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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for joining us. We're so excited to be

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Speaker 1: back today. And we have a special guest today, two

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Speaker 1: of them, Katie and Zach.

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Speaker 2: Zach and Katie, welcome, Thank you for having us. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he so excited so much.

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Speaker 3: We are so excited to see you both here. Fellow Austinites. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so I just I want to ask you to guys,

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Speaker 3: so I know you both because you're a fellow Austinites

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Speaker 3: and I live in Austin as well. Katie, I want

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Speaker 3: to ask.

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Speaker 2: You which is an amazing place. By the way, I

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Speaker 2: fell in love with it.

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Speaker 3: She was here last week to marry my son and

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Speaker 3: his fiance. We had a great time. But I want

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Speaker 3: to know, Katie, do you remember how we met?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: We do airplace to u AFR.

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Speaker 4: Drunk on an airport drunk.

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Speaker 3: I mean not Yeah. Do you remember they let us

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Speaker 3: sit in first class while we sat there drinking? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it was really fun.

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Speaker 6: Our economy seats we got ended up getting first class

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Speaker 6: and free wine all because of you.

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Speaker 3: Kathy though, well you know that's my girl. So we've

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Speaker 3: got a little thought of the day. Topic of the

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Speaker 3: day and since you know you guys are gen z

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Speaker 3: or whatever those things are and we're boomers. Question for

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Speaker 3: you guys, how soon is too soon to leave the

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Speaker 3: table when you know the date is a bust?

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Speaker 5: I should?

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Speaker 3: Now you guys are engaged, but think.

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Speaker 6: Back, see I feel well data bust. For me, I've

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Speaker 6: been on some dates that were a bust and I

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Speaker 6: just ride it out. I just ride it out and

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Speaker 6: then I just don't text them anymore.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to be rude.

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Speaker 6: It's all like I'm going to get up and lead

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Speaker 6: the date. Yeah, I think that's disrespectful. I think obviously

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Speaker 6: two people come together and obviously aren't compatible for a reason,

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Speaker 6: but doesn't.

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Speaker 5: Mean you need to leave.

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Speaker 4: I totally agree, have an amazing answer and my thoughts

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Speaker 4: about it. For me, it's I agree, if you're in

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Speaker 4: an uncomfortable situation that get out, like like actual uncomfortable.

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Speaker 4: But if you're just not vibing, you have to wait

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Speaker 4: it out. That's I mean, it's like, if anything, you

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Speaker 4: can walk away or at least think about it as

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have a cool story after this of how

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Speaker 4: night should the date that was?

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Speaker 3: Which is this where I chime in and say I'm

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Speaker 3: the girl here that would say I'm so sorry, I

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Speaker 3: have a bus to catch, I'm out of.

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Speaker 2: Here, or get that emergency phone call.

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Speaker 4: I'm not surprised you you know, you know I want

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Speaker 4: you get it and then you're out.

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Speaker 1: I have heard stories about people actually go into the

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Speaker 1: bathroom and never coming back.

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Speaker 2: I could do that.

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Speaker 3: To say they climb out windows, right, it's just amazing. No,

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't do that. But I

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Speaker 3: might say I really not feeling well, or uh, my

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Speaker 3: daughter's in labor, or my house is on fire, I

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Speaker 3: got this.

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Speaker 2: Pain in my side. I've really got to go.

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Speaker 5: Oh those are those are some good lines though, to

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Speaker 5: get out.

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Speaker 2: Tell me what's the worst date you ever had?

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Speaker 5: Wait, you go?

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Speaker 6: I had one guy. I have a lot of comic

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Speaker 6: book dates. Actually a lot of date stories that my

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Speaker 6: friends love. But I would say, like, the weirdest date

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Speaker 3: But I didn't know what he's thinking because they're engaged.

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Speaker 5: Guitar.

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Speaker 6: There was a guy who played the guitar for me

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Speaker 6: in a park in my hometown in Kingston, and we

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Speaker 6: had brunch. I remember having brunch with him and we

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Speaker 6: I can't order the yogurt like I always pay half

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Speaker 5: He ended up.

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Speaker 6: He's like, hey, like I brought my guitar. Do you

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Speaker 6: automatically in my head, I'm like absolutely not shoot me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so start aiding me.

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Speaker 6: In my hometown, people I know are walking by, they're like,

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Speaker 6: so I'm he breaks in an hour just to like

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Speaker 5: I love thinking of but I.

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Speaker 6: See my word date, so I's like, most interesting was

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Speaker 6: I went on a date.

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Speaker 5: I hope to God his song listening, but I went

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Speaker 2: With this guy no names please, no names.

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Speaker 5: Went on a date with.

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Speaker 6: This guy and he's like a mostal speaker, like really

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Speaker 6: And I was a little late for the date, like

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Speaker 6: and I was like, yeah, well I was working, like

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Speaker 6: you're You're lucky that I'm even here right now kind.

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Speaker 2: Of but starting off really good.

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Speaker 5: He's like, do you not really know how to manage

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Speaker 6: I was like, already, you're like axed and I probably

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Speaker 6: then I sit down and he's like, he's like, I'm

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Speaker 6: not a big drinker. He tells me this story about

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Speaker 6: I'm not going to get into that, but there is

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Speaker 3: This is when you say I have my I have appendicitis,

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Speaker 3: I have a headache, I have a bus to catch.

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Speaker 3: This is when let's try You're right, So okay, So

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Speaker 3: I want to know, Zach, when did you know on

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Speaker 3: the show that Katie wish your girl none of this?

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Speaker 3: I want the real truth here. When did you know?

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Speaker 5: Oh, we actually talked about this, like two days ago.

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Speaker 4: Two days ago, we've talked about a bit because it always,

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Speaker 4: you know, watching the show kind of resparks, like the

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Speaker 4: conversations again, like of like, oh wow, we experienced something

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Speaker 4: very similar to what we're watching now. For for me,

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Speaker 4: she doesn't love my answer, but it's completely.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I love.

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Speaker 3: Honesty.

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Speaker 4: Yes. So throughout the whole process, I was very in

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Speaker 4: my own head. I analyzed everything to a tea. I

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Speaker 4: my right parson knocking off the boxes, this and that,

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Speaker 4: or like I'm trying to have every individual relationship and

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Speaker 4: keep them siloed and not bleed into each other and

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Speaker 4: try to keep that all in my head. So the

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Speaker 4: problem was is I was being so analytical mentally that

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Speaker 4: I wasn't letting myself just take a step back and

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Speaker 4: feel like, wait, where's my heart taking me? Who do

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Speaker 4: I feel like that is my person? Who am I

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Speaker 4: truly in love with? And the actual moment when it

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Speaker 4: happened was actually the day before engagement where.

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Speaker 1: I was nervous watch that long. I know, I know, guys,

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Speaker 1: you need to get out of your own head.

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Speaker 3: Budge, Hey, Zach, you're wait, Zach, let me just test something.

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Speaker 3: You're lucky that Katie didn't tell you she had a

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Speaker 3: bus to catch.

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Speaker 4: That's right, true, true, But it was one of those

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Speaker 4: things that like when I took a step back and

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Speaker 4: when I was able to acknowledge, like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: it's Katie. It was a no, duh, like, look back

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Speaker 4: at how you work with her, how you felt around her,

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Speaker 4: Like that was naturally, Like I want to just spend

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Speaker 2: But now it makes you feel right, I was like, she.

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Speaker 4: Makes me feel like no one else can ever make

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Speaker 4: me feel. Yet I was still being so analytical of like, well,

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Speaker 4: let me take up every day. I can make sure

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Speaker 4: that i'm you know, because engagement is a big deal

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Speaker 4: for me. It was not just going to propose for

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Speaker 4: the sake of proposing. At the end of this like

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Speaker 4: either I'm going to feel one hundred percent confident or

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Speaker 4: not do a decision or make for myself. So for me,

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Speaker 4: I did think of it too much. Maybe no, I think.

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Speaker 6: I think you're in a position where you do need

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Speaker 6: to think about it too much. Or I don't think

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Speaker 6: there is a level of too much. I think because

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Speaker 6: engagement is so serious and I take it serious. I

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Speaker 6: think everybody on the show does as well.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 5: For the most part.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Susan, do we take an engagement seriously?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what that's like exactly.

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Speaker 3: We don't have one. Okay, Simon felt.

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Speaker 2: That yet, but I will.

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Speaker 1: I will definitely I want somebody once in my lifetime

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Speaker 1: to get down on one day.

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Speaker 2: Hasn't happened. Twice hasn't happened.

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Speaker 5: I've been guys, it will happen.

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Speaker 3: Wait, none of your husbands, of your husband? What did

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Speaker 1: Event school kind of girl? You could sing outside the

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Speaker 1: window if you want. I don't care about wait down

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Speaker 1: on one day now?

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Speaker 2: Wait the answer is no, and moving right along. I

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Speaker 2: hear there's a wedding plan soon. I want to tell

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Speaker 2: us about it.

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Speaker 6: We're in the in the works of starting to think

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Speaker 6: about venues. We're thinking about a wedding more than we

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Speaker 6: ever have before, because I think first and foremost our

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Speaker 6: priority is buying house. We rent this beautiful home right now,

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Speaker 6: but we're looking at buying home probably by the end

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Speaker 6: of the year.

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Speaker 5: But whatever you know makes the most.

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Speaker 2: Sense, that does make sense. Actually, yeah, usual.

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Speaker 5: That's a priority.

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Speaker 6: That's where we want to allocate our money first and foremost,

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Speaker 6: and then obviously some money aside for a wedding. We're

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Speaker 6: thinking about October twenty twenty five, maybe here in Texas.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll be back that awesomely.

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Speaker 3: I can help you, guys. My daughter got married here.

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Speaker 3: I know all the best places photographers. I'll help you out.

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Speaker 2: I know an officiate that could really help be.

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Speaker 5: Perfect.

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Speaker 3: But wait, I want to go back for one second,

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Speaker 3: because Zach, I'm really surprised to hear that it wasn't

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Speaker 3: until the day before engagement. Something had to happen. What

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Speaker 3: was that unique thing? What is that character trait? What

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Speaker 3: is the thing that put you over the edge?

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Speaker 4: Well, what I did was I when I figuratively stepped

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Speaker 4: back and thought of like, why why am I overthinking this?

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Speaker 4: Like love is actually pretty simple, like who do you

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Speaker 4: truly feel like drawn to? Who do you want to

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Speaker 4: spend your life with? So I literally just closed my

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Speaker 4: was like, I don't feel comfortable with anyone else except

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Speaker 4: end it at this engagement. I want to keep hanging

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Speaker 4: out with her, I want to keep doing life with her.

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Speaker 4: And it was just simple. I was in my hotel

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Speaker 4: the day like the day before and just obviously freaking out,

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Speaker 4: like an engagement is tomorrow, that's a big deal for everyone. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: But then I just I mean I prayed, like hell,

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Speaker 3: But Susan, don't start crying. Oh, I know it's going in.

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Speaker 6: I was quite apprehensive when you know, we started talking

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Speaker 4: I'm a July leo?

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, the lion.

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Speaker 4: Generally speaking? Yes, I like space really clean, like with

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Speaker 5: Way because I find it therapeutic.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, I lose that, Zach.

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Speaker 3: I live ten minutes. Could you let me know I

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Speaker 3: That is so sweet that you do that, seriously, Zach.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel when you walk into that?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, these are important moments people, everybody.

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Speaker 3: I mean wouldn't you say, Susan, these are the things

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Speaker 4: I want to fix that. I want to make them

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Speaker 4: No exactly, And so I'm it took me a while

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Speaker 2: You're very empathy. I'm sorry, very empathetic.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Even though you just need your space, you just want

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Speaker 1: But then you have the opposite going, well, what can

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Speaker 2: And you're like, shut, but.

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Speaker 3: You know what it's. It's we're talking about love language here.

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Speaker 3: You're both learning what each other needs and that is

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Speaker 3: What is the best dating advice you can give us

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Speaker 5: Red flags are red flags.

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Speaker 2: And that's Kathy.

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Speaker 3: That's what I said yesterday.

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Speaker 2: I always make them yellow.

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Speaker 3: Can Susan makes them yellow? I said, you can never

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Speaker 5: Yes, exactly. I agree with that.

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Speaker 4: That's a good one. Like just like, don't ignore the

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Speaker 5: Don't ignore them.

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Speaker 6: Don't think you can fix somebody, don't think you can

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Speaker 5: It's not.

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Speaker 2: About you preach.

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Speaker 1: I'll preach that to people, yet I don't follow it.

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Speaker 1: You're in the moment, you're like, well, that's not that bad.

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Speaker 3: And you know what I've said to Susan. Susan, when

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Speaker 3: them exactly. Okay, Zach, what about you? You have some

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess the one thing that I learned that

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Speaker 4: What like, who defines you? What are things that you

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Speaker 4: And that is the easiest way to, like when you

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Speaker 3: Is going to come out thrill you.

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Speaker 1: That is what he's say. And I jump into their

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Speaker 4: need to step away. Whereas you want to meld the

448
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 4: lives together, you don't want to change to just be someone,

449
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 4: row together, take things from both.

450
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,120
Speaker 2: It took me sixty seven years to figure that out.

451
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,879
Speaker 3: See, you guys are way ahead of the curve. The curve.

452
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 3: How about you guys, questions any.

453
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: Questions for us about love and relationships?

454
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 4: Or I do have I have a question for you both.

455
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 4: Obviously you know filming for a Golden Bachelor has wrapped

456
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 4: quite some time ago. Things have kind of gone on

457
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 4: Joey season. Have you two been on any dates recently

458
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 4: with any men?

459
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 3: And go, Susan, Is that sad?

460
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 2: It's so sad.

461
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 1: Although I did go to have some appetizers and a

462
00:22:56,000 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 1: cocktail with a gentleman that I met in Marshalls in November.

463
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 1: I love my love, so you know how you go

464
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: through your messages and I thought, oh, I'm all caught

465
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 1: up right.

466
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,719
Speaker 2: And one night I was laying in bed and I

467
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 2: kept going and going.

468
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 1: It was late February, and there was like twelve I

469
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: missed from December nineteenth, and there was this gentleman saying,

470
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: you don't know me, but my friend is trying to

471
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 1: get a hold of you.

472
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: He doesn't use social media, so.

473
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: Here I am blah blah blah, and he goes, I

474
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: don't know if you feel comfortable sharing your information with me,

475
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: or perhaps you'd like me to share his. And then

476
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 1: he said, I'm going to send you a picture. He

477
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 1: looks like a choot, but he cleans up real well.

478
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 1: He sends this picture and it's the guy and I

479
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 1: in Marshalls.

480
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: I remember taking the picture. It was crazy.

481
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:50,119
Speaker 4: Wow.

482
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: That was it for me. Though, No, second day we chated,

483
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 2: he got sick.

484
00:23:55,760 --> 00:24:00,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, okay, okay, awesome, Next.

485
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 3: Crickets, next guy, you know, crickets, crickets for me.

486
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: Zach, you gonna sit still long enough for somebody to

487
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: ask you.

488
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 5: On a day, haven't you?

489
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 2: Nast You go out with your buddy, but he's.

490
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 3: A I have a guy friend that we go listen

491
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 3: to music with and stuff. But you know, I don't know.

492
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 5: Uh, okay, I have a question for you guys.

493
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, since Zach and I are getting married, what

494
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 6: marriage advice are you.

495
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:33,359
Speaker 5: Going to give us?

496
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 2: RCI are big, stay big?

497
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 3: You give one, I'll give one.

498
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 2: Go.

499
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: Definitely communicate and even though you feel sometimes uncomfortable about

500
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: saying something that may be paranoid, like he's going to

501
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 1: think I'm picking on something, share it because if you

502
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 1: hold on to it, you build resentment and then it

503
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: stays in and it doesn't work well in the end.

504
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's and I would say for me, the The

505
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 3: biggest lesson I learned in my marriage is compromise. And

506
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 3: it sounds like you guys are already learning that I

507
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,360
Speaker 3: didn't do a great job of it in my marriage,

508
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 3: but learning to compromise, because you know what, most stuff

509
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 3: in the world is small shit and let it go.

510
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 3: It just doesn't matter, you know, compromise given it's just

511
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 3: not that important. So that would be my advice to you.

512
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: But I want to have about date night and have

513
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:28,959
Speaker 1: date night in great sex.

514
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 2: I mean that's important.

515
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 4: Do Yeah one date night minimum?

516
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? Good? I like it.

517
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 3: So all right, So what do you guys? I mean,

518
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 3: you're young, and you're beautiful and handsome, and you have

519
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,719
Speaker 3: your life ahead of you. But I want to know

520
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 3: what you guys look forward to about getting older when

521
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 3: it comes to love.

522
00:25:59,000 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: And do you want children.

523
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 6: I was just going to say, I think the biggest

524
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 6: thing that I look forward to is starting a family.

525
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 2: Kathy, We're going to be Auntie.

526
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 3: And Susan. I'm the in town Auntie, so I get

527
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 3: lots of time with the baby.

528
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,199
Speaker 2: She's jealous because her granddaughter liked me.

529
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 3: Everyone likes you, Susan, Yes they okay, So if you

530
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 3: could see in the future of your relationship? What would

531
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 3: what would you want to know? Like, just imagine you're

532
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 3: looking into the crystal ball of your relationship. Let's call

533
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 3: it ten years down the road. Obviously you said kids,

534
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 3: But you know, what wouldn't you want to know? You'd

535
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 3: want to know the happiness the children. But what would

536
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 3: you not want to know? Oh?

537
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 2: Wow?

538
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 1: Uh, what I wouldn't want ten years from now, twenty

539
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: thirty old?

540
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: What did you want to know? And what wouldn't you

541
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 3: want to know?

542
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 4: Like? State? Because I feel like that's one thing that

543
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 4: we're trying to figure out.

544
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 2: What was that I didn't hear?

545
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 3: Yeah? What states you're going to live in?

546
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 4: Well, I'm going to say, because we want to buy

547
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 4: a house and we want to start a family here

548
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 4: in Austin.

549
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 3: But I offered you mind, Zach, you know the cats?

550
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 4: The cats? We did? Sorry?

551
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 2: What state you're going to live in the longer term?

552
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 4: Like are we going to spend the rest of our

553
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 4: our life in Texas? We don't know?

554
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 2: But where are you from? Originally? Both of you.

555
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 4: California, Canada. We're going to summer up to Canada for

556
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 4: a while, so.

557
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 3: It's cold up there the summer, not in the summer.

558
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 3: I have family. I have family in Cannadaicatie too. We

559
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 3: really are related.

560
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: So how did you get to Austin? I?

561
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 6: Well, different stories, but I'm a travel nurse, so I

562
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 6: came down actually to Texas. I worked in the er

563
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 6: in San Antonio and then the first time I ever

564
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 6: saw Austin like experience it. I was like, I'm moving here.

565
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,360
Speaker 6: It made it happen. And then three weeks later went

566
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 6: on the Bachelor and met this.

567
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,959
Speaker 2: Did you hear what she just said? Kathy?

568
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: She came down here for and made it happen. I

569
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: admire that that was something you loved, you.

570
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 2: Knew you liked it. You made it happen.

571
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: A lot of people do things and wish they could

572
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,919
Speaker 1: do it, but they don't make it happen.

573
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 3: So you're right. And I will tell you one of

574
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 3: the things I've said to my own children, and I

575
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 3: honestly believe there's lots of things, lots of reasons to

576
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 3: do things in life and lots of reasons not to.

577
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 3: But don't ever let fear guide you make a decision,

578
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: go with it.

579
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 4: And.

580
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: Whether it works out or not, exactly do you work out?

581
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 3: You turn around and go a different way.

582
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, totally. I think it's liberating personally. I think it's

583
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 6: really cool to go to a place where you don't

584
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 6: know any you don't know you know what's going to happen,

585
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 6: but you do have a goal or a dream in mind,

586
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 6: and you just shoot for the stars and if it

587
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 6: doesn't work out, and work out, and if it does,

588
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 6: two thumbs up.

589
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 2: Very impressive, very impressive.

590
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 4: Colorable and uncomfortable situation.

591
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 2: That's I love that cat.

592
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 4: You.

593
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: Now, if you asked us that question, what would we

594
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: think of Kathy? I wouldn't want to know who's gonna

595
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: get ill later and meet a caretaker or who's gonna

596
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, They're not even in that zone.

597
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,959
Speaker 3: You know what. I'm not going there, Susan. I actually

598
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 3: prefer to look at the positive. I don't care. I

599
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 3: just look for the what the next great thing that's

600
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 3: going to happen, and I look for it, and I

601
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 3: look for the positive. I don't look for the negatives,

602
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 3: but I want to. I think that we've got an

603
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 3: idea here that let's play a game. You got it, okay,

604
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 3: So it's a little like generational gap Zen's gen Z,

605
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 3: you know, Boomer kind of game this or this or that.

606
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 3: So we're gonna read out some ideas for you guys,

607
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 3: and you're gonna say which this or that? Okay, you're

608
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 3: gonna give it to us and then we'll talk about

609
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 3: it for a little minute. So Susan, go ahead, go

610
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 3: fair enough.

611
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: So meeting on a dating app or going on a

612
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: blind date?

613
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,479
Speaker 2: What would you be more comfortable with?

614
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 4: Dating app? Maybe? Right, because at least you see the

615
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 4: person before.

616
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 6: It, and dating apps that like, you know, you get catfish.

617
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 6: You have these expectations already and then you get let down.

618
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 6: So maybe the blind date would be better to not

619
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 6: let your expectations.

620
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,719
Speaker 2: And that's that's scared.

621
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 3: I'm still sitting here trying to figure out what catfish means.

622
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 2: Right, They're not who they say they are.

623
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 6: Somebody shows like a picture of Megan Box and they

624
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 6: show up and they don't look like Megan Fox.

625
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 3: Oh that happens to us all the time, every time

626
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 3: Susan I have dates. The picture looks like Zach and

627
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 3: we get there and the guys you know, can barely

628
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 3: as bare ambulatory. So no, I get it. Okay, Okay,

629
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 3: here's here's one that I actually struggle with sometimes. You're

630
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 3: going on a first date, go for dinner or just

631
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 3: go out for drinks.

632
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: I always involve appetizers with my cocktails, so it doesn't

633
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 1: have to be a full blown dinner, but I have

634
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: to eat something.

635
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 5: I would say first day, just drinks.

636
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, because quick right, if it does drinks,

637
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 4: there could be less than an hour or.

638
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 3: Drink and okay, but what if you decide if you

639
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 3: decide you want to, will you stick around for dinner

640
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 3: if they if you're having a good time.

641
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 4: You have that option to want.

642
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 6: And I think it's also really good. I will add,

643
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 6: because this is a pet even like a huge turnof

644
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 6: for me. You really do get to find out their

645
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 6: table manners.

646
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 5: If you do have dinner with.

647
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm out you are Susan.

648
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 2: So good question.

649
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: Do you let the guy on the first date or

650
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 1: do you split it?

651
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 5: I would say would I would split it? Yeah?

652
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 4: Or me.

653
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 6: I'm not shy about putting my card out. I would

654
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 6: expect the man to be like, no, no, I got this,

655
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 6: But I think it's common courtesy with two strangers meeting

656
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 6: for the first time to offer.

657
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: I always insist, especially when I know I'll never see

658
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: this person again. I'm going to insist on paying my

659
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: hands so he didn't.

660
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 2: Feel like he got taken. I feel sorry for men.

661
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: A lot of men are on dating sites and they

662
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: got a treat every time, most of them, you know

663
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: what I mean. So I don't mind paying for my

664
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: own and I love a man that says absolutely no way, agreed.

665
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 3: Agreed, Okay, you can't. Oh, we've talked about this the

666
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 3: other day. I always I'm with you, Katie. I always

667
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 3: whip out my card. I always offer. I think it

668
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 3: is the nice, polite thing to do. And if the

669
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: guy takes the card and does it, that's fine. If

670
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 3: I don't like the guy and never want to see

671
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 3: him again, I'm with Susan. I make sure I do it.

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Speaker 3: What about you, Zach? Come on?

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Speaker 4: I will. I have never in the past and choose

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Speaker 4: not to now. Like let the women pay for anything

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Speaker 4: like I like to put my card down, especially on

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Speaker 4: her first date. Always pay for their first day.

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Speaker 3: I feel like is that why when we went out, Zach,

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Speaker 3: Zach and Katie took me for dinner, and Zach would

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00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 3: not hear of me paying my way. Yeah, he said, gentlemen.

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Speaker 4: Well, I love to treat people like if we're out

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Speaker 4: for dinner, and I don't want it to ever be

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Speaker 4: like a weird, uncomfortable money situation for some people, because

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Speaker 4: I know finances are tough for a lot of people

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Speaker 4: to talk about. So it's like, might as well, like

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Speaker 4: I'd like to do that I treat for everyone. But

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Speaker 4: Kate is actually very gracious and she loves to take

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Speaker 4: me out on date nights.

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Speaker 3: And that's a sweet.

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Speaker 4: Little treat sin stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know she I.

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Speaker 1: Love that, all right, dude, for that night taking you out, honey,

692
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Speaker 1: because I appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's one that I'm not saying I've ever done this, However,

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Speaker 3: I'd like your ideas Snooping in a partner's phone or

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Speaker 3: reading their journal.

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Speaker 4: Which one's which ones?

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Speaker 2: I think would you do either?

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00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 3: No one asked me. I'm asking Zach and Katie.

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Speaker 6: I think they're kind of like on the same page

701
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 6: going into somebody's person, same thing journel or a text

702
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 6: or whatever. I think that if you even have the

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00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 6: thought of wanting to look in their phone, you don't

704
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,959
Speaker 6: have trust, and if you don't have you don't have

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Speaker 6: a strong relationship.

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Speaker 5: And that's a whole other can of worms.

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Speaker 2: Right there, big one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like if you can't have the open conversation of

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00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,919
Speaker 4: maybe you're having a moment of insecurity or maybe there's

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00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 4: something that popped up and it's bothering you. If you

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00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 4: can't have that communication or ask that question of hey,

712
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 4: what was this about? You can't have that and you

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00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 4: have to resort to snooping on the phone or snooping

714
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 4: into a thing. That exactly what Kate just said. Your

715
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 4: relationship doesn't have a foundation. You never work communication and

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00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 4: be able to talk and say like hey that bothered me,

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00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: or hey, what can you explain why this is this way?

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00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 3: Right right?

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Speaker 1: That would be totally uncomfortable. I had somebody that always

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Speaker 1: snooped in my phone. I was in relationships from years.

721
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Speaker 2: Ago, and it's like, what are you looking for here? Here?

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00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: It is you want my password? Like I'm not hiding anything,

723
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: and be.

724
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Speaker 2: Careful what you look for? Do you know what I mean?

725
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Speaker 3: Like? What do you do?

726
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 2: You're making problems.

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Speaker 3: I again, I didn't say I've ever done either of these,

728
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,439
Speaker 3: and I never would, but I just was curious saying

729
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 3: your thoughts. I think you two guys are so mature.

730
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 3: It's so clear why you guys are so happy, But

731
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 3: I want to end this little game with on a

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00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 3: little you know, more fun note good big, big wedding

733
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Speaker 3: or small wedding.

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00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: Okay, we've kind of what stayed.

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Speaker 5: We kind of toss back and forth with this. I

736
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 5: think if we do do a Destination.

737
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Speaker 6: Wedding, it's going to be a little bit more smaller,

738
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 6: it's going to be intimate. However, if we do a

739
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 6: Texas wedding, which I think we're more geared towards, I

740
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 6: think it will be a larger scaled wedding.

741
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, like not like a over three hundred person.

742
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 2: Well what did you say? Three hundred, one hundred and

743
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars Later.

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00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 4: A lot of my Texas friends come on. They've got

745
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 4: the biggest weddings I've ever seen. They invite everyone and

746
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Speaker 4: their mother and their cousin.

747
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 3: Susan, you know what this means, We're guaranteed to be invited.

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Speaker 3: That's either way.

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Speaker 1: We're going Destination smaller they were they, but everybody does

750
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 1: everything big in Texas.

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00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 3: Susan still can't get over my closet size.

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00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 1: Okayeh, the best were the hills, and like I lived

753
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: in right outside of Dallas for nine years and it

754
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: was flat. What I missed the most about here in

755
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 1: Pennsylvania is my windy roads and the trees and everything

756
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: was just I got there, I thought I didn't believe I.

757
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 2: Was in Texas. It was amazing.

758
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: And the water in the middle of a city. We

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00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: went on a boat ride. I was like, what.

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Speaker 3: It is, very cool, very susan. We're going to invite

761
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 3: you here in the summer when it's about one hundred

762
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 3: and ten and am to hear you singing its praises.

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Speaker 2: I'll stop coming to you late May, early June. Then

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Speaker 2: you come here.

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Speaker 3: Well, it was fabulous having you Katie and Zach on

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Speaker 3: our first guests, and we are just so thrilled to

767
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 3: have had you on the on the show. You are

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00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 3: a lovely couple. You're insightful, your kind, you're compassionate, your

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00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 3: everything that I would love to see in a young

770
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 3: couple in love. It gives me great hope.

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Speaker 1: A hell of a future ahead of you, babies and

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Speaker 1: houses and all of the above. But first of the

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Speaker 1: weddings that we will join you. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: both of you for joining us today.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you guys. We had a great time.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for having us.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, and that does it for this

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Speaker 1: episode of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for joining us today and we will see you soon.

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Speaker 3: Be sure to follow us on Bachelor Happy Hour as

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00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 3: we do have new episodes coming out every week. You

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00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 3: don't want to miss them. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours

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00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 3: Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen

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00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 3: to podcasts.

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00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: And make sure you submit your questions because you can

786
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: go to Bachelornation dot com. Because we want to hear

787
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Speaker 1: what you have to say so we can talk about it.

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Speaker 2: That's why we're here.

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Speaker 3: We'll see you all next week.

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Speaker 1: Signing off Kathy and Susan Zero