Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Kristen is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and she thinks that her husband of two years
Speaker 1: named Andrew might be messing around. So we'll see what
Speaker 1: we can help her out. Kristin, sorry you have to
Speaker 1: come on the show this way, but what's going on?
Speaker 1: Why do you think Andrew's cheating?
Speaker 2: You know, thanks have been great in our relationship, other
Speaker 2: than this conversation that I have with a friend of
Speaker 2: mine a while back. His name is Mac. We were
Speaker 2: having blunch.
Speaker 3: It wasn't even that long ago.
Speaker 4: It was like a week ago, and I guess I
Speaker 4: have to say you gay. So he found something on
Speaker 4: his phone and he said, oh, I really have to
Speaker 4: talk to you about this, And so I was.
Speaker 2: Like, okay, great, I was in stuff about Okay, let's
Speaker 2: just go to brunch. Matt showed me Pat Andrew is
Speaker 2: on Grinder.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and if anybody doesn't know, Grinder is a
Speaker 1: dating site where guys meet other guys throughout that it's
Speaker 1: the same sex dating site.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and my husband's on it. And Max told
Speaker 2: me that he tried to match with Andrew just to
Speaker 2: see what he was doing, but he either didn't see
Speaker 2: it or you know, knew that he should have matched.
Speaker 3: With him because they hadn't respond.
Speaker 5: Did he have or does he have like a detailed profile,
Speaker 5: so he's got his photo? Does is everything filled out?
Speaker 2: So on his profile it says that he was in
Speaker 2: a relationship. I don't know why you would be on
Speaker 2: a dating app if you were in a relationship, obviously,
Speaker 2: but then you would say it, you know, like it's
Speaker 2: just weird.
Speaker 3: Wouldn't you lie about that?
Speaker 1: Well, it's kind of more of a hookup app. I
Speaker 1: believe it's like the Tinder. Oh yeah, essentially, so it's
Speaker 1: like it's for hooking up. But would you want to
Speaker 1: hook up with someone that's on like in a relationship?
Speaker 5: People do it all the time. We personally no, but
Speaker 5: it happens all the time.
Speaker 1: But would you like swipe right on someone who's in
Speaker 1: Like That's what I don't get, Like, why would you
Speaker 1: put that in your your in a relationship?
Speaker 5: Because that way you don't have any strings attached, there's
Speaker 5: not going to be no problem problems. You can just
Speaker 5: have a transaction and not worry about what happens later.
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing you haven't asked him about this.
Speaker 3: No, not yet. I didn't.
Speaker 4: I didn't know what to do because I mean, you know,
Speaker 4: if he is closeted, I want to.
Speaker 3: Know, yeah really, And he hasn't.
Speaker 2: Ever said anything about wanting to try something with another
Speaker 2: guy or being unhappy or anything like. And I didn't
Speaker 2: know just how to go about confronting him with this.
Speaker 3: But it's not even like.
Speaker 2: It's just he's cheating, but now he may want to
Speaker 2: be with a man. So I just I didn't know.
Speaker 2: I emailed you it. I don't want to figure out
Speaker 2: what's going on.
Speaker 1: Would you be open if he wanted to have both?
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm ready to think about that yet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, good point.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So do you think his friends know about this? Do
Speaker 5: you think anybody else knows about this other than your friend?
Speaker 3: I don't know know if he has.
Speaker 2: He doesn't really have any friends that are gay that
Speaker 2: would be on the app to see that I do,
Speaker 2: which is interesting because he knows that I have gay
Speaker 2: friends that are on Brinder.
Speaker 3: So I don't know how.
Speaker 2: He could not have thought of this if he's going
Speaker 2: to be so defaitful.
Speaker 1: Could someone be using his picture I've known sometimes it's
Speaker 1: like catfishing.
Speaker 2: Like what I've got information about him, like the town
Speaker 2: he lives in, that he's a real tur like.
Speaker 4: It is info on it.
Speaker 2: So I mean that would have to be a very
Speaker 2: convincing soccer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody who knows him right to know that. Okay, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll try to figure it out for you. You already
Speaker 1: told us what grocery store. You guys are Rewards card members.
Speaker 1: That's so play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 1: him and pretend to be from the grocery store and
Speaker 1: say that every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards
Speaker 1: Card member who gets free flowers delivered from our floor department.
Speaker 1: We'll see visits, O see you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, right,
Speaker 1: play song, comeback, Get your catch cheater. Next, if you're
Speaker 1: just joining us for today, is to catch a cheater.
Speaker 1: Kristen is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 1: husband of two years named Andrew might be messing around.
Speaker 1: So in a minute, we're gonna call him and pretend
Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store that he's a Rewards
Speaker 1: Card member at and say that every single month we
Speaker 1: choose one rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered
Speaker 1: from our flooral department, and we'll see if he sends
Speaker 1: those flowers to Kristin or to somebody else. But before
Speaker 1: we do that, Kristen, why don't you refresh everybody's memory
Speaker 1: on your situation.
Speaker 2: Gosh, if I've been married like you said, and my
Speaker 2: friend Max took me to brunch the other day. He's
Speaker 2: active on Grinder and said that what he showed me
Speaker 2: that my husband has a profile on Grinder that I
Speaker 2: obviously didn't know about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a big deal. Definitely, it's a little
Speaker 1: bit alarming. Uh huh, all right, are you ready for
Speaker 1: us to call him? Ready as I'll be. Yeah, here
Speaker 1: we go.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, this is Corporal calling from SO. I was looking
Speaker 1: for our rewards card member named Andrew.
Speaker 3: That's me speaking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what can I.
Speaker 6: Help you with?
Speaker 1: Andrew? Hello, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations here
Speaker 1: this month's winter. Thank you so much for your business.
Speaker 3: Can hear us.
Speaker 1: Talking over here?
Speaker 3: Yeah? What, I didn't enter anything?
Speaker 1: Congratulations? No, you won the flowers?
Speaker 3: Oh okay, tell me more.
Speaker 1: Every single month we choose one Rewards card member to
Speaker 1: say thank you very much for being such a loyal customer.
Speaker 1: You've just won thirty six long stim red roses, a
Speaker 1: box of chocolates or candy, and a card to be
Speaker 1: delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United States.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's really nice for you guys. Thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can take the information over the phone. What
Speaker 1: I would need to do is just get some information
Speaker 1: from you. I can do that right now. If you
Speaker 1: have it, I.
Speaker 3: Can do it over the phone totally. I got a second.
Speaker 1: Great. First thing I would need from you would be
Speaker 1: the first and last name of the person's like to
Speaker 1: send them to.
Speaker 3: That would be Kristen.
Speaker 1: Alrighty. And anything you want to write on a card.
Speaker 6: Uh yeah, just something simple like love you baby, see
Speaker 6: to night.
Speaker 1: Oh that's sweet. I'm the same last name there is?
Speaker 2: That?
Speaker 1: Your your wife?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my wife.
Speaker 1: How long has I married?
Speaker 3: I would have married for two years.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, now I'll let you know that this is
Speaker 1: not a grocery store at all. My name is Jewbell
Speaker 1: and I'm from a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: whole show's here. I'm Nina, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. What.
Speaker 1: Yes, we do a segment on the show called to
Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant other
Speaker 1: might be messing around, we can try to catch them
Speaker 1: by who they send flowers to and your wife.
Speaker 3: I don't think my wife is cheating on me.
Speaker 1: Now, Oh yeah, it's not that she suspects that you
Speaker 1: might be doing something and she's actually on the phone
Speaker 1: won't to.
Speaker 6: Talk to you.
Speaker 3: This is really straight. Baby there. Hi, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Hi, I wouldn't, baby, I would never
Speaker 6: ever in a million years.
Speaker 3: Seat on you? Are you?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 3: What are you thinking? What? Why?
Speaker 1: Why do you think I'm.
Speaker 3: Cheating on you?
Speaker 2: Okay, So remember how I went to brunch with Max
Speaker 2: the other week.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he showed me your profile, Andrew, I don't understand
Speaker 3: which profile are you talking about? Facebook? Instagram?
Speaker 2: The grinder?
Speaker 3: The grinder?
Speaker 6: Okay, Oh my god, I get it.
Speaker 3: I get it. I completely get it. Wait did did
Speaker 3: he did he try to match with me?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I have to figure out what you were up to?
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Oh I didn't see his request. I
Speaker 3: I just honestly should have.
Speaker 6: That was been hilarious, honey, babe, I am not gay
Speaker 6: and I am not cheating and full transparency.
Speaker 3: I am sorry I didn't tell you about this earlier.
Speaker 6: So a colleague of mine told me about real estate
Speaker 6: agents finding clients on these dating websites and dating apps.
Speaker 1: What really? Hell?
Speaker 6: Yes, No, it's completely like just for networking. There is
Speaker 6: no relationship, no dating, no sex involved, just potential clients
Speaker 6: and I legitimately just wanted to try it out and
Speaker 6: also full transparency. I'm on bumble and hinge too.
Speaker 1: People do do that. People do do that like it's
Speaker 1: like a marketing place. Now, it's crazy. I don't understand.
Speaker 1: Do they have to put a disclaimer on the bed?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: They match with people and then when they start messaging,
Speaker 1: it's like you promote whatever you want to promote. That
Speaker 1: doesn't feel right, But I don't think i'd want you
Speaker 1: to be my realtor. If I also try to up
Speaker 1: with you, I could be spent. But you know, oh okay,
Speaker 1: they why.
Speaker 3: Would you tell me that.
Speaker 6: I'll be honest, it's there was a weird way of
Speaker 6: just introducing you to it, and I didn't know if
Speaker 6: it was actually going to go anywhere with some of
Speaker 6: these potential clients. It actually has in a completely professional
Speaker 6: real estate centric way.
Speaker 3: Really, and yes, I've actually got sold.
Speaker 6: A few properties based off matches I've had on a
Speaker 6: Hinge bumble as yet to hit and Grinder I think twice.
Speaker 6: And I can show you these when I get home. Like,
Speaker 6: I feel free to go through my program taking profile.
Speaker 3: You're totally allowed.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry to ask this question, Andrew. I'd never heard
Speaker 5: of this before. So do the people that match with
Speaker 5: you understand that you're not trying to date them and
Speaker 5: you're just trying to sell them.
Speaker 6: Yes, they do understand them. Maybe not right away, Like
Speaker 6: a few people have tried to flirt with me, but
Speaker 6: I very quickly talk down and like address what I'm
Speaker 6: looking for, which is very consensual.
Speaker 5: Sales also an ego boost. He's getting matched with all
Speaker 5: these people that are initially attracted to you. Okay, Andrew, Sales, I.
Speaker 2: Don't really want you like talking with other women who
Speaker 2: want to sleep with you.
Speaker 3: I don't know about that. I hear you.
Speaker 6: I hear you, and I can show you my opening line,
Speaker 6: which is always I am not here for anything romantic
Speaker 6: or physical. It includes verbiage like that in there. I
Speaker 6: make it very clear from the get go that none
Speaker 6: of this is to lead or can ever lead to
Speaker 6: anything romantic or physical.
Speaker 3: I promise you.
Speaker 6: Okay, Look, there's nothing to worry about from the money
Speaker 6: that I've been getting from this. I have actually been
Speaker 6: keeping well surprised from you, but I guess I can
Speaker 6: tell you here. I have booked us a trip to France,
Speaker 6: who with all the money that I've gotten off of this,
Speaker 6: and I want that to be proof of the pudding
Speaker 6: that the only romantic things to come out of all
Speaker 6: of these profiles is between you and me.
Speaker 3: We're going to France, France, France.
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations, Kristen, he's not cheating. He is on the
Speaker 1: dating apps and you'll get I guess you have to
Speaker 1: prove to you that he's just there for real estate.
Speaker 1: But you also get to go to France. Yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 1: Wait when are we going to France? The jubile shows
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