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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk Talk to.

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Speaker 2: You're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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Speaker 1: new episode and We Talked Back, a show dedicated to

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Speaker 1: you dreamers and chasers. Just your co hosts a j holiday.

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Speaker 1: What's up big Tam Bam, It's tam bab y'all.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all. Shout out to the niggas and hold own.

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Speaker 2: That own was supposed to be louder, but it started

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Speaker 2: to hurt. I don't know my throat.

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Speaker 3: You been doing this weekend, bitch nothing. I refuse to

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Speaker 3: do anything with one foot.

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Speaker 1: I refuse you making massage your souls? Why why it's

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Speaker 1: in the air, no.

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Speaker 2: Feeling it?

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Speaker 1: How many times you had sex in twenty twenty four?

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Speaker 2: I did not get nothing that much this year, because

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Speaker 2: remember I had been celibate most of the year and

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Speaker 2: my birthday I hop back outside. I can count on

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Speaker 2: one hand how much beings I had twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 2: Ain't that sad? Not I need worth? It is boring.

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Speaker 1: I need you to get your dick up. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: get your dick up, man.

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Speaker 3: It's been a Yeah, twenty twenty four they said twenty

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Speaker 3: twenty four was the year they cancer.

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Speaker 1: How y'all literally a fucking disease. Okay, don't pick that

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Speaker 1: over us.

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Speaker 2: You see.

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Speaker 1: I said that as somebody on the on Instagram because.

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Speaker 2: I ignored that shit.

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Speaker 1: Like cancers are not the best. You're literally a disease.

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Speaker 2: Car just read up on us. You're amazing, literally.

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Speaker 3: Y'all so much. It's a dry year. It's been a

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Speaker 3: dry year. And then oh, with no people trying to

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Speaker 3: take me on a date right now, I'm not going

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Speaker 3: on no day with the foot. Yeah without the foot,

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like, no, So I just

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Speaker 3: been chilling. I haven't had on real clothes, like got

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Speaker 3: dawged up, did my makeup and did all of that

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Speaker 3: since sometime since the wedding in August.

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Speaker 1: Damn, your hair looks nice.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I did it today. Some reason why I did it?

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Speaker 3: I mean I did it yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Huh. It's a quick weave ing a quick week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nice and flowy.

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Speaker 2: Thank you? Because I was just looking so bad. My

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Speaker 2: mama was like, my mom was like, why don't you

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Speaker 2: do something to your hair.

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Speaker 1: Baby.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, You're right, it'll make

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Speaker 2: you feel better.

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Speaker 1: That's how I've been looking for weeks. Kay hat Wig,

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Speaker 1: going riding bike.

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Speaker 2: Going to ride a bike? So bad, so bad. What'd

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Speaker 2: you do over the weekend?

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Speaker 1: Not too much? Ride my bike, me and my hosband.

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Speaker 1: I rode my bike Saturday and Sunday, very long away.

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Speaker 1: I probably rode my bike like thirty miles this weekend.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, that's total.

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Speaker 1: Like riding a bike the Whole Foods to sit down

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Speaker 1: and eat the riding it back.

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Speaker 2: Home counterproductive, but at least you burned off what you ate.

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Speaker 1: Not really, I'm pretty sure I burned way more than

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Speaker 1: I actually ate, but I still didn't eat like a

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Speaker 1: super bad meal at the Whole Foods.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's not that's cute. I'm here for it. Used

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Speaker 2: by yourself.

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Speaker 1: He was with a friend Monday, not Monday, Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 1: I skip like that. On Saturday, I went by myself,

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Speaker 1: and then yesterday I had my homegirl rolle with me.

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Speaker 1: And it's so like, y'all, get a fucking bike. I

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Speaker 1: know it's getting cold outside now, but get a bike

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Speaker 1: or a kite something so you could tap into that

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Speaker 1: child like energy inside. It's just so fun when it's

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Speaker 1: nice outside and the breeze.

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Speaker 2: Or go to spin class.

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Speaker 3: Man, if y'all got a good spin class with like

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Speaker 3: the lights that like go off with the music and

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Speaker 3: it'll be dark and the lights flashing and shit, I

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Speaker 3: love that shit.

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Speaker 2: I love that shit.

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Speaker 1: I've been spending for years. Man, it's just so expensive now.

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Speaker 1: Like I started spinning when I live in Saint Louis,

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Speaker 1: and that shit was with my gym membership, Like I

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Speaker 1: paid twenty dollars a month, good ass spin classes, and

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Speaker 1: then when I moved back South, I got my certification.

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Speaker 1: But I just I don't know. People don't even do

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Speaker 1: the spin like that, not at the gyms. But then

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Speaker 1: you gotta pay for these old side spots. How much

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Speaker 1: you paid for spin.

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Speaker 2: It was like for Unlimited it was almost two hundred

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Speaker 2: a month.

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Speaker 1: That is fucking stupid. Bitch. You need to open a

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Speaker 1: spin studio, fat girl spin, fat.

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Speaker 2: Girl spind sc L. I don't that sound like, and

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Speaker 2: then serve pizza at the class.

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Speaker 1: No bitch is gonna be coming to class just for

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Speaker 1: the free pizza afterwards. That is an incentive.

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Speaker 2: Shit, what's good in the sense a first sin of

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Speaker 2: the week.

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Speaker 1: This is just this is just a little fyi for

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Speaker 1: anybody who'll be around here, snooping, snooping in your significant

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Speaker 1: significant other cell phone, waiting until your man go to sleep,

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Speaker 1: going to shower, handing a cell phone. It's against the law. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you might can look in there, but don't tell. I

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Speaker 1: done looked at nigga cell phones and they'll never know

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Speaker 1: because I'm not going to bring up anything. I've seen it.

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Speaker 1: I am able to see things and then just put

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Speaker 1: a sticky note on it.

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Speaker 3: I only went through a niggaphone one time in my life,

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Speaker 3: one time, and it just wasn't good. Like, I'll never

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Speaker 3: do that again. It wasn't good for my mental health,

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Speaker 3: it wasn't good for our relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it just was bad. So I'll never do that again.

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Speaker 1: If you want to lose fifteen pounds real quick, then

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Speaker 1: going a niggaphone, That's not.

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Speaker 2: How it worked for me.

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Speaker 3: If you want to gain fifteen pounds real quick, go

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Speaker 3: through that nigga.

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Speaker 2: I eat my feelings.

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Speaker 1: I don't get the pressed real quick. No, I definitely

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Speaker 1: be eating for real anyway. Yeah, for some people, you know,

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Speaker 1: all diets don't work for anybody, everybody. But if you,

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Speaker 1: if you are somebody who like you know, start like

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Speaker 1: starving yourself when you get depressed, going that niggaphone. So

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Speaker 1: the Federal Wiretap Act, also known as the Electric Communications

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Speaker 1: Privacy Act ECPA, or Title one of the EPCA, is

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Speaker 1: a law that prohibits the UNECPA. What did I say?

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Speaker 2: EPCA?

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Speaker 1: ECPA, y'all check that, okay, because she'd be saying I

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Speaker 1: say something, and then when we hit the recordings, people

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Speaker 1: be messaging me back like you did say such and such. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: maybe most me like you was right, lies go listen.

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Speaker 1: It's a law that prohibits the unauthorized in certain, interception, use,

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Speaker 1: or disclosure of wire, oral or electric communications and you

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Speaker 1: know cell phone, email, text messages, like it's none of

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Speaker 1: your business if it's in if it's in someone else's device.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you what my sister did yesterday. So

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Speaker 3: she accidentally sent twenty dollars to me that she was

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Speaker 3: supposed to send to my mama. And she came and

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Speaker 3: she was like, oh, I sent you twenty dollars on

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Speaker 3: cash up. I meant to send that to mama. I

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Speaker 3: was like, that's not like a personal problem.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what.

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Speaker 2: So later that day I asked her.

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Speaker 3: I passed her I can't walk, so I passed her

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Speaker 3: my phone so she could plug it. I was like,

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Speaker 3: can you plug my phone up? And when she plugged

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Speaker 3: my phone up, she went in my phone and sent

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Speaker 3: the twenty dollars back to herself.

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Speaker 2: I was like, that's illegal. You just there is a

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Speaker 2: new law and that is illegal. You just committed a

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Speaker 2: federal crime. Now, don't go on my phone.

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Speaker 3: She's like, all I did was send my twenty dollars back. No,

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Speaker 3: that was not your twenty dollars, no more, that was

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Speaker 3: my money.

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Speaker 1: Hold on. Okay, So what time did she accidentally send

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Speaker 1: you the twenty dollars.

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Speaker 2: She sent it to me the day before, the night before.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So the next day she had to steal her money.

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Speaker 1: Why did you not transfer that money back to your sister?

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Speaker 2: The money AJ ain't no money, bitch.

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Speaker 1: That's not your money. So your sister had to steal

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Speaker 1: her cash app back from you.

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Speaker 2: She can't steal nothing back from me. That's mine.

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Speaker 3: Once listen, cash app. Let you know that once you

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Speaker 3: transfer money, where you send it, because once you transfer

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Speaker 3: that money is no longer yours, baby girl.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, You a Colombian scammer. You a Colombian scammer? Like,

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Speaker 1: how you scamming your sister? You know it's an accident.

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Speaker 1: How did I scam her? She say you were adamant

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Speaker 1: about not sending it back and she had to steal it.

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Speaker 2: No, I just forgot, honestly. But those still shit for me.

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Speaker 1: That's a legal system. Your sister's right, it is illegal.

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Speaker 1: So this type of shit is not admissible in court. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So you go in somebody's soul phone, you think you

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Speaker 1: got all the evidence against your ex husband, child or whoever,

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Speaker 1: and you don't. You can't use that shit if you

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Speaker 1: obtained it in an illegal way, like snooping into somebody's

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Speaker 1: cell phone. So be careful, ladies. If that's the type

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Speaker 1: of shit you be on ammin. Because every nigga that

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Speaker 1: I've been with been in my damn cell phone, and

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Speaker 1: even the ones that lions sit ain't never been in there.

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Speaker 1: Why the fuck my settings off? Like you've been in

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Speaker 1: my cell phone doing stuff? I could tell, but they'll

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Speaker 1: lie insity ain't been in a cell phone.

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Speaker 2: I don't go on to a niggaphone, don't go in mind.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to yours.

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Speaker 1: I have in the past once And if you want

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Speaker 1: to hurt your own feelings going a cell.

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Speaker 2: Phone, exactly, that's what I'm because you're.

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Speaker 1: Gonna find what you're looking for every fucking time.

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Speaker 2: Why am I ruining my own day? That's how I feel.

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Speaker 1: About it, exactly. Yeah, I'm not. I'm not doing that,

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Speaker 1: you know, anyway things come to me. I don't ever

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Speaker 1: have to do that type of shit because if I

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Speaker 1: need to know something, it's literally gonna knock at the door.

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Speaker 2: Right, It's gonna come find you.

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Speaker 1: It's going to keep a nigga car, It's gonna pop

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Speaker 1: up somewhere we at every fucking time.

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Speaker 3: So if y'all didn't see this over the weekend, people

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Speaker 3: are mad at Trina she for not signing a prenup.

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Speaker 3: Apparently she did it. Had a conversation and she goes

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Speaker 3: on to talk about how she's married to Benjamin Leon

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Speaker 3: Kirsch Junior. She got married in me or Mar, Florida

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Speaker 3: and May of this year, and she said her husband

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Speaker 3: cannot spend money without her knowledge or can sit uh.

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Speaker 3: Says she didn't want to make her husband sign a

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Speaker 3: prenup agreement and that he willingly gives her all his

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Speaker 3: money and he she oversees the couple's finances, and I quote,

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Speaker 3: my husband brings all his money to me, so I'm

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Speaker 3: in charge. He can't spend it down without my consent.

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Speaker 3: He can't spend it down for nothing unless it goes

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Speaker 3: through me, she said, resolutely and authoritatively.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I gotta okay, So the people need to mind

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Speaker 1: their business right about. I mean, she's putting it on

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Speaker 1: a public platform. She was on Kishi Kior's podcast, So

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Speaker 1: she's put it on a public platform, her relationship stuff

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Speaker 3: And that's that's between them. I don't see why people

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Speaker 1: I'm just upset about how she said it. If I

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Speaker 2: Feel like, like, man, why you have to say it

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Speaker 2: Shout up next year. Claim it, claim it.

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Speaker 1: Claim it, claim it. I already missed my window for

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Speaker 2: Don't worry about the baby.

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Speaker 3: I mean when you're ovulating. Yeah, but don't be worried

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Speaker 1: Like I can't be the most loving others yet, y'all

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Speaker 3: You see how she has negative negativity to say about

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Speaker 3: yourself whatever you are. You see who's the good Zodia

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Speaker 1: The thing is Gemini? Be seeing through the bullshit? Why

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Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, are creating?

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Speaker 1: We creating, We're seeing through the bullshit. Okay, we see

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Speaker 3: Eli must Avail unveiled Tesla's new line of robot and

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Speaker 3: self driving vehicles, including the Tesla Bot. Name optimists during

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Speaker 3: an event on October tenth. Would you get you an optimist?

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Speaker 1: You get what I might I might want on that thing.

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Speaker 2: I didn't see no dick on, bitch, I forget my modified.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in a little order for and asks

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Speaker 1: for little auditions like you're ordering a car. I'm an

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Speaker 2: What is it malfunction? You be in the hospital because

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Speaker 1: Girl. Would never have no ship like that in my house.

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Speaker 1: That thing might mess run to get real. Cons ain't

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Speaker 1: Y'all go on twiktok, twiktok. What the fuck? Go on

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Speaker 1: TikTok and look at these videos people talk about what

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Speaker 1: they're gonna do today. Optimists like why y'all want to

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Speaker 2: Right? They gonna like telling you where to go to bed. Maken,

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Speaker 2: you go to bed, actually and maybe go to bed.

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Speaker 2: He won't.

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Speaker 1: I was engaged to an optimist once they try to

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Speaker 1: fucking Kurfew's be whispering on the phone and tell me.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, why are you whistling? It's lockdown, it's lockdown?

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Speaker 2: Why you gotta go to bed?

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Speaker 1: Nigga used to be sighing and sucking his teeth with

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Speaker 1: his back to me. But could you imagine a big

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Speaker 1: wild to me? Isn't just where we're headed?

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Speaker 3: Jetson's don't tell you when to go, Ashley, it is

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Speaker 1: And it's like that, right, because it might start off

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Speaker 1: where we give it some power right, like, because now

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Speaker 2: Right, shit like that for your own best interest.

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Speaker 1: I'm cool on the optimus. I don't want that shit

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Speaker 1: what AI is headed. At AI is supposed to make

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Speaker 1: everybody's life easy, right to do the things that humans

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Speaker 1: still got to pay bills? And shit, how are you

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Speaker 1: like you get everybody's a content creator. Is that where

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Speaker 2: That's where it looks like. Besides, I like my robot

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Speaker 1: Only the men want that shit. It's only the men

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Speaker 2: Once the body get on there, it get creepy. Girl.

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Speaker 1: Imagine that shit coming to the house with the big

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Speaker 3: But imagine somebody who don't have like I can see

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Speaker 3: nobody choose them nice where they would fall in love

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Speaker 1: Robot people already fall in love with AI characters online.

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Speaker 3: That's weird, yeah, but I can see how it can

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, y'all watch that Watch that movie. Sarah's it's

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Speaker 1: not really about robots because this that's some total recall shit.

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Speaker 1: But Sarahgates is like, this is where people are, like

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Speaker 1: they don't want to be themselves. They don't want to

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Speaker 2: In the human form. Oh, mer jesus, well, what are

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you want to talk about.

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Speaker 3: I want to talk about our intrusive thoughts dun't dunt

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why, I keep want to call it oculus,

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Speaker 1: but optimists send an optimist to somebody house to do something.

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Speaker 2: To them like that, that's one of your thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I just thought about it.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever just been like I should push this

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Speaker 2: Y'all listen to this ship. I'll be right back. Okay, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I'm sharing with y'all because we're family here, and I

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Speaker 1: Right, bitch, Come on, cancer, I'm talking to you. This

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Speaker 2: One time I had my friend brought her baby over

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Speaker 2: and I thought, what if I threw this baby over

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Speaker 1: But I would never do that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why that came into my hand, and

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Speaker 1: You know? But why the fuck intrusive thoughts when you

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Speaker 1: say them out loud? Why they't funny like that? Though?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, that's dangerous as fuck, Like why is

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Speaker 1: This is what I'm thinking, I should push this lady.

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Speaker 1: It was a chunky white lady like walking towards us

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I already saw her doing it. So now my thought was,

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Speaker 1: is it really intrusive if you can say it out loud?

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Speaker 2: If yeah, are you doing this speaking your intrusive thought?

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Speaker 1: But I don't think that intrusive thoughts are like okay,

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Speaker 2: Yes? Why?

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Speaker 1: Why? Though? Because I think it's just it's just regularly

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Speaker 1: question now is if you have an intrusive thought, No,

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Speaker 1: do crimes start as intrusive thoughts and then once you

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Speaker 2: Perhaps it's no longer intrusive thought if you act on it,

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Speaker 2: I think.

438
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Speaker 1: So is it that some of us like there's a

439
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 1: filter in between the intrusive thought and reality, and that's

440
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 1: called morals. So now, this is why I always say

441
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: humans are just sophisticated animals, because if you take away

442
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: laws and religion, people get to live out there intrusive

443
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 1: thoughts because nothing's going to happen to them but good

444
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: and evil. We should know, right, It should just be

445
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: an innate thing to know what is good and what

446
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 1: is bad. But some people don't have that filter.

447
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 2: You should not, but what if.

448
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: Okay, now, look, let me add an extra step to

449
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 1: this shit woo Halloween. Like, I'm watching this series on

450
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: Amazon called The Devil's Hour. This lady she's waking up

451
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: every night at three three three. You know, thirty three

452
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: is a very significant number. So she's waking up every

453
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: night at three three three. But there's this guy who

454
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: they perceive as being a serial killer in the show, right,

455
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: but he's not. He's trying to catch people who are

456
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: bad people, who are innately bad people, right, He's trying

457
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: to kill them before they commit the car killing the

458
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: good person, right, And she's she's having she's waking up

459
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: because she's seeing premonitions of things, so she's kind of

460
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: thinking she's going crazy a little bit. But they're kind

461
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 1: of like intrusive thoughts because she doesn't she doesn't know

462
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: the people right things are happening to or things she

463
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: has to do to somebody, she doesn't know them. So

464
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: in her to her she's going crazy because of these

465
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 1: and she's happening these intrusive thoughts, but they're actually she's

466
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 1: seeing the future, other people's future. M hm, So could

467
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 1: that be what an intrusive thought is?

468
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 2: I mean, if you're seeing people few, I don't like.

469
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: Bad shit happening to somebody else.

470
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that baby never went over the balcony, so

471
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 3: that's not you know, a permanent if it. If it

472
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 3: goes on to happen, then that's just like some miscleos

473
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 3: psychic shit. And the trusive thought is typically something that

474
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 3: you are right, so listen, it says. Truscive thoughts are

475
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 3: disturbing and involuntary thoughts that seem to appear out of

476
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 3: nowhere and reoccur again and again. They're often violent, sexual,

477
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,360
Speaker 3: or sacrilegious in nature because they're in a sharp contrast

478
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 3: with the person's values or beliefs that can produce feelings

479
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 3: of guilt, embarrassment, fear, shame, and disgust. So it says,

480
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Speaker 3: according to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, approximately

481
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 3: six million Americans.

482
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Speaker 2: Have intrusive thoughts.

483
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,919
Speaker 3: Not everyone who has them suffers from a mental health condition,

484
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 3: but the frequency and the intensity of intrusive thoughts can

485
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 3: point to underlying mental health issues. Hmm, all right, So

486
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 3: examples of intrusive thoughts slitting your own wrist or throat,

487
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Speaker 3: leaping off a building, Clifford bridge, jumping in front of

488
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Speaker 3: a car train, pushing a stranger in front of a

489
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Speaker 3: car train.

490
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Speaker 1: Why is that funny? Are we serial killers at heart?

491
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 2: Oh?

492
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: Listen?

493
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 3: Stabbing a loved one, dropping a baby on the ground,

494
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 3: exposing yourself in public, having sex in public, engaging in

495
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 3: a pugnant sexual act, vandalizing a place of worship.

496
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 2: I should tear this church up.

497
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: Why did they make it a place of worship? Why

498
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: the they't making it? Like? Then? Truse, So the intrusive

499
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: thoughts do people kind of associated with like a like

500
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: a spirit coming over you right quick? Because why would

501
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: they say vandalizing a church? Yeah, that's what I'm saying

502
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: like it's sacrilegious, because when I think about vandalizing some shit,

503
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about, like if I catch this nigga at

504
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: a restaurant I introduced him to, I'm going to fucking

505
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 1: clear this table with my forearm and flip it over, Like,

506
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 1: is that an intrusive thought? Me seeing like me, me

507
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: thinking about seeing this nigga I fuck with somewhere and

508
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: doing that.

509
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

510
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 1: That is, but I'd actually fucking with though, So there's

511
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: that part.

512
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 3: Well, then I don't know if that's an intrusive thought.

513
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 3: Is typically things that goes against your moral compass, you know,

514
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 3: things that you would never do, but your mind is

515
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 3: saying do it.

516
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: Shoplifting, So then it becomes I meditated, right now you

517
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 1: should run out of here with this ship. Yeah, that line.

518
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: Then it's a thin line between thinking about it and

519
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: then then doing it. So thinking about it is just

520
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 1: so continuously thinking about.

521
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: I don't know.

522
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: I just I gotta study this. I gotta know now.

523
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, I gotta.

524
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: Study intrusive thoughts because I think the way we think

525
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: about them is wrong. Innocence you mean, like the okay,

526
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: what are you where are you reading that?

527
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: From uh Newportinstitute dot com. I sent it to you.

528
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: Okay, I just feel like I don't think intrusive thoughts

529
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: are bad, and I think they're actually natural to have

530
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts, and I don't And I think if they

531
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 1: say sixty or six million or billion million people, I

532
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,239
Speaker 1: think it's way more than that. But some people are

533
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: probably embarrassed to tell people about their intrusive thoughts, so

534
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: they would never take a survey, you know. So are

535
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts natural?

536
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: Well, obviously it's natural of six million people in the

537
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 2: right experience, and that's just the number that admit it

538
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: or you know, or based on statistics.

539
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: So that number.

540
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: It's probably much greater.

541
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: But okay, but that number sitting next to people who

542
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: are actually serial killers and who actually do crimes, Like,

543
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: is it really a problem?

544
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a problem. Really is a problem because.

545
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: It's not a problem you never do it though.

546
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

547
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean as long as you don't act

548
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 3: on an intrusive thought is not a problem. But I

549
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 3: mean if you're like, all right, so I thought about

550
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 3: throwing that baby over the balcony, right, but instantly I

551
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 3: was like, no, get that out of your head right,

552
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 3: and I never thought about it again. I didn't like

553
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 3: every time I saw the baby, I was like, I

554
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 3: want to throw that baby off.

555
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: But that was the only baby you wanted to throw

556
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: you never want.

557
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 2: No, that was the only one time I ever thought

558
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 2: that baby is something? Why did Yeah?

559
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: What if you see that's the movie The Devil Hour,

560
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: Like he realized, like this thing, I'm thinking this thing,

561
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: but it has to happen to this person because this

562
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: person is bad.

563
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 2: So maybe you're saying that baby's gonna grow to serial killer.

564
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 1: You're saving ten other lives. No, for real, you see,

565
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: you see, you see where I'm going at with this.

566
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: Let's see where you're trying to go. But I don't.

567
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 2: I don't think that baby. That baby is a sweet baby.

568
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't know why I thought.

569
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 2: That about that baby. I felt instantly bad.

570
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 3: It's it, And that's what in truest of thoughts typically

571
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 3: will give you immediate guilt, you know, or just you know,

572
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 3: negative feelings to me.

573
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: Because it's only the moral, the laws, and religion that

574
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: kick in. But if those things didn't exist, imagine how

575
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: many people would actually act out on the intrusive thought.

576
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,959
Speaker 3: Right, but it's a good thing that they do exist.

577
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: You know, morals almost aligned with good and evil.

578
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: Like I think without those mechanisms, right, I'd still be

579
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: at heart a good person. I still wouldn't act out

580
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: on these things because I don't really want to bring

581
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: harm to anybody else, no matter what the law says

582
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: I can do.

583
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 2: Right, That's what I'm saying. Having morality isn't necessarily.

584
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: They doesn't have anything to do with legality, right, right.

585
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 3: It doesn't have to do with the law. Like even

586
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 3: though if you know there's a law, he's thrown babies

587
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 3: over the bathman. Honestly, you can't do that, but you're

588
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 3: innate desire to, you know, love key is and care

589
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 3: for children and nurture children would make you not want to.

590
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 3: But then think about this, in nature, some animals kill

591
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: their kids.

592
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm saying, So we say that now.

593
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: I used to be obsessed with looking at people in

594
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 1: prison because I'd be trying to understand, like why people

595
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: go to jail, why did they do what they did?

596
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: And you've seen these cases where a mom said, well

597
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 1: this my child was possessed and I had to kill her.

598
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: That type of stuff, right, and if majority of the

599
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: people in America are Christians. Right, So we believe in

600
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 1: the Holy goals, we believe in all these different things.

601
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: But you don't believe that somebody could actually be possessed

602
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: and God told this person to do that? Why cannot

603
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 1: why can't that not be true?

604
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: Right?

605
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: You know this person was actually evil, damn.

606
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: But but this is high though, you know, how do

607
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: you do how you who gets to decide that God

608
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 2: told you to do this? You know?

609
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 4: Well?

610
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: See this is why I always say God is within you. This.

611
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to get religious really, like make this

612
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: a religious conversation. But when you know God is in you,

613
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: you do shit a little bit better. You do shit differently.

614
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: You don't violate people. I feel like in America in particular,

615
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: the judicial system is literally the Bible. Like these people

616
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,959
Speaker 1: have the right to give and take life. Like right now,

617
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: you got a couple other people out for execution in

618
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: South Carolina, Like, why is it that they get to

619
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: decide who dies? Like even if that person did kill

620
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: somebody else, why do y'all collectively get to sit in

621
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: a room and decide to kill that person and it

622
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: be legal?

623
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 2: Right?

624
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: Like, imagine if those people like judges and stuff. Maybe

625
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: they're actually serial killers and they get to legally kill people.

626
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: It might give them joy to do it, right. That

627
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: is fucking scary, and I do feel like like the

628
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: system is being ran by a bunch of sadists as

629
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. Halloween, Any other intrusive thoughts you

630
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 1: ever have, Like I I'm trying to think of something

631
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: real nuts that's as crazy as it gets for me,

632
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: Like hitting somebody. I always think about hitting somebody real hard.

633
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: But again, I might do it, but a random ass

634
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,839
Speaker 1: person like, why am I having that thought? And if

635
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: my head out loud and laugh, is it really intrusive?

636
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 2: Okay, this is another one that I can't believe I'm

637
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 2: sharing with y'all, But I love y'all so much. I

638
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 2: just tell the truth.

639
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 3: I have had intrusive thoughts about like Donkey konging the

640
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 3: bitch on the top of her head while I was

641
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 3: doing her hair, like taking my place right on top

642
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 3: of her head. You didn't do nothing to me, but

643
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 3: I was like, what if I just this bitch right

644
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 3: at the top of her hair right now?

645
00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: What happens?

646
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 2: Yo?

647
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: Your client's go ahead this episode to be like you

648
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: know what, let me find me a new was it me?

649
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: But what did they do? Like maybe that person needed

650
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: to get thump in the head? Maybe that person nothing.

651
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,919
Speaker 1: You don't know that though they may not have done

652
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 1: anything to you. You see, I just feel like.

653
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 2: Advocating for like following up your dupe of thoughts.

654
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: I just feel like we don't know though. It's so

655
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 1: many things that we don't know, and the more you learn,

656
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: you realize you don't know shit. So who was to

657
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: say that intrusive thoughts are a bad thing?

658
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 2: Some of them can be really bad though, splitting your

659
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 2: own wrists?

660
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: No, that's bad? Yeah, well, okay, Well I won't talk

661
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 1: about that on the show because I think differently, even

662
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: about suicide.

663
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: What do you think about suicide?

664
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Speaker 1: I think that this is our like we we should

665
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: have the right to choose whether we if we want

666
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: to live or not. Like it shouldn't be against alaw

667
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: to kill yourself, Like you try to commit suicide and

668
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: then you aren't successful and they get to lock you up,

669
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: Like that's some bullshit. Some people literally feel like they

670
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: don't belong here, you know what I'm saying, and they

671
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 1: want to get the fuck up out of here, and

672
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: I think that when people get to the point of

673
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: actually because it's hard to kill yourself. It's not easy,

674
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: it's not easy to follow through. That's probably one of

675
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 1: the hardest things somebody could actually execute. Right, So imagine

676
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: if you are in that state of mind to where

677
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: you're comfortable leaving this plane, maybe in that moment, the

678
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 1: person knows something the rest of us don't about the

679
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: other side. That's how I see it.

680
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I get that understanding, but my only thing

681
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 3: about it is if you do that and you're not successful,

682
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 3: now somebody got to take care of your ass. And

683
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 3: you can't take care of yourself no more because you

684
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 3: wouldn't good at it.

685
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 2: No, don't do that.

686
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,280
Speaker 1: That's fucked up, like you know, trying to shoot yourself

687
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: and then it doesn't work right, and now you just

688
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: mangled face.

689
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 2: And it's hurtful to me.

690
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: I was just doing it again.

691
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 2: I was sorry. Everybody that loves you is hurtful to them,

692
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 2: you know, Like suicide is just a hard thing.

693
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: People see it as selfish. People see it as selfish,

694
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 1: but everybody had like I. However, people choose to live

695
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: their lives like I'm coming to a place where I'm okay, right,

696
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: I'm talking about what people I love, however they choose

697
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: to live their lives. Like if you have somebody who

698
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: abuses drugs in your family something like that, you have

699
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 1: to be okay with that because they are so who

700
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: are you to tell them how they you know, if

701
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: they enjoy doing what they do, who are you to

702
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: tell them not to do it? Right? So you just

703
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: have to support people and whatever it is that they

704
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 1: choose to do for their lives, because you're gonna rec

705
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,479
Speaker 1: your brain otherwise. All right, let's go over some ways

706
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: to deal with no hold on pull on before we go, though,

707
00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: because this is the one thing I meant to already say.

708
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: You know how i'd be saying niggas be gay in

709
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: the mind. That's an intrusive thought type shit.

710
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 2: I think, Yeah, that's an intrusive thoughts. Sexual acts can

711
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 2: be intrusive thoughts.

712
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 3: I think if a man a man thinking about sucking

713
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 3: some dick, but he's not gay, that's an intrusive thought.

714
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: Yes, I think there are a lot. I think most

715
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: men are gay in mind. They have intrusive thoughts about

716
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: being gay, but they men never may never act on it,

717
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: which is why they act on stuff like the aggression

718
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: towards women. It might be because they have gay intrusive thoughts.

719
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 3: But they can have intrusive gay thoughts that are intrusive.

720
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 3: But that doesn't mean they're gay or they want.

721
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: To be gay, does it.

722
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 2: No?

723
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 3: I don't want to throw no baby off on a balcony.

724
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 3: That shit just popped in my head. Like so he

725
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 3: could think about sucking some dick that in his head.

726
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 2: They don't make him gay. He could be like, oh,

727
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 2: what the fuck is that? Get out my head? You

728
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, it doesn't It doesn't make

729
00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: him gay. I don't think so you do. I haven't

730
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 2: an intrusive thought, and a sexual fantasy is different.

731
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 1: It's like it's like borderline gay.

732
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 3: And that's when I say, I don't mean guys that

733
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 3: gay is bad, because I know y'all gonna be in

734
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 3: my dms like why'd you say no? But I'm just

735
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 3: saying someone who isn't gay might have an ick for that,

736
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 3: you know, popping in their heads.

737
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: Right, So I think that's something to talk about. I

738
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: wish we'd had had a guy who could be honest

739
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: with what is intrusive thoughts.

740
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 3: That's a heterosexual. Yeah, it's not happening. No straight guy

741
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 3: is going to come on the show and admit that

742
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 3: they've had gay intrusive thoughts.

743
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: Why though, it's just intrusive. You've never done it, You

744
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 1: don't do it right.

745
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just you know, the people starting to

746
00:39:56,160 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 2: question their sexuality a j So what you just did it?

747
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: You just like, I don't know, it's like gay, it's

748
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 1: like this just mentally gay.

749
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,720
Speaker 2: Mentally gay is crazy. Okay.

750
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 3: Everything starts in the mind, everything, all right, So how

751
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 3: to deal with your intrusive thoughts?

752
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 2: All right?

753
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: By themselves? Anxious thoughts, even violent thoughts, are not harmful.

754
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 3: Simply put, they're neutral in nature, byproducts of a wandering mind.

755
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 3: It's only when people react negatively to intrusive thoughts in

756
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 3: or feel the need to act on them, that they

757
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 3: become problematic. Various evidence based techniques can help adults cope

758
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:46,399
Speaker 3: with or eliminate unwanted negative thoughts, including the following strategies

759
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 3: and approaches. Okay, here's one mindfulness. Rather than push intrusive

760
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 3: thoughts away, try to notice these thoughts and label them

761
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: as intrusive. One way to do that is to practice

762
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 3: mindfulness meditation. This type of meditations helped you observe your

763
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 3: thoughts from a detached place without becoming emotional about them

764
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 3: or judging them. So you can sit comfortably in a

765
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 3: quiet place, bree deeply, and imagine you're looking out the

766
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 3: window of a moving train as the scenery passes by,

767
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:18,240
Speaker 3: notice it without judgment. Then do the same with your thoughts.

768
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 3: Notice them in the present moment, but don't attach yourself

769
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 3: to them.

770
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: So then next thing you know, you pushing somebody out

771
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: the train and the thought.

772
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 3: But you gotta separate, Yeah, because I mean separate your

773
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,439
Speaker 3: thought from you. That's just a thought.

774
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 2: It's not me.

775
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 3: It's not a part of me, No more different than

776
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,879
Speaker 3: this tree moving past in my mind. So that's one

777
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 3: way to separate yourself from that thought. Another way writing.

778
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 3: Another way to gain, however, your obsessive and trustive thoughts

779
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 3: is to write them down. By typing your thoughts out

780
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 3: or writing them down on paper, you become aware of

781
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 3: disturbing thought patterns. Often after you've written your thoughts down,

782
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 3: reflect on how what no, reflect on what you think

783
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 3: trigger them, write down the triggers too.

784
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: So I mean I'm having a good day, I rode

785
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 1: my bike. I burned some calories a day, Like why

786
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: am I thinking about pushing this random lady who I

787
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: don't know?

788
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, I can't They're not answering why it happening.

789
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 2: I mean, the worst she probably does is eat boogers,

790
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 2: Like why do.

791
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: I want to push her?

792
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 4: That?

793
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 2: Oh?

794
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,840
Speaker 3: They say pet therapy is an excellent way to dissipate

795
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 3: anxious thoughts is to spend time with animals. Because they

796
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 3: live in the present moment and have no understanding of

797
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: troubling thoughts. Animals help humans reduce stress. In fact, at

798
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 3: twenty nineteen, studies showed that the undergraduate students who participated in.

799
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 5: Participating dissipated why should participated in ten minutes of hands

800
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 5: on interaction with cats and dogs from a local shelter

801
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 5: has significantly lower levels of cortisol, the stress homeone in

802
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 5: their salava compared to those who don't.

803
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: How they have like the cats and cats in the prison.

804
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: But the only thing is like, why y'all got them

805
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: cats in jail? Why y'all y'all literally locking cats up too?

806
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 1: But I can see how it's very It's very animals

807
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 1: can be very therapeutic, you know, God dog is God

808
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: spelled backwards like. They just make you feel good. And

809
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: I believe cats can see into the future. Bitch, there's

810
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,280
Speaker 1: something majestic about cats.

811
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 3: The next one is time and nature. There's nothing like

812
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 3: nature to boost move and reduce stress. The sight of

813
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 3: an a sunset that sounds of bird trapping in the trees,

814
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 3: the feel of wind against your skin, the smell of

815
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 3: the ocean, even the taste of rain drops on your

816
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 3: tongue can ground you in the present moment. When you're

817
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 3: focusing on the five senses, you're not focusing on distressing thoughts.

818
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 3: Another one exercise. Exercise is an excellent way to just

819
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 3: help everything because it gives you endorphins, and endorphins make

820
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 3: you happy, yes about killing people, Doubamine and serotonin the

821
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 3: same thing you get from scrolling. Get it from exercises

822
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,399
Speaker 3: in a much groller level.

823
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: You think that people who watch like because I talk

824
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: about the genre of like true crime and how it's

825
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 1: so entertaining, especially for women, y'all love watching all of

826
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: those true crime murder type shows, and shit.

827
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 2: I sister, love that shit. I don't be liking that shit.

828
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: That shit weirdess hells to me, how can you go to.

829
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 3: Sleep for somebody like literally screaming in agony from losing

830
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 3: a loved one, And all of.

831
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Speaker 1: That is in your subconscious mind while you're sleeping too,

832
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: So that might be embedding in truth of thoughts in

833
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 1: your mind subconsciously. Like I listen to meditation stuff or

834
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 1: I listen to like books in my sleep, you know

835
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: what saying program in there. But I cannot listen to kill, kill, murder,

836
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: murder shit like while I'm sleeping. That is wild to me.

837
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: So I think it's feeding something though that that person

838
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 1: needs that. I feel like that's something they need to

839
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: talk about in their.

840
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, why do you like that? So that's the

841
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 3: thing when to seek treatment for your intrusive thoughts. So,

842
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 3: if your intrusive thoughts are unrelenting, cause pronounced distress, or

843
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 3: interfere with your daily life, seek professional care. Unproductive obsessive

844
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,720
Speaker 3: thinking can be a symptom of an issue that requires treatment.

845
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 3: So mental health professionals are skilled at working with intrusive

846
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 3: thoughts that stem from anxiety disorders, history of trauma OCD,

847
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 3: and attention deficit disorder, and mood disorders like depression and

848
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 3: bipolar disorder. So if you you know, if your interests

849
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 3: of thoughts are like to the point where you can't

850
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 3: stop thinking about throwing that baby over that balcony.

851
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: You can, I think you try to talk yourself out

852
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 1: of it.

853
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 3: No, I only thought about that one time. But that's

854
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 3: just one that really like shocked me. You know, it

855
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 3: shook me to my core, that popped into my head,

856
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 3: you know. So I just use that as an example.

857
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 3: You know, everybody has their own thing, but that was

858
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 3: the one for me that really like made me feel like,

859
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:02,919
Speaker 3: am I sick?

860
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 2: You know?

861
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 1: Like I think filling your brain with positive things, not

862
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 1: just I mean they're gonna help. So filling your brain

863
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: with positive things, not watching and taking in negative stuff

864
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: all day long, because social media does it right. So

865
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: one minute you see a cute baby, then you see

866
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: a cute dog. Then the next thing you see some

867
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 1: little boy that got murdered, you know. Then the next

868
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: thing is a happy thing, the next thing is a

869
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: sad thing, the next thing is a neutral things. So

870
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: like your emotions is going up and down, up and down,

871
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 1: up and down, up and down. Like I do feel

872
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 1: like some of the things that we we taken, whether

873
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:39,760
Speaker 1: it's you know, consciously or subliminally, it's programming these intrusive thoughts.

874
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Speaker 1: But these are not our own thoughts, and I think

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Speaker 1: that is the most important part about the whole conversation. Right,

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Speaker 1: they're not your thoughts. These are somebody else's thoughts. They

877
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 1: don't belong to you. Yeah, so let's remove the my

878
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: because they're not my intrusive thoughts. They're just intrusive thoughts. Yeah,

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00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: the intrusive thoughts. They don't belong to me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that part.

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00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just too much. It's too much shit on TV.

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00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: That's why I watched TV that much. When I watched something,

883
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Speaker 1: I'm learning something from it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was just watching.

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Speaker 3: Bad Boys, the uh, the one that just came out

886
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 3: because I wanted to see the fine Mexican son o.

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00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:25,320
Speaker 3: He is nice looking, right, Oh, he fine? But his

888
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 3: mom was Hispanic, I believe, Yeah, I don't know if

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00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 3: it was.

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Speaker 1: I think it was just say Hispanic. Don't ever call

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00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 1: anybody Mexican because you don't know if they're from Mexico

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Speaker 1: or not.

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00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,280
Speaker 2: But wasn't that where he went. Didn't they go to Mexico?

894
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: Well that's well, I think he might have. He might

895
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Speaker 1: have been working for the Mexican cartel.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well anyway, I said that just because of the story.

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Speaker 2: But I just like, look, he's handsome.

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Speaker 3: So but I just looked at all the killing in

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Speaker 3: the movie and how all the people were just it

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00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 3: didn't matter, Like people were just getting shot and stabbed

901
00:47:57,880 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 3: and killed and just then we move on to the

902
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 3: next thing, and I was like, damn, like they make

903
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 3: death so gradual.

904
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Speaker 1: Yes, it's glorified now it's it's so casual. So we are.

905
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 3: Desensitized, yeah, very desensitized to it because like people were

906
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 3: just dying and it was like, okay.

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Speaker 2: Next week.

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00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: You know, I never feel like not with real I

909
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: can see. I guess you have to be able to differentiate, right,

910
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: real from fake because when I see like real death,

911
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 1: like somebody may just be like social media or somebody

912
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: knew in real life like that shit, it feels real

913
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Speaker 1: every time. Yeah, TV, I don't know, I've seen this,

914
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 1: little boy.

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Speaker 3: But if you're a child, if you're a young person

916
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 3: growing up now and you're seeing all this, you watching

917
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 3: these movies where people just getting killed and TV shows

918
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 3: and your mama watched First forty eight to Go to Sleep,

919
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 3: and you're just growing up with all these all this

920
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,399
Speaker 3: sensory overload of death.

921
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 2: Are you gonna be fair when people die?

922
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: How? I guess that's how people can just pull up,

923
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: pull up and do shit, take a life, just thoughtless.

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00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you get to play call of duty all day long,

925
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 2: thoughtless killing. So you practicing, you know. Just I know

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Speaker 2: that kind of went away from our intrusive thought things.

927
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Speaker 1: But this is because intrusive thoughts can lead to real action.

928
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, So is it really an intrusive thought? I

929
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Speaker 1: guess it's only intrusive when you don't actually act on it.

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00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: Once you do, it's premeditated. It's a premeditated thought. M

931
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Let's let's focus on happy thoughts, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Do something, yes, do some to day to make you

933
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: feel better?

934
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, feel good? Yeah, masturbate that's my last last. Everybody

935
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 2: masturbate today.

936
00:49:53,560 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about your masturbating. I'm thinking about it. But

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Intrusive thoughts, I don't, I don't. I

938
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Speaker 1: just think that intrusive thoughts should not just be negative.

939
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Speaker 1: I think intrusive thoughts could also be positive thoughts.

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Speaker 2: They just what is it an?

941
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Speaker 1: The word intrusive meaning you didn't invite it right, yeah, right, okay,

942
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,959
Speaker 1: I got it. Positive thoughts, y'all.

943
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Speaker 4: Puppies, puppies, cats, rabbits, and lots of money for us

944
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 4: all yes and stars, little sprinkles, fairy dust, all that stuff.

945
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 1: I mean cake, lots of cake.

946
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 2: Oh that's my favorite thought.

947
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:48,760
Speaker 1: From public cream cream, cheese, nutting, bunt cake. Make me happy,

948
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: that's fat.

949
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:57,839
Speaker 2: I know that shit got way too sugar, it's so good.

950
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: The lemon one, it is so good.

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00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,439
Speaker 2: That should make me sweat when I eat it. I think.

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00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, think big bitch and think positive.

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Speaker 2: Amen.

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Speaker 1: All right. If y'all enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in

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Speaker 1: your co host, A J. Holiday two point zero on Instagram. Hey,

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Speaker 1: one quick thing, let me add this in there right

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Speaker 1: quick before Tam tell y'all her goodbyes and her love

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Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 2: Ahay y'all, Tam bam. Loved y'all.

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Speaker 3: Let that be your thought for today. I love y'all

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Speaker 3: so much, and I really really appreciate y'all. Remember speak

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Speaker 3: now and hold your babies, hold your up. Yeah A

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Speaker 3: stamping my throne.

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Speaker 1: Goodbye,