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Speaker 1: It's that time, time, time, time, luck and load.

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Speaker 2: The Michael Very Show is on the air. John is

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Speaker 2: ready for you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, bring it home now. And don't forget the new

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Speaker 3: black man phrase I touched. Give me the yes, sir,

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Speaker 3: remember that. I'll be right outside of an evening, all right. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I tell Mikes some new phrases I wanted to get

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Speaker 3: to raise it.

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Speaker 4: Just help us, and he never gets an answer. Jesus,

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Speaker 4: sun going down and the us it is head see

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Speaker 4: the world spin.

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Speaker 2: Roun my hand?

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Speaker 5: So sweet?

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Speaker 1: You know what she said?

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Speaker 2: She said, tell you you and thanks men? What the

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Speaker 2: fool foot?

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Speaker 3: Why the person?

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Speaker 6: What? I?

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Speaker 5: Oh? What means me?

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Speaker 7: Do you believe me?

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Speaker 6: Child boy?

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Speaker 2: It's lucky you had these coins losing for smuggling.

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Speaker 6: I never thought I'd be smuggling myself.

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Speaker 2: And this is ridiculous.

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Speaker 6: Even if I could take off, I'd never get past

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Speaker 6: the tractor be here.

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Speaker 2: Leave that to me, damn fool.

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Speaker 3: I knew that you were going to say that.

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Speaker 2: Loo's the more foolish fool. The fool of follows him.

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Speaker 3: We don't get hold again.

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Speaker 7: I've been thinking a fair amount about Donald Trump's career.

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Speaker 7: It's an unlikely progression. Never had a president like him.

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Speaker 7: We've never really had a phenomenon like him. When you

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Speaker 7: think about it, I think the closest example I can

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Speaker 7: find would be say a Richard Branson in England, in that.

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Speaker 2: His business.

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Speaker 7: Was tied into his personality and those two kind of

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Speaker 2: Had ups and downs. Trump had ups and downs. That's okay.

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Speaker 7: It doesn't matter what your industry is, his being real

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Speaker 7: estate and hospitality, you have ups and downs. Atlantic City

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Speaker 7: didn't work as well as it could. And guess what,

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Speaker 7: people who've never owned a business don't understand. If you

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Speaker 7: own enough businesses, you're going to fail. It's going to happen.

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Speaker 7: There's no way around that. If you've never had any failures,

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Speaker 7: then you're not trying hard enough. You're not expanding, you're

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Speaker 7: not testing yourself. You should fail in life. Failure is important.

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Speaker 7: Failure is a great teacher, and highly successful people will

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Speaker 7: tell you that. But I've been thinking about the fact

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Speaker 7: that the Trump phenomenon is such a quandary for the

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Speaker 7: left because you have to understand, with Trump, he was

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Speaker 7: the toast of New York and I wonder how many

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Speaker 7: modern day maga fans of Trump really understand to what

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Speaker 7: extent Trump was the toast of New York.

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Speaker 2: He was beloved.

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Speaker 7: He wasn't considered a particularly political figure, even though he

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Speaker 2: Get it done.

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Speaker 7: As I said, he was also a guy who was

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Speaker 2: There's there's the meme that goes around.

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Speaker 7: You'll see it a couple of times a year, depending

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Speaker 7: on how how many people send you memes of Hillary

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Speaker 7: Clinton saying that what we need is a leader like

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Speaker 7: make it her business to run around saying that this

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Speaker 7: not a hallmark of her career ship. That's not her Panda.

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Speaker 7: So there is this this interesting phenomenon of the Donald

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Speaker 7: of these people had very public relationships with Trump. He

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Speaker 7: they loved him. They went to his parties, he came

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Speaker 7: That's what's amazing. So the great hypocrisy of all of this,

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Speaker 7: Trump that you adored. This is the same Trump you promoted.

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Speaker 7: This is the same Trump you begged to stay at

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Speaker 7: his hotels, You told people you adored him, You called

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Speaker 7: And I'm not talking about just sixty minutes or just

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Speaker 2: Now they all of a sudden hate him. They look

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Speaker 2: like such buffoods. Captain something wong, Well, something must be right.

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Speaker 2: You're listening to Michael Berry.

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Speaker 7: The loftiest media continues to wring their hands over the

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Speaker 7: deportation of Trende Arragua and MS thirteen members. These are

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Speaker 7: savage creatures, but the media is crying over these turds,

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Speaker 7: lack of due process. Carolyn Levitt, who's turned out to

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Speaker 7: be a very good press secretary by the way, very good.

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Speaker 2: That's a tough, tough job. She was asked if Ice

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Speaker 2: was using tattoos alone, you.

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Speaker 8: Can get classified by shimpley. Have certain symbols, er tattoos

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Speaker 8: and wearing certain streetwear brands that own road is enough

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Speaker 8: to get someone classify the TDA and set to bel

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Speaker 9: That's not true, actually, Andrew, according to this document, it

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Speaker 9: is no according to the Department of Homeland Security and

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Speaker 9: been putting their lives on the line to detain these

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Speaker 9: foreign terrorists who have been terrorizing our communities. DDA is

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Speaker 9: a vicious gang that has taken the lives of American

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Speaker 9: deporting these people with the utmost seriousness. And there is

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Speaker 9: a litany of criteria that they use to ensure that

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Speaker 9: these individuals qualify as foreign terrorists and to ensure to

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Speaker 9: it incredibly clear to the American public that there would

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Speaker 9: but also illegal criminal aliens who have been wreaking havoc

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Speaker 9: on American communities. And shame on you and shame on

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Speaker 9: the mainstream media for trying to cover for these individuals

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Speaker 9: through the core. This is a vicious gang, Andrew, This

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Speaker 8: The government filed in court which shall and you.

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Speaker 9: Said yourself, there are there are eight criteria on that documentary.

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Speaker 9: And you are questioning the credibility of these agents who

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Speaker 2: Now to put that into perspective. Who is trende Aragua.

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Speaker 7: Remember the Democrats and the leftist media said that they

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Speaker 7: had not taken over apartment complexes in Aurora, Colorado. Cindy Romero,

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Speaker 7: She was telling the truth.

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Speaker 6: My name is Cindy Romero, a wife, a mother of five,

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Speaker 6: and a former resident of Aurora, Colorado. I'm one of

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Speaker 6: the many victims across the nation of the violent transnational

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Speaker 6: gang Trendy Iragua, and a former lifelong Democrat. My husband

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Speaker 6: and I resided at the edge of Lowry Apartment for

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Speaker 6: four years, and while the first few years were a

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Speaker 2: And in the spring and summer of.

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Speaker 6: Twenty twenty four we noticed shuttles dropping off large number

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Speaker 6: Then kicking in the doors to the many vacated units

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Speaker 6: These criminals brought in unlicensed electricians to run electricity to

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Speaker 2: Despite several calls for help.

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Speaker 6: To the Aurora Police Department, they often provided conflicting excuses

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Speaker 6: programs to grant citizens temporary protected status from important gangs

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Speaker 6: John Fabricatory. They'd been sounding the alarm over TDA for

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Speaker 6: I was finally able to escape these horrible conditions due

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Speaker 7: You hear the sincerity in her voice, the small she

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Speaker 7: feels so small. My country doesn't care about me.

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Speaker 2: It just Michael Berry Show. Michael Berry Show.

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Speaker 7: People who really enjoy the show and stay with us

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Speaker 7: And parents they don't address it. They don't address it.

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Speaker 7: you and understand your weaknesses and understand your foibles. Whether

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Speaker 7: And I've watched it happen so many times, so many times,

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Speaker 7: Like that's a point of pride. It's crazy. It makes

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Speaker 2: Tom what you got?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that ain't Michael. You probably know about this.

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Speaker 5: I worked in the Size of Business thirty years and

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Speaker 5: uh we blasted all over an orange foam. I blasted everywhere.

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Speaker 2: That sounds like a blast.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was hard work working around the orange.

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Speaker 2: And uh, you know a guy come along.

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Speaker 7: is very interesting, Tom, Thank you for calling us sharing that.

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Speaker 7: That's I mean, most of us will never get to

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, some guys never figure this out.

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Speaker 7: You do not marry a woman based on how hot

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Speaker 2: She always was anymore. I mean, you don't want her

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Speaker 7: But but within reason, you give a little you give

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Speaker 2: That's that's the one right there. I'm telling you, that's

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Speaker 7: Breath at eighty years old, that's the woman right there.

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Speaker 7: You catch a woman out in the monkey grass. This

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Speaker 7: Man. I'm telling you, you're not trying to win the

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Speaker 2: You know how big they're gonna get. You don't know.

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Speaker 7: You can't nag them skinny. They're gonna be genetics and behavioral,

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Speaker 2: Just don't know.

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Speaker 7: You don't know what the post baby wait's gonna be.

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Speaker 7: You can't worry about all that you've got to worry about.

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Speaker 7: Is she gonna be good to you? Is she going

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Speaker 7: that's a.

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Speaker 2: Bad thing for me, very bad thing.

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Speaker 7: But I also tend to be a person who believes

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Speaker 7: that a woman can be the CEO of a company.

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Speaker 7: They can be a president if it's a right woman.

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Speaker 7: They can be an astronaut or whatever else they want,

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Speaker 7: great lawyer, whatever they want to be. And they can

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Speaker 7: also be a great mommy and a great cook and

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Speaker 7: a great wife, and a caretaker and a lover and

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Speaker 7: a supporter and a cheerleader, and they can be a

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Speaker 7: nun professional, never work outside the home and keep the

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Speaker 7: best home.

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Speaker 4: Ever.

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Speaker 7: My mom didn't work outside the home, so maybe I

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Speaker 7: have a glorified view of that because my wife. My

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Speaker 7: life was richer because my mother stayed home and made

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Speaker 7: sure that you know, our socks didn't have holes in them,

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Speaker 7: because she stitched them and made sure that our homework

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Speaker 7: was done, and made sure that we took to school

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Speaker 7: what we needed and if we were on a medication

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Speaker 7: that we took that we had time spent with us

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Speaker 7: a lot of it, and as high school students, too

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Speaker 7: much of it.

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Speaker 2: She was in our business. But thank God for it now.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, that's you can just slug these last two

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Speaker 7: segments picking a good wife from home.

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Speaker 2: This is picking a good wife. This is a conversation

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Speaker 2: people don't have. I'm not telling them.

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Speaker 7: Okay, fellows, if y'all are on a hold, hold stay

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Speaker 7: with me. I will talk to you off air the

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Speaker 7: minute we finish, because we'll just replay them letter. Just

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Speaker 7: stay with me, be patient. I need to get to

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Speaker 7: this all right, ladies, how to pick a man. Number one,

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Speaker 7: Your parents should like your man. If your parents don't

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Speaker 7: like your man, just understand this. Whatever it is that

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Speaker 7: attracts you about him has blinded you. Your parents are

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Speaker 7: looking out for what's best for you. Your parents are

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Speaker 7: not sleeping with him. So if he can sling it

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Speaker 7: and you like it and it feels good and you

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Speaker 7: feel nasty or you feel sexy or whatever else, I

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Speaker 7: got news for you that will not be there when

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Speaker 7: you're in your sixties. Okay, you will have to transition

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Speaker 7: to part two. And Part two is he's a lazy slob.

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Speaker 7: He's an insecure person. He's a needy person. He's not

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Speaker 7: a provider, he's not a protector. So whatever he's making

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Speaker 7: you feel that you like so much, that's not the

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Speaker 7: basis of a rewarding, fulfilling marriage of fifty years or more.

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Speaker 2: It's just not. It's just not. It's great. I'm happy

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Speaker 2: for you, but it's just not.

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Speaker 7: Does he talk bad about his own family, that's a

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Speaker 7: red flag a man who loves his mother.

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Speaker 2: But here's the problem.

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Speaker 7: I've always said, this has been my thing my entire life,

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Speaker 7: maybe because my mother said that you should judge a

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Speaker 7: man by how he treats his mother, and I bought

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Speaker 7: into it, so whatever, But if he talks bad about

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Speaker 7: other people, if everything is somebody else's fault, if he

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Speaker 7: doesn't trust other people, if even his own friends when

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Speaker 7: he introduces you to him, he doesn't trust them. Oh

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Speaker 7: so wow, he can't trust him? But I thought he

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Speaker 7: was your best friend. Yeah, but you know he's one

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Speaker 7: time he did bad sign, bad character judge, bad judge

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Speaker 7: of characters start with and probably a person who, out

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Speaker 7: of his own insecurity, tears everyone else out down and

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Speaker 7: the other thing.

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Speaker 2: And I learned this lesson probably in my thirties.

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Speaker 7: I learned that whatever people complain about others about is

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Speaker 7: very likely a mirror into their own soul Rush always

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Speaker 7: said that about the Liberals, what they call the Republicans,

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Speaker 7: What the things they accused them of? If you want

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Speaker 7: to know what they're up to, it's what they accuse

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Speaker 7: the Republicans of. The Next thing is does he honor

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Speaker 7: and respect you beyond the sexual realm? Does he respect

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Speaker 7: you for who you are? Does he think you're smart,

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Speaker 7: and I don't mean how well you do in school?

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Speaker 7: Does he think you have good judgment? Does he value

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Speaker 7: your humor, does he value your life skills? Does he

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Speaker 7: compliment those things in a meaningful way. So many people

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Speaker 7: are so hung up on sex, which is great, it's important, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I got it, But when you're talking about somebody you're

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Speaker 7: going to commit your life to, and that's all I

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Speaker 7: know people that are multi millionaires, it's still think that's

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Speaker 7: the most important thing. And they wonder a year later

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Speaker 7: why they got Bobby Newman calling, and they're being served,

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Speaker 7: and here.

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Speaker 2: We go again.

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Speaker 7: So maybe, just maybe if we focus on the things

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Speaker 7: that should matter, Man, how do I find it? Somebody

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Speaker 7: like your wife? How do you're not looking for somebody

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Speaker 7: like my life? You're looking for somebody you're going to

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Speaker 7: see at the bar on Thursday night, having rose all

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Speaker 7: day because she's real cute and she's had her lips

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Speaker 7: plumped up where she's in permanent duckface, and she's got

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Speaker 7: her boobs really big, because you like really big boobs.

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Speaker 2: And a year later you're playing Bobby a bunch of

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Speaker 2: money