Speaker 1: Elvis rand Presents off air show Sary Jones and Great
Speaker 1: Tea Episode one and Great t is not here today.
Speaker 1: Got Share hanging out with me and I think, David Brody,
Speaker 1: you'll be in just a couple of minutes. Um, I
Speaker 1: love it. I love when people get in touch with
Speaker 1: us Share. Yeah, I mean, I think we need more
Speaker 1: of that, a little bit more interaction. Right a hundred
Speaker 1: and forty episodes in, people are finally getting the knack
Speaker 1: that they can call us at one one hundred and
Speaker 1: uh get their their dirty laundry. We did say on
Speaker 1: yesterday's episode that you were gonna be here today, So
Speaker 1: I think that's why we have one of our listeners
Speaker 1: calling in in just a couple of seconds. The thing
Speaker 1: that's crazy is we did a really serious show yesterday.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you listened in on it. I did,
Speaker 1: I did. It was serious. It was the New Jersey
Speaker 1: Sharing Network. We're up here or up here and uh,
Speaker 1: you know the you know, our guy Tom came in.
Speaker 1: He had his heart replaced from the New Jersey Sharing Network.
Speaker 1: They gave him a heart. Um, it was crazy, crazy
Speaker 1: hour we spent with them, but it was necessary and
Speaker 1: we got a lot of awesome email too. Uh that
Speaker 1: came in overnight. Maybe we'll save it for later. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I want to bring the mood over
Speaker 1: to this again, but thank you for your email. You
Speaker 1: can always email us at the Affair Show at gmail
Speaker 1: dot com. Really great piece of email, which makes me
Speaker 1: because at first I'm like, should we really do a
Speaker 1: show like this? And after reading the email that we
Speaker 1: got the feedback after yesterday's show, I'm like, it's okay
Speaker 1: to have those kind of shows once in a while. Right,
Speaker 1: It's a little deeper, but it's something that's important and
Speaker 1: it needs to be shared. Yeah, that's right. But I
Speaker 1: do have to also say I loved some of the
Speaker 1: reactions the last time that I was on with the show. Knows,
Speaker 1: I know that that was a little bit more. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I guess should say deep, it's smart, but
Speaker 1: did we call it smartest into the weekend? Well, I
Speaker 1: have to tell you something scary. The message that's that
Speaker 1: I got the responses to that we're just overwhelming. There
Speaker 1: were people that actually went on some of the sites
Speaker 1: that I gave and said they didn't never knew that
Speaker 1: it existed, and they found things that that helped them.
Speaker 1: They spent that just reminding them about the weekend really
Speaker 1: was something that was like more inspirational. I loved all
Speaker 1: the remarks. Thank you everyone for everything that you send
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Speaker 1: That's right. And uh so, so we've been informational and
Speaker 1: we've been deep and smart and smart, and now we're
Speaker 1: going to change all that and get stupid. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what we need. Hi is this uh Renee? Your
Speaker 1: real name? My real name is Renee. You're cool with
Speaker 1: using your real name on the Affair Show. I'm okay
Speaker 1: with that too right now? I am. Maybe not later,
Speaker 1: but for now you are. As you're driving home, you're
Speaker 1: gonna be like, delete that file, take down the podcast,
Speaker 1: my parents list name edit, edit, edit, So you're you're
Speaker 1: a new fan of All Fair Show. We like that,
Speaker 1: You're not. Are you really an affair head? Just yet?
Speaker 1: Not yet? Right? Not yet. I'm super excited though it
Speaker 1: sounds really awesome. I think you need to binge listen
Speaker 1: to a few episodes to be an affair Yeah, and
Speaker 1: then you can join the nation and everything. Ye whole
Speaker 1: chat room after time. I don't. I don't even know
Speaker 1: what goes on in there. I think most of the
Speaker 1: time it doesn't talk about the show. They're fun people.
Speaker 1: If you like, if you like filthy memes, go into
Speaker 1: the Affair show chat room. Wait, may I suggest baby steps,
Speaker 1: Baby Steps, I want the air. It's a group chat
Speaker 1: on Facebook. It's great, it's awesome. You'll you'll be there
Speaker 1: all day, all night, and they get really filthy after
Speaker 1: dark too. Oh and it goes on. Yeah, but you
Speaker 1: get what. I have to work to devote my fat
Speaker 1: You have a job. Um, yeah, well we'll keep that
Speaker 1: off of this. So you wrote a couple of questions.
Speaker 1: You just spewing, like what's going on in your life?
Speaker 1: I mean, you have some stuff for share knows about
Speaker 1: getting sloppy drunk. I have a lot of things. I
Speaker 1: have a lot of things. I don't know if you
Speaker 1: can help, but clearly I'm not doing well on my own,
Speaker 1: so maybe you can help me. Try. So typically me
Speaker 1: and my friends just go out in the weekend, get
Speaker 1: super super sloppy and don't really remember what happened. You
Speaker 1: can say ship faced, but yeah, like belligerent, like just done.
Speaker 1: Black tapper, black app we'll talk backwards here, so it's
Speaker 1: tissue faced. Oh yeah, yeah, all of you above. But
Speaker 1: we also want like a marriage material man in our lives,
Speaker 1: but we don't really know how to balance like being
Speaker 1: black out and like throwing up and not really remembering
Speaker 1: anything finding a guy that will just take us on
Speaker 1: dates and paper ships. So how does one go to
Speaker 1: the bar, spent all of someone else's money and then
Speaker 1: still have someone that gives a shit about you at
Speaker 1: the end of the day. Oh my god, you've got
Speaker 1: you respected while you're barfing in the bucket. Yes, and
Speaker 1: someone to hold my hair back, not get pisto off.
Speaker 1: And you also want somebody wait, and you also want
Speaker 1: somebody that's going to assume that you want them to
Speaker 1: call you the next day, even though you're like, hey,
Speaker 1: just take me and my girls out, let's have a
Speaker 1: good time and see you later. Yet you really do
Speaker 1: want that call the next day? Yes, And I don't
Speaker 1: want Yeah, I don't assume that they're going to call it.
Speaker 1: And you can know that they're going to call. Real men,
Speaker 1: Real men can appreciate a woman in her worst time.
Speaker 1: What is there there? There's there's that saying. I always say,
Speaker 1: I always go back to it. If he doesn't deserve
Speaker 1: you at your worst, if he can't accept you at
Speaker 1: your worst, deserve you something that I don't know. If
Speaker 1: he can't, he cannot accep your worst, he doesn't deserve
Speaker 1: you at your best. But you should be able to
Speaker 1: be sloppy ship faced in front of him. And if
Speaker 1: he doesn't, if he doesn't respect you, he's not marriage
Speaker 1: material to begin with, red flag, move on, you've done
Speaker 1: yourself a face. Well, wait a second, though, it's scary.
Speaker 1: I agree, But wait a second. When that's the first meeting, though,
Speaker 1: it might be a little difficult because you're kind of
Speaker 1: starting to get to know each other. So it's almost
Speaker 1: like us because girls are girls are a little judgmental
Speaker 1: on this, right, scary. So let's say you go out
Speaker 1: with somebody and it's the first date or the first meeting,
Speaker 1: right and you're you're with people. Do you primarily go
Speaker 1: out with your girls on these meetings or you alone
Speaker 1: to try to do this m that's a really good point.
Speaker 1: I think the problem is we're meeting a lot of
Speaker 1: these people when we're wasted, so like I can't, like,
Speaker 1: we can't go out and meet them sober and then
Speaker 1: show we're like wasted either, you know, yeah, because who
Speaker 1: is this girl? Like? What planet is she? Froblem right,
Speaker 1: Because although I totally agree with Scary that you should
Speaker 1: be able to show somebody your worst and then they
Speaker 1: still accept you, it's hard when it's a first meeting,
Speaker 1: because first impressions really do count. I've said that a
Speaker 1: hundred times on the show that no matter what you do,
Speaker 1: whether it's just the style that you wear or the
Speaker 1: way that you present yourself and your confident I always
Speaker 1: say girls have to show like that confidence when they
Speaker 1: come in, even if they're a little nervous. But then
Speaker 1: it's like, you cantry, she wants even she wants to
Speaker 1: be able to be herself in front of these dudes.
Speaker 1: And if being herself means you know, tie in one true,
Speaker 1: well getting to the world. Okay, So here's an idea.
Speaker 1: Here's an idea. Maybe you should start out a little
Speaker 1: light for the night, like maybe try something a little new,
Speaker 1: maybe start the early hours. That wine is fine, but
Speaker 1: liquor is quicker. Ideah, pretty much, if you're starting out light,
Speaker 1: then you don't have the balls to talk to them either. No,
Speaker 1: that's where you're gonna do things different. You do have
Speaker 1: the balls to talk to them. You do, you would
Speaker 1: actually do. You are more confident than you realize. You
Speaker 1: don't need the alcohol. That's probably the first thing. You
Speaker 1: guys don't need the alcohol. Actually different muscles like guy,
Speaker 1: because muscles, yea to go up to talk to a guy,
Speaker 1: get beer muscles. Oh, I have been doing that lately.
Speaker 1: I have been doing that lately. My friends have been
Speaker 1: forcing me to do that, and that's time I did well.
Speaker 1: The last two times I did, the one guy warn
Speaker 1: and didn't speak English, so um I had to walk
Speaker 1: away a shame. And then the second time the guy said, oh,
Speaker 1: are you talking to me? Because I'm married, so I'm
Speaker 1: giving Okay, wait a second though, that's not your fault.
Speaker 1: Was he wearing a ring I couldn't see because I
Speaker 1: was wasted? Okay, okay, I get it, I get it.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, here's another thing. Do you have anybody
Speaker 1: in the group that could kind of be like the guider.
Speaker 1: Do you have like one of your girls that's maybe
Speaker 1: like not somebody that parties as much and maybe she
Speaker 1: could be like the designated Hey this week you do
Speaker 1: this or maybe you guys take turns here's an idea.
Speaker 1: You guys go out in groups, maybe somebody could take two. Okay,
Speaker 1: that is a really good idea. She also just likes
Speaker 1: to see us like get shut on, so she uses
Speaker 1: that to her advantage when he's not really a girl
Speaker 1: friends like that. You know, Um, David Brodie just walked in,
Speaker 1: by the way, Hello Brodie, please have a seat and
Speaker 1: hang with us for a while. We're talking to Renee
Speaker 1: on the phone. He's a brand new off airhead and
Speaker 1: she has, by the way, guys, five or six rapid
Speaker 1: fire questions. So that was just one. Yeah, so yeah,
Speaker 1: a couple about a half hour ago, and you told
Speaker 1: me we're gonna talk to through an a. You said
Speaker 1: one of her questions was, and I think I just
Speaker 1: caught the tail end of it, was how can I
Speaker 1: be a train wreck in a bar roughly and then
Speaker 1: find material? No? No No, no, no, no, I'm paraphrasing. I'm paraphrasing.
Speaker 1: You want to get drunk a little bit when a
Speaker 1: party a little bit? Right? What was the exact question
Speaker 1: that you want drunk but also found yourself a marriage material, boyfriend? Exact?
Speaker 1: All right? So here's what I would say is, as
Speaker 1: someone who I am married, and I am MARRIEDE married material.
Speaker 1: It's okay. Well listen, if you want to get married,
Speaker 1: don't be sorry for me. I'm I'm happy. I'm not complaining.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. If you're sloppy drunk, my thought
Speaker 1: is what kind of marriage material guy is going to
Speaker 1: approach you if you're sloppy drunk because he's looking for
Speaker 1: a girl. He can find his marriage material if you're
Speaker 1: slop but handling his alcohol like I don't know, but
Speaker 1: then he's not looking not wasted. Yeah, but they want
Speaker 1: the same Yeah, but that but that's just it. They
Speaker 1: want the same thing. It's like when you play tennis.
Speaker 1: Everybody wants to play tennis against someone better than them
Speaker 1: so they can get better. But then the other person
Speaker 1: doesn't want to play you because you're not. They want
Speaker 1: to play somebody better. You have to find someone that
Speaker 1: you expect the other person to want different things than
Speaker 1: you want. You expect the other person to handle a
Speaker 1: liquor well, but want someone who doesn't. But they might
Speaker 1: want someone who handles their liquor well, So maybe a corner. Listen,
Speaker 1: you may find someone that drinks the way you do,
Speaker 1: who is marriage material, but you're not going to learn
Speaker 1: that if you're both hammered. You just said you couldn't
Speaker 1: tell if the guy was wearing a ring, So I guess,
Speaker 1: I guess The question is what do you want more?
Speaker 1: Do you want to get hammered every single weekend or
Speaker 1: do you want to or do you want to invest
Speaker 1: one weekend a month to find the right guy? Or
Speaker 1: and also where are you going? Where? What types of
Speaker 1: places are you going? That might also point out why
Speaker 1: you're going to have this trouble. You know, there's different
Speaker 1: places that call different people, so maybe you could like
Speaker 1: team it down a little bit and go to like
Speaker 1: one place where you know there's more of I don't
Speaker 1: know what type of guy are looking for, but let's
Speaker 1: say you're looking for like a business exact that's like
Speaker 1: a young business exactly, you know, might be towards that
Speaker 1: time in his life that he wants to get married.
Speaker 1: Maybe there are certain places people can go you know
Speaker 1: this that there's more of that professional crowd, and then
Speaker 1: there's more the let's just get damn drunk crowd, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess, So, I mean, okay, I want
Speaker 1: someone that's like borrowing perfect but not too perfect you're
Speaker 1: gonna make you look really bad. So someone that like
Speaker 1: dresses nice, smells nice, doesn't get too wasted, doesn't throw
Speaker 1: up because I have to throw up, has a good job,
Speaker 1: can speed me. It's how to hold your hair back.
Speaker 1: Your hair knows how to pull your hair and hold
Speaker 1: your hair back. I love it. Yeah, you guys get me?
Speaker 1: Why can you be the boys at the bar table
Speaker 1: that one for a while. But I think a guy
Speaker 1: has to get to know you sober before he's gonna
Speaker 1: love you drunk. If but but if I'm gonna want
Speaker 1: to cuddle you and coddle you and take care of
Speaker 1: you and fall in love with you, I want to
Speaker 1: fall in love with you. So if you are the
Speaker 1: drunker all the time, then you're asking someone to fall
Speaker 1: in love with a drunk girl. But if you're asking
Speaker 1: if you're asking for someone to fall in love with
Speaker 1: who you are when you're sober, and then love you
Speaker 1: despite the fact that you're drunk, and get a kick
Speaker 1: out of it and get amused by you, that's fine.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like when you love someone, it doesn't
Speaker 1: matter if they chew with their mouth open or they
Speaker 1: have ugly two tonnails, or whatever that whatever their things are,
Speaker 1: because you already love them, but if you saw their
Speaker 1: tone nails on the first date, you would never fall
Speaker 1: in love with them. So so you need to keep
Speaker 1: your demons in check so he can fall in love
Speaker 1: with you and overlook your demons. Okay, and here's one
Speaker 1: last note. I think you need to challenge yourself. I
Speaker 1: want you to try that's okay. I think you need
Speaker 1: to raise the confidence bar for yourself. I think you
Speaker 1: should really try being sober and see who who you
Speaker 1: are and see if you like who you are going
Speaker 1: up to guys, because you're never gonna know. No, I
Speaker 1: guarantee you're not. You're not. You just need to And
Speaker 1: if you are, wait a second. If you are, there's
Speaker 1: probably a guy out there that's gonna love you for
Speaker 1: That leads into our next question. Sounds a little jealous.
Speaker 1: Here's the question number two from Renee. What do you
Speaker 1: do if you see your boy is liking other girls
Speaker 1: ship on Instagram? Oh the social media drama. So you
Speaker 1: see you're dating a dude, You're going down his Instagram
Speaker 1: feed and you see in your news feed he like
Speaker 1: this person, this person, this person, all these pictures and
Speaker 1: it's all other women. Oh boy, that's a problem, and
Speaker 1: ask him like what if it's his fucking cousin, Like
Speaker 1: I don't know, and then you look crazy like yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why. That's why. Okay, So at the beginning are
Speaker 1: you talking like the beginning when you first start dating somebody? Yeah, okay, fine, right,
Speaker 1: so get right, okay, So here's one thing. Don't look.
Speaker 1: I've tried to explain this to people over and over,
Speaker 1: the stalking idea of no listen, sen to me. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you this. If you look, you're gonna drive yourself
Speaker 1: crazy and you're gonna end up looking like an idiot.
Speaker 1: That's the problem because we people, people will assume, we
Speaker 1: will assume that's what we are. We're creatures of habit.
Speaker 1: We look at things were very we're innately, we're curious.
Speaker 1: Try to cut the curiosity, Try to cut that down
Speaker 1: and not look, because you're gonna put yourself into a hole.
Speaker 1: And chances are that one girl you look at is
Speaker 1: you're gonna look write something stupid. But I will say,
Speaker 1: as time goes on, and I don't think this is bad.
Speaker 1: If you could wait a little bit before you start
Speaker 1: doing that. And it's a real natural progression into you know,
Speaker 1: being around each other and everything, and you see some
Speaker 1: repetition on something. I do think social media does say
Speaker 1: a lot. I think people use it as a screen
Speaker 1: to hide behind what they're doing, and I think that
Speaker 1: it is something people need to recognize. If someone's hitting
Speaker 1: on the same pictures over and over, they're talking. People
Speaker 1: do have relationships online, so you've got to be a
Speaker 1: little careful with that, but keep it to the end.
Speaker 1: A girlfriend, don't be the jealous girlfriend. Cool girlfriends, you know,
Speaker 1: because quite honestly, you know, he could be just randomly
Speaker 1: selecting stuff and just liking stuff to maybe get more
Speaker 1: people to follow him or some stuff like that, so
Speaker 1: you just don't know it's true. I think she's thinking
Speaker 1: more about the repetition of like a single person like
Speaker 1: Instagram model, and what if they're real tists, does that
Speaker 1: change it. I don't have that kind of money. Sharon
Speaker 1: brought up a good point. It could be his cousin,
Speaker 1: it could be a friend, whatever he is. One of
Speaker 1: the things that to take into consideration is he liking
Speaker 1: a picture of a girl by the Eiffel Tower on
Speaker 1: her vacation or is he liking her picture at the
Speaker 1: beach in a bikini or is he is he liking
Speaker 1: a picture that he had to go back and scroll
Speaker 1: seventy posts to find a good one, Because if he's
Speaker 1: going back to see summer and he's liking it, then
Speaker 1: he's trying to get her attention and hoping you don't notice. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you should never like another girl's bikini picture. You like
Speaker 1: her picture with her dog. Oh that's a cute puppy,
Speaker 1: but you should never like look at her blouse. Puppies.
Speaker 1: And that's what that's what they want you to say. Oh, well, chill,
Speaker 1: I like because the puppy was cute, Like you don't
Speaker 1: care about the puppy kind of that's why. But that's
Speaker 1: but that's why she But that's but that's why. Shar
Speaker 1: was right. You can't stalk him on Instagram or Twitter
Speaker 1: what you don't know him. When you know him for
Speaker 1: three months, you will know if he loves dogs. You
Speaker 1: will know if he loves the cup of coffee. He's
Speaker 1: like that girl, I love that coffee mug. You know
Speaker 1: I collect coffee mugs. You'll know more. You'll know more
Speaker 1: about his cousin's a bikini model, and that's the girl
Speaker 1: that he's hitting on because he's just being supported. If
Speaker 1: your cousin's a bikini model, you still shouldn't be like
Speaker 1: the pictures because then it's creepy, creep out their model.
Speaker 1: You call your cousin and you say, it's like my pictures.
Speaker 1: I'm finding out the boys. I'm funny. Girl shouldn't be
Speaker 1: doing I say, your pictures. This is I'm finding out
Speaker 1: the kind of person that Renee is. By the way,
Speaker 1: just from the the questions and the progression of them,
Speaker 1: here comes another fun one from Renee. Renee, you're just
Speaker 1: fully we just have you on us. We have a
Speaker 1: couple more from you, and then we didn't we didn't
Speaker 1: get to our official share nos of the week. But
Speaker 1: how do you here's another question? How do you hook
Speaker 1: up with someone if you live at home? So how
Speaker 1: do you actually remember when I told you, I'm not like,
Speaker 1: I'm really hoping my parents ever hear this. If you're
Speaker 1: if if you're in a house with your family, I
Speaker 1: was gonna the first thing I was gonna say was
Speaker 1: what kind of house is it? You know, if you're
Speaker 1: not if you're not in a separate quarters, if if
Speaker 1: you're if you're in a high ranch or a regular
Speaker 1: traditional home. I think you're limiting what you can do
Speaker 1: because you're talking the bedrooms are probably all on the
Speaker 1: same floor, and there's people around you all the time.
Speaker 1: I used to come home at like night, like late
Speaker 1: night with I used to live at home until I
Speaker 1: was like twenty four, and I used to show up
Speaker 1: around I used to go out around nine or ten,
Speaker 1: knowing my parents went to bed at eleven, and then
Speaker 1: I'd hang out and then run around midnight. I'd come
Speaker 1: back and I would use the living room downstairs. You
Speaker 1: got to use use that floor. I guess you could
Speaker 1: do that. I mean, so I did the typical like
Speaker 1: post grad thing, and I just forced my parents to
Speaker 1: give me the basement and I redid it. Okay, so easy, okay,
Speaker 1: but you have to hear the problem. So the only
Speaker 1: way in and out to go down there, there's no door.
Speaker 1: You have to use the garage, which literally makes so
Speaker 1: much noise. And I knew you were going to say
Speaker 1: that how to open the garage door at seven am?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, how to let my friend go home?
Speaker 1: Like so the only way al is through the garage. Mh, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding enough to fit through the here's a
Speaker 1: little trick for you. There's a release on the garage
Speaker 1: door where you can lift it manually and it won't
Speaker 1: make any noise. And if you're going out with a
Speaker 1: plan to bring him home and you don't and you
Speaker 1: think the house is secure, no one's gonna notice unlocked
Speaker 1: the latch inside before you leave, so you can open
Speaker 1: it manually outside. Yeah, you're welcome. Now. However, do you
Speaker 1: have an alarm on the house? Yeah, but no one
Speaker 1: puts it on, so there's no tiger. There's no dinger
Speaker 1: that goes off as you walk in and out. There's
Speaker 1: something like that. Okay, you know, the only thing is
Speaker 1: is that you know the fact that you're living at
Speaker 1: home isn't really the problem. There's a lot of people
Speaker 1: that go back home nowadays and stay until they want to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, revamp their careers or do this or do that.
Speaker 1: So if you're actually at home, is there any way
Speaker 1: that you could kind of have this like relationship with
Speaker 1: your family where you're like, hey, it's not that you're
Speaker 1: like bringing somebody into bang them. I mean, they're not
Speaker 1: going to go for that. But I think that the
Speaker 1: idea would be that Hey, listen, I'm maybe in and out.
Speaker 1: I maybe you know, I'm doing my own thing, yes,
Speaker 1: but I might be in and out of the house
Speaker 1: on random nights, you know. Can you just respect the
Speaker 1: fact that I'm not, you know, like I'm I'm back
Speaker 1: and forth, like I'm not checking in with you guys.
Speaker 1: Obviously I'm old enough to not check in. I have
Speaker 1: the place downstairs for a little privacy, you know, when
Speaker 1: my girlfriends are coming in or whatever have you. I
Speaker 1: I just want to keep able to go and come
Speaker 1: as I please and down. Yeah, kind of like a
Speaker 1: garage store that doesn't have a anyway, how old? How old?
Speaker 1: But listen, at twenty four, your dad doesn't think that
Speaker 1: you're a virgin. He doesn't. He's smart enough to know
Speaker 1: that you don't. I don't know. Well all right then
Speaker 1: that so, so a couple of options from my from
Speaker 1: my microphone. Number one, you talk to your mom because
Speaker 1: that's easier, and you say, mom, listen, I want to
Speaker 1: have a social life. And you wanted to make him
Speaker 1: my husband, even you and Daddy had that first time.
Speaker 1: And remember when you were drunk all the time and
Speaker 1: Dad looked overlooked at um. You could ask I don't
Speaker 1: know the relationship we have your mother, but at some
Speaker 1: point she'll be she you can relate to you, and
Speaker 1: you can talk to her and say, listen, if the
Speaker 1: time comes when I want to bring someone back to
Speaker 1: you know, I have some coffee, will dessert, whatever you know,
Speaker 1: is that gonna be a problem for dad? Is he
Speaker 1: gonna have you know, maybe that you come up with
Speaker 1: an arrangement that the guy can't sleep over and he's
Speaker 1: got to come and go as he pleases. Whatever. Number
Speaker 1: number two, the guy's gonna maybe the guy has an apartment.
Speaker 1: You can hook up at his place. Number three. They
Speaker 1: do make places called hotels where you can go and
Speaker 1: hook up. When we've done a prostitute. No no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no no no. Listen, listen, listen listen. Hotel Yeah,
Speaker 1: why had a hotel? Right? So when I first saw
Speaker 1: the same hotel? Yeah, my god, not at the same time,
Speaker 1: is from Brooklyn, I'm from Motel the Golden Gate. Okay,
Speaker 1: so when I when I this is like a thing
Speaker 1: cupids fantasy, the Q motor in Okay. Listen. When I
Speaker 1: started dating my wife, she lived at home, she was
Speaker 1: she was younger than you. But at some point she
Speaker 1: was around your age, still living at home. She was
Speaker 1: in college, and you're both are living at home. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're both living at home. So Number one, I had
Speaker 1: a big car. There's that big card. Number two number
Speaker 1: Oh please, you never had sex in the car? Okay, alright.
Speaker 1: Second of all, you pick a nice hotel. Doesn't have
Speaker 1: to be a doesn't have to be an hourly motel.
Speaker 1: You say, you know what, there's a really nice radisson.
Speaker 1: They do a nice brunch whatever. And you say, you
Speaker 1: know what, we're gonna go out to dinner, we'll go
Speaker 1: to a movie, we're gonna have a couple of drinks.
Speaker 1: Not worry about driving. Maybe you go to a place
Speaker 1: like this. There's a there's a place near near me
Speaker 1: in New Jersey. I don't know where you you're in
Speaker 1: New York. There's a place, there's there's a there's a
Speaker 1: beautiful Hilton that has a Root's Chris steakhouse. Oh, actually,
Speaker 1: I know where you're talking about. Go to a nice dinner.
Speaker 1: You go to a nice dinner at the steakhouse. You
Speaker 1: have a room reserved, and if the evening goes well,
Speaker 1: you retire to your room as if you were home,
Speaker 1: and you just go let's go up to the room,
Speaker 1: which you're not charging him. I agree with all that.
Speaker 1: The thing is is that when she's when she's saying
Speaker 1: something about her house. Is it because, like Renee, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to see if there's a reason you're asking specifically
Speaker 1: for that. Is it because you haven't thought of hotel
Speaker 1: ideas in this and that, or is it because you're
Speaker 1: really thinking a little bit more about the fact that, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm out, I'm close to my house and I just
Speaker 1: want to take this guy back home and I don't
Speaker 1: know how to do this anymore. Is that kind of
Speaker 1: why you're picking the house? Yeah, I mean because I
Speaker 1: feel like it's like everywhere we go out is fairly close,
Speaker 1: and then you're like ship, like I live at home,
Speaker 1: so I can't do that. Well, here's a good suggestion, though,
Speaker 1: and it did. Brodie did come out with it. If
Speaker 1: this guy can't take you back to his place, I
Speaker 1: almost see other issues with that. I think you should
Speaker 1: push the fact of going back to his place. But
Speaker 1: I also say be careful, because I'm not the person
Speaker 1: that tells a girl on a first night to go
Speaker 1: back to a guy's place. I always say play it
Speaker 1: a little cool, and I'll tell you one other thing
Speaker 1: to night. And I don't know if the guys will
Speaker 1: agree with this. There's always exceptions, Okay, this is never
Speaker 1: like the like completely the only way to do this.
Speaker 1: But I don't think you should go home with the guy.
Speaker 1: If you want to really try to keep him as
Speaker 1: the guy. That might be something that could be more.
Speaker 1: You may want to wait to let second date anyway,
Speaker 1: to go home with him. And I'm seeing Scary's face here.
Speaker 1: He's smiling at me. But I swear to you if
Speaker 1: you could hold off, you have no idea the respect
Speaker 1: you get as a woman. I saw you guys. I
Speaker 1: hate to say this. I'm not trying to block you, okay,
Speaker 1: I think I think that you should do that, and
Speaker 1: then then you don't have the problem of the you
Speaker 1: know that that weirdness, because guess what, now you're on
Speaker 1: another platform with him, and you could say to them, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: I just want to be honest with you. I live
Speaker 1: at home right now. It's a little weird for me.
Speaker 1: Where do you live. Then you also can feel more
Speaker 1: confident going back to his place. It's a win win situation.
Speaker 1: You've earned his respect. He might be somebody who get
Speaker 1: to know better, and at this point you can feel
Speaker 1: comfortable going back to his place or being honest with
Speaker 1: him and saying, hey, listen, it's a little uncomfortable. And
Speaker 1: you both, if you both live at home and you
Speaker 1: do want to do the hotel option, do what I
Speaker 1: did and go check into the Hourly hotel where the
Speaker 1: guy who's accepting your money behind the counter is behindproof glass.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And wait, there's a room, pick a
Speaker 1: good fan. There's also the Cubist Fantasy and the jungle suite.
Speaker 1: There was another one at the and just remember and
Speaker 1: a wherever you're having got wherever you're having sex, he's
Speaker 1: there also. So don't feel like, well if I go
Speaker 1: on the slut, well then he's an asshole. So you're
Speaker 1: even Yeah, it's not just like what your image is.
Speaker 1: If you feel something for somebody and you want to
Speaker 1: be intimate with them, then the setting is not important.
Speaker 1: That's actually where you should be. You a little bit
Speaker 1: more than that first night when you're meeting him and
Speaker 1: you're just kind of intoxicated galore. Maybe the real you
Speaker 1: needs to come out. Like I'm saying, keep the confidence up,
Speaker 1: be you, And I think that's all kind of every
Speaker 1: single question kind of goes back to the confidence level
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. Here's here's the last one.
Speaker 1: How about this one? I love you? Yeah, I love
Speaker 1: Here's How do you make conversation with people when you're
Speaker 1: sober at a Starbucks without being creepy? So it doesn't
Speaker 1: have to be for the record, of course. Example, Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a new there's a new vanilla mocachi. No, we're
Speaker 1: all peppermint, and you just say, excuse me, have you
Speaker 1: ever had that? I'm thinking of trying a new drink
Speaker 1: and I don't know any have you tried it? Is
Speaker 1: it any good time? I was a manager in an area,
Speaker 1: trainer for Starbucks. I sold the first rappuccino in New
Speaker 1: York State. Thank you? Oh my god, he's here, stuffy
Speaker 1: waiting for your drinks. Do you like to Hey, did
Speaker 1: you give him a fake name? I know, I did
Speaker 1: you know? How that kind of thing? You know? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you go? You know what? Every time I'm here,
Speaker 1: they're so that's the slowest Starbucks in the area. But
Speaker 1: what if it's not. Well, I'm just saying these are
Speaker 1: examples right right now, asking about a new drink is
Speaker 1: a way to break Doway, what are you drinking Grande? Yeah,
Speaker 1: the the Unicorn listen. I think this is I think
Speaker 1: that's a good A good thing for you actually is
Speaker 1: to start talking to people during the day and like
Speaker 1: walking out the people when you're sober. I think you're
Speaker 1: going to I think you're going to find a new you.
Speaker 1: I think the fact that you're even calling the show
Speaker 1: and you're talking the way you are, you are a
Speaker 1: lot more outcoming than you realize. And the idea of
Speaker 1: talking at people. I could talk to a wall. So
Speaker 1: for me, I don't know, I could walk up to
Speaker 1: anybody and start talking. The quality of guy you're gonna
Speaker 1: meet in the daylight is going to be better. Yeah
Speaker 1: you know that because Scary goes to clubs, Dick. But
Speaker 1: you know what, I love the nighttime meeting and I
Speaker 1: love the daytime meeting, but the night left. Yeah, well
Speaker 1: that's it, that's exactly play it. Can you play that
Speaker 1: for a Scary? Can you play that? Parents? He does
Speaker 1: the voice here? Your parents definitely made made whoopie to
Speaker 1: the song. Yeah, people like when I do this, I
Speaker 1: don't know why, I don't tell me. If you ever
Speaker 1: heard of the song, you ever heard the song records
Speaker 1: should get you in the mood to talk to someone
Speaker 1: Renee about love tonight. Please don't talk about please don't
Speaker 1: talk about these don't all lands. My head's a broken romance.
Speaker 1: I want to go with the people shown to get
Speaker 1: I love the Nightline. I got it on the Oh
Speaker 1: my God, so so put that in your mind. The
Speaker 1: next time that you see someone, and it's during the day,
Speaker 1: make yourself laugh a little, put on that smile and
Speaker 1: just kind of let it flow. Keep it light though
Speaker 1: when you talk to them. Don't you could use the
Speaker 1: same same technique when you're out at the bar, you know,
Speaker 1: when you're standing up at a bar. I actually go
Speaker 1: out alone a lot of times because I like the
Speaker 1: challenge of having to meet people. I think it's kind
Speaker 1: of cool and you you kind of go out and
Speaker 1: you're like, you kind of just hang out. You know,
Speaker 1: people are also I'll tell you another thing about when
Speaker 1: you're going out and you're meeting guys, it's almost easier
Speaker 1: during the day to meet somebody that's quality because you're alone.
Speaker 1: Usually when you go out in a group of girls,
Speaker 1: and I don't know if the guys could could help
Speaker 1: me out with this, I find that it becomes something
Speaker 1: that's more intimidating to a guy also to come up
Speaker 1: to you. You may actually find somebody. I seriously talk
Speaker 1: to a ton of people when I go out because
Speaker 1: I roll out alone. And it's something you have to
Speaker 1: learn to do. You've got to be comfortable in your
Speaker 1: own skin and do it. But it's fun. It's actually
Speaker 1: fun to do. Or maybe by groups of girls. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I feel right, and I feel like if you
Speaker 1: just tried it a little bit or maybe listen, how
Speaker 1: about this go an hour earlier to the bar than
Speaker 1: your girls. I'm afraid to penetrate your circle, but you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, hey itself. Oh my god, now
Speaker 1: you are. You're awesome. You're like a new part to
Speaker 1: this whole podcast. We're like so happy to you. Do
Speaker 1: you feel like like a changed person? We wanted to
Speaker 1: report from you in a couple of weeks when you know,
Speaker 1: try some of these tactics when you have enough date
Speaker 1: let us know right to us or get in touch okay,
Speaker 1: and make sure it makes you proud, and make sure
Speaker 1: you write in to share nose too, so I can
Speaker 1: hear what you're doing and I could bring it alive
Speaker 1: on the off air show. Sometimes I will so I'll
Speaker 1: embarrass myself yet again with the bad news. I'm supporting.
Speaker 1: You're not talking you with day's pay for sitting here
Speaker 1: slacking off for the past half hour wherever they probably are.
Speaker 1: They probably are probably, but listen, it might be worth it.
Speaker 1: You might just find your husband now, Yes exactly, you're
Speaker 1: some rich dude. Take care of you for the rest
Speaker 1: of your life. Then you're all. You know, you'll be
Speaker 1: all set that half an hour won't matter, That's right,
Speaker 1: Thank you? By re name, oh my god, also know
Speaker 1: the name just by ready. Singer Forna knows Bertie. She
Speaker 1: comes in here with a clipboard every week. I know
Speaker 1: she writes notes down, more prepared than Greg Te will
Speaker 1: ever be for anything. I don't think there's a comparison
Speaker 1: need right there. Actually Gregg likes to wing it off
Speaker 1: the top of his round head. Well no, he actually yesterday,
Speaker 1: in all fairness, or two days ago, he put together
Speaker 1: a five page outline of the show and he he
Speaker 1: had very important things to him and we got through
Speaker 1: a lot of material. But this stuff here is all scribbled.
Speaker 1: You know, you're not type definitely, thing about hold on
Speaker 1: a second, I just want to say this, Okay, you're
Speaker 1: not supposed to be able to read it. Deliberately wrote
Speaker 1: it even more messy today for you, so you can't
Speaker 1: see anything that's on here. Okay, what do we have
Speaker 1: going on? Alright? So, um, Caroline one of our off airheads,
Speaker 1: A few others have written in about the Carolin Thompson
Speaker 1: from the off air Answer had Army. That's right. So
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks back, Sorry we're getting to this
Speaker 1: so late, but um, a couple of weeks back, she
Speaker 1: had mentioned that she's gonna be going to Mexico's favorite
Speaker 1: place right now. There we go, really Mexico experience. Let's
Speaker 1: see if I hit on one of the reasons why
Speaker 1: you didn't have a good experience. I'm gonna am I
Speaker 1: going to get it Mexico. He had a great time
Speaker 1: in Mexico, that was silent the first time the trip,
Speaker 1: that he wasn't on the toilet that half the trip. Okay, continue, yeah,
Speaker 1: go ahead read it okay. So um, basically, so basically,
Speaker 1: so everybody's been writing in about this idea of doing
Speaker 1: and all around the world we share. So I have
Speaker 1: a couple of tips, specifically for Mexico for Caroline, and
Speaker 1: then a couple of things that will flow over to
Speaker 1: some other areas when you get outside the country. So
Speaker 1: here we go. You ready, here are some things to
Speaker 1: run off your list. Hotels, the beaches, safety, tipping, around
Speaker 1: the world. Music, Yeah, come on, give me some music
Speaker 1: from Mexico and around the world, around the world by
Speaker 1: daft punk song continue okay, stop ready, rental cars getting
Speaker 1: the best rates, and a cell phone trick. So here
Speaker 1: we go. So hotels, guys, you know that when you
Speaker 1: go to Mexico, a lot of the stuff's all inclusive.
Speaker 1: I think Elvis Duran's show did that right, all inclusive.
Speaker 1: So here's some things that have come up. If you
Speaker 1: don't do the all inclusive as you do, you can
Speaker 1: do an airbnb real popular right now all around the world,
Speaker 1: all around the world, all around the world. He la
Speaker 1: la la, you man laugh, la la la. I don't
Speaker 1: know what to say. It goes okay, So if you
Speaker 1: do the hotel. Um things came up about trip Advisor. Definitely, definitely,
Speaker 1: definitely go to trip Advisor. I don't know do you
Speaker 1: guys use trip Advisor. It is amazing. I did not
Speaker 1: know how great it was until recently it is kick ass.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, if people are not loving
Speaker 1: their hotel stays, they let you hear about. If they
Speaker 1: see a bug like one bug, you will know about it.
Speaker 1: I mean, this stuff is hardcoreports. Don't even get me
Speaker 1: started on the bugs. So people really give you an
Speaker 1: up to date. They include safety things on there. Also,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna go to their The thing about tipping
Speaker 1: comes up a lot. You don't have to tip. I
Speaker 1: know that I'm somebody that likes to tip, but when
Speaker 1: you're at an all inclusive, you actually the biggest question
Speaker 1: was do you have to tip? In Mexico it has
Speaker 1: specifically said you can tip if they go out of
Speaker 1: their way for you, but you actually don't have to
Speaker 1: tip at the all inclusive, so keep that in mind.
Speaker 1: Depending upon the pipe range. That extra dotted line there
Speaker 1: that says gratuity. So yeah, but wait, propina means that
Speaker 1: the tip has already included on the bill, and I
Speaker 1: guarantee you look at the bill closely. It says that
Speaker 1: somewhere they have said specifically that they include ten on
Speaker 1: all the bills, so you have already actually paid for it.
Speaker 1: But again, if somebody goes out of their way. I say,
Speaker 1: kind of hit it up. At the airbnbs, guys, here's
Speaker 1: the thing to know. And at the hotels the parking.
Speaker 1: Make sure if you get a rental car, which we're
Speaker 1: gonna hitt on soon, do not just get a rental car,
Speaker 1: make sure parkings included. Some of the hotels that are
Speaker 1: all inclusive don't have parking for you, so that's a
Speaker 1: real problem. Sometimes they bang you over the head, which
Speaker 1: is gonna kill you because now you thought you had
Speaker 1: this totally covered and all of a sudden boom, So
Speaker 1: that's another thing. No, it's crazy though, right, scary like
Speaker 1: all these little hidden fees come up. Also with the
Speaker 1: rental cars guys. With the airbnb is a lot of
Speaker 1: times they don't bring it up because it's not included.
Speaker 1: You better ask them if that's included, if wifi's included.
Speaker 1: You have to make sure all that stuff is included.
Speaker 1: It sounds like something I had a time because it
Speaker 1: sounds like something that would definitely be included. But when
Speaker 1: I go away, I have to make sure I emphasize it.
Speaker 1: And I've gotten emails back that have said, no, really sorry,
Speaker 1: but our house doesn't include WiFi, like how do you
Speaker 1: survive without? I mean really right, how are you gonna
Speaker 1: listen to the off air show? So you're talking about
Speaker 1: being around the world. Song is called around the World
Speaker 1: a world headline, golf Ball on Sunday, You're You're the
Speaker 1: songs the Chilie Coppers, bad songs like oh yes you
Speaker 1: should up for you all? Just Drant shows this boy
Speaker 1: around the world. We can make time continue. This is like,
Speaker 1: this is better, this is more all right. So the
Speaker 1: beach it like the beaches for all inclusive guys, right,
Speaker 1: it's included. You go to an airbnb, guess what, they're
Speaker 1: not included. But there's a trick, especially in Mexico, when
Speaker 1: you go to the beaches, ask the restaurant to put
Speaker 1: you out on the beach. Don't go up to the
Speaker 1: chair guy and get put out on the beach. It's
Speaker 1: a separate fee. If you go to the restaurants and
Speaker 1: you actually saying they will never list this for you.
Speaker 1: So listen to me. If you go to a beach, okay,
Speaker 1: that's not part of the all inclusive because you're doing
Speaker 1: an airbnb and you're in Toloom, you're somewhere. You go
Speaker 1: to the beaches okay, and you go to the restaurant
Speaker 1: part first that's out on the on the beach, ask
Speaker 1: them do you have a package for chairs on the beach?
Speaker 1: I want to eat on the water And they will
Speaker 1: actually tell you yes, if you spend x amount of pastos,
Speaker 1: you get the chairs and the umbrellas for free. If
Speaker 1: you just go to the beach and you go to
Speaker 1: the beach part and say can I have an umbrella
Speaker 1: and chairs? They actually charge you separate not what do
Speaker 1: you mean it doesn't happen? And do you mean they
Speaker 1: don't charge? But I'm telling you this is out of
Speaker 1: country Okay, this is all out of country stuff that
Speaker 1: we're geting to go to a restaurant, nightlife club action.
Speaker 1: You sit there, you go have dinner at the restaurant.
Speaker 1: That does not guarantee you admission to the club outside,
Speaker 1: all right, like in Vegas? Yeah no, no, no, totally separate,
Speaker 1: that's totally separate. What the so, So this is a
Speaker 1: good trick though for Mexico. I'm telling you this is
Speaker 1: a good trick for that. The other thing is is
Speaker 1: that you want to pay and pay, so it's do
Speaker 1: not give them a credit card. I'm telling you right now,
Speaker 1: they hit you with an extra fee if you pay
Speaker 1: by credit card when you do that little finagling on
Speaker 1: the beach. Come on, man, Mr Thrift, come on, I
Speaker 1: love it. I didn't know that though, Well, why I
Speaker 1: listen to the show. The next thing, if you're on
Speaker 1: the beach, don't leave your important things on the beach people.
Speaker 1: Something I went to Rio in Brazil. I was told
Speaker 1: by the people at the resort, Hey, we know you're
Speaker 1: gonna go across the street to the beach, which is
Speaker 1: a public beach and is also the Atlantic Ocean. When
Speaker 1: you're there, Uh, don't leave anything. Don't leave you sunglasses,
Speaker 1: don't leave your shirt like anything, right, leave your towel.
Speaker 1: I left, I left my kids gone. Did you wear
Speaker 1: bright colors? Okay? I mean, how do I how do
Speaker 1: I even call that a vacation. I don't call it
Speaker 1: a vacation. When I came back, I was more stressed
Speaker 1: than when I left. I needed a vacation when I
Speaker 1: got back. So so that must paces where I can't
Speaker 1: leave my ship. Yeah, but I don't think anybody could
Speaker 1: leave stuff anywhere nowadays. And this was going to lead
Speaker 1: into the next thing. So towel, Well, I don't listen.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying take the towel into the water. Okay,
Speaker 1: here's what I was going to suggest for like, go
Speaker 1: over to bed bath, get yourself into the waterproof cases. Okay,
Speaker 1: you could actually keep your phone in it. You could
Speaker 1: put a passport in it. If you decide to take
Speaker 1: your passport, you get to put your passport in it.
Speaker 1: Wave the room. Well, and this is something else I
Speaker 1: was gonna say, cash and your pastos when we're in
Speaker 1: Mexico or wherever you are. Um, I suggest you also
Speaker 1: hide things in three locations. So I suggest you use
Speaker 1: the safe in the room Florida, if you New York,
Speaker 1: Cayman Islands, know, if you're going to take Now, I'm
Speaker 1: telling you you need to do this. Take an extra
Speaker 1: little lock for your suitcase. Lock something in a pair
Speaker 1: of shorts, like put it, put some money in a
Speaker 1: pair of shorts in your in your hotel room, fold
Speaker 1: it over and lock it in the suitcase. Now, then
Speaker 1: you find money, Then you're happy because you find money.
Speaker 1: Then you're thrilled. Email yourself where you put the three
Speaker 1: things now, because if your phone gets saken and I'm
Speaker 1: not going to get his email. So Here's the thing though,
Speaker 1: make sure you do that because I'm telling you could
Speaker 1: actually carry little safety things that have locks on them.
Speaker 1: Keep things separate though, Guys, especially Carol, when you go there,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, there's there's hotel issues, no matter what
Speaker 1: what's range hotel you're in. You could be in the
Speaker 1: hop top notch hotel. There's issues in every hotel. If
Speaker 1: somebody wants to take something, they'll take it. Airbnb is
Speaker 1: you have even more of a chance because of the
Speaker 1: fact that you know there's there's a flow of different
Speaker 1: people coming in and out. You hope that they're locking
Speaker 1: the doors the right way. Just make sure you keep
Speaker 1: yourself separate. Okay. The next thing is is that when
Speaker 1: you are tipping in Mexico, here's a little trick also
Speaker 1: if you're not going to tip on the bill because
Speaker 1: you don't have to. It's very similar to France with
Speaker 1: the idea that you don't have to leave a gratuity
Speaker 1: that's extra. There is a rule with drinks you're supposed
Speaker 1: to leave tens per drink out a bar, So make
Speaker 1: sure you do that because they really frown upon it,
Speaker 1: and you don't want them frowning upon your drinks, so
Speaker 1: I suggest that you do that. Um. The next thing
Speaker 1: is download two apps. I don't know if you guys
Speaker 1: have these, but the translator app and the Units plus
Speaker 1: app for the pass to US D dollars is a
Speaker 1: life saver when you go out of the country. No,
Speaker 1: it's perfect. Come on, you need that, Yeah, exactly. Uh No,
Speaker 1: you need a translator on your phone. I'm telling you
Speaker 1: it's the best thing to do. And pasos. Make sure
Speaker 1: that you go to travel money USA dot com. I
Speaker 1: found in looking around for the money exchange that when
Speaker 1: I went to France and I went to Mexico, those
Speaker 1: they had the best rates. They have absolutely no faith
Speaker 1: and no commission. And no matter what you do with
Speaker 1: your banks, chances are even though they say there's no
Speaker 1: bank fee, I'm telling you that they up the rate
Speaker 1: so you and up paying more money. I don't Oh hello,
Speaker 1: I mean really, does anybody like do we have a
Speaker 1: money song? Scary? Like? Come on? I mean, come on,
Speaker 1: Rodi is not filling it over? Come on? I got
Speaker 1: an important text. I got distracted. I noticed I noticed
Speaker 1: you use credit cards when you go away. I take
Speaker 1: one credit card with me. Does it have no fe
Speaker 1: on it? You check that ahead of time. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I use I use only cards that can go to
Speaker 1: the countries, absolutely, so some people don't know that though,
Speaker 1: so it's good to remind everybody to make sure they
Speaker 1: check the fees on that. I use a credit card
Speaker 1: because you get the best exchange, right usually. And do
Speaker 1: you rent cars when you go away to places like
Speaker 1: Mexico and France? I have rented cars in foreign countries, yes,
Speaker 1: but again I use a credit card to get the
Speaker 1: best exchange, right. Okay. And did you know that they
Speaker 1: have like a little trick with the pricing, especially in Mexico.
Speaker 1: So well, let me tell you, first of all, reserve
Speaker 1: a car before you go, if you're gonna do it.
Speaker 1: When you walk out of the airport, there's about seventeen
Speaker 1: people standing there, and it is the craziest thing to me.
Speaker 1: You could literally bargain a better price in five seconds
Speaker 1: because and even if you don't want to and you're like,
Speaker 1: get away from me, they're like, hey, listen, I know
Speaker 1: you probably paid nine dollars a week for that car,
Speaker 1: but I could get it to you for five. Now.
Speaker 1: I know that sounds crazy, but are you ready for
Speaker 1: what they hit you with? They hit you with the liability. Now,
Speaker 1: the liability, especially in Mexico, guys keep this in track
Speaker 1: should be between fifteen and eight a day. That's where
Speaker 1: the rate goes up to the twenty two or whatever.
Speaker 1: But what's not included is collision insurance. So here's a
Speaker 1: pic trick that happens to people when they go out
Speaker 1: of the country. Collision insurance is never included. You have
Speaker 1: to ask them, let them give you seventy five to
Speaker 1: eighty five percent, And I say tap out at that.
Speaker 1: Your home insurance is not going to cover you. They might.
Speaker 1: They don't cover you in Mexico, they're gonna cover you
Speaker 1: in Canada, so they're definitely not covering you in France. Okay,
Speaker 1: And I know that they're gonna give you eighty five
Speaker 1: if you ask them for collision. But if you say
Speaker 1: I want a percent, you scared the hell out of me.
Speaker 1: I don't want to get in an accident and have
Speaker 1: any problems here. They'll add four hundred and fifty dollars
Speaker 1: onto your bill and you don't realize it till the end. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a big thing. I'm telling you. You need to
Speaker 1: look at thet How you get that past me? Without
Speaker 1: me noticing, because they put a hold on your credit
Speaker 1: card for a couple of thousand dollars, especially in Mexico.
Speaker 1: They put a hole on my credit card for over visiting. Well, well,
Speaker 1: this is a rental car company that I went to.
Speaker 1: This has nothing to do with the resort. This has
Speaker 1: to do with me renting a car. And you learn
Speaker 1: this stuff. I'm ubering all over the place. I don't care.
Speaker 1: Lots of uber and Tijuana. Yeah whatever, and listen. I
Speaker 1: like the idea of being adventurous. Even when I went
Speaker 1: to France and I don't speak friends, I don't want
Speaker 1: to drive in their streets. Oh my god. It was
Speaker 1: so much fun, though scary, like you do everything on
Speaker 1: a vacation. You guys could show for my ash. You
Speaker 1: know what, though, it's such an adventure to be able
Speaker 1: to drive from France to Italy and then drop on
Speaker 1: a plane to another plane on a pillo tour. I
Speaker 1: would let them take me on that magic bus. Do
Speaker 1: you want to go on the shared tour? Got good
Speaker 1: on your back center and walk from Italy to France.
Speaker 1: It's so much easier. Why not? Right? And here's the
Speaker 1: last thing. Drink around the world. Right, drink around the world.
Speaker 1: Well listen, I'm not saying don't sit around and drink.
Speaker 1: You're you're telling me stuff right now, and I'm hearing
Speaker 1: blah blah blah uber uber Uber called so you have
Speaker 1: never tried to be adventurous and like I rent, I
Speaker 1: rented a car Italy. How great to do it when
Speaker 1: you rented a car. Here's what I'll say this, Will
Speaker 1: you get speed? Like crazy? Am I right? Brodie? You
Speaker 1: want to risk getting into an accident? Speed? By the way,
Speaker 1: I've been to Naples and they are ruthless. You know, Naples.
Speaker 1: Naples is craziness. Now I would do it if I
Speaker 1: had a vesper. Those people are crazy. That's really the
Speaker 1: problem in the sports car Naples or as they call it, Napoli,
Speaker 1: which is probably why we should call it Napolis their country,
Speaker 1: like like Spain they call it a Spania. Why don't
Speaker 1: we call it a Spania because we're America, we should
Speaker 1: call it a Sponge. Okay, fine, anyway, Naples and Naples.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't drive in Naples unless I practiced, like I
Speaker 1: had a couple of weeks to practice. But but the autobomb,
Speaker 1: but we rent that's Germany. Come on we Um. We
Speaker 1: ducked um in a town called Citavecchia, maybe where it's
Speaker 1: between Florence and um Pizza. And you have to rent
Speaker 1: a car. You have a choice to go one to
Speaker 1: the other. I took a pill in Pizza. Really were you?
Speaker 1: Were you? And so we rented a car and drove
Speaker 1: to the Tower of Pieza. We want to see the pizza. Okay,
Speaker 1: we had to rent a car the way to get there,
Speaker 1: and you do have to sometimes rent a car cars
Speaker 1: in Mexico. That's a double negative anywhere. Well, I'll wait
Speaker 1: a second. I completely disagree, and again this is I'm
Speaker 1: not get diarrhea in Mexico. You can't drive. Oh that's horrible.
Speaker 1: Maybe I just went to the right place either. No,
Speaker 1: it was so much fun though, it's so adventurous to
Speaker 1: drive through and then you know, yeah, adventurous, adventurous to
Speaker 1: walk through like Compton at night. But I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drop you in Tijuana. And with rental car listen,
Speaker 1: if you do rent a car there, check on the
Speaker 1: rates and also make sure to see if your rental
Speaker 1: car company can give you a piece of paper. There's
Speaker 1: a little trick with that too, get a piece of
Speaker 1: paper because when the cops try to stop you, the
Speaker 1: piece of paper that some of the rental car companies
Speaker 1: have says that you've been approved and that you have
Speaker 1: insurance in your license was valid otherwise, well, otherwise, otherwise
Speaker 1: you might get in a few conversations with some Mexican plane.
Speaker 1: Thank you for traveling information share, You're very welcome, and
Speaker 1: listen with the cell phones. Call your cell phone companies
Speaker 1: because guess what, in Mexico Canada, you do not need
Speaker 1: to pay extra. You just need to tell them that
Speaker 1: you're going so you could talk away. We landed in Mexico.
Speaker 1: That was the best thing there was that Verizon wireless boom.
Speaker 1: Well you did it. I did it to. Verizon used
Speaker 1: to have a plan. When you'd call them, you'd have
Speaker 1: to pay like a three day or a four day
Speaker 1: and a price right, and then when you got back
Speaker 1: you had to call them to turn off, and if
Speaker 1: you forgot, they just kept charging you. Now it automatically
Speaker 1: shuts off when you get home, and as long as
Speaker 1: you don't make a out of network call, you don't
Speaker 1: pay anything. It's great. Or Macco, thank you for your report.
Speaker 1: It was a did you like mean, come on, it's
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