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Speaker 2: What did you see on the phone?

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Speaker 1: I seen a woman with lipstick write his name on

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Speaker 2: It was a video.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen videos.

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Speaker 2: That's not cheating.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me. I don't have crushes, Dad asked, serious, I

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Speaker 1: I'm your host Tizar for today.

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Speaker 2: And I'm your boy Paul Pierce. What's cracking?

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Speaker 1: What's cracking? How you feeling? You got the toes out?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I got the fresh petty, the fresh petty. Good? He

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Speaker 2: I got some. I'm chilling right now.

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Speaker 1: But he don't want to wear those, so get out

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Speaker 1: First and foremost. The buzz on the internet is simply

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Speaker 1: So then TMZ got ahold of that, whatever the case

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Speaker 1: So it's crazy because the internet is basically blaming her, right,

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Speaker 1: What do you think? Do you think that women becoming

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Speaker 1: They've been together since they were fourteen.

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Speaker 2: Like your needs change as you get older. What I

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Speaker 2: So like over time, you can imagine that some people

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Speaker 2: To move on. Did you break up with all your boyfriends? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So, like, how many relationships would you say you've been.

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Speaker 1: I've been in three serious relationships.

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Speaker 2: You just said I don't want to be with you

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Speaker 1: I know, I'm not easy to give up on somebody,

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Speaker 1: And we fought like and it was just like not working.

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Speaker 2: This is the deal about relationships and what we have

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Speaker 1: You have good years and then yeah, I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: No, I agree.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you're gonna like it's just like riding in the

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Speaker 1: Damn.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, can we get this thing back and float?

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Speaker 1: But sometimes there's too much damage that's been done and

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Speaker 4: Yes, And I was just in the gym with I'm

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Speaker 1: You know, you can get married. You could do that,

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Speaker 1: they don't. Women don't do that. Listen, I'm letting you

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Speaker 1: I want to feel that feeling again, So okay, I'll

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Speaker 1: on my mom. And my mom is crazy thew and

434
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 1: she will find out and she'd be on shit. So

435
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: he must be a call.

436
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 2: Oh that's all love.

437
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I don't know, Like my dad was that

438
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 1: example for for fifty years.

439
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 2: Damn. So your dad only has sex for one lady

440
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: with fifty years supposedly.

441
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know because I believe only because.

442
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 2: I's true love though if it's like that.

443
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 1: Nah, I just think I'm just saying. I will say

444
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: that my mom she's crazy. She'll say anything, and she'll

445
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 1: tell me like your dad is, like, she's crazy. So

446
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 1: if he was cheating, like she's not the top of mom,

447
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:30,399
Speaker 1: that will hide it and cover it.

448
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 2: I watched the movie so did you see that one movie?

449
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: I forgot the name of that movie where dude was

450
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 2: trying to explain to his daughters about him and his

451
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:44,880
Speaker 2: wife divorcing, and they was like, you know, girls, let

452
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 2: me ask you something. If I got you like a

453
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 2: barbie or a car, And I said, here, this is yours.

454
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 2: You only can have this one barbie that's crazy. You

455
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 2: only you can't play with no other barbie that's who

456
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 2: for the rest of your life. Would you want to

457
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 2: do that?

458
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 1: This is what I'm saying. Would I believe that if

459
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm with a man. Let's say I get with a

460
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: man and we get married and we're together for the

461
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: rest of our lives. Do I genuinely believe that that

462
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 1: man will never do nothing for the rest of our lives. No,

463
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: I do not believe that. I hope that he wouldn't.

464
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: I pray that he wouldn't. I especially hope that he

465
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: wouldn't if I was pregnant or feeling crazy about myself,

466
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: like that would fuck me up. And I hope that

467
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 1: if he ever did, he did it in a respectful

468
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,199
Speaker 1: way to where I never found out nothing. It was

469
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 1: a one time situation. It just happened. It was a

470
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 1: slip up whatever, damn near pay somebody whatever, like but

471
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 1: never talks this viche again. But I would pray that

472
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,160
Speaker 1: that's how it was done, or it wasn't done at all.

473
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 1: And you know, I just I don't want to deal

474
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: with that because as a woman, it's like all that

475
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 1: cheating and stressing out like I'm too. I'm older now. Oh,

476
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with none of that shit,

477
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: Like if you're sloppy enough to where I'm finding out,

478
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: because I'm not going to go looking for nothing if

479
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: you're slopping up till the things are coming. Yeah, I have,

480
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: and I'll never do it again because I did that

481
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 1: when I was young, and I will never do that again.

482
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: I learned my lesson my stomach was in my asshole

483
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: and I was sick to my stomach.

484
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 2: Did you see? Tell us what the name one thing

485
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 2: you saw?

486
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: I don't care. I seen all type of ship like

487
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: I seen.

488
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 2: You looked at him like the constant angel. And then

489
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 2: you got the the guy.

490
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: That I was with you at the time. Oh my god,

491
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: I had him on a pedestal. I thought he would

492
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: never Literally, I don't think that man will never cheat. No, No,

493
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: they fell off. They fell off. The type of man

494
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: that he was. I really thought, like, Wow, what did

495
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 1: you see on the phone? I seen a woman with

496
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: lipstick write his name on her titties like this, sending

497
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: it was a video. Yeah, I seen videos.

498
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: That's not cheating.

499
00:24:55,800 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: Excuse me, that's cheating in the text message and what

500
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: he say, Yeah, some ship, honey, Like what you mean

501
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: he was replying and he saying ship.

502
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 2: Saying because if a girl says a guy a flick,

503
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 2: is that cheating?

504
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: No, But it just depends on what your response is,

505
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 1: Like if it's an old random bride that's just said,

506
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 1: what did you see that?

507
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 2: You was like your stomach went to your ass, like

508
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 2: you said, that wasn't it? Not that that ain't it?

509
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 2: You must have saw like a whole situation.

510
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw a lot. I saw a lot. I

511
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:33,479
Speaker 1: saw him cheating.

512
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 2: You saw him like pulling out, having.

513
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 1: Sex, pulling up, running.

514
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 2: It up, No, having sex with another girl.

515
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: I've seen that. Yeah, a video on the video, a

516
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: video of him getting had. Yeah, that's cheating. What are

517
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: you talking about? Is that cheating? Like like you're blowing.

518
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 2: Me right here, that's definitely. Yeah.

519
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,199
Speaker 1: I've seen all types of stuff in the text. And

520
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: I also seen What I don't like is a man

521
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: that's complaining about your relationship with me, Like because we

522
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: were together for a minute and so you're in the

523
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 1: text like your gang what to think to another woman

524
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: about my relationship? Like this is so disrespectful, Like I

525
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: don't like shit like that, Like that's that's where I

526
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: draw the line, Like you're so corny and weird that

527
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 1: you have to talk to me about me, to these

528
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: women and they're thirsty to want to know my business,

529
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: and you're over here telling them my business so you

530
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: can get some action, some action, Like this is crazy

531
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 1: to me. And once I see that, I'm cool.

532
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 2: So you see the phone you find out did you

533
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,719
Speaker 2: tell him that night? That right?

534
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: To me? I react immediately if you see one thing

535
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: about me, is you see what you get? I'm not

536
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: gonna hold it now. I will now I do, but

537
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,199
Speaker 1: hold it. Oh now I won't hold it because I

538
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: will hold it because I just I have to think

539
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: about it, like, oh this is crazy. Am I going

540
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: to leave him? Okay? Like I have to prepare my thing,

541
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: like I will prepare my my my exit route, like, oh,

542
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm cool. Let me see if I'm gonna leave him.

543
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: If I'm gonna stay with him, then I need you.

544
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 2: Didn't and you hold it like and he wants to

545
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 2: have sex that night, that's gonna be difficult, right.

546
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be difficult. See I'm hard. The thing

547
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: is is like I am super reactive in general, and

548
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: like my sister always tells me, like you gotta because

549
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: like I'll find something out and this is crazy and

550
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 1: I'm losing it, like yo, what like are you kidding me? Like,

551
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 1: like I'll lose it. But now it's like I've got

552
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 1: it better at just being like, m I'm gonna peep it.

553
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm anna peep it cool and if I'm not, like

554
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: i'll peep it, like I'll peep it. I really peep

555
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 1: stuff now.

556
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 2: And I got some information on this girl.

557
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 1: I like, what information do you have?

558
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 2: Got some information? I'm holding it right now. Yeah.

559
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,719
Speaker 1: See, And that's what I don't like either, So I

560
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: get I get that to where it's crazy to hold

561
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 1: it because I don't feel like it's fair for the

562
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: other person. But I also feel like at the same time,

563
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: if it's not something that you're gonna leave the person for,

564
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 1: you have to approach it in a different way. Like

565
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 1: I don't feel like cause like me, if I'm reactive

566
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 1: and I react, like I might really react and just

567
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: be like I'm cool like and just do some shit

568
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: like whereas like I'm done, I'm cool on you and

569
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: be so angry and upset and hurt that I'll lose

570
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 1: it on somebody, So I'd rather just if I'm not

571
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: gonna leave you for that, I'm gonna hold it and

572
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna peep it like cause it's like, if

573
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna leave somebody, then why am I holding

574
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: onto that? I mean, why why am I bringing it

575
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: up in a rash, crazy way like I need to

576
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: hold it and then be like yo, So what's up

577
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: with this situation? Like?

578
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 2: Why?

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586
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

587
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: What do men need to do more of? I mean,

588
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,479
Speaker 1: excuse me? What do women need to do more of

589
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: for men to take them? Seriously?

590
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: What do hold accountability do?

591
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: That's the dud.

592
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 2: That's a dud to me.

593
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, accountability?

594
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like men don't always Why are we always wrong?

595
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 2: Why can't we ever win an argument? Why can't like

596
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 2: like everything is like we bow down to everything. I

597
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 2: swear like women never like to admit when it's stayful

598
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 2: or when they're wrong.

599
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: You've never seen a woman take accountability before.

600
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: I'm just saying in general, for the most part, women don't.

601
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 2: And then it's just that attitude quiet, don't want to

602
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 2: say nothing and then don't even have to don't even

603
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 2: want even apologiz when they really find out they're wrong,

604
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 2: just try to let it go by. That's that's the worst. Okay,

605
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 2: So they think so much easier if women just heeled

606
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 2: accountability or more more accountability and like apologize a little

607
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 2: more when they're wrong.

608
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: Okay. What makes you feel like you're being chosen and

609
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: not just wanted? Like I'm actually choosing this person? I

610
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: just don't want them for all the stuff that they have.

611
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: You talking about me?

612
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: Like men? You men? Anyone?

613
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 2: What actually say that? A question?

614
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: Again? What do you think makes men feel like they're

615
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: actually being chosen and not just like wanted for their

616
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: material items? If you broke no, but what if you're

617
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: not then Ella, it's nothing. It's nothing that a woman

618
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: can do to make you feel like, Wow, she actually

619
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: wants me and not for the things that I have.

620
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 2: Nothing.

621
00:30:56,440 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: Wow, that's crazy to me. That's lower me nothing. What

622
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: do men need to do more for women to feel secure?

623
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: What do men need to do more of to make

624
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 2: women feel secure?

625
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

626
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 2: Stay home every day and don't do nothing with their boys.

627
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: That's so patty and just man can go.

628
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 2: Out with his girl twenty times the one time you

629
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: go out with his boys. Where y'all going, Who you with,

630
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: what time you come? Yeah, So we don't do none

631
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 2: of that. That's the only way y'all gonna feel secure.

632
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: That's totally not true. And that's sad that's your assessment

633
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: of that because I've been in a lot of men

634
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: we talk about this, Yeah, but I've been in relationships

635
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: where my men I know what I'm saying. You're saying

636
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: that women are like this, But it's like there's a

637
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: lot of women.

638
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 2: Didn't you.

639
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: I asked about what men need to do more?

640
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: So how can you me about what men need to

641
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 2: do more?

642
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: Just like you told me what women need to do

643
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: more right now? About being accountable. I'm doing the same

644
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: thing that you just did one minute ago. So a woman,

645
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: how I wouldn't know what a man needs to do

646
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: to make me sure as a woman. It's like you

647
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: what women need to do to make a man feel

648
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: because accountability, No, we just flipped it.

649
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: What do a woman need to do to make a

650
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: man feel? What do a man need to do to

651
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 2: make a woman feel good and comfortable?

652
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: I think for us, just like open communication, it's like reassurance,

653
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: you know. I think those communication just like communicating, like

654
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: I feel like with man, it's like letting a woman know,

655
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: like hey, just like a man wants to know, like

656
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: what his girl is on, Like like.

657
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: You said, what he own? But if he don't go nowhere,

658
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: he don't do nothing. What's the acts, what's the time?

659
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's sustainable and I don't think

660
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: that's realistic, realistic, I would I don't personally want to

661
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: be with a man who doesn't do nothing, Like you

662
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 1: should be able to go out with your homeboys, just

663
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna go out with my homegirls some time,

664
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go out with my own home girls.

665
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna kick it. I think that having a balance

666
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: within the relationship where it's it's you just being y'all, listen.

667
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: Trust is built in moments where you don't see your partner.

668
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: You can't always have if I'm showing you everything and

669
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: doing everything, that's not real trust. That's not real trust.

670
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: That's controlling, that's micromanaging. Trust is built when I don't

671
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: see you, when you're out with your homeboys and you

672
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: come home at whatever time and I know and trust

673
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: that you were just doing what you were doing. Trust

674
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: is that trust is when you're out with your homeboys

675
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: and the person is not blowing you up because they

676
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: actually trust you, and you come home and it's cool.

677
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: Like you can't micro managing someone isn't real trust. Trying

678
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: to make sure your man is never around women and

679
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: this and that is not real trust. That's false. That's

680
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: just doing weird stuff like at the end of the day.

681
00:33:55,600 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: Real trust is built when you can day. That's just ridiculous.

682
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about, Like to me,

683
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: that sounds crazy. Anyways. I think that real trust is

684
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: so you think that you can have a relationship and

685
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: never go anywhere. You're never going to go out with

686
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 1: any of your homeboys and do nothing. Ever again, you're

687
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: talking about me, Just yeah, anyone, Is that sustainable for you?

688
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: As a man asked, what was the question.

689
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 2: What's the original.

690
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 1: Question is what do men need to do more of

691
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: for women to feel secure?

692
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 2: All right? That was my answer. So I'm an ain't

693
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: gonna do that, but I'm just.

694
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: Saying, you give a realistic answer.

695
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 2: So what do men need to do more of to

696
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 2: have your girl or your husband or wife feel.

697
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: Secure secure in the relationship?

698
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 2: Probably like give her some money?

699
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: Okay, you just being an extra that real That doesn't

700
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 1: create Like.

701
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 2: I have seen a situation, I don't feel secure. He

702
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 2: gave her two mil, she felt secure, She felt secure.

703
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, it's the truth.

704
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: I mean, damn, we know that.

705
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: Well, thank you to our women feel secure on what

706
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 2: men can do for them, and that's just it. And

707
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 2: men feel secure based on like you just being there.

708
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 2: That's it. Through bullshit.

709
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 1: So you know, both the answers on how women feel

710
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: secure and men feel scire all the answers. Okay, anyways,

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714
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Speaker 2: If you can go out on one date with anyone

715
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Speaker 2: in the world, who would it be.

716
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: Like, who's your I don't have crushes, Dad asked, I

717
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: don't have a crush. People have asked this, I don't

718
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: have a crush. I do not have a crush because

719
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 1: I feel like if I have a crush, I'm dealing

720
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: with you. I'm seeing what's up. I don't have a crush.

721
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 2: I feel there's a lack of crushes crushes in the

722
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 2: world today. Back in the day, it was easy.

723
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: It was easy to have a crush.

724
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 2: Who was no, no, no. But the thing is it

725
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:27,959
Speaker 2: was so many like top tier like celebrities, Like who

726
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 2: is the top tier celebrities? It was easy back in

727
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 2: the day because you was like all right, Jaddie John

728
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 2: said Bello. Now it's like who is the top tier's influencers?

729
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 2: Like who is it? Like who is that top tier

730
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: it girl? Because in all the errors and like remember

731
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 2: it was Holly Berry, it was uh, what's the girl

732
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 2: that was with Mike Tyson? Damn, I forgot her name?

733
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,720
Speaker 2: What's her name? You know, Vivica Fox was the it girl.

734
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 2: You know, it was a lot of it girls, Like

735
00:36:58,280 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: who's the it girl?

736
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: We already know who your crush is, Ruby Rose, that's

737
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: your that's your only fans models. Is your crushes crazy?

738
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: That's what you beyond? I personally feel like, did I

739
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: say that? Yeah you did? He said that on you

740
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 1: said you tweeted it to her? My thing is is

741
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: iel like thirsty? So me that was thirsty? I personally

742
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: like I can't really say, like I wouldn't even want

743
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 1: to say that I have a crush because that's.

744
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 2: The it girl and god today, because remember the guys

745
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 2: was like Morris Chestnut and Denzil and like who's the

746
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 2: it guys and the it girls today?

747
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: Like who is Rose Cardi B?

748
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 2: So is it Cardi B?

749
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: Battle?

750
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: It's a rapper girls.

751
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 1: Now, I guess, I like sexy.

752
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: Red and Bagging the Stallion and all them. Yeah, I

753
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 2: guess because before it was the actresses.

754
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 1: And with the man, I wouldn't even know who the man?

755
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: Who the man is? Who's the new Morris Chestnut?

756
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:59,439
Speaker 1: Who's the I know? Like Kofie what's his last name?

757
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 2: The dude from Tiger Yeah, yeah.

758
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know his name is like Kofy something. He's

759
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: a dark skinned actor and the women beyond.

760
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 2: Him he just el but like who is that now?

761
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: The young Kofy.

762
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: He's he's not even strong he's just very handsome. He's one,

763
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: for sure, He's one. And then like, I don't know

764
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: who else. Honestly, I can't think of nobody else besides him.

765
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: I know they, oh, Aaron Pierre, which is U Tianna

766
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 1: Taylor's X. People think he's so handsome.

767
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 2: Michael B.

768
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: Jordan's because Michael B. I don't find them attractive. That's

769
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: not my type. But Michael B. Jordan's Aaron Pierre, they're

770
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 1: too light skin for me. And you know who else?

771
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: Who's another actor? Uh? Damn? It was one more guy.

772
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: I can't think of him.

773
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 2: But those are the ones ladies, the one who's the ladies.

774
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: A lot of actresses that's like the it girl.

775
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe the girl from Sinners how uh Hayley Steinfeld

776
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: is that her name?

777
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,479
Speaker 2: No, nobody from Sinners is the it girl?

778
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: Well, she's pretty.

779
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 2: I'm talking about the level of Ali Berry Beyonce, Like

780
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 2: when people was talking about that's the that's who. You know? Uh,

781
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 2: who was singing Janet Jackson? You know what I'm saying

782
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: that now.

783
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: I know what you're saying, But I can't think of

784
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: anyone who's really fine like that.

785
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 2: It's bad like that in the movies music like that.

786
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 2: Everybody like, damn, that's not you know, in their forties

787
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 2: now or fifties. Who's a young.

788
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: Someone that right now? It's whimming.

789
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 2: I just can't think of some influencer. Only fans girl, now.

790
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: That's what you're into, but thinking of I don't have

791
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: an only fan.

792
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 2: I've never seen one only fans.

793
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: Video, Like you were saying, Ruby Rose is your crash, so.

794
00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 2: I'm thinking was just going off her Instagram.

795
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: Yeah that's what you like. That's cool, you know what

796
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying, that's what you like. I'm trying to think of,

797
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: like who is the actors? Actresses? And I can't think

798
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: of the actresses right now. I can't actresses right now. Damn, No,

799
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:17,439
Speaker 1: there is we just can't think of them.

800
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: Man, y'all need y'all to name some of them actresses.

801
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 1: So there's definitely actresses. I just can't think of them

802
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 1: right now. Anyways, we've been so far left right now,

803
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 1: always Donna. She's in her forties, Yeah she's old. Yeah

804
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: she's Zenda she's super young though she's in her twenties.

805
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 1: But Zendaya is one for show. Damn. I can't think

806
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 1: of anybody else. But there are them. They are out there.

807
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 1: We just are not thinking of it right now. They're

808
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: out there. There's a beautiful women out there.

809
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 2: So many were talking about we live in the baddest

810
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 2: era of man kind of whereas the most beautiful women

811
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 2: ever right now? Why there's no who says that? Though

812
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 2: everybody says that. I mean, everything gets better off time

813
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 2: doesn't matter. Yeah, it's true, better athletes, better looking, everything

814
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,919
Speaker 2: overall is better. So who is the lady right now

815
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 2: that's on the level when we want to talk about that.

816
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna be honest, I don't think that that's

817
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: true because I think the nineties when them women was

818
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: naturally beautiful and glowing in this and Regina King Hall

819
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: and Nia Long and all them women.

820
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 2: Black girl on the planet right now.

821
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

822
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 2: Who? Would you guess? I don't know, said Meg the Stallion.

823
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

824
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,720
Speaker 2: No, she's up there?

825
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 1: Should she?

826
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: For the baddest black You're a pure black girl in

827
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Speaker 2: the planet.

828
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 1: She're black? Okay?

829
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:53,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, who's that girl right now?

830
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: Man? Who is it? Okay? We got to move on

831
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 1: because way off the car. Yeah, okay, So back we

832
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: were talking about, like.

833
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 2: The comments who y'all think is the badest black girl.

834
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: Let me see what y'all think. We go see who.

835
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Speaker 1: Okay, So, Charlemagne the God was on Angie Martinez. Is

836
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: that her name Martine? She's still on the radio. She

837
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: has a podcast and.

838
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:19,839
Speaker 2: Martinez was popping back in the day.

839
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 1: She's still so anyway, I like, I used to listen

840
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: to her.

841
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, go ahead, I'll run her rugged.

842
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the God says that once he started doing right

843
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: by the woman he loves, his life leveled up. He

844
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: and he also rejects the idea of He's like, I

845
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,280
Speaker 1: hate what men be like, I keep it real my homies,

846
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: but I lie to my woman. He was like, that's

847
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: so fake to me, and I don't mess with that.

848
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: And he was like, you know, when I started deciding

849
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: to do right by my woman and my girl, he

850
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: was like, my life changed drastically, like actually being a

851
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,479
Speaker 1: good man, which is something that he said he never

852
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: really did, like where he was like really solid, not cheating,

853
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: pouring in this and that he said his life became

854
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 1: so much better. Have you do you agree with that

855
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: or do you even know how that goes?

856
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 2: I can see where he going because if you just

857
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 2: because it's because I think when you allow yourself to

858
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 2: lock into your woman, you lock into everything else. Yeah,

859
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: you know, your work, your goals, because then you you

860
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: off all the other bullshit distractions, hanging with the homies,

861
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 2: going to the club, doing bullshit. I'm locked in with her,

862
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 2: and now I'm a just lock in here and I'm

863
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 2: gonna lock in on my career or what you know,

864
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 2: something that's driving me, and it's gonna allow me to

865
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 2: focus on that. But when I'm not locked in with

866
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 2: her and I'm over here and I'm going in too

867
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 2: many directions, it's a clear path when you lock in

868
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 2: with somebody. I truly believe. You know, all great men

869
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 2: have great women with them, you know what I'm saying.

870
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 2: And I believe that. You know.

871
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: So, what about the idea of keeping it real with

872
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: your homies but lying to your girl? He said, that's

873
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 1: corny and that's fake to him, like, oh, I keep

874
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: a room with my boys, but I go home and

875
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: lie to my girl. He said, he don't rock with that,

876
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: and he thinks that's fake.

877
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 2: Well, what do you got a lot of your homies about?

878
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:28,959
Speaker 1: What do you have to lie to your woman about?

879
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 2: It?

880
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: If you're doing, what are the things you need to

881
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: lie about? Like this is crazy. I don't want to do.

882
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 2: I'll tell you why. Like I got friends that are

883
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 2: married that they girl don't like them smoking weed, So

884
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 2: he'll go smoke some weed. Broom, boom, boom, and she'd

885
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: be like, what you're doing?

886
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 1: I was just you know, what's another example? That's an example?

887
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 1: What's another example? You said a lot of things, So

888
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: give me another thing.

889
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 2: Like so he has to lie just to keep the peace.

890
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 2: He don't want to argue because he go through so

891
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 2: much stress. He had to, you know, smoke a joint

892
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 2: to get about.

893
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: What's another thing? Give me another exams.

894
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 2: So a lot of things is like why is he late?

895
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 2: I was late because my dog or some shit. You know,

896
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 2: y'all like us to be on times. You know, a baby,

897
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 2: I was late. My car flat flat.

898
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: So you lie about a whole flat tire and you

899
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: can't just running behind.

900
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 2: I mean it's a lot of it's little things, but

901
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 2: you do it just so you can keep the peace.

902
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: And it's like, you know, damn, you know you messed

903
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: up with being late. You know you messed up by

904
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 2: maybe you know and it's not about always cheating and

905
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 2: being with another girl or or talking to females. It's

906
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 2: like little stuff that men don't lie about, so he

907
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 2: don't have a little ass argument that don't really mean nothing,

908
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 2: like you know what I'm saying. It's like I'm trying

909
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 2: to say both of us time pretty much. That's why

910
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 2: I lie, like I'm really saving us time.

911
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 1: I don't love it, but you don't love it.

912
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 2: But it's like, damn, the homies was over here longer

913
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 2: than I expect. The babe, I'm late, Like, he don't

914
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 2: want to tell you so the homies, So when you

915
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 2: know that she don't like certain homies, he'll tell you

916
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 2: I was with what's the name instead of what's his name?

917
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So that's like little and.

918
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: Then someone sees you out with what's the name, and

919
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 1: then it was a whole lie, and then now you're

920
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: fighting over I don't want to.

921
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 2: Come home and argue with it. And it was not

922
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 2: a it's not a big deal.

923
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: But you rather ask for forgiveness instead of permission.

924
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 2: Because permission allows argument. At the time, you know it does.

925
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 1: So you're okay with your girl, like you don't like.

926
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 2: Someone I argue after not before.

927
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, so okay forgiveness and not permission.

928
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 2: For it's just like gonna ruin my night.

929
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: So you're okay with the girl being like, yeah, I

930
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 1: went out with this person, but was really out with

931
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 1: another person. That's cool, Like you respect that because you

932
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 1: know she's just trying to avoid a lie.

933
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if I tell you I don't like you

934
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 2: fucking with her, and you go out and you say

935
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 2: you with another girl, it's gonna be an argument like

936
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:01,839
Speaker 2: why you.

937
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:03,360
Speaker 1: I went out with my homeboy, but I said I

938
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: was with my homegirl. That's cool, you know what I'm

939
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: talking about, as long as I know the homie, I

940
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 1: don't know. That's not cheating. No, it's a home boy friend.

941
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 2: No, that's lying, and now you're lying and cheating.

942
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:27,320
Speaker 1: Now girl has a homeboy and he she have a homeboy.

943
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: I'm homeboy exactly, Like are you cool if your home

944
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: your homegirl, your girl has a homeboy, and they're like, oh, baby,

945
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to dinner with homeboy, just me and him, drinks,

946
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: dinner clubs.

947
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: No, why are you going to dinner with him?

948
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: That's blown me as well, Like, no one in a

949
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:44,240
Speaker 1: relationship like I'm not going.

950
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 2: Girls having they gay boy boyfriend.

951
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that they like to hang out with.

952
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: I'm cool with that. You can hang out. Yeah.

953
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: Gay is different. We're not talking about gay. Gay means

954
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: he don't want you, honey. We're not talking about gay.

955
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 2: That's like the homegirl.

956
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:03,439
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I'm cool with that anyways. Okay, So that's

957
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: what didn't that's not what we ask. We know you're

958
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: home with the gay guy.

959
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 2: Go ahead, girl, blow on me.

960
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: So this is something that I want to talk about.

961
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: So blue Face, which is.

962
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: Jesus to get blue Face on the show, a blue face, Hey,

963
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: tell whack to line it up a whack. We need

964
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 2: blue face on here. We need the holler dog.

965
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: So let me tell you what he recently said. So

966
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: blue Face was on Shannon Sharp and he said that

967
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:38,240
Speaker 1: basically his mother, which I've seen his mother like every

968
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: time he has a girl, he said, no matter what,

969
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 1: it could be his girl, it could be just a

970
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: chick coming around. Whoever it is, his mom will be like,

971
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be around for a lot. You're like,

972
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: she's sabotaged it. He don't even want you for real,

973
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: he don't want you. And she says that it reminds

974
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 1: him of a woman that likes him, and he tweeted.

975
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: He was like, tweet it one time. He was like, Mom,

976
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 1: you want some weird stuff, like you acting like you

977
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: want me or something. And so she went on live

978
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: and was like, and y'all stop saying I want my son.

979
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: I have a man and his is way bigger than

980
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 1: my sons. She said that on LIVEE. She was like, yeah,

981
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: and is way bigger than my son's, way bigger than

982
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: blue Face as a mom. That's crazy as hell, Like

983
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 1: why would you talk about your son's size, of his

984
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 1: situation and then compare it to your man's And that's

985
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: the reason you don't want them, Not because it's your son,

986
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 1: not because anything, Because this man has a bigger thing

987
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: than your son. So that's why I don't want them.

988
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: I already have a man and it's way bigger than

989
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: my sons. And Blueface has said it's weird. He's like,

990
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's weird, Like she reminds me of

991
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: a woman who be wanting me, Like like, that's what

992
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: how women act when they want you. They put down

993
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: other women and they say all of this and that.

994
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 2: I just look at it as like a mom who's

995
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 2: protective of.

996
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 1: Her son, so you talk about your sons.

997
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: No, it's just like we live in the world. And

998
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 2: when you look at Blue Faces, dynamic with the reality

999
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 2: with the podcast and you know, his whole situation, it's

1000
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 2: built on drama, it's built on you know what I'm saying.

1001
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 2: So you know, we tune in and he's entertaining, and

1002
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 2: you know he's been through a lot and he's documenting

1003
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 2: it all. So you know his life is well documented. Well,

1004
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 2: everybody's documenting their life like that, So what does happen?

1005
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 2: But like, yeah, it's gonna be some things that said

1006
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 2: that's given shock value, and you know Blue Faces is

1007
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 2: about shock value, and that's why we tune in.

1008
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 1: I don't tune into that.

1009
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 2: I mean you you I didn't hear that you did.

1010
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: Because search I'm a whole producer. I have to research topics.

1011
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,439
Speaker 1: I don't tune into him. At the end of the day.

1012
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: What I will say is like I think that there

1013
00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 1: are some mothers that they they don't have a man

1014
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: and they make their son like their second man or whatever,

1015
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: and I feel like that's superd that like Mike King,

1016
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: Oh my King, like this, like like that's weird to me.

1017
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't care what no one says, Like you're doing

1018
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: too much and you're putting the responsibility and the weight

1019
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 1: on your son to show up like a man. And

1020
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: I have people, I know people who do that, and

1021
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: I am close to people where their sons have said

1022
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 1: like my mom being doing too much, Like that's not

1023
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 1: your king, he's not Like that's not Like, that's weird

1024
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: to me. And you are replacing, like you want that

1025
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: man figure and you want your son to show up

1026
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 1: in that way because you don't have a man. And

1027
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 1: I just think that that's super uncomfortable for the son.

1028
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: I think it's weird. And I think a lot of

1029
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: women do that.

1030
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:49,240
Speaker 2: Like a woman will love her son more than any.

1031
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: Other man, right, I understand that.

1032
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 2: Understand because now she had a man before, and but

1033
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 2: her son is some different. Because I lived there, I

1034
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 2: see how my mom was with me. Yeah, you know,

1035
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:07,319
Speaker 2: like my mom like I was the world. You know,

1036
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: having a boy like having your boy after you go

1037
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 2: through it with another man. It's like having a boy

1038
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 2: that can do no wrong. Yeah, it's something like like

1039
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 2: you have a man that does wrong, but then you

1040
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 2: have another man that can do no wrong in your eyes.

1041
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you gotta understand too, like and I'm not

1042
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: saying that's more experience, but I'm saying, like women, you

1043
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: enable your son at that point, Like a lot of

1044
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,839
Speaker 1: these young boys are getting raised in a way where

1045
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: they lack masculinity, They don't know how to do little

1046
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: small fucking shit, and at the end of the day,

1047
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 1: they're very like I watched this like, they're very like coddled,

1048
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: like because you want to just keep them under your

1049
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 1: thing the whole time. It's like, you gotta let a

1050
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: man have men figures in their lives. Men need men

1051
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,720
Speaker 1: figures and they need to be able to like grow

1052
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 1: and flourish. And I think that that concept is just

1053
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: way too heavy on a sun, you know what I mean.

1054
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: And I think that that's just weird to me and

1055
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 1: anyone any like. You shouldn't be talking about your son's situation.

1056
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 1: That's that's out of pocket, period, point blank. Anyways, So

1057
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 1: moving on Selena Powell, I don't even know why man

1058
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,919
Speaker 1: messed with her at this point, because you know she's

1059
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: gonna blast you. It's like Karen Stiff and Stephen's Like,

1060
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: she's known to blast people and tell your whole business,

1061
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 1: So why are you still laying up with her? It

1062
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: must be just hidden or something because the way that

1063
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: they still keep messing with this girl knowing she's gonna

1064
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:36,959
Speaker 1: videotape you blast your whole situation. That's what I think

1065
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:40,760
Speaker 1: it has to be. It has to be because why

1066
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: keep going falling? Yeah, you keep phoning, So I don't know.

1067
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,800
Speaker 1: It must be busting or something, because it's like, why

1068
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: are you, like you robbed g Herbo and he she's

1069
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 1: talked about it, He's talked about it like it's a

1070
00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: known thing. You blast snoop Dog, you don't red, You

1071
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: blasted everybody's ship, and people are still messing with I

1072
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: think that is just given like a convenient chick that's

1073
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 1: ready to go and ready to do all the nasty,

1074
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: crazy things that you ever wanted to do. I don't

1075
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: know you can just that's she's not the only one

1076
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: in that category. Yeah she's not. So it must just

1077
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: be something because why do you keep going back to

1078
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: that knowing she's gonna videotape you and blast you on

1079
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: every podcast she got the only reason why she's on

1080
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 1: podcasts is to talk about all her sex capades and

1081
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 1: every man she dealt with that was married or had

1082
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: a girl. And this is what I will say, And

1083
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: I don't care about nothing any woman, And I really

1084
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: stand on this. Who messes with a man who's married

1085
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: or knowingly in a public or known relationship is has

1086
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: low self esteem and low self respect. And I personally

1087
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: do not respect you as a person like I just

1088
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: really mean that from the bottom of my heart. And

1089
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: it's not even because of like my situ auations or

1090
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: anything like. I believe the man is responsible for being

1091
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 1: loyal to you, but I believe that a woman who

1092
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:08,720
Speaker 1: knowingly does that doesn't have a moral compass and doesn't

1093
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: have standards or believes in what's right or wrong. You'll

1094
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 1: do anything. You have bad character, and you're super raggedy

1095
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 1: to me. And I know women like that, and I

1096
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: know women who will smile on your face and want

1097
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 1: to be friends with you just so they can get

1098
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:23,240
Speaker 1: up on the person that you with. And honestly, women

1099
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 1: like that are so low budget, raggedy and burnt out

1100
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: to me, like, I know the game. You, I'm cut

1101
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 1: from a different cloth. You can never fool me, baby,

1102
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 1: I'm not the one or the two. And a woman

1103
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: who doesn't feel the need to be a prioritized or

1104
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: not the man I'm not. I'm not the one. I mean,

1105
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,320
Speaker 1: I'm not the two. I'm never the you know what

1106
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm not the one. Three, I'm not the

1107
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 1: one or the two to play with. Yeah, don't play

1108
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, I'm not the one or the two

1109
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 1: to play with. Don't play with me or play on

1110
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 1: my face because I'm never the one, like period. But

1111
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 1: any ways, I say that to say, like I just

1112
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: wish women if women had higher standards and self respect,

1113
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 1: Like I just I don't respect women who do that.

1114
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: I just don't. And if I find out you do that,

1115
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,720
Speaker 1: I just look at you like bottom of the barrel,

1116
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: Like you're just like bottom of the barrel to me.

1117
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 1: Don't come around because I have sisters, five sisters that

1118
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: are married, my parents are married. Like anyone who's willing

1119
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: to do that is just so just like burnt out

1120
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 1: to me. And you don't have a moral compass, like

1121
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,320
Speaker 1: you don't believe in nothing at that point period.

1122
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 2: I love about you that you stand on business you

1123
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 2: represent like I really truly believe that you represent a

1124
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 2: voice for women that have standards. You represent voice for

1125
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 2: women that don't need all this extra shit to get by,

1126
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:58,720
Speaker 2: Like you're natural and you love yourself. You like you

1127
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 2: you represent a dynamic a women that's original. I love that,

1128
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 2: like you didn't. Like I know people don't if they

1129
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:14,320
Speaker 2: go to your page. You know, it's very like it's

1130
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 2: it's it's very classy, like you'll show pretty miss and

1131
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 2: women miss, but you don't go overboard.

1132
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1133
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 2: I love the fact that you do that. Like you know,

1134
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:30,919
Speaker 2: how tall are you?

1135
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: I'm five six? No, damn got it with you?

1136
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 2: No?

1137
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: No, you're so tried. Why would you try to pick

1138
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:53,959
Speaker 1: me up? I'm like five six and a half. No,

1139
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: I'm not standing up. And you know what's funny, So

1140
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 1: people been posting on Instagram it's like this viral thing

1141
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 1: or people will post on Instagram right like it was

1142
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: like a stud girl and someone posts on Instagram like

1143
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 1: how many likes do we have to get? And who

1144
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: has to comment for you to dress up as a

1145
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: woman like woman woman, and she was like, Tyra Banks

1146
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: has to comment and it has to be one hundred

1147
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: thousand likes, and then Tyra Banks commented in a one

1148
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: hundred and like it's viral. So like another mom was like,

1149
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: how many likes you have to get for you to

1150
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 1: do this? And she's like, Marvel has to comment and this,

1151
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: so everyone in the comments like, y'all need to do y'all.

1152
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 2: Need to do this. You need to get to get

1153
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 2: a three sixty events card or dunk.

1154
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: I need to get one hundred and fifty thousand likes, okay,

1155
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 1: and who has to comment? Damn, that's a hard one.

1156
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: I don't know someone impossible. It has to be someone

1157
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: like impossible. That no, because that's what they're doing is

1158
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 1: they're making it impossible, like Marvel, and Marvel commented and

1159
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, it was. The girl was like with

1160
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 1: a mom and she was like, if we get dislikes.

1161
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 2: We're gonna do one hundred and fifty thousand likes and

1162
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:00,439
Speaker 2: fifty to comment and.

1163
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: Fifty cent to comment. That's impossible. Okay, I'm cool with

1164
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: that car. One hundred and fifty thousand likes and fifty

1165
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: to comment, then yes, I will give the three sixty

1166
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: Vince Garter period. Oh my god, that's not happening, honey. Okay.

1167
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: So one, we'll get into one last thing before we

1168
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: wrap up. You know, the girl Saudi A. Khan Okay,

1169
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: so you do know who she is. She's like an

1170
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: Armenian looking girl. But she was like she always talks

1171
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: about like women being motivational and like being good women

1172
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 1: and not cheating and not lying. And then she got

1173
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: caught up cheating with the married man and they were.

1174
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 2: Recorded that.

1175
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was recorded doing weird stuff. So she was

1176
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 1: on Nick Cannon Show recently. She was yes, and she

1177
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: explained why she feels like black man dates outside of

1178
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 1: the race. And she says that she feels like black

1179
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: men date outside of the race because they're the only

1180
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: man that's sought after by every race. Like black men

1181
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: are the most desirable men, so every race wants them,

1182
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: so they have the option of every race. And she's like,

1183
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: Asians don't have the option of every race wanting them.

1184
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: This other race, like you know, the other cultures. White

1185
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 1: men are not like ooh, everybody wants white men. Like

1186
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: I personally would not date a white man, you know

1187
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So it's like people they're saying that

1188
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:35,920
Speaker 1: like black men, most women want them. But I'm gonna

1189
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: say this one thing because my homegirls just told me

1190
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: this today. My homegirl was like, her best friend is white, right,

1191
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 1: And she was like, it's so crazy because my best

1192
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:46,600
Speaker 1: friend is white and she'll have sex with black men

1193
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 1: all the time. And she'll tell me, she said one time,

1194
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: she literally said, I mean I would never take a

1195
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 1: black man serious. I don't never date a black man.

1196
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: I just have sex with them.

1197
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 2: That's what black men feel. Some black men feel about

1198
01:00:58,160 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 2: white girls.

1199
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, So that's what white A lot

1200
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: of people do that, and then what ends up happening

1201
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 1: is you end up caught up with a The reason

1202
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 1: I'm so passionate about this because I'm mixed, right, and

1203
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 1: I come from a mixed culture background, and I've a

1204
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: lot of women will date black men that are not black.

1205
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,439
Speaker 1: I mean they're not black. They'll date black men, they'll

1206
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,560
Speaker 1: have kids with black men, but they won't really accept

1207
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 1: their culture. They won't accept their child. They won't learn

1208
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 1: how to do their hair, they won't learn how to

1209
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: teach your child about her blackness. They won't learn about

1210
01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: the culture. And that's very damaging for a lot of

1211
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 1: mixed kids. They have a lot of identity crisis issues

1212
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 1: because they're like, I don't know how to be a

1213
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 1: black girl. I don't know how to be this like.

1214
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:44,400
Speaker 1: And a lot of women are like that. They'll date

1215
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 1: black men, but they are racist. They don't even like

1216
01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: black people. They don't like the family. They don't get

1217
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 1: along with none of his sisters, none of his family,

1218
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: none of the people in there. They barely like their

1219
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: own kids. They don't want to figure out how to

1220
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: do their hair, nothing like. And that's a big issue

1221
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: with a lot of mixed people, period point blank. And

1222
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 1: I think that if you're gonna lay up with a

1223
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: black man and have a black child, you need to

1224
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: learn and be responsible enough to understand that you have

1225
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 1: a black child, especially if your mother is the one

1226
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: that's not black. Because as a young black girl, even

1227
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 1: though I'm mixed, you need to learn certain stuff about

1228
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: being black, period point blank.

1229
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 2: I don't know about that.

1230
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 1: I'm sick of you, this man says. I don't know

1231
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: about that.

1232
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Do I got to learn

1233
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 2: how it is in other cultures if I get into

1234
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 2: other cultures. If we're not living out there, we're in America.

1235
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 2: As long as you understand what American culture is about this, So.

1236
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 1: You don't believe that black is a different experience for people.

1237
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: You don't believe that black.

1238
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 2: So I'm asking, like, if I got a white lady

1239
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 2: and we have a kid, and our kid need to

1240
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 2: get their hair braided, I expect her to learn how

1241
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 2: to braid her hair.

1242
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 1: You don't learn how to braid her hair. No, that's

1243
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 1: not what I'm saying. You have to understand. Yeah, you

1244
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,919
Speaker 1: don't have to learn how to which you can understand

1245
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: where to figure out, get information on where you can

1246
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 1: get her hair braided. Learn about her hair text, learn

1247
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 1: about her body type. Learn I grew up with a

1248
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 1: big old booty and I was in white people jeans

1249
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: with an ass crack showing. Because I didn't understand that

1250
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:16,640
Speaker 1: my butt was huge and my stomach was small. It

1251
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 1: didn't make sense to me. I didn't even get it. Like,

1252
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things that you have to learn.

1253
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 1: Good night, I'm done. No, No, this is crazy. At

1254
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: the end of the day, you want to take everything serious.

1255
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 1: If we get we said what we said, we said

1256
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 1: what we said, If we get those likes and we

1257
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: go there, we.

1258
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 2: Got to have a plan B.

1259
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 1: No, it's no plan B. It's fifty cent who was

1260
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:44,919
Speaker 1: your snoop? No, No, we never said it was gonna

1261
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: do that, snoop. Whatever. Last thing that I'm gonna talk

1262
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,439
Speaker 1: about is there's a woman who said Kevin Samuels taught

1263
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: her to accept being a single mother means the dating

1264
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 1: pool shrinks. She'll probably be alone for the rest of

1265
01:03:59,280 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: her life.

1266
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 2: She's accepted defeat.

1267
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: That's crazy. I know, that's what she said.

1268
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 2: She's accepted that.

1269
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: I know women who are seeing who have kids.

1270
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 2: You women need after thirty let me see. Let me

1271
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 2: tell you when you women need to accept defeat. If

1272
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 2: you're forty with multiple kids and you don't have a

1273
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 2: boyfriend on the horizon, it's okay to accept defeat.

1274
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: I don't.

1275
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 2: It's okay to accept unless you're gonna wait another twenty

1276
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 2: something years until all the kids move out, and then

1277
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 2: when you turn sick.

1278
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 1: To get another man with kids because.

1279
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 2: His kids plus your kids. If I'm gonna do the math, damn,

1280
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 2: so not only got to take care of my kids,

1281
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 2: I gotta take care of her kids too. Now that's double.

1282
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 2: That's gonna cost too much.

1283
01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 1: This is my point. I feel like if I see

1284
01:04:56,720 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 1: there's people who have like baby moms and stuff right

1285
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 1: that are still single, and like a man would hate

1286
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: for me to be his baby mom, because one thing

1287
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 1: about me, I'm moved on, honey, I promise, and I

1288
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 1: bet you if I ever had a baby by man,

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Speaker 1: I will have another man taking care of that kid,

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Speaker 1: marrying me and hitting it, just like my best friend

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Speaker 1: has that. I will be that person kid her kid.

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Speaker 1: Her kid is like four, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Got them all right, So when they got together.

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Speaker 1: Oh like three they.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I wouldn't be mad at I'm not mad

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Speaker 2: at that.

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Speaker 1: No, But I'm saying like there's a lot of women

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Speaker 1: like who don't get in relationships. But I know me

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Speaker 1: like son or not, daughter or not kid or not, Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be moved on, Like I don't hold

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Speaker 1: on to people once I'm done with someone, I'm cool.

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01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: It's a lot of people who like hold on hopeing

1303
01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 1: this Like me, bye, if I break up with you,

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01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:50,720
Speaker 1: I'm never on you ever again in my life. So

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Speaker 1: I don't care if I have a baby daddy, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm not tripping because I don't want that for myself.

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Speaker 1: But I know that, Like, you can't tell me that

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Speaker 1: a kid will stop you from having a man. Will

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01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 1: not one, It will not like he will not stop

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Speaker 1: me from having a man. I don't have a kid,

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Speaker 1: but if it did, baby, I will have a new man, honey.

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Speaker 1: Like and I feel hate that the woman think that

1313
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 1: you do not have to feel like you don't you

1314
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:14,960
Speaker 1: can't get a man. And I feel like it's all

1315
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 1: about your mindset, period, point blank. Everything you think is

1316
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 1: what your reality is. You gotta stop thinking negativity upon

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01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 1: your life. If you want a man, you can have it.

1318
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 1: A man. It's not the hardest thing to get, honey. Okay,

1319
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 1: So you want to allow other people a negative information

1320
01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: to dictate your life. That's not how we're supposed to

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01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 1: be living out here. Like, you gotta think positive. If

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01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 1: you want a man, you can have a man. If

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01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 1: you want this, you can have this. I'm a believer

1324
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 1: in that in all aspects of your life. So you

1325
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: gotta stop thinking so negatively and speaking so negatively upon yourself.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to accept defeat for nothing. I don't

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Speaker 1: give a damn If you want to be forty years

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Speaker 1: old to run a damn marathon, hit it. You could

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Speaker 1: do it. I guarantee it. Because it's all about your mind.

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01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 1: The mind is the strongest mine, So that you have there,

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01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:05,440
Speaker 1: we go anyway.

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Speaker 2: The mind is.

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Speaker 1: I think that the mind is extremely strong. Yeah, I

1334
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 1: think that the mind is what dictates everything for real,

1335
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 1: Like everything that I think is what I am. And

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Speaker 1: the moment I stop thinking about something, I don't I

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Speaker 1: give it. I don't give it power. Yeah anymore, you

1338
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 1: don't have power if I'm not thinking about it, you

1339
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 1: don't even exist. There we go period. Anyways, would you

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Speaker 1: like to leave anybody? On a last note?

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Speaker 2: Man, he make sure you like subscribe the Truth after Dark?

1342
01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:41,440
Speaker 2: It really helps go a long way. Make sure you

1343
01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 2: tune in week in and week out. Who would you

1344
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:47,800
Speaker 2: like us to have on the Truth out of the Dark?

1345
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 2: Put it in the comments dm us and we'll work

1346
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 2: on that. Who would you like for us to have

1347
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 2: right here in this studio?

1348
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: You know they could always say Corey Holcome, who would

1349
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Speaker 1: you like to have as a guest? If you can

1350
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 1: have anyone as a guest?

1351
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 2: Damn, I got anyone as a guest, I'll say mine.

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Speaker 1: I would like to have Vince Staples, Vic Mensa, those

1353
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:15,800
Speaker 1: two I really would love. And Kid Cutting.

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Speaker 2: I can't think off the top like that. I'm not

1355
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 2: a freestylist. I have to think about this one because

1356
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 2: this has to be calculated with me. Okay, that's to

1357
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 2: makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you guys so much again for joining us

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01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 1: at the Truth after Dark. We are so so so

1360
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 1: grateful for all of our supporters, everyone who likes, shares,

1361
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:41,960
Speaker 1: or interacts with any of our content. We really love y'all,

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Speaker 1: down and around. Okay, keep keep watching. We have more

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Speaker 1: amazing things coming for you, and like, if you guys

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01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 1: have any comments that you want us to discuss or

1365
01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: topics any of those things, please let us know.

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Speaker 2: Your ending is too long. People already fell asleep.

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01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: So rude, You're one of the rudest people out here.

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Speaker 2: No, seriously, all right, dog, good night. This is the

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Speaker 2: taking over the game, all right, everybody, welcome to Truth

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Speaker 2: after Dark.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that men or women are more toxic