1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha and welcome to Stephon. 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: Never told your production of iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: And yeah, we're just expanding our series on Christianity and 4 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: the Marginalized community, and I'm expanding it a lot. What 5 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 2: became It's gonna be two three episodes, as I think, 6 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 2: almost extended to seven or eight. We'll see. Is no 7 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 2: surprise that there is a limitless amount of controversy and 8 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 2: information when it comes to Christianity, especially Western nice Christianity, 9 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,599 Speaker 2: especially during this time as we are seeing more and 10 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: more movements like the Christian Nationalism. And I really wish 11 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 2: we could come with good things, but because I am 12 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 2: who are I am, everything is sad, everything is the worst, 13 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 2: and this one is no different. And as you know, 14 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 2: when it comes to religious trauma and Christianity, there is 15 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 2: a lot of baggage, and today's topic is very, very heavy. 16 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 2: I'm going to go ahead and give you this content warning. 17 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: We are going to tell explicit stories of sexual abuse 18 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 2: within the churches, specifically in the Southern Baptist community. Surprisingly, 19 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 2: did not jump into any of the Catholic issues or 20 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 2: even the issues that have happened in some of the 21 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: other religions or communities. I guess because as of the 22 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 2: last couple of years, there's been some really big fallout 23 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: when it comes to women being harassed, abused, all of 24 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 2: the things within the Southern Baptist community and Baptist community 25 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: in general. So it's a lot and with that, it's 26 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 2: also very personal for me, I will say as a survivor, 27 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:08,519 Speaker 2: I guess of some things that have been triggered pretty 28 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: heavily by this episode. So I'm sorry in advance. If 29 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 2: you can't handle it, I get it. It was a 30 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 2: lot to work through. It's a lot to work through. Again, 31 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 2: do what you need to do to keep your own safety, 32 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 2: to be in a good place. And if this is 33 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: something that you can't handle, we get it, skip past it. 34 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: But for those of you who might not know what 35 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 2: we're talking about, who might not know what happens within 36 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 2: communities like this, it's really important that we do have 37 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: this conversation. And the reason we are naming names is 38 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 2: telling stories. A lot of the people who came forward, 39 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: it took a lot of courage for them to come forward, 40 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 2: and we think we owe them that to share as 41 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 2: they have shared as well. So that's the top here 42 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 2: we go. Previously we talked about purity culture and modesty 43 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 2: and how it coincides with rape culture. And something that 44 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: has become a scandal and controversy for churches across the 45 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 2: world are the many accusations of sexual abuse and the 46 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 2: mishandling of allegations of sexual abuse and rape. And as 47 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 2: the industries all over the world had to face the 48 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 2: me too era, so did the church, and as Capital 49 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 2: C Church in twenty seventeen, the hashtag church to spread 50 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 2: on Twitter as different users told their stories of abuse 51 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 2: within the church. 52 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: As journalist Elizah Griswold wrote in The New Yorker for 53 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: her article titled silence is not spiritual, the evangelical hashtag 54 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: me too movement quote when the hashtag church two movement 55 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: started last November with abuse survivors telling stories of being 56 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: silenced by church leaders, many said that they had been 57 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: told to submit. The creators of church to Hanna Passion 58 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: to Emily Joy have talked about their experiences and continue 59 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: to help people work through their own stories. Passion Joy 60 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: bonded through shared experiences of trauma from their church, not 61 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: only through the abuse that they suffered, but also through 62 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: the trauma of purity culture from their church. In hefect impost, 63 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: Pash wrote, Emily and I would create a joint blogging 64 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: endeavor called the Purity Culture Rehab Project, in which we 65 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: documented our own baby steps out of the physical and 66 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: emotional abuse of purity culture. That theology of abstinence that 67 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: singles out women and slutshames everyone who engages in any 68 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 1: kind of sexual activity outside of marriage. Purity culture is 69 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: the religious antecedent to rape culture, as it lays the 70 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: bulk of the responsibility for maintaining the sexual purity of 71 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: both genders on women's attire and behavior. And she went 72 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 1: on explaining over a bottle of cheap gas station wine. 73 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: We planned out the things we would dare ourselves to do, 74 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 1: our first kisses, asking someone on a date, standing up 75 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: to a cat collar instead of walking faster and pretending 76 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: not to hear. As the project took off, the churches 77 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: we participated in continued to shame us for our appearances 78 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: are presumed sexual activity and our inability to conform to 79 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: the scriptural ideal of the woman with a gentle and 80 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: qui spirit. 81 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: I think I've told you that story before, about the 82 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 2: fact that because I was not the gentle and quiet spirit. 83 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 2: I always felt so outside and felt unworthy to be loved, 84 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: and when I say loved, being in a relationship or 85 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 2: being liked by the men in that culture, because I 86 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 2: could not be the beautiful, small, fatite, quiet woman. And 87 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 2: this one hit the nail on the head and I 88 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: was like, yeah, that was exactly like, these words do 89 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: not match me, so I cannot be a part of this. 90 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 2: Of course, this was not something that was welcomed with 91 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: open arms. In fact, Posh spoke of feeling like an 92 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 2: outsider in her time at the church in college, and 93 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: as she Enjoy bonded over their shared experience with the church, 94 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,679 Speaker 2: they continued in their own healing journey, and soon after 95 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:49,119 Speaker 2: allegations came out through the Maytooth movement, Posh and Joy 96 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 2: wanted to share their own experiences to the hashtag church too. 97 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 2: Posh wrote in that same article recently as allegations after 98 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 2: allegation service against men in Washington and Hollywood, in Lee 99 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 2: and I realized it was time to create space for 100 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 2: survivors within the Evangelical church and for those who left 101 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 2: its walls. So we launched hashtag church too, a Twitter 102 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 2: hashtag that quickly drew out widespread stories of sexual abuse 103 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: and harassment. It was a reckoning for me. It was 104 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: also the culmination of years speaking out against and unlearning 105 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 2: the strictures of evangelical purity culture, and she continues to 106 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 2: explain how hashtag me too inspired her to tell her story. 107 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 2: She writes, the hashtag gave me the courage to come 108 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 2: forward with my own story of rape. Although it did 109 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: not occur specifically within the church, the power of evangelical 110 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 2: purity culture were such that when I staggered home, still 111 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 2: half muted from the effects of a date rape drug 112 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 2: i'd adjusted, I was prepared to sweep the whole thing 113 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 2: under the rug, blinded by guilt and shame. Surely I 114 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: had brought this on myself. Surely it was my fault. 115 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: And she goes on. After I offered up the hashtag 116 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 1: on November twentieth, I went to sleep expecting to see 117 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: a few stories shared by Internet friends and mutuals and 118 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,799 Speaker 1: my Twitter mentions. The following day, I awoke to dozens 119 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 1: of notifications from people I didn't know or follow. By 120 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: the end of those first twenty four hours, the hashtag 121 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: had exploded. Within forty eight hours, people all over the 122 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: world were sharing their stories of pain and abuse in 123 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: the church, and every day, without fail, some white male 124 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: pastor has attempted to discredit the movement and the survivors 125 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: who had bound their voice within it, and many started 126 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: to share their stories. Hear some examples. Vox wrote about 127 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: a woman who revealed her rape during a youth group 128 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: prayer section, only to be asked if she'd repented, Another 129 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: who fled an abusive marriage amoly to be told by 130 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: her pastor to return home and submit to her husband's will. 131 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: Another who as a child was told to cover up 132 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: after a male classmate had been caught masturbating while looking 133 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: at her, Another who felt compelled to get an abortion 134 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: lest her church community find out she'd been, in their eyes, unpure. 135 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: And the movement has continued since, with many more stories 136 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: coming out, and almost all the denominations have been accused 137 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 2: of such abuses, including the Southern Baptist Convention, the largest 138 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 2: Protestant denomination in the US, which has around thirteen point 139 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: seven million members as of twenty twenty two. Here's an 140 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: interesting fact, though, the numbers of the SPC members have 141 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 2: steadily declined, and by twenty twenty two, over one million 142 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 2: previous members left the church from the year before Yeah, 143 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 2: and with movements like hashtag church too, many of those 144 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 2: still as members are asking questions within the churches. In 145 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 2: the past years, people have been speaking out about the 146 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 2: abuse and harassment within the church, specifically Southern Baptist, but 147 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: it isn't surprising to learn that many of the leaders 148 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 2: of that church have tried to hide and suppress the issues, 149 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: and a report in the Washington Post, writer Joshua Peace 150 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 2: writes about the churches and the allegations. He says, quote 151 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 2: likely in any community of fate, there's also sin, often silence, 152 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: ignored and denied, and it is more common than many 153 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 2: want to believe. It is often led to failures by 154 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: evangelicals to report sexual abuse, respond properly to victims, or 155 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: changing the institutional cultures that enable the abuse in the 156 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: first place. 157 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: And the article continues. Without a centralized theological body, evangelical 158 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: policies and cultures vary radically, and while some church leaders 159 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: have worked to prevent abuse and harassment, many have not. 160 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: The causes are manifold authoritarian leadership, twisted theology, institutional protection, 161 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 1: obliviousness about the problem, and perhaps most shocking, a diminishment 162 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:41,319 Speaker 1: of the trauma sexual abuse creates especially surprising in a 163 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: church culture that believes strongly in the sanctity of sex. 164 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: Sexual abuse is the most underreported thing, both in and 165 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: outside the church that exist, says Bojs Chavision, a grandson 166 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: of Billy Graham and a former Florida Assistant state attorney. 167 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:00,239 Speaker 1: As a prosecutor, Chavision saw dozens of sexual abuse victims 168 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: harmed by a church's response to them. In one case, 169 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: a pastor did not report a sexual offender in his 170 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: church because the man had repented. The offender was arrested 171 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: only after he had abused five more children. 172 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you don't know who Billy Graham is, then 173 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 2: I know that you're not. You don't know about the 174 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 2: Southern Baptist culture because Andy did not know who Billy 175 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 2: Graham is. I could be wrong. People can correct me. 176 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 2: One of the big first televangelists as we call them. 177 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 2: But yeah, he was a grandson, so for him to 178 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 2: be a part of this is pretty surprising. So the 179 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: article goes on to talk about how many have tried 180 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: to get information in order to solve this problem, but 181 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 2: no surprise, data is not easy to collect. As many 182 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 2: have noted the lack of reporting or even acknowledging the 183 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 2: problem has made it difficult to get accurate, if any, 184 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 2: real data. And here's another quote written in that article. 185 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 2: The problem in collecting data stems in part from the 186 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 2: loose or non existent hierarchy in evangelicalism. Catholic church abusers 187 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 2: benefited from an institutional cover up. That same bureaucracy enabled 188 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 2: the reporters to document a systemic scandal. In contrast, most 189 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 2: evangelical groups prize the autonomy of local congregations, with major 190 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: institutions like the Southern Baptist Convention having no authority to 191 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 2: enforce a standard operating procedure among member churches. This means 192 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 2: researchers attempting to study this issue has to come through 193 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: publicly available documents. And the article continues with some research 194 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 2: that was found. Quote. That's what Wade Mullen, the director 195 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 2: of the Master's Divinity Program of Capital Seminary and Graduate School, 196 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 2: did as a part of his PhD dissertation. He collected 197 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: reports of evangelical pastors or ministers charged with the crime 198 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 2: in order to understand how evangelical organizations respond to crisis. 199 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 2: Over twenty sixteen and twenty seventeen, Mullen found one hundred 200 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,239 Speaker 2: and ninety two instances of a leader from an influential 201 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 2: church or evangelical institution being publicly charged with sexual crimes 202 00:11:55,559 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 2: involving a minor, including rape, molestation, battery, and child pornography. 203 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 2: By the way, this data did not include sexual crimes 204 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 2: against an adult or crimes committed by someone other than 205 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 2: a leader. 206 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: And in another study that was used in the article 207 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 1: specifically with one of the evangelical colleges in the US, 208 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: they write, the study showed that fifty six percent of 209 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: the three hundred and eighty one respondents who reported having 210 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: knowledge of the school's handling of abuse, a group that 211 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: included current and former students as well as employees, believed 212 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: that bob Jojes University or BJU, conveyed a quote blaming 213 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: and disparaging attitude toward victims. Of the one hundred and 214 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,599 Speaker 1: sixty six people who said they had been victims of 215 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 1: sexual abuse before or during their time at BJU have 216 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: said school officials had actively discouraged them from going to 217 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: the police. According to one anonymous respondent, after he finally 218 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: told the police about years of sexual abuse by his grandfather, 219 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 1: a BJU official admonished him that quote you tore your 220 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 1: family apart and that's your fault. End quote, you love 221 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: yourself more than you love God. And this type of 222 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: reaction towards victims is not uncommon through the church leaderships, 223 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 1: but the movement has made a difference within the past 224 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: few years. In twenty nineteen, an investigation was conducted after 225 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 1: a victim, CHRISTA. Brown, was able to get the public's 226 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: attention to the abuses happening within the Baptist Church. 227 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 2: Right and just for a little backstory on Brown, Brown 228 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 2: was a victim of rape and molestation as a teenager 229 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 2: by the hands of the pastor who led her church. 230 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 2: After years of abuse, she finally told her music minister 231 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 2: after breaking down and said that she was actually having 232 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 2: an affair with a much older pastor. Reminder she was 233 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 2: a minor being co worced by a leader of her church, 234 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 2: and instead of any punishment or any charges, the pastor 235 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 2: was transferred to another church or with a better pay 236 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 2: and more responsibility over the children's programs, and Brown would 237 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 2: remain silent and suffer through her trauma until her adulthood. 238 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,719 Speaker 2: And though her abuse occurred years earlier, she finally made 239 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: a report of her abuse to her childhood church and 240 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 2: to the officials of the Texas Southern Baptist Leadership, and 241 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: with a letter they responded to her accusations. According to 242 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 2: a Vice article written about Chris Brown, they stated the 243 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:10,479 Speaker 2: church quote noted that one person's memories might be materially 244 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 2: different from another's, and that Brown may have suffered for 245 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 2: reasons quote not attributed to mister Gilmore or the church, 246 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 2: and it threatened to seek recourse if she pursued the matter. 247 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 2: And actually she apparently has the full letter on her site. 248 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: Her site is outdated, so you may not be able 249 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: to find everything. At this time, Brown had become a 250 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 2: lawyer herself and began to negotiate with a church outside 251 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 2: of the courts, and this is when she discovered not 252 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: only did her abuse to still work with children within 253 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 2: a church, but that the Baptist Donal Convention of Texas 254 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 2: had a list of offenders who had quote confessed, been 255 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 2: convicted of sexual abuse or about whom there was a 256 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: substantial evidence that the abuse took place. 257 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: It was in two thousand and six that Brown published 258 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: an op ed imploring the BGCT to make the list 259 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: public and in the article say her logic was plain 260 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: sexual abuse by a trusted religious leader has a sole 261 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: murdering impact. The way forward was shining a light on 262 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 1: the church's darkness, and even though her request wasn't answered, 263 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: she started her own website known as the Quote Stop 264 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: Baptist Predator's Website, where she kept her own database of 265 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: abusers who are named in the public records and media reports. 266 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: Brown faced a lot of backlash from the SBC from 267 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: that same article they write. In two thousand and six, 268 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: d August Augie Boto wrote to Brown in his capacity 269 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: as then vice president of Convention Policy, saying that quote 270 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: continued discourse between us will not be projective or fruitful. 271 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 1: The following year, while Brown was advocating for an independent 272 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: review board to SBC's Bylaws Workgroup, she recounted what it 273 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 1: was like to discover that the man she said had 274 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: molested and raped her as a teen was still working 275 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: as a Southern Baptist children's minister. One executive committee member 276 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: turned his back while she's and another one shortled she 277 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 1: was the only woman in the room. 278 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 2: Of course, for those of us who have been involved 279 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 2: in church systems like this, this type of reaction is 280 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 2: not surprising. I think I've had many who would just 281 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 2: act as surprised or kept quiet when I had my 282 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 2: own instances. In my own experience, I was told that 283 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 2: I read into it, that it didn't happen. I must 284 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 2: have imagined it. That happens a lot. Of course, with 285 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 2: her tireless efforts, many more people came out and told 286 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 2: their stories. Different women all of the countries sent their 287 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 2: stories to Brown, emailed them and let her know what's 288 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 2: going on. 289 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: After the hashtag me too and hashtag church two movement 290 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: started with the help of Brown's own work, so many 291 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: people did come forward, breaking down the barriers that have 292 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: been keeping women trapped in their trauma and experiences. Women 293 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: like Jules Woodson and a victim of pastor John Lowe. 294 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: Woodson was finally able to tell her story. Here's what 295 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: Slat wrote about her experience. Quote. Woodson moved to the 296 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: Woodlands in Texas when she was five and joined a 297 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: local Baptist church, Woodlands Parkway. It was part of the 298 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: Southern Baptist Convention, the largest Protestant denomination in the US 299 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: and one of the most conservative. When Woodson was a teenager, 300 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: she was allegedly sexually propositioned by a youth pastor named 301 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 1: Andy Savage. Words started getting around the church. Savage admitted 302 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 1: he made what he called a mistake and resigned, though 303 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 1: he eventually found work at another Southern Baptist church and 304 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: then a mega church. Woodson finally went public with her 305 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 1: story in twenty eighteen, and at his megachurch, Andy Savage 306 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: apologized to the congregation for what he called a sexual incident. 307 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 2: And the victim of Pastor John Lowe had to publicly 308 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 2: confront low after he downplayed his offenses in front of 309 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 2: the congregation. Here's a bit from an NBC News post 310 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 2: written by reporter Jessica Johnson. Shortly after Pastor John Lowe 311 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 2: the Second pleaded for his congregations to seek the saving 312 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 2: knowledge of Christ, he said he had a confession. He 313 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 2: wanted to follow a biblical process of confessing, repentance, and forgiveness, 314 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 2: which would lead up to him finally admitting that he 315 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,400 Speaker 2: had committed adultery. He stressed that it was twenty years 316 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 2: ago and was with one person, and as a way 317 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 2: to hammer home that he was doing the upstanding thing, 318 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 2: he said he would not use the Bible to defend 319 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 2: protect and deflect my past sins. He continued, quote, I 320 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: have no defense. I committed the adultery. To say it plainly, 321 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 2: I didn't make a mistake. I need to say that, 322 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 2: and you deserve to hear it. He asked the congregation 323 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 2: for forgiveness and announced that he was stepping aside from 324 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 2: ministry responsibilities and submitting to recommendations from the church board. 325 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 2: As Low placed microphone down and stepped off stage, he 326 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 2: received a standing ovation, but he had left out key details, 327 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 2: and as the applause continued, a woman and her husband 328 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 2: stepped up to the pulpit to fill in what these 329 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 2: details were. The clapping died down as a woman began. 330 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 2: I lived in a prison of lies and shame, lying 331 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: to protect the Low family, having suicidal thoughts, not realizing 332 00:18:58,040 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 2: what had been truly done to me. I was still 333 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 2: be in a prison if my brother had not approached 334 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 2: me just two weeks ago with what he had seen 335 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 2: as a teenager that bothered him all these years. His 336 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 2: pastor in bed with his younger sister a T shirt 337 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 2: and underwear on. People knew but were too afraid to 338 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 2: come forward, and they have now. The lies and manipulation 339 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 2: have to stop. She then addressed Load directly. She was 340 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 2: standing nearby at the front pew. She said, I was 341 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 2: a prisoner and you kept me in your prison. I 342 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 2: am a prisoner no longer. I was just sixteen when 343 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 2: you took my virginity on your office floor. She said. 344 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 2: You did things to my teenage body that had never 345 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 2: and should had never been done. You are not the victim, 346 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 2: and indeed he is not, though he tried to make 347 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 2: himself look as if he was. After the woman left 348 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 2: the stage with her husband, a man shouted, quote, if 349 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: you did it, you have to admit it. Low responded, 350 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 2: she was sixteen. It was wrong. That's just the way 351 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 2: it is. All I can do is ask you to 352 00:19:56,680 --> 00:20:00,199 Speaker 2: forgive me. I'm doing the biblical process. I'm stepping down. 353 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 1: Well. With all the stories and accusations coming out, the 354 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: SBC have had to rethink their policies. Previously, the SBC's 355 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: tactic was lacking. As one article from Box writes, quote 356 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: when it comes to addressing sexual abuse, up until now, 357 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: they have claimed that because of their church policy, they 358 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 1: don't have the authority to track abusers and hold local 359 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,879 Speaker 1: churches accountable, said Kristen Cobez. Dumis a professor of history 360 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: at Calvin University and the author of Jesus and John 361 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: Wayne How White evangelicals corrupted a faith and fractured a nation. Quote. 362 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 1: But in the report, we found that they had in 363 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 1: fact been tracking abusers in their churches and had been 364 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: maintaining a private database for their own protection. They had 365 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: not in any way reached out and tried to prosecute 366 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: those abusers to keep people safe. In the twenty nineteen 367 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: investigation completed by Houston Chronicle, a lot of information was 368 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,719 Speaker 1: given to the issue within the churches. Here's another quote 369 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 1: from that same Slate article. In twenty nineteen, a Houston 370 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 1: Chronicle investigation revealed widespread sexual assault within the denomination. One reporter, 371 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: Robert Downen, uncovered troubling details that prompted the SBC to 372 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: commission its own internal review, conducted by an independent organization 373 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:29,439 Speaker 1: called Guidepost Solutions. The review confirmed a lot of what 374 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: the Chronicle had already found, and earlier this month, the 375 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: SBC announced it was being investigated by the Department of Justice. 376 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: Some survivors, alike Woodson, hope the investigation might lead to 377 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 1: crucial changes, but they're unsure whether justice is possible, or 378 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 1: if substantive reforms will be implemented. 379 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:50,400 Speaker 2: Right guidepo Solutions of the independent firm who investigated within 380 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 2: the SBC, Yeah, they found a lot. Here's a quote. 381 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 2: The probe found that the Southern Baptist Conventions Executive Committee 382 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 2: had mishandled abuse claims and still and waald survivors. The 383 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 2: investigation was requested by the executive committee after it faced 384 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 2: growing pressure for an external probe into abuse allegations. This 385 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 2: is according to one of the NBC news articles and 386 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 2: according to another one written by NPR. They say an 387 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 2: SBC sex abuse task force released a blistering two hundred 388 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 2: and eighty eight page report from outside consultants Guidepost Solutions. 389 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 2: The firm's seven month independent investigation found disturbing details about 390 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 2: how denominational leaders mishandled sex abuse claims and mistreated victims. 391 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 2: The report focused specifically on how the SBC's Executive Committee 392 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 2: responded to abuse cases, revealing that it had secretly maintained 393 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 2: a list of clergy and other church workers accused of abuse. 394 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 1: With this report, the SBC soon released a two hundred 395 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 1: and five list of names of pastors and other leaders 396 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: and members of the Baptist churches who had been accused 397 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 1: of sexual abuse, and as women and victims have been 398 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: speaking out, causing a massive shift in accountability, structural changes 399 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: continued to take place within powerful religious organizations like the 400 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 1: Southern Baptist Convention. Unfortunately, due to years of a power 401 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 1: imbalance between leaders and members, women and men, marginalized, and 402 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 1: white supremacy, justice is not swift or easy. As another 403 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: vax article writes, quote, Complementarianism's centrality within the SBC led 404 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:27,360 Speaker 1: to a heavily patriarchal institution, which Meredith Stone, the executive 405 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 1: director of Baptist Women in Ministry, said created an environment 406 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: in which sexual abuse could happen and be covered up 407 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: as extensively as the Guidepost report said it was, and 408 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,119 Speaker 1: as such, she said, simple systemic fixes ultimately won't be 409 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: enough to reform the SBC. Instead, theological changes will have 410 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 1: to be made, and they will be the ones that 411 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 1: SBC won't want to make. The underlying systemic issues within 412 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 1: the Southern Baptist Convention have to do with a theology 413 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: that said some people are favored by God, some people 414 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,639 Speaker 1: have more power, and God supports them having that power 415 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 1: and exerting it over others. Stone said that in no 416 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: way diminishes the culpability of individuals and the decisions that 417 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,919 Speaker 1: they make to act in an abusive way against another person. 418 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 1: But I think when they are in an environment that 419 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: says God supports power over saying God is about love 420 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,919 Speaker 1: and inclusion, it makes those actions more palatable. 421 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: Right, this is where we can talk about Christian nationalism 422 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 2: because of those excuses right there, and we will, we'll 423 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 2: come back to that. It's a lot, This is a lot. 424 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 2: And you know what, today, several lawsuits have been filed 425 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 2: against many of those in leadership. However, this happened in 426 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,679 Speaker 2: March the case against Page Patterson, the former president of 427 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 2: Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Fort Worth, which by the way, 428 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 2: I try to go to, and the school was dismissed 429 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:51,120 Speaker 2: for failing to prevent sexual abuse on campus. Patterson, by way, 430 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 2: also was a former president of the SBC or the 431 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 2: Southern Baptist Convention, who he had been fired after mishandling 432 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 2: several sexual abuse and harassment cases at the school, and 433 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 2: even with evidence that he had wanted to meet one 434 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 2: on one with one of the victims to quote break 435 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 2: her down, as he put in an email and being 436 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 2: fired from this position. The case was still dismissed and 437 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 2: it can't be brought back because she did it with 438 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:19,120 Speaker 2: prejudice and with the results like that, as well as 439 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 2: the years of covering up mishandling of many cases of rape, 440 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,880 Speaker 2: assault and abuse, it's hard to have a positive outlook. 441 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 2: I got real triggered by this episode, I said before, 442 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 2: But seeing women like Krista Brown, Emily Joy, Jules Woodson, 443 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 2: Hannah Pash and so many more speak up, protesting conferences, 444 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 2: in supporting one another, changes happen, and it gives us 445 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 2: hope to see more as they keep pushing forward. And 446 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 2: we're hoping to see what happens with the DOJ investigation 447 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 2: because I don't see any new reports on that, but 448 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 2: it has been ongoing. As with the Guidepost Solutions report 449 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: and the list that was released to the public. Perhaps 450 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 2: there could be a big shift in responsibility. And I 451 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 2: don't think I explained the Southern Baptist Convention very well, 452 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 2: but it has been around since the eighteen hundreds. They 453 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 2: have been in the US, and they are evangelical, meaning 454 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 2: they do a lot of missionary stuff. I actually did 455 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 2: my missionary through the Southern Baptist Convention, which fun of fact, 456 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 2: I wasn't a member of, but I didn't know that. Yeah, 457 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 2: and they gave me money. I'm probably gonna be suit 458 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,400 Speaker 2: for that. But yeah, there's a lot to be said 459 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 2: about how powerful That's convention is if you look behind 460 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 2: what they are a part of. They are heavily into politics, 461 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 2: even though they would claim they are not. And yeah, 462 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 2: they are part, not all, not all. Please understand Baptist people, 463 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,719 Speaker 2: if you're listening. I know there's so many good people 464 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,199 Speaker 2: who are horrified, and there are reports and individuals who 465 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 2: are horrified by this report they didn't know. But again, 466 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 2: this might lend to the fact that things like purity 467 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 2: culture really really really make things too black and white 468 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 2: instead of seeing the gray when it comes to a 469 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 2: sexual assault. And by the way, if they're teenagers and 470 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 2: you're an adult, there's no grade to that and it 471 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 2: should be really really easy, but yet it's not, which 472 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 2: is also why we have a problem with child brides. 473 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 2: But many of the states don't and Republicans don't. Who 474 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 2: would consider themselves Southern Baptists or Baptist Protestants, which is 475 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 2: an interesting conversation in itself, but here's to hoping that 476 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 2: movements like hashtag church too, which is very very active 477 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 2: still on well as Twitter is dying has been active 478 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 2: on Twitter. I actually looked it up the other day. 479 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,360 Speaker 2: Hopefully we'll be able to see more stories, more accountability 480 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 2: through it. Again, the release of the list from the 481 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: Southern Baptist Convention just happened within this past year, so 482 00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 2: we'll see how it results. We'll see what the do 483 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 2: fines and how they will hold leadership and power in 484 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 2: those denominations accountable. 485 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, yeah, yeah, Well, there is so much to 486 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 1: uncover and unpack and undue because for most of us, 487 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,719 Speaker 1: your kids when you are kind of indoctrinated with all 488 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 1: of this stuff. So it is a lot. But we 489 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: will continue with. However, many episodes this Vinny series. 490 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 2: Will be, and some of them will be shorter like this, 491 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 2: because it is a gut punch. 492 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, there will be some bricks. There will be 493 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: some bricks in between. 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