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Speaker 1: Oh, good morning, Good morning everyone. Well it's not really morning.

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Speaker 1: Who knows when people are listening to this, but some

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Speaker 1: of them are probably listening in the morning, So good

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Speaker 1: morning to you guys, good afternoons to the people that

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Speaker 1: has been a lot in the news and it's very upsetting.

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Speaker 1: Chicari Richardson was tested for cannabis at the trials for

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Speaker 1: the Olympics after she won or before she won, who knows,

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Speaker 1: And now she is not going to perform her relay

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Speaker 1: So this is another sports organization that is completely antiquated

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Speaker 1: along with the World Tennis Association whatever the Tennis Association

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Speaker 1: is for Europe, European Tennis, all of it between Naomi Osaka,

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Speaker 1: between this two different things but actually not. It's all

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Speaker 1: about helping yourself cope with something. And this woman's mother died.

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Speaker 1: Chicari Richardson's mother died, and she was using cannabis to

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Speaker 1: because of that. So you can drink alcohol, but you

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Speaker 1: can't smoke something that grows out of the ground from

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Speaker 1: the Olympics. So sports needs a big update, a real update.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if anyone saw me on the

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Speaker 1: shop on HBO, but I was around a bunch of

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Speaker 1: Draymond Green, who I've loved he and I, Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: commenting on it because of that experience. I spent at

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Speaker 1: least two hours with those guys, and I don't think

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Speaker 1: there's anything I couldn't answer now about basketball, football. Majong

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Speaker 1: Also Britney Spears. Britney Spears is father. It's still her

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Speaker 1: conservator because a judge denied Britney spears request to not

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Speaker 1: have her father be a conservator. So there's that. How

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Speaker 1: do you feel about that, Brandon, Well, I think that

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Speaker 1: that is laired. From my understanding, Laird Hamilton's Laird Hamilton's

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Speaker 1: he's in control, he's in the new co conservator. The

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Speaker 1: paperwork that was filed in November was to remove Jamie

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Speaker 1: as her conservator. Jamie's her dad, right, and so it

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Speaker 1: was that paperwork that was actually just recently ruled on.

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Speaker 1: So her attorney has not yet filed to have the

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Speaker 1: conservatorship completely dismantled, from my understanding, So a lot of this,

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Speaker 1: like the paperwork gets filed and then it takes X

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Speaker 1: amount of time for the judge to their approver deny it.

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Speaker 1: So it was the last admission to have Jamie removed

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Speaker 1: that was denied. So now they have to refile to

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Speaker 1: take her out of the conservatorship like an appeal situation.

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Speaker 1: From my understanding, Well, that's well, that's his judgment was

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Speaker 1: that she's denied, so she has to appeal that denial.

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Speaker 1: But that's not very hopeful. I mean, it's the same

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Speaker 1: judge unless she goes to an above court, all right,

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Speaker 1: maybe she'll go to a different circuit or whatever it is.

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Speaker 1: I saw that she was also recently invited by Congress

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Speaker 1: in California. Well that should be something, But doesn't her

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Speaker 1: To testify in front of Congress And is he going

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Speaker 1: to allow that? Well, there apparently there are two different

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Speaker 1: types of conservators over Brittany. There's the conservator over her

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Speaker 1: person and a conservator over her state. Jamie, her father

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Speaker 1: is apparently the conservator over her state, so all of

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Speaker 1: her money matters go through him. Over her as a

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Speaker 1: person is Jody Montgomery, who is an outside conservator who

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Speaker 1: is supposed to be in place really as Brittain is advocate.

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Speaker 1: So the fact that she said in her testimony that

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Speaker 1: Means there's either a disconnecting communication or people aren't being

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Speaker 1: There are a lot of aspects to this, so I

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Speaker 1: think it's gonna be a few months before we see

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Speaker 1: how her recent testimony plays out. Two pretty well. Three,

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Speaker 1: Bill Cosby's out of jail. That's another disgusting development on

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Speaker 1: a technicality. So while they don't dispute that he's guilty

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Speaker 1: the world right now. Well, and now this delta strain

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Speaker 1: and the delta strain, But back to these three stories

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Speaker 1: are all examples of white men making the rules and

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Speaker 1: deciding what's best in the interest of women. What are

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Speaker 1: we talking about today's sweetheart, What are we talking about today?

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Speaker 1: Let me look, Well, this is an interesting story. I

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Speaker 1: emotionally dominant. Right yeah, Okay, what else are we talking about?

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Speaker 1: We have a exmission that we get from a lot

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Speaker 1: of people just feeling lost in life. We're gonna find you.

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Speaker 1: We You're found. Consider forget hashtag problem solved, hashtag You're found,

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Speaker 1: and tattoo removal. You don't have any tattoos right, not

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Speaker 1: that I'm aware of, but I do have something sticking

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Speaker 1: Then he got home and I was like, Joe, I

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Speaker 1: and did you retrieve your purse? No? I never turned out.

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Speaker 1: am suffering from a neck injury, sweetheart, because I got yesterday.

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Speaker 1: for everyone listening to also do your annual physical. Yes

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Speaker 1: for a breast cancer Awareness month? Is a breastcancer awareness month?

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Speaker 1: breast cancer Awareness month. Don't you like when you google

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Speaker 1: so it's so fucked up to have to grow up that.

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Speaker 1: such a bit like whatever I am times a hundred

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Speaker 1: is what my aunt is. And so she loves me,

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Speaker 1: but she doesn't like me, your aunt Cabby. She she

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Speaker 1: for the ten pm show, which is on September. So

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Speaker 1: if you live in that area, there are about I

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Speaker 1: don't know how many tickets there are left, but there

425
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Speaker 1: are some. And then I have all the other cities

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Speaker 1: that I have already released, and tickets are available, and

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Speaker 1: I can't fucking wait. It's called vaccinated and a horny,

428
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Speaker 1: So make sure that you bring your vaccinations and your

429
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Speaker 1: horny nous and then keep them to yourself, please. And

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Speaker 1: on that note, I am feeling so horny that we

431
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 1: need to take a break so I can just climb.

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Speaker 1: I can't even pretend that I would do something like

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Speaker 1: that in a podcast studio. We're going to take a break.

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Speaker 1: Should we take some calls? Okay? Our first submission comes

435
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Speaker 1: from well, we don't know their name, but they're twenty

436
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Speaker 1: four and they write, Dear Chelsea, I'm a twenty four

437
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 1: year old music student at Juilliard. Should I keep hooking

438
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 1: up with my friend who is in an open long

439
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 1: distance relationship with a girl who is a sexual. There's

440
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 1: a lot to unpack here. Okay, what do you think

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00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: is he on the phone? No? This this was just

442
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 1: a write and I imagine because it's nature. Read that again,

443
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 1: Dear Chelsea, I'm a twenty four year old music student

444
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Speaker 1: at Juilliard. Should I keep hooking up with my friend

445
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: who is in an open long distance relationship with a

446
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,159
Speaker 1: girl who is a sexual. I don't see why not.

447
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,919
Speaker 1: I mean, this seems like a home run opportunity unless

448
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: you're getting emotionally involved. But other than that, yeah, go

449
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, open relationship, that's the green. What pops

450
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 1: up or pops down? Pops off? See what pops off?

451
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 1: And thank you for writing in. We don't know your name,

452
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: so we'll just call you Lucifer. I guess, so you

453
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Speaker 1: have our seal of approval. Good luck on that. Let

454
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Speaker 1: us know how it goes. That was mind blowing. I

455
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 1: mean anything of a certain age, So like that age,

456
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Speaker 1: I'm glad I'm not so drunk all the time. Well,

457
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 1: can you imagine having to deal with everything that people

458
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 1: that age are going through right now, like the political

459
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 1: correctness of the genders and everything, Like we're all trying

460
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: to keep up with it. But the younger generation gender fluid,

461
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 1: a sexual, like, who the fun knows what's going on there?

462
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 1: I don't know they know because it's that they live it.

463
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 1: We're the ones that have to keep up because it's

464
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,439
Speaker 1: not like what we grew up with. So we're the

465
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 1: ones who were like, I have to understand it. They

466
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 1: understand it, so it's not you know, I think it's

467
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,920
Speaker 1: easier for them. You know, this is also probably much

468
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: more of a norm now for people that age so

469
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Speaker 1: twenty four, like being in an open relationship and the

470
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 1: different types of sexualities. A sexual, I think that means

471
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Speaker 1: that they're not sexually interested in anyone or anything. So

472
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Speaker 1: I don't know even know why they're being a relationship

473
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Speaker 1: with someone who's a sexual because it's like us, it's

474
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Speaker 1: an emotional attachment. Yeah, well, but would you describe our

475
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: relationship as a sexual, Well, not with how often I

476
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: try and see you naked? Well, yeah, you do walk

477
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 1: in on me and I get a lot, but that's

478
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: just because I don't have a door to my bathroom.

479
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 1: That's probably what I should be doing since I've been

480
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 1: so bored. I should pick up one of those hobbies

481
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 1: where I'm like, you know, I'm Pinterest making a little

482
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: like furnitured boards of what I want my house to

483
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: look like, something like that when you went up to

484
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Speaker 1: Canada because you had quarantine for two weeks, and you

485
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: asked if you should start online shopping, And I don't

486
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: think i've ever I've ever been more worried about it.

487
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: What am I gonna do for the quarantine? I mean,

488
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: I'll read, but there's only so many hours a day

489
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,360
Speaker 1: you can read a book, you know. I can't read

490
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: for eight hours. I was like, what should I do?

491
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Speaker 1: Should I take up online shopping? Do you think I'd

492
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 1: like that? That's gonna be a hard No, I know,

493
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: but I don't want to get involved with anything like that.

494
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: Lucky for me, you get through one page and forget

495
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: what you were doing exactly. I would be like, yeah,

496
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 1: what am I doing on this side again? Okay? So

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Speaker 1: our next submission comes from Julian from the UK, and

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Speaker 1: Julian writes, Dear Chelsea, I've always loved your honesty, integrity,

499
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Speaker 1: and how genuine you are. My question, what would your

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Speaker 1: advice be to anyone who's feeling lost in life or

501
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,679
Speaker 1: unsure about themselves and their direction? This seems to be

502
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: a common theme. Everyone's going through it. So let's see

503
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Speaker 1: what's going on, Julian, Julian, are you there? Hi? Yes?

504
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: How are you? Oh? Hi? Julian, Hi, Julian, Hi, How

505
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 1: are you guys? We're good? How are you doing? How's

506
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: how's how's COVID doing over in London. Oh yeah, it's

507
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: going really well. Yeah, it's it's okay. I think we're

508
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: on our way out hopefully sur surviving for sure. Yeah,

509
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: how about you guys. Yeah, well it's going well in

510
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: l A right now. But you know, every time you

511
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 1: think you're out of the woods, there seems to be

512
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Speaker 1: another go round of it. So who who knows? Who knows?

513
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 1: You're cute? Thank you? Likewise, thank you? Well, what's going on?

514
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,199
Speaker 1: What is going on? Lots of things? So um, I

515
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 1: guess the basis of my question kind of stemmed from

516
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: my personal experiences and circumstances over the last few years,

517
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Speaker 1: which were kind of in relation to my career, relationships, friendships,

518
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Speaker 1: mental health and so on. However, I guess on the

519
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: flip side of that, I think there's a lot of

520
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Speaker 1: people who are going through the same thing as me

521
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: at the moment, So I thought it would be good

522
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: to get your advice on on the situation and see

523
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 1: if you could help me and so many other people

524
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 1: to to kind of help get contract after such a

525
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: difficult year and with everything that's been going on, Right, Brandon,

526
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: would you like to take the lead on this, Well,

527
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 1: I just wonder if there's a specific Like you listed

528
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 1: off some categories in life, like is there a specific

529
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: Is there a specific one that you feel like you're

530
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 1: having the most trouble kind of confronting or getting like

531
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Speaker 1: getting over that hurdle. Well, sadly, for me, it all

532
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: happened at the same time. But if I was to

533
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Speaker 1: pick one, I guess mental health is really important to me,

534
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 1: and I know something I was struggled with for for

535
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Speaker 1: a number of years. So in terms of feeling kind

536
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: of lost and unsure, I guess I deal with depression.

537
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: So for me, it's quite difficult when there are circumstances

538
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: going on that you can't really control, you know, how

539
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: do you kind of get through that? And what would

540
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: your advice be to to kind of keep going and

541
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Speaker 1: get yourself back to a good place. I mean, I

542
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: would focus on what are the good things that are

543
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: happening in your life, like what's going on with your job,

544
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: your family? Do you have a boyfriend, girlfriend? Um, not pregnant, no,

545
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 1: currently single. Happily, I'm quite blessed. I've got a great

546
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: family and friends. But my circumstances previously, UM, I lost

547
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Speaker 1: a lot of people quite close to me. And when

548
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: I say lost, I mean they're still with us, just

549
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: not with me thankfully. And my career, you know, I

550
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: changed my job, I had to really change my whole life,

551
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: and then COVID happens. So it's just kind of been

552
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 1: one thing after another and you feel like you can't

553
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: catch break. Well. I just think, first of all, it's

554
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 1: not like you're loaning this. Obviously, half the world is

555
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 1: feeling this way. More than half the world. More than

556
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: half the world feels like they've lost something right this

557
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 1: last year has it's like you're on a constant treasure

558
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 1: hunt for like the next glimpse of happiness or the

559
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: next positive thing to happen, because every time it seems

560
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: like we're it's on the horizon, like Chelsea said, something happens.

561
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: But I think that in those moments, it's really important

562
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 1: to have something, a hobby and outlet that when you're

563
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 1: down or depressed or in that sort of emotional state

564
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: where it's kind of hard to dig yourself out, you

565
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 1: have to have something that you can implement, And also

566
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: you don't want to be a victim of your circumstances.

567
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: Then you're like letting the world run you and you're

568
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 1: not running anything, so like being even you like you

569
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: know it's been so hard on you, of course, yeah,

570
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: but like what are you gonna do with this opportunity now?

571
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: You know, don't be a victim. We don't none of

572
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 1: us want to be that, because that's just like graveling.

573
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: You know, you have to go. God, Yeah, this was

574
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: fucking tough. And if I survive this, I can survive

575
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: so much more and kind of pick yourself up and

576
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: start with all the good things you have going on

577
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: in your life. Reminding yourself every morning when you get up,

578
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 1: you know how lucky you are to be where you are,

579
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 1: regardless of what happened in the past. What's happening right

580
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: now is you having to be like in your life

581
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: getting things kick started again, which is the way so

582
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: many people feel. So you've got to get your juices flowing.

583
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: And I think that Chelsea is obviously a big believer

584
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: in meditation. And I try and do it consistently, and

585
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: you know, I fail. I try, and I do it

586
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: in the morning. Now. I used to do it midday

587
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: and I got to meditate this morning actually, and I

588
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: usually do it first thing when I get up, but

589
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: lately my meditations have been so lame that I'm just like,

590
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: but it really does set your day on a better path.

591
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: So I kind of used it as a coping mechanism

592
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: where if I was stressed, I would text her and say, hey,

593
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm taking tendons outside whatever as a coping mechanism for

594
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: working for me, for associated with it, but trying to

595
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: start your day off in the way that she mentioned,

596
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: either kind of giving yourself the affirmations of the positive

597
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 1: things or the little goals that you're going to have,

598
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: Because when you feel those little successes, I think everything

599
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: else feels a little less detrimental. Yeah, and every day

600
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: should be like an adventure, you know, when you're getting

601
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: up in the morning, it's not it's not like you

602
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 1: have to write affirmations or yeah, you could write down

603
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: in a thing like you know, three things you're grateful

604
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: for that way you're getting out of bed with like

605
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: some juices going, like some positive vibes. I think that

606
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: everyone's problem is just to have more positive vibes, right,

607
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: Like everyone can work harder to take the negative and

608
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: turn it around and make it positive. Well, it's so

609
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: much work to be negative all the time, you know,

610
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: it'sou draining, I know, Julie. I will say the way

611
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: that you kind of recounted the people not being in

612
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: your life is a positive thing, Like you obviously have

613
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: a positive disposition, like your recounting, Well, I haven't. Yeah,

614
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: that's the word I don't is And I like the

615
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: way you used it. I was sexually attracted to just

616
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: then we have that dynamic. So I think just implementing

617
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: more of that that you you know, the people who

618
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: were baggage and not contributing anything, they're no longer there,

619
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: and you know, that's a positive thing. There's always a

620
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: way to spin the circumstance in a positive direction. And

621
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: the more you do that, it's going to feel like

622
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: less work. Yeah, definitely, well said Brandon. Yeah, I would

623
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: agree with that. You seem really cool, Like, yeah, I

624
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: think you're gonna be just fine. Thank you. I hope.

625
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: I wish I could prescribe medication overseas. I would prescribe

626
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: you something fun, but I can. I only work here

627
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: in the United States. I'm sure I can find something here. Okay, good? Yeah,

628
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: do you smoke cod and do you drink? Like? Do

629
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Speaker 1: you have fun? Well? That's good, I mean you have

630
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,719
Speaker 1: to at this point. But I know right like, this

631
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: isn't the time to be sober or even experiment with

632
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: sobriety exactly. No, I don't have time for that. So

633
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Speaker 1: the first two weeks of the pandemic, like when we

634
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: were quarantining for our first two weeks, which we thought

635
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 1: would be our only two weeks, I treated it like

636
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: it was spring break. Like I did mushrooms every day.

637
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, what drugs do I have today?

638
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: She was like an amust child on rum spring up.

639
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: I mean, she was like anything that she could get

640
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: up to she was. She's like, I only have this

641
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: two weeks. Yeah, nothing, I can't leave my house. It

642
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what happens. Like, I'm just gonna I had

643
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: like a hundred milligram THHC capsules that I was taking.

644
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 1: I tried those out. I was like, let's see what happens.

645
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: And then when I realized it was going to go

646
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: on for more than two weeks, I was like, oh,

647
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: ship like and then zooms became, you know, the like

648
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: the big thing. I was like, Oh, I'm gonna have

649
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 1: to get my ship together. That was the word. I

650
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: definitely killed off some brain cells during those two weeks.

651
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 1: For sure, those two weeks were the best for both

652
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: of us because no one knew how to work, and

653
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: I was just dropping off egg mcmuffins McDonald's eg mcmuffins.

654
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: He put in my freezer and freezer pack them for

655
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: me because that's my favorite thing to have. I'm like,

656
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: if the apocalypse is coming and everything shutting down, I

657
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: need her to go out on a high note, literally

658
00:31:55,000 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: high with McMuffin. Yeah. Anyway, stay away from egg mcmuffins because,

659
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: as you'll know, I'm sure they cause damage and you

660
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: don't need that in your life right now. No other

661
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 1: unsolicited life advice. Take care of Julian. Thank you so much,

662
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: guys appreciate it. He was one of my favorite callers.

663
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: He was so likable. It's some of these people that

664
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: are really likable that just needed to kind of recalibrate

665
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: their thinking. Yeah. I think a lot of people also

666
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: don't laugh a lot. I think that's a thing because, like,

667
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: when I've gone through periods without laughing, I notice it.

668
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, why aren't I laughing? Like when I'm not

669
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 1: making you know, I'm like being too serious or I'm like,

670
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: you know whatever. People in their heads, taking things too seriously,

671
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: taking things too serious, and nothing's that serious like my

672
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: And this is actually a piece of advice that I

673
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: gave you. Way to toot your own horn. Well, one

674
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: of the first times I ever did it, I remember

675
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: being so uncomfortable trying to like, you know, open up personally.

676
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: And you were really upset about something. I can't remember

677
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: what it was, and basically it probably was. And my

678
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: aunt always would ask me, is it really worth being

679
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: mad over? If I called her with an issue or

680
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: if I was upset about something? And the answer is

681
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: almost always know, like when you're really face to answer that.

682
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: And so I did that to you one day. You

683
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: were upset about something, but you have to put it

684
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: in perspective is it really worth being mad over? And

685
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: you totally changed your outlook like, actually, no it's not.

686
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: So let's just like correct it and move on. Yeah,

687
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: it's so lame to be in a bad mood. Also,

688
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: you know, it's like just so not hot. It doesn't

689
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: do anything for anyone. Well, no, no, it doesn't. It's

690
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: not like anyone get Yeah, well, let's see how this

691
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: next color is. Her name is Lacy. She's from California.

692
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: She is a child sleep therapist, or maybe she can

693
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: help you. Spee hard and Adula. We need to put

694
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: two birds with one stone. I can have a baby

695
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: and sleep through the night. If you could sleep through

696
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: having the baby. Oh well, I would rather sleep after

697
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: the baby is born. I would rather sleep through that. Well,

698
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: my bell will be taking over at that point, so

699
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: will though I really be taking over at that point.

700
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: She writes, Dear Chelsea, I would like your advice. My

701
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: girlfriend and I plan to spend our future together and

702
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: that means we would like to get married. However, with

703
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: both of us being lesbians, feminine lesbians, we don't really

704
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,239
Speaker 1: know how to propose. I personally would like to be

705
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: proposed to. However, she also wants to be proposed to.

706
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 1: How would you suggest we go about this? Any ideas?

707
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: This is a quick fix. She's on the phone. Okay,

708
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 1: let's see what's going on. Hi, Lacy Chelsea. You're a

709
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: feminine lesbian. I could see thank you? Yes, Okay. How

710
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:27,919
Speaker 1: long have you guys been together? We met seven months

711
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: ago in the height of the pandemic. Well that was good.

712
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm glad you guys were being safe during the pandemic.

713
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 1: Hooking up exactly. And how's it been going. I mean

714
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,439
Speaker 1: seven months, that's like, okay, so you know you both

715
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: know and committed. Yes, yes, when you know, you know.

716
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: But I mean to put it simple, we met at

717
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:53,800
Speaker 1: the beach in Santa Monica, and the rest is history.

718
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: So there's a lot going on with the circumstances of

719
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: your meeting being at a beach during the pandemic. But

720
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,439
Speaker 1: I'll support that's good. They were outside, that's safe. That's

721
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 1: one thing. We need to take you to the beach

722
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: to try and find you somebody. Yeah, six ft apart, Yeah,

723
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 1: six ft apart. They were just, you know, finger blasting

724
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: each other six ft apart exactly. Yeah, Chelsea. I think

725
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: what you guys are like, you know, a modern couple.

726
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: I think you should just if you want to be

727
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: proposed to and she wants to be proposed to, I

728
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: think you should have a conversation and say, listen, I'm

729
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: going to propose to you, and I want you to

730
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: propose to me, and let's plan on doing that together.

731
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: I mean, because otherwise one person is going to do

732
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: it and then the other person is going to be

733
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 1: let down right well correct, But that's the conversation we've

734
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: already had. Oh yeah it oh it is mean. Yes,

735
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 1: So we need a good idea, Chelsea, like an idea

736
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: for the double proposal. But are you going to be

737
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: proposing at the same time or rule one of you

738
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: propose at a certain time and the other person. See,

739
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 1: that's what I would do. That's my question, you guys,

740
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: that's a logistical that's a logistical question. And sweetheart knows that.

741
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: Sweetheart it does not know anything about logistics. This is

742
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: also that's your department. This is a calm and problem

743
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 1: with gay couples. And this is something you can ask,

744
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: like who pays for dinner when you're both men? Are

745
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: both women? And the same thing for proposing? How do

746
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: you know who proposes to one another? Sometimes there's a

747
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 1: more dominant person in the relationship. Are you the more

748
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: dominant one? Well, that is a good question. I think

749
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: it's pretty equal. That's why I'm having a hard time

750
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: with this. So what so what about you just going

751
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 1: for it and proposing like on your own and then

752
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: I could do that and then letting her just figure

753
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: out her own thing. So I do it first? Yeah,

754
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 1: like you want to do it? Like, yeah, that's kind

755
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: of it's kind of hot to do it first anyway, right, Yeah, yeah,

756
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: it could be except for the possible repercussions of that

757
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: of the girlfriend being pissed. So what you don't understand

758
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: Did you agree? Did you agree with you agree that

759
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: you won't both wanted to be proposed to, but you

760
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 1: didn't agree that it had to happen on this at

761
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: the same time. Did they okay? Because I'm like, miracle ear,

762
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 1: we should do an ad for miracle ear because I

763
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: was like, did I fucking miss something? Oh yeah, no,

764
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: I think you should. Then you should just go for it.

765
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: Just proposed to her and do it and like be

766
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: like I wanted to do it my way and I

767
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 1: want you to do it your way, and that way

768
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 1: it gives her the room to, you know, still do

769
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: it right. It's exciting. Congratulations. I'm so happy that you've

770
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: found somebody that you love this much like I would

771
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: love to find somebody that I was that excited about.

772
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: Maybe you will keep telling you to become a late

773
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 1: in life lesbian. Everyone Everyone is becoming lesbians. Everyone something, Well, no,

774
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: they are because they're sucking over men. They're like, oh

775
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,439
Speaker 1: this is you. Guys are so disappointing over and over

776
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: and over again, that we're just gonna start going down

777
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: on women. That's what a lot of women are doing.

778
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 1: And I might you're right, who knows, you know what,

779
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: I probably will end up being a lesbian Okay, I know.

780
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 1: I just I'm like, I like men. I'm attracted to

781
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: men in a big way. I'm losing my attraction to

782
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: that slowly over time, but I keep thinking that there's

783
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: gonna be some guy out there that I'm just going

784
00:37:55,920 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: to be really into, possibly or up, and we'll take

785
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: you to the beach and we'll find you your lesbian lover. Okay.

786
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 1: My last piece of advice on this, maybe you set

787
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: a time line or a time frame that you if

788
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 1: you do it first, then she has, you know, three

789
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: months to plan her thing and do it that way,

790
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: so that way you don't feel like you both don't

791
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 1: know when it's happening. Or maybe you set a certain

792
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: amount of time that you both agree on of when

793
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: the first person is allowed to or pull a fucking straw,

794
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: so you know, like then it's fair who who gets

795
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: to propose first. But I definitely think I definitely think

796
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: you each setting up your own proposal so you can

797
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 1: do it your way, based on what you know the

798
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: other person would appreciate is going to be the best

799
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: experience for you both. So you're saying, whoever does it first.

800
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying that there's I think she should just propose, like,

801
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 1: just go for it and fucking do it already. Okay, yeah,

802
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: be bold. I think that's my advice. Let us know

803
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: how it turns out. Who who ends up proposing? Yeah, sweetheart, Okay, yeah,

804
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to my sweetheart now because I'm

805
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: you know, that was a confused We have to work

806
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: in concert. Well, we have different perspectives on this because

807
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: as a gay man, this is a struggle that we

808
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: all face. Okay, you're never going to face that. You

809
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: don't need to hear this part of the conversation. We're

810
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: going to say goodbye, Lacey, thank you, have a great day.

811
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 1: Bye bye, sweetheart. Stop exposing everybody to our dysfunctional sweetheart.

812
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 1: I look like Nick Nalty. I think your face looks great,

813
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: looks very You look very glowy today, do I? Yeah?

814
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: Did you use that empathy product? Yeah? Yeah, I use

815
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: that new hempathy product, and I was testing it out

816
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: to see if I like it on so far, I do.

817
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,760
Speaker 1: I hope more people right in with cosmetic related questions

818
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: because that's my favorite topic. I know you love to

819
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: do you love to take care of your skin anything,

820
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: facials and any sort of Yeah, a roma therapy or

821
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: you into a roma therapy. No, not so much into that,

822
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: but my candle therapy. Aroma therapy just like smells, but

823
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: it always smells like ship. My favorite is when you

824
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 1: think that I've had botox and I have it. Yeah,

825
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 1: your forehead looks like you've had a lot of botox,

826
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: and now, oh that's weird mobility. So you have a

827
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: little bit one of those like what are those cavemen

828
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: from the early times? What are they called? Chocolate? Chocolate chocolate? No,

829
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm not thinking of that, but yeah, pro magnum chromagnum. Yeah,

830
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 1: you look a little bit chro magnum. Then with your

831
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 1: it's where like it's a little cave man asked, It's

832
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: like where there you were, it's very full right here

833
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: in the brow. Yeah yeah. And then with your middle part,

834
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,839
Speaker 1: like you look like you could be, you know, half

835
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: a palf man I'm missing, like you could you could

836
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 1: have come from that line of you know, well we

837
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 1: all did, so I imagine there's gonna be not very smooth,

838
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: but well, but anyway, it's good to know that cave men,

839
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: we're getting botox. Also, it started somewhere this would be

840
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,359
Speaker 1: a perfect time to insert our botox commercial. We're just

841
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: dishing out this advice today and I feel like we're

842
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: getting through them very quickly. I love our callers are

843
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: so none of them are annoying, you know. I mean,

844
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 1: obviously somebody will be, but that's everyone's so cool one

845
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: for sure. Oh yeah, yeah, I know, for sure. I'm

846
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm waiting. Well. Our next mission was actually a voice

847
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: memo submitted by Tina, and so if you would like

848
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: to send a voicemamil, you can do that as well.

849
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 1: You can send it to Dear Chelsea project at gmail

850
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: dot com if you don't have the time to call

851
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: in and send us a voice momo. I love a

852
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 1: voice mamo. Let's listen to what she has to say.

853
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 1: Dear Chelsea, I need your advice and whether to remove

854
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: my tattoos completely off my body since they suck, or

855
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: repair the current ones to look cooler instead of the

856
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: piece of ship I have. Yes, I shouldn't have done

857
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: it to begin with, but the damage has been done

858
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 1: and removing them is very painful, with numerous appointments and money.

859
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: But I'll do it if you pay and film the

860
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: horror promise. You're lesbian tattoo friend Tina. Why if I

861
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: have to pay for her to get her tattoos removed

862
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: and then film it repaired. I love that you gave

863
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: me two options, removed or repaired. I personally just I'm

864
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: not a fan of tattoos. No, I'm a Jew, so

865
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: it's like, it's not that I follow anything else, like

866
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: at anything about religion about my own other than trying

867
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: to be a good person. You can't be buried in

868
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: a Jewish cemetery if you have tattoos. I am not

869
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: going to be wanting to be buried anyway. Sweet. Actually,

870
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: that's that's conversation we need to have. Yeah, I want

871
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: to be cremated, and you can just throw me in

872
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: the garbage. I do not want to be cremated on

873
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: the record. Do not cremate me. You mean for the record,

874
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: for the record and on the record, Okay, do not

875
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: under any circumstance. I want to be buried because I

876
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: want to be brought back. I want there to be

877
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: some DNA left. You're being ridiculous. I looked up being

878
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 1: cry genically frozen. There's a company in Arizona. Okay. So

879
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: how much does it cost? I don't know, but you

880
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: have to have somebody handled the account. That's like forty

881
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: years young. I think it's a hundred and fifty thousand.

882
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: But there are two different options. You can just have

883
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: your head crygenically frozen, in which case they would like

884
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:51,919
Speaker 1: implant your brain into another body and then come back.

885
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: Possibly you come back a hundred years later. Yes, I

886
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: don't know about that. That would be really scary. I

887
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: got a tattoo while you were way and I posted

888
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: about it while I was in my tattoo session, and

889
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: you deemed me immediately about the tattoo. Were you disappointed

890
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: that I had gotten a time? I just was surprised. Well,

891
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: this is something else to know. More life advice is

892
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: sometimes your body refuses the ink, which mine has done. Well,

893
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: there you go, so it has now faded into Basically,

894
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I got had the ink disappear with my

895
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: power of thought. You probably did out your tattoo. You

896
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: wanted my body to let go of the ink, letting go,

897
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: letting go. That's a book everyone should read. You've given

898
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: it away to multiple people. Oh yeah, that's a great

899
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: book by David Hawkins. I read it like three times

900
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: when I was in Whistler. It's really good. So did

901
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: we she on her own? I mean, what are you thinking? Uh, Tina, Yeah,

902
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 1: it's not a decision for us to make. I'm not

903
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: going to pay for your tattoo removal. I can't start

904
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: paying for things when people ask and right in because

905
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: then that's what the show would be and I'd have

906
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 1: to do much more than a podcast to sustain it.

907
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: But it's a decision you're going to need to make, Sister,

908
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: on your own, without our help. You got yourself into

909
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 1: this mess, Now touch yourself out of it. Goodbye, Tina. Okay,

910
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: it sounds like it's time for a breaky breaky, breaky breaky.

911
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Okay, Well, there was definitely abroad.

912
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: It seems like we didn't do very much heavy lifting today, sweetheart.

913
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: Let's be honest. No, but those will come. Do you

914
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: think if you weren't a comedian that you would want

915
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: to do something with counseling or like, no, if I

916
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 1: weren't a comedian, what I would want to do is

917
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: get paid to watch television and sit on my maybe psychology,

918
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, and it would have to involve travel

919
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: and sociology. Maybe sociology, anthropology. It's never too late to

920
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: become an anthropologist, Brendan, There's always an option. Would you

921
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:55,399
Speaker 1: ever go to college? Did you ever actually enroll if

922
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: we were filming it for like, you know, a documentary

923
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: series or something. Yeah, we've talked about toing that before.

924
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 1: We just haven't gotten around to it. Because but I

925
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: would Yeah, I'm interested in learning, and I'm also would

926
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,240
Speaker 1: be interested in getting swept up in the social aspects

927
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: of college, just because I would just I would totally go, like,

928
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: you know, join a sorority, become the president and tell

929
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: all these girls like how to fucking you know, keep

930
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: everyone in line and like be bosses. I would love

931
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: So I would love to have that influence over a

932
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,879
Speaker 1: bunch of eighteen year old girls, Are you kidding me?

933
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: Like they would be fucking cunts by the time I

934
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: got done with them, they'd be ready to attack. So yeah,

935
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: I could see myself doing that. I don't remember what

936
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: happened with that. We were talking about it, but then

937
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: we never really got into it, so we'll we'll revisit.

938
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: Put that on your notes section. I will bring up

939
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: I will, I will, I will thank you. Yeah, lightload today, lightlift,

940
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: but we'll see what happens next week. Do you feel

941
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 1: like that you have the qualifications to continue advising people

942
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: at this level? I mean, I don't know that I'm qualified.

943
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to keep doing it right, and that's the

944
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 1: important thing. I'm no quitter, right, and quitters never win.

945
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 1: Good Night. If you want any assistance with your partner,

946
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: your best friend, really, anything, you can write into Dear

947
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 1: Chelsea Project at gmail dot com. Dear Chelsea Project at

948
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: gmail dot com.