,400 --> 01:29:23,639
Speaker 1: Santa Claus would be laid and all this type of shit.

1962
01:29:24,000 --> 01:29:26,479
Speaker 2: And it's a simple joke, but it's but but it

1963
01:29:26,560 --> 01:29:29,760
Speaker 2: lets you go like, yeah, I've thought dumb shit like

1964
01:29:29,840 --> 01:29:32,760
Speaker 2: that too, Or you know when black people go like,

1965
01:29:33,240 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 2: you know, support black business, but then the first time

1966
01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:37,080
Speaker 2: the black business fuck up, you.

1967
01:29:37,080 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 1: Be like, see, this is why I don't fuck with niggas.

1968
01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:42,640
Speaker 2: It's like there's a joke there that's very relatable but

1969
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:43,639
Speaker 2: also wrong.

1970
01:29:44,560 --> 01:29:47,000
Speaker 3: Yes, but I laughed first.

1971
01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:49,880
Speaker 2: But and when yeah, y'all that's wrong, you know, like,

1972
01:29:50,240 --> 01:29:52,280
Speaker 2: how are we used to have this phrase on our show,

1973
01:29:52,400 --> 01:29:56,000
Speaker 2: ha Are It was all ha the laugh and then

1974
01:29:56,120 --> 01:29:58,280
Speaker 2: all that's sad sucked up because it's.

1975
01:29:58,200 --> 01:29:59,720
Speaker 1: Coming right after it. It ain't.

1976
01:29:59,720 --> 01:30:02,920
Speaker 2: No, it's hilarious and it's sad and that's it's sad

1977
01:30:03,040 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 2: like and uh, you know I show a lot of

1978
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:10,960
Speaker 2: times can be sad hilarious. It's you know, this is funny,

1979
01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:13,240
Speaker 2: but it's this is racist and it's something somebody gotta

1980
01:30:13,280 --> 01:30:13,519
Speaker 2: deal with.

1981
01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:16,040
Speaker 1: So that was you know, I think there's something to

1982
01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:17,840
Speaker 1: be said there. So I'm with you on that because

1983
01:30:17,880 --> 01:30:18,519
Speaker 1: that's how I'm.

1984
01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:21,839
Speaker 2: Set up to be, like, oh man, if it was funny,

1985
01:30:23,000 --> 01:30:27,080
Speaker 2: I could be like, well he was funny and I disagreed, agreed,

1986
01:30:27,400 --> 01:30:29,639
Speaker 2: but it's not even funny to me, and I don't

1987
01:30:29,680 --> 01:30:31,280
Speaker 2: mean it on some like I won't laugh at this.

1988
01:30:31,520 --> 01:30:35,040
Speaker 2: It wasn't clever or smart. It was just like, if

1989
01:30:35,120 --> 01:30:39,120
Speaker 2: you already agree with my points about trans people, this

1990
01:30:39,280 --> 01:30:41,800
Speaker 2: will be funny to you because you're just relieved to

1991
01:30:41,920 --> 01:30:44,479
Speaker 2: have me Dave Chappelle agreeing with you.

1992
01:30:45,600 --> 01:30:49,960
Speaker 1: So all right. Last voicemail is from James.

1993
01:30:52,880 --> 01:31:02,840
Speaker 7: Good Evening, mister Rodamus Prime, my negro, Karen, how you do?

1994
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:06,719
Speaker 7: I just gotta say this real quick because I'm laughing. Kids,

1995
01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:13,040
Speaker 7: I just gotta say this real quick. Two points number one.

1996
01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:18,479
Speaker 7: That South Lake podcast, Oh my god, I couldn't stop listening.

1997
01:31:18,920 --> 01:31:25,400
Speaker 7: I was so enthralled, angry, upset. I was talking to

1998
01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:29,160
Speaker 7: myself this morning, making peanut butter and jelly for the kids.

1999
01:31:29,200 --> 01:31:32,479
Speaker 7: That's them giggling in the bad talking to myself so

2000
01:31:32,600 --> 01:31:34,960
Speaker 7: much so, I was making civil rights and with you

2001
01:31:35,960 --> 01:31:39,240
Speaker 7: I talk I'm playing over in the string of Rosa

2002
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:42,880
Speaker 7: parks and taking everything with peanut butter and jelly, and

2003
01:31:43,000 --> 01:31:45,960
Speaker 7: I'm hoping. I'm just Oh my god, this thing got

2004
01:31:46,000 --> 01:31:48,960
Speaker 7: me so Rode talk about how it was two people,

2005
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:54,960
Speaker 7: the young lady named Raven and the other young my

2006
01:31:55,120 --> 01:31:59,840
Speaker 7: home day named em The things they went through, it

2007
01:32:00,160 --> 01:32:01,320
Speaker 7: just broke my heart down.

2008
01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:01,839
Speaker 1: Jesus.

2009
01:32:01,920 --> 01:32:04,840
Speaker 7: I just wanted to give him a hug. And I

2010
01:32:04,960 --> 01:32:08,360
Speaker 7: just felt like that old grandma and granddad and be

2011
01:32:08,439 --> 01:32:11,639
Speaker 7: coming here and get this hug. You know, them white

2012
01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:14,679
Speaker 7: folks is evil and they ain't right, and they gonna

2013
01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:17,439
Speaker 7: they gonna get there one day with the raf of God.

2014
01:32:18,640 --> 01:32:20,160
Speaker 7: Come on, get this pound cake. You know how the

2015
01:32:20,200 --> 01:32:22,040
Speaker 7: old people used to used to go through something.

2016
01:32:22,960 --> 01:32:24,080
Speaker 1: I eat this sausage.

2017
01:32:24,120 --> 01:32:24,599
Speaker 3: Real quick.

2018
01:32:25,920 --> 01:32:30,760
Speaker 7: And the second bullet point is gold Belly. I was

2019
01:32:30,800 --> 01:32:32,639
Speaker 7: looking on gold Belly. We about to do that, gold

2020
01:32:32,680 --> 01:32:35,840
Speaker 7: Belly say, I was looking we about to have a

2021
01:32:35,880 --> 01:32:39,880
Speaker 7: gold belly thanksgivings the fire with the Kansas City dude,

2022
01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:42,360
Speaker 7: I think I'm about to I'm about to do it.

2023
01:32:42,560 --> 01:32:46,760
Speaker 7: Bro my usage on the credit card. Folk, don't hide

2024
01:32:46,800 --> 01:32:49,880
Speaker 7: me up me the brisket, the turkey with the sausage.

2025
01:32:50,400 --> 01:32:53,040
Speaker 1: Bro, I'm about to. Don't hide me up man.

2026
01:32:53,080 --> 01:32:55,320
Speaker 5: You better do it though, because look like around to

2027
01:32:55,360 --> 01:32:56,520
Speaker 5: have a gold better Thanksgiving.

2028
01:32:56,800 --> 01:32:59,439
Speaker 1: Somebody already used one of my coats. You know what

2029
01:32:59,479 --> 01:32:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

2030
01:33:00,000 --> 01:33:01,719
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put this shit in the show notes because

2031
01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:05,880
Speaker 2: I get fifteen dollars if you order from gold Belly.

2032
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:08,559
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, using my code, So I'll

2033
01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:10,240
Speaker 2: put it in the chat and I put it in

2034
01:33:10,320 --> 01:33:10,920
Speaker 2: the show notes.

2035
01:33:11,280 --> 01:33:13,759
Speaker 1: But listen that shit the truth.

2036
01:33:14,400 --> 01:33:20,639
Speaker 2: I've had now four things, like five things from gold Belly. Okay,

2037
01:33:20,760 --> 01:33:25,479
Speaker 2: my first one was like a month ago.

2038
01:33:25,760 --> 01:33:27,519
Speaker 1: That's how good this is. I done went back to

2039
01:33:27,600 --> 01:33:28,000
Speaker 1: the trough.

2040
01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:32,479
Speaker 2: The first one I had was these Chinese dumplings because

2041
01:33:32,479 --> 01:33:35,960
Speaker 2: a fan gave me a gift card and I said, well,

2042
01:33:36,120 --> 01:33:37,040
Speaker 2: I've been curious.

2043
01:33:37,200 --> 01:33:40,519
Speaker 1: I just didn't want pay all that money, and fuck it.

2044
01:33:41,600 --> 01:33:43,320
Speaker 1: Now it's a discount, I give it a shot. And

2045
01:33:43,400 --> 01:33:47,719
Speaker 1: now these Chinese dumplings from Dumpling Monster was Obelos great

2046
01:33:47,800 --> 01:33:49,160
Speaker 1: dipping sauce, all this shit right.

2047
01:33:49,800 --> 01:33:54,080
Speaker 2: Then I tried this quest love cheesecake and it's made

2048
01:33:54,120 --> 01:33:58,920
Speaker 2: with possible beef meat and come with cheese sauce and

2049
01:33:58,960 --> 01:34:01,080
Speaker 2: it's relish that you got to warm up and put

2050
01:34:01,120 --> 01:34:01,360
Speaker 2: on it.

2051
01:34:01,920 --> 01:34:03,599
Speaker 1: That was delicious, Okay.

2052
01:34:04,600 --> 01:34:08,479
Speaker 2: Then I tried to meet lasagna from Dinner in the Field.

2053
01:34:10,080 --> 01:34:11,840
Speaker 2: All you do is put in the oven, bake it

2054
01:34:12,280 --> 01:34:14,040
Speaker 2: like you gotta bake it a little longer.

2055
01:34:13,840 --> 01:34:16,760
Speaker 1: Than the destructure. Say but you know, you know, play

2056
01:34:16,800 --> 01:34:18,439
Speaker 1: about ear or whatever them.

2057
01:34:18,520 --> 01:34:20,200
Speaker 3: Thanks was absolutely delicious.

2058
01:34:20,600 --> 01:34:23,960
Speaker 1: Listen falling off the bone. Then I've never had a

2059
01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:26,479
Speaker 1: New York pizza, and all you hear is the pizza

2060
01:34:26,520 --> 01:34:28,320
Speaker 1: in Young is so much better than pizza. You don't

2061
01:34:28,320 --> 01:34:29,840
Speaker 1: got pizza, piece of pizza.

2062
01:34:30,200 --> 01:34:32,240
Speaker 2: So I got some pizza from there. It was eight

2063
01:34:32,400 --> 01:34:38,000
Speaker 2: giant slices from table eighty seven. And you they're individually

2064
01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:40,360
Speaker 2: wrapped and these are huge lights.

2065
01:34:40,560 --> 01:34:41,960
Speaker 3: Yes, these are huge likening.

2066
01:34:42,040 --> 01:34:45,240
Speaker 1: You put it on like a pizza tray or whatever like,

2067
01:34:45,400 --> 01:34:48,280
Speaker 1: you put the tray in the oven first, preheated to

2068
01:34:48,400 --> 01:34:51,120
Speaker 1: whatever degrees. You put the pizza on there for like

2069
01:34:51,280 --> 01:34:52,479
Speaker 1: eight minutes. Take it out.

2070
01:34:53,080 --> 01:34:55,919
Speaker 5: You got pizza and you don't have to add anything

2071
01:34:56,160 --> 01:34:58,960
Speaker 5: to it. That bitch was absolutely delicious.

2072
01:34:58,960 --> 01:35:02,200
Speaker 3: That bitch tastes like it ca at a somebody's brick

2073
01:35:02,280 --> 01:35:04,040
Speaker 3: oven stove. It was flames.

2074
01:35:04,640 --> 01:35:08,120
Speaker 2: And then the last thing I got is uh, dumplings

2075
01:35:08,200 --> 01:35:12,439
Speaker 2: and shoe my from Noam Wir which I posted these

2076
01:35:12,479 --> 01:35:15,280
Speaker 2: pictures on my Instagram occasionally so people can see what

2077
01:35:15,360 --> 01:35:21,240
Speaker 2: we're getting. And uh, one of it was like soup dumplings.

2078
01:35:22,880 --> 01:35:25,559
Speaker 2: And so we don't have a steamer, nigga, I went

2079
01:35:25,640 --> 01:35:27,360
Speaker 2: and bought a bamboo steamer.

2080
01:35:28,040 --> 01:35:30,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how. Because I'm not new to this. I'm

2081
01:35:30,920 --> 01:35:32,120
Speaker 1: true to this. You know what I'm saying.

2082
01:35:32,240 --> 01:35:35,920
Speaker 2: If it's the instruction say steamer, then it's getting steamed. Okay,

2083
01:35:35,960 --> 01:35:38,000
Speaker 2: I don't have a steamer in my house. I ain't

2084
01:35:38,080 --> 01:35:41,000
Speaker 2: got that authentic bamboot steamer. I'm getting to give us

2085
01:35:41,000 --> 01:35:44,839
Speaker 2: some lettuce leaves. But I also bought like a parchment

2086
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:48,320
Speaker 2: paper to go in there, and I followed the instructions and.

2087
01:35:48,360 --> 01:35:50,400
Speaker 1: I steamed it for the first time in Maine.

2088
01:35:51,640 --> 01:35:56,920
Speaker 5: Them things was hit them things were absolutely de just

2089
01:35:57,000 --> 01:35:59,639
Speaker 5: think about it, and and they're not like regular dumplings.

2090
01:35:59,680 --> 01:36:01,920
Speaker 5: They soon when you bite into it, you get the

2091
01:36:02,000 --> 01:36:04,320
Speaker 5: burst of the soup and c to the meat and

2092
01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:07,720
Speaker 5: and and everything, and you like you say, put it

2093
01:36:07,760 --> 01:36:08,719
Speaker 5: on parchment paper.

2094
01:36:09,120 --> 01:36:11,160
Speaker 3: And it was absolutely like we were in on line

2095
01:36:11,560 --> 01:36:12,240
Speaker 3: to kind of see.

2096
01:36:12,280 --> 01:36:14,320
Speaker 5: And I didn't know they had the double deck because

2097
01:36:14,360 --> 01:36:16,120
Speaker 5: some people we got one level, but some people got

2098
01:36:16,160 --> 01:36:16,759
Speaker 5: like two levels.

2099
01:36:16,800 --> 01:36:19,120
Speaker 3: And they was showing how like different things you could

2100
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:21,599
Speaker 3: do with your steam. I was like, oh, bitchiness is helping.

2101
01:36:21,720 --> 01:36:22,040
Speaker 3: Let's go.

2102
01:36:22,720 --> 01:36:27,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, absolutely, man, definitely, if y'all need that link,

2103
01:36:27,800 --> 01:36:28,759
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

2104
01:36:29,040 --> 01:36:30,800
Speaker 1: Let a brother know. I put it in the show notes.

2105
01:36:30,880 --> 01:36:33,400
Speaker 2: Hit me on social media because every time y'all give

2106
01:36:33,439 --> 01:36:35,800
Speaker 2: me fifteen dollars, I'm going back to the well, okay

2107
01:36:35,840 --> 01:36:38,600
Speaker 2: this I'm into gold belly life now, Okay, this is

2108
01:36:38,680 --> 01:36:39,919
Speaker 2: my new treat for myself.

2109
01:36:40,080 --> 01:36:43,280
Speaker 1: I definitely I don't we don't get to go out

2110
01:36:43,360 --> 01:36:44,320
Speaker 1: to eat anymore.

2111
01:36:44,680 --> 01:36:44,840
Speaker 3: Right.

2112
01:36:45,120 --> 01:36:48,880
Speaker 2: I had to make a tough, tough, tough decision today

2113
01:36:49,720 --> 01:36:52,960
Speaker 2: that I'm not gonna go to the Hornets games and.

2114
01:36:53,200 --> 01:36:56,040
Speaker 3: It sucks, but I just had we had like to

2115
01:36:56,120 --> 01:36:57,240
Speaker 3: have a conversation about that.

2116
01:36:57,560 --> 01:36:58,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I felt like it was the right thing to do.

2117
01:36:59,120 --> 01:37:01,000
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll talk about it more throughout the week, but

2118
01:37:01,200 --> 01:37:02,400
Speaker 1: we will at any rate.

2119
01:37:02,560 --> 01:37:02,720
Speaker 5: Man.

2120
01:37:03,000 --> 01:37:05,280
Speaker 1: So like, listen, I'm not getting to have a lot

2121
01:37:05,320 --> 01:37:05,679
Speaker 1: of fun.

2122
01:37:06,520 --> 01:37:08,400
Speaker 2: But one thing that's fun, it's trying food from all

2123
01:37:08,439 --> 01:37:11,000
Speaker 2: over the world. This world now all over the country,

2124
01:37:11,120 --> 01:37:12,960
Speaker 2: and I ain't never get to try it. So, you know,

2125
01:37:13,280 --> 01:37:15,719
Speaker 2: go billy, this is a free ad for them. Apparently

2126
01:37:15,920 --> 01:37:17,519
Speaker 2: come on all right?

2127
01:37:19,160 --> 01:37:21,040
Speaker 1: And civil rights sound just cracked me. The fuck up?

2128
01:37:21,120 --> 01:37:23,360
Speaker 2: Might be the title of the show. Y's not redp

2129
01:37:23,439 --> 01:37:26,800
Speaker 2: if it's not Rod Table talking down too, so it's

2130
01:37:26,800 --> 01:37:27,840
Speaker 2: probably red table talk.

2131
01:37:27,880 --> 01:37:28,600
Speaker 1: So we'll get to it.

2132
01:37:29,280 --> 01:37:29,400
Speaker 3: Uh.

2133
01:37:29,880 --> 01:37:33,000
Speaker 1: This one is from Jerome, who I think is Newsy,

2134
01:37:33,720 --> 01:37:39,360
Speaker 1: who we know from Keith and the Girl. Yeah, we

2135
01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:41,680
Speaker 1: do Keith and the Girl.

2136
01:37:41,720 --> 01:37:43,719
Speaker 2: We do last week on Keith and the Girl KTG

2137
01:37:44,280 --> 01:37:46,439
Speaker 2: and me and kare break off every other week and

2138
01:37:46,520 --> 01:37:49,639
Speaker 2: we recap their week of shows and it's fun their friends.

2139
01:37:49,800 --> 01:37:52,120
Speaker 2: It's if you like our show, I think you're like theirs,

2140
01:37:52,439 --> 01:37:55,400
Speaker 2: and you know it's so it's a cool situation over

2141
01:37:55,439 --> 01:38:02,120
Speaker 2: there and Jerome Newsy. He a recap where they go

2142
01:38:02,320 --> 01:38:05,679
Speaker 2: back every on a certain day, so like say today

2143
01:38:05,800 --> 01:38:09,400
Speaker 2: is the thirtieth of October, he would do every thirtieth

2144
01:38:09,400 --> 01:38:13,840
Speaker 2: of October over the past like sixteen years that they've

2145
01:38:13,920 --> 01:38:17,400
Speaker 2: done this show, to be like like, this is what

2146
01:38:17,520 --> 01:38:20,479
Speaker 2: you were doing October thirty, two thousand and eight, in

2147
01:38:20,560 --> 01:38:23,800
Speaker 2: twenty ten and two, like it's dope and it's a

2148
01:38:23,920 --> 01:38:24,599
Speaker 2: fun show.

2149
01:38:24,640 --> 01:38:27,720
Speaker 1: And we're already listeners over there and premium listeners to them.

2150
01:38:27,800 --> 01:38:29,960
Speaker 1: So to us is you know, it's just dope to

2151
01:38:30,000 --> 01:38:30,560
Speaker 1: be a part of that.

2152
01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:34,320
Speaker 2: But he writes in it says mad dads Hey, Rodney

2153
01:38:34,360 --> 01:38:36,679
Speaker 2: Caarenon respond to the story about the dads who provide

2154
01:38:36,720 --> 01:38:37,719
Speaker 2: presents in the schools.

2155
01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:40,120
Speaker 1: There are similar groups in Pittsburgh.

2156
01:38:40,400 --> 01:38:44,200
Speaker 2: There's a similar group in Pittsburgh called mad Dads, Oh

2157
01:38:44,600 --> 01:38:46,720
Speaker 2: that I used to see hanging out in downtown area

2158
01:38:46,760 --> 01:38:48,120
Speaker 2: where the kids got out of school.

2159
01:38:48,400 --> 01:38:50,479
Speaker 1: The police force that comes out when the school lets

2160
01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:53,760
Speaker 1: out is sickening, right, I could. I could absolutely see that.

2161
01:38:54,240 --> 01:38:56,559
Speaker 1: I've seen a cop. I've seen cops on horse ride

2162
01:38:56,680 --> 01:38:59,240
Speaker 1: into a group of fighting middle schoolers to break it up.

2163
01:38:59,400 --> 01:39:02,920
Speaker 3: On shit, nigga, what was just a wow, what the

2164
01:39:03,479 --> 01:39:06,719
Speaker 3: horse y'all got missed? Air breaking up fights?

2165
01:39:06,760 --> 01:39:10,280
Speaker 1: Now one fucking thing. He dances with wolves, dogs, break

2166
01:39:10,360 --> 01:39:10,920
Speaker 1: this shit up.

2167
01:39:11,439 --> 01:39:14,759
Speaker 2: God Jesus, it's like what they did to the Haitian

2168
01:39:14,800 --> 01:39:17,240
Speaker 2: people with the horses and shit. But every time I

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01:39:17,320 --> 01:39:19,559
Speaker 2: see this group in the live green hats and shirts,

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01:39:19,600 --> 01:39:22,080
Speaker 2: it seems to make a difference on the scene, even

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Speaker 2: if even if it's to make sure the police act accordingly,

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01:39:25,720 --> 01:39:28,160
Speaker 2: if they intervene right, right, Because that's the other thing.

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01:39:28,840 --> 01:39:31,320
Speaker 1: A lot of things that happen to black people by police,

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Speaker 1: and I.

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01:39:33,920 --> 01:39:37,439
Speaker 2: Don't think it's too controversial to say, but I really

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01:39:37,479 --> 01:39:39,920
Speaker 2: thought about this a lot, and I think the same

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01:39:40,000 --> 01:39:42,640
Speaker 2: thing happens with black trans women and stuff. A lot

2178
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Speaker 2: of this stuff is the fact that their assumption when

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Speaker 2: they look at your skin is no one cares about you.

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01:39:47,720 --> 01:39:50,960
Speaker 2: Come home, and you don't have any advocates, right, and

2181
01:39:51,160 --> 01:39:58,040
Speaker 2: having adults in their shirts watching this interaction immediately puts

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Speaker 2: that to a lie. And the assumption also is when

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01:40:02,200 --> 01:40:04,880
Speaker 2: they interact with certain other people, is that what people

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01:40:04,920 --> 01:40:05,640
Speaker 2: do care about them.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I'm only gonna do certain things, and I'm

2186
01:40:08,400 --> 01:40:10,320
Speaker 5: only gonna go but so far, and and and and

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01:40:10,720 --> 01:40:14,080
Speaker 5: not only that, it even from like counseling to grace

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01:40:14,439 --> 01:40:17,360
Speaker 5: to like uh uh academic right if did all that

2189
01:40:18,120 --> 01:40:20,800
Speaker 5: is your parents advocating for you. And a lot of

2190
01:40:20,880 --> 01:40:24,960
Speaker 5: times people are absolutely shocked when black parents actually have

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01:40:25,080 --> 01:40:27,240
Speaker 5: to take care. So they're taking their time off work

2192
01:40:27,600 --> 01:40:29,240
Speaker 5: to come up there and be like, well, bitch, what

2193
01:40:29,360 --> 01:40:32,920
Speaker 5: y'all ain't gonna do is uh take my child it

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01:40:33,160 --> 01:40:35,840
Speaker 5: uh put my child down the path, And all of

2195
01:40:35,880 --> 01:40:38,479
Speaker 5: a sudden, everybody's attitude change all of a sudden. You know,

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Speaker 5: if you're the parent that's sending the emails, if you

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01:40:40,840 --> 01:40:43,599
Speaker 5: the parent's tagging the principle, if you're the parents constantly

2198
01:40:43,680 --> 01:40:45,880
Speaker 5: on their asses, their attitude changes.

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Speaker 3: About your child.

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01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:48,479
Speaker 5: And oh, we can don't do but so much because

2201
01:40:48,479 --> 01:40:50,320
Speaker 5: if we fuck around, we're gonna have somebody's in our

2202
01:40:50,400 --> 01:40:51,120
Speaker 5: motherfucking face.

2203
01:40:51,240 --> 01:40:52,080
Speaker 3: Yes you will, bitch.

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01:40:52,880 --> 01:40:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:40:53,120 --> 01:40:56,640
Speaker 2: And then there's pictures of the mad dads of Greater Pittsburgh,

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01:40:57,000 --> 01:40:58,280
Speaker 2: uh and this thing.

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01:40:58,439 --> 01:41:01,200
Speaker 1: So maybe this is the thing that people are trying.

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01:41:01,960 --> 01:41:05,920
Speaker 2: As like an intervention situation where police don't need to

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01:41:05,960 --> 01:41:08,320
Speaker 2: be involved. The dads aren't coming out there to arrest anyone,

2210
01:41:08,439 --> 01:41:10,840
Speaker 2: mess up anybody's criminal record, put anybody out.

2211
01:41:10,720 --> 01:41:11,479
Speaker 1: Of school, right.

2212
01:41:11,920 --> 01:41:16,559
Speaker 2: I think it's a good stop gap, and uh yeah,

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01:41:17,360 --> 01:41:19,160
Speaker 2: I think there could be positive things that come up

2214
01:41:19,200 --> 01:41:21,120
Speaker 2: with programs like this, and I hope. I mean, if

2215
01:41:21,160 --> 01:41:23,519
Speaker 2: this is something they've been doing for a while and

2216
01:41:23,600 --> 01:41:27,080
Speaker 2: there's been positivity about it, then yeah, man, that's I think.

2217
01:41:26,960 --> 01:41:31,040
Speaker 1: That's a really dope they had, so, you know, not everything.

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01:41:30,840 --> 01:41:32,800
Speaker 2: Has to be so black and white and all that.

2219
01:41:34,120 --> 01:41:37,080
Speaker 2: We got an email from Thuran and I kind of

2220
01:41:37,120 --> 01:41:39,160
Speaker 2: went back and forth with him. I'll read it to y'all,

2221
01:41:39,320 --> 01:41:42,200
Speaker 2: but he right said twenty four to thirty seven The

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Speaker 2: Justice League of Black Dads. Rod of Care, longtime listener

2223
01:41:45,200 --> 01:41:49,200
Speaker 2: since Game of Thrones, recaps, commenting on episode twenty four

2224
01:41:49,240 --> 01:41:51,880
Speaker 2: to thirty seven. I'm from Freeport, living now in Metro

2225
01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:55,599
Speaker 2: atl and Southwood High School was originally mostly white until

2226
01:41:55,640 --> 01:41:57,679
Speaker 2: white flight to the east side of the city, leaving

2227
01:41:57,720 --> 01:42:01,120
Speaker 2: the area to be mostly black, with remaining whites going

2228
01:42:01,200 --> 01:42:04,719
Speaker 2: to private religious academies. When I saw this on CBS

2229
01:42:04,800 --> 01:42:07,120
Speaker 2: Evening News, I called my parents, who live in Streetport,

2230
01:42:07,120 --> 01:42:09,040
Speaker 2: and now we're so proud of these men stepping up

2231
01:42:09,320 --> 01:42:12,000
Speaker 2: without having the police coming into the school causing more chaos.

2232
01:42:12,360 --> 01:42:14,400
Speaker 2: It is a proud feeling to see brother stepping up

2233
01:42:14,439 --> 01:42:17,719
Speaker 2: to the plate and to do the right thing. Continue,

2234
01:42:17,760 --> 01:42:20,439
Speaker 2: You're a great show, even though I do disagree with

2235
01:42:20,520 --> 01:42:23,240
Speaker 2: some of your comments, but you do make good points.

2236
01:42:23,320 --> 01:42:28,720
Speaker 1: Later, thron and y'all know me. That was a very

2237
01:42:28,800 --> 01:42:32,800
Speaker 1: nice email. But I wrote back, which comments do you

2238
01:42:33,080 --> 01:42:36,920
Speaker 1: disagree with? Exactly? Be specific? Thanks for writing the show.

2239
01:42:38,400 --> 01:42:41,639
Speaker 1: So then he wrote back, did not disagree with any

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01:42:41,720 --> 01:42:44,720
Speaker 1: comments you had on the Black Dads, just on other episodes.

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01:42:45,080 --> 01:42:47,639
Speaker 2: I wholeheartedly agree with the Dads were a better alternative

2242
01:42:47,640 --> 01:42:49,560
Speaker 2: than the police, but I do have mixed feelings on

2243
01:42:49,600 --> 01:42:50,920
Speaker 2: the whole day Chapelle issue.

2244
01:42:52,000 --> 01:42:53,160
Speaker 1: A buddy of mine, while at.

2245
01:42:53,160 --> 01:42:55,200
Speaker 2: Lunch one day, told me that his daughter had just

2246
01:42:55,280 --> 01:42:59,280
Speaker 2: had a son. But I told him that I didn't

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01:42:59,400 --> 01:43:01,920
Speaker 2: know that she had gotten married. He informed me that

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01:43:02,000 --> 01:43:05,400
Speaker 2: she had married another woman and didn't know how people

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01:43:05,400 --> 01:43:05,920
Speaker 2: would take it.

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Speaker 1: Being an avid.

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01:43:07,800 --> 01:43:12,000
Speaker 2: Christian unlike the rest of y'all, you know, y'all just

2252
01:43:12,080 --> 01:43:14,520
Speaker 2: be y'all just be dabbling in this Christianity.

2253
01:43:14,600 --> 01:43:17,439
Speaker 1: He's an avid fan, Okay, go way back. I felt

2254
01:43:17,479 --> 01:43:20,479
Speaker 1: his pain and how to tell people about this, But

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01:43:20,600 --> 01:43:22,280
Speaker 1: I told him I was not one of those people

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01:43:22,320 --> 01:43:24,360
Speaker 1: that was gonna condemn her for finding true love.

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01:43:24,280 --> 01:43:27,639
Speaker 2: And starting to feel me. My wife, on the other hand,

2258
01:43:28,240 --> 01:43:30,519
Speaker 2: kept reminding me that he was allowing his daughter to

2259
01:43:30,600 --> 01:43:31,439
Speaker 2: go to head.

2260
01:43:31,320 --> 01:43:32,640
Speaker 1: Off for such a relationship.

2261
01:43:33,520 --> 01:43:35,600
Speaker 2: I told her God is a little more forgiven than that,

2262
01:43:35,720 --> 01:43:39,080
Speaker 2: which started a religious debate between us, with both sides

2263
01:43:39,120 --> 01:43:42,759
Speaker 2: agreeing and disagree. Well, I will say this, I always

2264
01:43:42,800 --> 01:43:45,600
Speaker 2: find that people's God is as tolerant as they are.

2265
01:43:47,320 --> 01:43:48,360
Speaker 1: You think that.

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01:43:49,840 --> 01:43:52,920
Speaker 2: That her finding love does nothing wrong with that, and

2267
01:43:53,120 --> 01:43:56,200
Speaker 2: starting a failing there is nothing wrong with that, And

2268
01:43:56,840 --> 01:43:59,040
Speaker 2: just so happens that, as far as you know, God

2269
01:43:59,120 --> 01:44:02,519
Speaker 2: agrees with you, your wife thinks something is wrong with

2270
01:44:02,600 --> 01:44:06,400
Speaker 2: that God agrees with her. Now I'm assuming God just

2271
01:44:06,520 --> 01:44:08,280
Speaker 2: up and, having played NBA two K twenty two, not

2272
01:44:08,360 --> 01:44:09,000
Speaker 2: worry about any.

2273
01:44:08,920 --> 01:44:12,880
Speaker 1: Of the shit. But I'm just saying, it's interesting how

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01:44:13,000 --> 01:44:13,760
Speaker 1: y'all feel about it.

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01:44:14,520 --> 01:44:16,160
Speaker 2: I agree that you made some good points, but I

2276
01:44:16,280 --> 01:44:19,639
Speaker 2: wasn't really sure he was attacking trands at most as

2277
01:44:19,720 --> 01:44:21,599
Speaker 2: most make it out to be. But I do agree

2278
01:44:21,680 --> 01:44:24,719
Speaker 2: that white gays take advantage of being white to advance

2279
01:44:24,760 --> 01:44:27,960
Speaker 2: their agenda and defend themselves against the attacks on their positions.

2280
01:44:28,360 --> 01:44:30,679
Speaker 2: I guess I'm just upset that gays have moved further

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01:44:30,760 --> 01:44:32,880
Speaker 2: in America than blacks. No, thanks to all the coons

2282
01:44:32,880 --> 01:44:33,840
Speaker 2: that keep holding us back.

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01:44:34,120 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 1: So even though I mean, I whole heartly agree with you,

2284
01:44:36,200 --> 01:44:40,559
Speaker 1: you do make good points to consider, and I reply back,

2285
01:44:42,080 --> 01:44:44,080
Speaker 1: have gays advanced over black people?

2286
01:44:46,640 --> 01:44:48,799
Speaker 2: And what of the black gay people who still experience

2287
01:44:48,880 --> 01:44:53,439
Speaker 2: both forms of discrimination? You know, because I was sometimes

2288
01:44:53,600 --> 01:44:55,680
Speaker 2: these things people get wordy. They want to respond back

2289
01:44:55,720 --> 01:44:58,640
Speaker 2: as much as they would talk that. But you know,

2290
01:44:59,800 --> 01:45:01,439
Speaker 2: the the thing I'm looking at is like, when you

2291
01:45:01,560 --> 01:45:05,439
Speaker 2: say something like that, where's the what is backing this up?

2292
01:45:05,600 --> 01:45:09,320
Speaker 1: Because I guarantee you you're not. It doesn't have to

2293
01:45:09,400 --> 01:45:10,559
Speaker 1: be factual when you.

2294
01:45:10,640 --> 01:45:14,559
Speaker 2: Start saying stuff that is not backed up by facts,

2295
01:45:14,640 --> 01:45:17,720
Speaker 2: it's just anecdotal or how you feel. So what are

2296
01:45:17,760 --> 01:45:21,040
Speaker 2: the advancements gay people have over black people? Are we

2297
01:45:21,080 --> 01:45:25,120
Speaker 2: talking about marriage equality? They got that after us, way,

2298
01:45:25,280 --> 01:45:26,360
Speaker 2: way way after us.

2299
01:45:26,680 --> 01:45:29,960
Speaker 1: Yes. Are we talking about discrimination in the workplace? They

2300
01:45:30,040 --> 01:45:34,040
Speaker 1: got that after us too. Are we talking about.

2301
01:45:35,320 --> 01:45:35,439
Speaker 3: Uh?

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01:45:36,040 --> 01:45:37,800
Speaker 1: Like, what what are we talking about? Is thatcht we're

2303
01:45:37,800 --> 01:45:40,360
Speaker 1: talking about? Don't keep in mind he was talking about

2304
01:45:40,400 --> 01:45:40,960
Speaker 1: trans people.

2305
01:45:41,280 --> 01:45:44,000
Speaker 2: Trans people still don't have the right to not be

2306
01:45:44,120 --> 01:45:47,280
Speaker 2: discriminated against work, they lose their job the wrong there's

2307
01:45:47,320 --> 01:45:50,680
Speaker 2: no wrong for termination based on your gender orientation.

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01:45:50,960 --> 01:45:52,479
Speaker 3: They can lose housing.

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01:45:53,160 --> 01:45:55,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking about the most under housed people. We're

2310
01:45:55,720 --> 01:45:59,320
Speaker 2: talking about the most violently killed people, when specially we

2311
01:45:59,360 --> 01:46:00,599
Speaker 2: talk about black trans women.

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01:46:01,680 --> 01:46:04,120
Speaker 1: So what are these what are these areas they're beating

2313
01:46:04,240 --> 01:46:04,400
Speaker 1: us to.

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01:46:04,760 --> 01:46:08,040
Speaker 2: If you're talking about visibility, you're still wrong because you're

2315
01:46:08,200 --> 01:46:12,360
Speaker 2: mad that people were mad that Caitlyn Jenner was on

2316
01:46:12,439 --> 01:46:14,640
Speaker 2: the cover of a magazine. Black people been on the

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01:46:14,680 --> 01:46:17,160
Speaker 2: cover of those magazines decades before Caitlyn Jenner.

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01:46:17,479 --> 01:46:20,840
Speaker 1: So that doesn't make sense, you know what I mean?

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01:46:20,960 --> 01:46:23,439
Speaker 2: Now, what you're really saying is I just got introduced

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01:46:23,479 --> 01:46:26,920
Speaker 2: to this concept of trans people. And once I got

2321
01:46:27,000 --> 01:46:29,920
Speaker 2: introduced to this concept, which is mostly and almost wholly

2322
01:46:30,080 --> 01:46:33,360
Speaker 2: theoretical to me, that is when it began to exist.

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01:46:34,080 --> 01:46:36,320
Speaker 2: Now I'm not reading no books, I'm not listening to

2324
01:46:36,360 --> 01:46:38,120
Speaker 2: no trans people in their life experience.

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01:46:38,600 --> 01:46:40,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to know or hear about any of

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01:46:40,720 --> 01:46:41,160
Speaker 1: that shit.

2327
01:46:41,840 --> 01:46:45,360
Speaker 2: I think trans people started circle twenty seventeen or whenever

2328
01:46:45,439 --> 01:46:49,599
Speaker 2: Caitlyn Jenner like got the cover of the ESPN the magazine.

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01:46:50,200 --> 01:46:50,960
Speaker 1: That's it for me.

2330
01:46:52,560 --> 01:46:56,559
Speaker 2: And you're just gonna refuse to acknowledge that, well, trans

2331
01:46:56,640 --> 01:46:59,760
Speaker 2: people been here as long as people been here, So

2332
01:47:00,400 --> 01:47:06,080
Speaker 2: any right you see them attaining is not a right

2333
01:47:06,280 --> 01:47:09,360
Speaker 2: of wow, when y'all got them rights fast as hell,

2334
01:47:09,439 --> 01:47:13,599
Speaker 2: it's a you didn't have this right ever until today.

2335
01:47:14,240 --> 01:47:18,800
Speaker 2: So when you see Donald Trump kicking trans people out

2336
01:47:18,840 --> 01:47:24,080
Speaker 2: of the military, and this is what twenty something years after,

2337
01:47:24,160 --> 01:47:29,360
Speaker 2: don't ask, don't tell when the liberal part of equality,

2338
01:47:29,800 --> 01:47:33,880
Speaker 2: the liberal stance for gave people within the military was

2339
01:47:34,360 --> 01:47:37,280
Speaker 2: can you just not tell anybody and don't let nobody

2340
01:47:37,360 --> 01:47:40,799
Speaker 2: find out? We won't ask if you don't let anybody

2341
01:47:40,840 --> 01:47:43,639
Speaker 2: find out. Now, where the fuck Black people don't.

2342
01:47:43,560 --> 01:47:46,920
Speaker 1: Have to do that? We like, that's not something we

2343
01:47:47,040 --> 01:47:47,400
Speaker 1: have to do.

2344
01:47:47,880 --> 01:47:51,880
Speaker 2: Was hey, man, just don't say everybody's gonna be Mike Turrico, Now,

2345
01:47:52,040 --> 01:47:52,800
Speaker 2: just don't bring it up.

2346
01:47:52,800 --> 01:47:55,439
Speaker 1: We won't ask, and we'll just say you're Italian. You

2347
01:47:55,520 --> 01:47:58,360
Speaker 1: know that's not how it works. So I just found

2348
01:47:58,400 --> 01:48:00,799
Speaker 1: that to be, you know, kind of ridiculous.

2349
01:48:00,840 --> 01:48:03,360
Speaker 2: But he goes on, Like I said, I asked him

2350
01:48:04,280 --> 01:48:08,400
Speaker 2: about the advancements From what I've seen Slash experience, several

2351
01:48:08,439 --> 01:48:12,000
Speaker 2: white gays have advanced rapidly up the corporate ladder, as

2352
01:48:12,080 --> 01:48:15,040
Speaker 2: we have only seen advancements for us when they need

2353
01:48:15,160 --> 01:48:15,960
Speaker 2: a token black.

2354
01:48:16,160 --> 01:48:20,200
Speaker 1: Here's the thing I would say about that. Let me

2355
01:48:20,240 --> 01:48:21,120
Speaker 1: finish this whole thing.

2356
01:48:21,240 --> 01:48:24,680
Speaker 2: But that once you say in my experience and what

2357
01:48:24,800 --> 01:48:28,120
Speaker 2: I've seen, you're now being anecdotal because you don't have

2358
01:48:28,280 --> 01:48:31,439
Speaker 2: the facts to back that up. If I said how

2359
01:48:31,479 --> 01:48:36,240
Speaker 2: many black CEOs are there, which is something that's completely represented, Like,

2360
01:48:36,760 --> 01:48:40,120
Speaker 2: that's really just representational politics. That's just like if I

2361
01:48:40,200 --> 01:48:42,760
Speaker 2: see a black CEO, that means black people doing well, Well,

2362
01:48:42,760 --> 01:48:44,840
Speaker 2: we had a black president. Do you feel like black

2363
01:48:44,880 --> 01:48:47,960
Speaker 2: people are doing great? Now, that's not how that goes, right, Okay,

2364
01:48:48,080 --> 01:48:51,360
Speaker 2: let's say it. That's what you're looking at the optics, right, Well,

2365
01:48:51,400 --> 01:48:55,240
Speaker 2: how many of those CEOs are openly gay? I bet

2366
01:48:55,280 --> 01:48:57,760
Speaker 2: you it's about the same, if not less than how

2367
01:48:57,800 --> 01:48:58,759
Speaker 2: many of them are black?

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01:49:00,280 --> 01:49:00,960
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

2369
01:49:01,160 --> 01:49:04,720
Speaker 2: Like, that's not a thing that is like some mainstream

2370
01:49:04,800 --> 01:49:07,280
Speaker 2: point of view like, oh man, if I'm seeing another

2371
01:49:07,479 --> 01:49:10,320
Speaker 2: gay CEO, I'm gonna be like, WHOA wish I had

2372
01:49:10,320 --> 01:49:12,240
Speaker 2: a dollar for every time you see a gay CEO

2373
01:49:12,320 --> 01:49:14,320
Speaker 2: of a company, It's like, it's not that happening that

2374
01:49:14,439 --> 01:49:20,280
Speaker 2: often anyway. And yet he says, and yes, I should

2375
01:49:20,320 --> 01:49:23,080
Speaker 2: not discount the double discriminations of gaze of color, just

2376
01:49:23,200 --> 01:49:24,960
Speaker 2: that a lot of white gays can easily hide their

2377
01:49:25,000 --> 01:49:29,120
Speaker 2: gayness to take advantage of their whiteness. Now, Rod, I

2378
01:49:29,280 --> 01:49:32,320
Speaker 2: was writing the comment only on black dass. Now you're

2379
01:49:32,400 --> 01:49:34,400
Speaker 2: dragging me down a rabbit hole. I don't want to

2380
01:49:34,479 --> 01:49:37,200
Speaker 2: go down. I know I have a lot of prejudices

2381
01:49:37,240 --> 01:49:39,840
Speaker 2: of gays I have to get over, so I'm trying

2382
01:49:39,880 --> 01:49:42,559
Speaker 2: to see everything from both sides. I also know as

2383
01:49:42,560 --> 01:49:44,800
Speaker 2: a Christian to forgive others, so I have repented for

2384
01:49:44,920 --> 01:49:46,320
Speaker 2: my pastes of gays.

2385
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:50,960
Speaker 1: It is a work in progress. Here's my thing with

2386
01:49:51,120 --> 01:49:54,000
Speaker 1: this one.

2387
01:49:54,680 --> 01:49:57,879
Speaker 2: When you, uh, well, I said it when I'm applied,

2388
01:49:57,880 --> 01:50:00,240
Speaker 2: I said the thing about your experience.

2389
01:50:00,360 --> 01:50:02,280
Speaker 1: It's just like looking at the world through a pinhole.

2390
01:50:04,680 --> 01:50:08,960
Speaker 2: Statistically, what you're saying isn't true, but you feel like

2391
01:50:09,080 --> 01:50:11,439
Speaker 2: it's true because you're like, I noticed some gay people

2392
01:50:11,479 --> 01:50:15,680
Speaker 2: got some jobs. It's like, well, that's not representative representative

2393
01:50:15,720 --> 01:50:18,479
Speaker 2: of all gay people. Also, if a white person has

2394
01:50:18,560 --> 01:50:21,439
Speaker 2: to hide the fact that they're gay in order to

2395
01:50:21,640 --> 01:50:25,479
Speaker 2: advance in life, they are not having this free experience

2396
01:50:25,520 --> 01:50:26,599
Speaker 2: that you claim they're having.

2397
01:50:27,560 --> 01:50:30,639
Speaker 1: They're they're having the experience of hiding. Lying.

2398
01:50:31,520 --> 01:50:34,720
Speaker 2: You've never had to hide that, you're if you're a

2399
01:50:34,800 --> 01:50:37,800
Speaker 2: straight man married to a woman, you don't have to

2400
01:50:38,040 --> 01:50:40,880
Speaker 2: hide that. You don't have to not hold her hand,

2401
01:50:41,040 --> 01:50:43,880
Speaker 2: not put pictures up in your office at your job.

2402
01:50:44,680 --> 01:50:48,120
Speaker 2: You don't have to, you know, hide your wedding announcements.

2403
01:50:48,479 --> 01:50:50,960
Speaker 2: A lot of people when they ask you about your family.

2404
01:50:52,280 --> 01:50:54,680
Speaker 1: That's what people who are in the closet have to

2405
01:50:54,800 --> 01:50:59,560
Speaker 1: do all the time. So that's not freedom, that's not equality,

2406
01:50:59,760 --> 01:51:03,360
Speaker 1: that's non ideal. That's not some step up over everyone else.

2407
01:51:03,640 --> 01:51:05,760
Speaker 1: That's like saying a light scanned person who could pass

2408
01:51:05,880 --> 01:51:09,479
Speaker 1: is white. Well, clearly, I mean, you know, they just

2409
01:51:09,560 --> 01:51:12,760
Speaker 1: do it to survive, to have a good life. They're

2410
01:51:12,800 --> 01:51:16,360
Speaker 1: giving something up for that. They're not gaining.

2411
01:51:16,520 --> 01:51:20,919
Speaker 2: They're not gaining something in a zero some game anyway.

2412
01:51:21,960 --> 01:51:23,840
Speaker 2: And what trans people is even more of a lie.

2413
01:51:24,000 --> 01:51:26,479
Speaker 2: The murder rate of black trans women is astronomical compared

2414
01:51:26,520 --> 01:51:28,840
Speaker 2: to any other group. Trans people make less and are

2415
01:51:28,840 --> 01:51:31,400
Speaker 2: employed at a lower rate as well. They also have

2416
01:51:31,640 --> 01:51:34,360
Speaker 2: almost no defense against discrimination when it comes to jobs that.

2417
01:51:34,400 --> 01:51:36,120
Speaker 1: They aren't covered under a lot of statues.

2418
01:51:36,680 --> 01:51:38,800
Speaker 2: All I'm asking is to be real, and you're the

2419
01:51:38,840 --> 01:51:40,560
Speaker 2: one who brought up not always a grant, So I

2420
01:51:40,640 --> 01:51:42,320
Speaker 2: feel like you threw that out there for a reason,

2421
01:51:42,560 --> 01:51:43,400
Speaker 2: and it's the only fair.

2422
01:51:43,240 --> 01:51:45,560
Speaker 1: I'll ask about it. I appreciate you admitting you have

2423
01:51:45,640 --> 01:51:48,360
Speaker 1: prejudices to get over that's huge, but you should do

2424
01:51:48,479 --> 01:51:51,000
Speaker 1: the work to get over them. Yeah, because admitting is

2425
01:51:51,080 --> 01:51:53,280
Speaker 1: just one part of the thing. Like, Okay, hey man,

2426
01:51:53,320 --> 01:51:57,479
Speaker 1: I know I got prejudices right, and you shouldn't remember

2427
01:51:57,520 --> 01:51:59,800
Speaker 1: that part. Were they not good?

2428
01:52:01,400 --> 01:52:04,320
Speaker 2: Can you imagine somebody being like, look, I know I'm racist,

2429
01:52:04,400 --> 01:52:07,479
Speaker 2: but you know, at least I admit it, Like, no, nigga,

2430
01:52:07,760 --> 01:52:11,760
Speaker 2: don't be racist no more. Read a book or two

2431
01:52:11,800 --> 01:52:14,360
Speaker 2: about it. I'm not religious, but I know religious people

2432
01:52:14,360 --> 01:52:17,200
Speaker 2: who love and accept the LGBTQ community, So I know

2433
01:52:17,320 --> 01:52:17,920
Speaker 2: it's possible.

2434
01:52:17,960 --> 01:52:20,559
Speaker 1: If Jesus is loved, then I think we should lead

2435
01:52:20,640 --> 01:52:23,400
Speaker 1: with that. What Dave is doing on stages and love.

2436
01:52:23,600 --> 01:52:25,360
Speaker 2: And it just so happens that all the people who

2437
01:52:25,400 --> 01:52:27,960
Speaker 2: feel he's not harming anyone are the same people who

2438
01:52:28,000 --> 01:52:30,240
Speaker 2: hold quote unquote prejudices themselves.

2439
01:52:30,600 --> 01:52:34,280
Speaker 1: So are they the best audience to determine that right? So,

2440
01:52:34,840 --> 01:52:37,560
Speaker 1: like earlier, he had said, to me, like, you know,

2441
01:52:37,640 --> 01:52:39,760
Speaker 1: I don't see, I don't see think what Dave is

2442
01:52:39,840 --> 01:52:41,400
Speaker 1: doing is hurting anybody.

2443
01:52:41,479 --> 01:52:45,400
Speaker 2: But then later you're like, well, I hold prejudices against gays, right,

2444
01:52:45,720 --> 01:52:48,280
Speaker 2: So how are you this unbiased audience?

2445
01:52:49,360 --> 01:52:53,840
Speaker 1: You know, when you talked about coons holding black people back,

2446
01:52:54,160 --> 01:52:55,120
Speaker 1: that was interesting to me.

2447
01:52:55,320 --> 01:52:58,120
Speaker 2: When people defend John Grum's racist emails as not his

2448
01:52:58,280 --> 01:53:01,200
Speaker 2: heart because they have positive epe aperences with him, That's

2449
01:53:01,240 --> 01:53:04,240
Speaker 2: how people sound defending Dave Chappelle to me, I appreciate

2450
01:53:04,320 --> 01:53:05,120
Speaker 2: the correspondence, but.

2451
01:53:05,120 --> 01:53:07,240
Speaker 1: I'm totally fine if you don't agree with this. I

2452
01:53:07,520 --> 01:53:08,360
Speaker 1: know I'm right.

2453
01:53:08,280 --> 01:53:10,760
Speaker 2: About this, and hopefully one day you'll see that too,

2454
01:53:11,479 --> 01:53:16,240
Speaker 2: And I sincerely mean that man like I do sincerely

2455
01:53:16,320 --> 01:53:18,080
Speaker 2: hope you see that, because I think a lot of

2456
01:53:18,120 --> 01:53:22,400
Speaker 2: people start where you start at, with the like, oh man,

2457
01:53:22,560 --> 01:53:24,200
Speaker 2: I got these things.

2458
01:53:24,000 --> 01:53:25,680
Speaker 1: I've been taught and I don't want to give them up.

2459
01:53:25,760 --> 01:53:27,559
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people start there, and people

2460
01:53:27,600 --> 01:53:31,280
Speaker 2: are very judgmental that people start there, and mostly because

2461
01:53:31,280 --> 01:53:33,680
Speaker 2: they don't want to admit that almost everybody starts there.

2462
01:53:34,120 --> 01:53:40,000
Speaker 2: Our country, our society is homophobic, transphobic, bigoty, racist, It's

2463
01:53:40,040 --> 01:53:43,519
Speaker 2: all this shit misogynistic, nobody starting from the pot, Like,

2464
01:53:43,680 --> 01:53:47,360
Speaker 2: unless your mom was just motherfucking I don't know who

2465
01:53:47,439 --> 01:53:49,840
Speaker 2: the fuck your mom, unless your mom was just like

2466
01:53:50,000 --> 01:53:50,840
Speaker 2: the wokens.

2467
01:53:50,520 --> 01:53:53,920
Speaker 1: Motherfucker in the world and was like you never nobody.

2468
01:53:54,400 --> 01:54:00,080
Speaker 1: I'm raising my child on a communist and a communist.

2469
01:54:00,120 --> 01:54:03,200
Speaker 2: Community on the commune, and we just gonna get out here,

2470
01:54:03,240 --> 01:54:06,640
Speaker 2: and everyone's lgbt Q and all that, Like most of

2471
01:54:06,640 --> 01:54:08,960
Speaker 2: the people are not raising that type of environment. You're

2472
01:54:09,040 --> 01:54:14,000
Speaker 2: raised in a very cis heater normal, the patriarchal, capitalistic.

2473
01:54:13,479 --> 01:54:15,559
Speaker 1: World, and you just sitting up there like, yeah, man,

2474
01:54:15,680 --> 01:54:16,920
Speaker 1: that's that's the way to be.

2475
01:54:17,920 --> 01:54:18,519
Speaker 3: I go to church.

2476
01:54:18,560 --> 01:54:20,360
Speaker 2: I don't think about these people because they're not here,

2477
01:54:20,920 --> 01:54:23,000
Speaker 2: and if they're here, they're told shut the fuck up,

2478
01:54:24,040 --> 01:54:27,280
Speaker 2: you know. So I think everyone starts there so recognizing

2479
01:54:27,320 --> 01:54:31,160
Speaker 2: that it's important. But mostly the thing that I want

2480
01:54:31,520 --> 01:54:35,400
Speaker 2: to stick with people if they're hearing this conversation and

2481
01:54:35,680 --> 01:54:40,040
Speaker 2: thinking of you know, assuming they're hearing this conversation and

2482
01:54:40,080 --> 01:54:43,280
Speaker 2: they're thinking about it, is.

2483
01:54:44,360 --> 01:54:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm okay going down with.

2484
01:54:48,960 --> 01:54:51,400
Speaker 2: People going I don't fuck with this, I don't fuck

2485
01:54:51,440 --> 01:54:53,280
Speaker 2: with the show, I don't fuck with Rod.

2486
01:54:53,800 --> 01:54:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna listen, I'm not gonna get money flow less.

2487
01:54:58,440 --> 01:55:01,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Theron left us donation, although I don't think

2488
01:55:01,840 --> 01:55:03,640
Speaker 2: he meant to. He meant to become a premium listener,

2489
01:55:03,720 --> 01:55:06,160
Speaker 2: but he never replied back when I told him, asked him, hey,

2490
01:55:06,240 --> 01:55:07,960
Speaker 2: did you want a refund?

2491
01:55:08,160 --> 01:55:10,120
Speaker 1: Because it sounds like you didn't get the thing you wanted.

2492
01:55:10,600 --> 01:55:12,440
Speaker 1: So I don't know. Maybe he's busy, maybe he don't

2493
01:55:12,440 --> 01:55:15,400
Speaker 1: give a fuck anymore. But the main thing I want

2494
01:55:15,440 --> 01:55:17,840
Speaker 1: you to listen to and live with is this.

2495
01:55:26,160 --> 01:55:33,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was right, and I know him right, and

2496
01:55:33,200 --> 01:55:36,560
Speaker 2: I'm okay being on this side of this thing, even

2497
01:55:36,640 --> 01:55:39,240
Speaker 2: if it's lonely, even if some motherfucker's gonna talk shit,

2498
01:55:39,800 --> 01:55:41,680
Speaker 2: even if it's some niggas that you know think I

2499
01:55:41,720 --> 01:55:44,600
Speaker 2: don't bang with with black people and black men especially,

2500
01:55:45,160 --> 01:55:48,600
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. Somebody needs to not give

2501
01:55:48,640 --> 01:55:51,160
Speaker 2: a fuck. The other way, Dave don't give a fuck.

2502
01:55:51,240 --> 01:55:55,080
Speaker 2: It's standing ovation. Thank god, he's standing up to cancel culture.

2503
01:55:55,360 --> 01:55:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. And it's like, man, what's

2504
01:55:57,040 --> 01:55:57,480
Speaker 2: wrong with you?

2505
01:55:57,640 --> 01:55:59,960
Speaker 1: Brother? Do I need to talk to you? Is everything

2506
01:56:00,040 --> 01:56:02,680
Speaker 1: ain't all right? Nigga? I think you're wrong.

2507
01:56:03,880 --> 01:56:07,640
Speaker 2: I think what you're promoting is file foul as fuck,

2508
01:56:08,720 --> 01:56:12,840
Speaker 2: and you don't need to do that. And I'm just

2509
01:56:12,920 --> 01:56:15,600
Speaker 2: as committed to saying that every fucking time you hear

2510
01:56:15,680 --> 01:56:19,360
Speaker 2: my voice when this topic comes up, because somebody should.

2511
01:56:19,480 --> 01:56:21,960
Speaker 1: I'm not scared of this nigga, and you shouldn't be either.

2512
01:56:23,480 --> 01:56:27,320
Speaker 2: You gotta stop being like it's funny to treat this

2513
01:56:27,400 --> 01:56:30,000
Speaker 2: shit like bravery when I feel like it's the most

2514
01:56:30,080 --> 01:56:32,960
Speaker 2: cowardly thing you can do to know people are being

2515
01:56:33,080 --> 01:56:35,160
Speaker 2: done wrong and to sit up there and let it happen.

2516
01:56:35,160 --> 01:56:37,320
Speaker 2: Because you don't want to be the uncle black dude.

2517
01:56:37,920 --> 01:56:39,640
Speaker 2: You don't want to be the straight black man that

2518
01:56:39,680 --> 01:56:41,200
Speaker 2: don't fit in with the rest of them. So I

2519
01:56:41,280 --> 01:56:43,560
Speaker 2: guess let me go ahead call the F word two,

2520
01:56:44,080 --> 01:56:47,320
Speaker 2: Let me go ahead be transphobic to cauz. Fuck it,

2521
01:56:47,800 --> 01:56:49,520
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, Nah, go ahead and

2522
01:56:49,560 --> 01:56:53,040
Speaker 2: say it's wrong, and at least if you can admit

2523
01:56:53,080 --> 01:56:54,200
Speaker 2: it's wrong, it's a start.

2524
01:56:56,120 --> 01:56:58,120
Speaker 1: But also like you should be able to be just

2525
01:56:58,200 --> 01:56:58,680
Speaker 1: as vocal.

2526
01:56:58,760 --> 01:57:01,520
Speaker 2: I don't know why the fuck this nigga gets patted

2527
01:57:01,560 --> 01:57:03,480
Speaker 2: on the back for not being scared to say the

2528
01:57:03,640 --> 01:57:04,680
Speaker 2: wrong shit.

2529
01:57:05,920 --> 01:57:07,920
Speaker 1: But saying the right shit.

2530
01:57:08,000 --> 01:57:10,160
Speaker 2: It's like, well, you can say that in the hushroom,

2531
01:57:10,520 --> 01:57:13,000
Speaker 2: hush tones, and make sure you make sure everybody feels

2532
01:57:13,040 --> 01:57:14,760
Speaker 2: good about what you're saying. For you say that shit,

2533
01:57:14,840 --> 01:57:18,040
Speaker 2: Rod because you hurt you hate to hurt these niggas feelings.

2534
01:57:19,000 --> 01:57:21,360
Speaker 2: I'm hurting your feelings by talking about the fact you're

2535
01:57:21,400 --> 01:57:24,880
Speaker 2: hurting everybody else's feelings. That don't sound mighty white to you.

2536
01:57:26,360 --> 01:57:28,280
Speaker 2: So that's what bothers me about the shit. I'm not

2537
01:57:28,360 --> 01:57:31,680
Speaker 2: angry at you, obviously, but it's just because it's more

2538
01:57:32,400 --> 01:57:34,960
Speaker 2: I don't And it's more just that I don't. I

2539
01:57:35,000 --> 01:57:37,240
Speaker 2: would never give somebody that much power over me to

2540
01:57:37,400 --> 01:57:39,560
Speaker 2: anger me because they don't agree with me on some shit.

2541
01:57:40,000 --> 01:57:43,400
Speaker 1: But it's also just the fact that we've been getting

2542
01:57:43,400 --> 01:57:44,800
Speaker 1: this shit for eleven years. Baby.

2543
01:57:45,200 --> 01:57:48,360
Speaker 2: I'm talking about since we started this show. And I'm

2544
01:57:48,400 --> 01:57:50,120
Speaker 2: not saying it because we started this show and it

2545
01:57:50,240 --> 01:57:52,440
Speaker 2: was just like super dup but woke. It was just

2546
01:57:52,840 --> 01:57:56,040
Speaker 2: honest to god, it's just being a good person. This

2547
01:57:56,080 --> 01:57:57,640
Speaker 2: shit is not heroism.

2548
01:57:57,760 --> 01:58:00,240
Speaker 1: It's not pat me on the back worthy, it's not

2549
01:58:00,320 --> 01:58:04,040
Speaker 1: a fucking like get a T shirt. It's just being decent.

2550
01:58:04,560 --> 01:58:07,600
Speaker 2: This person is different from me and they're just living

2551
01:58:07,640 --> 01:58:10,000
Speaker 2: their fucking life and they're not hurting anybody.

2552
01:58:10,520 --> 01:58:12,360
Speaker 1: And then you see people come out of nowhere like

2553
01:58:12,560 --> 01:58:14,400
Speaker 1: I would like to fuck with this person, and it's

2554
01:58:14,480 --> 01:58:18,080
Speaker 1: like why, why what are they doing alone?

2555
01:58:18,280 --> 01:58:18,400
Speaker 3: Now?

2556
01:58:19,440 --> 01:58:19,640
Speaker 1: You know?

2557
01:58:20,000 --> 01:58:21,160
Speaker 3: Like that like that's the shit.

2558
01:58:21,280 --> 01:58:22,440
Speaker 1: That's the main thing I'm own.

2559
01:58:22,480 --> 01:58:26,760
Speaker 2: It's not some like, it's not even some calling to

2560
01:58:26,840 --> 01:58:29,280
Speaker 2: some deep shit. If everybody wasn't a piece of shit,

2561
01:58:29,360 --> 01:58:33,320
Speaker 2: this wouldn't be remarkable. It's not remarkable to me when

2562
01:58:33,960 --> 01:58:36,800
Speaker 2: we do guess the fucking with black people half the time,

2563
01:58:36,840 --> 01:58:39,520
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I just want to be left alone.

2564
01:58:39,680 --> 01:58:42,880
Speaker 2: I don't need a super duper ally. I don't need

2565
01:58:42,960 --> 01:58:46,720
Speaker 2: white people to understand everything. Hey hey, white person, you're

2566
01:58:46,720 --> 01:58:48,040
Speaker 2: not supposed to say, nigga, that's it.

2567
01:58:48,800 --> 01:58:50,480
Speaker 1: Well, I don't understand why. I mean, I feel like

2568
01:58:50,480 --> 01:58:52,360
Speaker 1: I can help if I could. No, no, no, you

2569
01:58:52,520 --> 01:58:55,760
Speaker 1: don't know, except you don't know, and we can move

2570
01:58:55,800 --> 01:58:58,480
Speaker 1: the fuck on. And I'm not saying it in an

2571
01:58:58,480 --> 01:58:59,840
Speaker 1: angry way. I'm not mad at you.

2572
01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:01,520
Speaker 5: We ain't got to go through a debate and you

2573
01:59:01,600 --> 01:59:04,160
Speaker 5: ain't got to understand. I just want, like, if you

2574
01:59:04,280 --> 01:59:05,720
Speaker 5: don't know and leave me alone.

2575
01:59:05,800 --> 01:59:06,920
Speaker 1: I just want to be left alone.

2576
01:59:07,040 --> 01:59:10,760
Speaker 2: And I would guess most of the people that we

2577
01:59:10,920 --> 01:59:14,400
Speaker 2: talk about when we talk about LGBTQ issues, they not.

2578
01:59:14,600 --> 01:59:17,560
Speaker 1: Asking for nothing but to be left the fuck alone.

2579
01:59:18,560 --> 01:59:19,800
Speaker 1: They not asking for shit.

2580
01:59:20,240 --> 01:59:21,120
Speaker 3: I just want to live.

2581
01:59:21,640 --> 01:59:24,160
Speaker 2: Let me let me go to work in peace, let

2582
01:59:24,200 --> 01:59:26,960
Speaker 2: me have my house, let me fucking day who I

2583
01:59:27,080 --> 01:59:30,000
Speaker 2: want to date, let me do whatever, Let me do

2584
01:59:30,120 --> 01:59:31,760
Speaker 2: what the fuck I'm doing, as long as it don't

2585
01:59:31,840 --> 01:59:33,920
Speaker 2: do nothing to you. I just want to take a

2586
01:59:34,040 --> 01:59:35,720
Speaker 2: shit and a piss. And we sitting up here having

2587
01:59:35,760 --> 01:59:36,680
Speaker 2: a debate about.

2588
01:59:36,480 --> 01:59:40,040
Speaker 1: It for a year in my state. That ain't crazy

2589
01:59:40,120 --> 01:59:43,200
Speaker 1: to you. You we're the crazy ones being.

2590
01:59:43,120 --> 01:59:46,200
Speaker 2: Obsessed about this shit in a way that's so hateful

2591
01:59:46,240 --> 01:59:50,480
Speaker 2: and vindictive. That's us, We're the problem. So why the

2592
01:59:50,520 --> 01:59:52,200
Speaker 2: fuck can't we just back off of that? And when

2593
01:59:52,200 --> 01:59:53,920
Speaker 2: I say, well, I am not talking straight black men,

2594
01:59:54,000 --> 01:59:57,640
Speaker 2: but just since had people in general our obsession about this,

2595
01:59:58,040 --> 02:00:01,880
Speaker 2: these conversations that ultimately leave people out of it, like, oh,

2596
02:00:01,920 --> 02:00:05,120
Speaker 2: we don't need Joe perspective. We're over here talking like

2597
02:00:05,280 --> 02:00:06,440
Speaker 2: that's that's wild to me.

2598
02:00:06,640 --> 02:00:08,480
Speaker 1: So that's the main thing.

2599
02:00:08,640 --> 02:00:11,240
Speaker 2: So I don't say any of this to be patronizing. No,

2600
02:00:11,640 --> 02:00:13,320
Speaker 2: I don't want no pass on the back ain't no

2601
02:00:13,480 --> 02:00:17,000
Speaker 2: fucking like, oh man, thank god, Like that's not it.

2602
02:00:17,240 --> 02:00:18,920
Speaker 2: I hope we live in a world one day where

2603
02:00:19,280 --> 02:00:21,200
Speaker 2: me saying this shit is like, well, yeah, while he's

2604
02:00:21,200 --> 02:00:25,280
Speaker 2: so upset, that's the way it should be, Like, that's

2605
02:00:25,400 --> 02:00:26,520
Speaker 2: that's what we need to get to.

2606
02:00:27,120 --> 02:00:30,640
Speaker 1: And we a long fucking away from there, and it shouldn't.

2607
02:00:30,680 --> 02:00:33,720
Speaker 2: And then when you throw in the blackness, it really

2608
02:00:34,480 --> 02:00:38,400
Speaker 2: really shouldn't just be a handful of black people having

2609
02:00:38,520 --> 02:00:40,440
Speaker 2: this passionate of an opinion about this shit.

2610
02:00:41,560 --> 02:00:43,480
Speaker 1: We know better.

2611
02:00:43,960 --> 02:00:48,800
Speaker 2: Literally, we have had so much shit thrown on us

2612
02:00:49,120 --> 02:00:52,240
Speaker 2: when we were just minding our fucking business trying to

2613
02:00:53,040 --> 02:00:56,120
Speaker 2: fucking have our rights as American citizens, and people just

2614
02:00:56,200 --> 02:00:58,240
Speaker 2: could not stop fucking with us.

2615
02:00:58,440 --> 02:00:58,600
Speaker 1: Right.

2616
02:00:59,080 --> 02:01:01,440
Speaker 2: Oh, you want to get in the pool. We concreting

2617
02:01:01,520 --> 02:01:04,400
Speaker 2: over the fucking pool. Niggas can't swim here.

2618
02:01:04,440 --> 02:01:06,440
Speaker 3: We want to have school, We're shutting this bitch down

2619
02:01:06,520 --> 02:01:07,640
Speaker 3: for two fucking years.

2620
02:01:07,720 --> 02:01:11,720
Speaker 2: Oh you're getting interracial marriage, Hell no, we're making that illegal.

2621
02:01:12,080 --> 02:01:14,080
Speaker 3: You want to have your own city, We'll burn that

2622
02:01:14,200 --> 02:01:15,720
Speaker 3: bitch down right like.

2623
02:01:15,960 --> 02:01:17,760
Speaker 1: This, like we know better.

2624
02:01:19,240 --> 02:01:23,000
Speaker 2: So to see us siding with white people and Republicans

2625
02:01:23,080 --> 02:01:26,200
Speaker 2: and racist people in conservatives, to see that happening, and

2626
02:01:26,400 --> 02:01:28,960
Speaker 2: no one's stopping and going as a black person.

2627
02:01:29,400 --> 02:01:34,840
Speaker 1: Ted Cruz never agrees with me everything he stands for

2628
02:01:34,960 --> 02:01:37,240
Speaker 1: a shit, but he.

2629
02:01:37,280 --> 02:01:39,760
Speaker 2: Hate them trans people, and goddamn it, I do too, then,

2630
02:01:41,080 --> 02:01:46,440
Speaker 2: and you can't stop yourself intellectually, I don't like I said,

2631
02:01:46,480 --> 02:01:48,400
Speaker 2: I don't bang with that at all, and I think

2632
02:01:48,520 --> 02:01:54,560
Speaker 2: niggas can do better. Oh then, okay, My man from

2633
02:01:54,600 --> 02:01:58,760
Speaker 2: White Label American podcast, Raphael.

2634
02:01:58,760 --> 02:02:00,840
Speaker 1: Sent us a couple of guests right now, articles which

2635
02:02:00,880 --> 02:02:06,240
Speaker 1: I'll I'll save for the show.

2636
02:02:06,560 --> 02:02:12,240
Speaker 2: It's we haven't already okay, so yeah, I'll make sure

2637
02:02:12,440 --> 02:02:16,040
Speaker 2: say those. Thanks for sending these in, Rafael, and let's

2638
02:02:16,040 --> 02:02:21,320
Speaker 2: see last one. David Wright said, feedback the lights, Dear

2639
02:02:21,480 --> 02:02:23,600
Speaker 2: mister and missus Morrow, I really.

2640
02:02:23,480 --> 02:02:27,520
Speaker 1: Resonated with the slew of episodes from your podcast this week. Man,

2641
02:02:27,600 --> 02:02:30,680
Speaker 1: this feels formal. Right about to ask me for some money.

2642
02:02:32,520 --> 02:02:35,200
Speaker 5: Don't have your business with your email address and tell

2643
02:02:35,240 --> 02:02:36,120
Speaker 5: me about them At the bottom.

2644
02:02:36,320 --> 02:02:39,440
Speaker 1: Each guest added the a the unique flare of their

2645
02:02:39,480 --> 02:02:42,600
Speaker 1: perspective and intersectionality on issues. It was excellent and it

2646
02:02:42,720 --> 02:02:43,920
Speaker 1: was a good note to end the week on.

2647
02:02:44,200 --> 02:02:47,200
Speaker 2: Now onto the email, Well, thank you, thank you, you

2648
02:02:47,280 --> 02:02:50,040
Speaker 2: know honestly, like, sometimes I'll think about the guests just

2649
02:02:50,240 --> 02:02:53,400
Speaker 2: this is my awn, anxious brain, and because I also

2650
02:02:53,560 --> 02:02:56,760
Speaker 2: designed the show, I worry, like I hope this person

2651
02:02:56,880 --> 02:02:59,080
Speaker 2: is cool, they don't fuck up, even though we pretty

2652
02:02:59,160 --> 02:03:01,080
Speaker 2: much have nothing but cool, nice people on the show

2653
02:03:01,120 --> 02:03:04,040
Speaker 2: that we love and they come from a genuine place, right,

2654
02:03:05,240 --> 02:03:08,040
Speaker 2: But you know, it's like it's a risk, you know.

2655
02:03:08,280 --> 02:03:11,120
Speaker 2: So it's like, oh, like jess Wood is so funny,

2656
02:03:11,880 --> 02:03:14,560
Speaker 2: and I think if you know her and you love her,

2657
02:03:14,960 --> 02:03:18,360
Speaker 2: it's even more funny because you know she'll say somebody

2658
02:03:18,440 --> 02:03:20,640
Speaker 2: land and shit and then like come back with it

2659
02:03:20,800 --> 02:03:23,320
Speaker 2: and like kind of it because you just know, like

2660
02:03:23,400 --> 02:03:25,480
Speaker 2: she's throwing stuff out there sometimes, but it could be

2661
02:03:25,640 --> 02:03:26,240
Speaker 2: so funny.

2662
02:03:26,320 --> 02:03:28,880
Speaker 1: Some of the best moments have just been her telling

2663
02:03:28,920 --> 02:03:30,720
Speaker 1: you some shit. You're like, wait, what did you just say?

2664
02:03:31,920 --> 02:03:33,680
Speaker 2: And I don't mean that on some shock jock shit,

2665
02:03:33,760 --> 02:03:37,040
Speaker 2: but just that she can say shocking things that aren't like,

2666
02:03:37,600 --> 02:03:40,240
Speaker 2: to me fucked up, but just they're shocking in that, Oh,

2667
02:03:40,240 --> 02:03:41,480
Speaker 2: I didn't expect a person to say that.

2668
02:03:41,560 --> 02:03:44,040
Speaker 1: That kind of not like I'm gonna say the worst

2669
02:03:44,080 --> 02:03:44,800
Speaker 1: thing possible.

2670
02:03:45,360 --> 02:03:48,760
Speaker 2: Your cooks like, so she'll say funny shit, so often

2671
02:03:49,680 --> 02:03:52,040
Speaker 2: and you know I work, Oh am, I gonna catch

2672
02:03:52,080 --> 02:03:52,720
Speaker 2: it on the show.

2673
02:03:53,120 --> 02:03:56,000
Speaker 1: Are we gonna have this spontaneous moment? Are we gonna

2674
02:03:56,000 --> 02:03:57,480
Speaker 1: be funny? Are we gonna pick it up with an

2675
02:03:57,480 --> 02:03:58,680
Speaker 1: audience understand where.

2676
02:03:58,520 --> 02:04:02,080
Speaker 2: They understand how much we love her and how you know,

2677
02:04:02,160 --> 02:04:05,000
Speaker 2: and be able to give her that cushion And same

2678
02:04:05,080 --> 02:04:07,680
Speaker 2: thing with like Mike Caplan. You know, I used to worry, like, oh,

2679
02:04:08,200 --> 02:04:10,480
Speaker 2: people not gonna like to eat talks for long periods

2680
02:04:10,480 --> 02:04:12,440
Speaker 2: of time, even if it's cracking me and caring the

2681
02:04:12,520 --> 02:04:15,160
Speaker 2: fuck up and we love it, it's some other person

2682
02:04:15,320 --> 02:04:16,880
Speaker 2: be like Rod and Karen's not talking right now.

2683
02:04:16,880 --> 02:04:20,360
Speaker 1: I don't like this. Brandon and Gordon also this week,

2684
02:04:20,480 --> 02:04:21,640
Speaker 1: you know, Gordon's first.

2685
02:04:21,480 --> 02:04:24,160
Speaker 2: Time and you know it's like, oh god, God, Joey

2686
02:04:24,240 --> 02:04:26,600
Speaker 2: Gordon is just talking so much, He's all over the place.

2687
02:04:26,680 --> 02:04:28,840
Speaker 1: And then you know Brandon with the creepy voice.

2688
02:04:28,840 --> 02:04:30,960
Speaker 3: Oh that's what makes it beautiful, right, But.

2689
02:04:31,040 --> 02:04:33,200
Speaker 2: That's what makes it beautiful. Thank you Careen for summing

2690
02:04:33,240 --> 02:04:35,680
Speaker 2: it up. So that's anyway all that to say. I

2691
02:04:35,760 --> 02:04:37,560
Speaker 2: love when people go oh, y'all had a lot of

2692
02:04:37,600 --> 02:04:39,760
Speaker 2: guests and I loved each one. It's like, yes, because

2693
02:04:39,760 --> 02:04:42,760
Speaker 2: each one was different, each show was different, each person

2694
02:04:42,840 --> 02:04:44,160
Speaker 2: added something different to the show.

2695
02:04:44,360 --> 02:04:47,080
Speaker 1: Yes, and that's what makes it fun and shout out that.

2696
02:04:47,320 --> 02:04:49,720
Speaker 1: Like I said Agela as well, who is not a.

2697
02:04:49,760 --> 02:04:52,200
Speaker 2: Comedian but was very funny in her own right and

2698
02:04:52,440 --> 02:04:56,520
Speaker 2: still very informative. My younger siblings saw their first group

2699
02:04:56,560 --> 02:04:59,840
Speaker 2: of hoteps this week. Oh shit, these hotels were not

2700
02:05:00,160 --> 02:05:05,680
Speaker 2: ordinary hoteps. They were members of the hypocrisy, these secrets,

2701
02:05:05,960 --> 02:05:08,200
Speaker 2: these secret society, a power range of looking niggas had

2702
02:05:08,240 --> 02:05:12,120
Speaker 2: on matching deep purple robes and koufis. Oh you're talking

2703
02:05:12,120 --> 02:05:15,040
Speaker 2: about them? Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about.

2704
02:05:15,240 --> 02:05:19,960
Speaker 2: That's next level the wonder Woman bracelets. Yes, they stood

2705
02:05:20,000 --> 02:05:23,520
Speaker 2: outside a busy shopping strip, maskless and preached about some nonsense.

2706
02:05:23,880 --> 02:05:25,680
Speaker 1: I didn't care enough to pay attention.

2707
02:05:25,840 --> 02:05:27,520
Speaker 2: We continue to drive past, and I explained to our

2708
02:05:27,520 --> 02:05:30,160
Speaker 2: brother's sister that what hoteps were and state the fuck

2709
02:05:30,160 --> 02:05:32,360
Speaker 2: away from them and the words of the wonderful Jamail

2710
02:05:32,480 --> 02:05:35,440
Speaker 2: Hill fuck it unbothered. As a firm believer in accountability,

2711
02:05:35,720 --> 02:05:38,560
Speaker 2: whoever loaded the weapon with live ammunition and gave it

2712
02:05:38,640 --> 02:05:41,680
Speaker 2: to Alec Bozo should be charged with negligence. Yeah, I

2713
02:05:41,760 --> 02:05:45,680
Speaker 2: think so too, because I mean, like I said, I'm

2714
02:05:45,720 --> 02:05:47,680
Speaker 2: not a huge Alec Baldwin guy fan.

2715
02:05:47,840 --> 02:05:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saying I hate him. I love him.

2716
02:05:49,600 --> 02:05:53,160
Speaker 1: It's just he's a victim in this too, because he

2717
02:05:53,200 --> 02:05:56,280
Speaker 1: didn't mean to kill that person, and that's terrible.

2718
02:05:56,720 --> 02:06:00,560
Speaker 2: You know, gun stafety should be taught to everyone involved

2719
02:06:00,640 --> 02:06:02,800
Speaker 2: in on the production use of farms, or better yet,

2720
02:06:02,880 --> 02:06:05,400
Speaker 2: get fake ones. The real solution lies and taking away

2721
02:06:05,400 --> 02:06:08,000
Speaker 2: the problem rather than trying to work around it. People

2722
02:06:08,040 --> 02:06:10,520
Speaker 2: often forget what made guns controversial in America, the Black

2723
02:06:10,560 --> 02:06:13,800
Speaker 2: Panther Party. That's right, The thing that really made guns

2724
02:06:13,800 --> 02:06:16,840
Speaker 2: scaring America was organized militant niggas clad in black leather

2725
02:06:16,920 --> 02:06:20,160
Speaker 2: jackets and sunglasses running around with AK forty sevens. Please

2726
02:06:20,240 --> 02:06:23,600
Speaker 2: read this next line of your Hotel voice. We was

2727
02:06:23,760 --> 02:06:29,000
Speaker 2: the original Cobra, my brother. If that ain't American, then

2728
02:06:29,240 --> 02:06:31,880
Speaker 2: I don't know what is. I included some links to

2729
02:06:31,880 --> 02:06:34,960
Speaker 2: a few articles about the actually these legendary insurrections ass niggas.

2730
02:06:35,200 --> 02:06:37,880
Speaker 2: It's always already left my five star review recommending podcast.

2731
02:06:38,000 --> 02:06:40,200
Speaker 2: Other people thank you both for your diligence and forty

2732
02:06:40,240 --> 02:06:44,320
Speaker 2: two David, but thank you David, And yeah, yeah, I

2733
02:06:44,400 --> 02:06:46,400
Speaker 2: think we've either talked about this on the show or

2734
02:06:46,560 --> 02:06:50,880
Speaker 2: like the documentary. But yeah, soon as black people ain't

2735
02:06:50,920 --> 02:06:53,520
Speaker 2: got guns, white people changed their whole opinion about them,

2736
02:06:53,560 --> 02:06:54,160
Speaker 2: damn guns.

2737
02:06:56,120 --> 02:06:57,920
Speaker 3: All of a sudden, them laws changed, didn't they.

2738
02:06:58,640 --> 02:07:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that shit went from fucking like uh, that shit

2739
02:07:04,160 --> 02:07:06,760
Speaker 1: went from like listen, guns off freedom and forever. Oh,

2740
02:07:06,800 --> 02:07:08,960
Speaker 1: these niggas got guns. Need passed some loss.

2741
02:07:09,480 --> 02:07:11,240
Speaker 3: When they passed some loss quick as shit.

2742
02:07:11,120 --> 02:07:13,160
Speaker 2: Right, And the laws of specific is hell like no

2743
02:07:13,400 --> 02:07:16,840
Speaker 2: guns from Fifth Street to seventh Street.

2744
02:07:17,840 --> 02:07:20,440
Speaker 3: Like no guns outside the city.

2745
02:07:20,520 --> 02:07:22,560
Speaker 1: Limmits like we're gonna make sure white people can still

2746
02:07:22,640 --> 02:07:27,560
Speaker 1: have guns. Everybody can have guns if they're wearing pleated

2747
02:07:27,720 --> 02:07:31,960
Speaker 1: khakis and button up T shirt. I mean, like, well,

2748
02:07:32,040 --> 02:07:35,520
Speaker 1: who no one wears that. Uh, if you got crocs on,

2749
02:07:35,800 --> 02:07:38,360
Speaker 1: you can have an AK forty seven. So that was

2750
02:07:38,400 --> 02:07:40,480
Speaker 1: the way I did not love it. H And shout

2751
02:07:40,520 --> 02:07:42,480
Speaker 1: out to your family running to the Black Israel lights.

2752
02:07:42,560 --> 02:07:45,960
Speaker 1: That's just you never your days never know. I mean,

2753
02:07:46,880 --> 02:07:49,720
Speaker 1: it's unless you're like me, it'd sight to see though.

2754
02:07:49,880 --> 02:07:52,760
Speaker 2: Enjoy the entertainment. Your day's never going good when you're

2755
02:07:52,800 --> 02:07:55,920
Speaker 2: running to those guys. My favorite is when they make

2756
02:07:55,960 --> 02:07:56,800
Speaker 2: a white woman cry.

2757
02:07:56,920 --> 02:07:57,560
Speaker 1: That's just stuff.

2758
02:07:57,720 --> 02:08:01,280
Speaker 2: Yes, like a good white woman, you know what I'm saying,

2759
02:08:01,320 --> 02:08:03,240
Speaker 2: Like one of those white women that just want to help.

2760
02:08:03,320 --> 02:08:05,440
Speaker 3: And she's trying to understand.

2761
02:08:05,240 --> 02:08:08,320
Speaker 2: You believe in the American values of equality. And she

2762
02:08:08,440 --> 02:08:09,400
Speaker 2: probably dated.

2763
02:08:09,320 --> 02:08:10,640
Speaker 1: Three black dudes or some shit.

2764
02:08:10,680 --> 02:08:12,280
Speaker 3: They not be trying to hear that, bueh.

2765
02:08:12,360 --> 02:08:14,280
Speaker 1: They be calling her the motherfucking.

2766
02:08:14,040 --> 02:08:18,240
Speaker 2: White devil, white, she devil cracks, the kve bitch and

2767
02:08:18,280 --> 02:08:18,760
Speaker 2: all this shit.

2768
02:08:18,800 --> 02:08:21,600
Speaker 3: And the white woman don't No, just want to have

2769
02:08:21,640 --> 02:08:22,960
Speaker 3: the conversation that you want to have.

2770
02:08:23,280 --> 02:08:27,000
Speaker 1: White daughter's part, Rachel, she is black, and you want

2771
02:08:27,040 --> 02:08:29,200
Speaker 1: to say that, just like shut your cracker ass up,

2772
02:08:29,560 --> 02:08:33,840
Speaker 1: she devil, white bitch, Like God damn, ma'am. Just walk away, right,

2773
02:08:34,400 --> 02:08:35,280
Speaker 1: you can't win this.

2774
02:08:35,480 --> 02:08:37,320
Speaker 3: This is a fight you don't want to have, ma'am.

2775
02:08:37,560 --> 02:08:38,720
Speaker 1: This made his day.

2776
02:08:39,040 --> 02:08:43,760
Speaker 2: You showing up crime made white tears are his fucking

2777
02:08:44,240 --> 02:08:47,800
Speaker 2: that is his fuel that his son like walk away.

2778
02:08:48,040 --> 02:08:51,920
Speaker 1: You'll never make him feel guilty or bad. Nope, he

2779
02:08:52,080 --> 02:08:55,800
Speaker 1: woke up this morning and prayed to whatever God he

2780
02:08:55,960 --> 02:08:58,839
Speaker 1: believe in that he prayed to Rah.

2781
02:08:59,320 --> 02:09:02,760
Speaker 2: To send him a white woman full of tears. And

2782
02:09:03,000 --> 02:09:05,839
Speaker 2: all you're doing is just making this, making.

2783
02:09:05,680 --> 02:09:10,640
Speaker 1: This day don't do it. Just oh no, run right run.

2784
02:09:11,200 --> 02:09:15,160
Speaker 1: It's so sad. It's funny, but it's it's so sad

2785
02:09:15,200 --> 02:09:16,600
Speaker 1: because they be genuinely hurt.

2786
02:09:17,040 --> 02:09:19,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, that'd be so sincere. But like, oh no, you

2787
02:09:19,640 --> 02:09:22,120
Speaker 3: don't know what lines. Then you walked into man right.

2788
02:09:22,120 --> 02:09:27,280
Speaker 1: But brother supreme mathematics all low. I'm just saying, like, no, bitch,

2789
02:09:28,680 --> 02:09:30,760
Speaker 1: you want to take our black seeds, so you have

2790
02:09:30,880 --> 02:09:33,640
Speaker 1: all black babies. That's all you good for? Bitch. I'm like,

2791
02:09:33,720 --> 02:09:37,839
Speaker 1: oh god, no, just come I bet your granddaddy old slaves,

2792
02:09:37,920 --> 02:09:41,080
Speaker 1: your cave munket you the real monkey. I'm like, oh god,

2793
02:09:41,440 --> 02:09:44,040
Speaker 1: walk away. I want to be like, no, ma'am, no

2794
02:09:44,640 --> 02:09:47,480
Speaker 1: bangles just clangling all down his arm and ship. Just leave.

2795
02:09:47,640 --> 02:09:50,680
Speaker 3: Come on, that's all you clank, all right, y'all.

2796
02:09:50,760 --> 02:09:51,000
Speaker 1: That's it.

2797
02:09:51,840 --> 02:09:52,720
Speaker 3: You got gifts?

2798
02:09:53,360 --> 02:09:56,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm sorry. Cares right. We did get some gifts.

2799
02:09:58,240 --> 02:10:07,600
Speaker 1: First of all, somebody send us some alcohol. David at

2800
02:10:07,680 --> 02:10:08,720
Speaker 1: Cold Monkey, Dave.

2801
02:10:09,440 --> 02:10:12,320
Speaker 2: Said, hey, Rod and Karen, Dear Rod and Karen, Happy

2802
02:10:12,320 --> 02:10:14,520
Speaker 2: punkin Spice season. The other day I heard you mentioned

2803
02:10:14,560 --> 02:10:16,520
Speaker 2: and joined Crown Royal, and it got me to thinking

2804
02:10:16,640 --> 02:10:19,640
Speaker 2: about putting a punkin spice twist on some classic whiskey

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02:10:19,800 --> 02:10:22,800
Speaker 2: cocktails that I thought you might enjoy, and clothes. Please

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02:10:22,840 --> 02:10:25,360
Speaker 2: find a few things to assist in making recipes listed below.

2807
02:10:25,760 --> 02:10:28,280
Speaker 2: Not as it is illegal toship liquor through the mail.

2808
02:10:28,400 --> 02:10:31,040
Speaker 2: I have included some money to go towards the Crown

2809
02:10:31,120 --> 02:10:32,800
Speaker 2: Royal and other liquor of your choice.

2810
02:10:33,200 --> 02:10:35,200
Speaker 1: Oh that, Oh, it was some money in there this

2811
02:10:35,320 --> 02:10:38,120
Speaker 1: whole time. Ooh and Karen, let me get it.

2812
02:10:38,400 --> 02:10:38,560
Speaker 3: Oh.

2813
02:10:38,960 --> 02:10:41,720
Speaker 1: Oh, hello, that's a nice bottle right there. That's a

2814
02:10:41,720 --> 02:10:45,800
Speaker 1: big bottle of Crown Royal. I appreciate you, brother man David.

2815
02:10:48,080 --> 02:10:50,600
Speaker 2: You know how to get to a brother's heart. The Crown,

2816
02:10:53,200 --> 02:10:56,200
Speaker 2: he said. I have tried these recipes with Crown Royal black,

2817
02:10:56,280 --> 02:10:59,360
Speaker 2: but I think any whiskey, rode or bourbon will work

2818
02:10:59,440 --> 02:11:01,240
Speaker 2: with these. By the way, the punkin spice syrup is

2819
02:11:01,360 --> 02:11:03,840
Speaker 2: very sweet. Your maleage may very so adjust the amount

2820
02:11:03,960 --> 02:11:06,680
Speaker 2: to your taste. Well, if I know anything about Karen

2821
02:11:06,800 --> 02:11:07,600
Speaker 2: is she'll love.

2822
02:11:07,520 --> 02:11:10,400
Speaker 1: It because it's very sweet. You had to say with

2823
02:11:10,440 --> 02:11:12,560
Speaker 1: sugar my nigga kin regards David.

2824
02:11:12,800 --> 02:11:15,200
Speaker 2: And then it's a punkin spice old fashioned two ounce

2825
02:11:15,240 --> 02:11:18,040
Speaker 2: of whiskey on a fourth ounce of pumpkin spice syrup,

2826
02:11:18,120 --> 02:11:22,480
Speaker 2: two dashes of and gos and ghost bitters.

2827
02:11:23,160 --> 02:11:25,720
Speaker 1: He gave us all this stuff in a low ball.

2828
02:11:25,600 --> 02:11:30,400
Speaker 2: Of old fashioned glass muddle, half of orange slice, a cherry,

2829
02:11:30,440 --> 02:11:34,840
Speaker 2: one cherry and ghost sto bitters. Avoid mashing the pith

2830
02:11:35,000 --> 02:11:38,680
Speaker 2: and rind of the orange, Add whiskey, punkin spice syrup

2831
02:11:38,720 --> 02:11:39,320
Speaker 2: and ice.

2832
02:11:39,120 --> 02:11:40,960
Speaker 1: Stir for several seconds to chill.

2833
02:11:41,120 --> 02:11:44,280
Speaker 2: Garnish with the other half orange slice and a cherry,

2834
02:11:45,800 --> 02:11:48,440
Speaker 2: punkin spice whiskey ginger. He got a few recipes on

2835
02:11:48,560 --> 02:11:53,600
Speaker 2: him punkin spice whiskey sour. Oh my lord, I hope

2836
02:11:53,640 --> 02:11:56,680
Speaker 2: you give one or more of these recipes a try. Enjoy, David.

2837
02:11:57,800 --> 02:11:59,280
Speaker 1: I almost see what they can I can see what

2838
02:11:59,320 --> 02:11:59,600
Speaker 1: I can do.

2839
02:12:00,000 --> 02:12:01,800
Speaker 2: These words I didn't understand becuse I'm not a bartender,

2840
02:12:01,800 --> 02:12:04,120
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna have to definitely look on YouTube to

2841
02:12:04,240 --> 02:12:07,240
Speaker 2: figure out how to did you want pith?

2842
02:12:07,400 --> 02:12:08,120
Speaker 1: What's that a word?

2843
02:12:08,560 --> 02:12:08,800
Speaker 3: Yeah?

2844
02:12:09,000 --> 02:12:11,600
Speaker 1: Muddle? I don't know how to, Yeah, to mash the pith,

2845
02:12:11,840 --> 02:12:14,320
Speaker 1: mash the pith slash rond of the orange. I to

2846
02:12:14,400 --> 02:12:15,120
Speaker 1: avoid doing that.

2847
02:12:15,160 --> 02:12:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to definitely, Yeah, I don't know what

2848
02:12:17,200 --> 02:12:20,640
Speaker 2: a muddle is, so I'm definitely had to google and

2849
02:12:20,800 --> 02:12:23,680
Speaker 2: this source some of these, but brother, I'm gonna definitely

2850
02:12:23,720 --> 02:12:24,280
Speaker 2: give it a shot.

2851
02:12:24,400 --> 02:12:30,920
Speaker 1: David, Okay, we appreciate you. And lastly, man, oh my god.

2852
02:12:31,240 --> 02:12:34,200
Speaker 1: Uh so y'all might know those that have listened to

2853
02:12:34,240 --> 02:12:40,400
Speaker 1: the show for a while Corey Glover uh and Vernon

2854
02:12:40,480 --> 02:12:45,560
Speaker 1: Reid uh, members of the band Living Color with a

2855
02:12:45,680 --> 02:12:47,640
Speaker 1: Hue because sophisticated.

2856
02:12:48,240 --> 02:12:50,920
Speaker 2: Uh, they listened to the show and like they fan

2857
02:12:51,080 --> 02:12:53,520
Speaker 2: fans like to that. You know, my brain doesn't do

2858
02:12:53,640 --> 02:12:53,880
Speaker 2: the thing.

2859
02:12:54,000 --> 02:12:58,120
Speaker 1: It won't let me. My brain won't let me be like, uh,

2860
02:13:00,000 --> 02:13:01,040
Speaker 1: these niggas listen to every show.

2861
02:13:01,360 --> 02:13:03,480
Speaker 2: My brain is like they might listen once in a

2862
02:13:03,640 --> 02:13:05,480
Speaker 2: while because I don't want to ever be hurt by

2863
02:13:05,520 --> 02:13:07,560
Speaker 2: somebody being like I didn't hear that episode.

2864
02:13:07,560 --> 02:13:10,440
Speaker 1: So you know, but every time I'm just kind of

2865
02:13:10,520 --> 02:13:13,160
Speaker 1: like I have that in the back of my head, like, oh,

2866
02:13:13,240 --> 02:13:14,520
Speaker 1: it's such so cool.

2867
02:13:14,800 --> 02:13:17,280
Speaker 2: You know, we had them on the show in the pandemic.

2868
02:13:17,360 --> 02:13:19,720
Speaker 2: I followed them on the IG. They're back out touring

2869
02:13:19,800 --> 02:13:20,880
Speaker 2: again and.

2870
02:13:21,080 --> 02:13:24,240
Speaker 1: We know they vaccinated. So you love to see it.

2871
02:13:25,800 --> 02:13:27,640
Speaker 2: And you know, for what they do for a living,

2872
02:13:27,760 --> 02:13:29,720
Speaker 2: you gotta be out there in the public. It ain't

2873
02:13:29,760 --> 02:13:33,800
Speaker 2: no you know, like it ain't no half stepping with

2874
02:13:33,920 --> 02:13:36,800
Speaker 2: the tours and stuff. But so I've been really enjoying it,

2875
02:13:36,840 --> 02:13:38,960
Speaker 2: seeing them kicking it backstage with other people and stuff.

2876
02:13:40,520 --> 02:13:41,280
Speaker 1: But you know, it was.

2877
02:13:42,960 --> 02:13:48,040
Speaker 2: My birthday and our live show, and Corey had texted

2878
02:13:48,080 --> 02:13:49,920
Speaker 2: me like, what's y'all's address? I want to send y'all

2879
02:13:49,960 --> 02:13:54,000
Speaker 2: some stuff, and did he ever there's this big ass box.

2880
02:13:54,040 --> 02:13:55,240
Speaker 2: I can't even show y'all everything.

2881
02:13:56,000 --> 02:13:57,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just pull out some of it. I think

2882
02:13:57,840 --> 02:13:59,760
Speaker 1: that thing has a description, Yeah I do.

2883
02:13:59,920 --> 02:14:02,240
Speaker 2: I'll talk about it, but I want to show people

2884
02:14:02,280 --> 02:14:04,640
Speaker 2: on camera Living Color like hoodies.

2885
02:14:07,240 --> 02:14:10,320
Speaker 1: Shirts and these are This ship is like legit, you

2886
02:14:10,360 --> 02:14:13,240
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like it's still in the plastic okay, oh.

2887
02:14:15,560 --> 02:14:17,800
Speaker 3: Hats like oh.

2888
02:14:21,720 --> 02:14:25,000
Speaker 2: Like got them in our sides, got them in Karen size.

2889
02:14:25,120 --> 02:14:27,280
Speaker 2: Like it's so much shit in this box.

2890
02:14:27,400 --> 02:14:27,600
Speaker 1: Dog.

2891
02:14:27,760 --> 02:14:29,040
Speaker 2: I don't even want to tell y'all how much it

2892
02:14:29,120 --> 02:14:31,000
Speaker 2: costs because it's on them thing, but it's a lot.

2893
02:14:32,840 --> 02:14:35,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, just like hooked us up and then you

2894
02:14:36,040 --> 02:14:39,640
Speaker 2: wrote Happy Birthday, Belated Ride, Happy the Black Artist Live Show,

2895
02:14:39,680 --> 02:14:43,120
Speaker 2: Love and Blessing from Kirk, Corey Vernon, Doug Williams, and

2896
02:14:43,600 --> 02:14:45,800
Speaker 2: the Living Color crew man, thank.

2897
02:14:45,600 --> 02:14:46,720
Speaker 3: You, thank you.

2898
02:14:47,360 --> 02:14:48,960
Speaker 1: What a dope, what a dope thing.

2899
02:14:49,160 --> 02:14:53,040
Speaker 5: And I love like the shirt that I that I got,

2900
02:14:53,800 --> 02:14:56,360
Speaker 5: and now I even got some mos shit, yeah, because

2901
02:14:56,360 --> 02:14:58,200
Speaker 5: we have seen them on tour before and got some

2902
02:14:58,280 --> 02:14:58,880
Speaker 5: stuff from them.

2903
02:14:59,040 --> 02:15:02,520
Speaker 1: Like so just like what a cool, crazy world we

2904
02:15:02,640 --> 02:15:05,720
Speaker 1: live in that we were able to make that connection.

2905
02:15:06,240 --> 02:15:09,920
Speaker 1: I mean some random shit that people would have never

2906
02:15:11,480 --> 02:15:15,840
Speaker 1: put together. So and just genuinely nice people man. Like

2907
02:15:16,360 --> 02:15:18,120
Speaker 1: you know a lot of times people say that shit

2908
02:15:18,160 --> 02:15:21,040
Speaker 1: and they really bullshit because like they genuinely nice because

2909
02:15:21,040 --> 02:15:23,400
Speaker 1: they did things for me. But I mean just genuinely

2910
02:15:23,840 --> 02:15:24,800
Speaker 1: we have so many.

2911
02:15:24,760 --> 02:15:29,720
Speaker 2: Genuinely nice listeners who are at least willing to like

2912
02:15:30,200 --> 02:15:34,320
Speaker 2: check us out, think about things and whatnot. And an

2913
02:15:34,360 --> 02:15:36,640
Speaker 2: occasional they send ushit and we like that too.

2914
02:15:37,000 --> 02:15:40,879
Speaker 1: Yay. All right, last thing I'll say is it's almost

2915
02:15:41,000 --> 02:15:45,400
Speaker 1: time for Christmas and the holidays. We all gonna do

2916
02:15:46,320 --> 02:15:47,040
Speaker 1: the cars again.

2917
02:15:48,040 --> 02:15:52,240
Speaker 2: The mail is fucked up, so even though it's October,

2918
02:15:52,320 --> 02:15:54,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell y'all now, if you want to get

2919
02:15:54,520 --> 02:15:58,600
Speaker 2: a car from us, send us your mailing address in an.

2920
02:15:58,520 --> 02:16:02,720
Speaker 1: Email the Blackout Tips at gmail dot com. We'll start

2921
02:16:02,800 --> 02:16:07,720
Speaker 1: collecting them now. We'll send out the cars. Before the

2922
02:16:07,800 --> 02:16:08,840
Speaker 1: end of January, we'll be.

2923
02:16:08,840 --> 02:16:11,480
Speaker 2: Sending cars out to people because we got to get

2924
02:16:11,520 --> 02:16:13,440
Speaker 2: them printed and find the designs all that stuff.

2925
02:16:13,560 --> 02:16:16,040
Speaker 3: Ye get it now because we know the mail is

2926
02:16:16,080 --> 02:16:16,960
Speaker 3: doing its own thing.

2927
02:16:17,440 --> 02:16:19,880
Speaker 2: Right our mail tray, his poster. We still got to

2928
02:16:20,000 --> 02:16:22,240
Speaker 2: do the poster game. I'm coming up with that idea.

2929
02:16:22,360 --> 02:16:25,360
Speaker 2: We'll figure it out and if you want to get

2930
02:16:25,400 --> 02:16:28,040
Speaker 2: us some on our wish list or Amazon, I'll start

2931
02:16:28,120 --> 02:16:29,400
Speaker 2: including it in the show notes.

2932
02:16:29,600 --> 02:16:32,160
Speaker 1: And if you know, no pressure, you don't have to

2933
02:16:32,200 --> 02:16:34,520
Speaker 1: get us anything. But if that's something you'd like to do,

2934
02:16:36,240 --> 02:16:39,000
Speaker 1: bet we got plenty of things we'd like to have. Okay,

2935
02:16:39,560 --> 02:16:41,640
Speaker 1: So all right, that's it, Thank you everybody.

2936
02:16:41,800 --> 02:16:43,560
Speaker 2: Oh and if you want to mail us a card,

2937
02:16:43,959 --> 02:16:47,320
Speaker 2: you can find our address on the about section of

2938
02:16:47,360 --> 02:16:49,920
Speaker 2: the blackouttips dot com slash about.

2939
02:16:50,160 --> 02:16:53,640
Speaker 1: Just go to about section and it'll it'll take you

2940
02:16:53,760 --> 02:16:55,440
Speaker 1: right there. All right. I think that's enough.

2941
02:16:55,520 --> 02:16:57,800
Speaker 2: I think that's everything. You got a long feedback show.

2942
02:16:58,280 --> 02:16:59,520
Speaker 2: I don't think there's anymore.

2943
02:17:00,040 --> 02:17:02,520
Speaker 1: Oh, we may or may not take some days off

2944
02:17:02,560 --> 02:17:03,520
Speaker 1: this week. That's what it is.

2945
02:17:04,000 --> 02:17:06,720
Speaker 2: So you know, it's about that time for us to

2946
02:17:06,720 --> 02:17:11,039
Speaker 2: take a week off of the show because it's uh,

2947
02:17:11,800 --> 02:17:12,440
Speaker 2: you know, you don't.

2948
02:17:12,440 --> 02:17:13,880
Speaker 1: We don't want to get burned out, we don't want

2949
02:17:13,920 --> 02:17:17,039
Speaker 1: to work ourselves to the point of being burned out

2950
02:17:17,120 --> 02:17:19,880
Speaker 1: and all that shit. And now that we're more in

2951
02:17:20,000 --> 02:17:23,200
Speaker 1: control of our schedule because there ain't nobody to be like,

2952
02:17:23,240 --> 02:17:25,240
Speaker 1: how many episodes you got this week, so we may

2953
02:17:25,320 --> 02:17:29,000
Speaker 1: take some days off this week just in general, just

2954
02:17:29,280 --> 02:17:32,960
Speaker 1: life health, balance, work type shit. So if you don't

2955
02:17:32,959 --> 02:17:35,120
Speaker 1: see the show on your feed, just know that we

2956
02:17:35,200 --> 02:17:39,360
Speaker 1: took that day off. And if we feel like, oh.

2957
02:17:39,240 --> 02:17:41,080
Speaker 2: We might as well record, then maybe you get the

2958
02:17:41,120 --> 02:17:44,240
Speaker 2: episode anyway, you know, so we'll see. I want to

2959
02:17:44,280 --> 02:17:46,320
Speaker 2: say that's about it. Check out this too much. It

2960
02:17:46,400 --> 02:17:48,879
Speaker 2: has its own feed, all right, y'all, Talk to y'all later.

2961
02:17:49,080 --> 02:17:51,480
Speaker 1: Until then. I love you, I love you.

2962
02:17:53,680 --> 02:17:54,720
Speaker 3: What has happened to he