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Speaker 1: Hi, Catherine, Hi Chelsea.

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Speaker 2: I am wearing my glasses, my dark glasses like Stevie

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Speaker 2: Wonder in the daylight, because they're my prescription glasses.

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Speaker 3: I can.

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Speaker 2: I've lost four pairs of glasses of the last three,

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Speaker 2: and I have these new favorite glasses, these Look glasses.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like my They transitional are they called?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: I was calling them transgender for a while, and you look.

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Speaker 4: Like a serial killer.

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Speaker 5: Do they like?

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Speaker 4: They're not orange like they used to be?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 2: No, that guy from you mean, the guy from SVU,

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Speaker 2: that guy who wears them, what's his name?

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Speaker 4: Everyone who wears the transition like kind.

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Speaker 2: Of green they turned yes, yes, yeah, I got rid

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Speaker 2: of those. I got rid of those, and now I

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Speaker 2: have it's this brand called Look. And they sent him

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Speaker 2: like even Mendez was doing a line with them, so

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Speaker 2: she sent me a bunch or they sent me a bunch,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, I love these. I think

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Speaker 2: I'm going to do something with them because they're nice

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Speaker 2: and big and they don't touch my face. Yeah, which

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Speaker 2: is what I want with glasses because otherwise I have

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Speaker 2: lines and indentations. Anyway, I've lost three pair in the

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Speaker 2: last two days, so my team is running around like crazy,

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Speaker 2: is trying to re supplement me, supplement and supplify, supplicate. Listen,

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Speaker 2: the last few weeks, I am not playing with a

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Speaker 2: full deck of cards after my foot surgery. I don't

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Speaker 2: know if I announced I got foot surgery, but yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think it's whatever. I mean, I pretty much announced everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I have not been taking my mental my brain plasma

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Speaker 2: nurrigens and my plasmologens and all my coqu ten because

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Speaker 2: of the surgery. So I'm a dumb diption.

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Speaker 4: It is really true. Coqu Ten like helps with the

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Speaker 4: brain fog.

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Speaker 2: Brain fog, but I take all of these supplements for

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Speaker 2: brain fog, and now I know they fucking work. I

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Speaker 2: don't know which one it is that works, but I

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Speaker 2: am like, I try to say things and I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 2: trying to use. And also I'm taking Norco because of

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Speaker 2: the pain from my foot, and also because I love pills,

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Speaker 2: and you know, I only get ten, and so I've

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Speaker 2: spaced them out in a nice way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's been a little bit of a party

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Speaker 1: for me.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, I mean that's just what I imagine I'm.

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Speaker 1: Still not in my house. Everybody still haven't mopped into

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Speaker 1: my house.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: So it's to come back from my European trip to

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Speaker 1: move into my house.

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Speaker 4: But no, no, you know, we were talking about this

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Speaker 4: recently and like I just want to put it in

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Speaker 4: perspective for the listeners, Like, you bought this house when

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Speaker 4: twenty show was like four months old.

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Speaker 1: I bought this house. Yeah, it's twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 4: As long as people have been listening to the show,

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Speaker 4: you have owned this house and before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, yeah, so that's exciting.

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Speaker 4: Is there any like update on it?

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Speaker 1: Do they have an ETA?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's in the final stages, and at least now

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Speaker 2: it is guaranteed work, so there's a warranty on all

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Speaker 2: of the work. So now that they came in and

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Speaker 2: fixed everything that my prior contractor fucked up, there is

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Speaker 2: professionally done. And then I am hoping to either offload

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Speaker 2: or rent this house out. I don't want anything to

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Speaker 4: I think, Yeah, the juju there is is not for you.

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Speaker 4: It's clashing.

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Speaker 2: I had someone come in and cleanse the house. That's

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Speaker 2: before before that clearly didn't take. The only thing is

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Speaker 2: Doug loves Doug loves that house. So maybe I'll let

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Speaker 2: people rent the house and also be with Doug.

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Speaker 4: He can you know what I mean, the rental.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he comes with the rental with the comple with

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Speaker 2: other people too.

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Speaker 4: Actually, so well that sounds great. Today we have an

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Speaker 4: awesome guest.

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Speaker 2: Oh, my boyfriend is here today, you guys, this is

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend from my long term boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: I've had a crush on him for years.

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Speaker 2: He's definitely in my top probably top five of like

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Speaker 2: I mean, the other ones are too old to fuck,

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Speaker 2: Harrison Ford is still hot. He's got six facts. So like,

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that kind of respect, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate when men show us the respect that we

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's given it.

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Speaker 2: Women are so taking care of their ship way in

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Speaker 5: Harrison.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I was on a beach in Portugal with

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Speaker 2: my friend from my friend's fiftieth and they all went

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Speaker 2: of the ocean and five women and I'm like, everybody

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Speaker 2: stop right there. I go, men, I want you to

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Speaker 2: take a look at these women. And then I want

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Speaker 2: you thinking? Why do you get to look like that?

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Speaker 2: And then women are keeping their shit together. It's very

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Speaker 2: king of queens. Yes, yes, it's very king of queens.

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Speaker 2: That reminds me any to reach out to Leah Remeniy. I've

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Speaker 2: had spoken to her in a few months. Wow, one

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Speaker 4: Should we get her on the show?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, she would love to do the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well she's studying. She's getting a law degree. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's fucking amazing.

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Speaker 5: That's a law degree.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's amazing.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, so okay, oh my boyfriend, my boyfriend Sea,

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Speaker 2: I forgot what I was talking about. Okay, So my

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Speaker 2: boyfriend is Eric Banna. Guys, you know I love him.

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Speaker 2: And he's here today because he's in a new show.

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Speaker 2: He's on a new show. He's in a new show.

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Speaker 2: He's inside me. It's called Untamed and it's on Netflix.

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Speaker 2: So please welcome my baby, my baby mama A. Welcome

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Speaker 2: to America. Eric Bana, Welcome to America.

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Speaker 5: Thanks Chelsea. This is my official welcome.

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Speaker 1: This is your first. I'm surprised you're here actually, And

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Speaker 8: That customs, you know, like when I'm getting my passports,

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Speaker 8: would be much better.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the Things have changed a lot since

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Speaker 2: your last trip over here. Because I know you, you

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Speaker 2: do come when you have to do press to America.

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Speaker 2: I know your wife doesn't like to travel, re Becca.

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Speaker 2: Rebecca doesn't like to travel, but you come.

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Speaker 5: She came on this trip, actually coached her.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, are you trying to make me jealous?

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Speaker 8: No, I'm just pointing out that I managed to, you know,

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Speaker 5: But no, I don't come here too often. I'm mean

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Speaker 5: you for quite some time. But anyway, it's lovely to see.

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Speaker 5: It's lovely.

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Speaker 1: It's always lovely to see. You know who I was

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Speaker 5: No, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Connie Britten, no way, who Eric starred with in Dirty

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we had you on to talk

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Speaker 2: I just was like, how did anyone be that stupid

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Speaker 2: feelings about your acting. You're performing. You know that I've

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Speaker 2: always had a crush on you. I mean, we've passed

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Speaker 2: the point of it being an issue. Yeah, because we've

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Speaker 1: You know, I've met your wife.

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Speaker 2: I understand you know, so it's not a problem. But

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Speaker 2: I didn't like seeing you play that kind of character.

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Speaker 5: Not fair enough.

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Speaker 8: And I had a lot of people who had had

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Speaker 8: Like people would like cross the street and even people

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Speaker 6: Me in run.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well that's better than yeah, being bombarded all the time.

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Speaker 1: But I mean you've played other repellent characters.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I love repellent character.

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Speaker 5: I love to be repellent.

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Speaker 2: I mean the new show that you're on is Untamed.

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Speaker 2: It's on Netflix, it's already started streaming, and that I

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Speaker 2: like because you were on a horse immediately on the gate.

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Speaker 2: You were on a horse, and you were a park

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Speaker 5: That's where I love repellent.

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Speaker 1: That's why that's the vibe I like to see you

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Speaker 1: you is when you're in this kind of role.

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Speaker 2: You're solving a crime, you know what I mean. You're people,

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Speaker 2: You're like the tough.

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Speaker 5: Guys, supposedly trustworthy.

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Speaker 2: Supposedly let's say, yeah, I mean you're Australian, so I'm

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Speaker 2: not in this movie though you I mean in this show,

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Speaker 2: you're not Australian. You play an American and the accent

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Speaker 2: is very good, well for this stage.

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Speaker 5: If I can't, I'm in trouble. Right.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think it is eric that so many

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Speaker 2: Australians can do such great American accents, but Americans can't

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Speaker 5: You know why?

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Speaker 8: Because you don't try. Really, Yeah, when was the last

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Speaker 8: time you tried to do Astralia?

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Speaker 1: I can say no, no, I know how to say that.

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Speaker 8: No, Honestly, I I would really love to see more

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Speaker 8: Americans forced to do an Australian eco.

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Speaker 2: You know, it be eliminated from the acting industry because

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Speaker 2: it would be brutal.

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Speaker 5: It would be brutal.

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Speaker 8: It's like a tax we have to pay, you know,

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Speaker 8: to work internationally. Raither playing Brits, so we're playing Americans.

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Speaker 8: We don't have a choice. Is you don't see Australian

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Speaker 8: people in international film, right, we just don't exist. We

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Speaker 5: But I survived.

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Speaker 5: They can be. Look, my fault was the kangaroo.

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Speaker 1: No, have you ever seen a shark?

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Speaker 5: Like, I think they're pretty safe. I love them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll all Australians say that. They say they're not

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I think the shocks would do that are a

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Speaker 5: I've been you know, discouded from the pack.

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Speaker 5: But anyway to.

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Speaker 2: I love Australia. First of all, you don't have to

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Speaker 5: Again.

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Speaker 2: I reached out to you, of course, to invite you

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Speaker 8: Well, I was in Canada making the show where he

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Speaker 1: Viable to you, obviously we need you on it untamed.

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Speaker 2: What about a deadly snake? Have you ever come into

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Speaker 8: Yes, unfortunately, Yes, I like to play golf and I'll

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Speaker 5: We get browns and and also.

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Speaker 8: Area on the fairway. Actually they did cross the fairway.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm not very good.

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Speaker 8: God, don't bring this up. She's so good it's annoying.

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Speaker 8: But you know she's she's a better athlete. She played

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Speaker 5: Anyway, she's about seven shots ahead of me. Can we

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Speaker 2: Well, you're embarrassed and you should know I shouldn't be embarrassed.

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Speaker 8: You know, why shouldn't she be better than Why should

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Speaker 2: Well, because you're an Australian male, that's probably why you're

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Speaker 5: Kidding. I would never do that.

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Speaker 1: I would never do that to you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So now let's talk about some of your roles,

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Speaker 2: because I want to know which ones mean the most

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Speaker 1: What role of yours made you like, I know.

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Speaker 2: You loved working on Troy right with Brackett And who

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Speaker 8: Orlando Bloom, He's fine, so many great actors, Sean Bain,

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Speaker 5: I mean, it was just it was just amazing.

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Speaker 5: Were in such a good company and you enjoy.

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Speaker 8: Feel like that on everything I'll work on, like you

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Speaker 8: I'm actually talking.

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Speaker 1: About that's already over.

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Speaker 8: I had read such an amazing time filming that last year,

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Speaker 5: It is in BC outside the back of Whistler where

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Speaker 8: I mean, I was getting paid to be on a

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Speaker 5: And then now I'm like, oh, that's right, people are

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Speaker 8: I forget we're making it for people, like it wasn't

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Speaker 2: But also like with the way the industry is now,

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Speaker 1: There's so much that.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's not as big of as a drum

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Speaker 1: As it used to be.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, in some ways we were lucky. We

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Speaker 1: So because of what happened with you in that kangaroo, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 8: Exactly, they heard it. So we ended up in BC

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Speaker 5: Do you know what I wanted to? I wanted to

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Speaker 8: We had a bear guy who was like, you know,

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Speaker 8: their I'm not going to mention any knows, Okay, not

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Speaker 5: On the show, Where did you go?

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Speaker 1: Stay off the back of Whistler? You keep saying where

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Speaker 5: Well, we stayed in whistle and then we travel out

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Speaker 5: Well I know, but you never offered it. You didn't

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Speaker 1: Were No, I didn't know you were there.

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Speaker 6: This is you.

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Speaker 1: This is what I'm talking about with our relationship.

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Speaker 2: You're constantly very close by and acting like you're nowhere.

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Speaker 5: Told you I was there? No, no one really.

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Speaker 2: You would have heard from me, Eric if I had

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Speaker 1: In the summer, No, I go in the I go

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Speaker 2: I like skiing, so I knew that. So yeah, I've

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: So this year I stayed extra long because I love

447
00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:34,800
Speaker 2: the idea of seeing a bear.

448
00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,080
Speaker 1: My dogs look like bears. I feel like I have

449
00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,360
Speaker 1: a connection to bears, and I feel like I could.

450
00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,760
Speaker 2: Handle a bear, you know what I mean, I would

451
00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,640
Speaker 2: know what to do in that situation more so than

452
00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,560
Speaker 2: a snake or a shark or a kangaroo. But this

453
00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,320
Speaker 2: year I kept waiting and they're like, oh, there's a

454
00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:48,480
Speaker 2: bear at the end of the road, and then we

455
00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,080
Speaker 2: drive down the end of the road the bear would

456
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Speaker 2: be gone.

457
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Speaker 1: So I still haven't seen my real life bear.

458
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Speaker 8: The area that we were filming in at the back

459
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Speaker 8: of the old Olympic skate park, there is a goosely

460
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Speaker 8: there called Debbie, which I saw at some stuff age

461
00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,560
Speaker 8: in pre production. I'm like Debbie where I like, Debbie

462
00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:03,360
Speaker 8: did not come out.

463
00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, especially like a big grizzly.

464
00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:06,800
Speaker 2: But a female grizzly is going to be even more

465
00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:07,959
Speaker 2: dangerous than a male grizzly.

466
00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,040
Speaker 1: Fantastic, Yeah, yeah, for sure.

467
00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,439
Speaker 2: So back to the question about what movie role do

468
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Speaker 2: you think, like, what is one movie role that you

469
00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:19,359
Speaker 2: think has had the biggest not even impact professionally, but

470
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Speaker 2: on you personally.

471
00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,199
Speaker 8: That's that's a really good question because I've had like

472
00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:26,119
Speaker 8: four or five that have been really special. But in

473
00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:29,920
Speaker 8: terms of like on long term friendships, my first big

474
00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,320
Speaker 8: American film was Black Hawk Down, which was this huge ensemble,

475
00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,880
Speaker 8: and I to this day have like three or four

476
00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,479
Speaker 8: of my closest friends are from that shoot that we

477
00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:41,080
Speaker 8: stayed in contact with. We had hotel rooms on the

478
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Speaker 8: same floor. My son was like eighteen months I think

479
00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:45,359
Speaker 8: at the time when we turned up. He was two

480
00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,959
Speaker 8: by the time we left. I'm literally catching up with

481
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Speaker 8: one of those people tomorrow night. So in terms of

482
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Speaker 8: like impact on your life, I'd say that would be

483
00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,640
Speaker 8: the greatest, mainly because of the friendships that were forged. Yeah,

484
00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,520
Speaker 8: and I'm not alone. There was like different gangs of

485
00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,760
Speaker 8: friendships on that film because the cast was so huge

486
00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,480
Speaker 8: of like two people there, three people there, five people there,

487
00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,119
Speaker 8: and it's the same free of one. Everyone is like

488
00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,200
Speaker 8: super super tight from that film. Troy was really special.

489
00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:11,680
Speaker 8: Munich was really special.

490
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Speaker 1: Munich was a great film.

491
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Speaker 8: Yeah, there's been so many that I think the big

492
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Speaker 8: long shoots where everyone's away from home has something special

493
00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,800
Speaker 8: to it. I'm usually the only guy who's away from home.

494
00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,520
Speaker 8: I'm usually somewhere where everyone's sleeping in their own beds

495
00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,320
Speaker 8: at night and I'm going back to an apartment and whatever.

496
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Speaker 8: But on the big ones like that, it's a bit

497
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Speaker 8: more of a bonding experience.

498
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Speaker 1: Yeah, which is hard because you're also aware there's a

499
00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:35,600
Speaker 1: bit of a summer camp vibe to it, you know.

500
00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I know it's hard for

501
00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:39,200
Speaker 2: you to be away from your family too. I mean,

502
00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:41,720
Speaker 2: maybe it's not hard, but it's obviously not. You'd rather

503
00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:43,760
Speaker 2: be with your family and you have to. You're the

504
00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,600
Speaker 2: one traveling from Australia. But your kids are grown up

505
00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:47,520
Speaker 2: now and in college.

506
00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,080
Speaker 5: Yeah. Well the past that stage had twenty three and

507
00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,199
Speaker 5: twenty five. Yeah, and are they still speaking to you?

508
00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:53,920
Speaker 5: They're still speaking to me? Isn't that fantastic?

509
00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:54,280
Speaker 3: Wow?

510
00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:57,760
Speaker 8: Yeah, one of them just just just facetimed me from Europe.

511
00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:01,280
Speaker 8: Today they're out of the house and stuff. So yeah, yeah,

512
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:02,360
Speaker 8: I'm so old.

513
00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,000
Speaker 1: What are you and Rebecca are going to do now

514
00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,119
Speaker 1: that your kids are like adulting? How are you going

515
00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:07,120
Speaker 1: to celebrate your life?

516
00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,520
Speaker 5: We'll do more travel, We'll pply, more golf, We'll have

517
00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,679
Speaker 5: some fun. We'll drink. You'll get her to drink more

518
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,240
Speaker 5: than one glass of alcohol awake.

519
00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:17,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely remember that.

520
00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:18,920
Speaker 5: I send it to you for a week.

521
00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,040
Speaker 1: I can train anybody. I can train anybody to drink more.

522
00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,159
Speaker 2: Remember we went to dinner one night in Melbourne and

523
00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,160
Speaker 2: then I got into the van on the way out

524
00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:28,040
Speaker 2: and I went to go take a step up. I

525
00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:30,840
Speaker 2: had had a few cocktails, of course, and I stepped

526
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:32,760
Speaker 2: up and then I kind of fell into the van

527
00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,879
Speaker 2: and eric'sch you're right there, and just kept walking, just

528
00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,040
Speaker 2: walking by me. No, I think this is a perfect

529
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 2: time for you guys to travel enjoy your lives. You know,

530
00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:43,400
Speaker 2: it's so nice when kids are grown up and you've

531
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,160
Speaker 2: like you they're cooked.

532
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 5: They're never found, they cooked exactly now it is.

533
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Speaker 8: It does feel amazing, And it's also that it's that

534
00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:53,000
Speaker 8: I do you think will never happen, you know, when

535
00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,360
Speaker 8: you've got like you just think this point will never

536
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,680
Speaker 8: ever come where you'll just travel and it won't really

537
00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:00,480
Speaker 8: matter where you are because they don't around. S No,

538
00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 8: it's kind of fun. I mean, it's kind of sad

539
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,720
Speaker 8: in some ways, but that's yeah, it's amazing.

540
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 2: And what do you think if you had to describe

541
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,640
Speaker 2: yourself as a dad, how would you describe yourself?

542
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:09,960
Speaker 1: Oh?

543
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 5: God, I definitely try and be funny.

544
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 8: I think my wife and I really similar, like we're

545
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 8: just really into it, really into being parents, Like we

546
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,160
Speaker 8: were always really really into it. So I would say

547
00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,280
Speaker 8: they're probably they will always seek of me being around.

548
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 8: They were like, can you just go back to work?

549
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 8: Like enough of you already. So yeah, I don't know,

550
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 8: something like that.

551
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 2: Did you find out that you were you surprised to

552
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 2: find out how much patience you had as a father?

553
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,520
Speaker 5: Well, it depends on the day of the week, right, Yeah.

554
00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,600
Speaker 2: Would you say patience is one of your strong suits

555
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,320
Speaker 2: or one of your less strong suits.

556
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,399
Speaker 5: No, I would say in life, in general and in work,

557
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:48,000
Speaker 5: I'm very very patient, very very patient. Yeah.

558
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I need to work on my patients.

559
00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:52,159
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was stupid people.

560
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:53,199
Speaker 1: It's very hard for me.

561
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 5: No, fair enough, you know, stupid.

562
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 1: People is very hard for Dimerware.

563
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Speaker 2: I don't like to I want everyone to sess the

564
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:01,919
Speaker 2: situation quickly and then move on.

565
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 5: Is it stupid people or is it inefficiency?

566
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Speaker 8: Because I have I have discovered recently that all of

567
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,360
Speaker 8: my close friends, all of my male close friends, are

568
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:15,159
Speaker 8: high intelligence and have no capacity for inefficiency. It's just

569
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,560
Speaker 8: I just discovered this one day when I was telling

570
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 8: my wife about the story. I was just recently traveling

571
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 8: with a buddy of mine and his Bugberry's checking into

572
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 8: hotels anything more than three words, anything.

573
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:29,440
Speaker 2: That interact with the person in my room. And then also,

574
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 2: don't come in, Yeah.

575
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 5: Tell me the key, don't give me the two say nothing.

576
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 2: My issue with impatience is when the interaction just yes,

577
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 2: it's exactly that, when it's it could be succinct, and

578
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 2: yet it keeps going and there's a back and forth.

579
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,679
Speaker 2: It's like I already have clocked what's going on, and

580
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 2: I've expressed to you via me O hosts that this

581
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,400
Speaker 2: is not like this is over, like I got it.

582
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 5: You know.

583
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 1: It's even on planes.

584
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 2: I noticed when people it's almost like people want to

585
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 2: just waste time, you know, talking to people. I think

586
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 2: when people are I think planes specifically, because people seem

587
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 2: to get nervous on planes, and I think they like

588
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 2: to talk too much just because they're feeling nervous.

589
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,159
Speaker 8: Ordering food, like people, you know, like when you're in

590
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 8: line and someone's ordering and they're having like a conversation

591
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:12,120
Speaker 8: with the cashier.

592
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's so fucking annoying.

593
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 1: I hate that.

594
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 2: Or in airports when people are just standing there, I'm like,

595
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 2: what are you doing?

596
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 1: Move? You're nobody's here to hang out and meet friends here.

597
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:22,679
Speaker 1: No one is here for that reason.

598
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 2: The purpose of an airport is to get from one

599
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: place to the next.

600
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 1: Place, So fucking move your feet. I don't understand either,

601
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: what's go three or four?

602
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:31,439
Speaker 5: Brist come on?

603
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 7: No?

604
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 4: So then still are never paying attention to either.

605
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 1: Don't throw that word around either. Are you somebody that would.

606
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 2: Ever listen to watch a show on your phone or

607
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 2: have a FaceTime call on your phone without a pair

608
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 2: of headphones on?

609
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 6: Eric?

610
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: No, exactly, no, that's the right answer.

611
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 2: I had to confront about three different people on my

612
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 2: last travels.

613
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: I was just in Europe for two months.

614
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 5: And I guess with the Americans, h No, they were men.

615
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,199
Speaker 2: Though they were men. There was one woman and she

616
00:22:58,320 --> 00:22:59,360
Speaker 2: was elderly, so I was.

617
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: Like, because I am very well, but she could still

618
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 1: could get a headphone.

619
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 5: So I mean hearing eyes to something. That's where I'm going.

620
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: Well, that's nice.

621
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 2: But I thought if I if I said something to

622
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 2: the two men and I didn't say something to the woman,

623
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 2: then that would be sexist, and I don't want to be.

624
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: Sex Yeah, exactly, you know that it's down.

625
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 2: So I said, excuse me, missed, do you have a

626
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 2: set of headphones, and she goes, oh, I'm so sorry,

627
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 2: but yeah there.

628
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 5: Was a reaction. Were you surprised because I'm so.

629
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 1: Nice about it? I go, I'm so sorry. Would you

630
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: mind not watching that fucking race card show at full

631
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: blast volume while we're on a.

632
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 2: Fucking plane together when everyone it's just so inconsiderate, you know.

633
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: I mean, it's definitely more of a male thing, of course,

634
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 2: like everything, where people just don't consider that other people.

635
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:48,120
Speaker 1: May not want to hear your social media or your

636
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: face time call.

637
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 2: I mean, it kills me when someone's on a FaceTime

638
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 2: call with that and you're just.

639
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 1: Like, do you think do you want people to hear

640
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: your conversations?

641
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:56,199
Speaker 6: I do.

642
00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 5: That's the truth, I know, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

643
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to take a break and I we're

644
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: going to be right back with my favorite Eric Banner. Okay,

645
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: and we're back with Eric Banner. Okay, tell me why

646
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 2: you wanted to do unteamed Eric.

647
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 8: I love the pilot episode when it was sent to me,

648
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 8: I just thought it was so brilliantly written. So it's

649
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 8: and selfishly is an actor you Honestly, when I'm reading something,

650
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 8: I'm reading something as an audience first.

651
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 1: That's the truth as an actor or as a person.

652
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 5: As a person, as like does this interest me?

653
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 3: Do?

654
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,880
Speaker 8: I think this is great? And then the second time

655
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 8: it's like selfishly diving in. Okay, what's this character? Likee

656
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 8: of so I read, I'm like, I'm so in. I like,

657
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,239
Speaker 8: whether I'm in the show or not, I'm watching this

658
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 8: like it's not going to be on my.

659
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 1: List because the first episode is very intense, lots of

660
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 1: things happen.

661
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, the opening I was like panicking under my covers.

662
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 8: I loved it and I loved the character of Kyle.

663
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 8: And then I met with Mark and we spoke and

664
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,919
Speaker 8: I was like, I want to help set this up.

665
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 5: I want to make this show. So that was five

666
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,360
Speaker 5: years ago, so it took us quite a while to yeah,

667
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 5: to get to be what was interested in something. If

668
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Speaker 5: it took five years, you got to have patience.

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Speaker 1: But such a long time, wouldn't.

670
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Speaker 5: We hear talking about this if I had no patient?

671
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Speaker 8: Anyway, No, I just loved it, and I because I

672
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 8: love a murder mystery, so many of us do. But

673
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 8: I'm done with people driving arounding cars and knocking on doors.

674
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Speaker 8: So here we were in a national park, trying to

675
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Speaker 8: solve a crime, but in the most beautiful epic setting,

676
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Speaker 8: which has an element of danger to it. And for

677
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 8: those of us who love nature, we know, like there's

678
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 8: yin Yang. It's like you're exposed. It's amazing, but there's

679
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Speaker 8: always this element that it could be in a little

680
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Speaker 8: bit of danger here. So I love the idea of

681
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 8: that genre or that that kind of program but set

682
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Speaker 8: somewhere amazing.

683
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Speaker 5: As a point of difference.

684
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Speaker 2: Uh huh, yeah, I mean it means even more to

685
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Speaker 2: me now that I know it was shot and Whistler.

686
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Speaker 1: I didn't even know that. I didn't even recognize they're

687
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Speaker 1: watching it that it was shot in Whistler.

688
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Speaker 8: Well hopefully you don't, because you know, we had some

689
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Speaker 8: be stuff from Yoursemite that we stitch into my you know,

690
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Speaker 8: So that's good.

691
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Speaker 1: All National parks look the same to me, you know

692
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Speaker 1: what I mean.

693
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Speaker 5: Once you're in the woods, you're a.

694
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Speaker 2: Park ranger for one park, you're a park ranger for

695
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Speaker 2: pretty much all parks.

696
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Speaker 5: I'm not a park range, but you know I'm talking

697
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Speaker 5: about myself.

698
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm a park ranger.

699
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Speaker 2: Right, Investigating Services branch thinks you're a permanent investigative y whatever,

700
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 2: and put it investigator in front of anything, and.

701
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Speaker 1: That's what he is.

702
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, we should we start with you.

703
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 2: I want to hear Eric give advice to people. Yeah,

704
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 2: this is called Dear Chelsea. First of all, it's called

705
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 2: like Dear Abbey. So people are going to call in

706
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 2: for life advice, and based on your based on your

707
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 2: life experience, everything you've been through, you are going to

708
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: tell them what you think they should do.

709
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 5: Will hang on? Will they listen?

710
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

711
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 8: Will do I get evidence as to whether they took

712
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 8: this ship up?

713
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 4: You know, because people follow up with us.

714
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 8: Because my wife and I a sick and tired of

715
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,199
Speaker 8: giving advice to people. Look that they don't take up.

716
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,239
Speaker 5: That's true. So this comes with the price. There's going

717
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:53,919
Speaker 5: to be follow up.

718
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 4: Come on, all right, well, and you can demand it

719
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:57,880
Speaker 4: of the colors when they come on, you can say

720
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Speaker 4: you better follow the caller.

721
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Speaker 5: That's that's a good approach.

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Speaker 4: Well, this one's just an email, but I thought this

723
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 4: would be a good one. We were just talking about traveling,

724
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 4: and you know, especially since you have two grown kids,

725
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 4: you might have some insight on this. Elizabeth says, Dear Chelsea,

726
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 4: for the sake of sisterhood, help a girl out back

727
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 4: on our third date. Eighteen years and two kids ago,

728
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 4: my husband and I dreamed of living abroad for a

729
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 4: year or two. Think Europe Asia, epic memories before our

730
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 4: kids hit high school and stop thinking we're cool. We

731
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 4: fell in love with Barcelona a decade ago and said

732
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 4: this is the place. Well, one day is now. Our

733
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 4: sons headed into sixth, daughter into third, and the clock

734
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 4: is ticking. We can technically afford it in the long run,

735
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 4: but my husband, who runs his own law practice, calls

736
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 4: it quote financial suicide. Meanwhile, I've been in and out

737
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 4: of full time work since COVID, and the plan would

738
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Speaker 4: be for me to be on team logistics while he

739
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 4: keeps the lights on. He feels the pressure. I get it,

740
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 4: but also, yolo, how do I get him to jump?

741
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 4: We both want this. We're dreamers. This country is a

742
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 4: dumpster fire. The kids are still impressionable, and honestly, the

743
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 4: crisp Spanish white wine is calling tips Pep talk, Chelsea Wisdom.

744
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 4: I'll take it all, Elizabeth.

745
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you have to go for it.

746
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 6: You have to.

747
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 2: First of all, no time like the present, especially with

748
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 2: what's happening in our country. Yeah, great reason to get

749
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 2: out of there, and great reason to expose your kids.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm surprised they're even willing to take their

751
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 2: eight and third grader, eight year old and eight and

752
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 2: third grade, whatever the ages are.

753
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it has taken.

754
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:24,959
Speaker 2: But I mean, if they made that a agreement, then

755
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 2: they should follow through on that.

756
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,360
Speaker 1: That's a good idea. Don't you think I think it's

757
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 1: idea you do?

758
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 5: No, I'm joking. Absolutely.

759
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 8: It is the best thing they will ever do for

760
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 8: their kids, for their marriage, for themselves. I understand Hobby's

761
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 8: point of view. He's been stressed about it, but ten

762
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 8: years from now he won't. He'll look back and go,

763
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 8: I don't know why I was stressed about that financial situation.

764
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 8: I made good on that, like within two years, but

765
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 8: the kids will never forget it. Our kids traveled a

766
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Speaker 8: lot through my job. They remember every single location we

767
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 8: ever shot in. They remember absolute specific So it's a

768
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Speaker 8: no brainer. You've got to do or how do you

769
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 8: get the husband over the line? You tell him, threaten him,

770
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 8: Oh no, it only gets harder as the kids get older.

771
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 8: If you don't do it now, you will not do it.

772
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 8: And listen, don't let him say you know what let's

773
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 8: checking again in two years.

774
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 4: That's sixth grade is right before junior high.

775
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: You got to go yeah, yeah, right, you do.

776
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 3: You have to.

777
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: And also you have to take life by the balls,

778
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: Like you know, saying something like it's a financial suicide

779
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 2: is very dramatic. Yes, it's actually not going to be

780
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 2: financial suicide. You'll figure it out, and everyone does figure this.

781
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 4: And even to that end, like I'm not exactly sure

782
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 4: about the logistics, but like he could have a paralegal

783
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 4: or an assistant who's stateside and in your time zone

784
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 4: and he can be working remotely, I would imagine.

785
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 8: But you know what else that the financial suicide. Think

786
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 8: that's something that's in your head when you're in your

787
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 8: current bubble, and the minute they land in where is it, Barcelona,

788
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 8: the words financial suicide will slip out of his brain.

789
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 6: Yeah.

790
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that. You're always worried about the thing.

791
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 5: Get on that plane.

792
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it'd be great for your kids to learn Spanish.

793
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 4: That's really important for Americans. And then also like they're

794
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 4: not just going to be in Barcelona, You're gonna be

795
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 4: taking weekend trips all over.

796
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: Yet you guys can go spend time in my house

797
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: in my Orca. I mean perfect, yeah, hello.

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00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 4: All right done, Elizabeth. Let your husband know, but a

799
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 4: guy and I want to hear.

800
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 5: I want to hear. I want to from with you. Okay,

801
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 5: you can count on that.

802
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 4: And you know what, I'll even say, Elizabeth, if your

803
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 4: husband is not convinced, you guys can call in for

804
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 4: a couple's counseling with Eric.

805
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 2: Bana just told me to It's not gonna there's not

806
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: going to be a bigger conversation after that.

807
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 5: I don't think I don't think.

808
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 3: Well.

809
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Speaker 4: Our first caller is James. James is from Louisiana, and

810
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 4: he says, you're Chelsea. I'm a twenty six year old

811
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Speaker 4: bisexual man from South Louisiana. I've only been with men

812
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 4: since coming out about six years ago. I live in

813
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 4: a small town where everyone knows everybody's business. This past

814
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 4: Christmas Eve, my mom was in the Dollar General when

815
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 4: the mother of an old friend of mine walked up

816
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 4: to her. She proceeded to tell my mom that she

817
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 4: thinks her daughter's child is mine. Within the first couple

818
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 4: of minutes of hearing this, I was in denial, but

819
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 4: after looking through pictures, though, I'm convinced the child is mine.

820
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 4: The quote unquote father of the child doesn't know this information,

821
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 4: and the mother is in a mental health facility for

822
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 4: eighteen months getting help. I'm at a loss for words

823
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 4: over this one and would love some advice. Thanks for

824
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 4: everything you do. James.

825
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa, James Hi. This is our special guest, Eric

826
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 2: Fanna today.

827
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Speaker 5: James Hi. It's nice to meet Chill.

828
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 4: Right, and James is having about of Bell's palsy, so

829
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 4: we have a little bit of a slurred speech, no problem, Yeah, okay, yeah.

830
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: Well it sounds like you're dealing with a lot of

831
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: stuff right now. Yes, I am. And how do you

832
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: think you want to handle this.

833
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,719
Speaker 7: I'm still just kind of like dealing with this at

834
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 7: the moment. But as far as like the kids situation goes,

835
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 7: I mean, I've had a similar view on kids as

836
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 7: you have, and I've never really especially I haven't been

837
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 7: with a girls since like twenty eighteen, so that's something.

838
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 7: But then what's really pulling me in are the amount

839
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 7: of like concerning things like with the child's father supposed

840
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 7: to father, he has like a Confederate flag on the

841
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 7: back of his truck, which is like all you need

842
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 7: to know about that, and especially growing up down here.

843
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 7: My cousin actually babysit the child before because it's just

844
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 7: small town. Everyone knows everyone. She had like seen a

845
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 7: picture of the kid on the fridge and had acts like, Hey,

846
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 7: is that James the mom? She said, no, that's the kid,

847
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 7: but we think that James is the kid's father, and

848
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 7: told her not to say anything. And this is like

849
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 7: a few months before she admitted herself into that mental

850
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 7: health facility for fifteen months. So yeah, and then there's

851
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 7: little things like the kid liked my little pony and

852
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 7: stuff like that. And you also have like a brother

853
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 7: who's a complete opposite, more similar to the father.

854
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 2: But you definitely had sex with this woman, right, Oh yeah,

855
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 2: you could be the father.

856
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 7: I did once.

857
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh okay, so you could be the father. I

858
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: could be the father. Wow, that's heavy, But you don't know.

859
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 4: We don't.

860
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 7: And my mom was in talks with the grandmother about

861
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 7: like a DNA test and stuff like that, but they

862
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 7: kind of thought it would be a better idea to

863
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 7: wait until she gets out so she doesn't feel like blindsided, which.

864
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: I yeah, sure, yeah, yeah.

865
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: I mean she's already got a husband with a Confederate flag, so.

866
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, and they're actually so they're not really like together.

867
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 5: Okay.

868
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: Another thing, who's looking after this little girl right now?

869
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: Her grandparents So.

870
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 7: It's a it's a boy, but yeah, her grandparents, and

871
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 7: she's staying with it.

872
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 5: They're staying with the dad.

873
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:30,719
Speaker 1: Okay.

874
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you need to process exactly how you

875
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: want to approach this before you actually make any move,

876
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Since it's a huge responsibility

877
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: and it is like the rest of your life, you

878
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 2: first of all want to go about it the right

879
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 2: way and actually make sure that she is your daughter

880
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 2: one hundred percent and do a DNA test because son, sorry,

881
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, sorry, and do a DNA test, but also

882
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 2: figure out what the timing of that, what the timing is,

883
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 2: and what makes most sense with regard to the mother

884
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: being in facility, right Like, there's a lot of delicate

885
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 2: issues around.

886
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 7: This, correct, And she does get out in November, so okay.

887
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:09,720
Speaker 5: That's something.

888
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:11,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think maybe at that time you can take

889
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 2: it upon yourself to suggest that you know, in a

890
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 2: face to face with her about.

891
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: Doing a DNA test or if she thinks that you're

892
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: the father, you might not be that's also true.

893
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 2: So yeah, so it's not like, you know, a black

894
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 2: and white situation just yet. I think it's a very

895
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 2: something that you really have to handle with a lot

896
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 2: of delicacy, you know, until you actually do a DNA test.

897
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 5: Got you?

898
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 4: Do you think that he should have a conversation with

899
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 4: the grandma, the one who approached his mom, and just

900
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,320
Speaker 4: just to sort of like get the lay of the

901
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 4: land with the supposed father and the mom.

902
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that would be Are you up for that?

903
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm totally up for that.

904
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 6: Yeah.

905
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 2: I think you just be as nice and reasonable as

906
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 2: you as you obviously are, and have a conversation with

907
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 2: her if she's the one who initiated that conversation, follow

908
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 2: up with it like any responsible adult male would you

909
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 2: know or follow.

910
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 7: Julie walked up to my mom and Dollar General and

911
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 7: was like, so, I don't know if it's my place,

912
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 7: but I think your child is my grandson's dad and

913
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 7: it's just like on Christmas Eve, so.

914
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 5: It's just a lot. Now, how old is the boy?

915
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 4: He's like seven, yeah, so this will be something for

916
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 4: him to process too, like when and if it comes out.

917
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: Yes, I think be very thoughtful don't have unnecessary interactions

918
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 2: with the child until you know for sure what the

919
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 2: situation is, and start with the grandmother. And then in

920
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 2: November when when the mother comes out, then you can

921
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 2: have a conversation with her too, and then just take

922
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 2: steps in the direction of finding out for sure, but

923
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 2: don't do anything rash right now.

924
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 7: Her And then I also have a boyfriend.

925
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: Another question. This is a doubleheader that.

926
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 7: Cast some tension at the time. We've actually built on

927
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 7: our relationships, so I think that would be fine if

928
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 7: it came down to it. But that's just a whole

929
00:35:58,560 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 7: another thing, because it's like.

930
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but again, I think you're getting ahead of yourself.

931
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 2: I think you just take it one step in a time.

932
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 2: You do not have to solve all of the problems

933
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: on one.

934
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,479
Speaker 1: Day, you know, right, that's my problem. Yeah, so just.

935
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 2: Don't overwhelm yourself. You know, you're dealing with a lot,

936
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 2: so just take it. The first step is you're going

937
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: to have a conversation with the grandmother.

938
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 4: Heard, And I would also say check out our episode

939
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 4: we did with Caramo Brown because he has a really

940
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 4: similar story, like he had sex with woman once and

941
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 4: you know, found out way later that he had a

942
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 4: child with her and now they have a wonderful relationship.

943
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 4: So check that episode out.

944
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 5: Awesome.

945
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: Okay, well, thanks for calling in.

946
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 4: Thanks James Black.

947
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

948
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 7: Absolutely, And just lastly, anyone who's on Medicaid, there's a

949
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 7: lot going on right now, and when this happened, I

950
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 7: didn't realize that I was thrown off of it. So

951
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 7: anyone who's on it, anything can happen anytime. And make

952
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 7: sure that you're keeping up with your deadlines and stuff

953
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 7: like that, because they're trying to trick people left and right. Yeah,

954
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 7: just to throw that out, there's some scary stuff.

955
00:36:58,440 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a really good reminder.

956
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 4: I mean, I know any of us can have unexpected

957
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 4: medical bills crop up, So if anyone wants to pitch

958
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 4: in and help with James's medical bills, I will put

959
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 4: a link in the description.

960
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 5: Dear Chelsea.

961
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,879
Speaker 4: Listeners are always so amazing at helping folks out, and

962
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 4: it's a pretty small amount, so I'm sure we can

963
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 4: make a good dent in that.

964
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:24,240
Speaker 2: Okay, thanks James, thank you.

965
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 4: Nice to meet follow up with us.

966
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 1: Oh god, I know.

967
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 6: Barcelona.

968
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, needs to go with that other family to Barcelona.

969
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 2: Oh man, I know, can you imagine if you found

970
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 2: out that we had a baby together, Eric, can you

971
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: imagine what would you do?

972
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 6: Well?

973
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 2: I mean, and you wouldn't haven even remembered how it

974
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 2: happens that. No, you would have been like you, I mean, no,

975
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 2: not so quick, you just I mean, it's a lot

976
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 2: to deal with.

977
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: Unexpected things in life. It's a lot to deal with that.

978
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 5: No, that's that's a lot. It's a lot.

979
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,280
Speaker 4: It's a lot lot now, I mean, but as a dad,

980
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 4: you know, obviously it's a different situation. But as a dad,

981
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 4: I mean, I would assume you would encourage him to

982
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 4: like try to develop a relationship with us kid, right.

983
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 2: But once you know for sure just takes what someone

984
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 2: says at face value like dollar general and you know

985
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 2: what what the.

986
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 8: Hard thing also is like I didn't want to ask

987
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 8: James this, but it's like, how would he feel would

988
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 8: he feel better or worse if you found out tomorrow

989
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 8: that the kid wasn't.

990
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 1: His most good questions? You ask it?

991
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 5: You guys were talking, I was talking about past I'm.

992
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 2: So sorry, you know, Like, you know what, I'd take

993
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 2: a pain pell today for my foot because I wanted

994
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 2: to be coherent for this interview. I wish I had

995
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 2: taken it now I really do.

996
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 5: I don't know.

997
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 8: I mean, would he be relieved or would he be

998
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 8: would he be devastating?

999
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 5: For how many years now has he thought that this

1000
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 5: child is his?

1001
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 2: Just recently the Dollar General store interaction? Do we have

1002
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 2: an easier question?

1003
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: Do you want me to do.

1004
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 5: Leg something to do with motorcycles?

1005
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 2: Have a Lego set of motorcycles that you can put together?

1006
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: You know what?

1007
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 2: A lot of grown men are into Legos? Now do

1008
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 2: you know that it's a thing.

1009
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 4: My sister into Legos. She's like a relaxing thing. I

1010
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 4: put together Legos.

1011
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: But are these more intricate crazy?

1012
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 4: I think they're cute and there's you know, you can

1013
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 4: do like a little flower pot or like different fun

1014
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 4: cute things, or like the set of Harry Potter.

1015
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 8: Recently a Formula one race, the the the trophies were

1016
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 8: sponsored by Legos.

1017
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 5: They got their podium trophies in Lego.

1018
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 8: I'm not sure that goes in the cabinet with all

1019
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 8: the and what happens if you drop it?

1020
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 5: Like someone come around.

1021
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: I think they're different Legos now, like they stick together,

1022
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: It's not.

1023
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 5: Like it's they fell apart.

1024
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 2: I went to my first Formula One race at Barcelona

1025
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 2: a couple of months ago.

1026
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 5: You love it. Yeah, it's it's a very particular thing.

1027
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 2: It's it's I felt watching those guys get stuffed into

1028
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 2: those cars with that dry I was being blown in

1029
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 2: their faces to cool them down. Made me feel And

1030
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 2: I just can't believe that those guys are in the

1031
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 2: car for two and a half hours.

1032
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't know it was that long. So it

1033
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: was pretty intense and it's definitely athletic.

1034
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's a.

1035
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 8: Different It's also like I love it, but there is

1036
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 8: a point where I do prefer watching it at home,

1037
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 8: Like I do love being at the track sometimes, but

1038
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 8: for the race, I do actually really like watching it

1039
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 8: at home with all the commentary and stuff. But no,

1040
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 8: it's a pretty incredible environment. I was recently on a

1041
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 8: trip around Europe with a buddy of mine for a

1042
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 8: few weeks on motorcycles, and we took in some motor

1043
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 8: racing and went to the Austrian Formula one race, which

1044
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 8: is great to compare it to because we have Melbourne

1045
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 8: Formula one which is like five minutes from home, and

1046
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,840
Speaker 8: it was great to compare the differences. But yeah, it's

1047
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 8: a whole other one.

1048
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: You've never driven in one of those races, not a.

1049
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 5: Formula one can No, I've done a lot of racing,

1050
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 5: like GT three.

1051
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: You don't have to be defensive about it.

1052
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 6: No.

1053
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 8: I wasn't being small dicked about it at all. I

1054
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 8: was just, you know, trying to claim my bona fides.

1055
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: There was a long conversation.

1056
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 2: Brad Pitt was recently on Dax's podcast and they were

1057
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 2: talking about Formula one for almost two hours, and I

1058
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 2: texted Dax and I was like, I can't believe you

1059
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: think people want to.

1060
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 5: Listen to this ship.

1061
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: People are so each I.

1062
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 2: Just can't people love Formula one like they love it.

1063
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 2: And the reason I went in Barcelona's because I was performing.

1064
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 2: I was doing a show and my cousins wanted to go.

1065
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 2: She's like, come on, let's go, you'll get the VIP treatment.

1066
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, we'll go, and then they put

1067
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 2: me on the pad or like the pit or.

1068
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 5: The what's it called? Which tame? Were you with you,

1069
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 5: William Williams?

1070
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 2: They both lost that day. Of course, you know what

1071
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 2: I mean?

1072
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 5: Do you have the headphones on and we have to

1073
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 5: listen to all of.

1074
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I did for a while,

1075
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 2: but you know what the best part was the catering.

1076
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: I mean I've been to a lot of VIP like Wimbledon.

1077
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: You know where you go to.

1078
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 5: These suites and.

1079
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get a hour.

1080
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,800
Speaker 2: I was in Glastonbury and then I went to Wimbledon

1081
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: and that's where what happened with my foot?

1082
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,479
Speaker 5: What's next? What made your event are taken off? Next?

1083
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 5: Have you done the Australian Open.

1084
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to do the Australia do you go?

1085
00:41:59,520 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1086
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 2: Fucking love tennis. I was just watching Wimbledon this morning

1087
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 2: before I came over here. Yeah, Alchoriz just one and

1088
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 2: Sinner's playing jo is he beating him?

1089
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: Really? How do you feel about that?

1090
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 8: I have a lot of respect for Job. I mean

1091
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 8: I've seen so many of his finals in Melbourne. Like

1092
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 8: he's just a freak. I mean yeah, I mean I

1093
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 8: love Siner as well. Like it's it's it's handing over

1094
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 8: the guard, isn't it right? I just hope there's going

1095
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 8: to be a third Alchris.

1096
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 5: We need someone else, Yeah, we need a third one.

1097
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: Alcoriz is so much fun to watch, Like, I love him,

1098
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

1099
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 2: Sinner It's an amazing player, but it's less fun to

1100
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: watch that, you know, it used to be Dan hill Ski.

1101
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: Choose between skiing and tennis, just like I had.

1102
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 5: To choose him. I chose skis podcast.

1103
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: I chose a podcast.

1104
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1105
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 4: Well, Kate is deciding about whether to stay with her

1106
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 4: long time well husband.

1107
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: I guess, well, this is this will be something, this

1108
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 1: will be something that Rebecca could relate to.

1109
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 4: So Kate is thirty six, and she says, Dear Chelsea,

1110
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 4: I've been married for almost eight years, together with this

1111
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 4: for almost twenty years now. Recently, some things have come

1112
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 4: up that I think I've always known deep down but

1113
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 4: never wanted to fully admit. My husband is so smart

1114
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 4: and talented in so many ways, but has never reached

1115
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 4: his full potential. He's always bounced between dead end jobs

1116
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 4: and unemployment. He drained our savings training to be a pilot,

1117
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,479
Speaker 4: but that never went anywhere. In the meantime, I've worked

1118
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 4: my ass off to be where I'm at in a

1119
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 4: great career and have always been the main one supporting

1120
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 4: our household. It's exhausting. He always had excuses as to

1121
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 4: why he didn't get promoted or doesn't get better jobs.

1122
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 4: I always believed him and have been rooting for him

1123
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 4: since day one, thinking this next job will be it,

1124
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 4: It'll be the one to lead to a good career.

1125
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,359
Speaker 4: But it never happens, and I'm finally realizing it's him.

1126
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 4: He's the problem. He has no motivation and show zero initiative.

1127
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 4: That's why I'm writing, after all, my quote nagging. He

1128
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,839
Speaker 4: recently admitted that he's content with low level jobs forever.

1129
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 4: He doesn't need anything more to make him happy or fulfilled.

1130
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 4: I accept him for who he is, but I've always

1131
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 4: wanted more for myself, and the resentment is really so

1132
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 4: to build up.

1133
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Speaker 6: Now.

1134
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 4: My question is do I stay with him out of

1135
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 4: love and except that I'll never reach my financial goals

1136
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 4: because he's holding us back. Or is it time I

1137
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 4: let him go and accept that I might just be

1138
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 4: alone forever. I'm so torn and don't want to end

1139
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 4: up regretting my decision ears down the line. Thank you, Kate.

1140
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: Jesus, this is another's a shaker, like bringing the drama. Hi, Kate,

1141
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: this is Eric Barner. He's here to help you today.

1142
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 3: Hi.

1143
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: Wow, that was a heavy letter. That's heavy thinking.

1144
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's been way on me.

1145
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like it. It sounds like it.

1146
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 2: I would say to you, if you're talking about resentment,

1147
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: that really does go away. You know, if you're going

1148
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 2: to accept somebody for who they are, that's one thing.

1149
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 2: But he's kind of falsely advertising who he really is,

1150
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 2: who he really was to a degree, So there's an

1151
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: that adds another layer of resentment. And I would say

1152
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 2: I wouldn't look at this decision as like a binary choice,

1153
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 2: like Okay, I'm staying or going. It's actually, now that

1154
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 2: you've written all of this it out loud, you're calling in,

1155
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 2: you're acknowledging all these feelings. It's kind of like, okay,

1156
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 2: well where does this new information take you? Now that

1157
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 2: you know he's content living like that. I don't want

1158
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: you to look at it like what if I'm alone forever?

1159
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 2: Don't think at anything like that, Like that's not the option.

1160
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 2: It's not him or you're alone forever. You could meet

1161
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 2: somebody else down the road. You could meet somebody in

1162
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 2: two months, you could meet somebody in two years. You

1163
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 2: never know who you're going to meet. I doubt you're

1164
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 2: gonna be alone. Most people aren't. Just by everything that

1165
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 2: you're saying, it sounds like you're getting ready to make

1166
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 2: a move.

1167
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 3: I'm definitely leaning on that side of I think that's

1168
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 3: where my head is at. I think I just I

1169
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 3: don't know. I just love having like an outside perspective of, like,

1170
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,320
Speaker 3: am I making the right choice? I don't know, just

1171
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 3: any sort of validation that I'm not screwing this up

1172
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 3: by leaving. It's just a lot of mixed emotions, so

1173
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 3: any I'm just trying to talk to a therapist, I'm

1174
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 3: trying to talk to all my friends, I'm trying to

1175
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 3: talk to family. Outside perspectives is you know. I'm just

1176
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 3: trying to not make like a rash move immediately.

1177
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: And just like right, I think that's smart.

1178
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: I don't think it should be a rash move, but

1179
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 2: I think you should acknowledge everything that you're feeling. Like,

1180
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 2: if you have a lot of resentment, that's not necessarily

1181
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 2: just going to disappear. Being ambitious and wanting more for

1182
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: yourself is not selfish. That's the type of person you are,

1183
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 2: and acknowledging that is really important. As a woman, it's

1184
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 2: really important also to acknowledge that and not to be

1185
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 2: held back by this idea of like loyalty or love,

1186
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 2: like he'll be okay too. Everyone survives, People get divorced

1187
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 2: all the time. If that's the road that you go down,

1188
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,439
Speaker 2: you really just also have to honor where you see

1189
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 2: yourself in your life, like take the time that is

1190
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 2: necessary to make a deep decision like this and spend

1191
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 2: time alone with yourself, with your thoughts, with a therapist

1192
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 2: and really contemplate how you see your future moving forward

1193
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 2: without him, if that's you know, one option, and how

1194
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:48,879
Speaker 2: it would look with him.

1195
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, and I think that's. Yeah.

1196
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 3: Kind of what I've been talking to with my therapist

1197
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 3: is just like what my values are and I feel

1198
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 3: like we're just kind of growing apart, and like my

1199
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,919
Speaker 3: values and his values maybe don't line at this point,

1200
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 3: like maybe dated ten years ago, but at this point,

1201
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm trying to continue to grow myself

1202
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 3: and like improve myself, and I just don't think that

1203
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 3: he cares to do that.

1204
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 6: And so yeah, if those values don't ALIGNE.

1205
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 2: Like it's not even values, it's just kind of like

1206
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 2: values almost sounds like you're judging him for It's it's

1207
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 2: what you want, your desires, Like you're desiring a different

1208
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 2: type of life. It's not like he's a bad guy

1209
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 2: and you're a good person.

1210
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: It's not like that.

1211
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 2: It's just that you kind of seem like you're on

1212
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 2: two different trajectories. He's content with where he is and

1213
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 2: you're not.

1214
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 8: So school also be really, really tough because you guys

1215
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 8: obviously met really young.

1216
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 5: You've been together for a long time.

1217
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 6: So he did since like nineteen twenty.

1218
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, so in a lot of ways, you didn't get

1219
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 8: to see your fully formed partner until you were well

1220
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 8: and truly truly married. So like if you had a

1221
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 8: met in your mid twenties, it's maybe a little different.

1222
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 8: You might have identified things in your husband that you

1223
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 8: can now that would have been less negotiable up until now.

1224
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 5: I'm really sorry you're in this position.

1225
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 8: There's a naive part of me that goes, oh, he

1226
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 8: sounds like a really I don't want to say, low

1227
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 8: maintenance husband. But is he happy with I know so

1228
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 8: many men who are so so driven and have achieved

1229
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 8: so much, and it was so miserable and bitter, and

1230
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 8: then I hear this, so I'm like, oh, this guy

1231
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 8: doesn't have as much as a lot of people. But

1232
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 8: is he Is he truly happy? Or I don't know

1233
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 8: enough about him to be able to make, you know,

1234
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 8: that sort of a sort of a call. But there's

1235
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 8: a side of me that goes that's kind of a

1236
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 8: really nice thing as well. That's someone who's not crazily driven,

1237
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 8: still really happy with their lot in life, and he

1238
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,240
Speaker 8: probably I'm hoping he adores you. So there's that side obviously,

1239
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 8: but I can hear in your voice maybe that's not

1240
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 8: fully the case. It's a real it's a real tough one.

1241
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 8: But you could also end up with someone who's all

1242
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,399
Speaker 8: the things you want, who's incredibly driven, who's who's maybe

1243
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 8: never home and he's just miserable all the time. I mean,

1244
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 8: that's also possible, right right. I'm not discounting any of

1245
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 8: the way feeling is Chelsea.

1246
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think it's really important as women, first

1247
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: and foremost to really honor the like thoughts and feelings

1248
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 2: you have around a relationship and not stay there for

1249
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 2: someone else.

1250
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

1251
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 2: You really have to look out for yourself because no

1252
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 2: one else is going to look out for you, but you,

1253
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 2: like no one is going to make the best decisions

1254
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 2: for yourself, and whatever your decision ends up being is

1255
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 2: going to be the right one anyway. You know, you're

1256
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 2: going to make a left or you're going to make

1257
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: a right, and you're going to double down in that direction.

1258
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 2: And if you stay, you're going to double down on

1259
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 2: your marriage, and good things can come from that too.

1260
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,479
Speaker 2: It's kind of like almost like you have to become

1261
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 2: non emotional about it.

1262
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 3: You know. Yeah, that's a hard part because yeah, I

1263
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 3: completely agree with Yeah, he's such a great person and

1264
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 3: like that's why I look at my life like, well,

1265
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 3: I mean, anybody that's so low maintenance as him.

1266
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 6: He's like the most low maintenance person ever.

1267
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, like the same thing you're saying to Chelsea, Like,

1268
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 3: I I'm a woman and I feel like I need

1269
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 3: to look out for myself and like my desires.

1270
00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 6: I don't know, it's just it's such a hard place

1271
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 6: to be in.

1272
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 2: So there's no rush at all. You know, it's good

1273
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,919
Speaker 2: to just really like think. I mean, the only bad

1274
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 2: decisions are the really impulsive ones. So as long as

1275
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 2: you're putting a lot of thought into this, you're going

1276
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 2: to come out and make the right.

1277
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 5: Decision, I hope.

1278
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 4: So one thing that might help as you're sort of

1279
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 4: making this decision is you wouldn't help to.

1280
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 2: Have sex with Eric Bannett, would that help and making

1281
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 2: this decision on offer because we can do this right now?

1282
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: Okay, ye, would you be willing to do that if

1283
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: you thought it would help Eric?

1284
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 5: He acts like this, but you know, I'm sorry shy,

1285
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 5: and he's like, she's sharing her thinking out loud. That's good.

1286
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 1: I mean, this is a good solution.

1287
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 5: Actually, I mean this wasn't.

1288
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: Look here we are now here we are.

1289
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 4: But as you're sort of like dealing with these two

1290
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 4: like very different decisions, one thing you can do is

1291
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 4: pretend like you made a decision one way and sit

1292
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 4: with it for a couple of days and feel how

1293
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 4: it fails. And then take a couple of days where

1294
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 4: you've quote unquote made the other decision and like see

1295
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 4: which one feels good, which one feels like a relief

1296
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 4: to you.

1297
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1298
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've kind of been doing that over the last

1299
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 3: couple of months, and I think I keep going back

1300
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 3: to leaving and I think that's my answer. I just

1301
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, trying to make sure that's the right answer.

1302
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 3: And so I appreciate all of the advice, yeah, from everybody.

1303
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 2: Keep us posted when you do make a decision. I'd

1304
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 2: like to know what happens. And Eric wants a follow

1305
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 2: up too, he wants to know what happens to all

1306
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 2: of our.

1307
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 5: What happens.

1308
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 1: And I've already tried to have sex with him. It's

1309
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:46,720
Speaker 1: not going to work. He's actually married happily.

1310
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: So listen, I think all of these conversations, like, I

1311
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 2: think a lot of women are going through this right now.

1312
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 1: You're not alone in right like, there's a lot of

1313
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:56,760
Speaker 1: women of our age that are happening.

1314
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure you're younger than me, but like

1315
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 2: in the world today realizing like maybe we don't need

1316
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 2: this partner. Maybe I certainly don't need a partner for

1317
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 2: what you know, you better bring a lot to the table,

1318
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: so like I can totally relate to why you be

1319
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 2: feeling this way, and that so many women are feeling

1320
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 2: this way.

1321
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 5: Do you have children together?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 6: Thank God, that's the one thing I don't have to

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Speaker 6: worry about. I mean, we have a lot of animals,

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Speaker 6: but no children.

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Speaker 5: So okay, Well, I.

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Speaker 1: Would say that's your answer right there.

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Speaker 2: Get I would say you can get out free without

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Speaker 2: children and that then hell yeah, and then get out.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean to be harsh about it, but that's

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Speaker 1: how I feel.

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Speaker 3: No, but I appreciate the harshness because I'm kind of

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00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 3: a harsh person too. So yeah, but with him, I've

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Speaker 3: just been taking care of him for our whole entire lives. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and so I feel like he's the one person that

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Speaker 3: I'm not harsh with. And maybe I need to start

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00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 3: I need to do that.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Kate, will you follow up with us?

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Speaker 3: I will absolutely thank you, Thank you, good luck, k

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Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 6: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: Chelsea.

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Speaker 4: I think you bring up a really good point. And

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Speaker 4: I mentioned this to her when we chatted in our

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Speaker 4: pre interview. I feel like, for me right now, there's

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00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 4: a lot of women around who are around me who

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00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 4: are leaving a marriage, not because there was some big

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00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 4: chaotic breakup or cheating or whatever. It's just because like

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00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 4: I think there's something better, or this doesn't feel like

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00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 4: the right fit, or we've grown apart, and.

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Speaker 2: That's not a bad Like that's not the biggest failure

1353
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 2: in the world when something doesn't work out, Like I

1354
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 2: think that's what women are coming to grips with that

1355
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 2: it's not the end of your world if you break up,

1356
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 2: if your marriage breaks up, Like the dissolution of a

1357
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: marriage doesn't mean it's over, Like you can have a

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00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 2: new beginning, like and you know, men it seem to

1359
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 2: have lat nine lives.

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Speaker 1: Men get married three or four times and.

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00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:42,479
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, women just aren't as codependent, and women

1362
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 2: are like you know, they're going through something. I mean,

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00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 2: I feel like, when you have to make a really

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00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 2: hard decision, Eric, is there a decision you can think

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00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 2: of that you really had to struggle with? Because I

1366
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 2: always just think, make a decision in either direction and

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Speaker 2: then just go with that.

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Speaker 5: I do sit on them for quite a long time,

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00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 5: like indecisive. No, no, not even to saw us Eve.

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Speaker 8: I don't like to feel pressured into making a quick decision,

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Speaker 8: you know, So I'm comfortable sitting on it for quite

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Speaker 8: a while.

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Speaker 5: But it's it's and it sounds like I could just

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00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 5: hear it in a voice. There's she's lost some respect

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00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 5: for him.

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00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 5: It's hard to move past that, isn't it.

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00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think once you get to that point, yeah,

1379
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 2: because it all sounds like a great idea when you're

1380
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 2: starting out, but you have to grow and evolve together

1381
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 2: and taking care of someone is not sexy.

1382
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: That's not hot. You know, no one gets turned on

1383
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: by that. Yeah they think they are they going to

1384
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 1: like that.

1385
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 2: But there is some sort of like awakening or uprising

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00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 2: happening with women right now.

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00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 5: So you are helping forge that.

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00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 3: I am.

1389
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 5: I've been helping.

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00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 2: Forge it before I was even here. Well, thank you,

1391
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 2: I didn't it couldn't tell if you were serious.

1392
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:43,760
Speaker 5: I'm deadly serious.

1393
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: I appreciate that.

1394
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 5: I'm deadly serious. Thank you.

1395
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean you've probably helped a lot of people

1396
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 8: really really move on and like empowered it.

1397
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,440
Speaker 2: And I'm but I'm not like a proponent of like

1398
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 2: I don't want to be a relationship wrecker, like get

1399
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:57,879
Speaker 2: away from him, Like I'm not anti man.

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00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 1: I just think that I'm pro woman, you know what

1401
00:54:59,680 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: I mean.

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00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 8: I'm just saying it's not the end of the world, Like,

1403
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 8: don't look yourself as a failure if a relationship doesn't work,

1404
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 8: because I think I think a lot of people do

1405
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 8: have that baggage associated with like how how is this

1406
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:10,320
Speaker 8: going to?

1407
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 5: Am I a failure? With these files? Like how does

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00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 5: this reflect on me as a person?

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00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 6: Right?

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00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 5: Right? Something of the world?

1411
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 2: No, and you survive everything even if someone like the

1412
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 2: worst things that could happen in your life.

1413
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: You are survivable.

1414
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 2: So once you have a enough life experience, you realize, oh,

1415
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 2: I'm not going to be broken.

1416
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 6: You know what I mean.

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00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 2: Somebody doesn't have another person doesn't necessarily have the power

1418
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 2: to break you.

1419
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 1: That's kind of on you.

1420
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 5: Yeah. Cool, it's a cool message.

1421
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna wrap up. We'll be right back. I'm

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00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 1: going to give Eric a quick bath and then we're

1423
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: going to be right back to wrap up this podcast,

1424
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:47,240
Speaker 1: and we're back with Eric Bannett.

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00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 5: I'm so much cleaner now.

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00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 2: Eric Bannett one of my favorite people. Love him so much,

1427
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 2: Love you so much. And the new show is called Untamed.

1428
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 2: It's now streaming on Netflix. So if you want to

1429
00:55:56,920 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 2: watch some Eric Banner porn, that's where you should watch it.

1430
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 5: Six whole hours of it, six hours of Aaron Bana.

1431
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 8: You do.

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00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 1: You know, you don't come at us all the time,

1433
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 1: So when we get you, we have to we have

1434
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: to watch it.

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00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:11,720
Speaker 5: Limited supply.

1436
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 2: You're not oversaturating yourself. So no, it's a limited supply and.

1437
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: We're lucky to have it.

1438
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 8: Get it before the WiFi drops that I'll say, you know,

1439
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 8: that's right limited supply.

1440
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 2: I also want to say one thing about Australians before

1441
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 2: you go. I have a lot of Australians in my

1442
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 2: life and they have to rob it and I thought, well,

1443
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 2: most of them are Sydney, but they always think they're

1444
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 2: right about everything.

1445
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 5: Really, yes, that's a Sydney thing, is it?

1446
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 3: Is it?

1447
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: Because that's what my next question was, A bit.

1448
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 5: More people from mel bit more bit more?

1449
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, explaining to me that, like, I was listening to

1450
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 2: a podcast with my friend if she is, she's Australian,

1451
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 2: and while we were listening to the podcast, she was

1452
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 2: explaining the podcast to me, I'm like, I can't hear anything.

1453
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 5: How is it?

1454
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 8: It's just because you always hang out and suit? How

1455
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:57,959
Speaker 8: is it you don't you don't have many Melbourne friends?

1456
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 2: You have more, you know, because I think Melbourne people

1457
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 2: stay in Australia and Sydney people move to the States.

1458
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 2: But yeah, Sydney is my city there. I would love

1459
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:09,359
Speaker 2: to live in Australia one day. I mean that's really

1460
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 2: just like kind of a very idyllic lifestyle.

1461
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 8: It's a great place to leave. But you got you got,

1462
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 8: you got a pretty good he got your little place

1463
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 8: up in whistle there. You just just get up there

1464
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 8: with your.

1465
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 2: Dogs and my bear, my bear that I'm going to

1466
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 2: find another steak out on your front porch.

1467
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 5: I don't think so. I'm not that stupid. I'm hearing

1468
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 5: three properties, none of them in Australia. That's what I'm hearing.

1469
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 5: That's what you are here.

1470
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's what you're hearing. No miracle ear for you.

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00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 1: You've got this. Okay, Eric, thank you so much.

1472
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 5: So awesome to see you.

1473
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: Thanks for having always loved it.

1474
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 5: Oh god.

1475
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 6: Okay.

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00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: My remaining dates for Vegas. There are remaining dates for

1477
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: this year.

1478
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 2: Summertime is coming and I will be in Vegas at

1479
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 2: the Cosmo doing my residency on August thirtieth, and then

1480
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:01,919
Speaker 2: November one and twenty ninth.

1481
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 1: November one and November twenty.

1482
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 2: Ninth, I will be in Las Vegas at the Cosmo

1483
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 2: performing Inside Myself at the Chelsea.

1484
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 1: It's called Chelsea at the Chelsea for a reason. Okay,

1485
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 1: thank you.

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