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Speaker 2: Do you why are you here?

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Speaker 3: You're on Reddit?

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Speaker 2: Your relationship is trying, Yeah, the dumbster. I don't care

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Speaker 1: Of course, I can't say that we haven't had our

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Speaker 1: not talking about Sophia's nickname, okay, sop soap.

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Speaker 2: This afternoon, me and him came home after a.

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Speaker 1: It went great, but was like just another outing, nothing

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Speaker 1: We live in a super tiny apartment, and so he

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Speaker 1: and put some lotion on my palm, and I accidentally

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Speaker 2: I whipped a little.

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Speaker 1: Smiley face and some spiky hair to create lotion.

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Speaker 2: Man, there's also a picture of it. Oh God, where

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Speaker 2: is this going? Yeah there's a picture, Yeah there is.

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Speaker 2: Are ready for? Yeh God?

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Speaker 2: Her great, I love you, do you good.

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Speaker 1: I was blabbing for about a minute before he just

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Speaker 2: Left forever. I don't have time for the childishness. Is

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Speaker 3: Sophia does not approve of this.

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Speaker 2: The rules of improv.

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Speaker 4: If everyone left the room while I was doing an

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Speaker 2: I never seen anyone that was no, and we're divorced.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to see the lotion man?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to see the lotion man.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, John, that's what I put in there.

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Speaker 2: Give us man.

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Speaker 1: So it didn't really dawn on me that he was leaving,

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Speaker 1: Man, there could only be one man in your life,

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Speaker 1: and he is not made of lotion. He's me.

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Speaker 2: What? What do I always do? Riley? Yeah? I thought

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Speaker 4: Just stop giving me things to complain about.

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Speaker 5: There's not You just look for things they complain about. No,

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Speaker 1: If you say so, Riley, remove them, Remove all the items.

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Speaker 2: That's all you have to do. Okay, easy, it's super simple.

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Speaker 2: What gravity?

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Speaker 3: I actually did no joke up the stairs earlier today.

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Speaker 4: Gravity Roman Empire, this is true.

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Speaker 4: He's too serious and he's like, my girlfriend is too

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Speaker 4: There was something else going on, ocean man who's.

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Speaker 1: I've been texting him NonStop, but he hasn't been responding

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Speaker 1: I've been with this man for years, and I'm always

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Speaker 1: I'm all forgiving space, but I can't say I'm not hurt.

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Speaker 2: What wait, there are like, she's going to divorce.

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Speaker 4: He hasn't literally spoken to her to know what's going on.

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Speaker 4: She's like, maybe I am getting divorced.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: Once you make a lotion man, it is a very slippery,

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Speaker 1: Was making lotion Man as big of a mistake as

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Speaker 1: I think it was any advice on getting him back home.

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Speaker 2: I think you read it.

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Speaker 1: Also, any cute subredit suggestions would be appreciated since my

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, there is a giant, juicy updated, but

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Speaker 1: think like right now, she's just searching for answers. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: We're definitely t motion man.

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Speaker 1: Actually, what should she do in regards with rekindling or

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Speaker 6: She's she's reached out. Yeah, yes, she's reached out to

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Speaker 4: I feel like maybe she texts him and it's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: Been a day.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, it's only been a day. I thought it

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Speaker 2: See if you get contact with him.

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Speaker 4: And I don't appreciate this silence.

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 1: But I am not going to wait to get into this.

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Speaker 1: Updates John with the rhyme, Hey read it. I posted

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Speaker 2: It sounds like people like us, so she didn't send

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you all had me really pondering about how much

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Speaker 1: saying that the lotion thing had nothing to do with it.

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Speaker 1: You were kind of wrong.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean. But for the people who.

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Speaker 2: Which lunch outing? He came back from lunch.

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Speaker 4: I think when when she was making lotion maan jokes.

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Speaker 4: He had just come back from lunch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't make lotion man jokes. When it made a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they say, thirty minutes after eating, don't swim and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. My husband came back the other day.

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Speaker 2: He came back. Let's go, he's here.

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Speaker 1: He apologized and said he was ready to talk. I obliged.

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Speaker 1: I tried my best not to be all over him,

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Speaker 1: We did have some quality time with all four of us,

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Speaker 2: If you see something that is bold to like put

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Speaker 2: That is a big admission.

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Speaker 1: But I'm at the Fusion Food Bar picking up some

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Speaker 2: I actually realized I'm in love with you. You are

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Speaker 1: Though, she accepted Kai's proposal and tried to put her

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Speaker 2: Him and then telling him that I love him. Yeah, genius.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean maybe they just like I feel like

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Speaker 2: Yo, that's whack. She still wanted he did.

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Speaker 4: He literally grabbed his suitcase.

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Speaker 2: You're right, he was about to run away.

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Speaker 1: He did run away, run away.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, I'm in shock. I don't know, but

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Speaker 1: Marie is honestly gorgeous, which I hate to say because

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Speaker 2: And she would never make a lotion never.

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Speaker 6: She's not Marges, but she's funny as not a lotion

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Speaker 3: She may look like Imma Watson, but I got her personality.

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Speaker 1: M My husband gently turned her down and wished her

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Speaker 2: On his mind for a while.

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Speaker 1: We were all college friends, so we know one another

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Speaker 1: I had a hairtowel and some crappy old clothes on.

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Speaker 2: Like Marie is so sophisticated lot.

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Speaker 2: He eventually came out.

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Speaker 1: He eventually came back and said that he loved me

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Speaker 3: Question, is this love bombing?

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Speaker 2: No? I don't think so.

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Speaker 6: Love Bombing is like an action of like actually doing something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he's.

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Speaker 1: Love bombing now to try and get back in grade. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think it is he's bombing. He's just like, oh,

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Speaker 4: No, because it is a thing. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: So that that is yeah, could be love. Mom would

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Speaker 2: it's love. She's a psychologist, so she would know that's true. No,

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Speaker 6: I think it very well could be that he did

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Speaker 6: I don't think it's like divorced territory, no territory, but

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Speaker 1: Her, I think for him to have even he didn't

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Speaker 1: let he didn't lie, but he did. He'd left for

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Speaker 1: I have a conspiracy theory. The brother's place is an

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Speaker 2: And he.

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Speaker 1: Went over and hooked up with her, Yes, I think

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Speaker 1: he went to her and then he's like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 1: went to my brother Tyler. Can you say it was

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Speaker 1: at your house? Okay, gotcha, bro. If that's true, obviously divorced.

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Speaker 1: If it's not true, divorce. So you know that he's done.

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Speaker 4: Even if he like went to the girl's house, he lie,

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Speaker 4: He didn't tell like lie by a mission, did not

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Speaker 1: No, no, she said yes, and he and she said

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Speaker 1: with the intention of maybe.

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Speaker 4: Doing that, yes, and also like strongly considered it enough

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Speaker 4: that a silly joke literally made him leave.

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Speaker 6: So you're saying that it is Yeah, I don't think so.

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Speaker 6: I think it's worth therapy. But if everything else is

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Speaker 4: It could be a separation with the intent of seeing

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Speaker 2: Because there wasn't anything like egregious that he If he's

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Speaker 2: telling the truth, there's one nothing egregious that he did.

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Speaker 2: I think he's still lied. He didn't lie. A lie

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Speaker 2: by a mission is still a lie.

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Speaker 1: Just the way he left and everything is crazy to me,

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Speaker 1: So you think I'm not saying they need you.

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Speaker 2: This question to John.

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Speaker 6: If your partner left you for twelve hours in this way.

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Speaker 2: In this way, how long have they married? A couple

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Speaker 2: of years? Would you divorce years?

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Speaker 1: I would not divorce immediately, back, like, we need to

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Speaker 2: But but, but but that is very very bad. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that is very very bad.

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Speaker 6: I agree it's bad. I agree it's bad, but it's

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Speaker 6: not as bad as cheating.

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Speaker 5: What is the maximum time where you would divorce? Basically,

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Speaker 5: no cheating happened, but he left, Like she left you

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Speaker 5: to think about this? When are you like, okay, can't

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Speaker 5: do this anymore?

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Speaker 2: How well would you a notebook?

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Speaker 6: She left to go and hang out with Ryan Gosling

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Speaker 6: and the other guy was bad.

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Speaker 2: Do whatever you need to do, honey, that was a

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Speaker 2: bad relationship. She cheated on She cheated, She actively.

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Speaker 4: Cheated on her fiance, and I don't think we should

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Speaker 2: It was a day and physical cheating happened.

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Speaker 3: Not thinking about the relationship.

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Speaker 5: How long like if someone left you to think about

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Speaker 5: the relationship before you terminate it?

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Speaker 2: One day for every year of the relationship.

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Speaker 3: One day for every year.

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Speaker 4: That's a long time. What we one day? Oh for

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Speaker 4: every year?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, one day for every year the relationship. That feels

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Speaker 6: if you've been together for thirty years, you can leave

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Speaker 6: for a month.

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Speaker 4: However, she didn't have any knowledge of what was going on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he literally just left.

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Speaker 4: I don't think you can.

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Speaker 2: Leave with a context. For no context, that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't explain any I disagree.

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Speaker 2: I disagree.

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Speaker 6: A day for every year the relationship sounds bad, takes

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Speaker 6: I sit on my throne.

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Speaker 1: Because if he if he had said, hey, I am like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you should have.

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Speaker 2: Told the truth and I shouldn't see the truth.

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Speaker 1: Even if he said, like, hey, my head is just

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Speaker 1: going crazy right now, I do need to take a

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Speaker 1: few days for myself.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to go to my brother Tyler's.

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Speaker 1: That is infinitely better, infinitely better.

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, okay, so dad and mom have been married

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Speaker 4: for thirty ish years. Yes, if Dad left for thirty days,

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Speaker 4: no warning, didn't text mom at all.

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Speaker 2: Hey, mom, are you, Julie.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, if dad left for thirty days and didn't tell.

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Speaker 4: You and no warning, no reason, warning.

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Speaker 6: No reason, and just left and you didn't hear from

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Speaker 6: him for thirty days and he came.

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Speaker 2: Back, yes, what would you do? I would be not

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Speaker 2: very happy.

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Speaker 6: I made a rule that for every year of marriage,

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Speaker 6: you can disappear for a day. Is that would you

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Speaker 6: agree with that rule?

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Speaker 2: No, it's no, No, that does not your rules. That

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Speaker 2: is why you don't go on second dates. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: oh my good. In no way, I think she agreed

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Speaker 2: with me.

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Speaker 5: You know, she just just through some shade in.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's get back to I think she agrees with me.

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Speaker 3: It's just a prediction.

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Speaker 2: I would agree with you.

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Speaker 6: It's a prediction tool. And it sounded like she would

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Speaker 6: be very mad. She wouldn't divorce.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but also too, you didn't tell you that he came.

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Speaker 2: He would have come back.

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Speaker 4: In this scenario, he would have come back and said.

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Speaker 2: She just said. She didn't say divorced.

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Speaker 6: She just said I would be very mad, because obviously

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Speaker 6: you would be very mad. It's a shitty thing to do,

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Speaker 6: but you it is a prediction tool. For every year

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Speaker 3: I think you're saying it wrong.

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Speaker 5: I think you're saying is for every year, you get

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Speaker 5: with you with how many days you are gone, how many.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying that if she wanted to divorce, I wouldn't

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Speaker 4: be like, that's crazy, because not only did he leave

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Speaker 4: was thinking about leaving you for another woman.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you didn't.

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Speaker 1: You didn't ask mom that.

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Speaker 4: In this weird you're just thinking that Dad went on

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Speaker 4: like a spiritual trip.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is what he would be most likely, probably

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Speaker 1: what he'd be doing anyway.

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Speaker 2: Back to the story, just waiting.

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Speaker 1: Basically the story returns, he said that he loved me

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Speaker 1: all over again. I was frozen in shock and asked

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Speaker 1: some questions before asking him to sleep on the couch.

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00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 2: At least he did, and it didn't really help me sleep.

449
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 1: I can't believe it, honestly, that he was considering shifting

450
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 1: away out all of our relationship for a crush.

451
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

452
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 2: I would be crushed.

453
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,400
Speaker 1: The more I think about it, the less I can

454
00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 1: look him in the eye.

455
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 2: Thank you, funny.

456
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 1: We went to Thanksgiving lunch together with some of his

457
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 1: family plus some close friends, which going to a big

458
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 1: family function after that would.

459
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 2: Be torturous awkward.

460
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: And we spent last night together, so I think he

461
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 1: thinks that he is in the clear.

462
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not the divorce coming.

463
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,199
Speaker 1: Well, I can't lie and say I'm not considering just

464
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 1: forgiving and forgetting, though predictive tool. He comes home from

465
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 1: work about six hours from now, and I don't know

466
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 1: what to do next. I have today off, I'm a teacher,

467
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 1: and so I'm considering either a contacting Kai and telling

468
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 1: him about what his fiance is up to. My husband

469
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 1: begged me not to, as Marie was apparently making a

470
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:50,399
Speaker 1: spontaneous mistake. B Contacting Marie and chewing her out for

471
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: trying to f up my relationship, or having a civil

472
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: conversation less tempting, but it's whatever. See contacting Tyler, his

473
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 1: brother and asking if he left the house at some point.

474
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: Tyler is very close to Marie's place, and I'm getting

475
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 1: worried about that. Back to my prediction that that could

476
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 1: be bad. I think I think he cheated too, me too,

477
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 1: though I doubt I'll get anything from him or d

478
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 1: all of the above. So we are going to ask

479
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: you all in the comments and Ryland Sophia running it

480
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:22,199
Speaker 1: back one more time. AB should she tell Kai they

481
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 1: the fiance of Marie, contact Marie and chew her out?

482
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:34,640
Speaker 1: Ce uh, tell tell the brother and figure out if

483
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: he actually wasn't at Tyler's house but was at Marie's house?

484
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 2: Or do everything?

485
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 3: Do you start with C, go to A and then B.

486
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:42,679
Speaker 2: I love that.

487
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:48,919
Speaker 6: Yeah, so basically start with figuring out whether there was cheating.

488
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 4: Yes, then chew Marie out.

489
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 6: Chew Marie out and had like talked her about what's happening.

490
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 2: Then yeah, I think so that's freaking fire.

491
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, all the five You're welcome America,

492
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: God bless us and five percent Australia. Any advice because

493
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: that's for five percent of heish know that.

494
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm in the demographics.

495
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 1: Oh, any advice or well wishes because I'm not a

496
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: great place right now would be appreciated.

497
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 2: I wish you well.

498
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: If I do end up updating, it'll probably be all

499
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: my profile since I don't understand why the sub has

500
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: a one update policy. Plus I don't want to update

501
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: without a definite outlook on the future. I think I've

502
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: mentioned before that legal stuff scares the shit out of me,

503
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 1: so divorce will be tough, but.

504
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 2: It seems likely. I wish I could just forget it all.

505
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 2: It is no predictive tool means bull crap.

506
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 1: You know I am predicting that I know for a

507
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 1: fact is there is an update.

508
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 6: So put in the comments if you think he cheated,

509
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 6: or you think he didn't cheated or not cheat.

510
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 4: Put in the comments say if you think.

511
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 6: Divorce not sam divorce if I was her her?

512
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 2: If if I was her and if did he cheat

513
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 2: or did he not cheat? You don't know yet.

514
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: I know I would not divorce until I know no

515
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: divorce enough, Yes, yay?

516
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 2: Divorce? Would divorce ya?

517
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 5: Yay?

518
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 3: Get the information you.

519
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 2: Can say not not not divorce? Yeah?

520
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, divorce?

521
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 5: What do you?

522
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: What do you do? What do you do? What would

523
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 2: you like? A divorce? Maybe?

524
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 4: And I would still find out, but I would be

525
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 4: like very.

526
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 3: Not divorce currently.

527
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 1: Or not?

528
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 2: You're divorcing?

529
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 4: Ya?

530
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 2: All right?

531
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 3: Divorce?

532
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:54,119
Speaker 2: Would you divorce or not?

533
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: Put in the comments let us know so onto the updates.

534
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: I would like to thank you so much for the

535
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: overwhelming support and sweet messages welcome. I was honestly not

536
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: expecting this. A lot of you guys took the time

537
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: to message me, and I had a lot of great

538
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,479
Speaker 1: conversations with fellow editors. I'm honestly so flattered by how

539
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: freaking sweet some of you guys are. I wish I

540
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: could have replied every single one of your comments, but

541
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 1: I uploaded them, though I think my post got deleted.

542
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: Some of you asked for pictures of lotion man, yet

543
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: I couldn't find the future that upload photos.

544
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: But it will as soon as I can. You can

545
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 2: see it right here. Sure, that's right.

546
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 1: A lot of you had some really interesting theories, so

547
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: did we have predictive tools? And surprisingly most of them

548
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: were somewhat right.

549
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 2: Oh did he cheat? He cheated? He cheated.

550
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 1: Majority ruled that I should do all three confront Kai, Marie, husband,

551
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: and Tyler, not necessarily in that order, which is.

552
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 2: Pretty much what we said.

553
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 1: That is what we said, and so I had to

554
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: get smart with it since a lot of you guys

555
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 1: told me that any one of them could twist the story.

556
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: So that way they had known there was outside influence

557
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: before I begin, Yes, this full story is wacky and

558
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: honestly doesn't make that much sense. I'm honestly just piecing

559
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: it together via context clues, and I do have some

560
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: questions left unanswered. Plus nobody who is relaying the story

561
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: is in a good headspace, and to you it might

562
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: all just seem like a ton of garbled nonsense. I'm

563
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: just hoping it gets across, since I know a lot

564
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: of people want to closure on this.

565
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 2: We have a mystery on our heads. We got some

566
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 2: spraining to do.

567
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,680
Speaker 1: When my husband came home, we had a conversation. Conversation,

568
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: he essentially said the same story, and he told me

569
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 1: that he was open to my marriage counseling suggestion. I

570
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: gave him a big hug and did the laundry. Usually

571
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: we split the laundry. Plus I had been giving him

572
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: a light cold shoulder enough punishment.

573
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:51,199
Speaker 4: Sophia, No, she gave him a light cold shoulder and

574
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 4: then did the launtery.

575
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 3: She didn't laugh at one of his jokes.

576
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, those hurt harsh.

577
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: So I indirectly forgave him in his eyes at least.

578
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 2: Oh, so she's doing.

579
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 1: She's doing the old, the trick, the old. We haven't

580
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 1: really set boundaries with our phones are we doing something there?

581
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 1: Like we know each other's passwords and everything. But he

582
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: would definitely get suspicious if I was just scrolling around

583
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: on it. So instead I agreed to meet up with

584
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: Kai first, the husband of the promiscuous. A lot of

585
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,239
Speaker 1: you guys were concerned that he would tell Marie and

586
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: everything would implode. But Kai is a big gym nut

587
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: and I've been wanting to go recently, so I said

588
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: it as casually as possible, a list of weights bro

589
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: casually using this all as an excuse, and he agreed.

590
00:28:55,560 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: Does Kai get a wrong message? Yeah this, Kayli, dude,

591
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: maybe not. I want to pump that iron, but I

592
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: want to pump you. I'm just throwing chaos in the

593
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: next Ka is with Marie, indeed, but does he want.

594
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 6: To be He was with Kai and she confessed her

595
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 6: love to op So but he and puppose people do

596
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 6: crazy things.

597
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: So you well, the next morning I met with Kai.

598
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: I sat down with him and told him all I know,

599
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: and yes at the gym, and yes, I cried like

600
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: a baby, lifting tears from my ducts. Originally, Kai was

601
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: rigid and tried to kindly poke holes in what I

602
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: was saying with a few gotcha questions before he too

603
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: broke down.

604
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 5: No more.

605
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 2: They were doing emotional sets to failure.

606
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:55,239
Speaker 1: Oh god, I pr on sadness. Marie didn't tell him

607
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 1: a word. That was a big red flag on its own.

608
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: I then went to my with Kai, the dual team.

609
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: Damn Marie, Oh god, not that way. Double teaming for

610
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: the truth, you.

611
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 2: Redditors.

612
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 3: That's a weird word for sex.

613
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 2: No.

614
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: A few editors told me to be as discreet as possible,

615
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: so as a suggestion, I just blurted out to her

616
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: that I know everything. She played dumb at first and

617
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: then eventually broke You all were right, Marie, trying to

618
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: settle her crush was a BS story. My husband was

619
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: the one who approached her, stinky, stinky man. She told

620
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: me that he asked her if before she sealed it

621
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: with Kai, if she wanted to have a night with

622
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: him and another woman.

623
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 2: But ladies and gentlemen, here is as ope.

624
00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 6: He's husband went up to Kai's wife wife fiance Marie

625
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 6: and said, do you want to have a night with

626
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 6: me and another woman?

627
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 2: Yes?

628
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 6: So not only is there Marie, but there is a

629
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 6: third that we don't know about. Yeah, that's crazy.

630
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 2: Ye did they do it. Who's to say, here is

631
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 2: the kicker. Marie said, yes, bro, that is wild.

632
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: My god, have a threesome before your wedding without your partner.

633
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: This is insanity. Everyone is terrible.

634
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: Ah but wait, but wait, there's more. I hate to

635
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 1: say it, but that's not all. No, apparently Marie has

636
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: been cheating on Kai for a while with.

637
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: Men and women. No, and my husband has.

638
00:31:55,400 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: Also been cheating frequently, and they covered four for each

639
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: other and occasionally met up.

640
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 2: This is many, many, many stinky cheating sessions.

641
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 4: I was freaking right, man. I divorced at the first

642
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 4: sign of trouble.

643
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 2: You No, it was make it feel bad. I was

644
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 2: strong and you said you were really divorce.

645
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 3: Right, which is challenging.

646
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 6: I think it's important to because if she just divorced,

647
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 6: she may not have known the truth.

648
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 2: It's important. I would divorce, but I would figure out

649
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: the truth. But you would divorce before the truth. Truth

650
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: figured out.

651
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 4: Would be in the process of divorcing.

652
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 2: That's crazy. That is divorcing without the truth. Yeah, your

653
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 2: divorce would be in the process. You could say, nah,

654
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 2: get the truth, then divorce.

655
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 4: Fine, but I would still have the intention of divorcing

656
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 4: before I had even gotten the truth.

657
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: The truth doesn't matter, Yeah, in this case, would so

658
00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 2: that you.

659
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 6: Would just divorce based on even if it was all true,

660
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 6: you would still divorce.

661
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: What even if what he said was true.

662
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 6: Where it was like like he wasn't cheating, nothing happened, but.

663
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: He still left, So that was divorce.

664
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 6: So you don't even so then you don't even need

665
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 6: to know because you would divorce anyway.

666
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 4: No, but I need to know for peace of mind

667
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 4: before I really divorce, because people like you would be like,

668
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 4: why did you divorce?

669
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 6: That shit gaze gives you peace of mind that the

670
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 6: truth was worse than I could have possibly imagined.

671
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 2: That would ruin me.

672
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 4: I would You're saying that I should have divorced.

673
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,719
Speaker 6: I'm just saying, like, if you're got a divorce and

674
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 6: you did, like like, honestly, if you already are set

675
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 6: on divorcing with him, just leaving the divorce, because if

676
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 6: that is enough to divorce, you're just gonna be mentally

677
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 6: and physically broken by the actual truth of the situation.

678
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 6: So why know the truth if you were already going

679
00:33:56,160 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 6: a divorce. I don't know, bro, anyway.

680
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: We would all divorce after the truth of this yes,

681
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: that isn't weird and Algar.

682
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: Join in.

683
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: Sam says, anyways, at the last moment, she declined because

684
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: she wanted to be loyal to Kai. Now I'm cheating

685
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: on him, well, loyal to Kai now that they were

686
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: engaged marriage gotcha as if she wasn't cheating for the

687
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: majority of the relationship. And he, the husband, got all

688
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: pissed off for a while before saying he's just locked

689
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: in his apartment. Now you me showing him lotion man.

690
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: He snaps and gets out of there. Hi and Marie

691
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: are both arguing in tears and red in the face.

692
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: I told them sorry that I butted into the relationship

693
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: and that I'll handle my husband myself. Let's do this mono.

694
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: I found Tyler the brother before the sun set. But yes,

695
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: but the but I was shining a light on the truth.

696
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 1: The rays of justice were upon me. He told me, yes,

697
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,720
Speaker 1: his brother did stop by, but only around eleven pm.

698
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: My husband left at around eight pm.

699
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 2: What was he doing for at least an hour? Hmmm?

700
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: So these three hours went fuck all. Tyler told me

701
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: that he was angry and didn't tell him anything. I

702
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: then tell him some context, just lotion man, and he

703
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 1: says that maybe he was driving around for a while.

704
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like my husband to drive as relief,

705
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,720
Speaker 1: but I'm willing to look into it. Since the future

706
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: was already looking pretty effing bleak. I went home and

707
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 1: I googled something on my husband's phone. Instead, I was

708
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: just checking if any of them had contacted him aka

709
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,760
Speaker 1: the cheatahs oooh nothing.

710
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 2: Thankfully.

711
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: I would have gone into more depth, but that would

712
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: have to wait. Instead, I tried to keep him busy

713
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 1: for the duration of the day. Remember how I said

714
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,720
Speaker 1: he sleeps really early. Well, that all worked in my favor.

715
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: Q two, it working in her favor. I took his

716
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: phone that night while he was snoring his ass off

717
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: ran into a million dead ends. I knew something was missing,

718
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 1: but I just couldn't find it.

719
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:17,839
Speaker 2: And finally I.

720
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: Opened his hidden photos and kaboom, the story was in

721
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 1: full picture. I'm talking eight K high definition boobies. What

722
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: did I find? Boobies, nudes, boobies.

723
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: More nudes, even more nudes.

724
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 1: News all of one girl. Oh and not me shocker,

725
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: but not Marie either. I didn't recognize her. Let's call

726
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: her Allison.

727
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 2: Third Woman. It's the third woman, It's the secret.

728
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: Third woman, considering Alison was my second grade best friend

729
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: who was actually a snake. No, no, sorry, they're not

730
00:36:59,000 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: the same person.

731
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: To be sure, she just named her.

732
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 1: I was like, that's crazy, you fool to obie just

733
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 1: so I can call her something when I referred to

734
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: her in the story because I don't actually know her name.

735
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: She's absolutely gorgeous, red hair, our glass figure, you name it.

736
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: I love how OPI is always like, I hate this.

737
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 2: Woman, but.

738
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: Smoking hot. I am obviously broken. I traced her back

739
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: to a contact I feel sick there.

740
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 2: It is an affair.

741
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: He's been contacting her since February, days before I surprised

742
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: him with a Valentine's thing that I had been using

743
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: my paychecks for and thinking I was the luckiest woman alive.

744
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 1: It effing sucks. I can't even read more, but I

745
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: tough through it. Then I hit November third, two days

746
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: after the last nude. Dare I say the smoking nude

747
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 1: that was me? She's pissed off. She found out he

748
00:37:55,000 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 1: was married all along. Oh, but she was in love

749
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: with him. I would feel bad for her, but she

750
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: didn't even bother trying to contact me out of love

751
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: for him, or go hubby has a genius idea. He

752
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: told Alison the Cheetah that he'll bring his wife over

753
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 1: in a hotel to show that his wife doesn't care

754
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: about the affair.

755
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 6: Oh, he's gonna use Marie as a stunt double, his

756
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 6: fake wife.

757
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 2: Dude, this guy is playing some four D chess.

758
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 1: Holy oh yeah, my goodness, that's insane, right.

759
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

760
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 4: And she would have never figured it.

761
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 1: Out if he had it left, she wouldn't have figured out,

762
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: and then he would have left for good for good. Yeah,

763
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: probably for good, for good, for good. So I assume

764
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 1: when Marie canceled it, there was nothing he could do.

765
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: He became whiny and begged her to come. He told

766
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: Alison that there was an inconvenience and that they would

767
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: meet up another day. And then the lotion man always

768
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:00,240
Speaker 1: comes back.

769
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: He got man, he got pissed off at me and left.

770
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what he did after that, or can

771
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: I ask why that would him?

772
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 2: Did? I don't know. Maybe he sexy, Maybe he uses lotion.

773
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 2: I don't know.

774
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what he did after that, but whatever

775
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: it is, he wasn't with either of them. Then he

776
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: went back to Tyler's place. Slept it off and came

777
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: back afterwards. I will spare the details, but I couldn't

778
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: even pretend to like him anymore. After I found that out,

779
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: I brought Kai and Marie over the next morning. He

780
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: started effing, blabbering and trying to deny it all before

781
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 1: eventually admitting that he was into redheads. Marie is actually

782
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: a strawberry blonde. Alison is very ginger, and it is

783
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 1: one of the desires of his that I couldn't fulfills.

784
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 4: Will she could have dyed her hair, Yeah, I thought

785
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 4: she should have had.

786
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 6: I can't believe that she should just dye her hair

787
00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 6: to win this man's love.

788
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: Sophia, absolutely not, Oh dare you?

789
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 4: But like him being like you could never fulfill this

790
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 4: for me, Like that's one of the most easily changeable things.

791
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 4: Yeah she should if some guys like die too?

792
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: But but in the theory is this a theoretical theory?

793
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 2: Syvia, No, no redhead roles.

794
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 3: There you go.

795
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: Even I could see past his BS saying that he

796
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: loved only me and that being with Alison slash Marie

797
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: only made him love me more. I just said and

798
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 1: packed my stuff, go off six.

799
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 2: Take Glosa man. And run. That's right, Yeah, be with

800
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 2: him the true man.

801
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: He got more desperate, but even I, the girl who

802
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: is honestly infatuated with him, knew it was over. He

803
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: technically owns the apartment, so I had to leave. Now

804
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 1: I'm staying with Kai. Maybe he is as hurt as

805
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: I am. I feel for him to his wife was world.

806
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: We were hugging and crying for a while, ranting about

807
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: god knows what, just trying to get over ourselves. To

808
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 1: be honest, he just tried lightning the mood by making

809
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 1: lunch and it was really nice.

810
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 2: He is a wonderful cook. Are they going to get

811
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 2: into a relationship?

812
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 3: Boy?

813
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: Side note, conspiracy theory.

814
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 4: Test show him motion man.

815
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 5: Side note, that's kind of convenient that, like two people

816
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 5: kind of cheat on each other, So like she can

817
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 5: go to Kai's house and then Marie can go to

818
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 5: Opie's husband's house like no one's homeless.

819
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've seen this swap before. We've seen this swap before,

820
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. I showed him the other two posts

821
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: and he got a kick out of some of your comments.

822
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 2: Haha.

823
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 1: As far as I know, my soon to be ex

824
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: husband is with Marie for now, I don't care about

825
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: either of them, and honestly, it's kind of therapeutic just

826
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: having some kind of closure and not walking on eggshells

827
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: like I have.

828
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 2: Been for the past few days.

829
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: Kai and I are going to the gym tomorrow to

830
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: do some relaxing yoga and hopefully figure out what to

831
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 1: do next. Oh next, let's do some custom stretches you

832
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: get Oh my, We've both taken off from work. I'm

833
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: sorting out my finances and hopefully I should get the

834
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: ball rolling to finally legally split from my husband and

835
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: be able to call him my ex.

836
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 2: And not soon to be X. I am still so frazzled.

837
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,479
Speaker 1: I have at least half a dozen pictures of him

838
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: and me on my desk in our wedding picture is

839
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: in my lock screen on pretty much all.

840
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: My devices ouch.

841
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: I know my students will notice his sudden disappearance for

842
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 1: my life, and I'll have to tell them that the

843
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: guy I've been raving about for the past forever is

844
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: divorcing me. I have to tell all my family and friends.

845
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: Kai is my rock in this whole thing, and we'll

846
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: eventually have to part ways, which hurts me because he's

847
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: honestly my number one support system in part ways. Yeah,

848
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,879
Speaker 1: why don't we bring your ways together? Yeah, I see

849
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: a way join the ways to the past.

850
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 2: To maybe.

851
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 1: Living arrangements, actual divorce costs lostuff, yuck, therapy, Si, I

852
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 1: still have a lot to go through. I can't believe

853
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: I thought the relationship was perfect. It's really just therapeutic

854
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: to write all this down, but read it.

855
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:16,959
Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

856
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: I've already talked about how much support I've received, but honestly,

857
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: some of you guys, honesty and compliments he have, for

858
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 1: lack of better emphasis, saved my life. I would have

859
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,919
Speaker 1: been with my cheating scum, and Kai would have been too.

860
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: This place is so awesome and there's so much to

861
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: be seen in here, so many nice people checking in

862
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: on me, wanting to keep up with my story. I

863
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: will be coming back for more advice someday, though. Just

864
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,240
Speaker 1: know that I've seen y'all, yes all of your sweet words,

865
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: and I will continue looking here for a long time.

866
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: But this should be my final update for now. Thank

867
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: you again. Read it from me and Kai. So there

868
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,919
Speaker 1: is a bit more to discuss here.

869
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 2: The saga continues. I want to know if anything happens

870
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 2: with the KI and her. Yeah, what say we together?

871
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 2: I say together?

872
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 4: I think they should together or not? I think they

873
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 4: should be I don't know if they are.

874
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead.

875
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 5: Together, Yes, Riley, Jim, partners should always be together.

876
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:15,439
Speaker 2: There we go, Jim.

877
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,240
Speaker 4: Partners who gym together, stay together.

878
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 2: And I'm going to say together.

879
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: The A's have it a unanimous together for this next

880
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: part of the story.

881
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 2: So whoa wa, whoa.

882
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: Holy shit, I was wondering why my inbox was exploding.

883
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: Thank you all for the well wishes. I've been scrolling

884
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: for a while, and wow, I'm grateful with so many

885
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: of the people resonating with everything I've said. There's a

886
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: lot of things I have to clear it up. So

887
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: here it goes. The updates go the updates about now.

888
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: Nothing much has changed. It's been a little over a

889
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 1: week since my final update. My ex husband and I

890
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: have briefly spoken about our impending divorce, but other than that,

891
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: nothing much. Still healing, still working, still hurting. Call me

892
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 1: in a year's time and I might have something better

893
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: for you. Here About Allison the other fair girl, no

894
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: success in contacting her, though some of your suggestions have

895
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 1: motivated me to.

896
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 2: Work harder about Kaye and me.

897
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: I know a lot of you are talking about this,

898
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: so I'd rather get it out now rather than skirt

899
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:18,280
Speaker 1: her out it. Kai and I are healing together as friends,

900
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,399
Speaker 1: yes for now, for now, and I doubt we would

901
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 1: be an ideal match.

902
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 2: No.

903
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: Kai wants independent couple life and I'm hoping to have kids.

904
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,240
Speaker 1: He's expressed that he has a very low libido.

905
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 2: Why is he expressing that to you?

906
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: I don't know a big reason why he blames the

907
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: whole situation on himself.

908
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: Oh, don't do well.

909
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: I have a high one, a high libido. Besides, we're

910
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,720
Speaker 1: basically brother and sister. But thank you for thinking about

911
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: my options. LL not quite ready to date yet and

912
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: probably won't be for a while. Is the story fake? Yep,

913
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: you caught me ha ha, just kidding. I wish it

914
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: was no curses to you if you think it is, though,

915
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: It's not like you can trust everything you see on

916
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: the internet, and I doubt you can change your mind.

917
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: But unfortunately, yes, I am living in this reality and

918
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 1: no amount of rood messages are going to stop that.

919
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 2: And that is where our story concludes. Jes what a saga.

920
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm just curious, like when would you have any

921
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 6: things like in the comments let us know. And also

922
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 6: I don't know, like is there is there anything that

923
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 6: we should give advice on from here?

924
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 2: Love yourself?

925
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, like honestly, it's good that she's not

926
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: getting with Kay because now she can date herself, love herself,

927
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 1: invest in herself.

928
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 2: Yes, work on.

929
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 6: Getting right back into a relationship after probably not the

930
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 6: best idea.

931
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

932
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 4: What they say in improv class is work on your characters,

933
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 4: get them really strong. And I think if you improve

934
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 4: upon motion man, you can really get that routine down there.

935
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 2: We go improve lotion man. That is the key to

936
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 2: success here.

937
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 6: But if you love us, make sure to subscribe we

938
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 6: love you and see them all