WEBVTT - Miss Bahama Mama 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:16.919 Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, I just 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:25.360 officially took my kids on the first vacation as a 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:33.400 single mom alone with five children. Oh boy, so grateful. 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:38.880 We had the best time. I mean, oh am I kidding, 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:43.640 I'm a mom. I need a vacation from my vacation. 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:49.199 But the kids had such a great time, and I 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:52.920 felt like this was the right time. They've been through 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:57.080 a lot in the last couple of years and we 0:00:57.280 --> 0:01:03.280 haven't been able to go places and do things, and 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:06.240 I really for this spring break. I was like, you 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:11.000 know what, I want to make this happen and super grateful. 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:17.320 We went to Atlantis in the Bahamas, Bahama Mama here, 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:22.880 and they were so lovely and just provide it such 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:32.319 an amazing environment and time for us, and it was great. Okay, 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:37.440 let me start at the beginning. First of all, I 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:41.400 just got to say, I came back from my vacation 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:44.880 and this is the only thing I came back with. 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:53.880 Nice thanks. What does it say? It says Bahamas? Oh yeah. 0:01:54.320 --> 0:02:01.680 When I describe it for the fans, oh, it's a. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:08.360 It's a booby mug clack. It's quite literally a boob 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:12.560 mug so I used to when I was younger, and 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:17.640 I haven't traveled that many places because my fear of flying. 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:23.480 And you know, it's my new chapter, Tory two point zero, 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:28.320 and I'm trying to let go of that and really 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:34.880 do experiences with my children and create memories. So when 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:38.000 I was younger, though, whenever I would go away, which 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:41.960 was usually for work, like to go do a TV 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:46.120 movie or anything. I don't even know why, I would 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:50.040 always get a shot glass and it wasn't for like 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:55.920 drinking purposes. But yeah, so I have this like insane 0:02:56.400 --> 0:03:00.840 shock glass collection from like, you know, a TV movie 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:06.080 in you know, Charleston, South Carolina, you know, every place 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:09.600 in Canada, like you know, and the places I did 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:13.680 visit and I have actually been to. We went to Nassau, 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:18.600 which I think there's seven hundred islands in the Bahamas, 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:23.280 which I did not know. Nasau is the capital and 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:28.160 it's just like growing exponentially every year. So I was 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:32.640 here twice. I came once on a celebrity like one 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:36.080 of those celebrity trips. I and Zering was there with me, 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:40.440 my brother was with me, a bunch of other celebrities. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:45.800 Oh my gosh, Jean Claude van Dam last time. Let 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:49.520 me take that again. Jean Claude van Dam. The first 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:52.480 time I was in the Bahamas, was there on the 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:57.480 celebrity trip and at the time along with Chris Jenner 0:03:57.840 --> 0:04:03.160 and then at the time Bruce Jenner. So that was 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:08.640 a fun experience, and Jean Claude van Dam had quite 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:13.120 a fancy for me, and he kept coming up but 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:15.800 he couldn't say my name, and he'd come up to 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:21.039 me and be like lor oh, Lori, and I'm like, 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:26.080 and Iron's like Sean Claude vandamn. Like at the time, 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:29.919 he was like huge, and he was like, you gotta 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:32.640 go for it. He's gonna put you in a blockbuster 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:35.880 like action film. And I was like, I'm not that girl. 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:39.279 I'm not like a casting couch girl. And I was like, 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:44.640 and he keeps calling me Lori, and he's like Sean 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.200 Claude Vandamn. He can call you whatever he wants. And 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:49.960 I was like, okay, Laurie. It is so to this 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:52.760 day my brother Randy and I Randy always looks at 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:58.120 me and goes lor and I'm like, yep, anyway, I 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:02.440 didn't go for it. Yeah, could have been a huge movie. Star. 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:07.600 Oh well. But the second time I was in the Bahamas, 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:11.479 I came for Jason Priestley's wedding. Ruthan, you were there. 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:12.159 I was. 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:15.880 Did you say that with a question? No, I said, 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:20.680 oh I was, I was, you were and we were 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:24.800 there and Jason new we got married in the Bahamas 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:29.120 and it was really really fun. It was great, great weekend. 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:33.960 That was such a great trip. And yeah, that was 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:37.960 all before kids. So this is my first time there 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:42.440 with kids. And it was like to begin with, it 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.000 was like, you know, I'm doing everything on my own. Now, 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.640 I'm my brain doesn't process things like oh my gosh, 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.400 booking flights doing like I don't have an assistant, Like 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:57.640 it's like, uh so, just just booking the flights alone 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:02.640 for six humans was like, oh my gosh. And of course, 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:05.760 you know, you know, kids are kids, and they're like, oh, 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:09.160 are we in first class? I'm like nope. Are we 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:13.920 in business? I'm like nope. So it was a pack flight, 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:18.120 so we got a direct flight there. It was like 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:23.960 the last seats available, very last row of the plane. 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:28.599 But Bo was so excited and I realized, like he's 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:33.039 been to Mexico before, he's been to Maui, but he 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.160 doesn't remember because he just turned eight, so you know, 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:40.000 his memories like he kind of remembers Maui, but not really. 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.680 So for him, he was like, oh my gosh. He 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:47.200 was elated. This was like really truly his first vacation. 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:51.440 And he started packing like days before, which I'm like, 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:53.800 you are not my son, because if you know me, 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:56.920 you know me. And I throw everything in a bag 0:06:57.120 --> 0:07:01.120 thirty minutes before we leave for the airport. That's a 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:06.000 lot like fifteen Dan stress it. Ruthanna and I go 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:07.920 on work trips all the time. That stresses her out 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:19.480 really well, A list you have to medicate. She sends 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:22.240 me a list the day before and I'm like, that 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:24.200 is so kind of you, and you took the time 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:25.600 to do that. Do you think I'm going to look 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:26.160 at a list. 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:30.120 I haven't known to come over and pack for you 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:33.920 because I just can't handle worrying that you won't be 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:35.760 backed and believe. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:38.600 Well, you usually get here and you're like are you 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:46.440 ready and I'm like nope, and they're like okay, let's go. Okay. 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:49.240 So Bo was packing days before and he had a 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:52.480 T shirt picked out for every day and underwear for 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:56.080 every day pants shorts. I'm like, dude, we're not going 0:07:56.160 --> 0:07:58.560 to need that, Like you're it's vacation, you're going to 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:00.680 be in the same thing. But he was too excited, 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:03.200 so he was bringing everything. And then he was like 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:07.800 shriping toys. I'm like, you're gonna need toys, like you're 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:12.840 gonna be out there doing so many things. Anyway, it 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:18.680 was it was a good flight. You know. He asked, 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.720 as all kids do, are we there yet? Are we 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:24.640 there yet? That doesn't just happen in the car, It 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:28.960 happens on planes too, And I was like, well, nope, 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:32.680 four more hours, Nope, three more hours. And our flight 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:36.959 there didn't have like the TVs or anything, so I 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:40.480 was like, oh boy. And then he's like, oh, snacks. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:43.920 He wanted snacks and I'm like, oh my god. And 0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:46.480 you know, they didn't have meals on the plane, so 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.800 we dealt with that. He had some like pretzels and stuff. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:52.560 But anyway, he was just so excited to get there 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:58.440 and we landed. It was beautiful. Well we landed at night, 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:01.800 so it was beautiful, but we couldn't see everything. And 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.120 I said, just wait in the morning, you guys, you're 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:08.080 gonna see, it's gonna be like crystal blue waters. We're 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:11.800 on an island. It's gonna be so great. The hotel 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:18.120 picked us up, got us to Atlantis, and in Atlantis 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:24.000 we had Butler surface and I was like, I mean, 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:27.079 you know me, I can't ask for anything, like I 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:31.920 feel bad asking anybody to do anything for me ever, 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:36.560 like not worthy, not worthy. And we got there and 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:39.960 they were like, oh my gosh, you know my kids. 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:45.080 Of course my kids go, uh did we see a Starbucks? 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:47.880 Heer And I was like, oh my god, you got 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:51.040 to Bahamas and that's what you noticed in the hotel 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:54.920 walking up because I'm pointing out, like this hotel they 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:59.120 have like they have everything. They have like different towers. 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:02.920 I think they have fun different towers. It's expansive, it's 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:07.440 huge something for everyone. You really don't have to leave 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:12.640 the resort, which we didn't, and you can do so 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:16.240 many different activities anything and everything. Oh we had so 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:19.240 many plans, you know they had you could go like 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:24.520 swim with the dolphins. Oh of course, my kids because 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:28.760 we have pigs. We're like we read on TikTok or 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:31.720 we saw on TikTok that you can go swimming with 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:36.200 the pigs and so on the way there, we asked 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.560 the driver. We were like, oh, you know, tell us 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:42.679 some great things like and I was like, you know, 0:10:42.760 --> 0:10:45.600 if we do venture off, you know, out of the resort, 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:50.360 we like, you know, not anything touristy or fancy. We 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:54.320 want like really like like great food and like where 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:58.959 you know, locals eat like we want want that experience. 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:03.760 We like trying new food and everything. And then I said, okay, 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:06.480 I got to ask you. My kid's asking about swimming 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:10.640 at the pigs and he's like not a fan. And 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:15.160 I was like why And my son, Finn goes because 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:19.840 they poop everywhere. Have you seen those videos? And it's 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:23.360 in literally the videos that people being like, oh my gosh, 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:26.240 I'm swimming with the pigs. I'm playing with the pigs, 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:30.320 And then it's like that on Instagram versus the reality 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:33.560 that there's someone in the water that literally is going 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:37.600 behind and just scooping up poop because they're just pooping everywhere. 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:45.280 No way, you just burst my bubble. But I know 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.320 Finn looked it up and he showed me. He's like, Mom, 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:56.040 don't do this. He's so nice. He goes, don't waste 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.960 our money. On this he goes the pigs poop everywhere. 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.600 It's gonna be messy, it's going to get everywhere. No 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:04.600 one wants that. And I was like, no, no, no, no, 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.800 we don't want that. So we did not do that. 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:11.120 But there was like a the at Atlantis that you 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:14.960 can go like swim with the dolphins and play time 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:19.560 with the steamrays and go fishing and do all that stuff. 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:23.840 We had all these big plans, but honestly we were 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:28.559 so happy just going down to the pools every day. 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.240 Oh the water park. They have a water park. That 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:34.840 was big success. The kids loved that we were there 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:46.240 every day. That was like huge. Going back to our 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:50.760 butler the first night, Valentina, and you become like family 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:54.200 with everyone. I got to say, everyone in the Bahamas, 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:59.959 especially at Atlantis, huge hearts. Everyone is kind everyone is positive, 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:07.160 and it's very refreshing nowadays coming from the States that 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:11.439 we're in, going somewhere where people are just all positive 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:16.720 leading with kindness, you know, just happy and just the 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:23.280 kindness was unbelievable. So but Valentina says, oh, I was like, oh, 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:26.720 my kid's like, oh Starbucks, and she's like, oh yeah, 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:30.079 And I was like Okay, well, if you're going to 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:32.040 get up in the morning, go to Starbucks, like we 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:35.080 could go down and have breakfast, like you can get 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:40.040 Starbucks anywhere. And she was like, no, give us the order. 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:43.480 We will place the order for Starbucks. And I was 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:45.800 like what. I was like, oh no, no, no, I 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:49.839 don't feel worthy. I can't ask for things. She's like, well, 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:52.320 she's like I'm going to change that. She's like, you're 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:54.160 going to learn to ask for things on this trip 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:57.560 because that is what this experience is about. We are 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.960 here to help. And I was like, oh my god, 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:04.760 thank you. So yeah, so the kids got Starbucks every 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:08.840 single morning. I'm like pointless whatever. But AnyWho, being a 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:12.760 big family, you know, we always have to have rooms 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:16.479 where we double up. And they had this beautiful suite 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:20.040 that they put us in where we had two bedrooms, 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:24.200 so Bo and I were in one and then two 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:28.720 queen beds in one room, so Liam and Finn and 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:34.520 Stella and Hattie. Although Hattie's Hattie said that Finn was 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.720 on his device talking to his friends back in La 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:39.720 like great, how much did that cost? 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:40.440 Uh? 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:43.800 Most of the nights, so she slept on the couch 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:50.480 every night to get some sleep. But it's definitely Mike. 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.920 I'm lucky my kids sleep in and this isn't a 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:57.600 me thing, Like, well, I like to sleep too, but 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:00.920 having kids, I'm up every day, Like I just wake 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:03.960 up at like six or seven, but I'll chill and 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:06.960 just lay there. If they're not up, I'm like, cool, 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:12.240 this is some meantime I can get some work done. Yeah. Anyway, 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:16.400 so they slept late, like every day, so by the 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:19.280 time we would get down to the pool, it was like, 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:22.800 you know, half a day and it's like okay, but 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:26.640 they have a lounge there, so they would go up 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:32.440 and have breakfast. Bo was a huge fan of the 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:38.760 chicken sausages. He says, no pork, my good boy, chicken sausages. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:44.240 He got that. Every day, he got orange juice. Mama 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:50.000 had an espresso and a mimosa. Why because I deserve it. 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:55.760 And it was really funny. Before we left for the trip, 0:15:56.040 --> 0:16:02.440 my daughter Stella, we had gone to Rolling Loud, first 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:06.200 music festival that I've ever been to in my life 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:11.480 aside from like iHeart experiences, but like at two day 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:14.960 like music festival and it's called Rolling Loud and it's 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:18.600 rap music and some of my kids were like, oh 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:23.120 my god, we're super into it. So we got tickets, 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:27.000 and of course, single mom here I had to take them. 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:29.400 And I was like, oh my god, it's just like 0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:35.400 thousands of people and they're just dancing and jumping, and 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:39.000 I'm sure, you know a lot of people are intoxicated. 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:43.800 It's just like loud music. And I'm like, oh my gosh. 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:48.360 I'm a good mom. I'm a really good mom. But anyway, 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:53.080 she got her toes stepped on so hard at one 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:58.560 of the performances that her toenails turned black and blue 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:03.760 and one toenail came off. It was that bad. So 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:09.520 she was worried going to you know, another country and 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:13.080 being you know, in the pool or the ocean and 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:17.119 the sand with the toenails. So the day before we 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:20.600 got in to see a podiatrist and we went and 0:17:20.680 --> 0:17:24.080 he said to me, okay, you know, he patched her up. 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:28.080 She was okay, and it's fine, but he said, oh, 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:31.840 where are you going? He said, oh, the Bahamas And 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:37.399 he said oh with who, Like, are you bringing help? 0:17:37.480 --> 0:17:40.520 And I said no, no, I don't have that, like 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:45.480 it's literally just me. And he knew I'm getting divorced, 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:51.040 and he said, are you medicating? What medicine are you taking? 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:55.359 I was like, oh, shoot, I don't have anything. That 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:58.760 was my first clue, like, oh my god, Oh my god, 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:05.680 am I going to be okay? But yeah, so yeah, 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:12.280 it was definitely tricky being a single parent with five kids. 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:15.000 Now a lot of people will say to me, my 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:17.800 friends will say like, oh, but they're older and the 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:22.040 older ones will take care of the younger one. I'm like, 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:25.719 have you met my kids? Oh? Boy? You know, and 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:28.160 it's their spring break. They each want to do their 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:31.399 own different thing and they do travel as a group. 0:18:31.520 --> 0:18:37.720 But you know Stella immediately, she's very social. She met friends. 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:41.320 So she had like teen friends the entire time from 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:45.680 different parts of you know, the country that she met, 0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:48.480 and she would hang out with them and go do stuff. 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:53.240 And one of our closest friends happened to be there. 0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:56.960 It was her last day there. We got to see 0:18:56.960 --> 0:19:01.399 her the first day and Liam did help. He was 0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:05.520 very helpful and he kind of stuck with me. And 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:10.879 it was interesting because the legal drinking age there is eighteen, 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:15.880 so he could legally have his first drink. And I 0:19:15.960 --> 0:19:19.520 was like, he was like, are you okay if I 0:19:19.560 --> 0:19:23.000 try something? I'm like, yeah, of course you're in the Bahamas. 0:19:23.080 --> 0:19:26.920 It's legal, you're eighteen. So he's like, okay, which I get. 0:19:26.960 --> 0:19:29.480 He got like I think he got a peanut Colada 0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:33.159 and he was like, this is so weird, mom, Like 0:19:33.600 --> 0:19:36.960 I'm able to drink here and they can gamble, which 0:19:37.080 --> 0:19:41.840 we didn't do. But it's interesting because legally they can't 0:19:41.960 --> 0:19:46.639 drive there till they're eighteen, but they can drink and 0:19:46.680 --> 0:19:51.640 gamble at eighteen, and here we can't drink gamble till 0:19:51.840 --> 0:19:55.760 we're twenty one, but you can drive at sixteen. So anyway, 0:19:56.160 --> 0:20:00.800 little facts, fun facts. Hattie when in ocean a lot. 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:06.760 She loves snorkeling. She loved seeing all the fishes and 0:20:06.840 --> 0:20:11.520 doing that. Finn did the water park. I did. We 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:15.920 did have a cabana and I had to I took 0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:21.720 photos multiple times to be like, uh, guys, the scenery's great, 0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:24.160 so you can look out, but if you're on your 0:20:24.400 --> 0:20:28.720 devices here in the defeats the whole purpose. Like we 0:20:28.760 --> 0:20:31.520 could have stayed home, you know, and put up on 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:36.000 the TV, like the TV screen like an island picture, 0:20:36.200 --> 0:20:41.920 like it's beautiful out there, like go and one day 0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:46.359 the butler at the cabana. She was telling me. She 0:20:46.520 --> 0:20:49.520 was like, so, she's like, you guys, you have to 0:20:49.520 --> 0:20:52.080 get off your devices and tablets like and phones like 0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:54.800 and go out and do stuff. And she's like, you know, 0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:57.560 when your mom and I were young, because she's fifty, 0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:00.720 and she said, when we were young, we didn't have 0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:03.359 that stuff. And she's like, especially, you know, I grew 0:21:03.400 --> 0:21:07.359 up here on the island and there was nothing, and 0:21:07.720 --> 0:21:10.240 our parents would say, you know, get up in the 0:21:10.280 --> 0:21:12.840 morning and they'd be cleaning the house and they'd say 0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:17.000 go out, and we'd have to go outdoors and you know, 0:21:17.160 --> 0:21:20.119 make friends with lizards and make our own toys and 0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:24.760 climb trees and you know, have fun outdoors and we 0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:27.280 couldn't come back in until it was like the sun 0:21:27.400 --> 0:21:32.480 was setting. And then she said, but she said the 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:35.880 highlight was at this time when she was growing up. 0:21:36.280 --> 0:21:41.600 She said, we had one TV channel, and that one 0:21:41.680 --> 0:21:44.919 TV channel and it didn't start. TV didn't come on 0:21:45.080 --> 0:21:48.920 till five PM. She said, So growing up, like kids 0:21:49.000 --> 0:21:51.840 would be like, oh my gosh, we don't like have 0:21:51.920 --> 0:21:54.840 clocks and stuff, so we don't know and we see 0:21:54.880 --> 0:21:57.360 the sun start to go down and we're like, oh, 0:21:57.960 --> 0:22:00.639 is it almost time. Is it almost time? And we 0:22:00.760 --> 0:22:03.280 go in and you're allowed to watch TV from five 0:22:03.359 --> 0:22:07.040 to eight pm, and she said I would always watch 0:22:07.160 --> 0:22:09.320 nine oh two one zero and I said, oh my gosh, 0:22:09.600 --> 0:22:13.000 thank you so much. She goes that. She goes, and 0:22:13.040 --> 0:22:16.639 my other favorite show, she goes, I Love you a lot, 0:22:17.040 --> 0:22:20.320 she goes, but my favorite was Punky Brewster and I said, 0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:23.080 oh my god, Sole Moonfries one of my closest friends. 0:22:23.880 --> 0:22:27.600 I said, so I texted Sole and Karne was her 0:22:27.680 --> 0:22:30.680 name in the exchanged texts, and Karine was like, oh 0:22:30.680 --> 0:22:35.399 my gosh, I can't believe this. Super excited, but it 0:22:35.480 --> 0:22:39.240 was just so interesting that it's so different for us. 0:22:39.320 --> 0:22:42.120 And I was hoping the kids were hearing this and 0:22:42.200 --> 0:22:48.359 like and then she goes to Bo. She goes and Finn. 0:22:48.359 --> 0:22:52.160 She was like, so do you guys know marbles? And 0:22:52.800 --> 0:22:55.080 Bo was like, I know marbles and she's like, you do, 0:22:55.280 --> 0:22:58.359 I'm impressed. So you do know games and getting outdoors 0:22:58.400 --> 0:23:03.520 and playing stuff, And he goes, I know marbles. They 0:23:03.560 --> 0:23:06.320 played it in squid games and if you didn't play 0:23:06.359 --> 0:23:12.320 it right, you died. Like yep, there you go. So 0:23:13.680 --> 0:23:17.200 that's how he knew about marbles. Interesting. So anyway, that 0:23:17.320 --> 0:23:20.400 was one of the games and squid games, play marbles 0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:32.800 and yeah, anyway, I have a question. Yes, if you 0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:38.040 don't mind, please the butler. Uh huh. 0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:41.760 I pictured the butler just sort of being on call 0:23:42.320 --> 0:23:44.320 near your room. 0:23:43.920 --> 0:23:46.639 But you said the butler was also at the pool. 0:23:46.800 --> 0:23:49.280 So was the butler just following you around wherever you 0:23:49.320 --> 0:23:52.120 guys went, like in a butler outfit holding. 0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:56.400 A tray kind of thing. Like what I got understand? 0:23:57.280 --> 0:23:59.760 You just said that I felt so shamed because of 0:23:59.800 --> 0:24:02.840 my childhood. Like I want to like get defensive and 0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:07.880 be like, no, no, we didn't have that. Yes, yes 0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:16.399 you do. That's crazy but awesome. So they have the 0:24:16.440 --> 0:24:21.480 butler service, like in your tower and you go on 0:24:21.800 --> 0:24:26.720 WhatsApp and you have a group chat with everybody. So 0:24:27.440 --> 0:24:31.560 it was hold on with everybody in your group or 0:24:31.600 --> 0:24:35.120 everybody in the tower. No, you get a group chat 0:24:35.160 --> 0:24:41.320 and they titled it uh Tory's Family Vacation and it 0:24:41.400 --> 0:24:44.919 was I was on it, Liam Stella, Hattie and Finn 0:24:46.000 --> 0:24:50.240 and all of the butlers and people that worked in 0:24:50.280 --> 0:24:54.360 the lounge in Atlantis. Everyone could pipe in so if 0:24:54.359 --> 0:24:59.359 we ever needed anything or had questions, you know, reservations 0:24:59.359 --> 0:25:02.560 for dinner, the like that we could ask in the chat. 0:25:03.520 --> 0:25:07.560 But then at the pool, if you have a cabana, 0:25:08.280 --> 0:25:14.679 they have butler service at the cabana. So there's like 0:25:15.119 --> 0:25:20.119 room butlers and pool butlers. Does that make sense? It does? 0:25:22.040 --> 0:25:26.960 Yeah and yeah. And the first day I was like, 0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:33.760 oh my gosh, poor fifth child. Yeah, poor, he's so spoiled. 0:25:35.560 --> 0:25:40.479 He only has one bathing suit and he had outgrown it. 0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:43.000 And I said, you know what, don't worry. We're going 0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:46.120 to the Bahamas. We're going to Atlantis. They have everything. 0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:50.840 It's like the shopping mecca there. Don't worry. We can 0:25:50.880 --> 0:25:55.600 get a bathing suit. And he said, okay, okay. So 0:25:55.880 --> 0:26:00.240 the first day I said on the WhatsApp group chat 0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:03.600 with the butlers, I said, excuse me, I said, Bow 0:26:03.840 --> 0:26:08.119 needs a bathing suit. Could you tell me where a 0:26:08.200 --> 0:26:10.719 store is located that I can go down and get it. 0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:14.040 And they said, oh no, no, no, we'll go for 0:26:14.280 --> 0:26:17.439 you and we'll take photos and send to you. I 0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:22.359 was like, oh my gosh, this is amazing. I said, 0:26:22.400 --> 0:26:26.320 oh my gosh. It was Dion, our butler. Dion. I said, okay, great, 0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:30.720 So he takes photos and he has them all laid 0:26:30.760 --> 0:26:35.760 out size eight of all the swim trunks, and I 0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:39.240 showed Bone, we're zooming in on the photo and you 0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:41.240 want to look, you want to look, and he picks one. 0:26:41.359 --> 0:26:45.679 I said, okay, great, awesome. So I picked the swim 0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:48.480 trunks and I said, is there a swim shirt to 0:26:48.520 --> 0:26:54.359 go with it? Yes? Me being me, I didn't ask 0:26:54.400 --> 0:26:57.960 any questions. So he brings up the bag and I 0:26:58.040 --> 0:27:03.960 immediately see it's like a designer bag, and I'm like, 0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:07.520 oh boy, and it's I always say the name wrong, 0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:13.439 Villa brick Quinn, Philip brick Quin, Billip brick Quin. Uh, 0:27:13.640 --> 0:27:20.800 it's fancy, you guys, It's fancy, and it's yeah, you know, 0:27:21.440 --> 0:27:24.919 we shop at like Target and stuff. So it was like, 0:27:25.520 --> 0:27:28.560 oh my gosh, bad on me that I didn't ask. 0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:32.040 But I was like, oh, whoa, this is like I 0:27:32.119 --> 0:27:36.840 remember when, like back in the day and we had 0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:40.639 tons of money, like I think one time I got 0:27:40.720 --> 0:27:44.120 Dean and Liam when he was a baby, like matching 0:27:44.240 --> 0:27:48.000 ones for like Father's Day and you know, live in 0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:51.640 the life. But I was like, oh god, no, not now, 0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:55.400 Oh my god, how much. 0:27:58.000 --> 0:28:02.000 We get sixty dollars one hundred fifty dollars for a 0:28:02.040 --> 0:28:04.480 pair of little boys swim. 0:28:04.320 --> 0:28:08.240 Trunks that is, and a swim shirt you guys. 0:28:09.720 --> 0:28:14.000 No, no, online, that's just for the trucks. 0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:16.560 So I mean, so one hundred and sixty and then 0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:20.040