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Subject it is not my fault he 11 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: fell in the bushes. Here Stephen Shirley, I am a 12 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: single mother of a seventeen year old high school senior. 13 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: I have my daughter when I was forty, and my 14 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: grandma loves to say that babies are for young people. 15 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: She got that right. On Friday night, I went to 16 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: the movies and my daughter went to the basketball game 17 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: at her school. Another parent called and said, my daughter 18 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: left the game early and she was wondering if everything 19 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: was okay. I felt like she was trying to tell 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: me something without telling me something. I could not get 21 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: my daughter on the phone, so I ended my date 22 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: early and went home. My daughter's car was at home, 23 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: but the house was completely dark. As I opened the 24 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: side door, I heard a commotion inside and I saw 25 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: a boy dart across my living room and out the window. 26 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: As he jumped out, he fell into my holly bushes 27 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: under the window and started hollering. He got all scratched 28 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: up and he was struggling to get out of the bushes. 29 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: While I stood there and watched. I told my daughter 30 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: she'd better not help him. His mom called me an 31 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: hour later and said, I forced her son to jump 32 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: into the bushes because I'm so strict that my daughter 33 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: has to sneak around. I think her son got what 34 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: he deserved, and as far as I'm concerned, I should 35 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: have pushed my daughter in the bushes too. Yes, I'm strict, 36 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: and rightfully so. I'm raising a girl. My daughter is 37 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: allowed to date, but with my permission. I don't feel 38 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: badly about what happened to that boy. My grandma said, 39 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: I need to consider my daughter's feelings. Why should I 40 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: care about my seventeen year old's feelings when it comes 41 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: to sneaking boys into my house? Okay, no one is 42 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: saying that you shouldn't care about your daughter's feelings and 43 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: you should care about your daughter's feelings. I think you 44 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: do care about them, because no matter what, she's still 45 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: your child. And yes you should be strict, but you 46 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: got to do it with love. Okay, Now, the boy, 47 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: as long as he didn't get hurt too badly, and 48 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 1: you said he didn't. That's the risk he took by 49 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 1: coming into your house, and that's what he gets. I mean, 50 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: his wounds will always remind him of this incident, so 51 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: that could very well stop him for a while. But 52 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: your daughter is your concern. She disobeyed you, she deceived you, 53 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 1: and what she did was really dumb. I know she 54 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: thought it wasn't at the time, but it was. The 55 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,839 Speaker 1: problem with some young people these days is that they 56 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: live in the moment. They don't think things through. It 57 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: never occurred to them that something could happen and they 58 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: would get caught. They were just sneaking around, acting grown 59 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: with no exit plan. So right, it's not your fault 60 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: that he fell. And even though you said you should 61 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: have pushed your daughter into the bushes too, I mean, really, 62 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: aren't you glad you didn't do that? I mean, she 63 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: could have gotten seriously hurt. Don't forget, do not forget 64 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: parents that we were all young once we made a 65 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: lot of ignorance, crazy mistakes. And I'm sure you know 66 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: your daughter is embarrassed right now and feels terrible about 67 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: all of this, So you need to send her down 68 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: and have a talk with her. Steve, I don't. 69 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: Give it damn about nobody's left. 70 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 3: I don't give damn about that seventeen year old boy, 71 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: black ass and the bushes. I don't care know about 72 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 3: this little half in my house talking about she upset 73 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 3: with me. I don't give damn with my mama tend 74 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 3: of it talking. I know babies is for young people. 75 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 3: Hell she here now. I don't give it damn about 76 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 3: the boy and mama calling me talking about if he 77 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 3: wasn't so strict, he wouldn't have jumped out the bushy. 78 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: You lucky his ants ain't get shot. See, it's a 79 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 3: whole lot could have went way worse than this matter. 80 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 3: I don't even know why you got a lot of nerves, lady, 81 00:03:59,040 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 3: you worry about the wrong. 82 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 2: Can we do another letter? No, remember you were well. 83 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 2: You you went to the movies. My daughter went to 84 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 2: the basketball game. 85 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 3: Another parent called me and said, I my daughter left 86 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 3: the game early, and she was wondering if everything was okay. 87 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 3: It felt like she was trying to tell me something 88 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 3: without telling me something. I couldn't get my daughter off 89 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 3: on the phone, so I ended my date early and 90 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 3: I went home. When you call another parent and you 91 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 3: tell a parent your daughter left the game early, it's 92 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 3: everything okay. And then you call your daughter and you 93 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 3: can't get her on the phone. I can't imagine them 94 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 3: not that was in this honer's store. My daughter left 95 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: the game early, and now I can't get her on 96 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 3: the phone. 97 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 2: Lorgie. 98 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 3: Now this woman that got she ended her dating because 99 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 3: she concerned. She I mean, she got to go get started, 100 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 3: because you know what can happen in these games. So 101 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: she went home. Your daughter's car was at home. The 102 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 3: house was completely god. I opened the side door, heard 103 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: the commotion inside, and I saw a boy daughter cross 104 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 3: my living room and out the window. When you heard 105 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 3: the commercial when you open that side door, your daughter said, 106 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 3: my mama home. Then here little black ass, Shirley said, 107 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 3: didn't have an exit plan or what he got one 108 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 3: right away, though. 109 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 2: I got to get out here no matter what. 110 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: He then dove his ass out the window and fell 111 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 3: in her holly bushes and started hollering your punk ass. 112 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 2: See that doesn't matter with these little soft ass kids. 113 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 3: Now he gonna dive out the window, then holler and 114 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 3: give away you in the bushes. What is your punk 115 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 3: ast holling for? Did you you thought it was a map? 116 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 3: Don't be out there? He got hurt when you dove 117 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 3: out the window. Was you like hoping for the trampoline? 118 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 3: You made me thinking it was the pool right there? 119 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 3: What is you holling for? Because you in the bushes 120 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 3: and you done got cut take it like a man. 121 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 3: You should have been in bushes like but oh no, 122 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 3: just like the little punk you in. Naw, you go 123 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 3: out there. He struggling to get out the bushes while 124 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,119 Speaker 3: I stood there and watch. 125 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 2: Hang on, Steve, we've come back this. 126 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll have part two of your response coming up 127 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letters, subject It's 128 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: not my fault he fell into the bushes. We'll get 129 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Morning show, 130 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 131 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: The subject is it's not my fault he fell into 132 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: the bushes. 133 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 3: Sorry, woman out on the date that had this daughter 134 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 3: at forty. She's fifty seven now, so I'm assuming the 135 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 3: daughter seventeen in high school. The mama out on the date. 136 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 3: She lets her daughter go to the basketball game with 137 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 3: some friends. One of the parents called her while she 138 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 3: on the date and say, baby, you'll obviously she was 139 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: at the game. She said, your daughter left the game early. 140 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 3: Is everything okay? She said, what, my daughter left the 141 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 3: game early. So she started calling her daughter's home. She 142 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: can't get the doll on the phone. The mama sick. 143 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 3: Now she gotta nod hit us though. She leave her date, 144 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 3: jump in her car to go home because she got 145 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 3: to find her baby. 146 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 2: Baby that left the game. 147 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 3: Now, pull up the car in the driveway, the daughter's 148 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 3: cars in the driveway, the house dog childing upside though 149 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 3: they she hear commotion in the house. They heard the 150 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 3: side door. The girl say, that's my mama. The boy 151 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 3: run out, dive through a window, falling into holly bushes. 152 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 3: His sister ass out that hot, He asked, he hurt you? 153 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 3: What you thought was gonna happen? You jump out the 154 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 3: day in window? What is your little tender ass in 155 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 3: the bushes hollering for they bushes, they cuting, they scratching, They. 156 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 2: Might have some thuns on them. But you got to 157 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: stay quiet. 158 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 3: Now you go out there, he's struggling to get out 159 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 3: the bushes, steal, whining, and you watch it. This way 160 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 3: could have went all wrong because I'd had a two 161 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 3: by four and I'd have been beating his that you 162 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 3: think it would have been. Everybody would have been out 163 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 3: there hollowing. He'd have been out there holland ah man bushes. 164 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 2: Killed Rob. 165 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 3: I'd have been whooping his ass with a two by four. See, 166 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 3: this could have went really bad. Now, and then you 167 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 3: told your daughter she better not help him get out 168 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 3: the bushes. His mom called me an hour later and said, 169 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 3: I forced her son to jump into the bushes because 170 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 3: I'm so strict that my daughter has to sneak around. 171 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: That's what the. 172 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,839 Speaker 3: Other parents say. See you to see what we're up against. 173 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 3: His parents, We who try to be good parents. We 174 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 3: got to do battle with the ignorant parents. Now your 175 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 3: daughter wrong because you too strict on her. Now she 176 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 3: got to sneak around. Now that caused my boy to 177 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 3: jump out the window. Ain't no conversation this woman having 178 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 3: with her stupid ass son about going over people's house. 179 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 2: When they ain't home. 180 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 3: Uh huh, Ain't no, Ain't no conversation is you don't 181 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 3: need to be sneaking around with this girl because you 182 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 3: can put this girl in an uncompromised situation. She could 183 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 3: end up pregnant, ruined her life and can't go to college, 184 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 3: and you going off playing basketball or whatever you want 185 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 3: to do. Ain't no conversation with the boy about this. 186 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 3: You made my son jump in the bushes. Now he 187 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 3: scarred up? Why was his ass in my house? Because 188 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you how the conversation with the wind 189 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 3: and she'd called my house mister harllid, Yeah, my son 190 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 3: dove out your window because you're so strict with your daughter, Yes, ma'am. 191 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 3: And my son fell into Bishops bushes and was hollering, why, 192 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 3: mister Harvey, did you have to beat him with that stick? Well, 193 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 3: because I thought he had broke in my house. But 194 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 3: mister Harvey, he was in there with your daughter. I 195 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 3: didn't see that. I just saw this boy run and 196 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 3: dump jump off the window and into the bushes. But 197 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 3: you went outside and deliberately you could see he was 198 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 3: a boy. 199 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 2: It was dark, It was dark I thought it was 200 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 2: a man. 201 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 3: Mister Harvey, you didn't bother the calling the ambulance. I said, look, man, 202 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 3: I'm a black man in America. Why would I call 203 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 3: the police to buy house? Now? 204 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,719 Speaker 2: Do you want me and your son to get shot? How? 205 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: You quite a para man? Yeah? 206 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 3: See, that's how the conversation would have went with me, 207 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 3: because I'm not caring what you're talking to me about. 208 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 3: I should have You shouldn't have been so strict with 209 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: your daughter, right I think her son got what he deserved. 210 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 2: Just what the lady is saying. 211 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 3: As far as I'm concerned, I should have pushed my 212 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 3: daughter into bushes too. Yes, I'm stricting rightfully. So I'm 213 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 3: raising the girl. My daughter's allowed to date, but with 214 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 3: my permission. I don't feel bad about what happened to 215 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 3: that boy. My grandmama said, I need to consider my 216 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 3: daughter's feeling Now, this is what I'm confused. What is 217 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 3: we got to consider the daughter's feelings for me? I'm 218 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:20,679 Speaker 3: not understanding that part. What is she mad about? I 219 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 3: done bought you a car, you done went to the game. 220 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 3: You just snuck a boy in my house in one 221 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,599 Speaker 3: of these bedrooms. If I hadn't came home. Ain't no 222 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 3: telling how far this would have went. Now he'd a 223 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 3: dove out the bushes. Now I'm talking to his mother. 224 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 3: What what? 225 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 1: Why? 226 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 3: Why are we talking about her feeling? He's Steve, because 227 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what my daddy would have told me. 228 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 3: You ain't got no feeling up in here, feeling right? 229 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 2: You know? You just here? 230 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, Steve. Have you ever done 231 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:58,439 Speaker 1: anything like that before, snuck in a girl's house when 232 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: her parents were gone, when you were young. No, you 233 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: never did that. 234 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 3: I'm way too old that that that type of thing 235 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 3: back in my day would have cost you your life. 236 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 3: I've snuck around with some girl, But we're gonna be 237 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 3: outside behind the cross. 238 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 2: I knew. 239 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 3: I knew not to go into man's house because see, 240 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 3: all the girls I dated had daddy. I didn't grow up. 241 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 3: You know, everybody on my street, all my friends we 242 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 3: had were from two pairing homes. Oh great, you know 243 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 3: I'm from old school, so I was raised by my daddy. 244 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 3: You don't go over another man house. I was scared 245 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 3: to death because I thought all everybody daddy would like 246 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 3: my daddy. Wow, oh, ten years younger than me, yeah, yeah, 247 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 3: and then you know, and Tonic, you know, how many 248 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 3: times has he told you he was stupid? 249 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey 250 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 251 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded 252 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: So Good. You can download it today. 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