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Speaker 1: They talking about it. Yeah, they talk better than they

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Speaker 1: excited about it. These are the radio blogs on the

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Speaker 1: Fresh Show.

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Speaker 2: Were riding in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs.

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Speaker 1: Kick Ki go okay, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know if this has ever happened to

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Speaker 3: anyone else, but it was definitely a first for me

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Speaker 3: and my family. But over Mother's Day. You know, my

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Speaker 3: mom had passed on when I was nine, so it's

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Speaker 3: usually our tradition to go out and visit her grave

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Speaker 3: site every Mother's Day or every time it's her birthday.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a big gravesite girl, but my sister is.

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Speaker 3: And so this year, my sister went out to visit

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Speaker 3: the grave site only to pull up where mom has

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Speaker 3: been buried for twenty years and see that my mom's

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Speaker 3: headstone was not where it should be, so it was

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Speaker 3: just an empty space. What Yeah, they completely uprooted her headstone,

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Speaker 3: which is rather large, and moved it.

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Speaker 1: And so where are they moving?

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Speaker 3: So right, my sister sides looking around and she notices

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Speaker 3: that my mom's headstone is now across the way top

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Speaker 3: of someone else's headstone, which was crazy. So of course,

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Speaker 3: my sister, that's like a traumatic experience, like you gonna.

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Speaker 1: Be on your on Mother's Day?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, yes, and the headstone moved.

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Speaker 1: On top of another lady.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, yeah, there's a lot going on,

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Speaker 3: and yeah, I had never experienced anything like that or

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Speaker 3: even thought that that was something they could do, especially

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Speaker 3: without notifying the family, right, And then why would.

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Speaker 1: You do that on Mother's Day weekend?

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Speaker 3: Come to find out, there were a lot of other

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Speaker 3: headstones that were randomly misplaced in that same area. So obviously,

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Speaker 3: my sister made a phone call that next morning when

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Speaker 3: they were open, and they immediately put my mom back,

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Speaker 3: but we went after yeah, after work yesterday, I left

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Speaker 3: here to go verify that she was back, and she was,

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Speaker 3: but other headstones were still displaced, and their excuse or

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Speaker 3: their reason was that that's normal procedure, that they do

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Speaker 3: that from time to time, but they just forgot to

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Speaker 3: put them back.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, I didn't realize they ever moved headstone. I

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Speaker 2: thought it was there and that's where it stayed.

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Speaker 1: That's what I thought.

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Speaker 3: So at this point, I'm like, you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Because they're just moving the headstone, right.

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Speaker 3: That's what I said, Right, So the grass was still

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Speaker 3: o regular, right, because I was going to say, I'd

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Speaker 3: be like, yo, let's.

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Speaker 4: Let's just maybe dig up a little bit to see

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Speaker 4: if the cask is still there?

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Speaker 3: Right like this, It's just so lild to me that

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Speaker 3: they would actually do that, and that is apparently normal procedure.

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Speaker 3: So now just has me rethinking the whole family plot thing,

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Speaker 3: like family is there, and I'm kind of like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I might just want to be on somebody's fireplace.

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Speaker 2: But here's what I want to know, and maybe somebody

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Speaker 2: can like email us or dm us and tell us

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Speaker 2: the truth. Because my grandparents are in what my mom

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Speaker 2: calls a condo. Okay, well you know they're dead, but

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Speaker 2: it's a mausoleum. Yeah, but it's a mausoleum in a building.

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Speaker 2: It's like glass and then the front of the little

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Speaker 2: container like it's like a basically a bunch of glass

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Speaker 2: shelving and you can put the urns in there, and

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Speaker 2: then you can put like little pictures and stuff, and

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Speaker 2: we put like a pottle of Tito's in there, and

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Speaker 2: my grandfather was a Tito guy. But my thing is,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, can you get it was expensive? And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: can you check the paperwork on this, because like how long,

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Speaker 2: right in fifty years or seventy five years or whatever,

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Speaker 2: like the Johnson and Johnson family mortuary. Can they just

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Speaker 2: take all that stuff out and then resell all the

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Speaker 2: same condo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very popular.

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Speaker 4: Like when my mom passed away, that was like one

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Speaker 4: of the options that my dad was considering. Like they're

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Speaker 4: like built into funeral homes. It's like a whole section

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Speaker 4: in the wing and it's just like just earns everywhere.

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Speaker 4: But then like they're like, well, you'd have to make

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Speaker 4: an appointment if you wanted to. I was like, I'm

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Speaker 4: not going to make an appointment to come see my

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Speaker 4: like see the Like.

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Speaker 1: No, let's just keep it at the house. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Another thing is this this condo. And the other strange

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Speaker 2: thing is my grandparents. My grandmother picked the condo and

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Speaker 2: now she's in it, which is kind of weird because

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Speaker 2: my grandfather died first. The other thing is the the

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Speaker 2: condo had a view to the outside, a straight path

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Speaker 2: view from the little little compartment to the garden.

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Speaker 1: They went and put up another set of development number

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Speaker 1: two over here. They put up another section right there

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Speaker 1: that's we paid for review that's right. So I'm almost like,

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Speaker 1: what happened to the view and.

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Speaker 3: That you can't go altering people stop after that, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Crazy, But I'm just saying, like, you know, in fifty

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Speaker 2: to seventy five years, almost anybody, pretty much anybody who

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Speaker 2: ever knew them will be gone, So nobody would know

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Speaker 2: if they just throw all that away and the granted

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Speaker 2: they're not there, but I'm just saying, like we paid

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Speaker 2: a lot of money for that. I'm assuming in the

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Speaker 2: contract it's essentially just a lease. I'm assuming at some

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Speaker 2: point they can just get rid of all of that

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Speaker 2: and then just sell the same space again. Because what

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Speaker 2: are the grandkids supposed to do at the Johnson and

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Speaker 2: Johnson funeral home.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's another big fear of mine too, is they

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Speaker 4: say it happens a lot like if you obviously have

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Speaker 4: ashes in an earn and then like you know, it

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Speaker 4: gets passed down generation generation. But like my great grandkids

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Speaker 4: are not going to know who MyD like my mom was.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, It just ends up people did.

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Speaker 1: The priests will say that it always.

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Speaker 4: Ends up in an attic and people are turning urns

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Speaker 4: into the church, like because they have like they.

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Speaker 2: Just lose because they never knew the person. So it's like,

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Speaker 2: what am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: It is I've gone.

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Speaker 4: To see like my great great great Nonah in Pennsylvania

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Speaker 4: and she's still there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe I don't know how long they are required

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Speaker 2: to keep it there though, because there's only so much space.

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Speaker 1: There's only so much Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean if it has a little funeral like a

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Speaker 2: little graves whatever, yea, what do they call it where

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Speaker 2: the graves are?

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Speaker 1: It has a plot?

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Speaker 2: Well, it has it has like a traditional funeral thing too,

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Speaker 2: where you can put the casket in the ground, right, yeah, whatever,

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Speaker 2: it has that?

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Speaker 1: What am I thinking of? What do they call that?

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Speaker 1: Where all that is too? But they've built like a.

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Speaker 2: Target next to it and like it was like a

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Speaker 2: best Buy over there or something. So like there's only

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Speaker 2: so much room. So at some point, what do they do?

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Speaker 2: Tear the whole thing down, build something on top of Probably.

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Speaker 3: That's you're not gonna put a Starbucks on my mind,

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: To get it together. Yea name, I am not playing

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Speaker 1: pay to put a headstone. Nobody told you to move

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Speaker 1: it right right? This is where I like my ashes

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Speaker 1: where you guys know, I bring them all over the place,

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Speaker 1: a little urn. I like them right where I can

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Speaker 1: see him. Yeah, it happens all the time.

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Speaker 3: This happens all the time.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to put it back. You couldn't do that.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I wouldn't know about that one,

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Speaker 1: but