1 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, I just 2 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: officially took my kids on the first vacation as a 3 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: single mom alone with five children. Oh boy, so grateful. 4 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: We had the best time. I mean, oh am I kidding, 5 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: I'm a mom. I need a vacation from my vacation. 6 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: But the kids had such a great time, and I 7 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: felt like this was the right time. They've been through 8 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: a lot in the last couple of years and we 9 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: haven't been able to go places and do things, and 10 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: I really for this spring break. I was like, you 11 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: know what, I want to make this happen and super grateful. 12 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 1: We went to Atlantis in the Bahamas, Bahama Mama here, 13 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: and they were so lovely and just provide it such 14 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: an amazing environment and time for us, and it was great. Okay, 15 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: let me start at the beginning. First of all, I 16 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: just got to say, I came back from my vacation 17 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: and this is the only thing I came back with. 18 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: Nice thanks. What does it say? It says Bahamas? Oh yeah. 19 00:01:54,320 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: When I describe it for the fans, oh, it's a. 20 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: It's a booby mug clack. It's quite literally a boob 21 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: mug so I used to when I was younger, and 22 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: I haven't traveled that many places because my fear of flying. 23 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: And you know, it's my new chapter, Tory two point zero, 24 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: and I'm trying to let go of that and really 25 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: do experiences with my children and create memories. So when 26 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: I was younger, though, whenever I would go away, which 27 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: was usually for work, like to go do a TV 28 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: movie or anything. I don't even know why, I would 29 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: always get a shot glass and it wasn't for like 30 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: drinking purposes. But yeah, so I have this like insane 31 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: shock glass collection from like, you know, a TV movie 32 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: in you know, Charleston, South Carolina, you know, every place 33 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: in Canada, like you know, and the places I did 34 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: visit and I have actually been to. We went to Nassau, 35 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: which I think there's seven hundred islands in the Bahamas, 36 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: which I did not know. Nasau is the capital and 37 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: it's just like growing exponentially every year. So I was 38 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: here twice. I came once on a celebrity like one 39 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: of those celebrity trips. I and Zering was there with me, 40 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: my brother was with me, a bunch of other celebrities. 41 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Jean Claude van Dam last time. Let 42 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: me take that again. Jean Claude van Dam. The first 43 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: time I was in the Bahamas, was there on the 44 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: celebrity trip and at the time along with Chris Jenner 45 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: and then at the time Bruce Jenner. So that was 46 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: a fun experience, and Jean Claude van Dam had quite 47 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: a fancy for me, and he kept coming up but 48 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: he couldn't say my name, and he'd come up to 49 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 1: me and be like lor oh, Lori, and I'm like, 50 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: and Iron's like Sean Claude vandamn. Like at the time, 51 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 1: he was like huge, and he was like, you gotta 52 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: go for it. He's gonna put you in a blockbuster 53 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: like action film. And I was like, I'm not that girl. 54 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: I'm not like a casting couch girl. And I was like, 55 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: and he keeps calling me Lori, and he's like Sean 56 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: Claude Vandamn. He can call you whatever he wants. And 57 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, Laurie. It is so to this 58 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: day my brother Randy and I Randy always looks at 59 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: me and goes lor and I'm like, yep, anyway, I 60 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: didn't go for it. Yeah, could have been a huge movie. Star. 61 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: Oh well. But the second time I was in the Bahamas, 62 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: I came for Jason Priestley's wedding. Ruthan, you were there. 63 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 2: I was. 64 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: Did you say that with a question? No, I said, 65 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: oh I was, I was, you were and we were 66 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: there and Jason new we got married in the Bahamas 67 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: and it was really really fun. It was great, great weekend. 68 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: That was such a great trip. And yeah, that was 69 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: all before kids. So this is my first time there 70 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: with kids. And it was like to begin with, it 71 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: was like, you know, I'm doing everything on my own. Now, 72 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm my brain doesn't process things like oh my gosh, 73 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: booking flights doing like I don't have an assistant, Like 74 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: it's like, uh so, just just booking the flights alone 75 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: for six humans was like, oh my gosh. And of course, 76 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: you know, you know, kids are kids, and they're like, oh, 77 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 1: are we in first class? I'm like nope. Are we 78 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: in business? I'm like nope. So it was a pack flight, 79 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: so we got a direct flight there. It was like 80 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: the last seats available, very last row of the plane. 81 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 1: But Bo was so excited and I realized, like he's 82 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 1: been to Mexico before, he's been to Maui, but he 83 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: doesn't remember because he just turned eight, so you know, 84 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: his memories like he kind of remembers Maui, but not really. 85 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: So for him, he was like, oh my gosh. He 86 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: was elated. This was like really truly his first vacation. 87 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: And he started packing like days before, which I'm like, 88 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: you are not my son, because if you know me, 89 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: you know me. And I throw everything in a bag 90 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: thirty minutes before we leave for the airport. That's a 91 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: lot like fifteen Dan stress it. Ruthanna and I go 92 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 1: on work trips all the time. That stresses her out 93 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: really well, A list you have to medicate. She sends 94 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: me a list the day before and I'm like, that 95 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: is so kind of you, and you took the time 96 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 1: to do that. Do you think I'm going to look 97 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: at a list. 98 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 2: I haven't known to come over and pack for you 99 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 2: because I just can't handle worrying that you won't be 100 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 2: backed and believe. 101 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: Well, you usually get here and you're like are you 102 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: ready and I'm like nope, and they're like okay, let's go. Okay. 103 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: So Bo was packing days before and he had a 104 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: T shirt picked out for every day and underwear for 105 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: every day pants shorts. I'm like, dude, we're not going 106 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: to need that, Like you're it's vacation, you're going to 107 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: be in the same thing. But he was too excited, 108 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: so he was bringing everything. And then he was like 109 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: shriping toys. I'm like, you're gonna need toys, like you're 110 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: gonna be out there doing so many things. Anyway, it 111 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: was it was a good flight. You know. He asked, 112 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: as all kids do, are we there yet? Are we 113 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: there yet? That doesn't just happen in the car, It 114 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: happens on planes too, And I was like, well, nope, 115 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: four more hours, Nope, three more hours. And our flight 116 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 1: there didn't have like the TVs or anything, so I 117 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: was like, oh boy. And then he's like, oh, snacks. 118 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: He wanted snacks and I'm like, oh my god. And 119 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: you know, they didn't have meals on the plane, so 120 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: we dealt with that. He had some like pretzels and stuff. 121 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: But anyway, he was just so excited to get there 122 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: and we landed. It was beautiful. Well we landed at night, 123 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: so it was beautiful, but we couldn't see everything. And 124 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: I said, just wait in the morning, you guys, you're 125 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 1: gonna see, it's gonna be like crystal blue waters. We're 126 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: on an island. It's gonna be so great. The hotel 127 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: picked us up, got us to Atlantis, and in Atlantis 128 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: we had Butler surface and I was like, I mean, 129 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 1: you know me, I can't ask for anything, like I 130 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: feel bad asking anybody to do anything for me ever, 131 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: like not worthy, not worthy. And we got there and 132 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: they were like, oh my gosh, you know my kids. 133 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 1: Of course my kids go, uh did we see a Starbucks? 134 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: Heer And I was like, oh my god, you got 135 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: to Bahamas and that's what you noticed in the hotel 136 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: walking up because I'm pointing out, like this hotel they 137 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: have like they have everything. They have like different towers. 138 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: I think they have fun different towers. It's expansive, it's 139 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 1: huge something for everyone. You really don't have to leave 140 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: the resort, which we didn't, and you can do so 141 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: many different activities anything and everything. Oh we had so 142 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: many plans, you know they had you could go like 143 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: swim with the dolphins. Oh of course, my kids because 144 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: we have pigs. We're like we read on TikTok or 145 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: we saw on TikTok that you can go swimming with 146 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: the pigs and so on the way there, we asked 147 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: the driver. We were like, oh, you know, tell us 148 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 1: some great things like and I was like, you know, 149 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: if we do venture off, you know, out of the resort, 150 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: we like, you know, not anything touristy or fancy. We 151 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: want like really like like great food and like where 152 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 1: you know, locals eat like we want want that experience. 153 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: We like trying new food and everything. And then I said, okay, 154 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 1: I got to ask you. My kid's asking about swimming 155 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: at the pigs and he's like not a fan. And 156 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: I was like why And my son, Finn goes because 157 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: they poop everywhere. Have you seen those videos? And it's 158 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: in literally the videos that people being like, oh my gosh, 159 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: I'm swimming with the pigs. I'm playing with the pigs, 160 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: And then it's like that on Instagram versus the reality 161 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: that there's someone in the water that literally is going 162 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 1: behind and just scooping up poop because they're just pooping everywhere. 163 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: No way, you just burst my bubble. But I know 164 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: Finn looked it up and he showed me. He's like, Mom, 165 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: don't do this. He's so nice. He goes, don't waste 166 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: our money. On this he goes the pigs poop everywhere. 167 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: It's gonna be messy, it's going to get everywhere. No 168 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: one wants that. And I was like, no, no, no, no, 169 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: we don't want that. So we did not do that. 170 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: But there was like a the at Atlantis that you 171 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: can go like swim with the dolphins and play time 172 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: with the steamrays and go fishing and do all that stuff. 173 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: We had all these big plans, but honestly we were 174 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:28,559 Speaker 1: so happy just going down to the pools every day. 175 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: Oh the water park. They have a water park. That 176 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: was big success. The kids loved that we were there 177 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: every day. That was like huge. Going back to our 178 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: butler the first night, Valentina, and you become like family 179 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: with everyone. I got to say, everyone in the Bahamas, 180 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 1: especially at Atlantis, huge hearts. Everyone is kind everyone is positive, 181 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: and it's very refreshing nowadays coming from the States that 182 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 1: we're in, going somewhere where people are just all positive 183 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 1: leading with kindness, you know, just happy and just the 184 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: kindness was unbelievable. So but Valentina says, oh, I was like, oh, 185 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: my kid's like, oh Starbucks, and she's like, oh yeah, 186 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,079 Speaker 1: And I was like Okay, well, if you're going to 187 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: get up in the morning, go to Starbucks, like we 188 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: could go down and have breakfast, like you can get 189 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: Starbucks anywhere. And she was like, no, give us the order. 190 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: We will place the order for Starbucks. And I was 191 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: like what. I was like, oh no, no, no, I 192 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:49,839 Speaker 1: don't feel worthy. I can't ask for things. She's like, well, 193 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: she's like I'm going to change that. She's like, you're 194 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: going to learn to ask for things on this trip 195 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: because that is what this experience is about. We are 196 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: here to help. And I was like, oh my god, 197 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: thank you. So yeah, so the kids got Starbucks every 198 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: single morning. I'm like pointless whatever. But AnyWho, being a 199 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: big family, you know, we always have to have rooms 200 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,479 Speaker 1: where we double up. And they had this beautiful suite 201 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: that they put us in where we had two bedrooms, 202 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: so Bo and I were in one and then two 203 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: queen beds in one room, so Liam and Finn and 204 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: Stella and Hattie. Although Hattie's Hattie said that Finn was 205 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: on his device talking to his friends back in La 206 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: like great, how much did that cost? 207 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: Uh? 208 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: Most of the nights, so she slept on the couch 209 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 1: every night to get some sleep. But it's definitely Mike. 210 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm lucky my kids sleep in and this isn't a 211 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 1: me thing, Like, well, I like to sleep too, but 212 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: having kids, I'm up every day, Like I just wake 213 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: up at like six or seven, but I'll chill and 214 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: just lay there. If they're not up, I'm like, cool, 215 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: this is some meantime I can get some work done. Yeah. Anyway, 216 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: so they slept late, like every day, so by the 217 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 1: time we would get down to the pool, it was like, 218 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: you know, half a day and it's like okay, but 219 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: they have a lounge there, so they would go up 220 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: and have breakfast. Bo was a huge fan of the 221 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: chicken sausages. He says, no pork, my good boy, chicken sausages. 222 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: He got that. Every day, he got orange juice. Mama 223 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: had an espresso and a mimosa. Why because I deserve it. 224 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: And it was really funny. Before we left for the trip, 225 00:15:56,040 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: my daughter Stella, we had gone to Rolling Loud, first 226 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: music festival that I've ever been to in my life 227 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: aside from like iHeart experiences, but like at two day 228 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: like music festival and it's called Rolling Loud and it's 229 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: rap music and some of my kids were like, oh 230 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: my god, we're super into it. So we got tickets, 231 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: and of course, single mom here I had to take them. 232 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, it's just like 233 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: thousands of people and they're just dancing and jumping, and 234 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure, you know a lot of people are intoxicated. 235 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: It's just like loud music. And I'm like, oh my gosh. 236 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: I'm a good mom. I'm a really good mom. But anyway, 237 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: she got her toes stepped on so hard at one 238 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: of the performances that her toenails turned black and blue 239 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: and one toenail came off. It was that bad. So 240 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: she was worried going to you know, another country and 241 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: being you know, in the pool or the ocean and 242 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 1: the sand with the toenails. So the day before we 243 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: got in to see a podiatrist and we went and 244 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: he said to me, okay, you know, he patched her up. 245 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: She was okay, and it's fine, but he said, oh, 246 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: where are you going? He said, oh, the Bahamas And 247 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: he said oh with who, Like, are you bringing help? 248 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: And I said no, no, I don't have that, like 249 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: it's literally just me. And he knew I'm getting divorced, 250 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: and he said, are you medicating? What medicine are you taking? 251 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, shoot, I don't have anything. That 252 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: was my first clue, like, oh my god, Oh my god, 253 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: am I going to be okay? But yeah, so yeah, 254 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: it was definitely tricky being a single parent with five kids. 255 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 1: Now a lot of people will say to me, my 256 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: friends will say like, oh, but they're older and the 257 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: older ones will take care of the younger one. I'm like, 258 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,719 Speaker 1: have you met my kids? Oh? Boy? You know, and 259 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 1: it's their spring break. They each want to do their 260 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 1: own different thing and they do travel as a group. 261 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 1: But you know Stella immediately, she's very social. She met friends. 262 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 1: So she had like teen friends the entire time from 263 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 1: different parts of you know, the country that she met, 264 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: and she would hang out with them and go do stuff. 265 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: And one of our closest friends happened to be there. 266 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 1: It was her last day there. We got to see 267 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: her the first day and Liam did help. He was 268 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: very helpful and he kind of stuck with me. And 269 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:10,879 Speaker 1: it was interesting because the legal drinking age there is eighteen, 270 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 1: so he could legally have his first drink. And I 271 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: was like, he was like, are you okay if I 272 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: try something? I'm like, yeah, of course you're in the Bahamas. 273 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 1: It's legal, you're eighteen. So he's like, okay, which I get. 274 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 1: He got like I think he got a peanut Colada 275 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 1: and he was like, this is so weird, mom, Like 276 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm able to drink here and they can gamble, which 277 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: we didn't do. But it's interesting because legally they can't 278 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:46,639 Speaker 1: drive there till they're eighteen, but they can drink and 279 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 1: gamble at eighteen, and here we can't drink gamble till 280 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: we're twenty one, but you can drive at sixteen. So anyway, 281 00:19:56,160 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: little facts, fun facts. Hattie when in ocean a lot. 282 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: She loves snorkeling. She loved seeing all the fishes and 283 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 1: doing that. Finn did the water park. I did. We 284 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: did have a cabana and I had to I took 285 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 1: photos multiple times to be like, uh, guys, the scenery's great, 286 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 1: so you can look out, but if you're on your 287 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 1: devices here in the defeats the whole purpose. Like we 288 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: could have stayed home, you know, and put up on 289 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: the TV, like the TV screen like an island picture, 290 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 1: like it's beautiful out there, like go and one day 291 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: the butler at the cabana. She was telling me. She 292 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: was like, so, she's like, you guys, you have to 293 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: get off your devices and tablets like and phones like 294 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: and go out and do stuff. And she's like, you know, 295 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 1: when your mom and I were young, because she's fifty, 296 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: and she said, when we were young, we didn't have 297 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 1: that stuff. And she's like, especially, you know, I grew 298 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 1: up here on the island and there was nothing, and 299 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 1: our parents would say, you know, get up in the 300 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: morning and they'd be cleaning the house and they'd say 301 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: go out, and we'd have to go outdoors and you know, 302 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 1: make friends with lizards and make our own toys and 303 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: climb trees and you know, have fun outdoors and we 304 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 1: couldn't come back in until it was like the sun 305 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: was setting. And then she said, but she said the 306 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,880 Speaker 1: highlight was at this time when she was growing up. 307 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: She said, we had one TV channel, and that one 308 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,919 Speaker 1: TV channel and it didn't start. TV didn't come on 309 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 1: till five PM. She said, So growing up, like kids 310 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: would be like, oh my gosh, we don't like have 311 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: clocks and stuff, so we don't know and we see 312 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,360 Speaker 1: the sun start to go down and we're like, oh, 313 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 1: is it almost time. Is it almost time? And we 314 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 1: go in and you're allowed to watch TV from five 315 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: to eight pm, and she said I would always watch 316 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: nine oh two one zero and I said, oh my gosh, 317 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 1: thank you so much. She goes that. She goes, and 318 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 1: my other favorite show, she goes, I Love you a lot, 319 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 1: she goes, but my favorite was Punky Brewster and I said, 320 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, Sole Moonfries one of my closest friends. 321 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: I said, so I texted Sole and Karne was her 322 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 1: name in the exchanged texts, and Karine was like, oh 323 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 1: my gosh, I can't believe this. Super excited, but it 324 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: was just so interesting that it's so different for us. 325 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 1: And I was hoping the kids were hearing this and 326 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 1: like and then she goes to Bo. She goes and Finn. 327 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:52,160 Speaker 1: She was like, so do you guys know marbles? And 328 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 1: Bo was like, I know marbles and she's like, you do, 329 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 1: I'm impressed. So you do know games and getting outdoors 330 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: and playing stuff, And he goes, I know marbles. They 331 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: played it in squid games and if you didn't play 332 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 1: it right, you died. Like yep, there you go. So 333 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: that's how he knew about marbles. Interesting. So anyway, that 334 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 1: was one of the games and squid games, play marbles 335 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: and yeah, anyway, I have a question. Yes, if you 336 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: don't mind, please the butler. Uh huh. 337 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: I pictured the butler just sort of being on call 338 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 2: near your room. 339 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: But you said the butler was also at the pool. 340 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 2: So was the butler just following you around wherever you 341 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 2: guys went, like in a butler outfit holding. 342 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:56,400 Speaker 1: A tray kind of thing. Like what I got understand? 343 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 1: You just said that I felt so shamed because of 344 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: my childhood. Like I want to like get defensive and 345 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:07,880 Speaker 1: be like, no, no, we didn't have that. Yes, yes 346 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 1: you do. That's crazy but awesome. So they have the 347 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: butler service, like in your tower and you go on 348 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: WhatsApp and you have a group chat with everybody. So 349 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: it was hold on with everybody in your group or 350 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 1: everybody in the tower. No, you get a group chat 351 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: and they titled it uh Tory's Family Vacation and it 352 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 1: was I was on it, Liam Stella, Hattie and Finn 353 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 1: and all of the butlers and people that worked in 354 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:54,360 Speaker 1: the lounge in Atlantis. Everyone could pipe in so if 355 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 1: we ever needed anything or had questions, you know, reservations 356 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: for dinner, the like that we could ask in the chat. 357 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 1: But then at the pool, if you have a cabana, 358 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: they have butler service at the cabana. So there's like 359 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: room butlers and pool butlers. Does that make sense? It does? 360 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: Yeah and yeah. And the first day I was like, 361 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, poor fifth child. Yeah, poor, he's so spoiled. 362 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:40,479 Speaker 1: He only has one bathing suit and he had outgrown it. 363 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 1: And I said, you know what, don't worry. We're going 364 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,120 Speaker 1: to the Bahamas. We're going to Atlantis. They have everything. 365 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 1: It's like the shopping mecca there. Don't worry. We can 366 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: get a bathing suit. And he said, okay, okay. So 367 00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 1: the first day I said on the WhatsApp group chat 368 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: with the butlers, I said, excuse me, I said, Bow 369 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 1: needs a bathing suit. Could you tell me where a 370 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,719 Speaker 1: store is located that I can go down and get it. 371 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 1: And they said, oh no, no, no, we'll go for 372 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 1: you and we'll take photos and send to you. I 373 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, this is amazing. I said, 374 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: oh my gosh. It was Dion, our butler. Dion. I said, okay, great, 375 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 1: So he takes photos and he has them all laid 376 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 1: out size eight of all the swim trunks, and I 377 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: showed Bone, we're zooming in on the photo and you 378 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: want to look, you want to look, and he picks one. 379 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:45,679 Speaker 1: I said, okay, great, awesome. So I picked the swim 380 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 1: trunks and I said, is there a swim shirt to 381 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 1: go with it? Yes? Me being me, I didn't ask 382 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 1: any questions. So he brings up the bag and I 383 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: immediately see it's like a designer bag, and I'm like, 384 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: oh boy, and it's I always say the name wrong, 385 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:13,439 Speaker 1: Villa brick Quinn, Philip brick Quin, Billip brick Quin. Uh, 386 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 1: it's fancy, you guys, It's fancy, and it's yeah, you know, 387 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 1: we shop at like Target and stuff. So it was like, 388 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, bad on me that I didn't ask. 389 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, whoa, this is like I 390 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 1: remember when, like back in the day and we had 391 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 1: tons of money, like I think one time I got 392 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:44,120 Speaker 1: Dean and Liam when he was a baby, like matching 393 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: ones for like Father's Day and you know, live in 394 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 1: the life. But I was like, oh god, no, not now, 395 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, how much. 396 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 2: We get sixty dollars one hundred fifty dollars for a 397 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 2: pair of little boys swim. 398 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: Trunks that is, and a swim shirt you guys. 399 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 2: No, no, online, that's just for the trucks. 400 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: So I mean, so one hundred and sixty and then 401 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: probably another one hundred and sixty at least for the top. 402 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, oh my god. But I'm embarrassed, 403 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,679 Speaker 1: so I can't say anything. I'm like, they're great, They're beautiful. 404 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, bo, you better wear these every fucking day 405 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 1: of your life. Uh No, I'm just kidding fish. But anyway, 406 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: he did. He woarmed the whole trip. He looked super cute. 407 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: So anyway, we had amazing time. We went with kool Aid, 408 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: who they were like, we're gonna give you a VIP 409 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: tour guide at the water park and I'm like, oh 410 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 1: my gosh, this is so fancy. I'm like, okay. And 411 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: his name, literally, you guys, is kool Aid. And he's 412 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 1: not just like a VIP tour guy. He is the 413 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 1: face of Atlantis and Bahamas. He's like Internet famous. And 414 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 1: he was telling me like all the influencers and he 415 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 1: was like Charlie, M'meleon and Dixie and like all these people. 416 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: I was like, uh, but my kids were like ooh 417 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 1: and yeah. He was like, oh, I've had everyone here 418 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,239 Speaker 1: and I was like he was super cool. So he 419 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,719 Speaker 1: took us through the water park. Bo of course, I 420 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: was terrified, and also I like didn't want to ruin 421 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 1: my like extensions because I was like, once they get wet, 422 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm screwed for the rest of the trip. I was 423 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: an excuse, I'm just scared. But BO went on because 424 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,719 Speaker 1: he hit the requirement on a drop, a water slide 425 00:29:54,880 --> 00:30:00,320 Speaker 1: that is sixty feet and I'm like what And I'm 426 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 1: like cool, like wait wait, I'm like panicking like you're 427 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: Muff's bow. I'm like is this safe? And he's like yes, 428 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 1: he's like the kids go every day like he's fine, 429 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: he's fine, like younger kids than him, I've gone and 430 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 1: he was fine. He loved it, and then the older 431 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: kids went on one that's one hundred and eight foot drop. 432 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh. Meanwhile, like what mom. Here, 433 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: I go on the rapid rivers and it was like 434 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: the Lazy River. And there's like one thing where you 435 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 1: get to on your inner tube. BO and I are 436 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: in a double inner two and you get to it 437 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: and it like slowly goes down on a mechanical hill, 438 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 1: like you there. It wasn't like a whoosh slide, It 439 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 1: just slowly goes down. I screamed so loud. Bo's like, mom, 440 00:30:55,440 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm like that's weird. So anyway, so that happened. So 441 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 1: the water park, huge hit, pool, huge hit. I made 442 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: friends at the adult bar. I was like, I really 443 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 1: didn't get any like me time, Like I was with 444 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 1: the kids the entire time, and I felt guilty. Oh 445 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: my gosh. I did have a moment though. I took 446 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: a picture where Stella and I we both had full 447 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: sunscreen on seventy and we laid out on lounge chairs 448 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 1: together on our tummies. I haven't done that. I haven't 449 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,479 Speaker 1: laid out like since I was in my twenties, like 450 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 1: because I was having kids, Like you don't have a 451 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 1: moment to lay out. And we laid down on two 452 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 1: lounge chairs on the sand and had the best time. 453 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: I mean it was only for like twenty minutes, but 454 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: I was like, this is such a bonding moment. And 455 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm proud to say that. Everyone calls me a hoarder, 456 00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: but I'm a collector. Thank goodness, I kept all of 457 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 1: Now they're back in my juicy couture and ed hardy 458 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 1: bikinis from the nineties because Stella wears them all, which 459 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm super proud. But I forgot bathing suits as well, 460 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not going to buy one here, 461 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 1: and Stella's like, oh, I have yours. So I put 462 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: back on my juicy bikini from the nineties and I 463 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh and my ed hardy bikini 464 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 1: and I felt super good. Anyway, I went to the 465 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: adult school for like one second and then went to 466 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 1: the bar and got my Whispering Angel rose mixed with 467 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: club soda for hydration, of course, and I met this 468 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: amazing bartender there and he was so great. His name 469 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: is Charlton. I just want to give a shout out 470 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: to him because he was so kind because he was 471 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: like playing it cool till another woman that worked there 472 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: came over and I'm blanking on her name, but she 473 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 1: was lovely as well, and she was like, well, she 474 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: came over first, and she was like, I know you, 475 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 1: doctor nine O two ande o, And that made me 476 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:13,480 Speaker 1: laugh because nine O two and oh, but people always 477 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 1: accuse me of having countless plastic surgery. So I was like, yep, 478 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 1: I'll take that and anyway, she was like, I know you, 479 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: and then he was like, I want you to know 480 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: that I know you as well. I just want to 481 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: say anything, and he was like, you're a warrior, you're 482 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 1: a champion, you're inspiring, You've been through so much and 483 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: I just want you to know I'm proud of you. 484 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, that meant so much. 485 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 1: And yeah, when I did my interview with Brittany, that's 486 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 1: why I wanted to tell her I was proud of her, 487 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: because I was like someone you don't know, like he 488 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 1: made my entire trip saying that, because it hit my 489 00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 1: heart so hard because I was like, you know what, Yeah, 490 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm doing a good job. Life is not easy. There's 491 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: been ups and downs, but I have kind kids. I've 492 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 1: raised them to be kind. I'm doing experiences with them 493 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 1: and I just keep going. And he was just like 494 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 1: I see you, and I know what you do and 495 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,359 Speaker 1: you don't. He goes you get knocked down, and I 496 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: was like, and I get up again. You know me 497 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 1: always making jokes and he was like you do and 498 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 1: you will continue to and you'll keep going. And I 499 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: was like, thank you. I needed to hear that. But 500 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: they were amazing. We went out to some awesome dinners. 501 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 1: Two kids did lose their phones during the stay, but 502 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 1: Life three sixty, Thank goodness, we're able to track them 503 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 1: found them on the property. Very kind people. They turned 504 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: them back in, so we got those back. I did 505 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 1: have a little tummy issue one day, and it was 506 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 1: like a stomach virus. Like it wasn't from the food there, 507 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,839 Speaker 1: but I was is in the cabana, which had its 508 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,760 Speaker 1: own bathroom by the way chic and I was sitting 509 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 1: there and the kids were on the sand plane getting 510 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: shells and everything. And Ruthan's gonna hate that, she hates 511 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 1: the poop talk, but it was coming out of both ends, 512 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 1: and I was like sitting there diarrhea and I'm throwing 513 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: up in the trash can, and I was like, you 514 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: know what, positive note, I'm in the Bahamas. I'm here 515 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 1: and it's beautiful, and I'm in a sheet cabana, So 516 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,760 Speaker 1: if it could happen anywhere, it's happening here. And then 517 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: we had all these amazing dinners. We got to go 518 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 1: to Nobu and conk is the big thing there, Like 519 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 1: they have their version of conk everywhere that's like their 520 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,759 Speaker 1: local and so we had conk many different ways, many 521 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 1: different places, and went to Nobu. That was a highlight 522 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 1: because we love sushi and the kids were super excited. 523 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 1: And then we had Easter, so we flew out on 524 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: Easter Sunday at night on a connecting flight, but we 525 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 1: got to celebrate Easter there and both was like, but 526 00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 1: the Easter Bundy's not going to come. I'm like, dude, 527 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 1: you're in the Bahamas. The Easter Bunny travels the world. 528 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 1: He's going to know you're here. So I said, did 529 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 1: they have an Easter egg hunt here? And they said 530 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: it's in the rapid rivers and I was like, oh cool. 531 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 1: And I was like okay, Bo, let's go. So they 532 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 1: had different age groups because what they do is you 533 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 1: go on your you know, floats, inner tubes down the 534 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: rapid Lazy River and they toss in foam eggs. They 535 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: give the kids a bag, they fill it up, and 536 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 1: then at the end they give it back and they 537 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 1: give them a bag of candy. So they're they're pretty 538 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 1: hard foam eggs. And we're going down and Bo's like, look, look, 539 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 1: and he's so excited. He's like, this is the best 540 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 1: Easter ever. And he's collecting eggs. And then I see 541 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 1: the older kids and I was like, okay, no, no, no, 542 00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: we're here in this age group. And I noticed the 543 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: older kids because they're chucking these foamags, which they hurt, 544 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: and they're chucking them with the little kids and they're 545 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 1: hitting bow in the head. And I'm like, okay, I 546 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 1: look at this kid, and I said, excuse me. And 547 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,799 Speaker 1: I won't speak up for myself, but Mama bear are 548 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 1: always for my kid. I said, excuse me, excuse me. 549 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 1: I said, you just hit my son in the head. 550 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 1: Would you mind not doing that again? And he was 551 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 1: like okay, bro, and I was like, one, I'm not 552 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 1: your fucking bro, and two, don't hit my kid in 553 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 1: the head. But I was like, I didn't say anything. 554 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, okay, thank you so much. 555 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:47,920 Speaker 1: And he proceeds to keep doing it. So I'm like, okay, okay. 556 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: I was at the breaking point. And this kid, he 557 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 1: has to be like sixteen, seventeen eighteen. I don't know 558 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: why he and his friends were even in there. They 559 00:37:56,600 --> 00:38:00,439 Speaker 1: must have slipped in because security's really great there, and 560 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 1: I like paddle up to him, catch up to him, 561 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 1: and by the time I get there, He's now looking 562 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 1: at me, and I said, really quietly, I said, come here, 563 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:14,320 Speaker 1: come here, and I said, bo earmuffs, and I said, 564 00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,360 Speaker 1: you hit my kid in the head with a foam 565 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: egg one more time, and I'm going to come back 566 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna fucking throat punch you. And he looked 567 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 1: at me and he goes understood and he stopped. So 568 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: it was a mom will win. So that was the 569 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,400 Speaker 1: wrap up of our easter. We got on a plane. 570 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 1: The kids were like, oh my god, we didn't get souvenirs. 571 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, you were just in the 572 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 1: Bahamas for a week. This is her souvenir for LIFs. 573 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 1: But we meet friends, we made family. Everybody there is 574 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: obsessed with Nino two and oh. I felt like I 575 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,400 Speaker 1: was literally I've never felt more famous in my life. 576 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 1: And you know, I have no ego. I don't ever 577 00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 1: say that, but like I was like Madonna in the Bahamas, 578 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 1: like is that even a thing? Who's someone current? Sorry 579 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:11,800 Speaker 1: no offense to Madonna. I was like, but that's my generation. 580 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:16,200 Speaker 1: I was like the queen like it was crazy. One 581 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 1: person even said to me, He's like, we get so 582 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 1: many famous people here, and someone's like, oh, Jeff Bezos 583 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:28,400 Speaker 1: was here, and I was like, I don't care because 584 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: look at now. He goes, I have tory spelling. I 585 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 1: don't know Jeff Bezos and I was like, well you should. Actually, 586 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,800 Speaker 1: I'd like to go into space next. No, I'm just kidding, 587 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 1: but I was like, I was like, oh no, no. 588 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 1: And he's like, we know your face and we know 589 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 1: your legacy and your dad like anyway. So I was like, 590 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 1: you know, producer brain always on. I was like to Atlantis, 591 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 1: I met all of them. I was like, they were like, 592 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 1: we loved your show, the reality show Tory and Dean 593 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 1: when you had the B and B. And I was like, oh, 594 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 1: will wouldn't it be great if I bring the kids 595 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: here and we could like live because they have residences. 596 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,799 Speaker 1: We could live here and we could do a new 597 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 1: reality show here and or we could part of the year. 598 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,440 Speaker 1: And he was like, well, we'd have to put you 599 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 1: to work, and I was like ding ding ding, put 600 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 1: me to work. I was like, I'm a tory of 601 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: old trades. I can do anything. I was like, oh 602 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: my gosh, I like anyway. So I told kool Aid 603 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,680 Speaker 1: he has a run for his money because he's the 604 00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 1: face of Atlantis. I'm like, well, you got a new 605 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:41,239 Speaker 1: co host here, so anyway, moving to Atlantis. But we 606 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:46,360 Speaker 1: flew home long Tory story short, we had the best vacation. 607 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,399 Speaker 1: But wait, there's more. I was like, you know what, 608 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,799 Speaker 1: once you find home. I was like, we're coming back 609 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:58,919 Speaker 1: here every year. Willing, God willing. I was like, oh 610 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,239 Speaker 1: my gosh, we would like to make this. And they 611 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:05,320 Speaker 1: said people of generations keep coming back. And they're like, yes, 612 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,240 Speaker 1: keep coming. And then one day your kids will get married, 613 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 1: they'll have kids, you'll have grandkids, great grandkids, and you'll 614 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:17,960 Speaker 1: all still be coming back to Atlantis. And I'm like done, Bahama, Mama, Bahama, grandma. 615 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:18,759 Speaker 1: Bring it on.