1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision. West coast, 2 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: west coast, west coast, and when I say it, it 3 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: might be as west as you could get Seattle. That's real, 4 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: West Seattle. We are finally coming to you. Listen, you 5 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: gotta get tickets because I'm telling you right now. If 6 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: Mandy and I ever thought about doing a loop of 7 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: the show again, that shit far as hell it is. 8 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: We gotta take a Laska air loge or so shit. Anyway, 9 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: The point is I'm only doing it for y'all, that's right. 10 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 1: So y'all, the Climax Tour is coming to Seeattle. That's Washington, right, 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: But not DC. It's the Well, it's Portland, peeps, and 12 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: whoever is like up there to come see you. Yeah, 13 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: y'all know, I gotta pull out a map. But Seattle, 14 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: we are coming to you on September seventh at the 15 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: Neptune Theater. Must be fucking some things out there, because 16 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: he's like, oh, go to Seattle. He cannot wait to 17 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: go to Seattle. Hunt And you know what, I'm going 18 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: to talk to the people who make the weather machines, 19 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: and it's gonna be good weather, because I do know 20 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: that Seattle be rainy. What day of the week is it. 21 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: It is September one, seventh. Okay, so here's the team. 22 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: What's the team? The seventh is a Thursday. People like 23 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 1: going out on Thursday night, they do. It's Friday. We 24 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: barely show up for work, y'all. Make it a little bit. 25 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: I would say, call off at Let's Day. Yeah, so 26 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: make sure you go on over to hoorhive dot com 27 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: and get your tickets happed. Hey, guys, welcome to another 28 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: episode of Horrible Decisions. Before we start this week, I 29 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 1: would like to start with an affirmation. I'm open to 30 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: receiving all the mini blessings that are on their way 31 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: into my life. Now, all to the other ladies home, y'all. 32 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: I'm a new bitch and stays a moon bitch. I 33 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: am Celibitch. I am allowing the universe to bring all 34 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:55,559 Speaker 1: wonderful things to me and this podcast, Horror Blade Decisions, y'all. 35 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,919 Speaker 1: Welcome back. I'm your girl, Stars and moons Bitch herself 36 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: bewitch up you girl, I'm weezy. Welcome back, y'all. And 37 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: we have another podcast in the building with us special guests, 38 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 1: the co Dependence called the painted podcast. Let's go ahead 39 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: real quick, introduce yourself. I'm Sierra Miller and I'm Maya Allan. Okay, 40 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: are y'all straight to gay? Straight? Okay? Why you said it? 41 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: Not that nothing homicida, all right, it's it's embarrassing for 42 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: me to hold on you never even what about a 43 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: drunk kiss. 44 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 2: You're in a reality show, of course. Of course I've 45 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 2: kissed a girl. Oh, I are like not like super straight, 46 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: but like, you know, she's straight. She's straight straight, Like 47 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 2: I'm not like I can't look at vagina, but like 48 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: i'll kiss a girl. 49 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: I'll tell you. 50 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 2: Are you like Charlotte when she hadn't even looked at her? 51 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: Pretty much, she's my Charlotte. My friends will with tea. Yeah, 52 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: my friends call me church girl like I'm Charlotte. 53 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: I am, yeah. 54 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 2: I just I'm the seeing a lot of vaginas. They're crazy. Wow, yeah, 55 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: they're crazy. I think has a crazy vagina, My vagina, 56 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 2: You have a crazy vagina. It's like she has no 57 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: pussy lips. 58 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 3: Wow. 59 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: Oh that's why you don't want it, because you'd be 60 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: down there not lips. 61 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: No, she says, I look like like it's like a 62 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 2: Barbie vaginant. It's because and it's not just me that 63 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 2: says that. 64 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: So that's how. I don't know. 65 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: There's nothing I can do about that, though, but I 66 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 2: think I'm a Charlotte more so because I don't, like, 67 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: you need like fillers in your she said, what is 68 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: the Codependence podcast about? Honestly, just our sisterhood. We so 69 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: we met on a reality TV show. I was like 70 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 2: one of the day which one Summer House. I met 71 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 2: on Summer House. I was like one of the first 72 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 2: black women on Summer House. And then Maya came in first. Yeah. 73 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: I look, I'm confused because I was like, BITCHA watch 74 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: Summer House and it's all black people. But y'all, Oh 75 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: that's my whole she said, I watched y'all was on 76 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: the white version. Yeah, we were on the white version. Bro, 77 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: how crazy is that? Emonie Williams first, like, yep to 78 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: know that, and it's wild. I remember when that happened too. Yeah, 79 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: I've always liked Hannah's like Instagram content before we met. Yeah, 80 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: and my first comment, I remember when that happened. I 81 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: was like wow, no, yeah, that was me. 82 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 2: So it was kind of a crazy season. But then 83 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 2: may came in season six and we immediately hit it off, 84 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 2: and honestly, it's kind of been like. 85 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: I gotta know because one of my good friends is 86 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: Gabrielle Canary, so she did Winter House too, and I remember, yeah, 87 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: I remember. I was like, oh, yeah, you're not the 88 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: only black girl. Thank god when y'all found each other 89 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: on Summer House, Like, do you ever see comments that 90 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: are just like because I remember with Gabby who and 91 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 1: we've been friends a long time now, and like the 92 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: way people would talk about her obviously, like the girl's 93 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: a model, and you're like calling her ugly and this 94 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: and that. I'm like, this is interesting. This is maybe 95 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 1: a lot of things, but she's not ugly. But let's 96 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: say that first. But they say wild shit about you. 97 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 2: They they have a pin is about how I should 98 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 2: be wearing my hair, how I should be representing black people, 99 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: how I should be doing this. 100 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: If you don't get in the pool enough, it's a problem. 101 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 2: If you get in the pool, what you like, I 102 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 2: don't have my natural hair, Like I'm a sellout. 103 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: You can't wear we I do. But that's the problem. 104 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 2: That's the problem, Like, oh, I'm black, I should come 105 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 2: in with like but you're not black, and yeah, I'm 106 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 2: not black enough. 107 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: I get a lot of them not black enough. Wow 108 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: we do. Yeah, well, I don't even like skin and 109 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,799 Speaker 1: you're not black enough. That's interesting. Way we just talked 110 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: about this literally just because I would be were I 111 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: think I'm light skin. I think I'm meeting your brown 112 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: but some people. 113 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 2: Will I categorize myself as dark skin, but some people 114 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 2: are like, no, you're brown skin, And I'm like, I 115 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: don't know where there drawn. Yeah, I'm like it doesn'tvedn't 116 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 2: really matter. But it's just kind of funny. Like what 117 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: your perception is is both. 118 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: Of you gets a high yellow undertone, not necessarily a 119 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 1: brown undertone. That's why is that that you can have 120 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: the red or the yell? Now are y'all single or 121 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: in relationships? Single? So let me ask you, between the 122 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: two of you, who gets the better quality? Men? Not both? Yeah, 123 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 1: like quality. If you said quantity, that would be one thing. 124 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: Not like quality. Men all trash the quantity. I say, 125 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: you talk to more people, more trash. She's trying to 126 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: be nice and she said talk to. 127 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 2: No. 128 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: I really I can't being nice like I is, talk 129 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: to you. 130 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 2: I don't not open my legs for many men. Why, 131 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 2: I don't know, i'mserving, Yeah exactly. Come on, Okay, so 132 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 2: you said you're undeserving, you said you were a celibate. 133 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: How long have you been celebrating. I'm like three weeks, 134 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 2: two weeks, two weeks in. I'm two weeks in. But 135 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 2: by the time this podcast come out, I'm gonna at 136 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 2: least be five. Okay, so it's given pitch. This pussy 137 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 2: is out of commission. I've been telibate for like a 138 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 2: year and a half before like I yeah, because okay, 139 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 2: Well I was dating just like trash and trash and trash, 140 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 2: and then I had this awful sexual experience with this 141 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 2: guy who was just so fucking weird in bed, and 142 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: it literally scarred me, and I just vowed that the 143 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: next person that I sleep with would be someone that 144 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 2: I was actually interested in wearing a half damn we 145 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: are fu Yeah, I just didn't want it to be 146 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: or feel like in exchange. It just the one that 147 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: kind of scarred me. It was, but the one that 148 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 2: you had sex with after was it worth it? 149 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: Honestly? Yeah? Okay, yeah I think that. And I'm even 150 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: like after my breakup, I was like, okay, maybe I 151 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: need to try like a different type. You know how 152 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: nearly single are you? Oh? Three months? Oh girl by 153 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: the time this come out folk, but no, Like you know, 154 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, well, let me entertain someone different. 155 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: And I realized I was like at this point, I 156 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: don't really know what I want. I don't really know 157 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: how to communicate it. But this guy came over that I, 158 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: you know, ye took me on a great date and 159 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: we've been talking and he came over and I was 160 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: just like this, I can't do this. He's not like 161 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: what at so I don't know what like a Paula 162 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: santoll a lot that's a lot like it doesn't that 163 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: go with the movie? Smell like smell like tom Ford? 164 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: He sell like. I didn't like the smell. It smelt 165 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: like outside, it smelt like no, it smelt like he 166 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: just didn't. 167 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: Like his cologne. Is really what it came down to. 168 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: And that's why that's how much he irritated me. I said, 169 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 2: let me go back to my type. I cannot Oh, 170 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 2: I couldn't do it. Oh you know who it is? 171 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: I that was him? 172 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: Yeah you didn't sleep with him? No, but you guys like, yeah, 173 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 2: I want to smell him. Now does he smellt like 174 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: what I know? Was just likes he like not your 175 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 2: type even on page Yeah, he looked white. 176 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: He's there. Look okay, wait, you'all have a type. No, 177 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: I actually don't have a type. 178 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: All my friends to say I don't have Oh no, 179 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: everyone says white man, black man, it's everything. 180 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: You don't have a white and black eyed type because 181 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 1: I do. Okay, white guys. I typically like darker haired guys, 182 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: facial hair. You should not be a blonde adult. I can't. 183 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 2: I can't date a fucking I don't as a blond. 184 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: A don't as a man. 185 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 2: As a man, you need to grow out of your 186 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 2: blondness by the time you hit like. 187 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: That's real. It's what he ate except being generous twenty Yeah, 188 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,599 Speaker 1: that's being very generous. Long white boys do look a 189 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: little Barbie. I can't join a conversation. It's never a 190 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 1: white man. Still when you like, are attracted to celebrity 191 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: white guys, I like fucking Jason Momo, who apparently isn't white. 192 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: You know, white. That's the type of I like. 193 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 3: Okay, I like that that's colored. Yeah, that's colored. Yeah, 194 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 3: color conversation about so my white guy type. They need 195 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 3: to be a bushwick, prsy white boy that's already been 196 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 3: with a black girl, but he. 197 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: Don't have to tell you. Don't you find out because 198 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: you scrolling through the timeline. 199 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: I don't agree with that because it's like, you can 200 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 2: be with one black girl before me, so I don't 201 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: have to teach you everything. But if you have like 202 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 2: five six, seven and black girlfriends before me or whatever, 203 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 2: it's then it's a fetish and I don't like that. 204 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 1: Well mm hmm. I want him to have like tadded 205 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: be cultured of some sort, like you can't be out 206 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: here like cultured what different you don't want to but 207 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: cultured in the sense of like you can't be. 208 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: Talking about Trump or anything like acts like you've been 209 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 2: around black people before. You can't be like the only fucking. 210 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: See this interesting because I want to be someone's tight, definitely, 211 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: But at the same time, if I was actually dating 212 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: a white way, the only day of Black Girls would 213 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: freak me out. The last white guy date on the 214 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: podcast Jeeves, every girl before me looked like something else, 215 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, so he's like Pete Davidson. 216 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: You always see it's like that one that's like just 217 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 1: a little bit. It's like off white. 218 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 2: Does he thinking about Pete Davison's Have we ever seen 219 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 2: him with like a regular white girl? 220 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: O cape back in So didn't he date Ariana grand. 221 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: Not? 222 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: I called her out for the spright hands and ship. 223 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: He's not like that grand white She's I think is 224 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't think that's the last name for real? 225 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: For real? Can we look at what is? Ariana Big 226 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: is not a real name. She's like she has to 227 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: be Latina. It's giving no. Anyways, I did want to 228 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: get into an icebreaker with you guys, and you know 229 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a w W y D versus a 230 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: w E a h D, which is what would you do? 231 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: Versus what would a whole do? She chose because it 232 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 1: means something in Italian. It's Italian. It's not even like 233 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: it's not even by the way, I added Danish. My bad, 234 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 1: I added another word. Uh, so what would you do? 235 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: And what would a whole do? So this one actually 236 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: comes from our good sis Sukiana. She says, you find 237 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: out your man was cheating right before your girl's trip 238 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: to Jamaica. What are you doing? Are you one staying home? Crying. 239 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: Two getting some Jamaican cocky. Three behave yourself and just 240 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: go on your trip for invite the runner up on 241 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: the trip or five enjoy yourself until stuff with friends 242 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: your turn. 243 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 2: Okay, can I just say something real quick, because like, 244 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: we all know what Jamaica men are like. 245 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 1: Do we really want to give Jamaica as the example 246 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 1: because this is what I would do. We all know 247 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: what Jamaican dick is like, bitch as you know. Oh yeah, 248 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: it's it's demonic. Apparently it's I've been with a Jamaica 249 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 1: just like my daddy. I don't want to he learned. Okay, 250 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 1: what would I do? What would you do? 251 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 2: I think I'm just gonna go and enjoy with my friends, 252 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 2: But you're going to I've never experienced Jamaican dick. 253 00:12:53,440 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe like why not? He fucking cheated? Get what 254 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: about you? 255 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 2: I feel like I would stay with him so he 256 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: thinks like it's okay, it's cool, and then I would 257 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 2: go fuck someone in Jamaica. 258 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 1: Okay, so y'all are doing what you would do as 259 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 1: well as what a who would do. Y'all are clearly 260 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: Yeah I think I like that. 261 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm gonna have to like, keep me a 262 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 2: little bit of company when I'm over there. 263 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:23,199 Speaker 1: Okay, now this next one real taxing. One of your 264 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 1: homegirls has an OnlyFans page and she lets you know 265 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: that your boyfriend is her number one supporter over the 266 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 1: last three months. Who are you more upset with? Three? Yep, 267 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: three months? So he's been her top He's been her 268 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: top subscriber over the last three months. That's why she's 269 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: coming to you. How who are you more upset with? 270 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,559 Speaker 1: And how do you respond to this him? What the fuck? 271 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 2: I feel like I need to find out how much 272 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: he was spending on my best friend because that's wild. 273 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: No, you don't want to know, but needs to tell me. 274 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm happy for her. 275 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 2: I'm not asking for that cut at all, but I'm 276 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,079 Speaker 2: just saying, like, how much are you spending? We could 277 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 2: have been like in the fucking south of France somewhere 278 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 2: and you're sucking. 279 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 1: Okay girl, If that was. 280 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 2: A huge scribed, my man, you wouldn't tell me for 281 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 2: three whole months. 282 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let it slide. Maybe it was a mistake. 283 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: Now I'm dude, I'm out with him. Are you breaking day? 284 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: If he's supporting your best friend, they're both entrepreneurial. 285 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 2: I'm feeling weird for all in the same room together, 286 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 2: like they're both. 287 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: You can't watch my BITCHU No, no, absolutely not okay 288 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: solo content, her feet and her mess to me, no, 289 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: but to you have a lot of friends that I 290 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: have a lot of friends, Like I mean, even when 291 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: when Rory came on, I'm actually one of those friends 292 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: that like, if my friend is out bad, like and 293 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: I got a trick, I'd be like, girl, you could 294 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: come on a trip and he'll pay you to fuck 295 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: us type ship, Like I'm down to like support, you know, 296 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 1: because I didn't. What am I rephrasing? If I have 297 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: a friend who's down and out and I've done this 298 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: multiple times, I have a friend that has looked out 299 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: for me. She like was like, girl, I got this trick. 300 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: This is back he used to play for for the 301 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: Grizzlies and he pays I you still down and out. 302 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: I set it up and I went on the trip, 303 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: had fun, got my money. But I've done that in 304 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: exchange with my friends, like especially like if I know 305 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: they're down and out, finance man, was it my? Like 306 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: those are those are my my niggas? Like my tricks. 307 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: My partner is my you know what I mean, maybe 308 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: not my man. I only just had my first relationship now, 309 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: but also my ex fucked a lot of my friends 310 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: with me as well, So so yeah, that wasn't a question. Bitch, girl, 311 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: let me my home. Let me finished your homegirl. That's porn. 312 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 1: You guys hang out, maybe you have dinner. Often you 313 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: find out that all of the point he's watching is 314 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: advantage in jer you're not. I don't think it bothers me. Wow, 315 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: you are, I don't think. Yeah, I mean I watch. 316 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: I mean, but she's a porn star I'm friends with, 317 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: But there's a lot of porn. She's not the only 318 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 1: one he could choose where human, I say, but you're 319 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: moving the goal poles. You said that is the only 320 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: porn he watches. I don't believe that anybody is just 321 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: watching one person. I'm telling you he's he likes getting 322 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: off to Havanta Ginger, y'all are friends. That doesn't bother me. 323 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 1: I just wouldn't be able to leave my friend g 324 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: porn Starine. That doesn't surprise Betsy bou Ass. Are you 325 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: leaving them famous just a random porn star? We do 326 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: understand Havana's iconic. Right, you were telling me you actually 327 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: think it's okay that your man is only coming to 328 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: your homegirl, y'all hang with the only word is I think, 329 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 1: what's blowing mind? Because I didn't say only I'm saying, 330 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: that's the scenario. Oh, you're you're giving me that scenario. 331 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: I think it's weird. Are you leaving them in a 332 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: room together and you're not there? I mean, to me, 333 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: I have trust issues right now overall with people. To me, 334 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: I don't think it's appropriate for me to leave my 335 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: friends in a room with my nigga in any scenario. Okay, 336 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 1: Like that to me doesn't make sense to me, Like 337 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: why would that be? Let me ask you this. You 338 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: already know that he's getting off to her. 339 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 2: You just go to the bathroom, Like, y'all, the three 340 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 2: of you are dinner, you are the bathroom. 341 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: What the I'm peeing? Thinking? Like? What is he thinking 342 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: about with her? Right? So, I'm not gonna lie, and 343 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: I think that that's what we're That's that's why you're 344 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: jerking off to my home, right, I just want two 345 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: of them right there. There can be a fantasy. I'm 346 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I think that that goes to what 347 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: I be with a man that I believe I can't 348 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: trust around my friends. Then, now that's a whole different scenario. 349 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: You want you jacking your dick off to one of 350 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: my friends that I know and I support and aware 351 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 1: does sex work? No, that's not gonna bother me like it. 352 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: It's to me, it's kind of like on trend of Oh, 353 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: now that we're together, I'm gonna tell you who you 354 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 1: can and cannot be friends with. So there's accessibility, and 355 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 1: I think that's the difference too. Right, Like one of 356 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: my not exes, but someone I've dated said to me 357 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: he didn't like that. I was always now, I'm such 358 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 1: a bias fan right now. It's never me saying like, 359 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, I want to suck Prince Dick. I 360 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,719 Speaker 1: would always be like, Yo, you gotta fuck to this. 361 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 1: I literally told him in my first interview, I fucked 362 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: to your music all the time, super fan of him. Right. 363 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,239 Speaker 1: He was like, you can't me too. He's like, you 364 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: can't be a crazy fan of someone you have access 365 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: to because it makes me look bad. And I was like, well, 366 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 1: that's what my ex will be like. But here's his thing. 367 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: He's like Yo, He's like, if I'm he was a writer, Like, 368 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: if I'm talking about all these actresses that I'm writing for, 369 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: it would make you feel uncomfortable. You're not just some 370 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 1: girl on the street. You're gonna meet him, You're gonna 371 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: know him ironically and ended up happening. Now we're friends. 372 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: But he's like, you can't stand over niggas like other 373 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 1: people because you're in rooms with them. So it's not 374 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 1: a good look for me because boom, if I'm dating 375 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 1: a bitch who works at Walgreens who may never see 376 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: this person, fine, it feels like fandom, but you have 377 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 1: access to that person. They may reply to your DM whatever. 378 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: Now I'm fans and I'm gonna go today conference and 379 00:18:54,359 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: probably just ask me how I've been and niggah him 380 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: and go everywhere. Yeah, but my plan is corn is 381 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: actually next level to me. So it's not just the accessibility, 382 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: it's this is my friend. We're sharing spaces together. Yeah, 383 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 1: I do not think it's appropriate to jerk off to 384 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: my home girl sharing spaces. 385 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 2: I just feel like I can't look at I just 386 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 2: if the scenarios if I leave the room, like I 387 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 2: just it's also like you're you're going over some sort 388 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 2: of like line of decency because it's like suddenly you're 389 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 2: I'm touching myself. 390 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: This isn't the show Beef. Y'all watch Beef. No, I 391 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: haven't seen Beef. You watched it, right? 392 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? 393 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: Remember when he was jerking off to the coworker's pitch, 394 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 1: that's crazy, he was, bitch, you ain't about the imagine 395 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: if the nigga was jerking off to Mandy, I would die. No, 396 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 1: wonder you look at her? Do you know what else? 397 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 1: It's difficult about that too. I think like if the 398 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:49,959 Speaker 1: friend in question, Mandy and I look super different, right, 399 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 1: the first thing I'm gona thinking is like, oh my god, 400 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 1: you like big buds, and. 401 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 2: I would do the same thing, Like it wouldn't like 402 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 2: whatever she is something that you don't have and therefore 403 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 2: you want that. My brain would go there the spiral scene. 404 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 1: I I ain't gonna hold you at this point, like 405 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 1: I'd have met two of the four bitches that my 406 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: ex cheated on me with, and I was like, wow, 407 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 1: ugly right, you have no type like none of us. 408 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: Are you impressed you have anything in common except we're 409 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: all creatives? None? Okay? 410 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 2: Like but we have nothing in common. Literally all of 411 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 2: us have nothing but your fans. They're your fans. 412 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,679 Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh, well the one girl didn't know about me 413 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: till the other girl told her about me. And yeah, anyways, 414 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: get their fans like the ear ain't listen. Well, I 415 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: wanted to get into our vanilla shit and this one 416 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: is wild. During a discussion on the Ice Coffee Hour podcast, 417 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 1: an influencer revealed that she sleeps streams, which is a 418 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: huge money maker for her. I'm trying to be if 419 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: you're unaware, sleep streaming is merely live streams of people 420 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: sleeping while an audience Hazel Grace just told us about 421 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: that a few weeks ago. So she says that what 422 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: did she become financial? Financially beneficial because viewers actually give 423 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 1: her money to try to wake her up by playing 424 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:17,479 Speaker 1: loud music or videos through media share. However, she assumes 425 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: her audience watches the live stream also as a form 426 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: of voyeurism. The influencer claimed that her unique live streaming 427 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: videos allow her to make over nine thousand dollars in 428 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 1: just hours if you could count just on Twitch, probably 429 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: like a couple of thousand dollars, but if you count 430 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,880 Speaker 1: the conversions potentially the only fans while I'm sleeping then 431 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 1: maybe like ten thousand to fifteen thousand hours. She claims 432 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: that she has brought beIN two million dollars in just 433 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: one month doing these sleep streams. I believe I am 434 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 1: trying to do it. I'm not gonna lie. I'm in 435 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: the market a camera bitch. I just saw this little 436 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: fat kids deal on a lighting sets about to be set. 437 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 1: I want betting sponsors. I want I'm I drool a lot, 438 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: like does because I sleep naked and y'all don't get 439 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: to see me as you like, I lost weight. Uh, 440 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 1: I don't snore it all anymore. My friends all let 441 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: me know because we've been traveling so much so snoring 442 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: was actually with a part of my my when I 443 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: was heavier, I used to extra light awfully. Oh yeah, 444 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 1: and like snoring actually causes like your your heart could 445 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: stop snoring. Yeah, a lot of sleep at me my mom. 446 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: Everyone is just like, wow, that really was connected to 447 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: your way. I do not snore anymore. Yeah, WHOA like 448 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: really good? I'm like, because I lightly snore and it's 449 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: not like no one lights though, is that true? 450 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:47,200 Speaker 2: I feel like like you're probably it is the light rumble. 451 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 2: It's a light rumble because I'm really fucked up. I 452 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 2: will slip and everyone, I will slip into a light. 453 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 2: But I've also heard her and it's not light. 454 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 1: Yeah it is. That's how I don't believe your bitch. 455 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm with you, okay, bro y'all over there my ship, 456 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 1: my alone. Girls would make sure they kept the motherfucking 457 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: ear plugs off the flights, like bitch, were going on 458 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: a trip with Mandy. Yeah, bitch, it was bad. But 459 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: now my mom's like, I sleep like a princes. 460 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 2: Wait can you is there any more information? Like is 461 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 2: this girl doing anything? 462 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: No, she's doing anything at all, And there's a screenshots 463 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: she's sleeping literally regular even like fake sleeping. Oh my god. 464 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 1: I'm so fucking here for this. 465 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 2: And I don't know what I have to do to 466 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 2: sign myself up, what camer I need, but I'm trying 467 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 2: to do that. 468 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 1: Well, we've been seeing a lot of the girls now 469 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: with the yum ice cream, all of those type of things, 470 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 1: which clearly there's not sex involved. I think it's called 471 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: what NPC or something I've never seen that. I don't 472 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 1: know what you're talking, y'all. Y'all have not seen and 473 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 1: I'm a girl that's going viral Pinky Diamond, and they 474 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 1: send her money like Timberland was just her top subscriber, 475 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:59,360 Speaker 1: and she literally is like yum yum ice cream. Y'all 476 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:04,159 Speaker 1: didn't like an Literally she plays like what it is? 477 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 1: They act like a SIMS character and she moves like 478 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:10,480 Speaker 1: the video Oh my god, are you are y'allies? This 479 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,399 Speaker 1: world is king here and kink here. I'm in but 480 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 1: I mean I literally like Tomorrow just came out and 481 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 1: said she she goes like it's pinky doll, like you 482 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 1: literally look her up. I'm just gonna play just a 483 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 1: little bit of it, so y'all can hear it? Says yes, Hey, 484 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 1: So people are paying money to send her like little 485 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 1: emojis and she literally like a character has to respond 486 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,479 Speaker 1: to so so a lot of people so this is anime. 487 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: Apparently people watch it and are turned on. A lot 488 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: of people that are now seeing it want to see 489 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 1: if they can break her because the more you give, 490 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 1: the more she has to keep up. And so like 491 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: she's literally acting like a video game character. I'm thinking 492 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,919 Speaker 1: about this clip of JT from the City Girls like 493 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,719 Speaker 1: get you have motherfucking shit, My head y'all femates cowboy, 494 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: and she was atself serious. I know you guys came in. 495 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: I know you guys came in and we're like, oh 496 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 1: my god, we're looking, you know, for for sex workers. 497 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 1: Right now, I wanted to ask you guys, what has 498 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: been the most basic or strangest thing you've heard of 499 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: sex worker do for money? Like that doesn't involve set 500 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: If this is that, that is fuck and she's killing it. 501 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: I would not how to say the ignore fetish, the 502 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 1: ignore fetish Harmon ninety s ak Lisa Splifson, she talked 503 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,399 Speaker 1: about how ignore fetish. She was like, literally, they just 504 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: pay me and I just ignored them on zoom and 505 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: they try to get my attention. I could do. Wow, 506 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: let me ask you guys a question. So I used 507 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,680 Speaker 1: to have people want to pay for pictures on my feet, 508 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:44,959 Speaker 1: and I'd have my friends be like, oh my god, 509 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 1: you should do it. You'll make so much money, and 510 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, once I make an only fan, it 511 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: puts me in a certain bracket and I can't come 512 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 1: back from it. Now y'all are on reality TV, who 513 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,959 Speaker 1: which I have a show about being h you all, 514 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: I'm sayings like putting you in a certain like standard 515 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 1: of I'm sure. Especially do you think if you knew 516 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: you could make just as much as that girl with 517 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 1: sleep streaming but it was only on only fans, would 518 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 1: you do it? Yes? I mean we have wiki feet accounts. 519 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,919 Speaker 1: People take me too, but it's not your purpose. 520 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 2: Of course, purpose are collecting them and putting them on 521 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 2: a database already. Why shouldn't I be doing that for 522 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 2: money and making it sexual. Yeah, all right, church girls 523 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 2: stepping up, That's exactly what it is. 524 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 1: I would totally do my feet. Fuck you our sleep streaming, dude. 525 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 2: People make fun of us already for being in the 526 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 2: bed on our show, So why not fucking flip that 527 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 2: ship and make a coin off of it. 528 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,360 Speaker 1: Why do we always be in a big because people 529 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 1: are nuts in that fucking house. Oh so you're getting 530 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: away to talk shit. Also, it's just like so, yeah, 531 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 1: we're talking shit. They don't even show half the ship 532 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: that we do. 533 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 2: We're talking shit, major, we're having Maya's got a blut 534 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 2: in her hands, like we're smoking. We're all just like 535 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 2: shooting this ship. And also some people are just drama 536 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,640 Speaker 2: like you just we're chilling from these crazy white people yeah, 537 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:00,400 Speaker 2: we're Have you. 538 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 1: Had a moment where you were like, I'm gotta get 539 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 1: off off the show. 540 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 2: I don't, yeah, get out yeah, every day, Like, yeah, 541 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 2: that's why it was so vital having Maya because just 542 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 2: and you know, I love girls on the show too, 543 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 2: Yeah I do. But still and luckily like Page is 544 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 2: like one of my homegirls now where she just like 545 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,920 Speaker 2: gets it. But I always joke, I'm like, she's fucking Italian, 546 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 2: so like the loyalty runs different for Italians than just 547 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 2: like regular white. 548 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: It does. 549 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 2: Spicy, yeah, dude, but just being able to look at 550 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 2: her across the room and be like, fucking like, it's 551 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,400 Speaker 2: so fucking vital because so funny. 552 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: But I'm starting I'm gonna start doing this shit. 553 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,479 Speaker 2: There's I'm like, I wonder if they would pick up 554 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 2: on scenes because there are some moments We'll be out 555 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 2: of dinner and I'm like, somebody will say something and 556 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,360 Speaker 2: we will just be like I had to if you're 557 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 2: not watching. 558 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 1: My tube, She's pointing to her palms. Yeah, indicate white people. 559 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: Do you think that being on it, We've had a 560 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 1: lot of people from reality shows, but not people that 561 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: are like the only one that are on a White Show. 562 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: Did people not like you? Well, she was the only 563 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,439 Speaker 1: black person on Ronie yeah and that way, and people 564 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 1: were Yeah, I want to know if this opinion of 565 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: you shifted when you became close to mine. Did people 566 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: start to not like you because they felt like you 567 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 1: had an alliance? 568 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 2: No, but I think that anybody who comes in now 569 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 2: who's black or something like, if I'm not best friends 570 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 2: with them, then it's an issue. But I'm like, but also, 571 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 2: she can be black and I still don't fuck with her. 572 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not fucking with they're just strictly because 573 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,159 Speaker 2: she's black, and fucking with her because I like the 574 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 2: way she moves, Like not all bitches move the same way. 575 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 2: And if you come in weird with some weird ass 576 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 2: vibes or like, I can just pick up on certain 577 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 2: things where everyone wants to be famous, we're on TV, Like, yeah, 578 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 2: I get it. It's it's a it's a commonality that 579 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 2: we share. But you also have to have like trust 580 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: that runs deep in a different way, because I need 581 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 2: to know when my back is turned, like I don't 582 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 2: have to worry about you. 583 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: Well it s now, y'all are always in the bed together, 584 00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: clearly not doing anything because y'all are both straight bored, 585 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: but I wanted to get into I really am curious 586 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,720 Speaker 1: when it comes to Hannah talked about sex with Dez 587 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: when he was coming in the house. What sex like 588 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 1: for y'all on reality shows? I won't fuck on camera, 589 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 1: but it's not on camera. It's like, can you ever 590 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: have a moment where you kids have anything intimate that 591 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: we kissed to go in the bathroom? 592 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 2: I mean, like, if you don't want it to be, 593 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 2: they'll use anything they I mean, I'm like, how much 594 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 2: can I even say? They'll dub other people's sounds. We 595 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 2: noticed sounds on like something innocent. 596 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: So it's like, personally, I like, here's my thing with it? 597 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 2: Because I was we were the only black people on 598 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 2: a predominantly white situation show. I was not into like 599 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 2: being sexualized, and I think even just being in the 600 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 2: modeling industry from like a young age, like, yeah, like 601 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 2: people are looking at my body and like they want 602 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 2: to see me fucking like and they have this persona 603 00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 2: that they want me to live up to of like 604 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 2: being a super sexual person and it's not that I'm not, 605 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 2: but on TV, I'm not even like leading with that 606 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 2: because a lot of times it's it's almost staining, as 607 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: if you can't get away from it, and then they 608 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 2: paint you a certain way and I'm like yeah, and 609 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 2: I just I'm like, I'm not trying to do that. 610 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 2: I'm so early into this. That's very interesting, you know. 611 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 1: I thought about that a few times when I don't 612 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 1: watch it, but I watched maybe one or two I 613 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 1: think it was on Delta for a while, so I 614 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: was like, fun, yeah, it actually it is. So when 615 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: I watched it, I remember thinking that that was a 616 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 1: good thing because I was laughing to myself at how 617 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: sweet and nice Sierra was, because I was like, god forbid, 618 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 1: she's the black bitch on the show. Yeah, and I 619 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: had my moments. It's crazy. You also say that because 620 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 1: Martha's Vineyard Summer House right there was sex. Oh they 621 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 1: were fucking god damn episode they were to where in 622 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: our group chat and I'm in a group chat with 623 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 1: she loves Bravo I am, and literally we were in 624 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,479 Speaker 1: the group chat talking about like, why are they really 625 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: like showing so much sex. I do believe that they. 626 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 2: Had a complete different production team, but let them do 627 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 2: things that we were not, like the way that they were. 628 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 1: Moving on production. I well, it is, but. 629 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 2: The actually okay, yeah, I'm like the production companies. It's 630 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 2: also different when your first year. It's also different. 631 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: You're you on a. 632 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 2: Show, right, so you want to say it out, you 633 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 2: want to come back, you want to be renewed for 634 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 2: a second season. Not saying that they that's the reason 635 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 2: that they did it, But it's like a different type 636 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 2: of it's a different type of energy. 637 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 1: You know, a second season coming out. I just read 638 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: it was like the number one streamed on. It was 639 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 1: well and they had it right after Housewives. It was 640 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: like the timing that they had it. Yeah, it was great. 641 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: Now I want to ask y'all back to some whole ship. 642 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 1: Aren't or derv Is sex tips? And I'm giving the 643 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: floor to you ladies, give us some sex tips. Look, 644 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: I'm a toy girl all through and through. I love different, different, 645 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 1: any type of toy. I'm fucking here for it. I 646 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: wanted to vibrate. 647 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 2: I wanted to fucking like it has to spin around, 648 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 2: like I wanted to have an app. 649 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't really have hips. I mean, 650 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: get more fucking toys, adding toys to so bare minimum. 651 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 1: So do you bring toys though in with your partners? Okay, 652 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: and then how is that conversation? Do you normally just 653 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: whip it out and introduce it? Do you tell him 654 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: like like or do you say, hey, I want to corpus. 655 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 2: My vibrator lives in my bed, like the way that 656 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 2: I live in my head. The vibrator lives in my 657 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 2: bed literally all time lasting. 658 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 1: When I first got her, bitch, that thing went missing 659 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: and I was almost embarrassed to ask her, And eventually 660 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: I was like, hey, there was something green on the bed. 661 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: Where is it? Yeah, it's there. It's there. 662 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 2: It's visible, like if you FaceTime y at night, if 663 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 2: we're talking, you're going to see it. At some point. 664 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 2: You have no question about like what it is that 665 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 2: I'm about. Mine's in a box, but I also have 666 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 2: some box girl, a whole joy right next to the bed, 667 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 2: right I have a chest. Okay, Okay, so you just 668 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 2: pretty much like I. 669 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: Whip it out though I don't even give a four girl, 670 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,240 Speaker 1: you don't have consent. But no, it's my fucking toy. 671 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 2: And it's not about him, not that it's not about him, 672 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 2: but it's but he's gonna be fine. 673 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 1: It's really what it's gonna be at the end of you. 674 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 2: I have a guy one time I whipped it out 675 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,040 Speaker 2: and it was like, he's like, do you want me 676 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 2: to fuck you with this? 677 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 1: And I said maybe? Like now, wait to was it? 678 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 1: It was just like a dildo. I was a vibrator. 679 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: So you pulled out another phelic object. Okay, I can't 680 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 1: do all that object. Come on. You wanted two dicks 681 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: at once? No popping? Like no in both holes? Like 682 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: what do we do? Not in both? Just like switch 683 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 1: it up? It was a different side. It was bigger, bigger, 684 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: was it bigger? Bigger? 685 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? 686 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 3: You do that? 687 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 1: You no? No, no, girl. We talked about it, we 688 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: played it. This was clearly my fantasy. I'll set up 689 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: with ship. I would pull out one smaller than his 690 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,719 Speaker 1: and we would use kinks, so bit y'all would get 691 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 1: fucked by three by three dicks essentially at once. He 692 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 1: explained that this was my. 693 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 2: Fans because at once, oh, at once, he would like 694 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 2: make me suck on one. Then he would fit his 695 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 2: dick and the dildo in my. 696 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 1: Once we would do DVD DP. We played with all 697 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: the toy DV two dicks in my vagina door or 698 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 1: and the small one he would want to put like 699 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: in my ass while he was in my post. So 700 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 1: we played with all of them at once, but it 701 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: was discussed and this was a fantasy of mine. Okay, 702 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: well I heard from me adding men to the bedroom. 703 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 1: So he's like, well, I want to play. 704 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 2: Okay, I respect that more than like, I'm in bed 705 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 2: with you and you pull out a dick that's bigger 706 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 2: than mine that I agree. 707 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: That's a little crazy. I felt like mine was a 708 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,240 Speaker 1: lot more milder. 709 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 4: To not like spoke about it that lead first, like 710 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 4: I agree, like as men, there's already insecurity women using toys, 711 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 4: and now you pull out a dildo bigger than his dick. 712 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a guy that I'm sleeping with right now 713 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 2: that's never used toys in bed. 714 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:04,840 Speaker 1: Did he say why? 715 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 2: He's just like, never done it. And I'm like, he 716 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 2: just doesn't know it yet. I told him, like it's coming, okay. 717 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 2: I was like, we can wait, but it's going to happen. 718 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,319 Speaker 2: What's a good start, easy toy thing? I feel like, 719 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,160 Speaker 2: like even like a little boy, like a girls either 720 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 2: like a cock a cockering is good or a bullet 721 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 2: cockering or yeah, and then I think you should. 722 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 1: Have at all times like a butt plug. Oh, I 723 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 1: like you haven't. Actually, I think you should have it 724 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: all at all times. I have. Yeah. Okay, wait, have 725 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 1: y'all ever sucked a fan? 726 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:42,920 Speaker 2: No? 727 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 1: I mean I I think I want to call him 728 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,399 Speaker 1: a fan, but no, yes you have. 729 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 2: You can call him a fan. Yes, she said, was 730 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 2: on some real slick ship, Like he didn't. Did he 731 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 2: let you that he knows who. 732 00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 1: Are we talking about? 733 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 2: Okay, just wanted to make sure I understood you're just 734 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 2: giving fan energy. 735 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 1: It was good. No, you a fan, and it was bad. 736 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: We didn't. 737 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 2: It was actually a setup with one of our friends. 738 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 2: And then he just turned into a fan. Like he's 739 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 2: probably a fan from the start. 740 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:17,319 Speaker 1: He was a fan. 741 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,400 Speaker 2: He just like masted a little bit, but he was 742 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 2: a fan for well like me, and his game wasn't good. 743 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 1: See that's a very scary thing. Like right now on 744 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 1: Riya in Hinge, right Riya, I'm just not really finding 745 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,360 Speaker 1: men that I like. Literally, you get your daily swipes 746 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 1: in and you call it a day. You're not. 747 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like conversations all the black men on 748 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 2: Rise so limited. I don't know what's going on. I 749 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 2: just mean, there's a lot of black women on there, 750 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 2: but not black men. Maybe they're probably I feel like 751 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 2: Hinto is a good amount of black men. 752 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 1: They do and they find, for the most part, some 753 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,799 Speaker 1: uglies and some good ones about hair treatments. I'm just 754 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 1: gonna I don't know. I have not been on dating 755 00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:02,240 Speaker 1: probably you say dating apps. I was with my exprat 756 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,440 Speaker 1: three years, but even before, like, I just got really 757 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 1: uninterested in the swiping. I refuse to download any dating app. 758 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 1: So if y'all see me promote one, just notice because 759 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,919 Speaker 1: I'm getting paid. I ain't really on their I don't. 760 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: I don't do dating apps and absident flows like I 761 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,800 Speaker 1: delete mine, Dad lead them, delete the download them, but 762 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 1: then don't you download you see the same? Damn you. 763 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,040 Speaker 1: I like them when you're traveling, though, I tea but see, 764 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,880 Speaker 1: don't even mind. She got on HINT recently and the 765 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: first day was great, the second day was great, and 766 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,839 Speaker 1: she made all these connections and she was like, bro, 767 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 1: we haven't even left the messages or they because they 768 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 1: want a pen pal. There's literally no one even I'm 769 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 1: gonna tell you that. Yeah, this is the real truth. 770 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 1: Respond and this is what I believe. My notifications are 771 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,960 Speaker 1: off for it, but people that are actually really like 772 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,359 Speaker 1: you get into you like I only there's so many 773 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 1: men that wrote me, but I'll really respond to the 774 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: one where I'm like, fuck, yeah, that's right, right to 775 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,799 Speaker 1: see where you say first, Yes, yeah, I was gonna 776 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:03,440 Speaker 1: say with fucking fan on Hinge. Generally speaking, I'm not 777 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 1: sure if I'm talking to someone that knows me. Sometimes 778 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 1: by the time we're sitting down figure listen, I'll say 779 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 1: I have a date tonight. And he follows Sierra and 780 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 1: I met him on Hinge, So I'm like, do you 781 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:15,399 Speaker 1: watch a show? 782 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:16,879 Speaker 2: Are you a fan of Mite? 783 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,360 Speaker 1: But she probably followed you on purpose just so you 784 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,919 Speaker 1: wouldn't see he already followed you. Oh girl, that could 785 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: be one too, because if he was on that earlier season. 786 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,359 Speaker 1: So I'm like, And also, I'm like, I'm not gonna 787 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 1: be mad as here's hot. It's like I would follow 788 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,239 Speaker 1: her too, But I'm like, what is this all? What's 789 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: this all? Gonna like? This will be asked tonight at dinner. 790 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 1: Still it makes me feel weird. What do I know? 791 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 1: Don't feel weird, don't feel weird. We'll have to how 792 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,799 Speaker 1: many people does he follow? Over a thousand, it don't count, like, yeah, 793 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 1: I don't think he follows like probably around a thousand. 794 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 1: Maybe if Sierra has more followers than you, then she's 795 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:51,759 Speaker 1: popping up more. It's normal. That's normal. We'll find out. 796 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,400 Speaker 1: I'll tell you guys about this later. I wouldn't to me, 797 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 1: I wouldn't trip if I saw someone following Mandy, I'd 798 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: be like, okay, the content. And I thought of it 799 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,439 Speaker 1: the other day. I ain't gonna told you what girl, 800 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,320 Speaker 1: because I saw you liking all the green Eyes pictures 801 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 1: and I'm like, how would she's green eyes? Bitch you? 802 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,879 Speaker 1: I've shown his page here a few times, so maybe 803 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,279 Speaker 1: you didn't realize. I really didn't know. Were you all 804 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:12,759 Speaker 1: in his likes? And bitch ill was on his page 805 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,359 Speaker 1: the other day and I said, not weezy liking all 806 00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 1: these pictures of green Eyes? Oh? I felt away. I 807 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 1: felt a fucking way because I'm like, Bro, I've been 808 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 1: talking about his nigga on the pod. I fuck him. 809 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:23,799 Speaker 1: I would never go through and like niggas that you fuck? 810 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:24,960 Speaker 1: I really, why did you tell me? 811 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 2: I don't know so she can't like the photo, but bro, 812 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 2: you are okay with I went to seven pictures and 813 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:34,440 Speaker 2: were they old? 814 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,279 Speaker 1: No girls all in the line, I wasn't a lot 815 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,799 Speaker 1: of each other because I'm like they were I'm like, 816 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 1: if she likes one, okay, bit ch'all went down and 817 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:46,319 Speaker 1: I'm like for seven years. I I also feel like 818 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: I've shown his picture multiple times because she always talked 819 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 1: about how I like like skin niggas, but he dark skin. 820 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,479 Speaker 1: So I'm like no, and then she's always like green eyes. 821 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you, I would never actually like, 822 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: you know, I've never done it with anyone's name. I 823 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: know I really don't know what he looks like. Now, Okay, 824 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,399 Speaker 1: well you do, because bitch you all through his life. 825 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 2: No, they follow each other movie I said one like 826 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 2: is one time, bitch I started going through the pill. 827 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:16,959 Speaker 1: I know, fine was six on the lights seven time. 828 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, bitch, you're sumust have been like 829 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:19,560 Speaker 1: wake up. 830 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 2: No. 831 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking, like, I know what twenty four to 832 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 1: seven looks like. I know what Black Jesus looks like. 833 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 1: Even your ex have I I mean, he don't have socials. 834 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I know what they look like. Okay, 835 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,640 Speaker 1: but we're gonna I'll show you after the uh and 836 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 1: I'll show you all the pictures. But do they follow 837 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: each other? Oh? I didn't even look that far. I 838 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 1: saw enough lights and I just was like, let me 839 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: get off to your before a getment. But you know, 840 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,719 Speaker 1: when I'm on at like Instagram, because I don't really 841 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 1: meet men there, if I see one that I would think, 842 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: i'd fuck. That's the only thing I'll do. I won't 843 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 1: follow out on message. But you'll like that's sound probable. 844 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,799 Speaker 1: But I'm like, I really didn't know. I was just 845 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,960 Speaker 1: gonna say something about the Oh, let me tell you 846 00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:01,280 Speaker 1: about the date. Bitch, Okay, you don't. You don't follow him? 847 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,799 Speaker 1: So she went on a light Maybe she was trying 848 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,839 Speaker 1: to get that at Fitch and I don't know. Probably was, 849 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:11,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. I went real quick, as he looks like. 850 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 1: So I went on this date and I just showed 851 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:22,319 Speaker 1: y'all before the uh before before we started so match 852 00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 1: with a guy who again I probably got fifty matches 853 00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,680 Speaker 1: that I just redownload a Hinge and he was the 854 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 1: only one wrote me, wrote back. Within five minutes we 855 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: got on the phone on Hinge, which I thought was cool. 856 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:35,480 Speaker 1: I didn't even know that was the feature. Yeah, dat 857 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 1: it has like questions you can ask in the middle, 858 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 1: which I wasn't into and neither was he. But he 859 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,439 Speaker 1: was like, yo, like let's talk. So maybe he didn't 860 00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:43,880 Speaker 1: think I was real because I don't use my I 861 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: don't do the verify on the halfs because I don't 862 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,359 Speaker 1: want people to think it's really me, because somethings would 863 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 1: be like what's go weezy and I'm like, oh, I 864 00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 1: don't know her. Yeah, So on the phone we click. 865 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 1: Next day we go on a date. What time? What time? 866 00:41:58,200 --> 00:41:58,279 Speaker 3: Like? 867 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,239 Speaker 1: What hour was this first conversation? Three pm? Okay, I 868 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 1: had lovely. He was like, what are you up to 869 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: on this Sunday? And I'm like, oh, I'm just chilling 870 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 1: watching the movie. He was like, well, must not be 871 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 1: that good. You're talking to me like, let's got on 872 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:08,879 Speaker 1: the phone. So we did, and I thought that was cool. 873 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 1: I like that. So then we were like, fuck it, 874 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,560 Speaker 1: let's not waste time. Let's have drinks tomorrow, go to 875 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,360 Speaker 1: Soho house. I'm on the roof immediately ten seconds. I 876 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,279 Speaker 1: was like, whoa Like when I saw him, he look 877 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 1: better than the pictures. He said, I looked better than 878 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 1: my pictures. And we're vibe. So hour goes by in 879 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 1: walks this dude named Abbi. You know Abbiola from Okay places. 880 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 1: So I know this guy. He's with two girls and 881 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,320 Speaker 1: Abbi's married. There. It's a platonic thing with these women 882 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 1: and he's like, what's up. They start talking at both 883 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,320 Speaker 1: Nigerian and Boom. They're and their vibe. One girl from Paris, 884 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 1: one girls from Toronto. So the girls barely talk to him. 885 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:49,799 Speaker 1: I talked to maybe the one from Paris because I'm 886 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 1: obsessed with it. For a few minutes. We end up 887 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,920 Speaker 1: sitting with them for about an hour, having drinks. I 888 00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:56,719 Speaker 1: didn't want to. I wish Abby recognized I was on 889 00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 1: a first date, but like it was very chill, you 890 00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 1: know how Soho gets or whatever. So the end of 891 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 1: the night comes, they want to go to Pargola. I'm like, no, 892 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:08,319 Speaker 1: I'm ana, we're gonna kick it here. I thought it 893 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 1: was very clear that we would still stay here. So 894 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:13,160 Speaker 1: everyone gets up to go hug goodbye. Bobby goes to 895 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 1: the bathroom. I hugged the girl from Paris goodbye. Say oh, 896 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 1: I'll be there in two weeks. Let's get each other's instagrams. 897 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: The Toronto girl comes around to him gives him a 898 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 1: hug and mentions because he said, I'll be in Toronto 899 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 1: for Caravana, which is soon like two weeks. So then 900 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: the next girl's like, you look like a model. Does 901 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,319 Speaker 1: anyone ever tell you look like a model? And he's like, no, 902 00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 1: I work in blah blah blah. Oh like listening to 903 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:41,359 Speaker 1: this happened. She says yeah, and he's like, oh, I'm 904 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 1: thank you for thinking on model, and she makes a 905 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:46,719 Speaker 1: joke about managing him and the hotter one who's from Toronto, 906 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:51,719 Speaker 1: sorry if you're listening to the one in Paris, but goes, yeah, 907 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,840 Speaker 1: what's your Instagram? And he's like, I don't do social 908 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:58,760 Speaker 1: media and then no, I don't ask for his number, bitch. 909 00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,239 Speaker 1: I don't know who recommended it, but it was something 910 00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 1: about the old fashioned way. I got up, went to 911 00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 1: the bathroom. I was like, oh, I'm done right, Like 912 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,040 Speaker 1: this is kissing me up? Yeah, So I come back, 913 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I already called my car. I'm like downstairs. 914 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 1: He's waiting downstairs with me and he's like about to 915 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,279 Speaker 1: lean in and kiss me, and it's confused why the 916 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,399 Speaker 1: vibe is off? And I'm like, you don't know what, 917 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,720 Speaker 1: So at this point, like the conversation is about to continue, 918 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 1: is like can I drive you home? Whatever? I'm like fine, 919 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,319 Speaker 1: because now I need to know why the fuck you 920 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,960 Speaker 1: just did this? Shit? Bro, this is how manipulative men are. 921 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 1: He's in the car like you got her and felt 922 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,400 Speaker 1: like I just thought it was like exchange. I'm not 923 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 1: gonna fuck her. I mean she's buiased, so maybe, but 924 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,440 Speaker 1: like you can still chill energy. It wasn't like you 925 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:47,520 Speaker 1: could be a model? Yeah, I said, yo, if you 926 00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 1: were vibing so crazy, like why you ain't get my 927 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,239 Speaker 1: own boys number? Who you was talking to most of 928 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:55,080 Speaker 1: the time. Secondly, like did you not think that's like 929 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,719 Speaker 1: not one part in your brain? He's like, this is 930 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:58,080 Speaker 1: what I'm so used to doing because I don't have 931 00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: social media. Like it was clear not my intent, like 932 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 1: I'm interested in you. He's like, are you telling me 933 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,080 Speaker 1: this means will never go on a second date? Yeah, 934 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:06,960 Speaker 1: And he's like looking at me like yeah, bitch, are 935 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,000 Speaker 1: you serious? Yeah, I'm dead ass, and I'm looking at 936 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,640 Speaker 1: him like are you Yeah. I was like, yo, it's 937 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 1: not even a big deal. We don't even need to 938 00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 1: talk about it this long because like I don't even know. 939 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,879 Speaker 2: You, like I met you one time. 940 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but life was bothering you, like we could be 941 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 1: messing up this connection. I'm like, this is shit that 942 00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 1: you do though, so why why? Yeah, you're not trying 943 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,800 Speaker 1: to change a man for who we are is Here's 944 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 1: why I feel worse. And I'm actually really embarrassed to 945 00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,400 Speaker 1: say this to everyone listening, But this is what ends 946 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 1: up happening. I wanted to get out the car. I 947 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,040 Speaker 1: lived close enough to where we already done. I'm about 948 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: to walk my dog and he's like, I'll walk with you. Somehow, 949 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,479 Speaker 1: this night still ended in a kiss, because I think 950 00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,440 Speaker 1: that's how attracted to each other we were. Then I go 951 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 1: home and I felt like shit about the kiss because 952 00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, wellhy would I let this nigga kiss me? 953 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,640 Speaker 1: But then I get on the phone with Vinnie, my 954 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 1: best friend he's also our tour manager the next day 955 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:59,400 Speaker 1: and he's like, I cannot believe that bothered you, and 956 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:03,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, you can't believe that bothered me? And he 957 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:06,000 Speaker 1: like brought up the fact that maybe I don't have 958 00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,759 Speaker 1: closure from my lion asked X. I'm like, bro, years later, 959 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,200 Speaker 1: you don't think I have a closure you really think 960 00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,759 Speaker 1: that was respectful. He's like, I'm just shocked you care 961 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 1: that much. So once we started talking, he understood what 962 00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,840 Speaker 1: I was saying, but like I was like, am I 963 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 1: the one who's shipping? And then I call every other 964 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: nigga I know who's not gay and friendly. I talked 965 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: to Andre and he's like, I'm trying to think of 966 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 1: what I would say to turn a girl down. He's like, 967 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 1: but what I know is I would be more comfortable 968 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 1: with making her uncomfortable than you exactly. He's like, because 969 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 1: maybe he felt uncomfortable to say no because he didn't 970 00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 1: ask her Instagram, he didn't ask her number. They were 971 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 1: the one doing it. 972 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,799 Speaker 2: But even like a look at you or some acknowledgment 973 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,200 Speaker 2: of the fact that, like we came here together, we're on. 974 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,000 Speaker 1: A first date. This is your first question to me, 975 00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,319 Speaker 1: So I ain't gonna hold you. I've done this. I've 976 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 1: exchanged contacts with other men when I'm there for another man. 977 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 1: So I'm like listening to this, but I've done that 978 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,239 Speaker 1: for Because what did the guy networking? I mean, did 979 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 1: it feel business? See that had no Well, the only 980 00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,359 Speaker 1: reason why didn't feel business, ye, is because the conversations 981 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: that were being had were very much like podcast conversations. 982 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 1: I was chilling with a whole bunch of niggas. They 983 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 1: thought ILL was the coolest person ever. This nigga sees 984 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:16,440 Speaker 1: all his homies like me. I've exchanged contact with the friends. No, 985 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 1: did the guy have an issue with that or no? Oh, 986 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. He never checked me for it, but 987 00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:24,360 Speaker 1: he still reaches out for me to come like around, 988 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,439 Speaker 1: so I don't know if it's an issue. The last 989 00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:28,320 Speaker 1: time we were even together, he talked about how scared 990 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 1: he was with me because you know he ain't ready for. 991 00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:36,360 Speaker 2: Ready but dead ass inappropriately appropriate to you and honestly, 992 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,640 Speaker 2: I like, yeah, you would be going home alone. 993 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,240 Speaker 1: It feels very dope, respectful. So he hits me up yesterday, 994 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 1: so I hope you had a great night, I said. 995 00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 1: I didn't even answer. I said, hellol, yesterday wasn't weird. 996 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:47,840 Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna call you tomorrow. He called me 997 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,560 Speaker 1: while I was sitting here, like what could you say 998 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,080 Speaker 1: to him? To me, it's to me, it's just one 999 00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 1: of those to where it's like, I don't know, maybe 1000 00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 1: because I do have so many male platonic friends and 1001 00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 1: to me, if I'm out and about like like we 1002 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 1: were even talking about my studio, Like of course, I'm like, 1003 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,239 Speaker 1: we're gonna We're having a very conversation and maybe he's like, oh, well, 1004 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 1: I know regardless when I meet people, there's just always 1005 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,719 Speaker 1: ways for me to make connections that don't always have 1006 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,760 Speaker 1: to be sexual. But the girl my numbers. 1007 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,840 Speaker 2: He was a model, Like the girl was clearly interested 1008 00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:16,800 Speaker 2: in him. 1009 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,360 Speaker 1: And wasn't with Bobby like right, like he was just 1010 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,399 Speaker 1: taking them a soho because they're coming from out of town, 1011 00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: so she can hit on another guy because she's with 1012 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,239 Speaker 1: her homeboy. Yeah she was. She was hitting on him. 1013 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,400 Speaker 1: Tell you something. If I was fucking him, Oh I 1014 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:32,440 Speaker 1: would have slapped that home and lost my membership. Are 1015 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 1: you fucking crazy? 1016 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,560 Speaker 2: See, I'm very weird and crazy about boundaries, Like even if. 1017 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,359 Speaker 1: I am on my first date, does that person know 1018 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:43,120 Speaker 1: that that is a boundary? Embarrassed I feel, you know, 1019 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,560 Speaker 1: like my homeboy watched that happen and he's looking at 1020 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 1: me like what and hitting me talking about where's you 1021 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 1: on a date? And I'm like, uh, yeah, I thought 1022 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 1: I was. 1023 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought I was so fucking embarrassed. Many and 1024 00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 2: that fat manners like, that's in front of your face. 1025 00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 2: It would be different if you walked out and no 1026 00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 2: one saw him do this and in. 1027 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,279 Speaker 1: Front of my faces. Apparently how he thinks it wasn't 1028 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,239 Speaker 1: a big deal, But also like, aren't you supposed to 1029 00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:05,680 Speaker 1: be on your best behavior on your first date? 1030 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,160 Speaker 2: You like, even if you really are that type of 1031 00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,440 Speaker 2: dude that like really does fuck around and does all 1032 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,919 Speaker 2: types of represent right your first time. 1033 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 1: He was first, I think I'm gonna go, and like 1034 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,640 Speaker 1: there's like, no, no, I don't know what you're gonna do. 1035 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 1: I don't know you, but like Trump has earned I 1036 00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,279 Speaker 1: don't make this in the comments and I can't wait 1037 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,560 Speaker 1: because I really feel like most of them will be 1038 00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:30,480 Speaker 1: on my side, but I would to be the day 1039 00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:33,239 Speaker 1: though turned casual if for an hour on the date. 1040 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:37,359 Speaker 1: We're also now speaking to one of your pause no no, 1041 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:41,280 Speaker 1: no, no casual now And I apologize twice in the middle 1042 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 1: of it, like, oh my god, I'm so sorry. I 1043 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,000 Speaker 1: don't know why he's staying around. And I was joking 1044 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 1: and now learned later I was like, I didn't know 1045 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:47,800 Speaker 1: it was a first date. I thought you went to 1046 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 1: go have drinks with someone you were with. It was 1047 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,000 Speaker 1: there I think there. To me, it was all just 1048 00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 1: but it didn't turn casual though, just because some other 1049 00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,080 Speaker 1: people joined the table. They left together, they went home together. 1050 00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 1: I didn't talk to bit from Toronto little bit, but 1051 00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: like the majority of the conversation was between me and him 1052 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:05,720 Speaker 1: and the dude. The girls were kind of just boring, 1053 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 1: no offense, but like they were probably really young, maybe 1054 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,319 Speaker 1: twenty four hours to this point. The horrible decision is 1055 00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,400 Speaker 1: first dates, stay off of them, don't go on them. 1056 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:15,040 Speaker 1: They ruin an anyway. I mean, yeah, damn all these 1057 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,759 Speaker 1: niggas suck. Well. I want to get in the home 1058 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,279 Speaker 1: mail before we get out of here and get you 1059 00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 1: guys to help us with some advice. Hey, y'all, So 1060 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,160 Speaker 1: I've been dealing with this guy for a couple of years, 1061 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,080 Speaker 1: about five plus. He has a job, but he is 1062 00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 1: not where I would like him to be. We don't 1063 00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,319 Speaker 1: really go out or do things. Our work schedules are 1064 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,799 Speaker 1: a little different. He gets off a little later in 1065 00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,799 Speaker 1: the day and I get off earlier in the day. 1066 00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 1: Maybe that plays a part in not having time to 1067 00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 1: go out, but it's starting to drain me. In the past, 1068 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 1: he has not been the perfect partner he has done 1069 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 1: some things to make me rethink the relationship completely. I 1070 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:51,080 Speaker 1: have seen some growth in him nowadays that I am 1071 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,879 Speaker 1: proud of, but it may not be enough. Now it's 1072 00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 1: weighing on me that I'm dealing with a guy who 1073 00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,360 Speaker 1: doesn't really take me anywhere or does anything with me, 1074 00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,239 Speaker 1: and hasn't always treated me the best. I don't want 1075 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,960 Speaker 1: to feel like I'm saying something to him because he 1076 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 1: doesn't have enough money, especially after him trying hard in 1077 00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 1: other departments of the relationship. How do I say I'm 1078 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:12,920 Speaker 1: tired of him being broke and not being able to 1079 00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 1: do things that I want to do without sounding ungrateful 1080 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,920 Speaker 1: for his growth like I don't want to sound like 1081 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 1: a gold digger or materialistic ps. Also, I forgot to 1082 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,319 Speaker 1: add it's affecting my sex drive with him. It's harder 1083 00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,560 Speaker 1: for me to get aroused knowing that he can't do 1084 00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,120 Speaker 1: anything for me. Am I wrong for feeling that way? 1085 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:30,840 Speaker 1: I don't want to make it seem like I'm just 1086 00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 1: in it for what I can get. But as we 1087 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,239 Speaker 1: get older and I realize he's still not what I 1088 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,200 Speaker 1: want him to be, it's harder for me to keep 1089 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,799 Speaker 1: my attention here. Break up with him. Red flags here. Yeah, 1090 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:47,399 Speaker 1: he wasn't the best partner. He's broke. Come on, there's 1091 00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:49,399 Speaker 1: so many ways to go out and like not spend 1092 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,160 Speaker 1: a lot of money. There is you can go. Yeah, 1093 00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:56,840 Speaker 1: you can do the part I mean I hate museums 1094 00:51:56,840 --> 00:52:02,359 Speaker 1: like that too. At okay, I mean yeah, at the hour, 1095 00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,600 Speaker 1: there's a lot of specials, especially depending where you live. 1096 00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: You could go out there's happy hour. 1097 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,279 Speaker 2: On food, or he works late, so maybe they can't 1098 00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 2: do that. But also like the schedules also work. It's 1099 00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,320 Speaker 2: like a die late time they could. 1100 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 1: Or if he works late on maybe your days off 1101 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,640 Speaker 1: do a mat in a movie, work out dates, you 1102 00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 1: know what I mean. You can be creative. I think 1103 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:26,440 Speaker 1: thoughtless men are a real issue. Yeah yeah, when someone's 1104 00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,239 Speaker 1: thoughtless and maybe I'm using their own word, but like 1105 00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:33,920 Speaker 1: that's the perfect that's okay, that's it, because broke isn't 1106 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 1: always it more than it's like I'm not even considering. 1107 00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:39,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, well he's doing the bare minimal, Like you could 1108 00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:41,920 Speaker 2: make a fucking lunch pack of lunch at home and 1109 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:43,960 Speaker 2: go sit in the park. That's quality time at the 1110 00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:45,640 Speaker 2: end of the day. At the end of the day, 1111 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,359 Speaker 2: it's quality time. The time that you're spending with this 1112 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,000 Speaker 2: person and it doesn't matter what the fuck you're doing, 1113 00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,480 Speaker 2: they're not going anywhere. And then not to mention her 1114 00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,600 Speaker 2: sex drive, she's not even attracted to him because he's 1115 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:57,600 Speaker 2: not like, because. 1116 00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:01,560 Speaker 1: He doesn't what I got. I went what you're the 1117 00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: U in a man having some sort of ambition because 1118 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:06,960 Speaker 1: we like providers. 1119 00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like you're also even thinking about her, like, yeah, 1120 00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,919 Speaker 2: home late ship, Like, yeah about you. You can pull 1121 00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 2: a flower that you found on the side of the road. 1122 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,040 Speaker 2: I don't care what it is. Just show me you 1123 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:18,640 Speaker 2: were thinking about it. 1124 00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,040 Speaker 1: Could give me a piece of down by the way 1125 00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 1: home girl. You but it's something little way flowers off 1126 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 1: the side of the road. Oh no, I thought you 1127 00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:29,160 Speaker 1: meant picking the flowers off. 1128 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 2: That's what I did. That's exactly what I meant. Oh, 1129 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 2: oh girl, are you talking about the guys that. 1130 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:38,040 Speaker 1: You think about? I was very much thinking about La 1131 00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 1: right off that motherfucker highway. That's fine too. What is 1132 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,560 Speaker 1: that two dollars? You know? Thinking it's not the best 1133 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,759 Speaker 1: date I've ever been on, just but the richest man 1134 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,480 Speaker 1: I'd ever been with. My best date with him was 1135 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,640 Speaker 1: the cheapest and we talked about it. It was at 1136 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,359 Speaker 1: a park and I remember with the lunch he was like, oh, 1137 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:55,239 Speaker 1: I haven't been to Central Park before. He doesn't live 1138 00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 1: in the country, and I was like, all right, cool, 1139 00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,600 Speaker 1: let's go. When we got there, it was like he 1140 00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 1: made of lunch with these Walgreens like they snatched grab. 1141 00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: I was like, this is so funny and cute. He 1142 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,520 Speaker 1: had to buy ride, but like super rich and if 1143 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 1: your driver took you to Central Park in the maybag 1144 00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,920 Speaker 1: and you did this, that really got me. So I 1145 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:18,920 Speaker 1: don't think there's a world where if a broke dude 1146 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 1: did that, we wouldn't acknowledge it. I mean, one of 1147 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:23,600 Speaker 1: one of my favorite things that I used to do 1148 00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:25,440 Speaker 1: with my ex and now I like do on my 1149 00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,879 Speaker 1: own is do the scooters around Central Park twenty dollars 1150 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,840 Speaker 1: an hour, So even for two people, it's less than 1151 00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,279 Speaker 1: one hundred dollars and you get to it's fun. It's 1152 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:35,440 Speaker 1: so much fun. You take the scooters, you stop in place, 1153 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 1: yeah and talk. Look less than one hundred. 1154 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 2: I love a walk walking down the West Wall Highway, 1155 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,240 Speaker 2: get an ice cream chat. 1156 00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,200 Speaker 1: You're spending time again about the ice cream date thing 1157 00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,800 Speaker 1: that went There was a women apparently don't want to 1158 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,359 Speaker 1: go on ice cream dates. Now I'll go on an 1159 00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:52,160 Speaker 1: ice cream I want to walk into. But I was 1160 00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:53,959 Speaker 1: about to say it got to be dairy free because 1161 00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,440 Speaker 1: only he's like, I don't, no, no, no, I'm a definitely 1162 00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:05,680 Speaker 1: do gelado word to are on a grun day. So 1163 00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:07,640 Speaker 1: I said this to Wolf earlier. Now I would do 1164 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 1: an ice cream date. But there was a dude I 1165 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,759 Speaker 1: matched with a hinge that I was talking to and 1166 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,719 Speaker 1: he understood what I meant by this, and I appreciate 1167 00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:19,000 Speaker 1: that because to me, I was wanting a man to 1168 00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,560 Speaker 1: validate this because I felt a little bougie. So the 1169 00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:23,600 Speaker 1: guy hits me on hinge, We're talking for a few days, 1170 00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:25,800 Speaker 1: wants to go on a date, sends me a spot 1171 00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 1: and it was a taco place and when I looked 1172 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:31,200 Speaker 1: it up, it had the plastic seats. Oh, And I 1173 00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:32,960 Speaker 1: was like, hello, I'm not trying to sit in no 1174 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,800 Speaker 1: parking lot outside, Like is there another place? Then he 1175 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:39,279 Speaker 1: went on this whole you know the niggas. I was 1176 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,040 Speaker 1: going to take you this speak either after this, but 1177 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:43,319 Speaker 1: this is what I wanted to eat. The I don't 1178 00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,000 Speaker 1: want to sit on plastic chairs, I was I don't 1179 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,000 Speaker 1: know you, bro. I want to be inside. I need 1180 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,000 Speaker 1: some air conditioning. Like why had an outdoor truck. It's 1181 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,839 Speaker 1: not like it's a food festival thing. We are really 1182 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:54,239 Speaker 1: at the side of the road, and you want me 1183 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:54,719 Speaker 1: to meet you. 1184 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,399 Speaker 2: For the first day. You really do need to pull 1185 00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:57,960 Speaker 2: all the bells and whistles, like, not all of the 1186 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,160 Speaker 2: bells and muscles. But like, I think, be thoughtful of 1187 00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:01,800 Speaker 2: this other person of the girl. 1188 00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:03,399 Speaker 1: The first one. You should bring your a game. Yeah 1189 00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:05,440 Speaker 1: like him, We now like you, and then we can 1190 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,319 Speaker 1: go right like then we can go to the hole 1191 00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,759 Speaker 1: in the wall like you. You got to really like 1192 00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 1: once you fuck with someone, it's great to do the. 1193 00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:14,160 Speaker 2: Show right exactly, but you want to get here sweating 1194 00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:14,760 Speaker 2: in the parking. 1195 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,480 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it is a truck. And then when 1196 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 1: I think I might have said, like you want me 1197 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:20,960 Speaker 1: to meet you a food truck, He's like, oh, they 1198 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 1: have feeding lo L And then I saw no o L, 1199 00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:25,920 Speaker 1: not this. There's nothing funny about you know the classroom. 1200 00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,640 Speaker 1: What about a bathroom? What about a bathroom? Yeah, what 1201 00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:29,080 Speaker 1: about it? 1202 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 2: But I think the sugar, the sugar coating on that 1203 00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:35,000 Speaker 2: is that he doesn't think of her and he's broke 1204 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,439 Speaker 2: and not trying to think of her, and we love 1205 00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 2: up in the past and we love effort. 1206 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 1: Well, ladies, thank y'all so much for joining us here 1207 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,560 Speaker 1: on Horrible Decisions. Let all of our listeners know follow 1208 00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:48,840 Speaker 1: you and listen to y'all. All right, y'all, we are 1209 00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,200 Speaker 1: on Instagram at Codependence co. 1210 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,719 Speaker 2: O d oh, it's like a t think people don't 1211 00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:59,640 Speaker 2: get the description of the Codependence Underscore undersco on Instagram 1212 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,160 Speaker 2: and talk and YouTube YouTube. 1213 00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I love that. Well, ladies, thank you, 1214 00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,920 Speaker 1: and y'all know we are on tour hont so make 1215 00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,080 Speaker 1: sure you go on over to horrre hive dot com. 1216 00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:15,200 Speaker 1: We are hitting the West coast and we are super excited, y'all. 1217 00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:17,840 Speaker 1: We are hitting Seattle, we are hitting La we are 1218 00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,160 Speaker 1: hitting the Bay, and we are hitting Phoenix. 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Yeah. 1228 00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:45,320 Speaker 2: We were just talking about doing like a codependence after 1229 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:46,640 Speaker 2: dark type of situation here. 1230 00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:50,840 Speaker 1: So it's great dark. Hey, well y'all, thank y'all for 1231 00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: tuning in to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. It's 1232 00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:03,160 Speaker 1: bonus be Should I just get on with it? I mean, 1233 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 1: you wanted to do this yesterday? So yeah, I literally 1234 00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:12,439 Speaker 1: jumped on Mandy and I's recording platform one day early 1235 00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:15,920 Speaker 1: because I was so mad. Now I'm more like exhausted. 1236 00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:24,959 Speaker 1: But basically the flea market, nigga. There was a fake 1237 00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:28,040 Speaker 1: page that wrote me on like Friday of last week 1238 00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 1: while I was in New York with this girl's Instagram 1239 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:39,640 Speaker 1: basically in a group chat saying what was I gonna say? Hey, 1240 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:43,040 Speaker 1: you both are dating xyz name just wanted you to 1241 00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:47,040 Speaker 1: meet each other. Clearly there's a third beach because this 1242 00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:51,760 Speaker 1: messy hoe started the group chat. Wait a second, you're 1243 00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:59,480 Speaker 1: getting right into it. Wait what is going on? So 1244 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:03,160 Speaker 1: you've been in New York for a couple of weeks, 1245 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:09,440 Speaker 1: you get a message from a bitch fake page. Oh 1246 00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:13,160 Speaker 1: it's a fake fake page sent me and another girl 1247 00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:18,720 Speaker 1: who lives in La saying, wait, a group chat, group chat, Beach, Actually, 1248 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,440 Speaker 1: I think sorry, not a group chat. She sent us 1249 00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:22,280 Speaker 1: all the same message. I think maybe she tried to 1250 00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:23,640 Speaker 1: do a group chat, but I don't allow for group 1251 00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,240 Speaker 1: chats cause it was like, hey, you guys are like 1252 00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 1: so whatever. So I don't see it because I'm sleep. 1253 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,200 Speaker 1: I just got back from you visa. So this nigga 1254 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,200 Speaker 1: calls me like seven pm New York time. He's like, Yo, 1255 00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,080 Speaker 1: do you see this shit? Now? There was a bitch 1256 00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:42,640 Speaker 1: who I think is the third Beach who basically had 1257 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,480 Speaker 1: been asking him about me and be like on my 1258 00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 1: Instagram and notice that I've like maybe posted it like 1259 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 1: a TV show with him or like whatever, and we'll 1260 00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:57,200 Speaker 1: like match up our stories. So this is the flea 1261 00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 1: market nigga, who remember we broke up recently because we 1262 01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:02,720 Speaker 1: both said we loved each other. He was celibate, right, 1263 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:10,000 Speaker 1: So I was like, how are you beeping over? He 1264 01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:14,120 Speaker 1: was laughing about it, so hold on. So I was like, yo, 1265 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,440 Speaker 1: what this shit is wild? Like why is these bitches 1266 01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:18,320 Speaker 1: writing me? Like whould you piss off? Ha ha ha? 1267 01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:23,000 Speaker 1: So then I click on the girl's page that she 1268 01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:27,160 Speaker 1: sent me, and I'm like, well, maybe you really were 1269 01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:30,040 Speaker 1: dating this girl, because like there's certain art galleries that 1270 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,439 Speaker 1: he would send me pictures from that she was at. 1271 01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,720 Speaker 1: There's a restaurant he always goes to and takes me 1272 01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:37,919 Speaker 1: too that she was at in just regular like grit 1273 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:40,520 Speaker 1: maybe the last few posts, and I was like, are 1274 01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:45,040 Speaker 1: you dating this bitch? And he's like, what do you mean? 1275 01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:49,760 Speaker 1: Like we hang out like we're cool. I'm like, brouh, 1276 01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 1: you're dating this bitch? Like stop lying to me, Like 1277 01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,760 Speaker 1: this isn't it? You're lying. I was like, how could 1278 01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:58,360 Speaker 1: that person have been right? The person was like Wheezy 1279 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:02,560 Speaker 1: talks about him on Horrible. He bought her this he 1280 01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:04,640 Speaker 1: came to New York or whatever. I can't remember what 1281 01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:05,920 Speaker 1: it was because she didn't send it to me. She 1282 01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:07,880 Speaker 1: sent to the other girl. The long story short, she 1283 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,760 Speaker 1: basically imploied, like showed all these ways that he knew me. 1284 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,200 Speaker 1: He spent his birth her birthday with him. It was true. 1285 01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:15,880 Speaker 1: My shit was true. So you telling me the shit 1286 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,320 Speaker 1: she said about the other bitches bake naw and then 1287 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:21,840 Speaker 1: who is the third home? So anyway, I just started 1288 01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:24,439 Speaker 1: having a breakdown. Mandy, I'm on my period. I'm fucking 1289 01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:28,240 Speaker 1: jet lagged this last Thursday or something, and he was like, yo, 1290 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:29,960 Speaker 1: like I'm on the phone with you. I'm not running 1291 01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,440 Speaker 1: from this, like I love you, I'm sorry that this 1292 01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:35,040 Speaker 1: is happening, Like, yes, I'm seeing this girl, but like 1293 01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,760 Speaker 1: it didn't really start up until you and I broke up, 1294 01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:39,760 Speaker 1: like I always kind of like knew her. We've been 1295 01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:43,400 Speaker 1: friends for years, and then it escalated. So the call 1296 01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:45,040 Speaker 1: ended because I was like, you know what, why am 1297 01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:48,360 Speaker 1: I hating about your current romantic choices? Like, yes, she 1298 01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:50,480 Speaker 1: is a post from February that you also had, but 1299 01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:53,360 Speaker 1: like whatever, I'm not. I was about to say, didn't 1300 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:56,120 Speaker 1: you you've been stopped seeing him. It was more about 1301 01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,919 Speaker 1: the lying, right, because me and him talk almost every 1302 01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:00,800 Speaker 1: other day, maybe we talked like three four times a week. 1303 01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 1: We were all I was sending him nudes and he 1304 01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:10,080 Speaker 1: visa like it was a thing. So anyway, basically I 1305 01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:12,400 Speaker 1: forget about it. Saturday, I go to Central Park and 1306 01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 1: I really sat there and I was like damn, like 1307 01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:20,160 Speaker 1: he was, so I'm all about this spiritual shit, I'm this, 1308 01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:22,720 Speaker 1: I'm that, And then like then how are there two 1309 01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:25,280 Speaker 1: other women involved? So I call him again in Central Park. 1310 01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,800 Speaker 1: I'm with Nina first off, and Nick could be in 1311 01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:31,120 Speaker 1: about spiritual shit does not mean other bitches or not, 1312 01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,560 Speaker 1: and he told me they weren't, so I believed his mouth, 1313 01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:35,520 Speaker 1: so so